Text THIS Right Now To The Girl You're Talking To
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
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I've seen so many guys lose their one and only opportunity with THE GIRL WHO COULD'VE BEEN THE ONE all because they didn't know how to take the interaction from texting to going on an actual date. So today I'm going to share with you the very same method I used not that long ago.
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*For all of you guys: Pay attention how Tripp says not the first time but many times that he uses the word "Let's" and not would you like or some bullshit. The reason why is that you show her your dominance with it as a leader...* P.S. great video Tripp as always!
7:21 he literally said "would you want"
@@AdityaBolt you didn't get the idea, the time you mentioned it is different circumstance here, he also wrote to her like - it may sound random... thats because he didn't have the dating thing with her yet. I was talking about 2:20 actually.
Tripp advises this because you should not be asking a girl if she wants to do something. You got to invite her into your life, the life that you control. The moment you ask a girl out you put all the control of the situation into her hands. He wants you to change the narrative because questions imply uncertainty in the sense that you don't know if she would go out with you until she answers the question. Statements that start with "Let's" show encouragement and imply that you know she would want to go out with you because you know your own value and that you want confirmation that she can make it work. There is a huge difference. If a girl ever denies your encouragement or rejects your offer then you should always continue the conversation with the mindset of a "high value" man value by questioning her response and asking if she is sure about her decline to your proposal. Always know your value guys, you are the prize and the sooner you convince yourself that the better your results will be in the near future.
Ed Veras I do like the angle of challenging her decision to deny the offer. Tripp does in fact ‘ask’ in the actual in-field text message example, however.
@@joesandstrom4111 Yes it works great and you should always keep the same mindset and never alter it in order to stand your ground. It shows her how secure you are of yourself and the situation, which can be perceived as "attractive" to her. Ye I noticed that Tripp does ask, I assumed the comment before mine was correct but I guess it wasn't. All I wrote was my own reasoning.
This is not a bad start. But for more advanced game, just say “let’s grab some coffee, I’m free (whatever day) and (whatever day).”
I get way better results when I don’t ask anything and just tell them what I want. I think this shows more assertiveness, confidence, and dominance.
If she says those days don’t work for her without giving a reason, or doesn’t give any alternatives, she’s not interested and she’s wasting your time.
Now you can move on to the next
Absolutely, I totally agree. Asking does have it's place since it shows that you respect her time and that you're considerate, and it's also a way to show her that you have other things going on in life. Like "Hey would you wanna get coffee on wednesday? I'm busy during the weekend but would love to see you wednesday at 3". Telling them straight up what you want/wanna do shows all the qualities you mentioned and will work very well with most girls. I've had great success so far with the girl I've been talking to/seeing (since february) with a combination of both methods with more emphasies on the more assertive side. 70-30 or 80-20 procent rule works well with this :) Solid video Tripp!
I'm getting a coffee, you're free to come with me is the right vibe. It's like this is going to happen with or without you, but you're free to join in on the fun
They texting buddies cause they are scared to lead things forward the right way
Scarcity mindset
Texting buddies isn’t scarcity mindset. Its something entirely different...
yes you are right but all girls that we text arent meant to be a date/gf can be just friendship too
If you're doing half of these steps, she probably isn't interested lol.
Loved this video... thanks for the GREAT advice.
" it took you longer than I expect it" ..... How many time have i heard this line from girls I dated. Guys, do not overthink this or second guess yourself, go for the "kill", ask her out..... Worst case scenario, she says : " no".....great video
This doesn’t always work. Some form of rapport needs to be built first before going straight for the “kill”. We are humans, not animals. You can’t just go up to random girl on the street and go for the “kill” by kissing her for example. That’s just a recipe for disaster and a lawsuit.
"dear (insert name here), sorry about your accident/loss. i will give some space to recover/grieve. call me when you feel better."
who are you, chazz from wedding crashers? "Grief is nature's most powerful aphrodisiac."
The purpose of a hammer is to smash things
Anyone else notice how every time a woman cheats it’s never her fault? Like, ever? There’s always someone to blame or some underlying issue used to justify cheating, and the worst part is it always works😒
Thanks, Trip! pasting below in public interest -
Hey , its , what's your schedule like this week? Lets grab a
Great what's your schedule like this / next week?
Hey, I know this is random, but do you want to grab a drink / coffee some time?
C - Close
A - Ask A Question --- any
.....preferably...stop...here
R - Remind Her Why She Likes You - why it first clicked
E - Eliminate Excuses - sneaky statement to induce reply... back to close
Sequence
Wish it was that clean and easy
Lot girls make you jump through hoops and not sure maybe excuses
well ya your right but they keep on flaking so i gave up and just focus on myself
Thanks Tripp, with this quarentine stuff at a point we all became textbuddies somehow...
Text buddies or ghosts. F the ‘Rona!
Two days ago I was checking a six months old pic of my crush on Instagram & I liked one of her comment on that pic by mistake, I realized it immediately & unliked that, now a couple of hours later she texted "stalking me?"
How to deal with this situation effectively??
gaurav gautam say, oh yeas you totally caught me as I I had nothing better to do.
Say, “got your attention, let’s smash!”
P.s. I wouldn’t actually say that, but make it fun and seem like that was your plan, to grab her attention. Because it worked and makes you a winner.
Makes sense to me. I am still trying to understand the wallpaper choice with all the parrots 🦜. That’s some busy, bright wall coverings. I thought you might have been in a pet shop or parrot sanctuary. I’m not hating on it, and mean no disrespect. I just found it to be a trip, Tripp. Love your channel. I guarantee that you have had a positive impact on more people than you might realise. You’re the still the man! (Except now you’re also the man with the crazy parrot wallpaper.😂👍🏻
But its quarantine now, no one is down to come out, what can we do about that?
Drink coffee with yourself 😄
Almost 3 months I do that
Have some drinks at the park and enjoy the scenery...worked for me😊
Why do I keep getting attracted to girls with broken phones.
Because I work at T mobile
😂
😂😂😂😂😄😄😄
Can i say "Hey, i know this is random but would you like to go to the beach?"
Never ask a girl like "would you like"... Use *Let's* go to the beach instead. Tripp mentions this many times, so pay attention buddy.
@@Dilidjent So I'll be more assertive i guess
@@jonathan-py7yd yes. Be confident as well
You guys do realize later in the video with the text message example he ‘asks’ “would you want to grab a drink sometime?” and some women don’t want to be commanded.
Tripp, I confused you for Tai Lopez in the thumbnail of this clip lol
Facts
Legit thought it was the "this is my garage video"
Oh shit, now I see it. Hahaha.
Good take
So when do we mention the hammer?
I haven't been on a date in over 4 years.
And it's been over 4 years since I've been to Olive Garden, so do you want to Olive MY Garden? ;)
I like the first part, that definitely works. The C.A.R.E thing seems a bit desperate.
Hey I’ve been talking to this girl for a while we hit it off went out,got physical with each other and everything was going well but then out of nowhere she started being distant and I noticed she wasn’t giving the same energy so I just stopped talking to her completely but I can’t keep her off my mind any advice?
really liked girl's commentary
Ahhah its easy to tes this texting methode using a profile with 2-3K or more followers, pls man think about it we are not popular...atleast im not
The way it looks like, women lose interest over or through texting a lot more than the other way around, it's much easier for a man to make a woman turned off through texting than the other way around
A wise man once said: the phone is for setting dates.
More trials and rounds of games than Olympics. Miss when cells did not exist u asked and they said yes or no. Text was worst thing to happen to humans
Ok I tried exactly what you said. She texted me back are you trying to use that care crap on me. She also said I blew it cause I'm not being genuine and now she blocked my number. What should I do now? I blew it....Why me
NEXT!
See getting blocked as a gift. I've been led on before and I wish I got blocked at the beginning to prevent it all. She sounds like a bitch but saved you a lot of grief by ending things, get back out there bro. I bet you like 99% of girls won't know what CARE is and you just got really unlucky.
We must have met the same girl.
Also, how do you know she blocked you? Did you call her after that?
That CARE Sequence is on point 👍
I do like to initially asked what their schedule is like. I like to set a specific day if she just says she pretty free or flexible. Then you have to set the day. Don't ask her to do that.
Texting doesnt work for me.
Theyre too occupied with the girly l8fe
What if you swap numbers on tinder. And she turns round and says she likes to talk for about a week first before agreeing to meet 😴
Online dating is shit. It’s almost impossible to get a date right away unless you’re in the 1%. They get bored with building rapport and if you try to have fun banter or flirt they assume you’re a douche player or an ego feeder. There’s no way to judge character, body language, or confidence. Apps are literally the worst and it makes no sense to put up oneself through ghost after ghost.
Thought the title said Throw this to the girl you're talking to.
What I like about this channel is that you actually communicate and interact with the viewers
Saw the thumbnail, texted her a hammer emoji.
only text her to set up dates
You Have Helped A Lot :D ^_^
But quarantine
I swear a girl sent me this exact message last week.
Iam blocked brother 😓🤢🤣🤣🤣🤣but still watching this😂😂😂
Learning for the next future girlfriend
Hi tripp, I know this is not what you do in your channel, But can you please do a reaction video in the movie "500 days of summer" and kindly tell us your opinion. Thanks.
hey tripp i received an email yesterday from a women i think that might add good content for a follow up vlog to this vlog... mike
It's doubtful I'll be able to/want to meet up with anyone for months....for obvious reasons
When Megan said: "What's the point? What do I want another pen-pal" I was like WOW that's harsh, she is totally rtight!!
Ofc my first date coach will have a 10/10 gf, hope you both get married one day
thanks
Amazing
I wanna be Tripp's texting buffy
It's better to use a closing 'chain' or a 'yes ladder' - ask her a question like do you like coffee, ask another that makes her qualify herself, like 'are you a risk taker?' Then ask her out. She's already said yes to two things/qualifies hersekf/invested, so she probably won't say no.
Karl West Hahah!!!!!! Truth, brother. And that risk taker line in the initial comment is weak and cheesy.
True
i dont need to watch this I just flap my wings and she get
If she wants to be in relationship but sees u as a friend. Then what to do?
walk away
@@kc270352 But I want to prove to me tht I am not loser.
Who just easily walk away.
Run away
Comments but no likes
Ignore her, don’t chase. Let her chase you, if she doesn’t. There’s plenty more women out there.
👍
True story :
Me : Hey Megan, it's Chaitanya.
What's your scheduled like this week?
Let's grab a coffee.
Megan : Hopefully after an year!!!
Coz we live continents away! 🙄
I'll be visiting you the next year, you can take me out!! ☺️🥰.
Dayum this distance!!
I agree with this, but I don’t feel like these text examples make any sense in the current state of the world. It’s not relatable information right now, or anytime soon. “Wanna grab a drink or coffee?” Where? More like: “Wanna catch some Covid?” It comes across desperate and careless to try to pull this at the moment. Defenses are up. “Hey! were you at the market? You know...the person with a mask...” Most likely anything you ask or bring up with social distancing involved will only spur a text buddy exchange. It just doesn’t make sense...
Wait a few months
Tripp Advice Agreed. I just think the title of the video is misleading because it says “text this right now.” Thanks for chiming in.
I did the R and she still didn't respond
man dis alota work ....lol
What if it is a ldr??
Great explanation and also great video Tripp.
We most certainly will
I like the shorts
6:23 example
Good video
I really needed that, I’m talking to girl from tinder and we have a set date in late June but I’m a bit confused about what to do with her in the meantime
Face time, u could play some games as well. There’s an app called house party so you could get some of hers and ur friends to join if youre both down
Don't do anything you already have the date
@@nmg5100 i know what you're saying. And you're right. But, i think there's like a grey area in that rule with his situation. Cause I've lost a shot with more than a couple girls like that. The date's too far away. She'll think he lost interest. And be like oh well. And forget him. Trust me
@@LDarlong i don't know about that lol
When June comes around, that’s when they ghost.
Anything that puts you in a scenario where you are doing something you wouldn't want to do puts you at a disadvantage. I hate texting so I try to do it as least as possible. Every time I have ever tried to text a girl to try and build attraction like you've said has ALWAYS ended in a ghost because I never enjoy when I text and it shows. Secured a lot more dates just being forward about wanting to go out.