Mistress And Wife Meet For The First Time Since Love Triangle Turned Deadly

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
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  • @drphil
    @drphil  3 роки тому +102

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  • @idou
    @idou Рік тому +3598

    came here after watching Kendall Rae’s video about this case. Ashley’s clearly such a strong and intelligent woman and she truly deserves all the good in the world. can’t really say the same about Candy.

    • @cduni95
      @cduni95 Рік тому +93

      Same. Kandi deserves the dragging she's getting. Ashley and her children are the real victims.

    • @stephanie4878
      @stephanie4878 Рік тому +49

      Same! I cannot believe so people in this world. She destroyed a family. But. I’m proud of Ashlee. She moved on and found a man worthy of her.

    • @cduni95
      @cduni95 Рік тому +74

      @@stephanie4878 I just watched the full episode on YT. Kandi said she wished Ashlee would shut up, get over it, and stop writing about her. Ashlee clapped back in a very classy way and said "well, I wished you would've stopped sleeping with my husband."
      This mistress is really trying to gatekeep how someone should grieve. Kandi made her bed and is mad she has to lay in it.

    • @ameliamoralesc97
      @ameliamoralesc97 Рік тому +40

      Same here. This woman is unbelievable. She can’t say sorry genuinely because she is not sorry at all. It’s disgusting.

    • @kezyogifairy
      @kezyogifairy Рік тому +1

      me toooo lol

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 3 роки тому +1858

    Her walking out with no applause was what it did it for me

    • @biancadoss11
      @biancadoss11 2 роки тому +38

      😂

    • @CupcakeBeauty24
      @CupcakeBeauty24 Рік тому

      She deserved the silence :)

    • @bigdaddysbaked
      @bigdaddysbaked Рік тому +8

      I mean it happens all the time lol anybody that comes out as the "bad guy" usually gets no applause

    • @lidiyapriyadarsinik2815
      @lidiyapriyadarsinik2815 Рік тому +10

      Yesterday, I saw a clip of Dr phil's show on fb and for some reason I blocked his channel without even checking out the video. I am glad I did so. He, like many tv people, prioritizes more about thrilling shows than people's feelings. Very unethical ah

    • @SavedByJesusHeimatLiebe
      @SavedByJesusHeimatLiebe Рік тому +1

      @@lidiyapriyadarsinik2815 exactly this

  • @katiecampbell9191
    @katiecampbell9191 3 роки тому +4292

    That lady just enjoyed the fact 2 people fought over her. That’s all. She’s not remorseful. My heart goes out to the wife. She is very strong.

    • @violetacastillo1676
      @violetacastillo1676 3 роки тому +43

      Its not her fault he chose to be unfaithful. He was a grown man and knew exactly what he was doing, lets not throw the ball at her this is a two way street.

    • @idlehour
      @idlehour 3 роки тому +2

      Totally its so much like Transformation Engagement The twins get twine. Totally forgoes all basic Chelaoion in first right man? The drive Dr scenes were fantastic and got Baskin almost. Forever The Band Market Marched was similar in its similarities and thing that's similar almost. I don't believe in being a broken Record but it was Marris Grab and Filling Channels

    • @wendyhardin5259
      @wendyhardin5259 3 роки тому +62

      Those kind of women are never sorry. They think they are never the one who should be blamed. I think the wife was exactly right about what that other woman is. If you don’t want to be judged a Whoare, don’t act like one.

    • @bhall695
      @bhall695 3 роки тому +2

      @@TheTruth-kh2im Lol. Say more funny things. Call more people hypocrites. LOL. Pretend you're not a troll.

    • @Chocobear555
      @Chocobear555 3 роки тому +59

      @@violetacastillo1676 : Umm ... Did you miss the fact that she willingly became involved with a married man when she, herself, was also married? Takes two to tango. They are both to blame for the affair. Don't cut her any slack. She doesn't deserve it.

  • @ahunt5407
    @ahunt5407 2 роки тому +961

    I dated a guy without knowing he was married. When I found out I hated myself for so long. I can't imagine doing that on purpose and thinking I wasn't to blame.

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 2 роки тому +66

      Married men lie. I wish wives understood that. My ex husband told a woman we had filed divorce when we hadn’t. I will probably stay single because I’m sorry these married men cheat

    • @NicoleReign
      @NicoleReign Рік тому +46

      @@LisaLisaCJ Right...but she knew. On top of her cheating on her OWN husband. She's not an example of this lol

    • @tinygreenpea
      @tinygreenpea Рік тому +17

      As the wife in this kind of equation, what you don't know is not your fault. Mine had multiple affair partners, and the only ones incurring any wrath from me are those who knew and even seemed to get off on the idea that were "besting" me. If you didn't know, you aren't the problem, although I respect your sense of accountability.

    • @brandyloll2030
      @brandyloll2030 Рік тому

      Exactly

    • @4thamendment237
      @4thamendment237 Рік тому +3

      @@LisaLisaCJ it's like the line from a blues song -- 🎵 "He told you all about his life, but not the part about his wife..."🙄

  • @SabrinaWithGreenEyes
    @SabrinaWithGreenEyes 3 роки тому +2199

    The mistress is very self righteous and acts as if she's a victim when shes nothing but a narcissistic manipulator

    • @jennyselissen2605
      @jennyselissen2605 2 роки тому +9

      She is a victim, but not for being a mistress.. She is a victim of what has happened in her life.. I am sure there is alot more to this story than anyone knows!!

    • @lorainefleeman6011
      @lorainefleeman6011 2 роки тому +69

      @@jennyselissen2605 She was also married. Had no business being with another man.

    • @jennyselissen2605
      @jennyselissen2605 2 роки тому +8

      @@lorainefleeman6011 And Emmett did not have any right to be with another Woman.. Ashlee knew there was something going on.. She handled it with much grace.. I don't believe she is a stupid woman who did not expect.. this is horrible anyway you look at it.. Emmett is dead, Rob is in prison, and Kandi is laying low.. I googled her and since Dr Phill not much is known about her since then.. Ashlee is still morning Emmett.. Although she has moved on and is now married.. 🙏🙏

    • @jennyselissen2605
      @jennyselissen2605 2 роки тому +2

      @@lorainefleeman6011 and Emmett had no business being with Her..If he didn't care about his wife.. He had 5 young children at home!! Why is it just her fault??

    • @lorainefleeman6011
      @lorainefleeman6011 2 роки тому +14

      @@jennyselissen2605 I never said it was just her fault. She said deep down he knew what he was doing was wrong. She was doing the exact same thing to her husband.

  • @annic.9605
    @annic.9605 3 роки тому +2490

    She “heard” that his wife was “awful to him” like it made what she did okay. 🤦‍♀️

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter 3 роки тому +163

      When the person you're cheating with says that their spouse is awful, that should really tell you to RUN. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @huyhuynh8769
      @huyhuynh8769 3 роки тому +2

      Yanderes man but irl smh 🤦‍♂️

    • @divineestarr8888
      @divineestarr8888 2 роки тому +39

      She saying that to make her feel better about herself.

    • @coryCuc
      @coryCuc Рік тому +11

      She's not married to his wife. HE is. She doesn't owe any loyalty to her.

    • @rere9991
      @rere9991 Рік тому

      @@coryCuc wtf? She's was married herself and absolutely a direct reason for what happened. She's a whole homewrecker trash vile

  • @sarahs2288
    @sarahs2288 Рік тому +532

    Ashley has a blog on healing from grief, has written a book, teaches courses on trauma, and has remarried. She has 2 children with her new husband. Way to go, Ashley!

    • @timelesstalesbeauty5394
      @timelesstalesbeauty5394 Рік тому +12

      What a winner! She’s beautiful inside and out!

    • @lxspa529
      @lxspa529 Рік тому +13

      Ashlee be popping them babies out don’t it 😂, go head on.

    • @dominqueb10
      @dominqueb10 Рік тому +1

      @@lxspa529 her 😻 has to be a1

    • @brandiil8559
      @brandiil8559 6 місяців тому

      @@lxspa529she’s a Mormon. They usually have more than 4 kids, minimum.

  • @afinecashewwholovesfood6042
    @afinecashewwholovesfood6042 Рік тому +243

    Her “sorry” is basically saying “I’m sorry that your husband chose to be with me and chose me over you”

    • @brentrosencrans3968
      @brentrosencrans3968 2 місяці тому

      @iggydc8034 And both women loved it There was drama, tragedy, a scandal, chaos, etc. The LOVED every minute of this.

    • @brentrosencrans3968
      @brentrosencrans3968 2 місяці тому

      @iggydc8034 Agree. My response would have been to simply disappear and never see her again. Getting mad or retaliation shows a person cares and that's the last thing I'd want her thinking because I don't.

  • @girly6139
    @girly6139 3 роки тому +1094

    That woman is not apologetic..not even a little bit.she feels no guilt..as a matter of fact shes almost proud.
    Bless Ashlee and her babies.shes 100 times the woman.

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому +33

      Yeah she is proud the audacity she had to say she was surprised a younger man was going for her and she didn’t deserve it 🙄 she was almost admiring herself 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @modaciouslav4792
      @modaciouslav4792 3 роки тому

      U both are trippin.. it’s been 4 years. Just bc she’s not on stage crying and screaming for forgiveness at the top of her lungs, doesn’t make her un remorseful.

    • @girly6139
      @girly6139 3 роки тому

      @@modaciouslav4792 👌

    • @sarahstauffer4874
      @sarahstauffer4874 3 роки тому +16

      She was very condescending towards Ashley with her fake apology. She's not ashamed one bit. She soaking it all up..

    • @blackgirlwithaseptum5895
      @blackgirlwithaseptum5895 2 роки тому +2

      @@modaciouslav4792 girl what.. use common sense

  • @karabelle67
    @karabelle67 3 роки тому +3339

    That woman has no regrets, her apology was insincere and she accepted zero responsibility for her part in the situation. So gross.

  • @OOceaneyess
    @OOceaneyess 3 роки тому +990

    Her description of what Ashley thinks of her is spot on.

  • @dyatrimavinck5551
    @dyatrimavinck5551 3 роки тому +1840

    I feel so bad for Ashley, such a beautifull woman inside and out.
    She deserved better. I wish her a good husband.

    • @kalik5665
      @kalik5665 3 роки тому +38

      She has an amazing husband now. They just had their 2nd baby. She’s just so beautiful and amazing. She and her kids deserve everything good. You can follow her on Instagram themomentwestand

    • @KimAhrina11
      @KimAhrina11 3 роки тому +10

      @@kalik5665 I just checked it, omg so happy for her

    • @modaciouslav4792
      @modaciouslav4792 3 роки тому +10

      @@kalik5665 so she has a total of 7 kids?!?!

    • @virgo1677
      @virgo1677 3 роки тому +4

      @@modaciouslav4792 lol no she has 6 children.

    • @TheseHandlesAreStupid
      @TheseHandlesAreStupid 3 роки тому +2

      With 5 kids, she'll have to settle for what she's given.

  • @tinsleemoye6043
    @tinsleemoye6043 3 роки тому +694

    the way the wife phrases everything she says so elegantly

  • @archdukefranzferdinand4429
    @archdukefranzferdinand4429 3 роки тому +3562

    I find the wife very attractive and see seems very strong , Some men don’t even realize what they have

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому +57

      Period. You Sound like you’d make a great husband some day.

    • @jblvxk
      @jblvxk 3 роки тому +57

      Just because she looks attractive doesn’t mean she had a nice attitude, his wife sounds like poison. There’s a reason why people cheat

    • @CellarDoorx06
      @CellarDoorx06 3 роки тому +12

      @@jblvxk My thoughts exactly.

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому +197

      @@jblvxk that’s messed up actually why not break up with someone first instead of committing such a low act of cheating. Imagine trying to defend those who are in the wrong 😪 couldn’t be me 👌🏻.

    • @matthewtucker1699
      @matthewtucker1699 3 роки тому +15

      the grass is always greener as they say

  • @jenniferruth812
    @jenniferruth812 2 роки тому +338

    He's wife is gorgeous and more importantly she seems to be a wonderful wife and mother. What man would give this up?

    • @dee27206
      @dee27206 Рік тому +4

      The mistress is stunning tho

    • @jasmincortez8863
      @jasmincortez8863 Рік тому +62

      @@dee27206 no she’s not

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT Рік тому +36

      @@dee27206 you should get out more if that's your definition of "stunning"

    • @Caitilizzie
      @Caitilizzie Рік тому +8

      @@dee27206Definitely not personality-wise, that’s for sure!

    • @dsoule4902
      @dsoule4902 Рік тому +1

      @@WarmongerYT lol

  • @maddychristensen1012
    @maddychristensen1012 3 роки тому +557

    People who say that it’s not the women’s fault... it take two people to tango, it takes two people to make the consensual decision to cheat. It’s BOTH of them. She has no remorse and that is why people blame her. Her body language shows no grief for the destruction she caused.

    • @user-zz7kg6ro9z
      @user-zz7kg6ro9z 2 роки тому +4

      Agreed but it takes 1 person to open the door for it all to happen

    • @Dgirl356
      @Dgirl356 Рік тому +16

      I think that what people are forgetting is the fact that Emmett (Ashley’s husband) died in the hands of candy’s husband, who found out of the affair and went there to confront Emmett and Candy. So Ashley is not just hurt of Emmetts infidelity with Candy, she also says her part in his death and her lack of remorse, it’s what truly is hurtful. She lied under oath for her husband, agreeing with “his side of the story”. Robert (Candy’s husband) says he went there to confront them, Emmett got violent and he shot Robert and then Robert shot Emmett. However, evidence has proven that Emmett had no gun residue in his hands, only Robert did and Robert’s injuries seemed self inflicted. So Candy claims she didn’t see how everything went down. But that she agrees with her husbands story, saying it was Emmet who was violent. So she was trying to remove herself from the situation she had created to begin with. Ashley says it on dr phill, “you wanted them both to fight for you”. So to her this confrontation was flattering, of course she might not know her husband intended to kill that night, but she knew things were turning violent between the husband and the lover. Of course for the affair both parties are to blame, Emmett hurt Ashley by cheating but since Candy was in Ashley’s life and her children’s life as the husband friend and colleague, there’s also an element of betrayal from Candy to Ashley; Ashley also said it on this clip, she says “you knew me and my children, you asked to babysit my children, you held my newborn…”. If Emmet was still alive of course that Ashley would ask him to say sorry to her. But he is dead, so she’s asking just for what’s right frommCandy, to acknowledge her part in the affair and her part in the tragic death and the trial.

    • @Mariana-ed2kt
      @Mariana-ed2kt Рік тому +6

      Yes, I agree it takes both, and both are horrible people. But people always put much more of the blame in the mistress, rather than the husband… The husband is the one who is suppose to love you and respect you and wanna spend the rest of your life with you. The mistress owes you nothing but “respect for your fellow woman”. If my husband cheated on me, he’d be the one I’d blame the most and the one I’d be more disappointed at, and the one I’d never wanna see again or trust again. The husband would be the one I’d never ever forgive. (Would I be friends with the mistress or even wanna talk to her? absolutely not, but she is nothing, she’s just the “object” of the husband’s disrespect, and that’s it).

    • @kayperez7203
      @kayperez7203 Рік тому +4

      @user-do6yx9kb6f While I agree with what you say, you have to also listen because Ashlee said Kandi even held their kid she KNEW Emmett was married. It would be different if she had no clue and he lied saying he was single but this woman knew he was married and did it anyway.

    • @Mariana-ed2kt
      @Mariana-ed2kt Рік тому +4

      @@kayperez7203 yes, which makes her a horrible person, as I said. But still, the wife is giving the impression that everything is the mistress' fault. Not her husband's. I get the impression that if her husband had not been killed, she would only blame the mistress for the cheating and stay with the husband anyway, (because she wouldn't want to break up the family) That makes me so mad because, well, it was the husband who broke the family up, not any of the women involved. It's that notion that the mistresses are the "homewreckers" that bothers me. To me, the married people who cheat are the "homewreckers"! He was the one who had a family and that decided to piss on that and go cheat. Because, even if the "potential mistress" said "no", the minute that the husband is actively trying to seduce another woman, to me, he has already "wrecked the family". He's the one responsible. He was the one who ruined it. She was the "object he used" to ruined that with. I get that both the husband and the mistress are terrible people and didn't care about wrecking his family, but it was the husdand's choice to cheat on HIS wife. (the mistress ruined HER own family as she was also married). When you are the one taking vows, and then cheat: don't blame the mistress. Blame yourself.

  • @Jennifer72ification
    @Jennifer72ification 3 роки тому +492

    This woman still has a chip on her shoulder. Her daughter hates her because of what this affair did to all of the families and especially her father. She doesnt care, shes just excited she had a young man lust after her. What a trash bag of a person.

    • @katestevens86
      @katestevens86 2 роки тому +6

      Really?! Nowhere in the entire episode did I hear the mistress exalt having a younger lover! What a trash bag of a judgement!

    • @vivek27789
      @vivek27789 2 роки тому +36

      @@katestevens86 See the other videos on this case...there are several out there and it's clear she was excited by all the attention she got from Emmett from the start.

    • @MeredithHammett
      @MeredithHammett Рік тому +14

      @@katestevens86 actually no. Everything she said was spot on.

    • @lddixon2394
      @lddixon2394 Рік тому +17

      @@katestevens86 Ok Candy, calm down. Just as you felt entitled to take someone else's husband, the poster is entitled to their opinion.

    • @princesssookeh
      @princesssookeh Рік тому +4

      @@lddixon2394 beat me to it lol

  • @hollyk7052
    @hollyk7052 3 роки тому +876

    Loved the silence when the mistress entered

    • @heatherblanchard5492
      @heatherblanchard5492 3 роки тому +22

      Bravo 👏 audience

    • @rudypujenkins6890
      @rudypujenkins6890 3 роки тому +7

      I hope you realize they were, more than likely, instructed not to "clap"?

    • @hollyk7052
      @hollyk7052 3 роки тому +37

      @@rudypujenkins6890 doesn’t matter, still funny

    • @ladyweasellou3367
      @ladyweasellou3367 3 роки тому +4

      Not really, she's being a bigger person by coming to her to apologize and try to fix this issue. This was horrible but these women were blaming eachother and this is his fault and no one else's. Phil was pushing for drama with that question.

    • @ladyweasellou3367
      @ladyweasellou3367 3 роки тому +1

      @@rudypujenkins6890 exactly.

  • @revandenburg
    @revandenburg 3 роки тому +404

    The pain in the wife's voice was palpable.

  • @dharmawannab
    @dharmawannab 2 роки тому +238

    I love that there was no applause as she came out. Straight silence

  • @danimacke6937
    @danimacke6937 3 роки тому +304

    This woman (the widow) is so very well spoken, and seems very insightful. My heart breaks for her

  • @mainelady2020
    @mainelady2020 3 роки тому +562

    The wife is so mature..hope she is ok now

    • @beekay9607
      @beekay9607 2 роки тому +3

      She seems naive to me.

    • @breenyambu1088
      @breenyambu1088 Рік тому +30

      She is now married and seems very happy now.

  • @iloveabba7185
    @iloveabba7185 3 роки тому +1227

    The guy who cheated and died, STARTED the whole thing. He had a wife and 5 KIDS at home. HE IS TO BLAME.

    • @airam-sj2172
      @airam-sj2172 3 роки тому +70

      I agree, why to confront the mistress on national TV for entertainment?. He is the one who betrayed her.

    • @bidibidi1338
      @bidibidi1338 3 роки тому +58

      Because she betrayed the wife as well by personally involving herself with her family. She watched her children while sleeping with the husband behind her back. Some guts the mistress has. Are you suggesting we dig up the dead husband’s grave and confront him as well? No one said it’s not his fault either. It’s both of them. Not one more than the other. Both are disgusting humans with no dignity. The mistress is only sorry she got caught on national TV. If she was so sorry she wouldn’t have continued the cheating so many times to the point things ended the way it did. Once or twice is enough to know when you need to stop doing something you know is awful.

    • @___chief866
      @___chief866 3 роки тому +261

      SHE is to blame too. The mistress knew. You cannot convince any of us otherwise.

    • @nomsantsoane3984
      @nomsantsoane3984 3 роки тому +27

      Husband is to blame

    • @___chief866
      @___chief866 3 роки тому +78

      @@nomsantsoane3984 and the mistress

  • @crysatnitephd5513
    @crysatnitephd5513 3 роки тому +254

    That blond woman does not look remorseful at all she could care less

    • @jacobbriand7716
      @jacobbriand7716 3 роки тому +24

      They’re both blond lmao

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому +11

      @@jacobbriand7716 it doesn’t take a brain cell to know who she’s taking about 🤦🏻‍♀️ LOL

    • @jacobbriand7716
      @jacobbriand7716 3 роки тому +6

      @@user-xk4rl8bj2n yes, however stating that they are both blind isn’t wrong nor is it not a fact

    • @crittertails7536
      @crittertails7536 3 роки тому +3

      Both women are blonde. But by that, I guess you mean the "blonder" woman a.k.a. lighter blonde shade lol

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому

      @@jacobbriand7716 ik u are but what am i 🌝

  • @leminjapan
    @leminjapan Рік тому +41

    I can't believe Ashlee's even acknowledging Kandi's presence. I'd be shaking with rage, passing out from a panic attack or immediately burst into years as soon as I saw the person who helped destroy my family. She's clearly done a ton of hard work to heal. Wow

  • @JessicaBlaze89
    @JessicaBlaze89 Рік тому +29

    The mistress trying to blame HIM when she was having an affair TOO and not accepting the responsibility for anything! She should've known that nothing good couldve came from splitting a family apart. And a round of applause for Ashley and her undeniable strength

  • @daisysfarmsonnotalottaacre4895
    @daisysfarmsonnotalottaacre4895 3 роки тому +177

    Awwww the cheater is hurt and the victim?! No way. No. No one has a right to be involved with another married person. Period.

  • @springsogourne
    @springsogourne Рік тому +64

    Candy is a despicable person. She is as culpable in the death of Emit as her husband is. And shame on Dr. Phil for exploiting people like this. Oh and apparently she was arrested and sentenced for embezzlement, so there’s that too

  • @soteroaluin4731
    @soteroaluin4731 3 роки тому +260

    Candy ruin two families at the same time, and she has the face to say that didn't define who she is, WHAT?

    • @chrisboone2755
      @chrisboone2755 3 роки тому +10

      How is it not the Husband's fault?

    • @Jl2damax
      @Jl2damax 3 роки тому +12

      Get real, the husband ruined his family, Kandi only ruined her own

    • @amybess
      @amybess 3 роки тому +7

      It's HIS fault. HE ruined it.

    • @ayanour7
      @ayanour7 3 роки тому +5

      Woah hold up, I’m gonna need you to wake up to reality real quick. The husband ruined his family.

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 3 роки тому +3

      Candy did?! Wow these comments are so disappointing

  • @MFD400
    @MFD400 3 роки тому +616

    Honey, you had an affair with her husband. it doesnt matter if he did it before, youre still to blame.

    • @janno105
      @janno105 3 роки тому +92

      Actually, he is to blame. He is the one who strayed from his marriage. He makes his own decisions and is responsible for them.

    • @imabegroovintilltheworldst5752
      @imabegroovintilltheworldst5752 3 роки тому +19

      @@janno105 thank you... you are right

    • @benjaminamarante8481
      @benjaminamarante8481 3 роки тому +19

      No he is to blame, not her

    • @YouAreGoingToLoseMe87
      @YouAreGoingToLoseMe87 3 роки тому +78

      They both are. Grow up and stop excusing the actions of an affair partner. Theyre BOTH to blame..she knew.

    • @erinnicole3170
      @erinnicole3170 3 роки тому +17

      No, he is. He made vows to her. Not the other woman.

  • @lynsey4224
    @lynsey4224 3 роки тому +402

    Wow that walk to the stage was awkward haha

    • @teddyjam8134
      @teddyjam8134 3 роки тому +40

      That's the walk of shame.

    • @aminabakir8205
      @aminabakir8205 3 роки тому +11

      @@teddyjam8134 she doesn't have any.

    • @dimitrakapa4887
      @dimitrakapa4887 3 роки тому

      Its the first time that im with a side of the other woman! She goes there to say sorry

    • @Viciousnessj
      @Viciousnessj 3 роки тому +7

      @@dimitrakapa4887 it’s not enough. And she’s kind of abrasive in her delivery

    • @wendyhardin5259
      @wendyhardin5259 3 роки тому

      Most definitely.

  • @Hello-uu9mq
    @Hello-uu9mq 3 роки тому +108

    She isn't sorry about this.

  • @monicarai1497
    @monicarai1497 3 роки тому +96

    She did not deserve that. I cried watching this I don't know why. The wife is a very strong lady.

  • @radicalacceptance6171
    @radicalacceptance6171 3 роки тому +139

    At 2:07 she said she was "absolutely sorry". Meanwhile, she shook her head and said no. She is disgusting for sleeping with this woman's husband.

    • @sandrapisani9225
      @sandrapisani9225 Рік тому +4

      And Emmett was disgusting for sleeping with that man's wife! Seriously?

    • @marinaborgert
      @marinaborgert Рік тому +10

      Spot on! She was also condemned for embezzling 32 thousand dollars from her previous boss, she's pure garbage.

    • @almaguillot8597
      @almaguillot8597 Рік тому +1

      Good catch!

  • @thatonegirltaylor
    @thatonegirltaylor Рік тому +22

    Dr Phil’s team is awful, they lied to her to get her on the show. She shouldn’t of even had to be around that vile woman

  • @anneelefan6139
    @anneelefan6139 3 роки тому +364

    This woman is crazy.She can't accept that she was the one to be blamed for all of these.She is a very selfish,self centered kind of person.She enjoyed the attention that this young man had given her though she's older than him ,married & have kids while he's also married & have kids too.She didn't know how to control her lust.What kind of a woman who will destroy her own family & destroy other woman's family too just to build a new family?

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому +11

      Omg girl we think a like exactly what I was trying to say. Ofc you worded some things better 💁🏻‍♀️ but fr it takes two to tango and I’ve noticed this generation is trying to defend mistresses smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @chopitup9950
      @chopitup9950 3 роки тому +8

      @@user-xk4rl8bj2n always remember this, people who defend shitty behavior practice shitty behavior.

    • @chrisboone2755
      @chrisboone2755 3 роки тому +19

      How is it all HER fault and not THE HUSBAND?

    • @muscle2500
      @muscle2500 3 роки тому +9

      @@chrisboone2755 It was both? But, HER actions specifically caused the situation since her husband was the one who killed her lover, that’s what the original comment is referencing. No one said the husband wasn’t at fault, they’re just not mentioning him since he’s DEAD and not in the video

    • @chrisboone2755
      @chrisboone2755 3 роки тому +8

      @@muscle2500 What? That doesn't even make sense. HER having an affair is wrong but guess what, the other HUSBAND did too. Two to tango. As far as the death, that was all on HER HUSBAND and how he reacted to it. It was a choice. You can't blame the death on HER for HIS doing....

  • @racheldillon1111
    @racheldillon1111 3 роки тому +94

    Even if emmet pursued her first which is what she claims. She still knew about his wife and she could have not had an affair with Him. So I completely understand why she’s mad at candy. Candy knew about Ashley.

    • @wendyhardin5259
      @wendyhardin5259 3 роки тому +3

      I’m sure he wasn’t her first married man.

    • @sparkywirenut
      @sparkywirenut 3 роки тому +3

      He knew he had a wife at home also , just as much Emmits fault too !

  • @skyrock2266
    @skyrock2266 3 роки тому +59

    The wife is a really strong women....huge respect

  • @TRUTH4U2NO
    @TRUTH4U2NO 3 роки тому +178

    ASHLEY your an ANGEL. Emmitt didnt deserve you. Candy should be in prison.

    • @jeanqbxx
      @jeanqbxx 3 роки тому +3

      Ashley got boring, you wives forget how to treat your man well.

    • @___chief866
      @___chief866 3 роки тому +12

      @@jeanqbxx but the mistress was married too so your points invalid. If wives forget how to treat their man is your reasoning then Candy should have remembered how to treat hers before going off to someone else's

    • @Jasmine-xs3xf
      @Jasmine-xs3xf 3 роки тому +6

      @@jeanqbxx men don't know what communication is or what?

    • @cedricbrooks1547
      @cedricbrooks1547 3 роки тому +3

      Kandi had already served 14 months in prison for embezzlement from her last job

    • @jennyselissen2605
      @jennyselissen2605 2 роки тому

      @@cedricbrooks1547 Kandi served her time in prison aft the murder for taking money from another company that she worked for..

  • @daisyprieto4654
    @daisyprieto4654 2 роки тому +40

    Wow. This is horrific and the mistress is a narcissist. Her husband is dead and cannot dispute what she is saying. No accountability and heartless.

  • @highclassshaniya6682
    @highclassshaniya6682 3 роки тому +67

    It definitely does seem like the mistress wanted them to fight for her

  • @dizziechef9502
    @dizziechef9502 3 роки тому +82

    When they are married realize they don't belong to you. Stay away from another woman's life.

    • @virgo1677
      @virgo1677 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you.

    • @trinidadianbeauty1
      @trinidadianbeauty1 3 роки тому +2

      Preach! She messed with that woman’s life and her 5 kids!!!! Good lord! I could never

    • @katestevens86
      @katestevens86 2 роки тому +2

      Lots of those "married men" lie about their marital status. It's pretty deceitful to both women. And by the way, nobody "belongs" to anybody; couples choose to be together out of respect and love, not because they are shackled to each other. Sheesh!

    • @michellemorrowallen8505
      @michellemorrowallen8505 Рік тому

      @@katestevens86, but Emmett didn’t lie to Kandi- she KNEW he was married & was cheating with him, either before, or during the wife’s pregnancy.

  • @widowgirl1254
    @widowgirl1254 Рік тому +26

    Ashley IS a strong woman! She deserves peace and happiness

  • @marinagrunden723
    @marinagrunden723 3 роки тому +151

    She is saying things to this women that she wishes she said to her husband before he died

  • @brendadawid3358
    @brendadawid3358 Рік тому +10

    Kandi is 100%a narcissist. Can't believe she totally blamed Emmett for the affair and refuses to take any responsibility. Not to mention what she did at her last job. We need to put all these narcissist people together on their own island. Now that would be some wild reality tv. My heart hurts for Ashley and the children. God bless her and her family.

  • @sophielilley7216
    @sophielilley7216 3 роки тому +71

    You can just tell how strong Ashley is. She seems like an amazing woman and mother.

  • @amelieholbrook3001
    @amelieholbrook3001 3 роки тому +52

    Poor Ashley. Wow. This is so sad. Rob Hall, Kandi Hall, Emmett Corrigan... they are all stone-cold sociopaths. What a tragedy for Ashley and her children. But She Will Rise. The Lord is with you, Ashley! You are beautiful and strong, don't EVER let that awful woman Kandi Hall take you down. Ever.

  • @iRockMySocks1414
    @iRockMySocks1414 Рік тому +8

    Who’s here from Kendall’s video? 🙋‍♀️

  • @krys1248
    @krys1248 Рік тому +10

    What a horrible human being. She refuses to take any responsibility. What an amazing person Ashley is to withstand all of this.

  • @larrygro
    @larrygro 3 роки тому +59

    Kandi has always loved the attention, it’s the only way she can remain relevant. Most normal people would shrink away from this experience and hope it fades away. She invites it

  • @StephenAFT
    @StephenAFT 3 роки тому +23

    No accountability from this mistress whatsoever like she didn't consent to what was going on.

  • @lockedloaded4942
    @lockedloaded4942 3 роки тому +30

    The wife is absolutely gorgeous!

  • @lauraw3225
    @lauraw3225 Рік тому +8

    “That does not define who I am” says Candy….what do u want to hear?
    What a narcissistic woman. Candy is just a jezebel

  • @user-ko2tu3ss3o
    @user-ko2tu3ss3o Рік тому +32

    Dr Phil doing this ambush is disgraceful. How and why would this be done to a grieving woman and her family. Terrible.

    • @Ilene-pz8fp
      @Ilene-pz8fp Рік тому +3

      What ambush? Ashlee lifted the Restraining Order. 😂😂😂😂

    • @joannemarlow7620
      @joannemarlow7620 Рік тому +2

      He lied about the reason for the programme….like he always does. They told Ashley it was about promoting her book and blog and strength. Dr Phil needs cancelling. Vile man.

  • @elizabethl169
    @elizabethl169 Рік тому +7

    "You marry someone so you can be their everything" yup. Wow, she's so well spoken and classy.

  • @crownviclx2000
    @crownviclx2000 Рік тому +17

    His wife is so adorable 😍 Imagine having an amazing woman like her and throwing it all away. The mother of your children. I can't even....ppl suck. This world sucks

    • @maryanne7161
      @maryanne7161 Рік тому +7

      Ikr? I keep wondering what do men want?? They want a big family and a stay at home wife but they dont value them n start cheating on them?!

  • @Armchairdetective189
    @Armchairdetective189 Рік тому +30

    This lady is absolutely disgusting, she takes absolutely no responsibility for her actions. The way she speaks to Ashley is so degrading and condescending. Candy clearly enjoys feeling like she has power over people. Ashley , you are a beautiful soul that deserves so much in this lifetime ❤️

  • @AG-kr1my
    @AG-kr1my Рік тому +2

    How undignified and cruel of this older woman to speak this way on TV about this man who has a wife and children left behind.

  • @angelareade3324
    @angelareade3324 Рік тому +6

    I can’t believe how strong she is! As so so beautiful. I wish her and her family a long peaceful life

  • @koriethegiraffe
    @koriethegiraffe Рік тому +7

    Man Ashlee is so nice. She's hurt but she isn't bitter.

  • @SF-pj6xv
    @SF-pj6xv Рік тому +5

    Ashley is wayyy more gorgeous then candy 😂

  • @memestress4627
    @memestress4627 Рік тому +4

    Boo Dr. Phil. Boo. You really showed your true colors here.

  • @tinasanders9722
    @tinasanders9722 Рік тому +5

    The mistress is a joke. At least take accountability for actions.

  • @aliciap8583
    @aliciap8583 2 роки тому +19

    When she goes on to describe how Ashley thinks of her and I'm just sitting here like, well if the shoe fits. 🙃☕🐸

  • @Naomi41904
    @Naomi41904 2 роки тому +11

    LMAO THE DEAD SILENCE WHEN SHE WALKED IN 😭

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 3 роки тому +46

    How did he die ??? Omg that woman doesn’t have an ounce of remorse

    • @kolbyg00
      @kolbyg00 3 роки тому +8

      One of the other clips said he was shot, I believe by Candy’s husband

    • @modikiramaisa4619
      @modikiramaisa4619 3 роки тому +8

      @@kolbyg00 thanks must’ve been the old lady’s husband or something

    • @colleenloney7808
      @colleenloney7808 3 роки тому +9

      Her husband who was a policemen shot the other man in a Walgreens parking. The mistress went to prison as well.

    • @eleanoraquitaine2966
      @eleanoraquitaine2966 3 роки тому +3

      Her husband killed him.

    • @user-xk4rl8bj2n
      @user-xk4rl8bj2n 3 роки тому +1

      @@kolbyg00 welp that’s what he gets for treating life as if it were a game I don’t feel bad for him 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @makeyda
    @makeyda Рік тому +4

    The mistress has zero remorse…

  • @lisamarie2607
    @lisamarie2607 3 роки тому +15

    Your behavior defines who you are.

  • @monsenoh9987
    @monsenoh9987 Рік тому +6

    The way Candy blamed he on everything makes me sick. No remorse, no nothing!

  • @JstvR706
    @JstvR706 3 роки тому +16

    I met her and her family back in 2014, Ashley was the sweetest!

  • @Blessrainable
    @Blessrainable Рік тому +3

    Oh Candy… she has absolutely no shame. It’s disgraceful.
    Complaining about being perceived as “inconsiderate”. I suppose embezzling over 30K from your employer, cheating on your husband, and completely wrecking a young family was a most considerate thing to do.

  • @MzAllDaWaiiLive
    @MzAllDaWaiiLive 3 роки тому +78

    I honestly love this beautiful woman so much, she's just a literal angel😇

  • @elora179
    @elora179 3 роки тому +68

    The husband was married. And he instigated the relationship. Women should blame the man they are married to.

    • @AkaiKnight
      @AkaiKnight 3 роки тому +10

      That doesn’t mean you should be an accomplice

    • @Viciousnessj
      @Viciousnessj 3 роки тому +14

      She was married too. He got killed by the mistresses husband. They were both wrong.

    • @juliancain3872
      @juliancain3872 3 роки тому +4

      @@Viciousnessj She's responsible for her own marriage he was responsible for his.

    • @lindataylor3834
      @lindataylor3834 3 роки тому +5

      I agree but the mistress is also guilty of adultery, just as the husband is.

    • @babyfarkmcgee-zax3785
      @babyfarkmcgee-zax3785 3 роки тому +5

      I didn't kill that guy, I just helped hide the body 🙄

  • @Chocobear555
    @Chocobear555 3 роки тому +10

    When Emmett kissed Kandi, her first thought should have been "What is he doing? He's my boss and he's a married man! I'm a married woman! What is wrong with him? How dare he do that?!" It shouldn't have been "I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy!" If she had been "sorry since day one," then she would have put a stop to things on the day he first kissed her. She wouldn't have given into him.
    And the fact that not one member of the audience applauded when she entered the room? That should tell her something about how they feel about her. The only person who isn't disgusted by her behavior is Kandi herself.
    I don't think Kandi is sorry. Her attitude says it all. So does that little head shake of her when she claims that she's been "sorry since day one." If she were sincere, she would have nodded her head. Shaking your head indicates that you're saying "no." I think she is a very selfish person who feels no remorse.

  • @waltertorres2969
    @waltertorres2969 3 роки тому +11

    Man look for cheap burgers when they have premium steak at home... I still dont know why it happens!

  • @lydiipop2038
    @lydiipop2038 3 роки тому +46

    But did Emmitt really “not deserve to die” 😂😂.. I’m not trying to be insensitive but he dug his own grave.

    • @LuShanna
      @LuShanna 2 роки тому +2

      I agree, while I don't think he deserved to die but what did he expect? Like this has happened in so many different circumstances for less and this man with 5 kids wanted an older woman? Seems to me like Emmitt got married and his wife got pregnant soon after and he decided that married life wasn't for him so he pursued an affair. And who is to say he wouldn't have divorced his wife if he didn't get murdered? 🤔

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 3 роки тому +13

    i love this woman, she is so very strong and such a fighter. gives woman a good name.

  • @Lucky-bk6pw
    @Lucky-bk6pw Рік тому +5

    Not the Mistress talking down about the wife.... You said it out loud very well! That’s what Candy is

  • @midwifeohyeah22
    @midwifeohyeah22 Рік тому +5

    Candy is awful. She takes zero responsibility for what happened.

  • @karmenska
    @karmenska 2 роки тому +50

    I feel a lot of empathy for Ashley and all the mental and physical struggle that she had. I hope she has a better life now. Kandi is guilty as well because she decided to be with a married man it was two person involved and as well the husband. Kandi has caused pain to Ashley as well.

  • @LiLiDaDon16
    @LiLiDaDon16 Рік тому +8

    That lady has no remorse… I think she got off to the fact she had a younger man and her husband fight for her. It all went to her head. She’s disgusting and I hope she gets whatever’s coming to her.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig2963 3 роки тому +63

    Sounds like she's trying to justify being with him by saying I am not worthy of him ,She is nuttier than a fruit cake !!!!

  • @teddyjam8134
    @teddyjam8134 3 роки тому +7

    Kandi has no morals. She also embezzled $32,000 from her employer.

  • @annielane1843
    @annielane1843 3 роки тому +5

    Seriously??? Her husband isn’t here today because YOUR husband murdered him !!!! 🤦‍♀️ ffs

  • @aliceepalermo5047
    @aliceepalermo5047 Рік тому +5

    Yes Kandi is a disgusting human but why would Dr Phil even make this show? Poor Ashley having to go through all of this again. She looks traumatised.

  • @ditavalerio615
    @ditavalerio615 3 роки тому +20

    Always look at the eyes ! The eyes never lie !

  • @santricemcpherson7809
    @santricemcpherson7809 3 роки тому +41

    Oh I saw this on dateline ... This was a mess

  • @jahidlm7910
    @jahidlm7910 3 роки тому +5

    That man doesnt have balls to divorce instead goes to cheating, how clever he can be.

  • @najajohnson1535
    @najajohnson1535 2 роки тому +8

    NOBODY CLAPPED FOR HER WHEN SHE WALKED OUT. I AM DEAD.

  • @Nunu-_985
    @Nunu-_985 3 роки тому +15

    The point is you have to take responsibility for your part in all of this too!

  • @NosyHausfrau
    @NosyHausfrau 3 роки тому +17

    “What do you wanna hear? You wanna hear me say sorry? I am.” Right out of the Crappiest Apology Ever handbook. Step 1 on giving the crappiest apology ever: You’re gonna wanna be angry and aggressive.

    • @shirleyl2146
      @shirleyl2146 2 роки тому +2

      right. Kandi sounds so condescending. Her tone sounds like she is blaming Ashlee not beeing able to let go.

    • @brittgray1324
      @brittgray1324 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah that was bad. She showed who she is by making that statement.

  • @anchoredminds5514
    @anchoredminds5514 3 роки тому +23

    Be mad at him more. She doesnt owe you loyality, your husband does

    • @barbarabreunis7788
      @barbarabreunis7788 3 роки тому +7

      You're right, but she can't blame a dead person that she loves

    • @MeghanBean
      @MeghanBean Рік тому

      I mean I think she owes girl code ha

  • @yellowish1966
    @yellowish1966 3 роки тому +47

    Ashlee is such a wonderful strong woman. ❤ I hope she will find someone that see the heart she have and make her and her childrens very very happy.💓

  • @dannyvazquez4822
    @dannyvazquez4822 3 роки тому +6

    Just shows you can have steak at home but sometimes you just want a hotdog

  • @carinagoodnight2774
    @carinagoodnight2774 Рік тому +7

    Wow- class act for “Dr” Phil tricking a widowed, grieving single mother to come face to face w her dead husbands mistress all in the name of ratings….Poor Ashley thought she was going to talk about her healing process and her new book. I’m sure nobody EVER told Candy Ashley was just “awful” to her husband 😂 She knew he was married and had 5 children yet she didn’t care for anyone about herself. She’s pathetic and I hope she carriers this guilt for ruining so many lives, for the rest of her life! Ashley is quite an amazing woman

    • @michellemorrowallen8505
      @michellemorrowallen8505 Рік тому

      He didn’t trick her! The wife lifted the restraining order she had against Kandi, so that they could do the show.

  • @sheilaroy5376
    @sheilaroy5376 3 роки тому +9

    After sometime,wife will feel she is better off without him.

  • @nicolageorge1433
    @nicolageorge1433 3 роки тому +9

    Ashley what a gorgeous lady so classy i hope your happy & are living a beautiful life.❤

    • @DG-mm6qe
      @DG-mm6qe 3 роки тому +3

      She actually remarried and has two more beautiful daughters.😍🥰

    • @nicolageorge1433
      @nicolageorge1433 3 роки тому +1

      @@DG-mm6qe Thanks for letting me know ❣ Such a beautiful lady sending you blessings from the UK.❤✌🏼

  • @keveedarts3693
    @keveedarts3693 2 роки тому +41

    It’s so sad that the wife seems to not blame her husband at all. If she honestly believes that it was her husbands first affair, she is delusional. It’s so obvious that he had been cheating for years

    • @crazyinnocentturtle
      @crazyinnocentturtle Рік тому

      She does but acknowledges he didnt deserve to die over it and her children didn't deserve to lose their father over it

    • @SummerDream222
      @SummerDream222 Рік тому +7

      She will probably be mourning what they had, and wishing she could have gotten an apology or some sort of closure.

    • @ursa8400
      @ursa8400 Рік тому +11

      I’m sure she realizes he is culpable, but he is dead. Candy is the only responsible party around. Put yourself in the wife’s shoes. It makes sense she would want to discuss and hopefully get some closure.

    • @tugboat2
      @tugboat2 Рік тому +5

      She blames her husband too but didn’t feel he had to die for his behavior.

  • @janicebailey6112
    @janicebailey6112 Рік тому +4

    The mistress husband KNEW of the affair, AND her husband knew. He packed his belongings and LEFT that day before hunting them down and killing Emmett. The mistress is evil...pure evil, spent time behind bars for embezzlement. But the WORST part, Dr. Phil and the production company brought the widow and mistress on the show under FALSE and malicious reasons and ratings. That make Dr.Phil. every bit as evil as the mistress.