He was too young. Yeah, people are gonna screech, “HE WAS LEGALLY AN ADULT!!!1!” But here’s the thing… Our brains don’t fully mature until 25 on average. And I wish people took that into account. Young people need more guidance and less cold judgment. It leads to idiocy.
@@LocksAndChains Eff off on the maturity bs. We don't excuse poor decisions past the age of 8. How about a little less leniency because someone thought it a great idea despite knowing better. That said, making mistakes like this is understandable. I can offer my understanding and condolences that OP is in that situation.
@@LocksAndChains And I would rather shove a pacifier in the mouth of many people over 25, as they have the maturity of a 2yr old. This "Aren't fully mature until 25" shit means as much as random lines made in the sand. Nothing magically happens when you're 25. That's just when your Brain stops physically developing. You're Mentality and Maturity are developed long before your 25th Birthday.
Na 1 and only one The cheating can be rape what if your lover got drunk and slept with someone There drunk and it can be call rape if she or he was supper drunk then there lover hates them for it leaves them Remember drunk sex is literally where the drunk person is not them self there mind is all crazy so they do crazy things It not cheating it because take advantage of them if there supper drunk if not then it cheating If there normal that cheating drunk andnormal cheating drunk and crazy rape
Yeah and she cheated twice send that put up red flags in his head that she might cheat so what about hermit learning her lesson she cheated once she did it again and you still stay with her that's telling her that you'll stay with her no matter what
I immediately lost sympathy when he said she had already cheated twice before this and he still took her back. Like dude you literally are asking for it
Sounds like mom is the main one to blame for all this. Jake never had to learn how to be a good person because mommy was always there making excuses and saying he did nothing wrong no matter how much of a little sh*t he became. Oh and the serial cheating wife of course, may they have the lives they deserve. I just feel bad for the poor kid being raised by those two.
@LilDemona I am relieved that at least the father had some integrity and self awareness to realise he was enabling Jake and corrected himself. His mother was firmly in Jake's camp and had to be pushed out of it and kept out. Having favourites is a cruel thing to do as a parent.
@@mllvnclt He meant When in the future their stubborn father dies, jake will have the courage to move in back again with henry and karen and their widowed mother will be fine with it.
Soooooo wife cheats multiple times (one a multi-year affair), OP takes her back, finds out she's cheated again & he might not be his child's father.... and OP has a shocked Pikachu face? Ok, I had to stop listening there 🙄
The older kid isnt supposed to be the parent of the younger kids. The mother was immature as F...at least the Dad set boundaries and tried to teach his kids responsibility.
Why do people always go for the "you raised him so therefore he is your son" - NO, did you not listen to him, the boy is his brothers! Dont dare say he is the one that needs to pay for and raise that child!
No one respected him his entire childhood. He was taught that any attempt to ask for respect caused him trouble and drew unwanted attention to himself and in some cases it would even be punished. How was he to know what respect looked like?
He was basically staying for the kid because he didn’t want to divorce and have a broken home. When she told the truth that the kid might not be his so everything that he was staying for was gone and out the window.
I feel like some of the comments are a bit too harsh like he grew up with no one showing him and he care and affection when you grow up like that you grabbed onto any affection that you can have even if it's toxic even if it hurts you so I'm not surprised he kept thinking of her back she was probably the first person outside of when his dad finally decided to acknowledge his existence to really give him the attention that he wanted and so craved. Bro needs therapy
This. I grew up in a family that constantly disrespected me and called me stupid. It’s like when you grow up like that even if you grow a spine everyone around you is trying to snap it. I was lucky because I finally opened my eyes and grew a spine but it was a nightmare because I was fighting everyone while trying to grow into my own person and they fought so hard too! To them I was just being a b***ch. It was strange and unusual for them to see me fight back and stand up for myself. They felt it was their duty to put me back in my “place”. They actually got physical with me and only started to respect me when I called the police on my own sisters for attacking me. I went no contact for a long time and everyone thought I was out of their lives. They eventually one by one apologized because both of my sisters got married to horrible men because abuse was still normal in their minds. My marriage is still happy and healthy years later and it made them realize that what I had been saying about respect was right all along and they were the ones that were wrong. They’ve admitted it’s hard to be in the same room with my husband and I because he’s kind to me and he talks to me like a person and they’ve never had a man talk to them like that before. So yeah I get where OP is coming from. Because I feel like I could have very easily been in his situation.
A YEARS long affair is not a young and dumb mistake. Then she had a second and third that he was willing to forgive her again until he found out it was his brother. Op needs some therapy to get his self-esteem up.
These stories make me realize that i never want to raise kids with low self-esteem. Op seems to enjoy being cockholded. Dudes wife cheated 3 times that he knew off, and he TOOK HER BACK!!!!!! 😳
He didn't deserve to be cheated on but taking back a cheater? I get you can be young and have this happen to you for the first time but seriously? How is it possible to cheat multiple times DURING A RELATIONSHIP? make that make sense
Tbf when you’re raised by a family like that, you’re going to take anything that makes you feel loved. Just be a good parent and establish good values and not favorite your kids and you’ll be fine
So stupid to trust a cheater. So dumb to have a baby with her either. An beyond that if you're not getting a paternity test day one that is messed up. Mandatory paternity tests should be law before anyone's name can go on a birth certificate aside from the birth giver. Mistakes eh, no I'm sure that those were choices. Continual choices made by her. All the while putting his sexual health in danger. Could literally give you cancer if you were given a certain marker of HPV. There are also STI's that are resistant and immune to current treatments like new strains of Syphilis which are heavily resistant which you can read the outline for in the National Library of Medicine. Pretty sad, beyond that the father needs to stipulate some other things because if he dies first the mom will just move JAKE right in that house. She might be able to interfere someway as well with the will at some point. So all that needs to be buttoned up.
I was barely hanging in there cause the story is ridiculous but the second I heard about the Wife cheating I was done. Here we go, another rage bait simp story on how nice guys finish last.
These stories never know when to stop. And then my parents shouted at them, and then they said they wish they never had a second child, then they cut them off, then they cut them from the will, then they tattooed my name on their hearts, then they took out a contract on them and paid an actor to be a better sibling for me. It's emotional pornography.
Nah Jake is just a rotten kid. Rotten kids just get worse over the years It takes a miracle for them to ever change and rotten kids turn into rotten adults What a terrible mother. She should never have had children. Bad parenting. She didn't want to be confronted about her favoritism I think people on here are forgetting all this stuff that Op went through. When that stuff kind of happens you're always hoping that things will turn out better until they don't and you end up completely destroyed When you get partial treatment and the other siblings can do no wrong, it messes with your mind so badly Please have some compassion on him
To the OP: Say this to your brother Jake who was acting like king Herod who was sleeping with his brother's wife: "It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother's wife." It's a reference to Mark 6:18 that says: 18 For John had said unto Herod, It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother's wife. Mark 6:18
Nobody "deserves" anything. Lots of kids grow up in orphanages in even way worse conditions. Should OP adopt all of them as well? The baby's parents chose to be human garbage. It does them some good to take up some responsibility and actually contribute to society at least once in their worthless lives. Your mentality is exactly what's wrong with modern society. Letting the guilty go free and having the victim suffer even more.
My heart breaks for the child, he is the innocent party and yet he is being punished. He lost the man who he saw as Dad and it looks like it his grandparents have gone no contact as well. He must be so confused. Poor kid
Poor guy was so abused and emotionally neglected growing up that he never learned to stick up for himself and that’s how he landed in this nightmarish case of paternity fraud from hell.
Never take a cheater back after they showed you what and who they really are and what they really think of you. Cheating is never a mistake never it's a conscious choice and decision
I get that people linger on hope that everything gets better. But there is the thing, you linger onto hope that your life situation gets better, not when a wife cheats on you TWICE and then the THIRD time. OP didn't change from his middle school era, he just grew up and still let people walk over him with better physique
Jake was a spoiled brat who imagined somehow he can hurt anyone if he only wanted to - that's a mental issue. OP imagined he can screw over anyone because has issues with Jake - OP, that's a you problem if that kid reminds you of Jake, not theirs. You've become bratty Jake 2.0, congratulations.
This is why strong fathers are needed so that children understand that bad behavior has serious consequences and that sadly church enables cheaters and that is the reason that explains that red pill content is required because society need real men.
So true. Christian’s are always obsessing over forgiveness because God forgives. But it’s not healthy to just pass out forgiveness like candy. It’s just not. How is it healthy to forgive your wife for cheating? And to encourage them to do it over and over again? This is how OP got to where he’s at. How does get forgive his brother for f***king his own wife and allowing paternity fraud? I can’t imagine a more unforgivable situation. But somewhere out there there is a crazy person saying you HAVE to forgive his wife and brother. 😂💀
People cant be calling him cruel for leaving aside that child that isnt his responsibility, infact, it would be cruel to force him to raise a child that just reminds him of being cheated on for years with the person who abused him in his childhood, that is just psychological torture, remember that just the thought of the fact that he got cheated on with his brother almost made him puke, imagine him having to endure that feeling every day
This is one stinks of false, the brother calling himself a golden child, the mother with no personality, the father being the totem of family values (with an monologue), the revenge fantasy and everything else. Good story to.
Had to stop when op said he went back to bis cheating gf and married her. This explains perfectly why op was so easy to bully cause he openly invited it. This is the most spineless person ever and this story was just glorified pitty porn
It's funny to me how Karen tried to say "we can work through this" and "why won't you fight for me?" when OP stated that he knew about previous rounds of cheating in the past by her. He stuck with her through them then, but the last revelation was the last straw. A betrayal of that level would devastate anyone. As for cutting Henry out of his life, sure it's cruel but would raising a child in a home filled with anger, resentment or despisement be any better?
He chose to get back with her so why is he complaining for the constant cheating? He knew who she was and still chose to still be together so he shouldn’t complain.
Jesus Christ the mother is unbearable, she imo is the main reason the brother turned out the way he did. She never held him accountable for anything. What an awful parent. The Dad at least did the right thing.
Once again there are some people who really don’t need to have kids. The dads selective parenting and the moms obvious favoritism is a serious dose of birth control. Otherwise OP would have known better than to marry over a pregnancy. The first infidelity should have been the last. Was he really shocked she nailed his bro? This guy needs therapy.
Getting married over pregnancy is fine, as this action is mostly for the child, people have to own up to consequences. Paternity test right after birth though should be mandatory before any birth certificates are finalized. People asking/commenting a man to raise a child not his own, from another man that is almost an enemy no less is brain dead, ask yourselves if you are willing to do that sacrifice yourselves before preaching to others.
The universe work in mysterious ways. Have a good life. Keep your head up. You will find Mrs. Right someday. Get a prenup next time if you ever married
Idk how law works but IF, a big IF you forgive a cheater I’d say get a written agreement saying that if you cheat again you get nothing in the divorce. I know you can’t get a prenup after marriage but if that’s possible it might make them see the seriousness.
Don't know how people can call him cruel or selfish. His wife is cruel for cheating on him 3 times and the last time with his brother. And she's selfish by trying to say his child would be sad but it's not his son it's his nephew. He already fought for her twice. Three strikes and she's out of there. And his brother is only crying because it all came to light. I think Jake and Karen thought they could keep what they were doing a secret even if she got pregnant by him again.
WHAT THE HECK ARE THESE COMMENTS? I came here cause I was thinking about my sister and about the one time we were laughing so hard watching an episode of Taxi and I wanted to hear that old tune. scroll down, "op, once a cheater always a cheater." someone explain to me what I'm missing here
Exactly, why would you want to raise another man's child when it's not a step parent situation? And he would unlikely be able to get custody because biologically the child is not his and most courts side with a mother no matter how crazy they are. No offense to good mom out there.
They were right to call him foolish. Never get back with a cheater, and of course, under no circumstance get married over a pregnancy.
He was too young. Yeah, people are gonna screech, “HE WAS LEGALLY AN ADULT!!!1!” But here’s the thing… Our brains don’t fully mature until 25 on average. And I wish people took that into account. Young people need more guidance and less cold judgment. It leads to idiocy.
@@LocksAndChains Eff off on the maturity bs. We don't excuse poor decisions past the age of 8. How about a little less leniency because someone thought it a great idea despite knowing better.
That said, making mistakes like this is understandable. I can offer my understanding and condolences that OP is in that situation.
Bro I seen so many story where thw guy was forced to marry because of a baby and there life suck same with the kid then they divorced after 18 years
@@LocksAndChainsEight year olds know that cheating is bad.😅
@@LocksAndChains And I would rather shove a pacifier in the mouth of many people over 25, as they have the maturity of a 2yr old.
This "Aren't fully mature until 25" shit means as much as random lines made in the sand. Nothing magically happens when you're 25. That's just when your Brain stops physically developing. You're Mentality and Maturity are developed long before your 25th Birthday.
Once a cheater, always a cheater
Amen to that.
Na 1 and only one
The cheating can be rape what if your lover got drunk and slept with someone
There drunk and it can be call rape if she or he was supper drunk then there lover hates them for it leaves them
Remember drunk sex is literally where the drunk person is not them self there mind is all crazy so they do crazy things
It not cheating it because take advantage of them if there supper drunk if not then it cheating
If there normal that cheating drunk andnormal cheating drunk and crazy rape
Yeah and she cheated twice send that put up red flags in his head that she might cheat so what about hermit learning her lesson she cheated once she did it again and you still stay with her that's telling her that you'll stay with her no matter what
Her name is karen
I immediately lost sympathy when he said she had already cheated twice before this and he still took her back.
Like dude you literally are asking for it
Bro isn't even a door mat. He's the whole floor.
Sounds like mom is the main one to blame for all this. Jake never had to learn how to be a good person because mommy was always there making excuses and saying he did nothing wrong no matter how much of a little sh*t he became. Oh and the serial cheating wife of course, may they have the lives they deserve. I just feel bad for the poor kid being raised by those two.
Both parents are to blame, since they chose to enable Jake, and chose to ignore OP.
Such low characterd partner is just curse for good people
@LilDemona I am relieved that at least the father had some integrity and self awareness to realise he was enabling Jake and corrected himself. His mother was firmly in Jake's camp and had to be pushed out of it and kept out. Having favourites is a cruel thing to do as a parent.
I would have called out my parents
The second dad dies, Jake is moving in to OPs house with mom, karen, and henry
and the Mom is going to support it without any doubt.
What ? I don't understand
@@mllvnclt He meant When in the future their stubborn father dies, jake will have the courage to move in back again with henry and karen and their widowed mother will be fine with it.
He's leaving everything to his son so it's his house instead. I'm pretty sure that's what he means when everything is going to him
Not likely since the house will legally be in OP's name. If they try to pull a stunt like that OP could evict the lot of them.
Soooooo wife cheats multiple times (one a multi-year affair), OP takes her back, finds out she's cheated again & he might not be his child's father.... and OP has a shocked Pikachu face? Ok, I had to stop listening there 🙄
I got no sympathy only has himself to blame
ye it is partially ops fault, once a cheater always a cheater but still you gotta feel bad for op as a human
But I'm glad everything's fine now
The older kid isnt supposed to be the parent of the younger kids. The mother was immature as F...at least the Dad set boundaries and tried to teach his kids responsibility.
Mothers nowadays behave more like kids honestly.
MY GRANDFATHER ALWAYS SAID A LEOPARD WILL NEVER CHANGE IT'S SPORTS
As long as it doesn't run track.
Grandfather in letters is grand-fat-her
I mean, I can see one playing hockey pretty well
Okay, but can it ball? 🏀
@@Xtreme-qk5qg *insert perfect cell balling*
Why do people always go for the "you raised him so therefore he is your son" - NO, did you not listen to him, the boy is his brothers! Dont dare say he is the one that needs to pay for and raise that child!
She belongs to the streets, she and Jake are made for each other, go on with your life, and don't take crap from anyone.
She belongs to the highway
she cheated once and you forgave her?? you get no sympathy from me.
If you don't have self respect, why would you think others will respect you?
Exactly!
No one respected him his entire childhood. He was taught that any attempt to ask for respect caused him trouble and drew unwanted attention to himself and in some cases it would even be punished. How was he to know what respect looked like?
Common decency?
If OP had a middle name, it would be “Welcome”.
Last name doormat.
So OP wife cheated multuple times, took her back and is still shocked she cheated with his own brother???
I thought OP was smart?
Can't really feel bad for the man.
Even if he left her due to her cheating during the marriage, this still would have been an issue.
ditto!
He was basically staying for the kid because he didn’t want to divorce and have a broken home. When she told the truth that the kid might not be his so everything that he was staying for was gone and out the window.
No. op is an idiot
You know you’re a spineless push over when your little brother is your bully. Op sounds like the older brother from the last vacation movie.
OP’s mother definitely cheated on her husband. That whole family needs a paternity test.
I feel like some of the comments are a bit too harsh like he grew up with no one showing him and he care and affection when you grow up like that you grabbed onto any affection that you can have even if it's toxic even if it hurts you so I'm not surprised he kept thinking of her back she was probably the first person outside of when his dad finally decided to acknowledge his existence to really give him the attention that he wanted and so craved. Bro needs therapy
This. I grew up in a family that constantly disrespected me and called me stupid. It’s like when you grow up like that even if you grow a spine everyone around you is trying to snap it.
I was lucky because I finally opened my eyes and grew a spine but it was a nightmare because I was fighting everyone while trying to grow into my own person and they fought so hard too! To them I was just being a b***ch. It was strange and unusual for them to see me fight back and stand up for myself. They felt it was their duty to put me back in my “place”.
They actually got physical with me and only started to respect me when I called the police on my own sisters for attacking me. I went no contact for a long time and everyone thought I was out of their lives. They eventually one by one apologized because both of my sisters got married to horrible men because abuse was still normal in their minds. My marriage is still happy and healthy years later and it made them realize that what I had been saying about respect was right all along and they were the ones that were wrong.
They’ve admitted it’s hard to be in the same room with my husband and I because he’s kind to me and he talks to me like a person and they’ve never had a man talk to them like that before.
So yeah I get where OP is coming from. Because I feel like I could have very easily been in his situation.
Cheating is not a mistake but it's a choice
Exactly! Though, I highly doubt that they will not understand it or get it through their thick skulls.
the fact that op funded the golden child life is crazy to me.did he think mommy would accept him by doing that
That wasn't OP, that was the dad
His mother is a cheater and that Chad’s kid. That why she treated him differently
A YEARS long affair is not a young and dumb mistake. Then she had a second and third that he was willing to forgive her again until he found out it was his brother. Op needs some therapy to get his self-esteem up.
These stories make me realize that i never want to raise kids with low self-esteem. Op seems to enjoy being cockholded. Dudes wife cheated 3 times that he knew off, and he TOOK HER BACK!!!!!! 😳
He didn't deserve to be cheated on but taking back a cheater? I get you can be young and have this happen to you for the first time but seriously? How is it possible to cheat multiple times DURING A RELATIONSHIP? make that make sense
Tbf when you’re raised by a family like that, you’re going to take anything that makes you feel loved. Just be a good parent and establish good values and not favorite your kids and you’ll be fine
Half of me does sympathize with OP, and the other half is thinking 'WHAT THE HELL DID YOU EXPECT?!'
All the stories on this channel are completely contrived. Cheat-GPT
If you take back a cheater you deserve to be cheated on
OP’s dad turned out to be a boss
**Start of video**
"He cried when i punched him in the face."
**End of video**
"I've never saw him cry before"
He said specifically he never saw him cry before, well at least since they grew up 24:26
Someone is too stupid to even read or listen
24:10
"At least since we grew up"
Tell us you're not paying attention, without saying you're not paying attention
So stupid to trust a cheater. So dumb to have a baby with her either. An beyond that if you're not getting a paternity test day one that is messed up.
Mandatory paternity tests should be law before anyone's name can go on a birth certificate aside from the birth giver. Mistakes eh, no I'm sure that those were choices. Continual choices made by her. All the while putting his sexual health in danger. Could literally give you cancer if you were given a certain marker of HPV. There are also STI's that are resistant and immune to current treatments like new strains of Syphilis which are heavily resistant which you can read the outline for in the National Library of Medicine.
Pretty sad, beyond that the father needs to stipulate some other things because if he dies first the mom will just move JAKE right in that house. She might be able to interfere someway as well with the will at some point. So all that needs to be buttoned up.
I was just thinking that! If he were smart, he would've pieced it all together THE FIRST TIME she cheated...
I was barely hanging in there cause the story is ridiculous but the second I heard about the Wife cheating I was done. Here we go, another rage bait simp story on how nice guys finish last.
These stories never know when to stop. And then my parents shouted at them, and then they said they wish they never had a second child, then they cut them off, then they cut them from the will, then they tattooed my name on their hearts, then they took out a contract on them and paid an actor to be a better sibling for me. It's emotional pornography.
Op really said truth is an issue for him, lol.
I've noticed that too lol. It's always so over the top and unbelievable but it is reddit
Mistakes might happen many
But
Betrayal happens only once
Nah Jake is just a rotten kid.
Rotten kids just get worse over the years
It takes a miracle for them to ever change and rotten kids turn into rotten adults
What a terrible mother. She should never have had children.
Bad parenting. She didn't want to be confronted about her favoritism
I think people on here are forgetting all this stuff that Op went through. When that stuff kind of happens you're always hoping that things will turn out better until they don't and you end up completely destroyed
When you get partial treatment and the other siblings can do no wrong, it messes with your mind so badly
Please have some compassion on him
What a doormat
The fact that u named her Karen is a give away 😅🎉
my petty self would've actually tried to commit to prove a point to the mom or wtv
To the OP:
Say this to your brother Jake who was acting like king Herod who was sleeping with his brother's wife:
"It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother's wife."
It's a reference to Mark 6:18 that says:
18 For John had said unto Herod, It is not lawful for thee to have thy brother's wife.
Mark 6:18
I swear I’m laughing at dude from first story. After the first time? Lmfao, bro was tasting bare mon ting truout ordeal
Don't talk to your brother, not that child not her mother.
The baby don't deserve that even if it is his brother's child.. he deserves a father that isn't a dang screw up... :
Poor kid
Its never a fault of a paternetry fraud victim as to why a child has no stable home. Its not the victims duty to support that child.
That would be on the golden child
Nobody "deserves" anything. Lots of kids grow up in orphanages in even way worse conditions. Should OP adopt all of them as well? The baby's parents chose to be human garbage. It does them some good to take up some responsibility and actually contribute to society at least once in their worthless lives. Your mentality is exactly what's wrong with modern society. Letting the guilty go free and having the victim suffer even more.
"he put pebbles in "In my stereo, it.couldnt been bad for my teeth?
I noticed this too and thought I misheard since I was listening without reading it.
I want to think something got auto corrected.
OP's dad did the right thing nothing stubborn about keeping to his principles to disown his other son the AP...
My heart breaks for the child, he is the innocent party and yet he is being punished. He lost the man who he saw as Dad and it looks like it his grandparents have gone no contact as well. He must be so confused. Poor kid
He was foolish for forgiving his for cheating but things did work out well for him at the end 🎉
Op isnt obligated to raise his "nephew"
I wanna see the son's side in the future. Also it hurts to see when the OP ask AITA when they're clearly not in the wrong
Poor guy was so abused and emotionally neglected growing up that he never learned to stick up for himself and that’s how he landed in this nightmarish case of paternity fraud from hell.
Never take a cheater back after they showed you what and who they really are and what they really think of you. Cheating is never a mistake never it's a conscious choice and decision
Aint no way her name is really karen💀💀💀💀💀
He knowingly forgave and stayed with a serial cheater. No sympathy for this fool.
I get that people linger on hope that everything gets better. But there is the thing, you linger onto hope that your life situation gets better, not when a wife cheats on you TWICE and then the THIRD time. OP didn't change from his middle school era, he just grew up and still let people walk over him with better physique
No family and wfe anymore. Why are people chesting...
Jake was a spoiled brat who imagined somehow he can hurt anyone if he only wanted to - that's a mental issue. OP imagined he can screw over anyone because has issues with Jake - OP, that's a you problem if that kid reminds you of Jake, not theirs. You've become bratty Jake 2.0, congratulations.
This is why strong fathers are needed so that children understand that bad behavior has serious consequences and that sadly church enables cheaters and that is the reason that explains that red pill content is required because society need real men.
So true. Christian’s are always obsessing over forgiveness because God forgives. But it’s not healthy to just pass out forgiveness like candy. It’s just not. How is it healthy to forgive your wife for cheating? And to encourage them to do it over and over again? This is how OP got to where he’s at. How does get forgive his brother for f***king his own wife and allowing paternity fraud? I can’t imagine a more unforgivable situation. But somewhere out there there is a crazy person saying you HAVE to forgive his wife and brother. 😂💀
Don't want to raise a child in a broken home? Why did you break the home then?
Yeah sure let this guy visit your son who looks like his brother he won't abuse the son bullcrap on that
I think Henry will reach out to OP, when hes older and hopefully have a relationship
People cant be calling him cruel for leaving aside that child that isnt his responsibility, infact, it would be cruel to force him to raise a child that just reminds him of being cheated on for years with the person who abused him in his childhood, that is just psychological torture, remember that just the thought of the fact that he got cheated on with his brother almost made him puke, imagine him having to endure that feeling every day
This is one stinks of false, the brother calling himself a golden child, the mother with no personality, the father being the totem of family values (with an monologue), the revenge fantasy and everything else.
Good story to.
Who cares? It’s entertaining to listen to. Not everything has to be real. Haven’t you ever heard of the fiction section in the library?
"Three strikes and you're out" only applies to baseball. And always practise safe sex.
Simp 101 🤦
Simp. He saw that coming. No simpaty
Your dad is a real man
Forgive him, God will bless you. God is merciful to the merciful. He hears and sees all. Your kindness might even be what changes your brothers heart.
AIs are getting good.
i love your father he is a real man,so true
Had to stop when op said he went back to bis cheating gf and married her. This explains perfectly why op was so easy to bully cause he openly invited it. This is the most spineless person ever and this story was just glorified pitty porn
Jake is in the college now? Did I misunderstand or what age do people go to college? Because they had a child earlier and she cheated for a long time
He may have been trying to get a higher degree. Depending on what he was studying for at least.
It's funny to me how Karen tried to say "we can work through this" and "why won't you fight for me?" when OP stated that he knew about previous rounds of cheating in the past by her. He stuck with her through them then, but the last revelation was the last straw. A betrayal of that level would devastate anyone.
As for cutting Henry out of his life, sure it's cruel but would raising a child in a home filled with anger, resentment or despisement be any better?
He chose to get back with her so why is he complaining for the constant cheating? He knew who she was and still chose to still be together so he shouldn’t complain.
If Jake thinks it stings now wait until after both parents pass away.
Jesus Christ the mother is unbearable, she imo is the main reason the brother turned out the way he did. She never held him accountable for anything. What an awful parent. The Dad at least did the right thing.
How would him slipping pebbled into a stereo be bad for OP's teeth?
cereal
Once again there are some people who really don’t need to have kids. The dads selective parenting and the moms obvious favoritism is a serious dose of birth control. Otherwise OP would have known better than to marry over a pregnancy. The first infidelity should have been the last. Was he really shocked she nailed his bro? This guy needs therapy.
I understand the story of Cain and Abel now
Getting married over pregnancy is fine, as this action is mostly for the child, people have to own up to consequences. Paternity test right after birth though should be mandatory before any birth certificates are finalized. People asking/commenting a man to raise a child not his own, from another man that is almost an enemy no less is brain dead, ask yourselves if you are willing to do that sacrifice yourselves before preaching to others.
The universe work in mysterious ways. Have a good life. Keep your head up. You will find Mrs. Right someday. Get a prenup next time if you ever married
Idk how law works but IF, a big IF you forgive a cheater I’d say get a written agreement saying that if you cheat again you get nothing in the divorce. I know you can’t get a prenup after marriage but if that’s possible it might make them see the seriousness.
There's post-nuptual.
Anyone else knew that was going to happen from the start? Never marry right out of college and never bring your wife around a jealous family member.
Chad DAD FR FR.
Fake.
First few lines had the telltale AI phrasing.
@@sugarbeef Exactly.
Don't know how people can call him cruel or selfish. His wife is cruel for cheating on him 3 times and the last time with his brother. And she's selfish by trying to say his child would be sad but it's not his son it's his nephew. He already fought for her twice. Three strikes and she's out of there. And his brother is only crying because it all came to light. I think Jake and Karen thought they could keep what they were doing a secret even if she got pregnant by him again.
yeah is same with me and my little brother and the family too
This is why im Never getting married
yeah, go dad!
Wow this story is a waste of time. OP is a loser
Yep, not to mention that he's a total simp.
WHAT THE HECK ARE THESE COMMENTS? I came here cause I was thinking about my sister and about the one time we were laughing so hard watching an episode of Taxi and I wanted to hear that old tune. scroll down, "op, once a cheater always a cheater." someone explain to me what I'm missing here
When it comes to OP and Karens so. Henry.....OP yoi are not the father!!!!!!!!
Poor child... Lost his father... and his real father was a jerk. His mom is manipulative and the child's innocent...
I'm reading the comments that he took his cheating wife back after miltiple affairs just baffles me, I'm going to stop watching now.
Op is such a simp
Weak dude
Exactly, why would you want to raise another man's child when it's not a step parent situation? And he would unlikely be able to get custody because biologically the child is not his and most courts side with a mother no matter how crazy they are. No offense to good mom out there.
People in the comments saying he should raise his son. It's not his son, that's his nephew.
Story so fake it makes animated movies look real
It seems your dad really hate cheaters
Mom was the one who likely told Jake about the will.
If he falls off of the blocks, does he have to run all the back or can he jump on them in the middle?
Never stay with a cheater, never worth it. There worthless individuals
How about you grow up or cry about
@@zacharyesparza71993 sounds like one persons crying bud
@@zacharyesparza71993looks like someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed.
It's somehow op's mom fault because she raised Jake to be this selfish since he was child yeah he did unforgivable thing but he's a victim too.
Everyone that called op selfish for not being there for a child that is not his needs to get mentally checked
Ohhh I knew he did wrong once his wife's name was a real to be Karen
Foolish 😔 person
Whats the connection between stereo and teeth. Aint stereo a music device?
Never take back a cheater