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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and let me tell you about a rollercoaster of dating disasters in less than 28 seconds! From spilling drinks on your crush to accidentally calling them by your ex's name, these mishaps will make you cringe and laugh at the same time! Join me in this hilarious journey as we explore the chaos that can turn a promising date into a total nightmare. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button for more entertaining tales of romance gone wrong! Let's commiserate and laugh together at the absurdity of dating fails! 😂✨ #DatingDisasters #Comedy #CharlotteDobre
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I went out with a guy I wasn’t at all interested in because he asked me out 2 weeks in advance and he had put so much effort into planning it that I felt too guilty to say no. I wanted to cancel so bad but he was so excited about it that I thought I’ll just go and he’ll realize that we just don’t click. 35 years, 4 kids, 5 grandkids and 2 great grandkids later and I still can’t ghost this dude.
Ma'am 😭😭😭❤❤
Good for you too
😂❤
You have at least one 34year old kid that is already a grandparent????? 😅
😂😂😂😂😂Hilarious story!!!
I don't use tiktok. I'd rather listen to you tell me about it 😂
exactly!!! 😂
😂😂😂 same
Same! It’s even more entertaining.
True Facts ❤
Lol, tik tac keeps me up for days, thank you Charlotte for making that not happen. ❤
If you're ever uncomfortable on a first date with someone and you feel unsafe, never be ashamed to ask the staff for help when you can. Excuse yourself to the bathroom and pull one of the staff aside and tell them you feel unsafe, never be embarrassed to ask for help.
its not their job
Actually , in some countries it is, training and all
Acting nice when you’re scared they’ll hurt you, is the superior move if that is what your brain is telling you. Your brain calculated that this is possibly a bad person and you don’t have the physical strength/ability to defend yourself or get away in that moment. Trust your gut ladies.
It's fight flight freeze or FAWN. It's a well accepted coping mechanism to extreme stress
YES. But also if a random guy invites you to his boat just say EHM NO THANK YOU. Not victim blaming but also don't put yourself in scary situations you can't even escape from FFS.
@vero9348 Well, you can nicely refuse to go with someone, by saying you have someone waiting for you, or you just learned so and so died, so you need to go home, your boyfriend would be mad at you, give any number of excuses.
@yoyohayli it's so sad we even have to think about these excuses, I don't even have words. But let's teach our children to not put themselves into any random offers to go into a dark obscure place with a random stranger to start with.
It’s crazy you say this because it always seems like the nice ones end up hurt in more ways than one whether they live to tell the tale or not . Horrible horrible advice , respectfully. Get in the gym ladies , get licensed to carry , eat healthy & educate yourself on defense. You’re nobody’s doormat . You have boundaries, enforce them .
“Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” - Margaret Atwood
Men are too emotional and aggressive
I’m worried that women will kill me; and take advantage of my financial situation.
I was scared of my xwife; cause I thought she would shoot or stab me. Now I have my son without contact with a black widow.
Women always have these “theories” about men, and 90% of time it’s way off the mark.
@@thomashenshallhydraxis abuse knows no gender. But some things happen more often to certain groups of people. My mother was r*ped for refusing a man. I've been sexually harrassed, stalked, and threatened for rejecting men. I'm not saying women aren't capable of the same mess. I have some male friends that been victimized by women too. But due to how our society works, women are more likely to be victimized by men than men are victimized by women.
@@krh6239 Period. These awful things have a higher chance of happening to women than men. So many women are dead today cos they rejected a man, a lot of men have fragile egos and can't take rejection very well.
@@krh6239 that was a beautiful response to the whataboutism. I love that he's mad about men being generalised, yet expresses it by saying "Women always..." 🤣
Worst “date” ever. I actually met this guy in a bar. We just chatted, no big deal. No sexy talk, nothing inappropriate. It was a week night so at a reasonable time, I said goodbye and walked out. As I went to get my coat from the coat closet, he followed me, then tried to drag me out the door. I pulled away and went back into the bar. The bartender and three customers leapt to my defense and forced him out the door and away. I stayed for a little longer then one of my saviors walked me to my apartment building. Whew!
PS I dated my savior for about a year before our careers sent us to opposite sides of the country. 😊
Oh my God, I'm so sorry. I'm so glad people helped you
Kitkat, that you? Why did you bail on my abduction attempt? j/k That sounds horrifying. I hope you didn't need too much counseling after that.
What they should have done was held him until the police got there !! Thank God, nothing more happened to you. What if he tried this with you a guarantee? He tried it with another girl who may not have been as lucky as you to get away.
@@slackerman9758 😂 Thanks.
That’s horrifying. That man is a predator. I’m so glad you got away from him. I hope no one else fell victim to him.
I went on a date with a guy who legit looked like he should be on the cover of a vampire romance novel. He was gorgeous. He was also very nice. But we had nothing in common. This wasn't his fault but it did make the date pretty akward. I told him at the end of the date that we weren't compatible. He didn't speak to me for a while after.
However, it's been almost 20 years, and we still keep in touch despite moving to different states. We became really good friends. He's still gorgeous and still sweet.
Most HILARIOUS quote in this video is at 12:35 "I like staying the night at other peoples' places because my room is always messy and I like to sleep in a clean room." 😅
Nah I'd rather sleep in my own bed 😅 messy room and all.
🤮 🤮 🤮
Ikr
14:15 she has a very understanding reason to not allow him over. The fact he got mad for her not wanting him in her apartment right away makes a lot of sense. Good for her.
HUUUUUUGE RED FLAG!!!!!
@@erikarussell1142 bsr Tatie erika comment vas tu aujourd'hui dis moi tu es toujours mal en point je suis très heureuse de te voir tu sais je t'aime très fort tu es douce avec moi merci 🦄🦄😊
@@solene2014 I love you!!! I’m am feeling much better today. I actually plant to clean the house and not just pick it up. 😂 it’s a beautiful day, and I pray it is for you too!!
@@erikarussell1142 traduis merci 😊
The girl whose date got angry because she wouldn't let him come over sounds dangerous. She mentioned she noticed he got mad at everything, and I had an ex I used to notice was 'nice' till I heard him lose it over the phone while he was in traffic. The depth of his rage was scary, but I ignored my instincts. The relationship later devolved into dv, and I had to call the police on him 2x, as well as drive to a police station a 3rd time when he was following me in his car. He was still low-key stalking me 2 years later. Please, always trust your gut.
No is always a valid reason for saying no, periodt. NO IS A VALID REASON
You are so right. Say it loud, if you have to. NO, is my answer, No!
I mean, dogs can understand no so...
No means no. You shouldn’t have to explain why. I am marrying the man I said no to and respected me for it. We dated for 3 months before we did anything. And he was so patient and kind and generous and understanding. Plus he’s beautiful!!! So, I absolutely said yes when he asked me to marry him. I was single for six years before we met and I’m so glad I didn’t settle.
No is an answer AND a complete sentence. Periodt!
Do NOT explain yourself!
The word no is a complete sentence.
Went on a date with a kid in high-school. He took me to a movie he'd already seen (The Mummy) so he could spend the date doing the lovey-dovey side eye stare at me. Was so damn creepy! I told him it wasn't going to work as we were getting a ride home. He grew up in college and became one of the smoothest, yet dorkiest men I know. And now he's my husband.
😂😂😂
We need to normalize walking out of dates when we feel uncomfortable. Listen to our gut. I’m working on it too.
Also must say, some of us with childhood trauma really struggle to NOT be so nice, to not people please. It's called "fawning," meaning to try to please people so they won't hurt you, and it's basically a survival tactic you learn when you are young to keep you safe. It's part of the "fight or flight" which psychologists now call "fight, flight, freeze, or fawn"
Yup. I deeply understand that.
♥️🙏🏻💜
There's also people who try to be nice to not nice people because being a people pleaser was the only way we got attention as a child
Thats why I hate calling it "nice"
Its not being nice, its self victimisation... And its STUPID
Drawing that line in my head help me a LOT to deal with those problems and I feel like calling it being "nice" is gaslighting...
YES! THIS!
The not having a car thing isn’t necessarily a red flag depending on where you live. Plenty of people in large cities especially today don’t have a car, but you don’t ask the other person to pick you up. You tell them you’ll meet them there or tell her that you’ll be there to pick her up in a taxi or Uber.
Yes, meet up first date good for both
The red falg is when he didn't bother to grab her food LOL , I would have left sooner though ,I don't date dudes who don't pay at the dine no matter how hot they are
@@fatisummer9106 She said he was really handsome. A lot of girls (and of course, men) will overlook thoughtless treatment in order to be with someone who is out of their league.
Yeah not to mention some people who have certain conditions or are on medications are considered unfit to drive, I myself didn’t learn to drive the whole time of high school and am barely getting the hang of it now at 19 cause I was on medication for mental health reasons which resulted me to randomly fall asleep at times and I had to slowly wean off it and start on it again cause my symptoms would worsen
@@elfenlied_girl1238 me at 22 with no plans to learn how to drive in the near future
“I feel like these videos are just Charolette talking”
That’s the selling point!!! That’s what makes it Charolette!! That’s why I’m watching
I never understood why people watch commentary youtubers and then complain that they talk 😂 watch the og video then tf??
One of my worst dates: i was 27, single, and learned about Bumble. I heard it was more "wholesome" than the other dating apps out there, so i thought id give it a try.Well, my first match (m/30) was really cute, worked in the biology field, rock climbed, and had a love for animals. We talked for a few weeks and then decided to meet up at a German beer house and restaurant. Ive been rusty at the dating thing, so i wore my cutest clothes and wore light makeup and light perfume, and when I showed up, he just seemed so mad that he was meeting with me. His face had a permanent scowl (not rbf but like purposely that way) didnt seem interested in talking much either. I decided to break the silence and asked him how long he had been rock climbing for. He said 5 years or so and then asked me the same question. I just started rock climbing a week or two before we matched, so I was still pretty new at it. I enthusiastically asked him if he'd like to see the video of my first time reaching the top of a v1 (that's like the second level in bouldering (ropeless rock climbing thats closer to the ground), he nodded and as I show him my newby climb, he proceeded to rip me to shreds saying my form was terrible and that I should quit while I was ahead especially since im a "bigger girl". (The whole time i was climbing, i had a coach/ friend walking me through it). Anyway, i told him he was being a jerk, he scoffed and said i should consider a different hobby that's for softer bodies, which really hurt cause climbing is how i got motivated to lose weight. The food came, i took two bites and left without a word.
Ugh, what a sanctimonious prick. So glad you left.
I'm so sorry that happened, what a jerk.
"We can only hang out with them for an hour" IT IS NEVER JUST AN HOUR!!!!
Literally NEVER!!!
@@heezypeasy8611RIGHT!!😂😂 Then they make excuse for staying longer! Like sir, take me home!😂
I’d Uber OUT!!!!
And he was totally messing with her the entire time to see if she would be a tolerant side chick.
It's like football (American football) when there are only a few minutes that's left on the game. It's never the real amount of minutes and they drag on FOREVER. I'm sure many other sports are like that when they go overtime but I don't know much about sports. My dad liked watching football and I remember how those last few minutes of the game would take forever.
"Kind people are always kind, not just when it's convenient." Yes, being nice puts us at a major risk for being taken advantage of, but unfortunately for some of us, it's a character trait that can be so deeply ingrained that we do it reactively. People pleasers and peace keepers know all too well how hard it can be to create healthy boundaries. Keep growing my beautiful humans x
Agreed 💯
I’m a people pleaser and would rather just be friendly with everyone but best believe if someone gives me attitude or is just a shitty person overall, they do not deserve my kindness.
@erica_renee that's really great and I'm glad you're able to overcome the anxiety of conflict to know your worth and stand up for that ❤️ well done!
Im one that will give you what I can and do what I can but never get it back maybe a few times in my life I got the help I needed but I will be there for anyone and give my all I'm a person that has been bullied all my school years because I can't do things kids can I couldn't really play I have jra Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis it effected me badly If I decided to ride my bike are jump on a trampoline more then an hour hour and a half if I played longer are did certain things my mom whould have to undress me put me in hot water work my neck arms and legs out dress me and all the next morning it was painful it also made me small my bones was being ate up and I grew slower then people I'm just 4"11 and being little and short was another reason I was bullied it was a hard childhood and kids just was horrible they saw me as when kids went with the "cooties" phase but it was always a phase that stayed teachers even talked about me and I ended up dropping out in 7th grade and getting my g.e.d I still get bullied today bye some people but with all that I still will help and give my all but will be over looked if I needed help I mostly stay to myself I really have problems setting boundaries because my heart is huge and I don't like to see people hurt are anything it's really hard to understand it I can't understand how I'm still doing and helping and caring for people and yet being terrified of them at the same time cause of how I'm treated i basically help and do for someone and then disappear in away like I will just stay to myself unless I'm helping someone in need
@@borderlinebeka trust me, I have anxiety with everything but I also don’t associate with many people to even be put in that position. Last incident I can think of is when some crazy lady rudely came up to my car window and told (not asked) me to leave so she could have my spot. I simply told her she could wait - of course with the same attitude she had - and I took my sweet ass time. I just feel like we need to stand up for ourselves to people like that
to be clear, the only obligation on a first date is manners. I do not have to nice anyone, but be polite. Niceness is earned with trust
Agreed, nice and polite are NOT always the same thing. People act like it’s completely synonymous, but it’s not just not.
I went on a tinder date, once i sat in my chair he was like “oh..didnt know you’re an iphone user! I am an android guy!” So i smiled awkwardly i thought he was joking and then he started talking passionately about how much he hates iphone users..i hate that i was too embarrassed to leave and actually ordered coffee..once i finished my cup, as i heard him spoke all the time about how smart he is and how much he was a catch for anyone , theennn he asked for the check😂 like hes the one who was too eager to leave!😂
Then i thought he was walking me to my car..but apparently we were walking HIM to HIS CAR😄 because once we reached his parking spot he was like “ok good to see ya byee” 😂
😂😂😂omg crazy
dont feel guilty for fucking the rich
My worst first date: I drove 40 minutes to meet him at his local watering hole. I arrived, and he was seated at the bar, in full conversation with everyone there. There wasn’t a stool next to him, and he made no offer no move to a table/booth. I had to find a stool, drag it over, and sit partway behind him (there wasn’t room for a stool, either). During our conversation, I learned that he’s homeless and currently couch-surfing at his nephew’s apartment. There was no second date. If this were to happen now, I would have left when there was nowhere to sit.
Girl with 4 random guys she just met on a car. Things could've gone really bad. Thank God she had the sense to ask to get out of the car.
What? being abandoned on the side of the road, at night, is just fine? She was so lucky. And silly.
Ladies, the rule about getting into a vehicle with males: don't get into the car unless girls outnumber the boys.
She should've got in, in the first place. But she was naive. Good she can tell the story
@@sandracabrera7861Girls are heavily brainwashed to be compliant. Young men too. If we were all trained instead to listen to our instincts and intuition, the news wouldn't be so full of tragedies avoidable.
She drove to him, she did not need to get in a strangers car with several men. Girls please educate yourselves, use critical thinking, don't go places with people you don't know just because you're attracted. Never heard of Ted Bundy 💀
The whole reason I watch these instead of TikTok is because it’s like watching them with my bestie 😂 your rants are essential to my experience
I went on a tinder date with this guy at Buffalo Wild Wings and at the end of the date (it’s was great we had good laughs whatever) he looks at me and goes “would it be cool if like we just became friends? You seem more like a little sister than a potential gf” and I was like “… yeah that’s not a problem I was getting the same kinda vibe” 😅😂
People. Never tell your date where you live. If he wants to take you home, don't let him.
SHE NEVER TOLD HIM, WHERE SHE LIVED AND SHE CAUGHT A UBER/LYFT THERE.. SO, IDK HOW HE FOUND OUT WHERE SHE STAYS.. PROBABLY THE APP
People: not all men are fn rapists. Stop telling people to be afraid of men.
I was just going to say this!!! And never drive with them on the first date! Drive separately and Meet at a public place, and leave separately. Don’t ever take them back to where you live.
This happened in 1977. I was 16, and had a boyfriend who was a Sophomore in a local community college, who was 20. This was considered normal then. My father was a retired fighter pilot, so I was familiar with planes, though I'd never flown one.
My boyfriend and I'd made out a few times, but I was a virgin and terribly naive. He rented a Cesna, and rented a private island close to Padre Island on the Gulf coast. He told me as we were loading that he had a heart condition, but I kinda didn't pay attention and just said, "Okay."
We were most of the way there, and could see the runway, when he clutched his chest and gasped, "Take the controls, I'm...having...heart... attack..." and slumped over, seemingly unconscious.
He'd given me a brief tutorial on the controls, so I grabbed them (I was in the copilot seat, so I didn't have to move him). I landed the plane in a 40 mile an hour cross wind on that deserted islet, and threw open the hatch, ready to sprint to the stubby tower that held the only phone. I'd been yelling "MAYDAY" over the radio, but he'd changed the channel at the beginning of the flight(without my knowledge), so there was no answer.
I was out of the plane when I heard his voice shouting "Wait, it was just a joke! I'm fine!!"
I froze in disbelief and fury. I literally couldn't speak.
I guess he took that as me being okay with it, because he unpacked the picnic and laid out the blanket. Me being on the Spectrum, and not used to dating, I picked at the food, not saying much, just drinking the beer he'd brought. He was also drinking. I didn't know that this was illegal. (Drinking age was 18).
I only put my foot down when he wanted to make out. I claimed a tummy ache ("that time of the month, it wasn't"), and he was disappointed. We packed up and flew home. I don't remember the car ride home from the airport, but I remember thinking I really wanted AWAY from the a$$hole! I do remember an abbreviated goodbye/thanks for the flight, and running in the house.
I'm pretty sure he was planning on taking my virginity that day, on a deserted island where I couldn't call for help.
I didn't tell my parents (because they would have forbidden me to date at all). But I DID break up with him over the phone and never saw him again. Because of the times, I felt ambivalent for years, thinking Id overreacted. Now I'm proud of myself for landing the plane, and wish I'd pushed him out of it into the Gulf of Mexico for the sharks! So, that's the worst date I ever had. (I didn't drive then either).
Wow!!!!
Thank god you were familiar with planes!
What a story. How did he know how to fly? I didn't get the impression that he was rich and could afford flying lessons.
@@stephenbanks5952 Sorry. He'd just gotten his pilot's license. It wasn't as expensive in 1977 to rent a plane, and he was well off. We were from a pricey area in the burbs.
Crazy story!! Thank you for sharing and I'm glad you both made it safely
Some of the nicest people I've met are not at all conflict avoidant. They are adept and conflict efficient. Your narration is golden btw and I love everyone's facial expressions. The comments you highlight are gems.
I loooooooved the story of the girl who was on a date with a better guy with a better attitude right next to the guy who tried to play her. When she mentioned sending them shots I laughed so hard 😅😂😂😂
I went hiking with my brother, SIL, and SIL’s friend. I rode with friend and about 10 miles from Alabama, middle of nowhere, his car’s transmission fell out. Literally, fell out and the car coasted to a halt. We spent the day, absolutely nowhere, trying to figure out how to get his car back home. We eventually got back (the car followed the next day) and he borrowed his roommate’s car to get me back to my college apartment. He later taught me to drive a manual on his new transmission. Married 19 years on Wednesday.
awwww
The worst date is the one where you don’t know you were on a date until you arrive at the movies expecting to see Deathly Hallows pt 1 with friends only to find just him.
Noooooooooo I’d be so distracted by the awkwardness the whole movie I hope you were able to block him out for HP
No. The worst is going on a double date only for your ex to tag along and proceed to sit next to your date and talk for the entire movie. Loudly.
I would use going to the toilet as an out then GHOST
The worst "date" of this type I ever went on was one where I invited multiple people in a friend group to go to a movie (and they all knew multiple people were going, so should have known it wasn't a date situation) and TWO of them were convinced I'd actually invited them on a date, and sat on either side of me glaring at each other and sniping at one another with nasty comments the WHOLE movie.
On the plus side, two of my friends sat directly behind me and were highly amused by their behavior the whole time. But I was mortified.
The fear of rejection causes guys to do things like this!
The blonde girl with the lake/boat story said "Grab your PYAPcorn"🍿And I immediately knew she was from Michigan. That accent is unmistakable to me and so different from other Northerners. ❤
I love watching Charlotte talk, yess kween slay, like hunny makes me feel like I'm having conversation on my lonely days. And finally she just makes me happy overall. 😀✨
I'm pushing 70. Just writing this to let you know your parents and grandparents had bad dates, too.
First some historical references.
Drive-in theaters: yes, they could be real "passion pits."
Bench seats.
Woody Allen's early movies.
The last two, look up.
So, I was about 20, in my final year of community college, and had only had one boyfriend before this. There was this really "nice" guy in one of my classes that I had been chatting with. Also being a bit flirty. He was reasonably good looking, smart, and seemed more interested in science and art but not in a nerdy way.
Towards the end of the semester, he asked me out to a movie. I said yes and we arranged for him to pick me up at my house. I still lived with my folks.
He picks me up on time, we chat and laugh while driving to the movie.
This was in the 1970's and waaayyy before movie plexes. Honest to God we just had two movie theaters.
Anyway, he's NOT driving towards either of them. But, I'm young and dumb, thinking he might be headed for the interstate to drive to the next town over. Some of the surrounding towns had more theaters and different movies so it wasn't unusual to drive to a different town for a movie night.
Nope. Because off of the interstate was the town's third movie theater, the drive-in.
OK. He was kind of cute and, depending on the movie, a little making out might be fun.
Nope, again.
The movie was Woody Allen's, "Everything You Ever wanted to Know About Sex
* but Were Afraid to Ask." (Believe it or not, based on the book of the same name.)
So, we go in, get set up (you had to park next to a speaker, pull it inside the car, attach it to the window [via a couple of hooks] then roll the window back up.
Did I mention his car has bench seats?
So, he slides over and puts his arm around me. Then, we start to watch the movie. OK, not so bad. Maybe the movie will be so bad it will be funny talking about later.
Nope. Again.
As the movie progresses, his breathing gets heavier.
And heavier.
And heavier.
Luckily, the only thing he's done is just put his arm around me, nothing else.
And the heavy breathing? His breath was SO bad, it could have killed a horse.
I kid you not. Fogging up the windows, but not in a good way.
It's not like he'd eaten too much garlic or anything like that. Literally like manure. 7:26
I pretty much sat there trying to make myself as small as possible.
After what seemed like an eternity, he slid back over and asked me where I'd like to go next.
Home. I just said I had a project that I was working on and needed to get and early start.
When we got to my house, I hastily said, "Bye." bounded out of the car, and literally ran to my front door and then to my room. My dad was still up so the door was unlocked.
And that was my worst date.
Wow! You are a great story teller. I was totally invested.
Ma'am you should start a UA-cam channel and just tell us your stories!!! I'd be HOOKED!!! 😂❤
@@pokeydot1975 Thanks.
@@nitapitts6407 bad breath is the worst! I once went out with a guy whose breath was so bad it could peel the paint off a car. I told my friends and 25 years later he's still known as the "paint peeler" lol.
Hahaha thank you for sharing
Dang, that first guy can go sprinkle-sprinkle himself in the restroom. I'd say, "Sorry, he wants one ticket to Jurassic Park, I want a ticket to ____." If he has anything to say to that, he better call a taxi.
I was thinking I would have “gone to the restroom” and left the theater😂
I love the videos where women don't have a problem telling everyone how dumb they are.😆
I love you Charlotte!! I love hearing u talk makes my day so so much better!
Girl, I only watch these videos on your channel cuz I like your sense of humor. Don't listen to the jealousy people. Be you girl 🥰
Worst date : In the first 5 minutes, my date told me he needed to buy something quickly. I was like : sure, no problems. Then, I've watched him buy heroin in a phone booth.
2nd worst date : I said hi to a acquaintance during the date. Date's mind flipped completely and he started to insulte me. After 10 minutes of him ranting, I left home when he wasn't watching. I woke up the day after with 20 missed call and 50 death thread texts. He still contacted me 2 weeks after saying that he has been a "bit" too far and wanted to see me again because he really liked me.
I’m trying hard not to laugh at the first one because of the way it’s worded 😂 and also because I’ve had a similar date 😂 guy drove me to his dealers apartment and introduced me. I’m sitting there shaking the guys hand wondering how I got into this situation 😂😂
@@PotatoChipsterFrenchFryHipster It was one of my first date ever. I still stayed for the science and see what would happen.... just because my fucking curiousity and my politeness😂. I've seen him buy a aluminum foil in the chinese restaurant nearby. We ended up in a public toilets and I watched him chasing the dragon. He even proposed to share (such a gentlemen) but I definitely hard passed. Then, I found an excuse to leave 😂.
Okay here we go.
I (19F) chatted with a guy (19M) online, we did video chat I knew he was real who he was and it was a good time chatting. We decided to meet in person. He lived an hour and a half north of me. I asked about meeting in the middle and he said he couldn’t. So I agreed to come his way.
So the plan became: meet at his place, go to a book store, pick up a recipe book, find a recipe, go shopping for the ingredients then go back to his place and cook it together.
I get to his place and go to his apartment. Inside it was nice and his roommate was there. I wasn’t told he had a roommate so I was a bit surprised but he was cool. The roommate asked us what we were doing for our date, before I could answer Date said “she’s gonna cook us dinner” and I said “oh no we’re gonna cook together” and he just laughed.
After that we go outside and I asked where his car was and he told me “oh I don’t drive I just take the bus.”
“Oh… well okay I’ll drive more, but I don’t know how to get to the book store.” He proceeds to tell me he only knows how to get there via the bus routes and I said “okay let’s just follow that.”
30 minutes of drive (no GPS because of the year), 30 minutes to find a parking spot and we finally get into the book store where we picked a book. And by “we” I mean me because he ditched me to go somewhere else in the store. I bought the book we got into the car and I was fuming because he barely talked with me the whole trip he got us way too lost (it took us 10 minutes to get back his place). My excuse for us going back to his place was “let’s pick the recipe there so we can see what you already have.”
When we got to his apartment I told him the date is over and he ASKED IF HE COULD SEE ME AGAIN. I told him “No, this was a horrible date you wanted to force me to cook for you, you didn’t know where we were going, you got us lost after I drove an hour and a half to see you, you didn’t talk to me any portion of the drive, you ditched me in the book store and I bet you still wanted me to be the only one cooking and you’d ditch me. Get out of my car and don’t contact me again.”
He got silent and left my car.
Never saw him again. Thank god.
Wow
Love your response, Babe!
I would have ditched him in the bookstore
I’m glad that you cut your losses and bailed. 🙌🏽
@@darcy5761 seriously. It was nice of her to take him home. Let him take the bus
I LOVE your commentary! You are so funny and down to earth, you bring joy to my life! 🤣 You make these videos better! 😅
I come here for the commentary 😂❤ your videos get me through my day lol
lol I think the first guy thought that if he picked a movie she DIDN’T want to see, she’d have no excuse not to make out with him 😂 just out of sheer boredom
Honestly the way she was talking I didn't understand half of what she was saying. Maybe "Jurrasic World" was the only part he picked up.
@@olgabylund106"the way she was talking"? You can't understand Aussie accents? She made perfect sense.
"I'm easy, I'll watch anything except Jurassic World, I'm not really into dinosaurs" is pretty much what she said.
I'm HoH and most of these have subtitles, what excuse do you have? XD
@Roadent1241 I'm just replying because I also want to know the excuse of the person you replied to, so I need to be notified when they comment 😂
@@Roadent1241 Good for you. I have no idea what an HoH is and why I would need an excuse. I don't think her bad date had subtitles though.
@@olgabylund106you from the US?
He came with his mom...so she can "inspect" me if I was good enough for her baby boy....I was out of the restaurant in 10 min.. :)))) I laugh about it now
I invited a FRIEND/coworker (it was never more, never going to be more) to a group from work going to see a movie. He was a shy but nice guy, and nobody had asked him to join in before. I was driving simply because we both lived near one another, and I had my license and he didn't. Got to his house to find not just his parents and siblings, but his grandparents (both sides), cousins, aunts and uncles, a few close family friends, and his church minister. 🤔 Initially I thought they were having a party or something... Nope, they all wanted to be a part of his "first date". 😱 His dad verified my license, even calling the police department to see if I had any tickets or warrants, and made me show proof of insurance. 🤔 Then they took pictures as if we were headed off to Prom or something. This was a jeans and t-shirt sort of gathering. 🤣 It turned out that not only was this his "first date", but the 1st time he'd ever been invited to hang with friends in general. The only birthday parties he'd attended were for relatives even. I gave the family a great show. Then made sure to let him know I had a serious boyfriend, as kindly and tactfully as a 16/17yo could. I continued to include him in our friend outings, and eventually he actually started doing things without me being the one to invite him. He even hosted a small birthday gathering at his place, with actual friends who came. But his family always referred to me initially as his girlfriend, and eventually as his ex. 🤣💜 They really didn't need to know, as long as he understood. We're still FB friends to this day. I heard he got married, and his best man and groomsmen were fellow former coworkers of ours from that group. 💜
@@bethanyhanna9464What a nice story. It's so sweet you were instrumental in him coming out of his shell. 😊
@@bethanyhanna9464 you should put this in your own comment so it's not buried as a reply
Wow! Just...WOW!!! I'm familiar with the: "Helicopter Parent", but the entire multi generational extended family??? Your reactions to all this shows a stunning level of poise, kindness, and maturity. Yay you.@@bethanyhanna9464
As our Queen would say, "HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED?"
Your editor is on 🔥 as usual. And you’re amazing Charlotte!
Love love LOVE the sweater!!! That color looks so good on you!
When I dating, so many guys got angry when I expressed a safety boundary. The few times I bent those boundaries, I was assaulted.
I learned that ANY pushback at all when I expressed a safety boundary meant that person wasn't safe. DO NOT BE POLITE.
This, 100%. Once they smell weakness in your resolve, they push more and more. Everytime I fawned and ignored the red flags, bad things happened. I refuse to ignore them again. I'm sorry you experienced this as well 💜
"I'm sorry, that your biggest concern tonight was how much money you might have to spend. I have been concerned you may be a bad person planning on hurting me!!!!" We aren't the same!!!!! Lmfao!!!!
Ya because guys never have been attacked by psycho girls.
The sleep in the car story- after 11pm Sir I’m not going anywhere else so hand me my bonnet. Tf. Charlotte you’re easily one of my new fav peeps. I love that we’re besties. 😭💓💓😩🌼✨💖
Hearing you talk is the best part tho
Lol. I recently found your channel and have been binging the last week ❤❤
Many women are trained their whole lives to be “nice”. We’re taught to be nice from birth and even in adulthood, society enforces these messages. It can be very difficult to overcome, especially for certain personality types. I’m one of those personality types.
people need to replace the word "nice" with "doormat". Because you're not acting "nice" you're acting like a "doormat".
I'm one of those personality types as well. You wouldn't (or would) believe how many times I've been called a "bitch", or a "cunt". That's because I have certain boundaries, and I am blunt about them.
You can change your personality. I let people earn my nice.
A thousand percent.
I used to be, now they can eff off! 😂
When you said "hold the phone" in your sweet wee Scottish accent. I was already shouting "F OFF YOU CANNY BE SERIOUS" 😂😂 (I'm Scottish)
Best compliment! A Scot saying you do sound Scottish 😊
She’s 1000% NOT Scottish my dear. She’s Canadian.
@charlotte; you do know that Canadian and North American are quite new nationalities and that if she would take a DNA test it would tell her where she is from in the old world (Europe; England, Ireland, Scotland or south Europe)?
@@SiouxLotteenobody said she’s Scottish 😂
Men in America have guns, though. Several years after a few incidents where being nice was the only reason I lived, I took a self-defense class and one of the first things the instructor told us was "Compliance is a form of self-defense. If you feel like there's no other way to defend yourself, and your life is at stake, there is no shame in choosing to live."
After that class I sat in my car and cried. I had never felt so validated, and haven't been again since, but I think we all need to be told that we can choose to live no matter how we do it.
I love hearing your take on things!
I’m nearly 51. I’ve had so many bad dates, it could fill a book. I don’t date much now, but when I do, they still come up. You’d think men age 50+ would have figured it out by now, but nope.
Same. I didn't even tell a story on here because I don't have the energy to choose one from the archives. 🙄
Which men aged 50+ are you dating? What's your locale? I'm a 47-y-o West Indian and I've had it figured out since 18.
@@aaronwalcott513 I’m in Wisconsin. I tried an Indian man back in my 30s, and he was manipulated into an arranged marriage when he went home to visit his father in the hospital.
@@marcilk7534What, you dated one guy from a particular culture and that’s it for all guys from that culture? Also, you do know that India and the West Indies are two completely different places, right?
@@ddraigmafon4725 Lol, no just an example that one guy who has figured it out is great, but there so many out there who are not. Like finding a needle in a haystack. He actually was a great guy, but never had his own voice. Cultural thing I suppose. Oh, yeah I realize they’re different locations. I thought when you said West Indian that you meant from the western part of India, like people in India often describe themselves (or the cuisine) as South Indian or North Indian.
10:48 - just tell him: "just wait till I find her number, and you won't have a girlfriend anymore"
Exactly!! You can tell he does this all the time. The homeboys help him cheat by being his alibi and the girls he usually pulls this with probably just go with it bc they don’t wanna seem uncool around an attractive guy and his friends. Guarantee though his friends are just decoys and the “date” is always hanging out with them so that’s what he can tell his girlfriend🙄
I love your show. You make me laugh so much. Thank you for being you. 😊
I love when Charlotte talks she you makes my day and makes me laugh she's amazing 😍❤💯thank you so much for making videos for us🤗
“Not driving is a big red flag.”
*Cries in bad eyesight*
😂😭 I have horrendous double vision. They laughed me out of the ICBC 😂❤
Tbh people who say that are kind of a red flag themselves. It's the kind of person who tends to see red flags everywhere and be unable to seperate a real one from a little bit on an ick that could easily be overlooked.
Case in point, there were so many actual red flags throughout the date that girl described and she STILL went and acted like him not driving was worthy of mentionning... girl... Come on.
Not driving is not a red flag, there's so many reason why someone would not drive, including simply choosing not to.
There are other ways to get around.
There's many people out there who are just your average joe, with a normal life, job, friends, stable relationships and don't drive.
@@dramaticdog337Not driving isn't a red flag, it's a red flag if he doesn't drive AND cant get himself there regardless
@@dramaticdog337exactly.. I live in New York I choose not to drive.there’s plenty of ways to get around ..I have no problem taking public transportation or walking.. it’s just not a thought
Back in the late 90's, before there were online dating and dating apps, there were phone personal ads, where you could listen and respond to voicemail ads. I met someone this way, and we agreed to meet at a TGI Friday's the following Saturday night. When we met up there, he told me he didn't want to eat there and wanted to go to another restaurant instead. So I followed him in my car to another restaurant, but it turned out to be closed. He suggested I follow him to yet ANOTHER restaurant. As I'm following him, he picked up speed like he was trying to lose me! At a light, I stopped my car, got out, went over to his car, and told him to slow down. He told me to meet him in a shopping center parking lot up ahead. As soon as we pulled into parking spots, he backed out and drove away! To add insult to injury, it started to pour rain, and I got so upset while I was driving home that I ended up going taking a curve too fast and blew out two tires.
I'm sorry you went thru thay!
@@imajellybean4709thank you. Luckily, I met my wonderful husband in 2006 and married him in 2010. 😊❤️
Tell 'em girl... the reason we watch you is because we enjoy the enhanced commentary. You make it fun💕
We love to hear you talk, that's why we are here on your channel
I was at an art show selling prints of my art when this dude I thought was really attractive came up and started flirting. He bought a few prints and we exchanged info and everything, and not even a week later, he reached out to me and we made a date! I was so so excited, and the date was….a bit awkward. He actually came over to my house, met my family, and would NOT stop trying to put the moves on me (he did the “let’s compare hand sizes thing” and everything 😭), but he was nice enough and I still thought he was attractive, so we made a second date 😅 we went to the mall to see a movie, and then walked around some. That’s when his “mansplaining” side came out and he would NOT stop talking about himself; if I tried to say something he would have to “explain” it to me like I was a moron who didn’t know anything (he explained to me that a cookbook is a book with recipes in it 🤯) but the one good thing about that date was I found a copy of DOOM Eternal which has since become one of my favorite video games ever 😆 but long story short, everything kind of ended when I offered to go to an amusement park that was like 20 minutes away, and he offered to get an Airbnb for the night…for a 20 minute drive…on our third date. I decided I didn’t want to end up on dateline and called things off; MAJOR red flags that I’m glad I avoided 😭
Omg...guys who want to constantly "school" a Woman are the freaking worst!
Being nice is not a virtue. Being smart and knowing your worth is. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Being "nice" and becoming a victim is not a good thing
That part!!!!!
Kindness is a virtue, like not embarrassing someone for a stain. Being “nice” just means “no incoming consequences or effects”.
Chermside is so easy to get to though. There's so much public transport in the area (it's one of the main places you catch a bus to go to the footy or cricket) that it's probably easier to get there via public transport over driving.
And unless they went Gold Class and got a bunch of snacks, the cinema is barely more expensive than any other cinema in the area
I'm living for your reactions and side commentary 😂
I don't understand people downing
online dating...
Picture this.
Georgia.
Late 90's.
Gets hooked up with a cousin's husband
co worker.
Talked a few times on the phone and set up a date.
Date goes awesomely.
He invites me up for coffee.
I go to use his bathroom.
Hear noise from the television.
Come out to see a
full blown corn movie on said television.
And him bucket booty nekkid on the couch.
Moral of the story:
One can meet creeps and jerks anywhere. They dont only exist online.😅
Stay safe out there, Beautiful
French Fries!
Charlotte.. I have clinical depression and your videos are one of the few things I actually look forward to on weekly basis. So thank you.
Me too, I feel you !😊
Between Charlotte & Lexapro, life is infinitely better!
❤
Thanks for being here!
@@CharlotteDobre We need to know if you backseat drive when Mike's behind the wheel!
Whoever commented on you talking too much, sucks! You’re a whole vibe. The reason i love you and your channel. Keep doing you girl 😁
I love your commentary!! Your amazing and absolutely hilarious ❤, never going back to tiktok again bestieeee🤣❤️
Who needs Tiktok, when we have you Charlotte? Besides your comments are what complete these stories to perfect enjoyment 😂.
Oh, my gaaawdz! The second(?) one, with the girl whose date couldn't seem to separate himself from his buds? When he says his "Then why do I have a girlfriend for a year?" (or however he phrased it) - My brain snapped out with: "Because she was willing to settle. Or you're her side-piece."
Right? Why she didn't leave with th first stunt? I would be so afraid for my well being, I'd be our of there so fast
ive been trying to find emmas tiktoks forever!! thank youuu!
Your commentary is the best part! ❤
Well I didn't drive for 2 decades and was the butt of jokes from my family . My cousins who were younger than me had started driving and I was the only one who couldn't drive . mother was goading me every single day because she was feeling embarrassed on my behalf in front of her relatives . One day decided enough was enough and enrolled in a driving class much to the astonishment of my mother and other relatives . Practiced driving for two to three hours every day ( apart from the driving lessons ) for two months with my uncle shouting in my ear non stop . Happy to say I got my driving licence two weeks back . At the ripe age of 40+ . Now I am teasing my cousin who promised to get me a new car of my choice if I learnt to drive . 😊
I think it depends on where you live. I'm in one of the rare US cities with decent public transit, so many people here don't own a car. I have my license, but I haven't driven in like 7 years because I don't need to. Here, it doesn't necessarily signal a lack of independence the way it might in places where transit is minimal or nonexistent.
I honestly can’t ever go for my license glad I finally got a eye dr note to show everyone when they give me shit I can’t see off to my sides
I'm in the UK so we don't have to drive, I don't drive and I don't plan on learning to the insurance is just through the roof, the public transport is easy and cheap, alot of people don't drive, so I'm always like why is driving a red flag, there is so many who don't here men and women 😂
It’s not weird. Almost half of people who live in big cities with public transport, don’t know how to drive. My eldest who is 30 doesn’t drive. So it’s ok if you don’t drive. 😘
Drivers in my city are getting more and more aggressive. Giving me high anxiety 😅
Honestly growing up in the nineties with stranger danger I would have left the convo at the notion of me picking him up for the first meet up. That’s kidnapper end up on unsolved mysteries coded.
Im here just to listen to charlottes voice. ❤ i dont have tiktok and its like my bestie reacting to videos.
Charlotte, watching your videos is like watching TikTok tea with my bestie! ❤❤❤
I would have gone to the restroom 10 minutes into Jurassic and just left him there. Lol
I have had a lot of interesting dates but my favourite bad one:it was when i was 18/19 and i went on a date with this 23 yr old, we were sat in a cafe drinking tea. Just ordered some food and he was holding my hand and then leaned close to my shoulder and bit me. Full on bruised my upper arm. I, quite rightly, was like what the hell. He told me he thought "all girls like that twilight stuff".
Thankfully this older lady who works in the cafe rescued me and told him to pay and get out. I still go to that cafe but I never saw him again.
Yeah. We like that Twlight stuff in a movie, not on our arm!
I wonder if he was a cannibal?
I love when charlotte talks ❤ she’s my online bestie ofc I wanna hear her
I personally love listening to your jokes and silly rambles! Your videos always make me laugh❤️
"... Doesn't drive, that's a red flag."
My anxious ass that has had nightmares about car accidents since I was 8: "How rude! Those things are screaming metal death traps and you can't trust other people to operate them correctly or yourself to respond appropriately! It's a good thing I'm not on the dating scene..."
Same dude. Car accident when I was 11. I moved to NYC deliberately so I wouldn't have to drive.
I think its more brisbane red flag. Public transportation is not the best in that area. Chermside itself is easy to get to but those that don't drive in QLD are bit of a minority so most would find it a bit odd
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Also an anxious driver. Also as someone that lives in the same city, Chermisde is NOT easy to get to even by car.
This is why i dont own a car! I am so on the old fashioned model t haters against cars. I have 2 good feet and if its not walkable, im not going because i am not getting stuck somewhere i cant walk home from.
Stories like these (car "test drive") are why if I ever go o a date, I tell my closest circle and those I live with: where um going, who I'm going with, what we'll be doing, take a pic of what I'm wearing before I go, how long I should be gone AND be sure I have a third party involved as my ride there, and a code word for emergency pick up. All safety precautions. And I'm still alive after a few blind dates that went...weird. Make a code word for your closest in case of emergency.
Yes, I'm the same way. As a woman, I always tell someone about the date, usually my mom and best friend and tell them where, when, the person's details and their picture, etc. When I get home I'll also let them know. Safety is incredibly important, especially for women! Men should also be cautious and concerned with their safety too, but they are less likely to get hurt than women. But just because they are less likely to get hurt, it's never zero chances.
The best part is hearing Charlotte's take❤
I had to stop this a second after the video started because girl that pink looks SO GOOD ON YOU!!!
I accidentally brought a date to a first date. 🤦🏾♀️
I high school, a guy I liked and flirted with asked me if I wanted to ride with him to the local carnival. Considering we were best friends and he had a hopeless crush on my girl best friend and he often gave me rides, I didn't think anything about it. I invited another guy I liked and he agreed to meet me there.
At the carnival, the guy who invited me, Pat, offered to go on the ferris wheel with me, which was a big deal since he's deathly afraid of heights, but he did it for me. While we're on the ride and he's about to try to get romantic, I spy the date I asked to come walking through the crowd and call to him excitedly. Pat doesn't really say anything and looks uncomfortable.
Afterwards, my friends corner me to ask why I brought a date. I am confused and wondering why they care and they inform me that I was already on a date that he'd been planning with them for weeks! I felt horrible and just casually told the guy I'd invited that we should just chill with the group instead of on our own. He spent the night flirting with all of my friends and I went home humiliated. That guy ended up turning down an invite to the prom and went with my friend instead after telling me that the reason he turned me down was because he wasn't into dances.
As for what happened with Pat? Well, after I apologized for the confusion we remained close friends and I went to the prom with him instead. Long story short, we've been together for almost 28 years, happily married for 23 years and have 4 amazing children. The other guy was divorced a couple of times and I never hear about him. I made the right choice by marrying my best friend, even if I accidentally brought a date to our first date!
Awwww! To be fair, he should’ve (or at least your friends) given you the heads up, but it does give you a pretty decent story 😊.
Oooh, you look so cozy. I didn't think hot pink would look so good with red hair. But it really warms your skin tone. ❤ you look almost sun kissed
Oh thank you!
So true, Charlotte looks absolutely gorgeous in Pink.
Talk all you want because I FREAKING love you Charlotte! You literally make me laugh so hard.
Charlotte, the way you ‘powered down’ in the first clip - I lost my mind 😂
A man ordered a dish with mango after I'd told him I was allergic...Hospital visit for first date. I didn't call him back 😂
That means they don’t listen or care what you have to say. I had a 1st date plan a bar crawl after I told him in recovery & don’t drink.
I'm lucky, never had a terrible date.
Once about 20 years ago I was fixed up by friends in our social group. Nice guy, we had a lot in common just no chemistry. We went out on a couple of dates, we both acknowledged we weren't feeling it.
But we hung out as friends because we were afraid to tell our friends they sucked as matchmakers 😂
For the record I'm still friends with Pete and his lovely wife to this day.😊
Awe that’s too sweet.
Koolbeanz!!
@@erikarussell1142tu es mignonne également maman 😊
I dont use tiktok because i can't, and i love your rant ❤❤
Love that pink sweater! Looks absolutely perfect on you 😊❤
I'll never forget this guy who thought it was a good idea to bring me to a _TRACTOR MUD RACE_ for a first date. I physically heard me fanny triple locking the front door.
That kinda sounds fun
@@thecamillarose9806 I'll introduce you. 😆
I love listening to you rant, ramble, shout, all of it I’m here for it! Love you!
Yeeeessssss!!!!! I love listing to her talk. Period.
I adore your laughter omg
“Not an excuse but there’s your answer.” Had me dying 🤣
I’m a female and I need to say something about the sleeping overnight thing. You are your most vulnerable when you sleep…. The person next to you could smother you with a pillow and you wouldn’t be able to properly defend yourself.
Facts!
I thought us girls would be very happy to not stay with other people just because other humans.... Get itchy and don't care what state you're in.
THIS! No one is entitled to stay in your home. Even if they hooked up with you. It's like saying a man is entitled to your body after doing nice things for them.
I wanna say that it's kinda ironic she was acting like he was sketchy af and failing to realize SHE was the red flag in that relationship.
I mean girl acts like it's so quirky that she's a terribly driver and her bf had to drive her everywhere because she never bothered to just drive better and then goes one and says, out loud, "my room is super messy and i like sleeping in a clean room, but i'm not willing to clean for myself" and still goes on acting like she's not a forest of red flags.
Bro was rude af for sure, you don't tell your girlfriend to sleep in the car right after you smashed multipled times but she wasn't a perfect little angel either. If a man told me he wants to sleep in my room because he feels entitled to a clean bed even though he won't clean his own, i wouldn't want him sleeping in my bed either.
The boys not asking to sleep over cause it "means something" is the best example of boy math I've heard so far 😂
The squeal and gasp I made with you Charlotte when he said he had a girlfriend of one year. like SIR!!!! BFFR! I'm so glad I don't have many date stories. I thought mine were ehh but damn these were wild 😂😂😂.
This was a great Video. Hope you will do more of these if u can ❤❤