My Singleness Journey | heartbreak, health struggles, & healing

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  • @Jesusandme100
    @Jesusandme100 Рік тому +46

    Absolutely, the relationship with the Lord is the most important 100%

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +4

      Amen! God bless you and thank you for watching 🙏🏻😃

  • @godslovewithmy3arts388
    @godslovewithmy3arts388 Рік тому +16

    Just know that GOD knows what He is doing, I love this

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Absolutely! God bless you! 🙏🏻

  • @LifeWithSimvu
    @LifeWithSimvu Рік тому +19

    I literally can relate so much to your story. My last break up also brought hurt and lack of self-esteem. I also felt like nobody would want me(sometimes I still do), but I am always reminded that God loves me and will never withhold something good from me. That every situation He works it together for my good and His timing is perfect.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Amen! He is working everything for your good. We just have to trust that He can see what’s best for us. We pray that you would have peace and joy from The Lord in this season, and that God would give you the desires of your heart! 🙏🏻

  • @thisistheday3369
    @thisistheday3369 Рік тому +14

    What a beautiful and sensitive video! It made me cry to think of the pain and struggle you went through. Praise the Lord that He is faithful and kind. He never wastes our pain.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      God is so so good to us even when we feel like we’re suffering for no reason! Thank you so much for watching and God bless you! 😃🙏🏻

  • @agatachristian9925
    @agatachristian9925 Рік тому +38

    I love how genuine and sweet you both are :) Thank you for sharing your story. I can relate... I'm still alone at 29 years old. Being in a relationship used to be my big desire but now I'm no longer focusing on that as I'm used to being alone. I've always felt very behind in life. I've had a lifetime of abuse and it held me back most of my life. I've also been dealing with health issues since I was a child. My waiting season has been very long and filled with a lot of pain. Yet I know that I would have never got saved if God didn't cause these things to happen in my life. For Jesus, I can sacrifice everything I've ever wanted in my life. He is my all ❤ :) Just wanted to share a bit of my story. God bless you both!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +5

      Hi Agata, that’s such an incredibly powerful testimony! I know that when you share your story like this that you’re going to encourage someone else out there that’s in the same boat, because I know there are a lot of Christians out there that struggle with feeling like they’re on a time limit and that they have to figure everything out by then. God bless you and thank you again for sharing! 😃🙏🏻

    • @njuinebrenda3850
      @njuinebrenda3850 Рік тому +3

      Hi Agata, i personally, don't believe anyone is left behind in Kingdom of God. I do believe when the time is right, the Lord will make it Happen. A word from the Lord is sufficient to make a change. Please just keep believing while focused on your relationship with God.🙏🙏🙏🙏more grace

    • @rutholatunde1
      @rutholatunde1 Рік тому

      God bless you too, Agata

  • @somie4639
    @somie4639 Рік тому +4

    I just love Sadie's gentle spirit. She is beautiful.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Aww thank you so much Somie!! ♥️♥️

    • @somie4639
      @somie4639 Рік тому

      Welcome ❤❤

  • @elisakurth9973
    @elisakurth9973 Рік тому +9

    Thank you so much for sharing your story! I'm currently navigating my own healing process, and it's so helpful to be reminded that God has a plan for me in the midst of heartache!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +3

      We’re glad that our video helped remind you of some of God’s promises, Elisa! There is always purpose for our pain, and God is with us throughout all of life’s seasons. God will heal your heartache- I promise!! ♥️

  • @TrustandobeyGod
    @TrustandobeyGod Рік тому +11

    My sister sent this to me and a couple other friends a little bit ago. It's a literal Godsend, I was just feeling sad and discontent with my singleness. Thank y'all so much for making this, it was really encouraging! 🥰 I just subscribed. 😊

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +3

      Well we’re so glad that it sounds like you and your friends and family like our videos 😃 Trust me, we’ve all gone through times when our singleness felt crushing, but we promise it gets better! Enjoy this time in your life, because you never know when He will bring you your husband! God bless you and welcome to our UA-cam family! ♥️♥️

    • @TrustandobeyGod
      @TrustandobeyGod Рік тому +1

      @@samandsadie yes we do! Thank you for the encouragement. 😄

    • @DaughteroftheKingofkings
      @DaughteroftheKingofkings Рік тому +1

      ​@@TrustandobeyGod hey sis.

  • @katrinapitcher2961
    @katrinapitcher2961 Рік тому +2

    I really appreciate you sharing your story, Sadie. I went through a bad breakup about a year ago now and have been single since. I love both of your advice and am so thankful I came across your channel! You give me hope. God bless :)

  • @misss7758
    @misss7758 Рік тому +2

    I can relate in a way. I am 46 and single. It was not over in a blink of an eye. I have learned alot in the decades of singleness. I have met someone but I feel like until I am actually engaged I don't know if the singleness will end soon. You are wise Sadie.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      If this man loves you he should make his intentions clear. Period. Alot of men will waste your precious time.

  • @daughterofthemosthighfrey752
    @daughterofthemosthighfrey752 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Lord for healing this Sister.😢😢😢😢

  • @BethelGreeen
    @BethelGreeen Рік тому +8

    Thank you, Sadie, for sharing your story! It's such a beautiful and inspirational story!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Thanks Bethel!! We’re so glad that you took the time to watch and thought it was helpful! All the glory to God! 😁🙏🏻

  • @mirembewinfred5353
    @mirembewinfred5353 Рік тому +22

    Let me be patient and believe one day God will bring me a God-loving husband, not a boyfriend . Thank you guys

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +2

      Amen!! And thank you for commenting Mirembe! God bless you! ♥️🙏🏻

    • @Adojipeniela
      @Adojipeniela 11 місяців тому

      Nice name Mirembe 😊

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      Amen. Let it be so. Carry yourself like a wife. Remain chaste. A man may not always like it ( even a believer) but they will certainly respect it.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      I've had breakups and some. Having sex before marriage made the breakups devastating. The pain lasted long. A break up and you didn't have sex doesn't hurt as much.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      What really gets me is when elderly married people tell you to get over it or move on. You can't turn off your feelings like a switch.

  • @JustinCarter-c8v
    @JustinCarter-c8v Рік тому +1

    Amen! PREACH!!!!

  • @emariahdriessen1370
    @emariahdriessen1370 Рік тому

    Sadie thank you so much for sharing your story! I am going through a hard time in my life with relationships and hopes being crushed and your story really encouraged me! Praise God...

  • @JohnWalterGates
    @JohnWalterGates Рік тому +1

    Hey guys, I believe you could make use of two cameras to make an interview format. When Sadie is telling her story, Sam is just there, it breaks the intimacy. In a way, a young woman dreading her singlenesa might connect more with just Sadie. But Sam needs to be there, you really make good questions man. Just my 2 cents. Loved the video and the message. Keep it up!!

  • @Perfectpeace_pg
    @Perfectpeace_pg Рік тому +4

    Thank you, just thank you so much for sharing and being so genuine with us. This channel is encouraging and helping so many of us because of the realness. I’m single and 33 and the Lord is working on healing my heart, so much past trauma to heal through but just to know that I’m not alone and that others have been through what I’m going through and even more brings a bit more comfort. God bless you both 💕

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Aww Patricia, thank you for those sweet words! We’re so glad that our channel has encouraged you. Our goal is to be as genuine and real as we can with everyone. You are not alone in your struggles! God will heal your heart one day- we promise! It’s so hard to believe that when you’re in the middle of the storm, but you’ll look back one day and be thankful for this season of life. God bless you Patricia! 🙏🏻🤍

  • @Jeniffer61867
    @Jeniffer61867 Рік тому +15

    The way he looks at her 😩💖

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      We hope you liked the video! ♥️

    • @Jeniffer61867
      @Jeniffer61867 Рік тому

      @@samandsadie love that. And you guys are adorable

  • @abigailgarber3296
    @abigailgarber3296 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your story, Sadie ❤ 2019 was a hard year it sounds like for a lot of people I know it was for me going through my own struggles but I just wanted to say thank you for sharing

  • @alh9477
    @alh9477 Рік тому +2

    I know what you mean about bad breaks up's I've went through a few but God will send the man we all need... And being single isn't so bad until you met mr right

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      God will work all things for your good!! God bless you and give you strength and joy during your season of waiting!

  • @Prince-xy3km
    @Prince-xy3km Рік тому

    I'm not trying to get attention but I'm going through the same thing , I've been thin since 14 and now I'm 18 still the same . I'm definitely sure that the Lord directed me to this video . Thank u for sharing your story its truly an inspiration that one day God will help me grow out of a little boy's body and give me a man's body .

  • @hannahchancey1909
    @hannahchancey1909 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for sharing sadie!!! The Lord is so faithful!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Thanks Han!! God is good! Thank you for being a part of my story! ♥️

  • @andrewbeetler5985
    @andrewbeetler5985 Рік тому

    This is such an encouragement to me! I am still single, and it is a huge reminder to me that there are different timelines and different timing for different people. Thank you!

  • @alanborwahlang1583
    @alanborwahlang1583 Рік тому +3

    It's lively! So good to hear your story, hope it will be an encouraging message to others. One thing that impresses me as I watch this video is that "putting God's first in everything."

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your encouragement Alanbor! We try our best to put God first, even though we don’t always do the best job! God bless you and we’re glad to have you as part of our UA-cam family! 😃🙏🏻

    • @alanborwahlang1583
      @alanborwahlang1583 Рік тому

      @@samandsadie 🙏

  • @nitikagidwal2262
    @nitikagidwal2262 Рік тому +3

    Keep growing this channel. I relate so much Sadie❤ this channel will touch heights❤❤

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your encouragement Nitika!! God bless you and welcome to our UA-cam family ♥️🙏🏻

  • @pn95263
    @pn95263 Рік тому +4

    Only God can give you your glow back 💫 we are His precious daughters. We are princesses 🌼🌼

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Absolutely! Only God can heal our souls, and He truly healed mine! God bless you! 🙏🏻

    • @pn95263
      @pn95263 Рік тому

      @@samandsadie Thank you 💕

  • @faithfulwhispers333
    @faithfulwhispers333 Рік тому +5

    I just recently started following you guys and Love you guys! Thank you so very much for your vulnerability 🙏 what a beautiful story you two have ❤️

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      We’re so glad to have you as part of our UA-cam family! Thanks so much for watching and for your encouragement! 😃🙏🏻 God bless!

  • @andileshikwambana
    @andileshikwambana Рік тому +2

    That's me right now I don't even know if the moves I'm about to make tomorrow are the right ones

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Just pray for peace from The Lord about anything you decide and follow The Bible and you’ll be in great shape!!

  • @rectify2003
    @rectify2003 Рік тому

    Thankyou for both being honest and vulnerable
    Its helping with my anger issues of being hurt, after giving so much in relationships
    Praise God

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      You need to work on forgiveness.

    • @rectify2003
      @rectify2003 11 місяців тому

      @@danilaroche1156 You are 100% right, but I don't want to as people have wounded me, and enjoyed seeing me suffer.
      That's what happens when you are kind, help anybody any time night or day

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      Jesus commands us to forgive. Unforgiveness causes bitterness and actually affects is in every way. Even our health. As far as helping everyone, Jesus said " Cast not your pearls before the swine. Les the swine trample the pearls and then attack you". I'm very kind but I don't help everyone. I stay away from evil people. I've been hurt in relationships. Deeply. I've forgiven and hey noone forced me to be in them. I took accountability. Carry on brother. Your a winner!

    • @rectify2003
      @rectify2003 11 місяців тому

      @@danilaroche1156 Well, you are a better person than me then !!
      besides, Jesus loves seeing me in pain, as that is how he controls me

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому +1

      ​Jesus will allow pain to change us. So in a sense you are right but He certainly doesn't ENJOY seeing you in pain, like a sadist. Not so. I am not a better person than you. I was a sizzling, scorching, hot a fire mess. If I told you how I was, you wouldn't believe me. It's just the Lord who rescued & healed me. Anyway, don't give up. The fact that your writing in comments means you want to grow. This walk ain't easy, booboo! I'm here to encourage you.

  • @anusha_joshua
    @anusha_joshua Рік тому +1

    This is sooo relatable! Thanks for sharing !

  • @sheemadaniel6454
    @sheemadaniel6454 Рік тому +2

    Love this video and you guys are so genuine and Sadie your testimony really resonates with me, thank you for sharing it! does Sadie have her own youtube channel? ❤

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Aww thank you!! I don’t have my own UA-cam channel at the moment, but I’ve definitely thought about starting one! I think it’d be fun ☺️

  • @mpangmeibodu6599
    @mpangmeibodu6599 Рік тому +1

    My ex broke up with me last year in oct and broke my heart and hurt me mentally and emotionally beyond repair and still im going through.I’m closer with God than before and im feeling so much better but i don’t know how long my emotional wound will be there.Please pray for me to heal my pain soon.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

      Lord heal the pain! What helped me was getting in my assignment as an author and serving others.

  • @taylor4200_xx
    @taylor4200_xx Рік тому +3

    I had to subscribe! This video is so authentic and beautiful

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Well thank you so much for being part of the UA-cam family Alex!! We hope that you’ll like all of our upcoming content! God bless you 😃

  • @deboranoellette1724
    @deboranoellette1724 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful 😍 God bless you two

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Debora!! God bless you too! 😃🙏🏻

  • @gretam2150
    @gretam2150 Рік тому

    Thank you Sadie for sharing

  • @sarahildebrant490
    @sarahildebrant490 Рік тому +2

    Thanks so much for this video 😍

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      We hope it encouraged you, Sara! God bless you! 🙏🏻

  • @bereketesfaye
    @bereketesfaye Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @konitasasraku4674
    @konitasasraku4674 Рік тому +3

    Wow. Describing how you felt while reading the Psalms, and after that breakup, is how I feel now...or a month ago. But just like how you encouraged, I've been reminding myself to enjoy this moment with just me, my family, and The LORD🙏🏾♥️
    Is Sadie by chance related to Kaci Nicole (another Christian YTer)? I saw a thumbnail and realized how similar you both look!!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      That’s a really powerful testimony that you have too Konita! It’s really hard to be positive and trust in God during the storm, but I promise there is a purpose for this season. I’m not related to Kaci, but I do follow her content and take that as a compliment! 🥰 Welcome to the YT family!

    • @konitasasraku4674
      @konitasasraku4674 Рік тому

      @@samandsadie Amen. 🙏🏾🔥 You're welcome. And thank you!

  • @kelseyad
    @kelseyad Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing!!!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Of course Kelsey! We’re glad to see you’re still watching after all these years! 😃

  • @briajohnson3450
    @briajohnson3450 Рік тому +2

    I’m a new subscriber, and I love your channel so far!!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Welcome to our UA-cam family Bria! Thank you so much for commenting and encouraging us! God bless you and we hope you’re gonna love all the new stuff we post in the coming weeks! 😃

  • @ggg077
    @ggg077 Рік тому +3

    Hi sis. I'm clara. It's been six years of my marriage. Still in waiting period for gods right time. I'm 32 yrs and skinny yet. Can u pls share ur testimony of how God healed u(either by treatment or healing power). God bless ur family. Amen

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +2

      Hi Clara! I’m so sorry to hear that you are struggling. I struggled with my weight on and off until a couple years ago. I’ve always been a very skinny person (ie being able to eat as much as I want without gaining any weight). I also had a lot of anxiety which made me not want to eat much + I would stress myself out so much that the weight wouldn’t stay on. I stayed away from gluten for a year until my 2019 breakup, and after that, my body seemed to calm down enough for me to eat gluten and put on some weight. I think that God + my mind being healed helped my weight problems tremendously. It has been an answered prayer for me that I’m at a normal weight for the first time in my life. The advice I’d give you is to:
      1. Don’t be hard on yourself if you’re having trouble gaining weight. It’s something that most people can’t help. Love yourself through the process of figuring out what you can do to gain some weight 🤍
      2. Work on healing your mind if you struggle with stressing/anxiety. Give yourself grace + understand that you’re doing your best. I used to get comments about my weight, but people didn’t understand what was happening behind the scenes.
      3. Pray that God would heal you and know that in your waiting He is good and in control. Your struggles don’t come as a surprise to God.
      4. Incorporate workouts and high protein into your lifestyle. If you’re very skinny, cardio won’t be very beneficial to you, so focus on weight training + high protein meals!
      At the end of the day, you are beautiful no matter your weight! God bless you Clara! ♥️🙏🏻

    • @ggg077
      @ggg077 Рік тому +1

      Hi dear. Thank u for ur immediate reply. I'm from India. Only gods love has made me meet such a kind person like u.. Tears fell of my eyes. Yeah u r right 100%. I can eat as much I want but no result. Normally people don't understand behind scenes and just ridicule, like(no food, ur body is dead)... Anyways thank u for ur heartfelt advice and kind support. Love u. God bless u n family 💖💖

    • @leilamchargue8710
      @leilamchargue8710 4 місяці тому

      Same over here. Under 100Ibs for most of my life and dealt with severe anxiety & stress as well. This was encouraging. Praying for each of you.

  • @BridgetteStadler-gg2bo
    @BridgetteStadler-gg2bo 3 місяці тому

    Well I've been single and it feels like things have been the same for me ? So I don't know when God is going to transform me into something

  • @rutholatunde1
    @rutholatunde1 Рік тому +4

    I loved this video!
    I'm not sure why, but I always get involved in UA-cam channels that have this kind of setting and content, Like Paul and Morgan, Toups Time, Nate and Sutton, The Stalwart Lovers. And I know for sure that it's not a mistake that I'm getting to know all of them! I just found this channel some days ago, and I know this is not a mistake also! I'm single, and watching contents like this help me better prepare for the marriage journey, plus it strengthens my hope that the future is going to be amazing beyond me expectations. I love this channel, and I'll be following closely 🤭🤭😄😄🤭🤭😊. God bless you 😊.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +1

      Hi Ruth!! I think that you’ve got great taste in channels to follow 😉😂 We follow a lot of those creators too! We both watch their content frequently, and we learn a lot from them! Hopefully our channel can be half as good and impactful as theirs for the kingdom of heaven one day! God bless you and welcome to our UA-cam family! 😃🙏🏻

  • @sici780
    @sici780 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @drummercarson896
    @drummercarson896 8 місяців тому

    I'm feeling stressed out about being single

  • @godislove..2269
    @godislove..2269 Рік тому +3

    Praise the Lord brother nd sister,I love this your video, I'm single nd I'm not good physical health,after know Jesus I did many time sin,audited porn video, wrong chat girl,nd I only takes seriously how to make girlfriend but nobody accept me,but now everything I leave old carecter, so I just tell you can I get spiritual life partner, plz pray for me,from Jintu India,thanks..

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому +2

      I’m so glad you found encouragement from The Lord in this video! Sadie and I pray that you will be healed, and we pray that God would give you peace and joy in every season of your life 🙏🏻

    • @godislove..2269
      @godislove..2269 Рік тому +2

      @@samandsadie Praise the Lord both of you,thank you brother Sam,I'm very very say again you thank you, God bless you, Amen.

  • @julianamatiz5689
    @julianamatiz5689 Рік тому +1

    what is y'all's connection to Florida/Jax? Just curious! #Duuuval Love your content! :)

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Sam is actually from Florida & we now live in Jax! He is a big #Duuuval fan and loved your comment lol!! 🤣 thank you for watching!

    • @julianamatiz5689
      @julianamatiz5689 Рік тому

      Oh wow! Small world! I live in Jax too 😊 can’t live here and not jump on that duuuval bandwagon haha. Jax has such a great community of believers!! Glad y’all are here 😊

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Рік тому

      Aww no way! We have to connect! We’re going to First Baptist Jax and would love to meet you! ☺️

  • @Lightgeneration6446
    @Lightgeneration6446 11 місяців тому

    Been there

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 11 місяців тому

    Hey, try being divorced twice. Then 2 boyfriends passed away before their time. I'm over 50 and have experienced great heartache. I still hope to marry a Godly man. Love your videos!

  • @zippyblessed839
    @zippyblessed839 Рік тому

    I never knew relationships can cause you to lose weight

  • @jackcarraway4707
    @jackcarraway4707 Рік тому

    The only person you can count on is yourself, not the invisible sky daddy that you only like when things go your way.