Watch As A Dad Struggles With Meeting His Daughter As A Woman For The First Time
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- Опубліковано 16 чер 2016
- Gary says he was devastated when he found out that his son Zach is transgender and wants to transition to biologically become a woman. Gary, who has seen photos of Zach dressed as Steph but has never seen the son he raised in person as a woman.
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lol 2 days ago?
Wassup
Hi
hello
oh hey dr phil wassup how ya doin?
Newsflash: wearing a wig and makeup does not make you a woman.
Every father's worst fear.
you mean parents or any logical thinking human with basic knowledge of biology
Not the child dying?
@@roguetank3526 Yes...
It's not my father's worst fear, he's normal and not transmisogynistic!
@@lwakvra a father who dont fear that his child would cut healthy body parts to live a lie is bad father
meet his SON not daughter. just because someone lives in delusion doesnt mean we support it.
*daughter. Youre the only delulu one
@Jem.Studios If something happens to a transgender person, their DNA still shows their birth gender. If they pass away, their pelvic bone structure will also identify them as their birth gender. And just because you have taken hormones, had plastic surgery, have less or more appendages, dress differently, or want to change your pronouns, does NOT change your gender. It’s a facade that people now accept as a reality. But it isn’t. The identity of their body will remain their birth gender and no one will identify them as their "preferred pronouns". So who is it that you think is "delulu"?
@@Jem.Studios man, you cant put makeup on a gorilla and call it human.
@@cherylcannon1987and when we die in a few thousands or millions of year and the sun blows up none of the genders matter so what’s the point of complaining now? It isn’t effecting no one or hurting anyone you guys need to get it together and grow the f up.
@@Jem.Studios HE is a boy HE was born a boy HE is literally wearing make-up and a wig and that doesn't make him a girl
Imagine people clapping and cheering while a father is crying and sad😭. Who are these people 💔💔💔
It was funny Zach turned into Gary’s little princess
People encouraging and showing love to another person who lives even more pain than this father could ever imagine...
They just clapped not knowing what they re clapping.
I want to believe there were some sane people in the crowd who didn’t applaud but anyone who goes to these types of things surely isn’t.
The new world
The father looks like he could have a heart attack just from the shock.
He came back from the military and seeing his son like this who wouldnt get heart attack
Shii I would too
Imagine you had a son you love, care the most, and then you lost him forever because he saw some mentally ill/disabled person on the internet speak bs about their made out ideology and thought that it's something real that he should do. And now you can't get him back, he's lost in the abyss of retardation that the LgBtQ thing is.
@@biofilms22 ew
@@saintmay1952 ?
bro they just all clapping while the father just already hyperventilating
😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
@@rosiegarza2698 ah yes because men cannot have legitimate feelings right
hilarious
I’m your 1000th comment like
@@rosiegarza2698 care to elaborate with evidence?
He lost his Son and why these pathetic people are clapping? ? He just lost his Son.
He didn't lose anyone. He got a daughter.
Life’s to short to love it for someone else bud. You have to live your life your way
@@DainnGreywallStfu that’s nonsense
@@DainnGreywall which would mean he lost the son, duhhhhhhhhh
They are told to clap, and like snowflake sheep they do!
The father's reaction was real and understandable.
Father wants a real man for a son.
Yep
I’m killing my self after seeing this
transphobic
“Real man”💀
The reality is that people will support those types of decisions until it happens to their kids
Facts
That is true
That’s not “reality” at all. If you support transgender rights then you accept it for everyone. I’ve never met or heard of anyone, ANYWHERE who claimed to support trans rights but then disowned a family member who transitioned.
And where did you get that from??
@@m.w.2105 You can accept it while not wanting it to happen to those in your family
I'd be crying too. No normal man wants this for his son.
Daughter**
@@bullymaguire7693 shut up
@@bullymaguire7693Lmao its son
@@Chill_syr no its not lmao, don’t you see her long hair and dress? That’s a woman
@@bullymaguire7693 LMAO its a man
This young man was not always like this. This kid listened to the wrong people filling his head with garbage or simply wanted to be woke and totally shattered that poor fathers entire life. These clowns in the audience are mentally ill for clapping while that poor soul sat their with the soul literally leaving his body. How any kid could do this to their parents is beyond me,I pray this poor man has found some peace in what's left of his life.🙏
1:29 - Man put on all five stages of grief in one face.
Thousand yard stare
@@user-er2qx7ee2h that’s going a lot of far😂
@@user-er2qx7ee2h looking back at the time stamp you’re right😂
My respect for the father showing emotions 📈📈📈
@@yusranarais2677 he isnr
So I respect the father hurting his daughter, the reason why he’s showing emotions is bc he doesn’t like his daughter being a girl
Showing his emotions but at the same time desperately staying in control so he can talk. I've been like that
@@blackhole7909 transgender women are not women, that is a biological fact, this doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t be treated with respect, it just means that they are not a woman, I’m not willing to argue with someone who disagrees with science
@@blackhole7909 im pretty sure he had a Adam apple not so long ago
Can’t blame him for feeling how he feels. He raised a boy to be a man and feels like he’s failed. There’s no judgement there’s no discrimination , just pain.
I wish more comments explained like this how they understand instead of getting mad at one or the other. They are both hurt and grieving, and lucky for them they still have a relationship that cam be fixed, better than most
Yea it’s is discrimination and hate it’s sexism. If his daughter transitioned to a man he wouldn’t be nearly as upset. This idea that trans women have somehow “failed” by becoming women is an inherently sexist and patriarchal idea.
@@user-ql9hs5qv7ryou don’t know that he wouldn’t feel the same way if he had a trans son.
@@user-ql9hs5qv7roh shame on you, you piece of work, it would devastate him the same if not more, imagine raising your kid and they throw all their values just to feel "happy", and usually those trans people off themselves pretty quickly
@@user-ql9hs5qv7r its more of the fact that he thinks he has failed as a father for his child even wanting to transition regardless of gender
Meeting his “daughter” as a woman sounds so stupid
Meeting his SON as a daughter makes sense
This gives the implication that he wants his daughter to stay young.
Those tears in his eyes show he’s never going to look at his “son” the same ever again..
edit : thanks for the 170 likes, never got this much :D
Islam is again, proven to be right again mate.. lol
yea, insha'allah islam will reach everyones houses@@cinaDAP.zionistASIA
Agreed with your saying , giving you more likes 😂
Now you have 231! You gave a good comment!
*daughter
I am a father with 3 boys at home. This brought tears to my eyes.
It's not a easy situation to see your son wanting to be a girl.
@@OldDumbTeenCommentAccount . same brother.
Hope your boys not only become men, but also Strong Gentlemen
Its easy to raise boys, but it's difficult to raise men, good luck to you and your sons
Sorry but I have to be honest with you, you think you have 3 boys but in the future they will identify as girls
You can see the moment he switches from sadness to hiding the pain.
Yeah. Pain.
Make no Mistake and claim Dr.Phil 'uses peoples pain to get money': You miss the point if you dont understand theres more to say here ABOUT the 'Pain'. This Pain is caused by social-Issues. This is the same Pain a Conservative Mother feels when their Child is playing D&D, which we all KNOW is EVIL! The same Pain that Unhealthy-Trump-Supporters felt when Trump wasnt elected; some of them literally going on their Knees. This is the Pain of someone who got indoctrinated and groomed to think you 'Lost' your Child if its not exactly how you wanted it to be.
Yup, it's pain.
Idk what u mean
This is what *parents* do.
@@turabalikhan1341 None of that was in my mind. Just pointing out how parents will commonly do this when hurt by their children.
It’s like all your memories suddenly got erased and replaced.
Same as betrayal, it shatters you
This. That's that alot of people forget, imagine you being around someone for decades thinking you know them, believing it. Only for them to turn out to be trans, it really shattere you espcially if its your offspring.
And nothing against trans people either, I'm just saying how it is for those around you, espcially if you haven't let them know prior.
And their are people in the crowd cheering,clapping and encouraging him as he walks out … this one’s are the problem of the society
I can tell you as a father with personal experience, this hurts. It's like no pain I've ever felt before. It's like you've lost somebody you love.
I can only imagine
I'm genuinely sorry you have to live with that. I can't even imagine 😢
I feel so sorry for your child. You should be there for them no matter what.
Praying for you AND your family. 🙏
@@Sean-xy4hk no
This has no business being on TV. It's extraordinarily exploitative of this family.
Well it's dr.phil.This is nothing new
Welll it’s on national television so to late😂
HOW? HOW? HOW? People who want to come onto Dr. Phil show desperately want to come on the show. They are not forced to come on the show; they choose to.
Well, it IS Dr. Phil... nuff said..
THEY SIGNED UP AND WERE PAYED TO BE ON THIS IF IT IS EVEN REAL. Do I like the show myself, not really... but ppl please. They probably emailed the producers hundreds of times to get a chance to be on the show.
I wonder how the people offended by the father's reaction would react if their own father turned into a lady.
He's dead, but I wouldn't care. I wouldn't care even if my mother suddenly decided she wanted to be a man. They are my parents, for God's sake! If you prefer to completely cut your ties with someone just because (s)he switched sexes, it means you didn't love that person a lot to begin with. You loved the image you had about him/her.
@@evalaviniabucur1789 You cannot really know how you would react if it did not happened. That's like talking about how it feels to get into a car accident when you never got into a car accident.
@@murdechoc that's because you don't like my answer. If you wouldn't think that people who didn't face this problem can't really know how they would react, you'd have no reason to leave the comment you left (in which you wonder how the people offended by the father's reaction would react if their own father turned into a lady" :)
@@evalaviniabucur1789While I agree you can have an idea about how you may feel if something that’s never happened to you happened, and I agree that you say you wouldn’t care, that doesn’t make it right. This is so clearly about worship of the self. A 7 year old (as this man stated his age when he started hiding this fantasy) doesn’t know a whole lot about how the world works. You wouldn’t let a 7 year old make huge decisions in their life. If a 7 year old hid from his or her parents anything for an extended period of time, like this man did, they may think what their doing is ok because it’s being hidden and not addressed.
In regards to grown adults making decisions to become “transgender”, again, it’s worship of the self. With all tragedy, people sometimes don’t know how they feel so they find an escape whether it be drugs, music, being around people, or “transitioning”. The thing about escapism is that the problem will always be lingering until you address it.
Why do you think the suicide rates for people who transition are so high? It’s because they’re avoiding a problem which leads them to believe that death would be easier than confronting the dragon. In a sense it is. But the reward after is so much greater than they can imagine.
@@evalaviniabucur1789 My comment was "I wonder how" which means I don't know.
“You’re not a good looking girl, you’re a beautiful man.” 💔
What an amazing father, he really tried his best 😢
You can hear the pain in his voice. He knows he's not going to see his son again
@@YACHIHANNAH well yes obviously. Just not exactly the son he expected. The average parent would be disappointed
@@suborelseilltakeitpersonal8349 Facts! It amazes me how so many people invalidate the father's feelings and say "he's needs to accept it and get over it." Such entitlement!
@@ajaxjohnson7999 well clearly he can be upset, his emotions are valid because he lost a son but he needs to realise that his kid is so much happier living as she is now. she even said he didn’t do anything wrong, and i do hope that they have an okay relationship now. he lost a son, but didn’t lose a kid (unless he disowned her)
@@ajaxjohnson7999 how are people being entitled
@@eggchomp He*
I feel extremely bad for that father brought a tear to my eye when he was crying
I feel the same
Yes. It's hearbreaking.
Yeah but he’s gonna have to deal with it, if it was my child, I would love unconditionally
@@ripihy Unconditional love doesn't mean a parent should agree or celebrate every part of their child's life. Parent's also have children who abuse alcohol and drugs. Parents should accept what their child is and love them unconditionally, but the parents should also want their children to get help. Same with being transgender. People who are trans are much more likely to self harm and abuse substances to cope with their gender dysphoria. They should get the help they need to cope with it in a healthy manner.
@@ripihy his son is dead
Imagine working your whole life for your son, and then this happens, I feel so bad for him…
The son is still alive. I would want them to be happy
...............and then this happens??? Finally the 'son' is living life in a way that is happy for them.
@@GabiN64happy after what happend?!
bro literally not. it is all attention and indoctrination
@@GabiN64the son is dead. Where'd the son go? He's nowhere to be found
Putting aside the acceptance part, the father is rightfully so grieving for a child he no longer recognizes and has lost. He deserves every right to be upset and grieving. Empathy and compassion is not a 1-way street. Some people say parents should support and accept their kids; I'm here to say it goes both ways. Accept that it will take time for a parent to come to terms with what has happened -- it doesn't happen overnight.
absolutely this
You can't just accept what your dumbass son is doing to his life and just call it a day.
He has to be punished for his idiotic and unnecessary actions.
I'm glad we are taking the father's feelings into consideration. These are the people we forget
That literally makes no sense. If you can’t accept your child for who they are then you are the issue & deserve to be forgotten.
@@jeremyw.6946 Its not that easy buddy! ..its a tough thing to have to deal with..not all people think the same and that's not a bad thing. His father clearly loves him and is not a bad person. Hes not berating his son in anyway he just finds it tough to deal with cause this is something that he wasn't prepared for.
The father is crying, and the son has no reaction
@@jeremyw.6946 that mans son is playing dress up
They ask to be on the show dude
Father is hurting and the crowd is cheering on.
Both sides of the story should be acknowledged and validated.
Notice how 5 years ago it was the “new fashion” and now look where we are. These idiots don’t support anything besides virtue signaling.
@@amyyy3477 No
good
Bad audience
The fact these people are clapping says that this society is messed up BIG TIME!!
fr dawg
yeah, it’s so messed up to show support for folk going through a hard time by clapping. Shame on them.
@@croftmirethey're clapping for the delusional dumbass, not the father
I came to watch this after seeing it on Instagram and even though I ain't a father, I can feel this man's pain through the screen.
I felt it from Washington
@@JayTowers901 I felt it from Southeastern Europe
He’s not a good looking girl, he’s a beautiful man. Wise words from an outstanding father
Shut up, SHES a woman, nothing anyone can do about it, not you not me not even her own father
@@bullymaguire7693 I think the word you're looking for is mental. Lol, good joke tho
He is not beautiful....🖕🖕🖕
You hit the nail on the head.
Hes like i want my OLD SON BACK 😢
That’s the face of a man who just had his whole squad wiped out in Vietnam.
Lol
I didn’t find it funny although i felt that
Bro I shouldn’t be laughing but your comment me laugh too hard
@@EvidenceRoom979 I'm in tears rn 😂
@@EvidenceRoom979 ngl that gave me a good laugh
"..Why?"
*that is the deepest thing ever.*
the painful thing is that there is no "why" - there is only "how".
@@TheDZHEX*there is no how just what*
Bro is fighting the urge to get milk
I don't think he's a transphobic person. He's just heartbroken.
I agree I think he's just heartbroken too
Trans men are men
He's heartbroken because he's transphobic.
As a femboy I can feel that father :(
@@dodonodens8802 ? How's that any different lmao
I remember holding my son at birth, looking forward to all the things a father does with his son. My heart breaks for this man.
"Looking forward to all the things a father does with his son"
What a creep
@@hotmango5647 gr8 b8 m8
@@hotmango5647 anime pfp moment
@@DilMan1848 thanks bro
@@hvr. indeed
I wish we could go back when all of this didnt exist
Same😔
Unnecessary madness
This poor man is digging up every ounce of strength in his being not to fall apart.
I would have the same issue if my mentally ill son had butchered himself in such a way.
Yeah when your kid is mentally ill like that I'd fall apart too
So am I just watching this!!! 😢
4 minutes and 44 seconds of happiness in watching him suffer
Or have a wank
Why do people go on Dr. Phil for situations like this
@@Nios2216 yes, he is, but why so public? There are many other doctors who don't have public show on tv...
@@oldrooster7084 bc clout idfk lol
@@Nios2216 the only thing he say is “what are your feelings about this”
@@aiyaa9315 ok have u watched the other ones 😂
The money
The title should read: “Father Meets his Son Dressed as a Woman for the First Time”
Agreed
The description says that. Something tells me they changed the title.
Who came here from short
👇
😢
Me
Me
My mom always said it’s really sad when a grown man cry. Hope this father found peace!
I doubt he did!
He had every reason to cry. His son died
he lost his child
I hope the father found peace too. The son never disappeared, she just changed a bit. I hope she is doing well.
@@queenofcandy lmao "she is doing well""she just changed A BIT" wtf are you insane a bit ????? gtfo mate. he lost his world, you don't understand what does it mean to have a son has a father.
I really felt for the Father. This would be incredibly difficult for him too.
Honestly, if I was in his fathers shoes, I was would be in shock too. My son is my life and I will always consider himself “my boy.” If you take that away from me, it would take me time to adjust. Anger first then hopefully acceptance.
i could understand how that could be difficult 100%. and could take time to get used to. but as a parent you’re supposed to support your kid & their choices that bring them happiness. imagine hiding who you are as a person your entire life & then finally having the courage to be yourself and have everyone you love make you feel horrible for it.
@@ameliasiebertr ummm this should have never been televised. The father was obviously overstimulated. If this was behind closed doors, it could have had a better result.
@@ewjiml oh yeah i agree. definitely
“difficult for the father” what about the trans daughter??
Must be so hard for him to see his son. Dad's heart is completely broken.
Man i feel for this father. May god give him strength to overcome this. For me i would go crazy 😢
The father seems really heartbroken 💔
🤣😂🤣😂
I would be too
@@bychen5011 I wouldn’t
The real question is: who wouldn't be!
@@assadshewabakhtiar1110 true
I feel so bad for the father too. He looks heartbroken
well its always accept your kids no matter what until its his own kid hes just gonna have to accept it. i understand its new and shocking but hes clerly gonna have to get used to it.
Dont have kids if ur not going to accept them
i agree but this is the first time this man has seen his child as the opposite gender. it will be a shock and he was upset due to all of his dreams/hopes of seeing his “son” grow up to be a man and get married and do guy things w him. it’s a shock u have to look at both sides of this story.
@@smacklol5363 Exactly. It's important to look at both sides. Of course the daughter deserves to be accepted for who she is, and parents should accept their children. But parents are human too, and he was visibly very upset at first and that doesn't make him a bad person for his initial reaction
it's always fun to see confused people complaining about a sane man not accepting their delusions, the psychological pain may be real, but if you have pain, you go to the doctor, A REAL DOCTOR.
He just lost his child let him mourn omg
This trans nonsense has gotten out of hand!
FOR REAL MAN
Yes and a lot of lonely, mixed up people falling into the black hole , this Father is really this guy's uncle in that he & his wife took on his sister's baby at 2 days old , no mention of the mother or what happened to her ? This is deep stuff , is the young man trying to replace his real mother by becoming female?
@@rozdoyle8872might be one of the causes. Yet it's still unjustifiable behaviour that should be treated and cured.
If my son ever showed up like this it would shatter me. I understand this man’s pain very well.
usually i’d say “sounds like a you problem” but i know for a fact you’d make your hate your kids problem too.
I hate how you are homophobic
@@rickhammond2473the peak of insanity
@@babs_babs some things should and need to be hated and this is one of them
@@rickhammond2473
Said the reprobate
Try and understand what this must be like from the father’s perspective. You can preach all you want that he should be accepting of his child regardless, however he must’ve felt a sense of pride when he held his “son” as a baby. He probably had dreams of his “son” becoming a man, getting married etc. As a result of this change, that’s an entire reality he will no longer get to experience. That’s gotta hurt man. He’s not necessarily transphobic per say, he just feels he has failed as a father.
He did fail as a father.
@@MiguelDS5547 maybe you failed as a human
@@z0pzip I'm actually a trans-species, I identify as Pepe the Frog.
@@MiguelDS5547 wow so funny i forgot to laugh! no wonder you're a disappointment!
No. Hes dissapointed at his daughter happiness and right to be herself. End of argument.
If she indetifies as a woman you should just accept it and support her. But i guess it can be hard too as a parent. 😢 we all need acceptance. ❤
No. That is a man, and will always be a man.
@@olivercharles2930YES
I would not consider them a person or my child anymore
What’s wrong with you? That’s despicable to not consider someone your child because they became trans.
that’s too far
@@ventaliqnot far enough. Zack turned into Gary’s little princess
That means you were never a good parent to begin with 😅
@@NicholasFrancoeur-tt7ed Why do you hate others just for living there life?
To make a father cry it takes a lot... A LOT... I feel for this man.
True I feel for him to
But he still needs to accept his kid
@@colddaysnowdays no he doesn’t
@@darthasthma1283 yes he does. that's his kid
@@colddaysnowdays he does not have to share that child’s delusion and if that child is refusing help for a mental disorder then all he can do is turn his back
@@colddaysnowdays that’s attention seeking
What a kick in the gut for the father. Nobody wins in this picture, it's truly sad.
Except the child who’s finally happy now?
Are we really supposed to care about a father who completely invalidates his child’s feelings and emotions because he’s ignorant and selfish?
Yeah
@@alexanderb2193 Nothing like living a lie to be happy. Do a little research into this gay man and see how things are going.
@@alexanderb2193 and the child invalidates the father with their actions. I don't understand how the trans communities argue and expect respect of their opinions, however don't respect the opinions of elderly. These people were raised and taught almost their whole lives stuff like this is wrong. If you're taught something your whole life it's hard to break away from that or understand. He clearly doesn't see this as what the child wants to be he sees this as him losing his son and didn't do good enough. He's not even really transphobic he's blaming himself more than his kid
@@khravos exactly
America has fallen
Earth has
I feel bad for the father. I'm African and hopefully this evil habit among the people in the West doesn't become popular here. We put all of you in Prayers.
I feel so bad for the father I hope he is okay, he looked as if on the verge of having heart attack
He lost his son.
Im a father of a single loving boy. I love him to pluto and back... but if he ever comes to me and say hes transition to trans then im blowing my brains out infront of him and let him live with that and the decision that came with his consequences...... the pain that father feels.... its feels like having your flesh ripped off very very very slowly. Fathers worst nightmare
@@whosurdannyIt’s not your fault if he comes out as trans. You should just accept him
@@qksf1645 of course. Like a muppet
@@qksf1645 No
This poor Father. My heart breaks for him.
Why poor him? He’s transphobic.
@@SpiralTheFirst poor father
His son, that he held in his arms from the day he was born, suddenly comes in looking like a female. Don’t pretend like you’d be all excited and joyful seeing your own flesh and blood go through a whole gender reassignment process
@@Taygon094 being a woman and man is natural. Not being trans and all that other stuff.
@@SpiralTheFirst years of raising a child for them to change gender and unable to reproduce, ending the bloodline
Wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy
At this point, we need to distinguish if someone is a transvestite because that's real for them along with the rare few in existence - OR that this is driven by the ideology that has erupted within the last decade. He was 7 when this began for him. How old is he now? We could pinpoint time...and always come to find that it comes circling back to social media 99.8% of the time.
I feel sorry for the father 💔
@@opmab5941 dilate
Me too
@@opmab5941 why be rude?
Me too 😢
why ?? You’re intolerant if u feel sorry for the father. Nothing happend to him. He should accept what her daughter feels like and who she is
This in not the sort of thing I’d bring on national television.
why not? Because their is genuine emotion on both sides that appears to be more than just theatrical?
@@rainoffire24 IMO it’s too private a matter for TV.
@@stuff2047 I appreciate your sentiment, I know it's heartfelt. But they knew they were going to be on TV. And they may have even had their own reasons beyond being on TV. Why they wanted to be on Dr. Phil is their business and theirs alone
@@rainoffire24 no disagreement there, was simply stating my personal opinion.
@@rainoffire24 their pain is being exploited for the shock factor it brings. Its all about sensationalism
I’m a kid and I feel terrible.
never end up like them man, the gay dude
😢 poor kid
Same
And those idiots in the audience applauding. My heart goes out to that poor man...
This is a perfect example of the concept of "nobody wins"
the girl wins, it's HER life
@@oliviawutam Gender Dysphoria does not go away once physically changing appearance, it's something that's within the mind.
@@oliviawutam boy loses, it’s his life*
@@seanparkk19 he doesn't lose anything but gains his real identity and peace of mind. the uncle / father has no right over the 'boy' , the boy/girl should have been dressed better, but it's his/her right
@@oliviawutam there is no girl there
That is tragic. It's like he's lost his son. I cried with him.
G.D!! HE DID!!
yes but he gained a daughter
@@apasih6854 Dr. Phil sold out long ago, which means you'd be better off getting advice from some drunk guy at a bar.
@@apasih6854 with a mental illness.
@@apasih6854 I don't think you understand how he feels. Maybe if it was your own son you would.
This is absolutely heartbreaking, that father won't ever see his boy again, I understand his feelings and feel horrible for him, he feels he lost a child
🫡 You Are a Good father but he failed being your son 😔
i feel so bad for the father and it’s good to know people are on his side here because they should be.
There shouldn’t be sides. These are both humans and they both deserve love bd respect.
Not those who encourage certain lifestyles through outright propaganda. That may not be relevant to this case but it often is.
*Alhamdulillah* for *Islam*
@@Matt-nr3bhHis son deserves love yes, and his father loves him, that's why his father wants him to realize that he's not a girl, he's a confused man in need of help.
I understand his emotions as well but he should try to accept his daughter 🤷 I sure it take time
You know what else is heartbreaking besides seeing your mother cry ? Also seeing your father cry
and it's even worse.
it's even harder, the strength of the family crumbling infront of you
His 'son' seemed to be very cold and emotionless even when seeing his father crying.
@@waldemarsilas6675 Thats what happens when you cut off your junk. All the emotions go with it
@@waldemarsilas6675 of course he is. he is literally watching her father cry because shes being herself
Boy: im a girl
Girl: im a boy...
Crazy..
Well it definitely wasn’t anger, he’s just hurt. Sad that you weren’t happy with who you born to be. But it’s also okay to be who you want to be.
Im tired of this world, god save us all
True that
Me too, man... me too.
Jesus will take us out of the evil and crazy world❤️🙏
Same
Speaking facts. WHAT HAS THIS WORLD BECOME. 😭 I HOPE LGBTQ COMMUNITY QUITS
“To biologically become a woman.”
That’s biologically impossible.
Embarrassing
💯
The problem is that the people at first the young folks don’t even realize what consequences what decisions and also which solutions or results will occur. And it’s gettimg trendy So no it’s not really OK it’s OK that people can do it but it’s not OK that we have a massive trend in it because if we’re trending on it what will happen in 20 years?
If identity begins in the brain, and the brain is a part of our biology, which it is, then since it's a part of our body, I'm thinking that trans people are biologically the gender they transition to.
Facts
My heart breaks for the poor father. The son is completely disrespectful 😢😢😢
she said her father has done nothing wrong why is it so hard to except the way your child feels , he’s just upset because he was raised to discriminate against Trans people because there a extreme minority partially because being trans has been unexceptible in in modern historical society ,back in the day being left handed was unexceptible but now that it is the minority has risen from 2% to 10% in 200yearz just for example
@@Sillyunicorn0Seek help creepo
You clearly do not know how hard it is to experience and to deal with gender dysphoria, what's the point of understanding the father's feelings and feeling sorry for him, if you completely ignore and despise the daughter's feelings? It's not her fault.
@@Sillyunicorn0 Because it is based on complete nonsense. That is a man pretending to be a woman.
"gender dysphoria" is a made up condition as ridiculous as hysteria. @@wkhmelt
…………….come on. Clapping while this father is in pain. Go home people
I'm sorry, this might sound wrong. But I feel like they shouldn't have done this in Dr. Phil. This is a conversation that should take place at home between the two of them. Not on national TV Infront of millions of people
Totally agree with you
Typical dr Phil moment...
This issue is common in America. That is why many people wanted to bring such conversation to national TV. There are better way to do it but this needed to be addressed. The parents or loved one effected by others person transitioning need to be brought to public attention which media will not show only the story of the one who transitioned.
They both agreed to this.
I feel like if it was just the two of them in a room the father would walk out, but not the son 💀
The “Why” is so painful omg...got me cutting onions here.
Ikr 🥺
He should accept her. I’m sure she has been through enough
@@aku69157 *him
@@aku69157 it’s a he, and the father doesn’t need to accept him.
@@aku69157 just understand what he's going through he literally lost his son, he became a completely different person
There is a proverb in the Bible：Body, hair, and skin are influenced by parents. If you want to be transsexual, first consider whether it is a psychological problem. Whether it can be changed through psychotherapy, I think normal people should not have the idea of transsexuality. If they really can't get rid of it, they should at least discuss it with their families. Otherwise, isn't it a little selfish? Some people say that people have lived as long as they want, but your family has lived as long as they want. You have no regrets about your parents raising you so much. Have you ever thought that your father may regret it all his life? If you think everything doesn't matter, then strangers wish you happiness.
Imagine a psychologist telling you this, wow.
This is idiocracy
It's like the little boy you had adventures with died. So when you look at the images of the past with your little boy....you cannot relate and he died. I feel this father
They're still the same person though?
They can still be related to because they're your child.
@@cassier8414 it is not the same, its like looking at family pictures with yor ex who cheated on you but worse
@@gameforce7791 how is it worse there still his kid she hasn't changed a bit she's still the same person you make your horrible by being that why my mother is still the same was in denial because I'm male instead of being a girl like she's prefers I'd be but oh well if people choose to make it hurt that that's them nothing changes but looks the heart stays the same
@@depressivschwul2377 he*
@@lotsaspaghettimamaluigi she not he she grow tf up and stop being childish
The father can feel how he wants to feel, he raised a beautiful son and that got taken away from him. His feelings are valid.
His feelings most likely come from him being taught to see trans people as unnatural or evil in some way. It’s still his child no matter what, once the person is grown up you can’t be there to tell them what to do, you have to be there for them and not reject them.
@@UnknownArchive yeah coz humans are all about nature now
@@Coolhalo I mean if switching genders were natural you'd see other animals doing that
@@Coolhalo not a matter of rejection; it is LOSS in it's greatest sense. The loss of humanity having been replaced with confusion/delusion and a complete break of reality.
@@Coolhaloa child who is good for nothing
For all the fathers feeling some sort of disappointment if this was ever to happen to one of your sons. Now the question is how will you move forward once the initial pain subsides, will you be there for your child and defend them from all the people that will allow anger and fear to direct them? Will you continue being their guardian Angel? They will need your love and support now, more than ever as they encounter new challenges from hate filled individuals.
Nah, they can fend for themselves.
@@olivercharles2930I hope you don't have children, because statistically, they would be most likely to be part of the LGBTQ+ community
If I was his father, (and even as his mother), I would NOT! He chose that life so GO live it! Get his support from those who encouraged him to go that route! MY son is gone...let me grieve...and move on!
@ladyyuni218 I fear for your child(ren)'s well being, because statistically, they literally are the most likely ones to discover themselves as LGBTQ+ in the future. And they'll have to do that without a decent parent to support them in expressing themselves. I hope you like retirement homes
I would support my child no matter what. I'd rather have an alive child than a dead one.
The correct title is "His SON"
Poor man, he is clearly heartbroken.
I TO WOULD BE HEART BROKEN .
@@dawn-fp3zw so basically what your saying is the father is not allowed to be heartbroken who are u to say that u are not that persons father so he cant have his own opinions your a joke
@jjtolsk shes a woman m8, if u cant handle that fact then go cry abt it lol
@jjtolsk sorry you're stuck in that false reality 🤷♂️
@jjtolsk you seem angry, i suggest a breathing exercise.
He’s grieving for the son he’s lost. Doesn’t means he’s homophonic, he just lost a son & is processing that. I think the emotional turmoil of the parents are sometimes overlooked & it’s all about the individual coming out. It’s a big deal.
He was never a man.
*I think you meant to say doesn't mean he's transphobic*
@@bail997 that comment is just delusional. He was a man. She is a transgender woman now.
He never lost anyone. His kid is still very much there. He can still have all the exact same experiences with his kid as he could have before.
What do you have against homophones?
I can feel papa😢
Imagine growning up all your life wanted a son of your own just for you to get to that point and their just like nah I don’t wanna be a man anymore
I was actually expecting a lotta jokes and memes here bruh, but it's genuinely my first time seeing a comment section really serious about the topic
I was thinking the same
Why do their suicide rates go up POST operation?
@@jkeezy93 all the surgeries in the world won’t fix what’s broken inside
If my grandmother had wheels she would've been a bike
@@daniels876 don't talk about the Mac n cheese like that
This is so wrong. That's a private family matter. They both deserve support and understanding. Both sides are hurting and scared and confused.
They chose to do it on Dr Phil tho.....
Ed don't you think this could really help people in the future going through the same thing. And do you forget that they both signed up for this? I think it's good for erybody to see this. This shii is happening in real life eryday.
Steph real name zack was married to my cousin Rebecca and hurt her bad from all of this
Exactly ya they didn't have to go on Dr Phil if they didn't want to but that's on them fr fr
And Dr.Phil is not a doctor.
The father knows he has to let his son go and that is his pain. I don't care what this society says, everyone doesn't have to accept this nonsense. You can feel the way you feel but people have a right to not agree. That doesn't make them a bad person. I know as a Father, I couldn't take it if one of my sons presented himself like that. I would let him go. I am not sitting at family dinner with my son dressed or acting as a woman. Not going to happen.
You can truly see the heartbreak through the man’s eyes.
As the elder and first son of my family, I would never make my father feel like he failed to raise me.
I am not a parent yet but I think this would be extremely difficult.
agreed, but you don't own a child
@@oliviawutam that’s why they said “I am not a parent.” Tf
@@oliviawutam you can be 1000% dissapointed for sure!!
Very difficult and insane mate
Don't become a parent. Recently it's like playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded @un
It’s hit hard when he said “I’m hurt bad...really bad” 💔
😂😂😂😂😂 he’s only pretending so he can make his daughter feel bad and go back to a man
@@pepperghost3477 😂😂
@@pepperghost3477 هههههههههههههههههههههه
مسكين يعني ربى ولد و بالاخير طلع بنت…
@@blackhole7909 dude, just look how his son looks, it’s weird and unacceptable😂
How sad, I’m so sorry for this father to have to face this disgrace
No father should ever go through something like that