I was suppose to have it all by 27 - I’m now in my 30s

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  • Опубліковано 12 жов 2024
  • Hey there. At one point I thought I'd have it all. I was suppose to. This was my life plan. Marriage, children (I say kids but maybe it was a kid- at least [sorry if so.. not my intention to not be inaccurate]), riches/fame. I wanted it all by 27 (or before). I'm now 31 years old and will be turning 32 next month. I have nothing that is mentioned. Hopefully this helps someone (or more). You're where you are- work from there. Thanks for watching.
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    #LifeAdvice #Lifestyle #Vlog

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  • @JH-ox9kw
    @JH-ox9kw 12 днів тому +5

    married 37 years with kids. if i had to do it all over again id probaly stayed single and had shit load more money and retire early

    • @argeldelacruz9545
      @argeldelacruz9545 12 днів тому +3

      I just said that to my wife yesterday! Hillarious! 😂

  • @fooled4less854
    @fooled4less854 13 днів тому +2

    Thanks for taking the time to share your story, man. A lot of us are in a really similar place. I genuinely hope life gets better for you.

    • @MyKJMLife
      @MyKJMLife  13 днів тому +1

      @@fooled4less854 you’re welcome. Thank you for being kind. I also hope life gets better for you as well. Head up & keep looking/moving forward

  • @trqster
    @trqster 12 днів тому +1

    As a mature guy in my late 40s, I'll give you my take. Men will usually peak around their mid 30s so plenty of time still ahead for you, use it wisely. Your only 'job' as a man should be finding something that you're good at doing and become your best version, meaning getting fit and building muscle , eating healthy, knowing how to dress. This alone will make a HUGE impact on your life, on how other people perceive you and you feel about yourself, trust me been there done that. Also read a lot about self improvement, my life-changing book was 'How to be a 3% man' by Coach Corey Wayne, give it a go, nothing to loose. Take care brother

    • @MyKJMLife
      @MyKJMLife  12 днів тому +1

      @@trqster thank you, man. You take care as well

  • @squidnerful
    @squidnerful 12 днів тому

    I had nothing when I was 25. Holes in the soles of my shoes. I went into industrial sales. Retired when I was 48. Haven’t worked for 24 years. Here’s the keys to success. Jesus hard work free enterprise kindness self reliance. Pray and persevere

  • @kittydaddy2023
    @kittydaddy2023 12 днів тому

    It's tough out there for men because we really do need purpose. It's probably better to set real attainable goals and then reach those goals. The whole "follow your dreams" thing sets us up for failure.

  • @cookieDaXapper
    @cookieDaXapper 12 днів тому +1

    only for encouragement,...
    Proverbs 19:21
    New International Version
    21
    Many are the plans in a person’s heart,
    but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.

  • @DonHendrickson-xd7jw
    @DonHendrickson-xd7jw 12 днів тому

    If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.
    Many things happen in our lives over which we have no control.

  • @jacklan4103
    @jacklan4103 12 днів тому

    Single men want to get married and have children. Married men want to remain single and not have children. I think the best thing for people to do is to do the best that they have at the moment and go on from there.

    • @the7cantlose
      @the7cantlose 12 днів тому

      I don't agree. My kids are the best thing in my life.

    • @jacklan4103
      @jacklan4103 12 днів тому

      @@the7cantlose No shit. You're still with them but not the others who decided to abandon them.

  • @micktheoldpunk
    @micktheoldpunk 12 днів тому

    hi, appreciate the honesty. But I have a question for you. What is/was magical about the age 27?

    • @MyKJMLife
      @MyKJMLife  12 днів тому

      @@micktheoldpunk thank you. Also, I couldn’t tell you why I chose that number. If I use to know the reason(s) I don’t remember anymore. Sorry

    • @micktheoldpunk
      @micktheoldpunk 12 днів тому

      @@MyKJMLife no worries, I'm twice your age and would love to have so much time still in front of me. It's given me a good idea for a video on my channel.

    • @MyKJMLife
      @MyKJMLife  12 днів тому

      @@micktheoldpunk the good thing is- you still do have time in front of you. You can also extend that time by taking care of your health as well.

  • @ronaldschlager4888
    @ronaldschlager4888 12 днів тому

    Who told you that you were to have it all? Whoever they may be, are they in authority over you?

    • @MyKJMLife
      @MyKJMLife  12 днів тому +1

      @@ronaldschlager4888 no one ever directly told me. I knew what I wanted for myself throughout those times

  • @23Bobbie23
    @23Bobbie23 14 днів тому