Marriage Be Hard Podcast | Marcus & Angel Tanksley

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  • Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
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  • @I_Dont_Recall_My_Name
    @I_Dont_Recall_My_Name Рік тому +45

    I love that Angel and Marcus didn't feel forced to necessarily agree/accept the phrase "Marriage be hard" but was still able to acknowledge others might understand it differently.

  • @jainicole
    @jainicole Рік тому +126

    I pray that marriage continues to not be hard for Angel and Marcus!! That's what I'm talking about. Divine connection.

  • @Love_intentionally_
    @Love_intentionally_ Рік тому +285

    We see them talk all the time and I’m still Uber excited about this one.

  • @EbonynoIvory
    @EbonynoIvory Рік тому +128

    Melissa: You know alot of things but have you considered that maybe you don't know all the things?
    Kev: No, why would I consider something that isn't true? 😂😂😂

  • @2011misscofg
    @2011misscofg Рік тому +127

    I need the rest of the interview please this was good!

    • @heARTFlowPodcast
      @heARTFlowPodcast Рік тому +2

      Agreed!!! I was wondering what happened, thought I kept messing it up. 😂

    • @taraj15
      @taraj15 Рік тому +2

      I had to keep looking cause I thought something went wrong lol

  • @carolyngardner2014
    @carolyngardner2014 Рік тому +50

    I enjoy the way Kevin & Liss do interviews with friends and keep it professional like they don’t hang out/be together everyday. Very professional 😊

  • @latione2009
    @latione2009 Рік тому +79

    I love these sessions… maybe this is what the love hour can turn into. A weekly series with other couples? 👀

    • @aic0809
      @aic0809 Рік тому +4

      That’s an awesome idea!

  • @ItsJustDiggs
    @ItsJustDiggs Рік тому +47

    I’m so glad that Marcus and Angel spoke about marriage not being hard for them because all we hear about marriage is that it’s hard work. I do not subscribe to the idea that marriage has to be hard for everyone. If you both are whole, healed, & committed to each other, why would it be “hard”?

    • @stacysummers3347
      @stacysummers3347 Рік тому +14

      I took issue with them saying that because for the rest of the interview they talked about all the reasons marriage IS hard even to the point of them going to therapy. Seven years in I can say that marriage is hard no matter who you are, but hard doesn't mean it is catastrophic or abusive.

    • @ItsJustDiggs
      @ItsJustDiggs Рік тому +8

      @@stacysummers3347 Good point. I took what they explained as that it takes effort to keep it going well. Something can require effort in order for it to work, but not necessarily be hard to deal with.

    • @Talisa3636
      @Talisa3636 Рік тому +2

      @@ItsJustDiggs 100%!!! Effort is great even if you don’t want to at the time. I think marriage can stretch you in a positive way if couples let it. We do get the message of “hard” a lot more in society. Very refreshing to see a different take on it during an interview.

  • @driam.9791
    @driam.9791 Рік тому +30

    This was a good conversation but that was an abrupt ending lol is there a part 2 coming?

  • @oneflyladismith9761
    @oneflyladismith9761 Рік тому +18

    Marriage be hard from the unruly cousins/ churchy folks. I love it. ❤️

  • @EbonynoIvory
    @EbonynoIvory Рік тому +12

    "When you don't allow people to go through their path it doesn't stick the same"

  • @kristensmith3151
    @kristensmith3151 Рік тому +3

    So glad to hear them
    Say it’s not hard. Married 18 years and it’s not hard. It’s intentional. But not hard. Glad I’m not alone in that.

  • @iamladyblack1188
    @iamladyblack1188 Рік тому +12

    We’ll that ended abruptly! Part 2 please. This was too good and I need to hear the rest!!!
    Quarantine wasn’t hard for my husband n I either. We made a good time of it. We were already homebodies. I think we’re ambiverts, so we do well with and without ppl. As long as we have each other, and our family!

  • @deliamorgan5766
    @deliamorgan5766 Рік тому +14

    Angel and Marcus said marriage isn’t hard and I think a lot of things they have explained not only in this podcast but in all the others are in fact hard… we may not like the word “hard” but hard doesn’t and shouldn’t detract from the fact that it is still beautiful and worthwhile. Bought the book and loving it so far.

  • @naomiluxe0
    @naomiluxe0 Рік тому +15

    The video cut off out of nowhere y’all, it might’ve been an editing mistake

  • @nicoler8669
    @nicoler8669 Рік тому +13

    This interview I was looking forward to the most. I was so excited like I don't see this group of people every week. But question is why it just cut off like that 😀

  • @wandascott838
    @wandascott838 Рік тому +27

    I knew this was going to be good. I’ve learned so much about Angel and Marcus.

    • @bibicat
      @bibicat Рік тому

      She go cray cray when ppl call her Angela...🤣🤣🤣

    • @wandascott838
      @wandascott838 Рік тому

      @@bibicat Whew Chile that must’ve been spellcheck. You are so right. Let me see if I can edit it

  • @angenetta7546
    @angenetta7546 Рік тому +4

    I have been married 30 years and this was HELPFUL!!!!

  • @brittanybrown5950
    @brittanybrown5950 Рік тому +5

    Everything Angel and Marcus described to me sounds like hard work especially around the 30 to 35 minute mark. They just appeared to be disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing when they said marriage isn’t hard. Marriage is hard but if you put in the work and time it is very rewarding.

    • @tboogie38
      @tboogie38 Рік тому

      It’s all how you look at things. You can look at things from a positive angle or a negative one. As long as you are communicating and getting your issues resolved, does it really matter?

  • @carlamccullum1738
    @carlamccullum1738 Рік тому +7

    why did it cut off! Josh must have been at the controls lol dang foo!

  • @tboogie38
    @tboogie38 Рік тому +2

    I cannot wait!!! Love them!

  • @Dwight_Mama
    @Dwight_Mama Рік тому +1

    The interview that I've been waiting for.

  • @thekentlife614
    @thekentlife614 Рік тому +9

    I was waiting for this one, fun conversation. It’s just something about your chemistry together…. It’s the “ waiting for the pinecone to fall” for me. It actually make sence and funny at the same time.

  • @mrserwin08
    @mrserwin08 Рік тому +20

    This one is gonna be so much fun!!!

  • @ThatonechickB
    @ThatonechickB Рік тому

    I’ve been waiting for this one!!!

  • @kawandajohnson6297
    @kawandajohnson6297 Рік тому

    I just love yall. This is the conversation I needed...TODAY

  • @AlliNW0nderland.
    @AlliNW0nderland. Рік тому +5

    Lol! Yea I’m the one that LOVES asking deep relationship personal questions but I struggle answering it lol

  • @renewilson2540
    @renewilson2540 Рік тому +10

    Two of my favorite married couples!

  • @trblessed1020
    @trblessed1020 Рік тому

    Love this series so much

  • @jkmelvina
    @jkmelvina Рік тому +14

    Love these interviews. Kev Lisa Angel and Tank are wonderful. The upload was cut off abruptly. Will there be a part too

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 Рік тому

      The previous interview cut off too. Not sure what is going on. I thought it was on my end.

  • @syorkblue
    @syorkblue Рік тому

    Love this interview!! Waiting for Part 2, please!!!!!💜💜💜💜

  • @tolasiwisa4322
    @tolasiwisa4322 Рік тому +7

    This will be my favourite one, already know it!!

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 Рік тому

    I knew this would going to be a fun episode....love the conversations!

  • @izzymizzle
    @izzymizzle Рік тому

    This the one I was waiting for

  • @lasimmons0506
    @lasimmons0506 Рік тому +3

    I was waiting for Marcus and Angel , they are my favorites

  • @blerdinthecity
    @blerdinthecity Рік тому +1

    You all have such great chemistry on anything you collaborate on. 🖤🖤

  • @missyen07
    @missyen07 Рік тому +4

    This interview was the equivalent of Kev & Liss going on “is this gonna start an argument” book promo and their first response to the question is “No, we don’t argue at all”. Come onnnn!

    • @EshaBby444
      @EshaBby444 Рік тому +1

      Exactly!!!!! I was reading through all the comments and I thought I was the only one that saw this...it's like they were actively pushing against the main point of the book lol I understand being protective of your marriage but it's okay to say it's difficult sometimes sheesh

  • @Msheartofwisdom
    @Msheartofwisdom Рік тому +1

    This was SOOOOO good. ❤ All of them were good but I think this one has the most laughter. This was a feel good one with really good nuggets of information

  • @sxxyangpresents...
    @sxxyangpresents... Рік тому +6

    Yeah my favorite two couples.
    Congratulations on the book tour.
    New York Times Best Seller's List let's get it!!!🎉😜

  • @MarianDrayton
    @MarianDrayton Рік тому +6

    This convo was EVERYTHING!!! 🔥emoji! ✋🏾 emoji! 🤣🤣🤣 But in all seriousness, this shows that if two able bodied people CHOOSE to show up, it will continue to work, perfection isn’t needed. Just, y’all are the big Kuzzos who’s life I truly appreciate y’all for sharing! 🥰💜💜💜

  • @jenvaldeus
    @jenvaldeus Рік тому

    This is one of my favorite episodes

  • @blazenlanie
    @blazenlanie Рік тому +4

    Oh Angel, I was also too tickled at your 54:44 snorting moment 😂. This is such an entertaining segment I had to keep rewinding! Must save to my "must watch/listen again" playlist

  • @opraha1113
    @opraha1113 Рік тому +13

    When they asked “Do you agree that marriage is hard?” And they said “no” I was like finally someone said it!!
    I’ve been married almost 10 years so I’m not as seasoned but I know a lot of married people who don’t think marriage is hard. It scared us because we kept thinking we’re doing something wrong because we don’t have a lot of these issues. We’re just both super easy going people. I think personality has a lot to do with it. We also come from a different culture so our perspective on marriage is a bit different. It always bothered me that they just made this blanket statement and it seemed like they cherry picked people that agree with them so I’m glad the Tanksleys offered a different perspective (although they contradicted themselves later on🥴)
    I love these two couples and every time they get together there’s so many gems that’s dropped.

    • @latoyar628
      @latoyar628 Рік тому

      Agreed! Married for 10 years as well.

  • @TarynRenee
    @TarynRenee Рік тому

    Seriously loving and appreciating these. Reminds me of The Love Hour, which was a time I was in my single season wind waiting for marriage but also gleaning from y’all for experience and wisdom. Now, fast forward, I am 6 months married now and still looking to you guys for wisdom to stay married. Thank you for this. Can’t wait to read the book. I love you guys!! ❤❤❤

  • @dlynsky
    @dlynsky Рік тому

    I love these conversations!

  • @trblessed1020
    @trblessed1020 Рік тому +1

    As usual Angel and Marcus are great guest! It's like y'all all grew up together

  • @randydaboss1097
    @randydaboss1097 Рік тому +2

    I love yalls relationship. It's such friendship goals. Marcus is the man. He's the kind husband I aspire to be when I find my queen. 💪🏾

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej Рік тому +1

    There must be a part two! I’m just going to wait 😂😂😂😂

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤
    Love them!!

  • @beechannel27
    @beechannel27 Рік тому

    This was awesome. I like that phrase think your feelings not feel them! 💖💯

  • @OptimisticKTV
    @OptimisticKTV Рік тому

    Loveeeee this so much

  • @natural0ne
    @natural0ne Рік тому +3

    TBTB... I know this will be 🔥!

  • @KayVee18
    @KayVee18 Рік тому +58

    6:00 minutes in….
    Melissa: Is marriage hard?
    Marcus & Angel: No.
    Me: welp… there’s goes the point of the interview 🥴🥴 Imma keep watching though 😂

    • @lynntw743
      @lynntw743 Рік тому +5

      😂😂😂😂

    • @msAngel711
      @msAngel711 Рік тому +16

      It’s good to know marriage isn’t “hard” for everyone. Especially since thats what we always hear. Even if they go through a “hard” season in the future (prayerfully not) it’s good to know that some people can be married for as long as them and not go through common trials. Lesson regarding that question: every marriage is different.

    • @advice4u409
      @advice4u409 Рік тому +7

      I think they used the word challenging versus hard. They went on to describe the communication challenges typically expressed in marriages.

    • @feliciafoxworth1
      @feliciafoxworth1 Рік тому +1

      @@advice4u409 exactly so marriage be hard(challenging

    • @PollyP2019
      @PollyP2019 Рік тому +7

      Right… this interview was filled with uncomfortable laughter in an effort to make it seem like they have it together … I see that they have a friendship based marriage and are successful professionally, but they were not being as transparent as this interview called for.

  • @thebossdawghomie
    @thebossdawghomie Рік тому +1

    I love this community I see getting built. I remember when Kev was some funny Christian on the Internet. I heard of Kevin Samuels randomly and when researching why he was so controversial, I found Hafeez Baoku and the Roommates. That lead to Anthony O'neal at the table. Simultaneously I randomly found Tanksley Tv, and was surprised to learn Angel was Tank's wife whom I'd seen a few times in some Kevonstage productions. Then I learn about what Beleaf and Yvette Henry have going on, through his brother in law A.O., and I watch an interview with Kev and his wife. Now a video with Tank and Angel. I love seeing us supporting each other, putting each other on, and congratulating each other. If you thought you were just working and trying to be successful for your families, know that you all are doing a whole lot more, and glad that you're keeping God in the middle of it. Keep going, keep growing, and passing the torch!

  • @DariusCovington
    @DariusCovington Рік тому

    Can’t wait!!

  • @businesschef2008
    @businesschef2008 Рік тому

    Great Conversation!!!

  • @stars8924
    @stars8924 Рік тому +1

    I absolutely adore Angel and Marcus.

  • @kennethhilton8700
    @kennethhilton8700 Рік тому +5

    WAIT! WHERE'S THE REST?!?!🙏🏻

  • @jenvaldeus
    @jenvaldeus Рік тому

    I love your outfit Melissa

  • @sweetnakai94
    @sweetnakai94 Рік тому

    YES ANGEL AND MARCUSSSS!! I swear I thought I was the only one who never thought marriage was hard!

  • @TemujinScott80
    @TemujinScott80 Рік тому +10

    This was great! Is part 2 being posted soon?

  • @cylenawinters
    @cylenawinters Рік тому

    You guys are so hilarious together omg 😂😂😂

  • @bri19951
    @bri19951 Рік тому +5

    The Dream Team ❤

  • @JBrazill09
    @JBrazill09 Рік тому +2

    I cant even focus cause I need this top Lis has on!! Ok let me finish cause I love y'all together. Oh! to hear the Tankselys say marriage isn't hard is refreshing.

    • @Ayommari
      @Ayommari Рік тому +1

      Melissa always has the best tops.... and shoes.

  • @courtneywatson1465
    @courtneywatson1465 Рік тому +8

    Ummm… what happened to the rest of the interview?

  • @joyastewart8906
    @joyastewart8906 Рік тому

    I had to watch the ending part twice to make I wasn't trippin, I was like....did this just cut off on me?
    Would love to hear the rest, love seeing them all together. Got to see them when they came to Chicago for the book tour and ot was sooo good. ❤️

    • @tboogie38
      @tboogie38 Рік тому

      She reposted the full episode

  • @NIKITANIARA
    @NIKITANIARA Рік тому +3

    Loved it! But is there a part 2? It ended so abruptly…? Give us the rest please!! ❤❤

  • @chefdeena
    @chefdeena Рік тому +1

    💥👀💥 alarm set!!! ⏰️

  • @treasuredone4555
    @treasuredone4555 Рік тому +3

    😂 Kev’s reference @24:52 has me dead 💀 😭
    “you’on know naan ah ah 😜”

  • @taurezdrex
    @taurezdrex Рік тому +2

    wait wait is there gonna be a part two? - "my sister and i" - De End!
    ima cry , it was even 59mins and 59 seconds yet ..bahaha!

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 Рік тому

    My Fav 4 ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @josmith8233
    @josmith8233 Рік тому

    Great conversation

  • @SimplyNaturalBlack
    @SimplyNaturalBlack Рік тому

    Hello Guys great conversation. Marriage is not hard People's Selfishness and Being so of the World makes it not easy. Marriage can be amazing if two want it to be♥♥♥♥♥

  • @jenvaldeus
    @jenvaldeus Рік тому +2

    Aww I like part hear that Marcus is a Big Softly when it comes to Angel

  • @KatrinaTheArtist
    @KatrinaTheArtist Рік тому +1

    Liking and coming back later to watch lol

  • @stephnikkibb
    @stephnikkibb Рік тому +2

    Awh man! It cut off early! I want to know what they would tell their younger selves!

  • @holdupnow2326
    @holdupnow2326 Рік тому +1

    Homeschooled children have online teachers for pre-k to 12 grade learning online. The regular teachers and students weren't used to teaching online.

  • @rereAL205
    @rereAL205 Рік тому

    Daaannng what happened to the rest of the interview??? So good!

  • @anp0731
    @anp0731 Рік тому

    Great convo and insight!! What happened at the end?? Is there a part 2?!

  • @Craftscraftedcondiments
    @Craftscraftedcondiments Рік тому

    Excited 😆

  • @SD-hs2pk
    @SD-hs2pk Рік тому +3

    Hoping for part 2 soon ?

  • @naeemahhuggins2284
    @naeemahhuggins2284 Рік тому

    I love WNRS!!! I have every single game!

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Рік тому

    Marriage can be difficult sometimes and challenging especially when you have children ❤36 years married 😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @charmcitynaturalhair4638
    @charmcitynaturalhair4638 Рік тому

    24:53 Kev (with a straight face): “You don’t know nann” Me: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thelovelymissmonica1938
    @thelovelymissmonica1938 Рік тому

    Thank you for taking away the stigma for Black People/Black couples/Black Marriages in regards to Mental Health and Therapy.

  • @Alione
    @Alione Рік тому +9

    Will there be a part II?

  • @VictoriousMoe
    @VictoriousMoe Рік тому +5

    Is there a part 2 to this episode? It abruptly cut off fo me, right when I was leaning forward, fully engaged in the convo, because it was goodah 😳

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 Рік тому +1

    I knew Tank was a BIG Teddy Bear! lol

  • @Thankful305
    @Thankful305 Рік тому +1

    10 minutes in and I love this dialogue!! Marcus is truly a servant to his wife when he says he hurts if his wife hurts♥!! THat is extremely unusual in the day and age we live in with all the narcissism and entitlement. I feel certain it's why their marriage is not "Hard". I just love this conversation ~ especially the laughter!!
    BUT....
    when they are laughing, it hits my ears so hard I have my finger on the volume button and turn it way down. Then when y'all are talking, I can't hear what your saying and turn it up really loud---Not sure how I will get through this convo. :/
    Solution: sound guy, use your controls to work this out --- loud then soft then loud then soft --- can you even it up??

  • @ayebellez
    @ayebellez Рік тому +3

    This ended so abruptly. I need the rest. 😭

  • @mochaamortravel717
    @mochaamortravel717 Рік тому

    Working on my EGO! Need to be right VS. Being felt or Heard BEFORE we explode.

  • @AlliNW0nderland.
    @AlliNW0nderland. Рік тому

    My favs

  • @natashacoleman8357
    @natashacoleman8357 Рік тому +1

    Oh no! It got caught off! Part 2??

  • @Msheartofwisdom
    @Msheartofwisdom Рік тому +2

    Y’all did it cut off short?? 😢 I was enjoying it so much. Would love to see the last question of what they would have told their younger selves

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 Рік тому

      Yes, it cut off for everyone too I found out after reading other comments.

  • @SoonSarah
    @SoonSarah Рік тому +3

    When Kev starts stretching ik he ready to wrap this shxt up 😂

  • @patreniaspears6027
    @patreniaspears6027 Рік тому +2

    Great interview, but not sure why it ended so abruptly. Melissa was in the middle of saying something.😩😩😩

  • @ToniiYayo
    @ToniiYayo Рік тому +5

    How come the rest of the interviews felt planned.. and this one felt like a throw away.. I wanted that same energy. just me? ..ok

    • @KayVee18
      @KayVee18 Рік тому

      Nope, wasn’t just you. Something was definitely off.

  • @TheDBo324
    @TheDBo324 Рік тому +1

    Aww this ended abruptly is there a part 2??

  • @tmckenley
    @tmckenley Рік тому +1

    Marcus is an ambivert! I identify. I am that.

  • @naturalvybz2232
    @naturalvybz2232 Рік тому +1

    Melissa: "My sister and I.."
    Me: 👁👄👁