As a rather shy introvert, staring is usually the biggest sign I like a girl. I'm not trying to be creepy, I'm just trying to observe their behavior, what they say, etc., to try to learn more about their personality. But it usually gets awkward if they make eye contact more than once.
Ok I do this too!!! If I don't know that they are christian I try to see how they treat others around them if I am intrested in them. Then I pray if God would bless us or bring us together if its his will.
Great tips! Awesome to confirm that the whole thing is always surrounded by purity and some sort of innocence. However, one of the things I struggle with the most as a single Christian man is how to avoid sending the wrong signals. I can explain, every time I meet a godly woman/girl, I instantly develop a genuine admiration for her, and that can easily be spotted, I assume, through my eyes, body language, or passionate conversations about the Bible or theology. The problem is that this admiration thing is even new to me, as before I literally couldn't speak with girls without malice in mind, and I really see it as part of the sanctification process I've been going through. I want to get married, yes, but didn't think God has put anyone in my way as of now. My whole point is, how can I not send any misleading signals but also keep nurturing healthy relationships with other women. God bless you all!
Just try to keep your signs and body language in mind and maybe just go have a conversation with a girl! Don’t be too forward, but try to see if you can organically strike up conversation! I’m glad to hear that God has purified your mind man! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
That's becoming a problem for me, i want to have female close friends and I have one now. But i don't want it to develop on her side because it looks like it's going in that direction. I don't think that a relationship right now is God's plan for me.
Enjoyed watching this, there is a guy at church that I think is interested in me but he is staring at me and smile but it’s not done creepily though since it is at church.
The guy I like at church just got certified to be a pastor 😭😭 it’s a blessing but it makes me feel small in comparison, he gives me some of the signs but I get nervous around him a lot 🥹
Tell him that then :). Honesty is always best, at least for me. I consider myself a bit more direct, but it is better to be upfront than "dilly dally". Also, don't be intimidated😂. I know that doesn't help much, but remember we have/will/do all fall short of the glory of God❤. Fear of man is not from God, respect is. You want someone who will lead you and your kids one day so a bit of intimidation can be good 😊😊.
@@KS-rb3qfHonestly!! If you have the nerve, full send!! Maybe just be like “Hey is there a way we can get to know each other more.” Or I’m not sure the best way to say it, but it’s hard for a guy to know if a girl likes them and he probably doesn’t want to ruin anything/ make it awkward asking you out if you don’t have feelings for him. Also in the long run you’ll be happy you said something!!😊 Maybe y’all won’t work out, but you’ll be happy to know you gave it a try and won’t always wonder “What if?”❤️
@@bea6564 I’m planning on telling him next week 😭 he went on vacation back home to visit his family after I went to church that week, but he’s back and I want to do it this Sunday night coming up
You’re not small comparison to him, all of us have the same position in front of God. If you have peace that he can be someone that God wants you to be with, be sure that God will equip you with his grace to be with him ( I’m talking about his work because you’re complete in Christ).
it s been years that I d like to date a Christian Man. A man of God. But same time it scares me deeply is I am Godly enough If I am a true Christian because I share my beliefs but not my deepest since I m surrounded by nonbelievers 😢 I m happy for you guys ❤
A guy has to make it obvious but warm and not offensive to others. On a day trip, a guy appears to always walk by my side and sit across me during meal or snack time. It’s a sign of care and protection that i found sweet in a guy. I have no idea if he’s interested though as he didn’t ask for my number. I think if you area interested, definitely ask do hey number and invite her out for something that you have mutual interests with. I’ll never know if he’s interested or he just happens to walk by me. I really don’t want to over interpret it as I have done it before(a bit embarrassing). I just thought it’s very warm when a guy always wants to be close to be physically.
I had an incling intuition that two guys fancied me but they denied it so I must have been wrong. One was very shy and another was very outgoing but acted why around me but other times cold and eventually spoke to me and when I said I want to book a room in a hostel he said sounds good. Now... usually my incline intuition is right when it picks up on something good or bad and with one especially the outgoing college hostel receptionist guy, something within me said he had feelings for me and I really felt that and when I responded with oh no yuck, he responded with a laugh and he was playing many love songs around me and he knew I could sing and he overheard me sing, especially my own song when I thought it was a different receptionist on duty so I sang my own song but it was him.
Thanks for the great advice yall! I asked a Christian girl out a couple days ago (I’ve known her and have been close with her for about 5 months) but the feelings weren’t reciprocated. However, I’m trusting in the Lord that He will bring my future wife to me one day. His plan is perfect, and I need to trust that EDIT: I’m now dating someone that I align with all across the board!!! I’m praying that she is the one!
That's a big win in my opinion. You took a courageous step. That's more important than the outcome to be honest. Rejection can make you so much stronger as long as you respond to it correctly. Don't blame yourself for it and don't try to avoid rejection next time because of how painful it felt this time. You've got this and God's got you 💪
These are some great points!! Sometimes it’s still hard to know, because they could just genuinely be friendly/ curious in your faith and life, but definitely in general those are good hints that they like you!!😊 And guys a great way to attract a girl is just be there for her (in a none creepy way lol). Like offering help if she seems to need it, opening the door if her hands are full or even asking if there’s a way to pray for her. Girls notice that and really appreciate it!! It’s sometimes hard for a girl to know if you’re just being nice or if you’re also interested in her as well, but you’ll definitely stand out to her!!😊
I’ve only experienced non-Christian guys being interested. They always look me up and down, raise their eyebrows, give an inappropriate gaze, and then smile before approaching me. Why do they all do this? 😩
So I had a guy who did all those things to me. Come to find out he didn’t like me at all. I was led on for awhile so now idk if I could believe these signs. I’m genuinely curious to your thoughts. Maybe the guy I knew was immature? He’s asked me theological questions, he’s told me how much he admired my faith and how he could pray for me, he wanted to do a Bible study one on one, he would do the side hugs/sitting next to me. It was sorta weird. He never liked me. So now idk if these are really signs if a guy likes me. Thoughts?
I get this!! In general these are good hints/ signs and possibly he changed his feelings and then just said he didn’t have feelings for you. But also there are those few occasions, where the opposite sex really does care for you, likes you and wants to learn about you more, while genuinely just wanting to be friends. So I think you may have just come across a rare guy. This is something I struggle with sometimes, because I genuinely care for some of my guy friends and want to have deep conversations with them, but also don’t want to give the wrong signals, because I genuinely just want to be friends with them. So possibly this is the case with the guy you’re mentioning. In general though a guy is going to want to spend time with you and get to know you more if he has feelings for you, there are those rare guys that genuinely just want to be friends, but in general they’re more interested in being friends if they’re going out of their way ❤️
I'm learning, as a guy, that ladies love clarity. This is true yes? So I figured when I like someone, it's just better to pray about it, try to perceive if they feel the same, then ask. Now I haven't gotten to the last one for personal reasons, but when I'm ready that's what I'll do. That said, like Kayla K mentioned, it may be you met a really rare guy who exudes a lot of care for his friends, but, the likely scenario is that he had feelings, then they left. Especially if he stopped treating you like that, then it means there were some feelings that are no longer there. I'd do the same only if I am clear I like someone, just so I don't lead the person on.
could of been a homosexual or yeh immature meaning he had sin like porn addiction or something in his life which lead him to be underconfident and then back down with women after the initial stages of talking
Maybe he did like you but then changed his mind because like you said you’re a career girl or want to be a stay home mom or whatever didn’t match what he wanted 🤷♀️
I am thinking he is immature- speaking from experience. Naturally when I am interested in someone, I do the same things. Ask deep questions, look at her, etc. Now why I am leaning toward him being immature is this: I have had a lot of relationship trauma / I’ve only been a Christian for over a year. I find it very difficult to balance intentionality with interest. What I mean is: it’s hard to be interested in someone, but at the same time, know that you are not prepared to be a husband. For me, I don’t have a solid enough career yet. I’m not sure where I’m living is where I will be staying. I am still afraid of rejection. So- yes, I perceive that I am too immature for a relationship. So even when I show signs of interest, I can come off as cold or confusing when I back away. So it’s a rock and a hard place for a person who is immature if they have already shown interest- because the options after that point is to: 1. Commit to it (even though you’re unprepared), 2. Back off. That’s really it. I could say there’s a 3rd option, which is: be honest about your situation to the woman/girl in question, but even if you chose this route it’s not going to suddenly make you ready for marriage. But maybe it’s the best option for transparency. I haven’t chosen this option, though. Just my 2 cents and how I think. Again, this person is not me, but maybe there are some nuggets in there.
Hey y'all, I just wanted to ask do you guys have a denomination? Specifically, I want to ask if you guys adhere to reformed theology. Love your videos!
I have enough of guy’s staring at me but not making a move 🙈 maybe I’m looking to scary to them don’t know but as soon as a guy asks me for a private bible study with him I will know that he is interested - thanks guys 😅👍
Maybe you should drop some hints that you might be interested. Try smiling or talking to him or something. He'll probably remember and think about it and he might make a move.
@@davidt01 Done, but then he was strange and never talked to me again 😂 I think it´s a sign that it shouldn‘t be. Some stay starrers but one day there will be someone who will be the right and active one. So let‘s stay friendly and open. 🤝
@@caro.jahdis Yeah that's happened to me to. There was this one girl who kept looking at me, but when I tried to talk to her it seemed like I just killed it. I do better at meeting people when I have someone with me, otherwise it's awkward. But some girls I don't have any trouble with, so maybe I just need to find the right one.
The guy I like at my church is a little more introverted, although he's really really come out of his shell the last while. He'd come to our church for years, and not one ounce of interest. He moved to a different province last year, and then moved back this October. All of a sudden, he keeps showing up where I am after church. Usually that's at the back where the food is, and where one of our mutual guy friends is, but he ALWAYS makes a point to talk to me. This has happened every Sunday consecutively for about two months now. We usually end up having a 10+ minute conversation about some random things. When the mutual friend talks, the guy I like keeps looking at me to see my reaction. He's not new to faith, but doesn't practice it as much as some other people, and I'm currently struggling with assurance so we haven't talked super deeply yet, although it for sure has come up a few times. We sat with the mutual friend and an older lady at our church Christmas banquet, and he runs the sound board and invited me to come sit with him. His parents are the pastor and his wife, and we're very close with them. His mom told me that he was sitting at the sound board and I could go sit with him. We can always find something to talk about, and he seems genuinely interested in talking to me. I'm wondering if there is something going on or what is happening here! He's a really sweet guy and I really like talking to him; he's super easy to talk to and even though he'd been coming to church for years, we've only started talking in October and I feel like we've been talking forever! Sorry about the huge rant, just wanted to see if anyone had some insight or had a similar experience 😊
Being a person who doesn’t bother people/ keeps to themselves is misconstrued as shy. It makes it frustrating, when you have a mutual interest with a girl, or she likes you more, but with time she will label you as “too shy” or uninterested because you’re slightly quieter than others or you’re not actively trying to get her to do something.. which seems like something that would make a person feel comfortable. I don’t try to communicate with signals or innuendos, if you wanna say something, just say it. However our society puts too much pressure on being “normal” but really it causes people like me to just shut down physically emotionally and spiritually.
Woohhh my goodness he was sitting next to me for a few times already 😱 I was so nervous, I didn’t want to sit next to him nor anyone from his family. I wanted to escape him leaving an empty chair between me and his mom but he came and set right between us, though his chair was at the other end of the table! And he also asked me few deep questions as I felt it😱😱 thank you guys, you truly speak real things I’ve had already! Icouldn’t hear it from a psychologist because they didn’t know christian’s guy behaviour but you know it! 😱now I’m scared and want to run away
Thanks for that. It sounds like my crush from Christian society and church wasn't interested in me at all and didn't like me but instead he was expressing signs of shyness, friendliness and politeness and just liked to lean in closely when someone was talking to listen to them and he had a constant habit at church of grooming his hair and just liked to be in the kitchen at the same time as another person when that person was alone and he was only behaving like a Christian by wondering why the other person such as me hasn't been around at any of the Christian events. He probably would approach anyone randomly including me. Your signs in this video don't match my experience with this crush so it must be just all me then and not him at all, even though I felt a strong click and bond with him and even though we seemed to have a lot in common. None of your signs were present with his friend who actually contacted me on a dating site who is also a Christian.
Hello! I have a question. How do i know i find out if he loves the Lord without coming in too strong like I'm interrogating? It's really a deal breaker.
What are his actions? Does he take church seriously? How does he behave with his friends, and what do other people think of him? There’s lots of ways to find out! Also pray a lot for peace and that his character would be revealed to you! God bless you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Dear guys! Please, if you like a girl, don’t ask any of those questions, it’s a straight up friend zone! He just got lucky she liked him back 😂 If you like a girl, be a gentleman, smile, give her a compliment, talk to her, give her a candy/flower in a lighthearted joking manner - do all of these things but gradually, giving her space, seeing her reaction. If she responds positively, then invite her to a group outing ( you can organize one- be a leader), during which be friendly to everybody. However, buy her coffee or something ( she will notice, while you are friends with everyone, you still give her extra attention). If everything goes well, ask her out on a date ( better for a walk or go to an attraction park, movies or something like that). Don’t start interrogation in a cafe or restaurant. All of the questions he has mentioned you can start asking on a 3rd-4th date. It’s called dating for a reason, people try to get to know each other. Be natural, genuine and romantic ❤ You’re welcome! )
Good grief. I can ask a secular woman point blank on a date and she would go out with me to have a chat. You Christian women expect a mastermind to ask you out.
(I didn't see the comment box!) Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience! Several of the things you've said in your videos really speak to me, and will be invaluable. Your experience has changed how I will approach my own situation when the time comes. Thanks! I hope you always keep God in the center of your relationship and direct each other to Him.
Thanks for sharing I’ll definitely be looking for these things. But definitely my dad will be my eyes and ears on this one last one I rebelled and dated a guy with a background and he was not happy about it but that’s before I became a true Christian
I met the best guy ever. Goes to church many times in a week, all our values aligned, 4 months in we do this courtship official thing he was happy and agreed to. But my parents put too much pressure on him to make a decision like a deadline date and I never really got the chance to tell him that I dont want that rush. He broke up with me because of it my parents scared him and got very intense saying not to waste my time. I never got a chance to explain MY BELIEFS on this to him and its so painful. I am hoping he will hear me out, because I also spoke to my parents and they said they would not put so much pressure anymore
Cuz normally guys dont mind if you donr believe in God like it be cool but Christians understand that they will meet unbelievers and thats okay. But if your lookkng for a spouse you need to be equally yoked and cant compromise on that.
Hey Sam and Sadie! Those are great points. How do you know if a guy likes you when you’re using dating apps? Like a legitimate guy. I tend to let the guys start the conversations and I’ve failed when I have texted guys in the past almost everyday and finally they’ve told me they don’t think it’ll work out
I"m new to the channel, I think I like my best friend, we been friends for 1 years, we"re both Christian, and right now we"re both single and I found out we"re both in the same Christian app dating 😅 lol. However I think I like him but I don't want to ruin our friendship, I don't know if he has the same feelings towards me, as he never show, I want advice please, shall I tell him or not??
I think you should tell him. Who knows maybe he’s thinking the same thing you are 😂. Try throughout some signs and see how it goes. And of course pray about it, like ask God if this is not for you help me move on etc. hope this helps❤
I give side hugs to all my lady friends... most guys in my former church did... so that could be culture, not necessarily a sign that you like someone. Prolonged hugs though, or full frontal ones, watch out for those 😅. They just might be... not guarantee, but they might be. Someone holding onto you for long definitely feels attached to you in some way.
@@natalierene1 I'd try not to overthink it, hehe... Maybe just require that whoever is interested in you be direct, and state it (don't make them say it, just make it your defining value). So you're not led on unnecessarily, whoever wants to be with you may have to just come to you directly and say it. Different hugs can mean different things to different people, so anything less than a declaration of Love would be too vague. It would only leave you confused Cheers 😊
This guy at church plays the drums and I notice him watching me in church and we frequently make eye contact. If something is funny, we look at each other in church to see if each other are laughing. I was told by my mom (who is not in any way delusional lol) that she notices him watched me from across the room. He recently has gotten very intentional in starting conversations with me and coming over to convos I’m in. When in convos with others and we lock eyes, there’s just this feeling. The other day I was talking about a church service I wanted to go to but my parents weren’t going so i wasn’t sure about going and he offered for me to go with his parents (he was going on a day I had to work but his parents were going Saturday, the day I wanted to go) The only thing is he’s 24, and I’m 17. I feel he’s hesitant because of the age gap. And waiting till I’m 18 to to make a move. I’ve known him my entire life and my parents have known him his entire life so it’s really not weird. I typed all that to ask… am I scary or is he interested
I too am a guy who plays drums for church, so I can somewhat relate. To sum up the first part, the consistent locking of eyes and him starting conversations seems like a pretty clear sign. A guy with chivalry (especially a godly one) who’s genuinely interested will try to treat you like a queen, even if he can only be kind in small ways here and there, he’ll try and take the opportunities when they show. So that checks out. I once let my interest develop for a girl I thought was interested in me. Long story short, I was deeply mistaken, and now I’m afraid to try taking up boldness again. You might not be scary, but fear of rejection is a common point of hesitation. Finally, the girl I’m becoming friends with now is just under 18, and I’m entering my twenties. Not quite as big a gap as you have, but that’s still a very large point of hesitation for me. I’m considering waiting until she’s 18 simply because I don’t feel comfortable with the idea of her being a minor still. All this to answer, yes, personally I’d say it sounds like he’s interested, and he probably has a valid reason(s) for waiting. Pray, read the word, and keep Christ at the center of your life. I hope all goes well, God bless!
Hey there, I too have a similar situation. We are both christians and we work together he does a lot of staring to the point a coworker friend of mine pointed it out. She said his face lit up like a Christmas tree when he mentioned me she said he really, really likes you. At first i thought he just had a staring problem, but in church i was seated far in the back and there was a lot of people and he was way in the front he turned his head around just to look me straight in my eyes. He seems to get a little nervous around me at work too. And his friend who is a girl said that she knows he likes me and i ask her how do you know that she said because he told her and he wanted to take me to church. Could he like me as a friend or could it be something else.@zacharypontius
How can guys tell if a woman is interested?? Huh? I can never tell if she likes me or if she’s playing mind games as the always do and that’s so annoying 🙄. I always get mixed messages from them all the time.
@@vshah1010 ok. It’s so annoying that women play mind games with us for no apparent reason. Idk why they do it but I find it to be stupid. They ruin chances of possibly being coming a couple
Coming from a woman, if she truly wants you to pressure her, she won't play mind games!! Some signs she'll give are that she'll notice things about you as an individual and your walk with the Lord. She'll also make herself available for you to pressure her in different scenarios. For example, if she steps away from a group setting to sit or walk by herself, she is giving you opportunities to see if you'll actively pressure her and try to get to know her more. Also, if you, as the guy, are just simply unsure, just directly tell her your intentions. Tell her that you are interested in getting to know her more and ask if she would be interested in getting to know you more in that way, as well. A lot of times, we are unsure if the guy is interested, so we wait until he starts actively pressuring us and taking those opportunities. Girls LOVE boldness, and it's EXTREMELY attractive!! We want to be pressured!! Don't wait for her to make a move or say something!!! If you're unsure, just take that step if the Lord is leading you in peace to do so!!! Hope this helps!!!😊
I'm an outgoing Christian woman. It would be nice if you had a shy, christian, male guest speaker talk about when he was interested in a woman. Thanks.
Well then it’s kinda just a waiting game 😂 You can either pull a Ruth and make it clear that you’re interested too, or you can see if things ever develop organically!
This was like watching two baby golden retrievers play with each other. The honest truth that very few Christian men admit is: As a man of God, you shouldn’t be pursuing a woman. You should be pursuing God and a true woman of God should be pursuing the man. God bless✌🏽
God should come first, but God gave the command to be fruitful and multiply the earth. That would have never happened your way. Errant thinking. God bless.
@@malebelomaphutha6566 A “Christian woman” is submitted to her father first, then her husband. Dating isn’t biblical. Both Christian and non Christian women are miserable today because they aren’t submitted… The sad thing also is most men aren’t worthy of being submitted unto, but even if you were to find a man worthy, most Christian women haven’t practiced being led and are contributing to the deterioration of the family unit.
As a rather shy introvert, staring is usually the biggest sign I like a girl. I'm not trying to be creepy, I'm just trying to observe their behavior, what they say, etc., to try to learn more about their personality. But it usually gets awkward if they make eye contact more than once.
Oh thank you for your perspective! I was just experiencing a creepy staring moment where a guy stared at me and our eyes met 😊🙈
@@caro.jahdis Also sometimes I'm just staring into space and not realizing where I'm looking 😅
Aww. That's pretty adorable
Don’t forget to blink
Ok I do this too!!! If I don't know that they are christian I try to see how they treat others around them if I am intrested in them. Then I pray if God would bless us or bring us together if its his will.
Great tips! Awesome to confirm that the whole thing is always surrounded by purity and some sort of innocence. However, one of the things I struggle with the most as a single Christian man is how to avoid sending the wrong signals. I can explain, every time I meet a godly woman/girl, I instantly develop a genuine admiration for her, and that can easily be spotted, I assume, through my eyes, body language, or passionate conversations about the Bible or theology. The problem is that this admiration thing is even new to me, as before I literally couldn't speak with girls without malice in mind, and I really see it as part of the sanctification process I've been going through. I want to get married, yes, but didn't think God has put anyone in my way as of now. My whole point is, how can I not send any misleading signals but also keep nurturing healthy relationships with other women. God bless you all!
Just try to keep your signs and body language in mind and maybe just go have a conversation with a girl! Don’t be too forward, but try to see if you can organically strike up conversation! I’m glad to hear that God has purified your mind man! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
That's becoming a problem for me, i want to have female close friends and I have one now. But i don't want it to develop on her side because it looks like it's going in that direction. I don't think that a relationship right now is God's plan for me.
@@TheLordIsMyShepherd754:26 May god help you
So glad you have shared this!
she is so prettyyyy🥺
Enjoyed watching this, there is a guy at church that I think is interested in me but he is staring at me and smile but it’s not done creepily though since it is at church.
The guy I like at church just got certified to be a pastor 😭😭 it’s a blessing but it makes me feel small in comparison, he gives me some of the signs but I get nervous around him a lot 🥹
Tell him that then :). Honesty is always best, at least for me. I consider myself a bit more direct, but it is better to be upfront than "dilly dally".
Also, don't be intimidated😂. I know that doesn't help much, but remember we have/will/do all fall short of the glory of God❤. Fear of man is not from God, respect is. You want someone who will lead you and your kids one day so a bit of intimidation can be good 😊😊.
@@KS-rb3qfHonestly!! If you have the nerve, full send!! Maybe just be like “Hey is there a way we can get to know each other more.” Or I’m not sure the best way to say it, but it’s hard for a guy to know if a girl likes them and he probably doesn’t want to ruin anything/ make it awkward asking you out if you don’t have feelings for him. Also in the long run you’ll be happy you said something!!😊 Maybe y’all won’t work out, but you’ll be happy to know you gave it a try and won’t always wonder “What if?”❤️
Must have update!❤😂
@@bea6564 I’m planning on telling him next week 😭 he went on vacation back home to visit his family after I went to church that week, but he’s back and I want to do it this Sunday night coming up
You’re not small comparison to him, all of us have the same position in front of God. If you have peace that he can be someone that God wants you to be with, be sure that God will equip you with his grace to be with him ( I’m talking about his work because you’re complete in Christ).
it s been years that I d like to date a Christian Man. A man of God. But same time it scares me deeply is I am Godly enough If I am a true Christian because I share my beliefs but not my deepest since I m surrounded by nonbelievers 😢 I m happy for you guys ❤
Amazing content! I really need this heheheheh.Looking forward to more videos from you guysss! God blessss❤❤
Consistency and effort
Mostly my friends ask me to visit their church most of them don't say I will pray for you
Well that could or could not be a sign haha! We would need the context!
@@samandsadie look forward to that
A guy has to make it obvious but warm and not offensive to others. On a day trip, a guy appears to always walk by my side and sit across me during meal or snack time. It’s a sign of care and protection that i found sweet in a guy. I have no idea if he’s interested though as he didn’t ask for my number. I think if you area interested, definitely ask do hey number and invite her out for something that you have mutual interests with. I’ll never know if he’s interested or he just happens to walk by me. I really don’t want to over interpret it as I have done it before(a bit embarrassing). I just thought it’s very warm when a guy always wants to be close to be physically.
I had an incling intuition that two guys fancied me but they denied it so I must have been wrong. One was very shy and another was very outgoing but acted why around me but other times cold and eventually spoke to me and when I said I want to book a room in a hostel he said sounds good. Now... usually my incline intuition is right when it picks up on something good or bad and with one especially the outgoing college hostel receptionist guy, something within me said he had feelings for me and I really felt that and when I responded with oh no yuck, he responded with a laugh and he was playing many love songs around me and he knew I could sing and he overheard me sing, especially my own song when I thought it was a different receptionist on duty so I sang my own song but it was him.
buttt what if he asks if I can pray for him? its sign?
Or they were zonign out ane forgot to zone back in haha and not to make it weird they smile haha
This works if I am a girl and try to ask these questions to a guy I like? 😅
THAT’S WHAT I WAS THINKIN GURL
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He definitely does not like me then😂 Thank you for this timely video, time to focus on Jesus alone again.🙃
He probably does. These are great points but not a one size fits all
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Just my thought also. He doesn't really like me.
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Same, you’re not the only one.
Thanks for the great advice yall! I asked a Christian girl out a couple days ago (I’ve known her and have been close with her for about 5 months) but the feelings weren’t reciprocated. However, I’m trusting in the Lord that He will bring my future wife to me one day. His plan is perfect, and I need to trust that
EDIT: I’m now dating someone that I align with all across the board!!! I’m praying that she is the one!
I'm really sorry man. I can't imagine how this must feel. You did well being direct. May our trust in God get us to wonderful, God-loving women.
Am here for you 😂,please
That's a big win in my opinion. You took a courageous step. That's more important than the outcome to be honest. Rejection can make you so much stronger as long as you respond to it correctly. Don't blame yourself for it and don't try to avoid rejection next time because of how painful it felt this time. You've got this and God's got you 💪
I think we need a part two for Signs *She* Likes You.
Sure Sure Sure
If a guy looks away in a panic when you look him in the eye and catch him staring at you - then you know he likes you ;)
These are some great points!! Sometimes it’s still hard to know, because they could just genuinely be friendly/ curious in your faith and life, but definitely in general those are good hints that they like you!!😊
And guys a great way to attract a girl is just be there for her (in a none creepy way lol). Like offering help if she seems to need it, opening the door if her hands are full or even asking if there’s a way to pray for her. Girls notice that and really appreciate it!! It’s sometimes hard for a girl to know if you’re just being nice or if you’re also interested in her as well, but you’ll definitely stand out to her!!😊
It’s always a blessing watching your video’s. Love it❤🙏🏽. God bless you both
Aww thank you Letitia!! It’s a blessing reading your comment! God bless you too! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I’ve only experienced non-Christian guys being interested. They always look me up and down, raise their eyebrows, give an inappropriate gaze, and then smile before approaching me. Why do they all do this? 😩
Dating in the secular world is so much easier. As a Christian man, secular women are so much more down to earth than Christian women.
Dating in the secular world is HELL. I'm a strong sister. I'm very down to earth.
So I had a guy who did all those things to me. Come to find out he didn’t like me at all. I was led on for awhile so now idk if I could believe these signs. I’m genuinely curious to your thoughts. Maybe the guy I knew was immature? He’s asked me theological questions, he’s told me how much he admired my faith and how he could pray for me, he wanted to do a Bible study one on one, he would do the side hugs/sitting next to me. It was sorta weird. He never liked me. So now idk if these are really signs if a guy likes me. Thoughts?
I get this!! In general these are good hints/ signs and possibly he changed his feelings and then just said he didn’t have feelings for you. But also there are those few occasions, where the opposite sex really does care for you, likes you and wants to learn about you more, while genuinely just wanting to be friends. So I think you may have just come across a rare guy. This is something I struggle with sometimes, because I genuinely care for some of my guy friends and want to have deep conversations with them, but also don’t want to give the wrong signals, because I genuinely just want to be friends with them. So possibly this is the case with the guy you’re mentioning. In general though a guy is going to want to spend time with you and get to know you more
if he has feelings for you, there are those rare guys that genuinely just want to be friends, but in general they’re more interested in being friends if they’re going out of their way ❤️
I'm learning, as a guy, that ladies love clarity. This is true yes? So I figured when I like someone, it's just better to pray about it, try to perceive if they feel the same, then ask. Now I haven't gotten to the last one for personal reasons, but when I'm ready that's what I'll do.
That said, like Kayla K mentioned, it may be you met a really rare guy who exudes a lot of care for his friends, but, the likely scenario is that he had feelings, then they left. Especially if he stopped treating you like that, then it means there were some feelings that are no longer there. I'd do the same only if I am clear I like someone, just so I don't lead the person on.
could of been a homosexual or yeh immature meaning he had sin like porn addiction or something in his life which lead him to be underconfident and then back down with women after the initial stages of talking
Maybe he did like you but then changed his mind because like you said you’re a career girl or want to be a stay home mom or whatever didn’t match what he wanted 🤷♀️
I am thinking he is immature- speaking from experience.
Naturally when I am interested in someone, I do the same things. Ask deep questions, look at her, etc.
Now why I am leaning toward him being immature is this: I have had a lot of relationship trauma / I’ve only been a Christian for over a year. I find it very difficult to balance intentionality with interest.
What I mean is: it’s hard to be interested in someone, but at the same time, know that you are not prepared to be a husband.
For me, I don’t have a solid enough career yet. I’m not sure where I’m living is where I will be staying. I am still afraid of rejection.
So- yes, I perceive that I am too immature for a relationship. So even when I show signs of interest, I can come off as cold or confusing when I back away. So it’s a rock and a hard place for a person who is immature if they have already shown interest- because the options after that point is to: 1. Commit to it (even though you’re unprepared), 2. Back off.
That’s really it. I could say there’s a 3rd option, which is: be honest about your situation to the woman/girl in question, but even if you chose this route it’s not going to suddenly make you ready for marriage. But maybe it’s the best option for transparency. I haven’t chosen this option, though.
Just my 2 cents and how I think. Again, this person is not me, but maybe there are some nuggets in there.
How about a video on the girl’s perspective😄
Yes👏🏾
It is a mystery that can never be revealed or understood.
Watching as a guy, they are right. Hard to find good Christian girls lol
Woo Woo Woo I wish my crush never comes across this video... Cause it's like my cover is blown...
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at this point my crush doesn't even have to watch the video, because my body language keeps giving me away!
Hey y'all, I just wanted to ask do you guys have a denomination? Specifically, I want to ask if you guys adhere to reformed theology. Love your videos!
I've wondered that as well.
I have enough of guy’s staring at me but not making a move 🙈 maybe I’m looking to scary to them don’t know but as soon as a guy asks me for a private bible study with him I will know that he is interested - thanks guys 😅👍
I get that staring and not making a move thing so often!
Maybe you should drop some hints that you might be interested. Try smiling or talking to him or something. He'll probably remember and think about it and he might make a move.
@@jenaya_laila2442 so sorry 🙈 me too
@@davidt01 Done, but then he was strange and never talked to me again 😂 I think it´s a sign that it shouldn‘t be. Some stay starrers but one day there will be someone who will be the right and active one. So let‘s stay friendly and open. 🤝
@@caro.jahdis Yeah that's happened to me to. There was this one girl who kept looking at me, but when I tried to talk to her it seemed like I just killed it. I do better at meeting people when I have someone with me, otherwise it's awkward.
But some girls I don't have any trouble with, so maybe I just need to find the right one.
Shut up #1 straight up had me rolling because someone who might or might not be a leader in our church asks me these 🤣😬
This cracked me up because I've definitely experienced the slightly desperate creepy guy hahaha.
The guy I like at my church is a little more introverted, although he's really really come out of his shell the last while. He'd come to our church for years, and not one ounce of interest. He moved to a different province last year, and then moved back this October. All of a sudden, he keeps showing up where I am after church. Usually that's at the back where the food is, and where one of our mutual guy friends is, but he ALWAYS makes a point to talk to me. This has happened every Sunday consecutively for about two months now. We usually end up having a 10+ minute conversation about some random things. When the mutual friend talks, the guy I like keeps looking at me to see my reaction. He's not new to faith, but doesn't practice it as much as some other people, and I'm currently struggling with assurance so we haven't talked super deeply yet, although it for sure has come up a few times. We sat with the mutual friend and an older lady at our church Christmas banquet, and he runs the sound board and invited me to come sit with him. His parents are the pastor and his wife, and we're very close with them. His mom told me that he was sitting at the sound board and I could go sit with him. We can always find something to talk about, and he seems genuinely interested in talking to me. I'm wondering if there is something going on or what is happening here! He's a really sweet guy and I really like talking to him; he's super easy to talk to and even though he'd been coming to church for years, we've only started talking in October and I feel like we've been talking forever! Sorry about the huge rant, just wanted to see if anyone had some insight or had a similar experience 😊
😂 this has no reason to be on my homepage
Same bro
What about online Christian dating?
7:44 and 7:49 the way he looks at you Sadie ❤️
Being a person who doesn’t bother people/ keeps to themselves is misconstrued as shy. It makes it frustrating, when you have a mutual interest with a girl, or she likes you more, but with time she will label you as “too shy” or uninterested because you’re slightly quieter than others or you’re not actively trying to get her to do something.. which seems like something that would make a person feel comfortable. I don’t try to communicate with signals or innuendos, if you wanna say something, just say it. However our society puts too much pressure on being “normal” but really it causes people like me to just shut down physically emotionally and spiritually.
Not true, sometimes people are nonchalant to the person they like too. There is really no telling besides when he/she likes to spend time with you
you guys are so cute together 🥰
I love y'all. God loves y'all infinitely times more.
Woohhh my goodness he was sitting next to me for a few times already 😱 I was so nervous, I didn’t want to sit next to him nor anyone from his family. I wanted to escape him leaving an empty chair between me and his mom but he came and set right between us, though his chair was at the other end of the table! And he also asked me few deep questions as I felt it😱😱 thank you guys, you truly speak real things I’ve had already! Icouldn’t hear it from a psychologist because they didn’t know christian’s guy behaviour but you know it! 😱now I’m scared and want to run away
Sure, that coveted side hug… guys I come back to listen to you again and notice one more sings and sings. And I’m shocked a bit
I am the guy 😭. I am the one giving off this vibes and signs yuh i don't think the crush is interested 😂
Thanks for that. It sounds like my crush from Christian society and church wasn't interested in me at all and didn't like me but instead he was expressing signs of shyness, friendliness and politeness and just liked to lean in closely when someone was talking to listen to them and he had a constant habit at church of grooming his hair and just liked to be in the kitchen at the same time as another person when that person was alone and he was only behaving like a Christian by wondering why the other person such as me hasn't been around at any of the Christian events. He probably would approach anyone randomly including me. Your signs in this video don't match my experience with this crush so it must be just all me then and not him at all, even though I felt a strong click and bond with him and even though we seemed to have a lot in common. None of your signs were present with his friend who actually contacted me on a dating site who is also a Christian.
Hello! I have a question. How do i know i find out if he loves the Lord without coming in too strong like I'm interrogating? It's really a deal breaker.
What are his actions? Does he take church seriously? How does he behave with his friends, and what do other people think of him? There’s lots of ways to find out! Also pray a lot for peace and that his character would be revealed to you! God bless you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I ask different men and women deep theological questions, but I’ve never had any interest in any of them, I just like talking about it.
😂Oh no! Y'all out here exposing us. I adore you guys, this gave me so much hope and peace. Definitely A Jesus sent ❤
I am an shy girl coming from me, ever since schooling.
you guys should do a video about how a Christian Girl likes you? Love your videos i recently found your channel!!!!
I disliked when the guy who liked me told me he was praying for me. 😬 A good sign i didnt like him.
Dear guys! Please, if you like a girl, don’t ask any of those questions, it’s a straight up friend zone! He just got lucky she liked him back 😂 If you like a girl, be a gentleman, smile, give her a compliment, talk to her, give her a candy/flower in a lighthearted joking manner - do all of these things but gradually, giving her space, seeing her reaction. If she responds positively, then invite her to a group outing ( you can organize one- be a leader), during which be friendly to everybody. However, buy her coffee or something ( she will notice, while you are friends with everyone, you still give her extra attention). If everything goes well, ask her out on a date ( better for a walk or go to an attraction park, movies or something like that). Don’t start interrogation in a cafe or restaurant. All of the questions he has mentioned you can start asking on a 3rd-4th date. It’s called dating for a reason, people try to get to know each other. Be natural, genuine and romantic ❤
You’re welcome! )
Good grief. I can ask a secular woman point blank on a date and she would go out with me to have a chat. You Christian women expect a mastermind to ask you out.
(I didn't see the comment box!) Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience! Several of the things you've said in your videos really speak to me, and will be invaluable. Your experience has changed how I will approach my own situation when the time comes. Thanks! I hope you always keep God in the center of your relationship and direct each other to Him.
Wow thank you so much! God bless! 🙏🏻
I’m not a guy…but one of my first questions is,”are you a Calvinist?” Lol I’m not a Calvinist but not Armenian.
Look up
Savanofsky- I’m not a Calvinist
it’s super funny :)
Thanks for sharing I’ll definitely be looking for these things. But definitely my dad will be my eyes and ears on this one last one I rebelled and dated a guy with a background and he was not happy about it but that’s before I became a true Christian
Hi 👋 Megan!
I’m so glad this popped up on my feed!😫 happy to have discovered your channel this evening, you just gained a new subscriber🥰💗
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Thank you for the advice
So funny love the smile thing lol
I feel like saying your praying for someone is really forward
Why? Nothing wrong with that.
I find myself staring, but that's part of my epilepsy.
Maybe one of the reasons I'm still single.
It's bad enough as it is to find the one!
Cute couple
Great video! Thank you it was very helpful
I met the best guy ever. Goes to church many times in a week, all our values aligned, 4 months in we do this courtship official thing he was happy and agreed to. But my parents put too much pressure on him to make a decision like a deadline date and I never really got the chance to tell him that I dont want that rush. He broke up with me because of it my parents scared him and got very intense saying not to waste my time. I never got a chance to explain MY BELIEFS on this to him and its so painful. I am hoping he will hear me out, because I also spoke to my parents and they said they would not put so much pressure anymore
Cuz normally guys dont mind if you donr believe in God like it be cool but Christians understand that they will meet unbelievers and thats okay. But if your lookkng for a spouse you need to be equally yoked and cant compromise on that.
Thanks guys so inspiring !!!😊😊😊
Love this video! ❤😊
Also, the part at 8:08 is just too funny!! 😂
I pray she doesn’t find this because I’ve been subconsciously doing these lol the Holy Spirit has a way of making it apparent when I like someone
Wow thanks a lot for this video, the tips are so clear that now I deeply see it 😂🖐🏻
The staring and smiling like a maniac is hilarious! I have been the stalker before. 💀
as a guy I see this as a tutuorial on how to show interest to girls
Hey Sam and Sadie! Those are great points. How do you know if a guy likes you when you’re using dating apps? Like a legitimate guy. I tend to let the guys start the conversations and I’ve failed when I have texted guys in the past almost everyday and finally they’ve told me they don’t think it’ll work out
Thank you! God bless you!!!
I"m new to the channel, I think I like my best friend, we been friends for 1 years, we"re both Christian, and right now we"re both single and I found out we"re both in the same Christian app dating 😅 lol. However I think I like him but I don't want to ruin our friendship, I don't know if he has the same feelings towards me, as he never show, I want advice please, shall I tell him or not??
I think you should tell him. Who knows maybe he’s thinking the same thing you are 😂. Try throughout some signs and see how it goes. And of course pray about it, like ask God if this is not for you help me move on etc. hope this helps❤
I give side hugs to all my lady friends... most guys in my former church did... so that could be culture, not necessarily a sign that you like someone. Prolonged hugs though, or full frontal ones, watch out for those 😅. They just might be... not guarantee, but they might be.
Someone holding onto you for long definitely feels attached to you in some way.
I’ve been getting the prolonged side hugs lately… around the waist closer up to the side of my bra….
What can that mean ??
@@natalierene1 I'd try not to overthink it, hehe... Maybe just require that whoever is interested in you be direct, and state it (don't make them say it, just make it your defining value). So you're not led on unnecessarily, whoever wants to be with you may have to just come to you directly and say it. Different hugs can mean different things to different people, so anything less than a declaration of Love would be too vague. It would only leave you confused
Cheers 😊
Great video! :)
This guy at church plays the drums and I notice him watching me in church and we frequently make eye contact.
If something is funny, we look at each other in church to see if each other are laughing.
I was told by my mom (who is not in any way delusional lol) that she notices him watched me from across the room.
He recently has gotten very intentional in starting conversations with me and coming over to convos I’m in.
When in convos with others and we lock eyes, there’s just this feeling.
The other day I was talking about a church service I wanted to go to but my parents weren’t going so i wasn’t sure about going and he offered for me to go with his parents (he was going on a day I had to work but his parents were going Saturday, the day I wanted to go)
The only thing is he’s 24, and I’m 17.
I feel he’s hesitant because of the age gap. And waiting till I’m 18 to to make a move.
I’ve known him my entire life and my parents have known him his entire life so it’s really not weird.
I typed all that to ask… am I scary or is he interested
I too am a guy who plays drums for church, so I can somewhat relate.
To sum up the first part, the consistent locking of eyes and him starting conversations seems like a pretty clear sign.
A guy with chivalry (especially a godly one) who’s genuinely interested will try to treat you like a queen, even if he can only be kind in small ways here and there, he’ll try and take the opportunities when they show. So that checks out.
I once let my interest develop for a girl I thought was interested in me. Long story short, I was deeply mistaken, and now I’m afraid to try taking up boldness again. You might not be scary, but fear of rejection is a common point of hesitation.
Finally, the girl I’m becoming friends with now is just under 18, and I’m entering my twenties. Not quite as big a gap as you have, but that’s still a very large point of hesitation for me. I’m considering waiting until she’s 18 simply because I don’t feel comfortable with the idea of her being a minor still.
All this to answer, yes, personally I’d say it sounds like he’s interested, and he probably has a valid reason(s) for waiting.
Pray, read the word, and keep Christ at the center of your life. I hope all goes well, God bless!
Hey there, I too have a similar situation. We are both christians and we work together he does a lot of staring to the point a coworker friend of mine pointed it out. She said his face lit up like a Christmas tree when he mentioned me she said he really, really likes you. At first i thought he just had a staring problem, but in church i was seated far in the back and there was a lot of people and he was way in the front he turned his head around just to look me straight in my eyes. He seems to get a little nervous around me at work too. And his friend who is a girl said that she knows he likes me and i ask her how do you know that she said because he told her and he wanted to take me to church. Could he like me as a friend or could it be something else.@zacharypontius
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God bless you all❤❤
Thanks 😊
How can guys tell if a woman is interested?? Huh? I can never tell if she likes me or if she’s playing mind games as the always do and that’s so annoying 🙄. I always get mixed messages from them all the time.
If she does give non verbal signals, it will be very clear whether or not she likes you or not. She will play games, so be ready for that.
@@vshah1010 ok. It’s so annoying that women play mind games with us for no apparent reason. Idk why they do it but I find it to be stupid. They ruin chances of possibly being coming a couple
Coming from a woman, if she truly wants you to pressure her, she won't play mind games!! Some signs she'll give are that she'll notice things about you as an individual and your walk with the Lord. She'll also make herself available for you to pressure her in different scenarios. For example, if she steps away from a group setting to sit or walk by herself, she is giving you opportunities to see if you'll actively pressure her and try to get to know her more.
Also, if you, as the guy, are just simply unsure, just directly tell her your intentions. Tell her that you are interested in getting to know her more and ask if she would be interested in getting to know you more in that way, as well. A lot of times, we are unsure if the guy is interested, so we wait until he starts actively pressuring us and taking those opportunities. Girls LOVE boldness, and it's EXTREMELY attractive!! We want to be pressured!! Don't wait for her to make a move or say something!!! If you're unsure, just take that step if the Lord is leading you in peace to do so!!!
Hope this helps!!!😊
Love your channel❤
Do you suffer of lack of attention , likies .you have found each other so you should be very happy 😂 or is it not enough 🤣
I'm an outgoing Christian woman. It would be nice if you had a shy, christian, male guest speaker talk about when he was interested in a woman. Thanks.
I ADORE these two. Their videos are excellent. I feel Sadie has alot of anger and unhealed catastrophic issues. She smiles but she's very angry. Very.
That's quite the assumption to make of someone you have never met.
I know. I don't mean any harm. It's just something I'm picking up on.
What about when he gives all the signs but when you talked to him about it, he didn't said anything clear, nor yes neither no?😂
Well then it’s kinda just a waiting game 😂 You can either pull a Ruth and make it clear that you’re interested too, or you can see if things ever develop organically!
Sadie is so lovely 😍
This was like watching two baby golden retrievers play with each other. The honest truth that very few Christian men admit is: As a man of God, you shouldn’t be pursuing a woman. You should be pursuing God and a true woman of God should be pursuing the man. God bless✌🏽
Where did you get that concept of a true Christian woman pursuing a man?😂
Noooo
God should come first, but God gave the command to be fruitful and multiply the earth. That would have never happened your way. Errant thinking. God bless.
@@malebelomaphutha6566 A “Christian woman” is submitted to her father first, then her husband. Dating isn’t biblical. Both Christian and non Christian women are miserable today because they aren’t submitted…
The sad thing also is most men aren’t worthy of being submitted unto, but even if you were to find a man worthy, most Christian women haven’t practiced being led and are contributing to the deterioration of the family unit.