I was attracted to a woman that put me in the friendzone. I'm doing no contact not because I want to get her to see me as more than a friend, but because there's no chance of anything happening and I need to cut off all contact and focus on women that like me. There are 4 billion women on this planet whats the point of hanging around ONE woman waiting? Being in the friendzone is the most degrading, time wasting things that can happen to a guy and no she will not wake up one day and fall in love with you, that doesnt happen in reality.
Got my ex back through no contact. When she dumped me I simply said nothing, no reaction no tears, got up and left. 3 weeks later texting me that she misses me and needs me in her life. Eventually we start dating again, only to break up a few months later. Never heard from her again. I often wonder if it's worth taking an ex back.
From a woman’s perspective, no contact works every time. No matter who dumped who. I recently did it unintentionally to move on and heal but it was NOT to try to get him back first. My attraction for him didn’t change at all. Usually attraction is never the root issue for the breakup. However, If you want to get an ex back, you have to understand why you two broke up, consciously work on starting a NEW relationship (because the last one was a flop) with each other, so you don’t breakup again. If that’s not the goal, use no contact to move on and find someone new and don’t care if she comes back or not.
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If you are doing it to get an ex back it is imperative that you use the no contact rule to completely change your attitude and mindset so that when you re-enter the relationshop you do so with a different perspective which will prevent you from repeating the same experiences again.
1. Remove all pictures, videos of her or you together 2. Realise she exists as a fantasy 3. Always keep in mind the worst and nastiest things she did to you and your relationship. 4. If you feel you don’t want to ever see her again, you made it.
worked for me man, only 7 days into no contact her attitude has changed completely calling me non stop crying saying she misses me and she loves me, me met up and talked and it was so nice, just letting her do the chasing now and playing it cool. thanks!
OMG! This is the best advice about no contact ever. I’m a girl btw. You are so right...eventually you will be forced to go into no contact anyway...as the relationship gets worse or you meet someone better. So why wait, do it now and save time. Also the better you break away from this person he/she will soon just become a distant memory saving you from agonising over the why’s and blame etc. Thank you so much ❤️.
*When the no contact bullshit starts: delete them from your contact list; and give them the silent treatment forever.* *Don't be a psychological/emotional test dummy for women.*
I think Tripp does an excellent job explaining what no contact is really about here. It USUALLY makes the other person comes back but that's not REALLY the point of it - the point of it is for your OWN mental healthy and happiness. Girls can drop a relationship for ANY number of emotional reasons - a guy walking away is the most masculine thing he can do.
So true. I'm on day 58 and I'm really feeling better about myself and not thinking about my ex anymore in a painful way. We were together 4 years and she left me for our neighbor and moved in with him after 2 months. That'll probably crash and burn because she didn't take time for herself and self reflect. I've had time to heal and self reflect and I feel great being single and it's fun to have these other women flirt and have fun with me. I'm also getting so good at no contact that I'm using it on a friend of 3 years because there's a lot of games she's playing and I'm not going to be the backup QB option for her. I'm the starter and if she's wasting my time, then it's time to move on as well so I can keep my focus on people who do appreciate my value. 15 days with that one. No longer in simp mode
Underclass H3r0 Had a similar situation. With GF for 3 years then caught her texting and meeting up with another guy. Within a few days of moving out, she already had him over. It truly demonstrates the character of the person and how thankful we should be that it happened prior to marriage or children. My advice would be to stop counting the days and to stay off these videos if they become a habit for you. I’m in month 4 and I still long for her at times, but I’m much better off now
I was watching this tripp, it spoke to me so well. Seven months i was with Jessica, i decided myself to use the complete " no contact" im going through a heartache. She might still call me, she has in the past. Im a college student, 37 years old. Have no children, single guy. I really feel like giving up on relationships.
During this quarantine and prolonged self isolation, I was cheated on, long distance. Been doing no contact for a week. It’s been challenging. The memory hasn’t faded... it’s difficult to keep the NCR during this quarantine, with so much government restrictions. No gym, most friends not willing to go out on walks, not being able to work on myself outside of the home.... I hope No contact works in the long run because I’ve never experienced this kind of devastation before... thank you for sharing your insight on this process.
Stay strong, I feel you. I wasn't cheated on. But my ex is seeing someone else after being together 4 years and I really do love her. Some days are easy and some are hard. I cannot wait for normality to be with us again. Because being in lockdown don't help because that pain is there and that's all you can think about. Stay well
I do not believe in no contact for 30 days! Obviously, if they weren't interest 30 days ago, what's to say they will be 30 days later? No, I never circle back. It tells them I'm pathetic and desperate and those are two things I'm not! If they're not interested, they aren't interested....PERIOD! People complicate shit way too much
It was almost a year-and-a-half ago when my my first ex girlfriend cheated on me and I did the no contact thing for my own well-being. I blocked her out from everything a part of my life. I want to get back with her during the six-month of the break up but then I didn't want to do that anymore because if someone you really loved you and cared about you they wouldn't lie or treat you harshly for something they did or give no fuks on your feelings. No I'm technically 6 months into my new relationship with someone that actually cares about me and is everything I wanted. I wouldn't be where I'm at because of the no contact rule.
This used to be called the 3 month rule. Before cell phones I messed up w/a girl. I got jealous & told her I never wanted to see her again. Broke her heart then regretted it. She was always busy after that & going out w/her friends & dating. 3 months later I called her & asked her out for Friday night. When she asked me what we were going to do, I said go to the hotel. She was taken aback but accepted. So this works!!! Either you will have moved on or she. So this is a win-win...!!! Time will heal both of you & if there's still a spark. Hit it or quit it!!!
One of THE BEST explanations of the no contact rule that I have ever heard within this last month while on UA-cam lol. Very clear, straight forward and understandable. Thank you!
The trauma bond between cluster B personalities, like narcissistic personality disorder and either codependents or just good hearted empathetic people is like a junkie detoxing from opiates. What may be perceived as love or a soul mate connection is actually this trauma bond. It’s a physical addiction. Therefore, if you mentalize what’s actually happening in the break up, you may be able to persist in the no contact solution better. You “love” the addiction, not necessarily the person.
For me, no contact is realising that the person I was with isn't good for me and not worth pining over. It's very common to not want your ex after they come back or to put her as a booty call while you pursue better options.
@@paolanamuncura8879 It means contacts with her is strictly for sexual purposes(Friends with benefits/FK buddy/hook up/flings). No chance of getting back together and entering a serious relationship.
Last night she clicked like on one of my posts for the first time in several months. I know she's just trying to lure me and I'm not taking the bait. She's dead to me until she makes a real effort.
i hadnt't watched any of your videos for years...came to check it out during these quarentine. I been missing out. Your advices helped me so much in 2015 and 2016... thanks so much man! I'm really enjoying the new stuff man!
I broke no contact after 2 days to send an apology message for the way I acted during the breakup and it felt like I was back to square 1 after that, I regret breaking it. so I’m learning if no contact is gonna do anything it’s gonna help me move on, if he comes back in the process then that’s good too.
@@IntoTheWild361 he just got in a new relationship after not even 2 months and we were together for 6 years. I’m thinking it’s a rebound but I guess I’ll never know..
She wanted “space” but wanted to keep in touch. I respected her wishes but said no to staying in touch. No that I’m taking a step back I can see much more clearly - dodged a real bullet there.
No contact does NOT work. He now thinks I cut him off when he “needed me” the most, but I even told him I need to distance myself bc I needed time to get over him and couldn’t be friends with him at that time... and now he doesn’t want to speak to me bc I “shut him out” when I really just needed time to heal
You mention "he needed you". NC by definition, I believe- is after a Breakup. Not when you pull away after an argument or WTV happened between you two. Perhaps re-evaluate the situation. Love × peace. ♡●
The last girl I feel I got really obsessed with, long story short (she hinted on wanting to get together, but bad timing with things happened, she got tired of waiting, starting seeing other guys, I got jelous and cut things off) last time I looked at her facebook page and she's now engaged.... Big shot to the heart, and my brain has been throwing waves of regret for a few months.... But somehing strange happened last week. I drove a truck with some platforms and had one of my beautiful, very sexy coworkers ride with me to pick up these platforms and drop them off at the theater. We talked the whole drive and I had a lot of fun talking with her.... But I get the sense that since we occasionally work together (I freelance with this company from time to time) that asking her out would be a bad idea.... But that interaction has oddly enough got me thinking about this other girl I went on 1 date with last December I met on facebook dating. She lives close to me and I've been thinking about calling her up and see if she would like to go for a walk since it's getting warmer out.... Although, the coronavirus might make it a hard sell to go outside right now.... But it feels good that an interaction with a beautiful coworker has been igniting some interest for another girl....
Danny Drust bruh. Just be REAL WITH HER. Tell her you think she’s sexy! Woman know when you’re attracted to them, the want HONESTY. Stop tip toeing and TELL HER SHES HOT
Invite any girl out who you think is attractive or just has cool personality. Never be affraid to find them hot,attractive etc. Never...if it goes nowehere,that's fine to.
I’m horrible at break ups for sure especially when i feel a girl is about to leave me i try to communicate and maybe even blow her up but the minute she breaks up with me i strictly do no contact and I’m proud to say i stuck by it since i discovered this and the impact it has
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@@albertotoribio5723 bro it's over a 7 month relationship down the drain she deactivated her social media and blocked me and changed her number... . This woman cheated on me with her baby daddy and I found out
No contact pushed my ex away :( 2 weeks ago we broke up. A few days into NC, he text me. Few times and I answered respectfully and then a week later I went to reach out since I felt bad I wasn’t reciprocating only to find out he blocked me from texting him. I’m devastated. I never harassed him or reached out and now I’m blocked. I think his ego made him block me.
I just began no contact. However this girl is 2 of my college classes. So I we will have to see each other. However, I am going to act like she is another person in the room and not engage in any eye contact, like we are strangers. I don’t expect anything magical to happen.
Naturally, am an introvert and i have a small circle of friends. No contact worked on my friends after i realized they were only using me when its convinient to them....i went radio silent and they kept contacting me now and again.
Thank you so much. Your advice is really beneficial I am going through this face right now and it is very hard. But I am determined to fight it not just for getting him back but for my own self -esteem God bless you.
lol got this girls number I work with. We talked back and forth over the phone for a few weeks, asked her on a date. She canceled on me 30 minutes before the date. Acted like it was all good and took her off my social media/blocked her. Now I catch her staring at me all the time at work, and its a great feeling. Wish I felt bad, I gave her a chance and she didn't care enough.
Going through this..we were together for 1.5 years then the last 2 months she was very distant,I ended it now it's been 3 months no contact...losing hope fellas
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this is the best thing ever. do this and in a less then a year, you'll will be unrecognizable -> i got new car, job in my profession, had a girl, traveled... this is the deal, just belive in yourself and be patient. patience. ups and downs, but patiance.. peace
No contact has NEVER worked for me. EVER!! It's actually pretty bad. They get hurt and feel they deserve better treatment and then it's no recovery after the bad feelings.But also they move on to another interest which usually makes gives them good feelings from the bad feelings you give them of no contact. This is BS and lots of games
Mehwish Owais usually it’s when guys over-invested in the relationship. They stopped pursuing their other missions in life. The breakup is then much more traumatic because they lose a large portion of their purpose. Guys with a strong purpose can then redirect their energy away from the relationship and back towards pursuing their goals.
She says she prefers to go back to normal be cool and friends again and have me there I never replied i don’t want to speak to her she said she didn’t want to lose me
No contact is not an extreme, it's what people used to do for hundreds of years before phones, it used to be a normal thing not to see your ex after a breakup, I don't know why people call it extreme
Fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone else. No one is irreplaceable. Learn from past mistakes it just gets better because you are smarter.
To all guys out there this works 100 percnet she did it to me i went crazy looking for her and then i realize why not use no contact and then tables turned it works hehe also most important of all is improve your looks and evolve that will make her regret and want to chase you again...
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95% it doesn't work...🙏🙏🙏 5% chances.... of course no contact work...my ex contacted me after two years yet don't expect anything...it doesn't work....you will end up hurting more...just move on and never contact untill you move on and find some special...you cannot be friend with your ex untill you find some one and move on...
did you pull that 95% 5% figure out of your ass? mate No contact is the #1 way to re attract someone, most of the legit relationship coaches swear by no contact, if I had to put a % to it I would say it works 8/10 to re attract your ex but results would be relationship specific
Trying this now with a girlfriend from abroad. I wanted to be with her long term but she had hurt me by not wanting it, made it a casual only type thing when I visited. If nothing else I’m trying to move on by ignoring her.
Hello. My pregnant girlfriend and I had a fight I said something that now I know was wrong. I tried calling her but she's not responding I've sent messages with no luck. Do you thing a no contact would be my only option?
bibi bibi just give her space for a few days and than try to contact. It would be weird if she keeps ignoring you while she’s pregnant. You didn’t break up yet
The single worst feeling I ever had in my life,is when I saw my ex on social media with another guy. I was in my early 20's and she broke up with me after 2 years without actually giving me any reason. It was a horrible break up all together ( much later on,she apologized for all of this ) but beacsue I didn't know better,I still kept some hope and wanted to give her some space and reach out later on.And that was also the reason I didn't delete her from social media. 3 months pass by and I see a photo of her with another dude. Is one of those moments that I will never forget. If I deleted her social profile,and just heard she was with another guy it would be much easier. So that's one thing you absolutly have to do as soon as you break up. Let them go,give them all the space they need,delete them from social media and move..on. Is that simple.
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It works but it’s like a 10% chance most people fuck it up, and chip is right it’s usually not worth trying to get a ex back. One of the two of you won’t feel the same regardless of how things ended.
What happens if both ex-partners listen to the same advises and go both no-contact? Like, really. I have the feeling that is what my husband, who just moved out, is doing with me right now and IDK how to act. :(
@Shield Liger Yeah that has been on my mind for a while since I love listening to Jocko. I am currently doing a lot of courses to better myself in my job and that has helped. Working on ones' self is the best way to go but it needs something like martial arts which is more engaging and physically active.
Yes men. You are the prize. Do not forget that. Unfortunately, you've gotta do the scorched earth tactic in instances like this. No phone calls, texts, delete social media connections and any apps or w/e you guys shared. Because women that do this want their cake and eat it too. You pretty much need to ninja vanish completely and indefinitely with this person and go see someone else and do something else. Guaranteed that there is someone already eyeing and looking to treat you like a king.
Everytime I try to do the ano contact I always failed because im missing him .. and now I deleted his number i blocked him on social media so that I will not attempt to contact him do you think this is a good Idea?
Some time forgetting ex is not easy things to do for some people 😔.. I am married now but still i go alone to those places where me and my ex met and had spent time together.
This is the best explanation for me about No Contact. Tnx for this. I feel good.
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I was attracted to a woman that put me in the friendzone. I'm doing no contact not because I want to get her to see me as more than a friend, but because there's no chance of anything happening and I need to cut off all contact and focus on women that like me. There are 4 billion women on this planet whats the point of hanging around ONE woman waiting?
Being in the friendzone is the most degrading, time wasting things that can happen to a guy and no she will not wake up one day and fall in love with you, that doesnt happen in reality.
No matter if you want your ex back or not no contact is always the best way to go.
Electronite1337 it's been a year since no contact, still hurts. lol
@@rrrrrrraaaa9 Yeah I understand, keep strong :)
Electronite1337 honestly it’s good to not have pain but only relief it’s good for your health
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Been in no contact for ten years now , I think it might be working
Haha. That's funny bro
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The no contact mostly helps you to move on!
And that's great to be honest lol if someone makes you no contact them, then this person is not worth your time
It doesn’t work if you were together for a long time. That void will always be there
@@paolanamuncura8879 No entendi Paola.
@@twelveoclock4877 im sorry?
@@paolanamuncura8879 why you called on that person?
Got my ex back through no contact. When she dumped me I simply said nothing, no reaction no tears, got up and left. 3 weeks later texting me that she misses me and needs me in her life. Eventually we start dating again, only to break up a few months later. Never heard from her again. I often wonder if it's worth taking an ex back.
because something was broken and when she came back it wasn't fixed...simple as that
depends on the situation of taking an ex back. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
@@joebiden6163 she has to have some feelings for you still. And she has to miss you.
Connor Mitchell ur problem is u took her back lol
Are you serious?
From a woman’s perspective, no contact works every time. No matter who dumped who. I recently did it unintentionally to move on and heal but it was NOT to try to get him back first. My attraction for him didn’t change at all. Usually attraction is never the root issue for the breakup. However, If you want to get an ex back, you have to understand why you two broke up, consciously work on starting a NEW relationship (because the last one was a flop) with each other, so you don’t breakup again. If that’s not the goal, use no contact to move on and find someone new and don’t care if she comes back or not.
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Hey Kristina! Very nice.
No it doesn't work.
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You could not be more true about this. I’m currently on day 3...it’s HARD
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If you are doing it to get an ex back it is imperative that you use the no contact rule to completely change your attitude and mindset so that when you re-enter the relationshop you do so with a different perspective which will prevent you from repeating the same experiences again.
1. Remove all pictures, videos of her or you together
2. Realise she exists as a fantasy
3. Always keep in mind the worst and nastiest things she did to you and your relationship.
4. If you feel you don’t want to ever see her again, you made it.
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Think that they are died already and never going back😅
No contact worked so well, she never came back!
Dodged a bullet
@@franzmuller4145 ...minefield!!!!
@@BLITZY261 The guy survived it like Indiana Jones hiding inside of a fridge while a Nuke is exploding.
I’ve tried no contact and it definitely works. Gotta be strong and go total radio silence.
Really?? Is it really work??
@@afrintayeba2981 yes
How long did it take
my grandma used to say "absence makes the heart grow fonder, yes, of somebody else"
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The only problem with the old saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder", is the other old saying, "Out of sight, out of mind"
worked for me man, only 7 days into no contact her attitude has changed completely calling me non stop crying saying she misses me and she loves me, me met up and talked and it was so nice, just letting her do the chasing now and playing it cool. thanks!
OMG! This is the best advice about no contact ever. I’m a girl btw. You are so right...eventually you will be forced to go into no contact anyway...as the relationship gets worse or you meet someone better. So why wait, do it now and save time. Also the better you break away from this person he/she will soon just become a distant memory saving you from agonising over the why’s and blame etc. Thank you so much ❤️.
Doing no contact is same as doing no fap journey.. You have to get rid of the addiction. It is hard but its worth.
I'm literally doing both, currently on day 30 hard mode and not looking at her Facebook or Insta.
What does fap means please
Im also doing both. This is the hardest thing that I have ever done in my life
*When the no contact bullshit starts: delete them from your contact list; and give them the silent treatment forever.* *Don't be a psychological/emotional test dummy for women.*
I think Tripp does an excellent job explaining what no contact is really about here. It USUALLY makes the other person comes back but that's not REALLY the point of it - the point of it is for your OWN mental healthy and happiness. Girls can drop a relationship for ANY number of emotional reasons - a guy walking away is the most masculine thing he can do.
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So true. I'm on day 58 and I'm really feeling better about myself and not thinking about my ex anymore in a painful way. We were together 4 years and she left me for our neighbor and moved in with him after 2 months. That'll probably crash and burn because she didn't take time for herself and self reflect. I've had time to heal and self reflect and I feel great being single and it's fun to have these other women flirt and have fun with me.
I'm also getting so good at no contact that I'm using it on a friend of 3 years because there's a lot of games she's playing and I'm not going to be the backup QB option for her. I'm the starter and if she's wasting my time, then it's time to move on as well so I can keep my focus on people who do appreciate my value. 15 days with that one.
No longer in simp mode
Underclass H3r0 Had a similar situation. With GF for 3 years then caught her texting and meeting up with another guy. Within a few days of moving out, she already had him over. It truly demonstrates the character of the person and how thankful we should be that it happened prior to marriage or children. My advice would be to stop counting the days and to stay off these videos if they become a habit for you. I’m in month 4 and I still long for her at times, but I’m much better off now
How did 15 days go?
@@shav12 It's been 2 years, do you have any update what happened later on?
@@blair5475 I’m very grateful that it ended and I’m in a much healthier place in all ways. It gets easier as time goes on
The better response is to move on. That way the other woman will see your value.
American Lefty always
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I was watching this tripp, it spoke to me so well. Seven months i was with Jessica, i decided myself to use the complete " no contact" im going through a heartache. She might still call me, she has in the past. Im a college student, 37 years old. Have no children, single guy. I really feel like giving up on relationships.
In the short term It works when u want to find out if a girl likes u especially when there showing mixed signs
I can totally relate to that
During this quarantine and prolonged self isolation, I was cheated on, long distance. Been doing no contact for a week. It’s been challenging. The memory hasn’t faded... it’s difficult to keep the NCR during this quarantine, with so much government restrictions. No gym, most friends not willing to go out on walks, not being able to work on myself outside of the home.... I hope No contact works in the long run because I’ve never experienced this kind of devastation before... thank you for sharing your insight on this process.
Stay strong, I feel you. I wasn't cheated on. But my ex is seeing someone else after being together 4 years and I really do love her. Some days are easy and some are hard. I cannot wait for normality to be with us again. Because being in lockdown don't help because that pain is there and that's all you can think about. Stay well
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I do not believe in no contact for 30 days! Obviously, if they weren't interest 30 days ago, what's to say they will be 30 days later? No, I never circle back. It tells them I'm pathetic and desperate and those are two things I'm not!
If they're not interested, they aren't interested....PERIOD! People complicate shit way too much
It was almost a year-and-a-half ago when my my first ex girlfriend cheated on me and I did the no contact thing for my own well-being. I blocked her out from everything a part of my life.
I want to get back with her during the six-month of the break up but then I didn't want to do that anymore because if someone you really loved you and cared about you they wouldn't lie or treat you harshly for something they did or give no fuks on your feelings.
No I'm technically 6 months into my new relationship with someone that actually cares about me and is everything I wanted. I wouldn't be where I'm at because of the no contact rule.
She cheated on u man
so now there is absolute zero chance of you getting back with your ex
From my experience, this does work and I appreciate the reminder. Thanks Tripp
This used to be called the 3 month rule. Before cell phones I messed up w/a girl. I got jealous & told her I never wanted to see her again. Broke her heart then regretted it. She was always busy after that & going out w/her friends & dating. 3 months later I called her & asked her out for Friday night. When she asked me what we were going to do, I said go to the hotel. She was taken aback but accepted. So this works!!! Either you will have moved on or she. So this is a win-win...!!! Time will heal both of you & if there's still a spark. Hit it or quit it!!!
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One of THE BEST explanations of the no contact rule that I have ever heard within this last month while on UA-cam lol. Very clear, straight forward and understandable. Thank you!
Because of the corona virus?
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You could argue that she is the Rona lol. Keep 6ft distance haha
The trauma bond between cluster B personalities, like narcissistic personality disorder and either codependents or just good hearted empathetic people is like a junkie detoxing from opiates. What may be perceived as love or a soul mate connection is actually this trauma bond. It’s a physical addiction. Therefore, if you mentalize what’s actually happening in the break up, you may be able to persist in the no contact solution better. You “love” the addiction, not necessarily the person.
'Good hearted empathetic people' are quite manipulative themselves lmao
For me, no contact is realising that the person I was with isn't good for me and not worth pining over. It's very common to not want your ex after they come back or to put her as a booty call while you pursue better options.
What do you mean by making her your booty call
@@paolanamuncura8879 It means contacts with her is strictly for sexual purposes(Friends with benefits/FK buddy/hook up/flings). No chance of getting back together and entering a serious relationship.
Last night she clicked like on one of my posts for the first time in several months. I know she's just trying to lure me and I'm not taking the bait. She's dead to me until she makes a real effort.
Just log out all social media
Block her
She shooting her shot again bro
She’s thinking of you. If she doesn’t care she would not click or view anything.
Hands down, the best way to get over a breakup. I know from my own experience too.
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i hadnt't watched any of your videos for years...came to check it out during these quarentine. I been missing out.
Your advices helped me so much in 2015 and 2016... thanks so much man!
I'm really enjoying the new stuff man!
Glad you’re digging
I broke no contact after 2 days to send an apology message for the way I acted during the breakup and it felt like I was back to square 1 after that, I regret breaking it. so I’m learning if no contact is gonna do anything it’s gonna help me move on, if he comes back in the process then that’s good too.
Any updates?
@@IntoTheWild361 he just got in a new relationship after not even 2 months and we were together for 6 years. I’m thinking it’s a rebound but I guess I’ll never know..
@@outroseok I’m going through the same thing. Not sure if she is seeing someone but she’s being hot and cold
She wanted “space” but wanted to keep in touch. I respected her wishes but said no to staying in touch. No that I’m taking a step back I can see much more clearly - dodged a real bullet there.
No contact does NOT work. He now thinks I cut him off when he “needed me” the most, but I even told him I need to distance myself bc I needed time to get over him and couldn’t be friends with him at that time... and now he doesn’t want to speak to me bc I “shut him out” when I really just needed time to heal
You mention "he needed you". NC by definition, I believe- is after a Breakup. Not when you pull away after an argument or WTV happened between you two. Perhaps re-evaluate the situation.
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It works, overall. There's always variations
The last girl I feel I got really obsessed with, long story short (she hinted on wanting to get together, but bad timing with things happened, she got tired of waiting, starting seeing other guys, I got jelous and cut things off) last time I looked at her facebook page and she's now engaged.... Big shot to the heart, and my brain has been throwing waves of regret for a few months.... But somehing strange happened last week. I drove a truck with some platforms and had one of my beautiful, very sexy coworkers ride with me to pick up these platforms and drop them off at the theater. We talked the whole drive and I had a lot of fun talking with her.... But I get the sense that since we occasionally work together (I freelance with this company from time to time) that asking her out would be a bad idea.... But that interaction has oddly enough got me thinking about this other girl I went on 1 date with last December I met on facebook dating. She lives close to me and I've been thinking about calling her up and see if she would like to go for a walk since it's getting warmer out.... Although, the coronavirus might make it a hard sell to go outside right now.... But it feels good that an interaction with a beautiful coworker has been igniting some interest for another girl....
Danny Drust bruh. Just be REAL WITH HER. Tell her you think she’s sexy! Woman know when you’re attracted to them, the want HONESTY. Stop tip toeing and TELL HER SHES HOT
Invite any girl out who you think is attractive or just has cool personality. Never be affraid to find them hot,attractive etc. Never...if it goes nowehere,that's fine to.
Becouse she doesn't have control over you,when there's no contact.she desires control of you .
I’m horrible at break ups for sure especially when i feel a girl is about to leave me i try to communicate and maybe even blow her up but the minute she breaks up with me i strictly do no contact and I’m proud to say i stuck by it since i discovered this and the impact it has
I broke up with my girlfriend and I went to no contact. She came back only for short time and was never the same she left and I move on .
It's cause the other dude wasn't acting right.
No contact doesn't work if they don't have any feelings for you anymore.its more about getting yourself back
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No contact is very powerful it worked for me over 18 times with the same woman. I'm at day 3 I'll keep y'all updated
Update she reach out last night!
18 times with the same girl?? Damn
U must start asking ur self some question Man!!!😷
@@PearlEphraim she blocked me and changed her number... . Smh its officially over
@@albertotoribio5723 bro it's over a 7 month relationship down the drain she deactivated her social media and blocked me and changed her number... . This woman cheated on me with her baby daddy and I found out
Whoa 18 times aren’t you tired of same shiz every now and then?
No contact pushed my ex away :(
2 weeks ago we broke up. A few days into NC, he text me. Few times and I answered respectfully and then a week later I went to reach out since I felt bad I wasn’t reciprocating only to find out he blocked me from texting him. I’m devastated. I never harassed him or reached out and now I’m blocked. I think his ego made him block me.
meliholland you were supposed to answer the phone or text back at all.
*not supposed to
Chiwaraidzo Nechitima right thank you!!
Reesha Pretty girl I was or was not?
Chiwaraidzo Nechitima it was so hard not to!
Man, you are a genius. This method works well regardless of the outcome of the relationship.
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I just began no contact. However this girl is 2 of my college classes. So I we will have to see each other. However, I am going to act like she is another person in the room and not engage in any eye contact, like we are strangers. I don’t expect anything magical to happen.
That is the way my man. Dead the girl.
No contact ok - no reply is rude af
NC best way to move on. This video is best explanation of NC I've seen.
After no contact, how do you come back? Simply asking her out? Start talking with her?
Naturally, am an introvert and i have a small circle of friends. No contact worked on my friends after i realized they were only using me when its convinient to them....i went radio silent and they kept contacting me now and again.
I like how this video is supposed to be for men. I’m a women and this video helped!
Fading Affect Bias... look it up
Thank you so much. Your advice is really beneficial I am going through this face right now and it is very hard. But I am determined to fight it not just for getting him back but for my own self -esteem God bless you.
lol got this girls number I work with. We talked back and forth over the phone for a few weeks, asked her on a date. She canceled on me 30 minutes before the date. Acted like it was all good and took her off my social media/blocked her. Now I catch her staring at me all the time at work, and its a great feeling. Wish I felt bad, I gave her a chance and she didn't care enough.
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It's so interesting how hard this used to be for me and how nowadays it's just 2nd nature.
Going through this..we were together for 1.5 years then the last 2 months she was very distant,I ended it now it's been 3 months no contact...losing hope fellas
Francisco Costa Sukete If you did dumping thn you should call her if she did dumping than no contact forever..
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this is the best thing ever. do this and in a less then a year, you'll will be unrecognizable -> i got new car, job in my profession, had a girl, traveled... this is the deal, just belive in yourself and be patient. patience. ups and downs, but patiance.. peace
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I was subconsiously using this and it is better to go for self improvement and give them freedom to think
But. Bro your eyes are very nice
No contact has NEVER worked for me. EVER!! It's actually pretty bad. They get hurt and feel they deserve better treatment and then it's no recovery after the bad feelings.But also they move on to another interest which usually makes gives them good feelings from the bad feelings you give them of no contact. This is BS and lots of games
I didn't know guys needed to heal from break ups. I thought most guys just get over stuff.
Mehwish Owais usually it’s when guys over-invested in the relationship. They stopped pursuing their other missions in life. The breakup is then much more traumatic because they lose a large portion of their purpose. Guys with a strong purpose can then redirect their energy away from the relationship and back towards pursuing their goals.
Guys have feelings? No way?
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This one is most rational most pragmatic video i have ever come for such its very true, it makes things less and less frigment
She says she prefers to go back to normal be cool and friends again and have me there I never replied i don’t want to speak to her she said she didn’t want to lose me
No contact is not an extreme, it's what people used to do for hundreds of years before phones, it used to be a normal thing not to see your ex after a breakup, I don't know why people call it extreme
Fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone else. No one is irreplaceable. Learn from past mistakes it just gets better because you are smarter.
To all guys out there this works 100 percnet she did it to me i went crazy looking for her and then i realize why not use no contact and then tables turned it works hehe also most important of all is improve your looks and evolve that will make her regret and want to chase you again...
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How long should you wait before trying to reattract a girl, where you and she didn't really get serious but she thought you were initially?
JasTDW I had no idea guys struggled with the same stuff
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I have been looking for a while like this videos, but this is it I’m gonna watch this over and over again, thank you so much
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95% it doesn't work...🙏🙏🙏 5% chances.... of course no contact work...my ex contacted me after two years yet don't expect anything...it doesn't work....you will end up hurting more...just move on and never contact untill you move on and find some special...you cannot be friend with your ex untill you find some one and move on...
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did you pull that 95% 5% figure out of your ass? mate No contact is the #1 way to re attract someone, most of the legit relationship coaches swear by no contact, if I had to put a % to it I would say it works 8/10 to re attract your ex but results would be relationship specific
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Trying this now with a girlfriend from abroad. I wanted to be with her long term but she had hurt me by not wanting it, made it a casual only type thing when I visited. If nothing else I’m trying to move on by ignoring her.
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Thanks bruh for making this video. I really needed this one. Thank you very much
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Thanks for the advice it was good, it's been 10 month of NC and lost hope now she never contacted me, just starting over and recovering.
Hello. My pregnant girlfriend and I had a fight I said something that now I know was wrong. I tried calling her but she's not responding I've sent messages with no luck. Do you thing a no contact would be my only option?
bibi bibi just give her space for a few days and than try to contact. It would be weird if she keeps ignoring you while she’s pregnant. You didn’t break up yet
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Dude. Shes pregnant. No contact ain't gonna work.
The single worst feeling I ever had in my life,is when I saw my ex on social media with another guy. I was in my early 20's and she broke up with me after 2 years without actually giving me any reason. It was a horrible break up all together ( much later on,she apologized for all of this ) but beacsue I didn't know better,I still kept some hope and wanted to give her some space and reach out later on.And that was also the reason I didn't delete her from social media. 3 months pass by and I see a photo of her with another dude. Is one of those moments that I will never forget. If I deleted her social profile,and just heard she was with another guy it would be much easier. So that's one thing you absolutly have to do as soon as you break up. Let them go,give them all the space they need,delete them from social media and move..on. Is that simple.
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I don’t see how getting back with an ex is very exciting.
What if we both go no contact?
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It works but it’s like a 10% chance most people fuck it up, and chip is right it’s usually not worth trying to get a ex back. One of the two of you won’t feel the same regardless of how things ended.
Thanks I don’t really need help in pretty good at this I just brows and leave my opinions
Tripp,
Excellent, telling it like it. Truth is always good advice.
I'm sad and hurting. Only about a week fresh... but what if the person was also your friend and you want to keep that part?
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What happens if both ex-partners listen to the same advises and go both no-contact? Like, really. I have the feeling that is what my husband, who just moved out, is doing with me right now and IDK how to act. :(
No contact is made by the dumpee.
This has been really helpful!
i almost gave up after 3 months of no contact - then the phone rang
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We need a video which shows us positive ways to move on without having the memories of our exes haunt us.
@Shield Liger Yeah that has been on my mind for a while since I love listening to Jocko. I am currently doing a lot of courses to better myself in my job and that has helped. Working on ones' self is the best way to go but it needs something like martial arts which is more engaging and physically active.
Is the 'no contact' rule working even when you chased them? Love your vids.
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Yes men. You are the prize. Do not forget that.
Unfortunately, you've gotta do the scorched earth tactic in instances like this. No phone calls, texts, delete social media connections and any apps or w/e you guys shared. Because women that do this want their cake and eat it too. You pretty much need to ninja vanish completely and indefinitely with this person and go see someone else and do something else.
Guaranteed that there is someone already eyeing and looking to treat you like a king.
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Definitely explained it perfectly and in depth
This video couldnt have been timed better
Everytime I try to do the ano contact I always failed because im missing him .. and now I deleted his number i blocked him on social media so that I will not attempt to contact him do you think this is a good Idea?
I deleted their number and haven't been contacted for a few weeks but yeah it helps cause u know there's nothing you can do so fuck it.
What if you work with the person? And when you say no contact does that mean we treat them bad?
But doesn't the same apply for him? I will also become a distant memory to him as well..
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no, this won't work on men unless they are already attracted, men don't run on attention, so if you can get them to bite, no contact is reeling in.
Tripp any advice on what to do if this is someone in the work place
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They just tell you to go no contact to get your ex back, so you eventually move and shut up, not because it works. Haha!
Some time forgetting ex is not easy things to do for some people 😔.. I am married now but still i go alone to those places where me and my ex met and had spent time together.
What if they blocked you from everywhere ?
My ex told me no contact for now. But I’m not sure she’ll reach out
Really works.