Moral of the story is if you simp for a broad expect her to lose attraction. If you want to maintain long term attraction maintain indifference at all times and keep your options open lol
You, and the video maker, are completely mistaken. If you are "indifferent" toward the relationship, then (a) it's not worth having in the first place-why bother?; and (b) the woman will soon realize you're just a player and will walk away. The only women who are attracted to "indifference" are those with low self-esteem and problematic "daddy issues."
@@KingoftheJuice18indifference comes from being busy in your purpose no from being an asshole. It is up to you if you are doing it in a healthy way or toxic.
Just ignore these chicks when their interest begins to dwindle, take the loss and move on focusing on whats truly important, your fitness hobbies and your path and purpose
I always fall into the pattern of not being interested in a girl because I'm busy with my life, she starts chasing me, I start to like her, she pulls away, and I get stuck trying to find my masculine core again. Those damn feelings.
Women create the ultimate paradox, when they want you, and you don't notice them, you're doing well. And when you want them after they wanted you, now they don't want you anymore. Sigh.
@@ChristiaanBurgel I understand and try to practice the mentality of "she cannot be the center of your life, she has to be a compliment to it", but it's so easy to get lost in your feelings. Maybe it's limerance, maybe it's genuine attraction, but the feeling does not go away easily.
@@ChristiaanBurgel There has to be a life that you love outside of a relationship. One that makes you happy and gives you purpose, so when she does leave, your life won't become empty. A life outside of her is abundance because it means there's potential to meet new people, not just in a romantic sense.
We nuh want her back when she pull away from us because we are strong, our life is happy without her , her pulling does not affect us we are high value , she low value.
In my case … I discovered she has sever trauma from a critical incident and was reared by a narc mom. She admits her crazy behavior and wants to see a counselor. She feels unworthy and has self worth issues. She is a dismissive avoidant and is BPD . She pulled back out of fear and insecurities
I wish chris will talk about how sometimes you can do everything right using perfect technique and you can still lose her. With some women you are just wasting time
Yes this is why men should not invest or put all eggs in 1 basket. You'll be disappointed. Women naturally flake. Women are lazy by nature. You have to date multiple girls and keep the ones with higher interest. Test them before they test you. Give them a 3 strikes and you're out treatment. Then move to the next one. Invest in yourself always.
All of these apply 💯 to those who date in line with today's predominant hookup culture. Unfortunately..... Most people have to fall in line or stay single.
😂😂ha ha ...i am coming after 3 yrs of my brk up..in my initial brkup years i watched your videos very often ...now I am totally move on...one thing whatever happens happens for good.. God has best plans for you than the better 😮
If she pulls away, assume you have been dumped... Only speak to her when she initiates contact. Bottom line... She doesn't like you very much. Put her in the friend zone. Be nice, say nothing.
@@zombiedeutschyou can't be cold like that. The good ones will leave. It's all about balance and keeping the right amount of mystery while also making her feel special but not losing your edge. It's a skill
Ask her..or if you have to ask her in the first place, you might know your answer to that. How people treat you or speak to you is a reflection of how they view you. If she likes, loves, cares, misses you, has any sort of positive connection to you in any way, then she will let you know.
Moral of the story is if you simp for a broad expect her to lose attraction. If you want to maintain long term attraction maintain indifference at all times and keep your options open lol
Always keep the options open. Always! 😂
That male was listening to 👇
Justin timberlake
Girlfriend
Featuring Nelly
When he asked her out!
Stop using "Simp" word, is stup1d...
But, the main idea is not to focus on the relationship and go with your mission.
You, and the video maker, are completely mistaken. If you are "indifferent" toward the relationship, then (a) it's not worth having in the first place-why bother?; and (b) the woman will soon realize you're just a player and will walk away. The only women who are attracted to "indifference" are those with low self-esteem and problematic "daddy issues."
@@KingoftheJuice18indifference comes from being busy in your purpose no from being an asshole. It is up to you if you are doing it in a healthy way or toxic.
Just ignore these chicks when their interest begins to dwindle, take the loss and move on focusing on whats truly important, your fitness hobbies and your path and purpose
Well said
I always fall into the pattern of not being interested in a girl because I'm busy with my life, she starts chasing me, I start to like her, she pulls away, and I get stuck trying to find my masculine core again. Those damn feelings.
Weird, right?
Women create the ultimate paradox, when they want you, and you don't notice them, you're doing well. And when you want them after they wanted you, now they don't want you anymore. Sigh.
@@ChristiaanBurgel I understand and try to practice the mentality of "she cannot be the center of your life, she has to be a compliment to it", but it's so easy to get lost in your feelings. Maybe it's limerance, maybe it's genuine attraction, but the feeling does not go away easily.
@@ChristiaanBurgel There has to be a life that you love outside of a relationship. One that makes you happy and gives you purpose, so when she does leave, your life won't become empty. A life outside of her is abundance because it means there's potential to meet new people, not just in a romantic sense.
Don’t give anything to women you date. They either like you or they don’t. No action required. Keep your options open.
Option with other things to do, not other women.
We nuh want her back when she pull away from us because we are strong, our life is happy without her , her pulling does not affect us we are high value , she low value.
Love the magnet analogy, Chris. So true.
In my case … I discovered she has sever trauma from a critical incident and was reared by a narc mom. She admits her crazy behavior and wants to see a counselor. She feels unworthy and has self worth issues. She is a dismissive avoidant and is BPD .
She pulled back out of fear and insecurities
Walk away and save yourself the trouble. Dating BPD is like riding a roller coaster with your eyes shut.
...and without any safety bar. Good luck there when the ride flips.
wow 2000 years of civilization and we're still doing the mating dance that animals do.
At best we’re civilized animals
Humanity will still do that dance long before we're dead. Civilization won't change millions of years of sexual evolution anytime soon.
I wish chris will talk about how sometimes you can do everything right using perfect technique and you can still lose her. With some women you are just wasting time
You're probably not high value enough, always keep improving. Even if you were, maybe not quick enough?
@@bastiano333You're right about the part about being broken
@@georgemubanga1878hey do you think my girlfriend will miss me if we don’t see each other for a week
Yes this is why men should not invest or put all eggs in 1 basket. You'll be disappointed. Women naturally flake. Women are lazy by nature.
You have to date multiple girls and keep the ones with higher interest. Test them before they test you. Give them a 3 strikes and you're out treatment. Then move to the next one.
Invest in yourself always.
@@bastiano333 You need options then man, check out Rich Cooper for red flags so you don't end up with a broken woman again
I love this video, keep dem coming 🔥🔥🔥
All of these apply 💯 to those who date in line with today's predominant hookup culture.
Unfortunately..... Most people have to fall in line or stay single.
😂😂ha ha ...i am coming after 3 yrs of my brk up..in my initial brkup years i watched your videos very often ...now I am totally move on...one thing whatever happens happens for good.. God has best plans for you than the better 😮
I'm reading your "Atomic Attractions" ❤ It so helpful and it is based on scientific research.
If she pulls away, assume you have been dumped... Only speak to her when she initiates contact. Bottom line... She doesn't like you very much. Put her in the friend zone. Be nice, say nothing.
Facts, real talk Chris 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Don't waste your time on dating apps
Said every ugly guy going
Its not always that you failed
Its just that they have hell of options
Stop caring what women think and do. You level up and they get worse. This is their problem not mine
Self-confidence is a huge problem for me...
If i am already in a relationship for 2 years?? Should i still be not relationship focused??? Or does this apply only in the beginning.I am confused.
@@BD-rx2dehey do you think my girlfriend will miss me if me and my girlfriend don’t see each other for too weeks
@@BD-rx2de i think my relationship ended because i wasn't relationship focused. My girl was upset and craving attention.
@@zombiedeutschthere’s definitely some balance in play here.
@@zombiedeutschyou can't be cold like that. The good ones will leave. It's all about balance and keeping the right amount of mystery while also making her feel special but not losing your edge. It's a skill
@@Rmalikk we learn i guess.
So if you are asking here to meet up, this does not mean you are relationship-focused as a man?
Mad cows disease...does anyone remember that? All these cows are truly mad 😂
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Cheating
Hey so if I don’t see my girlfriend for a week will my girlfriend miss me just asking
Ask her..or if you have to ask her in the first place, you might know your answer to that. How people treat you or speak to you is a reflection of how they view you. If she likes, loves, cares, misses you, has any sort of positive connection to you in any way, then she will let you know.
Maybe ask one of her other current boyfriends.
@@Mike_Cosentino yech I do ask every time when she goes somewhere are you going to miss me and my girlfriend says yes
@@bogan-slayer7469 so if I don’t see my girlfriend for a week will my girlfriend miss me
@@BrandelSaundh-d9bthen, there u go.
Why putting women above your purpose
Chris I fucking love you brother. However, you look a little bit hungover. Please stay hydrated.
😂😂,
💯
Or…she found a replacement 😏