Stay in no contact. For those out there struggling…I’ve been there. Stay in no contact. It gets so much easier. It’s so hard at the start but take it day by day. Be kind to yourself. The longer there’s no contact the stronger you’ll become. You’ll begin to take control again. Be patient and stay strong everyone. ❤
It is so hard, I feel bad for doing the no contact. Lately it feels so hard to talk to him but at the same time I feel bad for not talking to him when I see him😞
I doubt it, he dumped me six weeks ago, been in no contact since that day. And….crickets. I’m healing but it still hurts so much. I miss him like crazy and then I get angry at myself for being weak. I picture him having the time of his life with another woman while I’m sitting at home crying 😢
Yep. This has happened in the past with two of my exes. They don't understand how cut throat most women are now. They thought it would be a cake walk but the dating world is getting worse day by day
@@Elizabeth-ef2mmI was right there once. Only I knew she was having the time of her life because she is a party animal and posts her social events on the daily. It pained me to see how she could just go and have fun and live life like we never existed and yet here I am stuck picking up broken pieces of my ego, heart and self esteem. Heartbreak never gets easier, we just get stronger. I know what helped me was shifting my mindset to focus on what great things I do have in my life. Sure I might not be dating the person whom I thought I was going to spend my life with, but I have a roof over my head, food in my stomach, clothes on my back and a job/career path I’m pursuing. I’m more blessed than a lot of people in this world
Yup both me and my ex talked about how hard dating is nowadays and we both went on real bad dates before we met each other. She left and now she has to experience that again
Blessings to you and yours!❤️ I was married 28 yrs to my BEST FRIEND! Things went very sour when we relocated to another state. It’s been 13 yrs since the divorce and I thought that it could NEVER be any relationship but lately I’ve been thinking about him daily! I WANT HIM BACK! He’s the father to my 2 son’s. He also lives in another country. We talk sometimes about our son’s but NOT about US restoring our relationship. I’m praying for his return!❤️
No contact works on making you getback with your ex or it makes you move on, but despite anything, you might find someone who could love you better in the future. stay in no contact ya’ll, good luck
@@isiahmunoz4466if the relationship is really over then it won't work at all. If your ex still is willingly to talk to you and has feelings still then it should work within weeks or months depending on the person and how the relationship ended. But they didn't want you when they had you, who's to say if y'all get back together that the cycle won't repeat?
@@monicanavarro6831 whatever makes you happy Monica …..if you’re emotionally weak then yes chances are you will take your ex back or you won’t ignore them but don’t be crying later if they are still disrespecting you. 👍✊
No contact is really proven effective based on my experience. Don't stalk and just leave them alone after a few days later you'll just received a non sense text from your ex saying things that happened in the past. Just stay in the course and eventually she'll come back.
You mentioned that the person will bring up the past. So what does it mean if I fell out with an ex 4 years ago (He was my ex back then too.) and had no contact. Then, out if the blue, he texted me about running into my ex coworker's husband, who I barely know. After light hearted catching up, he went left and started bringing up our past with exact details. Then he started insulting me. When I gave him the floor to express what his beef was with me, he denied that anything was wrong. Then continued bringing up more of the past with more insults towards me. I told him about himself and insulted him back and he did not respond. Mind you, he is married with kids and supposedly very happy, which he made sure to let me know. So what was that all about? Why do guys do stuff like that?
Sometimes the anger is masking hurt, as well as fear… In some cases, your ex is fearful that you are going to sing like a canary, and all his or her secrets that you have held secret will now be public! If you were dealing with a narcissist you know him or her through and through the public only knows the persona that is projected, but you know who they really are, because you have seen that mask fall off… He is telling mutual friends that I left him… When the truth is, we were away, and he made this statement. You can get the F out of here, blah blah blah… And I just took him up on his invitation and never look back… No text messages no emails no calls no contact… Access denied! I will not continue to put up with the disrespect and the emotional abuse ever again! Stay strong out there🥇❤️
I'm experiencing all of these frl, but she's already with someone else. The thing is that i don't cry or anything, is like i lost my emotions no cap, but ay life is life, positivity will come stronger to me and ik it
If she's doing all these things while with someone than I feel bad for her boyfriend bc i doubt he knows what she's doing behind his back when she's reaching out to you. She just wants to keep you around as her safety net if she ends up alone again. My boyfriends ex use to do that shit before me and thought she was still going to do that while he was with me to! I wasn't having them being just "friend's" bc I knew they weren't the type of ex's that can just be friends, especially bc I knew their history and how they use to sleep with eachother even after they broke up. She was the type of ex that can't just be your friend unless there was going to be physical intimacy still so I gave him an ultimatum to either pick her or me bc I was ready to end it and he chose me and blocked her and that was almost 6 years ago. She now has a baby and a baby daddy and me and him now have our first child together to. Yeah move on put your self respect first. She's not thinking about you until she's unhappy again. Don't let her use you as a temporary placeholder, bc the moment she's tired of you again she'll monkey branch somewhere else. Trust me.
I am experiencing all 3, i have moved on and it has been 2yrs since i was with him. I have forgiven him for what happened between us however i wish him well and hope he finds light within his life without trying to take light from another 🙏 The no contact allowed me to dive deep and reflect. Now i know my true worth God has sent a good man to me and we both pour into each other. Without letting go of the old, i would have never found the new. My Past experiences have helped shape me into the woman i am today, i Give Thanks ❤
My ex has 0 feelings for me! She had no feelings for me in the marriage i think. She divorced me. I tried to hard to make things work. I yelled and fussed . That pushed her away. I think she should have listened to what upsets me instead of divorcing me. Im hurt, but im definitely not running behind someone who has no interest in me!
Coming from a deeper level of thinking, he is speaking truth . Yes we understand some guys or girls do come with other motives at times , this applies to the ones actually like you.
...@@Chucktinez than I must attract narcissists... everyone has different experiences in life and it is through that lens in which our viewpoints are formed You're fortunate to not be their favorite type of target...
@@Naarvana you got yourself a stalker, been there, just ignore her because she is looking for a reaction..if she gets more overt get a protective order
1st of all - NO contact means NO contact, so I don't know or care about his feelings, he ain't care about mine. Any who , Sorry for that man, I could see him on the side of the road on fire and wouldn't waste a drop of spit to put the fire out good luck buddy.
Sure @@Jimminityjabooboo he was a narcissist, and a very good one at that. I didn't recognize it or even consider that one could be so conniving and cruel towards someone who laid their heart bare before them. But hey, all healed over here w/ not an ounce of hate, to God be the Glory. What don't kill ya, only makes you stronger. 🙌🏼 Have a fantastic day.
@@user-pd4yp4iv7w hey 👋 not negative- it was a negative situation. I’m free. 😉God is good, all the time. He knew exactly everything that I’d endure in life, and knows how much I can take. So when I fell on my knees and asked for help, He came,and lifted me to my feet again. Just like a good,good father. I’m keeping my hand in His 🙌🏽
My ex saw me sending a voice note to a friend. Then he goes "you texting your boyfriend?" I said No im taking a long break. Then he said see me tomorrow😂
Facts , she told me I was her person stayed with her through surgery and had her tell me that she wanted to be there for me at my lowest, just to kick me to the side of the curb when I was homeless and leave me with nothing, I was living in my car with a fight coming up still training and when I lost I fell in a deep depression, I broke no contact with her out of anger a few weeks ago and I wish I never did, that woman gave me demons, pushed me to suicide again and everything, Idek what the point of living is anymore she won’t ever apologize or even understand what things I’ve had to witness sense she through me out to the side like trash when all I did was try to love her, and it was my first relationship, she said she just used men and me for dick and money that’s it
Wow guys! Really? I’m so sorry. My valentines was even worse he stayed and got the most last minute non meaningful gifts that it made me feel worse at the end of the day ! After 1 1/2 yrs he says you’re so hard to buy for, I don’t know what to get you! Excuses for I’m too shitty to get anything of value and I really wasn’t paying attention to what types of things you like or wanted to put in the effort In
It's been six years. I still have dreams about him. Wake up sobbing the next morning. My one true love. My heart aches for him, but he never cared. He got married last year, which shuts all doors for me. Hope God gives me the reason someday for him being so cruel to me. I gave him all I had.
Stop stalking his profile and just live your life. I would stalk my ex fresh off our breakup, she hooked up with someone she named a friend during our relationship a couple week after our break up and it really messed with my head, I wanted to keep digging for stupid reasons and it kept me stuck and depressed, tough words I needed to hear, you got your closure move tf on !
Accept Jesus as your savior and Lord, if you are a Christian, resuscitate uour relationship with him. Read the Word, meditate on the Word. When thought about your ex come to mine replace them with the Word It's not going to be easy, but you will eventually feel better.
Jump into another relationship in about a months time, thats not having feelings, that's lack thereof. Especially when you both had a beautiful relationship and they felt you both weren't as sexually compatible as she thought. Pulled a Mario and bounced from one man, to the next with the quickness.
@@Kopite19877 nope. Over a year later as of two days ago. I unfortunately did see her ass today as I drove by her heading back to work. Just waved and that's it, she is so in"love" with this newer man, time will tell.
@@senatorarmstrong9459 Any update on your end? I was in a 6 month relationship with my ex and honestly it was a genuine beautiful relationship, but ultimately we just weren’t on the same page when it came to long term. I’m 25 already working 4 years after college in a tech job moved 8hrs from my hometown into a huge city & when i met her at the new city she was a 19 year old part time cashier and still in college. She told me she always wanted to transfer to a much bigger college to graduate from (5hrs away from the city we both lived) , I said maybe i could go with you but i’m already locked in my career so i tried convincing her to stay in her current university. Eventually around the first 4 months dating she seemed sorta unhappy with not moving to that big college, so i repeatedly asked “what’s so wrong about the college you’re already in if all that matters is what you study” but she never understood. She just said she wasn’t enjoying the college experience like she thought she would and maybe that bigger college would give her that. I said to myself ok, she definitely has a goal she wants for when she’s older so she can someday say “yeah i graduated from that bigger college” but tbh i think she could have just matured from that. We both knew we couldn’t handle long distance because fr fr we were deeply in love man. So i thought maybe she just needs to go alone because there’s no way i’m going with her and leave my career. Apart from work I still have my goals of becoming a real estate /property entrepreneur someday, and well, i guess her goal was to flex the college she graduated from. Once we hit 5-6 months I initiated the break up, it was so painful to do but i felt like it was the right thing to do and what was worse was when she didn’t want to leave, so i was probably being a piece of shit to her for ignoring her sometimes or me posting at a bar so she can loose interest in me. We hung out after the breakup, and i’m ngl, i really felt like i wanted to still work this out with her, but she said maybe we do need to break up or just reconnect at a later time. So it’s been 2 months since the breakup and she did say we don’t have to do a no communication contract, so i sometimes would hit her up to ask how it’s going, i told her i missed her and still live her so much, but all she really would say was she still needs time to consider reconnecting before she actually moves to that university in August 2024. She slowly started to ghost me, i texted her a heartfelt Merry christmas text and she took a day to respond but yet she saw my story the day i texted her. And worse, on New Year right at 12:00am i gave her a paragraph telling her she was the best thing to happen to me in 2023. And guess what? She hasn’t even opened it and it’s well past 2-3 days. But yet she still has been seeing my stories in the gym and with family these same past 2-3 days. So she’s choosing to ignore my texts but still wants to see what i’m up to. I miss her to death, but she seemed to slowly ghost within the last month. My most rational assumptions are 1.She moved on by talking to someone else or 2.She’s probably mad about how things ended and feels i don’t deserve text replies. When she was the one that said “I’m only a text away” when we hung out the last 2 times after the breakup. You know what, after typing all this shit i’m pretty pissed now & wondering why the hell am i tripping. Idk but i still love her and want us to work out someday, but i don’t want to look to emotional and text her “So you’ll see what i’m up to in my stories but won’t even text me back happy new years & pouring my heart out that i still love you?” Should i text her this or just wait until she decides to read it and replies.
People throw narcissists everywhere these days. This personality disorder is a serious illness. We can label everyone as narcissists they might have narcissistic traits but won’t be full blown narcissist 😮
Bro what should I do me and this girl were talking and both had feelings for each other but someone said a lie about me and now we just friends but we are still talking and hace the same vibe on how things were before that person ruined our relationship
@idkman05 you know I read your post and as a man I'm guilty of having dating apps on my phone 😢 guess out of boredom honestly ,but u know I been knowing ex Girl since we was 19 n 18 yes old now 36 yes me her 35 and have one child together.altho she had another child by someone else I see my teen daughter inside the toddler all over again and ,yes we cool we still argue at times which is crazy ......but G @idkman05 im no where near a narcissist I've dealt with them after separation from bm, and even then other two relationships I was in some how was always a situation where I either needed her help or she needed mine .don't let the dating apps ne a discouragement tho I think your person might be scared to express true feelings to you and afraid of rejection!! One of you guys if its love try to express it at least get it off your chest things change and some people change ❤❤ pray until something happens
My keeps in contact asking me about if she can barrow money, and we have dogs together. It's like every month she hits me on gmail. Best part she has a man and a child
Can we say.. ALL THINGS A NARCISSIST DOES?! 🤣 I left my ex this past December and trust me NO CONTACT IS BETTER FOR YOU! You will get stronger every day and you deserve better. ❤
This is true especially since I was that ex who still had feelings for someone and even tho they somewhat had feelings when we first started back talking, she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore and given that, she doesn’t really wanna talk to me anymore even tho we’re somewhat friends which is understandable and so many ways. Truth is, it’s too late for us and I had the chance but when it’s gone, it’s gone.
What if we're in no contact and he's gone from viewing my whatsapp stories to not? I don't know what to do.. he broke up with me 3 months ago, I miss him so much, I love him, is he ever gonna come back? He broke my heart so bad ... 💔
I got over my ex from during summer break and then just yesterday a friend of mine and his (she goes to his school and she also used to like him), she texted me and sent a screenshot of their chats and he said he misses me and the times when we went on calls, played games and all that. I just sent a voicenote of me laughing
Yes. This is true my ex says i can't give you my heart anymore, but i want you to be my friend since then i never bother him and he kept sending me snap chat of everything we did and have before but im not interested since I have big reason also why im not begging anymore until i see him change what his doing i wont come back and thats a blessings in disguise.
Or they are a narcissist. Keep moving kings and queens. I went no contact 2 weeks ago. Blocked him on everything. 6 years we did life together. I released him with love due to the fact he was emotionally immature. He literally could not hold space for my emotional well being. I have released him with love and pray God leads us both to peace. His friend is now sending me my ex's stories he posts of Insta. I know a flying monkey when I see one. It won't work homie, I'm healing and that doesn't hurt like it would of weeks ago. Let go, be still, and let God
Ex wife of 12 year still contacting me to get angry over something trivial and for emotional support. I'm not mean but I always find a way to cut the conversation short. Not going back to that ever again.
like the last one you said, they kept texting and such. making it harder for me to do no contact, but then out of the blue she stopped. You think she found somebody else ?
I’ve experienced all 3 recently & my ex wife & I just officially got divorced 2 weeks ago.. It’s messing with my head so much especially since she was the one that cheated on me for months and wanted the divorce..
Yea he was like that even if I don't know if he does feel like that but ik that he keeps texting me asking me if I'm ok or if I'm seeing someone else and I just block him because what he did it will still struck me in the heart from how broken I was... I'm trying to move on but those visions of fun memories I had for 3 and half years... Now it's making me sick to my stomach and it's making me sad to think about it...
Getting upset with you after going no contact is CRUCIAL, this happened to me last night I was enjoying myself and she just sat and watched me do it. Serves you right for cheating now ima go talk to her…
What about her still following on Instagram but recently unfollowed me on Snapchat? She recently moved to Wyoming but mentioned that she is considering on moving to North Carolina, She also stated that it’s best if we both move on, she doesn’t want a relationship right now.
Staying gone, continuing to move on, he can continue to find fulfillment in those women he found fulfillment in while he was dealing with me. Moving on to that man that loves me with his entire soul
My SP announced that I m not good for her and she said we must separate. First I tried talking normal after I realized it’s not worth it and walked away. I am doing sports , working a lot. It passed 1 month and a half , I didn’t bother her even once because I respected her decision and said I wasn’t going to chase. I m not into so much spying I was just checking her Facebook time to time (I confess). Normally she wouldn’t know it cause we are not friends there. 4 days ago a friend of mine took photo of me in the gym , I really liked that photo cause I look smiley and energetic. Well I said to change my old fb profile photo to the new one. Maybe she was also checking my fb cause today I woke up and just had a peak at her fb - she blocked me 😂 first 5 min I was wondering why , then I thought maybe she got angry that I put a nice photo in my profile .. I am smiling about it but it’s just weird. Like me I don’t really care if she’s blocked or not. If I find a girlfriend I also won’t care.
He posted two beautiful people with puffy cheeks 😢 stopped contact with my Son and his Mother delivering bad bad news 😢. 2022 i found the truth of his death 😮😢not 2019! Thank you for your help.
Don’t stay stuck on the signs queens, move on and let go. The right one you won’t ever have to get signs or ever question their feelings and loyalty towards you! This is just a trap men love to play on woman to keep them stuck!!
Well, I can truly tell you that is much easier said than done! You really can’t make a blanket statement that people should get over their ex’s… some break ups are absolutely painful!!! Perhaps it would be easier to get over a break up if it was done with consideration and compassion, or it was mutual, but a lot of break ups don’t end that way, people are mean, spirited, hurtful, hateful, vengeful, and that may take time to get through because you usually go to stages of grief. And after investing your care, concern, encouragement, kindness, support, energy money, etc. etc. in a person that you believe was just as invested in you but then you find out you were being cheated on or they were in the relationship. For the benefit of it all… Can really be quite damn hurtful to your heart, and I don’t think that’s something you And your pain is valid! But once you begin to sort things out and look at the relationship with a different lens… You will begin to know that they did not value appreciate you and you deserve much much better, and you are better off without them, and then , the process of moving on or getting over is now in full affect! Stay strong out here 🥇❤️🙏🏻get over in a flash!
This is like my exact situation. My ex broke up with me because he is in the marines, and long distance put a lot of stress on our relationship. He broke up with me because he saw I was suffering and knew I’d never leave him. I was hurt so much but I haven’t moved on. I blocked him and have been doing no contact for exactly 3 months. And I still miss him terribly. I want to reach out to him, tell him I still love him…
My ex still wants to take care of me, helping me to find a new place. Is he feeling guilty or does he still care? I feel like he made his dissision because of fear and childhood wounds. He feels stressed about the next step, so he broke it off. Im heartbroken. After i have a new place and i get my stuff out of his place i will be nc. Let him feel the loss.
all these three signs are in me.. she is saying that she suffer a lot, cried a lot but moved on very quickly now she is traveling, dancing in clg fests even her voice tone is changed, in past unintentionally I took her love granted,,, I was very suffering from constant failure and traumas so i couldnt be able to five her time, so she decide to end up this relationship. i want to restore things but she is so changed now, she moved on quickly. I want to restart my life.
Ex should be placed in box and mailed to wherever he or she left for. There’s no reason to reopen the door Sometimes is best to just move on, allowing new habits can be damaging from whom they been with.
That man don't care nothing about me or my feelings😂😂
Because you the ex with the feelings, not him.
similar case buddy neither does my girl
Same girl same😂
Well, at least you know.😂
Yup my ex neither
Stay in no contact. For those out there struggling…I’ve been there. Stay in no contact. It gets so much easier. It’s so hard at the start but take it day by day. Be kind to yourself. The longer there’s no contact the stronger you’ll become. You’ll begin to take control again. Be patient and stay strong everyone. ❤
Sometimes it’s ok to reconcile as long as you both can forgive and stay committed to moving forward from your mistakes
What if my X mom wants to stay in contact
@@gabrieldipietro6096it’s only okay to reconcile if you both was never with anyone else after your split
@@gregahanon3402to each their own🤷🏼♂️. Me and her are both seeing other people and are working on being genuine friends atm
It is so hard, I feel bad for doing the no contact. Lately it feels so hard to talk to him but at the same time I feel bad for not talking to him when I see him😞
It's OK your ex going to realize that you were the best option after they get back out in this hard dating world 😅
And then they will attempt to come back once they see how difficult it is ....kp the door closed if they try
I doubt it, he dumped me six weeks ago, been in no contact since that day. And….crickets.
I’m healing but it still hurts so much. I miss him like crazy and then I get angry at myself for being weak. I picture him having the time of his life with another woman while I’m sitting at home crying 😢
Yep. This has happened in the past with two of my exes. They don't understand how cut throat most women are now. They thought it would be a cake walk but the dating world is getting worse day by day
@@Elizabeth-ef2mmI was right there once. Only I knew she was having the time of her life because she is a party animal and posts her social events on the daily. It pained me to see how she could just go and have fun and live life like we never existed and yet here I am stuck picking up broken pieces of my ego, heart and self esteem.
Heartbreak never gets easier, we just get stronger. I know what helped me was shifting my mindset to focus on what great things I do have in my life. Sure I might not be dating the person whom I thought I was going to spend my life with, but I have a roof over my head, food in my stomach, clothes on my back and a job/career path I’m pursuing. I’m more blessed than a lot of people in this world
Yup both me and my ex talked about how hard dating is nowadays and we both went on real bad dates before we met each other. She left and now she has to experience that again
My x hubby did that and after working on our relationship and starting from scratch,we’re about to remarried again. 🙌🙌♥️
Good luck! Hope it works out this time around
Awww happened to my friend that way! I’m so happy for them and you!
Blessings to you and yours!❤️ I was married 28 yrs to my BEST FRIEND! Things went very sour when we relocated to another state. It’s been 13 yrs since the divorce and I thought that it could NEVER be any relationship but lately I’ve been thinking about him daily! I WANT HIM BACK! He’s the father to my 2 son’s. He also lives in another country. We talk sometimes about our son’s but NOT about US restoring our relationship. I’m praying for his return!❤️
All the best never give up on your soulmate.
Hope everything goes fine this time
No contact means not giving access to my life and move on with my life.
Right they didn’t want you so let someone else have me
No contact works on making you getback with your ex or it makes you move on, but despite anything, you might find someone who could love you better in the future. stay in no contact ya’ll, good luck
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How long is no contact supposed to last :/
@@isiahmunoz4466if the relationship is really over then it won't work at all. If your ex still is willingly to talk to you and has feelings still then it should work within weeks or months depending on the person and how the relationship ended. But they didn't want you when they had you, who's to say if y'all get back together that the cycle won't repeat?
@@isiahmunoz4466forever 😔
@@isiahmunoz44664EVER
They are an ex for a reason…….ignore them and just move on.
HOW tho? Like you create a special bond and just cut it off? I get it but like why does it have to be so black and white
Lmao ❤
Why the hell are you here then ?
I won’t ignore them who cares if there ex they have feelings and there still a person that will just hurt them more
@@monicanavarro6831 whatever makes you happy Monica …..if you’re emotionally weak then yes chances are you will take your ex back or you won’t ignore them but don’t be crying later if they are still disrespecting you. 👍✊
Behind anger theirs always fear📌📌📌
My ex told me I was a mistake and he messed with me because he was at a dark place at the time. You never knows people intention
No contact is really proven effective based on my experience. Don't stalk and just leave them alone after a few days later you'll just received a non sense text from your ex saying things that happened in the past. Just stay in the course and eventually she'll come back.
You mentioned that the person will bring up the past. So what does it mean if I fell out with an ex 4 years ago (He was my ex back then too.) and had no contact. Then, out if the blue, he texted me about running into my ex coworker's husband, who I barely know. After light hearted catching up, he went left and started bringing up our past with exact details. Then he started insulting me. When I gave him the floor to express what his beef was with me, he denied that anything was wrong. Then continued bringing up more of the past with more insults towards me. I told him about himself and insulted him back and he did not respond. Mind you, he is married with kids and supposedly very happy, which he made sure to let me know. So what was that all about? Why do guys do stuff like that?
Days? Try years.
@@moonsyoungestsun6550he's just a dismissive Avoidant
Or you get exactly what you desire! No contract! Games people play
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647I prefer forever
This man is real after seeing all the comments and asking for help. I see that my prayers are coming true Thank you Dr OLUWASEUN🤗
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My ex never had feelings for me.
I was the new toy,…
Until I wasn’t and he moved on to the next new toy.
Womp womp
@@SlimReaper-rw5xy chill 😂😂😂😂
My ex ain’t do any of these things. She ain’t thinking about me. She gone gone
Feel that. Same with my ex. We both just up and quit talking to each other , and it’s been 3 months since. No word , no nothing.
I don't really know how to thank Dr OLUWASEUN, you're sure a wonderful spiritualist ... thanks for bringing back my boyfriend🥰
He’s on Facebook
Sometimes the anger is masking hurt, as well as fear… In some cases, your ex is fearful that you are going to sing like a canary, and all his or her secrets that you have held secret will now be public!
If you were dealing with a narcissist you know him or her through and through the public only knows the persona that is projected, but you know who they really are, because you have seen that mask fall off…
He is telling mutual friends that I left him… When the truth is, we were away, and he made this statement. You can get the F out of here, blah blah blah… And I just took him up on his invitation and never look back… No text messages no emails no calls no contact… Access denied!
I will not continue to put up with the disrespect and the emotional abuse ever again! Stay strong out there🥇❤️
I'm experiencing all of these frl, but she's already with someone else. The thing is that i don't cry or anything, is like i lost my emotions no cap, but ay life is life, positivity will come stronger to me and ik it
Hey if you ever wanna talk bro. I got you. I know ima random guy but still we’re all family ain’t we? Human brotherhood. One love man
If she's doing all these things while with someone than I feel bad for her boyfriend bc i doubt he knows what she's doing behind his back when she's reaching out to you.
She just wants to keep you around as her safety net if she ends up alone again. My boyfriends ex use to do that shit before me and thought she was still going to do that while he was with me to! I wasn't having them being just "friend's" bc I knew they weren't the type of ex's that can just be friends, especially bc I knew their history and how they use to sleep with eachother even after they broke up. She was the type of ex that can't just be your friend unless there was going to be physical intimacy still so I gave him an ultimatum to either pick her or me bc I was ready to end it and he chose me and blocked her and that was almost 6 years ago. She now has a baby and a baby daddy and me and him now have our first child together to. Yeah move on put your self respect first. She's not thinking about you until she's unhappy again. Don't let her use you as a temporary placeholder, bc the moment she's tired of you again she'll monkey branch somewhere else. Trust me.
Tell her how you feel... She may feel the same way.
I am experiencing all 3, i have moved on and it has been 2yrs since i was with him.
I have forgiven him for what happened between us however i wish him well and hope he finds light within his life without trying to take light from another 🙏
The no contact allowed me to dive deep and reflect. Now i know my true worth God has sent a good man to me and we both pour into each other. Without letting go of the old, i would have never found the new.
My Past experiences have helped shape me into the woman i am today, i Give Thanks ❤
Yay congratulations!
My ex has 0 feelings for me! She had no feelings for me in the marriage i think. She divorced me. I tried to hard to make things work. I yelled and fussed . That pushed her away. I think she should have listened to what upsets me instead of divorcing me. Im hurt, but im definitely not running behind someone who has no interest in me!
Coming from a deeper level of thinking, he is speaking truth . Yes we understand some guys or girls do come with other motives at times , this applies to the ones actually like you.
They're hoovering, looking for narcissistic supply
1 in every 200 people are narcissistic. People throw this word around just cause their ex is harsh or playing games. Maybe they’re just immature.
...@@Chucktinez than I must attract narcissists... everyone has different experiences in life and it is through that lens in which our viewpoints are formed
You're fortunate to not be their favorite type of target...
@@Chucktinez narcicissm is actually a spectrum
What if your in no contact but she's stays over at your neighbours using him for what Im doing when she's not there?
@@Naarvana you got yourself a stalker, been there, just ignore her because she is looking for a reaction..if she gets more overt get a protective order
I wouldn't know. Because when he reached out to me. I never answer. When you're done you're done.
Omg he called me last Tuesday I didn’t answer either. Done with that shit
They could also not leave you alone cause they could be a narcissist 😬😬
All these go out the window when you’re simply trying to stay informed about your child
My ex won’t even look at me at the gym but she was the first one who viewed my story on snap the other day the minute I put it up.
My Ex Got very Upset when ever I did mention a guy I use to see, he said he don’t want to hear about him at all.
Learn not to bring up any past relationships because they will use it against you
1st of all - NO contact means NO contact, so I don't know or care about his feelings, he ain't care about mine. Any who , Sorry for that man, I could see him on the side of the road on fire and wouldn't waste a drop of spit to put the fire out
good luck buddy.
Do you mind me asking what happened for you not to like him so much?
Sure @@Jimminityjabooboo he was a narcissist, and a very good one at that. I didn't recognize it or even consider that one could be so conniving and cruel towards someone who laid their heart bare before them. But hey, all healed over here w/ not an ounce of hate, to God be the Glory. What don't kill ya, only makes you stronger. 🙌🏼 Have a fantastic day.
Imagine he did that on purpose hoping you would become what you are now, minus the negativity
@@user-pd4yp4iv7w hey 👋 not negative- it was a negative situation. I’m free. 😉God is good, all the time. He knew exactly everything that I’d endure in life, and knows how much I can take. So when I fell on my knees and asked for help, He came,and lifted me to my feet again. Just like a good,good father. I’m keeping my hand in His 🙌🏽
When they show there true Colors don't try to Repaint the Colors. MOVE ON Gracefully ❤
It's so hard. I really love him!
My ex saw me sending a voice note to a friend. Then he goes "you texting your boyfriend?" I said No im taking a long break. Then he said see me tomorrow😂
So my exs had zero feelings for me. Thank God.
Sometimes it be like that 😂 I understand . I pray God does bless you with someone whose for you in life❤
I don't care how my Ex feels
Yet here you are
Cold 🥶
💯💯💯
Yes you do
I don't give a f##king shit on her anymore
20 years and i haven't moved on. He has. That's ok. I'll see him in Heaven and if he turns away from me there, I can turn to Jesus for comfort
Oh hell nah😭
@@ALLYRTV i know right?! trust me, i wish this wasn't my truth.
Girl 2003😅?
@@tsebomahao4229 2001.....I know....
Man exes need to stay in the past exes come back when they mess up they want to get you back cause you the best they had
This evil woman has no feelings!
Facts , she told me I was her person stayed with her through surgery and had her tell me that she wanted to be there for me at my lowest, just to kick me to the side of the curb when I was homeless and leave me with nothing, I was living in my car with a fight coming up still training and when I lost I fell in a deep depression, I broke no contact with her out of anger a few weeks ago and I wish I never did, that woman gave me demons, pushed me to suicide again and everything, Idek what the point of living is anymore she won’t ever apologize or even understand what things I’ve had to witness sense she through me out to the side like trash when all I did was try to love her, and it was my first relationship, she said she just used men and me for dick and money that’s it
😂😂😂
Im literally experiencing all three of these from my ex that broke up with me on valentines day
She broke up with me on Valentines too
Wow guys! Really? I’m so sorry. My valentines was even worse he stayed and got the most last minute non meaningful gifts that it made me feel worse at the end of the day !
After 1 1/2 yrs he says you’re so hard to buy for, I don’t know what to get you! Excuses for I’m too shitty to get anything of value and I really wasn’t paying attention to what types of things you like or wanted to put in the effort In
oh man they really did that. Thats so trashy. So sorry that happened to you.
Mine also left me on valentine's day 😢😢😢
My Ex Husband always ask my son is im seen someone else😂
Yup, very true. All 3 are still happening
It's been six years. I still have dreams about him. Wake up sobbing the next morning. My one true love. My heart aches for him, but he never cared. He got married last year, which shuts all doors for me. Hope God gives me the reason someday for him being so cruel to me. I gave him all I had.
Stop stalking his profile and just live your life. I would stalk my ex fresh off our breakup, she hooked up with someone she named a friend during our relationship a couple week after our break up and it really messed with my head, I wanted to keep digging for stupid reasons and it kept me stuck and depressed, tough words I needed to hear, you got your closure move tf on !
Accept Jesus as your savior and Lord, if you are a Christian, resuscitate uour relationship with him. Read the Word, meditate on the Word. When thought about your ex come to mine replace them with the Word
It's not going to be easy, but you will eventually feel better.
Nice! might be my computer but the audio was a little soft to hear. Thanks!
Jump into another relationship in about a months time, thats not having feelings, that's lack thereof. Especially when you both had a beautiful relationship and they felt you both weren't as sexually compatible as she thought. Pulled a Mario and bounced from one man, to the next with the quickness.
Rebound is a rebound, if anything they want a distraction from thier feelings.. did they come back?
@@Kopite19877 nope. Over a year later as of two days ago. I unfortunately did see her ass today as I drove by her heading back to work. Just waved and that's it, she is so in"love" with this newer man, time will tell.
@@senatorarmstrong9459 Any update on your end? I was in a 6 month relationship with my ex and honestly it was a genuine beautiful relationship, but ultimately we just weren’t on the same page when it came to long term. I’m 25 already working 4 years after college in a tech job moved 8hrs from my hometown into a huge city & when i met her at the new city she was a 19 year old part time cashier and still in college. She told me she always wanted to transfer to a much bigger college to graduate from (5hrs away from the city we both lived) , I said maybe i could go with you but i’m already locked in my career so i tried convincing her to stay in her current university. Eventually around the first 4 months dating she seemed sorta unhappy with not moving to that big college, so i repeatedly asked “what’s so wrong about the college you’re already in if all that matters is what you study” but she never understood. She just said she wasn’t enjoying the college experience like she thought she would and maybe that bigger college would give her that. I said to myself ok, she definitely has a goal she wants for when she’s older so she can someday say “yeah i graduated from that bigger college” but tbh i think she could have just matured from that. We both knew we couldn’t handle long distance because fr fr we were deeply in love man. So i thought maybe she just needs to go alone because there’s no way i’m going with her and leave my career. Apart from work I still have my goals of becoming a real estate /property entrepreneur someday, and well, i guess her goal was to flex the college she graduated from. Once we hit 5-6 months I initiated the break up, it was so painful to do but i felt like it was the right thing to do and what was worse was when she didn’t want to leave, so i was probably being a piece of shit to her for ignoring her sometimes or me posting at a bar so she can loose interest in me. We hung out after the breakup, and i’m ngl, i really felt like i wanted to still work this out with her, but she said maybe we do need to break up or just reconnect at a later time. So it’s been 2 months since the breakup and she did say we don’t have to do a no communication contract, so i sometimes would hit her up to ask how it’s going, i told her i missed her and still live her so much, but all she really would say was she still needs time to consider reconnecting before she actually moves to that university in August 2024. She slowly started to ghost me, i texted her a heartfelt Merry christmas text and she took a day to respond but yet she saw my story the day i texted her. And worse, on New Year right at 12:00am i gave her a paragraph telling her she was the best thing to happen to me in 2023. And guess what? She hasn’t even opened it and it’s well past 2-3 days. But yet she still has been seeing my stories in the gym and with family these same past 2-3 days. So she’s choosing to ignore my texts but still wants to see what i’m up to. I miss her to death, but she seemed to slowly ghost within the last month. My most rational assumptions are 1.She moved on by talking to someone else or 2.She’s probably mad about how things ended and feels i don’t deserve text replies. When she was the one that said “I’m only a text away” when we hung out the last 2 times after the breakup. You know what, after typing all this shit i’m pretty pissed now & wondering why the hell am i tripping. Idk but i still love her and want us to work out someday, but i don’t want to look to emotional and text her “So you’ll see what i’m up to in my stories but won’t even text me back happy new years & pouring my heart out that i still love you?” Should i text her this or just wait until she decides to read it and replies.
Do you do any videos on Narcissism?
Your looking at one.
Honest
@@Mary-sm7fd💀
People throw narcissists everywhere these days. This personality disorder is a serious illness. We can label everyone as narcissists they might have narcissistic traits but won’t be full blown narcissist 😮
when a Diagnosed NPD Coach describes Traits of a Narc & the only thing missing is her Picture. She might b a NARC!!
Bro what should I do me and this girl were talking and both had feelings for each other but someone said a lie about me and now we just friends but we are still talking and hace the same vibe on how things were before that person ruined our relationship
Yasss wanna be my friend so bad I'm coo can't friend zone an EXwell not me
Absolutely TRUE BROTHER.
Mine is still mad after 3 years😂😂😂 from what her family told me and I don't care..
😝😂
Unfortunately I haven't seen any of those signs..but I'm doing me🤷
my ex does all three but he's also the same person who's on dating apps and having girls over so I'm good. classic narcissist I believe
@idkman05 you know I read your post and as a man I'm guilty of having dating apps on my phone 😢 guess out of boredom honestly ,but u know I been knowing ex Girl since we was 19 n 18 yes old now 36 yes me her 35 and have one child together.altho she had another child by someone else I see my teen daughter inside the toddler all over again and ,yes we cool we still argue at times which is crazy ......but G @idkman05 im no where near a narcissist I've dealt with them after separation from bm, and even then other two relationships I was in some how was always a situation where I either needed her help or she needed mine .don't let the dating apps ne a discouragement tho I think your person might be scared to express true feelings to you and afraid of rejection!! One of you guys if its love try to express it at least get it off your chest things change and some people change ❤❤ pray until something happens
Well I Blocked Mines. So Yeah ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for your kind words, you're a beautiful spirit
Holy fuck I'm that ex. I trully am a piece of shit.
New subscriber, love the video. 🖤
This is so true you hit it right on the head
My keeps in contact asking me about if she can barrow money, and we have dogs together. It's like every month she hits me on gmail. Best part she has a man and a child
don't do it Joe. Block her lol tell her get it from new dude lol the nerve right
Can we say.. ALL THINGS A NARCISSIST DOES?! 🤣 I left my ex this past December and trust me NO CONTACT IS BETTER FOR YOU! You will get stronger every day and you deserve better. ❤
This is true especially since I was that ex who still had feelings for someone and even tho they somewhat had feelings when we first started back talking, she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore and given that, she doesn’t really wanna talk to me anymore even tho we’re somewhat friends which is understandable and so many ways. Truth is, it’s too late for us and I had the chance but when it’s gone, it’s gone.
We both do this to each other sadly . Eventually both have to stop and move on. And I have to and will.
That’s so good
What if we're in no contact and he's gone from viewing my whatsapp stories to not? I don't know what to do.. he broke up with me 3 months ago, I miss him so much, I love him, is he ever gonna come back? He broke my heart so bad ... 💔
If he views wattsapp,but don't respond,what does that mean.
If he views wattsapp,but don't respond,what does that mean.
If he views wattsapp,but don't respond,what does that mean.
@@tpa3293 he’s confused
Move on completely he’ll come back
I suspected as much thank you God bless
I got over my ex from during summer break and then just yesterday a friend of mine and his (she goes to his school and she also used to like him), she texted me and sent a screenshot of their chats and he said he misses me and the times when we went on calls, played games and all that. I just sent a voicenote of me laughing
Lol I guess I better move on.
Sometimes it just takes them longer. I’ve had some come back after 2-3 yrs and ask me to literally marry them the first time they saw me
Im here to say 1 my first relationship, tried to come back aftr 16 yrs..keep moving on..but..ijs they be trying lol
Yes. This is true my ex says i can't give you my heart anymore, but i want you to be my friend since then i never bother him and he kept sending me snap chat of everything we did and have before but im not interested since I have big reason also why im not begging anymore until i see him change what his doing i wont come back and thats a blessings in disguise.
You're the best ❤️ love from algeria
Thank you man you helped me alot
Or they are a narcissist. Keep moving kings and queens. I went no contact 2 weeks ago. Blocked him on everything. 6 years we did life together. I released him with love due to the fact he was emotionally immature. He literally could not hold space for my emotional well being. I have released him with love and pray God leads us both to peace. His friend is now sending me my ex's stories he posts of Insta. I know a flying monkey when I see one. It won't work homie, I'm healing and that doesn't hurt like it would of weeks ago. Let go, be still, and let God
my ex is afraid that because of a moment we had the relationship was going to be awkward
I told him I wanted us to break up, and he answered that there's no break up if I want to excuse myself, I should feel free
Thank you I feel much better now
Haha, these are exactly the thing that I've done to them. I was hoping for a different message
Ex wife of 12 year still contacting me to get angry over something trivial and for emotional support. I'm not mean but I always find a way to cut the conversation short. Not going back to that ever again.
like the last one you said, they kept texting and such. making it harder for me to do no contact, but then out of the blue she stopped. You think she found somebody else ?
I told mine I will give him space and time to heal from the hurt I caused to him and that I am sorry that I didn’t respect his boundaries..
I haven't talked to her in a month and she tells all my friends that Im really annoying so I think she's mad because I won't talk to her
I’ve experienced all 3 recently & my ex wife & I just officially got divorced 2 weeks ago.. It’s messing with my head so much especially since she was the one that cheated on me for months and wanted the divorce..
interesting. I'll add though, that many ex's are afraid to ask if the other ex is dating anyone else because they're afraid of the answer.
Fear is the path to the dark side.
Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, Hate leads to suffering.
I thought she was the ex but it was me I tried too hard but at the same time I think I didn’t try enough I’m sorry Anita.
i needed this
No contact is always best.Move on in tym Wen you feel ready to.👌
Great THANKS
Yea he was like that even if I don't know if he does feel like that but ik that he keeps texting me asking me if I'm ok or if I'm seeing someone else and I just block him because what he did it will still struck me in the heart from how broken I was... I'm trying to move on but those visions of fun memories I had for 3 and half years... Now it's making me sick to my stomach and it's making me sad to think about it...
Getting upset with you after going no contact is CRUCIAL, this happened to me last night I was enjoying myself and she just sat and watched me do it. Serves you right for cheating now ima go talk to her…
I can't wait to achieve that level of glossy L'Oréal beard like this man right here 😅
What about her still following on Instagram but recently unfollowed me on Snapchat? She recently moved to Wyoming but mentioned that she is considering on moving to North Carolina, She also stated that it’s best if we both move on, she doesn’t want a relationship right now.
Staying gone, continuing to move on, he can continue to find fulfillment in those women he found fulfillment in while he was dealing with me. Moving on to that man that loves me with his entire soul
My SP announced that I m not good for her and she said we must separate. First I tried talking normal after I realized it’s not worth it and walked away. I am doing sports , working a lot. It passed 1 month and a half , I didn’t bother her even once because I respected her decision and said I wasn’t going to chase. I m not into so much spying I was just checking her Facebook time to time (I confess). Normally she wouldn’t know it cause we are not friends there. 4 days ago a friend of mine took photo of me in the gym , I really liked that photo cause I look smiley and energetic. Well I said to change my old fb profile photo to the new one. Maybe she was also checking my fb cause today I woke up and just had a peak at her fb - she blocked me 😂 first 5 min I was wondering why , then I thought maybe she got angry that I put a nice photo in my profile .. I am smiling about it but it’s just weird. Like me I don’t really care if she’s blocked or not. If I find a girlfriend I also won’t care.
My ex divorced me , then asked why i dont call her. What!!! Istill missed her. My pride wouldn't let me call her!
Well get out of your pride. That's the problem our pride and ego is the downfall of all our relationships.
He posted two beautiful people with puffy cheeks 😢 stopped contact with my Son and his Mother delivering bad bad news 😢. 2022 i found the truth of his death 😮😢not 2019! Thank you for your help.
Don’t stay stuck on the signs queens, move on and let go. The right one you won’t ever have to get signs or ever question their feelings and loyalty towards you! This is just a trap men love to play on woman to keep them stuck!!
we broke up a week ago and just went no contact. it’s been 2 days. he won’t stop blowing my phone up and calling me from different numbers
You guys need to just get over your exes, once it's over it's over move on .
Every situation is different, maybe you should be considerate of others feelings when commenting
@@lissafuller947👏
Not necessarily, different situations have different outcomes. Don't be an 💩
Well, I can truly tell you that is much easier said than done! You really can’t make a blanket statement that people should get over their ex’s… some break ups are absolutely painful!!! Perhaps it would be easier to get over a break up if it was done with consideration and compassion, or it was mutual, but a lot of break ups don’t end that way, people are mean, spirited, hurtful, hateful, vengeful, and that may take time to get through because you usually go to stages of grief. And after investing your care, concern, encouragement, kindness, support, energy money, etc. etc. in a person that you believe was just as invested in you but then you find out you were being cheated on or they were in the relationship. For the benefit of it all… Can really be quite damn hurtful to your heart, and I don’t think that’s something you
And your pain is valid! But once you begin to sort things out and look at the relationship with a different lens… You will begin to know that they did not value appreciate you and you deserve much much better, and you are better off without them, and then , the process of moving on or getting over is now in full affect!
Stay strong out here 🥇❤️🙏🏻get over in a flash!
This is like my exact situation. My ex broke up with me because he is in the marines, and long distance put a lot of stress on our relationship. He broke up with me because he saw I was suffering and knew I’d never leave him. I was hurt so much but I haven’t moved on. I blocked him and have been doing no contact for exactly 3 months. And I still miss him terribly. I want to reach out to him, tell him I still love him…
Dont do it!
Seeing all three and I don't know what to do with it even though I still want him back badly.
😢sameee
thank you
Nah bro left me from real😭😫 only the first one was right but he don't even look at me😢
I got one for ya,what if he breaks up with you but keeps paying your phone service??
My ex still wants to take care of me, helping me to find a new place. Is he feeling guilty or does he still care? I feel like he made his dissision because of fear and childhood wounds. He feels stressed about the next step, so he broke it off. Im heartbroken. After i have a new place and i get my stuff out of his place i will be nc. Let him feel the loss.
all these three signs are in me.. she is saying that she suffer a lot, cried a lot but moved on very quickly now she is traveling, dancing in clg fests even her voice tone is changed, in past unintentionally I took her love granted,,, I was very suffering from constant failure and traumas so i couldnt be able to five her time, so she decide to end up this relationship. i want to restore things but she is so changed now, she moved on quickly. I want to restart my life.
So true I chased her bro I begged, SHE LEFT ME but wanted to stay friends. When I don't text her she's gets mad
Man girl still text her ex and follow her ex on social media 🤦🏼♂️
Ex should be placed in box and mailed to wherever he or she left for. There’s no reason to reopen the door Sometimes is best to just move on, allowing new habits can be damaging from whom they been with.
Yep.... Dead On Point.... For REAL.