Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: How Do You Make Up After You Fight? | Brides

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  • We asked married couples at various stages: how do you make up after a fight? From being married for 5 hours to 65 years, take a look at what these couples have to say.
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    Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: How Do You Make Up After You Fight? | Brides
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  • @menashadesilva4147
    @menashadesilva4147 5 років тому +10975

    "I apologise not because i was wrong because i was wrong to lose my temper instead of talking it out"
    Wise man

  • @extracondiments
    @extracondiments 5 років тому +6315

    Love the couple who said “we just look at each other and start laughing because it’s so silly”, so cute you can tell they really love each other

    • @tkittrell9315
      @tkittrell9315 4 роки тому +41

      Camilla Silva they’re my favorite I can tell he loves her

    • @viiilllyyy
      @viiilllyyy 4 роки тому +34

      That’s what I hope to have in my marriage

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 4 роки тому +2

      Vivian Kain ❤️

    • @lybsm8516
      @lybsm8516 4 роки тому +1

      I made ur comment 1.3k likes!!😂❤

    • @MSR-ok9xl
      @MSR-ok9xl 4 роки тому +2

      Time stamp?

  • @mohamedcheikh3571
    @mohamedcheikh3571 4 роки тому +4670

    I cried when she said that"I'm 64 years old how much time do we have actually together? I don't know, life is short I don't really want to waste it having disagreement. "
    That's really deep .

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana 4 роки тому +13

      Mohamed cheikh her husband looks like Steve jobs

    • @missyaz4959
      @missyaz4959 4 роки тому +15

      @@S_J_banana u mean dresses like Steve Jobs. Doesn't look like him to me

    • @selenacruz754
      @selenacruz754 4 роки тому +22

      Lmao that aint even deep
      Y'all will think anything is deep 😭

    • @katehada7819
      @katehada7819 4 роки тому +25

      Selena Cruz some words connect more to other people, not everyone thinks like you.

    • @pari4979
      @pari4979 4 роки тому +1

      Mohamed cheikh someone tell my grandparents that

  • @katy3110
    @katy3110 5 років тому +1816

    Imagine being so rich that the main threat in an argument is a lawyer

    • @freshswagga100
      @freshswagga100 4 роки тому +8

      I think most middle class families can afford a lawyer...

    • @spud9369
      @spud9369 4 роки тому +1

      Sir Uppercrust III Depends where you live, New York is expensive

  • @briannaglenn5445
    @briannaglenn5445 5 років тому +4167

    The look on the 5.5 hour wife's face after he announced "we haven't fought yet" was really sad.

    • @thegurl1998
      @thegurl1998 5 років тому +224

      i thought i was the only one

    • @sayuriyamagata6853
      @sayuriyamagata6853 5 років тому +295

      The way they look to one another reveals the connection between them. Sad thing.

    • @azix2915
      @azix2915 4 роки тому +426

      They ain't lasting

    • @rozazb8138
      @rozazb8138 4 роки тому +28

      YES

    • @asinine8143
      @asinine8143 4 роки тому +203

      @@azix2915 lmao wtf u dont even know them

  • @jokl89
    @jokl89 5 років тому +2838

    Omg this Woman looks incredibly for 64 years! Goals!

    • @daimsaeed
      @daimsaeed 5 років тому +12

      Not really shes good for 64 but certainly not incredible

    • @LovelyFemininity
      @LovelyFemininity 5 років тому +73

      I think so too! She is aging quite well!

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana 4 роки тому +5

      Try Again her husband looks like Steve jobs

    • @jordan.o9476
      @jordan.o9476 4 роки тому

      @@S_J_banana 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @josephthegod3514
      @josephthegod3514 4 роки тому +1

      And? Why does it matter? She still isn’t actually pretty. You can’t hide being old.

  • @LisaRowse
    @LisaRowse 5 років тому +1808

    The 5.5 hours couple look so awkward for most of the questions.

    • @leashines9937
      @leashines9937 4 роки тому +201

      Lisa Rowse I don’t even what they are doing there lol I remember 5 hours after I got married I was on a dancefloor lol 😂

    • @__Cynthia
      @__Cynthia 4 роки тому +75

      It’s like they are strangers to each other but if they are married they must have been together for at least a year or a few months. But they act like they me like 3 days before

    • @reenoj5045
      @reenoj5045 4 роки тому +2

      @@__Cynthia they could have never kno

  • @hallieharmon701
    @hallieharmon701 5 років тому +1092

    I'm glad to see older couples only married for 18 years, gives me hope it's not too late!

    • @rabiaalaroui
      @rabiaalaroui 4 роки тому +8

      Hallie Harmon yes!!!! There’s still hope sis

    • @Lola-rn2jj
      @Lola-rn2jj 4 роки тому +32

      Could be their 2nd or 3rd marriage.

    • @lovelyxskinny
      @lovelyxskinny 4 роки тому +15

      Probably their second marriage but it's never too late. You can't rush love

    • @sallyboateng5295
      @sallyboateng5295 4 роки тому +13

      It’s never too late to find true love :)

    • @josephthegod3514
      @josephthegod3514 4 роки тому

      Ok

  • @pilwlw
    @pilwlw 5 років тому +1224

    wow they still married for 5.5 hours. i thought they had already split

    • @Mahalakshmi-Khan
      @Mahalakshmi-Khan 5 років тому +29

      I would be in church praying before we commence the coitus

  • @nikolegringa1852
    @nikolegringa1852 4 роки тому +851

    The woman who said "64 years old" at 2:30 Girl what.??? She looks in her late 40's.

  • @Holycryptonite47
    @Holycryptonite47 5 років тому +771

    I once saw a comment about how her Grandpa used to convince her grandma to talk to him by tightening the lid of the sauce bottle (or some other stuff idk) so that her grandma would ask her grandpa for help......goals

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 5 років тому +2

      🤤🙁

    • @fortunatenamat7770
      @fortunatenamat7770 4 роки тому +22

      😂😂wise move.

    • @isabellarose1731
      @isabellarose1731 4 роки тому +25

      Another one I heard was when the man would change the temperature making it really cold so the woman would end up cuddling with him

    • @aubreys7549
      @aubreys7549 4 роки тому +9

      that’s a smart grandpa

  • @demonslayer-if8us
    @demonslayer-if8us 4 роки тому +112

    I like the couple who said they count to three then say sorry at the same time, that seems like mature yet childish at the same time it's quite beautiful.

  • @Cheryltheresa
    @Cheryltheresa 5 років тому +603

    I love the responses given by the last two couples. Yeah in the end, holding a grudge only cause you to lose valuable time.

    • @wilmaknickersfit
      @wilmaknickersfit 5 років тому +7

      We married 32 years ago and the older we get the less important the little niggles or annoyances are. We've had a couple of big fights over the years, but they never lasted more than a day or so because the truth is that it hurts and you don't want that. Having a quick bicker keeps the air clear. The older we get the more we appreciate kindness is what matters, so we try to be kind to each other. Who ever said years ago "Don't sweat the small stuff" was right.

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 5 років тому

      @nothere_2017 YES!

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 5 років тому

      @@wilmaknickersfit smart words of wisdom!

  • @becca7046
    @becca7046 4 роки тому +146

    “we used to dance in the middle of the living room floor, like it was prom”
    ....
    “we’re gonna do that tonight”

  • @paigerook8939
    @paigerook8939 4 роки тому +118

    The couple that have been married for 4 months. If you don’t talk to each other for days then you have a problem in your relationship, which might end up splitting up. The other couples that have been married for 20+ years talk it out almost immediately. Big difference there

  • @claudias2622
    @claudias2622 4 роки тому +300

    Are we gonna ignore how they just looked into eachothers eyes??? 2:00

  • @deborahk5433
    @deborahk5433 5 років тому +1921

    I do not believe that the couple at 2:00 have been married for 22 years .. damn how old are they?? Good genes lol

    • @sabilaruswana7766
      @sabilaruswana7766 5 років тому +418

      Asian. They always look young.

    • @orangehiccup5726
      @orangehiccup5726 5 років тому +141

      They started dating in middle school, they probably married early on too

    • @rohankhubchandani3694
      @rohankhubchandani3694 5 років тому +30

      Asians always look young

    • @Jo-cn4wk
      @Jo-cn4wk 5 років тому +128

      DeeDee Nicole 123 every asian looks young until they hit 57 and then we instantly turn old looking

    • @mariamadam-noor140
      @mariamadam-noor140 5 років тому +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @hami1385
    @hami1385 4 роки тому +76

    Those old men are so wise and those old ladies are so classy and elegant

  • @ek7246
    @ek7246 4 роки тому +53

    When you’re pretending to listen 2:05

  • @KaylahDemi
    @KaylahDemi 5 років тому +337

    For me and my girlfriend, we usually ignore each other for an hour or two and then talk it out and say sorry.

  • @jokl89
    @jokl89 5 років тому +412

    I was so expecting the answer ‚sex‘ over and over again 😂

    • @olasallam1084
      @olasallam1084 5 років тому +2

      ME TOOO 😂😂

    • @anuhyanature4094
      @anuhyanature4094 5 років тому +1

      Hahha me too 😛😛

    • @1342aaron
      @1342aaron 5 років тому +1

      noobs

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 років тому +11

      using sex to get over fights only happens at the beginning of relationships, not after years and years of marriage

    • @xyzabc9628
      @xyzabc9628 5 років тому +7

      @@etf42 so true! These days people value physical and materialistic connections over emotional ones!

  • @lolabrini3758
    @lolabrini3758 4 роки тому +60

    "life is too short to spend on arguments, we dont have much time left at 64"
    yessss!!! but the truth is: even at 20 u dont know if u would die or live. Accidents happen. U love someone: dont let disagreements divide you🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @CineNOV579
    @CineNOV579 5 років тому +321

    "you get over it"

  • @lilsmurf1048
    @lilsmurf1048 4 роки тому +31

    "Forget and forgive. Those things never last" 😍

  • @kathy2888
    @kathy2888 5 років тому +178

    Couple at 3:04 need their own interview. They’ve amazed me throughout each video.

  • @lastchance1101
    @lastchance1101 4 роки тому +69

    She is 64 years old? she looks so young

  • @merandajazz8344
    @merandajazz8344 5 років тому +551

    0:51 "it usually ends with food"
    I died

  • @squeezebalah
    @squeezebalah 5 років тому +66

    The first couple makes me really uncomfortable

  • @samanthanorton4538
    @samanthanorton4538 5 років тому +47

    I feel encouraged by a lot of the couples married longer saying they just move on and forget without any big official thing since that's how my marriage is, and it works for us.

  • @amarfakhredine591
    @amarfakhredine591 4 роки тому +91

    That 64 years old woman is probably the wisest. Someday we may lose each other so why fight and turn good days to bad ones?

  • @romi4023
    @romi4023 4 роки тому +63

    my parents have been married for 19 years and it’s pretty obvious they don’t love each other anymore so seeing couples who have been married for so long and seem to still love each other makes me sad :(

    • @afsheensyed8250
      @afsheensyed8250 4 роки тому +1

      Aw you poor thing, my parents are married for 13 years are they are slowly falling out of love and it's really hard for me to notice that

    • @lunarialoonatic
      @lunarialoonatic 4 роки тому +2

      Romi relate... feel like my parents stay in a relationship for me and my sister

    • @gibledip9596
      @gibledip9596 4 роки тому +4

      Aria Moon Same. My parents are getting a divorce soon i can just tell. They havent argued or been mean to eachother lately. But the vibes around the house havent been like before. Its sad to seem the separate but i want them to be both happy and if getting a divorce will do that, i accept it. I dont want to be the reason for them to stay together unhappy.

    • @jamesgs5228
      @jamesgs5228 4 роки тому

      K

    • @revive260
      @revive260 4 роки тому

      Lol

  • @wevibin5923
    @wevibin5923 4 роки тому +37

    “hey, honey, now that we’re married, there’s something i *really* want to do.”
    “what is it?”
    “be in a *brides video* .”

  • @DAJess725
    @DAJess725 4 роки тому +36

    Ive been married for 2 yrs now n I agree with that couple ... “we just look at each other n start laughing” its so true 😂😂

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 5 років тому +37

    Always consider each other's feelings. Listen first before you react, and don't let the problem go by without fixing it. These are lessons that I learned about all these beautiful couples.

  • @tiffany3784
    @tiffany3784 5 років тому +80

    Communication is key. Great advice they all seem to say take a step back if you need to, hell some even go to bed upset and talk it out when you calm down.

  • @ashtynbritt7889
    @ashtynbritt7889 5 років тому +195

    And when you're single... you just eat chips and watch UA-cam :,)

  • @devin5531
    @devin5531 4 роки тому +7

    2:05 the way he just keeps moving his head just kills me

  • @olasallam1084
    @olasallam1084 5 років тому +160

    The lady in 1:34 is insanely GORGEOUS
    Wow! So beautiful he’s such a lucky man

    • @myyjoi19
      @myyjoi19 5 років тому +9

      @youtube person that doesn't even make any sense. You don't know either of their personalities lol

    • @ratriestika3956
      @ratriestika3956 4 роки тому +10

      The hair omg.

    • @char6081
      @char6081 4 роки тому +3

      She looks way older than him tho

    • @alexisortizgil5446
      @alexisortizgil5446 4 роки тому +1

      Charlene Ng
      i think it’s botox. it usually makes people look like that when they are aging.

    • @Kxnzok_
      @Kxnzok_ 4 роки тому +1

      Nah 0:57

  • @amymooney9248
    @amymooney9248 5 років тому +48

    Wow. A life partner. I’m so jealous😩

  • @slodn
    @slodn 4 роки тому +12

    2:34 yo she looks mad good for her age

  • @nancygonzalez4870
    @nancygonzalez4870 2 роки тому +1

    the couple in minute 2:41 seems so genuine, I love it.

  • @sir.maccc-
    @sir.maccc- 4 роки тому +10

    @1:45 😳oh damn “i apologize not because i was wrong but because i was wrong in losing my temper”

  • @AmiKamara
    @AmiKamara 4 роки тому +14

    The couple’s married for 18 and 44 years are goals ❤️

  • @pyroed7044
    @pyroed7044 4 роки тому +18

    The couple married for 65 year's looking amazing for there age

  • @asherujudo7383
    @asherujudo7383 4 роки тому +20

    The 41 year couple look like every movie parent couple in history.

  • @jasminewatson7190
    @jasminewatson7190 4 роки тому +13

    Lol the 5.5 hour couple legit came from their wedding

  • @AishaAlmeheiri
    @AishaAlmeheiri 4 роки тому +20

    Is anybody gonna talk about how cute are the 1 year married couples ??

  • @angelamarie7614
    @angelamarie7614 4 роки тому +5

    1:55 is precious

  • @kaitlyn7521
    @kaitlyn7521 4 роки тому +5

    1:16 that’s me and my hubby! After a bit we look at each other and start cracking up lol. It makes you realize how stupid it is to be fighting over something petty. Life is too short to fight!

  • @kmcdonald7453
    @kmcdonald7453 5 років тому +5

    All of these long marriages prove that people that get married young can still make it! Don’t give up hope, love is love ❤️

  • @Overlandparkgirl
    @Overlandparkgirl 4 роки тому +7

    Awww the last couple was adorable..” we get up, make breakfast and start talking again” my heart ❤️

  • @nxrth9463
    @nxrth9463 4 роки тому +4

    "You know...you get over it"
    Best Answer 😁

  • @kmpaterson11
    @kmpaterson11 5 років тому +14

    I love this and this just came out at the perfect time. Me and my boyfriend have been fighting non stop and I really love seeing how couples who have stayed together act because I don’t have that to look up to in my own life. So thank you!

  • @jamesbaird1802
    @jamesbaird1802 4 роки тому +8

    0:14 were you the guy who stole the chipmunks

  • @trinity2107
    @trinity2107 4 роки тому +43

    i’m sorry but is nobody talking about the lady at 0:23? her eyes tho 😍

    • @ET-qb1oq
      @ET-qb1oq 4 роки тому

      Trinity exactly what I was thinking

    • @user-wb3jj7fv7h
      @user-wb3jj7fv7h 4 роки тому

      Trinity they’re such an attractive couple! And the guys accent omg

  • @Istiakhbd
    @Istiakhbd 4 роки тому +1

    1:44 the most wise answer 🤼

  • @imnotokbroski9229
    @imnotokbroski9229 4 роки тому +1

    0:07 that was to adorable awh

  • @meikekroll324
    @meikekroll324 4 роки тому +6

    The 9 year couple THE WAY HE LOOKED AT HER

  • @ShaniTheBurningTree
    @ShaniTheBurningTree 4 роки тому +13

    "We pretend it never happened"
    Pfft I always have to deal with my partner being upset and be the bigger person.

  • @harley_lotus_flower2349
    @harley_lotus_flower2349 4 роки тому +9

    Of course this is recommended to me after I just had a fight with my bf 😭

  • @silvotorestyles9728
    @silvotorestyles9728 4 роки тому +16

    Can we take a moment to appreciate this women...they are all so gorgeous and beautiful ❤️

  • @CaliBoyee818
    @CaliBoyee818 4 роки тому +16

    Lawyers 😂😂😂 y'all rich rich

  • @pyroed7044
    @pyroed7044 4 роки тому +2

    0:52 what a surprise.

  • @vaehbxxch
    @vaehbxxch 4 роки тому +6

    “Pretend it never happened” same

  • @dadarkvador24
    @dadarkvador24 4 роки тому +1

    Perhaps one of the best UA-cam videos out there! This save save a relationship from breaking.

  • @mahimadhakal234
    @mahimadhakal234 5 років тому +3

    I rarely comment but the couple at 3:04 are too adorable and still madly in love and still in honeymoon phase. That is so inspiring and cute to watch.

  • @nae25..40
    @nae25..40 5 років тому +7

    I wish this channel was a long movie . I love this

  • @lcm2351
    @lcm2351 4 роки тому +10

    The ones with lawyers!!! 😂🤣😅

  • @kalmridertv
    @kalmridertv 4 роки тому +4

    Being in a relationship for 8 years, we both were really young so we used to fight a lot but then we realized as we got older that that’s not healthy. Now if we ever get into an argument I or they either walk away. When we look back it what we used to argue about was always something stupid.

  • @jojob922
    @jojob922 5 років тому +15

    The first couple seems so uncomfortable with each other 👀

  • @ghettomcnuggets8081
    @ghettomcnuggets8081 4 роки тому +4

    Of course the two BIGGEST girls end their fight with eating food

  • @michellel1116
    @michellel1116 4 роки тому

    Love this series! This is very helpful!

  • @butterflykisses8284
    @butterflykisses8284 4 роки тому +2

    I won't let my husband or myself go to bed mad so I start talking to him and figure why we argued in the first place. Like one of them said life is to short to argue all the time. We need to talk and figure out the problem so we won't argue over the same thing again

  • @hatemondaypieczona8564
    @hatemondaypieczona8564 4 роки тому +6

    The way he looks at her is beautiful... 2:00

  • @faykhudairi3738
    @faykhudairi3738 5 років тому +7

    obsessed with the 9 yrs. couple

  • @kal_jorEl
    @kal_jorEl 5 років тому +1

    Best amongst all was the beautiful couple who advised they say Sorry on the count of 3. Gosh she is beautiful as a person and at heart.

  • @captainwatercress
    @captainwatercress 5 років тому +1

    My s/o and I talk it out, which usually takes a while, but makes us both feel better.

  • @user8582
    @user8582 3 роки тому +1

    My belief is that you are supposed to go through a fight before getting married. You have to know what you're getting in to and the other way around, the way that person reacts and copes with certain things. Are they able to communicate it well and are their addictions (as we all have them) something they run to after something extremely stressful. I hope someone else shares this belief.

  • @lamb9770
    @lamb9770 4 роки тому +6

    this is beautiful.. don’t know how to explain it, it just is.

  • @BoomBangofficial
    @BoomBangofficial 4 роки тому +11

    My fave couples 💛
    0:57 & 1:39 & 2:19 & 2:42 3:10 & 3:19

  • @shangrila3772
    @shangrila3772 5 років тому +2

    I love this this is so pure

  • @paolamora5149
    @paolamora5149 4 роки тому +1

    I am binging these videos right now but really just skipping to the “married 57 years” couple because I have come to believe they hold the key to happiness.

  • @xGiberish
    @xGiberish 5 років тому +64

    Did they film this in the same hour of the previous one? How are they still married for 5.5 hours? Is it 5 and a half hours? Is it 5 hours and 50 minutes?!?! I'm so confused...

    • @valentine6blackrose
      @valentine6blackrose 5 років тому +42

      xGiberish All these questions were filmed during one sitting, and divided for us into different viewing segments.

    • @xGiberish
      @xGiberish 5 років тому +3

      @@valentine6blackrose aha, thank you very much for the response 🌸

    • @leilyhope9900
      @leilyhope9900 4 роки тому +1

      It’s 5 and a half hours .5.5 = five and five tenths.. five tenths is 50/100 which is half and is equivalent to 30/60 minutes.

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 4 роки тому

      xGiberish lol

  • @besussus7821
    @besussus7821 4 роки тому +1

    Me and my gf dont fight but normally what works is i make a stupid face or say something dumb or stupidly fake cry like comedic and if all else fails i make a baked good of sorts and put on a disney movie with popcorn and wait until she comes over and we cuddle

  • @merryoldgrinkh9020
    @merryoldgrinkh9020 3 роки тому +2

    2:18 he sounds like a physics professor

  • @kmm2442
    @kmm2442 5 років тому +5

    1:24 Favourite.

  • @impIicit
    @impIicit 4 роки тому

    they’re all so lovely.

  • @awhellyeah12
    @awhellyeah12 4 роки тому +11

    Married for 5.5 hours
    Did you do this right after your wedding

  • @junkossleepingbag5905
    @junkossleepingbag5905 4 роки тому +6

    2:02 married: 22 years
    Me: they look 35
    Edit: if I get mad at my friend, after 5 minutes, I’m like
    “ok girl talk to me before I go mad”

  • @alexgarza2165
    @alexgarza2165 4 роки тому +3

    0:27 Hes adorable.

  • @lv3r742
    @lv3r742 4 роки тому +1

    After a huge fight, my parents apologize to my and my brother then just start talking again after 3-4 hours.
    They have been married 19 years.

  • @ishan8491
    @ishan8491 4 роки тому +2

    I love how they jumped from 6 to 9 years.

  • @twentysecondcenturywoman
    @twentysecondcenturywoman 3 роки тому

    The third couple is absolutely killing these vids 😂 I love them!

  • @malistone3889
    @malistone3889 4 роки тому +20

    2:28 sorry she’s how old??? wow she looks good!

  • @TabithaB.
    @TabithaB. 5 років тому +2

    The way they look at each other, you can tell they’re in love😭

  • @RareEmerauld86
    @RareEmerauld86 3 роки тому

    🥰old happily married couples are the best. There's so much wisdom to learn from them.

  • @amymooney9248
    @amymooney9248 5 років тому +23

    That 66 yo lady! She looks good.

  • @JalenMcbee
    @JalenMcbee 4 роки тому +1

    My boyfriend and I aren’t really the arguing type, we’ll always start an argument and then neither of us care enough to stay mad so we get over it after like 10 minutes

  • @lilhomes6278
    @lilhomes6278 4 роки тому +5

    how do u find someone that is married for 5.5 hours then make them agree to this?

    • @monirmussanur273
      @monirmussanur273 4 роки тому

      lil homes I think they ask them before the wedding

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 2 роки тому

    When we make up it's with taking a walk, and breaking bread together and affection