I lost the love of my life because I was too nice and too responsive, helped her with everything and made her the center of my world, I knew what I was doing was wrong I just couldn't help it, I thought she was different, but I learned the hard way, they are all the same.
Take care mate I know what u are getting through, we all been there. Focus on ir mates, gym, work, money and health, the more time u spend with masculine energy and other maales the better u feel and ver 6 montchs u will be dofferent person, i promise u! And remeber no matter what ur parents are proud, mom loves u, dog loves u and u are important for so many ppl!!!
Even the sane ‘good women’ manufacture drama and play up when they’re bored (women get bored easily) to enable them to ‘feel’ something. She will also do it if she senses weakness in you. Basically women are a pain in the arse at times. As men we’re happy to just go along with our routines, we don’t need these emotional spikes to our days. It also gets tiresome having to entertain her the whole time so she doesn’t get bored / thinks you don’t care about her. As a man you can never relax when you’re in a LTR with a woman, else she starts thinking can I do better.
This is so spot-on. Come from a broken home, divorced family, estranged relatives, stress, trauma, etc. I’ve been very understanding of her situation, I’ve answered her calls-every time-b!thing about her family, work, etc. But the moment that I needed someone to talk to for five min, she was not available. The double-standard is disgusting. I’d been so selfless with multiple women. But you’re right, nice guys finish last. Best to do is not get caught up in their tangled web and focus on yourself and let them meet you halfway as opposed to doing 90-100% of the work.
It happened to me guys, she attracted to me when i was being cold to her, i slowly soft when i was with her until i was being so nice to her & she ended up left me in the dust.
Iv experienced this throughout my younger life I'm 30 now couldn't care less it doesn't even bother me. The chase and appeal of women doesn't even interest me.
Only if you are too mission focused cutting out family and friends. I think he's refering more to having a goal in life not being a slob. You can have balance it doesn't have to be extremes
That’s funny and amazing because the moment I focus on ME for a change instead of women, I tend to have more ladies seeking me out and what not. Showing you don’t care and that you’re not an emotional, needy little boy works wonders. Let them come to you and then meet them back half way if you feelin it
@@Mike_Cosentino I don't believe in the idea of "letting them come to you". Girls are seeking you out, really? In what way? And meeting them back halfway, what is that? You mean to say these girls are making the rules and if it seems agreeable to you, you'll sign up for it? 😂
a few weeks ago I got so pissed at the way every woman is...I said fuck it I'm not going to give a fuck about them anymore and I'm going to start treating each one of them like shit, funnily enough a week later had 3 wanting to meet up.@@Mike_Cosentino
This is kind of sad many centuries ago a guy thats genuinely a good guy have every women swooning over him to get his attention now modern society, good guys/nice guys are frowned upon. Its ok to be nice or good if thats genuinely who you are but always have a backbone, don't be afraid to speak your mind & more importantly don't be afraid to walk away. If the woman pull away move on to the next🤔.
I think you really missed the point. Nice guys are not genuine, he isn't saying go and cheat behind her back he's saying remain your own person and have your own life. You can still be nice and loving.
@@moopmoop345 This might be shocking but they are real genuine nice guys do exist but very few though, I agree that most men these days pawned themselves as nice guys because they are not truly honest with themselves and don't go for what they want, I didn't say cheat behind their back, I'm saying if a women pulls away from you means you shouldn't even force the issue, just move on and find a woman that wants to be around you. You shouldn't stay with a woman that can step out on you at any time period. They are men nowadays that wised up and live their own life with their purpose and girls still walk away from them. I got the point many years ago I just see how relationships & marriages two generations from now will be a huge shit show, we live in a modern world where humanity does not know what real love is and will never ever experience it, but our grandparents and ancestors before them experience this. I'm sure someone that's a senior citizen told you he felt sorry for your generation many times because we will never feel joy or experience the real thing, we are just going to get that imitation/conditional affection, Tragic isn't it?
If she has issues to talk to you about, just listen to her but don't become her emotional tampon and try to fix her issues, she will eventually deal with them., your duty is to be her rock for her to stand steady in the storm
Too much testing is a bad sign. A little testing at the start is ok if she’s giving you gives as many IOI’s (signs of interest) but it seems your content is catered towards low interest women or narcissistic women that are looking for supply
She pulled away from me I pulled away from her no questions no discussion, it’s been 5 months, and I think is going to be forever !
Talking for one week suddenly pulled away, no question asked
3 days no contact, I wonder if she will contact
@@Blackmass92860nope
She won't ever contact you again
Just be selfish put yourself first and don't care if she gets offended, plain and simple
Yup. I just stopped carrying about women ful stop. Even unsubscribed from all this manosphere stuff.💯
I lost the love of my life because I was too nice and too responsive, helped her with everything and made her the center of my world, I knew what I was doing was wrong I just couldn't help it, I thought she was different, but I learned the hard way, they are all the same.
“A” love of your life
This is exactly me! The same happened to me…, I knew it was wrong but…., until I learned the hard way!
Take care mate I know what u are getting through, we all been there. Focus on ir mates, gym, work, money and health, the more time u spend with masculine energy and other maales the better u feel and ver 6 montchs u will be dofferent person, i promise u! And remeber no matter what ur parents are proud, mom loves u, dog loves u and u are important for so many ppl!!!
@@jacekbil thank you
@nazzhk6268 how are you feeling now, friend?
If her life is a mess she will be addicted to chaos and drama
Most women are addicted to drama chaos.
@@IntegraDIY Most? Not really... only 99%!
@@afonsodeportugalhey what should I do because I gave my phone number to my girlfriend and my girlfriend has not texted me back yet
Even the sane ‘good women’ manufacture drama and play up when they’re bored (women get bored easily) to enable them to ‘feel’ something. She will also do it if she senses weakness in you.
Basically women are a pain in the arse at times. As men we’re happy to just go along with our routines, we don’t need these emotional spikes to our days. It also gets tiresome having to entertain her the whole time so she doesn’t get bored / thinks you don’t care about her. As a man you can never relax when you’re in a LTR with a woman, else she starts thinking can I do better.
What if ive been nice for the past 4 weeks. What should I do?
This is so spot-on. Come from a broken home, divorced family, estranged relatives, stress, trauma, etc. I’ve been very understanding of her situation, I’ve answered her calls-every time-b!thing about her family, work, etc. But the moment that I needed someone to talk to for five min, she was not available. The double-standard is disgusting. I’d been so selfless with multiple women. But you’re right, nice guys finish last. Best to do is not get caught up in their tangled web and focus on yourself and let them meet you halfway as opposed to doing 90-100% of the work.
Well said brother, at least you have the introspection to have realised
Hope it’s not the case anymore for you!
Bang on 46 here,got to keep a close eye on our behaviour, i studied under Eban Pagan, spent 2 years rewiring my brain.
"I would say.... LESS IS ALWAYS MORE WITH THESE WOMAN!!!!"
Period!!!
Listen up Gentlemen. There are no exceptions. Stick to the rules, focus on your mission, and you'll be surprised by the results.
Women know when you pull away. So they come back being extra nice that's when you have to keep ignoring them or move on to someone else lol
Thanks!
Your UA-cam video saves my dating life . Thankful to find you
@@CogitoVibeyou read his book?
@@realitytruth5175 yes
What’s the book like overall?
Typically Spiritually Awakened men and women are not toxic, codependent, or karmic. But living together individually. Interesting subject
It happened to me guys, she attracted to me when i was being cold to her, i slowly soft when i was with her until i was being so nice to her & she ended up left me in the dust.
Been there.
Been there too, things got messed up as soon as I moved in with her.
Just experienced that.
Thanks Chris, I learnt two more words today, sycophantic and when looking that up obsequious.
Been independent before, only made my wife to think that I could handle life all alone and I had no need of my family
Iv experienced this throughout my younger life I'm 30 now couldn't care less it doesn't even bother me. The chase and appeal of women doesn't even interest me.
Saw you on that CEO podcast.
Great work.
which podcast?
@@guerin545
The Diary Of A CEO
Great video. But prefer the color versions.
I gotta tell you, Chris: this "mission focused" life is one hell of a perpetual lonely ride!!
mission focused doesn't mean cutting women out of your life, it just means not making them a priority. use your brain
@@guerin545 thanks for the advice
Only if you are too mission focused cutting out family and friends. I think he's refering more to having a goal in life not being a slob. You can have balance it doesn't have to be extremes
anytime man@@randysetterberg4672
I'm just apathetic to women and to LIFE 🤣🤣🤣.
As an employer you're the type of person I want in my company. Just happy to work
That’s funny and amazing because the moment I focus on ME for a change instead of women, I tend to have more ladies seeking me out and what not. Showing you don’t care and that you’re not an emotional, needy little boy works wonders. Let them come to you and then meet them back half way if you feelin it
@@Mike_Cosentino I don't believe in the idea of "letting them come to you". Girls are seeking you out, really? In what way? And meeting them back halfway, what is that? You mean to say these girls are making the rules and if it seems agreeable to you, you'll sign up for it? 😂
a few weeks ago I got so pissed at the way every woman is...I said fuck it I'm not going to give a fuck about them anymore and I'm going to start treating each one of them like shit, funnily enough a week later had 3 wanting to meet up.@@Mike_Cosentino
This is kind of sad many centuries ago a guy thats genuinely a good guy have every women swooning over him to get his attention now modern society, good guys/nice guys are frowned upon. Its ok to be nice or good if thats genuinely who you are but always have a backbone, don't be afraid to speak your mind & more importantly don't be afraid to walk away. If the woman pull away move on to the next🤔.
I think you really missed the point. Nice guys are not genuine, he isn't saying go and cheat behind her back he's saying remain your own person and have your own life. You can still be nice and loving.
@@moopmoop345 This might be shocking but they are real genuine nice guys do exist but very few though, I agree that most men these days pawned themselves as nice guys because they are not truly honest with themselves and don't go for what they want, I didn't say cheat behind their back, I'm saying if a women pulls away from you means you shouldn't even force the issue, just move on and find a woman that wants to be around you. You shouldn't stay with a woman that can step out on you at any time period. They are men nowadays that wised up and live their own life with their purpose and girls still walk away from them. I got the point many years ago I just see how relationships & marriages two generations from now will be a huge shit show, we live in a modern world where humanity does not know what real love is and will never ever experience it, but our grandparents and ancestors before them experience this. I'm sure someone that's a senior citizen told you he felt sorry for your generation many times because we will never feel joy or experience the real thing, we are just going to get that imitation/conditional affection, Tragic isn't it?
Honestly I think this rule applies to the unattractive women you are talking about, they all test and will pull away
Facts 🔥🔥
Am thinking the best answer is to far from women , because women are very complicated
Facts!!
You are 100 percent right. I was nice and care i was kick out. I become not care and bad boy they are chasing 😤
You still a bad boy or what bro ???
Chris, can you make a video about toxic women/toxic relationships?
The more you invest in women the less you get back 😂😂😂
the wrong women
Great advice, that really the truth. Thanks for letting us know how to become a man
I was told not to be too nice to a woman and she will think of a way to swindle you.
Amazing video Chris black and white this time!
A comment to boost the algorithm!
Hi Chris what should I do because I gave my girlfriend my phone number but my girlfriend has not texted me yet
@@IntegraDIYbecause I don’t have her number I gave her mine
Your gf don't have your number?
@@realitytruth5175 yes she does
How is she your girlfriend if you don't have her any contact lol. If you know each other IRL and meet often then that's different case.
@@DigvijaySingh-by9md I gave my girlfriend my phone number but she has not texted me yet so what should I do
Green Day wrote a song about Nice Guys.
So you shouldnt talk to your woman when she needs someone to talk to?
You should talk to her but the key is to find a balance.
If she has issues to talk to you about, just listen to her but don't become her emotional tampon and try to fix her issues, she will eventually deal with them., your duty is to be her rock for her to stand steady in the storm
@@oscargonza2748 fucc her let her find her solid rock, ain't nobody got time for that
Balance is key. You're not her mother, girlfriend, or sister - remember that.
Gold
Too much testing is a bad sign. A little testing at the start is ok if she’s giving you gives as many IOI’s (signs of interest) but it seems your content is catered towards low interest women or narcissistic women that are looking for supply
What should I do. Ive been really nice to my gf for the last few weeks. How do you correct it
Follow Chris advice and put it into practice, bruh
Sometimes even 10 minutes pull backs from a man will do the trick, there is no need to be a super asshole all the time
Read his book
What do you mean by nice lol. What nice things have u been doing
Look, you're allowed to be nice and kind to the woman you're dating. It's about being indifferent.
You can be too mean tho
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