Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: What Do You Argue About? | Brides
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2018
- We asked married couples at various stages: what do you argue about the most? From being married for 5 hours to 65 years, take a look at what these couples have to say.
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Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: What Do You Argue About? | Brides
1st couple is 100% naming their kid Brayden
seppukugirl or Grayson and Emma
seppukugirl 😂😂💀
Or Stella
Basically every white rich proper name there is😭
Nope they gon name him Brad
my grandma and grandpa told me after being marry for over 68 years, only thing they ever argued about was my grandpa leaving his socks on the floor hahahahahaha
That’s men :))
God that must've been like world war 3 I would never want to see a sock on my floor, feel bad for the grandma.
lemon tea it is 😂
I've been with my husband ten years, and our main topic is him leaving his socks in the bed. WHO DOES THAT?? He does it on purpose at this point lol
Love is not about arguments, except philosophy. Some argue all the time, some never - it says nothing about if there is love or not.
When a couple has been married longer than you’ve been alive
D. A. 😂🤣😭🙌🏾✊🏾
5.5 hours?
@@hr_mad5091 Maybe not that one marriage 😂😂😂😂
LOL
Rubarb84 of othe is opo posisi n an oooooooopooooooooooooowas a
Is nobody gonna talk about how the 5.5 hour couple should still be at their wedding having fun and not talking about arguments so early in their marriages?
Gemma C maybe they got signed for marriage first and then they’ll have a ceremony later on in the year ??
you do realize that people usally date for awhile before marriage?
They should be making baby. 😏
That's not the point.whatever man
BUT the real question is
Have you seen how beautiful they are...like omg....never seen like these couple in my life thought it would only happen in movies
I hope I could marry a woman that beautiful and sweet when I get older
They are married 5 hours and filming a video? Hahah
lucylou x what?
everywhere at the same time the first couple was married 5.5hrs before
Lol I think I was still ballsdeep 5 hours into my marriage
lucylou x #priorities
I was cracking up at that😂😭
Like where did they find them🤣🤣
Brushing teeth with glasses off is my favourite, what a thing to argue about.
It's so hilariously petty
Mine too 😂
He said it so quickly, as if they just had an argument about it before the interview.
Bene Katabua to funny😊
I don't get the husband. I always take my glasses off when bruising teeth out shaving because foam or water or fog gets on my glasses
The longer marriages are just the funny bickering arguments that you need in a strong relationships. Brushing teeth with your glasses on😂, love is beautiful.
Wth I read that as she said that!!?! That's the 4th time in 20 minutes!!!!
i was like thats so petty but hey if thats the worst thing in your marriage thats why you are married so long and its great...he found a keeper...so did she
Yes! You can just tell she’s been doing that for the whole like 40 years he’s known her and the conversation has come up almost every time lol
😂😂😂
When my parents start arguing, that where the headphones comes in. 🤣😂
*i think the older marriage gets, the cuter it gets!*
most of it isn't worth a damn...that last guy knows life ...I swear find a man like that and find a woman like her..two people who clearly dont sweat the small stuff have a bigger picture vision for life..
And the less gay
Ish k 😂😂😂💀
The older couples are funny it’s like they’re struggling to have an argument 😂 brushing your teeth with your glasses on 😂
Brushing your teeth with your glasses on is cursed man
This was so funny i really laughed out loud..they are so cute together
shawn170204 I do not approve of the way That your emojis lined up
Lumi 😂 😂
😂. 😂. 😂
😂
With the glasses off tho
I like how the older couples that have been married for 18+ years seem the happiest.
They seem super comfortable, which i guess makes sense?
TheLastProzacNation I know right
TheLastProzacNation thats how you know they married well :)
@@itsMelonPVP Well, there's a difference between a good and a bad marriage, they're probably only married because of you
Bec the younger couples as you see a lot of them are either gay or lesbian...
“He’s very good at lying on the couch” *passive aggressive laugh*
That was the most passive aggressive laugh I've ever heard
The old couple arguing about the woman taking off her glasses while she brushes her teeth
I loved it
Their cute
😂😂😂 They surprised me tbh 🤭how they’re married in 57 and still arguing that little thing 🤷🏽♀️ for me I will divorce him if he going to arguing with me with that little things 🤨😂
@@samirahsamir6930
Lol you ain't even gonna be satisfied then.
Breaking a whole relationship cuz of one small tease xD good luck sis
I also take my glasses off when I brush my teeth....
Brushing your teeth with the glasses off ??? How do you even argue about something like that!?!
Just proves that with time you run out of things to argue about 😂😂😂
KiraLup 😂 i though the same!
I smell trouble in that relationship. If it has nothing to do with you, then it shouldn't bother you!
Ledki
Idk about that when you been married 57 years
Literally dying laughing over this one!!!!
Lmfao
married for 65 years??? Goaaalsss
I wonder if i shall live to be 65 years😅
@@WAA-uj3ow lol 😂😂😂🙌
U are a Muslim that's spouse to be easy
عرب نيوز no it’s Not😏
Goals indeed! Waiting for someone to come along and start day one, In Sha Allah!
*i read the titles as couples age 0-65 and i thought, “oh yes, gotta love the married two years olds.”*
I would say I’m not dumb but this is clear proof that I am definitely stupid lmao
Cool Dude lmaooo
Bruh that’s what I thought
3:18 lol they argue about her brushing her teeth without glasses. That's adorable to me.
I really wanna know why it bothers him so much lol
My parents have been married for 21 years and the only thing they constantly argue about is an incident that happened over twenty years ago when my mom supposedly shut the refrigerator door in front of my dad on purpose. Mom says she didn't and can't understand why he thinks she did. Dad will more than likely go to his grave perpetually annoyed by the offense. The man acts like she drowned the dog with how serious he takes it.
This gave me a well needed laugh shout out to your dad for sticking to his guns.
Haha that reminds me of my parents! They’ve been married for 30 years this year and the one thing my mom will not let go of is that like 28 years ago my dad washed one of her favorite shirts and it shrunk, and my dad will always jab back that my mom shrunk one of his military shirts in the wash and he had to show it to his boss to get a new one and they all laughed. I don’t think either of them will ever let go of it. 😂
Ashley Chen LoL 160th like
Thank you for this. It is so genuine and wholesome, I feel like I’ll never stop thinking about it haha
Hahahaha so funny 😂 Thank you for sharing
It's fascinating to me how the older they got, the more often they started admitting their own faults (like saying "it's because *I* would do this, while he/she...") whereas the younger ones often blamed it on their spouse right away and defended themselves. Isn't it so cool how the older ones started reflecting on themselves more over time & shared each other's points of view? 😃
JJP
JJPGOTINFINITE maybe it’s not because they’re older, maybe because they were that way from the beginning and it made them able to keep their marriages for that long
I think that is always partially why they are still together after so long, too.
Good point
All the couples that weren’t like that would break up before being together that long.
1:56 i feel like they own a beach house in the hamptons
Ikr
Spongebob Squarepants what really? who are they
@Spongebob Squarepants lmao sure bc he called her Harriet or something in the video but nice try thank u!
The first couple and that couple look like they own a huge house
H S Those are their in-laws.
The couple with the “I don’t like when you brush your teeth without your glasses on” argument are so adorable
The more years they’ve been married the pettier the arguments got 😂❤️
JerseyJawn TV hahaha for real hahaha😂🤣
I thought I was the only one to see that. I am so jealous of my parents biggest "disagreement": which way the toilet paper roll should hang/facing up - according to dad it was one way according to mom the other way. You could always tell whether mom or dad was the last person to use the loo depending on which way the toilet paper faced. God I miss that man who died of cancer complications - I can't even begin to imagine how much his wife misses him.
I distinctly remember how we; mom, dad, brother, sister and me sat around a braaivleis vuur and as my mother would walk towards the house to fetch the pap or cutlery or whatever, my dad would would say: "Dink jy nie ook ek is met die mooiste vrou in die hele wêreld getroud nie?" [Don't you agree I am married to the most beautiful woman in the world?" [Perspective: I was already pushing past forty en they were obviously older] "Dink jy nie ook ek is met die mooiste vrou in die hele wêreld getroud nie?"
That's of course just one side of the toilet roll.
"My man: is wonderlik" So much so that the other ladies at the office who constantly complained about their husbands started comparing their husbands to my mothers husband, by default complaining about their lot - terrible husbands.
I remember my mother relating the conversation she finally had with her colleagues, paraphrasing "Well, if you keep on telling your husband how bad he is what do you expect?"
My mom and dad's love story is one of the most realistic love stories is know - Realistic because no one had to be dramatic, make an ungodly proposal on a knee (dad helped mom to make her wedding dress - no fancy so called "romantic" smalch, drink poison or cry all the way for me argentina) they just love each other.
The other great love story is that of my grand parents who met at my granddad's homecoming party after world war II, grand father proposed that same night to grand mother and, and well there is a reason one of seventeen grand children can now tell the story, but more of that later.
the first couple look like they participate in the purge
This comment is gold
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Imagine them having a gun shelf in their basement
😂😂😂
2:01 Never heard of a couple arguing about being on time when both prefer to be early
3:37 . Awwww “can we go to a concert” 😭😭
The best one is how children should be brought up! Something worth arguing over.
Well, I don't want my kids to be brainwashed...well, our kids. Lmao. This may lead to an ugly divorce 🙈
Yes! I loved that part. I wonder what their backgroundstories are...
More like something that should’ve been discussed before marriage/ conceiving
Agreed. My fiance and I don't have kids yet and we talk ALL the time about how we want to raise our offspring. Better to discuss now than have the "surprising" conversation once the offspring are here. I don't know why more couples don't do that. It's very important
Yeah right? I'd be super interested to hear their different perspectives 😩
1:53 I just have to say, her hair is absolutely stunning
Omg yesss
They're a beautiful couple
i was about to say the same thing!
Yeah
0:38 the way he look at her
👅😂😂
I LOVE 4:05 how the couples body language is the same ❤️
Apart from that they both look so cultured, elegant and graceful
The couple at 3:12...she looks incredibly young to be married 44 years! Beautiful lady.
Good looking cougar lol jk
@@TheSupart91 No hablo ingles
Akmal Ahmad maybe she was married very young, maybe in her teen years
I totally agree! I wish I could age that well
Yeah, i was thinking "how she can be married for 44 years a she is 44"
WHY DOES IT BOTHER HIM THAT SHE BRUSHES HER TEETH WITH HER GLASSES OFF LOL BUT ALSO Y SHE DO THAT
Sunny Yu I do that too ..
You don’t brush your teeth with glasses on. At least I don’t, the tooth paste foam can get all over the glasses while brushing your teeth.
I typically don't brush my teeth with my glasses on. However my boyfriend does because he's way more blind than me. We don't argue about that though.
I take my glasses off before I brush my teeth because I always wash my face right after. Makes no sense to leave them on.
Sunny Yu
LMAO
2:50 That man must be a teacher or a narator(i'm sure about that)
More like a doctor 🤔
@@phantomwolf2141 He's having a very fluent speaking course, as i can see.
@@savageviewer6095 yes indeed
@@phantomwolf2141 He seems the kind of doctor you won't get anxious when being told you have cancer. Good vibes👍
@@savageviewer6095 ahhh man that's deep 😂
But yeah I love those kind of doctor that aren't 100% serious like some kind of robot
01:55 OMG, She looks like an angel !
Itzumii Amatzura Hook I think she’s of Russian decent.
Yall so entranced with her, she is like any other blond white woman to me. The woman in the 4 year marriage is stunning.
3:47 the lady stared so hard at the camera the camera had to look away lmaooo
Jéssica Caetano lmao good observation 😂
Lmfaooooo dkm
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Laughed at that one 😂
Married for 5 hour
Why u here,?
prova kazi cuz they said yes?
lorcldia duh, he means why would they show up right after their wedding, it’s unpractical
chance y’all do know that you can be married and not have a wedding right? my parents were legally married months before a wedding lol. some don’t even have weddings
gmgb lean yes... I just said that lol
$$$$
2:18 married for 22 years ?? She looks 22
She got married when she was 12
Nope she looks 40-50
No. She don't
my japanese teacher looks a bit older than her and she’s in her late 50s so yeah lmao
k s Asians always looks a bit younger I'm not racist
0:27 the one on the right looks like his *dad*
Omg lol, brutal but true
He's daddy
He is lol the wife couldn’t make it so he did it for her. Can’t even notice
Maybe he is.
ikr
"He's very good at lying on the couch" lol. Sounds like my husband
Livermush And Lipstick Hi honey
Married 5 hours.. do they have nothing better to do like to celebrate than be a part of a video that contains the subject 'about what we argue the most'. :D
Vall Ire 5 hours into my marriage I’d probably would still be having sex with my supposed husband after the wedding and all...
They’re probably only legally married with a certificate. Maybe they’re having a ceremony later down in the road. At first I thought the same thing
Last week I went to a friend's wedding. A few hours later, my bf and I hangout with the newlyweds at the dog park, then went to get some beers.
I assume Brides reached out to them prior to their wedding& asked for the interview same day
Considering it was one question I doubt it took that long to film hah
My fiance and I have been together for a very long time. If I were asked to do a cute short video like this on my wedding day I would totally do it. It would not take away from my day or my relationship at all it will be fun. And I would love to be a part of this video.
My parents have been married for 21 years and the main reason of their arguments is when my dad doesn't picks up my mom's call...🤣🤣🤣
AT Star omg that’s such a mom thing 😂
I love watching old couples because they showed that love never fades, I hope every couple will have a very lasting relationship , so that no more people will become alone and lonely in this world.
The brushing teeth one got me!
They all look like
They make more than $200k a year lol
EL ZORO They probably had hair and wardrobe people for this video to make them look nice and fit the aesthetic of the channel
EL ZORO yea that’s probably why they had time to waste making this video
Yeah that's why none of them said they fight about lack of money like everyone else
They probably have sex
0:37 that man is beautifully sculpted
"he's very good at lying on the couch"
LMAO
These people aged well.What water they drinking?
My mom is 74 and looks more like she's 54. Nobody ever believes her when she tells them her age. She told me that she legit drank from the actual Fountain of Youth in St. Augustine years ago, even though it's supposedly against the park's rules. I'm convinced that's what did it. 😂 Maybe these couples did it too! ⛲
Love water.
Glittery Kittery omg
My friends kept mistaking my 40 year old mom as my 25 year old sister :/
P R I N C E S S probably hooked up with the dude from "A cure for Wellness"
Wow 65 years I’m so jealous I hope I can have that one day 😍😍😍
Good luck. The vast majority, if not almost all, of marriages don't last for many decades or until death. It will be an extremely rare golden treasure if your future-marriage lasts for at least 65 years.
+Egg thanks
Better start now
You need to be married in your teens to be married 65 years! Come on if you marry in your 30s what are the chances you both live upto 90??
Spirit_animal is Gil A lot of them said their early twenties actually
Her: “Video games...”
Him: “THaT iS NoT tHe MoST!?!?”
Lol denial
The first couple looks like they chuck coins at poor ppl in their spare time
I don't know why, but I loved this and had a cheesy grin throughout this entire vlog. :)
same :D
Stephanie Smith Maybe because you're an evil gerbile.
Same! This was a cute video
Woman at 1:53 Skin and body goals 😍 if I look half as good as her at that age, praise be to Jesus.
Rebekah Arpitha Mathew Same, I paused the video to admire her
Her hair stunned me, absolutely gorgeous.
Imagine how she looked when she was young! Damn he's lucky
@@Ohm_Gulf_Gang maybe he was also good looking?
@@thesevenkingswelove9554 yeah true
It's beautiful to see that love is still strong and their are men and women out their willing to commit to stay with each other for a long time.
Um.. there should be two numbers, how long they've been married AND how long they've been together overall
Damn when did that Asian couple get married? At 10 years old? 😂
Art Vandelay lmaoo
Art Vandelay asian don’t raisin? 🤷🏻♀️
asians never age my guy. i'm 18 and i still get mistaken for a middle schooler lmao 😂
Art Vandelay they look like they are in their 40s and married for 22 years so married at 18 prob older
Kathleen Williams I’ve seen some wrinkly Asians
Being married for 65 years? TEACH ME HOW INTO RELATIONSHIP
Marry young and marry strong
Learn to love rather than lust.
Forced Marriage
don't marry
My parents have been married for 22 years and the only thing they argue about how my mom scolds me when I don't eat "enough" and how my dad always jumps in my rescue hahaha. I love them 💕
2:15 this one is 100% accurate!
65 years? Wow
My dad turned 65 this year...1953...
Goalsssss
Princess Hephzibah Ikr! My mom turned 65 in March! They’ve been married for as long as our parents have been alive. Incredible! 😱
Wait your dad? That's how old my grandmother turned this year.
@@StrickenWithFear you must be really young then, probably no older than 12
@@a.m1k I'm in my 20s though...
@@a.m1k my grandparents havent even reached 59 yet and im 13
The woman at 1:53 is gorgeous, she reminds me of Michelle pfieffer for some reason
Was trying to figure out what movie she was in but then I realized she wasn’t famous
She has gorgeous hair
Her wonderful hair helps
Michellexbeauty
she reminds me of Heidi Klum for some reason. Probably because of the hair
Michellexbeauty closest thing to Michelle Pfieffer that you’ll ever see
Having our 1st child, I can relate with the last couple... I love to see they are still together after 65yrs so that tells me it works out in the end. I'm sure if our main goals is to raise our children with love and support, as well as meeting half way or compromising on what we can, I'm sure it will work out and I loved seeing this video. I also loved seeing my middle school classmate, Terri (married 2yrs) on this video :) she's the cutest!
0:12 is my favorite! they seem so chill together. i need more of them ahhh
Why does the age 22 couple look like they ain’t even 22 years old
Julianna Kopa ikr
lol they look like 40-50
@@vaevictis1697 no, they really don't
@@grandpasandwich they actually do, like a lot, tho
@@grandpasandwich ya they do
“Most things that aren’t worth a damn” honestly what I tell myself everyday when I have argued with my husband about something. Thanks grandpa! Lots of good looking couples here 😍😍👍🏻👍🏻
3:15 literally the cutest thing ever
I love how long they together how chill they are. This is beautiful
Moral of the story: most people are not compatible yet they've made it work. BUT if you truly want a happy healthy long term relationship find someone you are most compatible with!
Diana Prather i also thing compatible or not relationships are something you work to make they dont just happen perfectly like in movies
People are compatible when they can effortlessly accept each other the way they are...sometimes those things make a person giggle but the same person will get upset if another individual does the same thing 🤔
@@twincherry4958 It's never effortless. A healthy relationship is between two people who constantly want to evolve as humans and that means always making efforts inside and outside of the relationship.
What I think defines compatibility is that you have an agreement about your goals and you can compromise within the limits of both of you.
Exactly
I dont think compability has something to do with this. But how each other keeps even with the arguments and are flexible with each other.
Me and my husband argue about arguing. I call it debating and he calls it me wanting to win an argument. He always closes off, but I continue. Then we both get upset.
The people who continue to argue for the sake of winning are the worst.
Citlali Rodriguez no hablo ingles
Lmao I relate so much
Sometimes there truly is someone who’s right and someone who’s wrong. Things that are about opinion aren’t in this category. But some other things that are based mostly or all in facts, are indeed winnable arguments and the problem is some people like the boyfriend in this story, is too stubborn or indignant to admit they’re ever wrong and doesn’t wanna debate bcuz they know they’ll look wrong, so they just close off and stay in their idiocy. This is not good as it hurts the couple and their ability to succeed in life
lolll
You can really see what a real marriage is within these videos... The difference between infatuation, and cool to what true love is. Beautiful video!
I thought the title said "Married couples 0 - 65 years old..." and I was like "What...people under 19 can't get married...." then I realized I read it wrong 😂
Uh why not? Where u live
@1:36 Is that black bald Jimmy Kimmel?
Your comment cracked me up 🤣
😂
His wife is gorgeous!!!😍
Wait omg
Hahahah 😂
Couple at 0:03 looks like a younger version of 1:55
Zazzling God Bless you all! He’s always there for you! Turn your hearts to Him!
J_Dog 247 ..what?
That's just your racist eyes deceiving you.
I could literally say the same thing if these couples were Asian.
@@mr.potatoeshead5317 what
@@bellamy5575 OP is saying the first couple looks like the older couple. But, he is wrong. They only seem that way cuz they are both white couples who all look to have the same body types. But, they all look nothing alike. Not even close.
2:03 18 years? They got married very late
Alex love finds a way! It doesn’t matter how late into life it finds you.
Second or third marriage ?
so what? it may be 1st
Sometimes people lose their spouse and then meet someone else in their 50’s and 60’s sometimes even 70’s
This video oddly gave me closure of my last relationship. We argued a lot and some of it were things in this video. I was made to feel like arguing about things was destroying the relationship where in my head i always tried to find the humour in it. Looking back i see that my ex was just unable to see from any other perspective than her own which ultimately led to the end. Just shows me that people can argue and still live and love each other for 65 years lol. She just wasn't the one
My grandparents used to argue about how much salt should be put into salad 😄
I miss those silly fights everyday
Salt in a salad?? What kind of salad are you eating?? 😂
R.A Salazar Right lol now I’m curious
R.A Salazar Salt, Pepper, olive oil and vinegar is a must in every Mediterranean salad 🥗
@@ksenijagospic2745 Moji isto ali samo oko sirceta 😂😂😂
hahaha yes we do that too
LOVE IS LIFE PEOPLE, money and all the stuff might be something that matters in this Society but man.... LOVE IS THE ANSWER
lakabra goatklaw I agree but you sound like a hippie 😂😂
That was so 1980s........actually love isnt the answer to anything anymore.....there are people falling in love to someone without her falling in love with him ....you see, love has only two choices.....yes and no.....
Nope, money is
You have it all backwards.. love is only important in society. You don’t need love to produce offsprings, you don’t need love to live, you don’t need it for your body to go through homeostasis and daily hormones. Love is something people want because they see others with it, however you NEED currency to live.
Marcus Wrack love in all ways, not only from human to human xd it can be love to music, to landscapes, to laugh, to watch good films, to see others happy... Love to money xd
41 years old - selective hearing they found the solution to life
Last couples statement holds true - most of those small things people argue about are not worth a damn.
The man from the last couple must have been super handsome when he was younger
Right? Like silver fox much?
Glittery Kittery silver fox ?
Brenda B.
Fox/foxy is sometimes used as a term for someone who is attractive. The silver part means more older. But I don’t know the actual definition so don’t @ me
GREEN SZ thank you
He is like Marlon Brandon
These videos make me believe in true love
2:39 love his voice
It's cool to see the longer couples were together, the kinder they were to each other.
Ok but the diversity is goals
What in the hell is diversity?
Dwight Schrute like different races and sexualities lol
Dwight, do you need diversity training again? lmaoo
anoja31 I appreciate the reference. Unfortunately no one watched Anchorman or they would have gotten mine.
They need to make it as diverse as possible or they’re racist
My goodness the last couple married for 65 years are so composed. I love it!
0:12 hold up a secend is that daequan
Taller more masculine
This was a great video!!
1:29 she is beauty.
Uh where?
Michaela what do you mean where? There’s only one girl on the screen at that time, she is beautiful.
Michaela hater
Yeah... That beard of hers
How do you find someone who only got married 5.5 hours ago??
Las Vegas dude haha
I think they planned to film after they married
Reddit
I also take off my glasses when I brush my teeth, I totally agree with her logic it just makes sense 😂
“It’s better when I do it. It’s just better when I do it.” Can’t relate more!!!
Lady's hair at 1:38 is a GOAL!!!!!!
Aww thank you so much!
I feel like a number of their arguments stem from emotional labour and the fact that the women are carrying the weight of it. For the women who are "controlling" or "managing" or seem to do things better, its because they've been carrying out emotional labour since childhood whereas men often see it as optional. So yes, she will be annoyed when she has to be the one to 1) ask him to do something instead of him noticing and 2) re-do it herself because they didn't complete it at a functional/adult level (e.g. not noticing the dishes need to be done so being asked to do it but doesn't even scrape the food off first)
Sadly Men always act like that unless a parent showed them real responsibly. Adult men need a mother still it seems and being lazy
@Sasukerox - I feel that a lot of women who dictate to men how to do basic household chores are those who get a kick out of micromanaging. They get a thrill in exerting power in a relationship because the man is often burdened with making most of the money in the relationship and they see this as relinquishing that power. It's interesting because women expect and search for partners who will entertain the idea of providing most of the means in a relationship and someone who is stoic while seeking ways to undermine the partner that they selected (e.g controlling what they do in the household). So, yes, the man will be annoyed that the woman is controlling and attempts to hoist diametrically opposed desires on the man.
I'm sure there are women out there who have the personality type of wanting to micromanage everyone and everything, of course. But aside from those particular personalities, your idea of the gf/wife undermining the bf/husband because of money reasons is hollow and archaic. Millennial women, such as myself, are working full time jobs alongside our men and we are being paid enough to be self-sufficient. The issue of emotional labour becoming more prominent these days is because Today's woman is tired of juggling a career and then coming home to a guy who does not notice or appreciate or actively participate in the unseen labour that is necessary in sustaining social relationships + a functional family. This is not to point all the fingers at men; emotional labour starts in childhood and it has been seen as girl's work to effortlessly care about other people when a) it is not effortless and b) boys should and do care about other people, too.
sasukerox that was perfectly said, thank you.
sasukerox I would add domestic labour into that too, I think most millennial women also do more than their share of household work such as cooking and cleaning.
I love these old couples.. They're like too close to each other..., makes me smile 😆
This is such a wonderful video! Loved it!!! ☺
Seeing someone you went to high school with on here and you're just like wait what
Ali Meets World who?
Seeing the couples that have been married 40+ years that have what My husband I think are bad arguments is really refreshing. Gives me a lot of hope lol. It really is all about how the two of you handle those situations.
Oh my gosh, I love the last couple so much! They look so dandy!
*When you're watching this video cos youve never got to see a marriage in real*
I advise people a lot with life and relationships and I try to tell people, relationships can make it if you're different, if you're similar and a lot of combinations in between. Relationships end when we end them. A long relationship only requires that both people stay... Time does the rest.
I mean this as to say, a lot of people feel like a happy relationship automatically means that it will be long lasting with two people that are nuts about each other, and vice versa. But it's more like writing a book, all it takes to complete it is that you don't stop writing it until it's done, if you stopped it then obviously you have not completed the book. Being "Healthy and happy" is not the same, nor is it guaranteed with a long relationship. The Good The Bad and everything in between is up to whatever people do with the time we stay together in relationships.
A healthy relationship takes that you respect each other, work on things or maintain it really, communicate, grow, compromise, accept each other, and much more.
These couples prove that working on things does not always mean that whatever you worked on magically disappears and when it doesn't disappear you should leave. We're not all going to think exactly alike. Different formulas work for different relationships. But if you want it, work at it. We shouldn't focus on "when should we break up" so much.
Hopefully I articulated that to where others could understand clearly lol
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the 41 year old mariage lol reminds me of my parents. they were married for 25 years broke up divorced got back together married again. they argue about money, family, my upbringing...... the last thing they argued about while i was there was about a family chrismas trip to the states. my dad wants to go my mother and i not so much. we think of our pets and work and my dad is just go with the flow lets go and then we are like hold on a minute what about our jobs and pets.
Idk why I'm so curious now loll
That's also my dad. He wants to move my family out of the country and we think of our pets and friends and things we cannot bring across the world. I really don't want to leave. :(
I especially love hearing the couples answers married for 60+ years. So cute.
Been binging deadly women and needed a brighter side of love, came to the right place.
Nice to hear no one's killed anyone because of the arguments