YOU DESERVE THE LOVE YOU KEEP TRYING TO GIVE AWAY!

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  • @taramonique3086
    @taramonique3086 3 роки тому +46

    This is a wonderful message. It took me a long time to put boundaries in friendships. I realized through therapy that my yes was yes and my no was just that. I realized that I explained things that didn't need explaining. It is so freeing to have boundaries💯

  • @mschris6765
    @mschris6765 Рік тому +2

    Wow. I’m learning this now. I’ve been way too available to everyone. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @2010gettingmyman
    @2010gettingmyman 3 роки тому +22

    I’m not ok and this video made me realize that. I’m crying as I write this. Thank you Lord! Thank you @Rebecca😢💜🙌🏽

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 роки тому +2

      We have a healing class: www.alpuniversity.com/theworkmasterclass/

  • @shannon3801
    @shannon3801 3 роки тому +13

    They don’t wanna be retrained . Wow it’s so simple, but it makes sense. Be willing to walk away and leave them alone

  • @TRINIGIRLHANNAH
    @TRINIGIRLHANNAH 3 роки тому +22

    I’m absolutely in love with your hair style

  • @nelsonmcgee3545
    @nelsonmcgee3545 3 роки тому +11

    💛💛💛 love yourself then you can give and receive love.

  • @vbrown7530
    @vbrown7530 2 роки тому +1

    I love this, the most powerful line this far: “whatever you chase will run from you…”

  • @jackwilson9956
    @jackwilson9956 3 роки тому +18

    Ouch! I can't teach everyone to love me. I can demand my respect!

  • @annhart9338
    @annhart9338 Рік тому +1

    Been binge watching your videos. You're truly a blessing and gift from God sewing into my life right now, thank you. And God bless you & kerry..

  • @paigeyvanessa4385
    @paigeyvanessa4385 3 роки тому +14

    This video was so needed. I just ended an engagement and over the past couple of weeks all the red flags are becoming so clear. I am a lover. I love to love and be loved but, I can’t let someone constantly disrespect me minor or major.

    • @lauren2826
      @lauren2826 3 роки тому +2

      That’s so powerful Paigey! I’m going through a break up too. Even when our flesh tries to lie to us about that relationship, our spirit tells us the truth - that they were not the ones for us! Routing for you! ❤️

    • @Abmarp
      @Abmarp 3 роки тому

      Girl more power to you!!!!

    • @paigeyvanessa4385
      @paigeyvanessa4385 3 роки тому

      @@lauren2826 so true. It’s freeing feeling once I let go. I wish you the best! ❤️

  • @scooby1970m
    @scooby1970m 3 роки тому +8

    My best friend showed that love and care you spoke about today. My friend was out of town coming back in town today so she could not pick me up from surgery which was understandable. I made another way. On her way back she checked to make sure I was still good for getting home. If not she was willing to make it work. Ture friend but I have boundaries with her and she does with me. Boundaries are healthy for a great relationship. Your wisdom is so rich❤❤

  • @TheLuvlfe
    @TheLuvlfe 3 роки тому +4

    That was ME!! Tired of trying.. I surrendered. Thank you Jesus!

  • @Omgbigfnb
    @Omgbigfnb Рік тому +1

    Amazing words, great message 😊

  • @chrissyschronicles2u494
    @chrissyschronicles2u494 Рік тому +1

    I’m happy I ran across this video. I definitely needed this

  • @jaz1elise
    @jaz1elise 3 роки тому +2

    This is a powerful message, Mrs. Pope! I needed to hear this. I have to love myself, and stop giving my love away to toxic family members.

  • @shannon3801
    @shannon3801 3 роки тому +10

    This title alone got me. Therapy taught me a new system of accountability , integrity and respect for myself . I literally said those words “I will never go through this again”. I finally feel the cycle has ended.

  • @daniellesmith4688
    @daniellesmith4688 3 роки тому +9

    I listened for the first 5 minutes and had to share! I sent it so fast and said "just listen to the first 6 minutes "!!! I of course listened to this whole video and will be listening over! Rebecca, you are anointed! This was so timely and so true!!! I feel as if I am literally walking in Purpose when I'm Loving and pouring love! And I've learned that I have to respect and guard my heart and energy because It pours out and overflows! I have to be protective and also continue to heal and continue self love! It literally never ends! This is why I want to become a Life Coach in your program ❤❤❤❤

  • @tishagee4296
    @tishagee4296 3 роки тому +4

    Something's in what you said touched me deep in my spirit and I had to fight back tears sitting at my desk at work surrounded by people. Normally I wouldn't mind anyone seeing my tears, I know GOD has me covered and they seem to not notice. But this time I knew I would not be able to stop once they started falling. I will listen to this at home over and over again until the weight is off. I've been fighting by myself for soo long. Thank you so much Queen.

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 роки тому

      We have a healing course love. It's hard to go at it alone: www.alpuniversity.com/theworkmasterclass/

    • @tishagee4296
      @tishagee4296 3 роки тому +1

      Yes it is. I will get this course, thank you very much.

  • @rushyg1006
    @rushyg1006 3 роки тому +7

    Amen!!! I deserve the love; i give away!

  • @damonadams3853
    @damonadams3853 3 роки тому +7

    LOVE PEACE & UNLIMITED BLESSINGS TO THE POPES!!![999]

  • @celestialevolution6302
    @celestialevolution6302 2 роки тому

    Literally, this week was an assessment of self. I’m a giver to the utmost degree. It comes from insecurity, it comes from lack of faith, it comes from hope that our desires will be fulfilled through someone else. I’ve realized I love who I am, and what I give, but I will only give it to people who appreciate it, and who will reciprocate. This message is so on point. Saved to listen to again when I am weak.

  • @jaicoture
    @jaicoture 3 роки тому +3

    AMEN... Soft spoken yet effective. I am "sick & tired." GOD, "LEAD ME INTO LOVE!"

  • @KThomas12805
    @KThomas12805 3 роки тому +2

    Sis you dropping 💎's Im picking up what you putting down. Im a HOPEFULL ROMANTIC. not HOPELESS ROMANTIC Im full of HOPE. 🥰

  • @jimmiepeyton6488
    @jimmiepeyton6488 3 роки тому +3

    Awesomeness! I deserve the love I keep trying to give away 💚 Self Love 🦋🦋

  • @tauheedahakbar2016
    @tauheedahakbar2016 Місяць тому

    Exactly, allot of people are with the wrong person out of desperation.

  • @GwendolynJohnson-r1s
    @GwendolynJohnson-r1s Рік тому

    Wow! You are talking to my soul! I am listening and chasing healing!❤❤ Yes you are so on point!!

  • @ms.t6371
    @ms.t6371 3 роки тому +8

    Good stuff!🥲🙌🏽 This is a long process healing is serious work and just when you mastered one aspect there’s another. Thank you for sharing and encouraging. Even healers need help too!

  • @sherrieaustin6422
    @sherrieaustin6422 3 роки тому

    This is a WHOLE sermon. If they preached like this in church I would consider going back

  • @cre8trixG
    @cre8trixG 3 роки тому

    you are so wise! You are really helping me through my break up. It was a mess. Yes it was a cycle. These videos and you are a God send. Thank you.

  • @stephaniemorgan6189
    @stephaniemorgan6189 3 роки тому +2

    I love this!! This is directly from God. No one could convince me that this is not straight from the heavens! Absolutely amazing! Thank you for being obedient and sharing this prophetic message with us. Thank you!! And your so beautiful inside and out. God bless

  • @Ella77177
    @Ella77177 Рік тому +1

    Dang you smart woman❤

  • @zahzah1345
    @zahzah1345 3 роки тому +3

    This is so on point, I can relate to everything she said 🤭

  • @tinalabouve49
    @tinalabouve49 3 роки тому +3

    This is exactly the message I needed to hear. And I needed to hear it TODAY.
    I've spent the last three years trying to get someone to love me who just does not. No more! I finally have the courage and love for myself to move on.

  • @anjafernand944
    @anjafernand944 2 роки тому

    You are speaking to me right here RLP! Thank you. Much love

  • @alisoncoach4459
    @alisoncoach4459 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Rebecca, I would like to thank you for this wonderful and inspiring video which spoke to my heart and soul! This morning I decided to say NO, stand up for myself and loving by refusing and ending a novice work relationship....After being brave enough to doing it, I was fully of doubts and fears but thanks to my supportive relatives and your video I'm feeling safer and proud of myself! I didn't learn to put boundaries, seeking for reciprocate interactions, develop my self-esteem but as you mentioned Im 27 year old therefore grown enough to improve and do better! Your message and video reached out to me here in Munich, Germany and cheered me up. Self love, self esteem, healing, knowing yourself, believing in god, trusting the time, set up boundaries and let it go to attract the best. Thank you for preaching, guiding, sharing and caring! You are awesome and inspiring. Cheers Alison

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you Alison!!! Blessings and Abundance love 💙

  • @masmodiba
    @masmodiba 3 роки тому +2

    It's the timing for me 😭😭 Absolutely love this

  • @msvanessaceo
    @msvanessaceo 3 роки тому +2

    Yes it is time to do my work, heal, receive all that is for me. Thanks for providing this course!

  • @ceebatheroyal3092
    @ceebatheroyal3092 3 роки тому +1

    WOW!!💙. I needed THIS. Thank you! Rebecca 🙏

  • @Rhodesy-zx9op
    @Rhodesy-zx9op 3 роки тому +3

    Preach Sista! Thank you for the message🙏🏾 And thank you God for sending us Rebecca.

  • @michaelhodges8005
    @michaelhodges8005 2 роки тому

    Great Message Rebecca...
    Keep it going Sister... Thank you
    I understand ... I am proud of you and your husband... You are giving so much reality and great tools to help people...
    I am student for life..
    Enjoy every good opportunity in life... Sending everyone good vibes...

  • @mauriceedwards1970
    @mauriceedwards1970 3 роки тому

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you!!! So much

  • @shayhope8438
    @shayhope8438 3 роки тому +1

    This one hit so close to home!! I had to share it with some of my girlfriends, Lord thank you for sending Your message through your daughter Rebecca Lynn Pope!!!!

  • @kdotnichole
    @kdotnichole 3 роки тому +3

    I’ve been trying to understand the clear difference between having a coach and a therapist. I’ve been through so many therapists and therapy sessions over the years and have wondered if maybe I need to try a coach 🤔

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 роки тому

      Yes, coaching is very different. Especially spirit-led coaching. Here's a link to our healing course: www.alpuniversity.com/theworkmasterclass/

  • @monicagriffinmonroe
    @monicagriffinmonroe 3 роки тому +1

    I love how GOD divinely leads and connects us to recieve. You are an amazing divine vessel.thank you Sis, I needed everything you shared... YHWH is so good... may he continue to bless and empower you abundently as you pour into others and teaching to help us align to his spirit... and living in his power, covering, provision and daily direction ...walking in the self love. I deserve it, I am his. .. surrended...

  • @terionglenn3690
    @terionglenn3690 3 роки тому

    Hello. I’ve never seen you or heard of you before but I’m grateful for this message. Thank you.

  • @coreyhaga2623
    @coreyhaga2623 3 роки тому +1

    Amen a servants heart loves to love 🕊

  • @Song_of_Praise
    @Song_of_Praise 2 місяці тому

    You are preaching 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @roberthall7721
    @roberthall7721 3 роки тому +3

    I'm a little late to the party on this one. Jeez, Rebecca! This message was straight 🔥. Shoulda dropped the 🎤 at the end of this one! Gotta ask, do you and Kerry know me personally or something? You keep telling me about myself in these videos! All kidding aside, thanks for the beautiful message Rebecca. It's very much appreciated. I've totally lost myself in this last relationship. Gotta get it together and do and be better. Thank you. 🙏

  • @lorenllbj88
    @lorenllbj88 3 роки тому

    This was great! Right on time and confirmation.

  • @deepDarrkdeepDarrk
    @deepDarrkdeepDarrk 2 роки тому

    I sooooo Thank You for this my sistah!!!

  • @mentalnotesbykittylove6473
    @mentalnotesbykittylove6473 3 роки тому

    Beautifully said every word. " Keep it coming. '

  • @thebradshawbunch4472
    @thebradshawbunch4472 3 роки тому

    This was so needed! Thank you

  • @fantasia243645
    @fantasia243645 3 роки тому

    This message was so beautiful. Thank you for speaking truthfully on this topic. I will look into your program.

  • @Authenticallymario
    @Authenticallymario 3 роки тому

    These videos be cutting deep! Thank you🙏

  • @catherinesimon6488
    @catherinesimon6488 3 роки тому +1

    OMG!! I finaly got on a Live!!!

  • @catherinesimon6488
    @catherinesimon6488 3 роки тому +3

    That is so me!

  • @stacyjackson4793
    @stacyjackson4793 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your encouragement...
    I really need to hear and receive the knowledge and Blessings

  • @Sammyanny
    @Sammyanny 3 роки тому +1

    The best video !!! Love from Canada xx

  • @Drlighte24
    @Drlighte24 3 роки тому

    Your wisdom is priceless. Thank you so much for your videos 🙏

  • @Only1QueenOfEverything
    @Only1QueenOfEverything 2 роки тому

    I enjoyed this! 🙏🏾🥰

  • @yemio1005
    @yemio1005 3 роки тому

    This is so important ❤️

  • @FaithLuv4PHOTOGRAPHY
    @FaithLuv4PHOTOGRAPHY 3 роки тому

    I needed to hear this I'm going through this right now..

  • @TheHuewittFamilyChronicles
    @TheHuewittFamilyChronicles 3 роки тому

    This is so on point with what I’m going through! I need to sign up! ❤️

  • @MrsLC-tp8oj
    @MrsLC-tp8oj 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve been going out by myself a lot I keep pushing him out he calls all day I hVe it documented. Then when I accept his advances he turns everything around. I have been taking myself on dates sometimes it feels ok sometimes it’s lonely. He comes by on my way to work and then I go back to the regular bs with him. Yes I have a lot f stuff I’m trying to work thru. Go out by myself and men ask why am I alone it’s embarrassing idk so it’s hard to be alone we get judged and looked at like a weirdo

    • @momonaturale
      @momonaturale 3 роки тому +1

      I totally understand the getting judged part when out alone. I just try to tell myself that at the end of the day I prefer to be by myself enjoying my own company than to have fake company around me just to pretend that I am not alone🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @catherinesimon6488
    @catherinesimon6488 3 роки тому +2

    Will you be teaching us how to do that

  • @shirleydewald1178
    @shirleydewald1178 3 роки тому

    Amen and amen Rebecca 💖Mighty God 🙏

  • @RoyaltyK
    @RoyaltyK 3 роки тому

    Wonderful message .. seems as if you was talking specifically to me

  • @madelove4730
    @madelove4730 3 роки тому

    Thank you again for your wisdom 🙏🏽 been touched by your message 💯 I have signed up for your healing masterclass

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 роки тому +1

      You're welcome. I'm excited for you love. 💙

  • @pink_magical_girl
    @pink_magical_girl 3 роки тому

    I needed this! Thank you.

  • @billhoward4082
    @billhoward4082 3 роки тому +1

    Tasteful Tuesday, RLP!!!) 🦅

  • @MrsLC-tp8oj
    @MrsLC-tp8oj 3 роки тому

    Ok you’re about to get on us thank u

  • @OG_Bap
    @OG_Bap 3 роки тому

    Beautiful words ♥️

  • @twill218
    @twill218 3 роки тому

    I needed to hear this

  • @joannehightower4242
    @joannehightower4242 3 роки тому

    Good morning, God Bless You! My Sister 💥 SIN is "Self inflicted nonsense" (no sense) ❤❤❤ Minister Hanifah Hightower

  • @ToshiaLaneTv
    @ToshiaLaneTv 3 роки тому

    Preach it!!!

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 роки тому

    Very beautiful

  • @teresaharris4585
    @teresaharris4585 3 роки тому

    Wowowow! 🙌🏿🔥🙏🏿

  • @trintrin7819
    @trintrin7819 3 роки тому

    Hi,
    I sent you an email! I didn't want to keep going back and forth on UA-cam lol unless you do not mind. It is just a question about the class

    • @trintrin7819
      @trintrin7819 3 роки тому

      Do you see it? I just wnated to know if I cannot buy the course now, will ot be offered again later?

  • @AmgEnt135
    @AmgEnt135 3 роки тому

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽HalleluYah ❣️👑😊💜🔥🔥🔥

  • @deniseyearwood9082
    @deniseyearwood9082 3 роки тому

    Hi beautiful...ikr

  • @rushyg1006
    @rushyg1006 3 роки тому +1

    you look beautiful! Holla

  • @stilldmp7891
    @stilldmp7891 3 роки тому

    This is me 😭

  • @damonadams3853
    @damonadams3853 3 роки тому

    TEACH RLP!!![999]

  • @ninafrederick6048
    @ninafrederick6048 3 роки тому +1

    HIiiiiiiiiii gorgeousssssss✨✨✨💯

  • @ellamccall1489
    @ellamccall1489 3 роки тому

    Amen

  • @rhondahoward5695
    @rhondahoward5695 3 роки тому

    🙋‍♀️ you talking to me

  • @kkw-pal1178
    @kkw-pal1178 3 роки тому

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @rachaeleena
    @rachaeleena 2 роки тому

    🙌🏽

  • @Christielove_
    @Christielove_ 3 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @breannabutler8528
    @breannabutler8528 3 роки тому

    ❤️

  • @MC-sz6fi
    @MC-sz6fi 3 роки тому

    💯💯💯💯💥💥💯💯💯💯

  • @oyoko3960
    @oyoko3960 3 роки тому

    Is this lady biracial or black?

  • @treg6848
    @treg6848 3 роки тому

    Thanks so much for this confirmation beloved. I am.so greatful for you