It’s one of those situations where it could be better but it’s not as bad as she is making it out to be especially with how some fathers out here treat their families
maybe she would talk to you like that if you where actually in her life and an involved parent? if you are gonna act like an atm mechian to your kids they will treat you like one. you actually have to spend time with them, bond with them, be a father figure
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
Her father sounds like a pretty great person, she on the other hand seems like she lives on social media looking for attention from other idiots who believe everything should be handed to them without contributing
Online media has ruined the idea of what a family unit looks like. It's not always rainbows and sunshine and let's go play MONOPOLY every Friday night at the family table and talk about our week and the goals we have for next week. And I don't thinks she realizes how hard some parents work. They may want to spend time with their kids but they are so out of it after work that they just want to rest and recuperate. And their weekends are probably the only time they get away from the work life, God forbid he doesn't work on weekends too.
im actually supporting your argument that his dad made her this fat filled her tummy and did everything and she says her dad is bad an a furniture disgrace social media has ruined the influemce@@grandpacereal1549
He still wasnt an involed parent no matter the reason. all he was was an ATM mechian. if you are gonna act like an atm mechian to your kids they will treat you like one. you actually have to spend time with them, bond with them, be a father figure. and yeah i get having work all the time and being busy but its more than just that. its not saying a love you, its not having simple 5 min conversations, its your child never having nay physical contect from you since they where a CHILD. i had a dad like this. i never saw him as my dad and sadly i could never really love him. we never had that father child relationship and thats what so many kids also have. yes its great hes providing for his family, but his kids don't even see him as family. there is no excuse to be disconnected from you kids. there are single parents out there who work night and day shifts yet still find time to drop off/pick kids up from school, say i love you, give hugs and have conversation with their kids. and even if its once in a blue moon, do something with them.
“My dad isn’t there for me”, “he holds no vaIue for me.” “I want you as a father but go away and get me my monthly money” This is already annoying and childish, he really should have taught her some respect
He couldn’t show her no respect because he wasn’t present in her life. Adding value to a household doesn’t mean you are adding value to an individual. The circumstances of him working his butt off doesn’t mean reality just completely disappears. He added no value to her life, she is 100% right about that. That is why she doesn’t know what respect is. If he was there to teach her that instead of working all day and night she would have a different outlook on it. Does it sucks that she’s doing this to him yes but she isn’t wrong here at least what she saying. There was no value added to her life
@@siddiq069 she didn’t say he had no value she said “he added no value to MY life” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ what is wrong with you guys. Why do you assume one thing when she said the complete opposite. You guys are bafoons. She never said he had no value. At this point I think you guys want to complain to complain.
@@officiallytrustissues5411 exactly people are conflating the two. Just because you had value to a household doesn’t mean you add value to that individual. In order for you to add value to an individual you have to motivate, guide, maybe give them an understanding, teach, etc. he did none of that. All he did was pay bills and sleep. That adds no value to anyone. The problem with people is that they think paying bills teaches a person about morals, life, and respect and right or wrong. It doesn’t. When you add value to a persons life, your presence, your teachings etc will guide them to making better decisions, using your teaching to understanding how to deal with people, understand daily concepts etc. he did non of that
@@TruCunt Her saying that he added no value, is the sane as he had no value. She is delusional as of now. The mother is abusive and the dad is gone. She can't change how the father works. She assumes he's lazy and can get money so easily. She probably never even bothered to talk to him if she is like this. She could've told her dad when he got home. Like Pegasus said, the fathers try to keep the problems to themselves, and try to shield you. The dad MOST LIKELY never thought there was a problem because she never said anything.
"my dad isn't there for me" "i want you as a father".... But everytime he tries to be a "father" to her, she pushes hip away like wha-? Get your logic together and pick if you don't want him to be as your father so he can disown you, or if you actually want him to be your father and bond
its kinda to late now...she no longer a child and he wasnt there when she actually needed him. so many dads are not involved in thier kids lives but act like ATM machines thinking its enough. my dad never say i love you, last timed he hugged me was when i was a baby. we never once did anything together. never had a conversation really. there is no excuse for this. if you dont show your kids love as children tehy wont as adults. if you act like an ATM machine they will treat you as such. ive know people who work night and day shits, who still tell there kids they love them, somehow find time to drop the off and pick them up from school, make dinner and once in a while do somthing with them. if you dont make a mom or dad connection with your kids that's your fault.
My dad goes out of town to work and won't even show up for like a month at times but he is someone who has value in the family whether he is prominent in my upbringing or not
How dare you have respect for your father who sacrifices for his family. Maybe you should work on being more entitled and unappreciative like this girl. 💀
@@bradblumhof6917 thats not the issue here. when their dad gets back he probbaly showers his kids with love, many dads dont. so many dads are not involved in thier kids lives but act like ATM machines thinking its enough. my dad never say i love you, last timed he hugged me was when i was a baby. we never once did anything together. never had a conversation really. there is no excuse for this. if you dont show your kids love as children tehy wont as adults. if you act like an ATM machine they will treat you as such. ive know people who work night and day shits, who still tell there kids they love them, somehow find time to drop the off and pick them up from school, make dinner and once in a while do somthing with them. if you dont make a mom or dad connection with your kids that's your fault.
@lilaross-cz8zr if you're going to take it to this level, we're both in the wrong bc neither of us know what it was really like in their house growing up. Unfortunately, there are far too many dad's like you described or just completely nonexistent but there are also plenty of dad's who have been badmouthed by the mother so much that the kids won't even give him a chance to be a good father. We don't really know for sure and it's near impossible to know. I stand by my comment bc the OP is showing appreciation for her dad who was there for her but had to sacrifice a lot of time to give them the life they had while being the best dad he could in his time off. Some kids never show appreciation for the sacrifices their parents make and fathers seem to get the worst of it since, typically, men don't get as much time to spend with their kids as mothers do. IOW, there are bad mother, fathers, and children and we don't know definitively which one(s) are in the wrong in this case.
“My dad adds zero value to my life… He just sends me money once a month.” She cannot actually be this stupid, can she? Best thing her father could do for her is to stop sending money.
At first I thought “Aw she wishes her dad was around more. What a sad and unfortunately common problem” But I sure as hell wasn’t expecting her to say what she actually did 😶 if he adds 0 value to ur life, then stop using up his money and living in his house then
I like how she lamented rarely seeing him around and a few seconds later she literally complained that when he's home from work on sick leave she feels like he's "in her space." Some people just can't be pleased. (side note: For some reason she looks like she smells weird.)
At least she still has a father, some people don’t even have that. Some people have deadbeat dads, some people have lost their dads; I lost mine to cancer last year. Hearing her say he adds no value and she doesn’t care if her dad is sick genuinely pissed me off as someone whose had to watch their own father die slowly and painfully to a disease we caught too late.
My dad is an absent father too. He lives with us but only comes home on the weekends and we don't have the best relationship but I wouldn't diss him like that
Do you spend time with him? I know it should be him who initiates it, but if you don't talk much or spend time with him, why don't you go and say "hey dad how was your day?"
@@miximinion4055? Why should it be ALL on him to start? He's tired he worked he's literally running of full exhaustion pretty much on robot mode. Just going thru the motions to pay bills how do people not recognize this?
@@mylamberfeeties875 Because it's not the same situation for both. It's not reasonable to expect children to act in the best possible way, it's the father's job to be the mature one. If you can't provide love as well as stability you shouldn't have kids
My Dad was employed in a random type of shift work in a governmental civil defence capacity as an industrial electrician. Occasionally my Dad would be away for days or a week or more at a time during emergencies. He also usually worked like 8 to 12 hours a day. When he was home he did sleep a lot, but that's because his job was physically draining. He's now retired and wasn't/Isn't useless for working long grueling hours (even when ill) to provide for his family. I never thought bad of my dad for working so much, I knew he did so for us and the time we did share as a family was special. This woman is just a coddled, entitled, narcissistic brat who wouldn't survive a day on her own in the "Real World"
You'd be surprised at how common this lack of appreciation and entitlement is these days. My niece, who just turned 18, was raised by my parents since her mom decided drugs and alcohol were more important. They are retired and financially comfortable so they literally gave her everything she ever wanted and were there for her in every possible way, even at the expense of all their other grandkids. Unfortunately, she doesn't appreciate anything they did/do for her and is the most entitled brat I've ever had the misfortune to know. She almost seems to revel in how much she has helped to deteriorate my parents' relationships with their other kids and grandkids and literally thinks she can do no wrong (not exaggerating...she seriously said something to that affect 2 days ago). Now that my dad has some medical problems, can't walk, and needs a lot of assistance, she absolutely refuses to help him in any way whatsoever, regularly makes derogatory comments about his conditions and how worthless he is, physically and emotionally abuses him, and I'd actively trying to get my mom to leave him since he's now such a "burden" and can't do anything for her. This sounds like a badly written movie villain but, I assure you, it's real and I have to deal with it regularly since I do everything I can to help my mom take care of him as I'm the only family left nearby. While she's an extreme example, she's not the only one I personally know through friends going through similar circumstances.
@@bradblumhof6917 . my dad never say i love you, last timed he hugged me was when i was a baby. we never once did anything together. never had a conversation really. there is no excuse for this. if you dont show your kids love as children tehy wont as adults. if you act like an ATM machine they will treat you as such. its not lack of appreciation you never boned with your kids as parent ive know people who work night and day shits, who still tell there kids they love them, somehow find time to drop the off and pick them up from school, make dinner and once in a while do somthing with them. if you dont make a mom or dad connection with your kids that's your fault.
I love when people talk crap about the people closest to them. "You are your closest 5 friends" or for this situation "like father, like daughter" , so when you talk bad about you father you are indirectly talking crap about yourself.
Some fathers are unapproachable though. For context, I was born with a developmental disability and still deal with the challenges. Writing is one of them, even though I can spell. But the time I am done with this paragraph, ( the cat doesn't help) a good half hour, at the least would be gone. It's because I want every sentence to come out right. Some fathers do not know there is such thing as disability rights, nor does some like to get help for their children's disability. I've tried and tried and tried to ask for help, I got made fun of instead, and never got the help needed in school. Some come home and drink all day and come home and pass out from drinking. Slam cabinets, and cuss the whole family out. As much as an AH mine can be, I still love him and want him to get better and improve his life. He doesn't even like to spend time with the family and grandkids, anyone. Except our mom. Then you have THIS lady on tik tok. If her dad was like mine, I don't think she would know what tik tok was, because if social networking was a thing, back in my time, we would not be allowed to use it AT ALL! I would be less internally angry as a child if he was actually there and listened to any warning signs of behavioral changes. He never thought to help my mom get me set up for school accommodations when I was younger. And autism in girls was basically unheard of, but was later diagnosed a couple of years ago. when I was younger, would draw out my problems because I couldn't explain them in words, and was made fun of for it. so I stopped altogether. Of course this is my point of view, which may or may not be correct .My dad did work and made a decent amount of money. He's a marine which may explain a lot of his behavior. But at the end of the day, I do not want anything happen to our dad. The door is always open of he decides to improve his life. But that's what alcohol does. Despite how I was treated, I would never want any more harm bestowed upon my dad. I actually want to see him happy.
I mean, when I was in grade school, my dad was distant to me due to my dad's former job. He worked more often because we were tight on money back then. Not anymore though. BUT I NEVER ACTED LIKE THIS! IN FACT I WAS _EXCITED_ TO SEE MY DAD BACK THEN!
Because you were in grade school. I'm she she was like that at that age too, but it wasn't a temporary thing for her, and she went her whole childhood without her dad. You didn't.
The talk of good and bad fathers is so true- My mom had a down right horrible scum of the earth kind of father- the things he did to his daughters let alone his own wife were despicable. My dad however is absolutely a gem, and my mom will always tell me how he was nervous about becoming a father- but then the second I was born I became his best friend. Even now I notice how much he cares about me- and I love him so much. Even if I'm worried about telling him about my relationship with my partner, I can only hope things will work out in the end and that he'll still love me the way he always has. ❤
Everybody should cherish their parents . Your mum brought you into this world and guides you through it while your dad makes sure you live in it nicely and smoothly . Be grateful,woman
Imagine if her father sees that video. Would I feel bad for her getting disowned and homeless? No, that should have her learned the lesson for being so ungrateful for her father who works his life to make his family's life easier
As an african from Gabon, those kind of people just make me sad and angry. She doesn't see her luck to have a father who gives all of his time and energy to make her happy and live a good and decent life. And even worse, she dares to complain. Ok miss Ungrateful, go find your own house and money all by yourself.😤
I am glad both my daughters know that I'm here for them. With that being said if you don't have kids then it shouldn't be your field to judge folks who do. Most of these kids make up scenarios to fit in with this new Tik Tok era.
No complaints about the mom/wife though? His wife should be sticking up for him and helping with raising the kids so they don't feel this way. Whats MOM doing? The daughter is learning how to be "the man" of the house because the mother won't show her how to be nurturing.
your wrong the dad provided the family her eating sleeping and bitching on the internet is because of his dad hardwork instead of helping the father raising money she bitching about it average female@@officiallytrustissues5411
My father is only at home during weekends when I was a kid. Then we later found out he's a cheater. I hated him till he died. My mother is over religious bordering on fanaticism which will make you hate religion and I still turned out better than this girl lmao. I wonder if she's really abused. She looks well off and acts like a spoiled brat.
I have absolutely no sympathy for her. The sheer hypocrisy of her complaining that her father is apparently not there for her but at the same time not showing any affection of her own as well as literally saying he should just go to work and send her money is unbearably untolerable in my opinion. Another thing i have absolutely no respect for is posting this mental form of explosive diarrhea on Tik Tok for the whole world to see, just because she's mad about something she has, given the context in which she posted it, no right to be mad about or complain about because at the end of the day, the only thing she said he does is fulfill one side of the paradox request that she put him up to. So with that being said, i still have to say that everything could change if there were to be any information she forgot giving, which would also be incredibly reckless of her. Nevertheless, i think it's safe to say that the form in which she posted what she did is unacceptable either way. No respect at all for this action.
i remember when my father worked as a vehicle designer when i was a little girl. He worked hard for our family and he would rest during the weekends but he always tried to make time. Today my father has made up for lost time and he is very happy in his retirement. I love my father and my mother they always supported me
To me it sounds like she's saying she would rather have had her dad active in her life, spending time with him and him showing her love rather than have him hand her money any time she's near him. She sounds hurt to me, not spoiled. *The disrepectful comments from her could be out of pain, especially if her mother was abusive. I think if she had let her pain show through her angst, people may have connected with her more. It's sad she spoke to the internet about it rather than her parents.
Even if its out of pain you dont do this! All i see is a spoiled child that has the “whatever im gen Z” attitude. Without the father she would be homeless, this is nothing but another gen Z that has no morals!
@@maxnum1sgameclub263 Agreed. I'm by no means making excuses for her behavior. I'm merely using her as an example of what happened when a parent substitutes money for affection.
I feel like this is why having some sense on anonymity is important. Even if this was a viral video of something good, what is there to gain of a video showcasing own face going so viral that even close family can come across it? What's there to gain in any of it that? I don't see anything good out from it. People don't realize it's not just them. If people can use imagery of one person to find where everyone else live, then now it gets everyone in the family involved. All over one person getting viral in platforms like tiktok. It happened with that one girl who was being an ass to the piano/keyboard playing guy. Like there was no need to get parents risked in danger just cause of the one person being a rude ass outside of the parent's knowledge.
"I don't care if you’re sick. Go to work so I can spend your money." Or how about you get a job princess and make your own money. I grew up fatherless and turned out just fine.
This was a very level headed and fair assesment of this Situation, i was almost shocked seeing something like this on the internet. Good job Pegasus. I watched your channel occaisonally, for about a year, but now i'm subscribing.
I used to think this way when I was little cus when I was younger my dad would spend a lot of time with me, but as I grew up things got harder and my dad could spend as much time with me and we eventually grew apart and I resented him for it. But now that I'm older whenever I think about it I can't be mad because he put so much effort into making sure we had food to eat and we could live comfortably. I respect my father and appreciate all that he's done for me.
my dad works for the railroad and is gone from sun up to sun down five days a week. i hardly saw my dad as a kid, but he provided for my mom and me and my sibling. we were never hungry or poor. he worked his ass off. and i will always appreciate everything he's done for us.
I'm not saying this applies to all cases, but honestly I feel like if her mom were abusive she wouldn't dare post something like this out of fear of the repercussions. In my own personal experience, people who are going through what she claims to be going through don't act like this.
Yeah, people who are abused tend to be more guarded. Also sorry to be that person, but I think you meant to say "this applies" rather than "the supplies" in the first sentence.
@@TruCunt"my dad adds no value to my life" she's talking like that as the father is profusely working hard to support them financially so that she doesn't get a job at the age that she is right now
23 years ago, my father broke his leg In a very stormy parachuting training exercise right before going to Afghanistan for war (this happened around 5 years before my birth). Since then, he decided to drop out of the military (also due to the permanent damage to his leg), and started working at normal jobs. Since then, we have had more time to talk and play with him, but he still gets up at 2-6am, gets home at 5-10pm, and even then he just eats and goes to bed. Sometimes he has a day or two off of work a week but even then, I cant play with him because he spends more time with my mom (they married). Though I dislike how he treats me sometimes, I cant help but respect everything he has ever done for us. About a year ago me and him went to some local Yu-Gi-Oh! tournament things and had some fun, though we quit because it kept getting increasingly more and more unfair, needing us to spend way too much money just to continue going, now I'm just glad mom and dad get to spend more time together. Anyways, moral of this story, don't take your time with your family for granted, and respect them, cherish every moment.
First off, how old is this girl? She looks like she's at least early 20s. You don't like it at home? Get your own place. Don't complain about free room and board when you have the disposable income to go to clubs. Sorry this really hits home for me because my husband works ridiculous hours to take care of us. I work too but he's definitely the main bread winner. I in turn work and am the main caretaker. We're trying to build a great life for us and our kids. That being said, my husband does make time for his kids. They are too young to understand what he does is exhausting but I pray they do not turn out like this witch.
@@AllyFin absent can imply a variety of things, it sounds like he was there, working quite a bit to provide off his family? usually the goal of the man of the house
sad since my own father barely was there my entire life and never tried contacting us except maybe once a year (divorced parents since 9 years old) and my mom had to put him through court multiple times to pay child support. No one is grateful anymore.
As someone who actually has a deadbeat father I would like to say that she definitely doesn’t have a deadbeat father because my father doesn’t even act normal on sick days, hers does and she just pushes him away when he acts normal and takes a sick leave and says “I don’t care if your sick go make some money to help me go to the clubs” could it be that her father acts cold because she are cold? Could it be that this whole time her father ignores her existence because when he doesn’t she tells him off for it and tell him to go back to making money and she doesn’t care if he’s sick? She may think I’m crazy for this one but I know I’m not crazy for this, the girls father could definitely ignore her existence because it ruins his day every time he thinks about her because she expects the world of him
Calling someone fatherless is actually a very bad thing as people wholesome and good with actually no fathers feelings get very hurt i have a friend with no father and he gets depressed each time he sees people calling people things like that
Same with my father. He works a lot ever since he got promoted when I was 6. He’s rarely home in the morning to afternoon and only comes back at night. I used to complain about it but I learn to stop being that way when I’m 14 because I learn that my dad works hard and he does try to make it up for me by always buying me stuffs. Now that I’m an adult, I can see that despite this affecting our communications as daughter/father and even led to a couple of big fights, I love him and will always be grateful for his sacrifice.
She might have hyperbolised her situtation and came off a tad bit disrespectful but I do understand her situation as I am in the same one. My father never really came home. He never "worked his ass off" having two jobs or taking extra hours to raise us. He always worked management standard 8h jobs. Sure in time his salary got bigger but it was always the same 8h job. When I was little he never came home straight from work. He was going drinking with friends leaving me and my sister with our mom. The only thing what he always gave us was his paycheck and not even all of it. He just gave a portion that should be enough to keep the home running. Now I'm not saying that he should give all of his money. He should keep some of it to have for like outings and stuff but he always gave us just enough to get by, not even half of what he earned. The rest of it he kept for his 'Outings" with his friends after work. He never went to our school performances or receive a prize for our good grades. It was always my mom that did it. Sure my mom had more time because she didnt work, but it never was like she didnt want to. My dad never let her. He was an abusive fuck towards her and controlled her every life decision. My dad never tried to build a relationship with us except for occasional taking me to play football or ride a bike. But mind it it was no more often than once a month. He never knew what our birthday gifts were until the moment we unpacked them. He just gave money and its still this way after my mom divorced him. She stopped buying his gifts for us so he just comes up to us and tell us that hes going to give us a certain amount and we buy ourselves a gift. Sometimes he doesnt even ask what we bought. You get the gist. He just gives money. Now you can tell me "You should have tried to build a relationship with him!" "You should be grateful you have a roof over your head" I tried, and I am grateful that I was well fed I have a new phone and that he gave me enough money for Christmas that I was able to buy 2 new monitors for my PC setup. Its just that the responsibility of building a relationship with a child is on the parents side and the parent should take these few first steps. I tried to build a relationship with him when I was a teenager but he was just not interested. His friends were more entertaining than his own daughters. Now that I'm in my twenties I'm just not interested anymore. I'm tired of being the first one to reach out and frankly when he texts me its just annoying. He has the same status as my job. I just want money, because that's all he can give me and I learned it over and over again when I was dissapointed when I wanted to spend some time with him but he just didnt come back from work on time. You can't just make a child skip first 20 years of their lives and then suddenly want a relationship because you realise that your friend are dying due to the alcoholism, youre getting old and your child can hold a decent converstion. I want to have a good relationship with my dad I do regret how it looks like and its not like I want to feel annoyed when he tries to talk to me, but its sth that was built up over years. He reaps what he sows. It's probably very similar for this girl, she might have come across very ungrateful and aggresive but you cant just fit all these 20 years of plain emotional neglect into a 3min tiktok so that every viewer would have a backstory to why you feel spiteful and why you do not care your father is sick. I also do not care if my father has a cold. Its really fucking sad and I know that but I cant change that I dont care about our relationship anymore.
Same with me, although on top of it, my dad disciplined me the first 7 years of my life, so I grew up being afraid of him until I was about 16. I give him credit now for being more relaxed than he was when I was younger, but that was after my mom spent literal years telling him to get therapy and start working on his issues. I can’t lie, it’s thanks to his job and all the work that he put into the company he worked for that I was able to get such a high-grade education, and that I live in a very well-off country in a time where almost everywhere else is an uncertain hellhole, but his emotional distance when I was growing up, coupled with his emotional abuse, makes me very uninterested in actively building a relationship with him. Especially since I live in a welfare state and get insanely good financial support from the government, so I don’t really need him for financial stuff anymore.
@@retcongecko1016 Same with me. I work a decent paying job and soon will change it to a better one when I finish university in half a year. He paid for the university but its not like he had to I could pay it myself. But now that we are adults that have their own moeny whats there to keep us in contact with him. He had never had any other value in our lives than financial one. If thats out of the window whats left?
@@user-fl9um8os1l Ik Thats what I'm saying. This girl was probably in the same situation but all of these people shit themselves that she should be grateful and all. It's not that easy. You cant control what you feel
Shameful act from a shameful daughter. Where I come from A father's ultimate role is being a breadwinner, everything else is null compared to that. Nobody wants a fatherly bond on an empty stomach. She should be grateful.
i dont care if he isnt there because hes working.. why not make his life easier: "dad i made you a meal ", "dad i filled the tub for you" YOU can bond over that. take initiation...
@@the_daughter_of_the_night dude what. maybe the parents dont like being around their child because they have a bad attitude (which is sorta the parents fault but nobody is perfect). and doing something kind for your hardworking parent is not you becoming the parent.... it shows that you appreciate them and you can use that time to bond :/ are you not thankful your parents cared for you even tho its the bare minimum??
My dad left my mom and I when I was 3, because he didn't think he was responsible for taking care of me. I hate him for it, but that doesn't mean I hate *_all fathers_* in the world. I know there are dads out there in the world who will actually _be_ there for their children, and I think Little Miss Miss here needs to realize how lucky she is to *_have_* a father.
As someone who had a dad who used money as a placeholder for love i get it. However, a conversation after he heard me crying through the walls was legit all that was needed for him to change his behavior. I’m glad I got to have that talk because we were REALLY close up until his death 5 years later.
Honestly both sides need to fix something. The girl has to learn what her dad does to provide for her. She’s prioritizing getting the money but not prioritizing spending time or helping her dad. Though, if the dad is not there at all, the dad should try to use breaks or off days to spend time with her.
That's her view of him, we don't know his edge of things. She might want to hang out more but it doesn't sound like she's the one to ask "Hey do you want to do Movie Night Dad?" In that house either
your a cry baby the dad has given her everything every godamn thing if he really cares about fatherhood work and help him oh noo she is just a spoiled brat and a girl like you selfish and bite the person who give them the most @@officiallytrustissues5411
@@officiallytrustissues5411you got at least 12 more years of brain development. Just let decisions like that simmer for a while. You'll be surprised how your mind changes with time.
@@Fallen.Espadastop having fucking children that you can't bring up instead of whining. They aren't plants, they need more than food and some rags to cover
As a kid I used to think like that about my father, especially since he’d yell at me and my mom a lot and he’s very hot headed (never hit us or abuse us, just very stressed). Only when I was starting to get depressed and have a heart to heart with him that things improved and now I couldn’t be more grateful
My dad has been working/ living away from us for years and we may not know him as well as we could but he is sacrificing time with his family to help us through life. It's not the dad you hate its the unhealthy dynamic you have with both your parents.
This goes to show that no matter what you do or how much you do it, your children can find something to complain about and feel like they had a bad childhood. Always be humble, kind and grateful. Your parents are as imperfect as you are.
7:00 i agree on that cause i hid my big tooth ache and come to find out after my mom found out after hiding for so long i have to get my tooth pulled and now its like an 800 - 900 dollar bill cause atm i have no medicaid men be hiding pain or things dealing with problems all the time
My 2 lil sisters dad (20&16) just died in June on my 16 yr old sisters birthday about a month after being on hospice from cancer. They would trade places with this girl in a heart beat. He can’t walk them down the aisle, see the birth of their kids, see them graduate highschool/college-he’s GONE! He’s NEVER coming back.
yes, but the good thing is that if you work 5am-6pm then you have the weekend free. (he does now) but my dad didn't even come back from work except for weekends he was at work 24/ Monday-Friday
We live in a city, but my dad works as a construction worker 500km from home. So everytime he goes to work he is absent for 3 or more months and only ever be at home for one or two weeks before leaving for work again. Still, he loves me, and i love him
It's the addiction to attention. So desperate that some people are now willing to share things that are normally kept between the respective parties. This is insane. Does not care about burning bridges as long as she gets that validation. So, so sad.
Even with a father she acts fatherless,
She is fatherless
@@TruCuntshe isn't fatherless, she has no mother. His wife should be sticking up for him and helping him raise the kids so they don't feel this way.
The fatherless stare
The girl is learning how to be "the man" of the house because the mother won't show her how to be nurturing. This is how girls grow up hating men.
Like, most people on tiktok are like that. Pretty bad imo.
The fact that her father is working hard to feed his family and she's there complaining how useless of a father he is. Actual fatherless behaviour
She’s trash.
yes
I will never stop eating uranium
@@Beanzops Uranium fever
It’s one of those situations where it could be better but it’s not as bad as she is making it out to be especially with how some fathers out here treat their families
Don't call her fatherless, that's an insult for actual fatherless people.
Fatherless person here
no its an insult for her father that working his ass of for "this"
Fatherless here 😢
womp womp
Fathers leave because of girls like her.
Her father is a better man then I am. If I had an adult daughter talking like that about me, she would be kicked out of my space.
That actually makes you the better man for teaching boundaries, respect and the value of work
Her father is better man then I am. If I had an adult daughter talking like that about me, she would be kicked out of my space.
maybe she would talk to you like that if you where actually in her life and an involved parent? if you are gonna act like an atm mechian to your kids they will treat you like one. you actually have to spend time with them, bond with them, be a father figure
@@lilaross-cz8zryeah. Leave my house first.
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
So she’s mad at her father because he doesn’t spend time with her, but she’s also mad at him for not going to work so he can get some money for her… What???
Her father sounds like a pretty great person, she on the other hand seems like she lives on social media looking for attention from other idiots who believe everything should be handed to them without contributing
So the average social media user
@@OldSchoolZ-wy2yx pretty much
she probably does OF
Yeah those girl with that type of percing. You already know what you're gonna get. Im sorry but the sterotype is real with those female.
@@tekashimaahshiha647or will once she moves out
Online media has ruined the idea of what a family unit looks like. It's not always rainbows and sunshine and let's go play MONOPOLY every Friday night at the family table and talk about our week and the goals we have for next week.
And I don't thinks she realizes how hard some parents work. They may want to spend time with their kids but they are so out of it after work that they just want to rest and recuperate. And their weekends are probably the only time they get away from the work life, God forbid he doesn't work on weekends too.
yes her dad raised her into this cow and she is saying mean things to him
You can’t live on a singular income in this economy, maybe if the mom worked just as hard he could actually spend time with his kid.
@@obamabinladen-de7rt you know social media can influence behaviour right?
im actually supporting your argument that his dad made her this fat filled her tummy and did everything and she says her dad is bad an a furniture disgrace social media has ruined the influemce@@grandpacereal1549
He still wasnt an involed parent no matter the reason. all he was was an ATM mechian. if you are gonna act like an atm mechian to your kids they will treat you like one. you actually have to spend time with them, bond with them, be a father figure. and yeah i get having work all the time and being busy but its more than just that. its not saying a love you, its not having simple 5 min conversations, its your child never having nay physical contect from you since they where a CHILD. i had a dad like this. i never saw him as my dad and sadly i could never really love him. we never had that father child relationship and thats what so many kids also have.
yes its great hes providing for his family, but his kids don't even see him as family. there is no excuse to be disconnected from you kids. there are single parents out there who work night and day shifts yet still find time to drop off/pick kids up from school, say i love you, give hugs and have conversation with their kids. and even if its once in a blue moon, do something with them.
She s acting like she is paying the bills
FRRR
“My dad isn’t there for me”, “he holds no vaIue for me.”
“I want you as a father but go away and get me my monthly money”
This is already annoying and childish, he really should have taught her some respect
He couldn’t show her no respect because he wasn’t present in her life. Adding value to a household doesn’t mean you are adding value to an individual. The circumstances of him working his butt off doesn’t mean reality just completely disappears. He added no value to her life, she is 100% right about that. That is why she doesn’t know what respect is. If he was there to teach her that instead of working all day and night she would have a different outlook on it. Does it sucks that she’s doing this to him yes but she isn’t wrong here at least what she saying. There was no value added to her life
yeah she kinda scummy. if her father had no value, she would've just leave them. and yet still depend on her dad.
@@siddiq069 she didn’t say he had no value she said “he added no value to MY life” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ what is wrong with you guys. Why do you assume one thing when she said the complete opposite. You guys are bafoons. She never said he had no value. At this point I think you guys want to complain to complain.
@@officiallytrustissues5411 exactly people are conflating the two. Just because you had value to a household doesn’t mean you add value to that individual. In order for you to add value to an individual you have to motivate, guide, maybe give them an understanding, teach, etc. he did none of that. All he did was pay bills and sleep. That adds no value to anyone. The problem with people is that they think paying bills teaches a person about morals, life, and respect and right or wrong. It doesn’t. When you add value to a persons life, your presence, your teachings etc will guide them to making better decisions, using your teaching to understanding how to deal with people, understand daily concepts etc. he did non of that
@@TruCunt Her saying that he added no value, is the sane as he had no value. She is delusional as of now. The mother is abusive and the dad is gone. She can't change how the father works. She assumes he's lazy and can get money so easily. She probably never even bothered to talk to him if she is like this. She could've told her dad when he got home. Like Pegasus said, the fathers try to keep the problems to themselves, and try to shield you. The dad MOST LIKELY never thought there was a problem because she never said anything.
"Get out of my space, go work"
She's speedruning being kicked out of the house?
Definitely.
"my dad isn't there for me" "i want you as a father".... But everytime he tries to be a "father" to her, she pushes hip away like wha-? Get your logic together and pick if you don't want him to be as your father so he can disown you, or if you actually want him to be your father and bond
its kinda to late now...she no longer a child and he wasnt there when she actually needed him. so many dads are not involved in thier kids lives but act like ATM machines thinking its enough. my dad never say i love you, last timed he hugged me was when i was a baby. we never once did anything together. never had a conversation really. there is no excuse for this. if you dont show your kids love as children tehy wont as adults. if you act like an ATM machine they will treat you as such.
ive know people who work night and day shits, who still tell there kids they love them, somehow find time to drop the off and pick them up from school, make dinner and once in a while do somthing with them. if you dont make a mom or dad connection with your kids that's your fault.
My dad goes out of town to work and won't even show up for like a month at times but he is someone who has value in the family whether he is prominent in my upbringing or not
How dare you have respect for your father who sacrifices for his family. Maybe you should work on being more entitled and unappreciative like this girl. 💀
@@bradblumhof6917 thats not the issue here. when their dad gets back he probbaly showers his kids with love, many dads dont. so many dads are not involved in thier kids lives but act like ATM machines thinking its enough. my dad never say i love you, last timed he hugged me was when i was a baby. we never once did anything together. never had a conversation really. there is no excuse for this. if you dont show your kids love as children tehy wont as adults. if you act like an ATM machine they will treat you as such.
ive know people who work night and day shits, who still tell there kids they love them, somehow find time to drop the off and pick them up from school, make dinner and once in a while do somthing with them. if you dont make a mom or dad connection with your kids that's your fault.
@lilaross-cz8zr if you're going to take it to this level, we're both in the wrong bc neither of us know what it was really like in their house growing up. Unfortunately, there are far too many dad's like you described or just completely nonexistent but there are also plenty of dad's who have been badmouthed by the mother so much that the kids won't even give him a chance to be a good father. We don't really know for sure and it's near impossible to know. I stand by my comment bc the OP is showing appreciation for her dad who was there for her but had to sacrifice a lot of time to give them the life they had while being the best dad he could in his time off. Some kids never show appreciation for the sacrifices their parents make and fathers seem to get the worst of it since, typically, men don't get as much time to spend with their kids as mothers do. IOW, there are bad mother, fathers, and children and we don't know definitively which one(s) are in the wrong in this case.
“My dad adds zero value to my life… He just sends me money once a month.” She cannot actually be this stupid, can she?
Best thing her father could do for her is to stop sending money.
At first I thought “Aw she wishes her dad was around more. What a sad and unfortunately common problem”
But I sure as hell wasn’t expecting her to say what she actually did 😶 if he adds 0 value to ur life, then stop using up his money and living in his house then
I like how she lamented rarely seeing him around and a few seconds later she literally complained that when he's home from work on sick leave she feels like he's "in her space." Some people just can't be pleased. (side note: For some reason she looks like she smells weird.)
At least she still has a father, some people don’t even have that. Some people have deadbeat dads, some people have lost their dads; I lost mine to cancer last year. Hearing her say he adds no value and she doesn’t care if her dad is sick genuinely pissed me off as someone whose had to watch their own father die slowly and painfully to a disease we caught too late.
My dad is an absent father too. He lives with us but only comes home on the weekends and we don't have the best relationship but I wouldn't diss him like that
Do you spend time with him? I know it should be him who initiates it, but if you don't talk much or spend time with him, why don't you go and say "hey dad how was your day?"
@@miximinion4055 he's difficult to have a conversation with because he's a bit hard headed but we do talk once in a while
@@miximinion4055? Why should it be ALL on him to start? He's tired he worked he's literally running of full exhaustion pretty much on robot mode. Just going thru the motions to pay bills how do people not recognize this?
@@mylamberfeeties875 Because it's not the same situation for both. It's not reasonable to expect children to act in the best possible way, it's the father's job to be the mature one. If you can't provide love as well as stability you shouldn't have kids
This is why it doesn't pay to have kids or a family. Why work hard?
My Dad was employed in a random type of shift work in a governmental civil defence capacity as an industrial electrician. Occasionally my Dad would be away for days or a week or more at a time during emergencies. He also usually worked like 8 to 12 hours a day. When he was home he did sleep a lot, but that's because his job was physically draining. He's now retired and wasn't/Isn't useless for working long grueling hours (even when ill) to provide for his family. I never thought bad of my dad for working so much, I knew he did so for us and the time we did share as a family was special. This woman is just a coddled, entitled, narcissistic brat who wouldn't survive a day on her own in the "Real World"
You'd be surprised at how common this lack of appreciation and entitlement is these days. My niece, who just turned 18, was raised by my parents since her mom decided drugs and alcohol were more important. They are retired and financially comfortable so they literally gave her everything she ever wanted and were there for her in every possible way, even at the expense of all their other grandkids. Unfortunately, she doesn't appreciate anything they did/do for her and is the most entitled brat I've ever had the misfortune to know. She almost seems to revel in how much she has helped to deteriorate my parents' relationships with their other kids and grandkids and literally thinks she can do no wrong (not exaggerating...she seriously said something to that affect 2 days ago). Now that my dad has some medical problems, can't walk, and needs a lot of assistance, she absolutely refuses to help him in any way whatsoever, regularly makes derogatory comments about his conditions and how worthless he is, physically and emotionally abuses him, and I'd actively trying to get my mom to leave him since he's now such a "burden" and can't do anything for her. This sounds like a badly written movie villain but, I assure you, it's real and I have to deal with it regularly since I do everything I can to help my mom take care of him as I'm the only family left nearby. While she's an extreme example, she's not the only one I personally know through friends going through similar circumstances.
@@bradblumhof6917 . my dad never say i love you, last timed he hugged me was when i was a baby. we never once did anything together. never had a conversation really. there is no excuse for this. if you dont show your kids love as children tehy wont as adults. if you act like an ATM machine they will treat you as such. its not lack of appreciation you never boned with your kids as parent
ive know people who work night and day shits, who still tell there kids they love them, somehow find time to drop the off and pick them up from school, make dinner and once in a while do somthing with them. if you dont make a mom or dad connection with your kids that's your fault.
Her father is the reason she’s alive in the first place.
and still living.....shelter...food...etc
I will never stop eating uranium
@@Beanzopsbased and gammapilled
@@BeanzopsPlease stop eating uranium.
@@BeanzopsWhat does it taste like
“My house” it’s his house! If delusion was a person
0 value you say? Oh you'd 100% be getting kicked out of my house. And I'd be keeping every single thing my money paid for.
My dad was a mechanic and worked long hours to take care of me and my siblings this girl is a brat
A tiktoker with a father is impossible
I love when people talk crap about the people closest to them. "You are your closest 5 friends" or for this situation "like father, like daughter" , so when you talk bad about you father you are indirectly talking crap about yourself.
i havent seen my father for 9 years and shes complaining
I'm sorry you had to go through this separation, and I hope you're doing well.
Some fathers are unapproachable though. For context, I was born with a developmental disability and still deal with the challenges. Writing is one of them, even though I can spell. But the time I am done with this paragraph, ( the cat doesn't help) a good half hour, at the least would be gone. It's because I want every sentence to come out right. Some fathers do not know there is such thing as disability rights, nor does some like to get help for their children's disability. I've tried and tried and tried to ask for help, I got made fun of instead, and never got the help needed in school. Some come home and drink all day and come home and pass out from drinking. Slam cabinets, and cuss the whole family out. As much as an AH mine can be, I still love him and want him to get better and improve his life. He doesn't even like to spend time with the family and grandkids, anyone. Except our mom.
Then you have THIS lady on tik tok. If her dad was like mine, I don't think she would know what tik tok was, because if social networking was a thing, back in my time, we would not be allowed to use it AT ALL! I would be less internally angry as a child if he was actually there and listened to any warning signs of behavioral changes. He never thought to help my mom get me set up for school accommodations when I was younger. And autism in girls was basically unheard of, but was later diagnosed a couple of years ago. when I was younger, would draw out my problems because I couldn't explain them in words, and was made fun of for it. so I stopped altogether. Of course this is my point of view, which may or may not be correct .My dad did work and made a decent amount of money. He's a marine which may explain a lot of his behavior. But at the end of the day, I do not want anything happen to our dad. The door is always open of he decides to improve his life. But that's what alcohol does. Despite how I was treated, I would never want any more harm bestowed upon my dad. I actually want to see him happy.
I mean, when I was in grade school, my dad was distant to me due to my dad's former job. He worked more often because we were tight on money back then. Not anymore though. BUT I NEVER ACTED LIKE THIS! IN FACT I WAS _EXCITED_ TO SEE MY DAD BACK THEN!
lol my dad used to be out of the country i would see him in many months but i wasnt a godamn selfish brat
Because you were in grade school. I'm she she was like that at that age too, but it wasn't a temporary thing for her, and she went her whole childhood without her dad. You didn't.
@@AllyFin That's still no excuse.
@@AllyFinlmao i never got to see my father and he passed two years ago, i have no sense of this entitlement.
Are we all really surprised? HELL TO THE NO!
The talk of good and bad fathers is so true-
My mom had a down right horrible scum of the earth kind of father- the things he did to his daughters let alone his own wife were despicable.
My dad however is absolutely a gem, and my mom will always tell me how he was nervous about becoming a father- but then the second I was born I became his best friend. Even now I notice how much he cares about me- and I love him so much. Even if I'm worried about telling him about my relationship with my partner, I can only hope things will work out in the end and that he'll still love me the way he always has. ❤
i feel bad for the dad, he's working his butt off for his daughter and she goes on tIkTOk and says her father is useless 💀
She is super spoiled, this generation (Gen Z and Gen Alpha) are done, no saving it
Edit: yay i got 40 likes :)
Edit2: 70? Wow, yay 8)
Yup and only a small amount for Millennials but why? Don't they think about orphans or families in sad circumstances
*Americans
@@timothyloayza6789 yeah idrk
@@barhat961 ?
There’s some good ones out there don’t lose hope dawg😭
Imagine getting bad mouth to the internet and compared to a peice of funiture for working to support her life and lifestyle 😑
The father should have take a run for some milk while he had the opportunity
Everybody should cherish their parents . Your mum brought you into this world and guides you through it while your dad makes sure you live in it nicely and smoothly . Be grateful,woman
She's got a long way to go before you can call her a woman.
Not all parents deserve cherishing.
@@laundrygoddess4
Very very very, very true sir
nah some parents are worthless
@@laundrygoddess4 this is true although @Shortestcoment everybody has worth
Imagine if her father sees that video. Would I feel bad for her getting disowned and homeless? No, that should have her learned the lesson for being so ungrateful for her father who works his life to make his family's life easier
As an african from Gabon, those kind of people just make me sad and angry. She doesn't see her luck to have a father who gives all of his time and energy to make her happy and live a good and decent life. And even worse, she dares to complain. Ok miss Ungrateful, go find your own house and money all by yourself.😤
"he's useless" while she's inside a home paid by him, food paid by him, clothes paid by him, phone paid by him, ect
6:21 Nabo ngabantu(Xhosa language)(South African language), means "they are people too" in English, Just thought I'd point that out
Fellow South African🗣🗣‼‼
@@FritZ0 Yes?
I am glad both my daughters know that I'm here for them. With that being said if you don't have kids then it shouldn't be your field to judge folks who do. Most of these kids make up scenarios to fit in with this new Tik Tok era.
This is why never gave your children too much.
No complaints about the mom/wife though? His wife should be sticking up for him and helping with raising the kids so they don't feel this way. Whats MOM doing? The daughter is learning how to be "the man" of the house because the mother won't show her how to be nurturing.
@@officiallytrustissues5411 Only sane person in this comment section
your wrong the dad provided the family her eating sleeping and bitching on the internet is because of his dad hardwork instead of helping the father raising money she bitching about it average female@@officiallytrustissues5411
@@officiallytrustissues5411the only normal person here lmao
😮
My father is only at home during weekends when I was a kid. Then we later found out he's a cheater. I hated him till he died. My mother is over religious bordering on fanaticism which will make you hate religion and I still turned out better than this girl lmao. I wonder if she's really abused. She looks well off and acts like a spoiled brat.
She doesn't deserve any of her father money.
I have absolutely no sympathy for her. The sheer hypocrisy of her complaining that her father is apparently not there for her but at the same time not showing any affection of her own as well as literally saying he should just go to work and send her money is unbearably untolerable in my opinion. Another thing i have absolutely no respect for is posting this mental form of explosive diarrhea on Tik Tok for the whole world to see, just because she's mad about something she has, given the context in which she posted it, no right to be mad about or complain about because at the end of the day, the only thing she said he does is fulfill one side of the paradox request that she put him up to. So with that being said, i still have to say that everything could change if there were to be any information she forgot giving, which would also be incredibly reckless of her. Nevertheless, i think it's safe to say that the form in which she posted what she did is unacceptable either way. No respect at all for this action.
i remember when my father worked as a vehicle designer when i was a little girl.
He worked hard for our family and he would rest during the weekends but he always tried to make time. Today my father has made up for lost time and he is very happy in his retirement.
I love my father and my mother they always supported me
"I don't care if you're sick, go to work, you're in my space" wow
To me it sounds like she's saying she would rather have had her dad active in her life, spending time with him and him showing her love rather than have him hand her money any time she's near him. She sounds hurt to me, not spoiled.
*The disrepectful comments from her could be out of pain, especially if her mother was abusive. I think if she had let her pain show through her angst, people may have connected with her more.
It's sad she spoke to the internet about it rather than her parents.
Even if its out of pain you dont do this! All i see is a spoiled child that has the “whatever im gen Z” attitude. Without the father she would be homeless, this is nothing but another gen Z that has no morals!
@@maxnum1sgameclub263 Agreed. I'm by no means making excuses for her behavior. I'm merely using her as an example of what happened when a parent substitutes money for affection.
I feel like this is why having some sense on anonymity is important. Even if this was a viral video of something good, what is there to gain of a video showcasing own face going so viral that even close family can come across it? What's there to gain in any of it that? I don't see anything good out from it.
People don't realize it's not just them. If people can use imagery of one person to find where everyone else live, then now it gets everyone in the family involved. All over one person getting viral in platforms like tiktok. It happened with that one girl who was being an ass to the piano/keyboard playing guy. Like there was no need to get parents risked in danger just cause of the one person being a rude ass outside of the parent's knowledge.
"I don't care if you’re sick. Go to work so I can spend your money." Or how about you get a job princess and make your own money. I grew up fatherless and turned out just fine.
Nose ring. Says it all 😂😂😂
Whts wrong with that?
@@chamberfeux7596 she likely uses the dads money to get that piercing
My sister ounce called my dad, Mr wallet. My mom lost her poo and told my sister never to say that again.
And i hope the sister got a good talk afterwards!
This was difficult to read at first glance😂sorry
Imagine working hard so she can waste the money in the club
Action speak greater than words…
How ungrateful she is!!!!
This was a very level headed and fair assesment of this Situation, i was almost shocked seeing something like this on the internet. Good job Pegasus.
I watched your channel occaisonally, for about a year, but now i'm subscribing.
yeah, unfortunatly i cant say the same for the comments......
Spoiled brat = narcissistic behaviour = stay away from these people.
I used to think this way when I was little cus when I was younger my dad would spend a lot of time with me, but as I grew up things got harder and my dad could spend as much time with me and we eventually grew apart and I resented him for it. But now that I'm older whenever I think about it I can't be mad because he put so much effort into making sure we had food to eat and we could live comfortably. I respect my father and appreciate all that he's done for me.
Fathers work hard to get food on the table and if their kids say that than you know the kid gotta go to the adoption center
It can be either parent,but yeah
@@MiniMomoa yeah
I have some problems with my parents and people keep repeating it because it’s _true_ ~why air your dirty laundry online? Why? I don’t get it.
a megasus upload always makes my day
my dad works for the railroad and is gone from sun up to sun down five days a week. i hardly saw my dad as a kid, but he provided for my mom and me and my sibling. we were never hungry or poor. he worked his ass off. and i will always appreciate everything he's done for us.
I'm not saying this applies to all cases, but honestly I feel like if her mom were abusive she wouldn't dare post something like this out of fear of the repercussions. In my own personal experience, people who are going through what she claims to be going through don't act like this.
Yeah, people who are abused tend to be more guarded.
Also sorry to be that person, but I think you meant to say "this applies" rather than "the supplies" in the first sentence.
@@kohaiame2691 LOL I did, fixed it thank you
If you think, out of all people, *your father* is useless then chances are you don't deserve on at all
Wait he wasn’t present for his child life and you’re mad she’s calling him useless? He is useless. He’s not a father he’s just there.
@@TruCunt Yup you truly live up to your name 👍
@@TruCunt"my dad adds no value to my life" she's talking like that as the father is profusely working hard to support them financially so that she doesn't get a job at the age that she is right now
@@KACE2.Bro chill wtf💀💀💀😭😭😭
@@KACE2. yes that’s why it’s my name duhhhhhhh. WTF is a kace2. Who is the first 1? Your trans father?
Haven’t seen this channel in awhile, love the beard brotha
23 years ago, my father broke his leg In a very stormy parachuting training exercise right before going to Afghanistan for war (this happened around 5 years before my birth). Since then, he decided to drop out of the military (also due to the permanent damage to his leg), and started working at normal jobs. Since then, we have had more time to talk and play with him, but he still gets up at 2-6am, gets home at 5-10pm, and even then he just eats and goes to bed. Sometimes he has a day or two off of work a week but even then, I cant play with him because he spends more time with my mom (they married). Though I dislike how he treats me sometimes, I cant help but respect everything he has ever done for us. About a year ago me and him went to some local Yu-Gi-Oh! tournament things and had some fun, though we quit because it kept getting increasingly more and more unfair, needing us to spend way too much money just to continue going, now I'm just glad mom and dad get to spend more time together.
Anyways, moral of this story, don't take your time with your family for granted, and respect them, cherish every moment.
First off, how old is this girl? She looks like she's at least early 20s. You don't like it at home? Get your own place. Don't complain about free room and board when you have the disposable income to go to clubs.
Sorry this really hits home for me because my husband works ridiculous hours to take care of us. I work too but he's definitely the main bread winner. I in turn work and am the main caretaker. We're trying to build a great life for us and our kids. That being said, my husband does make time for his kids. They are too young to understand what he does is exhausting but I pray they do not turn out like this witch.
It seems like her father was too absent and her mother was too abusive to teach her that.
@@AllyFinthe father wasn't absent, it sounds like she's taking out her frustrations of her mother out on her dad
@@scoopwoop8196 he was though? Do you not know what absent means?
@@AllyFin absent can imply a variety of things, it sounds like he was there, working quite a bit to provide off his family? usually the goal of the man of the house
@@scoopwoop8196 Take the word at face value. "Too absent" is not the same as completely absent.
The dad has to work because the lazy women in the house won't work.
True, 95% of them
u can't be serious
@@officiallytrustissues5411Ok and? What does your shit have to with this. Plz stop projecting
sad since my own father barely was there my entire life and never tried contacting us except maybe once a year (divorced parents since 9 years old) and my mom had to put him through court multiple times to pay child support. No one is grateful anymore.
Turn off electricity and water when you go at work... She'll understand what is the 'values' preety soon 😂
crazy.
As someone who actually has a deadbeat father I would like to say that she definitely doesn’t have a deadbeat father because my father doesn’t even act normal on sick days, hers does and she just pushes him away when he acts normal and takes a sick leave and says “I don’t care if your sick go make some money to help me go to the clubs” could it be that her father acts cold because she are cold? Could it be that this whole time her father ignores her existence because when he doesn’t she tells him off for it and tell him to go back to making money and she doesn’t care if he’s sick? She may think I’m crazy for this one but I know I’m not crazy for this, the girls father could definitely ignore her existence because it ruins his day every time he thinks about her because she expects the world of him
Crazy to say he's useless yet she still needs his money lol
@@maigonokoneko115 very true that’s definitely one major mistake in her argument, you can’t say someone’s useless and then use them for something
Calling someone fatherless is actually a very bad thing as people wholesome and good with actually no fathers feelings get very hurt i have a friend with no father and he gets depressed each time he sees people calling people things like that
Same with my father. He works a lot ever since he got promoted when I was 6. He’s rarely home in the morning to afternoon and only comes back at night. I used to complain about it but I learn to stop being that way when I’m 14 because I learn that my dad works hard and he does try to make it up for me by always buying me stuffs.
Now that I’m an adult, I can see that despite this affecting our communications as daughter/father and even led to a couple of big fights, I love him and will always be grateful for his sacrifice.
Ooga booga… makes sense.
FR
She might have hyperbolised her situtation and came off a tad bit disrespectful but I do understand her situation as I am in the same one. My father never really came home. He never "worked his ass off" having two jobs or taking extra hours to raise us. He always worked management standard 8h jobs. Sure in time his salary got bigger but it was always the same 8h job. When I was little he never came home straight from work. He was going drinking with friends leaving me and my sister with our mom. The only thing what he always gave us was his paycheck and not even all of it. He just gave a portion that should be enough to keep the home running. Now I'm not saying that he should give all of his money. He should keep some of it to have for like outings and stuff but he always gave us just enough to get by, not even half of what he earned. The rest of it he kept for his 'Outings" with his friends after work.
He never went to our school performances or receive a prize for our good grades. It was always my mom that did it. Sure my mom had more time because she didnt work, but it never was like she didnt want to. My dad never let her. He was an abusive fuck towards her and controlled her every life decision. My dad never tried to build a relationship with us except for occasional taking me to play football or ride a bike. But mind it it was no more often than once a month. He never knew what our birthday gifts were until the moment we unpacked them. He just gave money and its still this way after my mom divorced him. She stopped buying his gifts for us so he just comes up to us and tell us that hes going to give us a certain amount and we buy ourselves a gift. Sometimes he doesnt even ask what we bought.
You get the gist. He just gives money. Now you can tell me "You should have tried to build a relationship with him!" "You should be grateful you have a roof over your head" I tried, and I am grateful that I was well fed I have a new phone and that he gave me enough money for Christmas that I was able to buy 2 new monitors for my PC setup. Its just that the responsibility of building a relationship with a child is on the parents side and the parent should take these few first steps. I tried to build a relationship with him when I was a teenager but he was just not interested. His friends were more entertaining than his own daughters. Now that I'm in my twenties I'm just not interested anymore. I'm tired of being the first one to reach out and frankly when he texts me its just annoying. He has the same status as my job. I just want money, because that's all he can give me and I learned it over and over again when I was dissapointed when I wanted to spend some time with him but he just didnt come back from work on time. You can't just make a child skip first 20 years of their lives and then suddenly want a relationship because you realise that your friend are dying due to the alcoholism, youre getting old and your child can hold a decent converstion. I want to have a good relationship with my dad I do regret how it looks like and its not like I want to feel annoyed when he tries to talk to me, but its sth that was built up over years. He reaps what he sows. It's probably very similar for this girl, she might have come across very ungrateful and aggresive but you cant just fit all these 20 years of plain emotional neglect into a 3min tiktok so that every viewer would have a backstory to why you feel spiteful and why you do not care your father is sick. I also do not care if my father has a cold. Its really fucking sad and I know that but I cant change that I dont care about our relationship anymore.
Same with me, although on top of it, my dad disciplined me the first 7 years of my life, so I grew up being afraid of him until I was about 16. I give him credit now for being more relaxed than he was when I was younger, but that was after my mom spent literal years telling him to get therapy and start working on his issues. I can’t lie, it’s thanks to his job and all the work that he put into the company he worked for that I was able to get such a high-grade education, and that I live in a very well-off country in a time where almost everywhere else is an uncertain hellhole, but his emotional distance when I was growing up, coupled with his emotional abuse, makes me very uninterested in actively building a relationship with him. Especially since I live in a welfare state and get insanely good financial support from the government, so I don’t really need him for financial stuff anymore.
@@retcongecko1016 Same with me. I work a decent paying job and soon will change it to a better one when I finish university in half a year. He paid for the university but its not like he had to I could pay it myself. But now that we are adults that have their own moeny whats there to keep us in contact with him. He had never had any other value in our lives than financial one. If thats out of the window whats left?
absent parenting is what you are describing. your physical needs were met but not your emotional ones.
@@user-fl9um8os1l Ik Thats what I'm saying. This girl was probably in the same situation but all of these people shit themselves that she should be grateful and all. It's not that easy. You cant control what you feel
She's entitled.
Shameful act from a shameful daughter.
Where I come from A father's ultimate role is being a breadwinner, everything else is null compared to that.
Nobody wants a fatherly bond on an empty stomach.
She should be grateful.
i dont care if he isnt there because hes working.. why not make his life easier: "dad i made you a meal ", "dad i filled the tub for you" YOU can bond over that. take initiation...
She doesn't want to, though. She's made it clear as day she wants him out of her life and is clueless about the stability he provides her.
Yea, become a parent for your freaking parent. And then somehow childfree people are selfish
@@the_daughter_of_the_night dude what. maybe the parents dont like being around their child because they have a bad attitude (which is sorta the parents fault but nobody is perfect). and doing something kind for your hardworking parent is not you becoming the parent.... it shows that you appreciate them and you can use that time to bond :/ are you not thankful your parents cared for you even tho its the bare minimum??
My dad left my mom and I when I was 3, because he didn't think he was responsible for taking care of me. I hate him for it, but that doesn't mean I hate *_all fathers_* in the world. I know there are dads out there in the world who will actually _be_ there for their children, and I think Little Miss Miss here needs to realize how lucky she is to *_have_* a father.
Shoutout to all you lovely fathers that take good care of your families 🫡
Man, I love my dad. ❤
My Father has though me everything he knows, I just wanted to pay him back.
She needs to get a life 💀💀
she da trouble, not dad
As someone who had a dad who used money as a placeholder for love i get it. However, a conversation after he heard me crying through the walls was legit all that was needed for him to change his behavior. I’m glad I got to have that talk because we were REALLY close up until his death 5 years later.
Complaining he's never home.... Yeah he is out working all day for an ungrateful spoiled brat. Could you imagine being her father and seeing this?!?!
Honestly both sides need to fix something. The girl has to learn what her dad does to provide for her. She’s prioritizing getting the money but not prioritizing spending time or helping her dad. Though, if the dad is not there at all, the dad should try to use breaks or off days to spend time with her.
That's her view of him, we don't know his edge of things. She might want to hang out more but it doesn't sound like she's the one to ask "Hey do you want to do Movie Night Dad?" In that house either
@@Fallen.Espada yes but if her father is able to fund her lavish and bouji lifestyle, he can pay for gas. Also did you read the eintire comment?
your a cry baby the dad has given her everything every godamn thing if he really cares about fatherhood work and help him oh noo she is just a spoiled brat and a girl like you selfish and bite the person who give them the most @@officiallytrustissues5411
@@officiallytrustissues5411you got at least 12 more years of brain development. Just let decisions like that simmer for a while. You'll be surprised how your mind changes with time.
@@Fallen.Espadastop having fucking children that you can't bring up instead of whining. They aren't plants, they need more than food and some rags to cover
God these mfs
As a kid I used to think like that about my father, especially since he’d yell at me and my mom a lot and he’s very hot headed (never hit us or abuse us, just very stressed). Only when I was starting to get depressed and have a heart to heart with him that things improved and now I couldn’t be more grateful
Bruh, you dropped a pin.📌
Can I keep it?
Maybe
My dad has been working/ living away from us for years and we may not know him as well as we could but he is sacrificing time with his family to help us through life. It's not the dad you hate its the unhealthy dynamic you have with both your parents.
i get to see my dad 2 times a week because he has to travel but I still love him for what he does.
This goes to show that no matter what you do or how much you do it, your children can find something to complain about and feel like they had a bad childhood. Always be humble, kind and grateful. Your parents are as imperfect as you are.
7:00 i agree on that cause i hid my big tooth ache and come to find out after my mom found out after hiding for so long i have to get my tooth pulled and now its like an 800 - 900 dollar bill cause atm i have no medicaid men be hiding pain or things dealing with problems all the time
This is why you don't say talk sh*t to people online.
Young men out there, RUN!!! This one is for the street!
My 2 lil sisters dad (20&16) just died in June on my 16 yr old sisters birthday about a month after being on hospice from cancer. They would trade places with this girl in a heart beat. He can’t walk them down the aisle, see the birth of their kids, see them graduate highschool/college-he’s GONE! He’s NEVER coming back.
both sides? 😂 if her father didn't kick her out, with zero dollars, he's no man.
yes, but the good thing is that if you work 5am-6pm then you have the weekend free. (he does now) but my dad didn't even come back from work except for weekends he was at work 24/ Monday-Friday
She is so awful to someone who is trying so hard for her.... SMH
We live in a city, but my dad works as a construction worker 500km from home. So everytime he goes to work he is absent for 3 or more months and only ever be at home for one or two weeks before leaving for work again. Still, he loves me, and i love him
Ouch. imagine being that respectless to the people who are raising you and KEEPING YOU ALIVE..
It's the addiction to attention. So desperate that some people are now willing to share things that are normally kept between the respective parties. This is insane. Does not care about burning bridges as long as she gets that validation. So, so sad.