Yeahhh, “trauma” is a word that gets thrown around way too lightly nowadays. Yes, unfortunately many people suffer from trauma and mental illness. But a lot of these social media “influencers” just use it for clout, because it’s “quirky and relatable”
Seriously. She kept saying "trauma" as if this very thing doesn't happen to most fucking families. Shit, I lived in a household where my mom abused my dad for years, kicked him out for 2 years, brought him back to live in the basement, and when she finally left him for a woman, she lied to the courts saying he was an abusive drug addict and then tried to have him arrested on false claims of domestic abuse. Yet even I don't call this traumatic. It was probably way more traumatic for my dad, if anyone. (Also, thank God my brother was secretly recording that night because the video actually showed HER chasing him around the house at 1am, punching, slapping, and kicking him trying to get a reaction and when he pushed by her, she literally threw herself into the goddamn wall and called the cops. Once they saw the video from my brother, they asked him if he wanted to press charges and he said no, so they left...all that started because he put locks on the basement door to keep her away from him and she got mad that she couldn't go down there and provoke him or rummage through his belongings anymore, resulting in her taking a fvcking hammer to the door to break in and attack him and scream at him). I used to PRAY that my dad would leave her bc he was so depressed and miserable, but he was so afraid that if he did, she'd take us and he'd never see his kids again. I love my dad and would defend him to the end of the world. Hell, despite the shit my mom did, I still worked with her until we eventually came to some sort of understanding. I certainly wouldn't shout her real name from the rooftops or destroy her image by going public with all that. Anonymous, whatever, but the second you use real names and faces, you've fucked up. I don't even really care who's right or wrong, people need to stop publicly airing out their personal problems and dirty laundry. Make that shit anonymous or keep your mouth fucking shut. She's despicable either way in my eyes. And it ain't fvcking trauma. She may be hurt, but she didn't experience trauma. Pathetic childish stupid little girl.
Well I think it depends on the context of the video as well as the person. Many youtubers or influencers who don't have malicious intents, actually do it for a reason like maybe an informative video on a type of controversy which is backed up with valid proof. But on the other hand, this girl said don't bully him but then proceeds to try and defame him while keeping this "But he's not that bad" persona. If that's the case, there was no need to even put out the video😭
Ben posted another video, explaining that he did pay for her medical bills growing up, which she's being disingenuous about. In college, she had a break up, and wanted to seek grief counseling. That's what he refused to pay. She states multiple times, that he just completely abandoned them after the divorce. Meanwhile, his new vid shows her at around age 10-12 along with her siblings. He took them to the beach, waterparks, and other vacations. He asked her about her passions at the time, all while still giving her mother over 10k a month. He attended graduations and other events. No where was he absent.
I hate when this happens. I hate families being torn apart by each other for fame, control, and money. It's not cool and funny to lie about someone like that.
As both a daughter and a sister, this is absolutely heartbreaking, cringe, and upsetting. I have a younger sister that also makes false accusations against not just on my dad, but both my parents. She apparently has a podcast and makes TikToks about her “traumas” growing up. She went as far as accusing my hardworking, loving father of SAing her and only her. She and I shared the same bedroom our entire childhood, and obviously know that’s not true. But she blocked and cut off our entire family and people that knew us since we were kids so no one could call her out on it. She’s the youngest girl out of the 5 of us, so she was the rotten spoiled brat and was WELL taken care of (of course I can say that since she’s my sister and allowed to make fun of her lol). The TikTok girl sounds actually like my sister. Wanting to be a victim when she has never been victimized. Enough said.
You should expose her, she’ll never learn otherwise. Or your parents should take her phone away, cuz that behaviour isn’t near way okay. It’s offensive for ppl who really go tru trauma
@@vsm5787 She’s 24 now, but she started this bullshit since she was 22. My family and I could expose her but we just let “her truth” to be out in the world because no one knows her true life story and we shouldn’t force anyone to believe us since we know that at the end the real truth will come out . And besides, we’ve never tried to contacted her since she graduated from college (bc she blocked us and started her bullshit), she kept “crying out” that we won’t leave her alone and that we kept harassing her. We knew at that point she had lost her senses and no way she’ll change what she believes
she plays on the gender disparity that a woman is innocent until proven guilty while a guy is guilty until proven innocent. Even more of a red flag is that she altered her story from no contact deadbeat dad to "we have dinner on occassion".....which is not what total deadbeat dads do...but she's still The Victim in this story. hmmm
Talking bad about people is a red flag. They'll talk behind your back too. Stay away from people that do this. Only tell people about a person if you're warning them.
My Dad literally ghosted my family when I was 4 years old. We never saw a single cent from him and I didn’t speak with him again until I ran into him when I was 18. His reason for leaving was that my mom didn’t want him doing coke anymore… I WISH he had just left to pursue Breakdancing
If the dad didn't send her money, she attacks him and say he was never there for her If he sends her moderate amount or too small, she'd say he barely did anything despite earning alot and she's a bad father He sends her alot of money and she turns out the way she is RN With a daughter like this, she was always gonna bring him down so she can make a story based on her life, that's how Hollywood is😪
the funniest part is that she’s coming out with it as an aware adult like she has to know they were divorced at that point it’s like girl you’re just mad and trying to make the story look a certain way 😂 she needs therapy that’s what he should have bought her!
@@obamabinladen-de7rtthe dad most likely cheated and got married to his affair partner. He literally says it was an at-fault divorce and it was 70% his fault. Everyone here bashing the daughter is crazy imo. You just want to seem cool cuz the dad is old and breakdances. And is rich.
@@shadamyandsonamylover it was an at fault divorce yes, but it was a divorce and not straight up abandonment, if he is at fault why would you lie to make him seem even worse?
Parental alienation is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child's relationship with the other parent and to turn the child's emotions against that other parent.
The father's respond video was very timid and very light-hearted honestly and her reaction of that response tells me there is probably more dishonesty coming from her than him
Not timid but if you exaggerated the situation even more, it do no one better, the father trying to protect in a sense himself and her by not doing too much.
When I grew up my parents divorced, at first I was living with my mom and you know what she did. She tried to brainwash me about my father being a bad person but I never let that get to me. Then I moved to my father after getting tired of hearing lies about my dad, aah the peaceful days with my dad.
Thank you for giving me hope that I can achieve such. I fight hard for my son every day, and everything is always my fault no matter what I do. Dad's just aren't important to the courts or public opinion, sadly. It's been a soul crushing experience, losing so much time with my son, it's a pain id wish on nobody in this world. My love for my son is weaponized against me, when I just wanted equality in parenting and for everyone to move forward with their lives. Needless to say, it didn't go that way at all, unfortunately. Thank you so much for your comment, it's literally going to make me cry, because some days it just feels like I got left behind, just for wanting to be a dad. Thank you again, stranger, thank you.
@@HarleySLAhang in there, brother. We are one, but we are many. Divorced after 17 years & my wife left me for another man, taking my 2 boys with her. Started off having them 2 days a fortnight, which everyone told me to be thankful for. I would excitedly count down the days till I saw them and would end up devastated when that time whisked past & they departed again. That was nearly 7 years ago and we are up to 4 days a fortnight in time together. It wasn’t enough then and it’s still not enough now. But… they remember EVERYTHING… And that is what you need to hang on to if you are able to see them if at all
She doesn’t want to get into it, only after she trashed her father online. She’s just a typical victim, because that’s what makes her special. I didn’t have a great dad, but I wouldn’t air his dirty laundry in public for clicks.
i was similar but after time i realised my mother did not help the situation one bit . he paid the money she had the house and moaned all the time about it
Do you ever think using the word "victim" sarcastically is harmful to real victims? And before you tell me that's her fault, remember your whole point is about accountability.
The dad responded again... with receipts. Pictures of the dad with Madi while she was growing up. At the beach, skiing, graduation etc. He answered the medical bills etc. so maybe go check it out.... the pictures don't look like he was absent.
Those are vacation photos? That doesn’t mean he raised her. Are you going to believe the parent or child about whether or not the parent was there for them when they needed it?
@@dotcom3015 According to the daughter he was completely absent... if he was around for vacations he was around at least a few times a year. For a divorced dad that's pretty common, especially if there was a bad divorce. I didn't say he was a good dad, or a perfect dad... but he wasn't the deadbeat she painted him as... he may have been selfish, childish, or petulant but he wasn't what she presented him as.
The era of “exposing” your parents for their flaws is getting out of hand. None of our parents were perfect. Some were better than others. The point of life is to forgive your parents for their flaws so you don’t continue what they did.
@@AA-ed6ek Forgiving is not excusing. Forgiving someone who hurt you is a sign of healing, mentally and emotionally. The concept of forgiveness is for your self-healing, that's the whole point.
I don’t believe the TikTok girl for a second. Her response to the dad’s response seemed very malicious and forced. She’s not giving any proof of him lying and she’s speaking in a manner as if she’s upset that she’s being called out for lying. And basically everything about the video and her demeanor makes me feel like she’s a liar. Everything about the dad makes me feel like he’s telling the truth. He’s very clear in what he’s saying and he just overall seems a lot more genuine than his daughter.
No Im sure she really believes what shes saying, as the 65 year old break dancer pointed out. But it isnt true, likely brain wash by her mother. This happens so damn often Im inclined to believe the dad, if we are going off he said she said alone
@swordsunknown5226 Ben Hart, the father, made another response and showed the receipts. He was there during graduations, took them on vacations, and even paid bills. The Birthday stuff was a typo, because two days before he sent her 200 dollars ahead of the birthday.
@@swordsunknown5226 so if a man is wearing the "wrong" shirt for you, he must be a lying deadbeat? Hmmmm....can't wait for when you ever get in trouble and ppl assume your guilt or innocence purely on your fashion of the day....
How can anyone take her side of the story seriously when she can't even keep her own story straight? She said in her response that she didn't hear from him for years and then within the same breath she contradicted herself and said that he came around every 2 months and had dinner with them which would imply on no uncertain terms that you DID see your dad on a somewhat regular basis and even self admitted to have shared meals together. She came out of nowhere and publicly leveled heavy accusations of parental neglect on her dad for no reason, her dad came out in a civil manner and told his side of the story while correcting and/or expanding on certain things that he felt needed to be expanded upon and later she comes out and tries to discredit her dad's side of the story and ends up contradicting her own statements in the process. What reason does she give me to believe anything she is saying? Where is the evidence of him being a bad father? Because him forgetting her birthday is a weak argument since not everyone has a good memory, especially so if you're older and have multiple kids to keep track of.
Paying attention to their tones of voices, facial expressions and more, and just the general story of it, yeah, the dad is 100% (to me) not lying. The way she acts just seems so typical of someone trying to get clout, and the small threats that you normally wouldn't notice makes it worse, it's like saying back off or else I'll say something about you to my millions of fans so they go to harass you, to me it just shows her character.
How did he not "help her with her medical bills" when he'd been paying 18k a month on child support? That's completely insane, that's almost twice the money I earn in a YEAR. And of course if the divorce was nasty, the mother has an incentive to make him look bad and her young children would be heavily influenced by her. Her entire thing just seems to be for clout. If you notice, outside of "being absent" and "not helping with medical bills" she just throws around vague things like "traumatic", "unhinged" or things like that. The fact that she presented the whole story as "he abandoned us to do breakdancing" even though he started 7 YEARS later makes me doubt everything she's saying. Her story is just too vague, too full of "plot holes" and seems overall way more opportunistic than his side.
also the mother could've kept all that child support money to herself and kept lying that the dad paid nothing seeing how it seems the mother has a vendetta against him. I can see why he left her.
@@Awesom-O-40000To be fair, the 5M included the 18k a month, also him paying her 250 a week during the writers' strike and also co-leasing her appartment, and I imagine the 18k was for his 4 children, but fucking hell, 18k a month is really huge, as I said, it's almost double a month that I make in a year.
Fun fact: She blocked me in her response video after I asked if she remembered the situation correctly, cause between what she said and he said, it sounds more like she felt abandoned
As a child of divorce and having been abandoned by my father literally over night… I still side with the dad. She’s completely spoiled and crazy. She has very little right to complain 😂
I think the old guy is telling the truth. Think about it: •He's a Father of 4 children. •If he did't help with 16K in Child support and Allomony, he'd be serving jail time so you know his ex-wife got financially secure after the divorce. •600K is A LOT towards a college fund, especially with inflation. The guy is highly intellegent otherwise he'd be living in poverty. •He is putting Facts over Feelings. •She is putting Feelings over Facts.
he showed the recipts he was divorced so he could not live with her and the amount of hate she is showing im happy he didnt she is mad because he got married well girl why cant he remarry and have a nice life
I don’t know anything about this situation but what ticks me off is that she basically shows her father in this negative light and expects people to not say anything.
She's a Gen Z social media "influencer"...she'd sell her soul for a single "like" and just a bit more pointless validation from strangers who wouldn't shed a tear if she shuffled off the mortal coil tomorrow.
I didn't trust either of them. However I lean more towards the dad. He did provide financial support, and since he had remarried, his current family should be receiving the majority of his attention while not neglecting his children from the previous marriage (if possible).
People mald so much about the dad not knowing his daugther bday, because he abandoned her. Bro, i have been living with my dad for 26 years, and both of us don't know each other brithdays!! I'd probably forget my own birthday too if i could
My family makes fun of me cause my dads birthday is september 7th but i very often say september 9th cause september is the 9th month so even then i can understand forgetting cause generally dads are meant to look like the final boss of a household but often seem more like the neglectful parent (men are more passive and dont want to start trouble in the relationship so often irs because something happened years before that caused mom to be mad and so he only initiates time woth his kids when she allows it) also keep in mind you cant tell thr difference between a neglectful dad and a dad i just mentioned if you dont initiate a conversation with him and thats why some people love their dads and some think hes jist there to pay bills or something. Not saying talk to your dad, although you should, just saying at least talk to your mom about your dad or other family members cause even in my family we see how everyone says my dad is so energetic and positive but we usually dont get to see that as he works alot and basically lives in the basement (he used to work 3 jobs or so but had to stop not cause of problems but cause the tax jump from 2 to 3 didnt make sense for the hours he worked to him) im not nearly at bedt friends with dad level but im slowly getting there
Jesus. My Dad left, lied to the CPS about his income and was told he only had to pay £2.76 a week (lol) stole the small amount of inheritance my Grandfather left me when i was 12, purchased a fancy car, and shacked up with a woman half his age (who he cheated on repeatedly, like he did my mother) and i havent seen nor spoken to him for over 20 years. Now THATS a dead beat Dad and abandonment.
Yeah mine found out I existed and was like NOPE signed his rights away now i’m 24 and did I mention i have little to no information about him? I have his name and I don’t even know if it’s spelled correctly 😂😂😂😂 edit: if there was laughable trauma please tell me that was it
Maddie is disgusting and has no idea what a deadbeat dad is. Aww poor wee Maddie how terrible it must be to be set up for life, how very terrible for you.
@@hayleyelizabeth7895 The only thing funny about it is comparing it to her so called "trauma" and how she's just a spoiled entitled brat compared to anyone else with real actual trauma/issues. 😂 I was abused and ended up homeless. This chick was rich, got everything taken care of for her, and works in hollywood and she wants to talk about "trauma." Also those medical expenses she wanted to have him pay for? It was for fucking therapy because she broke up with her boyfriend and no, I am not joking.
My father also divorsed my mother when i was really young and it was not at all traumatic. More traumatic was him trying to kill me because he was an alcoholic drug addict. My brother tryed to drown me as well and i'm not bitching about it. For me the girl is lying because she is like "trust me bro, all my core family says he is lying" yet no proof of that. I think that she didnt like the dad dropping some facts and she felt like it was going to ruin her all drama of "oh i'm so special My dad abandoned me and My family but i'm joking about it". Doesnt fall for me.
Dad has a 2nd video with ALOT of receipts. Showing Vids of them going on vacation spending time together with his fam, photos of him at their graduations/family dinners. They all seem to be having a great time. He definitely wasn't as absent of a father as she claims, could he have been there more? sure but he was def there and present for events.
I found her dad to be a good honest guy, the daughter has to have something interesting to post or she'll get no views and that's a death sentance for social media influencers, it might be a part truth or a misunderstanding on her part
In college, you are an adult. Your parents can continue to help you, but they are not obligated to do so. Cold, but true. And I’m thinking he might have considered the funds he’d put in to see to their well being the financial aid towards things like medical. Maybe ask the mother what she did with the thousands per month she was paid that was meant for the children.
This is exactly what I was thinking! If she needed financial aid, why didn't she go to her mother instead of her 'deadbeat dad'? I have a sucky Dad who gave me actual trauma, and I don't talk to him at ALL. This just comes across as spoiled behaviour.
We've gotten to a point where people will do anything for attention. I watched his video where he posted proof that he's been there in her life. He's a better parent than me. I would not have been so nice if my kid tried to destroy my life over a lie. Especially over something as stupid as attention from strangers on the internet.
When you’re in college, you are adult. This younger generation is so entitled, you need to pay my bills once I am an adult! Whether it’s true or not, stop playing the victim card! This generation is in the victim Olympics! It’s crazy! If you had a decent childhood, these people have to their trauma or make it up! If you’re biggest “childhood trauma is that your parents got divorced…consider yourself extremely lucky and move the eff on! SMFH!!! These people have no idea what trauma is. I mean OMG! Imagine having to pay your own medical bills as an adult… what nightmare not even comparable to the people who’s medical bills were inflicted by your parents and I am not talking about a splinter!
Yeah so I have a deadbeat dad but I still love him because I can see he's not a bad person, life's complicated. I can't imagine being so entitled like this girl is.
I think being a deadbeat is due to financial reason and not really about being a bad person. Sometimes, money is the reason why couples end up separating.
@@remtanic2617No, but badmouthing him for not providing to you when he clearly did and saying he was completely absent fifteen seconds after you said he would come to visit from time to time; definitely.
The things my father did I would expose him if it meant it didn't come back on other family or myself. However with the power of forethought I know there are consequences if I were to do something close to what this girl did. Its fine enough to settle for warning the people around you irl if there is a problem and letting them come to their own decisions. Impulsive emotional thoughts happen but people need to have the mental capacity and maturity to think of the consequences before acting.
Old man's got moves 👏👏👏 Also Maddie is dumb as fuck for trying to turn trauma into something to laugh at, like imagine some dude got shot at by the mafia and the next day he's like "Haha, those guys were so funny, I should go golfing with them"
What? Are people not allowed recover in a healthy way? Laughter is the best medicine. I think the wording is weird but laughing at your own trauma is a perfectly okay thing to do if it helps
@@pootzmagootz I never said people aren't allowed to heal, but her saying "Trauma that's actually funny" is fucking insane, like I get the idea of looking back on a bad situation and having a little chuckle, but never heard of someone laughing while getting robbed in their own house.
@@factualdegree5450 on fucking god, and she didn't even phrase it in a comedic way, she just said "yeah my dad abandoned me when I was 5, so funny right 🤣"
The man paid $5 million of his hard earned money for his family to live on for what, 18 years? You can live 2 lifetimes on that much. He's paid his dues, even if he wasn't present. Perhaps not father of the year, but there are many, many worse fathers, and his kids were extremely well taken care of.
I think the term "deadbeat" gets thrown around to much. A deadbeat is so one who deasapears without a trace. no care for the children and often also avoiding financial help. If a parent takes itself about of the eqasion fore the childrens sake (mental health, drug abuse, criminal background e.c.t.) but still tries to support the children, the parent isn't a deadbeat. Also there are many cases, where the parents separate and the custodian deliberately keeps the other away by all means. I wouldn't count that as a deadbeat either.
She is trying too hard to have something I common with co workers, friends. Maybe he phoniness was evident to her ex boyfriend and realized she was a waste. Blame daddy because she had a wonderful life.
Let me guess, because "women bad". Get off the internet, and go out into the real world. Posting a response video does not mean you were actually a great parent, especially if you abandoned your child when they were 5!
@@presentthough3417 dude wtf is you're statement ''let me guess woman bad'' dude there's nothing talking about the gender in this video you're just yapping you're ass off
@@presentthough3417 always somebody trying to defend the person in the wrong. Seriously though how far was that jump in logic? I only have a ruler on hand and that was pretty far.
Heck, my parents didn't even divorce, and my Mom would air out her frustrations about my Dad to me. When you're tired and stressed all the time, of course it will paint your Dad in a negative light. But, after therapy, I learned to step back and be more neutral. I had to remind my Mom to stop talking crap about Dad.
The fact that she said new wife, that sounds like something his ex-wife would say after him leaving considering the kids liked him before but because she was mad then she had to get the kids on her side but who knows
She sounds just like my son: after having been indoctrinated/ brainwashed by their mothers. She was lucky her dad lived quite close and could see them very often. I didn't see my daughter for 10 years, and my son for 23 years. My son still spews the rhetoric and bullsh*t his mother spoon fed him. My daughter doesn't believe her mother, she has seen the truth through her own eyes and deductions. My son is totally blinded by the rubbish he is still being fed which includes I was trying to get back with his mother (wouldn't touch her with a 40' barge pole), and extremely offensive things like I was trying to get off with his half-sister. When I asked for evidence of course there wasn't any; also the fact I do not have his mother's phone number, if I did it would be permanently blocked and have no desire or will to contact her at all. This latest incident was less than two years ago. Ex was jealous because I visited Poland for 6 months where my son lives and was seeing him and his family frequently. She is a completely despicable individual saying anything to try to get my son & his family to block me from visiting.
She is a spoiled brat! She is doing this for clout! There are visitation stipulations when you get a divorce. Her mother brainwashed her. I can tell cause i am divorced as well and i told my daughter i will explain it to her when she is older cause she is still young.
I 100% believe the dad. It's how he confronted the points. And her response with words like "delusional" "most of my childhood" is highly subjective, whereas his response is precise with word, address, business names, etc. Its just a professional victim trying to get views.
She calls it childhood trauma when even if he lived in Florida she said he visited every 2 Months. Please. After my parents divorced my Mum moved from Switzerland (where my dad lives and I was born) to Sweden (my dad can't speak Swedish while my Mum speaks French which is what was spoken in the part of Switzerland we lived in beforehand). I do not blame either of them for that decision cause they both thought the education and health care would be better in Sweden (honestly I didn't care for school in Sweden and would rather have grown up in Switzerland, but that's the past and what's done is done and they did what they thought was best). My dad would visit during December for 2 weeks in Sweden and we (my sister and I) would visit him in the summer every year for 2 weeks. We also moved to Sweden when I was 4. What I never get is having resentment and badmouthing your divorced ex. My mum and dad are still very good friends and just accepted they weren't a good match marriage wise and I have always and to this day still love both of them very much. I'm visiting my dad this summer again with my sister, brother in law, niece, nephew and my brother in laws parents. I also plan to move to Japan in the future and this is not due to not loving my family in Europe, but simply cause it's my dream and what I want to do. I do plan to wait until I live there, have a stable job, wife that I've been with long enough to know she's the one and a home I wouldn't wanna move from for at least 20 or so years. She just needs to grow tf up. Not everything works out how you would ideally want it and sometimes you have to live far from one of your parents, but that's just life. Accept it rather than crying that you weren't born with a perfect life cause no one is.
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@@anaalicia5029 Made his fortune and later made her mom a fortune too! In 2024 dollar value, her mom was getting 324k A YEAR FROM HER DAD. Thats more than your average person does in a year worth of working, and her mom was doing nothing other than filling her own kid's ideas lunatic ideologies
A person who sets up a camera lighting and films yourself giggling and smiling talking about your "trauma" is actually traumatizing for the ppl that have to listen. Cuz no one does that
What is crazy 🤣, is the amount of receipts the dad had to show to save his reputation, and it's still damaged. 5-10 mills to the kids and wife. And Years upon years of videos about him spending time with his kids.
Rather have a father who gives money and is absent than a dad who gives money but comes home and abuses you, smh these people are never grateful for what they have.
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Listen, I have had REAL dad issues. Thankfully we've worked it out but the combination of work stress and home stress pushed him to the brink for at least 5 years when i was younger. I wouldnt've "exposed" what was REALLY happening even when I was 4, so why can't this woman not fake a story, post it online when she's definately a lot older than that?
She was expecting way more than what should be from a divorced father, such as always being there for her(only her??). Because you know, he and her mom were divorced! Totally playing the victim on social media and for what? Clout. Just remember, she started all of this and never had to share any of this for your selfish and attentive needs.
Must be fun to have had a father who was only a few minutes away instead of having one you knew was living in a whole ass other country only to meet him 18 years later. I'd say he was absent but at least I knew where he was but couldn't go there for awhile until now ☠🤣
the fact that people would defend this behavior on twitter is wild, dad had every right to call her out since she aired this online first given that she is online and her dad is a big figure as well. whether either or is true, she looks worse in this situation compared to the dad in my opinion.
Mental illness has been found in newer generations to come especially with the lies fed and given to the kids from a mother that can't accept accountability for her actions so she placed blame elsewhere. The Dad is pursuing life. The other members of the family need to seek help like serious help
There are so many broken families with so many children with emotional trauma hand in hand with existential struggles. For that reason I somehow can’t feel so much empathy with a young privileged woman talking about her bad childhood.
the thing about the dad's response I noticed is that even after his kid calling him out to the masses and spreading half truths he still found beauty in what she did, it gave me the whole, "my kid could do no wrong, everything she does is gold" type of love vibe which makes it hard for me to believe he was the one being malicious.
This is why I take people on the internet with a grain of salt on bc I’ve seen so many people claim thing like “my dad assaults me” but the will post a pic of their dad saying shit like “best dad in the world” on their page a few days later.
Bro I swear girls these days can grow up in the most safe and wealthy household imaginable and still claim to have tRaUmA to farm some clout
Literally what I was thinking!
Yeahhh, “trauma” is a word that gets thrown around way too lightly nowadays.
Yes, unfortunately many people suffer from trauma and mental illness. But a lot of these social media “influencers” just use it for clout, because it’s “quirky and relatable”
Ikr! I was facepalming everytime she said the word "trauma" she probably doesn't even know what that word really means lmao
One of Eminem's non biological adopted daughter did same shit for twitch clout a year ago. Ungrateful brats
Seriously. She kept saying "trauma" as if this very thing doesn't happen to most fucking families. Shit, I lived in a household where my mom abused my dad for years, kicked him out for 2 years, brought him back to live in the basement, and when she finally left him for a woman, she lied to the courts saying he was an abusive drug addict and then tried to have him arrested on false claims of domestic abuse. Yet even I don't call this traumatic. It was probably way more traumatic for my dad, if anyone. (Also, thank God my brother was secretly recording that night because the video actually showed HER chasing him around the house at 1am, punching, slapping, and kicking him trying to get a reaction and when he pushed by her, she literally threw herself into the goddamn wall and called the cops. Once they saw the video from my brother, they asked him if he wanted to press charges and he said no, so they left...all that started because he put locks on the basement door to keep her away from him and she got mad that she couldn't go down there and provoke him or rummage through his belongings anymore, resulting in her taking a fvcking hammer to the door to break in and attack him and scream at him). I used to PRAY that my dad would leave her bc he was so depressed and miserable, but he was so afraid that if he did, she'd take us and he'd never see his kids again. I love my dad and would defend him to the end of the world. Hell, despite the shit my mom did, I still worked with her until we eventually came to some sort of understanding. I certainly wouldn't shout her real name from the rooftops or destroy her image by going public with all that. Anonymous, whatever, but the second you use real names and faces, you've fucked up. I don't even really care who's right or wrong, people need to stop publicly airing out their personal problems and dirty laundry. Make that shit anonymous or keep your mouth fucking shut. She's despicable either way in my eyes. And it ain't fvcking trauma. She may be hurt, but she didn't experience trauma. Pathetic childish stupid little girl.
The irony of the internet’s twisted logic: telling your audience not to go bully someone, is literally code for telling them to do so.
frrr
Yet if you don't, people will accuse you of encouraging bullying
@@Rainokdamned if you do, damned if you don’t
Well I think it depends on the context of the video as well as the person. Many youtubers or influencers who don't have malicious intents, actually do it for a reason like maybe an informative video on a type of controversy which is backed up with valid proof. But on the other hand, this girl said don't bully him but then proceeds to try and defame him while keeping this "But he's not that bad" persona. If that's the case, there was no need to even put out the video😭
The internet fans do whatever they want. The internet is full of wackos
Ben posted another video, explaining that he did pay for her medical bills growing up, which she's being disingenuous about.
In college, she had a break up, and wanted to seek grief counseling. That's what he refused to pay.
She states multiple times, that he just completely abandoned them after the divorce. Meanwhile, his new vid shows her at around age 10-12 along with her siblings.
He took them to the beach, waterparks, and other vacations.
He asked her about her passions at the time, all while still giving her mother over 10k a month.
He attended graduations and other events. No where was he absent.
It's crazy how people lie to get money and attention. Ok, maybe not that crazy, but you get the point
oh my.. thanks it all adds up now. but just, gosh, she's just..
yeah man, it's her dad and this is crazy@@bigheadrat9493
going to grief counselling for a break up... lmao.. this girl lol
I hate when this happens. I hate families being torn apart by each other for fame, control, and money. It's not cool and funny to lie about someone like that.
As both a daughter and a sister, this is absolutely heartbreaking, cringe, and upsetting. I have a younger sister that also makes false accusations against not just on my dad, but both my parents. She apparently has a podcast and makes TikToks about her “traumas” growing up. She went as far as accusing my hardworking, loving father of SAing her and only her. She and I shared the same bedroom our entire childhood, and obviously know that’s not true. But she blocked and cut off our entire family and people that knew us since we were kids so no one could call her out on it. She’s the youngest girl out of the 5 of us, so she was the rotten spoiled brat and was WELL taken care of (of course I can say that since she’s my sister and allowed to make fun of her lol). The TikTok girl sounds actually like my sister. Wanting to be a victim when she has never been victimized. Enough said.
She needs suing so her brainwashed two brain cells left can be kicked into action
I'm sorry you have to go through that
You should expose her, she’ll never learn otherwise. Or your parents should take her phone away, cuz that behaviour isn’t near way okay. It’s offensive for ppl who really go tru trauma
@@vsm5787 She’s 24 now, but she started this bullshit since she was 22. My family and I could expose her but we just let “her truth” to be out in the world because no one knows her true life story and we shouldn’t force anyone to believe us since we know that at the end the real truth will come out . And besides, we’ve never tried to contacted her since she graduated from college (bc she blocked us and started her bullshit), she kept “crying out” that we won’t leave her alone and that we kept harassing her. We knew at that point she had lost her senses and no way she’ll change what she believes
Being a victim is trendy in America
This girl is such a red flag 😐
Zero relationship with Dad, but willing to ask him to pay for her shit, even medical bills is a huge red flag
@@misterdopemusic5855 Yeah she probably has a ton of medical bills because she’s a mentally ill TikToker 😂
she plays on the gender disparity that a woman is innocent until proven guilty while a guy is guilty until proven innocent. Even more of a red flag is that she altered her story from no contact deadbeat dad to "we have dinner on occassion".....which is not what total deadbeat dads do...but she's still The Victim in this story.
hmmm
Talking bad about people is a red flag. They'll talk behind your back too. Stay away from people that do this.
Only tell people about a person if you're warning them.
Oh and not the old breakdancing bitcoin repping deadbeat? Ok lol
She works in Hollywood, enough said.
She has a plastic personality
Nuff said.
she probably made those woke new disney movies^^
And she can thank her father in a way too. Since he himself worked in Hollywood. 😅
you guys DID not watch her response she doesnt work in hollywood shes a fucking assistant lmao
My Dad literally ghosted my family when I was 4 years old. We never saw a single cent from him and I didn’t speak with him again until I ran into him when I was 18. His reason for leaving was that my mom didn’t want him doing coke anymore… I WISH he had just left to pursue Breakdancing
She is a spoiled rich kid who is trying to manufacture drama because she's never had to deal with real trauma.
If the dad didn't send her money, she attacks him and say he was never there for her
If he sends her moderate amount or too small, she'd say he barely did anything despite earning alot and she's a bad father
He sends her alot of money and she turns out the way she is RN
With a daughter like this, she was always gonna bring him down so she can make a story based on her life, that's how Hollywood is😪
"he was an absent father." BTCH YOUR PARENTS WERE DIVORCED WTF DID YOU EXPECT??😂😂😂
the funniest part is that she’s coming out with it as an aware adult like she has to know they were divorced at that point it’s like girl you’re just mad and trying to make the story look a certain way 😂 she needs therapy that’s what he should have bought her!
yeah dude she is mad because his dad married real quick like what do you expect him to mourn over it ruin his life dads a G bro.
@@obamabinladen-de7rtthe dad most likely cheated and got married to his affair partner. He literally says it was an at-fault divorce and it was 70% his fault.
Everyone here bashing the daughter is crazy imo. You just want to seem cool cuz the dad is old and breakdances. And is rich.
@@shadamyandsonamylover it was an at fault divorce yes, but it was a divorce and not straight up abandonment, if he is at fault why would you lie to make him seem even worse?
@@specificocean4176 if you cheat on your family and then leave your family to get with your affair partner - that is 100% abandonment.
Parental alienation is a strategy whereby one parent intentionally displays to the child unjustified negativity aimed at the other parent. The purpose of this strategy is to damage the child's relationship with the other parent and to turn the child's emotions against that other parent.
and the victim is mostly the father.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
It's also mostly a myth perpetuated by bad parents whose kids hate them for good reasons
@@popejaimiedo you have data on this or do you just like to make stuff up that sounds good for your argument?
@@popejaimieis that why it’s standard for parenting/custody agreements required by the states to contain verbiage to prevent that sort of stuff?
The father's respond video was very timid and very light-hearted honestly and her reaction of that response tells me there is probably more dishonesty coming from her than him
Not timid but if you exaggerated the situation even more, it do no one better, the father trying to protect in a sense himself and her by not doing too much.
When I grew up my parents divorced, at first I was living with my mom and you know what she did. She tried to brainwash me about my father being a bad person but I never let that get to me. Then I moved to my father after getting tired of hearing lies about my dad, aah the peaceful days with my dad.
Thank you for giving me hope that I can achieve such. I fight hard for my son every day, and everything is always my fault no matter what I do. Dad's just aren't important to the courts or public opinion, sadly. It's been a soul crushing experience, losing so much time with my son, it's a pain id wish on nobody in this world. My love for my son is weaponized against me, when I just wanted equality in parenting and for everyone to move forward with their lives. Needless to say, it didn't go that way at all, unfortunately. Thank you so much for your comment, it's literally going to make me cry, because some days it just feels like I got left behind, just for wanting to be a dad. Thank you again, stranger, thank you.
@@HarleySLAhang in there, brother. We are one, but we are many.
Divorced after 17 years & my wife left me for another man, taking my 2 boys with her.
Started off having them 2 days a fortnight, which everyone told me to be thankful for. I would excitedly count down the days till I saw them and would end up devastated when that time whisked past & they departed again.
That was nearly 7 years ago and we are up to 4 days a fortnight in time together.
It wasn’t enough then and it’s still not enough now.
But… they remember EVERYTHING…
And that is what you need to hang on to if you are able to see them if at all
She doesn’t want to get into it, only after she trashed her father online. She’s just a typical victim, because that’s what makes her special. I didn’t have a great dad, but I wouldn’t air his dirty laundry in public for clicks.
i was similar but after time i realised my mother did not help the situation one bit . he paid the money she had the house and moaned all the time about it
She’s a professional victim
She lives off her clicks.
Simply she was out of content and then this happened.
Do you ever think using the word "victim" sarcastically is harmful to real victims? And before you tell me that's her fault, remember your whole point is about accountability.
The dad responded again... with receipts. Pictures of the dad with Madi while she was growing up. At the beach, skiing, graduation etc. He answered the medical bills etc. so maybe go check it out.... the pictures don't look like he was absent.
thank you man for clearing it up i was looking for this comment
This is the second video I have seen on this drama that left out the Dad’s second response.
Link?
Those are vacation photos? That doesn’t mean he raised her. Are you going to believe the parent or child about whether or not the parent was there for them when they needed it?
@@dotcom3015 According to the daughter he was completely absent... if he was around for vacations he was around at least a few times a year. For a divorced dad that's pretty common, especially if there was a bad divorce. I didn't say he was a good dad, or a perfect dad... but he wasn't the deadbeat she painted him as... he may have been selfish, childish, or petulant but he wasn't what she presented him as.
10:59 The dad - "The main point is, it's never to late to start break dancing".
I agree. I also think that's the main point here 😂
You came here to see drama. I came here to watch an old man breakdance. My goals are beyond your comprehension.
@@reallegendgamer379 lol
The era of “exposing” your parents for their flaws is getting out of hand. None of our parents were perfect. Some were better than others. The point of life is to forgive your parents for their flaws so you don’t continue what they did.
yah not having a relationship with the child you choose to have is a "flaw"
@@HeoBaby24Yeah because he chose not to have a relationship with the child. Where’s her mother?
This girl is ridiculous but this culture of you Westerners excusing the behavior of horrible parents (mostly mothers) is gross.
@@AA-ed6ek Forgiving is not excusing. Forgiving someone who hurt you is a sign of healing, mentally and emotionally. The concept of forgiveness is for your self-healing, that's the whole point.
I don’t believe the TikTok girl for a second. Her response to the dad’s response seemed very malicious and forced. She’s not giving any proof of him lying and she’s speaking in a manner as if she’s upset that she’s being called out for lying. And basically everything about the video and her demeanor makes me feel like she’s a liar.
Everything about the dad makes me feel like he’s telling the truth. He’s very clear in what he’s saying and he just overall seems a lot more genuine than his daughter.
You believe a guy who wears a crypto shirt tho?
No Im sure she really believes what shes saying, as the 65 year old break dancer pointed out. But it isnt true, likely brain wash by her mother. This happens so damn often Im inclined to believe the dad, if we are going off he said she said alone
@swordsunknown5226 Ben Hart, the father, made another response and showed the receipts. He was there during graduations, took them on vacations, and even paid bills. The Birthday stuff was a typo, because two days before he sent her 200 dollars ahead of the birthday.
@@swordsunknown5226 so if a man is wearing the "wrong" shirt for you, he must be a lying deadbeat? Hmmmm....can't wait for when you ever get in trouble and ppl assume your guilt or innocence purely on your fashion of the day....
@@swordsunknown5226 wearing a crypto shirt says nothing about one’s character
"we didn't hear from him for years, and he would visit every few months".... So what is it??? Years or months??? , her instant contradiction
She’s lying 😂
yeah I didn't believe her for a second
😂😂😂
How can anyone take her side of the story seriously when she can't even keep her own story straight? She said in her response that she didn't hear from him for years and then within the same breath she contradicted herself and said that he came around every 2 months and had dinner with them which would imply on no uncertain terms that you DID see your dad on a somewhat regular basis and even self admitted to have shared meals together.
She came out of nowhere and publicly leveled heavy accusations of parental neglect on her dad for no reason, her dad came out in a civil manner and told his side of the story while correcting and/or expanding on certain things that he felt needed to be expanded upon and later she comes out and tries to discredit her dad's side of the story and ends up contradicting her own statements in the process. What reason does she give me to believe anything she is saying?
Where is the evidence of him being a bad father? Because him forgetting her birthday is a weak argument since not everyone has a good memory, especially so if you're older and have multiple kids to keep track of.
Paying attention to their tones of voices, facial expressions and more, and just the general story of it, yeah, the dad is 100% (to me) not lying. The way she acts just seems so typical of someone trying to get clout, and the small threats that you normally wouldn't notice makes it worse, it's like saying back off or else I'll say something about you to my millions of fans so they go to harass you, to me it just shows her character.
Ay it's mr psychology.
@@Yiiiiipeeee😮
@@Yiiiiipeeee
OP didn't lie. He spoke facts.
@Delimon007 Ah yes, youtube comments. The beacon of truth and the home of scholars. Please forgive my obtuse behavior and do go on.
@@Yiiiiipeeee Funnily enough, it is, since I'm about to have my bachelor's degree in psychology.
How did he not "help her with her medical bills" when he'd been paying 18k a month on child support? That's completely insane, that's almost twice the money I earn in a YEAR. And of course if the divorce was nasty, the mother has an incentive to make him look bad and her young children would be heavily influenced by her. Her entire thing just seems to be for clout. If you notice, outside of "being absent" and "not helping with medical bills" she just throws around vague things like "traumatic", "unhinged" or things like that. The fact that she presented the whole story as "he abandoned us to do breakdancing" even though he started 7 YEARS later makes me doubt everything she's saying. Her story is just too vague, too full of "plot holes" and seems overall way more opportunistic than his side.
He made a second video. She wanted money for a therapist in regards to her break up with a boyfriend. Father refused to pay these therapist money.
also the mother could've kept all that child support money to herself and kept lying that the dad paid nothing seeing how it seems the mother has a vendetta against him. I can see why he left her.
a deadbeat that pays $5M + $18k/mo is wild 😂😂
@@Awesom-O-40000To be fair, the 5M included the 18k a month, also him paying her 250 a week during the writers' strike and also co-leasing her appartment, and I imagine the 18k was for his 4 children, but fucking hell, 18k a month is really huge, as I said, it's almost double a month that I make in a year.
@@zzygyy
So it wasn't medical bills meaning that she lied, again! Big shocker 😂😂😂😂😂
Fun fact: She blocked me in her response video after I asked if she remembered the situation correctly, cause between what she said and he said, it sounds more like she felt abandoned
She lying 😂
@@nashbullet3213 ik
If I have to guess, she's probably spoiled rotten by her mom
You just objectively cannot be a deadbeat when you are paying 27 grand a month. Not even accounting for the 5 million.
As a child of divorce and having been abandoned by my father literally over night… I still side with the dad. She’s completely spoiled and crazy. She has very little right to complain 😂
I think the old guy is telling the truth. Think about it:
•He's a Father of 4 children.
•If he did't help with 16K in Child support and Allomony, he'd be serving jail time so you know his ex-wife got financially secure after the divorce.
•600K is A LOT towards a college fund, especially with inflation. The guy is highly intellegent otherwise he'd be living in poverty.
•He is putting Facts over Feelings.
•She is putting Feelings over Facts.
Intelligence and wealth are not synonymous.
@@agad1177 Not every tool can manage a business by themselves, just saying, but i'd say this guy is both intelligent and stacked
Facts
@@agad1177how many times have you copy and pasted that same comment?
he showed the recipts he was divorced so he could not live with her and the amount of hate she is showing im happy he didnt she is mad because he got married well girl why cant he remarry and have a nice life
I don’t know anything about this situation but what ticks me off is that she basically shows her father in this negative light and expects people to not say anything.
Exactly. She leaves a trail of bread crumbs to him then unleashes her audience on him knowing exactly what's going to happen.
Nah she definitely expected her audience to troll him.
Goes to show how delusional she is, social media is shining a light to alot of crazies out there.
She's a Gen Z social media "influencer"...she'd sell her soul for a single "like" and just a bit more pointless validation from strangers who wouldn't shed a tear if she shuffled off the mortal coil tomorrow.
@@pennyproud1621 It's pretty sick what they are doing to one another just for the money.
I didn't trust either of them. However I lean more towards the dad. He did provide financial support, and since he had remarried, his current family should be receiving the majority of his attention while not neglecting his children from the previous marriage (if possible).
Most importantly he provide evidence
Go watch his second video towards her response. You'll be changing your tune rreealllll quick.
@@Delimon007In a “dad is right way?” Or a “dad is wrong” way?
"dad scolds his daughter then breakdances" is such a funny concept lmfao
People mald so much about the dad not knowing his daugther bday, because he abandoned her. Bro, i have been living with my dad for 26 years, and both of us don't know each other brithdays!! I'd probably forget my own birthday too if i could
Same, I often forget the birthdays of my mom and dad who I've been living with 24/7 for years.
I do forget mine. I've been surprised a few times after hearing an unexpected 'Happy Birthday!".
I forget my own birthday.
My wife literally had to remind me it was my birthday this year because I completely forgot lol
My family makes fun of me cause my dads birthday is september 7th but i very often say september 9th cause september is the 9th month so even then i can understand forgetting cause generally dads are meant to look like the final boss of a household but often seem more like the neglectful parent (men are more passive and dont want to start trouble in the relationship so often irs because something happened years before that caused mom to be mad and so he only initiates time woth his kids when she allows it) also keep in mind you cant tell thr difference between a neglectful dad and a dad i just mentioned if you dont initiate a conversation with him and thats why some people love their dads and some think hes jist there to pay bills or something. Not saying talk to your dad, although you should, just saying at least talk to your mom about your dad or other family members cause even in my family we see how everyone says my dad is so energetic and positive but we usually dont get to see that as he works alot and basically lives in the basement (he used to work 3 jobs or so but had to stop not cause of problems but cause the tax jump from 2 to 3 didnt make sense for the hours he worked to him) im not nearly at bedt friends with dad level but im slowly getting there
Jesus. My Dad left, lied to the CPS about his income and was told he only had to pay £2.76 a week (lol) stole the small amount of inheritance my Grandfather left me when i was 12, purchased a fancy car, and shacked up with a woman half his age (who he cheated on repeatedly, like he did my mother) and i havent seen nor spoken to him for over 20 years. Now THATS a dead beat Dad and abandonment.
Yeah mine found out I existed and was like NOPE signed his rights away now i’m 24 and did I mention i have little to no information about him? I have his name and I don’t even know if it’s spelled correctly 😂😂😂😂 edit: if there was laughable trauma please tell me that was it
Glad yal are doing beter
Maddie is disgusting and has no idea what a deadbeat dad is. Aww poor wee Maddie how terrible it must be to be set up for life, how very terrible for you.
Damn
@@hayleyelizabeth7895
The only thing funny about it is comparing it to her so called "trauma" and how she's just a spoiled entitled brat compared to anyone else with real actual trauma/issues. 😂 I was abused and ended up homeless. This chick was rich, got everything taken care of for her, and works in hollywood and she wants to talk about "trauma." Also those medical expenses she wanted to have him pay for? It was for fucking therapy because she broke up with her boyfriend and no, I am not joking.
This girl is a straight up red flag, avoid that tumor at all cost!.
TUMOR??? LOOL
My father also divorsed my mother when i was really young and it was not at all traumatic. More traumatic was him trying to kill me because he was an alcoholic drug addict. My brother tryed to drown me as well and i'm not bitching about it.
For me the girl is lying because she is like "trust me bro, all my core family says he is lying" yet no proof of that. I think that she didnt like the dad dropping some facts and she felt like it was going to ruin her all drama of "oh i'm so special My dad abandoned me and My family but i'm joking about it". Doesnt fall for me.
Dad has a 2nd video with ALOT of receipts. Showing Vids of them going on vacation spending time together with his fam, photos of him at their graduations/family dinners. They all seem to be having a great time. He definitely wasn't as absent of a father as she claims, could he have been there more? sure but he was def there and present for events.
Hahaha he should sue, get some of his money back.
No he didn’t, this is completely fabricated
@@utrak Sue for 8mil dollars , 500k extra to pay the lawyers
@@dontpanic9496 🤡
he should sue both his daughter and the mom
She's crazy, and I bet her mom is too. Her dad seems to be as good a sport about it as humanly possible. The end.
The best response and revenge is the withdraw from the relationship and live a happy life with your new found freedom.
I found her dad to be a good honest guy, the daughter has to have something interesting to post or she'll get no views and that's a death sentance for social media influencers, it might be a part truth or a misunderstanding on her part
anyone who writes a book about their own divorce is fuckin crazy
that includes kanye
@@user-mz6sh4uo7u women can drive any man crazy.
Childhood trauma? HA!! This girl woulda self terminated if she woulda had my childhood.
Ikr. They have no idea what real childhood trauma looks like.
Lol
Imagine giving your kids millions of dollars and still being called a dead beat lmao. Crazy.
In college, you are an adult. Your parents can continue to help you, but they are not obligated to do so. Cold, but true. And I’m thinking he might have considered the funds he’d put in to see to their well being the financial aid towards things like medical. Maybe ask the mother what she did with the thousands per month she was paid that was meant for the children.
This is exactly what I was thinking! If she needed financial aid, why didn't she go to her mother instead of her 'deadbeat dad'? I have a sucky Dad who gave me actual trauma, and I don't talk to him at ALL. This just comes across as spoiled behaviour.
Exactly what I thought 😭 Dad is a weird goober but he’s not 100% responsible for everything in her life ever
I just got done watching his response to her response and he brought the receipts!! 😅
Too good lmao
He brought more than receipts. More like her childhood Wikipedia
XD
HAHAA
@@zzygyyNecessary for perpetually lying victims
We've gotten to a point where people will do anything for attention. I watched his video where he posted proof that he's been there in her life. He's a better parent than me. I would not have been so nice if my kid tried to destroy my life over a lie. Especially over something as stupid as attention from strangers on the internet.
When you’re in college, you are adult. This younger generation is so entitled, you need to pay my bills once I am an adult! Whether it’s true or not, stop playing the victim card! This generation is in the victim Olympics! It’s crazy! If you had a decent childhood, these people have to their trauma or make it up! If you’re biggest “childhood trauma is that your parents got divorced…consider yourself extremely lucky and move the eff on! SMFH!!! These people have no idea what trauma is. I mean OMG! Imagine having to pay your own medical bills as an adult… what nightmare not even comparable to the people who’s medical bills were inflicted by your parents and I am not talking about a splinter!
"I'm a comedian"
What she finds funny: Child abandonment.
She's paint dry level funny
@@lilzeddy paint drying is more entertaining then her.
Female comedians ☕
@@ybone8709what the hell don't do us like that
@@SheIsOats A lot of modern female comedians....aren't even funny. However, there were actual funny women back in the 60's and stuff.
Yeah so I have a deadbeat dad but I still love him because I can see he's not a bad person, life's complicated. I can't imagine being so entitled like this girl is.
I think being a deadbeat is due to financial reason and not really about being a bad person. Sometimes, money is the reason why couples end up separating.
Wait, so wanting your dad to do his job makes you entitled?
@@remtanic2617No, but badmouthing him for not providing to you when he clearly did and saying he was completely absent fifteen seconds after you said he would come to visit from time to time; definitely.
The things my father did I would expose him if it meant it didn't come back on other family or myself. However with the power of forethought I know there are consequences if I were to do something close to what this girl did. Its fine enough to settle for warning the people around you irl if there is a problem and letting them come to their own decisions. Impulsive emotional thoughts happen but people need to have the mental capacity and maturity to think of the consequences before acting.
Maybe you and her have different dads
from what I witnessed, the girls that are loud about their "daddy issues" are often the ones who have the least reasons to complain about it...
Team break dancing old guy
👇 (not forcing)
She will regret this when her so-called career tanks and she needs a loan from Dad. Also, i bet she doesn't know when his birthday is.
Wait till she cry’s poor mouth “daddy I need money to buy a house” I would say , I have to give money to Salvation Army to help homeless children”
Old man's got moves 👏👏👏
Also Maddie is dumb as fuck for trying to turn trauma into something to laugh at, like imagine some dude got shot at by the mafia and the next day he's like "Haha, those guys were so funny, I should go golfing with them"
She was like "and trauma thats ACTUALLY funny" even though nothing she said was even close to making me slightly giggle.
What? Are people not allowed recover in a healthy way? Laughter is the best medicine. I think the wording is weird but laughing at your own trauma is a perfectly okay thing to do if it helps
many comedians use personal trauma/trauma as comedy. she just fails at being funny.
@@pootzmagootz I never said people aren't allowed to heal, but her saying "Trauma that's actually funny" is fucking insane, like I get the idea of looking back on a bad situation and having a little chuckle, but never heard of someone laughing while getting robbed in their own house.
@@factualdegree5450 on fucking god, and she didn't even phrase it in a comedic way, she just said "yeah my dad abandoned me when I was 5, so funny right 🤣"
that's actually a caring dad for someone who was divorced, how can someone go this low just for a clout.
The man paid $5 million of his hard earned money for his family to live on for what, 18 years? You can live 2 lifetimes on that much. He's paid his dues, even if he wasn't present. Perhaps not father of the year, but there are many, many worse fathers, and his kids were extremely well taken care of.
I think the term "deadbeat" gets thrown around to much.
A deadbeat is so one who deasapears without a trace. no care for the children and often also avoiding financial help.
If a parent takes itself about of the eqasion fore the childrens sake (mental health, drug abuse, criminal background e.c.t.) but still tries to support the children, the parent isn't a deadbeat.
Also there are many cases, where the parents separate and the custodian deliberately keeps the other away by all means. I wouldn't count that as a deadbeat either.
Yep that's my dad never seem him once only had 1 phone call whit him
She is trying too hard to have something I common with co workers, friends. Maybe he phoniness was evident to her ex boyfriend and realized she was a waste. Blame daddy because she had a wonderful life.
That was fast. I just watched the dad's response to the second video. He has the RECEIPTS! 😂
I blame the mom tbh.
Where is it posted the second response
Let me guess, because "women bad". Get off the internet, and go out into the real world. Posting a response video does not mean you were actually a great parent, especially if you abandoned your child when they were 5!
@@presentthough3417 She started this, not him and he has every right to defend himself against some ungrateful, deceitful brat.
@@presentthough3417 dude wtf is you're statement ''let me guess woman bad'' dude there's nothing talking about the gender in this video you're just yapping you're ass off
@@presentthough3417 always somebody trying to defend the person in the wrong.
Seriously though how far was that jump in logic? I only have a ruler on hand and that was pretty far.
He speaks like he’s bill nye or some other school-teacher that’s doing a nice video explaining a topic
Heck, my parents didn't even divorce, and my Mom would air out her frustrations about my Dad to me. When you're tired and stressed all the time, of course it will paint your Dad in a negative light. But, after therapy, I learned to step back and be more neutral. I had to remind my Mom to stop talking crap about Dad.
The fact that she said new wife, that sounds like something his ex-wife would say after him leaving considering the kids liked him before but because she was mad then she had to get the kids on her side but who knows
She sounds just like my son: after having been indoctrinated/ brainwashed by their mothers. She was lucky her dad lived quite close and could see them very often. I didn't see my daughter for 10 years, and my son for 23 years. My son still spews the rhetoric and bullsh*t his mother spoon fed him. My daughter doesn't believe her mother, she has seen the truth through her own eyes and deductions. My son is totally blinded by the rubbish he is still being fed which includes I was trying to get back with his mother (wouldn't touch her with a 40' barge pole), and extremely offensive things like I was trying to get off with his half-sister. When I asked for evidence of course there wasn't any; also the fact I do not have his mother's phone number, if I did it would be permanently blocked and have no desire or will to contact her at all. This latest incident was less than two years ago. Ex was jealous because I visited Poland for 6 months where my son lives and was seeing him and his family frequently. She is a completely despicable individual saying anything to try to get my son & his family to block me from visiting.
She is a spoiled brat! She is doing this for clout! There are visitation stipulations when you get a divorce. Her mother brainwashed her. I can tell cause i am divorced as well and i told my daughter i will explain it to her when she is older cause she is still young.
shes 24 by the way . A strong and independent feminist that needs dads money . more like Rich and entitled
holy crap she yapping so damn much
thats hollywood baby
She's fluent in YAPanese fr
Dad is in the right. He showed sick moves, that's undeniable evidence.
lol
If being awesome at breakdance was a crime he would be in a life sentence
I 100% believe the dad. It's how he confronted the points. And her response with words like "delusional" "most of my childhood" is highly subjective, whereas his response is precise with word, address, business names, etc. Its just a professional victim trying to get views.
Most dads get birthdays wrong. Also, he was throwing money to them, couldn't she have used that to pay her medical bills???
yeah what was it $5mil and $18k a month or something
She calls it childhood trauma when even if he lived in Florida she said he visited every 2 Months. Please.
After my parents divorced my Mum moved from Switzerland (where my dad lives and I was born) to Sweden (my dad can't speak Swedish while my Mum speaks French which is what was spoken in the part of Switzerland we lived in beforehand). I do not blame either of them for that decision cause they both thought the education and health care would be better in Sweden (honestly I didn't care for school in Sweden and would rather have grown up in Switzerland, but that's the past and what's done is done and they did what they thought was best). My dad would visit during December for 2 weeks in Sweden and we (my sister and I) would visit him in the summer every year for 2 weeks. We also moved to Sweden when I was 4. What I never get is having resentment and badmouthing your divorced ex. My mum and dad are still very good friends and just accepted they weren't a good match marriage wise and I have always and to this day still love both of them very much. I'm visiting my dad this summer again with my sister, brother in law, niece, nephew and my brother in laws parents. I also plan to move to Japan in the future and this is not due to not loving my family in Europe, but simply cause it's my dream and what I want to do. I do plan to wait until I live there, have a stable job, wife that I've been with long enough to know she's the one and a home I wouldn't wanna move from for at least 20 or so years.
She just needs to grow tf up. Not everything works out how you would ideally want it and sometimes you have to live far from one of your parents, but that's just life. Accept it rather than crying that you weren't born with a perfect life cause no one is.
I just wanted to say you presented this video brilliantly and I can tell you’re getting better at your skills. Keep it up. I will continue to watch your videos.
shame he left out the dad response that literally proved her wrong by providing both pictures and receipts
I love your videos, Pegasus. Your funny commentary over people being absolutely absurd is a good combo
This might be my favorite video from you so far lol
who else loves this guy? >>>>
He first made his fortune, and he became a breakdancer later, it’s none of her business
@@anaalicia5029 Made his fortune and later made her mom a fortune too! In 2024 dollar value, her mom was getting 324k A YEAR FROM HER DAD. Thats more than your average person does in a year worth of working, and her mom was doing nothing other than filling her own kid's ideas lunatic ideologies
A person who sets up a camera lighting and films yourself giggling and smiling talking about your "trauma" is actually traumatizing for the ppl that have to listen. Cuz no one does that
What is crazy 🤣, is the amount of receipts the dad had to show to save his reputation, and it's still damaged. 5-10 mills to the kids and wife. And Years upon years of videos about him spending time with his kids.
What, you want him to just stfu and have the situation possibly effect the business paying for his family?
How the hell is his reputation still damaged after showing that?the internet is wild
Rather have a father who gives money and is absent than a dad who gives money but comes home and abuses you, smh these people are never grateful for what they have.
Generation Z demands their right to be victimized in every aspect of life - fortunately generation Millinial, X and Boomer ain’t having any of their tantrum shit 😁❤️🤘🏻
The dad just fortnite dances after putting his daughter into place. What a legend
He's a Madlad
I get in a divorce, the child might feel like they’re emotionally neglected, but lying about your family to strangers online is so weird
I would have never seen these videos if you would have never posted it. I also enjoy how you Produce your videos! Your content is great I have subscribed and I look forward to seeing more!
is this real chat
Watch the video
this looks real chat
egg breakdancer seems to be tellin the thruth ngl his moves are cool
Brother you have changed alot and i am watching your videos for 4 3 years and i still love you
This family love each other. they can do better as soon as the girl shows some respect to her dad.
That man invented what we know today as hitting the gritty yo respect 👍💯
3:57 'I was pretty shagrin with what i heard.' Peagasus: "SHAGRIN!"
On one hand he stilled abandoned them. Just because he gave money doesn’t change that.
The medical costs she claims he didnt pay, was grievance therapy, as she insisted she needed therapy to get over the break up with her ex-boyfriend.
Listen, I have had REAL dad issues. Thankfully we've worked it out but the combination of work stress and home stress pushed him to the brink for at least 5 years when i was younger. I wouldnt've "exposed" what was REALLY happening even when I was 4, so why can't this woman not fake a story, post it online when she's definately a lot older than that?
Long story short: she's mad he won't give her more money.
Facts 😂
She was expecting way more than what should be from a divorced father, such as always being there for her(only her??). Because you know, he and her mom were divorced! Totally playing the victim on social media and for what? Clout. Just remember, she started all of this and never had to share any of this for your selfish and attentive needs.
she wants to be the victim so bad.
Must be fun to have had a father who was only a few minutes away instead of having one you knew was living in a whole ass other country only to meet him 18 years later. I'd say he was absent but at least I knew where he was but couldn't go there for awhile until now ☠🤣
Nah paying 5m does make him a beyond good dad like for real I know plenty of people that would say fuck this shit these people are high and flee
the fact that people would defend this behavior on twitter is wild, dad had every right to call her out since she aired this online first given that she is online and her dad is a big figure as well. whether either or is true, she looks worse in this situation compared to the dad in my opinion.
make a part 2 after the dad respons to the second video!!
always awesome to sit down and marathon all the unwatched vids lol.didn't know about this before either
i think they need to do like a stream or something where they can talk on camera so no one can straight up lie
Mental illness has been found in newer generations to come especially with the lies fed and given to the kids from a mother that can't accept accountability for her actions so she placed blame elsewhere. The Dad is pursuing life. The other members of the family need to seek help like serious help
There are so many broken families with so many children with emotional trauma hand in hand with existential struggles. For that reason I somehow can’t feel so much empathy with a young privileged woman talking about her bad childhood.
I believe his father was telling the truth
Sounds like a family of narcissists.
I've noticed this. Those well off tend to be the loudest. They think having it hard is so great but it's tough.
The dad made a new video on his UA-cam account showing videos and pics from over the years and going deeper into this situation.
The dad came with receipts and home movies of him and the kids.😮 There's more to this story.
Dude you’re looking good man, love the beard!
the thing about the dad's response I noticed is that even after his kid calling him out to the masses and spreading half truths he still found beauty in what she did, it gave me the whole, "my kid could do no wrong, everything she does is gold" type of love vibe which makes it hard for me to believe he was the one being malicious.
This is why I take people on the internet with a grain of salt on bc I’ve seen so many people claim thing like “my dad assaults me” but the will post a pic of their dad saying shit like “best dad in the world” on their page a few days later.
Honestly, I'd trust the breakdancing grandpa with my life