A woman with no friends ( A must-watch if you're a woman with no friends)
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if youre a woman with no friends please watch this because your are not alone! if you have come across this video you were meant to see it and this is a place where women with no friends or just in different phases can feel part of a community here and not alone lets call it nana's circle for now :)
As women we are usually labelled toxic and bad people if we have no friends! so as a woman with no friends i want to explain why this maybe and its not just as linear and black and white. I think we need to normalize this topic and understand there are many different variables to why a woman may have no friends and the dynamics in women friendships are very unique.
women please comment and feel free to share you're experience with no friends as a woman so other women can feel part of a community and not alone.
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I am 52, and i have No Friends! I feel Always different from Other Women...M'y interests are different, m'y way of thinking Life can Not fit with the establisched Norm! Thats why i cant find Friends or Partner! ITS OK😊 i learned to Accept It and to become m'y best friend ❤
I love this topic verry much!!
But the problem is that how the most people adress it get them in trouble.
We can use the word Friend because Friend is just wath it is friend and always good friend.
The fake friends are wath nobody wants.
Is very toxit to say the word Friend of family to describe this problem with the fake relationship with fake friends and family.
They do not do wath a good friend or family will do because good family and good friend are mature humanbeen on Earth.
Please let we adress it good and give the one that do it right respect.
We are not against good family and good friends and Esther against fake ones.
Only we do not have them as fake friend and family anymore.
I love the topic but not like it is.
We want to be able to share or truth but not ofending the real ones.
Everyone loves good friends and good family.
I still loves it.
Yes also I still need it.
But I will not want it anymore fake.then is okay to not have it.
And it was for me a proces to know what is a good friend and process it if I am a good friend and family.
Sometimes we want things that we self do not provide others.
I did my yourney and learn a lot.
I am a introvert/ extravert and I am curettage of dreaning energy.
We must balance or self and not being one but both when we must be it.
Because when you are only good in one you will be drained not only for this problem but for more then these.
If you have the good tools to be a extravert you will be it easy. I love both side of my life and enjoy both.
I feel with both that I am complete and not broken.
It was a long yourney but a successful.
Thank you for bring this topic openly ❤❤
Why do women wear makeup,they are very insecure and many are so jealous . Unfortunately narcissism is rife in today's society. Men have the same problems but it's a lesser one.
I can relate nana, and i agree to what you've said i am more productive when i'm alone at home, i have a lot of things done when i am home alone. I am happy and at peace.😊😊😊
I am 57 yrs of age. Being different is normal, because people in the whole universe different in a lot of ways especially in character. As long as we as individual never hurt someone its ok i guess🎉
If you’re watching this without friends. Give a 👍 ups.
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The irony is is that all the people that would make great friends are probably staying at home
Yes. This is probably true! Great insight!
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Am actually at home 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol, so true.❤
Yes. That’s right.
Being alone is better than having fake friends
That part ❤
Yes i agree with your words
I have seen true love or true friendship only in movies and books 😢😅
Yup i block anyone toxic for the sake of me. I am number one in my life
… but not as good as having great friends
Exactly. The ones that are fake friends stalk you forever also 😮
Having 'friends' is mentally so exhausting. It feels like most of the time you have to be a psychologist and when you have a problem no one really cares...
Exactly!!
And then there’s having the requirement to bend for people who have low emotional intelligence, that are incapable of(whether intentionally or conditioned to be) even comprehending certain concepts of mature relationships and lack the ability to reciprocate.
I’m sorry but I can’t seem to be able to meet people where they are all the time. If they’re not working on learning to be a better person every day and always blaming their problems on everybody else then I don’t want their company.
thisssss
So on spot,been used for yrs🥲Gossip,drama and backstabbing
It depends...of how You set Your boundaries. There is difference between friend and psychologist. Once my friend told me I am her psychologist. i said I'm not and I'm not gonna be. I had my own issues and therapy. She couldn't move forward or seek help for herself. Even tho I showed her where she can look for it, so I had to let her go. Friendship should go both ways. You shouldn't feel like You are doing all the work and other person is not.
This is too real
I noticed ppl with alot of friends are usually fake with eachother.
Yeah if I see people air kissing and practically shouting "How lovely to see you" I immediately wonder what they say behind each others back.
THAT is the TRUTH. IV seen so much of that it made me not want to have friends . It seems like a waste to me .
💯. I have this one “friend” who is friends with everyone at work but will also gossip and throw them under the bus any chance she gets. Me included.
@@neasahayes6044 me too
By fake you mean polite mb?
Having friends is exhausting. Most friends are either taking your genuine kindness for weakness or envying you as if we’re in a competition.
So so true!
So on Point i have this experience...very Bad.
I experience this friend trying to bully me
This
Are they want to talk more about their issues and only call when it’s their issues I’ve had enough of selfish people not for. Me I’m good
It´s no coincidence that all us friendless women are highly intelligent, self aware and sensitive introverts with a lot of empathy that want a deeper connection with other women. If we have the choice between hanging out with someone who we cannot have an interesting conversation with and feel like we only talk about personal issues and the issues of other people, we choose to be alone and not let them drain our energy.
This is exactly how I feel. I think it is a personality trait. (Infj)? People misunderstand me or I see through they bullshit.and distance myself . Animals on the other hand are comfortable with me and I with them. Love being alone.
@@gem246 This is exactly how I feel and I am an INFJ too.
You said this perfectly!!!!
@@Judy-dq6kl I thought something was wrong with me because of what people around me were saying. I felt that I could read their true feelings and that they knew I knew . finally I discovered personality traits and it all became clear.
Yes...agreed. I am too old to sit around with other women who are too old to critique, compete, and compare towards other fellow women... drawing WRONG conclusions as they are awaiting the downfall of another woman's life based off their own insecurities. Indeed, this has been my experience from none other than "friends" and female co-workers upset simply because of how I look and dress for work or not oversharing about my life outside work compared to most in the office. I'm just not interested.
being lonely sucks but being around the wrong people sucks even more
Absolutely!!
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So true
Omg yesss
Yes
Women with no friends are the best women to be friends with and are generally awesome.
We protect over energy is all. Yet deep, kind, funny, caring. We stay away from people that drain and misuse and manipulate our energy.🎉
“A women with no friends best women to be friends with” That comment don’t make any sense.
@@creativechristiancontent then you aren’t the intended audience for the comment.. move along
@@creativechristiancontent it makes perfect sense in the same way "I would never be part of a club that would have me as a member" makes sense. She chooses her company carefully if you get chosen she will be a great friend
@@creativechristiancontent often they are not needy, manipulative, or gossip prone. So, if they do allow you into their lives, it's a privilege.
We tell women not to settle for shit partners but we don't talk about settling for shit friends
Yes choosing and selecting high quality friends I think as a big effect of your life :)
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@@thenanajourneyHow You Can Have Eternal Life ! Realize you are a sinner being sorry. Sin is lying, evil thoughts, lust,etc. Therefore, do not trust in your own works to go to heaven because you realize, being a sinner, you cannot offer the perfect blood sacrifice that God requires to pay for sin. Instead, believe, meaning fully trust, that in Christ's love for you, on the cross, His one perfect blood sacrifice, when Christ bled, suffered and died, in your place, paid for your sins in full, past, present and future ! Believe that Jesus rose from the dead ! Believe Jesus is God Almighty, God the Son, alive for evermore ! And believe that the sinless blood of Jesus Christ is what cleanses you from all sin, which purifies your soul ! Then the Lord Jesus will forgive you,save you from hell and give you eternal life ! And you will be sealed with the Holy Spirit who will dwell within you forever! And thank Jesus ! Rom.3:25,5:8,9,10:9, Is.53:5,6, II Cor.5:21, Ephes.1:7,13,4:30, Heb.10:14,38,39, I John 1:7, 5:7,13,20
Amen
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Women who are ok with being alone are not the toxic ones. Keep in mind that narcissists can't stand being alone. Being comfortable in your own company is not a red flag at all.
Fantastic point!
Thank you, exactly! I prefer to be alone besides spending time with my loved ones.
I think it’s nice to have validation that we have these fine qualities that don’t lend themselves to being one of the girls. When I was younger, I had a strong personality friend who was that narcissistic type and needed freedom from that. I am exactly mirroring what you’re saying! But I am just rebellious enough that I don’t want to be their yes man, let them go on and on talking about this and that. It seems there is not a lot of between type personalities. There would be no “me”. I associate having friends to being younger and letting a stronger type set the pace. Thanks and have a beautiful day!
Agree but keep in mind that Covert Narcissists are actually introverts :)
💞 Absolutely, love & strength to you.
Just turned 60 and I have been a woman with no friends. When I tell people this, it shocks them. People tell me I'm wise, very caring, and easy to talk to. God speaks to me in my aloneness. He guides me. He hears my heart, and I'm 100% safe with him. My social media exposure is minimal. My peace of mind is priceless. Nobody and nothing is worth trading it for. ❤
Going on 62, have no friends and haven't for the last 8 or so years. Feel a peace that I've never known before. Jesus is my best friend, Holy Spirit is my guide, and my Holy Father in Heaven hears me always, so I feel safe and secure. Have always been a loner. Never lonely. My husband, cat and I live a very simple life out in the country, minding our own business and always willing to give a helping hand to anyone that genuinely needs it. Peace on Christ and love to all here. 💜 🙏 🐱
I love your comments @janet9591 ❤
Amen
All of this … I’m 53, an empty nester and it’s the most amazing peace I’ve ever experienced. I also talk to and hear from God a lot. 🙏🏾♥️
I just turned 60 too, and I only have one friend. She's a phone friend, though, because she lives in another state. We have a great phone friendship though. 😂
Looks like we're all friends in the comment section 😂😅 just at a distance!
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😂 exactly
Right lol
Okurrr ❤
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Im a woman-47. I have had female friends but
I don’t have friends now because I’m tired of being there for people and nobody being here for me. It seems like everyone is just so fucked up with their own problems that they cannot properly be a good friend
I can be here for myself. And it feels lighter.
Same thing here!
Exactly!
I agree with this!
The same with me .
This!
Nobody talks about being an ex people pleaser. The moment i started to value myself more and put my needs first, i found myself without my boyfriend, friends, and family. Now im used to being alone.
same as me and I realized that they were allways for me not for me just for SOMETHING ....now i`m good allone ...
Me too.
Yes, when you stop giving they don't find time for you, I let them go for good after this sign
I get that. I've been a bit of a people pleaser as i didn't know who I was, didn't know what I wanted etc so just went with flow. No im getting to know who I am! I'm a one on one person too and introverted. I need time alone and I'm hsp.
I have this to like im still an emphatic but i cut alot people. And with new people i saw old patterns thats why it dont stand long. Now i try to embrace loneliness we all die one day
I am a woman with no friends. I live peacefully and stress free.
Friends are draining. Family is also draining. I'm tired of the competition and selfish people around me. NO NO NO..... I love me
Heavy on Family 🥹
Thanks for voicing this ❤
Honestly speaking, family aspect, is what I'm dealing with right now and its draining 😭😭😭😭
I have to clean everyone's mess, but no one is ready to lift a finger to do anything for me 😭😭
Same here, I have no friends and that's okay
@@estyonyi8153..😢😢
I actually thrive without friendships.
Im a complete loner, and it's very relaxing to me.
Ikr
Just came to this realization last year. I've never known such peace❤
This! Wish to have just one tho! Just one ☝🏾
Exactly!!! Lover here and not bothered by it. Enjoy PEACE!
Most people at some point are going to disturb your peace. My peace is much more important than friends. My life is still very full without them
Better to have no friends that to have fake friends who talk about you behind you back and secretly despise you.
Agree 100% had what I thought was a 50 year friendship only for this person to use their boyfriend to publicly humiliate then walked off feeling justified of his action towards me. Still coming to terms with that scenario, furthermore, been told by some other so called friend I've known near on 30 plus years, "I only invited people to dine with me I regard as family and close friends". I thought I was close considering I looked after her children when they were young and got a good report from the adult children. So now I keep myself to myself as seen fit (I'm OK)
Absolutely!....
@@neemab1370they are trying to put you down to build themselves up sounds like they are intimidated by you and awful people
Your comment needs to be a bathroom poster so we can be reminded every day!
Absolutely this!
Soooo many so called friends secretly don’t even like each other; they just don’t want to risk being alone.
I think sometimes, they don't know how to be alone, including what a wonderful time it can be. Solitude can be beautiful!
Yes. I agree. So many people treat others as ‘supply’
Being alone feels lonely to these people.
A healthy person is okay being on their own.
Very true.
Better alone than in bad company 🙏❤
So True!
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better to be healthy and alone than sick with someone else
@@yvett3048 Amen !! 🙏💖
Amen
People are exhausting and insecure. No thanks.
And I wanna thank you!!❤❤
@@angelacrowe5575 not all people. But you know what I mean 😆
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I know right. Diddo.
A woman with no friends is a real one
Facts ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow that is powerful! ❤
I will say it so.
A humanbeen with no fake family and friends has understands what Good is and not.
What is not is fake!!
I still loves Good family and Friends because is good to have them.
I agree with you. I know I'm a real one that people don't appreciate.
Say it again girl!!! 💪🏽
I'm getting a little emotional listening to you and reading the comments because I thought I was a rare breed as a woman with no friends and completely relate. I just wish that I had learned to embrace it years ago instead of thinking "why don't I have a group of girlfriends, what's wrong with me?" So thank you for being brave, confident and self aware enough to tell your story and be a support to those of us in the same community I hear you and now I truly know that I'm not alone. Much respect!
Same here, always thought something was wrong too but it’s not at all
I agree. I don't have many friends because they become more of a liability and drama rather than people that uplift me.
Sometimes I'm content without friends. Sometimes I feel really alone. Sometimes I then remember why it's better to be alone.
EXACTLY!! Thank you! I don't have any friends and have always been that way. Yes there are time's when I get lonely. Especially if I need to talk to someone that isn't family. That isn't the norm for me though. The vast majority of the time I'm perfectly fine being by myself.
Same
Pray for Devine friendships; God will answer! ❤❤❤❤
@sheilaedwards7866 -- Stop pushing your religion on people. You're under so many comments and it's uncomfortable for you to be shaming women in this group that we are not complete without your male diety. Maybe this is why you have no friends...or maybe you're just here hustling. 🙄
Hey girl, I see you like taking kids to creeks. I like taking kids to creeks too. Ha! Sounds so creepy. But I'm being so fr. Hey Best Friend! I'm in Illinois. Lol
I was backstabbed by so many at a younger age that I never wanted to experience that pain, again. I'm not lonely I'm at peace ❤
Same!
Same here including backstabbish relatives.
Same here, exactly
Very blindsided by it too
Ditto!
My experience has been that people start seeing me as a free therapist and then I don’t want to see them again so…
I can relate . They dump all of their emotional issues/problems on you, then when you need a friend to open up to they are not available or they tend to not be emotionally present. It’s like talking to a wall. That has been my issue with “ friends “
I've had the same experience.
@@ShareeMonique Exactly.
Same but if you want to share something they are no where to be seen.
They want to help me spend my money so I let them go.
I have no friends. Many acquaintances but zero friends. I love my private life!!
I desperately tried having friends for years. I was always insulted in subtle ways , detected competing attitudes, jealousy, and an overall sense that the nature of the relationship wasn’t sincere! I’m a loner now for many year and I love my company. I am at peace. PEACE IS VITAL FOR ONES HAPPINESS. ☮️
Omg yesss. Great comment. I will be your friend ❤
Same!!
Totally agree with everything you said
Uff, same here.. recently I had a "friend" well coworker who seem to be interested in friendship until I realized like in the second or 3rd going that she was just trying to get information from me regarding something that is not even truth. She was wrong and nothing else to get from me so she pulled Away. So no new friend for me 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I completely agree! ❤
I will be 60 next month. I have been alone for 13 years...wouldn't trade my peace for NOTHING!
I am approaching 50 and it gets even harder to be friends with women who aren’t insecure or toxic or immature. It’s too stressful and unstable to pursue. But I do miss talking to a woman can I confide in that has my best interests at heart
Thank you for sharing! I let two 7 year friendships dissipate four years ago, and I agree!
I agree... but sometimes I'd like a friend... that was also an intimate partner... or possibly 2.
I'm 58 and I've been alone for 13 years..
Same.
I am a woman who is 50 years old and has never had friends only associates. It has kept me in peace, in good standings with everyone and out of childish mess❤❤❤
That’s 1 of the points I made to myself when I was feeling lonely yesterday..that at least I have peace.
So true yess
So true😊
You avoid so many issues like having to stand up to pple who wants to bully u
I concur!🌼
Women with no friends live longer and happier lives. It means peace and happiness with yourself.
Not having friends is helping me be a good friend to myself.❤
Well said
Excellent point
Upon your deathbed if you can say you had 3 good friends in your lifetime count yourself BLESSED!!
Well said
I very much agree!
And that’s including your mom and dad and/or your husband/wife.. Seriously!!!!
Exactly 💯
Me, myself and I = 3 😁
"With friends like these, who needs enemies?" Words to live by.
My parents always told me, you are blessed if you can find a handful of real friends in your lifetime.
A handful is A LOT.
People calling others "toxic" for having no friends - these are the truly toxic ones. Judging others in general is a HUGE red flag.
I mean prudence is a virtue but yes, judging people for circumstances that they have no context on is bad, as it's not an indicator of character for someone to have no friends. At most, the only thing that can be said about those of us with no friends is that we can probably use a hand with tasks that require more than one person. That's about it
I have few friend...The people that I am friends with I have known for many YEARS for the most part. I don't get to go out as much as I would like, but I treasure being with them and just having someone that you can bounce ideas off of... TRUE FRIEND is a TREASURE. I think sometimes the soul searching IS needed. I have done that, and I think I wasn't as selective in finding good friends before, but I know that I am a better friend and I pick a friend very carefully. I have a very small circle...but now I am COMFORTABLE with myself, even on the days when I self isolate.
Thank you.
That’s just straight up gaslighting when they do that lol
I can tell and see a narcissist and a toxic person. Most people don't think or feel from their heart and need major healing.
Something I noticed: it’s mostly well spoken, calm and collected persons who struggle with friendships and relationships nowadays. As if they’re hiding in this super-loud, narcissistic world, full of fake people.
I couldn't have stated this better myself!
@@maruskaehrensdorfer And you took the exact words right out of my mouth❗🎉😁
True!
I don’t have real friends.
Yes, well said
The well spoken part can def be a thing ppl don't like. I think to be well spoken, you have to pick a stance and support it well, and I find a lot of ppl in modern Americans culture don't respect you if your stance is too strong or if you don't have the same stance as them. They also don't like when you live according to your beliefs and truths. Ppl find it rigid or exclusive. They want u to be more wishy washy. Although this is how u achieve the peace and makes u calm and collected
I'm 70-year-old woman. I live in my minivan and have no friends. I'm a loner. I'm very happy and free.
Glad to know that you're happy. That's all that matters. ❤
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Am also just turned 70 to with no friends...love my own company
@@MonicaHernandez-yn8ct same with me
Bless you Monica. May I suggest that you spend sometime reading Quran out of curiosity about life, human psyche and the creator.. ❤
I just turned 60 yrs old and I'm happy to know that I'm not alone.
Same here I am happy that you are happy :)
I always have said that “friends” are a liability. True friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand
I knew someone who believed exactly this too.
We never got very close (that’s how I roll), but would go out and about to places that interested us and that arrangement suited us both.
She started getting very close to another person that worked in the same building and, on the surface, it looked like they had become best friends - so much so, that she got a fairly large tattoo on her forearm that said “Friends are not a liability”, to remind herself that she really could trust people after all, and it was okay to show vulnerability.
She’d had quite a traumatic childhood and trusting people was a major issue for her.
They went everywhere together - bestie had lost her drivers license and still had a year or so before it was reinstated. She also got quite close with friends of new bestie.
A few months went by and she had started to become quite ill. She was always exhausted and the weight was dropping off her. This eventually led to a diagnosis of stage 4 bowel cancer at the age of 41.
She went through an awful, extremely invasive surgery and multiple rounds of chemotherapy, which, in the end were purely palliative.
Meanwhile bestie had got her license back. She (and her mates) were no where to be seen.
She died a few months later.
None of them attended her funeral.
I sat there crying, looking at her coffin and thinking about that tattoo on her arm and the “friends” that couldn’t be bothered to be there for her (and her family), even now.
She was right all along.
Friends are a liability.
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I can’t count friends on any fingers. Zero friends.
💯I can count my true friend on ONE finger….literally. She moved to Georgia for work and I miss her to death. Her job keeps her so busy between work and travel, and although I miss her soooooo much I’m soooo proud of her at the same time. She’s fallen so many times in life and now things are finally looking up for her. Although, she doesn’t have the time to talk to me as much, she makes it a point to at least talk to me twice a week…..even if it’s for only a few minutes. I miss her but I understand that that’s something she has to do for herself and her family ……wouldn’t trade her for anything or ANYONE. She’s my first true friend and I’m not even looking for another friends. I don’t do well with people of this new age world….I don’t like mess, having girl talk these days is conversations that engaging talking about others, stirring mess and such and I refuse to converse or engage in those types of conversations. Outside of that one true friend that I have, I am soooo peaceful being alone. Even with my family (outside of my husband and children), my interactions and conversations are short.
What’s interesting is the people who would label you as toxic for not having friends are the insecure, gossipy, unstable, judgmental type of person that you would never want to associate with anyway 😂
True statement. Where I work, people only want to be friends so they can gossip and try to find out things that are going on in the company. I don't need drama in my life.
Totally agreed. Most ppl are phony and I don’t want any part of that. Trying to draw me down the path they’re on.
You got that right.I feel such calm and peace and have been on my own for 20 years and hope I’m around for another 20 to enjoy life to the fullest as a single passionate caring kind woman who will be 95 then.
Finally someone who gets it, some women just are happy with thier own company, and do not want to partake in the catty, immature, typical female nonsense 🙄
This is so misogynistic
@@umhi9778 How? That makes no sense. Many women do this kind of nonsense, female competition exists especially if you are successful in some way. I only have one friend, and we are very close. It took me more than fifteen years to find a friend who genuinely cared for me and wanted the best for me. Most women will try to destroy you or will throw you under the bus over a stupid guy. Or they will sabotage you and/or your career by spreading rumors and talking behind your back if they feel you are doing better than them in some way. Even men do this if they are desperate enough.
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It SOUNDS misogynistic. But it’s our true feelings. I literally don’t have the energy or desire to be mean or carry jealousy for no reason.
Yep I’m moved to a regional town and I’ve been shocked by the amount of bitchy manipulating older women who just gossip and play games . Over the bs and bitchiness .
@@umhi9778instead of edifying one another, women can treat one another so terribly, so see it with celebrities; the jealousy, the cattiness, the pettiness, the mean girl persona, some women rightly earn the title.
Gone through this most of my life, sometimes your hypersensitivity can easily see through bulls**t, so you simply don't bother
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When I tried reaching back out to old people I used to know it changed and I realized they never really cared
Team NO FRIENDS ovah here!✊🏽
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Me too
My screen name is chrissytoyou lol kinda funny
Me too
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If you’re pretty, good luck getting real friends. Most women can’t handle having prettier friends than them and they are jealous. I’ve delt with this my whole life. 😢
I am 59 years old. I was a beautiful young woman in my prime. Everyone says I still am. ❤️However, I never realized it. I grew up catholic and I was very conservative. When we are born attractive,it can be a nightmare. I never thought I was better and treated everyone equally. But I always was jealous of and broke y heart. ♥️
True fact
Me too! I used to be a fashion model and most women detested me!
Same here! 😮💨
Absolutely this is so so spot on jealousy is a curse had this issue and still on going the gossip I hear at times I just think how does one come up with these I’m a mother whom sticks to herself, does her own thing yet spoken about in ways which couldn’t be further from truth as a speculate on appearance and create a narrative which has no relevance truth or fact I’m just so glad I’m at peace with myself now where it doesn’t hurt me no longer and I just let it go all due to now the last five years learning toknow who I am Dean inside and not worry about peoples opinions and most of all justify myself for what?
I have zero friends. Every “friend” that I had betrayed, used me and left me for dead. I no longer believe in friendship. I’m a loner and it is what it is
Bravo ❣️ 👏🏻 👏🏻
Feel you!
Honesty should be the #1 rule for friendships. If people spoke about their flaws upfront, there'd be no problem fostering a connection quickly. Support and comfort come after! ❤
@@ArtistUnknownOfficial There’s also a lot of envy and jealousy amongst women especially and they’ll never tell you their jealous which is where a lot of broken friendships stem from
Totally agree with you.
Thank you! You are so courageous, bold and strong, thank you for posting this video. My worst nightmare is to meet my forever man and trying to explain why I don’t have friends to introduce him to and have him run away, when he sees I have none. I fully commit to those I bring into my life, but I don’t have time for time-filler people. I like being available for people that need me. In women group, I don’t fit in because it’s all so superficial. I have been backstabbed so many times, that for me personally just being a person’s acquaintance and being available for them is enough. Drama kills my peace and joy. Thanks again!
We are a very rare breed. I'm going to be 35 in October, and I have spent 4 years cutting out friends, I am literally the best version of myself I have ever been. It just keeps getting better.
I turned 35 two days ago 😂 yeah i have like a couple acquaintances. Also cut out my toxic "friends" who made fun of me and drained my mind completely. I feel so good now. I have so much time. Got back to my hobbies. Reading books...making time to walk in a big park etc
Were the same.except I’ll be 36 with no friends but have so much peace 😊
This! I just keep getting better ❤
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I've cut not only friends, but family too.
People are fake, backstabbers, JELOUS, untrustworthy.
Am happy being Alone I have peace and joy
Exactly
So true. I go back to my old hairdresser occasionally to find out about the slander gossip I left behind. Omg..people are such hypocrites.
For Sure
People who don’t even know me talk bad about me … I don’t go anywhere, I stay at home , I don’t bother anyone … and people still start rumors about me …I haven’t done anything to anyone …I’m retired , single …I work in my garden and feed my animals
And I don't even know what for? What's with the imaginary competition, what are we competitors for is what I want know. I don't understand people like that.
The thing is when I genuinely try to connect with people and ask them questions, they are taken aback, which has made me realize people who are social are not seeking deep connections, but simply looking for quantity but not quality. They want to be asked questions that hit the surface, but not too deep, because then that means they will actually have to think about their life. And then, they project that you are "too weird" and shame you. Capitalism has even created people to think about how they connect with others as products (only connect with others because they can get something from them). As a child, I have felt "lonely" but I think as I progressed, I realized I give more than what others can give, so I just don't see the need to have any friends. Consider why people connect; I solve the "loneliness" feeling by going to a poetry reading or being part of a concert in a group or simply by just choose to not put my headphones on when I am going home/to work or grabbing a coffee, to listen in on people's conversations and enjoy how everyone is connected by merely existing in the same space but no contact/interaction is needed to feel this connection.
wow this really clicked a lot for me, thank you for sharing
A lot of what you’re saying, describes me. I look for deep connections, and really have had one true friend for the past 25 years. I struggle to maintain the shallow connections that other people seem good at.
Feel like I’m reading one of my journal entries haha. Couldn’t have said it better.
Yes omg.
Wow you just read my mind!!!!!👏👏👏
I luckily rarely feel lonely & just entertain myself a little extra at those times.
I was forced into this initially when I began to heal & people around me couldn’t handle it.
But then I found such peace & got to know myself. All of what she’s saying here.
People are more often so shallow & transactional & I just can’t relate.
People can only meet us as far as they’ve met themselves & we all know how few people have the courage to do the deep dive & stop playing in the shallow end.
Women with no friends here. I have work acquaintances and some people I keep in touch with every once in a while, but no one I regularly see or hang out with. It makes me feel a little insecure when I think about not having brides maids but I'm a mom of two and a fiancé who is my best friend and I'm happy.❤
I don't have friends because I love my peace!!! I don't need a cheerleader and fake opinions because I am all I need and I trust my thoughts and decision making..
It’s painful not being able to share your intellectual interests and little successes in life because it will just make women jealous. I’m not going near women again. 😢
@@qwave1322 Thank You!!! Please stay away as far as possible. The last thing we need is to be near damage people.
No friends/family = Zero chance of betrayal.
You may not get hurt, but you won't get loved either.
BINGO !!!
@@Kepi_Keisometimes the price for love isn’t worth it.
Animals really love you , like God loves you … people don’t know how to love unconditionally
@@butterflychaser4538 Oh I agree. I have been alone for 24 years by choice because I don' want to risk it again. I always picked people who are bad for me. I was just saying that when we isolate ourselves from love there is no way we will ever get it.
This society is completely obsessed with being extroverted, showing off things, fake stuff, materialism including having a lot of friends. Which is all coming from the outside. I am so happy and peaceful that I don’t necessarily need all of that! ✨💕
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I definitely heard you and thank you for putting the voice to thoughts I have not been able to express...I gradually became friendless over a number of years as a result of letting go of loved ones who who were toxic in one way or another...I am very sociable, though an introvert and I know God will put the right people in my life. In the meantime, I will continue enjoying my solo movies, meals and trips the way I have been doing with and without friends.
Extroverts get to decide the atmosphere of every situation. If 100 people want calm, and one person wants to be rowdy, the whole area is now off limits for quiet conversation, reading, concentration on difficult tasks, etc.
It depends on what society
THIS!!!! our worth is based on these things which is such an inaccurate judgement....those who choose peace over "friends" are actually highly valuable
Does anyone else know this: I am so embarrassed at having no friends because it is socially unacceptable, I lie at work and pretend I'm always on the go at the weekend with friends. I'm not a bad or disagreeable person, I just get exhausted around other people.
I am a woman with no friends,and I think it's safe,i don't want fake friends, and I don't want to force myself into friendship and end up being manipulated.
Love everyone’s comments
The same to me. I prefer to read a good book or do something useful for myself, for my development. I want to go forward and I don’t need wrong-wise people on my way.
That me
Yep
Facts
I'm older, have no friends or family. The peace is divine 😊
I have my parents and the elderly at their village all love me. Its like i have 10 parents 😂 im 35 but i dont identify with people from my generation. I also have some health issues and im autistic. So i need peace...a lot of it. Im not boring per se. I have hobbies and interests but nothing in common with people my age.
@@philippagrimoire5968i feel you. My cousins are drama and i dont like it. I avoid
@@philippagrimoire5968same here. My entire family are toxic and get mad because I refuse to participate. I've never been happier in all my life. This is the life I wanted as a kid and now it's all mine😊❤
Yeah... I am estranged from my family, I don't keep up with my friends...and I have cats and dogs. Life is calm, relaxed and tranquil.
Same, but it can be very lonely. I'm an introvert, but would like to have parents, husband, and a few children and some reliable friends that i could go out with some times. I was an only child and my son is too. I never wanted that for him bc I knew how lonely it is.
I'm the same boat. You become your own best friend first then you will know what it is like to be a good friend to another.
I don’t have friends bc they will never match my level of loyalty and love. Now days, I give what I get. You show me the bare minimum, I show you the same.
I just stick to Jesus and my dog. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🐶❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is it!
I THOUGHT I AM ALONE UNTILL I CAME ACROSS THIS😊😊😊
I literally wept because I have been so ashamed of myself and I am happy to know that there is nothing wrong with me even though people tried to say it is not normal.
I thought the same
I have a couple of friends but they are too busy with life. We never see each other. I’m single and in my 40s, and I work from home. I get lonely from time to time.
@Themajesticloot oooh sorry my friend we sail in the same 🚢
I realized that i am not alone in my friendlessness for a while now, they try to keep tension and confusion in the midst to keep good people away from each other, it is crazy to think about but it is true.
Beautifully said! 56 year old woman here with no friends. Much love & peace to all of the women here 🤗💜
I’m the same as you. I’m sure you’d be great friend material. Sending blessings.
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍I'M 51 YEAR OLD LADY HAPPY WITH NO FRIENDS
@@Alfieruben-j1l thank you & blessings to you as well 💜
@@MariaSoto-md5ul its definitely more peaceful 💜
So drained.Agree fully.But it is disappointing
I used to think I had to have friends... I forced myself to be bff's with ppl.. but being alone I realized I'm happier and even more sane
Yup I did this also.
The 2 friends I had are dead and we moved to Australia I tried so hard tried to hard . I used to be hurt cause everyone had that BFF I never had that . But now I'm ok with it . I have only had 1 friend that got me and she passed away . I don't believe I will ever have that friend again
The peace I feel from not having friends is unlike any other. I feel more empowered and independent, to be honest. I don't need them to make me happy. It was only without them that I truly felt the value of self-love, self-respect, and self-validation.
I been betrayed by each and every friend I tried to have, they somehow end up having secret animosity, competition, envy when sometimes they are even better off than me. But I realized, it’s not about what I have but more so about who I’am. I’m strong, passionate, independent and completely okay with not being part of the crowd and this intimidates them for sure!
The gossip in this friend zone can be horrible, malicious and downright hateful
Same ❤
Same!!! Said it perfectly
I know it’s so weird, I have had women friends and 2 sisters in my life who are so much better off than me yet they seem to be threatened or jealous of me and seek to take me down and undermine me. Why is this, I wonder?
@@silvercat9155 our light, irritates their demons!
I'm not a woman, but I rather be by myself. Shout out to All my independent Women out there!!
Why are you here? Men always gotta butt in where women are. Can't ever let women have something. It's in the title!
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Idk I feel like that's two different things
Being independent has nothing to do with not having friends.
Thanks bro 👍🏽😀🫶🏽
I'm 73, a woman who prefers being alone and without friends. I've been told that I'm an empath. Empaths are sensitive to others' energy that can be too overwhelming and toxic at times. I feel happier and more content alone.
In the earlier years, I've had good friends, usually only a couple. I put a lot of time and energy into one in particular, she and I were very close for 40 years. One day she just stopped calling, I asked her to tell me why she no longer wanted to be friends. She could not give me a reason, she just walked away. Recently, she called to tell me that her husband died and that she wanted to get together. I drove 3 hours to stay with her. We spent 4 days just talking about everything and the past 7 years of silence, except for the reason that she left. We made a promise to stay friends and always be honest with one another. A year later, she stopped talking to me. Once again, no explanation, just a very cold Nothing...! I'm done now...and I feel at peace.
Thank you for sharing your story. I felt it. Sometimes, we have to forgive ourselves to completely heal from our past. Wishing you love and peace of mind @Susanne1756.
I was the same. But when you find your BFF, it’s the most amazing thing ever! It’s all about quality > quantity
Don't blame you your friend sounds confused with herself
That's very sad, I recently went through the same thing.
She is narcissistic. She only used you to heal her grief! Giving you the grief in the end! Not everyone is like that, but they are few and far between. I recognize this pattern. I am a sensitive empathy as well. Glorify your talent. You are a wise woman!
I needed this video today. I don’t know how it came to my feed but thank you for making me feel less alone (even though I prefer to be that way)
No friends. I got tired of being taken for granted.
Same here! I had a person many yrs ago that i thought was my friend but obviously not … first of all she stole 5,000 from me used me for all she could I was blind and stupid finally realized at some point…. Now I have zero friends cuz i trust no one
Me too
Friendless woman here, glad to join the community! ❤
+1
Sometimes, there are no friends because of jealousy.
I have no friends not because of jealosy but trust issues
Very true.
Many times 💯🎯
Women generally don’t like me. I can tell by looking at their eyes that some are jealous
Same here. I don't trust some people.
My friends got angry because I travelled and didn’t inform them. The entitlement to all my information was something I couldn’t afford. Meanwhile, they would gossip behind your back. I love not having friends any longer.
I know right. The sense of entitlement.
Agree
to all the autistic women who clicked on this video: i see you. ❤
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It's exactly what I thought, autism traits, I'm not autistic but my son and partner are but I have lost friends and family due to putting my partner and so s needs 1st
@@juliepeacock3576 You're a wonderful person for putting their needs first. The people who left because of it truly don't matter.
Yo fam, what up?!
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I thought I was crazy for not having friends anymore. My friends were of the opposite sex but never the same sex. I always had a hard time making friends with women. They have backstab and ghosted me. Since letting go of my friends, it's been a whole peaceful and drama free.
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤ it gave me a sense of relief
When you think that you are the only one, and then stumble upon this video. 💞
AMEN
Haha yes, the irony…. 👀
So true
I thought i was abnormal and weired but now i know better😂😂
😂😂 I use to wonder why the ppl who were like me never find each other & form a group or club, etc.
I have very few friends that love the Lord Jesus. We don't gossip. We're there for each other in good times & bad.. Priceless 🤩
You have the biggest friend off all in Jesus 🙏🏾❤️🩹
I'm a woman with no friends, I can relate with everything you are saying. People exhaust me. I am more at peace alone than around people.
What is a "friend" ? because majority don't get it . . Its a privilege to be in my presence and everybody do not deserve it. . Be wise, use discernment, and protect your energy ✨️
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@@natashaj9169 I Agree, very Few Real People that know what a Friend Is.🥰💯💥
This
People call anybody including the mailman their friends.
Wow.
I am healing from being a people pleaser. I am an empath and I am learning to protect my energy and my peace 🎉🎉🎉🎉
It took me many years to start being myself and heal. I'm over 50, but better later than never. Eight years ago I cut off all people draining and sucking my energy - using me as dustbin of their never-ending problems... well ... people, welcome to Earth - We all have problems, but some people are working on being better self, some are sucking energy out of others.... and those do not deserve my attention. Of course friends express their worries, feelings and struggles, but in exchange they are ready to listen to you... and the most important - most of the time we have fun, we enrich each other and feel good after meeting each other.
Same
Yes
Same this is why i getting hurt over and over i feel like an candle the light in their darkness when they can light or i burn myself and i need them they gone😢
Today society is so toxic and does not share my values and I refuse to lower my standards knowing that bringing a bad person in your life can destroy what is good in your life!
It’s because ALOT of ppl are very draining to deal with peace is priceless 🙏🙏🙏🙏
People with no friends don’t care what people think
Right, because what people don't realise is they don't see not having friends as a problem. The only ones with the problem are those who are prying into people's lives. Being alone is comforting and socialising once a while. ❤ we are the chosen ones.
actually i feel opposite, like i care too much and that's why i can't find people who also cares like me, because usually they don't care about others (and their feelings)
but if you mean we don't care if we are called toxic because of no having friends then ok, now i get it 😅
@@Loulien1 not care about others. Because I think we have love on a different level. But more so, we are not people pleasers and we don’t need recognition and approval of others.
🤣💯Facts.
Hermit mode is a wonderful mode
I am a woman with no friends. It is not because I'm a red flag, or toxic to other people, but it is because I absolutely love my PEACE, and I will cut people off to protect my energy at all costs. I am very self-loving, intelligent, SELECTIVE, and selfish (In a good way). I'm more of a loner, but I do have people I associate with. Some people think I am rude or just downright disrespectful, because I can be brutally honest about how I feel and my perspective on reality. (In other words, can be a cold Bitch.) I'm also an empath, so different energies can be very draining for me. I can read energy very well. I am a master of energy. I am not a good friend to people who are insecure, gossipy, judgmental, competitive, envious, dysfunctional or narcissistic. (Which are usually the very ones who label me as toxic for not having or keeping friends.) With friends like these, who needs enemies! I don't need the hypocrisy or the negativity. Sometimes I get lonely, but I am still learning to be a good friend to myself. I am very happy and content being alone, because I love ME, and I enjoy my own company.
I feel it’s the opposite… women with tons, and tons of friends are usually very insecure people and usually get pulled into gossip and drama…
Sounds like borderliners bpd. Yup, we got them a lottt in the world🥴
@@paratrooper73yeah too many chicks have severe personality disorders and then do nothing to fix themselves
This is so true..
I think its that too, ( As a woman with no friends) Its always seemed very co-dependent this neediness for friends. People need to learn how to be alone in their own company.
So much drama, I can't stand it
A women with no friends or few friends are worth there weight in gold more genuine
I love/prefer my own company. We need to normalize not caring about what these people think about our decisions.
It is normal; it’s just energy vampires that try to make it seem like it’s not, who have meltdowns bc some people like us exist and want to strongarm everyone into being like them or serving them.
455,000 people have watched this video and 27,000 people have liked the video. No one can tell me this woman is an enigma. She hit a nerve with this video.
I don’t have friends and I am 100% completely fine with it. I am a VERY different type of person that can only take social interaction in small doses and that type of personality doesn’t sync with many people. I am perfectly fine with that! I can know lots of people and have groups I do activities with like bowling leagues, but I don’t NEED any close friends.
Kudos to this woman for bringing up a taboo subject.
I have no friends but I wish I did. I’m really nice, a girls girl, accepting. Most people I’ve come across already have friends and they don’t care to become friends with me. I’m 28 so it’s hard to make new friends now.
Hi babes, it's not about being really nice, people will use that against you make sure your boundaries are in place. Pray for God to give you good friends and prepare yourself for them while you wait. Your tribe will find you and more importantly, STAY with you only when you are authentic.
@@ratelhoneybadger love the advice hate the Hi ( Babe)
she literally was being nice. @roseasher9124
I desire to have one! I so felt this!
@@roseasher9124 Seriously. That's some petty crap. Smdh
I gave up on friends because i got sick of grown women acting like it was a competition with me. Im so much happier without these slags in my life making me feel like i was less-than. I have my mum and my sister and my boyfriend. Thats all i need ❤
For me, it is peace of mind. No gossip and no worries.
Being Alone doesn't mean being Lonely. Perhaps a woman is alone because she needed to get toxic people out of her life. Its a strength not a weakness.
Zero drama, stay focused on what really matters, zero bs, sense of peace is priceless, just to name a few. My space is so calm.
Absolutely 😊
I love this. Proud of the women who could stay strong walking in the valley of shadow and death ALONE whilst other women screamed and shamed for their heroic path.
Love you Queens 👑
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Friendship is sweet when you find genuine friends but in the absence of true friendship being alone is a blessing you must embrace. ❤🎉
I am a woman with no friends. Ty for sharing your video. There comes a time in your life when you’re sick and tired of the hurt and lies. You say enough is enough. Ty for sharing this video.
Had no friends for over 10 yrs. Quite happy with my children and being on my own. I’m very reserved like my own company
Being with Ur children is not being on ur own they are still people u are in company.
Me too. It's only me and my daughter, peace is everything 💐💞🥰
Same here me and my 2 girls ..I love it here 🎉
Carl Jung; "If an attractive woman is single, it's because she's smarter than everyone else."
Yeah !
Well, that explains everything.
@@annanke7450- sigma female.
Let's go with that 😂😂😂😂😂
😅@@ivy_1990
Welcome to the club of giving no f*cks!