STOP trying to "reinvent" yourself, it *doesn't* work
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
- I think I have officially become a long form content creator guys... BUT ANYWAY I present you with a video that I hope will encourage you to work on yourself and glow up WHILE staying authentic ;) If you guys have ANY questions please ask me in the comments :3!!
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RIGHTTT im proud of that one hhh
it's 2025???????
It is just a few months away, a lot of people have already begun preparing and having that whole ”next year is going to be my year” thing
HONESTLY i forgot to say "almost" but shhhh hopefully not too many people noticed
that's a good video and I get your points. I think you shouldn't change your whole personality and act like someone you're not, you just gotta turn some bad habits of yours into good ones. I agree that it's all about balance, you can't be perfect all the time, some days you feel motivated and energetic some days you don't and it's totally fine!
exactlyyyyy, that's the way it should be!!
in love with you fr. thank you for being so grounding on this app. instead shouldn’t we be teaching people just to fully accept and love themselves for who they are and know you are whatever u say u are. you are the it girl or dream girl if you think you are. that’s it! a lot of these teachings leave out vital spiritual knowledge alongside the true God. this rlly shows.. ty for this video again💜
awww thank you!! I really try to give my honest advice so im so glad you enjoyed it!!
and one thing which i love about myself is the dance and singing/screaming partys i have in my room
i love thattttt I do the same with my old playlists and it totally boosts the mood :D!!
heyyy i love the vid and the points ur making! i just told a boy i liked him and he said that im weird and that i was never his type. that is when i realised all the trying to be a chill,cool girl didnt work out and that therefore i am now in a phase of looking what i want how i wanna dress how i wanna be and what my goals are and not other peoples expextions or me trying to fit into sonething im not just for validation. it happent yesterday and i journaled about it and i swore to never change my whole personality and looks gor somebody ever again. so happy i stumbled across ur video. love u and all the best to anyone reading btw ur hair looks like cottom candy and ur eyeliner damn i wish i was that good
Aww girlie I hope you're okay , experiencing rejection can be hard 🥺 but I'm sure you'll be stronger from now on , be yourself, sending virtual hugs and love 💝
@@Bessoom omg thank you so muchh i literally adore u 🥰🥰
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hi!!! thank you so much for sharing and im really proud of you for taking such a positive attitude during a hard situation like this!! youre def perfect the way you are sweetie!!
For me when I started to physically "glow up" (fashion aside) I found what my base line self-care was first, and then go one step up, that's the key. A few personal examples of what I used to do was bite my nails, wear cheap mascara & lipstick, showered fortnightly, never styled my hair or did skin care. One step up from this (what I do now) is I trim and shape my nails with a file, Bought better quality mascara and lipstick that feel nicer to wear and last longer, showered weekly, wear my hair half up half down using a mini claw clip and use a cold wet towel to just remove makeup, refresh and clean my face.
These are all very basic and simple steps that are a step up from what I was originally doing and have made a major difference all while I still feel authentically myself and not that I'm trying to be some it/that girl with her 10-step skincare and 20 makeup products, getting her nails and hair done at the salon weekly. which would have burnt me out and I would have gone back to my old bad habits.
I will say that once these things became my new normal, I was willing to "level up" certain things like taking care of my cuticles and wearing a clear protective nail polish, and using make up remover and moisturiser. One day I hope to be doing my own gel nails at home and have a simple skincare routine.
Another key thing is trying things to see if you like them but don't go all the way, want to see if you want lash extensions, try false eyelashes first, wanna get your eyebrows shaped and dyed, use a eyebrow pencil first, wanna have long nails, get press on's and see how you fair. I have tried all of these and learnt I did not like them, I can appreciate them on others but as for myself I am very minimalist with my physical appearance and so feel no need to go further, One area I did find myself actually upgrading and investing in was my jewellery, I love gold and so I bought a pair of gold hoop earrings and necklace from Primark, I wore them to the point my skin was green and they weren't gold anymore/tarnished. I then bought a similar looking pair of hoop earrings and pebble necklace from ana luisa that are real Gold and I haven't taken them off since!
The difference just these simple and very easy actionable steps, that make me still feel like myself, just on a more "elevated" sense, have been wonderful for my self-confidence and love.
forgot to add what I actually love about myself XD for me its my very pale and light features and my very vibrant natural ginger hair
OMG i totally agree!! thank you so much for taking the time to share all of this with me!! I bet your ginger hair is gorgeoussss i used to dye my hair orange before hehe