Yes! What an egomaniac. Also when she told her scammer to make sure that he was dressed nicely when they met because appearances mean so much?!?! What about what's on the inside? Like being a good person. Smh.
It's so funny did you see the one where the woman said to the guy after he called her princess she said it's a good thing you didn't call me queen scammers use that one. LOL
all the pics he’s dressed super nice but when she tells him he has to dress nice his reply was I have A nice jacket to wear?!! Surely a guy who dresses like that all over his social media would have more than one lol!!! How dumb
@@babalu757 What about all the woman who get supported by men..lol..that is a bigger problem. seriously. Tired of women boo hooing...Men get abused financially on a much..Much..MUCH larger scale..but we only feel sorry for women ..lol
I'm a 60-year- old woman, not from the US. Through Facebook I've been contacted by an English engineer working on an oil platform, a New York detective and a French soldier, all handsome as models. All were madly in love with me. I found all the stock photos these guys were using. My friends and I had a good laugh
I learned that several years ago when i stood around a Kroger for over 30 minutes bc they announced that someone is about to do a special presentation in the meat dept and theres a prize/giveaway for the first 10 ppl. About 10 minutes in, the lady gave use these cheap shammy rags. 2 ppl walked off when they got theirs, lol. But after her speech and telling us the high price tag of the item she presented, she said: "Now, i can only give this special price to 5 people, BUT (whisper counts customers standing there) what i MIGHT be able to do *pause unsuredly* is MAYBE allow 10 ppl to get that special price if you guys dont tell anyone".
That’s pretty mean. Most people post their prettiest pics even those without filters. I do. I bet you have unattractive parts on you both physically and in your character. Parts are clearly obvious through your extreme response, no care about the impact of your words. Doesn’t matter how ridiculous she seems to you, nobody who got scammed or otherwise deserves to be hurt by some skanky rando on the tube!
The common denominator with these romance scam stories is a huge lack of awareness. The lady thinks she's a lot more attractive and young than she really is. This is also true with men.
What's hilarious is that she is telling him that presentation is everything while she's using photo filters to make herself look 10 years younger and totally fake!! 😅 😅
My 65 year old mother gets a message on Facebook from a handsome orthopedic surgeon veteran with dogs with every single day. She laughs and blocks them.
We know an orthopedic surgeon and she makes megabucks! Flies worldwide on frequent holidays and first class travel all the way, the best of everything. She owns a mansion too. They don't need to ask anyone for money, believe me!
They are so brazen...! Impossible to believe people would fall for this. I'd go online and check the faculty list for 'Mr Dickenson' (sic) as soon as that name was mentioned - at which point he'd probably be mysteriously "transferred to Eton".
_"Hello, random Facebook woman who my father just met. I know my dad hardly knows you and I barely see HIM as it is, but I hope that when you guys get married you will be my mother."_ Yep, that checks out. That's definitely the first thing a teenage boy would say to a random 60something year old woman over the internet during their first conversation, simply because his dad said he met a nice lady. Makes sense. 🤦♀️
yeah, I am a stepmother of kids that were teenagers down to 5 years old, I can tell you they were not thrilled with me one bit and we had a very tough relationship for years and years, now I think we are family and love each other very much, but they don't want you in their life, they want their real mom
@@shonii119 I agree. My girlfriend has three kids and her children were not looking for an instant Daddy. If my parents happened to split up when I was a kid I still have a mother and father no matter who they met afterwards.
They will never ever ever be the real mother to the son another tactic used by the scammer.If someone tried that on me I be like? DO I want kids in the first place? DId I ask Or did they I be pissed.
She's still fixated on this person. When she found out he's really a doctor her first question was "Is he a widower?" She was still hoping to swoop in and become a part of this guy's family.
she is probably planning to contact the real guy and rag him around which is unfortunate because anyone that has had their profile stolen has been suffering for years with people hating on them
A moment of awakening for me: I was trying to figure out how there can be people who believe the earth is flat in this day and age. Now I understand! 😂😂😂
Believing that someone thinks that Earth is flat, is a scam for naive people. It was made up, to discredit opponents. To ridicule someone who tells an uncomfortable truth that people should not listen to. They called such people "flat earthers", to stop the information from them.
For sure. Because it's not about actually being in love, it's about narcissism and making your real family feel terrible. Nice people don't fall for these scams because they're humble.
Did she say she likes baking and describe them as the unique thing that women don’t like to do but that she does? She has some sort of superiority complex
That's why she got taken for a ride. 🐎 Like a man with that level of wealth and lifestyle cares if his partner bakes cookies or buys them from the market.
Yeah, and then after being told he's a scammer and all the info,she continues to ask about the real doctor and still asking if the person behind the scam is in Nigeria even though they just told her. All these dumb questions... IT'S A SCAM LADY. Geez...
How these people can’t understand that there’s no millionaire, handsome, well succeed man offering others a great life on the internet? “Oh I’m a bored millionaire, let me find someone on the internet to chat with and get married to provide a luxury life” 🤡
And I’m sure they all want to marry women who are 20 years older than them! Right? Did you guys notice that the picture she posted was 20 years younger than she really is??
Word. I don't know if you saw the episode yet where the woman thought she was dating mark Zuckerberg, but that was another lady that was so far in denial it was crazy.
@@brookiegremlin6660 Yea! XD Its so dumb, because even if his accounts were froze (which is impossible) He'd still have credit cards he could use. And then he was saying he had no money for food or to live, but, normally if your wife is leaving you, you still live in the same house, which means he has access to a fridge stocked full of food. And even THEN if by some miracle, he couldn't be at his house, the guys rich. He could literally go to any elites house (or a friends house) and I guarantee you he could have free room and board for as long as he needs. The thought that a wealthy persons entire livelihood rests on a man/woman they just talk to online is insane. These people who get scammed must have some kind of complex to think like that.
The bar is literally in hell. I noticed too the women always say how patient and easy going the guys are, like they have never been spoken to kindly by a man before… it’s so sad.
After listening to this story for about 10 minutes, I googled how much money the UN pays doctors they employ. In less than 1 second, the answer came back that the UN does NOT hire doctors, but uses local physicians in whatever country they are present in. So an American doctor would (a) not be hired by the UN and (b) would not be sent to Syria or any other country. That took longer to type than it did to research.
Well not only that but we these scamming they are always in the army ,are doctors or are expecting gold or inheritance so why would they need your money. Right then and there you should run. This lady needs a therapist as she has low self esteem 😮
The scammers all seem to use the same story. Every Doctor is employed in Syria by the UN and have their bank account and credit and debt cards frozen. 90% have kids in boarding school in England dispite the fact they live in the USA.
As a middle aged single woman I'm honestly blown away by how many women like myself are so incredibly gullible and... I guess desperate..... I'd think it was creepy if some stranger fell madly in love with me over Facebook text.... Bizarre
@@Kyra_of_Kerkyra and who in the right mind send money some people thousans of dollars to a Men heck no never even if I know this person I will never support a men .
I can’t tell you how many cold hits I’ve had on Facebook 🙄. They always have a new Facebook page with very few posts and photos. I’m not in the market but I’d still never engage.
society shoves marriage and children down women's throats from a very early age. if you're a single woman without either, society (family, friends, coworkers, social media etc) makes you feel less than, and at some point, desperation kicks in, you miss all the red flags and end up getting used, abused then left with nothing......
And self sometimes totally unaware.. What would a handsome young model looking guy want with an older woman who looks like they've Bern through a war and lost. I am amazed how many women get catfished
When they tell her that Mr Dickinson doesn't exist, and she says, "so he didn't work at that school?" I don't think she was able to fully grasp what they were telling her. She was so invested in the fantasy.
Yes, she was very deep into the fantasy... poor thing. I am afraid she will go on dating sites again. Dating sites are full of disgusting creeps in varying degrees.
So sad when we try to relive our youth by getting enmeshed in these unlikely fantasies. I can see myself falling for this and hope I can be more grounded.
@@nutmeg5 From what I understand, they choose to transfer money through bitcoin because it's nearly untraceable and once they've sent that money to the scammer it is likely gone gone. Never coming back.
This lady was hanging on to every ounce of hope. “Is René a widower?” Lady… you got scammed. Let it go. She was just not getting it. The dr and kid exist, but they are not the ones you are talkking to.
This was simply normal process of her mind, exiting the fake scenario. As you see at the end of the video, she worked her way out of it and blocked the guy and has moved on. Good for her bravo lady. It’s one thing to be a victim and another to recognize it and get out and she’s done that.
I don’t know if you’ve seen it but one on these videos believed she was truly talking to Johnny Depp. “Jonny Depp” sold her one of his NFT’s and also asked her for gift cards. When the truth came out she wanted the real Johnny Depp to make it right and give her what she bought from the scammer. According to her the true Johnny should be stopping these scammers with his lawyers. No, she should be stopping them with her brain.
'When we first meet, I expect you to look professional. Come in a sports jacket...' She's telling a grown man how to dress and doesn't see anything wrong with that.
A stranger adult contacting a child online, sending them a "family collage", talking about adult relationships, proposing to be a substitute mother.... is wildly inappropriate. Thank god that child was not real - he'd be so damaged.
i just wanna state the obvious that i do not support any form of child exploitation by an adult through the internet or otherwise, but i especially dedicate a portion of my time to discovering underage girls being exploited by old men online for money in exchange for photos, youd be amazed how this stuff is just advertised on tiktok, twitter, and ig if you know where to look, probably snapchat too but i have no experience dealing with that. i get profiles taken down all the time honestly usually of the child because its hard to find much proof on the pedos end because they are sending money to these girls off platform. with that said, i dont think this particular situation is as damaging as you are making it out to be. if this kid really did not have a mother, it could be beneficial for him to have a mother-like figure to talk to. and in this hypothetical situation, the father is aware of whats going on. when it comes to the accounts i investigate, i have come across a very small amount where the parents seem to let their underage girls basically sell CP(you can tell as they are filming suggestive tiktoks of them) but obviously the majority have no idea their kids are talking to adults. But here, I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about... its not like they were having sexual conversations, why would that be damaging. the kid is seemingly old enough that he wouldn't be completely attached to the idea of a new mommy like a 5 year old. i'm curious why you think this child would be so damaged by this? if the child is real hypothetically, than the dad is also real, and he would really be talking to this woman. he would either have no interest in having a future with her and probably never introduce him to his son, but if he did introduce her to his son before he met her in person, it would be because he probably does want a mother figure for his son. i don't see how it is damaging for him to have a safe adult motherly confidant to talk to. the collage thing is weird but...old people are weird. i'm not sure what you mean by "talking about adult relationships" there's nothing adult about it, nothing sexual being said... theres nothing wrong with him knowing that a woman is hypothetically dating his father. that's fine to tell a 6 year old let alone a a 10-12 y/o. if this kid really was at a boarding school away from his only living parent, it would give him a sense of home and comfort to talk to his father's gf esp if he doesnt get to talk to his father much. I don't see it as wildly inappropriate at all. these days people want to make every interaction between a child and an adult seem like something it isn't. It's ok for a child to talk to an adult that his own parent talks to and approves of. It's literally not much different than his father having a girlfriend in real life and them talking in real life. don't look for dirt where there is none, especially when theres so much of it in all crevices of the internet that needs to be investigated and reported. this was years ago, i was around 19 or 20, but my mom had an online friend she met from forums about religion that she would talk to very often, and he was a 16/17 y/o boy from india. they would just talk about their lives, he would talk to her more about his obviously, but she would talk to him about me or her husband. he viewed her as a mother and said he couldnt talk to his own mother about things like girls, how to approach them and talk to them, his insecurities on having never dated a girl, his own mother was too religious to vent to and far too busy to give him any attention because she had like a dozen children and this kid was old and for all intents and purposes an adult to her so she basically stopped mothering him, other than cooking and cleaning for him. but my mother provided the emotional support of a mother and he would talk to her about education his future career opportunities girls he crushed on, maybe giving him the confidence to approach a girl he liked, stuff like that. when people are lacking a roll in their life, they often seek it out in whatever way they can. I'm sure you think that is wildly inappropriate too, but neither of them ever crossed any sort of line into inappropriate territory. it was mutually beneficial for both of them; i was away at college during the week and most weekends so she wasn't able to talk to me, her child, like she was used to.
I’m sure that’s a big part of why it’s so hard to grasp, imagine the cognitive dissonance as your brain tries to rationalize and convince you are an intelligent person who would never make such a stupid mistake. For some I’m sure, not all, likely…
I dated a retired optometrist for a couple of years. He showed up on our first date in a T shirt and cut offs. Why would I care what he wore. She's crazy
Why do I get the feeling she also presented herself as something she wasn’t? Heavily doctored photos is also a deception- be yourself, stay grounded, meet in video chat, real life. She loves the fantasy “is Rene a widower”
I was so hoping someone noticed that same thing. Hella cakeup, yes, cakeup not makeup and filters. She was almost as dishonest as the scammer. Had the scammer actually been really he likely would’ve been mad at how different she actually looks.
Yes, the picture she posted was probably 20 years ago so the scammer scammed her and she scammed the scammer! Please warn your older parents who may have lost their husband or wife! I’m kinda’ shocked that this older generation knows how to use crypto! 😂😂
I start watching each story and think..."ok perhaps I will see this woman as a vulnerable, lovely human." Instead she's arrogant, delusional, controlling, and creepy. Who tells someone how to dress on a first date? Who makes a collage of themselves with people they've never met and send it to a kid? I feel for her, but usually people put forth their best self in public. Scary.
Many of them just don't have the same critical thinking skills that you have and it carries over into certain things they believe and say. It is likely what makes them targets in the first place.
Even after being told she is being scammed, she keeps talking about the things they were going to do together. She's going to get scammed again, guaranteed.
I wonder if the scammers just get a new profile and contact them again. Now that they know so much about them, it would be pretty easy to do. They are vulnerable and are desperately looking for someone to tell them everything they need to hear.
@@susanjohnson6192that's definitely what happens.. It's also usually a group of scammers working on one person. But yes - if someone gets mad at one scammer "identity", the group will contact them under another profile
@@susanjohnson6192 That is exactly what they do. They have lists of targets they know they can scam again, with a new handsome profile. Often these women send money to the same scammer....again.....cause theyre all in love, again.
Teacher Gladys learned the hard way that presentation isn’t everything, like she stated in the beginning of the video… The scammer presented himself as a professional and successful man; however, it was all deceitful. It goes to show that being a professional, such as a teacher, doesn’t necessarily mean that someone is knowledgeable, nor does it mean that someone has common sense.
Even after they explained that this "Dr. Paul" guy was not who she thought, she proceeds to ask if the real Doctor is a widower. Good grief. Even after it was explained that he was a scammer, she said that they "had plans for the holidays". Give it up lady!
These people are very emotionally invested in these relationships. It's very hard for them to let go this dream that they had of a happy life with love and a family.
I was thinking even if he was a widower he wouldn’t be checking for you. A man that high value would have women lined up around the corner at a much younger age bracket.
My dad told me if a man ever asked me for money to say "I'm sorry but I don't hang out with bums". It works every time. They get offended and stop talking to me. This has happened numerous times on Facebook.
Hence why her only prospects are just scammers. Scammers never get offended unless you don’t send them money so they’re easier to deal with than real people with a brain that requires mutual respect to want you.
The scammers weave a romantic tale. They never talk about real life stuff like “My kid was a jerk today” or “I ate too many burritos and have a stomachache.” These scammers create very two dimensional characters.
Any scam is a romantic tale. They always tell you that in a past life you were a King, or Cleopatra, etc. not a street sweeper in London flattened by a truck lol. Always the fantasy.
They only talk about Bad stuff when it’s part of the scam. Stuff about how you have a stomach ache because you ate too much food or that your child behaved badly isn’t useful to choking somebody out of their money.
Oh they do. It just usually follows a request for money. They are all lovey dovet until the stomache ache hits and then they needs money to go to the doctor. It's never just telling them about a bad day because they want to talk to that person about it.
Older/middle aged people online are always funny to me tbh because they will use filters that are so obvious. Like their nose has almost disappeared their skin looks unrealistic, etc.
After binge watching your videos, I feel like I have earned a Ph.D. in scamming. Now I just need to go to a shady website and print out my fake diploma.
If she blocks this scammer, I'm pretty sure that this scammer will just switch to some other set of stolen pictures and be some new handsome guy that has a kid, perhaps a little girl this time, and Glady will fall for it again.
This generation of ladies never ceases to amaze me: "I like to bake and cook unlike other women"; "I was told you can meet men at the grocery store and I did"; "I expect you to look professional, with a sport coat"...
@@Andberry Yeah but did it make you laugh? 😅 I'm actually a very kind person, but at a certain point there is a threshold on being naive/gullible. This is just ridiculous.
@@leapinglynx I’m sorry for my comment - I just see so many unkind comments on these videos! It’s hard to see crowds of random people tear down vulnerable people, no matter how stupid their actions are. Especially since most of them have pain in their past/are older and didn’t grow up with tech. Most of them seem to have good hearts, just naive and lonely. I’m too sensitive 😩
Well, that's a teeny bit sexist. But if I live to be a hundred years I'll never understand why ANYONE would send money to someone they've never met other than online. So we agree sort of.
@@Out_on_a_Limb_Life thanks for that comment. Miss Scarlett is a little off. A woman who gives a man money is a woman who is genuinely interested in the man. Now of course that man should not accept it but should take it as a sign of her being real and not using him for money
They target widowed and divorced older people. Of that group, the ones you described are the ones who often fall for the scam. Come to think of it, they sound personality disordered -- low self esteem and high arrogance.
She believes this handsome rich doctor is interested in her against all odds but then she's immediately ordering him around about how to dress and behave.
A train wreck can be avoided. This can. Only problem is these WELL AND UNBELIEVABLE pay their prime ladies of leisure to scam . Throw in a few Babe, dear, my only love, true love, my queen shit and stories a non mentally challenged Jr high School kid wouldn't buy have idiots like her asking how much!?? Is inevitable. She's a fool
Being single is the most underrated thing ever. I can’t understand why people go into such deep delusion just for the hope of being with some complete stranger they have zero compatibility with. It’s mind boggling. Being an elderly person who’s main priority is finding someone to start a family with is just crazy to me.
I got to say, I expect the collage freaked out the scammers! If the father is scamming her, then it is obvious the kid is not real! Does she genuinely think the scammer would be using his real son…? Come on!
dyeing alone is scary. I don't know if you have ever had a mid life crisis or mental crisis, but the realization of death and being alone without a family to help in the final years is really unpleasant.
Because people desire that companionship. You say that because you're content with being single amongst other ways you go about YOUR life. However, what works for YOU might not work for someone else. Loneliness is a type of madness that the plain fact is you'll delude yourself to escape the reality of your situation hence is sometimes the case with these people. Others in these videos want the hottest thing but this women's been through a lot and she wants to feel loved. These people have been single for so long that they want to feel loved. Can you comprehend that? Even if their completely stupid for falling for this, it's still remains a factor.
For anyone interested in psychology, it's interesting how she seems like the type to choose a narcissist. She's very invested in the idea of "presentation" over substance. Probably the type to run a toxic family that "looks" good to the outside world
🤔Is she choosing narcs or is she one herself, concerned about how his appearance reflects on her? Or both? Her photos are so filtered they're silly. I'm fascinated by their psychology.
“My father would never scam you.” 😂😂😂 Oh okay. Thanks other stranger on the internet whom I’ve NEVER met and have no ties to. Is this lady serious? She bought that crap??
I know Americans don’t have context for this, but Harrow is an very prestigious private school. Benedict cumberbach went there. You have to be incredibly posh and hugely rich to send a child there. It’s a completely ridiculous lie
Americans are waaay to self obsessed and stupid to know what a Harrow school is (or anything that goes on in Europe, and yes, the UK is an island(s) but it's still situated in Europe.
100% agree! Like I think some of these victims really just need a pen pal and the same country they are in because there are lots of us single older ladies that would love to have somebody to write to or talk to but I didn't like this lady, LOL, she was semi scamming herself with her Photoshop picture whatever the term is now. She wasn't being real either. Nobody deserves to lose their money but there are other avenues that don't involve this type of issue. Sending blessings from Grandma Gia in the Ozarks
@@italiantraditionalcatholic2390 You think so because you are Italian! They like to dress up whether they are narcissistic or not! It's a part of who they are.
1:36 "I am not like other girls" Hun. Yes you absolutely are. The women in your generation were all conditioned to like cleaning, baking, cooking. Every women in your generation is doing exactly those things.
When she asked if the real guy was a widower, I LOL'd. It sounded like she was asking to see if she still had a chance and then after everything she's told, her reply is "well, that's what he told me/sent me"
We had a neighbor who got hooked into one of these. She met the man of her life on the internet and they were to be married, but he needed money to get to the US. Long story short, he took her for all of her life savings which was not much. She is in a wheelchair and disabled so she does not have the chance to make the money back. We tried to tell her that she was being scammed, but she would not listen. When the money ran out, so did he. She was living with friends because she could not afford to live on her own and did not have the money for it either. The friends moved so I lost track of her. Makes me sick.
Right out of the gate ... Red flag # 1 -- His first, middle and LAST names are ALL FIRST names!!! Red flag # 2 -- he's a doctor!!! Red flag # 3 He's overseas Red flag #4 --- He works for the UN. Red flag #5 -- He only has one child who attends a prestigious school, but doesn't live with him.
You can tell she is holding onto every bit of this scam for dear life. Every reveal is met with skepticism on her part because she wants it to be real. She’s been very foolish but very human. I wish her well and hope she’s a bit wiser now.
As soon as I saw his profile I knew he was fake , a doctor yeah right , falling in love with you so fast , lady I feel so sorry for you , a son , they will use anyone of their family to scam you , they just want your money , and would every bit of your money from you , and calling babe , and baby is nearly always Nigerian , believe I learnt the hard way , now I can sit a scammer a mile off , I research everything , you also made yourself to look younger than you are , believe me , they wouldn't care if you looked ninety , as long as they get your money , learn from this , and just block anymore that comes through , I wish you all best x
How on earth can these women be this naive?? Doesn’t she realize the no orthopedic surgeon is going to be interested in her? They do NOT need to go on Facebook for a date - they would only date women much younger & they have the choice of the cream of the crop. They are some of the highest paid physicians & do not need to be ‘dating’ on a computer. WAKE THE HELL UP😱
@@davisholman8149 exactly. Why' would a Dr have time or interested in long distance relationship?? It doesn't make sense!! How could she be so ignorant!!
These women read dime store romance novels & are simply delusional. They have received very little attention from men & crave it so badly, they will literally PAY FOR IT!🤑
@@zanettaczika If it isn't broken why fix it. Scammers are living in large fancy homes, driving super luxury cars. They don't need to put more effort into the scam.
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Ha-ha!
Social catfish average google review.......2.5 out of 5
When I'm feeling dumb, I watch these videos to feel a little smarter...
Then I learn she's a teacher and I'm terrified for the next generation
😂😂😂
@@heatherpike5230That’s exactly what I’m thinking, She was teaching children? OMG
@@heatherpike5230 Awww... give the poor woman a break. She was born and brought up in a different time. She's old-school.
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As soon as she disclosed that hardly any women like baking besides her I realized she has an overinflated opinion of herself. Easy target
Yes! What an egomaniac. Also when she told her scammer to make sure that he was dressed nicely when they met because appearances mean so much?!?! What about what's on the inside? Like being a good person. Smh.
@John Sampson my fiancé is 5 ft 7…what else you got?
@@mariec.9102 yeah that part really annoyed me. Ugh
😂😂😂 exactly.. like woman what ?!?
@John Sampson my husband is 5 foot 7.
"When we meet I want you to look professional" I can see the scammer laughing his ass off.
It IS sadly hilarious!!
Also, Gladys went all-out with the filters on her profile pic, she looks like she has the skin of a freshly powdered baby 😂
A professional scammer
😂😂😂
If somebody told me that before a real life date, I'd feel like a parent speaking to me.
Scammers main 3 red flags. 1. My phone cant face-time 2. Bank froze my millions 3. They call them "My Queen"
4. They work in oil rigs, in the military, or in international organizations.
The use of the word Kindly is also a red flag.
Or "have you eaten today" 😂
They call you dear. "Good morning dear" 😂
It's so funny did you see the one where the woman said to the guy after he called her princess she said it's a good thing you didn't call me queen scammers use that one. LOL
" I asked if he was a scammer and he said no" - well that's good enough for her!
Best comment 😅
His son said he wouldn’t scam her so that’s good enough 😂
@@jcd919 Poor lady….she wanted to be a mom.😢
It gets better; she tells us everybody will think the boy, 50 years her junior, is her son.
Why would he lie?! 😂
I can’t believe she feels she needs to tell a doctor that he should look professional when they first meet.
Exactly!! I had the same thought. Who does she think she is? He's a professional man, he knows how to dress.
all the pics he’s dressed super nice but when she tells him he has to dress nice his reply was I have A nice jacket to wear?!! Surely a guy who dresses like that all over his social media would have more than one lol!!! How dumb
hahahaha
@@babalu757 What about all the woman who get supported by men..lol..that is a bigger problem. seriously. Tired of women boo hooing...Men get abused financially on a much..Much..MUCH larger scale..but we only feel sorry for women ..lol
I just heard that part and came here to say this
I'm a 60-year- old woman, not from the US. Through Facebook I've been contacted by an English engineer working on an oil platform, a New York detective and a French soldier, all handsome as models. All were madly in love with me. I found all the stock photos these guys were using. My friends and I had a good laugh
I used to play Words With Friends and was always amazed at how many generals / doctors / engineers got stuck overseas… 🙄
Same here! We share their profiles in our ig stories 🤣
Isn't it nice to be so popular ⁉️😆
Yep yep!! 😂
Use Common sense...that s all...
These people are out there sitting on juries and operating heavy machinery 😮😮
lol Loved your comment
😂😂😂😂😂
And voting!! It is really worrying.
And teaching children!
And VOTING.
I learned in life if someone ever tells you “I usually don’t do this” it really means they always do it 😂
My other fav is when someone says, I'm being honest with you!
@@karenbeee4568 😂
Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear.
Just look at R. Kelly. We all know that he usually does this.
@@karenbeee4568 that's what I was going to say.
I learned that several years ago when i stood around a Kroger for over 30 minutes bc they announced that someone is about to do a special presentation in the meat dept and theres a prize/giveaway for the first 10 ppl.
About 10 minutes in, the lady gave use these cheap shammy rags. 2 ppl walked off when they got theirs, lol.
But after her speech and telling us the high price tag of the item she presented, she said:
"Now, i can only give this special price to 5 people, BUT (whisper counts customers standing there) what i MIGHT be able to do *pause unsuredly* is MAYBE allow 10 ppl to get that special price if you guys dont tell anyone".
Talks of starting a family together? She’s 64. Unbelievable.
I don't get the pictures, why she look younger in those, did she have plastic surgery ?
@@ljrockstar69 Filters maxed out.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like they meant having them become a family, like with the son?
In India women are having children at 70 years old with the help of IVF. It's never too late.
Cooking. So unique. I just eat birds my cat brings me.
😂😂😂😂😉
😅
I laughed so hard I woke my baby up😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe she was making an apposite sarcastic comment on Western society & extant forbidden gender stereotypes?!
She turned all the filters up to 10 on her profile photos, yet thinks people on the internet are not being deceitful?
Literally gasped at how insane the filters she used on her pics looked! Girl looked like an elderly anime goblin.
That’s pretty mean. Most people post their prettiest pics even those without filters. I do. I bet you have unattractive parts on you both physically and in your character. Parts are clearly obvious through your extreme response, no care about the impact of your words. Doesn’t matter how ridiculous she seems to you, nobody who got scammed or otherwise deserves to be hurt by some skanky rando on the tube!
I'm over 50 and I feel if a "doctor" cannot love me for who I am, who will, right? 😂
Hahaha absolutely. Saw one the other week and I said she was a catfish coz she looked nothing like her pic 😂
Exactly lol
The common denominator with these romance scam stories is a huge lack of awareness. The lady thinks she's a lot more attractive and young than she really is. This is also true with men.
Uuuuh did you miss how unique she is though?? She likes COOKING. And BAKING. Activities no other women are accomplished in. Duh.
She is so invested in this fantasy she is not prepared to accept a logical explanation.
@@trixiedoll4177 This is actually rare these days ...
Ikr it’s sad
What's hilarious is that she is telling him that presentation is everything while she's using photo filters to make herself look 10 years younger and totally fake!! 😅 😅
I was thinking the same thing. Imagine if he was real and he went to meet her and she looks nothing like her pic.
The man should have said, “ I need you to loose 15 pounds when you come to our date.”
@@ZelenoJabko That's a point right there.
Yeah those filters aren’t discrete either 😂 it’s like girl, come on now 🙈
I thought the same 😂
"He's a man of faith..."
Yep, he has complete faith that you're gonna fall for his scam.
😂😂😂 mic 🎤 drop.😂😂😂
Ouch..but tru
I see many murderers who were advertising Jesus and God on his profiles. They are probably "me of faith" too😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 dead
She must have been good teacher. Nice lady
Yeah. Orthopedic surgeons always have to seek out strangers on line to “date”, and then hit ‘em up for money. 🤣
Amen! I worked for 4 Orthopedic Surgeons and, believe me, they do NOT need a scammer's money, LOLOL!!
🤣🤣🤣
My 65 year old mother gets a message on Facebook from a handsome orthopedic surgeon veteran with dogs with every single day. She laughs and blocks them.
We know an orthopedic surgeon and she makes megabucks! Flies worldwide on frequent holidays and first class travel all the way, the best of everything. She owns a mansion too. They don't need to ask anyone for money, believe me!
If he’s supposed to be such a successful doctor…why the heck would he be constantly begging for money? Make it make sense.
If the son attends Harrow School the fees are over $54,000 a year. If he can afford that he would not need to borrow money.
One of the best schools in the country.
They are so brazen...! Impossible to believe people would fall for this.
I'd go online and check the faculty list for 'Mr Dickenson' (sic) as soon as that name was mentioned - at which point he'd probably be mysteriously "transferred to Eton".
B
Yikes!
wow
_"Hello, random Facebook woman who my father just met. I know my dad hardly knows you and I barely see HIM as it is, but I hope that when you guys get married you will be my mother."_
Yep, that checks out. That's definitely the first thing a teenage boy would say to a random 60something year old woman over the internet during their first conversation, simply because his dad said he met a nice lady. Makes sense.
🤦♀️
Lol
lmao ridiculous
yeah, I am a stepmother of kids that were teenagers down to 5 years old, I can tell you they were not thrilled with me one bit and we had a very tough relationship for years and years, now I think we are family and love each other very much, but they don't want you in their life, they want their real mom
@@shonii119 I agree. My girlfriend has three kids and her children were not looking for an instant Daddy. If my parents happened to split up when I was a kid I still have a mother and father no matter who they met afterwards.
They will never ever ever be the real mother to the son another tactic used by the scammer.If someone tried that on me I be like? DO I want kids in the first place? DId I ask Or did they I be pissed.
That dude is NOT 64 years old.
She's still fixated on this person. When she found out he's really a doctor her first question was "Is he a widower?" She was still hoping to swoop in and become a part of this guy's family.
🤪
she is probably planning to contact the real guy and rag him around which is unfortunate because anyone that has had their profile stolen has been suffering for years with people hating on them
She was disappointed when they told her he had a beautiful family.🤣
You picked up on that too.
Lmao and sad very sad at the same time
She’s 64 years old and he tells her they will “start a family”. Hmmmm
And thats what she really wants …. So sadly, she is gonna buy that story.
Wtf!
Is not impossible. She still can be a grandmother to his kids.
My mom was 48 when I was born. A change of life baby. Oops baby. But 64? 😮
She could pass for Alex's grandmother but NOT his mother.
great grandma even
My grandmother had my mum when she was 42.
@@nicolehazellmiller8012 This woman is 64....if she had had a child at 42, the boy would be 22.
those plumped up plastic lips didn't help hide her age either
Lmao
A moment of awakening for me: I was trying to figure out how there can be people who believe the earth is flat in this day and age. Now I understand! 😂😂😂
Yes, and Elvis says Hi!😂
Believing that someone thinks that Earth is flat, is a scam for naive people. It was made up, to discredit opponents. To ridicule someone who tells an uncomfortable truth that people should not listen to. They called such people "flat earthers", to stop the information from them.
But the earth IS flat.
@ZofkKblsheeey what's your type my king/queen i'm totally not a nigerian man interested in your money hit me up
How does she believe she could pass as that child’s mother? She looks more like a grandmother
So delulu
😂
Because she believes that gorgeous man who is clearly about 44-45 is 69 🙄
My mum was a great grand mother @ 64 lmao parent? I don’t think so
Come on, have some empathy, she's just a sweet lady with no children who wanted to dream about having a family
This woman was a teacher…let that sink in….this is the calibre we are letting educate our children.
I was thinking the same thing!
As someone who spent time in a college teacher education program...yes you should be worried, these people are not the brightest bulbs
And Libs of TikTok
To teach kinder garden you don't need to be smart. At all.
@@Woo_Woo_WomanI mean look at the American educational system.. it’s not really much of a standard to look to, or so much of an actual standard. 😂
'Is he widowed?' 'He has a wife and kids' - I feel sick when I see how disappointed she is
She’s disgusting
I caught that, too. She was hoping he'd be chapter 2 of her fantasy
I feel sick when I think about her being a teacher. It explains why our schools are failing.
I don't, who the hell at her age does this stuff?
@@UncleDavesKitchen I caught that too! The sign of desperation. The second hand cringiness I get from the woman is strong,
“when we first meet, you need to look professional “!!!! What an extraordinary statement!! 😮
Especially when she’s wearing a sweater with animal prints! 😂
Sorry to say....She sounds like she'll fall for it again....
Definitely
Demented
I don't think so
For sure. Because it's not about actually being in love, it's about narcissism and making your real family feel terrible. Nice people don't fall for these scams because they're humble.
Unfortunately I have to agree, actually her questions even after she "knew"was still kinda sounding like she didn't get it!☹️
Did she say she likes baking and describe them as the unique thing that women don’t like to do but that she does? She has some sort of superiority complex
Pickme. Only woman on earth who bakes.
And she was a teacher
That's why she got taken for a ride. 🐎
Like a man with that level of wealth and lifestyle cares if his partner bakes cookies or buys them from the market.
I couldn’t tell if she was being sarcastic
And telling him what to wear.
So...her friend went through the same scam, and told her...but she STILL assumed her situation was different?!?!?!?!?!? 🤯
Oh hell honey, she thought she was different because she cooked food. So she says. Unbelievable
@@OzarkGiGiright 😂😂
@@OzarkGiGi I am so happy that my mother dont use any social media and only goes to youtube shorts.
She’s not like other girls, duh
She asked if he was a scammer and he said "no"! Proof right there.
"is he a widower?" *GLOWING EYES*
Woman what😂
She was going to snatch him up 😂😂
Yeah, and then after being told he's a scammer and all the info,she continues to ask about the real doctor and still asking if the person behind the scam is in Nigeria even though they just told her. All these dumb questions... IT'S A SCAM LADY. Geez...
How these people can’t understand that there’s no millionaire, handsome, well succeed man offering others a great life on the internet?
“Oh I’m a bored millionaire, let me find someone on the internet to chat with and get married to provide a luxury life” 🤡
😂
Yes there are but offering to 20 Year old girls
Yes, they're looking for the young beauty queens.. not 60 plus year old women. 😂
And I’m sure they all want to marry women who are 20 years older than them! Right? Did you guys notice that the picture she posted was 20 years younger than she really is??
Fkn clowns
"I enjoy cooking and baking, you know, unique activities that most women dont do but i do.". Lady what?
I know, what is she talking about here?
She's not like other gir- I mean old ladies
The way the victims sometimes almost argue with the team trying to convince them the scammers must be real...she's darn lucky she only lost 5k
Women are always going about manifesting this and manifesting that, how is this any different?
Yeah 5k is chump change for this show. That's basically like $50.
Word. I don't know if you saw the episode yet where the woman thought she was dating mark Zuckerberg, but that was another lady that was so far in denial it was crazy.
@@BattleBladeWarrior lmao yes. He just needed her to spot him a few until he could "access his account" or whatever.
@@brookiegremlin6660 Yea! XD
Its so dumb, because even if his accounts were froze (which is impossible) He'd still have credit cards he could use.
And then he was saying he had no money for food or to live,
but, normally if your wife is leaving you, you still live in the same house, which means he has access to a fridge stocked full of food.
And even THEN if by some miracle, he couldn't be at his house, the guys rich. He could literally go to any elites house (or a friends house) and I guarantee you he could have free room and board for as long as he needs.
The thought that a wealthy persons entire livelihood rests on a man/woman they just talk to online is insane. These people who get scammed must have some kind of complex to think like that.
What gets me is how banal all these converstations with the scammers are.
Yep, “hey babe, did you get some sleep?” Riveting stuff.
The bar is literally in hell. I noticed too the women always say how patient and easy going the guys are, like they have never been spoken to kindly by a man before… it’s so sad.
I noticed that too in a lot of the scams.
After listening to this story for about 10 minutes, I googled how much money the UN pays doctors they employ. In less than 1 second, the answer came back that the UN does NOT hire doctors, but uses local physicians in whatever country they are present in. So an American doctor would (a) not be hired by the UN and (b) would not be sent to Syria or any other country. That took longer to type than it did to research.
This is very important information, and something these Catfish people should know! Well done you.
@@oliviamartini9700The point being made is that this info is accessible to anyone.
Well not only that but we these scamming they are always in the army ,are doctors or are expecting gold or inheritance so why would they need your money. Right then and there you should run. This lady needs a therapist as she has low self esteem 😮
The scammers all seem to use the same story. Every Doctor is employed in Syria by the UN and have their bank account and credit and debt cards frozen. 90% have kids in boarding school in England dispite the fact they live in the USA.
Wow, that is so cool you looked up the info and got it within minutes. I learned something new. I didn't mean it like I'm online looking for someone.
As a middle aged single woman I'm honestly blown away by how many women like myself are so incredibly gullible and... I guess desperate..... I'd think it was creepy if some stranger fell madly in love with me over Facebook text.... Bizarre
Agreed! I can't believe how stupid women can be in their desperation.
@@Kyra_of_Kerkyra and who in the right mind send money some people thousans of dollars to a Men heck no never even if I know this person I will never support a men .
I can’t tell you how many cold hits I’ve had on Facebook 🙄. They always have a new Facebook page with very few posts and photos. I’m not in the market but I’d still never engage.
society shoves marriage and children down women's throats from a very early age. if you're a single woman without either, society (family, friends, coworkers, social media etc) makes you feel less than, and at some point, desperation kicks in, you miss all the red flags and end up getting used, abused then left with nothing......
And self sometimes totally unaware.. What would a handsome young model looking guy want with an older woman who looks like they've Bern through a war and lost. I am amazed how many women get catfished
I always imagine the scammers just giggling with each other while they are feeding these people BS stories.
They are
"I told her I had to pay to leave my job, lol"
And going home to their young wives with the money these grandma's sent to them.
Sitting in a room with lots of other Nigerians on their laptops laughing their tits off.
@@tarthistory6094 🤣😂🤣
...Again, a huge level of narcissism, greed, stupidity and cognitive dissonance.
in other words "MAGA"
@@viaromabandit5051This aged like milk.. Cope harder!
When they tell her that Mr Dickinson doesn't exist, and she says, "so he didn't work at that school?" I don't think she was able to fully grasp what they were telling her. She was so invested in the fantasy.
Yes, she was very deep into the fantasy... poor thing. I am afraid she will go on dating sites again. Dating sites are full of disgusting creeps in varying degrees.
She asked the same about if he was divorced... they were like... ummm.... this is not the guy you're talking to.
So sad when we try to relive our youth by getting enmeshed in these unlikely fantasies. I can see myself falling for this and hope I can be more grounded.
Why is bitcoin always involved in these scams? Serious question.
@@nutmeg5 From what I understand, they choose to transfer money through bitcoin because it's nearly untraceable and once they've sent that money to the scammer it is likely gone gone. Never coming back.
This lady was hanging on to every ounce of hope. “Is René a widower?” Lady… you got scammed. Let it go. She was just not getting it. The dr and kid exist, but they are not the ones you are talkking to.
Yea she was like, “Is he a widower?” Maybe he would want me??
This was simply normal process of her mind, exiting the fake scenario. As you see at the end of the video, she worked her way out of it and blocked the guy and has moved on. Good for her bravo lady. It’s one thing to be a victim and another to recognize it and get out and she’s done that.
@@debrabright2698 And they plannedto spend holidays together.....OMG...Where? With who? In Nageria pub?
She’s like a character played by Fred Armisen 😂
I don’t know if you’ve seen it but one on these videos believed she was truly talking to Johnny Depp. “Jonny Depp” sold her one of his NFT’s and also asked her for gift cards. When the truth came out she wanted the real Johnny Depp to make it right and give her what she bought from the scammer. According to her the true Johnny should be stopping these scammers with his lawyers.
No, she should be stopping them with her brain.
She thinks that people would see her with the little boy and think she's the MOM? She's delusional in many ways
Right she looks like a grandma already nobody would believe he’s hers
She looks like a grandma. She’s just as crazy as the others
I don't understand the need to use those filters that make you look like your face is a plastic mask. They're freaky.
@@saddlebagz69 Yeah, I see what you mean. I've never seen such an extreme filter. It's disturbing.
I'm her age and people know I am a grandma when I'm with the g-kids - LOL!
'When we first meet, I expect you to look professional. Come in a sports jacket...'
She's telling a grown man how to dress and doesn't see anything wrong with that.
She's getting muddled-up with her kindergarten kids on that - she expects them also to turn up to school in sports jackets
😂
Yeah, that’s really weird.
lol, yeah that took some nerve on her part!
A stranger adult contacting a child online, sending them a "family collage", talking about adult relationships, proposing to be a substitute mother.... is wildly inappropriate. Thank god that child was not real - he'd be so damaged.
Right?! I was like 😳 how is that appropriate?!
@@ellenicoletv4095 I know!!!! And she's a teacher. 💀
i just wanna state the obvious that i do not support any form of child exploitation by an adult through the internet or otherwise, but i especially dedicate a portion of my time to discovering underage girls being exploited by old men online for money in exchange for photos, youd be amazed how this stuff is just advertised on tiktok, twitter, and ig if you know where to look, probably snapchat too but i have no experience dealing with that. i get profiles taken down all the time honestly usually of the child because its hard to find much proof on the pedos end because they are sending money to these girls off platform. with that said, i dont think this particular situation is as damaging as you are making it out to be. if this kid really did not have a mother, it could be beneficial for him to have a mother-like figure to talk to. and in this hypothetical situation, the father is aware of whats going on. when it comes to the accounts i investigate, i have come across a very small amount where the parents seem to let their underage girls basically sell CP(you can tell as they are filming suggestive tiktoks of them) but obviously the majority have no idea their kids are talking to adults.
But here, I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about... its not like they were having sexual conversations, why would that be damaging. the kid is seemingly old enough that he wouldn't be completely attached to the idea of a new mommy like a 5 year old. i'm curious why you think this child would be so damaged by this? if the child is real hypothetically, than the dad is also real, and he would really be talking to this woman. he would either have no interest in having a future with her and probably never introduce him to his son, but if he did introduce her to his son before he met her in person, it would be because he probably does want a mother figure for his son. i don't see how it is damaging for him to have a safe adult motherly confidant to talk to. the collage thing is weird but...old people are weird. i'm not sure what you mean by "talking about adult relationships" there's nothing adult about it, nothing sexual being said... theres nothing wrong with him knowing that a woman is hypothetically dating his father. that's fine to tell a 6 year old let alone a a 10-12 y/o. if this kid really was at a boarding school away from his only living parent, it would give him a sense of home and comfort to talk to his father's gf esp if he doesnt get to talk to his father much. I don't see it as wildly inappropriate at all. these days people want to make every interaction between a child and an adult seem like something it isn't. It's ok for a child to talk to an adult that his own parent talks to and approves of. It's literally not much different than his father having a girlfriend in real life and them talking in real life. don't look for dirt where there is none, especially when theres so much of it in all crevices of the internet that needs to be investigated and reported.
this was years ago, i was around 19 or 20, but my mom had an online friend she met from forums about religion that she would talk to very often, and he was a 16/17 y/o boy from india. they would just talk about their lives, he would talk to her more about his obviously, but she would talk to him about me or her husband. he viewed her as a mother and said he couldnt talk to his own mother about things like girls, how to approach them and talk to them, his insecurities on having never dated a girl, his own mother was too religious to vent to and far too busy to give him any attention because she had like a dozen children and this kid was old and for all intents and purposes an adult to her so she basically stopped mothering him, other than cooking and cleaning for him. but my mother provided the emotional support of a mother and he would talk to her about education his future career opportunities girls he crushed on, maybe giving him the confidence to approach a girl he liked, stuff like that. when people are lacking a roll in their life, they often seek it out in whatever way they can. I'm sure you think that is wildly inappropriate too, but neither of them ever crossed any sort of line into inappropriate territory. it was mutually beneficial for both of them; i was away at college during the week and most weekends so she wasn't able to talk to me, her child, like she was used to.
I was thinking the same. That was insane.
Also her pic was in the "collage" TWICE!!! 😨
It is easier to fool someone than it is to convince them that they have been fooled.
Mark Twain, cheers
I’m sure that’s a big part of why it’s so hard to grasp, imagine the cognitive dissonance as your brain tries to rationalize and convince you are an intelligent person who would never make such a stupid mistake.
For some I’m sure, not all, likely…
That’s always struck me in these videos…
Ever play roblox? You can see how people scam themselves because _they want to believe._
Her profile pictures are heavily filtered, she tells him what to wear on the 1st date. Boy, that scammer sure dodged a bullet with that one! 😁
Yep she's scamming people with her profile picture.
Agreed 👍🏼 😂😂😂
I said the same thing!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That profile picture made me laugh
If someone told me how I need to look when we first meet, there would be no meeting.
I dated a retired optometrist for a couple of years. He showed up on our first date in a T shirt and cut offs. Why would I care what he wore. She's crazy
@@susanlett9632 I used to think that dressing up smart for the date is a sign of good manners as well as rspect for your date but to each its own.
Why do I get the feeling she also presented herself as something she wasn’t? Heavily doctored photos is also a deception- be yourself, stay grounded, meet in video chat, real life. She loves the fantasy “is Rene a widower”
yeah ..she will continue to chat with him when she gets bored eventually, the flattery is too addictive..
I was so hoping someone noticed that same thing. Hella cakeup, yes, cakeup not makeup and filters. She was almost as dishonest as the scammer. Had the scammer actually been really he likely would’ve been mad at how different she actually looks.
@@ryanhansen7 Haha yeah. That thumbnail was doctored more than this doctor
Her wheels were spinning the whole time trying to justify everything. I doubt she blocked him
Yes, the picture she posted was probably 20 years ago so the scammer scammed her and she scammed the scammer! Please warn your older parents who may have lost their husband or wife! I’m kinda’ shocked that this older generation knows how to use crypto! 😂😂
I start watching each story and think..."ok perhaps I will see this woman as a vulnerable, lovely human." Instead she's arrogant, delusional, controlling, and creepy. Who tells someone how to dress on a first date? Who makes a collage of themselves with people they've never met and send it to a kid? I feel for her, but usually people put forth their best self in public. Scary.
Many of them just don't have the same critical thinking skills that you have and it carries over into certain things they believe and say. It is likely what makes them targets in the first place.
@@Suki272 someone can be arrogant, delusional, and have low critical thinking skills 😂 I think this lady hit the jackpot
They all seem to be extremely weird. 🤯. AND, they never shut up!
Photoshopping her photo next to theirs looked kind of scammish or stalkish to me too… she is “character” for sure…
It’s almost as if she got what she deserved. Cheated on by her ex husband and now getting catfished online.
Even after being told she is being scammed, she keeps talking about the things they were going to do together. She's going to get scammed again, guaranteed.
I wonder if the scammers just get a new profile and contact them again. Now that they know so much about them, it would be pretty easy to do. They are vulnerable and are desperately looking for someone to tell them everything they need to hear.
@@susanjohnson6192that's definitely what happens..
It's also usually a group of scammers working on one person.
But yes - if someone gets mad at one scammer "identity", the group will contact them under another profile
The proof doesn't seem to work, here. Using someone else's photos throws them. The realization isn't a real realization.
@@susanjohnson6192 That is exactly what they do. They have lists of targets they know they can scam again, with a new handsome profile. Often these women send money to the same scammer....again.....cause theyre all in love, again.
not necessarily, might just be part of her grieving process and coming to terms with it.
Teacher Gladys learned the hard way that presentation isn’t everything, like she stated in the beginning of the video… The scammer presented himself as a professional and successful man; however, it was all deceitful. It goes to show that being a professional, such as a teacher, doesn’t necessarily mean that someone is knowledgeable, nor does it mean that someone has common sense.
OMFG! How did she live to 64 years old?. She couldn't see red flags in a Chinese state parade. Ugh.
LOL - great way to put it.😜
Or at a NASCAR race! _(12/7/2022)_
@@knowbodiesfull5768 😂😂😂
Funny!!!
“Red flags in a Chinese state parade” - brilliant! 😂😂😂
Even after they explained that this "Dr. Paul" guy was not who she thought, she proceeds to ask if the real Doctor is a widower. Good grief. Even after it was explained that he was a scammer, she said that they "had plans for the holidays". Give it up lady!
If Dr. Paul _was_ real, would he be Dr. Phil's twin brother? 🤣🤣🤣. _(12/9/2022)_
These people are very emotionally invested in these relationships. It's very hard for them to let go this dream that they had of a happy life with love and a family.
I was thinking even if he was a widower he wouldn’t be checking for you. A man that high value would have women lined up around the corner at a much younger age bracket.
I totally agree. I found myself screaming at the video saying "Girl why are you still asking questions they just told you he was full of shit 🙄"
And she misused the apostrophe in the word holidays when she typed it. Guess she didn't teach English!
My dad told me if a man ever asked me for money to say "I'm sorry but I don't hang out with bums". It works every time. They get offended and stop talking to me. This has happened numerous times on Facebook.
LOL
He doesn't exist.....
So he isn't a doctor?
19:20 "Mr. Dickinson does not exist."
"Wow. OK. And he wasn't a teacher at that school?"
_the biggest facepalm in existence_
If a woman ever told me to dress professionally when we first meet she would immediately be blocked.
Yeah that was the most random thing ever wtf
I know the cheeky cow she's no oil painting 😂😂😂
Exactly. That's so disrespectful.
Completely, if a guy told me he “expected” me to dress a certain way on our first meeting that would be it. Very controlling statement.
Hence why her only prospects are just scammers. Scammers never get offended unless you don’t send them money so they’re easier to deal with than real people with a brain that requires mutual respect to want you.
Bless her heart, she was not getting it. She didn't get tipped off when the "son" unprompted says, "my father would never scam you."
"Nice to meet you. Will you be my mom? We are definitely not scamming you."
@@nineteenfortyeight 😂 😂
The son was also the scammer too in reality. 2 different accounts to butter her up. SHe deserved to loose what she did,
REDICULOUS FOR A ""SON, "
TO MAKE THAT STATEMENT
NOT EVEN THE SON,PROBABLY FELLOW
SCAMMER.
That's not true, the guy i bought my PS7 from told me it wasn't a scam
“My father would never scam you” 😂😂😂😂😂 lmao no way she didn’t see that alone as a blaring red flag. Some people in this world are so delusional
The scammers weave a romantic tale. They never talk about real life stuff like “My kid was a jerk today” or “I ate too many burritos and have a stomachache.” These scammers create very two dimensional characters.
Any scam is a romantic tale. They always tell you that in a past life you were a King, or Cleopatra, etc. not a street sweeper in London flattened by a truck lol. Always the fantasy.
And you can’t really get to know them. They talk like foreigners.
They only talk about Bad stuff when it’s part of the scam. Stuff about how you have a stomach ache because you ate too much food or that your child behaved badly isn’t useful to choking somebody out of their money.
@@EASJR1991 exactly
Oh they do. It just usually follows a request for money. They are all lovey dovet until the stomache ache hits and then they needs money to go to the doctor. It's never just telling them about a bad day because they want to talk to that person about it.
She filters her photos heavily. In a way, she's scamming also
Exactly!
True!
Everyone was to look better for social media😂
Older/middle aged people online are always funny to me tbh because they will use filters that are so obvious. Like their nose has almost disappeared their skin looks unrealistic, etc.
Hardly. Most people online wants to present the best image of themselves. And that normally means filters or professional photos.
After binge watching your videos, I feel like I have earned a Ph.D. in scamming. Now I just need to go to a shady website and print out my fake diploma.
😂😂😂😂
I mean it's not complicated it's scary easy
😂😂😂😂 I’ve been glued too. I can’t even get a match on Tinder and these fools are getting women to give them thousands lol
We have to proceed with emptying your bank account, babe ☺️
She was a teacher & wants to be sure everything was “copestetic;” go back to class!
How could she think she looks like the boy's mother, shes in her 60s!
😂😂😂 delusional
Total Narcisist
Maybe she thinks the filters are truly her real life look
She lives in an alternate universe in her mind, and it helps that she's a narcissist and delusional
She looks a darn sight older than 64.
Seriously some women will never learn.
"we had plans for the holidays"...WOW!!! this woman is still in her dreamy world.
Right
💯
She can go on Holliday with Nigerian 😅
If she blocks this scammer, I'm pretty sure that this scammer will just switch to some other set of stolen pictures and be some new handsome guy that has a kid, perhaps a little girl this time, and Glady will fall for it again.
With a sports jacket
Starting a family together ... She's 70
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I think she just meant becoming 'mother' to his kid. Still insane 😅
This generation of ladies never ceases to amaze me: "I like to bake and cook unlike other women"; "I was told you can meet men at the grocery store and I did"; "I expect you to look professional, with a sport coat"...
I was waiting for someone to say this exact thing. 🤣
@@rladPwjd 😁
She is the only woman "of that generation" I've ever heard say or think of any of those things. She was 'unique' in that way.
Lol! "Wear a sports jacket" i don't know why I found that so funny!
@@BadPenny023 poke around this channel a bit. You'll be amazed! Lol
When she made the collage of her and the dude with the son, had me rollin ☠️🤣
Maam, getoff the internet! 😂
That was beyond cringe 🤦♀️
Thank you. I found this very disturbing, like this is NOT normal behavior here.
Her picture was in the collage twice 🤣😅😂
OMG 😂😂😂 me too
@@Maria.9094 Heavily filtered in both! She looked like an alien in that line up.
I'm 10 years younger than Gladys and the thought of raising a young kid isn't appealing
Lol I have one teenager and it's not a picnic!!
@@cce8632 more like hell on earth
@@Clleonie 😂😂😂 fair enough!
Same here. She’s never had her own kids so she doesn’t know the 24/7 care and attention they need.
But the point is the scammers find peoples individual desires and destroy people with them
When they told her none of them are real people I could hear the Windows error tone coming from her brain.
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mean girl comment
@@Andberry Yeah but did it make you laugh? 😅 I'm actually a very kind person, but at a certain point there is a threshold on being naive/gullible. This is just ridiculous.
@@leapinglynx I’m sorry for my comment - I just see so many unkind comments on these videos! It’s hard to see crowds of random people tear down vulnerable people, no matter how stupid their actions are. Especially since most of them have pain in their past/are older and didn’t grow up with tech. Most of them seem to have good hearts, just naive and lonely. I’m too sensitive 😩
If I live a hundred years I'll never understand why a woman would ever give a man money.
That's pretty old-fashioned!
@nightflight I used to be like you then I kept watching these episodes.
Well, that's a teeny bit sexist. But if I live to be a hundred years I'll never understand why ANYONE would send money to someone they've never met other than online. So we agree sort of.
@@Out_on_a_Limb_Life thanks for that comment. Miss Scarlett is a little off. A woman who gives a man money is a woman who is genuinely interested in the man. Now of course that man should not accept it but should take it as a sign of her being real and not using him for money
Et aussi pourquoi un homme donnerait de l'argent à une femme car un homme n'est pas un portefeuille sur pattes
Scammers seem to target victims with:- High desperation, low self-esteem & *arrogance* that they're never wrong!?
They target widowed and divorced older people. Of that group, the ones you described are the ones who often fall for the scam. Come to think of it, they sound personality disordered -- low self esteem and high arrogance.
Those who are not desperate and arrogant are the ones who do not fall for the scams
You're so right. I know a woman just like that who's being scammed at the moment and refuses to believe it. Oh well.
She believes this handsome rich doctor is interested in her against all odds but then she's immediately ordering him around about how to dress and behave.
Lol looney tunes 😂
😮😮😮😮the nerve of it all!
Everyone making it clear that he's fake and she continues to say "we had plans to meet for the holidays " smh
These stories are like watching a train wreck, I just can’t look away but am in disbelief at the naïveté and gullible nature of these women.
Yooo, same 😂 I don’t even know why I keep watching these shows, but it’s so fascinating how people can be so dang gullible and deep in denial.
Took the train wreck analogy right out of my mouth 😂
Delusional idiots. Harsh, but it’s the truth.
A train wreck can be avoided. This can. Only problem is these WELL AND UNBELIEVABLE pay their prime ladies of leisure to scam . Throw in a few Babe, dear, my only love, true love, my queen shit and stories a non mentally challenged Jr high School kid wouldn't buy have idiots like her asking how much!?? Is inevitable. She's a fool
“Is Rene a widower?” Even when facts come out these people cling to the idea. Sad
She was in shock.
I caught That 💯💯💯💯
Being single is the most underrated thing ever. I can’t understand why people go into such deep delusion just for the hope of being with some complete stranger they have zero compatibility with. It’s mind boggling. Being an elderly person who’s main priority is finding someone to start a family with is just crazy to me.
I got to say, I expect the collage freaked out the scammers!
If the father is scamming her, then it is obvious the kid is not real! Does she genuinely think the scammer would be using his real son…? Come on!
I think it’s because it fell through with her previous marriage that she desires it more
dyeing alone is scary. I don't know if you have ever had a mid life crisis or mental crisis, but the realization of death and being alone without a family to help in the final years is really unpleasant.
Because people desire that companionship. You say that because you're content with being single amongst other ways you go about YOUR life. However, what works for YOU might not work for someone else. Loneliness is a type of madness that the plain fact is you'll delude yourself to escape the reality of your situation hence is sometimes the case with these people. Others in these videos want the hottest thing but this women's been through a lot and she wants to feel loved. These people have been single for so long that they want to feel loved. Can you comprehend that? Even if their completely stupid for falling for this, it's still remains a factor.
She is obviously a boomer. It was just what was considered NORMAL. Marry,buy house,have kids,....it's changing and it's hard for boomers to grasp
She could NOT pass as that boy's mother. What magic mirror does she gaze into?
I wondered that too. I want her mirror 🤣🤣🤣🤣
For anyone interested in psychology, it's interesting how she seems like the type to choose a narcissist. She's very invested in the idea of "presentation" over substance. Probably the type to run a toxic family that "looks" good to the outside world
Be presentable like it’s an interview, submitting photos like a resume to her. I feel she’s a control freak. And completely agree with what you said.
🤔Is she choosing narcs or is she one herself, concerned about how his appearance reflects on her? Or both? Her photos are so filtered they're silly. I'm fascinated by their psychology.
@@nineteenfortyeight good question!
Yes, I agree 👍
She has narc tendencies by sounds of it
She forgot how to socialize with adults? Instructing her potential beau to "dress professionally" like she's a teacher again 🤣😭🤣
I think you’ve got it. She’s downright bossy!
@@Jenny010132 YES indeed telling him to wear a jacket on first meet, audacity!
And he's a freaking doctor! Like he needs fashion advice from anyone.
I was lol over that part too.. 😂
She's arrogant and dumb
“My father would never scam you.” 😂😂😂 Oh okay. Thanks other stranger on the internet whom I’ve NEVER met and have no ties to. Is this lady serious? She bought that crap??
What kid would say that. Bizzare
@@JaimeMesChiens I did notice he capitalized random words.
@@emmel4fun he Did?
@@Woodman-Spare-that-tree I see What you did There...
She wants somebody to flatter her and is prepared to pay for it,let her do it!!!
omg, she keeps asking questions about a man she was just told is a totally fictitious character! she literally cannot wrap her head around it😅
I know Americans don’t have context for this, but Harrow is an very prestigious private school. Benedict cumberbach went there. You have to be incredibly posh and hugely rich to send a child there. It’s a completely ridiculous lie
Thanks for sharing.
Americans are waaay to self obsessed and stupid to know what a Harrow school is (or anything that goes on in Europe, and yes, the UK is an island(s) but it's still situated in Europe.
I think that Winston Churchill attended Harrow.
@@normasouthwood3182Yes, he did, back in 1888!
I am an American who has heard of Harrow and Eton another posh school.
Glady shouldn't "take a break" from on-line dating, she should give it up altogether or, as sure as I'm sitting here, she will get scammed again.
Willingly.
She will forever be on a sucker's list.
As soon as this air she was getting lots of handsome men that don’t usually do this…
100% agree! Like I think some of these victims really just need a pen pal and the same country they are in because there are lots of us single older ladies that would love to have somebody to write to or talk to but I didn't like this lady, LOL, she was semi scamming herself with her Photoshop picture whatever the term is now. She wasn't being real either. Nobody deserves to lose their money but there are other avenues that don't involve this type of issue. Sending blessings from Grandma Gia in the Ozarks
Chris wearing a sports coat is at the very bottom of Glady’s problems
That collage she made! 🤣 Was she trying to be anime??? 🤣
''the school teacher is not real', and her reply: 'Did he teach at the school? LOL
I cannot believe that she was a Teacher Lol .Says a lot about the Education System .omg .
Girl….this is sad BUT I feel like most people know it’s a scam but they willfully ignore their intuition because the fantasy is so addicting.
What you said must be true because how else could this ever be explained?
Yup. Its addiction issue not an i.q. issue.
Yep. These people consider their own lives boring, while they crave excitement, affection and some action. So they deliberately ignore the red flags.
I agree
But it’s so expensive!
when a person dictates anyone what to wear, there is a problem here
Don't take this out of context..nothing wrong with a presentable presentation
@@italiantraditionalcatholic2390 You think so because you are Italian! They like to dress up whether they are narcissistic or not! It's a part of who they are.
1:36 "I am not like other girls" Hun. Yes you absolutely are. The women in your generation were all conditioned to like cleaning, baking, cooking. Every women in your generation is doing exactly those things.
I am sorry but this woman is just delusional!
What western women aren't?
Those photos with the bizarre eye make up made her look like she's an alien. Thinking people would guess the boy was her son is magical thinking.
@@buffys3477 Exactly. Men get scammed too!
Not only delusional,but the one one bran cell she has is deactivated...sad...
Very. She needs professional help
When she asked if the real guy was a widower, I LOL'd. It sounded like she was asking to see if she still had a chance and then after everything she's told, her reply is "well, that's what he told me/sent me"
Lol what nerve of her!
So you’re telling me there’s a chance!!!!
I thought the same thing. They actually get that response from a lot of the people who have been catfished and don't' want to believe it.
@@knowthycell 😅 I read ya….
What in the bloody hell is going on with this woman?
This lady needs serious help!!
She is totally delusional
We had a neighbor who got hooked into one of these. She met the man of her life on the internet and they were to be married, but he needed money to get to the US. Long story short, he took her for all of her life savings which was not much. She is in a wheelchair and disabled so she does not have the chance to make the money back. We tried to tell her that she was being scammed, but she would not listen. When the money ran out, so did he. She was living with friends because she could not afford to live on her own and did not have the money for it either. The friends moved so I lost track of her. Makes me sick.
Right out of the gate ... Red flag # 1 -- His first, middle and LAST names are ALL FIRST names!!! Red flag # 2 -- he's a doctor!!! Red flag # 3 He's overseas Red flag #4 --- He works for the UN. Red flag #5 -- He only has one child who attends a prestigious school, but doesn't live with him.
#9 : He's a LIAR! _(12/7/2022)_
#10: He specializes in orthopedic surgery.
#11 He usually never does this but her profile just caught his eye... and he wants to friend her online
#12 His son goes to a fancy school in another country ... and a teacher takes care of him. And someone always has a "broken phone" !
Thank you! The name ( names) is the first thing I noticed
You can tell she is holding onto every bit of this scam for dear life. Every reveal is met with skepticism on her part because she wants it to be real. She’s been very foolish but very human. I wish her well and hope she’s a bit wiser now.
As soon as I saw his profile I knew he was fake , a doctor yeah right , falling in love with you so fast , lady I feel so sorry for you , a son , they will use anyone of their family to scam you , they just want your money , and would every bit of your money from you , and calling babe , and baby is nearly always Nigerian , believe I learnt the hard way , now I can sit a scammer a mile off , I research everything , you also made yourself to look younger than you are , believe me , they wouldn't care if you looked ninety , as long as they get your money , learn from this , and just block anymore that comes through , I wish you all best x
How on earth can these women be this naive?? Doesn’t she realize the no orthopedic surgeon is going to be interested in her? They do NOT need to go on Facebook for a date - they would only date women much younger & they have the choice of the cream of the crop. They are some of the highest paid physicians & do not need to be ‘dating’ on a computer. WAKE THE HELL UP😱
@@davisholman8149 I agree.
@@davisholman8149 so true
@@davisholman8149 exactly. Why' would a Dr have time or interested in long distance relationship?? It doesn't make sense!! How could she be so ignorant!!
Haha. I’m laughing my ass off. All those catfish stories are same. All abroad, noble job, widowed.... I’m dying 😂
Hey Zaneta. Am rich doctor from usa. Come inbox dear. No can't do video call becuz my cammara iz browkeen. Send money my dear
That's basically how scammers talk 🤦♂️
These women read dime store romance novels & are simply delusional. They have received very little attention from men & crave it so badly, they will literally PAY FOR IT!🤑
@@Gurra88 zero originality hehe. Same sad story ... They so lazy they can’t even think about something more believable.
@@zanettaczika If it isn't broken why fix it. Scammers are living in large fancy homes, driving super luxury cars. They don't need to put more effort into the scam.