7 Subtle Signs of Emotional Abuse

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 роки тому +774

    Cat or dog? Comment below

    • @jbatesist
      @jbatesist 3 роки тому +33

      Dog

    • @1CT1
      @1CT1 3 роки тому +43

      Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!),,.,

    • @percolsin
      @percolsin 3 роки тому +72

      cat!

    • @djdwyane16
      @djdwyane16 3 роки тому +17

      Dog

    • @sheamusgrant
      @sheamusgrant 3 роки тому +14

      Dog

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 3 роки тому +1621

    1. they try to maintain the advantage 0:36
    2. they alter facts 1:49
    3. they undermine your intelligence 2:18
    4. they assasinate your character 2:53
    5. they make you feel bad 3:22
    6. they diminish your problems 3:49
    7. they act like a martyr 4:27
    I hope I could help!

    • @1CT1
      @1CT1 3 роки тому +21

      Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!)

    • @Unknown-fl1wu
      @Unknown-fl1wu 3 роки тому +7

      I think Im going to be a member in this channel

    • @tokiia_
      @tokiia_ 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you!

    • @feminico2613
      @feminico2613 3 роки тому +24

      @@1CT1 no thanks

    • @raddish69420
      @raddish69420 3 роки тому +8

      Ty but like- hOW DO YOU PEOPLE TIME TRAVEL TELL US YOUR SECRETS

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 роки тому +1366

    “Trust yourself. You’ve survived a lot, and you’ll survive whatever is coming.”

    • @commerce-usa
      @commerce-usa 3 роки тому +31

      True, even so. If you ever think you need a little help to get through life's rough spots, never be afraid to do so with a trusted resource. You don't always need to go it alone.

    • @crunchypastries713
      @crunchypastries713 3 роки тому +6

      That’s why we shouldn’t quit life ua-cam.com/video/jlbRSPvIUms/v-deo.html

    • @saramohamed.8403
      @saramohamed.8403 3 роки тому +4

      شكراا🥺
      Thank you🥺🥺

    • @Foxy-id6sn
      @Foxy-id6sn 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you see your message is giving me some hope for the future

    • @1CT1
      @1CT1 3 роки тому +5

      Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!)

  • @DomiAnimations
    @DomiAnimations 3 роки тому +623

    Feels like you’re describing that ONE person on the internet

  • @everlastingmind8603
    @everlastingmind8603 3 роки тому +697

    Hey, friend. Take this time to relax. Don’t overthink. Even if there is a problem, there is always a solution. Breathe, take care 💕

    • @kimberlybogert7031
      @kimberlybogert7031 3 роки тому +7

      I try too but thank you tho and same to you as well 🌺🌸💕

    • @crunchypastries713
      @crunchypastries713 3 роки тому

      Thank you ua-cam.com/video/jlbRSPvIUms/v-deo.html

    • @unknownpieceofskin6061
      @unknownpieceofskin6061 3 роки тому +1

      Thnxxx

    • @avatar5811
      @avatar5811 3 роки тому +1

      That little guy in the thumbnail looks like baby Sans from Undertale😍😍😍😍😘😘😘

    • @jode2889
      @jode2889 3 роки тому +2

      thanks

  • @B1rdy_
    @B1rdy_ 3 роки тому +119

    THE DISC ARC IN THE THUMBMAIL-
    *✨ IT’S BEAUTIFUL ✨ *

  • @liangailm.ilagan4153
    @liangailm.ilagan4153 3 роки тому +209

    Dream in the tumbnail is so fitting

  • @IvecYvek
    @IvecYvek 3 роки тому +84

    they yet again summoned a whole fandom XD

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 3 роки тому +31

    Whoever is trying to being you down,is already beneath you...

  • @Ominosam
    @Ominosam 3 роки тому +70

    I want to hug who makes these thumbnails, they're beautiful

  • @fei9472
    @fei9472 3 роки тому +152

    psych2go: are you sure we want all these different fandoms rushing to our comments?
    animator(s): yes.

  • @nayansiyadav269
    @nayansiyadav269 2 роки тому +12

    I am an abusive and toxic myself....thank you for making me aware of it ...I'll try to better myself.

    • @frosty8104
      @frosty8104 Місяць тому

      Like begets like... Betting you're like that because you were treated like that... I know I am

    • @reillygordon4882
      @reillygordon4882 25 днів тому

      Same

  • @thetravelingcarnival
    @thetravelingcarnival 3 роки тому +16

    We are a system who is still getting over an ex partner system.. Watching this now, they fit a lot of these behaviors. We were blinded by how much we trusted and loved them.. Now that we're finally out of that situation, we're aware of how terrible they were for us. These videos are extremely helpful and we are so thankful for this channel. Thank you 💖💖

  • @pp1.
    @pp1. 3 роки тому +178

    I LOVE THE THUMBNAIL SM- LIKE- IANSIWKSNS- I kinda miss the wars- and all of the lore- but I still love that Quackity is doing lore and bringing people who haven’t really been on the server :]

    • @furrycircuitry2378
      @furrycircuitry2378 3 роки тому

      Quagmire griffin

    • @bluehairedmiku1402
      @bluehairedmiku1402 3 роки тому +1

      There are amazing ppl in the Dream SMP like Tommy and Quackity but it's Dream and His fanbase who made it seem bad

    • @bchaotic905
      @bchaotic905 3 роки тому +6

      @@bluehairedmiku1402 Well, I saw a good analogy for that. Say, like, 1 person in every 10 000 is toxic, and there are 20 000 000 people. Its still a small percentage that is toxic, but its a lot of people when you look at it.
      Its unfortunate to see that Dreams whole fanbase is being labeled as toxic, but I agree its exhausting to deal with the crazy stans, who are overall being rude.
      Thanks for coming to my Tedtalk 😂

    • @michelle_2595
      @michelle_2595 3 роки тому

      @@bluehairedmiku1402 they are talking about lore or dream character on the dsmp, not actual dream

    • @bluehairedmiku1402
      @bluehairedmiku1402 3 роки тому

      @@michelle_2595 oh okay

  • @WillowTree-iy2vr
    @WillowTree-iy2vr 3 роки тому +82

    Yup, all of these sound familiar to me. *cough my ex boyfriend. But hey that over and done with. And I love the Dream and Tommy like animations it's so cute amazing work

  • @DJJezzebella
    @DJJezzebella 3 роки тому +13

    The thing I like the most about this particular video is the way it gave you the option to fess up to the fact that you might be the one who's the toxic person and even gives a small step by step as to how you can fix that with your relationships and people. I wish they would do that more often at the end in more of the videos.

  • @Ann.thesis
    @Ann.thesis 3 роки тому +11

    I realize I grew up around this sort of behaviour which explains why I have certain issues and why I have been attracting certain types of people into my life. Right now, working towards a better future and a better version of myself. Thank you for this reminder ❤

    • @decoy2636
      @decoy2636 3 роки тому

      Raised by cluster b people= attracted to cluster b people.
      Dirty rotten sorry souls one and all.

  • @dacmister
    @dacmister 3 роки тому +32

    Hey Psi,
    Just wanted to reach out to show my appreciation for the educational videos that y’all put out on UA-cam. In late 2020, I was going through quite a lot in my life which included contemplating ending my 2 year long relationship with my now ex-fiancé. Through your videos, I learned a lot about myself and the relationship that I had the misfortune of being wrapped up in. The concepts and worrying signs taught in your videos pointed out the red flags that I had either ignored or were lead to believe weren’t issues at all. It is honestly eerie when y’all describe some of these concepts and illnesses. It is like you are reading off a story or script of my life and trauma.
    I learned that I was being gaslighted, emotionally abused, overbearingly controlled, and being actively traumatized by a narcissist, and that I, myself, was conducting codependent behavior. I never would have ever thought that I would ever be caught up in a toxic relationship and be the abused. And your videos gave legitimacy and credence to my suspicions of being in-fact abused and the courage to finally push me to breaking ties for my own well-being. And I love the care put into the videos to even point out that abusers, even narcissistic ones with the likes of my ex, might not even know they are exhibiting abusive behavior or do these things maliciously. But you also pointed out that their ignorance does not give them an excuse to partake in these acts. It has helped me heal a lot along with the immense support of the friends and family I had neglected while being in that very bad situation. I am blessed in that regard.
    And I do understand that seeking professional help will probably be the best next move. I am not actively doing so, but it has now been put on my radar to pursue when my current circumstances can accommodate that.
    Again. Thank you SO MUCH! Words really cannot begin to describe how much I appreciate learning about my own shortcomings. I honestly only hope that my ex can find these videos and seek help for herself.
    Regards,
    A fan

    • @_dreamscape
      @_dreamscape 3 роки тому +4

      I dealt with a very similar situation in 2020 with my ex fiance. Really proud of you for finding courage and strength to recognize that you’re worth being treated well and not abused 💞

    • @AustinOzGraham
      @AustinOzGraham Рік тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad you’re on a healing path from your experiences and growing! This channel really is a blessing. Be well.

  • @arminslover6745
    @arminslover6745 3 роки тому +19

    dream as the thumbnail fits so well

  • @unnamed724
    @unnamed724 3 роки тому +29

    I don't know how but psych2go just literally listed down everything i struggle with everyday haha i must be so intoxicated. I was thinking how this is just a typical conversation with my mom. What kind of person i am for thinking this is my normal.

  • @Urfav0rit3_st4rg1rl
    @Urfav0rit3_st4rg1rl 3 роки тому +41

    You keep summoning fandoms huh psych2go? I found you a couple years ago because of the toxic father daughter relationship video.

  • @southerncatlady
    @southerncatlady 3 роки тому +13

    One of these alone is hurtful. All of them together can absolutely crush a person's soul 😢

    • @southerncatlady
      @southerncatlady 3 роки тому

      @Gemma Dann yes, because then, they have convinced everyone (especially themselves) that they are in the right, and you DESERVE the abuse and mistreatment

    • @southerncatlady
      @southerncatlady 3 роки тому

      @Gemma Dann yep... Unless you manage to break the cycle

    • @southerncatlady
      @southerncatlady 3 роки тому

      @Gemma Dann yes. And it's rarely easy, but it's always worth it!

  • @samiazag6618
    @samiazag6618 3 роки тому +53

    lol, anyone here is watching this and picture their parents doing that and now you know you grow up in a toxic environment? no? probably just me

  • @teenicolej3599
    @teenicolej3599 3 роки тому +10

    You all have helped me identify so many things that I honestly would have overlooked in the people that were close to me and even dissect things that I overlooked within myself

  • @mimisart
    @mimisart 3 роки тому +9

    Yup. Experienced some of this in my (now behind me) marriage. The sad thing is that they don’t see that they are doing this to you. So until you completely sever all ties (If possible) they will always treat you this way which says everything about them.

    • @raerussell8116
      @raerussell8116 Рік тому

      MiMi’s Art how hard was it for you to walk away? Did you feel moments of guilt for leaving and hurting him and think you should go back?

  • @abbysworld05
    @abbysworld05 3 роки тому +37

    I don’t get why there’s people in this world that say things like that’s nothing cuz I went through worse, even if that’s true that’s no reason to downplay how others feel because everyone’s emotions and experiences matter and shouldn’t be downplayed just because it’s worse because everyone should feel heard

  • @Trash_Bunni
    @Trash_Bunni 3 роки тому +28

    They really put dsmp lore on the thumbnail
    (Disc arc, and Exile)

  • @cherylduckworth8185
    @cherylduckworth8185 3 роки тому +2

    I just started shaking my head. It's yes yes and yes. I went with a fella that was all about him. He even had the nerve when I did mention something about myself to tell me I talked about myself all the time. I don't know how I could have talked about myself all the time because I couldn't get a word in edgewise with all his bragging and talking about himself. This video is completely validating. Thank you once again for excellent video

  • @shortsbyomega4096
    @shortsbyomega4096 3 роки тому +21

    I don't know how I'm here, but honestly- this is really good advice! I'll keep this in mind!
    (it's also still adorable!)

    • @1CT1
      @1CT1 3 роки тому

      Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!),,,.

    • @shortsbyomega4096
      @shortsbyomega4096 3 роки тому

      @Big Smoke It's my secret talent, y'know?

  • @tokiia_
    @tokiia_ 3 роки тому +17

    DISC DUOO:((
    I MISS THEM FIGHTING EACH OTHER....

  • @LadyFurina24
    @LadyFurina24 3 роки тому +35

    The thumbnail perfectly explains what dream and tommy was like when tommy was in exile.

  • @Jenngail22
    @Jenngail22 Рік тому +2

    I am currently in an abusive relationship, working too get out. I know what it’s like to be told on a daily basis how useless you are, how none will ever want my ass, how I am a loser, and because I am now disabled and can’t walk well or work he uses that against me. For example, I was so sick yesterday I couldn’t even get out of bed, he told me too take it easy and after work he would run too get what I need. He came home and because I said something in what he said was “a sarcastic tone of voice, that he wasn’t going too the store”. So advance till this morning, as sick as I am, i get up make his coffee and go to make his lunch, there’s no bread, and that’s a problem,cause he literally only wants sandwiches for his lunch. But he was supposed to go to the store for me the evening before and bread was on that list. But ofc when I tell him he can’t have sandwiches for lunch 💥 💥 yup he lost it, even though it’s his fault. So before he just left for work, and mins you it’s 7 am here, he screamed and yelled and berated me for 30 mins before he just left. So now my day is ruined cause it started ok but he took that away as usual.

  • @vickfrankenstein
    @vickfrankenstein 3 роки тому +12

    So literally the whole internet.

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 3 роки тому +2

    This information described my experiences . Toxic people must be avoided. Toxic is lethal.

  • @a_carroll
    @a_carroll 3 роки тому +873

    dream smp fans seeing thing be like:
    DUDUDUDU

    • @pp1.
      @pp1. 3 роки тому +10

      YES-

    • @glitchbreak4970
      @glitchbreak4970 3 роки тому +8

      YESSSS

    • @lulemmie9290
      @lulemmie9290 3 роки тому +5

      YES🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

    • @amayadtu
      @amayadtu 3 роки тому +3

      YUH

    • @glitchbreak4970
      @glitchbreak4970 3 роки тому +3

      @Carolina Alonso HELLO ITS MS BERRY
      Ayup

  • @Ruinedsylass
    @Ruinedsylass 3 роки тому +99

    I love how they added the dream smp-

  • @SuperBlessedKing
    @SuperBlessedKing 3 роки тому +7

    Such great advice. Thank you and we appreciate your incredible work.
    ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @sanjidakamal5068
    @sanjidakamal5068 3 роки тому +1

    Dear speaker, I missed you in the last video. Thanks for coming back 😄

  • @yusra8376
    @yusra8376 3 роки тому +4

    the 5th one is so common for me. I'm happy im away from that. it was heartbreaking

  • @kirstenandrews3964
    @kirstenandrews3964 3 роки тому +1

    i’m grieving for my father that’s still here but will tell my brother behind my back “i know i i should have treated her better but oh well now” like i endured physical and emotional abuse for for over 10 years DAILY 24/7 he didn’t have a job and stayed home all the time. he’s getting old he is already 65. ive tried bringing it up with him and he denied it or said it was discipline, discipline is meant to encourage you to do better you can learn to do better when you all you can think about is fear. now i have severe social anxiety, generalized anxiety, severe depression, derealization disorder, OCD, and CPTSD. i don’t even know who i am as person. i don’t feel real. i feel like everything is fake. i can’t talk to anyone. i can’t get a job i can’t even get out of bed. everything is so threatening and raw and scary. i hate people and feel hopeless for humanity. i’m a dead soul living inside a human body just hanging on because i’m not dead yet.

  • @gamerdogkawaii6666
    @gamerdogkawaii6666 3 роки тому +62

    Aww.....Wait....DREAM AND TOMMY?!? ....*exile arc flashback*

  • @Nidhi.Kapoor
    @Nidhi.Kapoor 2 місяці тому

    Those signs hit hard. Emotional abuse is so toxic yet often overlooked.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 роки тому +8

    The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.

  • @mrshaun3001
    @mrshaun3001 3 роки тому +1

    I used to have a friend who has like this.
    Yet my mom found out and made me not be friends with them.
    It helped so much, They used to tell me ways to die and yet when i was sad they’d say “You’re amazing!!”
    It’s hard. Im glad i left them.

  • @ogsupremelyvida
    @ogsupremelyvida 3 роки тому +3

    The art style is to die for! The voice effects are cool too!

  • @Duvstep910
    @Duvstep910 3 роки тому +1

    I can never get enough of this channel and the art style. I'm glad i found this community when I did

  • @rainfalls.ribcage
    @rainfalls.ribcage 3 роки тому +68

    I realized I did most of these. Damn, I need to change these toxic traits.

    • @lorettagrey7383
      @lorettagrey7383 3 роки тому +27

      Self awareness is key, my dude 💛

    • @junkoenoshima2756
      @junkoenoshima2756 3 роки тому +6

      Hope it goes well for you and remember pacience is key to changing behaviour

    • @spades_of_darkness
      @spades_of_darkness 3 роки тому +10

      self awareness is the first step in the right direction

    • @eveharris30
      @eveharris30 3 роки тому +2

      Do you know why you do this.

    • @rainfalls.ribcage
      @rainfalls.ribcage 3 роки тому

      @@lorettagrey7383 Thank you, friend.

  • @certifiedhamster
    @certifiedhamster 3 роки тому +2

    Me who's been watching this channel for almost a year and just now noticing the DSMP thumbnails: DOUBLE POG

  • @rehanmomin8458
    @rehanmomin8458 3 роки тому +36

    Now we know even Psych2go watches the dream team xD

  • @impreciousnhissight
    @impreciousnhissight 3 роки тому

    Thank you for these outstanding videos! I'm in the midst of severing a business relationship w someone who is furious that I expressed displeasure w THEIR highly offensive, humiliating & inappropriate comments in a class setting. We have to interact for 6 more weeks. For those who pray, sure would appreciate some prayers. Shaking as I type this. I was to respond properly & not react to the intimidation. Thank you & God bless anyone else who is reading this because they are being emotionally abused

  • @ChaosMagik
    @ChaosMagik 3 роки тому +16

    What if you’ve noticed these habits in a person and when you point it out to the individual they say they didn’t mean to do it. Except they keep doing it anyway...

  • @samuelwong1596
    @samuelwong1596 3 роки тому +1

    5, 6, 7 relates to the one i was in for 2.5 years..
    Psych2Go together with other many motivational talks and binural music has helped me make a decision to cut it off totally recently as i was slowly loosing myself both mentally and emotionally.
    Took me a year to have the courage..
    Thank you Psych2Go

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing. We're glad this video has helped you somehow!

  • @Saphiera270
    @Saphiera270 3 роки тому +5

    i was a victim of all of this during my first few years of college, literally worst time of my life 😭😭😭

  • @maha_sage
    @maha_sage 2 роки тому +2

    I've dated toxic abusers but I never just took it lying down... I would also meet them the same way. But that allowed them to say that I was the bad one.

  • @doctordl7757
    @doctordl7757 3 роки тому +28

    Can you guys please do a video of "Eight-grader syndrome"

  • @Emi_Tempi
    @Emi_Tempi 3 роки тому +1

    I do sometimes the 3. but mostly because I am genuinely surprised.
    Like "I didnt know you could do that" and mostly followed by a compliment like "thats cool" or if they did something I'd only expect from good players "you're pretty good at this/smart".

  • @quaffles9194
    @quaffles9194 3 роки тому +15

    I watched number three and though: is my brain toxic to me?

  • @DiusStarlight
    @DiusStarlight 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for making these very educational videos. I personally cannot relate to this but you are likely helping many people so on behalf of those you are helping thank you.

  • @westnekon2106
    @westnekon2106 3 роки тому +5

    *Sees thumbnail* WHO DARES TO SUMMON ME?!

  • @j1nxstr3ss12
    @j1nxstr3ss12 2 роки тому +1

    i personally am starting to recognize that i tend to act this way towards my partner without realizing it and i'm starting my process of working on it. i feel so terrible about the fact that i've been doing these things and i will happily work on my ability as person

  • @iamthe7nationarmy788
    @iamthe7nationarmy788 3 роки тому +5

    These dream smp thumbnails on mental health videos make me very happy and intrested 💞

  • @briamartin888
    @briamartin888 9 місяців тому

    I’ve been going insanely crazy wondering what I’m doing wrong. Trying my best to discuss things maturely because I love him. But he is emotionally abusive. This video describes him. I literally chuckled at a few because I’m in utter shock.

  • @Virt05
    @Virt05 3 роки тому +5

    1:12 the dream amp in a nutshell

  • @ProtoPurity
    @ProtoPurity 3 роки тому +2

    This comment is just to say thanks to the P2G team, from animators to narrators and editors.
    Thank you so much

  • @Eloquent_Top_Hats
    @Eloquent_Top_Hats 3 роки тому +9

    Oh my- the thumbnail i- i don't know what im feeling right now-

    • @1CT1
      @1CT1 3 роки тому

      Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!),,..

    • @Trash_Bunni
      @Trash_Bunni 3 роки тому

      Same-

    • @mingsipeng4708
      @mingsipeng4708 3 роки тому

      How are you so early-

    • @Eloquent_Top_Hats
      @Eloquent_Top_Hats 3 роки тому

      @@mingsipeng4708 I'm a magician, don't worry about it-

  • @sivaphoenix6453
    @sivaphoenix6453 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you these videos have helped me help others and myself and I'm glad I found your channel really helped me and the people I care about I'm grateful for that and I always look forward to seeing your next video each one always helps me

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Glad we could help :) Did you relate to this video?

  • @heyitsdea2869
    @heyitsdea2869 3 роки тому +4

    Never sacrifice your mental health at any cost. 💞

  • @xq_irw
    @xq_irw 3 роки тому

    Thanks for summoning a fandom!

  • @mingsipeng4708
    @mingsipeng4708 3 роки тому +30

    The thumbnail just expressed DSMP perfectly when Tommy was in exile(spoiler alert)
    EDIT: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THEY CHANGED IT ;-;
    anyway it was dream holding the discs above tommy's head :p

  • @chrisz8585
    @chrisz8585 3 роки тому +1

    This channel at times feels like the friends Idon't have, but wish I did. Thank You.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Our pleasure! We're happy to help!

  • @aki_nya_164
    @aki_nya_164 3 роки тому +13

    Do we count as crazy if we're like old and we're still thinking about imaginary life, character or people as the person that we love? And cry even tho their aren't real?

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol 3 роки тому +2

      Having fantasies doesn't make you crazy. If you truly believe things that most reasonable people don't recognize as reality or see/hear imaginary people, then that could be a psychotic symptom. But if you can recognize these imaginary characters aren't real and you don't see or hear them, then engaging in fantasy isn't abnormal.

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol 3 роки тому +1

      It may be worth exploring attachment and connection to a love that can never be fulfilled. Is it to avoid risks associated with genuine love? How can you experience a deep love for character you've never met. Is there a reason you seek to escape from realities of your life?

  • @cookieDaXapper
    @cookieDaXapper 3 роки тому

    These are getting so much better, there are options for solutions at the end which seem to fill the comment section with positivity; VERY nice. PEACE, and God bless.

  • @aditiagrawal4896
    @aditiagrawal4896 3 роки тому +4

    my gut feeling says that my bestie is toxic..... she shows all of these behaviours....

  • @Trick-Framed
    @Trick-Framed 3 роки тому +2

    These are all my wife's go to tactics and after years of living with her I started doing them back to her, to show her how it felt and WHOA BOY did that get me beaten. I can take a lot of physical abuse, so I just let her for years. When I finally started curling into a ball, I still got beat. Tried to pretend to be asleep? Still got beat. When she knew I was definitely sleeping, she'd punch me in the kidneys or sometimes my head. I'd wake up and she'd be all still but not snoring so I knew. She got help and started to get much better. Then she stopped taking the meds, switched doctors and therapists and now it's worse than it's ever been with everything but the beatings. After her 5th DV she finally stopped hitting me while awake. In fact she went 2 years without threatening my life. That ended last night when she threatened my life again. I just do not know what to do. I don't even know where to start. We have a 9 year old daughter. I am frightened for her.

  • @DhananjaySingh-px9fc
    @DhananjaySingh-px9fc 3 роки тому +3

    Wow this is my mother's biography. Nice.🙃

  • @genxhustler
    @genxhustler 3 роки тому +2

    Virtually impossible not to find at least one of these traits in a person. We are all toxic in some way... just steer clear of ones that exhibit more than 2

  • @kkyzz
    @kkyzz 3 роки тому +11

    "So how much Dream Smp do you want in your video?"
    Psych2Go: *Yes*

    • @Bottleofwater-n5y
      @Bottleofwater-n5y 3 роки тому

      And this time, Is accurately describing dream for the social climber he is

    • @annalieses7960
      @annalieses7960 3 роки тому

      @@Bottleofwater-n5y Can you please stop hating on Dream here? You may not like him, but that doesn't mean you get to spread that hate onto this community.

    • @Bottleofwater-n5y
      @Bottleofwater-n5y 3 роки тому +1

      @@annalieses7960 After what his fanbase did? Sending death threats to those people Who said that he cheated his speedruns and How he Just let them loose and do wathever they wanted?
      No

  • @juiipertt
    @juiipertt 3 роки тому +1

    *the constant references i love this channel.*

  • @samuelhere41
    @samuelhere41 3 роки тому +5

    I'm kinda a toxic person myself

  • @valentinabg09
    @valentinabg09 3 роки тому +1

    My mother has some of these traits, my father has a few others... I'm still learning how to deal with this

  • @MomentsInTrading
    @MomentsInTrading 3 роки тому +19

    This video mentioned ‘mansplaining.’ A lot of women don’t really understand what that means. Here, let me break it down for you…..

  • @sarah_002
    @sarah_002 3 роки тому

    How you always know what I am searching for??? Every mood or situation I have, a few hours later you publish a video about it. Thanks! 😁❤️

  • @maxim_ssc
    @maxim_ssc 3 роки тому +10

    1:29
    oh no dream, how could you! :D

    • @user-tr3jw1df6q
      @user-tr3jw1df6q 3 роки тому

      Lol

    • @maxim_ssc
      @maxim_ssc 3 роки тому

      @@user-tr3jw1df6q Lol

    • @galaxy_mooncat779
      @galaxy_mooncat779 3 роки тому

      It’s Tommy

    • @maxim_ssc
      @maxim_ssc 3 роки тому

      @@galaxy_mooncat779 lol

    • @1CT1
      @1CT1 3 роки тому

      Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!),...

  • @tasiacross5173
    @tasiacross5173 3 роки тому +1

    It's like you always know what to post for me. This happens to me with family

  • @clairemedeiros
    @clairemedeiros 3 роки тому +9

    when most of these apply to ur mom

  • @chrissy34787
    @chrissy34787 3 роки тому

    All I can say is NARCISSISSSSSSSSSST. That video is 100000% everythingggg that I have gone through that most people will never understand as to how it’s done, how they sneak it in on you and then destroy you. The gaslighting will have your brain in recovery for years! 😞🤕 🩹

  • @kryptos6478
    @kryptos6478 3 роки тому +5

    Thumbnail - Tommy and Dream
    Tommy and Dream sitting on a Tree Branch
    Dream holding the disks in front of Tommy
    Dream resting his arm on Tommy

  • @uwubakaoneechan
    @uwubakaoneechan 3 роки тому +2

    This is my favorite artist

  • @gingeriuvenis-femina9106
    @gingeriuvenis-femina9106 3 роки тому +5

    What if someone is unintentionally being toxic? Can it still be called toxic? Idk

    • @derdinohorst
      @derdinohorst 3 роки тому +1

      I think im a unintentional toxic person and think that even If It's intentional or unintentional It's still toxic and should also be called Like this

    • @gingeriuvenis-femina9106
      @gingeriuvenis-femina9106 3 роки тому

      @@derdinohorst okay thank you 👍Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @dunknown1398
    @dunknown1398 3 роки тому +1

    2:53 oh my god...now I'm glad I quit going to that place to get so call help😭😭😭😭😭
    There's people out there really do that type of mess..it's sad
    Ima still go therapy...but not that place nor even wirh them people ever again...

  • @ashuzisar
    @ashuzisar 3 роки тому +6

    I’m sorry, I have been called from the thumbnail.. I must say the artists drew dream and Tommy cuter than they need to be

  • @brees5697
    @brees5697 3 роки тому

    As Jerry Flowers says, "Gossipers and people like that, getting close to you to have the last word on you/who you are". This is why I cut ties with everyone who seemed like a covert narc or using my vulnerablability to gaslight and misdirect me.

  • @midnightstatic9437
    @midnightstatic9437 3 роки тому +6

    It’s the consistent dream smp thumbnails for me

    • @fish8337
      @fish8337 3 роки тому

      lmao half of us clicked for that

    • @midnightstatic9437
      @midnightstatic9437 3 роки тому +2

      @@fish8337 I was watching the channel already but I love it-

    • @fish8337
      @fish8337 3 роки тому

      @@midnightstatic9437 yeah I've been a fan for awhile the smp stuff just makes it a little more funny to watch lmao

  • @karoshi2
    @karoshi2 2 роки тому +1

    Was married to a covert narc, things didn't go well, we went to a marriage counselor who gave me the advice to open up with my vulnerabilities. I did, not yet knowing what narcissism is, and still believing in the gaslit reality I was told. (Even assumed at some point I might have Alzheimer's due to all the "wrong" or "missing" memories I had. But that's another story.)
    Basically immediately that was weaponised, attacks now specifically targeted my traumas. In hindsight that's when I started realising that something isn't right here.
    So actually it was a good advise in the end, although just because it woke up my ability to rise and resist. I lowered my shield, giving the narc the ability to hurt, and hurt they did, revealing their true nature.
    Ffwd: narc is gone, karma hit them hard, which I pity but can't help, and won't try to. The smear campaign quickly decluttered my circle of (mostly false) friends, which is good as I'm an introvert. All in all a whole new level of peace and freedom. Thanks, narc! I needed that lesson.

  • @brokencrayon9795
    @brokencrayon9795 3 роки тому +25

    DSMP LORE is perfect for this

    • @mingsipeng4708
      @mingsipeng4708 3 роки тому +2

      Yep

    • @roseswonderland8757
      @roseswonderland8757 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @Animallover24678
      @Animallover24678 3 роки тому

      yesd

    • @Bottleofwater-n5y
      @Bottleofwater-n5y 3 роки тому

      It wasn't about the lore, It was about describing dream and his fanbase

    • @Celens
      @Celens 3 роки тому

      @@Bottleofwater-n5y Nah look Dream is holding Tommy's disc and you can see also see Tommy in the Art it's about DSMP Lore not about Dream and his fanbase

  • @arianabrown8803
    @arianabrown8803 3 роки тому +1

    It’s crazy how this video described my “friend” exactly

  • @nebul4677
    @nebul4677 3 роки тому +9

    Pretty much this whole video is just Dream bullying Tommy 🥲

  • @jimmer4789
    @jimmer4789 3 роки тому +2

    love tommy and dream being the thumbnail

  • @justagamingpossum2915
    @justagamingpossum2915 3 роки тому +3

    Me a genshin impact and dsmp fan: erm, WELL THIS IS ODD

  • @selfworthgroup4361
    @selfworthgroup4361 3 роки тому +1

    Toxic behaviors are those destructive things which we do, or allow, that rob us of being truly happy. We all deserve to be happy, but if you’re not truly happy, you’re unlikely to be healthy mentally, emotionally and even physically.

    • @shywolf3968
      @shywolf3968 2 роки тому

      I don't think anyone enjoys staying in a toxic relationship, it's more of the fact that there's very little you can do to get out of it. Setting boundaries? A narcissist fails to realize what they're doing wrong. The majority of people, the authorities and strangers gaslight you and are too scared to confront the abuser themself. The abuser can threaten to kill you, financially abuse you, and won't allow you to leave them. People think leaving an abuser is so simple and yet do not consider these things.