THINGS QUEENS NEVER LET MEN DO - RC Blakes
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THINGS QUEENS NEVER LET MEN DO - RC Blakes
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Keep my son in y'all pray he is in stage 5 kidney failure he's 15 💚💚💚😭
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Will do
Keep praying & believing!! I'm a 24 year kidney transplant recipient. I was ready to give up 01/27/1998, received my perfect match on 01/28/1998. God did it then, He can do it for your son. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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“you’re not really healthy, till you can reject some things”
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Wow this hits home. I felt like a new person when I started saying "no". I'm still strengthen that area.
Wow.. A true healthy human have the ability to prioritize themselves and say no to anything that hurts them, toxic to them, not in alignment with their souls.. Wow just wow. Glad i blocked toxic people
Wow! This hits home!!!
Stay posed
A Queen Never let a Man: (not in any specific order)
1. Keep her in Limbo. Constantly in Uncertainty in role he plays in her life. Trying to keep you hooked enough to stay as long as he needs without commitment.
2. Rate her. Your value is already set by your Creator. Don't let male validation define nor hook you. This is emotional manipulation.
3. Disrespect her in any shape, way or form. Never tolerates it and confronts man when disrespect is detected. Be Queen concious of the words you allow men to speak over your life.
4. Is never financially dependent upon a man. Always find ways to be secure enough to fall back on herself until he proves himself.
5. Disrupt her peace. When time spent with him begins to disrupt your peace, it keans that there is an uneven deposit. You need to protect your peace and leave. Queens choose men who heal them.
6. Stop your mission. The man for you would seek to expand and improve you. Queens never allow a man to devalue or belittle her. He would seek to help you with your mission.
Thank you!
@@zmcfadgen You're welcome!
Amennnnnooooo
Powerful
Thanks
Thank you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Well...I am not a Christian I'm pagan, but I have never heard anyone make religion sound so much like freedom...you are so very inspiring.I am a psychotherapist and I specialise in narcissistic relationship recovery and I wanted to thank you for the work you do.Every day I am helping women pick themselves off the floor and find themselves again,and I recommend you and your work for when they need comfort and sense between sessions.Thankyou on behalf of all us women 🌹
I am a Christian & we only have problems with religion if we are practicing based on how others behave instead of looking into Jesus Christ. In my opinion, Christ came to set us free but most humans just like bound-age
Jesus Christ is NOT a religion. It's a relationship. The only way to salvation and to heaven is through Him. Open your heart and ask him to come into your life. Get to know him and you will fall in love with him.
I appreciate how open-minded you are and thank you for your service in helping to heal women 🧡
Do you still do sessions?
Many churches get it wrong! Because people are involved, and people are imperfect. But God desires that we have freedom!
"Any man that negatively affects your peace has been in your life too long and has not made the appropriate deposits. When he makes the appropriate deposits he produces peace."
Soo good!!!!!
I’m so glad that I found self love. I’m 25 years old and I’m just now realizing I’m a queen and there’s certain things that queens don’t do! I’m starting to live my life by that!
I'm so glad you found out sweetheart and please continue to stand on knowing your worth no matter what others think keep doing whats best for you and when your ready and being prayerful trusting in God and you will find the right mate for you 🙏🏾
Yes young lady please keep that mindset ❤
I found out I’m a Queen so late in life …… I’m now 28 and regret not coming across RC Blake in my early twenties
@@rossy8130 exactly! But 28? You gotta a lot of years in front of you
@@rossy8130😅I laughed at "late in life" and then you said 28. You are very young. Maybe you have some regrets but you can live differently movingnforward and help others who will be drawn to your humble nature ❤. You have so much life ahead of you.
Wow… you are speaking on this one!! I just ended a 3 month relationship on Sunday because the man I was seeing was not ready to commit. He didn’t want me dating other men, but he was not ready to put a label on our relationship. I told him I love myself too much to allow you to have me in “limbo!”
🎉congratulations sis
I’m so glad us women are starting to choose ourselves
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Using good wisdom and paying attention to them red flags , YES ❤️
Well done sweety 💃🏻only 3 months, just a season, so glad you rate yourself enough not to waste years of your life, smart girl, may God give you great husband xx
in same situation been over a year
Thank you so much Bishop this confirms everything that I endured in my last relationship. God rescued me last week out of it and I had to leave my own apartment so he would not know where I am. He had become blatantly disrespectful, verbal abusive and quickly closing the gap towards physical abuse.I knew by the unction of the Holy Spirit that this man's mission was to intentionally smother my feminine light, kill my joy and break my spirit. He was jealous and he had nothing. Only 1.5yr of my life waisted and im now on the healing bounce back! PRAISE GOD! 👏🏽
Bless you! Keep going! 👏🏻👏🏻
So happy to hear you made it out! Keep going love!!! 🙏🏽😇🥰
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Amen!
Keep your eyes on God. With him, 'no experience is lost.' Though painful some experiences may be, he promises victory in the end. I'm glad you managed to get your freedom now.
A true queen is happy with being alone, she is aware of her worth in the eyes of God. She loves God more than anything, she won't settle for a man who doesn't love God with all his heart, he has to be a king. Values and self respect is ladylike as well as keeping yourself pure unto God in spirit and body.
It’s always nice to hear that it is ok to have standards and boundaries.❤
You don’t need permission to give yourself boundaries and standards, you just do it for yourself
Yes maam bcuz some men will try yo make you feel like youre crazy bcuz you do have standards
Yup it’s a must ✨❤️💯
"You are not really healthy until you can reject some things".
This was a beautiful message! I wish I had heard this message over 40 yrs ago. All I had in my life was fools & I was just as messed up as they were. I gave my life to JESUS in my 40s & JESUS taught me to value myself. He also taught me that I was not a trash can. Stop hanging around trash & get the trash out of my head that other ppl have put in my head. JESUS transformed my way of thinking & my way of living!!!
Amen sis similar story❤❤❤
Amen!!!!
Never let a man finance your survival ❤️❤️❤️❤️AMEN!
period..Amen
Thanks
Wow powerful
Many men have passed me by. The latest guy I’ve dated couldn’t understand why I’m not married! Good grief, no wonder I don’t date much. Tired of sifting through broken wrecks!
“Queens have a HIGHER STANDARD for themselves than the man who would be interested in them would have”..I see myself the way that GOD sees me and will patiently wait for MY King ..((won’t EVER settle))..I owe it to myself 🙏
I needed this message today and I'm not single I'm married! But this message is still a gem!
Me too
Janelle you are blessed that your husband found you and so is he. Hope you guys have a long and meaningful marriage ❤️🙏
After listening to hours of The Bishop's teachings, I have finally normalized saying no. The other part of it is to grow strong enough to deal with the onslaught of insults from people whom you've never said no to in the past. I just established a boundary around myself. When they ask me to do something I deem excessive via voicemail or text message, I simply don't answer. That is my power. I have the power to act or not to act. Sometimes not acting is the most powerful act one can demonstrate.
You are preaching tonight. That is exactly what some men are doing now days...keeping women in limbo! Amen
So true
Thank you Bishop! I needed to hear this powerful message today. Just coming out of a 24 year Narcissist relationship. I could’ve died last year due to him pulling a firearm on me, but I thank God for saving me🙌🏾 I’m still on my healing journey. I’m getting to know and love myself ❤
So glad you are here sister.
Godbless you
(Jeremiah 29:11-13)
Take care!🙏🏾💖💞💖🙏🏾
You know it’s a powerful and anointed message when it causes you to pick up the phone and cancel that non defined relationship! I have been reminded of my worth! Thank you @ RC BLAKES🙏🏽
I did the same a month ago after listening to Bishop Blake’s! Lol
@@MsPerfectionist11 isn’t that lovely 😇👌🏽
im sad that i’m just now getting this fatherly advice in my 30s bc i never got it from my abusive late father. it would’ve saved me a lot of pain and suffering in my 20s. im happily married now bc i had to learn from bad experiences and i am grateful that i was able to discern what i needed from what i didn’t. thank you for your words. keep doing what you do bc some of us need it more than you’ll ever know❤
That is So So awesome. I didn't have father guidance growing up but was raised with strong values, honesty, commitment-never quit & hard work #1 importance. Our family didn't display love or affection in public or among family behind closed doors. I completely understand you're previous & current happiness in moving on to marriage & real commitment!! I'm 63 now & got my 2nd chance to feel real love 14 years ago, or so I thought! Well in that top of the world feeling in love, I was blined but now I see relationship. He's a Narcissist & by the Grace of God in this journey, he's never been physically violent but trys to be a master of control of your mind & body. I have been truly committed to the relationship & thinking I could save him or help him.. I just permanently walked out 2wks ago. Hopefully my brief story gives you even more support & strength to be Happy & Secure in yourself & relationships/marriage. God Bless You 🙌 🙏
I’m 60 and just now getting this
“Anything apart from internal esteem is a notional slavery” wow 🙏🏽🎯
'The creation of WE does not have to become the elimination of ME". That's a HUGE statement I have lived by my entire adult life. I have been ridiculed by family, friends and coworkers for sticking to my guns in my own truth. Thank you Pastor for confirming what I instinctively have known for a very long time.
This song 🎵. This song 🎵. This song needs to be coined as the best song ever!!! You nailed it, Man of God.
Who sings the song?
I agree with your thoughts on the b-word. I don’t like how some ladies reference each other that way or how some men are comfortable calling women that. It’s degrading!
Yes, I finally had to let go of a toxic ghostly so-called relationship.
Thanks again Jesus Christ amen.
I'm trying to stay in shape for health, not for a man.
Same. And to glorify God for giving me life and for forgiving me for the times when I did not treat my spirit well.
God has a special gift for you. I'll tell you.❤
I love me some Pastor Blakes!! I wish he was around when I was younger but I tell y’all what my baby girl is 7 when she gets old enough I’m going to let her watch these videos so she doesn’t have to go through what I went through! Pastor almost said you know what the BLANK you did!! 😂 keep it real Pastor keep keeping it real!! All praises to The Most High!! I love you Pastor and First Lady Blakes!! Blessings always!
I never knew anyone in my whole life that made me feel so awake with wisdom and truth and guidance except for JESUS CHRIST and I just absolutely adore pastor Blake's and I feel very blessed that the Holy Spirit has guided me and everyone else that appreciates Him to our lives ..God bless you always pastor Robert Blake's ❤❤❤♥️❤️
“The mission for we does not eliminate the mission for me.” Pastor R. C. Blake’s, thank you!🙏
No more limbo for me...no sir...that's dead...praise God for strength and wisdom.
I wish we have a Pastor like you in India ...woman need this to hear and empower.. I love what u said 💯
This really blessed me. I wish i knew then, but I thank God because never again will I allow a "man" to belittle me. Thank you Bishop
Such a awesome man of God. I finally caught him live. I have been listening intensely the past year and I see the change I've made. Thank you being you and your transparency is a God sent.
This is so real!!!!!! Literally the world needs this ❤
“The creation of WE does not mean the elimination of ME” 🤯
Brilliant 👏
Don’t tell them about the abuse u experienced in the past unless you can really trust them. It’s the worst when they know you’ve already been conditioned and they use that to control you more. He/she KNOWS it’s wrong. You’re not too sensitive, youre human. They are dehumanizing you. It’s cruel. Protect your peace ❤
You have to put a stop to the abuse stand strong n stick up for yourself been there done that, Gods got your back you dont need anybody bringing you down all you need is God n yourslef even if you dont have your own family support always remember you have other ppl out there who may suport you, do counseling if you have to dont let anyone even your own family tell you that its ok because of financial reasons, abuse is never ok I lost a family member due to abuse so I will never be that woman anymore to allow anyone to take advantage of me anymore, never settle for less a strong man will never walk over a woman especially his wife a woman supose to be the glue in the family n if any woman is broken the family will be broken n the kids end up hating the mother or the abused parent the kids will grow up to be broken individuals as well so thats my advice to anyone who is suffering be safe n get up n take care of you, you deserve way better Gods got your backk❤🎉
You're such a great teacher...waiting patiently 🙏
God bless you and your beautiful wife, Bishop! I thank God for your love for His daughters, wise counsel, stern rebukes and loving smile that you share with those all over the world. You are a gem and a general in the body of Christ. We appreciate you!❤️
Never let a man put you in limbo.
When we know better we do better,if i went against my fathers direction it always led to destruction of some sort in my life ,so i am blessed to have your wisdom in my life Rc Blakes,when i now reflect on all my father poured into me me there is no man on the face of this earth to determine my worth,my father used to say i am a Pearl,it has taken so much to understand this,I am worthy whom values me or not,almighty God has already validated my existence it is blessed.
I pray my next relationship will lead to marriage and our communication is 💯
I find it hard to say the word ‘No’ because when I said it as a child it wasn’t heard and my boundaries were constantly violated by a controlling parent.
You don't know how bad I needed to hear that stuff. I found out about you through someone I met at my job on fort Myers Beach before it was destroyed and I always felt like God put her in my life for a reason
❤❤❤ Thank you so much, Dear Pastor!!!
The creator is working through you. This was exactly what I needed to hear, right on time. Thanks for your gift ❤️
I have been following Bishop for about 3 years and each year I’m becoming mentally stronger and discerning. As a result, the process of eliminating unhealthy men gets better and better. Usually takes me less than a month. I can see him clearly for what he is. Most importantly, I know my entire value and worth. I am the daughter of a King is my motto, so I strive to move accordingly. I’d never let a man play with me. I’m here for a King, a man who is God fearing and wants to be a husband. It’s not my job to teach him. If he’s properly aligned with the Word, he knows the assignment. I’m anxiously anticipating my husband in this season. God is making me the woman HE needs! I wish the same for all of you ladies. We truly deserve paradise. God would provide you with nothing less!
Love the Intro Music and Love the Queenology message. This is Real talk.
Know Your Worth 💯.
Amen.🙏🙏🙏
I love the music, as well! Where can I find it?
AMEN!!!! REAL TRUTH TALK💯💯💯💯💃🏿💃🏿BISHOP BLAKES!!!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND FAMILY👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
I love this type of teaching!!!
I'm woman in her 50s and I live by this model....
Bless you Pastor RC and Lisa Blakes
This is invaluable information, but sometimes I think it's easier being alone. Just enjoy life as much as possible, doing what brings me Christ-centered joy.
You are a blessing to the body of Christ. I found your channel last year after a breakup. Everything you say is such confirmation that i did the right thing and let him go. It's been a painful year but like my friend said to me "you dodged a bullet". I'd rather live alone then dwell with a man that does not respect me. I got red flags over the course of our relationship but i blew right past them all. The enemy was trying to make me think i was going to mess up the plan of God for my life. Funny thing is, God's plan doesn't include a man disrespecting you and trying to remake you.
You make such valid points. I enjoy listening and applying your wisdom to my life. God bless!
Amen Sista
Erica, just got home and watched a replay of tonight's valuable teaching of Pastor Blakes and I read your posting. May our great physician and perfect healer restore your son's health, because only He can do the exceedingly and abundantly beyond our imagination. I wish your son a speedy and permanent recovery in the mighty name of Jesus.
I needed this today! Thank you 😊
Amen 🙏🏾 … To all of our “Queens” !!! We deserve to be treated with love ❤️, respect & dignity.
It's a true Blessing to have a man of Godly discernment and wisdom talk to us women like Bishop Blake's does, Thank you !! Although you might've had a father and mother who raised you they may not have discussed these things with you or shown good examples...
Watching from the UK🇬🇧
Such a priceless message
Keep Linda green in pray
It’s beautiful to see how he talks about Aunt Lisa 😍🥰 so much love and respect that he has for her!
Do you know the name of the song at the beginning of this video?
You're a phenomenal teacher of life.
You have no idea, how listening to you ( I started this year) changed the way I think. Grateful and I keep commenting so those videos reach more people. Thank you ❤
Pastor Blakes this message was POWERFUL! I thank you soo very much for allowing God to use you to help women to think, respect, honor, and love themselves! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
Mercedes Benz was an excellent example. Thank you!
Tell it like it is! You're preaching it!!!
Ps Blake's, Candice here from Australia. You blessed me exponentially with your messages, I asked God to send me a message to help me with my mindset. He provided it and I've got them playing on repeat. Thankyou for your teachings they are powerful. Praise the Lord Almighty. Amen.
You never have to lose you to become us, a man who doesn't try to minimise you. Being currently married to a narcissist this is his style as well as trying to keep me in limbo. It's time to ignite my Queen consciousness IJN 🙏
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 All young ( and older 😉) women should listen to that !! Greetings from Germany Pastor Blakes . I'm glad, that I found you.
Pastor, I'm so thankful for all your advice. I am a lady who dance to my own tune. Never a copycat and never one who wants to please any man. I'm beautiful just the way God made me.
The gray hair scenario hit home like no other.., literally it’s been 17 yrs smh 🤦🏽♀️ and I’m 41 😫
WishI could like this 1000xs! I swear I was in limbo 😢53 yrs old putting up with inconsistency for over a year. Like you said doing just enough, but really not enough😏 Finally put him on block and ready to move on. Thank God for wise men like you to wake us up🙌 No more limbo for me!
My price is already set, high. I know my value and worth. Thank you so much Pastor Blakes for enlightenment. You help me to stay focused.
Pastor Blake! You transform my life in so many ways, right now am so on point and fully alert not down so many times but I thank god the day I started to listen to you you are like a therapy to my soul god blessed you and your beautiful wife Lisa fro the bottom of my heart..
Pastor Blakes,
There is a lot of ppl that twist the Scriptures to keep women to stay in abusive relationships even ppl in the church
I’m glad you are discussing this subject today about boundaries value and worth
Godbless you and your wife!
This is so good!
I miss my mother so bad she had her struggles addicted to drugs left me but she kept all 7 of us together never allowing the system to separate us and heat us with family she tried so hard she taught me so much when she had us she was the best mom and always will be My Queen BC
Sir, you are saving lives with this message. 👏🏾
I truly truly enjoyed this I’m going to save this and watch to remind myself of everything Pastor Rc Blakes has gone over tonight!! Phenomenal message as always. Every Monday I turn in !! Pastor RC Blakes, thank you for your time and pouring into us every week!! What a blessing 🙏🏽
BISHOP!!!! It’s Sunday and the words you’ve added to the introduction have me crying and I need it 🙌🏾🙏🏾!!! Single lawyer mom of a 16 year old. No partner for 2 years and discernment not pressed. He must be a king!
Praying for you and your family. God got you. He'll never leave you nor forsake you. The mighty blood of Jesus still works!!
You are dropping 💎!! A man told me you don't have to work wanted me broke.
The word “NO” is very empowering.
“The creation of we, is not the elimination of me” “You never have to lose you, for the creation of us” OMG mind blown!!!🤯 🤯 🤯
Because she is very Smart
Yes, I will pray. Is he on the transplant list. Dear Lord I pray for this 15-year-old precious young man please put your hand on him and have him have favor and his mother and family please draw close to them in Jesus name I pray amen.
Dear Lord, I plead the precious blood of Jesus over this childs body and mind and i ask that you heal every cell in his body. In Jesus Mighty Name I ask these things,Amen
Amen 🙏🏾
32 years Bishop, 32, I put up with the cheating, abuse....was I stupid to hang in there? I was determined to make my marriage work. I came from a broken family and didn't want the shame of having another broken marriage myself. I broke free and will never trust any man on this earth again. Thank you for your message Bishop and Pastor Blake. I feel like a brand new person after every message. May God richly bless you.
You weren’t stupid , you were hopeful indeed
You learned lessons , I hope u seek therapy
Don’t let this story break you. But learn lessons,analyze everything to make better decisions, work on you, love yourself…most importantly : trust God.
You, your brother and TDJakes are my spiritual dads.. my biological dad taught who I did NOT WANT TO BE. Not taking anything away from him because it made me who I am💪🏾🙌🏾❤ God is GOOD gives us EVERYTHING WE NEED TO WALK OUR PURPOSE OUT🤗🙏🏽
I thank God for you Pastor RC Blakes. May God continue to bless you for being a voice of encouragement and appreciation for the women in the world. I'm still young, but I can't wait to put my children and the generations after to your teachings when the timing is right. Thank you so much !💜💜
God bless you and Lisa mighty, mightly, mightly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. wishing you and Lisa many more blessed anniversaries with health, love & prosperity 🙏🏼💞🥂
A Queen doesn't let herself be the source of a man's instant gratification.
This! Make it plain Bishop Blakes, make it plain. I will continue to patiently wait for who God has for me. All this new age foolery is beyond sad. My home is a place of peace. I do not like chaos; therefore, the man for me will have to come with internal peace to combine with my peace.
Thank you very much it was wonderful
I am deeply grateful for your lessons and prayer today! You're more of a guiding light and teacher than my own father ever has been. If I am ever blessed to meet you and Lisa in person I hope to hug you both tight. You are constantly changing my life and how I understand myself and relationships. (I was so heavily sheltered that I was left without an understanding of men and how they can prey on women.)
Thank you for your generous clear guidance for all of us here! God bless you and your family.🙏🫂💗
Thank you R.C Blakes. I really enjoy your words.
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes, these words today felt like fire food to my soul. I need this. Thank you very much! Bless you and yours 🙏🙏🙏❤️
My favorite word to say to men is “NO” especially to those that don’t understand self respect and healthy boundaries.
Can’t wait you are awesome