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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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The fact that the Bridezilla cited Merida as an example as something bad when Merida wears a frickin peacock coloured dress. 😂
Merida’s hair is awesome!
I'm still giggling at the fact that Charlotte pronounced Merida like she had absolutely no idea what that reference was lmao
The iconic Scottish disney princess?? Char.. You have homework 😂
@@rachaelxcolleen Right? Went right over her head 😂 she is adorable!
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@@pup_master66 Also, it's just a great movie, notwithstanding. VERY relatable to anyone who's ever been a daughter with a mother, lol! (And probably vice versa, though I can't speak on that.)
“I can tell you’re Canadian by the way you spell ‘colour’”
The UK, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, and around 50 other countries would like a word
but maybe other countries don't do the whole wedding party and instead only have 1 bridesmaid and groomsman, and that may be the reason Charlotte said it was in Canada
Definitely NOT Canadian. Bride to be didn't say "sorry" a single time. 😂😂
Theatre is British. That's one revealing word.....
Bridezillas are universal
As an Aussie thank you for this comment. 👍
The first red hair one was crazy, in my mind a peacock theme wedding with a natural red head would be f-ing gorgoussss
I feel like that was low key the issue with her.
If bridezilla grew more brain cells, she cuda SWITCHED the color theme to 1 that goes worst with red hair
Gorgeous*😂😂and who's talking about brain cells? The girl who can't spell, that's who!😂😂😂
That’s her problem. Plus she is illogically jealous and hateful. That marriage ain’t gonna last.
I cannot imagine being upset over someone's natural hair color. That first bride is insane.
Yeah, I don’t understand people wanting to change others’ physical appearance for a wedding theme? Like, telling them what colours to wear, sure, but how they look? Why? Why do they think their wedding is sooooo important?
I married into a family of redheads. I love redheads. The red hair would be amazing in green.
It wasn’t about the colour, it was how long and beautiful it is!
Totes.
I was uninvited as a MOH for being fat. I was fat when she asked me, so….🤷🏽♀️?
When i got married last year, I binged all you're wedding videos so I knew what NOT to do.
This is so funny 😂😂😂 good on you though 🤣
Congratulations!!! I hope your wedding was peaceful and all you wanted it to be.
That's actually a little bit heart-warming.
😂😂😂u hv a good soul❤😊
@@kittytomaszewski236 It was a fairytale wedding! And because I wasn't stressing about what everyone else was wearing, it made it a lot more enjoyable!
When I met my now husband, he was blond. A few months in, I found bleach in his bathroom. I asked him what color his hair is naturally. He said red. I requested that he stop bleaching it and he did. I love his red hair! Not many people are blessed with red/ginger hair and I think they should embrace it. I love it!
I love that for both of you😊
I'm auburn which is basically dark ginger, as my hair got darker as I got older but now it's hard to get people to believe it's dark ginger than brown, I want my childhood redhead back 😫
I’m actually attracted to most redheaded guys. Funny because I’m strawberry blonde. Lots of redheads from my mom’s side of the family.
Natural red hair is absolutely stunningly gorgeous. No way in hell should anyone be dying that! Period. 💯💯💯👍🏻
It seems that red heads tend to have a particular thorny adolescence.
My best friend walked down the aisle as my man of honor in his signature plaid sleeveless button down. He doesn’t really wear anything else 98% of the time. It was an otherwise quite formal wedding party. He made sure the colors in it matched well. He asked me if I wanted him to wear a suit, but I knew he would be extremely uncomfortable and just not look like himself. I told him to wear whatever he was comfortable in. Actually I told everyone in the wedding party that. It was beautiful to have everyone look like themselves in the photos.
I did the same with mine. Although I wore a wedding gown, I told my MoH & BM to wear what they had in their closet that was "fall colored." Anything orange, burgundy, red, yellow, brown, etc. I didn't care if they wore slacks, jeans or dresses. My husband (now ex) wore a tux & his GM wore jeans & a nice shirt (same fall color theme). I told all of my guests to wear what was comfortable, as most were driving from 1-3 hours away. Some stayed the night at the lodge & cabins & dressed up a little more (the parents mainly), but I wanted everyone to be casual & relaxed.
The pics turned out beautifully, especially with the trees changing colors in the background!!
❤❤❤ I WISH I could see pics… how utterly amazing! 🥰🥰
My hair was Emerald green at my friend's wedding. She loved my colorful hair and two of her favorite pictures of her wedding day was when I visited her in the bridal suite while she was getting her hair done and gave her my gift and the other was of us hugging on the dance floor with her in her gorgeous wedding dress. She sent me them and said she loved them because I looked so pretty too. She's a sweetheart and I love her! Her husband and her are about to celebrate their first Anniversary later this month and they're also getting ready to welcome their first baby to the world too. Real friends love you no matter what you look like or how you dress, because they love you for who you are.
My hair was colored bright blue when my brother got married and I was a bridesmaid in his wedding. While dress shopping, my mom asked if I was going to color it a natural color for the wedding. My now sil jumped in and said, "No way! I love her hair the way it is!" She was the absolute opposite of a bridezilla, and I adore her!
Love that!
I was a bridesmaid in two weddings one summer, and unfortunately, my bf of 3 years and I broke up right before. I had the whole "brand new look" post breakup panic! I asked both brides beforehand about my planned drastic color and cut...going from shoulder length blonde to a black bob with blue underneath!
They readily agreed and even encouraged the look. To be fair, though, it helped that they both had the same wedding color--shades of blue. Hence why I chose blue as the under color.
What was her color theme?
@@madunicorn7621does it matter? Bride was happy
@@aimeeabbott7079 nothing nefarious. I was just wondering. Blue is my fav color and I think it fits with allot of other colors so she prob looked great in the photos.
@@madunicorn7621ah ok. Maybe my tone came out wrong. I was just wondering
That picture of Charlotte in the turquoise dress was absolutely stunning! So gorgeous.
Aw thank you. Timothy snuck that in there 🥹
Tell me about it. Green looks beautiful on red heads 😍
@@CharlotteDobreYou are so welcome! Timothy did good! 🥰
@@CharlotteDobrewe love our Timothy…. And of course you queen 😅
Charlotte is easily one of the top 10 beauties on the planet. Did you see the lime green dress? Holy cannoli I doubt that one can be topped!
As a person who is disabled, lives in excruciating pain 24/7/365 & relies on different implements needed for walking (cane, rollator & occasionally crutches after surgeries), I can assure you that if a bride or so-called "friend" hid ANY item I require for walking... they would be walking down the same aisle with a fresh & beautifully colored swollen eye!!!
It is not something that we WANT to use, but require it to make sure we CAN walk, regardless of "esthetics"!! I promise you, my cane does not always match my OOTD, although my rollator matches everything as it's black.
This bridezilla deserved a ride to the hospital after a good old-fashioned ass whooping!!!
It sounds like the husband was in on it since he helped the bride return it when it was “found”
Totally agree. I'm another Spoonie, and if anyone hid anything I needed, including my medications that help control the pain, which allows me to walk, I would be beyond livid. The broken fingers would be so worth the black eye they would receive. Shame on these crazy people. Remember what the day is about. Sheesh.
@@CMSanchez09008 exactly!! Although messing with my meds begs a WHOLE other set of pain to be inflicted!!😂
You NEVER mess with the meds!!
I'm the same as you, as the meds help as much or more than the cane/rollator for walking.
I'm so glad to find a fellow spoonie who understands!! 🩵💜
If anything, for a wedding, the bride could have suggested to "bling it up"! How cool would that be? Like craft something together. A cane can be decorated with fancy ribbon or flowers. Make it festive! Make it fun!
That's how you do inclusivity.
@@GrumpetteJVThat's what I was thinking. Ask if she's ok with you getting a floral garland to decorate or just get a cane that matches color wise. But I don't understand being upset about a mobility aid to begin with
As a disabled woman, who uses a mobility scooter- I love that you sang the same song I do when using it lol
As a Nigerian, this whole upstaging thing is just weird to me because the concept of upstaging brides at weddings just doesn’t exist over here 😂😂😂
We all look amazing at weddings, it is almost required that you do. In fact, the problem the brides might even have issues with you if you show up to their wedding looking mediocre or like you put in too little effort. I believe guests are obligated to come to my wedding and light up the place with their beauty😤😤 it is the least they can do 🙂🙂
That seems it should be this way, fun for all in the process too!!!
It doesn’t exist among any of the people I know here in the US. Sometimes I think there’s 2 separate countries. 🤷🏼♀️
I've only seen yt's with that nonsense. I also never heard of a guest wearing white to sabotage a wedding with anyone else but yt's as well.
@@mythicsagefireThere are more than two Americas. Often when I see foreigners saying that Americans do this or that they're talking about whte people because for dmn sure I know Blck, Mexicans, etc, don't do whatever it is they're saying.😅
Exactly😂😂😂😂. The bride gets really upset in Nigeria if her friends are not dressed to the absolute nines. Your assignment is to slay as a wedding guest.
As a redhead, I was SO bullied all the way through my 20’s even at work. I now have three kids. One redhead, one blonde, and one brunette. All with red highlights, so I’ve done my job in expanding ginger genes into humanity. ❤
Congratulations for expanding the gene pool of Ginger
Keep it up. We need to make everyone soulless
Thank you for your service.
There really should be Ginger dating sites. 😂
Good for you!
I smell jealousy.
My oldest son has beautiful auburn red hair and all so many women have asked him if he colors it lol. But I have always loved red hair ❤. My youngest is a redhead also.
My little sister (naturally a brunette that hadn't dyed it in years) showed up to my wedding with hair as red as a stop sign. She absolutely ROCKED it. She was beautiful, she felt confident, and that was exactly how I wanted her to feel standing up there with me.
If you're asking someone to be in your wedding party who needs a walking stick, what sort of person hides the walking stick?! If anything, you should be asking them what you can do to make the experience as easy as possible, including if they're okay with standing during the ceremony. I love the scooter! Well played!
Mmm... that's ridiculous!
As someone who has actual Merida hair (as soon as the trailer for Brave dropped, my friend was freaking out that I looked just like the new Disney princess). If someone told me to dye my hair for their wedding, I would not be attending. Period. As cheesy as it sounds, my hair is a part of who I am. If you don't want my hair in your pictures, you don't want me in your pictures so why would I waste my time with you?
I would have you in my wedding precisely because you have Merida red hair! It must be gorgeous!
Well, it's literally a part of you.
Honestly long hair is like having another creature growing out of your head and the fact that some people think it’s just that easy to cut it off, when you’ve put literal years into maintaining this living thing growing out of your head is…insane. I encourage all people to go short just once in their lives to experience what is like to not have to take care of long hair. But I’ve been growing my hair out for close to 4, almost 5 years now and the thought of something happening to the length makes me a little feral.
Damn right!!
Good for you! I wish I had Merida hair!
I'm not a hairdresser, but a similar situation happened at the restaurant I work at years ago. I only waited until the bride and the others left to tell the chick who was being picked on that what she was going through was not okay. I think a waitress telling her this made her realize that things are not fine. It took some convincing but I managed to get her to block them, pay for her own food, and leave. The others went shopping while their food was cooking.
Those girls didn't realize that their punching bag had left until it was time to pay the bill. They tried contacting her only to discover that they were blocked, and here's the tea, she was their only ride free of charge. I was still civil to them, so they didn't suspect me of ruining their plans. I've seen others in this situation and would try to help, but ultimately the people pleasers have be the ones who decide they've had enough of being treated like crap. That's coming from someone who used to be a people pleasers until I got sick of being disrespected
Someone get this persin a medal!
Great story, that’s lovely you intervened because of your own experience👍🏻🏆
Thank you for defending people pleasers, a lot of people consider us hypocrites and manipulators but in reality we often end up being mere punchbags.
I hope you're friends with that girl
God bless you!
I remember having a foot operation before my cousin wedding, and having to go with a walking stick. I was lucky enough for my mother keeping the old walking stick of my cherished grandfather after his death. It was a beautiful wooden thing, very classy, and my younger cousins were obsessed with it, wanting to play with it every time I was sitting, parading like they were dandy gentlemen. It was very funny, and they would never go too far in case I needed it back. During the dances, I would hop on one leg and use the cane like an improvised dancing prop, so as to not feel left on the side while everyone was on the dance floor. Never once did it ruined the event. Everyone was smiling and having fun, and my cousin was a stunning bride beautiful in her happiness and love. That’s what a wedding should be, full of good memories and warmth.
I would certainly hope you remember a surgery 😂😂unless you have dementia of some kind of course😂😂
When did weddings become more about the photos than the actual experience and having those you care about sharing it with you.
My brother was a groomsman and he happened to be on crutches due to a knee injury. My bridesmaids added flowers and ribbons to his crutches. I’d totally forgotten about it until now. The photos are priceless.
Ooh, Frank 'n Furter I see...
That’s really cute 😊
My grandfather used those crutches that go under your armpits, and he had a large tule bow with flowers for decoration for the wedding on one of them. I'm sure my mother gave him that, our "wedding car" was an old greyhound bus that took the entire wedding party from the location of the ceremony to the venue, so my mother had made a large fabric bow with flowers to put in the front of the bus, and my grandfather's bow was of the same fabric. 😁
Frankly, as a fellow Canadian, I cannot believe the hair dye chick is Canadian!!! 😂
Yes, that's how you handle it! If you don't like how it looks, make it pretty ❤
The walking stuck one, Imagine if someone STOLE and hid someone's prosthetic leg or something. That's actually insane and seriously mentally ill. You don't mess with people's mobility.
Plus how did the bride expect her to stand for the entire wedding without the walking stick?
@LifeBetweenTheDash yeah honestly, what's better for your "aesthetic", a walking stick or one of your bridesmaids falling down the aisle? But I absolutely love that she took the scooter lol
@@mayas883 And was she going to pay her medical bills, if she got injured?!?! She'd probably blame her for "ruining her big day!" I mean, how dare she become disabled SERVING HER COUNTRY!!!!!
When the bride told her to do what she could to get down the isle, I would have LOVED if she was able to fake fall and then try to crawl down to the alter where the other brides were.
If she thought the walking stick or the chair would have ruined her day, I could only imagine what it would be like if her bridesmaid fell and everyone found out what happened. Absolute hell.
OP handled it better than I thought. I would’ve cried as I was crawling down the aisle sobbing, “the bride stole my walking stick! I’m a disabled veteran yet she stole my stick!”
It's so alien to me how these brides treat their family and friends - my bridesmaids were STUNNING, and my goal was for them to be the belles of the balls that they are! Our friends and family enhanced our day, the happier they are the better the time you will have!
I can't imagine the audacity of asking somebody to cut or dye their hair for your wedding.... Especially how the first OP specificed "below the waist".
Like, growing your hair that long takes a LOT of work. The audacity is crazy...
and to understand that it’s crazy to ask her to dye permanent but not “temporary” dye loo
My sister is a natural ginger. In 2005, we used the least permanent dye you could buy in stores - a very light brown "color rinse" that was meant to rinse out after 8-10 washes. It ended up staining her hair permanently, and even a color professional couldn't restore her natural color. We cut the last little bit of the off-colored hair off when she got a trim in 2015. Be so careful with your hair, my babies!
Wow! 😮😮
Thats... Interesting. Hair normaly grows 1 to 2 centimeters in a month. Wich after 10 years would at least be 120cm. Maybe you mixed up the numbers here. Or a health condition?
@@cosmocat2430red hair grows slower, but thinker. and all dye damages it
Absolutely.
My friend is a natural ginger and all the hair salonists always reject dying her hair, and at least suggest waiting until she’s elderly so she doesn’t regret it.
I'm so glad we got both sides on the first story. I can definitely relate to being bullied, because of my hair. I have naturally curly hair and was bullied for it growing up, got the frizzy remark too. Took me some years to work through that. Today I love and embrace my curls. Thank you Charlotte for your message about being proud of your natural hair. 😊
I am so glad weddings were simple back in the sixties when I got married. I can look back on pictures and they are still beautiful but no drama. I had to make three concessions to relatives but it kept things friendly and was still wonderful. No bridesmaid parties to Vegas or groomsmen drunken misadventures. There is so much going on around weddings today I would be sick of the whole thing before we got to the actual wedding.
P.S. when my daughter got married it was getting so complicated she decided to go to Jamaica and the two families were there and the resort did the work😊
Bridezilla 3: NEVER piss off a Veteran. They know how to improvise, adapt, and overcome. They don't take shite from anyone. I loved her Malicious Compliance.
That was the BEST! I see why Charlotte saved that story for dessert. DELICIOUS!!🦼
Since she's a veteran, not gonna lie, I was half expecting her to crawl down the aisle 😂 But this was just as good and much less of an inconvenience for the veteran. ❤
@@L4dyShadow320 It was the sparkles on her mobility scooter for me!😂 Just when I was recovering from that guffaw, she mentions that she and her scooter are in most of her wedding photos.🤣🤣💀
I'm not a vet, but I am disabled and starting to need a cane in my late 30s. If I knew I would face that sort of thing, discrimination at a friend's wedding, I'd have prepared a Gandalf height light up one with leds, streamers, glitter, and a bubble machine. Or I'd like to say, but I don't think I'd have the balls. Good on her though! I'd definitely stop being friends with said person immediately after the wedding though. We are not accessories in Barbie's dream house! None of us are. We're effin people with emotions, thoughts, dis/abilities, flaws, different size and shaped bodies, and skin and hair in all kinds of natural and altered colors! Don't treat people like props. That's gross.
The lady was bad@ss! Love it and her.
When my sister got married our dad had just started using a cane regularly. There was never any question about if he would walk her or if his cane was "acceptable".
What a blessed life that bridezilla must've led to become a whole friggin adult and never needed crutches, braces, mobility aids, etc, and have no understanding that while a disabled person might not be dragging their legs behind them they still need an aid to walk. The chronic pain and illness community is full of people with all levels of ability from unaided to chairbound. There are people who only use a walker or chair for long distances or during a flare-up, while others need them for any distance. The thing that really gets me is that so many of us go through so much extra pain and difficulties to not stand out, be a bother, draw attention, or look out of place. The last thing any of us needs is a "friend" invalidating us. Her parents raised her wrong if she thinks that's how things work.
@@Just1Nora YES. EXACTLY THIS. PERIOD. I became disabled in my 20s and use a walker and a cane sometimes, and you and I both know that the amount of judgment placed on people with disabilities is utterly disgusting. I could not have said it any better than you just did!
We had one girl in school with red hair. It was a natural, darker red and it was very curly. Her hair was beautiful. I'll never forget the day she showed up to class in a darker emerald green sweater. She was absolutely stunning. As a HS student I felt awkward saying something to her so I just kept it to myself. I ran into her about 6 years ago and mentioned it to her. It really made her day. She said her grandmother had bought her that sweater and it was her favorite sweater but she had forgotten about it. She still has that beautiful red hair and she still such a sweet person.
awwwh that’s so nice
One of my best friends from grad school was getting married and invited me to the wedding (NC State grad school, she now lives back home in Mass and I was living in Florida). I was able to fly up, but it was pricey! (2021 Fall to Boston). She let me stay with her and her fiancé, insisted I do NOT get them a present since I spent so much to get there, even had me be the "ring bearer", (I sat front row with her family and just walked up to hand to rings to the pastor when she called for them) AND paid for my manicure the day before as a thank you for coming up! She and her wife paid for all the bridesmaids to get their hair done if they wanted (I paid for my own hair). THAT, my friends, is how a bride should act. She was beyond happy that I would be there for her day. If your friends aren't like this... get new friends.
I could not quit laughing over the walking stick and scooter!!! That was the best! You go girl!
The ginger cousin could always get a short bob style brown wig and wear it like a hat and not hide any of her natural hair under it
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
That would be hilarious.
Hilarious!
this is so petty I love it
As someone who's dabbled in graphic design the first story really hurts my ears cause green and red are complementary colours so her hair would absolutely not ruin the colour scheme. That person has clearly never heard of colour theory or she has and she's worried her cousin is gonna outshine her. Red heads look so good in green/blue-green.
My thoughts exactly. I knew it was bs the moment it said red hair would ruin a blue color scheme.
Its ABSOLUTELY because red and green go together. As a redhead we're rare and seen as exotic and hypersexualized.
Lmao it wasn't that she'd ruin it it's that the eyes would be drawn to her in the photos BECAUSE they're complementary colours.
She knows how well the red will go along with her scheme and doesn’t want the ginger girl to look better than her
I’m a graphic designer, too. It’s not about color theory. The bride was jealous of Merida’s hair and was using her own wedding to try take the ex-bridesmaid “down a peg”. Clearly, this plan backfired and exposed who the bride really was to the whole friggin’ world!
There's so much drama in this video. Good god I love it.
Sidenote: the growth Charlotte has made all these years in every way.. i feel like a Proud bigsister💘🥲
I have auburn hair as my dad is part Japanese and all other fam is Scottish and Irish. I’m not ginger. I do have a bright patch in front 😅that gets flaming during Summer months. I would love her hair. So pretty! My mom was def a ginger. I’m 49 now and my hair only has a few whites. I dyed a temp dye to a darker purple red because of friends, we were young all doing it. Took FOREVER to wash out!!! N.O. to the dye! Bride is totally jealous! I know because I was teased all through school. Literally the “redheaded stepchild”. When I got older everyone started dying their hair to my color 😂
Your hair sounds amazing
The red hair could have just been styled in an updo, like a bun or something. The bride was so jealous that she couldn't even think of that, smh. The bridezilla that stole the cane is just evil. Glad 90% of her pictures had the scooter in them.
I so want to see one of those photos 😊
@@slange1829
Me, too!
If she had been vulnerable and said “you are much better looking than me especially with your beautiful hair I am going to look bad in comparison, would you mind putting your hair in a bun so that everyone doesn’t just say “now THAT girl will be a beautiful bride” on my wedding day” … then I think that would have been more reasonable. I still wouldn’t have done it. It wouldn’t have occurred to me and frankly I am not a cute person. But it would have been at least honest.
1st one she’s jealous! She knows red hair will look amazing with the colour scheme.
“Make fun of her face for being ugly.”
_Savage!_
My thoughts exactly!!
I was wondering why that was her color scheme if she's mortally offended by the hair colors that would compliment it best.
Yup. My thoughts exactly 💯
My son is a ginger, and I LOVE it! I tell him all the time how amazing his hair is, how unique and cool it is... He's 7, almost 8, and the freckles have started to really pop too! We call them sun kisses, and I tell him the sun picks favourites ;) Loved this one, get spicy! Protect that gorgeous feature, you're lucky to have such a cool natural style!
Red hair is beautiful, but it’s not a personality. My 7 year old relative I hadnt seen since he was 5 (and before that 3), so he didn’t recognize me, said to me after about 20 min “I like your hair… do you like my hair?” He was so used to people commenting and praising his hair that my not praising it as part of the greeting made him feel insecure. Edit: my hair is boring, it’s Greige and it’s in a ponytail. It’s not terrible but it’s nothing to remark on. It was all about the absence of my noticing his.
There’s only ONE (1) instance in which I could be understanding of a bride asking a wedding party member to color their hair, and it is SO specific that I cannot see it realistically happening more than once or twice:
IF: A) the wedding party member has extremely bright and unusual hair colors, such as green or pink, or rainbow colors; B) the wedding guest list has invited a bunch of people family members who are very conservative and judgemental; C) neither the guests or the wedding party member can be excluded because, say, the parents or the spouse really want them there, and have sworn everyone to be on their best behavior; D) the bride wants the wedding party member to not feel like they’re being stared at or judged, because even if the family members don’t say anything, there’s always a palpable aura of disgust that usually comes along, and the bride wants to be sure that everyone is relaxed and able to enjoy the occasion; E) the dye is a one day, extremely temporary color (spray on, washes out in two or three washes)
Only if ALL those conditions are met could I see this as reasonable, and even then - if the wedding party member says “no - I don’t care if they stare, so long as nobody acts a fool” then that’s that.
(I got my degree in philosophy, I like thought experiments)
My bestie couldn't understand that at my wedding I DIDN'T want her to cover her tattoos and take out her piecings as everytime she has been a bridemaid she has had too (she was my MOH). It's what makes her individual, and that's what I love about her. I didn't even tell her how to have her hair or how to do her make-up. I would NEVER change a hair on her head.
That's because you're a good friend to your friends, I'm much older now bumping 40 but it was horrible for anyone (note the women) when I was a kid, tattooed weren't even invited because "eeeeew it looks awful", piercings HAD to be removed, scars were embarrassing to the family along with special needs family members and with the piercing folks they'd be wailed on all week long about how "you look so much better without those disgusting things stuck in you, get rid of them".
Honestly it was like we were no longer people but art exhibitions.
I only would ask a very offensive tattoo to be covered, crazy she had to do it so often!
@@kawaibakaneko This is more than reasonable.👌
@rustyhowe3907 I've just turned 40. I remember those days. But I've got tattoos and piercings so I can't say anything. I just prefer people to be comfortable and not cover their true self.
@@kawaibakaneko that's when you choose a dress to cover the offensive tattoos.
I loved the fact that the veteran really stuck it up to her by continuing to use the mobility scooter even after the walking stick was returned. The husband should have abandoned her at the alter. She is not just a bridesilla, she is possibly a sociopath for hiding a walking stick from a disabled person. She is the kind of person who would possibly unplug the ventilator of a dying patient to charge her mobile phone.
Exactly! It's such a concerning level of cruelty it's scary... The husband must be 100% as mean to not faint at this
Like imagine if they had/ for a disabled kid? Or of the husband or any other family members were in an accident that left them disabled?
Would she shun them? Not allow them at parties or celebrations? Would she force them to literally be IN PAIN just to keep up appearances???
AWFUL, and such a HUGE red flag 🚩
I would've LOVED to see a wedding pic with the mobility scooter. Just...the pure, unadultered joy I would feel every time I thought about it if I were OP...
Spot on! Hiding a disabled person's walking aid is completely insane. How the husband didn't speak up is kind of concerning unless he's just as nuts as his bride.
My daughter was not even a bridesmaid, but part of the cousin contingent at my nephew's wedding. She and the other 2 female cousins from our side of the family (the only one in the wedding party was the groom's sister) were invited to a bride's brunch and were convinced to order special tshirts made by another bridesmaid and sold on e-bay for $12 plus shipping. They showed up for the brunch wearing the butt ugly tshirts (some of the printing was off center) and
NO ONE ELSE was wearing the tshirts. They were then shown to another table because there was 'no room' for them at the bride's table. After that they were pretty much ignored by the rest of the group there. Not included in the conversation or the photos. They stayed, but left soon after the bottomless mimosas hit because they didn't think they could be kind to the bride at that point.😂
I will say the wedding was beautiful, but full of over the top ridiculous women with over inflated opinions of themselves. The marriage has lasted 3 years so far. I don't know how my nephew is able to deal with that level of narcissism on a daily basis.😒
This is crazy! I could never even ask my guests to wear a certain color. I even had my bridesmaid pick out her own dress in any color she wanted. I want people to wear whatever makes them feel beautiful.
The last story, Bridezilla against the cane reminds me a little of my own wedding. One of my brides maids ended up tearing her ACL. She needed crutches to walk. I didn't complain or try to get her to give up the crutches. I called the florist and asked for some flowers to decorate her crutches. It looked amazing. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff.
And that’s the way to do it. Class and compassion
That's actually super sweet!!!
That was so kind of you! Well done! 👏
HELL YES. THIS. ❤❤❤
And that is the difference between a classy bride and a bridezilla.
14 WASHES IS NOT TEMPORARY. That is ridiculous. That's potentially 4 months, depending on how often she washes, and any dye that lasts that long will leave stains in virgin hair. Also ginger hair, even "flaming" Auburn hair, is gorgeous with peacock themed colors. Gingers are so striking in purples, greens and blues. My grandmother does have flaming Auburn hair and she wore a turquoise wedding dress at her wedding a few years ago. People still rave about how gorgeous she was in it and I will be jealous until I die because I will never look that good in turquoise as a brunette.
Blue is perfect with brown hair btw. It goes even better with brown than red sometimes so not sure why you're upset 😂
Since you sound like you know what you're talking about imma ask a dumb question...is "14 washes" like...14 washes as in if I get in the shower and literally wash my hair 14 times in one go it'll get out or does it have to be like over time necessarily?
I think you just got to the heart of the issue: This dumb bride chose peacock themed colours, which possibly did not flatter her particularly. They would, however, be the most perfect, most flattering colours for her red-haired bridesmaid. Sheer envy at work here.
who washes their hair only every 8 days?
@@haileym5912 14 times across a long time, you could wash your hair over a 100 times in a day and it won't get rid of the dye because the dye is set in. Washing helps to loosen the dye eventually but it just can't if the dye is fresh in the hair, think of it like buying a new shirt to when that shirt has aged and lost its once vibrant colour.
😂😂I wish we could see the pictures of the scooter the last one came in🤣🤣...I had to rewatch that clip...hilarious!
The scooter was BRILLIANT!!! 🥳❤
I was SO hoping it would go that way when the story started and sat on my couch snapping my fingers and cheering when it did 😂🤣
Look as a hairdresser I can easily say that first bride is insane. Ginger hair naturally or dyed is almost impossible to dye or bleach. It’s really hard to cancel out the copper tones in red hair and red pigment is notoriously a hairdresser’s worst nightmare. It’s so hard to destroy without frying the hair and making it brittle.
Yup! And virgin hair typically takes hair color very well. I colored my hair red (naturally VERY dark brown hair) without any bleach and it took A LOT to cover it up once it faded. Colored it brown twice after and just gave up and grew out my hair and then did a huge chop to get rid of it😂
thats why she suggested wigs
@@JinsFavouriteArmy with that length it’s gonna be so uncomfortable. And a good wig that doesn’t look like doodoo is expensive. I have worn wigs in the past when I had hair of that exact length and braiding it up to fit under a wig cap and the pinning a wig on top makes your head feel like it’s going to explode. Hair is heavy. Then a wig on top… oh and can’t forget the heat. It gets sooo hot under a wig.
Maybe people dye their hair to make it look red!
Why would the cousin want to be in the wedding party of that bitch?
She should have not shown up for the wedding.
"Your friends and family are not a cast that you hire to be in a commercial where u can choose the color of their hair, the color of their skin, the way that they look"
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Retired hairdresser here! There are colors that do rinse out, but anything that says it will wash out in 14 or whatever days is a dye and will change your natural color, maybe permanently. The truly temporary options all feel like that gross halloween color spray. They also transfer, so that pretty green dress is going to be stained poopy brown wherever the hair touches by picture time
This was one of the best in a while haha the last story was so satisfying. Good for her ❤
Last story: In some places, it can be seen as assault since mobility aids and prosthetics are an extension of the person using it. Especially if said aid is returned with any damage or has to be replaced. So yeah, there’s that.
I wondered if charges could be pressed. She's purposely putting that person in possible danger. Reckless endangerment maybe? Idk. Also it's kind of theft too. She stole something that clearly wasn't hers. Well, maybe there's no physical proof for charges, but everyone probably knew it was her after that comment.
@@puredemon5926 in this case, I think the scooter is a great punishment for Bridezilla. Every time she thinks about or sees pictures of her wedding, that scooter will come to mind and upset her. Hehehe. If the cane had been bent or broken, that’d have been a different story.
I’m so thankful on OPs behalf that another bridesmaid warned her. I have a genetic disorder that I sometimes have to use my own aids. The panic I’d feel if it went missing is intense. Heck, once I thought I left my cane in the bathroom at an airport and had a small panic attack. I was using the airport wheelchair and the wrist strap was on the handles behind me.
Funny story: I had a giraffe knock my cane into their enclosure at the zoo and had to come back the next day for it. Was a rough night back home bc I was reliant on my cane at that point. Was so glad the giraffes didn’t step on it.
ANd the guy still married her??? Oh hell no!
You're right! It IS a form of assault!
My Dad has developed extremely serious mobility issues in the last few years.
If he was in a wheel chair or with a walker and someone took the item, he would absolutely be in dire straits and serious danger of (further) injury.
@@UTU49 when I was in my 20s, my neurological condition forced me to relearn how to walk. I’m doing a lot better now but still have aids available if it acts up again.
I’m sorry to hear about your dad. I hope he gets better. Watch out if someone tries to move him without consent. That’s also assault in some states. It can be seen as if they pushed/shoved an able bodied person to the side. (If it’s a quick move like at a grocery store.)
Story 2 just broke my heart. Notice that not only did the bride give her the wrong time so she couldn't get a makeover, she told her NOT to wear makeup and didn't tell her about the matching theme. The other bridesmaids had matching shirts and they didn't even give her a heads up about the color. Also, even if the the bride shouldn't pay, there are TWO other bridesmaids there that should have split the cost for the bride. I would have quit as a bridesmaid right then.
Right. At that point why did you even ask her to be in the wedding?
Same… very sad that she just took it 😢 I pray that Jenna finds her strength one day
Wouldn't the fact that she is not wearing black and not wearing make up make her stand out even more if she is with them? The bride is a cruel idiot
@@keeppushingtruth2356 I think it was because the bride was using her for her money. If I'd been that hairdresser, I would've only charged her for her makeup alone and sent a bill to the rest of them! And if they didn't pay...see y'all in court, bitches! 💸💸💸
My sister broke her foot a week before my wedding but didn’t want to miss being in the wedding party, so she came down the aisle with crutches and a foot cast and literally NO ONE cared. For me it was more important to have her present and comfortable.
People are crazy.
I was bullied because of my ginger hair. I hated it for years. I now love it as my husband says it's beautiful and makes me me. I now have a daughter whose ginger im bringing her up to love her hair. BIG UP GINGERS
Oh my god that second story… if I were that makeup artist, I’d wait for the rest of the bridal party to leave, then be like “😒 girl I don’t wanna tell you how to live your life, but that was the most toxic sh¡t I’ve ever seen. With friends like that, you don’t need no enemies.”
I love her eye makeup! I would never think of using pink eyeshadow, but wow! It really enhances her pretty eyes!
Yep, somebody needs to tell her that she has no friends in that group of snarky harpies. They are toxic AF!
I complained to my best friend how my aunt (our resident hair dresser) had refused to dye my hair purple last time, because of an important family event and I said fair enough, but we're doing it after.. That was year and a half ago.. My best friend told me that I better dye it purple by the time she's getting married later this year and I can't express how much I love this girl..
"I know THAT would be BONkers..." as she makes an incredibly bonkers request. The second OP? I am officially her biggest fan. Every time I thought I knew what was coming, she exceeded my expectations.
I love that she went out of her way to find an obnoxiously colored sparkly scooter. Her point would have still been made been with a standard grey or red one, but the rainbow sparkles are just icing on the cake 🤣
OMG. I married older. I was 40 and my MOH little sister was 22. She was in college, so I knew she had little time to do the traditional MOH stuff. I did most of the planning with her opinions when she had time.I knew she got by on a server's salary, so I gave her a list of colors and told her to pick anything she felt comfortable and beautiful in. She looked STUNNING and I simply was so thrilled to have her next to me on the happiest day of my life. These families blow my mind.❤😮
I'd honesty happily let my little sister out stun me she's 5 🤣. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever met. I'm 18 she's 5.
I'm so happy that the only bridal party I was part of had the absolute opposite of bridezilla... She was the sweetest bride imaginable!
My oldest nephew is a red head just shy of auburn. If anyone tried to bully him into dyeing his hair, both me and my sister would go nuts. My sister dyed her natural platinum blonde hair brown for his dad, and her hair has never fully recovered. Be proud of your red hair. It's gorgeous.
"We don't claim her"... 😂😂😂😂
As an Amy, we also don't claim her 😅
All the bridesmaids should show up on her wedding day with bald caps (in lieu of shaving their heads), face tats (temporary) and gold grills (removable.)
_Problem solved._ 😂
Tatie Charlotte j'adore les cheveux roux ils sont trop beaux 😊😊
@@The_Crucible714😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 that is a great idea
Tbf "colour" is also British English but we also don't claim her XD
That sephora story is INSANE. Like if bridezilla is sooooo insecure about her friend being prettier then either kick them out or don't invite them in the first place. People really show their true colors when "under stress"
I am 79 and have never dyed my Ginger hair. Over the years it has faded, cannot see greys and to a blondish in the front, the rest is redish/auburn. That Bride was delulu!
Her hair is the perfect autumn shade of fox plume and rowan berry- tresses of poetry
Mom of a strawberry blonde here. My daughter has the most beautiful hair you've ever seen. People at amusement parks would stop her, walk around her, and asked where she got her hair done. She'd say God lol. One of the most heartbreaking moments for me was when as a child she asked to dye her hair brown to fit in with my first husband's family. I now have another strawberry blonde, my granddaughter ❤
The 'jesus i get it' from the bride tells me everything. Jealous AF
I hope she didn't dye her hair!!!!
I read this wrong at first and thought it said you'd asked her to dye it as a child to fit in with your husband's family 😂😂😂 then, I realized you were saying SHE asked YOU to dye it for her! Lol 😂❤ it sounds beautiful!
What ever happened to being grateful to be surrounded by loved ones? People are always focused on the wrong things nowadays.
@@danielleking262 No, I told her I wasn't going to let her cover up her beautiful hair to fit in with jealous jerks.
@@Tanley09 Beauty standards have gotten absolutely out of control! Esp. with social media being so abundant with all of these "influencers" 🙄
These brides are the reason that 50% of marriages end in divorce... Just wow...
When I got married, we had all the people we loved at our wedding - some had disabilities (we had elderly relatives and a large number of veterans at our wedding, & our prime concern was their comfort), others were FAR better looking than me, none of it was a problem! I can't think of anything worse than expecting them to look like anything other than themselves! If anything, I was honoured that they showed up to celebrate with us and put the effort in to looking fabulous and/or struggling with their symptoms so that they could spend some time with us on our special day.
The stick my grandmother had in our pictures reminds me that, despite being sore and suffering from a myriad of ailments, she refused to sit down, fussed over everyone, and even had a little boogie! 😂💖😍 The wheelchair one of our friends was using (he is a veteran and an amputee) reminds me of how much we all laughed when he told my grandmother (after she'd had a few sherries) "your chariot awaits", sat her on his chair, and provided her with a taxi service to the comfy chairs. And when he did his "I appear to have lost my leg" routine and made her squeal and then laugh and laugh 😂
My husband's beautiful cousin wore a dress she had made herself and she looked sensational. I wasn't even thinking about being "upstaged" - instead I was honoured by how much work she had put into her outfit to celebrate with us (she spent months making it). It wasn't white, she wasn't trying to be the bride - she was trying to be her, which is what we wanted, or we wouldn't have invited her! The photos of her in her beautiful creation are among my favourite.
These women obsessing over pictures they'll rarely look at, instead of memories they'll treasure for a lifetime, just aren't ready for marriage. And they're batsh-t insane, to me at least...
When I got married, my cousin wore her 4h letterman’s jacket and jeans. She was still in my photos and Indid not care. I got the dress on and just enjoyed my day. It was fun and I’m glad she was a part of it.
Love your outlook! That is the way to see our world and the situations we find ourselves in!
Life is really all about perspective! I don’t understand some of the crazy wedding views people have. There are SOOO many women who dream of finding someone to love them and want to spend the rest of their lives together-and unfortunately they won’t get that. These people upset over someone’s hair color(I’m a ginger too!) needs a perspective change!
Time to see bridezilla as children not ready for marriage.
Exactly. I’ll probably never get married, but if I did, I’d want only people who love and support me there, and I wouldn’t care if they showed up in a burlap sack, if they showed up for my special day.
THIS. This is how we should be when it's time to be a bride.
I got engaged it August, probably not having our wedding for a few years due to me wanting to finish college and establish a career. But the one thing I do know about my wedding is that I will NEVER force anyone to change their style of they’re uncomfortable. They could literally wear pj’s if they wanted to, as long as they’re comfortable
The Merida bridezilla, if she felt so much overshadowed by her cousin's AMAZING hair could've just asked her to tie them up like a chignon or something so they won't attract any attention. Such an easy solution that doesn't expect anyone to dye or cut their hair.
In my personal experience, the dyes that claim to fade out with time are the more difficult to remove.
I'm blonde, a 8-some years ago I dyed my hair black for a while at the hairdresser shop with permanent hair dye. When I wanted them back blonde, paid the hairdresser and the blonde was back.
Years later, I got "temporary" dyes and dyed the tips of my hair. Then I decided I wanted my hair lighter. Took the hairdresser TWO bleach cycles which destroyed my hair and still that supposed temporary dye didn't come off completely. Had to cut my almost waist lenght hair to shoulder lenght to get rid of the color and the damaged part.
So, stay away from temporary hair dyes (unless they are the party hair spray type that are pretty much just hair spray with colored dust and do wash away in a couple of shampoos)
I LOVE that last story. I freaking CHEERED at that malicious compliance. A walking stick can be hidden for photos (my bff’s father did it for years). A brightly colored mobility scooter? Not so much.
That was brilliant malicious compliance!
Story 1 : OP is absolutely TA, anyone asking for you to alter yourself, even temporarily, for THEIR comfort or "fit in", is not someone you should be close to. I hope Ella distanced herself from OP and told everyone why she did. OP is truly delulu, absolutely reminds me of the bridezilla that had a problem with a cute waitress having a nosering, eyeliner and her blouse fitting her 😂
You're absolutely right
My so-called “bestie” just lied to me said she was “just having witnesses,” and no moh or bridesmaids…and no room for me. Then she criticized the dress I planned to wear, and that was the end for me. Our friendship took a long break and really has never been the same since. Years and years later, I caught a glimpse of one her wedding photos and she did indeed have bridesmaids and a moh.
Nobody's hair is ruining any colour scheme when the wedding colours are blue, green and purple. Already done that herself.
@@glancycorner7425 What a coward. Just come out and say what you mean and mean what you say. Why even try to be friends if you don't like a person and have no intention of including them in your life? You're better off without her.😊
Definitely not a friend
I had dark auburn hair when I was young and the older I’ve got the lighter my hair has become. But I’ve always been proud of being a redhead. I’ve never died my hair. I also have freckles that I love too. I love the colour of your hair too Charlotte. ❤️
11:05 we all know that her natural hair color with that jewel tone palette would slap so hard! It’s jealousy. The best dressed at the oscars are almost always a redhead with a jewel toned gown. And for good reason. stunning af.
Man, i made the point to make CLEAR to my bride's maids that I wanted them to pick dresses they felt good in. I gave them a generalized fall color scheme, and told them to pick a color they thought suited them best, and we all voted on a fabric we liked best, and everyone left happy with their dress! I want the people I love that love me to feel beautiful and feel their best.
Years ago, I altered dresses for a wedding. The bride had told her attendants to wear whatever sort of printed knee length dresses they liked. The men wore khakis, white shirts and each wore a different colored vest
Not surprisingly, she is still married 15 years later. Actually, her married siblings are still with their original spouses, too. (The oldest must be coming up on 25 years or so)
Both these comments are wholesome.🥰
I just don't get it either. I let so many people make decisions and planning was still stressful. I let my mother pick the flowers, my aunt picked the table settings, my color theme was picked by whatever dress we found off the rack for the bridesmaids, and I didn't even bother picking out my cake - I just told the catering company what my color theme was. The only thing I did pick was the tux and my husband changed that to something ridiculous. It so does not matter.
I love that! I did the same thing with my bridesmaids. The bridal salon employee directed us to the dresses that had the color I wanted and I basically told them to go nuts. 😂
One bridesmaid got hers altered by our friendly neighborhood seamstress. It looked way different. She looked amazing and it checked all of her boxes. My MOH's dress was my favorite.
Because they were happy, I was happy. ❤
I had one of bridesmaids call me a bit before the wedding. She was hemming and hawing and I finally asked her, what is going on? She admitted she was pregnant--her 3rd. I was so happy for her and congratulated her. She wanted to know if her being preg during the wedding was a problem. I told her that I did NOT expect her to put her life of hold, for my wedding. She was thoroughly welcome, along with her new figure. My wedding is a FAMILY event, everyone of any age is welcome.
As a natural ginger myself and dealing with a childhood full of bullying for this I would not stand for anyone requesting I dye my hair for a wedding. If my friend or relative could not accept this and tried to persuade/compromise/pressure me into this I would straight up drop out. I've always been ostracised for my hair but after years of bullying I learnt to accept being different and love my hair. Don't like it for the colour scheme then I'll put it in a hun but that's the most you'll get from me ❤
People can choose to ask participants and their wedding to do whatever the wedding compo wants to ask them to do. That does not absolve them from absolutely, unequivocally, being an a hole. People are not your props. Your theme is for table decor. The people in your wedding party are there because the person, as they are, are meaningful to the couple. But hey, you do you. I am so glad that no one that I know personally would be that, self-absorbed.
😂😂 OMG, when you started singing riding dirty, my grandson came running, asking if we were going riding! 😂😂 I have to utilize a mobility cart when my cane won't do. I have always played that song when it was time for our afternoon stroll!! We've done this since he was 10 months old, and he's now 7! I am so glad I am not the only one who associates this song with it!! 😂😂😂Made my day! LOL
That's so wholesomely awesome 😊❤🎉😊❤
OMFG the last one is the savage malicious compliance we should all aspire to whoever you are wherever you I bow down to you
A niece got married in a small country church and with my daughter and my mom, I attended.
Before anything started, my sister rushed up to my mother and asked “Mom! Did you bring your boom box?”
Confusedly, Mom said, “Why would I bring…” but was interrupted with “I forgot the MUSIC!”
My sister looked to me. I was a part-time pianist for OUR little country church. “Can you do something?”
There was only a small ancient organ at the front of the church and the only sheet music available in the bench were “When the Saints Go Marching In” and The Battle Hymn of the Republic.
As I began adjusting the seat, I kicked off my shoes. Someone directly behind me stage-whispered “Lady! Hey, Lady! LADY!”
I turned and a dapper man in the second row hissed, “You got ants in your shoes.” I looked down and there were no ants.
So the bride entered the church to When the Saints and later left on her groom’s arm to The Battle Hymn. (Accurately, as it turned out).
I do not know if the man officiating had partied with the guy in the second row, but I do know when he said, “(bride’s name here), do you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband…” it was not the bride’s name he used.
As I said, I don’t know who all was partying, but the bride said, loudly, “Who the hell is Amanda?” to the groom. The groom stammered and the minister chimed in to assure her it was a mistake, not a rival.
At the earliest opportunity, I launched into The Battle Hymn and it was mercifully over.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that last one is CLASSIC! I literally LOL’d and spitoodled my Biscoff cookie across my desk! 😆
I am mixed race with curly hair and was bullied by adults as child for my curly hair. I straightened my hair for years until as I got older and started to embrace my curls. Love it now - stay true to yourself
Bullied by adults?! What is wrong with people? I'm glad you accepted yourself and your own natural beauty. ❤ I don't have the super tight curls my Mom had but I got enough to make my hair not behave lol. I recently found this curl cream by Carol's daughter and it's really awesome. It helps a lot with humidity and fly aways. 😊
@OriginalMeanGirl omg, could you share what curl cream you use?? I don't have super tight curls either, but nice, loose ringlets if it air drys naturally. But same as you, my hair is just curly/wavy enough to not cooperate with me 😅 I have lots of frizz and flyaways 😅
@@OriginalMeanGirl yes adults can be very mean to kids. Always be mindful of auntie, uncle, family friend or people in general around your kids. I got over that real fast though but sadly many never do.
@@joellehansen6961 of course! I hope this doesn't show up twice but my first reply didn't show so I wanted to answer you lol. It's Carol's Daughter moisturizing styling cream. It has a red band on the label. You can get it at Walmart or Amazon. My hair is also very fine so I had a hard time finding something that didn't make it look greasy or heavy. I use a pea sized amount but don't put it on my roots. I also like Not Your Mother's leave in conditioner spray in the white & purple bottle. If I want to really define my waves I wash it with the Carol's Daughter black vanilla shampoo and don't use conditioner. I use the NYM conditioner spray after and wrap it in a towel until it's almost dry, then come through and put the styling cream on and dry with a diffuser. I hope that helps! ❤️
The issues I have with styling products is they are either too heavy, too crunchy or too waxy/oily. I want the definition but I would like to be able to adjust my hair if I wanted to put it half up etc
Red hair looks so F*ing good with greens, blues, purples! Those colors are literally a redheads best friend! That cousin bride was jealous of her, and I'd be damned if I'm cutting my hair for someone's wedding if I don't want to.
Me and the hubby listen to these videos and discuss. The first one annoyed him to no end because he's a red headed man who everybody ignored. He hates that people give so much hate towards gingers, and I can't disagree. I personally love his hair and really don't see the big deal. This is coming from a woman who hasn't had a full head of hair in 17 years. The way I see it is to be happy with what you got because you never know if you'll keep your hair or see it again.
I know I'm old and was married 34 years ago but wow! I never thought of their hair color or style, just having my good friends and relatives with me to celebrate.
I had one bridesmaid in my wedding ask me if she should grow her hair out for my wedding. I told her I am just happy she is there to support me and she could be bald and I wouldn’t care. I can’t imagine asking a friend to change their appearance for me. (She was a redhead and my bridesmaids wore green and she was gorgeous.)
I'm with you! When hubs and I got married twenty-one years ago, I wanted the people I loved to feel confident and comfortable.
It never occurred to me that anyone would overshadow me with their beauty, or whatever these brides think. Back then, I wasn't confident about my appearance, but my wedding day never felt like a beauty pageant. The point of the day was to marry the best person I've ever known, and to share the experience with those who were important to us. I was so happy and excited on our wedding day that I _felt_ more beautiful than I ever had before. Even though I'm not photogenic, those feelings were so clearly written on my face that I was positively radiant, even in our pictures.
If that mobility scooter had a horn that played La Cucaracha, i would have died 🤣
The first bride is nuts and jealous. Red hair is beautiful, I've been dyeing my hair red since high school bc I love red hair so much. Charlotte your hair is gorgeous.
Agreed. When I was younger (20 - 50s) I would occasionally get a red/ginger temporary colour for a change-up.
(For my 60th birthday I got blue and purple foils done. Since then I tend to lean more toward non-natural colours.)
me too! i love non-natural hair colors!
Ever single wedding I've been to everyone looked GREAT in their own way. There was ZERO SNARKY, we took TONS of pictures of each other & hyping each other up... We all have different body shapes. Some of us had babies, some of us didn't. We ALL HAD THE BEST TIME EVER!!! 20+ years later for some of these weddings we pull up pictures & laugh about a great day... That's a PERFECT kind of wedding... Kids are going off to college & we look back on great times...
The mobility scooter post pi$$ed me off and also made me laugh! The fact that they thought returning the stick would get rid of the scooter but it ended up in almost all the photos is hilarious. But taking it in the 1st place and expecting her to make do really got to me!! 🤦♀️ Why not just not have her in the wedding instead of treating her so horribly?? So many activities now seemed to be geared toward how they will appear when posted on social media that alot of people no longer enjoy the actual thing they are doing or like the people they are doing it with. Thats insanity to me!
As a disabled lady who can't walk without 2 crutches and I sometimes I need a wheelchair, I personally refuse to be a bridemaid/MOH. I don't want my crutches in her wedding photos (she doesn't care)
I have just found out a bestie is getting married and wants me to be the MOH. I've said no but I will help with everything.
She has said we will have a runner with my crutches. So when it comes to walking down the airle I will walk arm in arm with my hubby (who will be the best man) to support me, then in the photos I will always be stood next to someone who can help support me and my crutches will be bought to and from me during breaks in the photos. So she has already come up with a suitable solution which a true bestie will do if they 100% want you to be part of the wedding. The issue is with me not wanting to ruin her photos with my crutches which is why I said no in the first place. No wasn't an option to her because I'm important to her and she love me crutches and all
My daughter is a full-time wheelchair user. She was born with spina bifida and has been paralyzed from the hips down her whole life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing ability aides!!!! Your self hatred hurts others with disabilities. Please get help to love yourself as you are!
@rhiannon7163 I don't hate my disabilities and thats not what i said. Yes, i have body issues like most women do due to the perfections that are forced upon us in todays world. It is just a preference that I don't want to be in her photos with crutches. It's also about not being potentially well enough on the day to help support her on her special day.
@hollierushby my daughter was born disabled and is a full time wheelchair user. She was Little Miss Pleasant Prairie, a singer, a dancer and actress who recently had her biggest part as Spot Conlon in NEWSIES. She has been a bridesmaid twice and a flower girl once. She also raised a million dollars to build a fully accessible playground to Kenosha WI. Everyone with a disability is only as ashamed of it as they want to be. Let's bring awareness instead of shame!
@rhiannon7163 and you should be proud of your daughter. The difference is that I wasn't born disabled. My disabilities kicked in only 5 years ago. I'm 40 years old. Sorry if it takes some getting used to being disabled. That doesn't mean I'm not doing my best. It means I'm only human. But just because I don't want to do certain things because of how tired and how my disabilities affect me, I'm entitled to do as I seem fit for my disabilities. A full day of standing and being in a formal dress will not only be uncomfortable but also put me in bed for a week, which means I then can't prioritise my children and their needs. This means my hubby has to then work full-time, then come home and deal with everything that needs to be done here.
@rhiannon7163 my world doesn't revolve around my disabilities and me. My world is what is best for my kids and hubby.
That last story made my fucking day!! OMG You GO girl!! For context, I'm a wheelchair user (manual chair/non electric) and several years ago I had the pleasure of being Maid of Honor at my cousin's wedding. Beautiful ceremony and I was honored to be a part of it. Hearing this last story gave me an absolute sadistic chuckle as using mobility aids in a bridal party is no big deal (nor should it ever be seen as such) and it is still and always will be the bride's big day. That said, your bridal party are not your Barbie dolls to play with as you see fit. They're human beings and your friends/family. They deserve your respect/gratitude. Good on this girl for getting such sweet revenge! That was glorious!
Yep! I don't have any friends and I'm actually nice to the people I consider friends (even acquaintances) I'd be so happy to have one let alone multiple people attend! I don't understand how they have friends and I don't (except me being terrified around crowds and only being able to have one best friend at a time, I Feel like there's too much judgement happening with multiples)
The Barbie analogy is so appropriate, some of these brides really seem to think they can just move people around and act out their perfect little fantasy wedding. It’s super weird tbh…and I get extra salty about the ones who are trying to police things that their guests can’t change even if they wanted to (like a disability)! I really gotta wonder how the bride expected her to get down the aisle? Crawl? Have the groomsmen carry her??
I do not understand what bride expected to happen when she took away the walking stick. I thought it was gonna be she struggled down aisle on her own and when she fell/stopped for support/struggled, it would make bride look absolutely shitty. But the mobility scooter was chef’s kiss. Bride can’t complain about it because what can she say? ‘Oh she lost her walking stick but omg she could have tried to walk down the aisle without it.’ Everyone would have known what an asshole she was so now she just has to stew.
Omg, I have ALWAYS love ginger hair! ALL the SHADES!!!! I have not once laid eyes on ginger hair that didn’t instantly mesmerize me! ❤❤❤
"They see me rollin, they hate it.."😂😂😂 that part had me in tears😂😂
As a natural redhead, we do look bomb in peacock colors and she's afraid of having an actual mermaid in her wedding party hahaha.
My daughter has the EXACT SAME HAIR as the girl who didn't attend her cousins wedding. Inside the house in "man made light" it's more of a strawberry blonde, but when we go outside she is a REDHEAD FOR SURE! ❤ if someone tried to make her change or hide it I would have A FIT!
AS YOU SHOULD!!!!!
"I thought it ridiculous that she was worried about the dye"
WE THINK YOU'RE RIDICULOUS FOR EXPECTING GUESTS' HAIR TO MATCH YOUR *ME ME ME* PARTY.
Good on the first girl for holding her ground on that issue. I would have quit the wedding party as soon as I saw the bride and her real friends had left me out. All they had to do was decorate the walking stick with flowers and some ribbon to match the rest of the wedding theme. My mother is disabled and needs a cane to walk, if someone did that to her , the person would be going down the aisle with a nice new black eye. You do not take someone's mobility aid. Full stop.
For anyone wanting an example of a bride handling bright hair colors properly, my sister-in-law handled my dyed auburn hair so well. My hair was a curly bob that is naturally dark brown (nearly black) and I had been dyeing it auburn for a few years. I was asked to be a bridesmaid and I don’t even fully remember if I asked her if my hair color was okay, lol. I was way more concerned with the length because she wanted us to have our hair up, and short hair is harder to work with in that respect. I grew it out as much as possible to respect her, but curly doesn’t show length very quickly. She was totally understanding and never demanded anything from me in regards to this. She didn’t even ask me to grow it out, that was my choice when she communicated that she wanted our hair up. Anyway, I made sure to have my hair freshly dyed so that it looked as nice as possible for the wedding and not faded. I was the only bridesmaid with a “non-natural” hair color and my sister-in-law could not have cared less. I got my hair done by another bridesmaid in an updo and did all the photos in our light sage green dresses. When they should me the photos of the wedding later, I was surprised to see my color was actually brightened by the photographer. Like it stood out in a really nice way in the photos! My sister-in-law told me directly that I looked gorgeous in the photos. Never once was she concerned about me “upstaging” her with my hair color. It’s really not that hard to be reasonable, people!