Christian Breakup Advice: 4 Tips If You Want to Heal and Move On

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  • Christian Breakup Advice:
    In this video we cover 4 tips if you just broke up. For more information on Christian breakup advice, click here: applygodsword.c...
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 292

  • @lamphrang26
    @lamphrang26 7 місяців тому +109

    I need God I beg all of you please pray for me to overcome this heartbreak that I'm going through right now......

    • @joederue2392
      @joederue2392 5 місяців тому +4

      I'm just going through it right now. The pain is almost unbearable.

    • @oliviamaarz3757
      @oliviamaarz3757 5 місяців тому +1

      May God heal us 🙏 let’s just follow those steps

    • @nyashagadami4926
      @nyashagadami4926 4 місяці тому +1

      how are you feeling now ?

    • @lamphrang26
      @lamphrang26 4 місяці тому

      @@nyashagadami4926 I'm okay now thank you for asking 🤝

    • @jaydenmathews2221
      @jaydenmathews2221 4 місяці тому +4

      I’m going thru it now too I loved her too much unfortunately I made her an idol and now I feel broken… I hope you and everyone feels better now

  • @heavyhitr7696
    @heavyhitr7696 Рік тому +377

    Unwanted breakup....man the pain is no joke. Comes in waves. 💔Mixed with: forget her, give it to God, and move on and God, please, can you turn this around?

    • @desireeangelicmelodies8709
      @desireeangelicmelodies8709 Рік тому +16

      Yes it’s unbearable at times

    • @thoseshorts5529
      @thoseshorts5529 Рік тому +3

      Nail on it j hurts to think abt them

    • @nodrvgs
      @nodrvgs 11 місяців тому +30

      soo real. Even worse when you prayed for them to leave if they weren’t the one God has in mind… 💔

    • @BvbJude
      @BvbJude 10 місяців тому

      @@desireeangelicmelodies8709it is unbearable at times.

    • @aldionvanhouten3480
      @aldionvanhouten3480 9 місяців тому +6

      thats what I'm feeling right now

  • @czarinaallensantos
    @czarinaallensantos 9 місяців тому +65

    Currently going through a break up and I thank God that I found this video. I am also praying for everyone who are going through the same. God works everything together for our good! He is worthy of all our praise even in whatever season we are in!

  • @nickgarcia20
    @nickgarcia20 4 роки тому +303

    my relationship just ended and i thought that this woman was going to be my wife. i cant stop thinking about her and i feel like ill never be able to move on. please keep my healing heart in your prayers because im feeling so broken

    • @tammyp2214
      @tammyp2214 4 роки тому +14

      I am so sorry Nick. I just experienced the same thing with the man in my life.

    • @carterfriske4516
      @carterfriske4516 4 роки тому +24

      Same just happened to me last night man, I’m already growing so much stronger in my faith but it’s been so so rough

    • @TheGreatAustino
      @TheGreatAustino 4 роки тому +5

      Going through this now brother

    • @ngalahansel6066
      @ngalahansel6066 4 роки тому +1

      I feel the same. I'm here and if you wanna talk, please feel free to email me at hans.ngala1992@gmail.com You should spend much of this time in prayer and doing things you used to enjoy as a single. Just keep busy if not you'll wallow in depression and self-pity

    • @ngalahansel6066
      @ngalahansel6066 3 роки тому +1

      @SnowShowxo yours has been 3 months? How are you doing so far?

  • @RusskiyMed
    @RusskiyMed 5 років тому +229

    My ex fiancé broke our engagement and it’s still hitting hard on me... 12 days later. Please pray I get through this. I know the time isn’t right for us and she brought out a new plane of love and joy I never experienced and the lord is telling me I need to draw closer to him and trust him more than anyone else. In terms of my ex fiancé he told me to just be patient and wait and to seek him. I still love her so very much dearly.

    • @macklems5552
      @macklems5552 5 років тому +34

      Антон РУС praying for you man. I just got dumped by my girlfriend of three years, we got together junior year of high school. Things were amazing, I’ve never had a connection with anyone like I had with her. We were deeply in love for a while probably 2 years, then the red flags and signs she was losing feelings became clear. I deeply regret forsaking my relationship with Jesus and having sex with her all that time. What we need to do is focus on ourselves and on our relationship with Jesus and be happy on our own. God will take care of the rest. Become the man God has destined you to be. Grow stronger and learn from your mistakes. Forgive and move forward.

    • @charitymofokeng4534
      @charitymofokeng4534 3 роки тому +12

      @@macklems5552 my boyfriend also broke up with me because I refused to be intimate till we get married,to seek the face of the lord. ..it cuts so deep

    • @hannahhjanaee
      @hannahhjanaee 2 роки тому +6

      I was engaged to mine too… he left me… and we have a kid. I’m just trying to get closer to god more and focus on me and my son. I pray for him everyday and pray that it’ll work out again one day.. I know he wants nothing to do with me now but I pray he has a change of heart

    • @horschiday9449
      @horschiday9449 2 роки тому +1

      @@charitymofokeng4534 You’re not alone dear... you’re not alone 🙂.

    • @00carl46
      @00carl46 2 роки тому +1

      Hey man that's really sad how are you doing today?

  • @kerry5972
    @kerry5972 5 років тому +133

    God will show his love...by protecting you from future hurt. He can see the big picture. We cannot see what the future holds.

  • @bibleartpreneurbyleoni3980
    @bibleartpreneurbyleoni3980 5 років тому +269

    1. Do not make an unbiblical point about God in your painful season.
    2. Grieve appropriately; not too short not too long.
    3. Put healthy boundaries between you and your ex.
    4. Confess your sins and forgive your ex. Forgive yourself and your ex.

    • @thebookofeli7939
      @thebookofeli7939 2 роки тому +3

      How do you know when your grieving too long ?

    • @godislove5799
      @godislove5799 2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏 what a reminder… praise be to God

    • @noepena1272
      @noepena1272 2 роки тому

      My Wife Just walked out on me iam so sad 😭

    • @nicolapicola4502
      @nicolapicola4502 Рік тому +1

      ​@@thebookofeli7939 agree, how long is a piece of string!!

    • @jamaica2010ism
      @jamaica2010ism 3 місяці тому

      Did he give any scriptures with these?

  • @joederue2392
    @joederue2392 5 місяців тому +16

    FOR ALL OF YOU.
    GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN. THANK GOD

  • @Palverbark
    @Palverbark Рік тому +60

    My fiancé and i broke of or wedding 2 week's before the event. And the next day she says she never really loved me. I gave her everything she said she needed and now i don't have enything. Im lost right now. My heart hurts so badly. I give my life to jesus and i hope everyone here has a better day then i do. Jesus i pray for my ex and i prray for her heart and her healing process and her feelings. Pray that she will be restored again and know what she what's by heart and not by feeling from the wind. I give her to you lord and i lay down my life for you lord. Amen

    • @justintoth2560
      @justintoth2560 7 місяців тому +3

      I’m so sorry that you experienced this! My heart goes out to you!

    • @dragonnessfire
      @dragonnessfire 5 місяців тому +1

      My fiancé just broke things off with me, too. And my response is to pray for his healing, also. How are things a year later for you?

    • @Curiousgal600
      @Curiousgal600 3 місяці тому

      I can't believe how cruel people can be 😭

    • @jojokelsey6217
      @jojokelsey6217 3 місяці тому

      I feel that my ex husband said he didn’t love me the same and would like to move on and I have done everything with him and gave everything I need proper healing time

    • @snommis89
      @snommis89 2 місяці тому

      ​@@jojokelsey6217I hope and pray that God restores your heart and sets you free from this pain. Look towards God! ❤❤❤

  • @SleepySylvanians
    @SleepySylvanians Рік тому +42

    I just broke off a relationship of 3 years. My heart hurts. I feel ugly and unlovable. I’m trying to remind myself the lord loves me no matter what.

    • @nine73soldier
      @nine73soldier Рік тому

      Exactly, He loves us no matter what.
      14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
      your works are wonderful,
      I know that full well. Psalm 139:14
      17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge-that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
      Ephesians 3:17-19

    • @Curiousgal600
      @Curiousgal600 3 місяці тому

      You're beautiful and loved

    • @armoni_cr
      @armoni_cr 2 місяці тому

      hey its been a year , can we get an update on how your doing ?

  • @Sbproducer1
    @Sbproducer1 Рік тому +70

    I was in a relationship for 5 years and about to propose to my girlfriend and we had an argument and she broke up with me. We had our entire life planned out and it’s so painful. Everyone pray for me 💔

    • @joshua_wherley
      @joshua_wherley Рік тому +4

      I'll pray for you, brother! How are you doing today?

    • @Sbproducer1
      @Sbproducer1 Рік тому +24

      Hello Joshua, I’m doing so much better now. God is good almost fully healed, I only from time to time get feelings/ remembrance of pain but nothing compared to before, I have been working on myself taking it day by day and I realised that I never needed her in the first place. I am truly happy with myself and as time passes I will be fully healed. Thanks for checking up on me. ❤️😊

    • @IIkIllswxtch
      @IIkIllswxtch 10 місяців тому +2

      @@Sbproducer1I just got out of a 3 year relationship and broken up with my girlfriend a few days ago and I thought I moved on but it still stings… how can I give this pain to God entirely?

    • @Sbproducer1
      @Sbproducer1 10 місяців тому

      @@IIkIllswxtch
      First step is understanding that you shouldn’t have even been with that person because god didn’t intend for you to be with that person that’s why it ended.
      This person was no good for you god has seen the true intentions of that persons heart and it wasn’t good.
      Second step is understanding if god blesses you he doesn’t add sorrow to it. God wants you to be happy with your partner because it honours him. The person you were with I’m sure didn’t align with these things.
      Third thing is picture yourself with a person that you are completely happy with that aligns with gods will and also loves you so much with all their heart because that person fulfils the fruits of the spirit. Truly believe that you will receive such an amazing person and it will be yours. Also make sure that you can be the best person you can for your partner because they want the best too. Make sure you go to the gym. Eat good, take good care of your health. Your body is a temple of god and that’s what your future partner wants. Think about how amazing and fulfilled your life will be with the beautiful person that god has chosen you to be with.
      This is exactly what I have done and I am still doing now. I am fully healed and just waiting for god to bring the love of my life now ❤😊
      Hope this helps.

    • @ellim.3485
      @ellim.3485 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@simzwonder oh I feel u! Mine is 5 month ago but I'm still struggling same situation I thought he's gonna propose to me but instead he broke up with me after an argument

  • @_dove_.
    @_dove_. 3 роки тому +33

    my boyfriend and me just broke up after 10 and a half months
    he couldn’t get a relationship with God but that good thing is that we had a good few laughs before we slept
    it’s 3:30 in the morning right now
    please God heal me
    i miss him so much
    and even though he didn’t want to turn to God fully, he was still a good boyfriend
    he believes in God and everything
    it was just a lukewarm situation
    he had different goals
    it still hurts bad
    it’s really true what they say
    “You never know the true value of something until you lose it”
    im this case it was mine and his relationship
    but we agreed to still be friends

  • @Simplexmediakc
    @Simplexmediakc 2 роки тому +41

    When you wake up the next day after a breakup and the world is just grey... you can feel the black hole in your heart swallowing all things that you used to care about. Life has become a dark room, with no light switch.

  • @ngalahansel6066
    @ngalahansel6066 4 роки тому +54

    Very important to own up to our own contribution to the dysfunction in the relationship. I am going through a breakup and my heart literally hurts. I pray this season gets over real fast and I can settle down and see where God leads me. I feel like a horrible failure.

  • @a7c777
    @a7c777 Рік тому +12

    I broke up. Im a bit sad today. She was really kind and shared many interests and my humor. She made me feel special. But she has plans to move far away and some other things so in short, its over for us now. But I know God can build a stronger future than my despair, and the hurt i feel yet willingness to allow her to go find someone chosen for her is evidence of God’s gift of love that he put inside me. The more i hurt, the more Im reminded God gave me my humanity and the strength to love. Today i mourn and i need God’s strength, but tomorrow im going to start again with a productive life and like a leaf in the wind I will be dragged by God towards my new path. Ill have to remind myself and trust God, but im owed nothing and no one. But God is owed me and everyone. And He wants me and everyone because of a love similar to the love that’s given me the care to hurt like i do now. God is good but the removal of this distraction should hopefully point me towards Him again

  • @therealKadeHollow
    @therealKadeHollow Рік тому +16

    I just lost the girl I thought I would marry one day. It hurts so much because I loved her more than she could ever know. It was only a year long but it felt longer. Im trying to trust God with his plan but I’m still struggling. Please pray for me

    • @jazminmadrigal2382
      @jazminmadrigal2382 10 місяців тому +1

      I’m currently going through a breakup as well, How are you doing??

  • @maryswenson5357
    @maryswenson5357 6 років тому +63

    Great advice! Not enough people stop to think about what they did wrong after a breakup rarely does anyone admit they had faults and then they go into another relationship with the same end results and the cycle continues.

  • @mnwilliams386
    @mnwilliams386 3 роки тому +31

    Thank you, I made the decision to end the relationship as there were many points in which I struggled but I also regret it and want it back even though it was damaging. I ask God to please help me to continue to go through with this decision. Id appreciate anyone's prayers please xx

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️

  • @breannapolhamus5248
    @breannapolhamus5248 3 роки тому +16

    I was forced to break up (for safety reasons & against my will) with a man that I met at my old group home. I broke up with him this morning and am now suffering from severe trauma & depression. Please pray for emotional healing & comfort. Thank you. Sincerely, Breanna Polhamus

    • @ameliairen5258
      @ameliairen5258 3 роки тому

      Hey! Someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me bring my ex back within 48hours and he can help you too

    • @ameliairen5258
      @ameliairen5258 3 роки тому

      Text him through WhatsApp

    • @ameliairen5258
      @ameliairen5258 3 роки тому

      + 1 ( "9 0 9" ) 3 1 0 "1 7 8 6"

    • @JFAM5
      @JFAM5 7 місяців тому

      How are you now? I hope you are doing well. God bless you!

  • @brothaspence8018
    @brothaspence8018 Місяць тому +1

    These comments really help not feel so alone. Thank you guys for your vulnerability, God bless you all

  • @Life_with_Ginni
    @Life_with_Ginni 11 місяців тому +4

    I can't explain how hard it is but god is with me thats all i have

  • @wesleevanslyke4326
    @wesleevanslyke4326 2 роки тому +8

    Im young but did not take my relationship for granted. My heart has been trying to find a way to heal for just about a year. It hurts but i know the best thing to do is to turn to God! He has the answers and will help me! Thank you for sharing this it has brought ease to my heart and can allow me to continue to move forward!

  • @eadams.03
    @eadams.03 Місяць тому +1

    Please please pray for me… I’m so heartbroken and I need lots of prayer if possible 🙏🏽

  • @jaydenmathews2221
    @jaydenmathews2221 4 місяці тому +3

    I made this women an idol harboring in my heart and she broke up with me after 3 years, she was my best friend but we were unequally yoked. I really don’t know how I’m going to recover from her I feel less of a man and like I can never be loved again. Growing up I struggled with feeling love from others so when I got into my first relationship she cheated on me after two years and then this one I loved x100 more and she was my best friend and now she just doesn’t love me anymore like she used to… I don’t feel worthy of love and been struggling to feel like Jesus loves me too. Always struggling with love being a hopeless romantic made it really hard to believe God loves me even if I’m told that… someone plz pray for me or something I just don’t want to ever have to worry about love again.

    • @TamarynFortuin
      @TamarynFortuin 2 місяці тому +1

      Jesus definitely loves you and all of us. God loves us all.

  • @jazmincharis6917
    @jazmincharis6917 Рік тому +10

    I feel like Iam in a sinking ship and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it

    • @JFAM5
      @JFAM5 7 місяців тому

      How are you now? I hope you are doing good

  • @wendysutheard5132
    @wendysutheard5132 2 роки тому +20

    My relationship with my bf ended recently. Holding lots of resemtment in my heart . He cheated many times. We were together 13 years and he moved on already and it bothers me a lot. I just want to fast forward a year from now and be over this.

    • @emmanuelngeama6323
      @emmanuelngeama6323 Рік тому +1

      Let go and let God,it's not easy but let time heal your broken and grief heart,I'll keep you in prayers.Stay blessed.

    • @CarlosC0311
      @CarlosC0311 Рік тому

      How u doin today? :((

    • @elizabethm8610
      @elizabethm8610 10 місяців тому

      @wendysutheard5132 how are you doing now

    • @TamarynFortuin
      @TamarynFortuin 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm sitting here crying. My heart hurts so much and I pray everyday for God to take this pain away. Its the most pain I've ever felt in my life. My BF told me after 13 years together, that he wants us to be close friends and that he would never marry me. Then we argued a lot and we broke up 2 months ago. I miss him so much, it hurts so much, i wanted to marry him and live a beautiful married life with him. All i want is to see his face, to hear his voice and talk. He wasted 13 years om my life and I waited for him for 13 years. I regret that I believed in him and in us for that long. God, i love him so much. Why did we have to break up? How long will it take me to heal from this?

  • @beedido439
    @beedido439 4 роки тому +14

    Thank you. This was a good confirmation from God, that He comes before anything in life. Thank you.

  • @zaralyngidoc7774
    @zaralyngidoc7774 11 місяців тому +5

    My unbeliever bf broke up with me 1 day ago 😢 and it's hurts alot 😔 but I have to accept coz God's plan is better thAn my plans . He don't want me to get sin more coz my ex is a muslim and I'm Christian. Do not rush, If the time is right I and the Lord will make things happen. Trust in God always. His love endures forever❤️Godbless.

    • @thiarebs5342
      @thiarebs5342 5 місяців тому

      I broke up with a Muslim whom i loved the most because we can not be equally yoked together with a nonbeliever.

  • @zoeyloya6538
    @zoeyloya6538 Місяць тому +1

    My relationship just ended. I was abused and when I called the cops to makes a report against my boyfriend it ended us. The abuse should have ended it but I wanted to love him into changing. He wanted to run away and keep himself out of jail because he knows he could hurt me again. I feel abused neglected and abandoned. I feel betrayed. I feel subhuman. I’m trying to stop texting him and begging him to care about me. Trying to read my bible again and I’m begging God to help me let this go. Begging God to change me so I can focus on other things. We dated for a year and we were engaged. Talked about kids and a whole future together. Nothing is ever going to be the same between us and I don’t know what to do with myself. In a lot of pain.

  • @BCMcharger95
    @BCMcharger95 3 роки тому +11

    Mark, thank you. I just got out of a relationship over the past few days and it’s with the person I thought was my best friend ever and who loved me more than I’ve ever known, I felt the same. This helped me see how to start trying to set the track right for it because even though it’s devastating, I don’t feel any sort of hate. This gave some clarity, thanks brother

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️

  • @bread2096
    @bread2096 Рік тому +5

    so my breakup is weird:
    i won a study abroad scholarship for 7 weeks in Latvia. Two weeks in i watched your video on when to know if you should break up, and i realized it was the right thing to do. but i wanted to breakup with him in person rather than over the phone. 2 years is awhile.
    but in this time we were still talking till i got back, so i was mentally breaking up with him. i returned a few days ago and broke up with him. now i don’t feel anything. not sad, not happy, jus sort of… empty. i look at photos of him and expect to feel some level of remorse, i almost want to so i can grieve and move on. but i sort of jus don’t. i don’t regret it. i don’t even really miss him. jus the reality of being single after so long… it’s isolating. i feel alone more than anything else.

  • @ndi7365
    @ndi7365 8 місяців тому +1

    Currently going through a break up and it was me
    Can’t believe I fully allowed to Devil to break what was perfect
    This just happened yesterday and I got a buisness event today
    It’s tough especially when your in the wrong and you know it
    Needed this vid need to work on myself

  • @sharlenehumphries3081
    @sharlenehumphries3081 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, really helpful during a very tough heartbreak.

  • @themarine1388able
    @themarine1388able 2 роки тому +4

    I've been in plenty of relationships with non Christian women before and now that I've been coming back to the house of God I thought that all Christian women were not the same as the world. I forgot to remember that we are all human and we all make mistakes. I'm passing just recently through a breakup and I'm more confused than ever with how everything went through but I'm just seeing this video now and it gives me a relief that God has a plan and maybe that person will come back or maybe another will come but I have to be more intune with God his word and his laws. I want to keep believing that God has a plan for each and everyone of us. We just have to be strong and always believe that if he takes someone out of our lives is because he or she has made their purpose in our lives and we have learned something new about us. Thank you once again for making this video. May God keep on blessing you more each day.

  • @robertharrold4976
    @robertharrold4976 5 місяців тому +2

    I had to break up with my fiance last week. It was one of the hardest decisions I could have ever made but ultimately there were too many incompatibilities that came out after we got engaged. Thank you Lord for showing me those incompatibilities and giving me an option to choose. Thank you Lord that you have a better plan for me and my next person will be a much better fit for me. And thank you Lord for being my healer, my friend, and someone to turn to when I have a hurting heart.

  • @Cjizzle-zh2xy
    @Cjizzle-zh2xy Рік тому +3

    Pray for me ❤️❤️kinda messed up with a good girl , really going to do better and ik GOD either put her with me for a reason or taking her for a reason but either wayyy I need JESUS

  • @lauriephilips4753
    @lauriephilips4753 5 років тому +12

    This was very helpful. I know I let go of my faith because he did not believe in Jesus as his mother and I did. So I probably should have stayed friends with him and rubbed off some of my faith onto him. Instead, I let go of my faith. This was a big lessen for me after being a lone for so long. We started out as friends for 7 months before the relationship started The signs were there but I ignored them because I wanted it to work. That was my mistake. I forgave him for what he did to end the relationship and I am working on myself to forgive and coming to terms with renewing my faith and staying connected to God no matter what is going on in my life. Thanks so much for the video. Blessings to you and yours!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому

      I'm so glad you enjoyed this video and found it helpful, God bless!

    • @jasminraymundo9202
      @jasminraymundo9202 3 роки тому +5

      It also happened to me the only difference is it’s me who broke the relationship because I cannot disobey God anymore. He can’t accept the break up for no reason, he is so nice person. And it is not easy to break him up. But nothing i can do but to obey God. I rather choose to hurt our feelings than continue to hurt God.

  • @yikes9921
    @yikes9921 9 місяців тому +2

    Been depressed for a week over a guy. Scared that he doesn't care about me and that he's cheating. I think i'm obsessed with him so i want to end things and find my peace again but i worry that I'll never find someone that will love me. I fear there are no genuine people in the world. I need advice and prayers please

  • @abbysathulu4540
    @abbysathulu4540 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you I needed to hear this (I have been praying for forgiveness) but right now everything hurts😭

  • @Ericgodisgood
    @Ericgodisgood Рік тому +2

    I hurted my ex soo bad in I am trying to get over an obsession in she moved on in time for me to but one day I’m ok then I’m not but I am strong in god will show me a sign all I can do is pray for her in i hurted her so much in is in godly the things I did

  • @TheSpaceghost103
    @TheSpaceghost103 3 місяці тому +1

    Married my girlfriend of 12yrs. In within 2yrs time I had to move out of the new home I helped her buy. I was constantly lied to, manipulated and disrespected. As time went on she got worse. So I left.. I never got any type of closure. Because she stonewalled me.. I’m 6 weeks into the breakup and I’m still hurting. I wish I could speed up the healing process.. I just want to have a day where I don’t think of her at all..

  • @abigailjohn8558
    @abigailjohn8558 Рік тому +6

    Am actually going through this now ....and what hurts me is the relationship ended so horrible...worst of it all is that HE IS A BELIEVER and MAN OF GOD, at that...yet He chose to hurt me so bad . especially considering i had beared with his mistakes for so long and he had kept begging me to give him a chance...
    We had dated for almost FOUR years..since day one till break up, i had trusted God to lead me 😭 its heartbreaking that He is w servant of God and God let him do that..like i really feel alot of pain ..i dont know...i dont wanna hear anything about God or him .i feel like i dont know 💔💔
    Mark if i could just talk to you about this...coz its just i dont know 💔

    • @DAVECRESTMEDIA
      @DAVECRESTMEDIA 8 місяців тому +1

      Take it easy sis! i feel your pain! try to forgive and let Go

    • @thiarebs5342
      @thiarebs5342 5 місяців тому

      Maybe he isn’t a real believer. You will know if they are true believers by their fruits.

    • @abigailjohn8558
      @abigailjohn8558 5 місяців тому

      @@thiarebs5342 maybe am glad i overcame and am doing ok now

  • @suziekonya6205
    @suziekonya6205 Рік тому +3

    😞
    we were together for almost a year and a half. i had to break up with him yesterday. i love him so much i forgive him for everything. i just don’t understand why he seemed like he didn’t feel the way he used to. like i can tell he does have feelings for me and he loves me but i think he’s just in a bad mental space… i miss him. i just need to trust Gods plan.. maybe we’re meant to be together later on in life when we both learn how to be healthier in a relationship. i need to learn how to love in a Godly way, and i need to learn to put God first before i get back into any relationship.

  • @helenlopez3893
    @helenlopez3893 5 років тому +20

    My boyfriend broke up with me after one year and I’m really hurt

  • @luyandochikandula1753
    @luyandochikandula1753 5 місяців тому +1

    Am trying to forgive myself as well as my ex partner so that I can move on. I was engaged but the relationship ended very sadly after discovering my partner was cheating on me. My biggest fear in this life is to marry an unfaithful man 🥺
    Thank you for sharing this lesson.

  • @abimanyuprins6627
    @abimanyuprins6627 3 місяці тому

    Our relationship was uncertain. I asked god if she was the one, if she was the one with who I would build and achieve everything we could imagined. A few days later I received a text during work. She dumped me. I am literally heartbroken, but it was what I asked for right? So why does it hurt so much? That's how you heal. Feel the pain. Use it as fuel.

  • @emolover6373
    @emolover6373 5 місяців тому

    God has been calling me to end this relationship because it is unholy and i thought God could convert him but i was being silly i cant force someone to change I know god has something else for me much greater and i will overcome this pain

  • @yahnnibella3690
    @yahnnibella3690 6 років тому +7

    Thank you so much, it helps a lot. God bless you more!

  • @keileamessick7835
    @keileamessick7835 5 років тому +14

    I want to have a healthy talk with my ex because I feel like that's the only way I can move on but he blocked me on everything

    • @trevorkong5191
      @trevorkong5191 5 років тому +4

      this is what exactly happened to me I wanna end on good terms but I just can't cuz she blocked me on everything

    • @dellaswanson9837
      @dellaswanson9837 4 роки тому +7

      My ex boyfriend who broke up with me after a serious 7 month relationship does not start conversations online but he does respomd if I say something to him. The pain hurts yes but God is a just God. What ever is needed to happen in His plan for me, it will cone to pass in His Awesome plan for me that no man can otherwise create

  • @z.zeynep_ymn
    @z.zeynep_ymn Рік тому

    He broke up with me due to religious differences and studies and I’m still really hurt please God i don’t want to be in pain anymore

  • @atf8501
    @atf8501 3 роки тому +4

    me girlfriend of one year just broke up with me and i treated her so wrongly ive never loved a human being so much in my life as i did her, im so heartbroken i need prayer for healing

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

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    • @idakuruma2044
      @idakuruma2044 2 роки тому

      Your’e forgive because of what Jesus did on the cross. Ask the Holy Spirit for help and guidance and have grace with yourself. 💕

  • @yolandasession8158
    @yolandasession8158 3 місяці тому

    Going to a sudden break up.. Please pray for me . This hurts😢

  • @miarester9728
    @miarester9728 2 місяці тому

    Feels like I’ll never get over it :/ I need help so bad please pray for me

  • @Duecenjuice8215
    @Duecenjuice8215 20 днів тому

    Ended it last night. Best relationship I ever had with someone and went to Highschool with her and never met her until she decided at her lowest to come to church and be forgiven. 5 months of pure joy for the both of us. Ended up leaving for college in another state and promised a lot of things including seeing her in 3 months for Christmas. She let go of Christ and let go of me. I wish she had stayed. We would be having breakfast right now at her favorite restaurant, together. Now we’re strangers with a lot of good memories. May Jesus guide her back on her right path and may Jesus heal me. Godbless

  • @edencams5270
    @edencams5270 5 років тому +5

    I needed this. Thank you! But how come guys move on more easily?!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +10

      I don't think they do. It's an individual thing (man or woman) in my opinion. Perhaps guys just show it less with emotions

  • @_heyimbritt
    @_heyimbritt 6 років тому +5

    Hey! If you haven't already can yiu do a video on this wave of "New Age" religion. The prosperity teachings of the church and the importance of applying Gods word. I hope that makes sense. Thanks!! Love your page BECAUSE you back everything with scripture.

  • @dellaswanson9837
    @dellaswanson9837 4 роки тому +11

    I am recovering from a break up that hit on me recently. He told me that he has too many thoughts of lust and he has been trying hard to fight it but at about 7 months he just couldnt fight it anymore. Did this hurt me? Yes, it did. But by only God's grace and compassion, am I healed in Y'shua's Name.

    • @serenatu2931
      @serenatu2931 4 роки тому +4

      I'm kinda going through something similar where I broke up with my boyfriend of 1½ months back in late March/early April, but it hit me a few days ago that God really doesn't want me to be with this person, even though deep down I was hoping to get back together with my ex-boyfriend one day. It made me realize that I never really got over the relationship and it broke my heart that God doesn't want me to be with my ex-boyfriend and that my ex-boyfriend doesn't care about me as much as I care about him. I want to be over the pain, but I'm struggling with getting over the pain because I keep on falling in this internal cycle. Please just pray and help me get through this.

    • @dellaswanson9837
      @dellaswanson9837 4 роки тому +1

      @@serenatu2931 i will say a prayer for you. Thank you for sharing.

    • @serenatu2931
      @serenatu2931 4 роки тому +1

      @@dellaswanson9837 thank you for praying for me. I just wanted to update:
      I found out from one of our mutual friends that my ex-boyfriend was only using me to get ahead. When he told me he loved me and cared for me and told me how much he appreciated me, he didn't mean it. I gave him my heart and told him how much I loved him and how much I appreciated him and he knows stuff I never told anyone, but he never cared. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I need a lot of healing but my heart feels so damaged.

    • @serenatu2931
      @serenatu2931 4 роки тому

      @@dellaswanson9837 extra update:
      Turned out one of our mutual friends had painted my ex-boyfriend in a bad light to help me move on from him. The feelings my ex-boyfriend and I had were real. And it gives me peace of mind knowing that. It's just that I'm still in a lot of pain.

    • @dellaswanson9837
      @dellaswanson9837 4 роки тому +1

      @@serenatu2931 may God have mercy on you. I will keep praying for you

  • @engelbertsoliva
    @engelbertsoliva 6 років тому +3

    Thank you so much and God Bless you too...

  • @EricRamz
    @EricRamz 5 років тому +3

    You're so amazing. Thank you for all of your videos

  • @martinathom5167
    @martinathom5167 5 років тому +4

    I broke up with someone two weeks ago. I don't feel a thing, its just like another day

  • @bossman9550
    @bossman9550 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you God for guidance by getting her out of my life

  • @VeronicaMarie-OG
    @VeronicaMarie-OG 2 місяці тому

    Ok. This sucks!!! I need you Jesus. Please heal me. I am so hurt.

  • @davidmathys4281
    @davidmathys4281 6 місяців тому

    Me and my girlfriend broke up 6 months ago I'm trying to move on but I'm struggling so badly and we have a child together everytime I get my child by her all the memories comes back... 😢

  • @martinathom5167
    @martinathom5167 5 років тому +12

    I don't think I grieved because I noticed God protects me from intense grief and literally blocks certin memories. He has done it before. the guy wanted to be friends with me . I broke up with him, I told him nicely no we cant . we should move on and I wish you well in life and he said he loved me and that was that. I feel nothing at all about this situation

  • @cleacon323
    @cleacon323 6 місяців тому

    It's been a year already, and I'm sure I've already moved on. But why am I so interested in what's going on with my ex? It's annoying because I noticed that my mood changes after checking my ex's social media. I'm happy now, and I'm currently trying to focus on my relationship with Jesus.

  • @tanumassey3409
    @tanumassey3409 4 роки тому +1

    thanks for this message we need this

  • @SerahJoy-b3u
    @SerahJoy-b3u 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm trying to heal but can't see any ease

  • @jasminruiz3635
    @jasminruiz3635 Рік тому

    I was talking to this amazing guy and we were both falling for each other very quickly. We had such a special connection but he is apostolic and I am a Trinitarian. I was willing to be with him despite the difference but he was not. This hurts so so much.

  • @management3521
    @management3521 9 місяців тому +1

    My girlfriend broke up with me because I’m Christian and she’s Muslim so therefore we can’t get married religiously🤧 I know it’s for the greater good but my heart aches, this is my first girlfriend and I don’t know how to act or behave. I’m broken inside.

    • @JFAM5
      @JFAM5 7 місяців тому

      How are you today? I hope you are doing well now. God bless you!

    • @management3521
      @management3521 7 місяців тому +1

      @@JFAM5 better! God bless you too

  • @hermela4279
    @hermela4279 4 роки тому +2

    Wow , thank you , this was for me

  • @sweetysamanta7116
    @sweetysamanta7116 3 роки тому +2

    I just broke up with my bf after 5 years, he had no plan to make me his life partner, I always used to pray God, that please God let me know if that person is good for me or not and God has shown me his true side, it's feels like I have wasted my time over a boy who don't have a plan to marry me

    • @ameliairen5258
      @ameliairen5258 3 роки тому

      Hey! Someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me bring my ex back within 48hours and he can help you too

    • @ameliairen5258
      @ameliairen5258 3 роки тому

      Text him through WhatsApp

    • @ameliairen5258
      @ameliairen5258 3 роки тому

      + 1 ( "9 0 9" ) 3 1 0 "1 7 8 6"

    • @idakuruma2044
      @idakuruma2044 2 роки тому

      ;/💕

  • @MiaCarter7
    @MiaCarter7 Рік тому +2

    I mean how long should one grieve? How do you gauge that? Thats’s kinda hard.

  • @hakaishin.rana1
    @hakaishin.rana1 Рік тому

    And here we are...

  • @user-ud4fs3vx8o
    @user-ud4fs3vx8o 2 роки тому

    very good, so true

  • @SamHasarrived
    @SamHasarrived 5 місяців тому

    I wanted to focus on myself and I was for starting the relationship when I was still in 🔎 for myself
    But during the breakup I found out she was cheating... I'm 3 weeks after the breakup and it hurts bad honestly I thought our relationship was built on God's word. It cut deep I can't trust again

  • @joeyawson6572
    @joeyawson6572 2 роки тому +4

    My girlfriend left me cos God told her I'm not the one for her.. I feel awful

    • @Manchestertreblewinners
      @Manchestertreblewinners 3 місяці тому

      I am in the same boat she told me we are on two different journeys not better not worst just where God is taken her and where he is taking me is different according to her

    • @joeyawson6572
      @joeyawson6572 3 місяці тому

      @@Manchestertreblewinners hmmm it is well

    • @Manchestertreblewinners
      @Manchestertreblewinners 3 місяці тому

      @@joeyawson6572 What does it all mean 😳though we got along like two pea in a pod and she has not blocked me but told me she don’t think she can be on my journey in my life

    • @Manchestertreblewinners
      @Manchestertreblewinners 3 місяці тому

      @@joeyawson6572 what do you mean

  • @alwabagweba1381
    @alwabagweba1381 Рік тому +1

    I’d appreciate anyone’s prayers, this is not easy for me…

  • @jasonbuben2653
    @jasonbuben2653 6 місяців тому

    Me and my girlfriend were dating, around 5 months. I messed up big time and I’m not sure we’re getting back together. How do I move from here because I feel sad because we broke up and feel ashamed because it was my fault. I’m struggling with this because I feel as if I deserve this pain. Obviously I still wish to be back together with her as well

  • @anish.b5581
    @anish.b5581 11 місяців тому +1

    God heal me

  • @elijaholden
    @elijaholden Рік тому

    My girlfriend just broke up with me, and thought she was the one, I still think she is the one.

  • @marvelprince-cg6vw
    @marvelprince-cg6vw Рік тому +2

    Dated her for almost 3 years .... I need help 😔

    • @yestrech
      @yestrech Рік тому

      How are things now

  • @linmeco
    @linmeco 9 місяців тому

    I wish to know if men really grieve when they are the ones who don’t care a friendship ends. I invested all my time and energy for 6 months , he welcomed to enter to his life with the tenderness of his love. He mentioned he wasn’t ready for a commitment, so I respected and were in agreement to build a LDfriendship, but he was avoidant for more than 2 months to make FaceTime calls .. and wanted to keeps our communication only with texts. Sadly I got exhausted by explaining the importance of a better connection. When I place the boundary he ended un again with a text😢 says I wish you the best. Bye 😭

  • @frenchgarcia2636
    @frenchgarcia2636 Рік тому

    thank you 😢

  • @anthonymusso5282
    @anthonymusso5282 8 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @e.j5813
    @e.j5813 11 місяців тому

    even if the two couples are born again believers?

  • @allisonbeford2411
    @allisonbeford2411 11 місяців тому

    How do you heal when you dated someone for 4 years. I found out he was cheating on me for a while. He kept lying to my face and making me feel like I was crazy. Idk how to forgive, everything feels so hard. I know god can fix me but I just don’t know how to act or think. I feel like I hate him and I know that’s not good. Any suggestions?

    • @shaye4304
      @shaye4304 7 місяців тому

      You must forgive but for yourself to move on. Forgive so you can start a fresh start. Don't let the enemy trap you

  • @kriziaeloraf3581
    @kriziaeloraf3581 8 місяців тому

    I just blocked him. It’s don’t. He hurt me: damage is done

  • @DaLightBlue
    @DaLightBlue 11 місяців тому

    Good ❤

  • @silvanavalderrama
    @silvanavalderrama 5 років тому +5

    Hi,I have a question on the boundaries! What if I'm not sure he isn't the one and maybe it's just not the time for us to be together?

    • @c4io11
      @c4io11 4 роки тому +6

      I have the exact same doubt and it makes me feel so stuck. Because every time I start to see progress and to feel better, the doubt comes to my mind and I start missing her and having an urge to talk to her again and keep the connection alive

    • @lydialorincova7628
      @lydialorincova7628 4 роки тому +1

      Oh my goodness yes yey yes!! That's exactly what I'm going through 🥺😩😩 how are you doing budd?

    • @franciaquina1106
      @franciaquina1106 3 роки тому

      @@c4io11 what happened then, after months?

    • @c4io11
      @c4io11 3 роки тому +3

      ​@@franciaquina1106 I feel much better now... bu the way is full of ups and downs. Honestly what happened is that she started to put the boundaries because she was moving on... I kind of think she made the decisions I wasn't brave enough to make, because I missed her and cared too much about her. So I had no choice but to recognize that she really isn't the one God has for me and it slowly made me feel less weary and more hopefull about the future. Sometimes it still hits me, like when she started dating someone else... but it is much better overall.
      Too sum up, I believe boundaries are extremely important. Ask God for directions and if you feel any sign of the person not being the right match for you, you should impose boundaries if the other person doesn't. Otherwise it might take waaaay longer to heal

    • @franciaquina1106
      @franciaquina1106 3 роки тому +2

      @@c4io11 thanks bro for that honest answer. Godbless all.

  • @ashleyrose9021
    @ashleyrose9021 3 роки тому

    How long should I wait before I remove someone as my follower from Instagram? It boggles my mind not being unfollowed already and I just want to be able to make post without worrying about who’s actually seeing what or what they might Misunderstand about me. I don’t want to think that my post are just shots in the dark because I know they are not.

    • @Noah-oe1uf
      @Noah-oe1uf 3 роки тому

      Remove them/anyone associated with them asap and make your account private. You’ll feel so much better

    • @ashleyrose9021
      @ashleyrose9021 3 роки тому

      @@Noah-oe1uf they eventually unfollowed

  • @Samson2323
    @Samson2323 3 місяці тому

    THIS ARE FOR THE BADMEN/WOMEN:
    We just brok up and it was my fault. I was not living a Christian life bck then. Now I've met and walked with Christ I had to restitute with her old sins by telling her all of it.
    The pain of losing a good woman due to your sinfulness Hits different man. UA-cam t videos and contents on the internet are mostly for victims. Condemnation, regret and remorse hits different.
    Freedom from sin does not mean freedom from consequences. If you were the bad dude/woman in the relationship. I pray that like me you'll be aable to accept and receive forgiveness

  • @shine2678
    @shine2678 3 роки тому

    That person didn't even ask a genuine sorry then how can I forgive him?

    • @fassoyangce1075
      @fassoyangce1075 3 роки тому +1

      That's sad that the person didn't acknowledge the mistake they made, but by forgiving the person, you're releasing the tensions in your heart and your mind! Forgiving my first ex gf was very releasing for me! The relationship was ruined forever, but she became a person again to me. We talked later and I wasn't angry anymore.

  • @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699
    @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699 6 років тому +1

    Thank u God bless

  • @smoothlettuce
    @smoothlettuce 3 роки тому

    thank u 🖤

    • @tinachoke5978
      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

      Hello Dear.
      I know of a powerful man who can manifest your ex back easily without any delay , he helped me to get back my ex 2 days ago he can bring back your ex without any stress, his name is Dr Frank.

    • @tinachoke5978
      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

      Text him on whatsapp

    • @tinachoke5978
      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

      +234,-90,-66,-18,57,-37 ,

  • @yuzinlimbu7038
    @yuzinlimbu7038 4 роки тому

    💔😢 Thanks God!

    • @tinachoke5978
      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

      Hello Dear.
      I know of a powerful man who can manifest your ex back easily without any delay , he helped me to get back my ex 2 days ago he can bring back your ex without any stress, his name is Dr Frank.

    • @tinachoke5978
      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

      Text him on whatsapp

    • @tinachoke5978
      @tinachoke5978 3 роки тому

      +234,-90,-66,-18,57,-37 ,

  • @Swiftiegg
    @Swiftiegg 3 місяці тому

    The world is just grey right now

  • @sixx8125
    @sixx8125 6 місяців тому

    😢

  • @therealKadeHollow
    @therealKadeHollow Рік тому +2

    I just lost the girl I thought I would marry one day. It hurts so much because I loved her more than she could ever know. It was only a year long but it felt longer. Im trying to trust God with his plan but I’m still struggling. Please pray for me

    • @Thanatosey
      @Thanatosey 7 місяців тому

      I hope you are doing well, I just had the same experience, dating 3 years, how are you now?

  • @jazmincharis6917
    @jazmincharis6917 Рік тому +1

    I feel like Iam in a sinking ship and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it