What They Don't Tell You About Being Famous - Steven Bartlett
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Chris and Steven Bartlett discuss the downsides to fame. What has Steven Bartlett learned about becoming famous? What is Steven Bartlett bigggest takeaway from being famous? What has Steven Bartlett learned about himself since becoming famous?
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Is it coming out today?
No matter how good I feel someone’s life looks, I try to remember that everyone is paying a cost we can’t always see.
ALWAYS
true
Absolutely true
No free lunch
Such a good way to view this.
As a listener of the diary of a CEO, it's SUPER nice to Steve answers some questions for a change 🙂
Right? He even changed his posture to that similar of his guests!
I much prefer anonymity and rich over fame...the ability to walk freely without being mobbed is priceless
This is honestly something I've thought about for years. And in truth the only real benefit for being famous (as a man) is unlimited access to beautiful and sexy women. But if you get married that benefit becomes a detriment because having so many gorgeous women throwing themselves at you and the temptation to cheat will destroy your marriage.
I agree!! I would chose to work hard for the rest of my life than to have fame and all that goes with. I do though feel for the children born into that world without choice 🙏🏻💫🥰
Me too!!
Thanks for having me on Chris! X
Great discussion about celebrity versus the responsibility of making payroll. In my twenties, during an intense argument with my immensely successful uncle about the value of wealth creation versus spending one's efforts to create a just society, I glibly asked him to name one socially redeeming thing he had ever done. His response was quick and confident. He said, "I create jobs." I did not appreciate it then, but by the end of my career I knew exactly what he meant.
That "payroll stress story" brought back memories and sent a shiver down my spine... preparing for that bank meeting, with one day to go... it's difficult to effectively communicate that kind of pressure.
“Everyone you meet, you’re meeting everyone they know” is a BAR. Mad insight from such a throwaway sentence.
Agreed. I had to rewind/replay and then pause after he said it. Deep!!
Same. Had to put that one in my notes.
I don't get it can u explain please
@@sliceofpie1741 that one person will tell everyone they know, they met you and how the encounter went. etc.
Great insight from Steven about the pressure of Fame vs Business. Looking forward to this dropping, many thanks for making this happen Chris
Living in LA and i have a few famous friends and have talked to a few. The analogy that really clicked for me is when one of them told me it's like living your life like during the covid lockdowns, but you can go to exclusive events and parties sometimes. And that sounds miserable to me.
Yup. They live incredibly isolated, sheltered lives.
Keanu Reeves manages it
@@almondmilksoda your pfp & banner art look so cool
I met Steven at he’s apartment a few months ago. Can confirm he’s exactly the same off camera as he is on camera.
He kicked my dog lol
I'm not sure of the context in which how you 2 met. However, I will say that it is somewhat ironic reading your comment because of the story he told in this very video about Justin Bieber and how a lot of famous people just want to be left alone when they're at home.
@@333angeleyes the context was that Steven invited me personally to come to he’s flat as he filmed an episode of he’s podcast. :) there was no celebrity stalking going on like Bieber don’t worry
ghey?
Found your channel when you upload the short episode with PBD. Man I love your channel! Not only the production quality which is top notch but the content is amazing this one has to be my favorite so far and I’ve been binging for two days now. Great work and thank you for being out there
What an interesting conversation! Been following Steven's work for a while, will watch the whole interview and others from you, Chris!
Great insights. Looking forward to the whole episode dropping.
This was so so good. Anxiety at ALL levels. That’s life.
Very interesting chat. Steven had a really good answer as to why its worse to run a business than be famous. Look forward to checking out the whole thing
I appreciated his answer but really only went into depths of what a CEO has to do. A super famous person isn't just getting rich by being famous (even Kim K has to do some type of work), they need to constantly sell themselves and remain relevant and popular to keep the bag coming in, sometimes they are performing monkeys travelling around the globe with performances night after night while trying to remain cool in public and in interviews or spend half the year away from family filming for roles etc etc... If anything he's comparing a famous person who's already made it and doesn't have to worry again to a CEO still in his role? I think the battle between which is harder would be better if there was a 'Drake' type there as well as Steven. Then we could really compare.
I really needed this today. Thank you so much. Really helpful.
Steven is my age but he Floors me with how much wisdom he has he broadens the way i think.. phenomenal
Hey, I was in the middle of the full Steven Bartlett episode and It disappeared. Will it be back up soon? Great work Chris. We are the same age and you've brought some serious relatable sense to advancing into our 30's. like snapping out of spell! Thank you
As a subscriber/fan of the diary of a CEO, so nice to see this interview! thank you so much
Refreshing message.
Stay focused on the right things....toward purpose. ✨
This was really good. Thank you lads for this conversation
thanks for sharing Chris
This was absolutely fascinating, and I was not expecting it to be ! LOL .... Thank you both very much
So true as a professional employee, we're so disconnected from the stress the ppl at the top have to keep a well oiled business. I just keep my stress free job and am totally oblivious!
Such a fascinating conversation!
I agree that when you are in the public eye, you have to filter out the constant media that could appear like "rubbish" but then I also believe everything is a reflection of you! So I believe even the "rubbish" shows you something about yourself.
Holy shit! I am looking forward to this one!
Two legends got me into podcasting
Love Steve schooling Chris on what 'actual business' is rather than pure fame...🤣
Steve has first-hand knowledge on that subject and he made sure to let Chris know...😂
The Cost of being the CEO of a Business... Steve got me right there.. Great chat..
Fascinating, these things regular folk like me don’t know. So, having a window into a different type of life is genuinely fascinating.
very interesting chat & take on things 👌
A MAN OF PRINCIPLES 👏👏👏👏👏👏 TOP NOTCH... I ENJOY HIS VIDEOS AND FIND EACH ONE OF THEM, ADD VALUE
I knew a guy in college who would get escorted out of a house party to his dad's shindigs with a police escort. Sometimes, he'd also be accompanied by a driver/bodyguard when going to "dangerous" places.
His family halfway hid things. Hidden enough for the masses to not notice but out in the open enough for other rich people to notice.
Wealth after a certain point adds danger. It's just that celebrity people have a worse danger to wealth ratio.
Wow that was a massive eye opened, the insane pressure of business giants is definitely unseen and misunderstood. What great insight.
I'm really enjoying this Age of podcasts where we have thoughtful, curious,, thinking men discussing matters of importance. Embodying the modern-day Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle.
No diss intended toward remarkable women.
As a woman, I would warn girls that the Shame and scrutiny that could come from fame could include : intimate content or information you don’t know or know has been made ,going public. I bet some women are on edgeeee in the public eye.
Looking forward to this one 🤌🏻
Not heard this yet but love Steven he is the real deal !
Steven is a gem ❤
Thank you gentlemen
amazing content
"Seeking fame is like licking honey from a knife" - Buddha
Very interesting 👌
I think y’all split tested this thumbnail. Well done. This one got me!
Better to be the song writer than the famous singer.
Love Steven Bartlett's perspective!
Such a great episode! Maybe next you'll go to Madrid🤔
My entrepreneur dad experienced so much pain in the responsibility of paying others, when the bank were threatening to pull the plug, but then suddenly somehow, a deal would come good and he could breathe again and pay his staff, or when bailiffs knocked on the door and he somehow managed to persuade them to back off..all this from the door of our six bed home with swimming pool where the outside perception was wow 🤩 There was a lot of heartache involved in that perceived ‘success’. People see what they want to see..
Powerful words - Everything has a cost.
Cool to see the title and thumbnail change!
I once knew someone who did private security and often the clients were billionaires. He said the one thing he learnt was; 'Fuck being a billionaire'!
Dan Ariely wrote in his book Misbelief about trying to clear his name against conspiracy theorists. It's a losing battle. You can't logic your way out of their beliefs. He had to rely on someone he trusted to manage what people were saying about him as it was soul-crushing to read. You can't win, and like Steven says, it's best not to even enter that arena.
Your image changing graciously
Interesting perspective about the cost of someone super famous and someone running a large company where you are responsible for their livelihood.
I'm actually looking forward to listening to the whole episode. I do feel it's a shame that everyone now seems to have resorted to these click bait titles and thumbnails on UA-cam. At NO POINT in this video was the conclusion that "Being Famous Sucks" there was a 5 second mention of Steven being in public with his girlfriend. I have started to lose respect for channels that resort to these types of tactics in order to increase views and clicks. Especially Chris Williamson as he doesn't need to do it. He is a great interviewer and has awesome guests. Let the content do the talking and use a bit more creativity to build titles and thumbnails that actually represent the content.
This video could have easily been titled "What's the real cost of being famous?" or something similar.
Listening to everyone’s opinion doesn’t work for anyone regardless of fame… this is something you learn as you age if you’re paying attention. The level of fame that leads you to being followed and recognized everywhere you go would be intolerable for me… no $ amount would ever make it worthwhile.
Love Steven, what a classy guy
Hi Chris. I was watching 17 Raw Lessons About Human Nature - Steven Bartlett (4K) | Modern Wisdom 688 and all of a sudden you took it private and I could no longer access it. I subscribed to your UA-cam channel expecting to be able to view the content and let my friends know about it. That cannot happen now. What happened? Thanks.
love stephen
Being famous would be my worst nightmare, ever 😱! I've never understood appeal!
Can someone tell me why the caption doesn’t match the photo in the caption. I think it’s quite distracting.
But I do recognise and follow Stephen Bartlett on his road to perfection - follow what interests you - Dr Amen - thanks guys 😊
Worth considering too, in business once you have the money you can leave and lead a normal life. But once you're famous, you can't take that genie out of the bottle, your image is already known by everyone. Fame isn't something you can go back on. There are plenty of retired CEOs out there living on a beach but Justin Bieber will be mobbed for life even if he stops all performing and social media.
Chris your podcast Rock. But please fix the button at the end. Is incorrect. I want see the full episode of Steven but there is an other old guy! 😢😂
CB2 receptor agonism (activation) cools off trauma responses quite extremely. Cannabis is well known for its therapeutic and healing capabilities in PTSD.
Steven a good courageous gentleman
You can't live a life without regrets.
The best you can do is to choose the regrets you are willing to live with.
For every choice you make, there is a corresponding regret.
The thing is the ceo of a company doesn’t sell their product using their image. Drake etc depend so much on image that of course that leads to this higher level of ‘fame’. When you choose to monetise your image you can’t just switch that off.
I was just watching the full length podcast and it went to private.. Hope it goes back up soon 😂
Bartlett is bloody brilliant
Really enjoyed chrises podcast on steves diary of a ceo earlier this year.
rest in peace @chrisqboyd you need to talk again with Justin Murphy and cover this guy
Boy is right about the pressures of owning a business. It doesn't turn off either, not even at 3am
Smart.
Live among king and queens but never lose your common touch.
steven's voice sounds very nice
Wealth and fame is a little different.
I like him he is cool person
Yeah there are different levels of pain
Live simple.
Yep to the 'don't aim at ghosts', basically don't focus on other people's delusions, because that is what all opinions of other people are: delusions.
But then again, I've not heard of Chris Williamson either, so just looked you up too 😉
Steven Bartlet ibs a nice guy I like, to watch him on Dragons Den especially,,
What an awesome dragon 🐉
The Nando’s brought the heat 😂😂😂
Totally the more money you have & especially going on TV or having a public profile then you should expect the come back, it’s proof there isn’t privacy when you become like him! The Diary of a CEO………..I’m private so don’t think I could deal with it!
I like Steven’s attitude to fame and fortune and follow his podcasts. However I worked in a very close and personal capacity to four incredibily rich people, two were famous, one was known but not famous and one was completely unknown. The common thread was that three of them were a*rs*holes but one was well mannered,pleasant and respectful. Reflect on this.
No one knew who Steven was before lock-down. He could have done the podcast without showing his face. Similarly, he could invest in people/businesses from a relatively secret position, like many millionaires. He placed himself in the public eye, on Dragon's Den, which attracts a lot of attention. You have to wonder why that was. He's giving me Prince Harry / Megan vibes.
""famous" on UA-cam isn't of "public interest".
The irony in this video is not lost on me, Steven Bartlett does not need the income from UA-cam videos, he does it for ego. He seeks out the fame, there's no such thing as a free lunch you know this better than most, and the fame being the free lunch has a price to pay, deal with it, or avoid the 'fame' and just do your business.
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Whats a can of milk
Whats a can of milk?
Drake’s wealth is a direct cause of his fame and his relevance in the public eye, Ben Francis, on the other hand, is a business man, publicity for him is less relevant than it is for Gym Shark.
*Making money is an action. Keeping money is behavior. Growing money is knowledge💲.*
i skipped to different parts of this 'interview' - and all i heard was this chris williamson droning on...
Thank you Brandon! This is not a racist song and I’m not surprised but so glad Jason Aldean talked straight to that dingbat.
Is it just me or does Steven Bartlet look like Will Smith?