R.C. Blakes: Being married for 29 yrs, advice for women looking to settle down & knowing your worth

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  • @catherinew3115
    @catherinew3115 Місяць тому +205

    RC is our internet dad. Sound teachings 🎉

  • @720Fab
    @720Fab Місяць тому +111

    His mom say go back and get Lisa and he ran and got his wife.😂😂 Mom knows best!❤

  • @BelleMaria267
    @BelleMaria267 28 днів тому +83

    I’ve walked away from relationships when I needed to. Unfortunately, by the time the man realized what he wanted, I was over him and was not willing to go back.

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 28 днів тому +1

      why were yiu in relationships with multiple ppl (not at the same time) who didnt know what they wanted?

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 26 днів тому +11

      ​@@Lil08103 Because a lot of folks don't know what they want but love to play in your face. Some pretend they want what you want. Glad she was able to walk away. Anything else is irrelevant.

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 25 днів тому +1

      @@filmadcamp1512 also glad she was able to walk away. still, if you keep getting into relationship, not just going on dates, with a certain kind of person that isnt good for you, i'd think God is trying to tell you smthng that you're missing. i dont think all the baggage we accumulate with ppl we're not supposed to be with is irrelevant.

    • @KFontLab
      @KFontLab 3 дні тому +1

      @@Lil08103Many times you learn people when you date them. It always starts off great, but then a person shows who they really are. You can stay or go. Sounds like she left

  • @720Fab
    @720Fab Місяць тому +113

    The next viral interview to break the internet going to be one of Brandi’s in 2025!!! Her gift is making room for her. She is phenomenally in her purpose!!!❤️❤️

  • @Towanda-xq2xg
    @Towanda-xq2xg Місяць тому +88

    I know many women definitely don't know this, give up NOTHING, get EVERYTHING, give up EVERYTHING and get NOTHING! Stay in gratitude and keep it moving! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @BeverlyGaston
    @BeverlyGaston Місяць тому +56

    You gotta lead with your wife. I love this

  • @lovingbrianalatrice
    @lovingbrianalatrice 11 днів тому +11

    Man this is on point for me. My dad and brother talk about my clock and eggs all the time. No man will want me, the babies, your eggs are going to run out etc. and it pisses me off every time. Like you don’t know the plans God has for me. I’m so glad to hear THERE IS NO CLOCK. Thank you 😊.

    • @wendyann3333
      @wendyann3333 11 днів тому +2

      Yup
      Next time they bring it up about your eggs !
      Remind them of Hannah and Sarah in the Bible

    • @Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere
      @Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere 10 днів тому +3

      The power of death and life is in the tongue, proverbs 18:21. I hope you’re praying Isaiah 54:17, fasting according to Isaiah 58. Your father is in a position of authority over you speak death over you, that’s crazy work.

    • @lovingbrianalatrice
      @lovingbrianalatrice 10 днів тому +1

      @@wendyann3333Thank you so much. I sure will. Prayerfully it’ll shut them up. Happy New Year to you 😊.

    • @lovingbrianalatrice
      @lovingbrianalatrice 9 днів тому +1

      @@Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere thank you for those scriptures. I will definitely start praying that over my life. Thank you 😊.

    • @katiavernord271
      @katiavernord271 5 днів тому

      There is a biological clock for woman. It s a scientific fact. That does not mean that you should lower your standards… but do not let men waste your time…

  • @MsAmarie90
    @MsAmarie90 29 днів тому +33

    This was amazing! As a 34 year old woman that desires marriage and children, this was just what I needed. Thank you to you both.

  • @shannonpennix591
    @shannonpennix591 Місяць тому +39

    The clock ⏰ is a myth!!! This lie has been diminished from my vocabulary!! Thank you for the wisdom!!!!

  • @williamdhassan3541
    @williamdhassan3541 Місяць тому +36

    Brandy ! You’re vibe/energy is AMAZING ! You bring out the best in your guests, not to mention you’re a great entertainer 🫂

  • @JanieLacy
    @JanieLacy Місяць тому +17

    Participating in the "breaking of women" - a powerful lesson in this episode about toxic masculinity that is important to understand how this plays out in relationships.

  • @AunaTyson
    @AunaTyson 29 днів тому +25

    RC is definitely the Uncle you listen to... Love em'!

  • @jamienl207
    @jamienl207 26 днів тому +11

    Had to watch this one twice! Love you both! I'm 40 also & feels like I've just arrived. Single mother for 22yrs. Glory to God & in my very best season. Come on in the room! Ah-maz-ing conversation! 🤩🤩🥰

    • @aliciawinston6507
      @aliciawinston6507 4 дні тому +1

      I ❤ loved this conversation it was on point...😢

  • @missdatjha5513
    @missdatjha5513 Місяць тому +18

    I am not even 2 minutes in and I know this will be fire. I love your guests, and YOU. Beautiful show, love from RSA.

  • @priscillaaharper4078
    @priscillaaharper4078 24 дні тому +9

    Pastor said “you all up in his dm’s! Come on now. You ain’t got nothing to do? Stop chasing these men.” I say to you, let them lead ladies, and you just rest in your feminine! I Love the Pastor and Lady Lisa so much.👑👑💖☮️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @2B-Rochele
    @2B-Rochele Місяць тому +17

    Bishop's smile made me smile. What a beautiful smile. Now let me listen to this conversation.

  • @LakiaRaquel
    @LakiaRaquel Місяць тому +16

    I love Bishop Blake’s, His teachings and preachings are currently getting me through a rough time. I thank God for the gift he has to speak life into women.

  • @sweetlife8891
    @sweetlife8891 Місяць тому +33

    OMG! Brandi you got my favorite youtube dad!!!

  • @kiaragunn0208
    @kiaragunn0208 Місяць тому +27

    👏🏾 I love bishop Blakes!!

    • @katrinaraymond9726
      @katrinaraymond9726 29 днів тому

      Me too @kiaragunn0208 he always keeps it 100 luv it, don't settle keep it moving!

  • @Missmopeace
    @Missmopeace Місяць тому +17

    I appreciate his wisdom

  • @Always_Meeka
    @Always_Meeka 28 днів тому +6

    I’m a 45 year old woman who looks up to Bishop Blakes like he is my Father. Thanks Brandi for a great interview! Thanks Bishop Blakes for sharing truth and love with us women out here. The message is real and raw, but wrapped in grace and love. This is what women need to hear instead of red pill boys and Kevin Samuels spawns.

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss Місяць тому +18

    Although Brandi is a twin. She definitely looks more like Steve and has his gift of gab ❤

  • @missdatjha5513
    @missdatjha5513 Місяць тому +10

    Service.
    One of the best episodes yet, I really enjoyed his perspective on life, love and self development.

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 29 днів тому +9

    My Bishop RC is a gift to us ladies from Almighty God. Thank you Bishop for all what you do for us Queens. We love and appreciate you and Queen first lady Lisa so very much.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙💙❤️❤️❤️

  • @IamtheHighPriestess
    @IamtheHighPriestess Місяць тому +13

    Excellent interview…absolutely love the Blakes ministry❤

  • @shondah.2195
    @shondah.2195 29 днів тому +5

    Great interview! Pastor R.C. Blakes never fails to inspire and deliver.

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Місяць тому +8

    This was so good Brandi and Bishop RC Blakes. Powerful! And just drop the mic on this one! God is certainly doing a new thing at the end of 2024 and beyond!

  • @sandezw66
    @sandezw66 22 дні тому +5

    Miss Brandy Harvey, I really enjoyed this episode. Thank you and sending you love and light 💓🕯️.

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 Місяць тому +7

    Absolutely 🙏 💯 🙏 💯 Bishop,Pastor, RC Blakes.And yes Lady Lisa Blakes is a gracefully beautiful woman.

  • @petit-four1404
    @petit-four1404 3 дні тому

    Bishop Blakes, please bless us with that TV show! This was a great conversation.❤❤

  • @720Fab
    @720Fab Місяць тому +25

    Take yourself off the clock! There is no clock

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 16 днів тому +1

      YUPPA!!!! No clock for me God is preparing me to be a Wife to my King that HE is sending me Amen!!!!!

    • @katiavernord271
      @katiavernord271 5 днів тому

      There is a biological clock for woman… your egg reserve does deplete as you age. Make the best decision for you but Stay in knowledge

    • @aliciawinston6507
      @aliciawinston6507 4 дні тому +2

      I took myself off the clock. I was dating this guy the ❤ love of my life for so many years. He wasn't ready to marry, so I moved on. If it's meant to be, it will. The love of my life came back to get me. we are getting married in 2025.. Ladies, know ur worth. Please don't settle. Period 😢❤😊...🙏...

  • @DrPatriciaBusbyRobinson
    @DrPatriciaBusbyRobinson 14 днів тому +1

    I knew this was gonna be good & it was!! He never miss! I have sent female clients to his UA-cam channel to bing watch…he’s a resource for me and Lord I thank you for him!!!

  • @aliciawinston6507
    @aliciawinston6507 4 дні тому +1

    Wow, I listened to this interview twice very powerful. He really makes u know ur worth. I ❤ love it 🙏😊...

  • @ashleynicolelatimore
    @ashleynicolelatimore 28 днів тому +4

    I love listening to RC Blakes.
    Doing so is improving my life!

  • @shannonthetherapist
    @shannonthetherapist 27 днів тому +6

    I love RC❤ he said “I almost cussed” 😂😂 he love his wife!

  • @shanda01114
    @shanda01114 23 дні тому +3

    Yes!!! Pastor looks so good! ( Respectfully). Practically looks like a new man. I love this message and even him acknowledge the need to change his health. A ton of gems! Love it!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @mrsropaxo
    @mrsropaxo 10 днів тому +1

    Great interview. Absolutely adore Pastor R C Blakes! 💕

  • @maribyrd9603
    @maribyrd9603 15 днів тому +1

    Agreed! Absolutely an Awesome interview, truly enjoyed Pastor Blakes wisdom, and in this Season of my life, I am also committed to helping others live a purposeful authentic life with “a healthy relationship” with yourself first, and with others. Blakes was on point and as usual spoke nothing but facts! Excellent questions Sistah Harvey!

  • @shannaj4896
    @shannaj4896 26 днів тому +3

    Love Pastor RC & Lisa Blakes.❤ I have been watching his videos for years. He always drops a lot of gems in his videos.

  • @GodsChildBri
    @GodsChildBri 28 днів тому +2

    This is a much-needed and much-appreciated conversation. I'm in my self-love era and this supports that beautifully.

  • @meeshascuisine8278
    @meeshascuisine8278 Місяць тому +13

    This interview was 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Beauty4ashes80
    @Beauty4ashes80 8 днів тому

    Bishop Blakes and his beautiful wife are a blessing! I follow his channel and his advisement is wise and empowering!

  • @NDG76
    @NDG76 Місяць тому +4

    Pastor Blake’s is always the truth. I appreciate his teachings and his books currently in last chapter of father/daughter talk

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Місяць тому +2

    I love Pastor R C. Blakes and his wife Lisa! His teachings will set you free for real, real! This was so powerful to see a man of the cloth humble himself and tell the truth! I salute you Pastor RC Blakes and Lisa! I have always respected you and now have even more respect for you Sir!

  • @nephthaliecareen3242
    @nephthaliecareen3242 26 днів тому +4

    “I’m coming home and we gonna BUILD!” Oh wow. 😅❤

  • @Fturner67
    @Fturner67 27 днів тому +1

    I absolutely love it....keep Ma'am Lisa with you everywhere you go & run every play thru her and let it be known this is how it goes ....I heard give no place to the devil!!!! Men take heed!

  • @vivianwebber2001
    @vivianwebber2001 28 днів тому +5

    Girl you are doing an awesome job on your podcast..... REAL AND AUTHENTIC CONVERSATIONS🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @domoniquechatman1845
    @domoniquechatman1845 27 днів тому +1

    Easily one of my favorite segments that you’ve brought to us Brandi. ❤️ Thanks to both you and Pastor Blakes!!! 👏🏾👍🏾

  • @mirandaaaa5140
    @mirandaaaa5140 5 днів тому

    Great discussion! Thanks for the honesty and enlightenment!

  • @user-tv2gy5nm9n
    @user-tv2gy5nm9n 8 днів тому

    Absolutely love this man!!! So honorable!!

  • @chanellaurice
    @chanellaurice 27 днів тому +1

    This interview right here has blessed my life!! Thankful for his transparency & sound teaching.

  • @godseliteforever
    @godseliteforever Місяць тому +2

    This is my first time coming across this pastor and his wife am glad I found them through brandi Harvey

  • @thevegangroup
    @thevegangroup 3 дні тому

    Loved the interview y'all ❤ Really good thank you VE & The Blake's 🙏🏾 Nourished me deeplyl whew... 🙏🏾

  • @angelaprice921
    @angelaprice921 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you Brandi for having him. I needed this and those soul ties are so hard to break. The way he broke it down I felt that in my spirit and that’s exactly what I’m dealing with with this one person and there’s no sex involved. Lord thank you for a break through and deliverance in the mighty name of Jesus 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @moriahaddison
    @moriahaddison 21 день тому +1

    Absolutely LOVE Bishop RC Blakes!

  • @SaggiesWorld
    @SaggiesWorld 24 дні тому +2

    Great interview❤ I always believed that you can only love someone to the extent that you love yourself... Your first love should ALWAYS be yourself, then you will attract your person

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 Місяць тому +6

    I enjoyed this interview. Thank you!

  • @alishadennis7769
    @alishadennis7769 29 днів тому +3

    It's great you have PASTOR Blake's on your channel 😂🎉🎉❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉. Thanks a bunch 😀 🙏

  • @eclaudynevilfrant3159
    @eclaudynevilfrant3159 28 днів тому +2

    Always great teachings from Pastor RC !!!

  • @samanthaewers915
    @samanthaewers915 Місяць тому +9

    I love his advice❤

  • @sdcaldwell8882
    @sdcaldwell8882 22 дні тому +1

    Thank you, thank you, thank you! I truly needed this conversation.

  • @nadams982002
    @nadams982002 Місяць тому +5

    Powerful interview!!! Thank You Sir!!!

  • @faithfulhealerpodcast
    @faithfulhealerpodcast Місяць тому +4

    I was literally about to go to my spiritual dad's Yt! The algorithm was right on it as soon as logged on!! Cmon Brandy!!

  • @shannonpennix591
    @shannonpennix591 Місяць тому +2

    Love listening the the gems Bishop drops!!!

  • @cm88__ny
    @cm88__ny День тому

    After my last relationship ended, I decided to take myself out of the dating scene. I recognized that my ex had habits that made the relationship emotionally draining-habits he had no intention of changing. At 36, the idea of "starting over" felt daunting. I found myself wrestling with questions: Could I find someone else with his so-called "credentials"? Was I the problem? Was I not enough?
    After months of tears and reflection, I came to a powerful realization: I tolerated things I shouldn’t have because I wasn’t fully valuing myself.
    From that moment, I committed to a journey of self-worth and growth. I’ve learned to honor my value, ensuring no one will ever undermine it again. Forget society’s idea of "the clock." What God has for me is already mine-I just have to walk in that truth with grace and confidence.

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 16 днів тому

    Good evening Brandi thank you for having my spiritual daddy Bishop RC Blakes on your show😄🤠👋🏾👋🏾Excellent show Sis. God bless you and your family!!!!

  • @missdatjha5513
    @missdatjha5513 Місяць тому +5

    That Mike Tyson question is so profound!!

  • @burncaloriegang2231
    @burncaloriegang2231 29 днів тому +2

    You have the best interviews the introduction is unlike any other the questions dig new sides out of people. your vibe and beauty everything this is a perfect interview everytime GOD bless❤ you are in your purpose and helping so many of us. ❤❤❤

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 29 днів тому +2

    Excellent interview! I love RC Blakes podcast...hey Lisa❤❤

  • @andrealovette
    @andrealovette Місяць тому +7

    This is hilarious 😂 This is going to bother so many people.

    • @faithfulhealerpodcast
      @faithfulhealerpodcast Місяць тому

      Gud😂

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr. Місяць тому +1

      😂 Why you think?

    • @andrealovette
      @andrealovette Місяць тому

      @RCBlakesJr. I was watching a clip on another podcast. This comment was supposed to be on that podcast. It was a comment by mistake, and I didn't want to explain what happened, but since you replied to my comment, I thought I would give a proper explanation. Great episode by the way.

  • @Jess_quez
    @Jess_quez 23 дні тому +3

    45:15 we have to embrace individuality before we commit to a union!

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 23 дні тому +1

    Bishop Blake's of all time 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ashleynorman40
    @ashleynorman40 28 днів тому +7

    Dont rush the the WE, when you have to still work on the ME!! Whheewww

  • @laurenroberts1404
    @laurenroberts1404 6 днів тому

    I too don’t allow men, church or job to put me in a box or cage. That has served me well. I’ll NEVER change that aspect of myself!! I wish I could bottle it up and sell it! 💯

  • @bolavictory8171
    @bolavictory8171 27 днів тому +1

    Thank you very much Sir👏
    Thank you very much beloved Sister 💕

  • @iwig2714
    @iwig2714 17 днів тому +1

    This is really good watching Replay

  • @talktomekittie
    @talktomekittie 17 днів тому +1

    I am such a fan of his work! 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @eleganceevolved8328
    @eleganceevolved8328 3 дні тому

    Wow! Amazing content in this channel!!❤❤

  • @2B-Steele
    @2B-Steele Місяць тому +9

    ❤️❤️Bishop 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @marcialexander3019
    @marcialexander3019 8 днів тому

    Service is the rent we pay for the space we occupy ❤

  • @BeverlyGaston
    @BeverlyGaston Місяць тому +3

    Another good one B

  • @shirionjohnson7935
    @shirionjohnson7935 26 днів тому +1

    She loved herself more 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @latetulip67
    @latetulip67 3 дні тому

    Brandi is hilarious like her father. 😂😂😂

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 Місяць тому +4

    ❤ Excellent Bishop ❤

  • @universallove878
    @universallove878 29 днів тому +4

    Don't "follow " behind anyone. Pray and ask God for guidance. Keep God as the center of your life. If the relationship is meant to be. Allow God to unfold it on purpose with a purpose. He loves us too much to be blinded by love. Even men with good intentions can go astray and have. So make sure if this is the right relationship, that you have done personal due diligence within yourself, because all relationships, even the very best ones, are only seasonal. They come. And go. No one born in this life. Stays the same age their entire life, so no relationship will remain the same. It has its season for a reason in our lives , but they all end. God made you with purpose in mind, Make your relationships with HIM in the same heart and mind as He made you. 💯💯

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 29 днів тому +1

    Another good one sis! God bless ❤

  • @lolostar1623
    @lolostar1623 29 днів тому

    GOD BLESS THIS MAN 🙏🏽

  • @lydiapettus4032
    @lydiapettus4032 21 день тому +1

    This is great info!!!

  • @shmeikahall4809
    @shmeikahall4809 Місяць тому +5

    Bishop!!!🎉❤️

  • @stormjacksonnsidefirst1042
    @stormjacksonnsidefirst1042 14 днів тому

    Enjoyed this interview. #again. ❤

  • @averylsmith4090
    @averylsmith4090 29 днів тому +1

    Amazing conversation 🙏🏾

  • @demetriaclay414
    @demetriaclay414 29 днів тому +1

    I don't know this man, but this was a good interview! 😂😂😂😂❤

  • @anniewilson2071
    @anniewilson2071 Місяць тому +2

    This was so good

  • @tuanikabrown999
    @tuanikabrown999 20 днів тому

    I enjoyed his teaching.

  • @jennifereaddy
    @jennifereaddy 29 днів тому +1

    This was great.

  • @towandaward5821
    @towandaward5821 Місяць тому +2

    Love this

  • @AnnDonley
    @AnnDonley 19 днів тому

    I was a member of New Home Ministries Pre-Katrina under Robert C Blakes Sr.

  • @shawnitamurdock4369
    @shawnitamurdock4369 21 день тому

    So Good!!!

  • @llcoolg52001
    @llcoolg52001 22 дні тому +1

    Mom said: boy you ain’t designed to be a monk😂🤣

  • @Jess_quez
    @Jess_quez 23 дні тому +3

    41:43 we’ve made an idol out of relationships!