Woman Ruins Her Marriage In 45 Seconds.

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  • @TordenFaaret
    @TordenFaaret 7 місяців тому +1367

    the moment she started filming for tiktok, she lost me. if you want to keep your marriage alive, you don't go and drag your significant other on the internet/in the media. you don't love someone if you're willing to weaponize the world against them. it's honestly very abusive.

    • @voltricity1942
      @voltricity1942 7 місяців тому +74

      i'm 99% sure she recorded it to put attention on her OF

    • @spiderjerusalem6887
      @spiderjerusalem6887 7 місяців тому +53

      The jada technique. Never marry a Jada.

    • @Lindseyisloony
      @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +28

      Uh if she had any interest in staying with him she wouldn't be cheating and it's 1000% cheating to be sharing sexual content with other men. And the man pay her, which is essentially prostitution. In some states her having OF without his consent is literally enough for him to get a divorce and take pretty much everything.

    • @kyrohowe3156
      @kyrohowe3156 7 місяців тому +9

      ​@@spiderjerusalem6887 That is why I don't consider dating in this day and age.

    • @adrianbonne7719
      @adrianbonne7719 7 місяців тому +2

      Hey tordan, wanna join the us army?❤

  • @Mezioway
    @Mezioway 7 місяців тому +605

    Doing Onlyfans behind your partners back is cheating in my opinion.

    • @MaryLove3713
      @MaryLove3713 7 місяців тому +38

      Absolutely!

    • @shiningfilmzph
      @shiningfilmzph 7 місяців тому +7

      Fr

    • @MastaHosen
      @MastaHosen 7 місяців тому +4

      💯

    • @TearThatRedFlagDown
      @TearThatRedFlagDown 7 місяців тому +21

      I think that's actually just a fact.

    • @danbradford7127
      @danbradford7127 7 місяців тому

      Not an opinion it's a fact. She's sending nudes to other men that's cheating. But it's FAAAAAAR worse because it's not even one man it's ANY man who wants to view them.

  • @Lindseyisloony
    @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +712

    *"My body my choice" is HEAVILY amended when you marry someone and only people who don't need to be told that should get married. Period.*

    • @inquisitionagent9052
      @inquisitionagent9052 7 місяців тому +87

      Exactly. There's a reason marrage is called a "union". We are one under marriage.

    • @hoi-polloi1863
      @hoi-polloi1863 7 місяців тому +87

      Not to mention, an OF girl is "my body, EVERYBODY'S choice".

    • @nelsongonzalez5358
      @nelsongonzalez5358 7 місяців тому +18

      God gave us a body, so it doesn’t belong to us anyway

    • @excalibro8365
      @excalibro8365 7 місяців тому +41

      @@hoi-polloi1863 more like "my body, for sale"

    • @p.r.1308
      @p.r.1308 7 місяців тому +6

      I mean would she be happy when thousend women would looked at him throu OF

  • @infinte3606
    @infinte3606 7 місяців тому +743

    She’s definitely cheating on him.

    • @MrsShocoTaco
      @MrsShocoTaco 7 місяців тому +105

      She's doing that just by having the OF. Lord only knows what she does irl. Poor dude...

    • @jet2927
      @jet2927 7 місяців тому +14

      poor guy man

    • @josiah_hamster5924
      @josiah_hamster5924 7 місяців тому +19

      She is but i know some smooth brain mfs gonna say shes right

    • @idkwhatmynqneshouldbe
      @idkwhatmynqneshouldbe 7 місяців тому +2

      Ye

    • @Mayawamaq
      @Mayawamaq 7 місяців тому +2

      theres not any evidence of that

  • @SirBhoger
    @SirBhoger 7 місяців тому +340

    people are ruining their relationships faster every day

    • @Maximilian_260
      @Maximilian_260 7 місяців тому +13

      Speed Running ruin relationship

    • @Maximus5641
      @Maximus5641 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Maximilian_260relationship 100% glitchless run attempt

    • @ShadiC636
      @ShadiC636 7 місяців тому +17

      @@Maximilian_260More like “SpeedRuining” amirite?

    • @Amari_14
      @Amari_14 7 місяців тому

      This is a stunt to gain popularity for the only fans btw

    • @thegamingunicorn1731
      @thegamingunicorn1731 7 місяців тому

      This is why I want to be single

  • @soon3794
    @soon3794 7 місяців тому +583

    So... basically
    "I'm starting an OF and its his fault."
    "His mad at me for not telling him, and thats his fault"
    "I didnt respect my partners trust and thats also his fault"
    "I'm the victim of his success failing and thats all his fault too"

    • @erimationss
      @erimationss 7 місяців тому +17

      This sends off a shit ton of red flag signals.

    • @almicc
      @almicc 7 місяців тому +34

      I'm most annoyed by the second part, she didn't tell him at all, that's is lying for a full year about it, and when he got mad after finding out himself, she blamed him for not paying attention to her.

    • @Yoroiful
      @Yoroiful 7 місяців тому

      He's*

    • @AllyInReality
      @AllyInReality 7 місяців тому +13

      "I was a singer before I met him and now that we don't have the lifestyle that he gave me, instead of being a singer to get the lifestyle that I want, I showed off my body to thousands of men while still being in a marriage and without his permission"

    • @Bear-sn1ps
      @Bear-sn1ps 7 місяців тому +9

      Female logic

  • @nickb6425
    @nickb6425 7 місяців тому +238

    I’m beyond sick of this. I’ve heard many women like her claim “oh men can’t communicate; women are just much better communicators and so in tune with their emotions” then turn around and say and do stuff she’s saying. “Oh yeah that’s what he gets for not paying attention to me I’m just gonna betray his trust, keep the secret for a year and be totally justified and cry like a victim”. Women like this ironically engage in so many acceptable behaviours that literally go against communication. Kicking their partner out of bed rather than talking, blatant betrayal upon feeling like their partner didn’t “pay attention to them”, silent treatment, hitting their boyfriends if they say something they don’t like and it’s totally seen as fine. Fellas, find you a woman who knows this stuff is wrong.

    • @lillianahunter1199
      @lillianahunter1199 7 місяців тому +17

      Honestly the 'silent treatment' isn't a bad strategy if you are using it to calm your emotions/response to your partner and think that matter though. Usually my fiance knows if I'm being very quiet or keep moving into other rooms to be alone, it's usually me being angry and trying to assess 'hey, is this worth being angry about and how should I respond?'
      It can be used as a good tool, but really shouldn't utilized as a punishment.

    • @nickb6425
      @nickb6425 7 місяців тому +10

      @@lillianahunter1199 oh no I agree with that. That's usually not dubbed as the silent treatment though and also it's extra good if you can let them know "hey I just need to be alone a bit" but sometimes it's hard to do that. The silent treatment though is something understood to be like resentful and petty.

    • @user-fs7ui3bf5w
      @user-fs7ui3bf5w 7 місяців тому +8

      ​@@lillianahunter1199
      There's a difference between alone time and blatanly ignoring someone

    • @burtknighten4438
      @burtknighten4438 7 місяців тому +1

      The fact that emotion rules over them is exactly why they suck at communication.

    • @brandonsupreme8380
      @brandonsupreme8380 7 місяців тому

      Women dont even approach men nowadays they are not better communicative lol

  • @xathlak
    @xathlak 7 місяців тому +384

    Regardless of what it's about, if you're having a serious conversation and they pull out their phone and start talking to it instead of me.... That's a problem. She literally blames his friend for her having an onlyfans. Meanwhile she's trying to justifying it while hiding the fact that she had the account for more than a year.

    • @anna-gt2mu
      @anna-gt2mu 7 місяців тому +1

      Eareaeareaeareaeareaeareaeareacool.era

    • @lizard_girl_
      @lizard_girl_ 5 місяців тому +2

      agreed!

    • @rasalasblack
      @rasalasblack 3 місяці тому

      Also, can you imagine the shudder he experienced when he found out some randos are getting off on his wife and the power trip high they have on cucking him, a NBA star.

  • @mr.skully8787
    @mr.skully8787 7 місяців тому +289

    The way shes acting like its ok
    It pisses me off

    • @Samuel-sw3hy
      @Samuel-sw3hy 7 місяців тому +5

      Damn right it does 😡

    • @Lindseyisloony
      @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +11

      The way she acts like it's ok SCREAMS that she's absolutely done other horrible things behind his back. I hope he IMMEDIATELY pulled all her phone records and hired a private investigator to follow her cause if she's literally prostituting online (yes that's definitely what it is) it's safe to assume she's having sex with other men, whether for money or not.

    • @adryannthedefender701
      @adryannthedefender701 7 місяців тому +12

      The Street's want's her back.

    • @onion_____
      @onion_____ 7 місяців тому +4

      Typical ⚫ stuff

    • @drash122
      @drash122 7 місяців тому

      @@onion_____now that’s just racist

  • @PaulRubino
    @PaulRubino 7 місяців тому +176

    her: _"my body, my choice"_
    him: _"My house. Get out."_
    Problem solved. 🔥

    • @porkinator863
      @porkinator863 5 місяців тому +5

      They would have to slip everything but she can get her own house with her OF

    • @lizard_girl_
      @lizard_girl_ 5 місяців тому +7

      lmao op speaking facts

  • @Lindseyisloony
    @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +163

    *Marriage is committing NOT to do whatever tf you please anymore! Your spouse DOES get a say. If you aren't about that you have no business getting married.*

  • @norielbeato6102
    @norielbeato6102 7 місяців тому +175

    Pegasus is correct right off the bat. "If the woman uses tiktok, that's an INSTANT HUGE IMMEDIATE RED FLAG!"

    • @johncap6495
      @johncap6495 7 місяців тому

      Like I use tik tok to go watch shorts of tv shows or movies. All this crap cringe. And when I hear a woman say her job is only fans that is cringe in itself.

    • @Lindseyisloony
      @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +8

      ESPECIALLY if she's over 20. And I only say 20 to account for people who got on there as teens not understanding what an actual cesspool it is. Once you've been an adult for 2 years I no longer see any reasonable excuse for not figuring out that it's super icky to still be participating in/supporting the worst platform ever created.

    • @tomboyraider1015
      @tomboyraider1015 7 місяців тому +7

      @Lindseyisloony Agreed. Tiktok is such a childish and cringey platform. There are definitely more intelligent platforms out there where you can post something in an articulate manner and not appear embarrassing.

  • @Blitzdo
    @Blitzdo 7 місяців тому +460

    First line in and i agree.
    First of all, make sure your wife isn't a TikTok obsessed clout seeker.
    2nd, if she is, try to convert her into a member of society
    If all else fails, dump her and make a TikTok story about it (and ignore those "feminists").

    • @PLAYER-bv6fi
      @PLAYER-bv6fi 7 місяців тому +33

      Maybe if you find out she is tiktok obsessed then maybe you shouldnt waste your time with her in the first place... just leave immediately is what i would suggest...

    • @alexanotfromamazon
      @alexanotfromamazon 7 місяців тому +7

      Member of society 😂😂😂😂 this is so true

    • @skellybelly6866
      @skellybelly6866 7 місяців тому

      Glad we arent calling those women "feminists" they are just nasty and deranged

    • @tehlaziness
      @tehlaziness 7 місяців тому +9

      @@PLAYER-bv6fi Agreed. Do not go to step 2. If she's a tiktok obsessed clout seeker, do not let her into your life.

    • @Lindseyisloony
      @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +2

      Even before social media was a thing at all people like her made their morally bankrupt asses easy to spot. I'd bet money that he understood how vapid and selfish she is and probably repeatedly brought up concerns about it but she just said whatever she needed to say to pacify him. I know nothing about the dude but lets be honest, athletes notoriously pick women for shallow reasons. I think he was probably eager to believe that she'd mature past that and she probably played the part well until she locked him down. God knows what she's actually been doing since then.

  • @forsociopoliticalstuff2629
    @forsociopoliticalstuff2629 7 місяців тому +54

    It’s weird that “my body, my choice” has devolved into a line used by betrayers.

    • @Sparemaniac
      @Sparemaniac 7 місяців тому +13

      It’s not weird at all. It is a declaration of someone who values self above all else, even if they harm others. This is the exact type of behaviour we should expect from people who cling to that ideology. Ironically, that selfish focus nearly always harms them as well.

    • @d_all_in
      @d_all_in 4 місяці тому

      It was always used by disgusting people betraying their own unborn children

    • @Hades.666
      @Hades.666 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Sparemaniacyou had me tripping the first sentence

  • @dimone7077
    @dimone7077 7 місяців тому +79

    📢 "SHE'S FOR THE STREETS" 📢

    • @dabestboi7509
      @dabestboi7509 7 місяців тому +1

      👀ONLYTHOT DETECTED!👀

  • @thatonecatartist
    @thatonecatartist 7 місяців тому +121

    Poor guy he didn't deserve that disrespect

    • @steringp1434
      @steringp1434 5 місяців тому

      Yes he did deserve it. It's obvious that Joe Smith does not make the smartest decisions. Why would he date, no less marry, an adult film star? That has to be one of the dumbest decisions possible. The only thing just as bad is marrying a woman that wants a lavish lifestyle. He decides to marry a woman that is both. I assume that he met her when he was still in the NBA, and the money was rolling in. Shouldn't he have been on the lookout for gold digger types of women, and been extra careful to not get involved with them. Apparently he knew that she was a c0rn star and still got involved with her, and was providing her a lavish lifestyle. At a certain point, you can't say that Joe was a victim here. He ignored every red flag possible and now, after years of supporting this parasite, he's bankrupt. That is dumb on a whole other level.

  • @ilive4d80s6
    @ilive4d80s6 7 місяців тому +152

    What's the problem? I seen a dude praising his girl friend selling only fans. He said she was killing it. I don't know what brand, but in those hot summers where people don't have air-conditioning, or a broken one, having a fan really saves from the heat.

    • @scoopwoop8196
      @scoopwoop8196 7 місяців тому +73

      had me in the first half, ngl

    • @eMogWoRL-ko7uj
      @eMogWoRL-ko7uj 7 місяців тому

      @@scoopwoop8196 same lol

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому

      If she's absolutely smoking hot some Gal-Gadot-if-she-had-boobs sort of woman then yep, you can be proud of that OF girl. People can't huniliate you if they're seething, imagining you engaged in coitus with her, he's paying her but never getting to touch or smell her, becoming more and more frustrated, crying in pain with all the skin on his penis worn away

    • @codygames5415
      @codygames5415 7 місяців тому +16

      😂👌🏻

    • @SpeedAndPower369
      @SpeedAndPower369 7 місяців тому

      She must have been a great woman for selling all those fans 💀.

  • @Besmertnic
    @Besmertnic 7 місяців тому +28

    In this case, "My body, my choice" should be replied to with "My house, my choice, out."

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому +3

      They're about to lose the house anyway since he drove them into debt. In case you missed her saying they were almost kicked out already. He put them in $150,000 worth of outstanding debt. So, her businesses are the only reason they currently have the house.

    • @BakerAtreus
      @BakerAtreus 7 місяців тому +2

      I feel bad for the guy but holy shit how do you even lose $60 million and go into a 150k debt in such a short span, that's so irresponsible financially.

    • @NeoAstrisk
      @NeoAstrisk 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@deadsetondreams1988 OF being called a business. Lmfao, the absolute state of sex workers 😂

    • @greenfacednoob8650
      @greenfacednoob8650 2 місяці тому +1

      Underrated

  • @ClonserHalphalive
    @ClonserHalphalive 7 місяців тому +161

    This is why some people say you can't make a wife out of a proper garden tool.

    • @mamini888
      @mamini888 7 місяців тому +2

      out of a h.e-the orig. lyrics.

    • @thatextrovertartist5474
      @thatextrovertartist5474 7 місяців тому

      "once a hoe always a hoe"

    • @Hades.666
      @Hades.666 2 місяці тому +1

      Idk why we call them that in the first place when they are the complete opposite. One helps you put food on the table the other takes it off your plate

    • @ClonserHalphalive
      @ClonserHalphalive 2 місяці тому

      @@Hades.666 not entirely sure about the reasoning behind it either.. sometimes I wonder if it's the sake of irony.

  • @Skitzy2
    @Skitzy2 7 місяців тому +163

    How to ruin marriage 101:
    Show your … on the internet.
    get it to boil for 10 minutes.
    Let it simmer.
    Now you have a fresh ruined marriage.
    Serve with getting half of everything.
    If you want, sprinkle with some “Child support demands” to add some flavor.

    • @mycrushisapotato2741
      @mycrushisapotato2741 7 місяців тому +42

      and if necessary add some fake allegations for seasoning

    • @getnoobed6203
      @getnoobed6203 7 місяців тому +4

      💀

    • @BarryAllen10168
      @BarryAllen10168 7 місяців тому +1

      💀

    • @Skitzy2
      @Skitzy2 7 місяців тому +2

      @@mycrushisapotato2741 Good idea! I will make sure to add this in another recipe.

    • @pixllo
      @pixllo 7 місяців тому

      ​@@mycrushisapotato2741it's not fake if it's her truth. Especially when her truth is ridiculous.

  • @daz4033
    @daz4033 7 місяців тому +79

    I swear TikTok has ruined families 😭

    • @RiceCooker-san
      @RiceCooker-san 7 місяців тому +23

      Its also killed people

    • @msbonkahbitch6966
      @msbonkahbitch6966 7 місяців тому

      I agree but again, it is the people who chose to do it.

    • @algirdasltu1389
      @algirdasltu1389 7 місяців тому +5

      Nah if the private conversations even end up there the relantionship was doomed anyway bc one of the 2 decided its a good idea to post every argument u have online

    • @adryannthedefender701
      @adryannthedefender701 7 місяців тому

      China is winning.

  • @caitlyngarden7269
    @caitlyngarden7269 7 місяців тому +11

    She’s ‘Jada Pinkett-ing’ her man 🫣😅

  • @mapl3mage
    @mapl3mage 7 місяців тому +54

    one thing not mentioned in this video is that Joe is 157,000 dollars in debt thanks to his irresponsible financial decisions over the course of several years. cnbc made an article about this, and another financial youtuber also made a video about it. I still can't wrap my head around how someone who made 61 million dollars over the course of their career manage to not only lose it all, but actually end up in over 150,000 dollars in debt. To say he was financially irresponsible would be a gross understatement.

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому +9

      Thank you for pointing this out. There were lots of complaints claiming she was "used to living above her means," and "wanting a lavish lifestyle." Clearly missing the fact that she stated they are close to losing their house/ are at risk of being kicked out. That's a huge clue that they are clearly in a lot of outstanding debt that was heavily missed. Your comment deserves more upvotes so people can actually read it.

    • @user-nv1gm2zj7y
      @user-nv1gm2zj7y 6 місяців тому +2

      by marrying someone like her

    • @user-nv1gm2zj7y
      @user-nv1gm2zj7y 6 місяців тому

      @@deadsetondreams1988 hahahahahahaha

    • @tek512
      @tek512 6 місяців тому +11

      It came out that she was the reason most of his money evaporated. She made constant superfluous purchases, refused to eat anything below a certain price, demanded vacations multiple times a year, and frequently sent money to random dudes for their "services."

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 6 місяців тому +3

      @@tek512 Then he should have left her. If this was going on there were plenty of chances for him to say no and put his foot down. If that is the case then she was using him and he was enabling it to happen. Technically that means he still was being financially irresponsible if he just kept letting her get away with that. And they both are to blame.

  • @Sunny_Day976
    @Sunny_Day976 7 місяців тому +17

    Now I ain't saying she's a gold digger........

  • @fuzzwobble
    @fuzzwobble 7 місяців тому +29

    TBH the idea of 'My body = My choice' changes when you get married. You enter a partnership with somebody, and they are invested in you. Once you willingly commit to that, they absolutely have a say in what you do.
    Do they own or puppet you? No, but they definitely deserve some fucking involvement.

    • @user-oo9zi6fn1l
      @user-oo9zi6fn1l 6 місяців тому +8

      I totally agree with you. Once you get with someone life isn’t just about you anymore

    • @bradblumhof6917
      @bradblumhof6917 5 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely right. My wife has told me many times that my body is hers, too, so I need to take care of it better. Don't understand how people can be so selfish in marriage when you're supposed to work together to solve whatever problems you have.

    • @viclor2876
      @viclor2876 5 місяців тому

      Not in the west. They idolize hypergamy and infidelities,then criticize those partners who have morals.

  • @gedoplanet
    @gedoplanet 7 місяців тому +6

    From “My past doesn’t matter.” to “You knew who I was when you met me.”

  • @josh-talks1342
    @josh-talks1342 7 місяців тому +8

    "My body my choice" Girl you sold your body so at this point it's anyone's choice

  • @burkettnathan822
    @burkettnathan822 7 місяців тому +18

    She is in the wrong and blaming it on her husband. 😂😂😂

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 7 місяців тому +1

      shes saying HE needs therapy 😂

    • @joshuabarnes7552
      @joshuabarnes7552 7 місяців тому +3

      There is an unspoken rule for men that if you don't provide, you get abandoned and disrespected. Yeah, it sucks but it's the reality of relationships. You gotta find a humble woman, but you gotta keep her comfortable. Once she's out that comfort zone, it's only a matter of time. If anyone gets into a relationship to struggle and carry a burden it's men.

    • @Hades.666
      @Hades.666 2 місяці тому

      ​@@joshuabarnes7552yea and I'm sure we wouldn't mind either if only they played a role too. Like be loyal and faithful and make us a sandwich every now and then. We really don't ask for much

  • @MrsShocoTaco
    @MrsShocoTaco 7 місяців тому +33

    I realize he knew she was a pron chick, but it's assumed that a person's sex industry jobs would cease once they're married.

    • @forsociopoliticalstuff2629
      @forsociopoliticalstuff2629 7 місяців тому +15

      Either cease or let it be known that they’d be continuing or potentially starting again at least

    • @MrsShocoTaco
      @MrsShocoTaco 7 місяців тому +4

      @@forsociopoliticalstuff2629 Agreed

  • @kylehaney8947
    @kylehaney8947 7 місяців тому +118

    “Til Death do us part.” No longer holds any meaning in today’s society.

    • @Unknown-3455gamer
      @Unknown-3455gamer 7 місяців тому +1

      Yea

    • @kakonoteouji4876
      @kakonoteouji4876 7 місяців тому +9

      Why you think people don't want marriage these days. Hell id say even serious relationship are suffering too, I suggest focus on making a future for yourself and maybe date casually or see a pro to get needs met.

    • @algirdasltu1389
      @algirdasltu1389 7 місяців тому +1

      "Till OF spreads my legs apart" is a more suitable phrase today

    • @adryannthedefender701
      @adryannthedefender701 7 місяців тому

      Only if she is drafted for war.

    • @Unknown-3455gamer
      @Unknown-3455gamer 7 місяців тому

      Welcome to the world of feminist movement it ruin all the childhood show and censorship they also ruin movies and games
      Good advertisements for this shitty society

  • @memeor_bememed4068
    @memeor_bememed4068 7 місяців тому +33

    Hope he got a prenup,and also did she just admit she married him only for the money?

    • @joshuabarnes7552
      @joshuabarnes7552 7 місяців тому +4

      A woman getting a taste of luxury make them petty once they gotta start budgeting. They want to stay in a place of comfort.

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому

      He put them in about $150,000 worth of outstanding debt. She clearly states they've already almost been kicked out. Please research before assuming. Even if they did divorce he has absolutely nothing to give her except the debts he drove them into.

    • @veronicamarrs
      @veronicamarrs 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@deadsetondreams1988i think the focus of the issue is that she didnt tell him

  • @BgChf-dg5lv
    @BgChf-dg5lv 7 місяців тому +14

    She’s worth $5.99 now.

  • @pixllo
    @pixllo 7 місяців тому +27

    Red flags from 5 minutes of interactions with this girl that if it were me, she'd become acquainted to the other side of the door instantly:
    - doing OF
    - tiktok
    - my body my choice
    - no accountability (= "my truth" )
    - all the blame is on him
    - doing something contemptible for 1 year behind
    his back
    - golddigger
    This lady is emotionally 15 years old, but she put her personnality aside as long as the money flowed. Can't say if the dude willfully ignored these red flags early on, but now that it's come out he can't both forgive her and maintain self respect. For now, he's doing the right thing in my book.

    • @Unknown-3455gamer
      @Unknown-3455gamer 7 місяців тому

      Yea ikr

    • @ShinyLiepard
      @ShinyLiepard 7 місяців тому

      Excellent wrap-up!

    • @steringp1434
      @steringp1434 5 місяців тому +1

      Add to those red flags the fact that she was actually a c0rn star when they met, and he knew about it. In the video, she even tells him, you knew what I was doing to make money before we met. Another red flag is that she wanted a lavish lifestyle.

  • @Alex-K94
    @Alex-K94 7 місяців тому +25

    Call me old fashioned... but selling your body is wrong. Doesn't matter how you do it.
    If you are married and sell you clam online... there's the door.

    • @SaraHeartlin
      @SaraHeartlin 7 місяців тому +1

      In a relationship, it's important to understand that love is love, and we can't possibly know everything about every situation. Only stalkers, abusers, and killers try to control and know everything. Being in a relationship means accepting differences and finding common ground. If things don't work out, then and only then should we consider going our separate ways.

    • @alecrochon3531
      @alecrochon3531 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@AlexysQuingam sure but how about being honest and straightforward with your intentions first?

  • @guillehdz
    @guillehdz 7 місяців тому +5

    Hell no, she creates an OF behind the man’s back and records his reaction for TikTok as if he was some sort of circus clown, she belongs in the streets

  • @thengspjo4716
    @thengspjo4716 7 місяців тому +34

    His wife having a tiktok is bad enough already

    • @MrsShocoTaco
      @MrsShocoTaco 7 місяців тому +1

      Why tiktok? Do they use that to cheat as well?
      (Idk, I don't have either lol)

    • @starry1838
      @starry1838 7 місяців тому

      ​@MrsShocoTaco TikTok is designed to take advantage of human brain patterns. It basically trains your brain in terrible ways (like other social media but cranked up to 11) even if you are young or old. It has a tendency to radicalize people on any spectrum of idea, politic, or lifestyle while also getting the person hooked on using the app itself making it hard to pull away.
      For married women, it tends to convince them slowly they should divorce, cheat, or do OnlyFans once the algorithm picks up on their demographic. The divorce and cheating tend to go hand in hand.
      Obviously not everyone is that sensitive to suggestion, but some people ARE especially if they have preexisting issues of any kind. In this case they probably already have marital issues (she mentioned that she is jealous of a woman and FEELS as if she isn't loved) and then you introduce TikTok and what you get is a full meltdown.

    • @ThePirateCasey
      @ThePirateCasey 7 місяців тому +7

      @@MrsShocoTaco it's just cringe

    • @MrsShocoTaco
      @MrsShocoTaco 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ThePirateCasey Ah, gotcha 👍👍

    • @MrsShocoTaco
      @MrsShocoTaco 7 місяців тому +1

      @@WojakMcWagies-vc8sr I've seen reactions to those here. They're abhorrent.

  • @clinthowell2145
    @clinthowell2145 7 місяців тому +4

    Bet she won't divorce him because she would probably have to pay him

  • @cooliipie
    @cooliipie 7 місяців тому +16

    This is as Western woman as it gets 😂

  • @inkyalmond
    @inkyalmond 6 місяців тому +10

    Her wording from that tweet is genuinely vile to me. "It was for my survival" She's not nor does it sound like she was ever living off of bones and pocket change, she's swimming in luxury and its STILL not enough. She should stay on OF and stay single. - A poor woman who actually knows what hunger feels like ❤

  • @JustMe-cl6fj
    @JustMe-cl6fj 6 місяців тому +7

    She really effectively said "you knew I was a hoe before you marry me why did you think I would stop being a hoe just because we're married"..... Women can tell me I'm being misogynistic or whatever all they want but when a man commits to marriage he's telling his partner you are my number one priority why is it so bad to say they expect the same in return

  • @kloassie
    @kloassie 7 місяців тому +4

    How tf does one lose $60M?? I wouldn't even be able to waste away $6M 😬

    • @BakerAtreus
      @BakerAtreus 7 місяців тому +1

      $250k is already a lot, like seriously, just how much of a hopeless spendthrift do you have to be to lose $60M and go into a $150k debt. Feelsbad for Joe but c'mon man how you even more broke than someone with student debt?

  • @Raina_mz
    @Raina_mz 7 місяців тому +5

    the reason why relationships don’t last long nowadays is because people are focused on how many other options are out there, nobody wants a soulmate, everybody wants to try that one and try the other one

  • @Dog_in_tree
    @Dog_in_tree 6 місяців тому +2

    Selling your dignity for $10/month when your husband is already rich is beyond repulsive and pathetic.

  • @thisaintitchief1535
    @thisaintitchief1535 7 місяців тому +11

    Idk, this could’ve been avoided if he didn’t go after a woman like that (been doing adult activities before they met). What did he expect? Once a person is like that, there’s no going back for them.

  • @bellzhellz5922
    @bellzhellz5922 7 місяців тому +22

    thing is she wins either way, he divorces her she gets her share of his wealth, and if he doesn't she gets to do whatever sexual desire she wants.. man is in a lose/lose as far as I see.

    • @Squeam9750
      @Squeam9750 7 місяців тому +5

      And this is why you should never marry in modern times

    • @Mayawamaq
      @Mayawamaq 7 місяців тому

      @@Squeam9750 i mean most divorcee are by women after they find out thier partner has cheated. and when a woman dose cheat on a man she dosent just get half his assets. you also have to understand its less about gender, and more about imcome.
      if you plan to get a divorce just make sure your working less hours then you wife or husband and temporially making less imcome. once its over workfull time again

    • @tehlaziness
      @tehlaziness 7 місяців тому +3

      @@Mayawamaq Depends on the state. My mom had a 2 year long affair before my parents got divorced. It was actually my dad that filed. During that 2 years, she was never around and she was straight up neglectful of me and my sister. There were a few times where she dropped my sister off at a girlscout event and disappeared and one of the other moms had to bring her home because my mom was just MIA, could not be reached and my dad was at work. Fast forward to the divorce and my mom got lifetime alimony, full custody of me and my sister, the house, one of the cars and a chunk of my dad's pension. Fast forward about 20 years to my dad suddenly passing away and legally my step mom now owes my mom a few months of alimony payments. The system is absolutely f*cked. And let's not forget that if at any point in time he could not pay the alimony, he could have been liable to go to jail. Men should be able to divorce their wives in situations like this without having to fear losing everything

    • @depressingthoughts
      @depressingthoughts 7 місяців тому

      He needs to treat her like a child in order to win. Take away her electrnics+money.

    • @plaguedoctorjeff857
      @plaguedoctorjeff857 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@Mayawamaq You have no statistical backing for everything you said besides that women file for divorces more than men. Please bring up all the data that brought you to the conclusion that women are leaving marriages for the sole reason for cheating? There's annecdotal evidence of the past decade proving you wrong, women have been WRECKING relationships mainly for clout or sympathy.

  • @DayseBa
    @DayseBa 7 місяців тому +5

    Famous sport players love to marry the "hot hoes not wifey" and acts surprised when shit like this happens. You can ride a donkey expecting a steed.

  • @existentia1krisis
    @existentia1krisis 7 місяців тому +1

    You're like the only person whose videos I don't have to turn up the speed for talking so slowly. I truly enjoy your efficient speaking. It brings me peace 🧡

  • @ericac.4316
    @ericac.4316 7 місяців тому +1

    New to your Chanel and I love how you could be funny about the situation and yet serious and truthful when it comes to something that is not right. Keep up great vids👏

  • @docbrown2045
    @docbrown2045 6 місяців тому +3

    "My body my choice" - the exact thing every prostitute would say

  • @coldy9887
    @coldy9887 7 місяців тому +4

    "What a disgusting person" is so true for this "woman"

  • @switchglitch7221
    @switchglitch7221 3 місяці тому +2

    She’s not a Clown 🤡
    She’s The entire Circus 🎪

  • @saucecollector
    @saucecollector 7 місяців тому +7

    Nah my if my girl ever gets an OF, it’s over, doesn’t matter how long we’ve been together or whatever, if she makes an OF we just done, trust is gone that’s it

  • @Himathyyy
    @Himathyyy 7 місяців тому +3

    “My body, My choice” Not in a marriage lady. Your sexual body is his and his is yours. You are one when you are Married under GOD.

  • @Spyro0w0
    @Spyro0w0 7 місяців тому +29

    "That is what happens when you don't pay attention to your wife" You mean to tell me he was suppose to be monitoring you like a hawk to check your LinkedIn account. What kind of thought process even this?! One thing for sure, yeah if she was revealing herself before he should have never tried to bring her into a home and left her to the streets where she belongs.

    • @almicc
      @almicc 7 місяців тому

      haha

    • @Lindseyisloony
      @Lindseyisloony 7 місяців тому +1

      The absolute irony of her saying that to someone who should DEFINITELY be having her followed by a private investigator!!

  • @davionreed4912
    @davionreed4912 7 місяців тому +13

    Let’s be honest she pocketed all the onlyfans money an kept it to herself an let’s be even more honest they seemed to be doing decent enough that homes bigger an nicer than any home I’ve ever walked into.

    • @Mayawamaq
      @Mayawamaq 7 місяців тому

      well ofc she did, its her money?

    • @VieViolett
      @VieViolett 7 місяців тому +5

      I'm sure when she was spending her husband's money before it was her money too? If you're hiding money from your spouse there's a problem.

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому

      The money is going towards the outstanding debts that Joe created. Please read the comment above yours by @mapl3mage he put them in severe debt of over $150,000. And she even states in this video that they were almost kicked out, indicating that they are hemorrhaging financially.

  • @jamesgornall5731
    @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому +9

    Carrying on with, "muh body muh choice?" is she not worried about being murdered? Lots of men would be so humiliated that divorce wouldnt be an option and they'd kill her.

    • @ang1229
      @ang1229 7 місяців тому +4

      I agree that it wasn’t a good decision for her to make her only fans when her husband doesn’t agree with it but her deciding something not to do something under the fear of being murdered by her OWN husband? Does that not sound stupid?

    • @invert8505
      @invert8505 7 місяців тому

      I agree that she’s horrible, but if she’s married to this guy she probably has a good idea of his morals and that he won’t go Friday the 13th on her

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@ang1229it depends what that decision is, hmmm, for instance, I ended up in a huge fight with my brother some years ago for sleeping with an ex-girlfriend of his who he had stopped seeing over 10 years before. I was newly divorced and vulnerable to attention and made a mistake, I mean, it was a big fight too. We both ended up requiring hospitisation. It was lucky there were no weapons in the vicinity... we made peace afterwards and eventually saw the funny side but only because we are brothers and there's always that familial love which reasserts itself, but at the time... imagine if we had been sleeping together when they were a still couple? Imagine coming coming home from working 3 weeks on an oil rig to find that your wife has been selling her body to groups of men and theres several lined up waiting for their turn at a spare hole? Not only that but she's making more money than you! During the subsequent trial for multiple murder that very sight would be given in mitigation, one of the oldest most easily understood mitigations/defences that humans have ever dealt with...coming home to find one's wife (or one's husband, and applies equally to homosrxual couples) in bed with a trusted friend or Chad from Tinder or even Chad AND Jody who drinks at the local army pubs... in those cases a person would need to really consider whether THEIR decision over THEIR body is going to result in either serious injury or death.
      When you get married you agree to form a monogamous couple, in some respects becoming a single entity. If you cant yet appreciate that, or appreciate that one of the primary reasons marriage exists is to regulate sexual behaviour and in the millennia before genetic testing to ensure the paternity of children then please don't yet ask for anyone's hand.

  • @AmySimpson-no1sv
    @AmySimpson-no1sv 7 місяців тому +7

    Damn. Seeing all these crazy videos makes me realize how lucky I am to have such a strong, healthy relationship.

  • @Jono_Dio_Da
    @Jono_Dio_Da 7 місяців тому +7

    You know what would solve all this? Freddy Fazbear.
    *ar ar ar ar ar ar ar ar ar ar*

  • @johncap6495
    @johncap6495 7 місяців тому +1

    Social media has doomed us.

  • @jamesgornall5731
    @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому +6

    7:31 "Thats what happens when you dont pay attention to your wife",
    Fair enough, but I can also imagine her saying,
    "Why are you all up in my business, acting like the 500 simps desperately DMing me every day, I CANT BREATHE!!!!!!!"

    • @The_Platinum_Realist
      @The_Platinum_Realist 7 місяців тому +1

      She has self control she's an adult. She's old enough to know better.

    • @aitorchul2262
      @aitorchul2262 7 місяців тому

      ​@@The_Platinum_RealistEhhhh in body sure in mind nah

  • @md_studios9819
    @md_studios9819 7 місяців тому +6

    Next up: woman ruins relationship in -5 sec

  • @codygames5415
    @codygames5415 7 місяців тому +2

    Never become accustomed to luxury. Because you will do desperate things to have it.

  • @reagan1907
    @reagan1907 7 місяців тому +3

    If he doesn’t leave her ass now he’s gonna be the crazy one

  • @BrazenBullXXX
    @BrazenBullXXX 7 місяців тому +3

    The issue at the core is that she went behind his back which is relationship SUICIDE. Trust is key and this kind of stunt should always end in separation.

  • @AmateurEditz7
    @AmateurEditz7 7 місяців тому +7

    Your body, Your choice,Yes. It's his choice to be mad about it since you clearly hid it from him.

    • @almicc
      @almicc 7 місяців тому +2

      She said "my body my choice" as if she's free from any consequences of her actions. As if that because it belongs to her that she can do anything and people must praise her.

  • @ChristianIce
    @ChristianIce 6 місяців тому +1

    "My body, my choice" doesn't mean "my job, my secret"

  • @wilfridekoue1405
    @wilfridekoue1405 7 місяців тому +2

    This is an example of why you should never marry a pawnstar

  • @leonafiona6
    @leonafiona6 7 місяців тому +3

    As a woman we do not caim her

  • @TheStickCollector
    @TheStickCollector 7 місяців тому +6

    Insanity speedrun
    Any%

  • @BigGuy1
    @BigGuy1 7 місяців тому +1

    "My body my choice" when you are in a marriage, that is a vow that your body is only to be shown to your partner, vise versa. Treat your body as sacred grounds, not as a sidewalk.

  • @grahamshaw5722
    @grahamshaw5722 7 місяців тому +1

    I don't think nobody's paying for her subscription

  • @katietravadi2362
    @katietravadi2362 7 місяців тому +7

    how can you live and be with someone for so many years and have so little love for them that you would disrespect them like that after he took care of her

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому

      He drove them into $150,000 worth of debt, not really the best way to take care of someone. There are literally articles about it.

    • @katietravadi2362
      @katietravadi2362 7 місяців тому

      @@deadsetondreams1988 so that makes it okay to cheat? they’re married and a life with him is what she chose. boo hoo if she’s broke at her age after being a young sex worker she clearly played the game wrong

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому

      @@katietravadi2362 Where in the world are you making the assumption that she's cheating on him? She literally said she's making solo content and not doing stuff with other people. You are just hearing what you want to hear there dude.
      Obviously, people don't just make sexual content on that site with other people. Even though a majority do, not everyone does. People literally make just lingerie content on there. I've seen cosplay content on there too. There's fitness and food content on there. Not just graphic and explicit sexual content with others on there.
      And again she said she's doing SOLO content, not sleeping around behind his back.

    • @katietravadi2362
      @katietravadi2362 7 місяців тому

      @@deadsetondreams1988 girl😭 whether it’s a photo her in a bikini or 20 videos of her getting smashed it’s cheating and it made her and her husband look stupid. it’s horrific to immediately jump to online prostitution just because your every want isn’t met don’t you know what marriage means

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому

      @@katietravadi2362 The frick is your logic. Girls post themselves in their bikinis for free on Instagram, and you just said that is cheating XD Your logic is a little skewed.

  • @hoi-polloi1863
    @hoi-polloi1863 7 місяців тому +5

    I feel sorry for the guy. He thought the woman had changed her ways, they got married and he loved her -- or, he loved who he *thought* she was. I'm not surprised that he doesn't dip immediately... the guy is probably in shock, and is thinking "okay okay we can fix this".

  • @Zeral__
    @Zeral__ 6 днів тому

    “My body my choice!” Your choice doesn’t mean someone’s gotta deal with it

  • @rfhextra
    @rfhextra 7 місяців тому

    Great video, I can’t wait to see more from you. 🎉❤

  • @BarakielArts
    @BarakielArts 7 місяців тому +8

    No I disagree, she told him she stopped her p movies before they met, so the person she presented was a different person than he met. So no he was completely caught off guard with this.

  • @Doktah_Zari
    @Doktah_Zari 7 місяців тому +19

    Hope the guy find someone who values him for the work he puts into the relationship, and for creatures like her need to understand that the world doesn't revolve around them and rather they like it or not, their line of "work" isn't accepted for good reasons.
    You ain't struggling to where you are living off the streets hun, and there are other JOBS you can pick up because I bet she has a degree in something, but not basic common sense!
    Men who value themselves are not going to let this mess fly, and women need to start valuing themselves more when it comes to a relationship, having an OF means you DON'T value YOURSELF or your relationships! 🤦🏾

    • @deadsetondreams1988
      @deadsetondreams1988 7 місяців тому

      He put them in over $150,000 worth of debt there are articles about it so you can gain more insight into their financial struggles. She also clearly states they were almost forced out of their home. They are only still there because of the business endeavors she's currently doing. Since you are downplaying their financial situation before getting more context on the situation at hand.

  • @ArsGratiaArtis792
    @ArsGratiaArtis792 7 місяців тому +2

    she either has no self respect or she hates him

  • @veronicamarrs
    @veronicamarrs 7 місяців тому

    8:59 this is so true. If you dont truly love someone for who they are then youll never make it through the hard times. So well said.

  • @ToweringPepsiMan
    @ToweringPepsiMan 7 місяців тому +5

    What's the point of an onlyfans if your husband has made $60mil. I think she has more than enough

    • @Fluffy-Fluffy
      @Fluffy-Fluffy 7 місяців тому +2

      apparently he/they lost most of it.

    • @firstminecraft4721
      @firstminecraft4721 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Fluffy-FluffyStill he has some respect that he doesn't open an OF account and post his d*ck picks to earn money.

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому

      Spent it all on gold plated Cadilacs

    • @firstminecraft4721
      @firstminecraft4721 7 місяців тому

      @@jamesgornall5731 atleast he would still had reputation.

    • @xNemesis_
      @xNemesis_ 7 місяців тому

      The problem is that a lot of sports players don't manage their money well. Like there is (or was idk if it's still the case now) a homeless former NBA player and he had millions but the dude was homeless. But yeah sport player don't manage their money well in general

  • @njasanie23
    @njasanie23 7 місяців тому +3

    Plot twist what if this was all a skit and wanted an internet debate

    • @Canthatcrazy
      @Canthatcrazy 7 місяців тому

      Plot twist. Not everything is a conspiracy!!!!

  • @Creati-01
    @Creati-01 5 місяців тому +2

    I would've divorced her the second I found out

  • @harouttorkomian5897
    @harouttorkomian5897 7 місяців тому +1

    Damn bro. Your monolog from 8:40 was epic.

    • @BakerAtreus
      @BakerAtreus 7 місяців тому

      6:10 I was dying from anticipation, I knew they'd ask this lmaoo 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @BoBnotThat1
    @BoBnotThat1 7 місяців тому +3

    Being from the UK 🇬🇧 i never heard any of her songs. She's a nobody the first time hearing about her is on here. So saying she was an Established singer in the EU is BS..

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому +1

      Totally...also, I don't know if black folks think she's a 10 or what, there are obviously differences when it comes to interracial attractiveness but I'm white and with or without the onlyfans and sex work things she's not particularly attractive. Maybe in person, or without clothing etc I don't know but just from this video. If it was Alicia Keys however...

    • @Squeam9750
      @Squeam9750 7 місяців тому +1

      @@jamesgornall5731 She looks ALMOST like Jada Pinkett Smith and I have a gut feeling that most people who look similarish to Jada have similar behaviors.

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому

      @@Squeam9750 aaah, without the hair, maybe she's a cousin. Bad genes. GI Jane...I see it now..oh, shit, Will, I, sorry man it was just a joke don't come any closer!!

  • @fatmanjonestv7143
    @fatmanjonestv7143 6 місяців тому +3

    Na she’s for the streets

  • @noodlechild666
    @noodlechild666 7 місяців тому +1

    She has zero respect for him. This is what happens when you marry for money/sex and not love.

  • @artemsergeev3730
    @artemsergeev3730 6 місяців тому +2

    "My body my choice", so then "his money his choice" and you don get any after divorce, right?

  • @Shiv-oh8us
    @Shiv-oh8us 7 місяців тому +4

    Bro Joe Smith's wife is borderline delusional

    • @almicc
      @almicc 7 місяців тому

      she is well beyond delusional. this is attention seeking to the maximum, posting online and going on TV to cry about it. she doesn't give a shit about him or the relationship if she thought all of that was the correct course of action.

    • @Shiv-oh8us
      @Shiv-oh8us 7 місяців тому

      @@almicc fr

  • @kumapark2105
    @kumapark2105 7 місяців тому +4

    Tearing apart open relationships without being in a relationship yourself is big brain move

  • @Anituer13
    @Anituer13 7 місяців тому +1

    "Me, my, I". It's all about her. All her terrible decisions are his fault. I hope he leaves and doesn't come back.

  • @jamesgornall5731
    @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому +19

    Its comforting that being over 6 feet and rich doesnt mean youre inmune to a life-destroying
    304
    Edit: oh, he lost most of it over the years and his NBA pension only kicks in at 62...

    • @TearThatRedFlagDown
      @TearThatRedFlagDown 7 місяців тому

      Just shows how toxic the dating scene has become. Especially in America.

    • @OLDMANWAFFLES
      @OLDMANWAFFLES 5 місяців тому

      Wouldn’t it be 403, or wait I’m losing my mind here trying to figure out how numbers spell out hoe

  • @spyro115
    @spyro115 7 місяців тому +3

    1. how you lose 60 million dollars?
    2. why does her demeanor look like that of a 16 year old during the interview?
    3. how you lose 60 MILLION DOLLARS?

    • @mapl3mage
      @mapl3mage 7 місяців тому +1

      losing 60 million is one thing. losing 60 million AND getting into 6-figures debt is something else, all thanks to his really bad financial decisions over several years.

  • @Josh-py9rq
    @Josh-py9rq 6 місяців тому +1

    6:35 she is crying because she knows the gravy train is over and she is FC39354D

  • @bedti9520
    @bedti9520 4 місяці тому

    The term relationship is fading more and more every day to me.

  • @wszechmogacypawulon4047
    @wszechmogacypawulon4047 7 місяців тому +2

    Like for jojo reference

  • @thegamingizmo
    @thegamingizmo 7 місяців тому +5

    ello

  • @sdaniels160
    @sdaniels160 7 місяців тому +1

    She did that shit so he would file for divorce.

  • @imacomputer1234
    @imacomputer1234 7 місяців тому +2

    SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!

  • @Juzokinnie
    @Juzokinnie 7 місяців тому +24

    Nothing is wrong with having an OF but what is wrong is having one without informing your potential partner or getting approval from your partner to do it. I'm so tired of people trying to excuse exposing themself to others behind their partner's back and trying to say it's okay because "Oh I'm just poly" Or "I'm not actually sleeping with other people irl so it's not cheating." Most people go into a relationship with the expectation of being exclusive. If you don't discuss and agree upon being able to expose yourself to other people, then you are a cheater for doing it. People who are like this lady are one of the worst kinds of people.

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому +2

      "Poly?" Is that a thing?

    • @Juzokinnie
      @Juzokinnie 7 місяців тому +4

      @@jamesgornall5731 Yes it's an actual thing and nothing is wrong with it. Nothing is wrong with dating multiple people as long as all parties involved consent to it. I even know a couple who are open to intercourse with other people, but both people agree with each other that is okay to do it and it's 100% consentual. The problem is though that lots people try to say that to excuse cheating, despite not having consent.

    • @ZincZein
      @ZincZein 7 місяців тому +12

      ​@@Juzokinniethat ain't poly that's just an open relationship

    • @jamesgornall5731
      @jamesgornall5731 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@Juzokinnie, it's OK. There's no need to be defensive. I'm just asking regarding the terminology, I'm 40 and have teenage children, I'm trying to keep up with changes in culture. There might be new labels but there's little difference in actual behaviour. When I was in university everyone was sleeping with everyone else; some were in the dark but most not only knew but were highly enthusiastic. Thankfully back then there wasn't much chance of having your antics recorded and transmitted without permission (although it was not unknown in 2002 and 2003, it just needed slightly bulkier equipment). I worry today because such recording is easy to accomplish.

    • @MetaLord395
      @MetaLord395 7 місяців тому

      I actually wouldn't mind if my girl had an OF. All I ask is that 1) she let me know in advance, and 2) she not post her privates on the internet. I know a girl on the Internet who uses OF for sexy cosplays and she's one of the most chill and friendly people I know. She's even married now.

  • @mausi28
    @mausi28 7 місяців тому +3

    I don't get it. She has a perfect life