6 Small Things That Dramatically Boost Your Charisma

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  • @DashingPartyCrasher
    @DashingPartyCrasher 6 років тому +401

    GREAT ideas, as always. I always wish these types of videos include a recap, so here's mine:
    1. Write/draw a Gratitude Journal as a gift for someone you care about.
    2. Give away your extra, unwanted stuff to those who can use it.
    3. Ask the quietest person in a group what he/she is excited about, and why?
    4. Acknowledge people who are talking with you with active listening.
    5. Support others' dreams or passions by always encouraging them.
    6. Acknowledge the service workers in your life by name and thank them!
    7. And my own, related to the above: Call, write, or hang out with each of your friends/family instead of just "liking" something they post, sending a mass text, or buying gifts. Tell them what they mean to you, and maybe share a photo of you together or a funny story. And do that more than once a year. ;-)

    • @merlokiii
      @merlokiii 6 років тому +8

      Gary Lowell T yeah, if people will listen to these advices, this world would be so good. But, in reality...

    • @LeeBusch
      @LeeBusch 6 років тому +6

      Thanks for this!

    • @huwfrancis9437
      @huwfrancis9437 6 років тому +3

      Please make this happen for every video! +charismaoncommand

    • @DashingPartyCrasher
      @DashingPartyCrasher 6 років тому +7

      I will try to if Charlie doesn't, and hopefully someone else might also be inspired to do a summary! Not to skip the video, but just to help us remember all of this stuff. ;-)

    • @reytheon486
      @reytheon486 6 років тому +1

      Thank you for this.

  • @GiftSparks
    @GiftSparks 6 років тому +22

    #1 is brilliant as a gift. It takes time, which is worth more than money. I once saw a definition of "Love" as "the selfless appreciation of another person's virtues." The gratitude journal is such a great gift of love.

  • @nesmae.4967
    @nesmae.4967 6 років тому +64

    I did the first one you mentioned with a couple of friends, on their birthdays, but I only thought of it because I'm the shy type who rarely ever expresses how they feel to people they care about, and I don't usually know how to express it all when we're together. I found it easier to just write it all down and give it to them, and they LOVED it!!

  • @tightalta77
    @tightalta77 6 років тому +112

    You've become a great speaker! The fact that this is pretty much a one take is so inpressive

  • @Adam-in5qv
    @Adam-in5qv 6 років тому +190

    he gave everything to charity apart from his black t shirt

  • @GenJotsu
    @GenJotsu 6 років тому +24

    Kindness takes strength to pull off well. Do yourself the favor and don't mistaken kindness for weakness.

  • @padraigmurphy3785
    @padraigmurphy3785 6 років тому +38

    Hey Charlie! Video idea for you: how to pose for a photograph. I’m mentioning this because as a PR student it is suggested that folded arms in a pose is more appropriate for photos. Yet this contradicts a few things you mentioned before about charisma. Any chance you could let us know how charisma and poses for photographs go hand in hand?

  • @Michael-rm1bx
    @Michael-rm1bx 6 років тому +19

    Number 4 is my biggest problem. I actually listen to people but i behave the way you described it and i need to work on that. Can you please do a more specific video about that topic i really have to change that behaviour

  • @adagailey
    @adagailey 6 років тому +1

    I've been watching a ton of your videos in the past few days & you remind me so much of myself. I too, went to Spain and did a year abroad while in college. I love how you relate everything to a story or example of your own life. I was going through an awakening period about a year ago & began the self discovery and love for myself journey. I got a bit lost within the past year but it feels amazing to be back and to see some new faces on UA-cam. I really appreciate your videos & you're very inspiring. Keep up the good work!!

  • @ameliabraybrooke6405
    @ameliabraybrooke6405 5 років тому +2

    "totally" "of course" and "for sure" are way more engaging in a conversation than "Yeah" "yes" and "I agree"
    Because they communicate that you're confident in what you've heard, that you are in fact listening and do in fact agree with them instead of just affirming what they've said without thinking much of it.

  • @nikolapupovac2893
    @nikolapupovac2893 6 років тому +12

    Really glad to see someone promoting something good, gj guys! Keep it going!

  • @kylemacdowell4470
    @kylemacdowell4470 6 років тому

    I love your videos, how they're not only empowering, but also show how to be a more positive center in in the world around you. I wonder if you would include terms of endearment to a list like this, how saying something like 'man' might show commonality and dissolve barriers. Please keep doing what you're doing, and I think you're creating a really positive impact for a lot of people.

  • @annamariawatson1250
    @annamariawatson1250 5 років тому +1

    Love this video, because I feel like it's more about boosting someone else's charisma, as a gift! Really good job on this one. Made me warm and fuzzy inside and I really can't wait to use those.

  • @DecodeChannel
    @DecodeChannel 6 років тому +13

    1. Give a personalized gratitude journal in place of expensive products
    2. Donate the things you haven't used last year to charity
    3. Ask the shyest person what they are excited about
    4.Demonstrate engaged body language when speaking
    5.Show support for other people's passions and dreams
    6.Remember the names of the service people

  • @Evangelion0189
    @Evangelion0189 5 років тому

    Hey man, I am going through hard times lately, because of a recent break-up and also the lack of a job. Your videos are encouraging and helpful. Thank you for the effort you put in them, thank you for your altruism!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  5 років тому

      ~ Sorry to hear about that, man. Glad you're finding the videos helpful and hopefully, things are looking up for the future.

  • @Kennabon
    @Kennabon 6 років тому

    Dude!!! I like how you're saying all of these things that are seemingly common sense, but are so not! My mind is blown every time I watch you guys' videos; they've helped me to become so much more considerate with myself and others.

  • @terrycrews1760
    @terrycrews1760 6 років тому

    Thx for this post. Always appreciate the content. I’m sure I can’t be the only one who recognizes not only do you have great charisma and excellent teaching methods but you really know how to effectively communicate you ideas. I would love for you to do a video on communication skills alone and ideas on how we can improve them. Thx again and Happy Holidays!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому

      ~ Thanks! Feel free to check out How To Give a Killer Presentation - With No Notes :-)

  • @AscendedMasculine
    @AscendedMasculine 6 років тому +110

    Charlie over saving my relationship and wallet!!

  • @wjf213
    @wjf213 6 років тому

    I'm very happy you chased your dream to create this channel, because for "ME", you have really given me tips and ideas to be a better person. I always learn some little thing, if not a big thing from you. Keep up the great work.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому

      ~ Thanks for the kind words! Happy to hear we're making an impact. :-)

  • @Jjrmtv
    @Jjrmtv 6 років тому

    we may love deeply and passionately, but it is connection that truly brings us together. sometimes the smallest acts of kindness reap the greatest rewards

  • @shenliu9253
    @shenliu9253 6 років тому

    good job! this is by far one of the most helpful channels i found on youtube and i like your english speaking style and how you word your presentation, it is not just helpful for building charisma but also very beneficial for english learners like me. thank you

  • @abelee709
    @abelee709 5 років тому

    I'm always looking for more ways I can be a nicer, kinder person. Great video!!

  • @fromscratchauntybindy9743
    @fromscratchauntybindy9743 6 років тому

    I'll be doing the personalised notebook idea for sure! My niece turns 13yrs old next yr and it'll be a lovely way to welcome her into her teens 😊

  • @thenmecuban2147
    @thenmecuban2147 6 років тому +15

    Can you do a breakdown on Jim from the office?

  • @erruiz00
    @erruiz00 6 років тому

    Hey - nice job on getting a sponsor - I am so happy for y'all.

  • @livealifefulfilled
    @livealifefulfilled 6 років тому

    You know, you're pretty good at the whole charisma thing. I think it is incredibly captivating when it comes to how you explain/break down components of human expression. I found you though your GoT commentary back around the end if season 7. I'm glad I did (and subscribed). Looking forward to more videos :)

  • @helsphoenix2623
    @helsphoenix2623 6 років тому

    Love the "what are you excited about" line of questioning. :) It immediately sets people in a happy mindset. Beautiful. Thank you for all the tips this year and Happy Holidays!

  • @orangehyacinth28
    @orangehyacinth28 6 років тому +257

    It's Charismas~!
    Ok, I'm out.

  • @ЯнаАндриенко-д4ю
    @ЯнаАндриенко-д4ю 6 років тому

    I love your videos, Charlie❤ Each one is a source of useful tips that can influence one's life greatly. In this one I really like the 1st point. It would be a nice b-day present for my best friend. I've never heard about it, so thank you.
    And... I'd like to say, that it's amazing how your appearance coincides with your character and thoughts! You're an awesome guy, go on making videos to motivate others!

  • @rubyrootless7324
    @rubyrootless7324 6 років тому +14

    Your mouth looks exactly how I draw mouths in my art style. That's kinda cool

    • @entjs
      @entjs 5 років тому

      MIDORIYAS FACE EYE-

  • @Buck4Lifee
    @Buck4Lifee 6 років тому

    Haven't watched one of your videos in while , but tuned into this one. You've become 1000x better at speaking in front of a camera , keep it up !! It can only get better from here

  • @Maolo92
    @Maolo92 6 років тому +1

    Hey, there is some actual good content in this video! Really useful, unlike those other channels who are always saying the same bullshit. Good job man, keep it up!

  • @alexisdaniellemiller5706
    @alexisdaniellemiller5706 6 років тому

    I love the gratitude journal idea! It’s thoughtful!!!
    It’s interesting to seek out those who are quiet and ask them questions- thats something I need to work on. Asking anyone any questions.
    This was a great video thank you so much for taking the time to share these tips! :)

  • @kamdenhartley4283
    @kamdenhartley4283 6 років тому +1

    Freaking awesome!!! One idea you should make a video on is how to deal with people who are constantly fishing for compliments

  • @phytoria6215
    @phytoria6215 6 років тому

    Wauw Charlie thanks a million, this is a grand video! I appreciate what you do tormendously! :) have a great holiday period!

  • @DeJake
    @DeJake 6 років тому

    I love this video!! I always love supporting other people's dreams, but these other ideas are mostly new to me and I love them so much

  • @VTym
    @VTym 6 років тому +32

    Please, take a video of сharisma Lucifer Morningstar

  • @pegfam5723
    @pegfam5723 6 років тому

    You guys have the most amazing channel! Definitely so much value. I appreciate what you guys do! Another great lesson

  • @thecrowuknow
    @thecrowuknow 6 років тому

    these are some great tips! i am going to try to use them more often. i can relate tot he one about people supporting your interests, as someone who sings, plays guitar and writes songs but is not very comfortable doing it in front of people my favorite people are the ones who are interested in hearing me play.

  • @nickthorpe7567
    @nickthorpe7567 6 років тому

    Super props on getting sponsored by paramount!!!

  • @AliciaNoob
    @AliciaNoob 6 років тому

    I respect you as a person and what you are doing to help people. 👍

  • @daymondlopez2296
    @daymondlopez2296 6 років тому

    Great video. By the way, Merry Christmas in advance.

  • @mikhailnekrasov8457
    @mikhailnekrasov8457 6 років тому +1

    Once again, an amazing video, you help out so many people daily in so many ways. Just want to let you know your work is very appreciated and thank you! I’m not sure if you made a video on this before, but a master of persuasion and charisma you can use as an example (I’m sure you know him) Dale Carnegie and his How to a Win friends and influence people. Whilst it won’t help you improve because you’re pretty much a charisma genius it will help your viewers, certainly helped me. I think you should really make a video on this because his books have lots of content and thorough charisma breakdowns much like your videos. There’s probably like 3 videos worth of content;) anyways, looking forward to your next video!
    -Mikhail

  • @VLoveTarot
    @VLoveTarot 6 років тому +1

    Great topic here man. keep crushing it!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому

      ~ Thanks +V Reacts! Hopefully, lots more to come. :-)

  • @OleCrankyGamer
    @OleCrankyGamer 6 років тому

    As a YT gamer, I try the last one all the time. I try and watch all the people I follow and give positive support to what they are doing, even if it is a game I am not particularly interested in. They are doing something they enjoy and wish to share that. That is a great thing

  • @jay-qc5oq
    @jay-qc5oq 6 років тому +14

    Saw the notifications and clicked like button first that much I believe you.... Lol

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому +1

      ~ Appreciate the like, Jay!

    • @jay-qc5oq
      @jay-qc5oq 6 років тому

      You just made my day.. Thanks

    • @jay-qc5oq
      @jay-qc5oq 6 років тому

      Thanks for making all such great videos.... And posting for Saturday too

  • @joyblissbless
    @joyblissbless 6 років тому

    Thanks for sharing your tips:) You're really good at what you do and I appreciate your giving nature.

  • @sabrinastone6145
    @sabrinastone6145 6 років тому

    Super excited to use these and be someone's favorite uncle

  • @RRatedT
    @RRatedT 6 років тому

    #5 is so important, especially between close friends- I would totally take it to the next level thanks to your video.
    I really appreciate you and your videos, I learn new amazing things thanks to you from video to a new one , you are awesome !

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому +1

      ~ Glad you're getting value from the videos man :-)

  • @martyna_biernat
    @martyna_biernat 6 років тому

    This is a great and veeeery helpful video! Thank you so much, Charlie! 😉

  • @DevilsInferno1
    @DevilsInferno1 6 років тому +1

    Wow, awesome tips shared here. I'm itching to try these out! Thanks Charlie!!

  • @themach1ne635
    @themach1ne635 6 років тому

    Great video! Thanks for the insights, I really appreciate it!

  • @Sub0FX
    @Sub0FX 6 років тому +1

    Charisma on Command needs to start making podcasts!

  • @1000Rauliko
    @1000Rauliko 6 років тому

    This video is amazing! Have a happy Christmas!!!

  • @clownmakemesmile
    @clownmakemesmile 6 років тому

    Could you make a video about how to make a difference between reality, and delusion? This has been a reoccuring problem for me, and always gets in the way of progress!

    • @sophies131
      @sophies131 6 років тому

      Giuliano Marconi What do you mean by that? :)

    • @clownmakemesmile
      @clownmakemesmile 6 років тому

      Be it a girl, or a job, or a mission, whatever I plan to do, I always fail, and I think that happens, because can't grip the reality of these situations, and you see I work like a bad youtube video where the sound(what I want) is not synchronized with the picture(the reality).

  • @robinyu460
    @robinyu460 6 років тому

    1. Journal filled with 7 days of gratitude
    2. Give away unused things
    3. Ask the quietest person in a group what they are excited about
    4. Active listening
    5. Support others dreams or passions
    6. Use service workers names

  • @cookiethebird3286
    @cookiethebird3286 6 років тому

    I didnt knew you quit your job for it..that is not something just everyone can handle it, congratulations!! 🙏

  • @bronh13
    @bronh13 6 років тому

    As someone that works in customer service, I really appreciate your last tip 😊

  • @Individual3333
    @Individual3333 6 років тому

    This may not be too popular but those who known of the movie I can imagine it is a favorite. Do a charisma breakdown on Jim Carey in the movie Ace Ventura: When Nature Calls!

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 6 років тому

    You're amazing! Thank you for always helping us! 💖

  • @tristansanders8312
    @tristansanders8312 6 років тому

    Great stuff as always!! What do you think about doing a break down on David Duchovny’s character Hank Moody from Californication? I️ think that’d be an interesting video from your guy’s POV.

  • @vaidotasdagys2678
    @vaidotasdagys2678 6 років тому

    Man, I love this channel it helped me a lot in my journey of becoming best version of myself. Can't say the journey is over tho 😂. Anyway could you please do how to be witty as Chandler Bing from Friends series?

  • @PopLopChop
    @PopLopChop 6 років тому

    Thank you so much for this amazing video, your channel is the best and helpful on UA-cam! And I speak Russian :D

  • @caioaquino5958
    @caioaquino5958 6 років тому

    you guys are amazing, best from Brazil!

  • @theweresheepdog6446
    @theweresheepdog6446 6 років тому

    Your friend reminded me of myself. It seems I don't know how to express my emotions with facial expressions, because almost everyone gets it the other way around. When I'm smiling, for example, it's common for people to ask me what I'm angry about... :'(

  • @ricotheweddingsinger
    @ricotheweddingsinger 6 років тому +17

    awesome tips! support and encouragement -- best tip ever!!!!! =)

  • @maxjones503
    @maxjones503 6 років тому

    On my friend's birthday, ​someone did something similar to the first one, got a big notebook with some pictures and notes in, along with a few pages on things about that person, they also left some space for them to add things.

  • @samuelboswell4529
    @samuelboswell4529 6 років тому

    Great video I’ve already done number 2 oops that sounded bad lol

  • @nathanh5448
    @nathanh5448 6 років тому

    Hey CoC, can you do a video on how to break up a faulty relationship without the faultiness carrying on? Thanks

  • @DanniLKoss
    @DanniLKoss 6 років тому +1

    Maan this like true Christmas on Command

  • @MajorasMaskMailman
    @MajorasMaskMailman 6 років тому

    I can be critical when people tell me an idea. I'm glad I saw this; now I won't do it anymore.
    The names thing is also huge. I've seen a lot of success with it in my life.

  • @kanavify
    @kanavify 5 років тому

    This is so good brother

  • @alexkingphoto
    @alexkingphoto 6 років тому

    52 gratitude journals is a quick way to become the most liked person in the world, thank you for this one!

  • @Alex80195
    @Alex80195 6 років тому +11

    please cover personality breakdown of Neal cafferey from white collar how is subtlety and charm helps influence people and cristiano ronaldo on how his belief and attitude has made him the best ever

    • @sexybeast7728
      @sexybeast7728 6 років тому +1

      lol, he is not the best ever, but i would like to see charisma breakdown of him.

    • @Alex80195
      @Alex80195 6 років тому

      Sexy Beast He has already established himself as one of the greatest ever in the end it all comes down to opinions but i believe his attitude and belief is the main factor to get there that's why I too would like to see his personality breakdown..

  • @Duaynehongo
    @Duaynehongo 5 років тому

    Awesome message man

  • @lovelymishra2911
    @lovelymishra2911 6 років тому

    I was waiting for the new video ☺ and there i go.

  • @thif4722
    @thif4722 6 років тому

    Hey, please make a video about the same topic but when talking to charismatic, social and talkative people.
    PS if you already made something like this please just give me the title

  • @seanwei9284
    @seanwei9284 6 років тому

    Longtime viewer here, big thanks for all the wonderful videos! Could you suggest a book or two to read?

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому +1

      ~ If you're interested in overall personal development, we've compiled a list of the best ones here:
      www.charismaoncommand.com/best-personal-development-books/

  • @Theshakingfist
    @Theshakingfist 6 років тому

    Hi, I recently subscribe because your videos are really insightful without being heavy or boring. Though most of the information is universal, some I find it really doesn't help me. I like to smile a lot and chit chat with anyone willing to do so. However, sometimes men interpret it as flirty. How do I remain friendly without looking flirty? Btw, it wasn't an issue before bc I lost like 30lbs. I was a happy fatty.

  • @elmirasmiscellaneous1129
    @elmirasmiscellaneous1129 6 років тому

    Hey Charlie! That was a very nice video with quite useful tips. It is something I am currently working on, being nice and compliment people easier and more often which sometimes I find it hard to do, cause I am afraid of sounding weird to people. And also, I'd like to ask you this, sometimes I feel like I lose the line to being nice and I cross it and become too nice that people think I am such a naive person and I feel they stop supporting me and want to only receive my support. How about you make a video on that? On how not to overdo the nice thing?

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 років тому +2

      ~ We actually have a video that you might find helpful. Feel free to check out "The Nice Guy Paradox". :-)

    • @elmirasmiscellaneous1129
      @elmirasmiscellaneous1129 6 років тому +1

      Then I'm gonna check it out! :)

  • @varunraheja_
    @varunraheja_ 6 років тому

    Always a pleasure to watch your content!

  • @santiagoarangoramirez983
    @santiagoarangoramirez983 6 років тому

    Dude, thank you for sharing this with us

  • @Bu6v
    @Bu6v 6 років тому

    The least one can do is, compliment people around them. It makes them happier & also raises your charisma.

  • @chaiperets
    @chaiperets 6 років тому

    Love your channel. Tnx! You help me a lot.

  • @Vladimir-hq1ne
    @Vladimir-hq1ne 6 років тому

    I've just thought - there in this video quite an exemplary cast could be Jim Carrey - but you've played that mask at the same level, really.
    Edit - even better.

  • @s4rlife970
    @s4rlife970 6 років тому

    charlieeee, you're amazing!

  • @s.o.9762
    @s.o.9762 6 років тому +2

    Your videos are always helping out! Thanks man!

  • @Скоро-3-Чеченская-Война

    ru. спасибо за все советы))
    eng. thanks for all the tips))

  • @juliaprohaska9295
    @juliaprohaska9295 6 років тому

    Best Christmas video ever
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Fackinfine
    @Fackinfine 6 років тому

    In Norway and also I believe the rest of Scandinavia makes a sound that is a mix of "Ja"(means "yes") and the sound of someone with severe asthma when we make sure that we are engaged to the conversation and listens. My foreign friend thought his teacher was dying the first time he heard it.

  • @arielgrushka
    @arielgrushka 6 років тому

    When he says his uncle always "made him feel seen"... Gosh! That got to me!
    I wanna be "his uncle" in somebody else's life/lives.

  • @kradgamer6727
    @kradgamer6727 6 років тому

    Can you please do a video about strategic thinking like that guy from dethnote

  • @ИринаСтарых-ф6ы
    @ИринаСтарых-ф6ы 6 років тому

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP

  • @makstod6903
    @makstod6903 6 років тому

    You are geting bigger and bigger in every way,but i first noticed it in your mascularity! Keep up the great results

  • @CzechFlash
    @CzechFlash 6 років тому

    I started doing #3! I immediately started seeing changes! I got free coffee, after I asked few questions about xmas! :) (btw that wasnt my intention!)

  • @Josueabrahamluna
    @Josueabrahamluna 6 років тому

    Amen to all of these

  • @bbjudyfit
    @bbjudyfit 5 років тому

    I wanna hear ur music! Do u have a music channel???

  • @zaltarical
    @zaltarical 6 років тому

    Can you break down Neil Carrey from the show White Collar? He’s smooth af and you could have a great discussion about him

  • @intellectualgirl8810
    @intellectualgirl8810 6 років тому

    Thank you

  • @YoungBlaze
    @YoungBlaze 6 років тому +110

    Another thing that will boost your charisma is not sexually assaulting anybody...

    • @gunnaryoung
      @gunnaryoung 6 років тому +39

      Huh, I've gotta try that...

    • @YoungBlaze
      @YoungBlaze 6 років тому

      RubyOnyxx because you said in your blog

    • @daydreamer3573
      @daydreamer3573 6 років тому

      right 😂😂

    • @Stroeem
      @Stroeem 6 років тому +18

      Why do you say this? Do you realize how rare true sexual assault is? This is not counting the new age feminism definition of "sexual assault". It's almost equivalent to saying stealing and murder won't boost your charisma.

    • @YoungBlaze
      @YoungBlaze 6 років тому

      Nikolaj .S but thats super true all the above makes u a loser but in our crazy society's brain unless you were charles manson