keep your circle small in order to grow

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  • @gabrielaayau
    @gabrielaayau 7 місяців тому +19

    This video was like an answer to prayers! Thanks for this message.

  • @jobeeschenburg
    @jobeeschenburg 7 місяців тому +148

    My grandfather just passed away, please make ask Allah to have mercy on him. inshAllah.

    • @salmaahmed7700
      @salmaahmed7700 7 місяців тому +3

      inalilahi wainalilahi rajiun
      May he be Amongst the people of jannah🫶🏾🤲🏽

    • @ansar2334
      @ansar2334 7 місяців тому +3

      Allah yarham ❤ May Allah Azzawajal grant him Jannahtul Firdaus ❤ameen

    • @jobeeschenburg
      @jobeeschenburg 7 місяців тому

      @@salmaahmed7700 inshAllah ❤️

    • @jobeeschenburg
      @jobeeschenburg 7 місяців тому

      @@ansar2334 inshAllah ❤️

    • @anumrashadkhan403
      @anumrashadkhan403 7 місяців тому +1

      Ameen

  • @MaddiNicole
    @MaddiNicole 7 місяців тому +16

    Love this! 👏🏽 my pastor always says every person will fit in your life in one of three categories. REGULATE, CULTIVATE, or ELIMINATE. Figure out your priorities and then figure out which people/relationships need to be.

    • @vliciouss
      @vliciouss 7 місяців тому

      This is great ! I really like that line and will keep it in mind.

  • @jolisacb
    @jolisacb 7 місяців тому +77

    Getting back into my faith, I really had to take a step back and evaluate my friend group! There were some unnecessary and negative people in my circle.

    • @leanadeeb
      @leanadeeb  7 місяців тому +16

      Praying you find the right group ❤

    • @whynot5331
      @whynot5331 7 місяців тому

      My frnd list got short listed too very recently. 😊❤ Feels better to just let go rather to keep up with things that make u uncomfortable

  • @eman_raslan
    @eman_raslan 7 місяців тому +5

    one great thing happened to me lately is finding your channel...:) May you be blessed in every minute of your day. ..Amen.

  • @leilaboubshait8140
    @leilaboubshait8140 7 місяців тому +7

    Wow. Masha Allah. A familiar message but refreshing take !

  • @saythenameahlam
    @saythenameahlam 7 місяців тому +19

    Salaam Leana,
    5:26 - 6:14 this example is similar to my situation. I cut off a friend right before Ramadan because she was a negative influence on me and a major distraction. She didn't value growth the same way I did and felt my boundaries were an attack on her. I felt like I even bored her when I shared my ambitions and my struggles to get there. I asked Allah (SWT) to grant me at least one friend who would be a better influence on me. SubhanAllah since Ramadan, I've been fostering healthy friendships at my local mosque and they're inspiring me to grow in multiple directions.
    Hearing your take was inspiring and In Shaa Allah I'm looking forward to the future! 💪

  • @shielenahmadi3115
    @shielenahmadi3115 7 місяців тому +4

    I was just thinking about this today. Out of all the recommended videos on my feed, I felt like I had to watch yours. And this really brought me so much peace and assurance. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Alhamdulillah

  • @Withlina_
    @Withlina_ 7 місяців тому +15

    This was onnn time!!!! I was crying because i had to cut my close friends for those reasons recently and i felt very lonely. Glad you reminded me of my goals and the reason i cut them out of my life thank you.

    • @leanadeeb
      @leanadeeb  7 місяців тому +9

      I hope you are okay ❤ I promise these times will get easier 🫶🏼🥹

  • @jaquelineayala9228
    @jaquelineayala9228 7 місяців тому +12

    I needed to hear this so bad! Blessings to you always.

    • @FactoFyOfficial.
      @FactoFyOfficial. 7 місяців тому

      Hi where are you from

    • @leanadeeb
      @leanadeeb  7 місяців тому +2

      Sending you blessings ❤

    • @FactoFyOfficial.
      @FactoFyOfficial. 7 місяців тому

      @@leanadeeb HI leana Can you give me a phone mobile phone

  • @VanessaAirEmpath
    @VanessaAirEmpath 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this wisdom and blessings to you❤❤❤❤☀️

  • @anklebreaka03
    @anklebreaka03 7 місяців тому +3

    this is such a brilliant message....it truly is that thin line that separates the direction your life will take. We often underestimate the small moment to moment decisions and where we place our energy and how they shape our future. Thank you for this

  • @lauralima3754
    @lauralima3754 7 місяців тому +5

    Leana, you are a truly inspiration to me.. I see your videos since 2022 and all the knowlegde you share really changed my life. I was a lost cause and today I'm a complete different person with a different life style, way more healthier than I was years ago.. at first your body was my goal at gym, but today your mindset, inteligence and lifestyle are my true goals. You continue to inspire people without showing your body, 'cause you dont need to show it to make people pay attetion at you because you're show your beauty in others significant ways and that is amazing to see. Everytime I feel upset about something going wrong in my life, I watch your youtube videos or tiktok to help me feel well again and it works everytime. You became a long distance friend to me (p.s.: i'm 🇧🇷) 😅❤

  • @mlksh525
    @mlksh525 7 місяців тому +3

    I love the mindset you have. I had quite the same for over 10 years now. What i experienced that more you try to explain it to the people more you are losing whats inside yourself. I believe that we should keep these ideas in our minds and improve it while our mouths sealed. Doesn’t matter how hard we try people will be same. Even if there is small improvement it will not worth the effort. Because they will always need a push and guidance. I believe best way to make people understand what you’re talking about is living it rather than talking or explaining. A small sentence can make much more effect than thousands of pages.

  • @bahaa_alsawalhi
    @bahaa_alsawalhi 7 місяців тому +6

    I just love your energy, it calms me and puts a smile on my face after tough days. God bless :)

  • @sadiqworld288
    @sadiqworld288 7 місяців тому +15

    Salam! Sister leana u truly changed my life with the help of Allah Alhamdulillah. I was really lost and struggling even Allah have given me pretty much everything. Islam ☪️ is the true answer. May Allah guide us. Stay blessed 😇🥰

    • @leanadeeb
      @leanadeeb  7 місяців тому +8

      May Allah bless you ❤

    • @jayedmazumder2158
      @jayedmazumder2158 7 місяців тому +2

      You're so lucky to be able to bring changes in people's lives 😊

  • @osirisramirez4719
    @osirisramirez4719 7 місяців тому +31

    I don’t have any friends, I am not mad about it. Less stress. Living life to the fullest. ❤

    • @malakm8143
      @malakm8143 6 місяців тому +1

      but we still need friends and people who support us

    • @saadsplayground942
      @saadsplayground942 6 місяців тому

      Hows life living without friends?

  • @kordulakhan836
    @kordulakhan836 Місяць тому

    I have goosebumps. Authenticity and constructive inner reflection. Bless your heart ❤️!

  • @ayaahmed5729
    @ayaahmed5729 7 місяців тому +1

    This is SO important. Thank you so much for saying it like it is.

  • @arozosherzaad5018
    @arozosherzaad5018 7 місяців тому +3

    Alhamdullilah for this video, I really needed this during this stage of my life, it’s the push I needed to really be firm on certain decisions I’ve made! Love you beautiful soul🥰🎀

    • @leanadeeb
      @leanadeeb  7 місяців тому

      I love you 🫶🏼

  • @tawakulforhome
    @tawakulforhome 2 місяці тому +1

    shes such a sweet and nice person

  • @TheMuslimThriver
    @TheMuslimThriver 7 місяців тому +5

    Such an important topic! Thank you! 💓

  • @zinebbr9841
    @zinebbr9841 7 місяців тому +1

    A positive person, this is what we needed 💗

  • @kl3479
    @kl3479 7 місяців тому +1

    I’m loving this deeper Islamic content from you. May Allah bless and guide you always 🤍

  • @raihana.onfilm
    @raihana.onfilm 7 місяців тому +2

    You're such an inspiration, Ramadan Kareem 🧡

  • @blahblahsv
    @blahblahsv 7 місяців тому +6

    i randomly saw this vedio and i think this is exactly what i needed, i might listen to this again and again for a boost of just understanding. what i realised is that , recently for almost a year now, i am finding it really hard to be a friend to my friends. i was beating myself down to my worth because i really hated being a bad friend. but i am realising that you cant be friends with all of your friends for your life time. some people are just meant for a certain time in your life. and what i am most scared of is that if i protect my energy and create distance, they will leave. but its that almost equal to testing your friend? its this sorting out the good friends? its easier said than done but i think i am really ready to protect my energy and direct it in the right direction, if people leave then they were never meant to stay. and its better now than later. thanks leana!

    • @shamsattabrizi
      @shamsattabrizi 7 місяців тому

      what you've said also resonates with me in a very accurate way. sometimes I feel like I don't want to abandon those people with whom I've had certain good memories, but I truly do not feel surrounded by people who share the same values and ambition, and I feel bad for them even if from an Islamic perspective God tells us to surround ourselves with good people

    • @blahblahsv
      @blahblahsv 6 місяців тому +1

      @@shamsattabrizi exactly! you just said my feelings "i dont wanna abandon people i share memories with" but i guess. This is adulthood.

  • @arnoldrigobertofigueroaesc8562
    @arnoldrigobertofigueroaesc8562 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your words, they have inspired me a lot and above all the wisdom that made me feel, thank you Leana Deeb

  • @shafaizalattar
    @shafaizalattar 7 місяців тому +1

    Waiting for this content to come on UA-cam and you made it ❤ Thank you for your honesty towards us.

  • @asmaaassouma1722
    @asmaaassouma1722 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤Everything you said is true.. Every person who has goals must stay away from those who do not serve his ambitions in order to achieve what he wants.. Thank you, Elena. I love you.

  • @glendalearizona3351
    @glendalearizona3351 7 місяців тому +19

    I truly agree with you unfortunately there’s a lot of people around us there job is just to bring you down and exactly when you keep to circle small that’s mean you start building your self up again.Thank you Leana 🥰

  • @Inspiredvalerie
    @Inspiredvalerie 7 місяців тому +3

    "do you want to be like them" danggg I didn't realize that just saying that it plays more of a role. Now I see why I don't have friends & I have told past friends I no longer see eye to eye with them because I knew deep down I didn't want to be like them. Which were non-hustling, non-risker, non-motivated, or narcissistic people...

  • @azkia5410
    @azkia5410 7 місяців тому +13

    Girl PLEASE start a podcast I'd be tuning in every single week. subhanAllah your wisdom and insight is so refreshing 🤍

  • @Starsihn
    @Starsihn 7 місяців тому +1

    I am isolating right now because the environment and people that I had In my corner was dragging me down, so right now I am focusing on me, without those distractions. I basically don’t have friends tbh but that’s okay. I have me

  • @Jgjules
    @Jgjules 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you. This is valuable. ❤️🙏🏻 and inspiring.

  • @jennifersolorzano563
    @jennifersolorzano563 7 місяців тому +2

    I love ❤ I needed to hear this! Bless you ❤

  • @RegG1983
    @RegG1983 7 місяців тому +1

    I really do love and appreciate your content. Been a huge fan for a couple years now when I came across your videos. Everything I have seen from you I absolutely love. I wish nothing but continued happiness and success!!!

  • @aurariverom
    @aurariverom 6 місяців тому +1

    Your videos are amazing, thank you Leana.

  • @mariajosejaimessilva
    @mariajosejaimessilva 7 місяців тому

    Love this, Leana, we feel so proud of you❤.
    Thanks for this shot of wisdom.

  • @salmaessa9116
    @salmaessa9116 6 місяців тому

    I just needed to listen that talk , really in time ♥️
    One of most honest , important , influencial videos i have ever seen , really thank you ♥️

  • @vanessascanlan940
    @vanessascanlan940 7 місяців тому

    Agree 💯
    "bad company corrupts good chatacter."

  • @alyaadali9431
    @alyaadali9431 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Leana, i understand you 😘🤍

  • @octaviawilliams3159
    @octaviawilliams3159 6 місяців тому

    I admire you for your level of wisdom!

  • @SheriDiary
    @SheriDiary 13 годин тому

    I loved this ! Thank you ❤

  • @akhtarhussain5860
    @akhtarhussain5860 7 місяців тому

    your words are full of wisdom, incredible . this is what i am facing right now : wrong people on my circle. really appreciate you

  • @lilithofthenight1991
    @lilithofthenight1991 3 місяці тому +2

    MY WORKPLACE COLLEAGUEs AND ENVIRONMENT IS SO TOXIC 😪😮‍💨 BUT I LEARNT TO ISOLATE MYSELF FROM THEIR NEGATIVE ENERGY 🧘🏻‍♀️🧘🏻‍♀️

  • @motivelife7836
    @motivelife7836 7 місяців тому

    What a thought provoking presentation! Love it.

  • @doach4091
    @doach4091 7 місяців тому +1

    I take me a years to know about this advise by myself and you made by . thank you 💕 wish you the best in your life

  • @waseemansari3387
    @waseemansari3387 7 місяців тому

    SubhanAllah Masha Allah Alhamdulillah beshaq ❤️❤️

  • @mohamedelmasry807
    @mohamedelmasry807 7 місяців тому +8

    بجد مجرد النظر ليكي مريح للاعصاب و بيخلي الواحد يراجع نفسه في تصرفات كتير بيعملها و يقول ليه لا ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Humanityyyy
    @Humanityyyy 7 місяців тому +3

    2:00 this is what my life is going on I’m lonely I feel different from everyone around me I feel I can do much better but as you told we are surrounded by such people that does not do anything and they also let you down with them under confidence and lonely, may Allah guide me to the right path of my life and meet the right people who is as ambitious and caring as I’m. Ameen.

    • @shamsattabrizi
      @shamsattabrizi 7 місяців тому

      yeah I get you, they project their own insecurities/limiting beliefs onto you, consciously or not and a big ameen for you

  • @zsheima
    @zsheima 7 місяців тому

    This video should be rewatched so many times. TRULLY.
    I literally felt what were you saying; and for the whole video some voice inside my head was saying: I REALLY WANNA BE HER FRIEND.
    May God guide you and bless you.

  • @purringfurTuni
    @purringfurTuni 7 місяців тому +6

    Assalamualaikum Leana😊 your Advice and videos makes me feel so connected as life is getting a bit challenging for me lately 🌿💕May Allah reward you sis

  • @Rashida_11
    @Rashida_11 7 місяців тому +12

    There are many ppl who will waste your time and energy if you allow them to, if you have a growth mindset then finding your right circle will take time but eventually you will attract those who are like you, ppl who are busy working on themselves are picky too.

  • @Bloxtrem
    @Bloxtrem 7 місяців тому +1

    Leana back with another upload !!

  • @donenogood124
    @donenogood124 7 місяців тому

    I really can't believe how much I needed to hear this

  • @DesireeGray1206
    @DesireeGray1206 7 місяців тому

    I love you so much for this .Surrounding yourself with people who dont dream big will hinder you. Be wise!

  • @Marisultana_111
    @Marisultana_111 7 місяців тому +1

    This video came out in perfect timing. Thank you ❤

  • @АминаАбакарова-ц3н
    @АминаАбакарова-ц3н 7 місяців тому +1

    My friends don't have such ambitious goals, they can be lazy, but they know that I have big goals and always support me and praise me when I take small steps towards the goal, and when I'm tired, they remind me of my goals and push forward. We are supported together by the same values in life, the same or less view of things and I think so you can also be friends

    • @malakm8143
      @malakm8143 6 місяців тому

      I think you should keep them, they love you and you love them aa well as they don't harm you

  • @sadafazeemi1057
    @sadafazeemi1057 7 місяців тому

    I look up to you like a sister, you inspire me as I am going through a difficult period myself. Thank you for the words and time you give to us to follow you through this journey ❤

    • @ytc257
      @ytc257 7 місяців тому

      🧕🤗

  • @FCR70
    @FCR70 7 місяців тому +8

    Really a great vedio....keep it up 👏

  • @dana_moghrabi1799
    @dana_moghrabi1799 7 місяців тому +1

    Every time i listen to you when you talk i cry .. i feel it deep in my heart, like i'm not alone .. 😊
    ❤ I LOVE YOU ❤

  • @khaledramadan7668
    @khaledramadan7668 7 місяців тому

    Every single word in this video touches me. May Allah bless you and support you to keep going ♥

  • @verncellpk5992
    @verncellpk5992 7 місяців тому +1

    Can you please share some of the podcasts you listen to, I really feel we have same mindsets and I need more of your videos!

  • @janaadel7563
    @janaadel7563 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much you truly inspire me I really needed to hear this, as i am experiencing loneliness right now and i always thought it was depressing until i watched this video. This was an important reminder of focusing and prioritizing things and people in life. Thank you again and keep doing you because you're creating a huge impact to this generation🤍

  • @fadilaahamir
    @fadilaahamir 7 місяців тому +2

    Being alone in times like this is something I really grateful for, where everyone's getting distracted or trying to distract us from our goals, alhamdulillah for everything 🤍

  • @farhaan2196
    @farhaan2196 7 місяців тому +1

    Leana. I really love and enjoy your videos 💕 thank you so much for giving advice and it really means me to thank you😊

  • @chawanyara8064
    @chawanyara8064 7 місяців тому +1

    You are amazing I love you so much

  • @anamta.22
    @anamta.22 7 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU for your dedication to spreading positivity and encouraging other to strive for their goals. Keep up the fantastic work! I truly ADMIRE YOU. Hope to meet you soon sis… AMEEN ✨

  • @alessarodriguez7016
    @alessarodriguez7016 7 місяців тому +2

    U make me strong 🥺💕

  • @tokimama_
    @tokimama_ 7 місяців тому

    I truly agree with every word that you said. Really needed this today! May Allah bless you! Much love ❤️

  • @brizzamejia7940
    @brizzamejia7940 6 місяців тому

    Thank you Leana. I really needed to hear this, your videos have always been inspiring ❤

  • @asad9525
    @asad9525 7 місяців тому

    Vibes of loneliness and sadness, may Allah SWT give you true happiness in life

  • @angelaoliver2750
    @angelaoliver2750 7 місяців тому

    As a revert you are insperational and inspire me to set goals for myself 😊

  • @gastronomee_
    @gastronomee_ 7 місяців тому

    this is top notch advice as always.

  • @ZeynaAbdurakhman
    @ZeynaAbdurakhman 7 місяців тому +1

    May Allah bless you in this world and hereafter❤

  • @Madu_cortez
    @Madu_cortez 5 місяців тому

    Im really grateful about this video!!! It was so much important to me ❤

  • @Shana-corner
    @Shana-corner 7 місяців тому

    Great topic ❤ please please stay around for the new generation 🙏🏻🙏🏻 I'm 28 years old girl and with years of having experience and reading and analysing for finding myself, but I'm still need these topics for reminding me something really valuable 🙏🏻

  • @dina20031
    @dina20031 7 місяців тому

    I'm really happy I found your page in here. I'm always inspired by your workout videos)) and the friends stuff. Thank you for it. For making it clear!

  • @bintacoly9678
    @bintacoly9678 7 місяців тому +1

    hello Leana i enjoyed this video. Your words speak to me so much. Sometimes I get messages like "you're getting scarce", "it's been a while since we've had you", that sort of thing. It doesn't matter right now, I'm the one who counts and that's all. So thanks your video motivates me so much. I send you lots of love May Allah bless you ❤️

  • @nadyhassan_3
    @nadyhassan_3 7 місяців тому +1

    I respect you so much. I see that you work a lot and get tired a lot. You are an ambitious person. Please be strong. Thank you for sharing your valuable information. May God protect you and bless you in this world and the hereafter. 💚✌️🌙

  • @rcane93
    @rcane93 7 місяців тому +5

    2021 was a REALLY good year for me too. Also being ambitious and having ppl still want to be around is a blessing. Keep growing 🌱🌱🌱 and keep the dorks away

  • @madamevipere
    @madamevipere 7 місяців тому

    Thank u for the great message. Mashalla!!

  • @MAHE465
    @MAHE465 7 місяців тому +2

    Hi I'm a Muslim man from Iran I was a Shia but now I'm not Shia or sunni I'm just a Muslim and your videos helped me
    Please excuse me if I have mistakes in my comment I'm not really good at English ❤😊

    • @w-e-a.c..2264
      @w-e-a.c..2264 7 місяців тому

      آفرين!

    • @Bigmoneybagdadi
      @Bigmoneybagdadi 7 місяців тому

      Sunni means that one follows the sunnah of The Prophet Muhammad (salla Allâhu alaihi wa sallam)

  • @Afsu-re2ju
    @Afsu-re2ju 7 місяців тому +1

    Leana, can you please make a video about how you deal with toxic people in your family? People you can’t ignore and have to keep a cordial relationship with. What to do if they are affecting you mental health and you can’t stop thinking about their injustice? How to free yourself from disliking someone?

  • @AnimechinaterbaruSubindo
    @AnimechinaterbaruSubindo 7 місяців тому

    You are very beautiful, smart, disciplined. That really inspired me

  • @hafsafarooq7935
    @hafsafarooq7935 7 місяців тому

    I can understand what you feel and you are right 👍

  • @yassinalhennawy7713
    @yassinalhennawy7713 7 місяців тому

    I am so proud of you as a Muslim.
    Following you from the states

  • @vanessascanlan940
    @vanessascanlan940 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for making this video I had to rewatch to take some notes lol
    Im in a season rn that my circle has become really small and it gets lonely at times. I experience peace that I cant even explain, but I also get discourage and feel sad at times. I believe people get stuck in bad relationships bc its painful when people leave or u need to let them go.
    Understanding my worth so I don't undervalue my self."

  • @HamzaAli-cx6el
    @HamzaAli-cx6el 7 місяців тому

    Very good topic for every one keep it up👍🌹
    Masha Allah 💖🤗

  • @G.Waithe-Arts
    @G.Waithe-Arts 7 місяців тому

    Great advice, spoken like a true Queen. Keep spreading the positive word and advice. #wisdom

  • @Khadija-zb2hf
    @Khadija-zb2hf 25 днів тому

    It’s made me cry because it’s true thanks for being born ,It comes at the right time , masha allah god save you sis that was very helpful ❤🌸

  • @kazeenaziz1005
    @kazeenaziz1005 6 місяців тому

    Ameen. I love this video so much Leana! May Allah (swt) bless you!

  • @nagiadel2719
    @nagiadel2719 7 місяців тому

    leena thank you very much for every thing u do for yourself and for us

  • @Khumo_fit
    @Khumo_fit 7 місяців тому

    I just realised that I get to be distracted by relationships a lot nd I never knew until I became single my mind was always about a man nd not even my life bruh!! Thank you for this ❤

  • @nono-cz1kq
    @nono-cz1kq 7 місяців тому +1

    I love your videos
    thank you so much💓💓❤

  • @quudsiabalqis
    @quudsiabalqis 7 місяців тому

    I’ve been alone for quite sometime now and I’m all for it. I find peace. Being alone really makes me know more about myself. I actually feel more confident when I go out by myself. Even when going to the gym, I actually prefer to go alone. It’s my time to think and just enjoy my own company ❤

    • @ytc257
      @ytc257 7 місяців тому

      🧕🤗

  • @Jasminewarah
    @Jasminewarah 7 місяців тому

    You’re so inspiring ♥️ love from India 🇮🇳

  • @navruzakarimova6750
    @navruzakarimova6750 7 місяців тому

    The best so knowledgeable influencer for the year ❤

  • @misbahkhan7668
    @misbahkhan7668 7 місяців тому

    Bless you leena .you are an inspiration.

  • @shahana23parveen
    @shahana23parveen 7 місяців тому

    You inspire me a lot, like seriously you do......Love you ❤