#1 mistake I made is texting with her too much. Even when she is the one who keeps initiating throughout the day, keep it brief and exciting but don't show her you want to text her all day. Keep in contact with her but don't text everyday even if she shows a lot of interest because she will lose it.
Lol, even when they explicitly tell you "too much texting dude", but you still keep at it. Happened too many times. Nowadays I just post youtube comments.
Good vid, good tips. But a little update from a guy in his early 20s. No one texts people using SMS these days, its really outdated. I do not know about other generations but people my age stopped texting using sms 4-5 years ago. It is only done in emergency situations when a person does not have access to mobile data or wifi atm. Honestly, it is even considered to be weird when someone asks for a persons phone number. Texting via messenger or instagram is the new thing and a better thing due to multiple reasons such as the ability to send visuals(pics, gifs, photos) and ability to see her pictures, story highlights which can be helpful when trying to think of a convo starter better than "hey" right after getting her ig. Bottom line, sms is a thing of the past and i think it is where it belongs unless ur target audience are guys in their 40s-50s who do not understand tech
rule 1 initiated the interaction and it has been a healthy balance between us of initiating for the past month.... DONE rule 2. we are getting to know each other over text because we have no other choice atm, but have talked about ideas of what/where of of our first meetup after this whole social distance mess is over . so DONE rule 3. after the initial texts, we spaced out our text so there is no burn out. We seem to text every other at the most even just a little bit just to check in rule 4 i think my emoji game is minimal at best rule 5. yes you are right phone number just more personal overall thinking im on the right track, but still social distancing still sucks
I guess one of the reason i get so hang up on texting and equating her interest is because that's the environment i grew up in. And it never really led to anything. Currently seeing a girl, minimal texting and she's great in person. and the lack of texting is throwing me off and i keep thinking/feeling she's not interested(also because of my neediness. It has been improving tho). I always have to keep rewatching these videos to remind me that texting is meaningless if she doesn't want to meet up in person
i really felt this comment and i dont think we’re alone. tech really been messin with men/women’s communication over the last 20 years. its so frustrating 😂. esp when you over-think and over analyze things like i do. stay strong fellas. its a dance. dont forget that n always stay balanced 🫡
This video blew me away😂. I wasted so much time texting a girl to get to know her to get a date. All I had to do was follow these rules. I'm a try this from now on
To learn more about dominance and how to lead your interactions with girls so you aren't wasting time texting back and forth with a girl who's not interested and spending more time on dates with girls who are, be sure to check out my program Hooked ► getherhooked.com/.
Tripp, what to do, when you agreed to meet up, but its like a week from here, do you just stop/decrease your texts? Its somewhat weird to go from “getting interest on dating app with texting” to agreeing to meet and stop the texts.
Hey Tripp! Awesome stuff I found on your channel. Practicing all the rules you share. Just one quick question. You said "no What'sapp", but what happens if sms are not the common thing in a certain country? what if whatsap its the most common way to communicate? that counts towards social media?
I met a girl thru tinder but it was long distant. True texting a lot screwed everything as there is no way of meeting this girl In near future ! Will you talk about long distance relationships
respectfully disagree with point 3. Building attraction over texting is very much possible. just don't be available all the time, if possible text at night after 12 when a person is most vulnerable, trigger her emotions, flirt, make her laugh. She'll be hooked and addicted
Hmmm i dont know, texting SMS is kind of lame, also although cheap not free, and kind of nobody does that, it might not make you stand out but make you that "oo, i'm not using this only to communicate with him" Might be a regional thing, but from where i am from SMS texting is way dead, maybe using if internet connection is lost.
Then you should quit talking to her. Its supposed you use texting to meet her. Why would you wanna waste time with someone that doesnt want to meet up?
If I'm talking to a woman on a dating app and offer her my phone number, is it a bad sign if she offers to switch to snapchat/Facebook messenger instead of just "regular" texting? Some of my female friends say they don't give out their number because it is too personal when talking to a guy they just met/matched with.
My question to you trip, is what if you have moved your conversations to either FaceTime, a zoom call, or another form such as Skype considering at least the days and time you cannot physically meet up.
Tripp Advice The question was that you say that you should only interact with the woman face-to-face, though and this time we cannot really do that, I was wondering one of our online meeting such as FaceTime, zoom, apps that you can interact with them also besides phone call.
What if it's only the girl who initiates conversation with me over text? Wouldn't it be rude to just ignore her? Like for example, after I scheduled my first date with a girl recently she texted me a few times during the week leading up to the date. I replied and it lead to some short conversations. Is this ok?
In Australia we are in a pandemic lockdown so in person dating is not possible, would these rules still apply?. Would you stop trying to date during this time since in person interacting isn't possible?. Dating Apps are exploding at the moment with more women on them than ever before.
Awhile back I got ahold of a girls Snapchat and after asking her out, I said is this the best way to reach you. She said yes as she doesn’t reply to regular text a whole lot and her provider is messed up so messages don’t go through. Was this her way of not giving me her number or was she truthful?
I think with texting on whatsapp there is nothing wrong, because you need the number anyway to text on whatsapp. SMS comes of as lame and outdated imo.
I've understood that you shouldn't text her a lot. Buf if she wants first to get to know you through test before she sees you, do you think that's a good sign, Tripp?
I am partially confused, I have a girlfriend, but with social distancing I know i won’t see her for quite some time so do I not text for the whole time that covid 19 is here?
Hey Tripp, what's the advice for when you ask her out, after you both talked about going out some time..but when you ask her you she doesn say yes or no, instead she talks about something else..?
Been texting girl for month and half, asked her out twice, she is busy or cant right now or after this corona thing, stopped texting her, she texted me after 7 days and when i answered she left me on read. Any advice? Should i text her or move on?
The only thing about this that is insanely stupid is the aversion to whatsapp. Texting might be a US thing, but I checked and I've not looked at my Imessages//Texts in so long I have over 200 unread chats (more unread individual messages) - I don't think people in the rest of the world use texts. Definitely not in the UK or Europe. If you're "texting" girls in Europe or UK you'll be seen as really weird, creepy and old.
Haha I’m watching this cause I was trying to slide in a girls DM’s Instagram and she said she don’t use it much as a brush off I thought, so said give me your number then! And she did… had a brief text chat but she’s wrapped up saying she’s gotta do some work chat later….. so I’m doing my home work! Guna give it a few days and try find a fireworks display to invite her to at weekend… Pray for me bro’s 😂 oops emoji
It's ridiculous to tell people to text only on texting apps but not on a damn phone. Makes no sense. Hell, there are some guys who lead busy lives who only REMEMBER a woman once in a while, or who travel, who still want to keep a number 'warm' while they lead a busy damn life. Makes no sense to just ditch a # just because the guy can't get with the woman straight away, or to be a needy bitch and say 'I'm going travelling for 3 months but why don't we get together when I get back'. What you want to do is text her once in a while to keep you fresh in her memory and keep her invested for when you're NOT busy. Fuck this 'texting is ONLY for setting dates' crap.
what if you've already set a date, but you can't meet for quite a while due to reasons like quarantine? Should you just be chill about it or should you do something?
Uhhhhhh ! Some expert are telling not to text first to Attract and make her think of us and now you are saying to text first ( what is happening ? ) I didn't understand 😪🙄 Reply please 🙏😪
Seems that texting is a lot more personal than social media. Which means it adds more pressure to the woman. I think women are drawn to mystery. When you text a girl with unintentional or uncertain motives I feel it turns her off. An example is I met a girl at work, we chatted for a bit (some very light flirting), she ended up asking me to follow her instagram. I waited a day, looked her up, followed her. Waited another day, and sent her a DM that said this. “Let’s hang out sometime.” She re’d “that would be awesome...” I re’d “come to [my work place] tomorrow and ask me what I’m doing after work. 😉” *emoji violation!!! But... she re’d “Okay. :)” Notice she didn’t use an exact emoji? But she intentionally smily faced using text? Anyway, hope this helps. Would like to hear your thoughts on this interaction.
1. Don’t wait for her to text you when you initially get her number. 2. Only use text messaging (sms) to ask her out 3. Don’t text them to get to know them (attraction isn’t built over text) 4. Don’t send too many emojis 5. If you don’t have her number, try to get her number.
Are you on drugs ? No responsible adults are dating off the internet or casual meets in the current covid era Hopefully you made this video before the current situation and just now released it.
Tripp Advice Appreciate that! Not sure when this is over. Depends on one’s location and age, etc. Most fun thing I’ve done is watching the same movie and texting occasionally notes laughter etc. and doing a phone call after. Additionally, doing a phone call over a a few drinks and texting funny memes. Maybe this stuff will mess up the future ? It’s working fun for now.
According to rule 2 and 3... Man..Sometimes It looks like I am having a date with them by texting..chatting forever getting to know each other and all... no good lol
I use lots of emojies 😂🍭 But girls like it 🙄 They are interested in texting me 😏 So I dont think so as you say 😴😪 Girls do like emojies 😋 I'm not agreeing with you for that 😞🍭😏
This video blew me away😂. I wasted so much time texting a girl to get to know her to get a date. All I had to do was follow these rules. I'm a try this from now on
#1 mistake I made is texting with her too much. Even when she is the one who keeps initiating throughout the day, keep it brief and exciting but don't show her you want to text her all day. Keep in contact with her but don't text everyday even if she shows a lot of interest because she will lose it.
Thanks for this
This is where I always mess up . Always being available killed my chances . But I learned now . I wish I knew this sooner .
I'm the victim here
Lol, even when they explicitly tell you "too much texting dude", but you still keep at it. Happened too many times. Nowadays I just post youtube comments.
If tripp has taught me anything over the past few years, It's that to never belittle yourself. We are more capable than what we think.
Hi dear
*The importance of timing and response length cannot be overstated - keeping messages concise and engaging helps maintain interest.*
AMS, Todd, Tripp , Locario some of the GOATS of dating , some of the professors that taught me so much
These are great suggestions, thanks so much, Tripp.
Hi dear
Good vid, good tips. But a little update from a guy in his early 20s. No one texts people using SMS these days, its really outdated. I do not know about other generations but people my age stopped texting using sms 4-5 years ago. It is only done in emergency situations when a person does not have access to mobile data or wifi atm. Honestly, it is even considered to be weird when someone asks for a persons phone number. Texting via messenger or instagram is the new thing and a better thing due to multiple reasons such as the ability to send visuals(pics, gifs, photos) and ability to see her pictures, story highlights which can be helpful when trying to think of a convo starter better than "hey" right after getting her ig. Bottom line, sms is a thing of the past and i think it is where it belongs unless ur target audience are guys in their 40s-50s who do not understand tech
rule 1 initiated the interaction and it has been a healthy balance between us of initiating for the past month.... DONE
rule 2. we are getting to know each other over text because we have no other choice atm, but have talked about ideas of what/where of of our first meetup after this whole social distance mess is over
. so DONE
rule 3. after the initial texts, we spaced out our text so there is no burn out. We seem to text every other at the most even just a little bit just to check in
rule 4 i think my emoji game is minimal at best
rule 5. yes you are right phone number just more personal
overall thinking im on the right track, but still social distancing still sucks
sissy
just invite her over for a movie and kick it with her
What I’ve been doing since we’re in quarantine is calling them randomly every couple of days and building sexual tension over the phone.
Hello handsome
I guess one of the reason i get so hang up on texting and equating her interest is because that's the environment i grew up in. And it never really led to anything. Currently seeing a girl, minimal texting and she's great in person. and the lack of texting is throwing me off and i keep thinking/feeling she's not interested(also because of my neediness. It has been improving tho). I always have to keep rewatching these videos to remind me that texting is meaningless if she doesn't want to meet up in person
i really felt this comment and i dont think we’re alone. tech really been messin with men/women’s communication over the last 20 years. its so frustrating 😂. esp when you over-think and over analyze things like i do. stay strong fellas. its a dance. dont forget that n always stay balanced 🫡
These tips are GOLDEN! Good stuff, keep doing what you do
Hi handsome
This video blew me away😂. I wasted so much time texting a girl to get to know her to get a date. All I had to do was follow these rules. I'm a try this from now on
These are all straight facts Trip! Outstanding job with no cookie cutter BS bro🔥💣💥
I thaught attraction builds on texts 😮
To learn more about dominance and how to lead your interactions with girls so you aren't wasting time texting back and forth with a girl who's not interested and spending more time on dates with girls who are, be sure to check out my program Hooked ► getherhooked.com/.
Tripp, what to do, when you agreed to meet up, but its like a week from here, do you just stop/decrease your texts? Its somewhat weird to go from “getting interest on dating app with texting” to agreeing to meet and stop the texts.
Hey Tripp! Awesome stuff I found on your channel. Practicing all the rules you share. Just one quick question.
You said "no What'sapp", but what happens if sms are not the common thing in a certain country? what if whatsap its the most common way to communicate? that counts towards social media?
how do i set up a date if everything is closed, we live in different cities and we're both quarantined? well, im gonna win her over anyways
I met a girl thru tinder but it was long distant. True texting a lot screwed everything as there is no way of meeting this girl In near future ! Will you talk about long distance relationships
respectfully disagree with point 3. Building attraction over texting is very much possible. just don't be available all the time, if possible text at night after 12 when a person is most vulnerable, trigger her emotions, flirt, make her laugh. She'll be hooked and addicted
I have the first date with the girl and it went well but texting her doesn’t build attraction I struggle with that
How should I convince her to go on a second date
I am from the uk
Hmmm i dont know, texting SMS is kind of lame, also although cheap not free, and kind of nobody does that, it might not make you stand out but make you that "oo, i'm not using this only to communicate with him"
Might be a regional thing, but from where i am from SMS texting is way dead, maybe using if internet connection is lost.
yea ok but what if the girl ONLY WANTS TO TALK IN TEXT?!?!
Then you should quit talking to her. Its supposed you use texting to meet her. Why would you wanna waste time with someone that doesnt want to meet up?
That's basically every girl
Only text her about linking
How@long distance
I'm not going to lie bro. The more Tripp advice I take in the more sense it makes. I'm not great with chicks but I see how effective this content is
If I'm talking to a woman on a dating app and offer her my phone number, is it a bad sign if she offers to switch to snapchat/Facebook messenger instead of just "regular" texting? Some of my female friends say they don't give out their number because it is too personal when talking to a guy they just met/matched with.
If you miss the rules, you miss it all
My question to you trip, is what if you have moved your conversations to either FaceTime, a zoom call, or another form such as Skype considering at least the days and time you cannot physically meet up.
What’s that question?
Tripp Advice The question was that you say that you should only interact with the woman face-to-face, though and this time we cannot really do that, I was wondering one of our online meeting such as FaceTime, zoom, apps that you can interact with them also besides phone call.
Also I want to know have you ever worked with men that are disabled trying to find women.
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What if it's only the girl who initiates conversation with me over text? Wouldn't it be rude to just ignore her? Like for example, after I scheduled my first date with a girl recently she texted me a few times during the week leading up to the date. I replied and it lead to some short conversations. Is this ok?
I have 8 years in this chanel and follow tipp all the way
In Australia we are in a pandemic lockdown so in person dating is not possible, would these rules still apply?.
Would you stop trying to date during this time since in person interacting isn't possible?.
Dating Apps are exploding at the moment with more women on them than ever before.
What if she’s long distance?
Awhile back I got ahold of a girls Snapchat and after asking her out, I said is this the best way to reach you. She said yes as she doesn’t reply to regular text a whole lot and her provider is messed up so messages don’t go through. Was this her way of not giving me her number or was she truthful?
I think with texting on whatsapp there is nothing wrong, because you need the number anyway to text on whatsapp. SMS comes of as lame and outdated imo.
I've understood that you shouldn't text her a lot.
Buf if she wants first to get to know you through test before she sees you, do you think that's a good sign, Tripp?
I am partially confused, I have a girlfriend, but with social distancing I know i won’t see her for quite some time so do I not text for the whole time that covid 19 is here?
I'm guessing that shit ain't work🤣
@@ninjazay7245 I texted her. 8 months strong bro
Hey Tripp, what's the advice for when you ask her out, after you both talked about going out some time..but when you ask her you she doesn say yes or no, instead she talks about something else..?
Be in Control bro , make a Plan with her innit . Maybe a hike or Something.
How do you do it how to talk to girls who you are
But the thing if you dont have number you are connect with her on Instagram
What do you recommend instead of a date during this time if texting is not an option?
Use texting to setup a virtual date on the phone or video chat
Been texting girl for month and half, asked her out twice, she is busy or cant right now or after this corona thing, stopped texting her, she texted me after 7 days and when i answered she left me on read. Any advice? Should i text her or move on?
fall back
ONLY TEXT FOR LOGISTICS!!!
Girl texted me first after i got her phonenumber xD
The only thing about this that is insanely stupid is the aversion to whatsapp. Texting might be a US thing, but I checked and I've not looked at my Imessages//Texts in so long I have over 200 unread chats (more unread individual messages) - I don't think people in the rest of the world use texts. Definitely not in the UK or Europe. If you're "texting" girls in Europe or UK you'll be seen as really weird, creepy and old.
Tripp how soon after you get a girls number should you ask her to hang out??
Corey Bett ASAP bro, that was the point of getting her number, TO MEET UP
Shouldnt you be calling your channel -Tripp Advisor
You're the best
I got Snapchat and they text me first
Truth bombs here texting is so bad 🤣 I usually just text to meet up like he says.
Does long distance relationships work??
Alanzo Zimmer depends man but you have to keep your eye open
No, stop wasting ur time dude.
Nope
Haha I’m watching this cause I was trying to slide in a girls DM’s Instagram and she said she don’t use it much as a brush off I thought, so said give me your number then! And she did… had a brief text chat but she’s wrapped up saying she’s gotta do some work chat later….. so I’m doing my home work!
Guna give it a few days and try find a fireworks display to invite her to at weekend…
Pray for me bro’s 😂 oops emoji
You lost me on the emoji stuff.
trip in israel we use whatsapp as sms
when first i saw MONEY HIEST'S professor then i thought "Wait.....I've seen this guy before.Its TRIP CRAMMER FROM TRIPP ADVICE"..... ;)
Trip was on money heist??
They don't look alike
Nope
It's ridiculous to tell people to text only on texting apps but not on a damn phone. Makes no sense. Hell, there are some guys who lead busy lives who only REMEMBER a woman once in a while, or who travel, who still want to keep a number 'warm' while they lead a busy damn life. Makes no sense to just ditch a # just because the guy can't get with the woman straight away, or to be a needy bitch and say 'I'm going travelling for 3 months but why don't we get together when I get back'. What you want to do is text her once in a while to keep you fresh in her memory and keep her invested for when you're NOT busy. Fuck this 'texting is ONLY for setting dates' crap.
next video should be: How to ask a girl’s number on social media (or something that would guarantee it)
Thanks for the video
If you have her social media why do you need her number?
@@Willdostyles you’re right, this was 10 months ago. I learned.
what if you've already set a date, but you can't meet for quite a while due to reasons like quarantine? Should you just be chill about it or should you do something?
You are giving very practical experiences and examples from reality of life..I love your contents.I am your subscriber from Himachal Pradesh (India).
Uhhhhhh ! Some expert are telling not to text first to Attract and make her think of us and now you are saying to text first ( what is happening ? ) I didn't understand 😪🙄
Reply please 🙏😪
Text first
Tripp what if the girl stays in another country, how should I get to know her.
Seems that texting is a lot more personal than social media. Which means it adds more pressure to the woman.
I think women are drawn to mystery. When you text a girl with unintentional or uncertain motives I feel it turns her off.
An example is I met a girl at work, we chatted for a bit (some very light flirting), she ended up asking me to follow her instagram. I waited a day, looked her up, followed her. Waited another day, and sent her a DM that said this. “Let’s hang out sometime.”
She re’d “that would be awesome...”
I re’d “come to [my work place] tomorrow and ask me what I’m doing after work. 😉”
*emoji violation!!!
But... she re’d “Okay. :)”
Notice she didn’t use an exact emoji? But she intentionally smily faced using text?
Anyway, hope this helps. Would like to hear your thoughts on this interaction.
How was hanging out with the chick??
1. Don’t wait for her to text you when you initially get her number.
2. Only use text messaging (sms) to ask her out
3. Don’t text them to get to know them (attraction isn’t built over text)
4. Don’t send too many emojis
5. If you don’t have her number, try to get her number.
Are you on drugs ?
No responsible adults are dating off the internet or casual meets in the current covid era
Hopefully you made this video before the current situation and just now released it.
It’s for when this is over. Obviously
Tripp Advice Appreciate that! Not sure when this is over. Depends on one’s location and age, etc. Most fun thing I’ve done is watching the same movie and texting occasionally notes laughter etc. and doing a phone call after. Additionally, doing a phone call over a a few drinks and texting funny memes. Maybe this stuff will mess up the future ? It’s working fun for now.
Yea, don't text women at all. Stay on your purpose.
According to rule 2 and 3...
Man..Sometimes It looks like I am having a date with them by texting..chatting forever getting to know each other and all... no good lol
What's wrong WhatsApp that's how people text in my country
I use lots of emojies 😂🍭 But girls like it 🙄 They are interested in texting me 😏 So I dont think so as you say 😴😪 Girls do like emojies 😋 I'm not agreeing with you for that 😞🍭😏
😂😂
@@nikeshwaghmare9841 Isnt it true?😒😪😂
Cringe 😬
Let me help you with the emoji's. It's NOT MASCULINE. That's what it is. It's childish AND a sign of INSECURITY.
@@793Force I'm impressed.
@@793Force it does sound very insecure but I definitely agree emojis aren’t masculine lmao
First to watch this...
most women I met was through texting them on some app so dont listen to this crazy guy
This video blew me away😂. I wasted so much time texting a girl to get to know her to get a date. All I had to do was follow these rules. I'm a try this from now on