Yes. This goes for friends and romantic relationships. I had to let go of a childhood friend that was draining me. Love her so much but I had to go and let her go. Loving her in my heart & praying for her and that’s as far as it goes
Chaos and poverty I'm so done I just came home from Bible Study and he started I shocked him he wasn't expecting me to tell him it's time for him to leave I will not put up with that craziness I got to carry God's Word ❤
I recently had a revelation about my marriage, realizing it has been bad for years, worsening each year. The Holy Spirit has placed it on my heart to let it go and allow God to take care of my husband. My daughters and I have suffered because I believed I was supposed to stay. Now, I have repented and will be obedient to my Abba. I am confident that once I let him go, everything will be okay. I will no longer live in fear but trust that Jesus will take care of me and my daughters.
Partnering with a man who isn't in his purpose or making meaningful contributions to the world is a terrible mistake. An unproductive man is miserable, angry, disillusioned, and in many cases, dangerous. He will find ways to "humble" you due to resentment and insecurity.
Your videos helped me through a very dark time. I am now happily married and living a fruitful and righteous life because of your ministry, leadership and wise counsel. Thank you. ❤️
I need new friends who know Christ here, the old ones I can't keep yet Satan tries to send them back but when I told them about Jesus they stopped talking to me, they are searching for old me and don't want me with Jesus but I want only Jesus. Please pray for me so that old friends leave and new right ones come.
@belovedofGod15 Stand strong in your truth, which is wanting Jesus. That is now your truth! Let them go. If you have to walk alone then so be it...but you're really not alone, you got God and that's enough. 🩷🙏🏾
@@BelovedOfGod15 sometimes we need to give ourselves permission to say no, it's ok to do that. As we heal from our past and become new in Christ it's imperative to prioritize ourselves. We will attract the right ppl/friends as we grow in HIM.
@@lynellb Thank you, I will keep this on mind. I will stay away and pray for them, I hope Jesus saves them too. I understand from God that bad company corrupts good character. This is not easy at all. The demons using my old friends against me is difficult because they don't know what is going on. I had the problem with my family too but they are an entire other story. But Jesus is all I want so I know it is worth it.
The consequences of entering into a cursed relationship are not something you want to experience and you wouldn’t wish the consequences on your worst enemy.
The funny thing about these relationships is that they are usually with a person who has a lower standard of living for themselves than you do. Then 6 months into your friendship your reality that you've been successful in building starts crumbling and all of a sudden they have all this advice for you that would take you down many notches. They trivialize anything you've accomplished as "worldly" and the only way to get in god's grace is to humble yourself to right below your new friend. All of a sudden the world that you've been surviving and thriving in is a big pile of confusion and the person who hasnt been able to rub two nickels together is going to guide you to success. They are always going to help you become your best self, right below them.
I used to say… when I go up you say down, down you say up, left you say right, right you say left, good you say bad… and on and on and on…. NOTHING and I mean NOTHING I did was working until I realized…. NOTHING will… and I let go and let God rescue me
About a month ago, I was in a situation where I know if I don’t get out of the situation eventually it will get toxic. I was contemplating to leave or stay to not leave someone you care during hard times. However, I also realized that feeling anxious every week, limbo, being ignored, etc is not sustainable in the long run. I am accepting it for what it is but it doesn’t mean I should stay. I surrender it to God that this is not the battle I can handle so I have to let it go…the moment I have let go….omg! I am so much in peace and I truly hope that he finds himself and seek help from God ❤. My spirit says “I’m done”. I slept good and laugh so good 😊. He would drop a text here and there but just the thought of it makes me sad. I realized suffering is an option. Be strong 💪 you all in the name of Jesus! Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
It's peace but I still love him so the text make me sad bc I know that God doesn't want me with this person while they're sick with the demon spirits 😢
@@spicydragonroll88-wd2jl it is normal to miss him. It is a process and be patient to yourself. Pray about it and asked for the Holy Spirit and Jesus to protect you at all times. If you can’t help to avoid this person for whatever reason. Keep any interactions short and to the point.
Dear RC. Where do I go with your anointed words. Here. Here. I married a 6 ft, handsome, wealthy Philosophical Theologian and experienced enough evil to last me a life time. Evil and destruction marred our life. He destroyed everything in our life. My Baptist Minister Father ( believed divorce was always wrong ) told me " He is sacrificing your son's life in order to get you." Run...Don' walk and get a divorce lawyer and never speak to him again. I am still in recovery but getting better all the time. Praise God. Thank you RC. you have helped me heal.
Healed & delivered from toxic relationship! Being single, whole, and at peace has been a journey, but worth the stuggle. Thank you God❤ Praying my ministry continues to reflect my testimony!
God give me strength to overcome every battle I face as a single mom struggling to provide for both of my sons that are special needs. God please help me. As I struggle to buy groceries and as I struggle to pay bills each and every month I know this struggle is only temporary. God I know you will help me overcome. In Jesus name amen! ❤️
My heart goes out to you sweetheart! I know the struggle! Wheeping may in endure for a night, YOUR JOY IS COMING! God is with you! Just keep pushing! Don’t give up💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Powerful message!!! As a former people pleaser, I'm truly at the "throwing overboard" stage right now. I can't change anyone but myself...so I'm getting out of God's way and allowing HIM to take care of His children. Blocking numbers without guilt or second guessing.
God forcefully and gently removed me from the one "on the wrong side of God" and that person has not ceased being in greater and greater tribulations since. God needs to deal with people on their own. We don't want to get in His way.
In all my years of hearing the Jonah story I've never heard it like this. Bishop you are an anointed man highly favored and blessed of God only He could have given you such revelational knowledge. Bless you and Lisa and your entire family. ❤🙏
Listened to this three times before the revelation of who the Jonah was in my life. Things played out only a few hours after my second time listening. Thank you Bishop! I appreciate you for the videos you post especially the ones in which you share about relationships from a man’s perspective. May God continue to anoint and bless you and Mrs. Blakes.
You preached that, Pastor Blake. It wasn't until God put it on my heart to let it go. You see, i had a financial crutch for many years. God set it up and gave me discernment and strength to let it go. My life feels so much better since I started depending on God. This cutch took me away from purpose!!! Thank You, Lord
My son intervened into an altercation between his half brother and another young kid. My son has been dead 22 years as of 6/16/2002. His twin brother has never been the same
I didn't need to hear this yesterday because I wasn't ready. Today- it made perfect sense and confirmed exactly what I told my son about some family members. Long story short , God has given me permission to set these folks free.
Thank you for this timely word. I wasted so much time with these type of relationships. GOD please protect and preserve my life from all danger. Thank you for the new found relationships you have sent 🙏🏽
This hit me dead on top of my head!!! My sister told me the guy I was seeing was a Jonah, my best friend told me to leave him because God needs to deal with him and she didn't want me to get part of the wrath and then God kept waking me up at 3:00am showing me books in the OT about judgment! Now I come across this! Not a coincidence! God is so real and I will not mourn leaving him another minute! Thanks Mr. RC Blakes for allowing God to use you.
I agree Pastor Blakes but please pray for him... it hurts something hard in my heart is heavy bc I get the texts "I love you and miss the kids" but the devil got his hands on him 😭 Please pray for his deliverence from these evil spirits. 😢
Thank you, Bishop! You confirmed so much for me. I was married 25 years and found out my husband was a sex going to sex workers and that’s exactly what I had to do. I felt bad for him, but I had to let it go cause it was destroying me, and it was destroying my children.! Praying God they be healing for everybody who’s going through such horrible situations! I got married in the church. My father-in-law was Deacon. But I knew in the end that this was a cursed union, and God would not ordain such abuse
I stayed in a cursed marriage for 40 years and believe me it was pure hell I just ended it I had to get in the word of God every day all day fasting and calling on the blood of Jesus and believe me I know he kept me ❤❤❤
And I was married in a church to it ment nothing to that demon he was on assignment from the kingdom of darkness I'm so glad I was saved and that I know God I wouldn't have made it out he almost broke me but God 🙏
God will help you break free from the dwindling cycle. If you lack discernment, someone else's fate might become your own. God offers multiple opportunities to change, but it's up to us to recognize that some people need to go through lessons we've already learned.
@@kimberlyl.mccauley8501 Bless you, Hi did you also had tachihardya arithmia of heart, because of person with whom you suffer. I had heart palpitations over few years because I suffered ,of neglected not having love reciprocated to me.
Me too friend but enough is enough I gave him a deadline and he pushed up the date being ugly to me I'm a woman of God I'm not worried about nothing because I know he got me ❤ update today was my first whole day of freedom I feel great I'm a living witness that only by the grace of God I'm still here that was a spiritual battle I turned off the TV in February this year and hit the floor stayed in the word of God fasting and praying I started feeling better and stronger and trusted God timing. God kept me and got me out I'm in a better place spiritually mercy covered me and grace kept me I was told that was the only way out and it's the truth
Was literally asking YHWH about a situation I am in, for clarity and guidance on staying longer and suffering, to continue helping others - although it's hurting me in a variety of ways. I needed confirmation that I'm doing the right thing by leaving physically.
I've been trying for years to tell some ppl about GOD & truly seek GOD'S heart & not just his hands. It hurts me to see how they're living. I don't mind helping them, but they won't need me as much if they would seek The Blesser instead of the Blessings!!!
I wish I could see more men in the comments. Its a beautiful thing that he is helping the women, but it'd be nice to see some testimonies from the men.
I shut it down immediately after I received a response to my email from Bishop. I realized many things after reading the email over and over again. Thank you Bishop. You the dad I never had. Nazley van Blerk Cape town SA. Life has been more peaceful and im happy
You posted this video a month ago, but I have just found it today. That's because I have just discovered I was betrayed by someone I considered as a friend. It is just right on time, as I sometimes think about her, and feel sorry for her, as she is going down a path I cannot follow her into. I'd rather stick to God's word and pray for him to guide me. Thanks for your wisdom. Be blessed!
Pastor, it’s like you are speaking directly to me!! This applies to my current relationship with my clown in a crown! Need prayers to break this soul tie!!
This has got to be one of the GREATEST MESSAGES I HAVE HEARD THIS YEAR!!!!! 🙌 Thank you so much!!!...You will never know how GOD speaks through you to help me 🙏 May you & your family be blessed Abundantly for the rest of your life. This is million dollar wisdom that money cant buy....Hallelujah...Thank you Jesus 🙏
This lesson was very timely! I have been struggling with sadness and guilt over a relationship I ended last December. I’m dealing with toxic empathy. I never looked at the story of Jonah in this light. Thank you for your insight Pastor Blakes…🙏🏾🙏🏾
You inspired me to throw my Jonah overboard, and my God, I can literally say that I’m experiencing the peace which surpasses all understanding that God speaks of in his word!
I thank God for you!!!!! I didn't understand ANY of this until I 1st came across your platform, 2nd returning back to God and finally being intentional in therapy. I was doing more harm then good by trying to hold on to what wasn't favored by God. God I thank you!!!!!
I’m so sad. My husband went back to drinking and went off of his pych medication and became very abusive and I had to take action. I’m struggling so much with this ☹️
I needed this so badly it couldn’t have came at a better time you said exactly everything that I had been wondering about trying to save my ex, thank you 🙏🏽 very
This message spoke directly to me today 😩😩 trying to make relationships work that will destroy you in the end and u will catch karma right along with them . And heartbreak
I listen to your videos all of the time, but for some reason this one really hit a tune. Thank you for doing this video and helping me with a decision I was contemplating for 2 weeks with. I believe God uses you to speak about relationships and bringing things into perspective.
I HAVE LISTENED TO THIS 5 TIMES!!!!!!! Thank you pastor Blakes this touch my soul and heart. I have sent this to 4 of my friends. God made it to where Jonah left me cause he know i wasnt strong enough and looking at hindsight 20/20 oh my goodness the lessons i received after God did his business! I love this podcast so much! Blessing to you and your family!!!!
Thank you for chastising me Lord Jesus 🙏🏾 it has opened up my eyes to see the truth that sets me free , thank you Father for your Love , mercy and grace for me
This channel always provides a different perspective, but always so clear and factual. The delivery is also always so well done, calm and easily received.
Say that! Ahman! I got rid of this narcissist guy on September 10 so he can have his young wicked baby mama. Both of them plot and deceitfulness against me. I need you to pray for me for my healing from traumatized experience and broken heart. My name is Yawadayath(Yawa)👑🙏🏾📖
🙏🏼🙏🏼😪😪💯💯Dear God - - Geeze Bishop RC - - you are talkin' directly to my Spirit... The words almost knocked me down! Ok then... 💯 I have to heed this Holy Ghost Kingdom Wisdom... I am in shock at how greatly this message is transforming me... Wowie... I thank our Lord Jesus for you - Bishop RC and First Lady Lisa... Wow... 🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥✝✝🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥✝✝
Loving a good heart has left me in a state of confusion, 8 wasted years being patient and encouraging waiting for change to come and have now feel so used and abandoned, one week of no contact it's do painful that its like i was in the relationship alone when he had already moved on. Have learned the hard way
Pastor Blakes, this pulled many shouts out of me! Not 1 lie has been told! I thank you for the blessing you have been to so many of us who didn't have a father like yourself in our lives. You and Sister Lisa and your family, be blessed!
Another of your much-needed talks RC. So many of your talks seem so timely and necessary. Stay blessed and safe on your trip to Egypt. That goes for your family and also for all of your guests on the trips. Thank you.🙏
So I'm gonna first say may God Bless you with the gift that you have. And I have listened to you from here and there, taking in lessons from your teaching, and I have been ever so thankful, but today, hearing this message was really it really hit me hard. It was really meant for me. I'm trying not to make this a book. But I have been seeing 311 for the past 2 weeks. Yesterday I saw 311, 10 times and I looked up the proverbs verse. I kept reading it and reading it.I did understand, but I didn't understand, and here it from you makes it clear. I am now leaving a 18 year toxic relationship with a narcissis, and the whole time, I forgot to love and take care of myself. I thought I was helping a person when I was slowly hurting myself. I am taking my life back. Thank you so much!
"You are trying to live on the right side of a person who is on the wrong side of God"....Bishop
This!
Deep🎯
Ooo.. i like this one
Bishop said a mouthful right there!!
When loving you is killing me, time to let go. He brought nothing but chaos into my life‼️
Yes. This goes for friends and romantic relationships. I had to let go of a childhood friend that was draining me. Love her so much but I had to go and let her go. Loving her in my heart & praying for her and that’s as far as it goes
Chaos and poverty I'm so done I just came home from Bible Study and he started I shocked him he wasn't expecting me to tell him it's time for him to leave I will not put up with that craziness I got to carry God's Word ❤
I recently had a revelation about my marriage, realizing it has been bad for years, worsening each year. The Holy Spirit has placed it on my heart to let it go and allow God to take care of my husband. My daughters and I have suffered because I believed I was supposed to stay. Now, I have repented and will be obedient to my Abba. I am confident that once I let him go, everything will be okay. I will no longer live in fear but trust that Jesus will take care of me and my daughters.
That's what my mum did, and she has been blessed tremendously afterwards. Take courage and ask God, the Almighty, to guide you through.😊
Same here! Surrender and give him to GOD! That’s the only way
Everything about him was confusion. I tried for 5 1/2 years , not realizing God was purposely destroying that mess. Thank you Holy Ghost for Saving me
Same here
Yessssss and Amen 🙏🏽
I’m going through the same this comment describes my life right now
@@Dajthebookworm Run and don’t look back
It's been a year of No contact, healing, and forgiving myself. My cut-off game is stronger than ever. HALLELUJAH!
Let go and live.
And I truly believe this is the lesson God has been trying to teach me
Partnering with a man who isn't in his purpose or making meaningful contributions to the world is a terrible mistake. An unproductive man is miserable, angry, disillusioned, and in many cases, dangerous. He will find ways to "humble" you due to resentment and insecurity.
Your videos helped me through a very dark time. I am now happily married and living a fruitful and righteous life because of your ministry, leadership and wise counsel. Thank you. ❤️
Wow thank you for this testimony
Come on now!!! No matter how hard u work, if it's not ordained by god, it's not going to work
Preach!
Absolutely 💯💯💯.
"You trying to preserve a fool . . . You gotta know when to throw them over." Pastor, you giving it tonight!!!
I’m tired. It’s time to give in to God.
Same sis…. Saaaaame 😮💨😣
I need new friends who know Christ here, the old ones I can't keep yet Satan tries to send them back but when I told them about Jesus they stopped talking to me, they are searching for old me and don't want me with Jesus but I want only Jesus. Please pray for me so that old friends leave and new right ones come.
@@lyssadaqvxxn thank you! I will pray for you too 🙏
@belovedofGod15 Stand strong in your truth, which is wanting Jesus. That is now your truth! Let them go. If you have to walk alone then so be it...but you're really not alone, you got God and that's enough. 🩷🙏🏾
@@lynellb 💖🙏☺
@@BelovedOfGod15 sometimes we need to give ourselves permission to say no, it's ok to do that. As we heal from our past and become new in Christ it's imperative to prioritize ourselves. We will attract the right ppl/friends as we grow in HIM.
@@lynellb Thank you, I will keep this on mind. I will stay away and pray for them, I hope Jesus saves them too. I understand from God that bad company corrupts good character. This is not easy at all. The demons using my old friends against me is difficult because they don't know what is going on. I had the problem with my family too but they are an entire other story. But Jesus is all I want so I know it is worth it.
The consequences of entering into a cursed relationship are not something you want to experience and you wouldn’t wish the consequences on your worst enemy.
Yep
The funny thing about these relationships is that they are usually with a person who has a lower standard of living for themselves than you do. Then 6 months into your friendship your reality that you've been successful in building starts crumbling and all of a sudden they have all this advice for you that would take you down many notches. They trivialize anything you've accomplished as "worldly" and the only way to get in god's grace is to humble yourself to right below your new friend. All of a sudden the world that you've been surviving and thriving in is a big pile of confusion and the person who hasnt been able to rub two nickels together is going to guide you to success. They are always going to help you become your best self, right below them.
Preach 🙌🏽 that's the truth and u recognize it hallelujah....a person that hasnt been able to rub 2 nickels Amen🙏🏽
I wish I would have stuck to my guns but God will restore ❤
Ma'am, that last sentence is priceless 👌
Facts☮️💟✝️
Omg I love this description, thank YOU!!! 🎉
Jesus! You gotta know when to throw certain people overboard! Bad company ruins good morals. Jesus!!
More like get off the Titanic and get onto a life boat.. cause the Titanic sank slowly with lots of casualties.. & you don't want to be one of them! 🛶
There is only ONE SAVIOR and it ain’t me 🙌🙌🙌
This is something I need to start telling myself daily!!
I call you my 'UA-cam Dad'. Thank you for your wisdom and speaking into our lives. It's powerful and has impacted my life. Thank you for serving God.
Foreal! He’s like the dad that I’ve always not wanted but NEEDED
I used to say… when I go up you say down, down you say up, left you say right, right you say left, good you say bad… and on and on and on…. NOTHING and I mean NOTHING I did was working until I realized…. NOTHING will… and I let go and let God rescue me
Almighty God !!!! Forgive me PLEASE!!! Help me get away AND stay away from these type people!!!
They’re are unwell on SO many different levels !!!!
I keep listening / ‘rewinding’ because I was that person - the one who attached myself to people I should have thrown overboard 👏🏾👍🏾
Me too. Had to let go of my husband!
I’ve been avoiding this video because I knew it was going to slap me! lol but thank you God!
Powerful! Get out of God's way and let him proceed with his plans! We can't save everyone.
About a month ago, I was in a situation where I know if I don’t get out of the situation eventually it will get toxic. I was contemplating to leave or stay to not leave someone you care during hard times. However, I also realized that feeling anxious every week, limbo, being ignored, etc is not sustainable in the long run. I am accepting it for what it is but it doesn’t mean I should stay. I surrender it to God that this is not the battle I can handle so I have to let it go…the moment I have let go….omg! I am so much in peace and I truly hope that he finds himself and seek help from God ❤. My spirit says “I’m done”. I slept good and laugh so good 😊. He would drop a text here and there but just the thought of it makes me sad. I realized suffering is an option. Be strong 💪 you all in the name of Jesus! Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
It's peace but I still love him so the text make me sad bc I know that God doesn't want me with this person while they're sick with the demon spirits 😢
I just pray for him to be saved from those evil spirits but they are like pests
@@spicydragonroll88-wd2jl it is normal to miss him. It is a process and be patient to yourself. Pray about it and asked for the Holy Spirit and Jesus to protect you at all times. If you can’t help to avoid this person for whatever reason. Keep any interactions short and to the point.
Sounds like my situation!! When I gave up God gave me a peace that I’ve never had! You gotta let go
Bishop Blakes
You are the dad that I’ve not wanted but ALWAYS NEEDED! Thanks for blessing me with this ❤
22:28 "You interfere with God's process by holding on to people rather than throwing them overboard." There it is. ❤
Dear RC. Where do I go with your anointed words. Here. Here. I married a 6 ft, handsome, wealthy Philosophical Theologian and experienced enough evil to last me a life time. Evil and destruction marred our life. He destroyed everything in our life. My Baptist Minister Father ( believed divorce was always wrong ) told me " He is sacrificing your son's life in order to get you." Run...Don' walk and get a divorce lawyer and never speak to him again. I am still in recovery but getting better all the time. Praise God. Thank you RC. you have helped me heal.
❤❤❤❤❤
"WHEN LOVING U IS KILLING ME I GOTTA LET U GO " ❤
Healed & delivered from toxic relationship! Being single, whole, and at peace has been a journey, but worth the stuggle. Thank you God❤ Praying my ministry continues to reflect my testimony!
God give me strength to overcome every battle I face as a single mom struggling to provide for both of my sons that are special needs. God please help me. As I struggle to buy groceries and as I struggle to pay bills each and every month I know this struggle is only temporary. God I know you will help me overcome. In Jesus name amen! ❤️
Sending prayers and blessings your way Amen 🙌🏻❤️
❤ sending you strength love and prayers
TMH is within you, you will not FALL. ❤️🙏🏿
Keep pushing tell yourself refresh refocus
My heart goes out to you sweetheart! I know the struggle! Wheeping may in endure for a night, YOUR JOY IS COMING! God is with you! Just keep pushing! Don’t give up💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
When loving you is killing me...what a mighty word!❤
I love how God sends a message like this right when you need it! Glory!
Our sympathy shouldn’t allow our sympathy cause us to neglect Gods will
Be careful who you help! You are feeding a dog just enough for them to bite you.
Powerful message!!! As a former people pleaser, I'm truly at the "throwing overboard" stage right now. I can't change anyone but myself...so I'm getting out of God's way and allowing HIM to take care of His children. Blocking numbers without guilt or second guessing.
Blocking is hard, especially when it's your flesh and blood. But very necessary.
Yep!! Had to let my husband go!
This sermon literally came right on time. My relationship is literally draining my body. Ive been praying all day to heal.
I feel the same!!! It makes me so sad, I used to have so much extra energy .... 😕
God forcefully and gently removed me from the one "on the wrong side of God" and that person has not ceased being in greater and greater tribulations since. God needs to deal with people on their own. We don't want to get in His way.
Amen!!!!!
Amen
Amen
AMEN 💞💪🌷🙏
TO ME OBEDIENCE IS BETTER THAN SACRIFICES I CUT THEM OFF EVEN IF ITS MY OWN FAMILY 👪 I HAVE TO STAY OBEDIENED TO THE LORD
All relationship needs God's blessing to prosper and work
In all my years of hearing the Jonah story I've never heard it like this. Bishop you are an anointed man highly favored and blessed of God only He could have given you such revelational knowledge. Bless you and Lisa and your entire family. ❤🙏
Only the Creator could have annoited this man to deliver this IMPORTANT message! Be blessed R.C.❤
Current situation finding the strength to let go
Keep praying and fasting and reading the word of God that's the only way and believe me I'm a living witness that God will bring you out
Listened to this three times before the revelation of who the Jonah was in my life. Things played out only a few hours after my second time listening. Thank you Bishop! I appreciate you for the videos you post especially the ones in which you share about relationships from a man’s perspective. May God continue to anoint and bless you and Mrs. Blakes.
You preached that, Pastor Blake. It wasn't until God put it on my heart to let it go. You see, i had a financial crutch for many years. God set it up and gave me discernment and strength to let it go. My life feels so much better since I started depending on God. This cutch took me away from purpose!!!
Thank You, Lord
My son intervened into an altercation between his half brother and another young kid. My son has been dead 22 years as of 6/16/2002. His twin brother has never been the same
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry to hear. I pray for your family and peace.
Big hug to you X
I didn't need to hear this yesterday because I wasn't ready.
Today- it made perfect sense and confirmed exactly what I told my son about some family members.
Long story short , God has given me permission to set these folks free.
Thank you for this timely word. I wasted so much time with these type of relationships. GOD please protect and preserve my life from all danger. Thank you for the new found relationships you have sent 🙏🏽
Man this was good. Driving to work I said whatever pops up is what I’m a listen to on my drive to work and this blessed me ❤ thank you Pastor B👏
This hit me dead on top of my head!!! My sister told me the guy I was seeing was a Jonah, my best friend told me to leave him because God needs to deal with him and she didn't want me to get part of the wrath and then God kept waking me up at 3:00am showing me books in the OT about judgment! Now I come across this! Not a coincidence! God is so real and I will not mourn leaving him another minute! Thanks Mr. RC Blakes for allowing God to use you.
Please listen because I wish someone would have told me 🙏
So glad God has set me free! Never again! Gods way or no way at all!
Yes Lord yes Lord 🙏
I agree Pastor Blakes but please pray for him... it hurts something hard in my heart is heavy bc I get the texts "I love you and miss the kids" but the devil got his hands on him 😭 Please pray for his deliverence from these evil spirits. 😢
Stay away from him so the devil won't get his hands on YOU
@@onevenus6040 Amen I got that narcissist demon husband out of my life I would never let him get back in my life
Thank you, Bishop! You confirmed so much for me. I was married 25 years and found out my husband was a sex going to sex workers and that’s exactly what I had to do. I felt bad for him, but I had to let it go cause it was destroying me, and it was destroying my children.! Praying God they be healing for everybody who’s going through such horrible situations! I got married in the church. My father-in-law was Deacon. But I knew in the end that this was a cursed union, and God would not ordain such abuse
I stayed in a cursed marriage for 40 years and believe me it was pure hell I just ended it I had to get in the word of God every day all day fasting and calling on the blood of Jesus and believe me I know he kept me ❤❤❤
And I was married in a church to it ment nothing to that demon he was on assignment from the kingdom of darkness I'm so glad I was saved and that I know God I wouldn't have made it out he almost broke me but God 🙏
I stand accused
Brazing hard head lascivious
I took my butt whooping and it hurts
I had to drop off a knucklehead University😊
God will help you break free from the dwindling cycle. If you lack discernment, someone else's fate might become your own. God offers multiple opportunities to change, but it's up to us to recognize that some people need to go through lessons we've already learned.
I had a Jonah. I threw him overboard 2-years agor🎉🎉🎉
Me too...my good heart was killing me.😢
@@kimberlyl.mccauley8501 Bless you, Hi did you also had tachihardya arithmia of heart, because of person with whom you suffer. I had heart palpitations over few years because I suffered ,of neglected not having love reciprocated to me.
I just threw him overboard 😂
Video spoke directly to me. Excellent video. Having a good heart can kill us.
I'm in a cursed relationship ‼️Letting it go🙏🏽
Me too friend but enough is enough I gave him a deadline and he pushed up the date being ugly to me I'm a woman of God I'm not worried about nothing because I know he got me ❤ update today was my first whole day of freedom I feel great I'm a living witness that only by the grace of God I'm still here that was a spiritual battle I turned off the TV in February this year and hit the floor stayed in the word of God fasting and praying I started feeling better and stronger and trusted God timing. God kept me and got me out I'm in a better place spiritually mercy covered me and grace kept me I was told that was the only way out and it's the truth
@@Dale-ei4sm I been there. May the Lord Jesus Christ give you the strength you need WOG ❤️
Was literally asking YHWH about a situation I am in, for clarity and guidance on staying longer and suffering, to continue helping others - although it's hurting me in a variety of ways. I needed confirmation that I'm doing the right thing by leaving physically.
Bless you, this same with me here, but I dont have where to go to leave and leave him to be alone with himself
so God can deal with him and heal
Mr. R.C. Blakes, I Thank you for breaking down all of who are a Jonah and how those Jonahs will sink your (my) ship/ destroy your (my) life.💝
This message is facts..bc I have experienced this myself , " never help a person who God havê cursêd" ...sooo.. true Pastor Blake...❤
I've been trying for years to tell some ppl about GOD & truly seek GOD'S heart & not just his hands. It hurts me to see how they're living. I don't mind helping them, but they won't need me as much if they would seek The Blesser instead of the Blessings!!!
I wish I could see more men in the comments. Its a beautiful thing that he is helping the women, but it'd be nice to see some testimonies from the men.
🙌🙏🙌
..having a gd 💜 can kill U....
Jonah story ....wow...your empathy sympathy can have U in a battle that's not yours🔥
🔥Help me Jesus 🔥
I shut it down immediately after I received a response to my email from Bishop. I realized many things after reading the email over and over again. Thank you Bishop. You the dad I never had. Nazley van Blerk Cape town SA. Life has been more peaceful and im happy
Bishop, I was asking Jesus for a word and you delivered it. Please pray for me. Half of my life is gone due to this. 😭
You posted this video a month ago, but I have just found it today. That's because I have just discovered I was betrayed by someone I considered as a friend. It is just right on time, as I sometimes think about her, and feel sorry for her, as she is going down a path I cannot follow her into. I'd rather stick to God's word and pray for him to guide me. Thanks for your wisdom. Be blessed!
Whew!!! I needed to hear this concerning my family. My God!!!!
What a word!!!!
Pastor, it’s like you are speaking directly to me!! This applies to my current relationship with my clown in a crown! Need prayers to break this soul tie!!
PLEASE TEACH ABOUT IDOLATRY AND LETTING GO OF THOSE RELATIONSHIPS AS WELL.
This has got to be one of the GREATEST MESSAGES I HAVE HEARD THIS YEAR!!!!! 🙌 Thank you so much!!!...You will never know how GOD speaks through you to help me 🙏 May you & your family be blessed Abundantly for the rest of your life. This is million dollar wisdom that money cant buy....Hallelujah...Thank you Jesus 🙏
This lesson was very timely! I have been struggling with sadness and guilt over a relationship I ended last December. I’m dealing with toxic empathy. I never looked at the story of Jonah in this light. Thank you for your insight Pastor Blakes…🙏🏾🙏🏾
Me too toxic empathy is the term!! 😢
You have to know when to throw soomeone overboard
You inspired me to throw my Jonah overboard, and my God, I can literally say that I’m experiencing the peace which surpasses all understanding that God speaks of in his word!
I thank God for you!!!!! I didn't understand ANY of this until I 1st came across your platform, 2nd returning back to God and finally being intentional in therapy. I was doing more harm then good by trying to hold on to what wasn't favored by God. God I thank you!!!!!
Bless you. i suffer alot, but my partner much more, he doesnt know about love of God for now. Also wonderin about therapy, did it help you *
This message I believe has saved my life and is the most effective message I’ve heard in helping me understand why I must let go.
It's July 13. Have an awesome birthday RC. And many more ❤.
Thank you Pastor Blakes for this message. It further confirms a situation and gives me peace. “Be still and know that I am God”❤
You are speaking to me been 19 years of marriage i know now that I have to let him go out of my heart. Cause he is cursed. Thank you for this lesson ❤
Absolute confirmation of my prayers for the last month regarding a romantic relationship...thank you Bishop ❤
Im so glad my algo slid this video in ❤😊
Listening to RC is my form of self love. ❤
I’m so sad. My husband went back to drinking and went off of his pych medication and became very abusive and I had to take action. I’m struggling so much with this ☹️
GOD BLESS. Stay safe🙏.
Stay strong 💪 ❤
Praying for strength for you in this situation. Protect yourself and give the rest to God!
You can't fix him.
I needed this so badly it couldn’t have came at a better time you said exactly everything that I had been wondering about trying to save my ex, thank you 🙏🏽 very
This is so so true!! God is so good, he shows us, we just have to listen! ❤🙏🏽
AMEN🙌🏽
Lord have Mercy. Your sympathy doesnt change Gods judgment that applies to any one us including Jonah.
This message spoke directly to me today 😩😩 trying to make relationships work that will destroy you in the end and u will catch karma right along with them . And heartbreak
Somehow, your messages are always on time in my life! This fell on fertile soil and is confirmation for me.
I listen to your videos all of the time, but for some reason this one really hit a tune. Thank you for doing this video and helping me with a decision I was contemplating for 2 weeks with. I believe God uses you to speak about relationships and bringing things into perspective.
I HAVE LISTENED TO THIS 5 TIMES!!!!!!! Thank you pastor Blakes this touch my soul and heart. I have sent this to 4 of my friends. God made it to where Jonah left me cause he know i wasnt strong enough and looking at hindsight 20/20 oh my goodness the lessons i received after God did his business! I love this podcast so much! Blessing to you and your family!!!!
Greetings and deep gratitude from South Korea land . Thank you for redirecting us. Never too late.
Thank you for chastising me Lord Jesus 🙏🏾 it has opened up my eyes to see the truth that sets me free , thank you Father for your Love , mercy and grace for me
This channel always provides a different perspective, but always so clear and factual. The delivery is also always so well done, calm and easily received.
8:36 Sometimes having a good heart can kill you 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I felt that, Bishop!
Good Word, Amen!
Say that! Ahman! I got rid of this narcissist guy on September 10 so he can have his young wicked baby mama. Both of them plot and deceitfulness against me. I need you to pray for me for my healing from traumatized experience and broken heart. My name is Yawadayath(Yawa)👑🙏🏾📖
🙏🏼🙏🏼😪😪💯💯Dear God - - Geeze Bishop RC - - you are talkin' directly to my Spirit... The words almost knocked me down! Ok then... 💯 I have to heed this Holy Ghost Kingdom Wisdom... I am in shock at how greatly this message is transforming me... Wowie... I thank our Lord Jesus for you - Bishop RC and First Lady Lisa... Wow... 🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥✝✝🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥✝✝
Loving a good heart has left me in a state of confusion, 8 wasted years being patient and encouraging waiting for change to come and have now feel so used and abandoned, one week of no contact it's do painful that its like i was in the relationship alone when he had already moved on. Have learned the hard way
Pastor Blakes, this pulled many shouts out of me! Not 1 lie has been told! I thank you for the blessing you have been to so many of us who didn't have a father like yourself in our lives. You and Sister Lisa and your family, be blessed!
Another of your much-needed talks RC. So many of your talks seem so timely and necessary. Stay blessed and safe on your trip to Egypt. That goes for your family and also for all of your guests on the trips. Thank you.🙏
So I'm gonna first say may God Bless you with the gift that you have. And I have listened to you from here and there, taking in lessons from your teaching, and I have been ever so thankful, but today, hearing this message was really it really hit me hard. It was really meant for me. I'm trying not to make this a book. But I have been seeing 311 for the past 2 weeks. Yesterday I saw 311, 10 times and I looked up the proverbs verse. I kept reading it and reading it.I did understand, but I didn't understand, and here it from you makes it clear. I am now leaving a 18 year toxic relationship with a narcissis, and the whole time, I forgot to love and take care of myself. I thought I was helping a person when I was slowly hurting myself. I am taking my life back. Thank you so much!
Excellent teaching man of God! I receive this word! Amen!!!❤
Great topic. Flow vs force. Jesus said,” My yoke is easy.” When it’s family it fits and when it’s forced-it will fail. 🌹