How To Look Extremely Confident (Even If You’re Quiet)

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    Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature.
    So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert.
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    0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
    2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
    3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
    5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
    7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.
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  • @michaelscott2990
    @michaelscott2990 4 роки тому +12332

    Somebody: * gives Keanu a compliment*
    Keanu: (uno reverse card)

  • @justice23cooksey
    @justice23cooksey 5 років тому +20050

    When introverts get comfortable, we often get called extroverts

    • @katiacaballero1680
      @katiacaballero1680 4 роки тому +292

      justice23cooksey YESSS

    • @derbynorington8976
      @derbynorington8976 4 роки тому +188

      Agreed

    • @MissieEmbers
      @MissieEmbers 4 роки тому +1237

      I have constantly been mistaken as an extrovert. So everyone would constantly want to be around me and I'd just be like mmmmmm but I need a date with my bed too. The anime is calling my name

    • @ericwalsh2954
      @ericwalsh2954 4 роки тому +573

      People seem to think introverts and extroverts are polar opposites but in reality they can have almost the exact same likes dislikes and mostly the same personality except one thing introverts find it harder to trust and show themselves to others while extroverts can find it easier yo lower there walls no one Is completely one or there other

    • @notbot4298
      @notbot4298 4 роки тому +211

      I think everyone in this world are Ambievert,it's about condition

  • @PurpleLogicYT
    @PurpleLogicYT Рік тому +1012

    My introverted self taking notes:
    1. Be 54 but look 34
    2. Appreciate complements
    3. Have a zen like presence
    4. Punctuated enthusiasm from an introvert is unexpected and captivating to people.
    5. Rub hands together when you start a story.
    6. Use Visual, audio and/or kinesthetic emphasis when telling stories.
    7. Be generous with your time with people.
    8. Let go of things that do not matter to you, so that you can invest more time in things that matter to you.

    • @rarelyalive6130
      @rarelyalive6130 Рік тому +1

      Most of all. Let dogs eat ur shoelaces

    • @user-qm8xe9tl9t
      @user-qm8xe9tl9t Рік тому +27

      As a women this would make me attracted to you. 100 points though if you add humor/ an anecdote that no one expects from you in that second. This makes the most charming person possible imo and you make people around you laugh

    • @alyonavam9040
      @alyonavam9040 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @rarelyalive6130
      @rarelyalive6130 Рік тому +1

      @@user-qm8xe9tl9t I'll take that as advice

    • @thejeanyes12
      @thejeanyes12 Рік тому +1

      ​@@user-qm8xe9tl9t 😂

  • @nmjr547
    @nmjr547 2 роки тому +1211

    In a nutshell: Just be yourself. The more I watch the more I realize that what makes these people so great is that they're being genuine and vulnerable. That's what makes them charismatic at the end of the day. They are not "trying" to make an impression, necessarily. There's a fine line on trying too hard to be a certain way and actually applying these tips and still be yourself. I think the best thing I can do is focus on growing my confidence and the rest will come naturally.

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 Рік тому +67

      some people are too weird to be themselves. it is not always well received

    • @mj_new5396
      @mj_new5396 Рік тому +16

      theres no thing as too weird, thats called being true top who you are.

    • @adriangaming4853
      @adriangaming4853 Рік тому +28

      When I am myself, I don't say a word at all.

    • @tinaknutsen
      @tinaknutsen Рік тому +35

      What makes these people so great is called empathy! In today’s society it is ashamed it is usually considered a weakness and our children are not being taught empathy. I was babysitting my grandson and nephew both 4 years old. My grandson tripped hurt his arm and was crying in pain. My nephew totally ignored him…I brought my nephew over and said you see he is hurt, why don’t you help him? I can see the difference in both 4 year olds- and I know how they are being raised. My nephews parents are always working-struggling: they had kids young with nothing saved and now they are working such long hours to try to make it-they don’t have much “quality time” as the kids are left to play by themselves or be quiet and watch cartoons.
      My grandson’s parents saved, bought a house and decided to wait to have kids when they were stable, done with college and both worked extremely hard and decided when they had kids mom would stay home to raise them and work part time from home. She ( my daughter in law) constantly interacts, looks them in the eyes, has conversations and asks lots of questions like how does that make you feel or what do you think of that and she listens!
      I think compassion and empathy need to be taught at the beginning of life ( looking in your baby’s eyes, holding them when they cry, singing nursery rhymes and smiling at them) and continued throughout. ( teaching good ethics)
      My two cents!

    • @zacharytan1883
      @zacharytan1883 Рік тому +17

      Worst advice lol

  • @mori1bund
    @mori1bund 5 років тому +5717

    Keanu's secret why he's popular? He's genuine. People see that.

    • @Daiska_Plays
      @Daiska_Plays 5 років тому +122

      You're right, on that for sure. Even if it's only on a subconscious level, when nobody actually thinks "that person's so fake", we respond to the uncomplicated way someone speaks and acts on some level. Some more than others, but I think all humanity has at least some of that beneath the surface. We just get numb to phoniness because there's so much of it.

    • @AskSydneyLipton
      @AskSydneyLipton 5 років тому +32

      He’s also a zaddy

    • @Dowlphin
      @Dowlphin 5 років тому +32

      And because he managed a successful career giving him mass exposure. Which might relativize his virtue. Maybe he even knows he did some bad stuff to get to where he is and that furthered his humility. - Do you ever wonder how many Keanu Reeves (or beyond that) there are in the world that you have never heard about?

    • @d0cy0
      @d0cy0 5 років тому +20

      Same reason why Pewdiepie is popular and likable. He's so genuine

    • @Dowlphin
      @Dowlphin 5 років тому +22

      @d0cy0 - A major reason why PewDiePie is popular is because 1) very skillful self-marketing regimen and 2) with that you can always find a group of people who would like anything (example: Bob's Boogers, hah), and 3) especially if you cater to the lowest common denominator, which ties into #1. PewDiePie bought into the easy way and as such helped feed it, and if he then complains about what has become of UA-cam and moves away, he is neglecting his own doing. It is a popular strategy to buy Jesus costumes from Satan, so to speak. - I have a very sensitive bullshit detector, so I see less innocent ignorance in people than many others. - PewDiePie attained great success in a really messed up system.

  • @thelastattempt666
    @thelastattempt666 5 років тому +8388

    Lost opportunity to title this video “WHY KEANU REEVES IS BREATHTAKING”

    • @leahcimmmm
      @leahcimmmm 5 років тому +140

      Genius Idea: Missed

    • @emie1170
      @emie1170 5 років тому +42

      I mean, yeah. But it would seem as clickbaitty, given that _that_ is not the topic of the video. Charisma would just be hoping on the bandwagon of overpraising Keanu for views

    • @machduel
      @machduel 5 років тому +22

      That is also another prime example of spreading the praise. Whether the guy who said it was joking or not, Keanu made everyone feel good by spreading the energy and praise.

    • @Schlitzerix
      @Schlitzerix 5 років тому +1

      he can still change it
      would be smart

    • @emie1170
      @emie1170 5 років тому +1

      gen·u·ine
      you’ve got a great point

  • @casedogLTD
    @casedogLTD 2 роки тому +1393

    I love this guy!
    0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
    2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
    3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
    5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
    7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.

  • @janeway73
    @janeway73 2 роки тому +52

    Keanu's secret goes way beyond hand gestures and demeanor. It's his intelligence and thoughtfulness that keeps drawing you in, the way he considers every word before uttering it, the way he cares. It's the character not the gestures that make the man.

  • @raff03
    @raff03 4 роки тому +8177

    “He uses enthusiastic hand gestures”
    Me an Italian: amateur

    • @welcometolife4237
      @welcometolife4237 4 роки тому +6

      Mamma Mia me Gusta paparazzi isla de muera

    • @raff03
      @raff03 4 роки тому +29

      WelcomeTo Life “me gusta” and “isla de muera” are spanish

    • @welcometolife4237
      @welcometolife4237 4 роки тому +2

      @@raff03 me bueno

    • @raff03
      @raff03 4 роки тому +3

      WelcomeTo Life bueno el burrito

    • @nargarex2390
      @nargarex2390 4 роки тому

      @Draugr 👌

  • @kylereese8509
    @kylereese8509 4 роки тому +3791

    As an introvert, I want quality individuals over a quantity of acquaintances.

    • @Cdharders
      @Cdharders 4 роки тому +31

      Curious, Is there a way you sort out quality acquaintances?

    • @John_shepard
      @John_shepard 4 роки тому +160

      Christopher Harders by actions. Being an introvert allows you to let the other person do most of the talking to figure out how they act/react. While you stay rather emotionally closed off.

    • @elfsieben1450
      @elfsieben1450 4 роки тому +57

      Step/Sit back and watch closely.

    • @elfsieben1450
      @elfsieben1450 4 роки тому +87

      Observe how they behave/interact with other people, how their behaviour does and/or does not change with their environment, whether they live by their words or not.

    • @s4rg380
      @s4rg380 4 роки тому +31

      @Draugr, typically intellectual people tend to be introverts, but as with all rules, there are exceptions.

  • @Wednesdaywoe1975
    @Wednesdaywoe1975 2 роки тому +77

    Keanu takes a compliment, magnifies it, and sends it back out into the universe to multiply. Bless this man.

  • @mohitandcinema
    @mohitandcinema Рік тому +261

    What makes keanu different from other actors is -
    1. His great dressing style
    2. His witty nature that makes other smile
    3. He's very humble.
    4. Less interviews that makes audience interested in him. If latest interview of John wick will air tomorrow I will definitely watch it because he does very little media interactions and interviews.
    5. He has connected himself to the audience.

    • @peonyblossom1800
      @peonyblossom1800 Рік тому +1

      1) if you like his dressing style you must dress like a bachelor on wash day….or toddler.
      2) He’s not that much different really… from the view from my sofa of course. I wonder if he’s just infatuated with teeth? A man knows how to get what he wants.. 😁
      3) sounds like frugal to me.
      4) The interviews before a movie release would make sense.. outside of questions about the movie, it’s wash rinse and repeat.
      5) willingly? 😂

    • @blear2967
      @blear2967 Рік тому +7

      ​@@peonyblossom1800 bro's just a hater

    • @KeanuReeves-fm1dg
      @KeanuReeves-fm1dg 11 місяців тому

      Thanks you guys for your love and support for me, I really appreciate you guys, how long have you be my fan

    • @Dornpunzel
      @Dornpunzel 9 місяців тому

      I think all of this is BS.
      It is the Roles he played that made him famous. Neo. John Wick. Guys just love this silent calm hero stereotype. It has nothing to do with his personality. He is an ordinary guy.

    • @sangammukherjee
      @sangammukherjee 8 місяців тому

      @@peonyblossom1800 dude just get a life

  • @ThorosThor
    @ThorosThor 4 роки тому +6011

    *So Basically he is liked*
    *cause he doesnt act like a celebrity*

    • @jacobsteele7679
      @jacobsteele7679 4 роки тому +427

      its called being genuine, and it is a uncommon trait in the world no just with in celebs

    • @viego29
      @viego29 4 роки тому +12

      Lucas well, not really

    • @crystal.matter
      @crystal.matter 4 роки тому +48

      non-celebs don't act like this either.

    • @therealist499
      @therealist499 4 роки тому +17

      @Lucas Pewdie Pie wish he was like him. All he does is scream like a child all day. He loves attention so no. Nothing like him

    • @viriamiri
      @viriamiri 4 роки тому +28

      @@therealist499 w h a t

  • @souldy09
    @souldy09 5 років тому +3253

    Keanu doesn't tell you what kind of person he is. He shows you what kind of person he is. That's what lots of introverts do.

    • @Desh681
      @Desh681 5 років тому +5

      We'd rather not, but people keep finding us.
      There any videos on how to be more stealthy?

    • @misterFunktastical
      @misterFunktastical 5 років тому +22

      100

    • @yaboyjonez9476
      @yaboyjonez9476 5 років тому +61

      because actions speak louder than words

    • @rashedulkabir6227
      @rashedulkabir6227 5 років тому +16

      introverts do not express their feeling.

    • @joet8862
      @joet8862 5 років тому +68

      That's an annoying thing about extroverts, they can talk too much and do little to back it up

  • @sethwilley9858
    @sethwilley9858 2 роки тому +104

    Keanu has gone through so much in his personal life and I think that adds to his humility. There is no one like him.

  • @Mansohuuj
    @Mansohuuj Рік тому +34

    I once saw Keanu Reeves at an art exhibit opening in Los Angeles. He was dressed in a dark brown suit with a dark shirt and tie. The man stood out because he’s Keanu, but was not flocked by people. He has this way of blending in despite being a celebrity. He seemed genuine and had a super humble energy about him. I regret not saying hello as a fan…

    • @Sandi_shores_lands_fish
      @Sandi_shores_lands_fish Рік тому

      Everybody know if you want to get flocked you wave a couple of bottle and watch them all flock
      Either that or a pool full of liquor
      But Keanu is making empty hand gestures waving his hands... if he had a bottle they would all flock

  • @juanpablo-mm2sn
    @juanpablo-mm2sn 4 роки тому +5898

    Keanu doesn‘t try to be cool, he simply IS.

  • @bettys7298
    @bettys7298 3 роки тому +3898

    “humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less”- Classic!

    • @salvadorlopez527
      @salvadorlopez527 3 роки тому +14

      i liked that one too

    • @MP-cc5rv
      @MP-cc5rv 3 роки тому +50

      If everyone grasped that idea, it would change the world in a beautiful way. It's currently still quite primitive and ego driven, imo

    • @Jasonsminiadventure
      @Jasonsminiadventure 3 роки тому +13

      That is a great bit of wisdom though.

    • @flyingdeer4257
      @flyingdeer4257 3 роки тому +3

      Lol I know that quote from PewDiePie's videos, back in 2016/2017

    • @mohammedosman5504
      @mohammedosman5504 3 роки тому +3

      One of my all time favorite quote.

  • @scottwolff6946
    @scottwolff6946 2 роки тому +203

    He's down to earth, chilled out and very grateful for the life he has. It's hard not to be inspired by that kind of calmness. I've always been an introvert, and it's cool to see someone so famous be the same way.

  • @NasTimeAdventures
    @NasTimeAdventures 2 роки тому +69

    The world would be a better place if we had more people like Keanu. A beautiful soul. Thanks for sharing.

    • @travelwithmestranger
      @travelwithmestranger Рік тому

      There's one more. It's you.

    • @KeanuReeves-fm1dg
      @KeanuReeves-fm1dg 11 місяців тому

      Thanks you for your love and support for me, I really appreciate you guys, how long have you be my fan

  • @lo_Ovung
    @lo_Ovung 5 років тому +64108

    ALL INTROVERTS UNITE!!!
    separately
    In your own rooms.

    • @zoeh.4421
      @zoeh.4421 5 років тому +776

      This needs more likes 😂😂😂
      Edit: the comment I was replying to had likes in the double digits just last night!!!

    • @jadedj5385
      @jadedj5385 5 років тому +613

      🤓 could not have said it better. I'm with you. From way over there...

    • @kangkankrishnasarmapegu7789
      @kangkankrishnasarmapegu7789 5 років тому +389

      😂😂😂

    • @emilycaballero6052
      @emilycaballero6052 5 років тому +576

      Hermit convention!

    • @wharetsu
      @wharetsu 5 років тому +174

      got it 😂

  • @aliciamai
    @aliciamai 5 років тому +2943

    when a public figure or celebrity doesn't have social media, it really says something about them

    • @faithemmanuel7685
      @faithemmanuel7685 5 років тому +23

      Like??

    • @MichaelBerezny
      @MichaelBerezny 5 років тому +313

      alicia mai True, they’re usually just livin life with less stress and less noise

    • @little7redify
      @little7redify 5 років тому +244

      it's so funny how when I call people out on bad behavior in social media they attack me by commenting on how low my follower count is

    • @BillyBoPretty
      @BillyBoPretty 5 років тому +6

      Yeah that they grew up on fame and a lot of them dont know how to use computers. Lol. No, but for real Google it, it's hilarious.

    • @fro_e
      @fro_e 5 років тому +40

      This really says a lot about our society

  • @VitchAndVorty
    @VitchAndVorty 2 роки тому +11

    Keanu is super nice and humble, bro. I mean, seriously. He's not a snob. That man's so priceless. One of this planet's best humans.

  • @yourmajesty3569
    @yourmajesty3569 2 роки тому +33

    The thing PewDiePie and you guys are getting wrong about why Keanu is so well thought of for his generosity....... is that he would NEVER brag or humble brag about his donations. Yet both of you couldn't wait to tell your followers.
    Be generous and don't talk about it. That's why we love Keanu. Let other people expound on your virtues, not YOU.
    Hug difference.

    • @joisco4394
      @joisco4394 Місяць тому

      This guy was asking for donations...

  • @ChakibTsouli
    @ChakibTsouli 5 років тому +2007

    "He redirects praise"
    "YOU'RE BREATHTAKING!"

    • @Raizo_Ch
      @Raizo_Ch 5 років тому +23

      You’re ALL breathtaking!

    • @monsieurboks
      @monsieurboks 5 років тому

      @@Raizo_Ch ngl if he'd said that it wouldve been even better

    • @Raizo_Ch
      @Raizo_Ch 5 років тому +9

      . Actually he did say that also 😄

    • @telor6746
      @telor6746 5 років тому +8

      When a fighter can parry attacks, a keanu can parry compliments plus postive vibes

    • @dan_noo
      @dan_noo 5 років тому +2

      @@telor6746 in some 70% chance he might absorb it and multiply it by random amounts and expelled it in huge AOE

  • @megafiremario12volt
    @megafiremario12volt 5 років тому +2620

    "You think of yourself less without thinking less of yourself." That's golden.

    • @bibomisa6999
      @bibomisa6999 5 років тому +34

      It twisted my brain so much, can you explain?

    • @megafiremario12volt
      @megafiremario12volt 5 років тому +55

      @@bibomisa6999 when you focus on a select few things instead of trying to be everywhere at once, you don't act as selfish, but at the same time, you don't look down on yourself

    • @bibomisa6999
      @bibomisa6999 5 років тому +1

      @@megafiremario12volt Oh, thank you!

    • @megafiremario12volt
      @megafiremario12volt 5 років тому +2

      @@bibomisa6999 No Problem!!!

    • @user-od8vx2ei9g
      @user-od8vx2ei9g 5 років тому +3

      Aj Ordillas I still don’t get it, help! 😂😭😭

  • @latiel2207
    @latiel2207 3 роки тому +15

    I remember our training two years ago. The trainer divide the group between Introverts and Extroverts.
    Introverts were so comfortable with each other that the trainer were confused if we really are introverts.

  • @lordsalisbury1
    @lordsalisbury1 2 роки тому +104

    Simply put, Keanu Reeves just seems to be a nice guy. Everything I've heard about him, and read about him, is almost always someone, famous or otherwise, saying how kind, thoughtful and generous he is with his time. There is even a TED talk out there by a woman who talks about how he gave her an interview as a teenager, just because she asked. Introverts have a lot to offer the world, and the world shouldn't be so biased towards extroversion. Read 'Quiet' by Susan Cain, it's the introvert's bible.

  • @Red-pv3tw
    @Red-pv3tw 5 років тому +4074

    "you've been dubbed the internet's boyfriend, how do you feel about that?"
    "i've been what"

  • @lmoral222
    @lmoral222 5 років тому +2443

    "Introverts are the best. People just don't know it yet."

    • @tutankhamen5080
      @tutankhamen5080 5 років тому +108

      Everyone has something to offer , but more often than not introverts end up not showing the best of what they have

    • @kumar1400
      @kumar1400 5 років тому +17

      @ThatOneAsianBroChick introvert never tell themselves as introvert. They just say," i just quite one. "
      Just saying.

    • @isabellahu4606
      @isabellahu4606 5 років тому

      @@tutankhamen5080 why is that?

    • @14KroshTV
      @14KroshTV 5 років тому +18

      i became introvert because they dont get me. makes me authentic on my own. feels good. my conversation skills is still there im just unsociable and dont start conversations.

    • @ltsf
      @ltsf 5 років тому +29

      Many extroverted people say they are introverted because it's popular now.
      It's sad. Extroverts are needed on this world and we should make extroverts proud 😑

  • @rouslandimickroch5554
    @rouslandimickroch5554 2 роки тому +18

    Keanu Reeves is a legend. When I came to the US I watched a lot of movies to learn social skills and it really helped me. I also learned to be charismatic in the jaunty social skills school. Blessed!

  • @yourmom-qd9ek
    @yourmom-qd9ek 3 роки тому +26

    I also saw Keanu once on Sunset Blvd. hanging out in front of the Viper Room (mid 90's) with a couple people. And I was walking along the side walk, he looked over and nodded his head, and he just seemed like a friendly and genuine person. In LA you often see celebrities out and about and they always seem exasperated and self involved - but not Keanu.

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this great story.

  • @midnightblues9895
    @midnightblues9895 4 роки тому +7253

    Keanu: *talks calmly*
    people: oh so charismatic
    Me: *talks calmly*
    people: are you on drugs?

    • @desasnarse
      @desasnarse 4 роки тому +252

      First time?

    • @yasminhusain213
      @yasminhusain213 4 роки тому +27

      Lol

    • @dylangaeta6462
      @dylangaeta6462 4 роки тому +218

      Well it depends on your past exhibited behavior. If you usually are very energetic, sudden calmness will seem out if place and put people off, as it's out of the comfort zone

    • @midnightblues9895
      @midnightblues9895 4 роки тому +49

      @@dylangaeta6462 its a joke.

    • @glumidooki
      @glumidooki 3 роки тому +30

      Idk why but I like the fact people think i look like I’m tired all the time

  • @HeyItsTheWykydtron
    @HeyItsTheWykydtron 4 роки тому +3436

    Finally, a channel that can help me pass the "I'm not a Robot" test.

  • @amalx80
    @amalx80 Рік тому +15

    I keep coming back to this video without searching it, I have watched it several times and always with a huge smile. I realize while watching Keanu how cool it is to be a kind introvert, sometimes I feel like I am boring or too serious. Still taking my time to realize that I am cool lol

  • @10MinutestoRouletteFortune
    @10MinutestoRouletteFortune 2 роки тому +17

    Keanu actually had a coach of communication work with him on his hand gestures as a way to energize his calm mellow personality. Brings it into balance. I'm the mellow type too and this really works well to help me become more lively.

  • @ALbaraa2X
    @ALbaraa2X 5 років тому +20901

    *This channel is a guide for aliens to learn how to imitate and blend with humans*

    • @A_Salted_Fishe
      @A_Salted_Fishe 5 років тому +379

      TIL I'm an alien 👽

    • @Tbatbatba88
      @Tbatbatba88 5 років тому +292

      You need to learn in order to survive

    • @ALbaraa2X
      @ALbaraa2X 5 років тому +67

      Blck Ntrovert TV more like you need to adapt to survive

    • @rocketassistedgoat1079
      @rocketassistedgoat1079 5 років тому +130

      But aliens do not exist, fellow land walker. This is a myth spread by your collective politician farms to sow discord amongst the herds of regular land walkers. All hail Zeinab! Your friendly next-door emperor.

    • @supremajullibeama6249
      @supremajullibeama6249 5 років тому +30

      @@rocketassistedgoat1079 omg we are the aliens!!! DuHhHhHh!!!

  • @hammadali594
    @hammadali594 5 років тому +1371

    The best way to be popular as an introvert is to become a meme...a breathtaking one that is.

    • @timmytoms__
      @timmytoms__ 5 років тому +4

      JOHN MAYER

    • @Aerochalklate
      @Aerochalklate 5 років тому +6

      Hammad Ali be a fun guy ahehehh heheheh

    • @TritaniumYT
      @TritaniumYT 5 років тому

      Hammad Ali He may he popular on the internet, but he is no joke

    • @Skycube100
      @Skycube100 5 років тому

      not really, I mean he became really popular back then, with the matrix and all... And memes, at least the kinds of memes as that we know of today, don't exist back then.

    • @Hanlb
      @Hanlb 5 років тому +2

      And be *_BREATHTAKING_*

  • @a5y749
    @a5y749 3 роки тому +20

    It seems to me Keanu is a very one of a kind type of person, but thank you for introducing us to this video and explaining how Keanu is such a great communicator and a generous human being. ❤️

  • @risabsai
    @risabsai 2 роки тому +12

    MAN! Your videos are so much impactful on me. All of what you've conjugated and put forth to display here at UA-cam makes it worth it, but it becomes far more useful to some and less for others who won't be able to relate to it on the similar levels. Thanks for all that you've done, have been doing or are going to do. Thank you :)

  • @lusir.
    @lusir. 5 років тому +4569

    Interviewer: You're very handsome
    Keanu: No, you're very handsome :)
    Interviewer: Sir.... I'm a woman..
    Keanu: You're still handsome.

    • @Madraxoo
      @Madraxoo 5 років тому +176

      aRe yOu AsSuMiNg mY gEnDeR???

    • @Vanlifecrisis
      @Vanlifecrisis 5 років тому +273

      Handsome used to be gender neutral.

    • @Rafael-rn6hn
      @Rafael-rn6hn 5 років тому +97

      Keanu: YOU'RE HANDSOME!! YOU'RE ALL HANDSOME!!

    • @typingcat
      @typingcat 5 років тому +89

      "She's tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me." -- Pride and Prejudice, 18XX.

    • @SuperJ1109
      @SuperJ1109 5 років тому +28

      the word handsome is not gendered you can be a 'handsome women'

  • @CarlosJavierArrocha
    @CarlosJavierArrocha 3 роки тому +1712

    How to be popular being introvert:
    Step one: Be keanu Reeves.

    • @coopercook216
      @coopercook216 3 роки тому +19

      Ya I’m pretty sure I can’t get that first step down

    • @yanzi8543
      @yanzi8543 3 роки тому +8

      Or as pretty faced as most actors in general X)

    • @phumlandimande6309
      @phumlandimande6309 3 роки тому +3

      Lol. I'm dead

    • @cut--
      @cut-- 3 роки тому +11

      be yourself and be Christ like.

    • @CarlosJavierArrocha
      @CarlosJavierArrocha 3 роки тому +6

      @@cut-- best comment of a lifetime.

  • @Rockinmycrock
    @Rockinmycrock Рік тому +17

    It’s amazing that you identified he uses a kinesthetic modality… love your videos!

  • @MC-Minority
    @MC-Minority 9 місяців тому +2

    As an extrovert, I love seeing an introvert true personality come out. You guys get in your own head caring what other people think, but you guys are some of the coolest people on Earth.

  • @paulaelli
    @paulaelli 3 роки тому +3409

    Keanu is not in his 50's , he's over 500 years old and Immortal

  • @hansjoshuayabao1855
    @hansjoshuayabao1855 5 років тому +1253

    "Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself, less."
    That quote really hit me. :')

    • @dylanmckenna8693
      @dylanmckenna8693 5 років тому +16

      If it hit you too hard, I hope it didn't leave a bruise

    • @Wyeuca
      @Wyeuca 5 років тому +20

      Reading just about anything by C.S. Lewis will do that to you.

    • @jamesboldcomedy6914
      @jamesboldcomedy6914 5 років тому

      Cooooool

    • @travescolt7389
      @travescolt7389 5 років тому +1

      Yeah I love it

    • @dylanmckenna8693
      @dylanmckenna8693 5 років тому

      Semper Invicta The only real natty was Rich Piano... may the nattiest rest in peace

  • @keddy5627
    @keddy5627 3 роки тому +11

    I love, admire, and respect Keanu Reeves lifestyle, message, and principles…simply the best kind of human! 🥰

  • @themetalorian2268
    @themetalorian2268 Рік тому +7

    Honestly this video touches topics so much deep than I anticipated, and I am truly thankful.

  • @redleome
    @redleome 5 років тому +678

    Long story short... He is authentic. I think the internet misses that since most have become superficial.

    • @whereisja
      @whereisja 5 років тому +23

      Thank you! I was wondering if it was really THAT complex of an explanation? lol A lot of introverts don't come off charismatic or charming either because they have to conform in some way or mimic extroverts to "fit in." Some can do it well, most don't and people can feel that awkwardness.

    • @nogo7277
      @nogo7277 5 років тому

      @αlιуαн we live in a society

    • @AkosM
      @AkosM 5 років тому +7

      He's got that thing which all of us should strive for, called benevolence.

    • @immortalsun
      @immortalsun 5 років тому

      *_WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY._*

    • @valhar2000
      @valhar2000 5 років тому +1

      Most were always superficial. We only just now realized it.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 років тому +1729

    *Sorrow and human tragedy made this man to one of the most humble persons in Hollywood*

    • @whoareyou1034
      @whoareyou1034 5 років тому +88

      Humility tends to come through that.

    • @mxu111
      @mxu111 5 років тому +79

      He had the ability to learn/grow from that. Not many peeps do.

    • @Lucas-GR
      @Lucas-GR 5 років тому +3

      @@whoareyou1034 absolutely agree.

    • @e.t.464
      @e.t.464 5 років тому +6

      Tragedy?

    • @spdadventurer1754
      @spdadventurer1754 5 років тому +29

      I disagree with it a bit @O'SSÉIN. A humble person is always humble, even if he/she is blessed with happiness or have met with unfortunate series of events... I think people like Keanu and Keanu himself for that matter, was always like that🙏🙏

  • @rosswatson3993
    @rosswatson3993 Рік тому +9

    I loved this guy since his early Bill and Ted days. I'm so glad he gets the love and respect for his movies (wasn't always the case) that he's always deserved

  • @setop123
    @setop123 Рік тому +3

    I'm glad that finally being a good person is beginning to be trendy again

  • @danieljanecka9492
    @danieljanecka9492 5 років тому +3964

    How to be popular:
    1. Care less about being popular.
    2. Care about literally anything else than being popular.

    • @DeltaPrime95
      @DeltaPrime95 5 років тому +15

      Lmao

    • @StbrnSal
      @StbrnSal 5 років тому +7

      very accurate

    • @aeromotex
      @aeromotex 5 років тому +4

      yeah like being pretty

    • @GaminCatto
      @GaminCatto 5 років тому +1

      @Reeky Debbarma bro God is not always the answer, i just find you funny

    • @GaminCatto
      @GaminCatto 5 років тому +2

      @Reeky Debbarma trying, not wasting my time praying that i become usefull in life

  • @game_generation
    @game_generation 5 років тому +3366

    Despite the thumbnail's suggestion, you can become a famous introvert, but you can't become Keanu Reeves.

    • @helo9316
      @helo9316 5 років тому +35

      Yep
      But some of the most famous peoples are introvert
      Bill gates, elon musk, steve jobs, and that guy who plays batman role ( i can't remember his name)

    • @elsavillarreal7952
      @elsavillarreal7952 5 років тому +22

      He is a Unicorn. Even unicorns want to be Keanu Reeves

    • @ABasit25
      @ABasit25 5 років тому +3

      The reality

    • @nexuswolf780
      @nexuswolf780 5 років тому

      @@helo9316 George Clooney?

    • @Sidsidsidsids
      @Sidsidsidsids 5 років тому +1

      Darin De Paul says: No.

  • @decentsimon777
    @decentsimon777 Рік тому +2

    Apart from being a huge resource, this channel picked an amazing Charity! I've been a donor since last 7 years. One of those rare moments when I sat through the whole video of their mission and how they started ..told passionately by their creator.. and signed up! These guys are really transparent and doing a great job! Koodos to the channel for picking a great charity.

  • @jetdeleon
    @jetdeleon 2 роки тому +4

    Tremendous thanks for this video. I’m a professional musician/singer that has used previous theater training to “turn on” certain skills and qualities when the situation requires it. But it’s so refreshing and inspiring to see a deeper and truly meaningful way of being in public as an introvert through Keanu’s examples. Absolutely fantastic, thank you so much for making this video.

  • @CLBOO6
    @CLBOO6 3 роки тому +4425

    Keanu Reeves is our Introverts ambassador. One of the best out there. Someone whom the introverts can look up to because usually when it comes to charisma people always pointed the introverts to look up to popular extroverts. Keanu Reeves show that you can be successful while staying true to who you really are and not changing yourselves just for the sake of fitting in.

    • @benjaminroman916
      @benjaminroman916 3 роки тому +89

      Also this is a man that have suffered big loses. I think he lost a pregnant girlfriend, close relatives and have never stopped being kind and gracious towards others. Introvert Ambassador indeed.

    • @juliansihite1289
      @juliansihite1289 3 роки тому +26

      @@benjaminroman916 don't mess with a lonely patient kind introvert, cuz he will kill you with a fuckin pencil !!!

    • @awkwardsanchez6231
      @awkwardsanchez6231 3 роки тому +11

      @@juliansihite1289 That sounds like a sociopath rather than a introverted person.

    • @juliansihite1289
      @juliansihite1289 3 роки тому +2

      @@awkwardsanchez6231 hahaha

    • @bornyesterday8730
      @bornyesterday8730 3 роки тому +6

      No. Thats just a magic trick. The pencil disappeared didnt it?

  • @akuma2892
    @akuma2892 5 років тому +1946

    It's pretty simple.. let go of ego. Be humble, gracious and caring.

    • @sarcasm-83
      @sarcasm-83 5 років тому +28

      True, but to plenty of people, that seems to be completely impossible.

    • @TheDtruth29
      @TheDtruth29 5 років тому +1

      well said

    • @jairsalome3117
      @jairsalome3117 5 років тому +1

      Well typed, that's all what it takes

    • @toddbauer1996
      @toddbauer1996 5 років тому +32

      It's conceptually simple, but to practice it on a moment-to-moment basis for every moment (or at least most moments) of the rest of your life? That project is a bit more tricky. People dedicate their entire lives to that project. If you think you've completely ditched your ego, it's likely the case that you've become more egocentric, not less. Arrogance quite often masquerades as humility, even to one's self.

    • @powershiftffs
      @powershiftffs 5 років тому +3

      That's exactly why pride is not a good thing contrary to what different social tribes imply

  • @jeremygalloway1348
    @jeremygalloway1348 Рік тому +3

    Keanu reeves is great. Decrnt acting. Seems like a cool guy in the very few interview segments ive watched of him. His run is goofy as hell too. Seemingly great dude

  • @Muciatneh
    @Muciatneh 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you. Your video gave me a brief reality check - especially towards the end in reference to your water donations. I needed to remember to be truly grateful for what I already have, and chasing the next cool thing doesn't ALWAYS have to occupy the forefront of my anxiety problems. Again, thank you.

  • @IVoyager-lj9it
    @IVoyager-lj9it 5 років тому +1567

    Keanu is one of a very small group of Hollywood hits that is still respectable and not totally batshit crazy.

    • @souio
      @souio 5 років тому +32

      nah he's crazy but he embraces his crazy and is comfy with it so it's charming.

    • @susanjewitt8783
      @susanjewitt8783 4 роки тому

      @@souio Nothing wrong with being a little crazy.

    • @daeizd
      @daeizd 4 роки тому

      I, Voyager1776 and also handsome😳🖤

  • @nafisa1029
    @nafisa1029 5 років тому +1360

    "You're the internet's boyfriend"
    Keanu: (Harry Potter voice) I'm the what?

    • @xxx1x47x41x3
      @xxx1x47x41x3 5 років тому +27

      pretty sure he says "I've been what?"

    • @sir_prize_ma_the_farcar4547
      @sir_prize_ma_the_farcar4547 5 років тому +1

      I love you

    • @steelfox4437
      @steelfox4437 5 років тому +8

      She said he has 'been' the internet's boyfriend, so he asked I've 'been' what?

    • @Sal3600
      @Sal3600 5 років тому

      You're a power unit Keanu.

    • @m3rl1on
      @m3rl1on 5 років тому +1

      You're a bloody wizard!1!

  • @zapotec818
    @zapotec818 2 роки тому +3

    Before he revamped his career he was with his girlfriend at my teen job in santa monica beach. He was polite, looked me in the eye and talked to me like we were friends. Glad to see his success matches his personality.

  • @veganvocalist4782
    @veganvocalist4782 2 роки тому +2

    KEANU makes me well up with emotion because of his deep compassion and empathy for others , beautiful human being

  • @flamingomingo9810
    @flamingomingo9810 5 років тому +1452

    “What is your secret for always staying down-to-earth?”
    “Well, you know... gravity.”

    • @milton5417
      @milton5417 5 років тому +3

      HAHAHA

    • @wanderingsoul1500
      @wanderingsoul1500 5 років тому +5

      LOL,this made me laugh today

    • @Rakshiir
      @Rakshiir 5 років тому +19

      I am not really like him (obviously, who is?) but thats the first thing I had in mind as well after hearing the question.
      And the funny thing is: its not because I thought "oh, I will look humble" but rather "I think thats funny"

    • @sharkdentures3247
      @sharkdentures3247 5 років тому +3

      How can you tell the cleverest jokes?
      You can see the punch-line coming from a mile away, but still laugh when it gets here!

    • @DarkLordGanondorf190
      @DarkLordGanondorf190 5 років тому +1

      He was sitting on the ground at that moment. I thought he would go with that XD

  • @AshSJones
    @AshSJones 4 роки тому +1391

    Basically.. he is just a really nice guy and its impossible not to like him.

    • @TaunellE
      @TaunellE 4 роки тому +7

      It seems that way. I like him. I saw him when I was a kid in 'Bill and Teds Excellent Adventure.' And 'Point Break' is awesome. I cannot not like him. You're right. 😊♥️

    • @frednil8304
      @frednil8304 3 роки тому +2

      That might be why he was with puppies, he fits right in.

    • @krishanubanerjee6955
      @krishanubanerjee6955 3 роки тому

      Nailed it!

    • @stefanodella756
      @stefanodella756 3 роки тому

      Ok, but with this comment It seems you UNSHADOWED yourself.
      Who wants to understand will understand 😂

    • @AshSJones
      @AshSJones 3 роки тому

      @@stefanodella756 it is possible to over analyse somthing, and sometimes if you want to learn it's best not to over complicate it.

  • @claudiameyer7489
    @claudiameyer7489 Рік тому +1

    Wow! I loved Keanu before I knew how kind and generous he is, but once I did, I think he’s just an amazing human being.

  • @IceColdProfessional
    @IceColdProfessional Рік тому +3

    These are some great tips. I identify with Keanu's social style. I'll take notes, analyze, synthesize, and deploy this information in my next conversation with a human.

  • @tb.7788
    @tb.7788 4 роки тому +1139

    “humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less”
    yea well i have both of those down so checkmate

  • @kerim.peardon5551
    @kerim.peardon5551 3 роки тому +3637

    As an introvert, I look at something when I am telling a story because I am easily distracted by people's faces and other things that are going on. If I am looking at someone's face, I am reading it. If I am looking at something happening in the background, I am preoccupied with figuring out what's happening. So I have to look at something neutral, like the table or the floor, so that I can process my thoughts or access my memory.

    • @sugarnspike613
      @sugarnspike613 3 роки тому +157

      This! Definitely this! Also I'm surprised he didn't talk about micro expressions. Looking down and to the right is actually thinking about the story and telling it truthfully

    • @Lacrymosa1791
      @Lacrymosa1791 3 роки тому +87

      This is exactly how I am! But I was told after a job interview that they went with another candidate because they felt it was rude I wasn't making eye contact :(

    • @changmin8851
      @changmin8851 3 роки тому +2

      Hello gorgeous, thanks for the beautiful comment on my official account here 🌹🍀🙏🥰🤗💝

    • @changmin8851
      @changmin8851 3 роки тому

      @@Lacrymosa1791 Hello gorgeous, thanks for the beautiful comment on my official account here 🌹🍀🙏🥰🤗💝

    • @mattethebest1
      @mattethebest1 3 роки тому

      Qqqqqqqqqqq

  • @BradColemanisHere
    @BradColemanisHere 2 роки тому

    Well done on the donation! That's wonderful. Thank you for the Keanu video. Great analysis. We share a trait or two, but he is truly special.

  • @BlushGush
    @BlushGush 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your donation to charity water. I know it’s not brought up much here but it didn’t go unseen ❤️

  • @victorbruant389
    @victorbruant389 5 років тому +3035

    I'll just lock myself into my room and think about it.

  • @oelaty9116
    @oelaty9116 5 років тому +2023

    Step 1: be Keanu Reeves
    Step 2: be immortal
    Step 3: be breathtaking
    Step 4: bask in glory

    • @sienkiewiczmonika1161
      @sienkiewiczmonika1161 5 років тому +14

      Travis La Flamé
      Step 5: stay Keanu Reeves

    • @capkenway
      @capkenway 5 років тому +8

      Step 6: Now you are Internet's Boyfriend/Girl Friend

    • @ScrappingDiva
      @ScrappingDiva 5 років тому +2

      Travis La Flamé delete bask and add deflect instead.

    • @ines8923
      @ines8923 5 років тому +2

      Very accurate

    • @erickissinger7087
      @erickissinger7087 5 років тому +5

      @Travis La Flamé you're breathtaking

  • @krishnansubramoni7801
    @krishnansubramoni7801 2 роки тому

    As a big introvert and lover of all things Keanu, this is one of my favorite videos. 🧡

  • @JayJoe1984
    @JayJoe1984 Рік тому

    This is my life, at all my work places and during my schooling I barely spoke to people but everyone liked/thought I was cool/wanted to be around me. This is very accurate.

  • @gustavosuenaga
    @gustavosuenaga 3 роки тому +1663

    Me: has school presentation
    Introduction:
    "I really want to thank my parents, my friends and my teachers, without you I wouldn't be here..."

    • @MartinKohoutekchannel
      @MartinKohoutekchannel 3 роки тому +153

      That could actually really work great for you :D Nobody would expect that and I think it would be an amusing start!

    • @Vashtibucket
      @Vashtibucket 3 роки тому +15

      Lmao

    • @delgryphon6633
      @delgryphon6633 3 роки тому +12

      Hey, how'd it go? :D

    • @thesolocreative3538
      @thesolocreative3538 3 роки тому +30

      as someone studying to be a teacher and working in schools this made me smile!

    • @grayman1
      @grayman1 3 роки тому +3

      Genius.

  • @bplup6419
    @bplup6419 5 років тому +261

    "Not everything Keanu does is ideal."
    And that's what makes him easy to relate with.

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 Рік тому +2

    Good video. Keanu really stands out as being different and much more likeable than most celebrities. He seems like someone who understands that a lot of good fortune is down to luck hence his gratitude, generosity and praise for others. A lot of successful people mistakenly believe they are successful due to hard work alone rather than hard work and luck, or in some cases just luck on its own. The world would be a better place if this was widely acknowledged, but most people are too scared to admit it.

  • @loveleeluv7
    @loveleeluv7 Рік тому +2

    It All Boils Down to KEANU Reeves BEING EXACTLY WHO HE SAYS AND ACTS HE IS. No matter how hard any person tries to cover his real nature, WHETHER INTROVERTED OR EXTROVERTED, THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS COME OUT.
    All these times, only genuineness has come out of Keanu because HE NEVER has ulterior motives to what he's been doing. Just being a pure person 💖God Bless him!

  • @marizabarnes
    @marizabarnes 4 роки тому +1752

    I’m an introvert and I do the same in conversations, sometimes I avoid eye contact and I am very aware of it. I need to do this to be able to dig inside my thoughts so I can expose them verbally. Introverts are better at writing than at speaking. Also as an introvert I can say that there is nothing more annoying than someone talking to you while stabbing their sight into yours without even blinking once. It’s super annoying and extroverts tend to do that without even being conscious about it.

    • @Nyuffykah
      @Nyuffykah 4 роки тому +84

      I am an introvert and i look in the eye of people because it gives me billions of information. Talking to them after is just unnecessary and annoying😆😁

    • @connorhayes2374
      @connorhayes2374 4 роки тому +35

      Im bad at writing and speaking...

    • @niodagino9438
      @niodagino9438 4 роки тому +103

      idk if it’s just me but i literally cannot stare at peoples eyes (unless i like them) for longer than 5 seconds. every time a teacher looks at me in the eyes i quickly look away and idk why

    • @chiefnerve1710
      @chiefnerve1710 4 роки тому +54

      @@niodagino9438 I do the exact same thing. I'm really trying to look people in the eyes but Im just unable to do it for longer periods of time. I can't explain it, it just feels unnatural to me.

    • @Zed9659
      @Zed9659 4 роки тому +1

      Same

  • @HumansOfVR
    @HumansOfVR 5 років тому +1969

    _*“The simple act of paying attention can take you a long way.”
    ― Keanu Reeves

    • @johndoef5962
      @johndoef5962 5 років тому +3

      True

    • @breadfan_85
      @breadfan_85 5 років тому +10

      Yep. People think I'm some smart cookie. I tell them, "No I'm not, I just pay better attention."

    • @vitaminkplus
      @vitaminkplus 5 років тому +9

      How to Be Human without trying to fit in.

    • @SirJohann
      @SirJohann 5 років тому +1

      Stuff like this really makes me stop and just think in deep thought. Completely an eye opener.

    • @ameremortal
      @ameremortal 5 років тому +5

      Love is Attention

  • @marleymakesmusic8951
    @marleymakesmusic8951 3 роки тому +2

    When you said you'd donate 100.000 Dollars I gasped, that was really touching and a grand gesture! Bravo! That also shows how doing good and being selfless just like Keanu has an impact on the people around you. The way you see the world and treat others enables others to be great, too. Even when you're not preaching it and deliberately ask people to do better. They can't help but be affected by it. Really shows how much an individual matters.

  • @ilikebeanies3499
    @ilikebeanies3499 3 роки тому +24

    Keanu saying "No, YOU'RE breathtaking!" Has become a popular meme, but it's a wonderful display of his charisma and way of speaking to others.
    Also, I find it so difficult to keep eye contact with people. My eyes dart back and forth, because I'm not good at holding my eyes on something without crossing them in a really derpy way. XD So I don't blame Keanu for that ^^

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 5 років тому +1092

    One can only hope to be like Keanu Reeves but we all know we're beneath The Chosen One himself.

    • @sverrearnes7769
      @sverrearnes7769 5 років тому

      Who?

    • @sethjg3d
      @sethjg3d 5 років тому +6

      Just be yourself... and you're halfway there

    • @seizethemovement9288
      @seizethemovement9288 5 років тому

      Mangolians

    • @pranakhan
      @pranakhan 5 років тому +7

      The light you reflect onto others comes from within. Take time to appreciate the warmth of your illumination

    • @Galdring
      @Galdring 5 років тому

      @@sverrearnes7769 Neo, min venn

  • @cococooley2589
    @cococooley2589 4 роки тому +752

    Extroverts are like an action film. Fun at first and cool for everybody to see.
    Introverts are like the cool interesting series that takes a while to get going but when it does oh boy your in for something special.

    • @rodiusmaximus
      @rodiusmaximus 3 роки тому +53

      nah. Introverts are more like an action film with lots of fighting and minimal talking. Extroverts are like a drama where they just won't shut up

    • @urdadsonic1036
      @urdadsonic1036 3 роки тому +1

      aye

    • @fingok
      @fingok 3 роки тому +10

      Introverts like Nolan's movies

    • @midekuts
      @midekuts 3 роки тому +5

      @@rodiusmaximus😂... I agree and still can't disagree with @coco cooley...

    • @TheDBZCollector
      @TheDBZCollector 3 роки тому +10

      too bad some people are like those who stopped watching WandaVision after the first episode, they are missing out on awesomeness.

  • @Santoroz
    @Santoroz Рік тому

    Keanu is just a really good person time and time again through the years with his actions in life, and that's why we all love him.

  • @AloutkaKazawa
    @AloutkaKazawa 3 роки тому +1

    as an artist and as an educator while being an introvert (and someone who reads people constantly and is influenced by their emotions and "energy") I struggled with finding a way how to perform or speak publicly. I think I finally understand there is no escape from being a bit awkward. I love making interviews with artists/makers but I feel the safest hidden behind the camera. better later to realize that then never :)
    it's a very helpful video - funny, I've seen it before but probably wasn't ready to accept the set of advice it gives. :))
    all the best, fellow introverts :))))

  • @eddieozil21
    @eddieozil21 5 років тому +596

    He’s finally getting the respect he deserves! The nicest and most humble person in all of Hollywood without a doubt.

    • @julioolivares9424
      @julioolivares9424 5 років тому +31

      He was popular in the late 90's early 2000's also. Great he came back

    • @matthewmalleus7135
      @matthewmalleus7135 5 років тому +4

      Kurt Russell has many years of class, rare in Hollywood, especially a guy who began acting as a small child.

    • @gytisdramblewolfskis8521
      @gytisdramblewolfskis8521 5 років тому +1

      probably not even a pedo.

    • @eddieozil21
      @eddieozil21 5 років тому

      Julio Olivares the internet wasn’t the same as it is now, so people never got to see the person he is. He was only know for the roles he played in.

  • @athertonx5779
    @athertonx5779 3 роки тому +1191

    He has learnt the secret of life..serving others, loving all, respecting humanity.

    • @TimTamSlam7
      @TimTamSlam7 3 роки тому +40

      He doesn't "serve others", he collaborates with them and treats them like people

    • @Thadookiedemon9013
      @Thadookiedemon9013 3 роки тому +11

      @@TimTamSlam7 facts this guy made it sound bad, he serves himself because he is free of all things that hold him down.

    • @whiteley.s_arts
      @whiteley.s_arts 3 роки тому +7

      I find peace when I help others

    • @athertonx5779
      @athertonx5779 3 роки тому +10

      @@TimTamSlam7 you then don't understand the concept of serving others.

    • @greek6623
      @greek6623 3 роки тому

      Learnt?

  • @blondebody5187
    @blondebody5187 2 роки тому +6

    The best thing I have ever heard about Keanu was on Jen Cohen’s podcast. Long story short, after the movie Speed came out and he was huge, she asked to interview him for her demo tape (she was in high school) and this man literally called her mom, came to her house and was on her demo tape🤣

  • @dee5331
    @dee5331 Рік тому +1

    Living by the example of "those" we are inspired by! Very helpful! Thank you!

  • @ChaoticChicken2
    @ChaoticChicken2 5 років тому +1176

    This video treats it as if Keanu has become a master at this, when in reality it's just his normal mannerisms

    • @bellaF
      @bellaF 5 років тому +34

      That's very true.

    • @sakusaiyan
      @sakusaiyan 5 років тому +10

      This...

    • @badasstoad9419
      @badasstoad9419 5 років тому +22

      INFJustice
      Hey fellow INFJ, I noticed ya. ;) Guess you’re here for the same reason?
      Keanu Reeves definitely seems to be the INFJ personality type!

    • @TiaMarie777
      @TiaMarie777 5 років тому +1

      Exactly

    • @zaltarical
      @zaltarical 5 років тому +41

      Normal mannerisms that work incredibly well and are worth learning from

  • @lizzam
    @lizzam 3 роки тому +2253

    When Keanu lose eye contact and goes into a long sentence, it seems like he's genuinely trying to answer that, rather than being prepared. It feels more intimate, like he's grasping inwards to answer the question. Very similar to when people monologue about their past.

    • @littenfire3563
      @littenfire3563 2 роки тому +35

      Or when someone is trying to remember something

    • @Joseibruc
      @Joseibruc Рік тому

      The problem lies in people believibg an old adage that breaking eye contact means you are lieing.
      I look up to the right cause their are less items that will.distract then looking down.

    • @smithcarlin8934
      @smithcarlin8934 Рік тому +8

      this is also common with people with autism! it’s important to be inclusive

    • @strangerdaysss
      @strangerdaysss Рік тому +9

      yes, like he's putting all efforts into answering the question at hand bc it's important to him (im sure the whole convo is important to him)

    • @Dornpunzel
      @Dornpunzel 9 місяців тому

      I think all of this is BS.
      It is the Roles he played that made him famous. Neo. John Wick. Guys just love this silent calm hero stereotype. It has nothing to do with his personality. He is an ordinary guy.

  • @zzzzzz-il1iq
    @zzzzzz-il1iq 2 роки тому +2

    The real reason why he is so popular -humble & kind

  • @peanutbutter4978
    @peanutbutter4978 3 місяці тому +1

    Keanu Reeves is like the only genuine and lovely celebrity.

  • @guidetogreatness7462
    @guidetogreatness7462 5 років тому +870

    "Silence is a source of great strength." - Lao Tzu

    • @shivanshlolayekar9668
      @shivanshlolayekar9668 5 років тому +4

      Ya mean the immortal Keanu Reeves

    • @edboss36
      @edboss36 5 років тому

      “Fuck off before I eat your dog”-Bruce lee

    • @chrisgonzalez91
      @chrisgonzalez91 5 років тому

      Love this quote

    • @Chex2331
      @Chex2331 5 років тому +19

      The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room

  • @habanerofg2
    @habanerofg2 5 років тому +476

    “That the ones who love us, will miss us”
    That hit me right in the feels. It means so much from him, he lost a baby and a girlfriend to tragedy.

    • @kazumy2558
      @kazumy2558 5 років тому +13

      He did? I had no idea...

    • @KimikooYT
      @KimikooYT 5 років тому +58

      He also lost his best friend in an accident. He lost so much those words are full of meaning

    • @RIPToNateDoggIHadToRegulate
      @RIPToNateDoggIHadToRegulate 5 років тому +2

      He also took my virginity.
      Virginity lost.

    • @user-if3tk2zm5o
      @user-if3tk2zm5o 5 років тому +5

      And River.

    • @TheBuddybro1
      @TheBuddybro1 5 років тому +12

      Don’t forget about his dog.That was very hard on him as well

  • @nothere3982
    @nothere3982 2 роки тому +1

    Many things make sense now as why I was able to make friends only via hobbies or time spent studying. It's very very useful to know there are different types of people and I was having a hard time not knowing why I couldn't make friends I was comfortable with.
    That's why I'd like to thank you, so thank you for that.

  • @ssspit
    @ssspit 2 роки тому +1

    he talks with his hands really damn well... when i speak i'm so focused on articulating my thoughts accurately that eye contact hardly matters... i look at a person in bt to bring that connection back