TYPES OF NON BINARY HATERS

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Here are the types of non binary haters that comment on my videos: comedians, the people that think I'm an attention whore, the concerned parents, the trans infighter, the biologists, the political scientists, people that think I'm a cis girl/boy and the assholes.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 675

  • @industrialalliance9905
    @industrialalliance9905 6 років тому +271

    I'm cis but I think non-binary is valid. Dear nb haters how does someone being non-binary effect your life at all.
    Update: Thanks for all the likes. But turns out I'm also non-binary. Part of my brain doesn't see me as trans cuz I realized so recently.

    • @epicaccount9036
      @epicaccount9036 5 років тому +23

      Because it's stupid and annoying for me to call someone by their gender and they start getting mad and shouting at me that their non binary on a train.
      A quick punch made him shut the fuck up

    • @bartyampson6584
      @bartyampson6584 5 років тому +26

      @@epicaccount9036 wow someone who was nonbinary yelled at you and you punched them and now your life is messed all messed up you poor widdle baby

    • @epicaccount9036
      @epicaccount9036 5 років тому +8

      @@bartyampson6584 no someone who is non binary annoyed me then I punched IT, why would you shout at someone on a public train because I said excuse me sir when trying to pass so I can get to the end of the carriage

    • @jamesandchante
      @jamesandchante 5 років тому +10

      To be honest, isn't every single human "non-binary"?
      Really, it seems that the soul has no gender (which makes sense, because our bodies possess our reproductive parts, not our souls). So, unless someone constantly thinks of their gender every second of their lives, no one completely feels they are one gender or other, they just feel like themselves right?
      I think some people our out of touch with how most other people think and feel, so they assume that if they feel like themselves, and they aren't consciously aware of their gender constantly, they are different than others and they are non-binary. But, I think everyone, except for people that have gender dysphoria or body dysmorphic disorder, don't focus on their gender and are what is described as "non-binary."
      Seriously, when you think of yourself do you automatically think of your gender or race, or are you just you, until you have a social need to categorize yourself?
      I am always just myself, and only think of myself as a female when I have a need to categorize myself, such as when I have to use the public restroom, fill out a form, buy clothing, and so on. I also think of the fact that I am female when I am experiencing something that only someone of my sex can experience, such as buy sanitary napkins, delivering a baby, or breastfeeding my baby. In practically every other aspect of life, so about 95% of the time, I never think of my gender at all. For instance, I have thoughts such as, "I'm hungry," not "I'm a woman that's hungry."

    • @epicaccount9036
      @epicaccount9036 5 років тому +4

      @@jamesandchante da fuq you on

  • @ihatepancakes272
    @ihatepancakes272 6 років тому +399

    "keep them away from my children" hey at least they said "them"

    • @linkrobinson1570
      @linkrobinson1570 5 років тому +1

      It's not singular.
      You tried, but you FAILED

    • @michellesouthward6606
      @michellesouthward6606 5 років тому +6

      jojofromtx well it could be them just respect pronouns

    • @robbinwantstosleep1768
      @robbinwantstosleep1768 4 роки тому +1

      😂 true

    • @pavvey1605
      @pavvey1605 4 роки тому +1

      @@michellesouthward6606 respect is earn it's not just given.

    • @michellesouthward6606
      @michellesouthward6606 4 роки тому

      Alexei Gill yeah the kind of respect you give parents is earned, respect for pronouns should be given, but you seem to be acting like an insensitive asshole so you won’t care.

  • @tannermulligan9887
    @tannermulligan9887 6 років тому +196

    ok but like. enby genders existed for a long ass time?? i.e. queen christina of sweden etc, it's just that now language has evolved to accommodate.

    • @kaiberri4858
      @kaiberri4858 5 років тому +7

      THANK YOU

    • @emmawatts1984
      @emmawatts1984 5 років тому +11

      They were a thing in Mesopotamia by 3000BCE, almost definitely a lot longer

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 4 роки тому

      Tanner Mulligan Is Queen Christina of Sweden evidence of “non-binary? She was masculine, intelligent (considered a masculine trait in the 17th century) and she didn’t like so-called “ female activities” but liked sport. She crossed dressed, she menstruated, and she was thought to be a lesbian. Just like all the masculine lesbians before her and since. If you think she is an inbetween gender then you and all the people calling themselves “non-binary” are probably just masculine lesbians.

    • @orcus6803
      @orcus6803 4 роки тому +3

      @@xbduf4gb But I'm Bi and non binary. Speaking for all of one culture isn't very 2020 of you 😅

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 4 роки тому

      Weird and Awkward I’m only talking in probabilities.

  • @taylorwrobel2023
    @taylorwrobel2023 6 років тому +114

    "Nothing but made up ideas" are there any ideas that aren't made up?

    • @StarNinja77
      @StarNinja77 5 років тому +11

      @THE HOLYROCKER But the color blue is an abstract and many people would ardently disagree with different shades being 'more' green or purple for their taste. It seems that in ancient Greece they didnt even refer to colors anything like we do now, a word that implies color could mean anything from grey to blue or yellow, or that word may not have anything to do with color at all. To the ancient Greeks, the sky was definetaly not 'blue' because that was just not how they mentally saw the world. Its a rabbit-hole of mind-bending proportions. =3
      That you for reading my random TED-Talk. ;P

    • @kaelin8775
      @kaelin8775 5 років тому +6

      @@mightkilljacksome1487 the idea of science is also made up. everything you have ever thought or experienced is made up. the concept of scientific fact would not exist if you couldnt comprehend certain aspects of life.

    • @kaelin8775
      @kaelin8775 4 роки тому +2

      @@mightkilljacksome1487 im not talking about the composition of anything. theoretical ideology is just that. theoretical. in other words it is just a collective agreement on something. there is no scientific proof that goes against non binary identities, none that cannot be debunked in the future. even science is just a human way of understanding the unknown, otherwise called magic. so basically, what im getting at is dont be rude and just respect people's identities

    • @kaelin8775
      @kaelin8775 4 роки тому +4

      @@mightkilljacksome1487 look okay. You have issues. Just do not disrespect non binary individuals. We do not have mental illnesses (unless you mean dysphoria)

    • @kaelin8775
      @kaelin8775 4 роки тому +3

      @@mightkilljacksome1487 ive literally never heard of a person thats "non-binary" due to their genitalia. Ive heard of intersex.

  • @boopboop1431
    @boopboop1431 6 років тому +18

    when ppl say nonbinary ppl aren't real it makes me dysphoric hhshhshssh

  • @HannahCantrall
    @HannahCantrall 6 років тому +129

    this makes me laugh but also shake my head because i feel you on such a personal level.
    non-binary is so real and anyone *especially in the lgbt+ community* should accept it and learn about it. if they feel like you can’t identify in the trans* community - because just bc you aren’t M - t - F , or backwards, doesn’t mean that you aren’t identifying differently than you did when you were born and THAT is what makes someone trans. i’m proud as always. much love - chan.

    • @lordfreeza_
      @lordfreeza_ 6 років тому +4

      chandler r. Trans means transitioning from one gender to another though...
      So if you say you don't have a gender then you aren't really trans because you aren't transitioning to anything....
      Like what does nonbinary even mean?? That you dress in a gender ambiguous way???
      So gender is based on conforming to gender roles??

    • @bornwithoutconsentobviously
      @bornwithoutconsentobviously 6 років тому +2

      Lord Freeza wow you really are triggered aren't you?

    • @lordfreeza_
      @lordfreeza_ 6 років тому +3

      Someone In The Comments how??

    • @bornwithoutconsentobviously
      @bornwithoutconsentobviously 6 років тому +5

      Lord Freeza you respond everywhere😂 it's hilarious

    • @labreethebee4799
      @labreethebee4799 6 років тому +5

      Lord Freeza well no my friend. Nonbinary is an unbrella term. Anyone can be Nonbinary with something else in a subcategory. Kinda like, "school" and within school you have a bunch of tiny subcategories. (Classes/periods)
      Nonbinary itself means not make or female. Not NO gender. Sure, some enby folks have no gender, but some have two genders, three, multiple, half and half, bits and pieces, a new thing all on it's own or maybe even fluctuate through them often.
      I don't understand how people get so confused by it. When I was young, I was super baffled. How could someone be not Male or female? Right??? That didn't make sense. But as soon as I looked up the term, it imediently clicked. Such a simple consept. Really, it's easier then Math, by far. Some people may struggle to understand, like how some do with math, but in the end, everything is made up. Republican is a made up word. So is Democrat, God, Cheese, Math, Names... It's language.
      Nonbinary identies have existed throughout history. The problem is, it seems like it's just "becoming" a thing. But in reality, there were people in all counties, cultures, religions and communities who had these thoughts, but settled... That's what we did.. we settled. There was no language for what they felt, so they just chose one... They were unhappy, but dealt with it...
      Now we have language to describe what we feel. Is there really anything that makes sence? You THINK it makes sence, but that's just because you've been conditioned to it.
      Just some facts for you, not really stating my opinion here..

  • @KAIJU-KINGx
    @KAIJU-KINGx 4 роки тому +14

    *angry, protective, dysphoric non-binary noises*

  • @curiousenby7206
    @curiousenby7206 5 років тому +13

    I'm non binary like if your non binary

  • @bananafan3309
    @bananafan3309 6 років тому +95

    As someone with a BA in political science, I'm offended - those are clearly failed sociologists.😁

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +16

      hahaha love it

    • @connoranderson3380
      @connoranderson3380 5 років тому +7

      * applaudes like a gentleman with a very wide moustache *

  • @kalentrue186
    @kalentrue186 6 років тому +40

    This stuff makes me laugh xD Like, convincing people that sex and gender are different is a whole other topic in itself, but just the fact that people think there is only 'penis' and 'vagina' is hilarious. What about intersex? And if gender isn't a social contruct, why is it different across cultures? And finally, nonbinary people have been in history for centuries now, so how was it resently 'made up'? All this information is available for the public yet people would rather waste their time feeling offended or triggered by someone else's gender rather than being educated. But hey, some idiots in the world still believe the earth is flat, so I guess some people are just gonna be dumb. Oh well.

    • @Night-Shade.
      @Night-Shade. 6 років тому +8

      The amount of people who deny the existence of intersex individuals is truly sad. Also people who are diagnosing non-binary people with mental illnesses as if they are certified to diagnose someone. Lmao. There is always a grey area nothing is exclusively black or white.

    • @Night-Shade.
      @Night-Shade. 6 років тому +6

      kek kek Idk how you came up with this bullshit "0.01%". A quick google search would show you that 1.7% of births are intersex that's way more than you came up with.
      We are mentioning intersex people because of the argument some idiots bring up which is that there are only 2 sexes/genders, which is not true cuz intersex individuals exist and so many people deny their existence for some reason. Also doctors operate on intersex infants when there is nothing wrong with them just so they fit as "male" or "female".

  • @jacobren9616
    @jacobren9616 6 років тому +39

    I think the problem is people have a "one or the other" way of thinking, wanting people to have to pick between the "two genders". They also shut down and are completely close minded when we try explaining, and then they just start throwing insults around. I'm not saying everyone is like this, there are plenty of people who although they may be unclear or confused, they accept us, and instead of shunning or making others feel worse, they move on and live their lives.

    • @jacobren9616
      @jacobren9616 5 років тому +1

      I know you don’t get to pick. You don’t choose to get gender dysphoria

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 5 років тому +1

      Jacob Ren Not many people feel good about their bodies, social gender roles, being called called by pronouns that are associated with a particular sex and thus social expectations. All you’ve got to do is shun or embrace these things and show by example that you live as exactly the person you are without needing a label. Most people look like a male or female anyway regardless of pronouns and bathrooms. So why fight nature when you can be uniquely you. You don’t have to join a fad that has more oppressive rules, boxes, categories and politics than mainstream society. David Bowie will be cringing in his grave at this herd of gender sheep.
      What you describe about closed mindedness and shutting down then throwing insults is exactly what gender people do to those who don’t agree with their gender ideology.

    • @useroffline9999
      @useroffline9999 5 років тому +2

      See that mindset is irritating because nothing about the human brain is black and white. It’s so insanely complex that such a narrow spectrum for gender/sexuality is ridiculous

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 4 роки тому

      Nora Jamilah Yet you are the sex that you were born. That’s simple.

  • @mintdec2656
    @mintdec2656 5 років тому +11

    Enby haters: UwU someone is different from me. how dare you not be a middle age white hetero male

  • @l.e.obrien1793
    @l.e.obrien1793 6 років тому +30

    This is hilarious. What the hell is wrong with people?! You handled this well dude, well done 👍

  • @heydenjaye5671
    @heydenjaye5671 6 років тому +185

    Even though I don't get the whole non-binary thing, I'll still respect your pronouns and identity. Other people should try it, it's called human decency.

    • @Gorlami90
      @Gorlami90 6 років тому +5

      Heyden Jaye I won’t ever intentionally “miss-pronoun” someone, but don’t start calling me a bigot and a nazi for it. Also I think a lot of this stuff is absurd. Like there’s a group of ppl that call ppl nazis for no reason

    • @reenee9656
      @reenee9656 5 років тому +4

      🍵🍵 tea

    • @veeisabeebutnowtheresaseco7070
      @veeisabeebutnowtheresaseco7070 5 років тому +3

      you're my favorite person!!!

    • @DevGame988
      @DevGame988 5 років тому +9

      i'm enby and i love u! :)
      thank u for being comprehensive, that's too rare :c

    • @cartoonminty560
      @cartoonminty560 5 років тому +4

      Hayden Jaye, thanks.
      There should really more people like you...

  • @HeyThere005
    @HeyThere005 6 років тому +319

    looove.

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +13

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +5

      minetube Ahw kiddo, wat origineel! weet je moeder dat je haat verspreid op t internet? ;)

    • @enbykenz
      @enbykenz 6 років тому +4

      I can't wait for the moment when I get noticed like this dang!!!

    • @anniehavens951
      @anniehavens951 5 років тому +3

      HOW DID I FIND YOUR COMMENT YOURE MY IDOL WTHHHH

    • @llmarie4052
      @llmarie4052 4 роки тому

      I love finding you in random comment sections it's amazing
      Have a great day

  • @lunalovesprocrastination9248
    @lunalovesprocrastination9248 6 років тому +47

    we don't have anything to do to these haters but laughing at them

  • @MeditatingDuck
    @MeditatingDuck 5 років тому +9

    "Easy. MALE."
    "Hm. Thanks!"
    I DIED XD

  • @Bunkiiiiii
    @Bunkiiiiii 6 років тому +206

    Love, from another non-binary

    • @HowAreYou61
      @HowAreYou61 6 років тому

      Simon haahahahahahahahahahshahshahahahahahahahshahahshahahahahahahahahaha

    • @curiousenby7206
      @curiousenby7206 5 років тому +5

      I'm non binary

    • @sarali4226
      @sarali4226 5 років тому +4

      Im non-binary too

    • @xGunner1600
      @xGunner1600 5 років тому +2

      Theres only 2 genders

    • @sarali4226
      @sarali4226 5 років тому +6

      @@xGunner1600 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA SO FUNNY.THERE ARE ABOUT 32 genders.and I am genderless .It like saying,
      genderless person:can I be nonbinary?
      YOU:no you cant because this is what I believe.

  • @joeyisdrowning9254
    @joeyisdrowning9254 5 років тому +8

    I love the "You need mental help" comments because I'm just like "I go to a gender clinic and am working with a team of doctors"
    I win...haha

  • @canyounot6906
    @canyounot6906 6 років тому +31

    People actually THINK THIS. WHAT THE A C T U A L F U C K???

    • @whatdoyoumean9056
      @whatdoyoumean9056 6 років тому +1

      ゴミ箱ゲイボイ ikr

    • @zypper7213
      @zypper7213 5 років тому +6

      Enbyphobia is one of the biggest forms of gender identity hate rn, it's so annoying that people think we're just making it up for attention or any of that bullshit

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 4 роки тому

      Ocrann One of the “biggest forms”? Where is that quoted from? “Enbyphobia? Now that’s a right made up word.

    • @audensucks
      @audensucks 4 роки тому

      @@sspu4669
      Dude, you called Ocrann an adolescent girl and said that they just needed to get fucked, then they wouldn't believe this shit anymore. That's pretty fucking creepy. I don't care if we differ in opinions my dude but just the way you responded to them so violently pissed me off.

  • @ramble4395
    @ramble4395 5 років тому +7

    5:55 this needs to be reported, he’s making death threats and encouraging suicide.

  • @annabellea2954
    @annabellea2954 4 роки тому +6

    “Keep then away from our children”...
    Sis they are your children

  • @ghost-dude867
    @ghost-dude867 6 років тому +5

    Thank you for this- I ended up on a few non binary hate videos which really brought me down but this just made my night!

  • @hiyoko_drawings6900
    @hiyoko_drawings6900 4 роки тому +5

    Someone: hey what gender do u have?
    Me: idk I kinda lost it on my way here : |

  • @xz740
    @xz740 5 років тому +5

    Now “non-binary haters” have been gven labels and put into categories.

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 5 років тому

      You’ve got to laugh!

  • @hads5279
    @hads5279 6 років тому +4

    Whenever people online tell me I'm mentally ill and need help I tell them I can't afford it 😂

  • @elijaheden8013
    @elijaheden8013 6 років тому +16

    youre amazing. i think more people should react to hate comments i love seeing how ignorant people can be. keep doing you bro.

  • @dorkusmalorkus1083
    @dorkusmalorkus1083 4 роки тому +5

    say it with me now,
    GENDER DOES NOT EQUAL SEX !
    THEY ARE TWO SEPARATE THINGS

  • @irinaunachicagenial.4872
    @irinaunachicagenial.4872 6 років тому +29

    This really helps me to accept myself a bit more

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +7

      I'm glad

    • @HowAreYou61
      @HowAreYou61 6 років тому

      Irina Salnikova hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah

    • @useroffline9999
      @useroffline9999 5 років тому +2

      Me too. Lots of femme non-binary hugs

  • @wouldntyouliketoknowweathe9145
    @wouldntyouliketoknowweathe9145 4 роки тому +6

    Don’t call me a helicopter cause those are allowed in the military.

  • @starryjoonie4081
    @starryjoonie4081 5 років тому +4

    i feel slightly more confident about being non-binary thanks to you

  • @riverdalefan6651
    @riverdalefan6651 6 років тому +3

    So me being non binary is a mental problem.. I do have dysphoria ... And those haters are really annoying me.. I support trans community so why trans people dont comsider me valid. I love you noah for making a point .:)

  • @sadienw27
    @sadienw27 6 років тому +6

    2:56 I've actually always wanted to rebel against nature

  • @mayabarrage3570
    @mayabarrage3570 6 років тому +11

    I understand saying people who don't experience dysphoria aren't trans, which they aren't, but a lot of nonbinary people, including myself, do so that really pisses me off

  • @swirlingstarshine
    @swirlingstarshine 5 років тому +6

    This is sad, stop hating people because they're not a boy or a girl.
    Especially if you're trans, don't hate someone who isn't MTF or FTM, Non-binary is valid.

  • @MissLondon
    @MissLondon 6 років тому +59

    I wish the people that would disagree with u would make the points I make instead of taking it to a personal level. That gets nowhere

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +12

      Miss London yeah a normal conversation would be nice :) I don’t get the internet sometimes. So immature tbh

    • @user-pb1cf4lr2s
      @user-pb1cf4lr2s 6 років тому

      Anonymyty means you can say whatever and not have to stand by what you say. G.I.F.T. it's called.

    • @user-pb1cf4lr2s
      @user-pb1cf4lr2s 6 років тому +5

      Harrison And yet the science does not support your claim that there are only 2 sexes, let alone genders, which includes identity.
      Funny, it's never people who have taken biology at university that make these claims.
      Gender binary:
      thehumanist.com/magazine/july-august-2017/features/everything-know-sex-wrong
      www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-new-science-of-sex-and-gender/
      qz.com/1007198/the-myth-that-gender-is-binary-is-perpetuated-by-a-flawed-education-system/
      www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2015/11/psychology-transgender.aspx
      nautil.us/issue/43/heroes/why-sex-is-binary-but-gender-is-a-spectrum
      www.press.uchicago.edu/ucp/books/book/chicago/S/bo16835663.html
      Intersex:
      www.isna.org/faq/what_is_intersex
      www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1634840/
      www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29325624
      Gender vs Expression vs Identity:
      sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/gender-lines-science-transgender-identity/
      www.genderspectrum.org/quick-links/understanding-gender/
      www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/sexuality-definitions.pdf
      I predict that despite the APA, Harvard med, or NCBI disagreeing with you, you will not change your mind, but will cling to your beliefs.
      This is ideology.
      So, gonna accept the reelz, or stick to the feelz?

    • @gradybarney7393
      @gradybarney7393 6 років тому

      @@user-pb1cf4lr2s funny, i majored in biology. Human wellness comes from accepting ones true self. As well as accepting how others are. So if youre going to be ignorant, dont do it here, please. Im sure there are plenty of channels for ignorant people like you, why dont you go check those out? I think that will solve some of our communication problems... plus you will probably get more support for you nonsense on a different channel anyway.

    • @user-pb1cf4lr2s
      @user-pb1cf4lr2s 6 років тому +2

      Grady Barney Then if you think that biology supports a binary model, you are not doing very well.
      Nature has a stack of different sexes and sex roles.
      I accept myself as who i am.
      And who i am is non-binary. Also, intersex.
      And i am perfectly happy with that.

  • @ginger9772
    @ginger9772 6 років тому +3

    I'm late AF but just remember this.
    People don't love you because you're non binary.
    People don't want to be your friend because you're non binary. (Well maybe but idk-)
    It's not a big deal that you're non binary.
    Just be you, Noah, who enjoys creating content on youtube. That's who you are. Your gender doesnt define you as a person.
    And if someone muSt know, i only think there are 2 genders, but eh. I'm also sticking to what i said in this comment.

    • @interdimensional4288
      @interdimensional4288 4 роки тому

      "It's not a big deal that you're nonbinary. Love yrself ect "
      Next paragraph
      " I think there are only 2 genders"
      Uuuuuhhhhhhh

  • @atlasabsentee3426
    @atlasabsentee3426 6 років тому +12

    Love from a non-binary marxist 💖✌

    • @HowAreYou61
      @HowAreYou61 6 років тому

      Atlas Absentee haahhashhshsshhaahagahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahah

    • @atlasabsentee3426
      @atlasabsentee3426 6 років тому +5

      Glad to make you laugh, anytime fam

    • @HowAreYou61
      @HowAreYou61 6 років тому

      Atlas Absentee may god light your way and get you back on track

    • @atlasabsentee3426
      @atlasabsentee3426 6 років тому +1

      THE HOLYROCKER Dude just go and sort out your daddy issues already

    • @atlasabsentee3426
      @atlasabsentee3426 6 років тому +1

      Coco Brbsdfbkjsdb No need for that, Jesus and I are tight.

  • @emashton806
    @emashton806 6 років тому +4

    I stumbled upon a very attractive human being

  • @straycatpiano
    @straycatpiano 6 років тому +11

    Guys, gals, and non binary pals :3

  • @BelaCurcio
    @BelaCurcio 6 років тому +4

    people have called me "autistic" and "gay justin beiber" so neither of those are really insults and they need to step up their hate game

  • @priestfightsgod
    @priestfightsgod 5 років тому +7

    2 genders??
    Don't you mean 2 sexes, and many genders?
    Haha, silly person. There's a difference!

  • @ytimmasnaem8618
    @ytimmasnaem8618 6 років тому +5

    You reignited my will and hope to live about being who I am, and making sure that I focus on what makes me happy and will ultimately be the best for me even if those who claim to love me don't understand or support me. Thank you so much!

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +1

      you're dope af my friend don't ever forget that

  • @rivertheenbybitch117
    @rivertheenbybitch117 4 роки тому +3

    Hi, you don't have to read this if you don't wanna hear my rant.
    I was in my room, watching UA-cam while doing homework, and my mom came into my room and asked what I was doing. I said that I was texting my friend, and my mom said "are you texting a boy...or a girl..?" I said no. She said started talking to me about gender and said to me "you know you're a girl right?" And I said "yep". She then said "good, you better not come to me saying that you're a boy or a... whatever..". I'm a closeted non-binary Asexual and aromatic, and now I'm too scared to come out.

    • @nikolaimars5422
      @nikolaimars5422 4 роки тому +3

      I don't know how to help you but I'm gonna say that if your parents won't love you for who you are they don't deserve you. your supported and loved more than you know, I know how hard it feels to be scared of your own parents because of things like that but talk to someone a friend or something like that it will help
      Sorry if I wasn't much help
      But your supported by me so you can remember that
      And good luck

    • @rivertheenbybitch117
      @rivertheenbybitch117 4 роки тому +2

      @@nikolaimars5422 thank you, at least my sister knows, and she's supportive. Thanks for being supportive, it really means a lot ♥️

  • @SilverSkylark
    @SilverSkylark 6 років тому +3

    OMG YOUR OUTRO IS FROM AVATAR

  • @czapysaw4game412
    @czapysaw4game412 5 років тому +5

    You're awsome. And I'm non-binary :3

  • @swgadrunq1700
    @swgadrunq1700 4 роки тому +2

    One of the main reasons im non-binary is not to be stereotyped. Now people are hating on us. What can anyone do anymore?

  • @maxxiscoronado3835
    @maxxiscoronado3835 4 роки тому +3

    I'm non-binary and i thought this video was going to be fine to watch, but this video really hurt man! Oh and one of the parts that hurt the most is when the one person that was in the Lgbtq+ community didn't accept; Like dude come on!

  • @Josh-ro7gk
    @Josh-ro7gk 6 років тому +17

    Can you make a video on the process of getting trans healthcare? I live in the Netherlands too and besides the fkin rediculous waiting list (I got on it when it was ten months, by now its around a year I think) it's also literally on the other side of the country for me. (I live in Noord-Brabant). I'm just kinda scared of what the process is like and not sure if they'd even take non-binary that seriousely... Is the waiting list for testosterone and stuff long? do you have a lot of appointments (Id have to travel back and forth so much ;-;) etc

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +2

      Hey! Yeah I can make one about that :) dm me on insta and I can talk to you about it too if you want

    • @Sambal123
      @Sambal123 6 років тому

      Silverwaver You should really check out Stepwork! Wayyyy shorter waitinglists etc

  • @PriG92
    @PriG92 6 років тому +5

    Haters gon' hate. Potaters gon' potate. You stay fly dude 😎

  • @kblalack6082
    @kblalack6082 6 років тому +3

    Thank you so much I was reading a lot of stuff about hating Nonbinary people and it made me feel really bad about myself but this helped. ❤

  • @robinlittle6537
    @robinlittle6537 5 років тому +2

    Language evolves social construct evolve or even become obsolete and the world hasn't collapsed in on itself just yet. If anything a lack willingness to accept change and diversity, is what's driven us to some of our more disastrous moments as a species.

  • @Simpishluc
    @Simpishluc 4 роки тому +3

    Am I the only one, that is scrolling down the comments to find haters?

  • @panicatthe21chemicalreject7
    @panicatthe21chemicalreject7 4 роки тому +1

    It’s sad that some people think their life is so bad that the only way to make it better is by making other people’s lives terrible.

  • @yoimxyler1711
    @yoimxyler1711 6 років тому +2

    People think nonbinary isn’t natural, but is marriage natural. Do you see two rabbits with one in a suit and one in a dress and they have a crow marrying them in the middle of a forest? NO! People just need to keep their opinions to themselves if it’s not something nice towards the person

  • @wormwoodcorvids
    @wormwoodcorvids 5 років тому +2

    It appears people have forgotten the thing Thumper the rabbit said all those years ago!
    "If you don't have nothin' nice to say, don't say nothin' at all!"

  • @ramble4395
    @ramble4395 5 років тому +3

    I’m so glad someone acknowledged this. Thank you.

  • @panicatthe21chemicalreject7
    @panicatthe21chemicalreject7 4 роки тому +2

    Did anybody else pause the video and look up the profiles that posted these comments

  • @krisstarr4069
    @krisstarr4069 6 років тому +9

    Woaaa, your voice!
    Thanks by the way for your videos. You inspire me to be less afraid of what other people may think of me.

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +3

      CUTE

    • @gacha_luna5179
      @gacha_luna5179 4 роки тому

      I- I think I might have gender dysphoria but I don't know.... I'm so confused right now... I don't want people to hate me 😩😢

  • @Imtoobusyslayingrn111
    @Imtoobusyslayingrn111 3 роки тому +1

    this is why I’m always so scared to tell my pronouns I always feel warm-hearted when I hear someone ask me what my pronouns are.. it makes me feel like a human again.

  • @cringeyusername8216
    @cringeyusername8216 4 роки тому +1

    Me and my brother were watching a non binary UA-camr when he called them a male.i corrected him but he still called them "he".I told him that I thought that he was being rude,but just like my brother always does he responded by saying "I don't care,he's not here anyways" and you don't understand how mad that made me

  • @nonbirenthenon-binarysiren6299
    @nonbirenthenon-binarysiren6299 4 роки тому +1

    Hello fellow individual who doesn’t fit into society’s norm! I’m a young non-binary and I’m still in school and my teachers are accepting of it and I honestly wish people would be accepting of it because this isn’t easy to drill into people’s heads that when I present feminine I’m still non-binary, when I present masculine I’m still non-binary. So thank you I really like that you’re open about being non-binary because I’m a closet non-binary on my main social because of fear so thank you giving me confidence!

  • @river_grant
    @river_grant 6 років тому +1

    It’s been a long time coming, my slowly realizing/accepting that I am agender, and I’m still scared. Through my whole life, I’ve always struggled to make room for myself. I always think “how dare I take up space if anyone ever slightly gets miffed by it.” But a few days ago, I finally realized I am agender. I’m scared and excited; esp for pride. I don’t want anyone to feel like I just want to be part of the party and am taking away from Trans people in the binary. It’s a tender time I guess, so thank you. Agghhhhh I’m scared.

  • @aurorahernandez3596
    @aurorahernandez3596 5 років тому +2

    So I guess the word binary and the prefix didnt exist 5 years. I wonder how they made computers

  • @WelcomeToMyHead
    @WelcomeToMyHead 6 років тому +9

    Love will always win! Majority wins - we love your videos! Thank you for putting yourself out there to help others - it means more than you could ever know. ❤️👍

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +3

      YOU PEOPLE

    • @chester9584
      @chester9584 5 років тому

      Not a fan with”majority wins” but cheers mate

  • @Ty-uz5qb
    @Ty-uz5qb 6 років тому +4

    ive probably binged watched all your videos and i swear i felt more and more comfortable being a non binary
    thank you :>>>>

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 4 роки тому

      Ty Yet you are still the sex you were born.

  • @queerfrog2244
    @queerfrog2244 4 роки тому +1

    why do people think anyone would just make this up. nobody wants to be treated the way we are. why would we want to be hated on, bullied or killed if it wasn't for being our truest self

  • @toby9528
    @toby9528 5 років тому +1

    as a non-binary person this video is insanely true i think a few of those things have even been said to me, great video

  • @twistedred3653
    @twistedred3653 4 роки тому +1

    I’m agender and I can say it is not easy for me to handle these types of comments. Everyone calls me a girl my parents refuse to use my preferred name and people at school argue with me about my gender saying there are only two genders and I’m a girl no matter what I suffer from depression because of this I feel like I live in a world where I am expected to not be myself if I can get some supportive reply’s that would be great thank you and stay awesome

  • @rgj9602
    @rgj9602 5 років тому +4

    There’s a demon in the background

  • @cjck1344
    @cjck1344 4 роки тому +1

    These people: 0010010101100
    Me, an intellectual: 2346874538

  • @ramble4395
    @ramble4395 5 років тому +3

    Can you react to “Expressing Myself. My way.” It’s a gender education video and it has more than two genders on there.

    • @DevGame988
      @DevGame988 5 років тому

      i've send it to my mother once
      i don't know if that helped but some weeks (or months) later i stopped hear her saying transphobics things (bc she was, in the past, u see) :)

  • @nonnipiers6510
    @nonnipiers6510 6 років тому +3

    You keep being yourself my handsome fellow non-binary pal👌👍👏

  • @Johnson-nd4mc
    @Johnson-nd4mc 6 років тому +1

    I think sometimes people forget about the difference between sex and gender. You can always tell because they might bring up how it’s “science”. And yeah, scientifically, I am a female. But does science understand how my mind works? Does science read my thoughts? All science does is tell me my genitalia. That’s all female is. Gender, however, is more complicated. It involves the mind and how the mind perceives the body. That’s why we say ‘gender is a spectrum’ and not ‘sex is a spectrum’. Idk, share your thoughts.

  • @MinYoongi-yt4us
    @MinYoongi-yt4us 5 років тому +2

    Why do people watch videos about people like us if they hate us? Like.....I'm not Christian, so I don't watch videos about Christianity. Is it that hard to respect that we are different and be on your way since we're not hurting anyone?

  • @Eclipsingg
    @Eclipsingg 5 років тому +1

    Being non-binary is amazing and the people that are non-binary are just as great as everyone else and don't deserve the hate they get. Yes, theoretically there are two genders. But, being non-binary/agender means you don't identify as either gender. Does that necessarily make it another gender? In some cultures there are four genders, who's to say that there are only two? You're great for staying strong, Noah. For all of our genderless hearts, we thank and love you.

  • @MujigayMemes
    @MujigayMemes 6 років тому +3

    Infighters are the worst and AGGGHHH I LOVE THIS

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +2

      :)

    • @Cesares_Atelier
      @Cesares_Atelier 5 років тому

      Good! 😂 As long as we are so scary- we are powerful! 🤟🏻

  • @ruth4169
    @ruth4169 4 роки тому +2

    I am coming out to my friends as non-binary and i am scared but you people like make me way less scared of coming out

  • @rhiannon1833
    @rhiannon1833 6 років тому +2

    months late, but i hafta say, my favorite one is the whole rant about going against nature. especially as a nonbinary person who belongs with nature based spirituality. Fun snippet: nonbinary has always been around babes. also omg youre so cute.

  • @frankgianopoulos3494
    @frankgianopoulos3494 5 років тому +2

    You’re my hero. I needed this today.

  • @bat.tapestry
    @bat.tapestry 6 років тому +16

    You're so damn awesome oh my. Thanks for doing you my pal. Your videos always help with things and this made me giggle. Biggots man.😂

  • @DevGame988
    @DevGame988 5 років тому +3

    i should stop watching videos talking about non-binarity, bc as a curious person, i always go in comments.
    it makes me sad, as a genderfluid person. like if i don't deserve the right to live or to be respected.

    • @Toasty218
      @Toasty218 5 років тому

      Newtx you deserve love! I’m
      Genderfluid to

    • @DevGame988
      @DevGame988 5 років тому

      @@Toasty218 Aw, you deserve love too my comrade! ♥

    • @BriskiTheFreak
      @BriskiTheFreak 4 роки тому

      Hi there just wanted to say you are valued, loved, and valid.

  • @Robin-ps9wq
    @Robin-ps9wq 4 роки тому +3

    i used to be one of those "biology" people...
    turns out i was in denial and im actually nonbinary, oops

    • @tasosplat3589
      @tasosplat3589 4 роки тому +1

      I don't think you knew anything about biology...

    • @chelonianmobile
      @chelonianmobile 4 роки тому +1

      Congrats on changing your mind and coming out! There's a lot more room outside the closet.

    • @Robin-ps9wq
      @Robin-ps9wq 4 роки тому

      @@chelonianmobile why thank you :3

  • @gachasammy9116
    @gachasammy9116 4 роки тому +1

    I am non-binary I find lots of types of people most who disrespect me but some people who want me to feel powerful I have a trans friend he was the first person to make me feel accepted and even now he is my best friend both of us have familys that don't accept us both we stick together that's all we can do just stay close to the ones who accept you for you.

  • @Kai-cx5xs
    @Kai-cx5xs 6 років тому

    I just found your channel and your face is hella nice, it’s also nice to hear about more Dutch non binary people so keep on doing youuu

  • @VioletEntropy04
    @VioletEntropy04 4 роки тому +1

    Not to mention that restricting someone's gender by their genitals is just classic transphobia.

  • @jblox1990
    @jblox1990 5 років тому

    Do you prefer Rocky Horror Picture Show, Priscilla Queen of the Desert or Hedwig and the Angry Inch?

  • @pharaohtiger9864
    @pharaohtiger9864 5 років тому

    I told a friend I was lesbian (I was still confused on what “gender” I was). He told my entire school. That was in fourth grade. Fifth grade. I’m tilting towards bisexual, since I’ve had major crushes on boys and girls. Also fifth grade. Pansexual, as I see myself fit with any “gender”. Sixth grade - now. Non-binary/agender. Still haven’t told my parents, as they said it was a mental disability. Also kids call me an attention seeker, and continually call me gay girl or lesfuck. So yeah, middle school has been great, you?

    • @DevGame988
      @DevGame988 5 років тому

      i lived the same, but my mother knows. she kinda accepts it, but stills call me the wrong pronouns & by my deadname bc "it's a habit & she can't change it".
      i support u ! :)

  • @ashsparrow7153
    @ashsparrow7153 6 років тому +4

    As a nonbinary, I love this.

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +3

      Ash Sparrow as a ex-nonbinary, that makes me happy :)

  • @lexsanders212
    @lexsanders212 6 років тому +3

    You're a beautiful human being. Thank you for being so strong!!!!

  • @neonavery
    @neonavery 6 років тому +2

    why do people not interested watch??? Anyways, looking good Noah.

    • @NoahHella
      @NoahHella  6 років тому +1

      good question :) tnx mate!

  • @AlexB-lr2qp
    @AlexB-lr2qp 5 років тому +1

    My parents are non-binary haters, which is a problem because I am non-binary and I made the mistake of coming out of the closet to them.

    • @BriskiTheFreak
      @BriskiTheFreak 4 роки тому

      I feel you there. My father is super old school religious. Like, women cant be on the stage area (sorry dont know what its called) level stuff.
      I'm not sure it means much coming from a stranger but you are valid and I hope you have a great day!

  • @sophiebacklund2702
    @sophiebacklund2702 5 років тому +1

    I saw some really bad videos abt people hating on nonbinary people and it made me feel rally bad, luckily i saw this video and feel a lot better. :) +1 sub for you

  • @deadchannel9105
    @deadchannel9105 4 роки тому +3

    Even if you don't support or understand non binary people you should still respect them and use their pronouns and name. Or if you want to try and understand them more try doing some research on way some people may feel this way and it may change your mind.

  • @lazyhedgehog9659
    @lazyhedgehog9659 4 роки тому +5

    Crack open a cold one with the nb's

  • @SoulRiver-jq3qs
    @SoulRiver-jq3qs 5 років тому

    Thank you so much for making your videos! I recently just started my own channel to help myself and I'm glad I found your channel to watch as well! This is only the first video I came across but I'm looking forward to watching more. Fuck the haters, live your truth.

  • @killerqueen6404
    @killerqueen6404 5 років тому +4

    What happens if I don’t feel like a boy or a girl?

    • @kmcl11
      @kmcl11 5 років тому

      Nothing. You simply id as what you are. The sex you were born with. The end.

    • @alexmiller5841
      @alexmiller5841 5 років тому +3

      Then you can identify as you please. If you stay from make to female feelings then you can say Gender fluid, but if you feel like your both or neither then you can call your self Non-binary. But that's all up to you

    • @killerqueen6404
      @killerqueen6404 5 років тому +2

      Lea'sRandom Videos thanks

    • @alexmiller5841
      @alexmiller5841 5 років тому +1

      @Alaina Howard actually you can feel feminine or masculine or feel like a boy or a girl as you call it do to chemical balances and imbalances in your brain.

    • @Simpishluc
      @Simpishluc 4 роки тому

      You could possibly be non binary or agender etc. or it could just be that you feel that way

  • @lydiachong1274
    @lydiachong1274 6 років тому +1

    I actually love the haters. I would rather be vilified for being NB than be accepted for passing convincingly as female. It feels oddly validating.

    • @xbduf4gb
      @xbduf4gb 4 роки тому

      Lydia Chong But you are female either way.

  • @ifthesewallscouldtalktheyp7692
    @ifthesewallscouldtalktheyp7692 4 роки тому +2

    I'm agender and ace. And the people who say there's only two genders are false in every manner
    Even if you dont include non binary people, theres still a chance you can be born without a gender. Stay proud everyone!💛💬💜🖤
    ⬛☑⬜✅⬜☑⬛
    ⬛☑⬜☯️
    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
    ❤💜💙
    ❤💛💙