Marriage Be Hard Podcast | DeVale and Khadeen Ellis

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  • @tyboogie29
    @tyboogie29 Рік тому +109

    Liss if you don't become a producer right now. I can tell you put this all the way together!!!💙💙💙💙

  • @Thenameisbri
    @Thenameisbri Рік тому +95

    Ugh!!!! I never get tired of of the K & D collab. Love y’all. The realest in the industry 🤍🥹

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 Рік тому +52

    12:07 My husband had a sales person tell him that all women love roses..(money in HER pocket). I HATE ROSES....the smell reminds me of funeral homes .. he kept buying them...I kept complaining...finally after being called selfish for 10+ years I screamed...I TOLD YOU I HATE ROSES...my husband looked at me and busted out laughing.🤷🏽‍♀️😳🤔🤨🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
    No more roses...and 2 happy people♥️

    • @ShaqJordan
      @ShaqJordan Рік тому +6

      Same! I don’t like flowers. Especially since they die. It’s a waste of money. I have artificial flowers on the dining room table and that’s my business.

    • @michelleedwards346
      @michelleedwards346 Рік тому +1

      This went on for 10 years! 😮

  • @brittanymoses2825
    @brittanymoses2825 Рік тому +15

    When I say these 2 couples along with Tab and Chance are my absolute favorite. I mean that! My husband and I are approaching 10 years married and 20 together this year and we are also high school sweethearts. I enjoy listening to them discuss love and marriage

  • @eps5605
    @eps5605 Рік тому +12

    The transparency of these two men (and the women) on this episode was epic. Smh! Awesome.
    You blessed souls with this.

  • @chefdeena
    @chefdeena Рік тому +7

    3:12
    It's 2023, audiobooks should count! Yassssss!!! 🤌🏾The 5 of us agree NY Times!!🗣

  • @lashondra9150
    @lashondra9150 Рік тому +5

    OMG...I love both couples. Yall make me feel like marriage be hard but well worth it.

  • @NomiKing111
    @NomiKing111 Рік тому +36

    This conversation has cemented my decisions in how I am raising my daughter. Thank you for your vulnerability. You've healed pains & trauma I didn't know I didn't know I had.

  • @brangeeellis3083
    @brangeeellis3083 Рік тому +9

    These are the podcasts that will save marriages or at the very least will start conversations.
    Keep 'em coming! 🙂

  • @cbonnermsb
    @cbonnermsb Рік тому +35

    There’s nothing better than when the 4 of y’all get together!! ❤❤❤ you all dropped so many gems 💎 💎💎

  • @christianwatkins7185
    @christianwatkins7185 Рік тому +8

    Khadeen and Devale story about BlackLove!! I’m crying 😂😂😭😭 so real though!

  • @dawnfoster1071
    @dawnfoster1071 Рік тому +24

    Love this conversation. It illustrates that the same relationship issues occur in couples from different backgrounds

  • @Margart526
    @Margart526 Рік тому +59

    So beautiful to watch, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..

    • @ddirtdid
      @ddirtdid Рік тому +3

      Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

    • @Margart526
      @Margart526 Рік тому +3

      @@ddirtdid Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @ddirtdid
      @ddirtdid Рік тому +3

      @@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer

    • @Margart526
      @Margart526 Рік тому +2

      @@ddirtdid Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.

  • @danikins3196
    @danikins3196 Рік тому +17

    There’s just something about when y’all four get together 💛🥰!

  • @marshedaewulomi1358
    @marshedaewulomi1358 Рік тому +22

    This is sooo insightful. I feel like I have language to better understand my future partner better

  • @TheHeartsandcake90
    @TheHeartsandcake90 Рік тому +11

    This was so good! So glad y’all brought this podcast back.

  • @abster4709
    @abster4709 Рік тому +9

    Now these is couple goals... I love that these kinda conversations are coming to the forefront. I grew up with these conversations with my mom and dad but soooo many of my friends are only just figuring these things out now. This is extremely helpful to so many people.

  • @Nyjaburkett
    @Nyjaburkett Рік тому +26

    Y'all two couples are back at it again!! Ik this ep was gonna be good 🌟

  • @rileymurray9098
    @rileymurray9098 Рік тому +4

    I’m happy you said it’s not how long you are together because a lot of the time that’s what we focus on…I love y’all transparency. I’m dying 😂😂😂

  • @Godluvchild
    @Godluvchild Рік тому +10

    That's not a marriage I'm interested in...that's a word unto me! Loved this episode

  • @maryluvsmusic9298
    @maryluvsmusic9298 Рік тому +11

    I laughed so hard during this episode 😂😂! The content from both couples was sooo relatable! Being married for 23 yrs. my husband & I can relate to you guys 💯! Marriage definitely be hard! But it’s about taking the good with the bad. Every day won’t be easy but as Devale stated ( Im paraphrasing) just because you argue doesn’t mean you have to leave & the marriage is just over. Loved 🥰 this conversation! What a great platform & I love to see my people winning 🎉!!

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 Рік тому +7

    Wait Wait WAIT...NOT EBT sponsored Barbeques...oh my goodness that was hilarious.
    42:11
    We were on the golf course in Calabassa once ..they can't take away our memories....NOW THATS A GOOD ONE🤣😂😄😁😆🤣😂😆😁🤣😂

  • @elizabethpaye9492
    @elizabethpaye9492 Рік тому +2

    I love this 4 couples they are so amazing. Your thanks so much I’m 50 years old but I learned so much from you guys

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 Рік тому +4

    "Not all money is good money"my dad always says!
    None of that matters at the end of the day

  • @chefdeena
    @chefdeena Рік тому +2

    I can't keep saying, "This is my favorite episode" to all the episodes!!!! It doesn't work like that😅 but THIS IS MY FAVORITE EPISODE! 😮‍💨👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @prudencek7087
    @prudencek7087 Рік тому +2

    The relatableness of this discussion. Oh Lawd! Been married going on 22 years... no lies were told here. THIS IS THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY OF MARRIAGE, and I love it! I would do it all over again.❤😊😍

  • @danadane84
    @danadane84 Рік тому +5

    This episode was awesome. Love you all , all together! “Marriage is a group project” that spoke to my soul.

  • @francinedunbar3797
    @francinedunbar3797 Рік тому +10

    Kev, you a fool for this my Boi! I got the audio book and you literally laughed on the track 🤣🤣🤣

  • @alexisfrazier6648
    @alexisfrazier6648 Рік тому +15

    I am so glad these are back. Being engaged and marrying a beautiful black man (2nd marriage) these have been so resourceful. Appreciate you all. Great job! 🤌🏾🙏🏾🥰

  • @missmarionlewis
    @missmarionlewis Рік тому +2

    Okay i sip my tea loud as hell as well but i cant help it 😂😂😂

  • @lhbbq
    @lhbbq Рік тому +12

    Married 15 years! Amazing content!

  • @victoryflavored7711
    @victoryflavored7711 Рік тому +2

    Love that this is on your channel Lis❤

  • @obryandoss22
    @obryandoss22 Рік тому +5

    I love this soooooo much, I have 3 internet families that I follow very closely, and these two couples are two of the three. Of course, the third couple is my girl Tab and my guy Chance. Y'all six people are my people. I love supporting you guys in all the ways that I can!!! Keep being great, y'all!!!

  • @shaylovesthethings
    @shaylovesthethings Рік тому +6

    My two favorites!!! Day Made ❤️

  • @Beautyforashes227
    @Beautyforashes227 Рік тому +2

    This has me weak 😂😂😂😂 we one year down and whew it’s refreshing to know the crazy is just a part of the I do

  • @tomeriatuft2479
    @tomeriatuft2479 Рік тому +5

    Man one of the best relatable Podcast episodes no 🧢 fr 🤞🏽 love yall 🥰💕 plus yall are hilarious 🤣 😂 lol

  • @daysha5999
    @daysha5999 Рік тому +3

    LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS LINK UP..Again!

  • @brittneer8940
    @brittneer8940 Рік тому +9

    I LOVED THIS EPISODE ❤❤❤❤❤❤ married 10 years this sums up marriage! New subbie

  • @bklyngirlost
    @bklyngirlost Рік тому +9

    Thank you so much for reuploading! I cried remembering my moments with my dad and then laughed until I cried listening to the kids' sport stories. Y'all are always a good time 🖤🖤🖤

  • @natashad5314
    @natashad5314 Рік тому +2

    Two of my favorite couples. This was fantastic!

  • @tasheenayoung-shelby366
    @tasheenayoung-shelby366 Рік тому +3

    Yassssss 2 of my favorite couples. I swear yall plus Tab and chance need to go on tour forreal I would be there

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 Рік тому +2

    Loved this episode was amazing, hilarious, both couples dropped a ton of knowledge and gems will be holding on to for the future.

  • @michelleknight61
    @michelleknight61 Рік тому +3

    Loveeee this interview didn’t want it to end so relatable!

  • @mayanicholson866
    @mayanicholson866 Рік тому +6

    I Absolutely Love y’all!!!!….. I’m so glad y’all back!

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor Рік тому +4

    Love yall chemistry!!!!

  • @tarnett331
    @tarnett331 Рік тому +2

    Yo-so relatable-thanks!

  • @kenjones8139
    @kenjones8139 Рік тому

    REAL, Fun, honest, LOVING! I love this! Thank you guys!!!

  • @lashondra9150
    @lashondra9150 Рік тому

    I LOVE THAT WORD...SO!!! Come on Devale

  • @CharCharJars
    @CharCharJars Рік тому

    Thank you for the drop on the books, didn’t know that either ❤ Thank you all for this great collaboration🥰

  • @robby4509
    @robby4509 Рік тому +10

    One thing is-I wish k&d had mics. It was hard to hear them (and I’m trying to listen at work with my headphones 😳).
    I loved this tho. K&D are so transparent and real. This is my first time hearing/seeing them and they were hilarious. Thanks guys!

  • @user-bd3bx4rh1q
    @user-bd3bx4rh1q Рік тому +6

    This was so funny! More importantly, this was encouraging and informative. Thank you!

  • @kelleebrown6355
    @kelleebrown6355 Рік тому +1

    This was one of my fav episode! I love both couples!

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely LOVE this entire episode, much needed & greatly appreciated.... #BlackLove🖤❤ for the win!!

  • @aniaandmarius
    @aniaandmarius Рік тому +1

    This was everything!!! 😊

  • @victoryflavored7711
    @victoryflavored7711 Рік тому +1

    Word of the year is a good idea

  • @DOComposer
    @DOComposer Рік тому +4

    "You blink loud" Trying soo hard to blink slowly "Pst, Ah my God" lol

  • @sherealwilliams9831
    @sherealwilliams9831 Рік тому +2

    This is ❤refreshing. we need this in our lives single and married.

  • @aflynn0424
    @aflynn0424 Рік тому +1

    This one was SOO good!! Loved all the realness

  • @ronnitawallace5997
    @ronnitawallace5997 Рік тому +1

    I love and enjoy listening to both you couples!!!! I just order both books!!! Amazon baby!! Excited to read them! May God continue to bless you all!!!

  • @tswanigan69
    @tswanigan69 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful and extremely funny conversation! Loved it!

  • @simonemcdonald8619
    @simonemcdonald8619 Рік тому +8

    I absolutely love this ❤️ . Thank you guys for being so transparent!

  • @francisw3456
    @francisw3456 Рік тому +1

    Glad yall posted the rest! I laughed out loud! This is great! 🥰😍 #blacklove, have the hardcopy pre saved!

  • @nickiC1011
    @nickiC1011 Рік тому +1

    OMG this episode was hilarious!! Love the Ellis's and love you guys!! Glad you guys are back with more episodes!!#blacklove

  • @MsTaraBella
    @MsTaraBella Рік тому +1

    My absolute faves!!! I was so hurt when I missed the instagram live a few weeks ago.

  • @joyade8495
    @joyade8495 Рік тому +3

    Ughh How can I like this 10 times?!!!!!

  • @raynaphillips5579
    @raynaphillips5579 Рік тому +1

    I absolutely loved this totally relatable conversation! 😂❤😂❤😂❤

  • @natural0ne
    @natural0ne Рік тому +3

    Dynamic Duo x 2!
    Awesome Episode... MBH 📕

  • @AliciaAmbrosia
    @AliciaAmbrosia Рік тому +3

    We actual need this in the world. I’m tired of coming home and listening to the manosphere. My husband is hooked & I just 😖

  • @donnajoyner9781
    @donnajoyner9781 Рік тому +2

    Loved the travel show....love both couples...God bless!🤗💜🕊✝️

  • @fonkythumbs
    @fonkythumbs Рік тому +5

    This was amazing. Love you guys

  • @arawheaton
    @arawheaton Рік тому +3

    Loved every minute of this 😍

  • @tswanigan69
    @tswanigan69 Рік тому

    Yes @NewYorkTimes please count the audio version so they don't stop doing them!

  • @vlnailor
    @vlnailor Рік тому

    You all are the realistic and I love you all for that 💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @deas9410
    @deas9410 Рік тому +3

    Love this just ordered my book

  • @jaddathreat8405
    @jaddathreat8405 Рік тому +2

    Great interview!! 😊

  • @storytimetom353
    @storytimetom353 Рік тому

    This is delicious! Keep going y’all. It’s helping me right now! Kev, you hit it on the head when you spoke about vulnerability as a man!

  • @victoryflavored7711
    @victoryflavored7711 Рік тому +1

    Great Conversation

  • @shanevergivinuptrice5651
    @shanevergivinuptrice5651 Рік тому +1

    This was Everything 😂😂Love both of these Couples!

  • @tswanigan69
    @tswanigan69 Рік тому +1

    I loved the audiobook so much!

  • @AlliNW0nderland.
    @AlliNW0nderland. Рік тому +2

    Great episode

  • @beechannel27
    @beechannel27 Рік тому +1

    This episode blessed me. I love all of yall& I was super excited to see a new episode. 🤗💖🙌🏾🙏

  • @_amenchurch
    @_amenchurch Рік тому +2

    I wanna be married soon and this was real helpful and entertaining

  • @CrystalLynetteS
    @CrystalLynetteS Рік тому +2

    I would love to see an interview with Comedian CP and his wife. That would be great!

  • @mychaelalexander5305
    @mychaelalexander5305 Рік тому

    Love this song much wisdom here

  • @bluelotus49
    @bluelotus49 Рік тому

    Thank you. ❤

  • @angrychristian6340
    @angrychristian6340 Рік тому +1

    I got y'all audio book on audible.

  • @Iamdmgartrell
    @Iamdmgartrell Рік тому +2

    Great Interview 🔥

  • @nholland7581
    @nholland7581 Рік тому

    This was so good!

  • @joneeks91
    @joneeks91 Рік тому

    Gems on top of gems on top of gems

  • @StayingFabulousWKeyanna
    @StayingFabulousWKeyanna Рік тому

    I am so happy you guys are back!!!

  • @beautybeads7285
    @beautybeads7285 Рік тому +1

    Come thru, Girl + God.

  • @msakira73
    @msakira73 Рік тому

    Thanks for the re-upload!!!

  • @pejp5890
    @pejp5890 Рік тому +3

    Love this ❤❤❤

  • @mrscolvin1
    @mrscolvin1 Рік тому

    This was soooooo good! Thanks y’all 👏🏽

  • @lb1798
    @lb1798 Рік тому +8

    Recounting stories can drag up SOME STUFF😳🤔🤨...OH YEAH...how you handle something at 22 is WAAAAAAY different than 42...oh please...don't even talk about 52🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @saashamoniquew1
    @saashamoniquew1 Рік тому +3

    Y’all need to write a romance comedy with devale

  • @eniyabradford8092
    @eniyabradford8092 Рік тому

    Love this episode!

  • @christinebryant8354
    @christinebryant8354 Рік тому

    I enjoyed this book 📕 it was inspiring chapter after chapter. I loved it! ❤

  • @Reshaty
    @Reshaty Рік тому

    I promise I can agree with Devale when he says he doesn’t comment back because he wasn’t feeling her I’m that moment. I told my husband that I hate sharing photos because everyone be like you look so happy and so on. Maybe in that moment but when you commented that maybe I wasnt

  • @luticia23
    @luticia23 Рік тому +1

    I have both books. I love both of them. Aid Kay ain't nothing wrong with listening to Popsmoke 😂