THINGS QUEENS NEVER LET MEN DO - RC Blakes

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    THINGS QUEENS NEVER LET MEN DO - RC Blakes
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  • @keepingitrealwithe1819
    @keepingitrealwithe1819 Рік тому +2003

    Keep my son in y'all pray he is in stage 5 kidney failure he's 15 💚💚💚😭

    • @lisaboone8724
      @lisaboone8724 Рік тому +32

      🙏🙏🙏🙏💗💗💗💗

    • @sunshinerae7230
      @sunshinerae7230 Рік тому +21

      🙏🏾

    • @Cat-sx6ep
      @Cat-sx6ep Рік тому +13

      Will do

    • @mzhill4814
      @mzhill4814 Рік тому +210

      Keep praying & believing!! I'm a 24 year kidney transplant recipient. I was ready to give up 01/27/1998, received my perfect match on 01/28/1998. God did it then, He can do it for your son. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @DD-uk7gz
      @DD-uk7gz Рік тому +15

      👼🏾 🙏🏾👼🏾

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 Рік тому +264

    “you’re not really healthy, till you can reject some things”

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 Рік тому +8

      💯

    • @OLatreil
      @OLatreil Рік тому +12

      Wow this hits home. I felt like a new person when I started saying "no". I'm still strengthen that area.

    • @natural3362
      @natural3362 Місяць тому

      Wow.. A true healthy human have the ability to prioritize themselves and say no to anything that hurts them, toxic to them, not in alignment with their souls.. Wow just wow. Glad i blocked toxic people

  • @youthreflectministry9267
    @youthreflectministry9267 Рік тому +990

    A Queen Never let a Man: (not in any specific order)
    1. Keep her in Limbo. Constantly in Uncertainty in role he plays in her life. Trying to keep you hooked enough to stay as long as he needs without commitment.
    2. Rate her. Your value is already set by your Creator. Don't let male validation define nor hook you. This is emotional manipulation.
    3. Disrespect her in any shape, way or form. Never tolerates it and confronts man when disrespect is detected. Be Queen concious of the words you allow men to speak over your life.
    4. Is never financially dependent upon a man. Always find ways to be secure enough to fall back on herself until he proves himself.
    5. Disrupt her peace. When time spent with him begins to disrupt your peace, it keans that there is an uneven deposit. You need to protect your peace and leave. Queens choose men who heal them.
    6. Stop your mission. The man for you would seek to expand and improve you. Queens never allow a man to devalue or belittle her. He would seek to help you with your mission.

  • @lsavestheworld5147
    @lsavestheworld5147 Рік тому +237

    Well...I am not a Christian I'm pagan, but I have never heard anyone make religion sound so much like freedom...you are so very inspiring.I am a psychotherapist and I specialise in narcissistic relationship recovery and I wanted to thank you for the work you do.Every day I am helping women pick themselves off the floor and find themselves again,and I recommend you and your work for when they need comfort and sense between sessions.Thankyou on behalf of all us women 🌹

    • @IdorenyinIbanga_
      @IdorenyinIbanga_ Рік тому +11

      I am a Christian & we only have problems with religion if we are practicing based on how others behave instead of looking into Jesus Christ. In my opinion, Christ came to set us free but most humans just like bound-age

    • @ultimateoptimist5217
      @ultimateoptimist5217 Рік тому +13

      Jesus Christ is NOT a religion. It's a relationship. The only way to salvation and to heaven is through Him. Open your heart and ask him to come into your life. Get to know him and you will fall in love with him.

    • @shinebabyshine.
      @shinebabyshine. Рік тому +20

      I appreciate how open-minded you are and thank you for your service in helping to heal women 🧡

    • @rach777
      @rach777 7 місяців тому

      Do you still do sessions?

    • @karalaughbaum1201
      @karalaughbaum1201 Місяць тому

      Many churches get it wrong! Because people are involved, and people are imperfect. But God desires that we have freedom!

  • @blountsuzette31sb
    @blountsuzette31sb Рік тому +137

    "Any man that negatively affects your peace has been in your life too long and has not made the appropriate deposits. When he makes the appropriate deposits he produces peace."
    Soo good!!!!!

  • @drtamekaellington
    @drtamekaellington Рік тому +171

    Wow… you are speaking on this one!! I just ended a 3 month relationship on Sunday because the man I was seeing was not ready to commit. He didn’t want me dating other men, but he was not ready to put a label on our relationship. I told him I love myself too much to allow you to have me in “limbo!”

    • @chrisharris2367
      @chrisharris2367 Рік тому +20

      🎉congratulations sis
      I’m so glad us women are starting to choose ourselves

    • @spiritandtruth194
      @spiritandtruth194 Рік тому +1

      ✌️

    • @donnajeffreys8252
      @donnajeffreys8252 Рік тому +10

      Using good wisdom and paying attention to them red flags , YES ❤️

    • @Anita1984isuponus
      @Anita1984isuponus Рік тому +10

      Well done sweety 💃🏻only 3 months, just a season, so glad you rate yourself enough not to waste years of your life, smart girl, may God give you great husband xx

    • @wesodopefamily
      @wesodopefamily Рік тому +2

      in same situation been over a year

  • @jackiewallace8516
    @jackiewallace8516 Рік тому +316

    Thank you so much Bishop this confirms everything that I endured in my last relationship. God rescued me last week out of it and I had to leave my own apartment so he would not know where I am. He had become blatantly disrespectful, verbal abusive and quickly closing the gap towards physical abuse.I knew by the unction of the Holy Spirit that this man's mission was to intentionally smother my feminine light, kill my joy and break my spirit. He was jealous and he had nothing. Only 1.5yr of my life waisted and im now on the healing bounce back! PRAISE GOD! 👏🏽

    • @dublingirl1691
      @dublingirl1691 Рік тому +15

      Bless you! Keep going! 👏🏻👏🏻

    • @ItsOkayToBeHappy
      @ItsOkayToBeHappy Рік тому +14

      So happy to hear you made it out! Keep going love!!! 🙏🏽😇🥰

    • @TheeGoldenGoddess1
      @TheeGoldenGoddess1 Рік тому +7

      ☺💜🙏🏽👑

    • @xannaxanna9854
      @xannaxanna9854 Рік тому +5

      Amen!

    • @winfridahbanda5739
      @winfridahbanda5739 Рік тому +17

      Keep your eyes on God. With him, 'no experience is lost.' Though painful some experiences may be, he promises victory in the end. I'm glad you managed to get your freedom now.

  • @taniathomas7353
    @taniathomas7353 Рік тому +210

    I’m so glad that I found self love. I’m 25 years old and I’m just now realizing I’m a queen and there’s certain things that queens don’t do! I’m starting to live my life by that!

    • @MsErica-lp7oe
      @MsErica-lp7oe Рік тому +9

      I'm so glad you found out sweetheart and please continue to stand on knowing your worth no matter what others think keep doing whats best for you and when your ready and being prayerful trusting in God and you will find the right mate for you 🙏🏾

    • @kimberlymay9497
      @kimberlymay9497 Рік тому +3

      Yes young lady please keep that mindset ❤

    • @rossy8130
      @rossy8130 10 місяців тому +1

      I found out I’m a Queen so late in life …… I’m now 28 and regret not coming across RC Blake in my early twenties

    • @taniathomas7353
      @taniathomas7353 10 місяців тому +2

      @@rossy8130 exactly! But 28? You gotta a lot of years in front of you

    • @blueseptember2174
      @blueseptember2174 8 місяців тому

      ​@@rossy8130😅I laughed at "late in life" and then you said 28. You are very young. Maybe you have some regrets but you can live differently movingnforward and help others who will be drawn to your humble nature ❤. You have so much life ahead of you.

  • @vitareid
    @vitareid Рік тому +60

    After listening to hours of The Bishop's teachings, I have finally normalized saying no. The other part of it is to grow strong enough to deal with the onslaught of insults from people whom you've never said no to in the past. I just established a boundary around myself. When they ask me to do something I deem excessive via voicemail or text message, I simply don't answer. That is my power. I have the power to act or not to act. Sometimes not acting is the most powerful act one can demonstrate.

  • @Swtchhwtch
    @Swtchhwtch Рік тому +60

    White girl checking in, Bishop Blakes your words are so needed and refreshing...even if it feels humiliating to see all of these programs holding hard in my and so many other women's mindsets. We're in such an ironic world of gaslighting, where women have been encouraged to feel powerful by putting our privacy and sexuality and creativity and empathy in the hands of everyone but ourselves. I thank Spirit for speaking through you to my soul. So much love to you.

    • @nataliemoore9965
      @nataliemoore9965 Рік тому +1

      The song in the being is so powerful I had to listen to it over. I'm sure it was written for his lovely wife Lisa.

    • @sandradavis4101
      @sandradavis4101 8 місяців тому +1

      Hi @lwdzns,……..you are Welcomed,…..One Love 💕

  • @janelleLee81
    @janelleLee81 Рік тому +134

    I needed this message today and I'm not single I'm married! But this message is still a gem!

    • @sylviajonline
      @sylviajonline Рік тому +10

      Me too

    • @lindsayowens4962
      @lindsayowens4962 Рік тому +2

      Janelle you are blessed that your husband found you and so is he. Hope you guys have a long and meaningful marriage ❤️🙏

  • @debbieventimiglia2216
    @debbieventimiglia2216 Рік тому +21

    A true queen is happy with being alone, she is aware of her worth in the eyes of God. She loves God more than anything, she won't settle for a man who doesn't love God with all his heart, he has to be a king. Values and self respect is ladylike as well as keeping yourself pure unto God in spirit and body.

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 Рік тому +39

    This was a beautiful message! I wish I had heard this message over 40 yrs ago. All I had in my life was fools & I was just as messed up as they were. I gave my life to JESUS in my 40s & JESUS taught me to value myself. He also taught me that I was not a trash can. Stop hanging around trash & get the trash out of my head that other ppl have put in my head. JESUS transformed my way of thinking & my way of living!!!

  • @marcycane1793
    @marcycane1793 Рік тому +33

    “Anything apart from internal esteem is a notional slavery” wow 🙏🏽🎯

  • @Lovingmylife24
    @Lovingmylife24 Рік тому +89

    It’s always nice to hear that it is ok to have standards and boundaries.❤

    • @Jane5720
      @Jane5720 Рік тому +9

      You don’t need permission to give yourself boundaries and standards, you just do it for yourself

    • @tearrajay9197
      @tearrajay9197 Рік тому +4

      Yes maam bcuz some men will try yo make you feel like youre crazy bcuz you do have standards

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 Рік тому +1

      Yup it’s a must ✨❤️💯

  • @smarie777
    @smarie777 Рік тому +47

    You are preaching tonight. That is exactly what some men are doing now days...keeping women in limbo! Amen

  • @kimc5379
    @kimc5379 Рік тому +69

    Thank you Bishop! I needed to hear this powerful message today. Just coming out of a 24 year Narcissist relationship. I could’ve died last year due to him pulling a firearm on me, but I thank God for saving me🙌🏾 I’m still on my healing journey. I’m getting to know and love myself ❤

  • @sylviahunter1053
    @sylviahunter1053 Рік тому +13

    “Queens have a HIGHER STANDARD for themselves than the man who would be interested in them would have”..I see myself the way that GOD sees me and will patiently wait for MY King ..((won’t EVER settle))..I owe it to myself 🙏

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 Рік тому +42

    You know it’s a powerful and anointed message when it causes you to pick up the phone and cancel that non defined relationship! I have been reminded of my worth! Thank you @ RC BLAKES🙏🏽

    • @MsPerfectionist11
      @MsPerfectionist11 Рік тому +6

      I did the same a month ago after listening to Bishop Blake’s! Lol

    • @elizabethc9843
      @elizabethc9843 Рік тому +1

      @@MsPerfectionist11 isn’t that lovely 😇👌🏽

  • @seductruss
    @seductruss Рік тому +15

    Never let a man finance your survival ❤️❤️❤️❤️AMEN!

  • @idontarguewithpeasants
    @idontarguewithpeasants Рік тому +44

    im sad that i’m just now getting this fatherly advice in my 30s bc i never got it from my abusive late father. it would’ve saved me a lot of pain and suffering in my 20s. im happily married now bc i had to learn from bad experiences and i am grateful that i was able to discern what i needed from what i didn’t. thank you for your words. keep doing what you do bc some of us need it more than you’ll ever know❤

    • @bschader4450
      @bschader4450 Рік тому +2

      That is So So awesome. I didn't have father guidance growing up but was raised with strong values, honesty, commitment-never quit & hard work #1 importance. Our family didn't display love or affection in public or among family behind closed doors. I completely understand you're previous & current happiness in moving on to marriage & real commitment!! I'm 63 now & got my 2nd chance to feel real love 14 years ago, or so I thought! Well in that top of the world feeling in love, I was blined but now I see relationship. He's a Narcissist & by the Grace of God in this journey, he's never been physically violent but trys to be a master of control of your mind & body. I have been truly committed to the relationship & thinking I could save him or help him.. I just permanently walked out 2wks ago. Hopefully my brief story gives you even more support & strength to be Happy & Secure in yourself & relationships/marriage. God Bless You 🙌 🙏

    • @sarahmcmillion3203
      @sarahmcmillion3203 7 місяців тому

      I’m 60 and just now getting this

  • @magichappenswithyou
    @magichappenswithyou Рік тому +18

    'The creation of WE does not have to become the elimination of ME". That's a HUGE statement I have lived by my entire adult life. I have been ridiculed by family, friends and coworkers for sticking to my guns in my own truth. Thank you Pastor for confirming what I instinctively have known for a very long time.

  • @ginaalesha2
    @ginaalesha2 Рік тому +40

    “The mission for we does not eliminate the mission for me.” Pastor R. C. Blake’s, thank you!🙏

  • @eclipsedawn9
    @eclipsedawn9 Рік тому +9

    Don’t tell them about the abuse u experienced in the past unless you can really trust them. It’s the worst when they know you’ve already been conditioned and they use that to control you more. He/she KNOWS it’s wrong. You’re not too sensitive, youre human. They are dehumanizing you. It’s cruel. Protect your peace ❤

  • @dianalynnewmannewman529
    @dianalynnewmannewman529 Рік тому +52

    Such a awesome man of God. I finally caught him live. I have been listening intensely the past year and I see the change I've made. Thank you being you and your transparency is a God sent.

  • @heavensent9195
    @heavensent9195 Рік тому +24

    I love me some Pastor Blakes!! I wish he was around when I was younger but I tell y’all what my baby girl is 7 when she gets old enough I’m going to let her watch these videos so she doesn’t have to go through what I went through! Pastor almost said you know what the BLANK you did!! 😂 keep it real Pastor keep keeping it real!! All praises to The Most High!! I love you Pastor and First Lady Blakes!! Blessings always!

  • @chocolateconfessions8954
    @chocolateconfessions8954 Рік тому +19

    This is so real!!!!!! Literally the world needs this ❤

  • @gwendolynlewis5655
    @gwendolynlewis5655 Рік тому +11

    This song 🎵. This song 🎵. This song needs to be coined as the best song ever!!! You nailed it, Man of God.

  • @LF_RN
    @LF_RN Рік тому +3

    I agree with your thoughts on the b-word. I don’t like how some ladies reference each other that way or how some men are comfortable calling women that. It’s degrading!

  • @camillecooper1964
    @camillecooper1964 Рік тому +27

    You're such a great teacher...waiting patiently 🙏

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 Рік тому +17

    This really blessed me. I wish i knew then, but I thank God because never again will I allow a "man" to belittle me. Thank you Bishop

  • @shmeikahall4809
    @shmeikahall4809 Рік тому +30

    God bless you and your beautiful wife, Bishop! I thank God for your love for His daughters, wise counsel, stern rebukes and loving smile that you share with those all over the world. You are a gem and a general in the body of Christ. We appreciate you!❤️

  • @pd9116
    @pd9116 Рік тому +9

    Mercedes Benz was an excellent example. Thank you!

  • @droppngemzz1102
    @droppngemzz1102 Рік тому +22

    The creator is working through you. This was exactly what I needed to hear, right on time. Thanks for your gift ❤️

  • @michellebrown8495
    @michellebrown8495 Рік тому +4

    Yes, I finally had to let go of a toxic ghostly so-called relationship.
    Thanks again Jesus Christ amen.

  • @Jumpbackintoreality
    @Jumpbackintoreality Рік тому +6

    I pray my next relationship will lead to marriage and our communication is 💯

  • @dorrisevans2265
    @dorrisevans2265 Рік тому +26

    Love the Intro Music and Love the Queenology message. This is Real talk.
    Know Your Worth 💯.
    Amen.🙏🙏🙏

    • @marieh7056
      @marieh7056 Рік тому +2

      I love the music, as well! Where can I find it?

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Рік тому

      AMEN!!!! REAL TRUTH TALK💯💯💯💯💃🏿💃🏿BISHOP BLAKES!!!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND FAMILY👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @jillainenewman1358
    @jillainenewman1358 Рік тому +12

    Disappear and come back. If you're gonna disappear, stay gone.

  • @anikeadegoke2112
    @anikeadegoke2112 Рік тому +15

    Watching from the UK🇬🇧
    Such a priceless message

  • @evernechatman1590
    @evernechatman1590 Рік тому +7

    I'm trying to stay in shape for health, not for a man.

    • @higherlove8886
      @higherlove8886 Рік тому +1

      Same. And to glorify God for giving me life and for forgiving me for the times when I did not treat my spirit well.

  • @dreadfuldee2432
    @dreadfuldee2432 Рік тому +10

    You don't know how bad I needed to hear that stuff. I found out about you through someone I met at my job on fort Myers Beach before it was destroyed and I always felt like God put her in my life for a reason

  • @patriciamoore6171
    @patriciamoore6171 Рік тому +28

    Pastor Blakes this message was POWERFUL! I thank you soo very much for allowing God to use you to help women to think, respect, honor, and love themselves! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @Mindfreegardener
    @Mindfreegardener Рік тому +6

    The gray hair scenario hit home like no other.., literally it’s been 17 yrs smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ and I’m 41 😫

  • @salomemetzger866
    @salomemetzger866 Рік тому +35

    Erica, just got home and watched a replay of tonight's valuable teaching of Pastor Blakes and I read your posting. May our great physician and perfect healer restore your son's health, because only He can do the exceedingly and abundantly beyond our imagination. I wish your son a speedy and permanent recovery in the mighty name of Jesus.

  • @jamaica2010ism
    @jamaica2010ism Рік тому +3

    "You are not really healthy until you can reject some things".

  • @nawhatererr
    @nawhatererr Рік тому +13

    You have no idea, how listening to you ( I started this year) changed the way I think. Grateful and I keep commenting so those videos reach more people. Thank you ❤

  • @Erika-hl4xb
    @Erika-hl4xb 6 днів тому +1

    Dear Lord, I plead the precious blood of Jesus over this childs body and mind and i ask that you heal every cell in his body. In Jesus Mighty Name I ask these things,Amen

  • @wendiannejohnson399
    @wendiannejohnson399 Рік тому +9

    I love this type of teaching!!!
    I'm woman in her 50s and I live by this model....
    Bless you Pastor RC and Lisa Blakes

  • @theshampoocoach
    @theshampoocoach Рік тому +19

    You, your brother and TDJakes are my spiritual dads.. my biological dad taught who I did NOT WANT TO BE. Not taking anything away from him because it made me who I am💪🏾🙌🏾❤ God is GOOD gives us EVERYTHING WE NEED TO WALK OUR PURPOSE OUT🤗🙏🏽

  • @brendalenoir2840
    @brendalenoir2840 Рік тому +6

    You are dropping 💎!! A man told me you don't have to work wanted me broke.

  • @opallight8069
    @opallight8069 Рік тому +3

    I find it hard to say the word ‘No’ because when I said it as a child it wasn’t heard and my boundaries were constantly violated by a controlling parent.

  • @tyoung3509
    @tyoung3509 Рік тому +3

    This! Make it plain Bishop Blakes, make it plain. I will continue to patiently wait for who God has for me. All this new age foolery is beyond sad. My home is a place of peace. I do not like chaos; therefore, the man for me will have to come with internal peace to combine with my peace.

  • @dawn7220
    @dawn7220 Рік тому +3

    This is invaluable information, but sometimes I think it's easier being alone. Just enjoy life as much as possible, doing what brings me Christ-centered joy.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 Рік тому +5

    It's a true Blessing to have a man of Godly discernment and wisdom talk to us women like Bishop Blake's does, Thank you !! Although you might've had a father and mother who raised you they may not have discussed these things with you or shown good examples...

  • @luvelyjay
    @luvelyjay Рік тому +2

    “The creation of we, is not the elimination of me” “You never have to lose you, for the creation of us” OMG mind blown!!!🤯 🤯 🤯

  • @heatherbzdawka3350
    @heatherbzdawka3350 7 місяців тому +2

    I never knew anyone in my whole life that made me feel so awake with wisdom and truth and guidance except for JESUS CHRIST and I just absolutely adore pastor Blake's and I feel very blessed that the Holy Spirit has guided me and everyone else that appreciates Him to our lives ..God bless you always pastor Robert Blake's ❤❤❤♥️❤️

  • @sherronhardin2127
    @sherronhardin2127 Рік тому +18

    You are a blessing to the body of Christ. I found your channel last year after a breakup. Everything you say is such confirmation that i did the right thing and let him go. It's been a painful year but like my friend said to me "you dodged a bullet". I'd rather live alone then dwell with a man that does not respect me. I got red flags over the course of our relationship but i blew right past them all. The enemy was trying to make me think i was going to mess up the plan of God for my life. Funny thing is, God's plan doesn't include a man disrespecting you and trying to remake you.
    You make such valid points. I enjoy listening and applying your wisdom to my life. God bless!

  • @Del_ita259
    @Del_ita259 Рік тому +9

    Sir, you are saving lives with this message. 👏🏾

  • @nomkhosizondo5548
    @nomkhosizondo5548 Рік тому +2

    Glory to Jesus.... Preach father never allow a man to put you in Limbo !!!!

  • @fernalicious6662
    @fernalicious6662 Рік тому +40

    I truly truly enjoyed this I’m going to save this and watch to remind myself of everything Pastor Rc Blakes has gone over tonight!! Phenomenal message as always. Every Monday I turn in !! Pastor RC Blakes, thank you for your time and pouring into us every week!! What a blessing 🙏🏽

  • @carolmorrison8900
    @carolmorrison8900 Рік тому +20

    Pastor Blake! You transform my life in so many ways, right now am so on point and fully alert not down so many times but I thank god the day I started to listen to you you are like a therapy to my soul god blessed you and your beautiful wife Lisa fro the bottom of my heart..

  • @trockslaw1
    @trockslaw1 Рік тому +7

    BISHOP!!!! It’s Sunday and the words you’ve added to the introduction have me crying and I need it 🙌🏾🙏🏾!!! Single lawyer mom of a 16 year old. No partner for 2 years and discernment not pressed. He must be a king!

  • @susiep.7372
    @susiep.7372 Рік тому +5

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 All young ( and older 😉) women should listen to that !! Greetings from Germany Pastor Blakes . I'm glad, that I found you.

  • @ContinuousGrowth10
    @ContinuousGrowth10 Рік тому +5

    It’s beautiful to see how he talks about Aunt Lisa 😍🥰 so much love and respect that he has for her!

    • @fngbradley
      @fngbradley Рік тому

      Do you know the name of the song at the beginning of this video?

  • @candicefrancis6127
    @candicefrancis6127 Рік тому +6

    Ps Blake's, Candice here from Australia. You blessed me exponentially with your messages, I asked God to send me a message to help me with my mindset. He provided it and I've got them playing on repeat. Thankyou for your teachings they are powerful. Praise the Lord Almighty. Amen.

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 Рік тому +3

    When we know better we do better,if i went against my fathers direction it always led to destruction of some sort in my life ,so i am blessed to have your wisdom in my life Rc Blakes,when i now reflect on all my father poured into me me there is no man on the face of this earth to determine my worth,my father used to say i am a Pearl,it has taken so much to understand this,I am worthy whom values me or not,almighty God has already validated my existence it is blessed.

  • @gladyshowell8421
    @gladyshowell8421 Рік тому +4

    Pastor, I'm so thankful for all your advice. I am a lady who dance to my own tune. Never a copycat and never one who wants to please any man. I'm beautiful just the way God made me.

  • @sophiaf.
    @sophiaf. Рік тому +2

    Amen 🙏🏾 … To all of our “Queens” !!! We deserve to be treated with love ❤️, respect & dignity.

  • @sherrysher3124
    @sherrysher3124 Рік тому +19

    I thank God for you Pastor RC Blakes. May God continue to bless you for being a voice of encouragement and appreciation for the women in the world. I'm still young, but I can't wait to put my children and the generations after to your teachings when the timing is right. Thank you so much !💜💜

  • @chrisharris2367
    @chrisharris2367 Рік тому +3

    Pastor Blakes,
    There is a lot of ppl that twist the Scriptures to keep women to stay in abusive relationships even ppl in the church
    I’m glad you are discussing this subject today about boundaries value and worth
    Godbless you and your wife!

  • @SdW.8
    @SdW.8 Рік тому +14

    I am deeply grateful for your lessons and prayer today! You're more of a guiding light and teacher than my own father ever has been. If I am ever blessed to meet you and Lisa in person I hope to hug you both tight. You are constantly changing my life and how I understand myself and relationships. (I was so heavily sheltered that I was left without an understanding of men and how they can prey on women.)
    Thank you for your generous clear guidance for all of us here! God bless you and your family.🙏🫂💗

  • @highpriestess5336
    @highpriestess5336 9 місяців тому +1

    You never have to lose you to become us, a man who doesn't try to minimise you. Being currently married to a narcissist this is his style as well as trying to keep me in limbo. It's time to ignite my Queen consciousness IJN 🙏

  • @marthalopez6662
    @marthalopez6662 Рік тому +9

    Thank you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. wishing you and Lisa many more blessed anniversaries with health, love & prosperity 🙏🏼💞🥂

  • @julieelisha-carter9165
    @julieelisha-carter9165 Рік тому +4

    My price is already set, high. I know my value and worth. Thank you so much Pastor Blakes for enlightenment. You help me to stay focused.

  • @kimberlymay9497
    @kimberlymay9497 Рік тому +1

    WishI could like this 1000xs! I swear I was in limbo 😢53 yrs old putting up with inconsistency for over a year. Like you said doing just enough, but really not enough😏 Finally put him on block and ready to move on. Thank God for wise men like you to wake us up🙌 No more limbo for me!

  • @Laila_Voice_AsMR
    @Laila_Voice_AsMR 2 місяці тому

    We praise and give God the glory for you father R.c Blakes ✨🥳🤲🏽💙

  • @rayas6453
    @rayas6453 Рік тому +10

    Thank you Pastor RC Blakes, these words today felt like fire food to my soul. I need this. Thank you very much! Bless you and yours 🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @anareyes9851
    @anareyes9851 Рік тому +3

    “The creation of WE does not mean the elimination of ME” 🤯

  • @kathleengainor8532
    @kathleengainor8532 Рік тому +2

    Yes, I will pray. Is he on the transplant list. Dear Lord I pray for this 15-year-old precious young man please put your hand on him and have him have favor and his mother and family please draw close to them in Jesus name I pray amen.

  • @lavernesmith-lockhart6668
    @lavernesmith-lockhart6668 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for everything you do. You helped me verbalize what I knew I had to do. I'm so much stronger and healthier without CP

  • @yvetromanroman7443
    @yvetromanroman7443 Рік тому +5

    LORD, help your daughters always honor you, by keeping their queen, Godly, standards, sky high, amen in Jesus name!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @janelleLee81
    @janelleLee81 Рік тому +4

    Yeessss that part....please don't let anyone rate you and dishonor God!

  • @tjtheprogamer8831
    @tjtheprogamer8831 Рік тому +1

    No more limbo for me...no sir...that's dead...praise God for strength and wisdom.

  • @vibehigh690
    @vibehigh690 9 місяців тому +1

    I wish we have a Pastor like you in India ...woman need this to hear and empower.. I love what u said 💯

  • @MysticButterfly22
    @MysticButterfly22 Рік тому +19

    I caught the last 10mins of your original live airing! I'm watching the Encore on this one tonight Bishop.🥰 Thank you for your words of encouragement and strength to all women. God Bless🙏🏽💕❤

  • @TapIntoAlignment
    @TapIntoAlignment Рік тому +9

    Divine timing for sure… ❤

  • @CWiebe-kg6uv
    @CWiebe-kg6uv Рік тому +2

    "Don't make any man a priority when to them all you are is an option!!

  • @stephaniewilliams3460
    @stephaniewilliams3460 Рік тому +7

    Hello everyone!

  • @mars-oc3hg
    @mars-oc3hg Рік тому +4

    You're a phenomenal teacher of life.

  • @alishadennis7769
    @alishadennis7769 Рік тому +3

    Why is that song & singer marvelous & stunningly beautiful, and deep in message & communication in singing this song!!!!!
    There couldn't have been a more perfect singer to handle this song 💗 with this great celebration in style & richness that he has expressed with this song 💗🙏!!!!!!!!!
    A song So very precious but filled with truth, honor passion and power of describing the many accomplishments and participation of Black blessed women in today's life. Speaking on the loving, committed actions from her heat & soul the Black woman brings to dealing with & caring for her families well being. It's a high regard and respectful intension to proclaim what
    Many Black women have been willing to that's admitted to by men in this song. It's a form of celebration of the Black Queen of today who often works out if the home after having children and helping to also work & participate in the financial responsibility of her family as well or along with the man !!!!
    More acknowledgement of how many women do so much & at times too much with assisting the husband & man of the family & household & being too sacrificial at times for the man & family. A respectful mindset, beliefs & expressions of appreciation about our precious Black women & Queens 👑, is needed more often a long with thankfulness is a better way to communicate with Black women & more so welcomed. In Jesus name , Amen 🙏 👁️👁️ k💋🤗 🖤❤️ 👑 👑 🌹❤️🙏😅👍💕🥰!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @tracylondon844
    @tracylondon844 Місяць тому

    YES YES YES! NO MORE LIMBO FOR ME...THANK GOD FOR GOD'S WISDOM AND DELIVERANCE. 🙏🏽 🙌🏾

  • @relisshafranklin6259
    @relisshafranklin6259 Рік тому +4

    Never let a man put you in limbo.

  • @brandycollins8918
    @brandycollins8918 Рік тому +3

    I miss my mother so bad she had her struggles addicted to drugs left me but she kept all 7 of us together never allowing the system to separate us and heat us with family she tried so hard she taught me so much when she had us she was the best mom and always will be My Queen BC

  • @angelasmith6735
    @angelasmith6735 Рік тому +12

    Pastor RC Blake I love your teaching and I am very anxious in learning more about who I am as a queen. God bless you in abundance and more wisdom in conveying your knowledge to us as ladies.

  • @Liz11124
    @Liz11124 Рік тому +7

    Can’t wait you are awesome

  • @zakorahsheskingdomministri2617

    Amen thank you Bishop for this word! Always such a blessing to the people of God .... May God continue to bless you and your family 🙌🏽❤️🙌🏽

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA Рік тому +3

    🏆GOLD!!!
    🙏🏿Thank you Bishop Blakes!🖤

  • @lisaboone8724
    @lisaboone8724 Рік тому +3

    Finally caught you live Pastor Blakes so happy to be here!! Thanks for sharing with us!!

  • @dltriggusa
    @dltriggusa Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your input, clarification, your passion, your word. Blessings to you😊

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 Рік тому +5

    I look forward to Monday nights cos I get wiser from these teachings. I bless the day I ran into Bishops videos. I needed it and God ordered my steps and I stayed put.
    Since then I've recalibrated what it costs to access me. I've not perfected it yet but I'm most certainly a tremendous work in progress... thank you Sir. You are appreciated. God bless you and yours.