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Awesome video with details Trip. In my opinion, I no longer 't think too hard of the fact if she responds or not, do what you have to do to set things up. If she doesn't respond, no big deal, just let it be for the time being, go to the next chick. The one who didn't respond will come back 50% of time comes back if you don't chase. That's my experience. This may vary from person to person based on the interactions you had. Don't take my word. Trip knows for sure lot better than me.
It means she doesn't like you. Period. If she likes you, she'd be going out of her way to be able to communicate with you regardless of anything else that may be going on in her life. Move on.
It depends. Sometiemes she does like you, or at least she used to, but kinda felt dumped or humilated because you didn't give her what she wants. So in order to take control back, she acts like this. Some narcissistic girls wait from you some boldy move, like calling her to ask to see her, instead of texting her. I know both cases first hand.
My goodness this stuff feels so basic but it's really good to hear somebody say it because it's kinda terrible to just go off your own judgement. Like sure, sometimes you will figure it out or know better than to do these things (like don't ask her if she's seen it, don't call her if she hasn't responded) but sometimes you won't!
I just watched you video from 6 years ago about recovering from being too needy. Old video so I thought I’d comment here… So my previous relationship of 3 years was with a high anxiety girl and I had to learn to be quite responsive in texts and explain when I didn’t respond for long periods… This new girl (~2 months now) also told me she’s very high in anxiety so I thought okay, easy I was basically trained/conditioned in how to communicate with high anxiety girls.. looks like that was NOT what this girl wanted/needed and she’s now very short and distant. I didn’t reply to her last text, which was short and uninterested, and have completely cut myself off.. I’m so pissed haha, idk if I could explain this or it would just make it worse. edit: also she liked my insta story yesterday, wtf am I supposed to do with that info.
The phenomenon I have noticed is that very often when she doesn't respond and you don't send a follow up text, she will text you out of the blue 6 weeks later and act as if nothing happened. Usually it's a way of saying, Hey you didn't signal that you wanted to be a beta orbiter so maybe you are more alpha than I thought.
It's not about who's fault. It's about taking responsability. Most women, if not all of them, behave pretty the same way. Their sweetness, morals, generosity, kindness, respect kick in only with the men they're interested in. Women have no problem begging and acting like slaves/sl*ts, if they're hooked emotionally. Do not expect some logical, moral behavior if it's the other case around. So this video is about reading the signals and acting the right way according to those signals.
What if you've been in an exclusive relationship with a woman for over 6 months and she stops texting and calling? And doesn't respond for hours after I text her?
Good stuff... but missing a crucial part... "playing hard to get." She may be totally into you, but wants to withhold her response to see your reaction!
@@fallenone4215 24 hrs and you're already fretting??!! If she sees that you'll already lower your value and not pass the independence test. Wait it out. Sometimes mine are super into me and then pull back even for a week to see if I'll squirm. Whatever you do wait it out. Be strong. I don't care how hot she is. Women's timeline is about 10% of the speed of ours so slow your shit down bruv
There is one thing here I think you got wrong and it sucks because you never know if this is happening. I have personally had people send me messages that didn't hit my phone for, no lie 12 hours. This tends to happen in my area alot. I think its due to their being hills everywhere. Pittsburgh is a pretty hilly city. I imagine Denver is too. This has happened even with my own family texting me. Sometimes it really MIGHT be that your text was not recieved. And what REALLY REALLY sucks is asking about it still makes you look every bit the simp, EVEN THOUGH the loss of bandwith is a genuine thing in some places.
@@matthewlemke5310 I think its more the hilly and woodsy area I live in. Western Pa has lots of obstructions I don't think any cell service can possibly be 100% reliable around here.
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Awesome video with details Trip. In my opinion, I no longer 't think too hard of the fact if she responds or not, do what you have to do to set things up. If she doesn't respond, no big deal, just let it be for the time being, go to the next chick. The one who didn't respond will come back 50% of time comes back if you don't chase. That's my experience. This may vary from person to person based on the interactions you had. Don't take my word. Trip knows for sure lot better than me.
Holy shit. This is more than “you need to be on your purpose” and an actual articulate conversation.
Excellent video. I've seen these mistakes with friends.
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Very good video. Keep more like this coming, Tripp.
They are!
It means she doesn't like you. Period. If she likes you, she'd be going out of her way to be able to communicate with you regardless of anything else that may be going on in her life. Move on.
Exactly. “If she wanted to, she would” is the motto a single man should always remember.
It depends. Sometiemes she does like you, or at least she used to, but kinda felt dumped or humilated because you didn't give her what she wants. So in order to take control back, she acts like this. Some narcissistic girls wait from you some boldy move, like calling her to ask to see her, instead of texting her. I know both cases first hand.
Nope. Not always that simple.
Only answer
My goodness this stuff feels so basic but it's really good to hear somebody say it because it's kinda terrible to just go off your own judgement.
Like sure, sometimes you will figure it out or know better than to do these things (like don't ask her if she's seen it, don't call her if she hasn't responded) but sometimes you won't!
I just watched you video from 6 years ago about recovering from being too needy. Old video so I thought I’d comment here…
So my previous relationship of 3 years was with a high anxiety girl and I had to learn to be quite responsive in texts and explain when I didn’t respond for long periods… This new girl (~2 months now) also told me she’s very high in anxiety so I thought okay, easy I was basically trained/conditioned in how to communicate with high anxiety girls.. looks like that was NOT what this girl wanted/needed and she’s now very short and distant. I didn’t reply to her last text, which was short and uninterested, and have completely cut myself off.. I’m so pissed haha, idk if I could explain this or it would just make it worse.
edit: also she liked my insta story yesterday, wtf am I supposed to do with that info.
The worst possible text you can send after not getting responses: Are you dead?
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i'm gonna try that one thanks Waba
@@itaekumba33cool stuff man
😂😂 I'm 💀
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Great video Tripp!!
The phenomenon I have noticed is that very often when she doesn't respond and you don't send a follow up text, she will text you out of the blue 6 weeks later and act as if nothing happened. Usually it's a way of saying, Hey you didn't signal that you wanted to be a beta orbiter so maybe you are more alpha than I thought.
40 minutes video could be done in 5 minutes
Hi Tripp where should I take my girlfriend on a first date
How is she your girlfriend if you’ve never gone out on a date?
I delete numbers and threads after I send a text
Damn. I have a pretty big ego and I'm not at that point. Respect player.
Absolutely Right.
good advice
Can you add time stamps thanks
Here’s a question what happens if you don’t have other females to text and your throwing you self out there to communicate with female ?
What do you think the answer to your question should be?
Why does it have to be the man’s fault? Why can’t it be a low self esteem woman who can’t accept something meaningful? Why should a man lower himself
It's not about who's fault. It's about taking responsability. Most women, if not all of them, behave pretty the same way. Their sweetness, morals, generosity, kindness, respect kick in only with the men they're interested in. Women have no problem begging and acting like slaves/sl*ts, if they're hooked emotionally. Do not expect some logical, moral behavior if it's the other case around. So this video is about reading the signals and acting the right way according to those signals.
Why work on yourself when you can blame others? 😂
@@matthewlemke5310 exactly
@@matthewlemke5310 exactly, that’s the work of a narcissist
What if you've been in an exclusive relationship with a woman for over 6 months and she stops texting and calling? And doesn't respond for hours after I text her?
Cheating. No question
No body talk in the phone no more grandpa
Good stuff... but missing a crucial part... "playing hard to get." She may be totally into you, but wants to withhold her response to see your reaction!
😂 that's why nowadays women are quantum creatures
How long is long.... dude this chick im writing with, she initiated everything and now after I asked her out no response for over 24 hour. Fuck that.
@@fallenone4215 24 hrs and you're already fretting??!! If she sees that you'll already lower your value and not pass the independence test. Wait it out. Sometimes mine are super into me and then pull back even for a week to see if I'll squirm. Whatever you do wait it out. Be strong. I don't care how hot she is. Women's timeline is about 10% of the speed of ours so slow your shit down bruv
@@fallenone4215 I replied but it got erased. Just be a man and wait it out bruv. Stay strong
I wish EVERY man could see this!!!
Just stop texting. She wants to be a child just ignore her childish games
There is one thing here I think you got wrong and it sucks because you never know if this is happening. I have personally had people send me messages that didn't hit my phone for, no lie 12 hours. This tends to happen in my area alot. I think its due to their being hills everywhere. Pittsburgh is a pretty hilly city. I imagine Denver is too. This has happened even with my own family texting me.
Sometimes it really MIGHT be that your text was not recieved. And what REALLY REALLY sucks is asking about it still makes you look every bit the simp, EVEN THOUGH the loss of bandwith is a genuine thing in some places.
Sounds like you need a new cellphone provider.
@@matthewlemke5310 I think its more the hilly and woodsy area I live in. Western Pa has lots of obstructions I don't think any cell service can possibly be 100% reliable around here.
Bros, shes not into you.. it's hard. Get over it.
is 2 years too late ?
RIP
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