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  • lesbian, gay, ball, transgender? Or is this all about the T? Or neither?! My first look into LGBallT - it's very cute!
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  • @Lkat.
    @Lkat. 2 роки тому +2796

    “I’m gay”
    “Do you have a crush on me!”
    “Don’t worry, I’m only attracted to pretty people.”
    Is one I’ve seen.

    • @cathleenc6943
      @cathleenc6943 2 роки тому +115

      Back in the 90's I was at a family gathering of my now-ex husband's conservative family. I ended up sitting in the pool and two of my teen nephews started badmouthing gay people and one said something about if he met a gay guy he would punch him in the face. I asked why. He said that he wouldn't want a guy hitting on him. I told him that just because someone is attracted to guys, doesn't mean they're attracted to you. They all thought it was a great burn, but i hope it at least made them think.

    • @KyleRayner12
      @KyleRayner12 2 роки тому +111

      My personal favorite is someone's response to the claim that "bisexuals don't have standards:"
      "No, I'm bisexual, which means I can be attracted to people of multiple genders. No standards would be if I were attracted to you."

    • @penelopelester5083
      @penelopelester5083 2 роки тому +17

      ROASTED

    • @yukisoba8888
      @yukisoba8888 2 роки тому +11

      SAME I think I saw the same one lmaoo

    • @miyanabenmoussa9359
      @miyanabenmoussa9359 2 роки тому +5

      oooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SMELIN SMTH BURNINNNNNNNnnnnnn

  • @streetst4610
    @streetst4610 2 роки тому +5491

    “when you cut a bisexual in half… well, you get a dead bisexual.” -Jammi 2022

    • @eshiboo
      @eshiboo 2 роки тому +86

      Famous last words

    • @audree3967
      @audree3967 2 роки тому +112

      can i put this in my yearbook

    • @aaronwolfersperger2800
      @aaronwolfersperger2800 2 роки тому +87

      @@audree3967 If you could get away with that, you would have my everlasting respect.

    • @audree3967
      @audree3967 2 роки тому +35

      @@aaronwolfersperger2800 i will try >:)

    • @audree3967
      @audree3967 2 роки тому +15

      @Labrava Altonia pffffff

  • @samanthabarbara2027
    @samanthabarbara2027 2 роки тому +577

    I was hoping that when the transphobic ball said "Stop pushing the trans agenda!!!", the next panel would be an agender ball pushing around a transgender ball saying "Oh sorry" I feel like that would be really cute!

  • @vg1384
    @vg1384 2 роки тому +8439

    "I'm bi" "why?" I'm glad you asked. When I was a child, I watched Pirates of the Caribbean and couldn't choose between Will and Elizabeth and it kinda stuck but the food on Elizabeth's table was what had me the most interested which is why I'm demi

    • @wesleywyndam-pryce5305
      @wesleywyndam-pryce5305 2 роки тому +115

      you can get enough of an emotional bond of a character in a show to feel attraction?

    • @CassyBug
      @CassyBug 2 роки тому +292

      @@wesleywyndam-pryce5305 you are a person who doesn't understand fandom well
      Edit: which is odd for someone named Wesley Wyndham-pryce

    • @thegirlwiththatface
      @thegirlwiththatface 2 роки тому +65

      same, I identify as bi though lol

    • @annablue2799
      @annablue2799 2 роки тому +50

      Will and Elizabeth ♡♡♡♡
      Definatly my 2 first chrushes

    • @littlepixieme1
      @littlepixieme1 2 роки тому +133

      @@wesleywyndam-pryce5305 there's all kind of attraction - I'm not the OC, but I'm also demi. I can feel attachment to characters and "crush" on them, but I don't have a physical sense of attraction to them. It took me over a year before I had enough connection with my SO to have physical attraction - we had emotional attraction almost immediately, and I thought he was aesthetically pleasing way before I found him sexy.

  • @randomfandoms944
    @randomfandoms944 2 роки тому +3805

    "Stop pushing the trans agenda!" 'I don't have a genda.' As an agender sack of flesh, this is incredibly amusing

    • @RaindropsRiverbeds
      @RaindropsRiverbeds 2 роки тому +16

      Same

    • @Atan55555
      @Atan55555 2 роки тому +14

      SAME

    • @Crumpell
      @Crumpell 2 роки тому +75

      As an agendered individual with a dead brain who uses a British accent to make my voice deeper I will use this pun in future conversations

    • @Atan55555
      @Atan55555 2 роки тому +20

      @@Crumpell I Stan you.

    • @Sage.EucThe
      @Sage.EucThe 2 роки тому +32

      "sack of flesh"
      I'm simultaneously planning to constantly use this phrase and throwing up out of disgust

  • @DefNotASpectre
    @DefNotASpectre 2 роки тому +296

    When a christian asks "why" to you being LGBTQ+, you just have to say
    "because God said so"

    • @Zachyshows
      @Zachyshows Рік тому +6

      Thank you.

    • @reynXIII
      @reynXIII Рік тому +27

      "Cuz God makes no mistake"

    • @Zachyshows
      @Zachyshows Рік тому +7

      @@reynXIII but he made the people who ask why

    • @ninjireal
      @ninjireal Рік тому +2

      @@reynXIII God does make mistakes. Read the Bible. Jesus doesn’t.

    • @SevCaswell
      @SevCaswell Рік тому +7

      @@ninjireal Even Jesus made mistakes, one time he cursed a fig tree for not having any figs on it, despite it not being the season for figs, just because he was hangry.

  • @ObtuseWaffle_
    @ObtuseWaffle_ 2 роки тому +1692

    "Splitting a bisexual in half gets you 2 bisexuals" I guess you could call it...
    Bitosis

    • @Rex_ecutioner
      @Rex_ecutioner 2 роки тому +44

      I am in my mitosis unit in science and i love this

    • @CrowdingFaun624
      @CrowdingFaun624 2 роки тому +35

      Bi puns are the best

    • @basma.gogogo
      @basma.gogogo 2 роки тому +16

      badum tss

    • @Grobohalic
      @Grobohalic 2 роки тому +18

      Splitting by mitosis is also an ace meme, lol.

    • @rukix_x3781
      @rukix_x3781 2 роки тому +2

      Take my angry like you damn pun master.

  • @Smelly_Kelley
    @Smelly_Kelley 2 роки тому +2421

    “Why is Asexual world domination a thing?”
    Because Jammi, we aces are *invincible.* sex sells you say? *not to us it doesn’t.* we have all the power

    • @pulular5914
      @pulular5914 2 роки тому +146

      I fear the day asexuals find out they can rule the world together, but I also kinda want it too

    • @fallenflame1940
      @fallenflame1940 2 роки тому +20

      Yes.we will take over the world >:)

    • @chuuyaism1653
      @chuuyaism1653 2 роки тому +16

      exactly.

    • @Staarz.
      @Staarz. 2 роки тому +39

      @@pulular5914 we have been aware about world domination for quite some time but we have found the right person or people to dominate the world together with

    • @woodland_paws
      @woodland_paws 2 роки тому +12

      SEX SELLS?? LOVEJOY?????
      im sorry.

  • @fakename1799
    @fakename1799 2 роки тому +188

    As someone who has thrown several genderfluid people into the water, I can confirm that they float...eventually

    • @kratosboy5557
      @kratosboy5557 Рік тому +8

      Don’t get me on your bad side Jesus Christ

    • @Preppybabiess
      @Preppybabiess Рік тому +1

      hehe lol

    • @Thepanmannn
      @Thepanmannn Рік тому +4

      as a pan person I helped ace with a lab experiment and it turns out they work like vinegar... but more salty.

    • @Idcwtfgggghhn
      @Idcwtfgggghhn Рік тому +4

      @@Thepanmannn as an ace person I can confirm this happened

    • @Thepanmannn
      @Thepanmannn Рік тому +2

      @@Idcwtfgggghhn yes

  • @alexcoop8441
    @alexcoop8441 2 роки тому +634

    "I don't have genitals, I'm a ball" is now a quote that I, as a non binary person, will now use every day for the rest of my life.

    • @insertchannelname1223
      @insertchannelname1223 2 роки тому +1

      easy fix to needing one sentence for daily journaling

    • @HalcyonSpirit141
      @HalcyonSpirit141 2 роки тому +13

      "wHaT's In YoUr PaNtS" " I'm a ball."*rolls away*

    • @oakleystudies3297
      @oakleystudies3297 2 роки тому +2

      @@HalcyonSpirit141 "rolls away" killed me 🤣

    • @joda7697
      @joda7697 2 роки тому +7

      Me, an enby physicist: _assume spherical me_

    • @MochaStoneheart
      @MochaStoneheart 2 роки тому +4

      i'd say "I don't know i never checked"

  • @papercraftcynder5430
    @papercraftcynder5430 2 роки тому +791

    "Why are you gay?"
    "Same reason you're straight."
    At least that's what I'd say.

    • @v3ru586
      @v3ru586 2 роки тому +24

      "Why are you asexual?"
      "Would you prefer, if I was paedophile?"
      (kudos to my colleagues, when I told them about the trouble I used to have due to my sexuality. Where were you guys 16 years ago?)

    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos 2 роки тому +32

      @@v3ru586 "Because I don't understand why you all want to have sex with each other when there's pizza RIGHT here to enjoy and snuggly pjs to wear."

    • @wesleywyndam-pryce5305
      @wesleywyndam-pryce5305 2 роки тому +7

      wanna make a joke. can't think of one.

    • @slimetank394
      @slimetank394 2 роки тому +7

      @@wesleywyndam-pryce5305 relatable

    • @seal8092
      @seal8092 2 роки тому +3

      @@Avrysatos *I like this one more-*

  • @birdbird3000
    @birdbird3000 2 роки тому +180

    person: “Stop punching the trans agenda!”
    Agender person “NO” *continues to push trans person*

    • @kratosboy5557
      @kratosboy5557 Рік тому +6

      Agender see what I did there? AGENDER a gender

  • @kel53y_
    @kel53y_ 2 роки тому +3316

    “I won’t laugh at that terrible joke, but I will, because it’s funny.” -Jammidodger 2022

    • @jewel_hunter
      @jewel_hunter 2 роки тому +24

      @Silent man*

    • @makayawk6852
      @makayawk6852 2 роки тому +37

      @@jewel_hunter He's at it again. He really likes being purposely transphobic on Jamie's videos. Let's just ignore him, or else he's going to tell us to cry about it. Which doesn't make sense because it means that you are either transphobic or a crybaby. Let's all just love the ones who give love and educate instead of being defensive. He has a point tho, Jamie is one funny guy. 🙃

    • @makayawk6852
      @makayawk6852 2 роки тому +24

      @@jewel_hunter He really has nothing better to do all day than to unsuccessfully attempt at making Jamie question his identity and anger us all. In all honesty, I kind of feel bad for him. He's probably really insecure about things in his own life and projects that onto happy people who just want to be accepted by the world. I think he wants acceptance too but doesn't know how to take the steps to get there.

    • @charli_blue2631
      @charli_blue2631 2 роки тому +13

      @Silent someone who says he is a boy is a boy dont question him your not him so how could you know who he is. NONE OF US EVEN KNOW HIM IRL

    • @jaidenthekid6051
      @jaidenthekid6051 2 роки тому +8

      @Silent A male is a person that *typically* has xy chromosomes, (typically because some objectively male characters may have xx or a different variant of chromosome),
      has male genitalia at birth, is typically raised as a male child, and is typically in line with their gender identity.
      A man is a social construct, recently defined by the medical, sociological, and psychological field, as a person with a combination of physical and mental characteristics.
      Typically, a man is a male person who is brought up in a certain way, probably upholding some form of masculinity and sense of self in relation to their sex.
      The distinction between "Sex" and "Gender" is a matter of biology vs human society and psychology, of which both can't normally be changed.
      For some people, "Transgender" people, there is a great distinction and divide between their identity and psychology, and their birth sex, sometimes thought to be
      started at a developmental age in the womb, where their brains develop separately but *typically* in synch with their bodies, in which it fails to synch up with their sex.
      Like gay people, a trans person cannot change their sense of self. They cannot change who they are. Much in the same way a clinically depressed person can't 'choose' to be happy, and how an autistic person can't 'choose' to act normally. The only method to effectively treat such a mental condition is to transition the person via hormones and, sometimes, surgery, though many trans people go through their own journeys, and sometimes decide against surgical intervention due to budget constraints or preference.
      Unlike people who genuinely wish to straight up amputate their arms or severely injure themselves, trans treatment is viewed by the medical field as an acceptable option, due to the fact that hormones are more reversible than actual mutilation, and surgery is typically decided after hormone replacement therapy. Before either, psychological screening is intense, brutal, and heavily in favor of not going through with it, with the goal of serving only people who would truly benefit from the treatment. Options are weighed, children under 13 never get past hormone blockers (Which are already proven to be safe and reversible in non-trans kids, referable as "Cis" kids, who need them), and anyone below 18 is almost never passed for surgery, unless they are known to be trans and have been on hormones for years. They are still, of course, screened to see if they are happy with the change, and if further action is required. Along every step of the way.

  • @alexs.5171
    @alexs.5171 2 роки тому +1144

    As an asexual, I am extremely glad that the ace ball is just a chaotic gremlin ball that loves their food, friends, and world domination. It’s very accurate 🥰

    • @nathanjereb9944
      @nathanjereb9944 2 роки тому +8

      Same

    • @silverschmid4591
      @silverschmid4591 2 роки тому +4

      yes

    • @TheStellaGaming
      @TheStellaGaming 2 роки тому +6

      As another asexual, I have taken it upon myself to inform you of the asexual agenda.
      Step one: Invade everything with a lower population than us
      Step two: Take our friends as "hostages" when in reality we're taking them away from all the bigots
      Step three: Something involving garlic bread
      Step four: ????
      Step five: Profit

    • @firefancy9928
      @firefancy9928 2 роки тому +5

      y e s

    • @SftHrtBrsKnckls
      @SftHrtBrsKnckls 2 роки тому

      Ffwd is the ace agenda

  • @Skulingz
    @Skulingz 2 роки тому +68

    1:22 this happened to me
    I told my mom in bi and trans and she said she loved me and gave me a rainbow bracelet and a pronouns pin!
    Love you mom

  • @ThatNerdArtie
    @ThatNerdArtie 2 роки тому +646

    as a plus sized nonbinary person, "I don't have genitals, I'm a ball." is the PERFECT response and I'm gonna start using that! 😆😊

    • @bkCheezburgor
      @bkCheezburgor 2 роки тому +4

      What is "plus sized"?

    • @zannis5441
      @zannis5441 2 роки тому +11

      @@bkCheezburgor umm overweight but not obese .

    • @bkCheezburgor
      @bkCheezburgor 2 роки тому +2

      @@zannis5441 Ok

    • @ineedausername9617
      @ineedausername9617 2 роки тому +31

      @@bkCheezburgor a better description that what the other person said is just being a bigger person. There's categories midsize and plusize but plusize typically covers both.

    • @bkCheezburgor
      @bkCheezburgor 2 роки тому +3

      @@ineedausername9617 ok

  • @JewelzStudios
    @JewelzStudios 2 роки тому +1537

    4:52
    As an asexual, I can explain this one-
    So basically, it started off with some tweet about how 1% of the population is 78 million. That's greater than the population of a lot of countries, so overthrowing armies would be easy. We created a poll asking which country we should invade, and Denmark got the most votes. That was a meme for a while, and then other countries like Australia and France came up so it just turned into world domination... This meme mostly shows up on asexual subreddits.
    Yeah, reddit is odd😂

    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos 2 роки тому +82

      There's really nothing wrong with any of this is there? I didn't think it was odd. Of course we want world domination we can take care of it while the rest of the world is too busy trying to sleep with each other right?

    • @47ratsinahoodie
      @47ratsinahoodie 2 роки тому +62

      I remember watching something that said 1% is actually on the low end! There's the possibility that there are more asexuals than there are citizens in the US! Imagine invading that place! Now that's true world domination😈

    • @mayakylie5055
      @mayakylie5055 2 роки тому +104

      The fact that I never needed the reason, I just fully accepted that it was my sacred duty as an Asexual to one day conquer the world 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Iamtk777
      @Iamtk777 2 роки тому +30

      @@47ratsinahoodie A study by GLAAD (2018, I think?) showed that asexuality is actually the second most common form of queerness, with bi being the most common, with bisexuals being 6% of the US population and asexuals being 4%.

    • @47ratsinahoodie
      @47ratsinahoodie 2 роки тому +17

      @@Iamtk777 Wait fr? That's so interesting!

  • @someone_7337
    @someone_7337 Рік тому +37

    I absolutely love the "a-genda" joke, especially 'cus I myself am agender, and I'm definitely doing that joke to somebody. And also, it's totally true that when we bisexuals try to find someone to date, the people of the opposite gender say we're too gay and the people of the same gender say we're too straight, so yea, people say we have 2 options, but we actually get none😅😅

  • @MikaelaCher
    @MikaelaCher 2 роки тому +912

    Ok but the representation of Sexualities as balls is GENIUS from an artistic standpoint. They just represent the sexuality/gendee identity: no Race, no body type, etc. So everyone that is that sexuality can feel included!!!

    • @stm7810
      @stm7810 2 роки тому +82

      Insert joke about cubes feeling excluded

    • @blocc_nova746
      @blocc_nova746 2 роки тому +1

      I think its pretty stupid.

    • @stm7810
      @stm7810 2 роки тому +25

      @@blocc_nova746 why?

    • @platonichearts8
      @platonichearts8 2 роки тому +37

      I agree and it is also is based of country balls

    • @khunt5336
      @khunt5336 2 роки тому +18

      @@blocc_nova746 well some may argue that pineapple pizza is stupid
      Different slices for different uh... mices?

  • @gergyta9211
    @gergyta9211 2 роки тому +709

    As a genderfluid being, I can confirm that I fly when it rains, it makes it really difficult to get around sometimes

    • @gateauxq4604
      @gateauxq4604 2 роки тому +18

      I was so enchanted by the genderfluid comic that I forgot that it me 😂

    • @bkCheezburgor
      @bkCheezburgor 2 роки тому +6

      So your genderfluid?

    • @gergyta9211
      @gergyta9211 2 роки тому +5

      @@bkCheezburgor yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @dormant5023
      @dormant5023 2 роки тому +24

      as a fellow gender fluid, i recommend filling your rainboots with rocks so you don't drift off into the stratosphere

    • @gergyta9211
      @gergyta9211 2 роки тому +8

      @@dormant5023 ah, thank you for the advice! I will use this all the time

  • @annikathewitch3950
    @annikathewitch3950 Рік тому +10

    5:55 Depending on where this happened I could see it just being someone being genuinely confused bc "lesbian" can also mean someone from the island of lesbos in greece.

    • @TheBisexualGremlinGirl17
      @TheBisexualGremlinGirl17 12 днів тому

      Which is where the first reports of lesbians came frommmmmm (thanks Sappho!!) hehehe

  • @kurichan142
    @kurichan142 2 роки тому +792

    The lesbian and bi ball one reminds of some several days ago, when this one girl from church came up to me and asked, "Do you support LGBT?" (I already knew she experienced same-sex attraction since she told me before about having a gf). My obvious response was, "Of course." Then she told me she was a lesbian.
    Later that night, right as everyone was going home, I called her attention real quick before telling her I was bi (secretly ofc), and it was overall just a really sweet moment :]

    • @elizathegamer413
      @elizathegamer413 2 роки тому +25

      wait why did she come out to you if she already told you she had a girlfriend lol

    • @kurichan142
      @kurichan142 2 роки тому +26

      @@elizathegamer413 Tbf, it was kinda odd (I thought about that when she asked if I supported LGBT), but it was still touching nonetheless :]

    • @mxleedy
      @mxleedy 2 роки тому +39

      ​@@elizathegamer413 I mean, better to come out to the people who know than have them assuming/guessing your sexuality based on your partner

    • @gordonramsayslambsauce
      @gordonramsayslambsauce 2 роки тому +16

      @@elizathegamer413 Well, if she mentions having a girlfriend and doesn't get any sort of indication about how they feel, she might ask and then answer the next question based off of that. Like if they said no, to avoid being outed, she might say she made a mistake by saying gf or bf or was just wondering if they thought of her differently for being gay.

    • @insertchannelname1223
      @insertchannelname1223 2 роки тому +4

      EEEEE**gay squeeling**

  • @shycrystal6714
    @shycrystal6714 2 роки тому +553

    When I came out to my grandma as non-binary she was confused but when I explained it she supported me. I had also come out to her as panromantic and asexual a few months before and she was fully supportive.

    • @thegirlwiththatface
      @thegirlwiththatface 2 роки тому +33

      we love a supportive grandma

    • @imnotcrazyimINSANITY
      @imnotcrazyimINSANITY 2 роки тому +20

      reminds me of my grandma! fully supportive when I came out as bi, kinda confused but supportive when I came out as non-binary.

    • @CMS-qo3wz
      @CMS-qo3wz 2 роки тому +35

      My grandma was iconic when I came out to her as gay. It started with her saying how it changes nothing, she would always love and support me. And then out of nowhere I think she came out as bisexual? She told me a story about how she had a girlfriend for a year in the mid 60s and how she had always wanted to explore it more. My grandma and granda were madly in love right up until death did them part. But when she told me about her ‘girlfriend’ and how she’s always liked other women it shook me. I’d have never guessed it.

    • @ievasiaurusaityte3121
      @ievasiaurusaityte3121 2 роки тому +6

      @@CMS-qo3wz You don't know how lucky you are. Congrats 💕

    • @fluffycloud9
      @fluffycloud9 2 роки тому +2

      @Adolf Hitler Clearly you care enough to respond and type a three-word comment

  • @spiced_blueberries153
    @spiced_blueberries153 Рік тому +23

    7:22 I am genderfluid and I live in Washington where it rains a lot...
    I am now superman.
    Update: I am no longer super, but only a man.

    • @MyCatMyca
      @MyCatMyca 6 місяців тому +1

      Awwe love that for you 🏳️‍⚧️

  • @DevonPixie1991
    @DevonPixie1991 2 роки тому +1536

    I had serious feels for the bisexual ball being rejected by everyone with limited understanding. This is exactly my life 😭. That said I accidently helped my former therapist work out that she's bisexual. I simply told her that I knew after I had a bit of an epiphany when I saw Elizabeth Swann in Pirates of the Caribbean and the scene where she nearly drowned 😳 - I was 11 at the time and I didn't even know that liking girls was a thing - but apparently my entire primary school knew before me

    • @Trees...
      @Trees... 2 роки тому +79

      I'm aroace but like everyone in pirates of the Caribbean. 😙👌

    • @solar0wind
      @solar0wind 2 роки тому +47

      So after you told her, she said "Oh wow I found her cute too"?😁

    • @thegirlwiththatface
      @thegirlwiththatface 2 роки тому +24

      Keira knightly also made me LGBT (bi in my case) lol

    • @julia_rsm
      @julia_rsm 2 роки тому +2

      @@Trees... same!

    • @DevonPixie1991
      @DevonPixie1991 2 роки тому +16

      She did the face I made when I worked it out for the first time... we all remember the face when we worked it out

  • @rh2219
    @rh2219 2 роки тому +381

    I'm response to the pronoun comic, my friend who is becoming a teacher did a wonderful thing when she started teaching. She asked all the students 2 questions.
    1. What are your pronouns?
    2. Can I use them in front of your parents?
    And I just think that's very caring and intentional and must mean a lot to those kids

    • @insertchannelname1223
      @insertchannelname1223 2 роки тому +38

      some teachers asked what everyone's pronouns were, but only the librarian asked where they were safe to be used during a GSA meet💜

    • @albedokreideprinz5096
      @albedokreideprinz5096 2 роки тому +14

      My teacher also did this, but didn’t use them until corrected like 9 million times. It didn’t seem to be an accident either. We’d be screaming THEY/THEM and he’d go: Shushhh… She-

    • @rh2219
      @rh2219 2 роки тому +6

      @@albedokreideprinz5096 oh :/

    • @amadeosendiulo2137
      @amadeosendiulo2137 2 роки тому +11

      Wow, the second question is really smart.
      Also that's sad it is needed :-(

    • @sxmplyblossom8048
      @sxmplyblossom8048 2 роки тому +1

      @@albedokreideprinz5096 :///

  • @Waffllez
    @Waffllez 2 роки тому +19

    2:15 what he said is very reliable. I told my mom when she asked something related to it that I wanted to be a boy. She asked my why and wanted reasons. She’s a very good person but wow I did not expect that.

  • @KyleRayner12
    @KyleRayner12 2 роки тому +330

    I love that the "Aces want world domination" one was *immediately* followed by the "Aces will not take allies co-opting their letter" one.
    Aces are powerful.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 2 роки тому +20

      Real allies wouldn't try to supplant existing members of the community anyway. Besides, the "Q" is still open for those willing to question their sexuality or gender, which is a difficult step not everyone is willing to take.

    • @gateauxq4604
      @gateauxq4604 2 роки тому +7

      Big ace energy

    • @nathanjereb9944
      @nathanjereb9944 2 роки тому +8

      Yes Yes we are...
      *looks at Denmark*

    • @AmericaSucksBalls
      @AmericaSucksBalls 2 роки тому +3

      bow down i have a god complex

  • @ilonachan
    @ilonachan 2 роки тому +1215

    Remember kids, the A in LGBTQIA+ stands for Achieving World Domination, aka Asexuals

    • @Skye1421
      @Skye1421 2 роки тому +79

      Or aromantic, agender.

    • @aarasko
      @aarasko 2 роки тому +29

      as an asexual i can confirm

    • @vasilystepin7620
      @vasilystepin7620 2 роки тому +11

      What does the “I” stand for

    • @aarasko
      @aarasko 2 роки тому +40

      @@vasilystepin7620 intersex

    • @sempris0
      @sempris0 2 роки тому +42

      The A stands for Annihilation, can confirm as a Ace person

  • @Kai.xin.
    @Kai.xin. 2 роки тому +6

    Jamie: That is such a weird response to coming out. Like- "Hi, I'm trans." "Why?"
    Literally my mom when I came out:
    Me: Mom, I'm trans.
    Mom: Why?
    Me: ...

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 2 роки тому +160

    When I came out as Bi
    I was rejected as family by my own mom
    Rejected as family by my grandparents
    Emotionally distanced from my Nana
    My aunt is always being homophobic
    Rejected as family by my brother
    Rejected by multiple people I had feelings for
    And even cheated on and dumped because in her words "I probably did the same"
    The only person in my life who cares about me is my dad. For now, that's good enough for me. He's the best.
    Here's something wholesome if this made you sad.
    My science teacher, upon hearing that my name was being changed (Imagine name being changed from Austin to Timber)
    called me up to ask me what my preferred pronouns were. (She/They)
    It really just made my day.

    • @azzifantasy204
      @azzifantasy204 2 роки тому +10

      That's so sad, hope you're okay now. You're valid!

    • @sundae8475
      @sundae8475 2 роки тому +5

      Hey can I give you a hug:)

    • @bombdotcom2168
      @bombdotcom2168 2 роки тому +4

      @@sundae8475 I would greatly appreciate one. Thank you ^^

    • @sundae8475
      @sundae8475 2 роки тому +2

      @@bombdotcom2168 no prob everyone deserves a hug♡:)

    • @robyn7288
      @robyn7288 2 роки тому +2

      I give you virtual, hugs stay strong freind ❤

  • @aa0918
    @aa0918 2 роки тому +8287

    All us asexuals want is one thing and it's fucking beautiful.
    World domination

    • @yejiluvrr
      @yejiluvrr 2 роки тому +705

      Starting with Denmark
      Oops
      You didn’t see that

    • @aa0918
      @aa0918 2 роки тому +321

      @@yejiluvrr shhh don't let the people in Denmark know we're planning on invading them

    • @GensChilledCola
      @GensChilledCola 2 роки тому +296

      @@yejiluvrr and we will *totally* NOT invade france next, we would NEVER do that, that is *totally* NOT the next move

    • @robincollins3680
      @robincollins3680 2 роки тому +316

      @@yejiluvrr Shhhhh, we're not supposed to tell

    • @EnriqueLaberintico
      @EnriqueLaberintico 2 роки тому +108

      It is acceptable.

  • @Variane-zg3lr
    @Variane-zg3lr 2 роки тому +11

    I once got the question “why?” when coming out, and I whispered “girls... PRETTY”

  • @the_real_Moth_man
    @the_real_Moth_man 2 роки тому +481

    Please do more LGBallT, and as a an asexual, we do infact want world domination

    • @nicholashoward971
      @nicholashoward971 2 роки тому +15

      You mean asexual.

    • @hendrikrozijnenblad8666
      @hendrikrozijnenblad8666 2 роки тому +38

      Me, shopping for garlic bread and seeing there's other options: "Mommy, can we get world domination?"
      SO: "No, we've got domination at home. And don't call me that, we're in public."

    • @ifer1280
      @ifer1280 2 роки тому +4

      You have the spare time and headspace to do it, don't you?

    • @astrinymris9953
      @astrinymris9953 2 роки тому +4

      Are you on the aro/ace spectrum if you want a dragon more than a love interest? 😊🐉

    • @insertchannelname1223
      @insertchannelname1223 2 роки тому +4

      @@ifer1280 naw i spent it all on fandom and getting by in life so my headspace piggybank is all dried up.

  • @frankynstein
    @frankynstein 2 роки тому +437

    6:20 "there's definitely a subset of straight balls-" love that jamie got so into the concept of lgballt that he entirely replaces "people" with "balls" 😂

    • @totallynotbot8686
      @totallynotbot8686 2 роки тому +10

      When you skim read this comment and only see "straight balls"

  • @tiemyfloralbowtie
    @tiemyfloralbowtie 2 роки тому +12

    4:33 AHHH THAT HAPPENED TO ME WITH MY PHYSICS TEACHER AT THE START OF THE YEAR !! THEY WERE NONBINARY AND IT MADE ME SO HAPPY B/C IT WAS A LITTLE FORM WE GOT TO DO INSTED OF HAVING TO SAY IT OUTLOUD WHICH MAKES ME NERVOUS !! but they had to leave sadly :((

  • @lavender3609
    @lavender3609 2 роки тому +272

    "When you cut a bisexual in half, I mean, you might get a dead bisexual..."
    - Jammidodger, 2022

  • @emccarthy2303
    @emccarthy2303 2 роки тому +575

    “Oh hi I’m gay!”
    “Why?”
    Kids cartoons.

    • @almondwaet7966
      @almondwaet7966 2 роки тому +31

      the owl house tho🤭

    • @rubylia980
      @rubylia980 2 роки тому +11

      I’m so gay

    • @RowanArk
      @RowanArk 2 роки тому +23

      Yeah, I have to agree with that, She-Ra especially😅

    • @NoOffenseAnimation
      @NoOffenseAnimation 2 роки тому +4

      who says im gay?

    • @politemenace5781
      @politemenace5781 2 роки тому +13

      I just reply "because women are attractive" and all conversations end there

  • @that_punk_fairy
    @that_punk_fairy Рік тому +4

    while watching this i remeberd a funny story, a while back one of my classmates said that "all boys have dreamed of being a girl once for like a day", i am questiong my gender and so spend a lot of time on r/egg_irl so i said a bit too loudly "egg" they asked to explain, i panicked and my brain shut down... i think some of them got the joke....

  • @SuperAnnie72
    @SuperAnnie72 2 роки тому +218

    "How do you know you're asexual if you've never had sex before?" That deadpan look you gave the camera killed me.

  • @nickythehickey
    @nickythehickey 2 роки тому +349

    For people that might be confused, yes this is basically polandball’s gay cousin, and it’s lovely

    • @nefertitimontoya
      @nefertitimontoya 2 роки тому +2

      Hey what's the spiral pfp mean? I keep seeing it everywhere and tried googling it but couldn't find the answer

    • @quintediminuee
      @quintediminuee 2 роки тому +8

      @@nefertitimontoya did you just initiate a new creepypasta/conspiracy theory?

    • @nickythehickey
      @nickythehickey 2 роки тому +9

      @@quintediminuee no lmao, only the real ones will understand

    • @nickythehickey
      @nickythehickey 2 роки тому +9

      @@nefertitimontoya you know, I don’t really remember that well...

    • @athenasrevenge93
      @athenasrevenge93 2 роки тому +7

      @@nefertitimontoya Ah, I just reverse image searched it, it's from Unus Annus, the project Markiplier and CrankGameplays did together.

  • @Aviedya
    @Aviedya Рік тому +7

    I know being bi isn’t being part gay and part straight, but describing myself as a “half gay” is still just funny to me

  • @dracofirex
    @dracofirex 2 роки тому +138

    "Hey, I'm lesbian"
    "I thought you were American"
    Dorothy: Not Lebanese, Rose, lesbian!

    • @Rebecca4ever16
      @Rebecca4ever16 2 роки тому +3

      YAS. Gotta love Golden Girls.

    • @dracofirex
      @dracofirex 2 роки тому +3

      @@Rebecca4ever16 Yes!!

    • @tahraethestoryteller6079
      @tahraethestoryteller6079 2 роки тому +4

      technically it refers to the Island of Lesbos off the coast of Greece, not the country of Lebanon

    • @dracofirex
      @dracofirex 2 роки тому +2

      @@tahraethestoryteller6079 Yeah it's a joke from The Golden Girls tv show :)

  • @cuteproxytobylover5279
    @cuteproxytobylover5279 2 роки тому +221

    As a German lesbian: I'm happy that my entire country has hereby joined the rainbow.

    • @NeverEverII
      @NeverEverII 2 роки тому +18

      As a German bi: Same 😇🌈

    • @ln3877
      @ln3877 2 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @cuteproxytobylover5279
      @cuteproxytobylover5279 2 роки тому +5

      @LuqmanGamer Actually, not that often. More of a wine person.

    • @NeverEverII
      @NeverEverII 2 роки тому +5

      @LuqmanGamer Similar to Tobylover, I am more of a wine person, although the beer in my region is quite good.

    • @xNothing2Lose
      @xNothing2Lose 2 роки тому +5

      @LuqmanGamer almost daily. but always alcohol free. sober for 15 month now. german nonbinary btw

  • @cy7681
    @cy7681 2 роки тому +3

    I’m a nonbinary person and I once had a question that said “male, female, prefer not to say” when I tell you I was genuinely confused on what to press without it being weird

  • @ElliLovett
    @ElliLovett 2 роки тому +133

    Shout out for my grandma for reacting to me outing myself as a lesbian with "Well when you have a girlfriend you will totally have to visit me together" which was very cute

  • @Birdkiller46
    @Birdkiller46 2 роки тому +459

    The pride flag you weren’t sure about is indeed polysexual! The blue and pink two-stripe is also indeed cis. There are a few cis flags out there and they’re all boring AF 😂. I’ve been in a class where I was too scared to say my pronouns (People read me as male, especially over zoom, so I just didn’t say my pronouns are he/him because I was feeling really dysphoric and people can suck) and someone said their pronouns are she/they, then the teacher said her pronouns were also she/they and had everyone share their pronouns in the chat. I told them in the chat my pronouns are he/him and how much it mattered because I’m trans. I went from not wanting to add my pronouns to my introduction because I was scared of the reaction by potentially outing myself as trans to voluntarily sharing that I’m trans.

    • @ashleykozior2067
      @ashleykozior2067 2 роки тому +16

      I cried🥲

    • @enbiaroace
      @enbiaroace 2 роки тому +21

      That's amazing! I wish I knew more people in my country who were open to LGBTQ+ discussions. I could never be out to anyone irl :")

    • @almondwaet7966
      @almondwaet7966 2 роки тому +10

      this is so cute:(

    • @tankedwarthog6424
      @tankedwarthog6424 2 роки тому +16

      So glad that you were able to come out in a safe environment.

    • @grammarnazi3876
      @grammarnazi3876 2 роки тому +17

      Proof that the simplest things can still be validating/comforting ( such as asking someone what their pronouns are :] )

  • @theonebreadlord
    @theonebreadlord 2 роки тому +25

    As an asexual, I can confirm we long for world domination

  • @haliehope7067
    @haliehope7067 2 роки тому +68

    Someone once asked me what bisexual was. my response "Not quite straight, Not quite gay, but 100% totally fun to be around!"

    • @karkatvantass3730
      @karkatvantass3730 2 роки тому +14

      *finger guns*

    • @perchy22
      @perchy22 2 роки тому +7

      @@karkatvantass3730 *gives two thumbs up*

    • @kalidos7681
      @kalidos7681 2 роки тому +1

      @@perchy22 *insert spiderman fingerguns*

    • @solaridastoobid
      @solaridastoobid 2 роки тому +1

      @@kalidos7681 *awkward peace sign*

  • @Onyx516
    @Onyx516 2 роки тому +158

    I feel like that's what my grandmother would react if I came out to her (referring to the first comic). She was very supportive of her gay brother, so I knew she would accept me. The problem is now, she passed away a year before I came out. I wish she was here so I could tell her who I really am. She was an amazing grandmother and I wouldn't trade her for the world.

    • @gordonramsayslambsauce
      @gordonramsayslambsauce 2 роки тому +10

      The girl I liked died right before we started 5th grade. It's been a long time but it really hurts that I never got to come out to her. She has a bench in her honor at our old school (her grave is in the state she was born in) and every year on her birthday I go talk to her. I always imagine her talking back and it kinda feels like she's still there. If it helps, maybe visit a grave or her old house and talk to her. It always helps me keep her memory alive

  • @_firesans_5889
    @_firesans_5889 2 роки тому +17

    the one in 9:20 is so fricking true like i am bisexual and my friend (a girl) is always like:"i hope you don't fall in love with me because I am STRAIGHT *more talking and sh*t * "
    me bieng like : girl we're just friends don't think i will fall in love with you immediately because you're a girl,like- PLS STOP THIS NONSENS -,-

  • @justvibin1447
    @justvibin1447 2 роки тому +233

    "If you cut a bisexual in half you might get a dead bisexual"
    Ah yes this floor is made out of floor

  • @finnisqueer
    @finnisqueer 2 роки тому +165

    6:42 - This one hit me in the feels, cus when I first came out to my boyfriend as a trans man, he saw that I had started going through my wardrobe and was giving away all my old feminine clothes to charity & trans friends, and he realized I didn't have as many masculine clothes, so he left a few of his shirts at my house.. "Accidentally".. Now they're some of my favourite clothes to wear, even if I mostly wear them as PJs.

  • @levitheentity4000
    @levitheentity4000 2 роки тому +11

    8:00
    *It's like when you cut magnets*

  • @TrinityShoji
    @TrinityShoji 2 роки тому +241

    As someone who spends too much time on the internet, the Germany being confused for an LGBTQIA identity is all sorts of funny to me.
    There was a meme being passed around as someone asked "What sexuality flag is that?" Not realizing they had the flag of Germany behind that.
    And these flag-ball comments started as a quirkly little commentary about national identities, using an upside down flag of Poland... so crossover episode with Germany?

    • @wingedyera
      @wingedyera 2 роки тому +13

      It's like the person who had dutch in their profile and someone asked them what is that like dom butch or something?
      It's... my nationality?

    • @theangryholmesian4556
      @theangryholmesian4556 2 роки тому +4

      @@wingedyera Ahh Tumblr. The same website that brought you "You're not Spanish there is no country called Spain!"

    • @x999uuu1
      @x999uuu1 2 роки тому +8

      It's like when someone had hij/hem in their bio and some chud made fun of them for "making up *r slur* genders"
      but hij/hem is just Dutch for he/him
      But like,

    • @amadeosendiulo2137
      @amadeosendiulo2137 2 роки тому +2

      Poland can into space and will bring the LGBallTs!
      Well, if only the government wouldn't be so conservative :-(

  • @angrybush8370
    @angrybush8370 2 роки тому +1335

    You are the nest person that makes me fell comfident about my sexuality and gender identity

    • @rat50
      @rat50 2 роки тому +4

      e

    • @N1K0.D4WN
      @N1K0.D4WN 2 роки тому +3

      O

    • @koalalad4
      @koalalad4 2 роки тому +3

      @@N1K0.D4WN U

    • @ssouljagrl
      @ssouljagrl 2 роки тому +5

      and sometimes y

    • @samaradejonge1011
      @samaradejonge1011 2 роки тому +22

      you probably meant confident, but i really like comfident because it sounds like "comfortable" mixed with "confident". i will be using this from now on :)

  • @atree1394
    @atree1394 2 роки тому +10

    7:29 my ace self: you'll never do the thing! Oh no what a nightmare. ._.

    • @rebel6301
      @rebel6301 Рік тому

      everytime someone says "you're just ace because you cant pull" like my brother in christ that's the point

  • @pan_man69
    @pan_man69 2 роки тому +122

    Something that's hilarious to me I'm bisexual and I fit almost every stereotype for a lesbian that I know of and my boyfriend is straight but he fits most of the stereotypes for a gay man so some people honestly do not believe that were dating and it's just hilarious for both of us

    • @alexshemwell8320
      @alexshemwell8320 2 роки тому +12

      Reminds me of a tiktok where people keep asking the effeminate bi man "Does your wife know you're gay"?

    • @Fishtastic0303
      @Fishtastic0303 2 роки тому +1

      Wholesome

    • @cathleenc6943
      @cathleenc6943 2 роки тому

      I get reactions like that. I am pan and many people see me as fairly masculine for a woman. I am also a little aro. I have had lots of confusion from people not getting my relationships.

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 2 роки тому

      I’m pan but the way I dress is very typical lesbian fashion: I also say I’m gay but as a general umbrella term (also I hate my attraction to men) so honestly wish I were lesbian instead of pan

  • @thehumanpokedex8710
    @thehumanpokedex8710 2 роки тому +336

    2:07 Yes, you are correct. Polysexuality is the attraction to more than two genders but not all genders. Someone probably already commented this but I wanted to put it out there just in case.

    • @KyleRayner12
      @KyleRayner12 2 роки тому +14

      I love learning things like that. Jamie on wholesome content is the best.

    • @mycatranovertheqwertz5206
      @mycatranovertheqwertz5206 2 роки тому +8

      Hey i don't mean to be rude just out of not knowing yet and curiosity: what is the difference between polisexuality and pansexuality? And does it matter what I identify with? If someone cares about the personality mostly isn't it almost irrelevant in what box I am? Just out of curiosity what would that be and why are there so many labels?
      Ahhh

    • @somegeese
      @somegeese 2 роки тому

      this is literal poly erasure

    • @kaylaa2204
      @kaylaa2204 2 роки тому +27

      @@mycatranovertheqwertz5206 well really understanding that just takes abit of basic understanding of etymology
      Poly = many
      Pan = all
      So pansexual would be attraction regardless of gender, where poly is implied to have exceptions

    • @thehumanpokedex8710
      @thehumanpokedex8710 2 роки тому +16

      @@somegeese Did I do or say something wrong? I’m open to constructive criticism.

  • @Sireington
    @Sireington 2 роки тому +5

    6:11 I think it’s because many have trauma of gay just being an insult for MANY years so yeah

  • @josephschubert6561
    @josephschubert6561 2 роки тому +139

    That chopsticks analogy is so good. Cause there's still the follow up "logic" of, "but which one is on top?" When you set the chopsticks down, do you always pick them up the same way? They look the same so, no, I don't think you do.
    This subreddit is really cute and you should totally make more videos on it!

    • @sophiejones3554
      @sophiejones3554 2 роки тому +9

      I mean yes, but also that is true of any relationship. If they don’t know that women can top men then I just feel pity for how boring their lives must be.
      Although I never know whether someone asking that question wants the gory details of my sex life, or if they actually are asking about the power dynamic. Neither is any of their business, but I’m always tempted to give them the former just to prevent them from talking to me ever again.

    • @undertaker5742
      @undertaker5742 2 роки тому +4

      @@sophiejones3554 Same. I tell them what they didn’t want to know just to ensure they don’t ask again if the question was too rude for words.

  • @ShadeofIce
    @ShadeofIce 2 роки тому +156

    That was adorable. As an ace I am definitely questioning why my pizza is so hot. Also yes there are at least 75 million of us so we are gonna take over the world. Starting with Denmark. Watch out Denmark there are more of us then there are of you.
    This video was adorable. Thanks for introducing me to it.
    Anyways have a wonderful day! :)

    • @v3ru586
      @v3ru586 2 роки тому +14

      It won't be hard to take them by surprise. Many don't even know we exist

    • @ShadeofIce
      @ShadeofIce 2 роки тому +7

      @@v3ru586 I'm sure we got some inside members in there as well. :)

    • @janavanbellingen8531
      @janavanbellingen8531 2 роки тому +14

      That's 7 asexuals for every Belgian! And there are definitely asexuals in Belgium. Whelp, might as well accept the inevitable. All hail our new overlords! May you do better than our current government

    • @jebwatersheep3458
      @jebwatersheep3458 2 роки тому +9

      As a non binary person, would you be interested in an alliance? We can offer our love of frogs!

    • @ShadeofIce
      @ShadeofIce 2 роки тому +4

      @@jebwatersheep3458 Allies are always welcome, especially from our NB friends. I too love frogs. :)

  • @somerandommixoffandomsands4452

    One of them is quite similar to mine favorite coming out story(only 5 people know). We were on scout talking about heartstoper and at the end she was like: “i have something to tell you.” And i was like: “Same.” So she told me to say it first i told her im bi and she was so excited she ruined to me hugged me and said me too! It is one of my favorite memories so far

  • @the_silly_goober_owo
    @the_silly_goober_owo 2 роки тому +84

    I cut a bisexual in half, I now have been charged with murder

    • @yejiluvrr
      @yejiluvrr 2 роки тому +13

      Oops

    • @nicholashoward971
      @nicholashoward971 2 роки тому +8

      nooooo dont kill my bi people.😢

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 2 роки тому +6

      You can't do that. It's better to wait for them to undergo mitosis. This works better with asexuals, I hear.

    • @pintpullinggeek
      @pintpullinggeek 2 роки тому +1

      @@FrozEnbyWolf150 It's why asexuals like garlic bread, it fuels the cellular division.

    • @cynister7384
      @cynister7384 2 роки тому +1

      Ooh, do me next!

  • @lukaphoenix1568
    @lukaphoenix1568 2 роки тому +254

    this was super cute and would be happy to get a sequel to this subreddit

  • @cameronmueller-harder3916
    @cameronmueller-harder3916 2 роки тому +4

    4:18 I had a teacher in highschool who had a sheet like that, with *three lines*: pronouns for 1-on-1 meetings, pronouns that are ok around classmates, pronouns that are ok around your parents/family, and a checkbox for "I would like to meet privately to discuss this"... it was such a game changer, even in my relatively liberal school where people were mostly cool with the whole they/them thing

  • @cabra0693
    @cabra0693 2 роки тому +20

    5:50 that is from a vine. A girl (late teens/ early twenties) comes out to who I assume is her little brother and he says that

    • @VoidKing666
      @VoidKing666 2 роки тому +2

      Too be fair, “lesbian” originally described anyone from the island of Lesbos in Greece.

    • @cabra0693
      @cabra0693 2 роки тому +3

      @@VoidKing666 I know but, if you live there as a wlw person are you lesbian² or...?

    • @VoidKing666
      @VoidKing666 2 роки тому +1

      @@cabra0693 😯 I wouldn’t know! I bet you would be

  • @SPUDog
    @SPUDog 2 роки тому +33

    8:22 "When you cut a bisexual in half- I mean, you might get a dead bisexual" XD

  • @Boxscape_VR
    @Boxscape_VR Рік тому +6

    I've only recently discovered your channel but I am in LOVE with your voice, it's so soothing to hear you speak. Also as a pansexual this helps me know that there are people out here to support me.

  • @Zephirite.
    @Zephirite. 2 роки тому +114

    “I’m lesbian,” “I thought your were American.” Is a meme.

    • @hevalemin6520
      @hevalemin6520 2 роки тому +5

      "I thought she was a saggitarius!" (Bend it like Beckham)

    • @invisibleink2759
      @invisibleink2759 2 роки тому +2

      That's from Golden Girls

    • @ghostspanx3042
      @ghostspanx3042 2 роки тому

      It’s so funny how only some people realized it’s a vine

    • @invisibleink2759
      @invisibleink2759 2 роки тому

      @@ghostspanx3042 Golden Girls season 2 episode 5(isn't it romantic) that's older than Vine

    • @ghostspanx3042
      @ghostspanx3042 2 роки тому

      @@invisibleink2759 how do you know the exact episode.. I- are you ok???? Do you need help??? Are you religiously watching Golden girls??? (No hate)

  • @jammriley2655
    @jammriley2655 2 роки тому +31

    5:15 the A in LGBTQIA also stands for aromantic and agender, as well as asexual!

  • @crybabysuniform
    @crybabysuniform 2 роки тому +19

    1:39 me and my girlfriend have gotten this question so many times lmao

  • @scathannagoodman3796
    @scathannagoodman3796 2 роки тому +16

    4:06 one of ny favorite responses to this is question is "Have you ever hugged a cactus? No? Then how do you know you wouldn't like it? Go hug a cactus. GO HUG A GODDAM CACTUS." or some variation thereof.

  • @chestnutstudios9690
    @chestnutstudios9690 2 роки тому +118

    I'm pretty sure the A in lgbtqia stands for aspec. Which is an umbrella term for people who are ace, aro, and I THINK agender. Also, as a genderfluid myself, does this mean I'm a jetpack???

  • @royal0706
    @royal0706 2 роки тому +63

    Fun fact:
    I was a cisgender lesbian but recently I figured out I was actually confused
    Now I know I'm genderfluid and pan-

    • @undead_gaming
      @undead_gaming 2 роки тому +17

      A fluid pan? Well that can't be great for cooking!

    • @thechaoscollection9043
      @thechaoscollection9043 2 роки тому +6

      @@undead_gaming ok, ik the pan jokes are (kinda) old but that was hilarious loll

    • @undead_gaming
      @undead_gaming 2 роки тому +3

      @@thechaoscollection9043 Thank you! ~ A pansexual polyamorus Agender commenter

  • @fictional-girl_05
    @fictional-girl_05 2 роки тому +30

    7:05
    The G in LGBT now stands for German

    • @BuilderB08
      @BuilderB08 2 роки тому +1

      LGBT 2: European Boogaloo
      Luxembourg-ian (someone please tell me the pronoun for Luxembourg)
      German
      British
      Turkish (is Turkey in Europe?)

    • @fictional-girl_05
      @fictional-girl_05 2 роки тому +1

      @@BuilderB08
      I’m pretty sure Turkey is partially in Europe and partially in Asia, like Russia.

  • @dawnbeckett9179
    @dawnbeckett9179 2 роки тому +54

    "I'm lesbian"
    "Why?"
    "Women"

    • @Jourei_
      @Jourei_ 2 роки тому +2

      "Like have you _seen_ the women around?!"

    • @odessawales
      @odessawales 2 роки тому

      Do lesbians feel attraction to transgender men/feminine men?

    • @unusualsheep
      @unusualsheep 2 роки тому +1

      @@odessawales no
      Lesbians are attracted to women not femininity
      Trans men are men
      Hope that helps

  • @sprinklextreme4129
    @sprinklextreme4129 2 роки тому +18

    5:06 THE A NOW IS FOR ARSON >:)

  • @gordonramsayslambsauce
    @gordonramsayslambsauce 2 роки тому +55

    5:00 I'm trans and queer and it's so embarrassing that I used to be like that. I'd be like "we wouldn't be where we are without the allies! They're one of us!" and I also used to say that intersex isn't part of the community because it's just another sex. I was so desperate to be accepted as one of the good gays it's literally mortifying.

  • @maxpoorly
    @maxpoorly 2 роки тому +93

    My little sibling just came out to me as genderfluid, and I was so excited to show them your youtube after they decided on Jamie and Kai for their other names (nonbinary and masc days respectively, with Jamie being the general name), and they felt so much more at ease watching your videos with me, knowing they have an accepting big brother and an awesome youtuber to watch with him! Thanks for existing Jamie!

  • @ichliebebaeumeweilbaum
    @ichliebebaeumeweilbaum 2 роки тому +2

    7:08 "Aww the little German ball got lost"
    Why do I relate so much 😭

  • @starless6254
    @starless6254 2 роки тому +21

    7:13
    As a genderfluid person, I can confirm that I float up to the sky whenever it rains. Unfortunately, once I get past the clouds, I will evaporate and have to wait until it rains to become genderfluid again. Sometimes, if I leave the atomostphere, I'll freeze become gendersoild.
    So if anyone wants to fly or if a fellow genderfluid person would like to be a gender cloud with me; then you're welcome to join.

  • @bendy5063
    @bendy5063 2 роки тому +44

    4:16
    This school year, pretty much all my teachers asked for your preferred pronouns and what you would like to be called by in class in the 'getting to know you' Google form they made everyone fill out on the first day of school, and it honestly made my trans/non-binary heart so happy!

    • @tankedwarthog6424
      @tankedwarthog6424 2 роки тому +6

      I really wish schools were doing this back when I was growing up it would have helped me come out as transgender female a long time ago

  • @getleeshyyd
    @getleeshyyd 2 роки тому +6

    6:33 What a nice dad! ^^

  • @Belinyvs
    @Belinyvs 2 роки тому +51

    Hi jamie! I recently realized that I am FtM, thanks to several UA-camrs, but especially you. Dysphoria and doubts are a bitch, and I live in a country that's vastly LGBTQphobic, but your positivity always manages to lighten up my day. Thank you for everything!

    • @nicholashoward971
      @nicholashoward971 2 роки тому +3

      Are you in easten eupore.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 2 роки тому +4

      You. Are. Valid.

    • @YouveBeenMegged
      @YouveBeenMegged 2 роки тому +3

      Just remember, you are valid and there is always a place for you in the Alphabet Mafia!

    • @Belinyvs
      @Belinyvs 2 роки тому +1

      @@nicholashoward971 Yup. Turkey, to be exact.

    • @Belinyvs
      @Belinyvs 2 роки тому +3

      @@YouveBeenMegged Thanks! Had a shitty day but this gave me quite a moral boost. It feels good to know that the whole Alphabet Mafia is one huge family that backs each and every member up.

  • @tranquilmagister8481
    @tranquilmagister8481 2 роки тому +44

    a moment of silence for all bisexuals who were sliced in half to prove we are our own thing

  • @ravenwashere1776
    @ravenwashere1776 Рік тому +1

    The "I thought you were American" line is from an old vine lmao-
    Its honestly the reaction I'd kinda like to receive, just confusion or someone making a reference to reassure me theyre supportive

  • @lavender3609
    @lavender3609 2 роки тому +39

    Now, I'm just imagining an army of ace flag balls sprouting dragon wings and taking over Denmark. It's a beautiful and hilarious image.

  • @youraveragearmy
    @youraveragearmy 2 роки тому +42

    Damn! As an avid user of the LGBallT subreddit, I never expected our community to end up in a Jammidodger video! Huge fan of your channel, and I'd absolutely love to see more of this :D

  • @crofters147
    @crofters147 Рік тому +2

    Senior year my French teacher included pronouns on the beginning of the year survey and it made me so happy. She also educated herself on French gender neutral pronouns over the summer and started teaching how to use them at all french levels :]

  • @AnonymousOnimous
    @AnonymousOnimous 2 роки тому +21

    The Ace Ball with Boss Music (5:20) got me! Every time someone says, "The 'A' is for 'allies'!" I think, "ASEXUALS, AROMANTICS, and AGENDER folks beat you to that punch, buddy! Move TF over!

  • @amalel-sheikh4454
    @amalel-sheikh4454 2 роки тому +45

    “I won’t laugh at that terrible joke, but I will, because it’s funny.” that's literally what was in my mind 😂😂

  • @fangirlsyndrome2943
    @fangirlsyndrome2943 2 роки тому +6

    The one about the bi ball being cut in half reminds me kinda of how im to scared to be open about being Ace because I don't act like a Ace stereotype I'm a big fan girl I write fanfiction and make lots of sex jokes or references because of that people don't always believe I'm ace

    • @isabelcarrasco4528
      @isabelcarrasco4528 Рік тому

      That doesn't make you not ace, those people just need to learn that the A-Spectrum consist of more than just a total and complete and categorical NO to any- and everything that has anything to do with sex.
      I'm aegosexual, and perfectly capable of enjoying reading pwp (and also porn without plot) fanfics while simultaneously being absolute uninterested in having any sex myself.
      But I get how you might not want to explain that to everybody.

  • @Grey_Boy611
    @Grey_Boy611 2 роки тому +47

    This helps. I tried to come out as transgender for the second time in four or five years today. I was told that God made me a woman and I have a child so me trying to do this to myself isn't right.

    • @kristyna.kocianova
      @kristyna.kocianova 2 роки тому +11

      Aww, I'm so sorry that people around you aren't supportive of you! Sending you my love and support, I hope it all gets better for you

    • @nicholashoward971
      @nicholashoward971 2 роки тому +8

      Sorry but they are stupid. I'll send my love and support to you.😀

    • @Grey_Boy611
      @Grey_Boy611 2 роки тому +10

      @Tom Morrison Thank you. I'm mostly focusing on getting use to my binder. That's the only reason I had to out myself. She questioned my about my binder. I haven't found too many of the others trans UA-camrs. Could you recommend some?

    • @Grey_Boy611
      @Grey_Boy611 2 роки тому +1

      thank you so much. It means a lot. It really does

    • @nicholashoward971
      @nicholashoward971 2 роки тому +2

      @@Grey_Boy611 you welcome😀

  • @Urlocalnerodivergentfrog
    @Urlocalnerodivergentfrog 2 роки тому +24

    5:31) I am so happy they included omnisexual in there bc as a Omni person we don't get talked about much and when we do it's by omniphobes

    • @partypooper7051
      @partypooper7051 2 роки тому +2

      Explain to me what omnisexuals mean pls?

    • @Urlocalnerodivergentfrog
      @Urlocalnerodivergentfrog 2 роки тому +3

      @@partypooper7051 Ofc! Omnisexual is kinda like pansexual but you are not "gender blind" so gender plays a part in your attraction and you also may have a preference towards women and men or men and nonbinary genders or Women and non-binary genders. But yeah that's basically what it means Happy to help 😊

  • @alexsboring6999
    @alexsboring6999 2 роки тому +1

    Hey, Jammi!
    I'm so glad you were able to find the r/LGBallT community. I just wanted to tell you that the style is based off of the style of PolandBalls (or CountryBalls) and that the reason the B (Bisexual) is changed to Ball is just because the other communities (CountryBalls, StateBalls, PolcompBall, CityBalls, Historical CountryBalls and possibly more) that they are associated with/ based of all have Ball in their community name and because that's how they are drawn.

  • @feuerfrei3991
    @feuerfrei3991 2 роки тому +51

    Hey Jamie!,I'm pretty sure it's based off poland ball/ country ball. It's the same as this but their flags and play out historical actions! Just some info :)

    • @koalaqueen6359
      @koalaqueen6359 2 роки тому +4

      It’s actually Jamie, but I think it is based off that.

  • @carsonfball4
    @carsonfball4 2 роки тому +44

    6:25 I'm not convinced that the "straight" people who are that defensive about being straight are actually straight. People who aren't being "called out" (for lack of a better term) for something they are trying to hide normally aren't very defensive about it.

  • @isabellab-c5351
    @isabellab-c5351 2 роки тому +2

    My mum (Straight), when I first came out to her, said the same thing about how I can't know if I'm bisexual unless I've dated men and women (and non-binary, but she didn't say that), and so I felt from that point that I had to prove I was bi, to myself and my mother, by dating a girl (I knew no one who was non-binary) but I was too shy to ask anyone out so I just made up a pretend girl I was casually dating so my mum would believe that I was bisexual instead of invalidating me.
    But even after I told her I was dating a girl (And by her reasoning that should prove I'm bi) she instead said that I couldn't know I was bi unless I'd *slept* with a girl.
    In the end I told her the truth, and when she invalidated my sexual orientation again recently I just "Well have *you* ever been with a woman before, mum," and she said no.
    So I said, "Than how can you know your straight and not bi yourself"
    And she just said "I don't know, but I do know that I'm not attracted to women, although, I can still appreciate that they *are* attractive".
    I didn't know how to respond at first, but then I said what I had been thinking about the whole time since she first said she didn't believe that I could know myself, "If you *know* what and who you're attracted to enough to have to sleep with them to be sure, then why don't you think *I* know myself well enough to know who *I'm* attracted to. Why do you think you know me better than I could know myself."
    I don't remember what she said to me after that, but I know that she's been trying a bit harder since then to be accepting of me, but there's still a tension there, and I still don't feel comfortable talking to her about it since I usually just get a snarky comment or an eye roll, not to mention, she told my aunt (her big sister) that I was gay without asking for my permission first.
    Anyway, sorry for the long rant, I didn't mean for this to be so long, I guess I just wanted to get it off my chest in some way.

  • @revukanfendrenim2607
    @revukanfendrenim2607 2 роки тому +23

    3:20 his honk-laughs give me life