He’s Hiding DEEP Feelings For You If You See THESE 3 Signs

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  • Signs he's hiding deep feelings from you will be seen in his subtle yet consistent efforts to connect with you deeper, like when initiating meaningful conversations. The signs he's hiding deep feelings from you can appear on first dates, online dating, or even elsewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and ensure you watch the end to learn when he's hiding deep feelings from you.
    I want you to know when he's hiding deep feelings for you so you can recognize the depth of his emotions and focus on nurturing a stronger connection. If you can tell when he's hiding deep feelings for you, it will be much easier to understand the subtle cues and gestures that reveal his genuine emotions. To gain insight into his true emotions and intentions, learning how to know a man is hiding deep feelings for you is crucial.
    I want you to understand how men think and often express their emotions to know precisely when they're hiding deep feelings for you. This dating advice will help you see the signs he's hiding deep feelings for you and be able to do what is truly best for you. Please pay attention to this relationship advice to know what to do when he's hiding deep feelings for you.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 505

  • @allayziacruz
    @allayziacruz 15 днів тому +71

    I’ve realized it does not matter who likes me/loves me it matter who pursues and commits

  • @ladylaymusic7640
    @ladylaymusic7640 Місяць тому +219

    Super annoying when you have a deep connection with someone and you both know it, but the other person chooses lust instead of the love with you.

    • @janicewitzke9529
      @janicewitzke9529 Місяць тому +8

      Definitely. That's what happened to me to.

    • @janicewitzke9529
      @janicewitzke9529 Місяць тому +10

      It's there choice. Let them. I go. As hard as it was I did. We both did. But yeah I get it we both had a connection but he had three woman if not more. That's not me my husband that passed on we were faithful to each other. By. Gods grace I will never fall for that again. I want love true love not manipulating controlling narcissist. . If it wasn't for. God I probably would have stayed with him. The only way I would reconcile with him is a complete transformation. In. Jesus.

    • @ladylaymusic7640
      @ladylaymusic7640 Місяць тому +5

      I'm definitely going through a hard time of accepting it

    • @GisseppiijayneFlo
      @GisseppiijayneFlo Місяць тому +2

      Thisssss

    • @serenedione
      @serenedione Місяць тому +1

      This‼️

  • @missmadelinesadventures3278
    @missmadelinesadventures3278 2 місяці тому +292

    I have a solution to stop this fear: date the person exclusively. And do not have sex. Courting without sex. Talk about everything with love not lust. See where it goes. Not every relationship needs to be consummated

    • @ms.j.w.4208
      @ms.j.w.4208 Місяць тому +25

      AMEN!!! I AGREE 1000% ...I ask God to remove the desire to have intercou*se with my current BF. I asked God to remove that soul tie but I still wanted to find him attractive. God did it and the vision is clearer..Praise God!!

    • @user-cl6uj5bn2f
      @user-cl6uj5bn2f Місяць тому +6

      This🎯

    • @bricehudson3948
      @bricehudson3948 Місяць тому +2

      This

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 Місяць тому +1

      Listen!!!

    • @Hope-qy8dr
      @Hope-qy8dr 29 днів тому +5

      What man are you going to convince
      to be monogamous to a woman who is not sleeping with him?

  • @user-zx1ii7vf2z
    @user-zx1ii7vf2z 3 місяці тому +582

    I ghosted my male friend because i had expressed my interests in him, and he did not reciprocate (which is fine), but i wasnt going to stick around listening to his dating stories or watching him get with different women ✌

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 3 місяці тому +41

      It's not right to ghost. You have to say something.

    • @iamcellular6650
      @iamcellular6650 3 місяці тому

      @@nofybn7794 you don’t owe a man you’re not dating a good bye especially when he brushes you off and doesn’t care anyway.

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 3 місяці тому +44

      You could’ve just told him/explained that lol

    • @inspirationalshanae5129
      @inspirationalshanae5129 3 місяці тому +19

      It's worst when it's a co worker. Then ask why I do Not come in the break room 🤨

    • @cynthiaholcomb8142
      @cynthiaholcomb8142 3 місяці тому +17

      I disagree why get married if you're not fully in love with the man. That's crazy to me🤷

  • @ipur0195
    @ipur0195 3 місяці тому +501

    If a man is scared to express his feeling it means he is still confused and possibly not true with his feeling . It can’t be relied on

    • @FlatStella1
      @FlatStella1 3 місяці тому +22

      Very well said

    • @Melinaviolino
      @Melinaviolino 3 місяці тому +14

      Sad, but right!

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 3 місяці тому +36

      Or most likely just afraid of rejection

    • @purplecarnations-pl2vr
      @purplecarnations-pl2vr 3 місяці тому +7

      But how will he know unless he tries? Surely knowing means you can move on either way? Its not fair for the woman not knowing​@pocahontas4583

    • @Ssookawai
      @Ssookawai 3 місяці тому +29

      @@pocahontas4583 his fear is bigger than his attraction, still not good. If he were 100% sure that you're amazing, his feelings will be higher than his fear, actually. So yes he likes you but "not that much". That's how I see it, a "not that much" won't cut it anyways.

  • @tiffi271
    @tiffi271 3 місяці тому +245

    I can appreciate guys who have the courage to say something

  • @SpringHWhipple
    @SpringHWhipple 4 місяці тому +274

    It is a lie. Some are very scared and they pull back. It's frustrating for us women who fall in love with them and the fear they have fun hurts and trauma is bigger than their desire to love us.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +39

      It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 3 місяці тому +20

      That’s why I always assume there’s no feelings there. I’ve found 99% of the time nothing ever happens. Even when I see every sign mentioned in the video. It’s given me great peace of mind to stop caring lol.

    • @junehat4217
      @junehat4217 6 днів тому +1

      ​@pocahontas4583 I see every sign in the video as well, but I was raised to let the man pursue. Unfortunately, I will be single forever 😔

  • @stephaniemangold4209
    @stephaniemangold4209 4 місяці тому +608

    People need to quit being scared and say something! God did not give us a spirit of fear, for 1....and for 2...it's selfish to pull someone else in because of your fear! Cuz now you've activated their fears and gone went and broke their heart!!

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 4 місяці тому +171

    Let’s keep the men in prayer especially if God has shown you your person, which is Kingdom related.❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +21

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 3 місяці тому +5

      Yes; He has shown me my person!!!😮 I will pray much more often for him. Thanks for the tip.🎉❤

    • @princessblessing5288
      @princessblessing5288 2 місяці тому +2

      Me too sister l need to continue pray

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 2 місяці тому +2

      *But are those men praying for themselves & for you?*

    • @Christina_320
      @Christina_320 3 дні тому +1

      This ☝🏼. Yes.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 3 місяці тому +166

    *A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself - to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.*

    • @autisticscreechling4950
      @autisticscreechling4950 3 місяці тому +11

      Agreed! One of my favorite poems from Khalil Gibran deals with that kind of love:
      You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
      You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
      Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
      But let there be spaces in your togetherness
      And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
      Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
      Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
      Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
      Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
      Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
      Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
      Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
      For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
      And stand together yet not too near together:
      For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
      And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow. ❤

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 3 місяці тому

      @@autisticscreechling4950 This is beautiful! ❤

    • @daisythreekids7021
      @daisythreekids7021 2 місяці тому

      @@autisticscreechling4950❤

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 місяці тому

      Never cry because of you. It will happen if they dye. 🤦‍♀️. No one is perfect

  • @pharmd07
    @pharmd07 Місяць тому +30

    That’s why I don’t date men with female best friends or close “buddies.” It’s a red flag deal breaker for me. I’m not about to be the placeholder while the two of them secretly burn for each other.

  • @Love2Love927
    @Love2Love927 2 місяці тому +111

    #1… He acts or treats you diff than others.
    #2… He gets jealous / possessive when you’re around or talk abt other men.

    • @EspritArkitekt
      @EspritArkitekt Місяць тому +19

      What's #3?

    • @Hope-qy8dr
      @Hope-qy8dr 29 днів тому +20

      Jealousy and possessiveness is a sign of insecurity, not love.

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 17 днів тому +1

      @@EspritArkitekt He only spoke on those 2 & then the video ended. Sorry.

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 17 днів тому

      @@Hope-qy8dr You’re def rite abt that !

  • @someoneyoudontknow7705
    @someoneyoudontknow7705 4 місяці тому +214

    That’s really selfish to tell someone basically IMMEDIATELY after they get married that you’re in love with them. If you’re not going to say anything before the wedding then just keep your mouth shut. What kind of love is that? She just messed up his life in all kinds of ways…

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 4 місяці тому +33

      VERY true! As if HE'S supposed to dump his WIFE, now that this girl has FINALLY expressed her feelings. 🤷‍♀️
      CRAZY!

    • @c.williams3740
      @c.williams3740 3 місяці тому +17

      Maybe the intent was to mess up his life & having him question his decision to marry another woman. Thats a terrible thing to do.

    • @Bluebutterfly80
      @Bluebutterfly80 3 місяці тому +7

      Only terrible for his wife imagine being married to someone who doesn't want you! He clearly didn't love her to begin with but I'm sure there were signs before they got married most women choose to ignore them!

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 3 місяці тому +3

      I agree with you so much...in fact it sounds like she is copying that movie 🎥🍿 with Julia Roberts😮

  • @MommaARA
    @MommaARA 3 місяці тому +51

    Fear is a game. One people play in their heads to have a sense of control.
    Love is not about control.

    • @NatzTalk
      @NatzTalk 3 місяці тому +4

      This guy I was seeing, totally struggled with his feelings for me.

  • @TanyaOden
    @TanyaOden 4 місяці тому +58

    Men...Take a chance! Tell her how you feel! Chances are the feelings are probably mutual! NO regrets!!

  • @oceanblue593
    @oceanblue593 Місяць тому +39

    He doesn't need to pursue her with all those deep insecurities. He will damage her with this low self esteem.

  • @hj2yu
    @hj2yu 4 місяці тому +153

    Please pray for this man in my life who is running from true love ❤ thank you for your work, Stephan!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +31

      🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

    • @ChocolateLover4365
      @ChocolateLover4365 4 місяці тому +14

      Same. Please pray for a man in mine as well 🙏

    • @jabuwati
      @jabuwati 3 місяці тому +4

      Girl, even me here in South Africa am going through the same thing.

    • @leamontoweh715
      @leamontoweh715 3 місяці тому +12

      I think the prayer should be the women who are holding to hope for a man to change. Love yourself enough to leave.

    • @leamontoweh715
      @leamontoweh715 3 місяці тому +2

      @MeetStephanSpeaks - everyone should do what is best for them.

  • @Dior3llaxoxo
    @Dior3llaxoxo 3 місяці тому +58

    Well this is why I don’t care anymore. My lot in life is to be single. And I’m just going to embrace it. Idk why I ever even got my hopes up. Tired of things being more complicated when it comes to me. Nothing is ever straightforward. Always some bs nonsense.
    Update 3/23/2024
    I didn’t want to delete this comment because it was written during a moment of frustration. I have a new perspective. That God has given me. Things seem complicated because you ARE special. You are not to be easily accessed because of the value God has placed on your life.

    • @Autumn-jz8bw
      @Autumn-jz8bw 3 місяці тому +5

      You have no idea how much this resonated with me :(

    • @encyclopaedia641
      @encyclopaedia641 3 місяці тому +2

      Same. So freaking complicated hian!

    • @Kala813
      @Kala813 3 місяці тому +7

      Thank you for this. I came to the same conclusion. God hears your prayers. His timing is perfect

    • @balv5080
      @balv5080 Місяць тому

      It is out there for you and for me. I have faith and I believe God’s timing is best even though it is super super difficult in the moment. I don’t like being alone. But I keep praying He will send the man He has for me. I will pray for you too love❤

    • @lacreshalewis6927
      @lacreshalewis6927 20 днів тому

      Ty

  • @JStig12
    @JStig12 4 місяці тому +76

    I can speak from experience. Risk ruining the friendship with the opposite gender if you have feelings for them. The alternative is worse. If there is a true foundation for friendship, God can put it back together. Opposite gender friendships are at risk of eventually ending anyway unless both just stay single for their entire lives.

  • @sacampbr1
    @sacampbr1 4 місяці тому +103

    Sad but so true about some men...... may they gain the courage to share their feelings with their true love so they can start living the life that's meant for them sooner rather than later. Thanks for such an insightful clip!🙏

  • @AT-zl6dk
    @AT-zl6dk 3 місяці тому +34

    This happened to me in college, this guy and I graduated high school together and found out later we were accepted to attend the same university. I remember this girl on campus really liked him and they started kickin it for a while. She knew we were from the same city so would ask me about him all the time. Apparently she also noticed something I never paid attention to while in his company with our other friends. She said, he doesn’t treat me like he treats you. Long story short two semesters later he shared his feelings with me. I was shocked because in my mind he was the guy from home. Like clearly if he liked me this would have been revealed in high school. All these ladies on campus why me. I liked him also but never thought we had anything in common more than friendship. We did date for about 8 months but realized mutually it wasn’t meant to be. But overall he did treat me differently from other ladies, I was highly respected. We wasn't intimate but connected on other levels.

  • @melanieroe2410
    @melanieroe2410 3 місяці тому +48

    I don't think I could be with a man who couldn't take the lead in this regard. How is he going to be a man in the relationship if he can't get the woman he wants.? Can't marry that.

  • @ChocolateLover4365
    @ChocolateLover4365 4 місяці тому +52

    I had a man started dressing nicer, bringing me food and cooking, interacting with my son, bringing me around his friends and family and I met his kids. He started doing more intimate things and he most certainly was jealous of other guys around lol ❤ but unfortunately our time together didn’t last 😢

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 3 місяці тому +1

      I’m sorry it didn’t last. Be blessed. Stay blessed. 💜

    • @Mushroom321-
      @Mushroom321- 3 місяці тому +2

      I went through the same !!, it sucks !!,
      He was a wonderful example to my kids & came jealously & in the end didn't last either.
      It was heartbreak 💔but not meant to be .
      Different goals & direction could have people not together.

  • @SimplyWithLove1
    @SimplyWithLove1 3 місяці тому +5

    thank you for telling us the reality of situations like even tho some people are not together, he may still have feelings for you. You’re the only person on YT saying that really. Not everything works out perfectly or in a straight line like a fairytale

  • @reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100
    @reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100 4 місяці тому +91

    I am a strong believer that we should always keep it real with self first and then keep it real with others. If we don’t communicate our true feelings then can we really blame God or someone else when we miss out on our blessings? That includes that one. I’m just saying. Thanks for sharing! 😎💯🙏🏽💪🏽💗

  • @nathifahsharif1109
    @nathifahsharif1109 28 днів тому +3

    I honestly don’t like many online relationship coaches but I genuinely like you. Your energy is very calm and welcoming!

  • @teenaseemore3260
    @teenaseemore3260 3 місяці тому +4

    The he treats you different than others can also be misleading when he lets stuff slide with other women but with you he feels it is more important to talk it out and address certain things. It can seem bad but it really make sense he doesn’t care about the women that are temporary. This happened with my friend and I felt some type of way until he said it straight out, “I don’t care about them and I don’t know how long they will be in my life, you will be in my life forever so it makes a difference.” That one revelation made our communication flow so much better once I stopped comparing, I accepted he didn’t compare because there was none for him. This is so spot on.

  • @sarahaparicio1839
    @sarahaparicio1839 2 місяці тому +6

    I feel like this could be true to a certain point, with men who are serious in character but to all other men he probably doesn't really like the girl enough ❤

  • @haydehjalayer6474
    @haydehjalayer6474 3 місяці тому +7

    In such a situation fear has no meaning
    I think a man who really loves a woman doesn't want to keep her down and can have the courage to tell the truth regardless of the consequences.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @winnstreakseseokpebholo6517
    @winnstreakseseokpebholo6517 3 місяці тому +27

    Well, if you scared to speak to me , I don’t know if I consider you good enough to be with me.
    Any MAN Who is scared needs to know that…while you being scared, someone else is making the move and they may not even be as qualified as you are!
    And she just might be waiting for you to say something.
    So make the move, what’s the worst that could happen???
    A No”…and you ll move on or press further.

    • @angeliquedawkins669
      @angeliquedawkins669 2 місяці тому

      That sounds kind of mean. Some of the unqualified men making a move just want sex, they know they're unqualified and have nothing to lose by being bold. Just not afraid of rejection as a rejection would make sense even to them. Not even talking about one night stands, i'm talk about full on relationships where the principle motivation for romantic gestures and going out (if there's even that) is regular and available sex. She can say something too, courting can be mutual and gradual.

    • @marcellamiller7808
      @marcellamiller7808 Місяць тому

      Exactly!

  • @shahrimoore
    @shahrimoore 15 годин тому

    Thank you for your message. The media is bursting with gurus with the message to women “you’ll know; a man will chase you and make it known!!” so it’s good to know there are exceptions.
    I also appreciate you sharing that men and women can be in love with 1 person and marry another.

  • @christineceralde
    @christineceralde 3 місяці тому

    Wow he fits all of these signs, and it was hard putting this into words when describing this situation

  • @rianx4595
    @rianx4595 24 дні тому +1

    I'm not playing these games. We are adults. I dealt with this and finally distance myself from this person. Either you're willing to face your fear, knowing nothing will break our friendship if I reject you or just lose me forever. I'm over it.

  • @tiannaeverett6759
    @tiannaeverett6759 2 місяці тому +2

    Blessings to You bro and Yours
    You don’t have to give us these nuggets but you do
    Thank You 💪🏾❣️🙏🏾🫡🫡

  • @chocodeluxe
    @chocodeluxe 3 місяці тому +6

    The story about the best friends definitely resonates with me. I had a crush on him since my teens, but I did tell him I had feelings for him. He was the one who was afraid of damaging our friendship if we tried dating & things went sour. I remember being absolutely crushed when he got engaged... He ended up breaking things off & now we are both entertaining other relationships, but I wonder if he would react the same way if things were reversed.

  • @terrylorenzen2363
    @terrylorenzen2363 3 місяці тому +8

    This actually was a helpful message I needed to hear this morning.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤️ 🙏🏼

  • @serenedione
    @serenedione Місяць тому +8

    I'm experiencing the "pullback" right now.😢

    • @SilentRover-lc9jk
      @SilentRover-lc9jk 25 днів тому +1

      😢

    • @anitragilmore3239
      @anitragilmore3239 20 днів тому +2

      Keep yourself busy with work, exercising and being sociable

    • @GeoBoots
      @GeoBoots 5 днів тому +1

      How's it going now? I'm going through it myself.

  • @maryprepas
    @maryprepas 3 місяці тому +3

    Your advices are so helpful ☺️.

  • @MIMIDSH
    @MIMIDSH Місяць тому +3

    Flirtatious and engaged with other women, but with me, much more reserved and almost distant. Yet the way he looks at me....!! (yes he knows I adore him)

  • @SharonMRoss-by1lc
    @SharonMRoss-by1lc 2 місяці тому +1

    This was good to know. Thank you!

  • @missyme3932
    @missyme3932 4 місяці тому +6

    Thanks Stephan 🙏🏾, always helpful advice

  • @shamrockgirl6595
    @shamrockgirl6595 3 місяці тому +9

    I love ❤ someone that only a friendship exists. 😢 I can't tell if he desires more or not.

  • @Cjwildwest68
    @Cjwildwest68 4 місяці тому +10

    I told him I cared for him he said he needs boundaries and on his terms can only offer friendship I was heartbroken as he kept being in and out with me I’m relieved

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +4

      🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

  • @missyme3932
    @missyme3932 4 місяці тому +16

    Don’t have male friends just brothers but still sometimes they catch feelings

  • @ihcnutchi
    @ihcnutchi 2 місяці тому +1

    The part you said don't wanna make him your man. Because losing him means losing your man & your best friend. It hits me hard! 😢

  • @destiny04fe
    @destiny04fe 4 місяці тому +55

    We need a video in “Am I a PLACE HOLDER?”. 🤔 Also the ending of the video?? What happened?? 😅

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +17

      Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 3 місяці тому +5

      Great idea. Sometimes I wonder if I'm my BF's placeholder, looking at confusing behaviors toward me.

    • @ericathomas4362
      @ericathomas4362 3 місяці тому +1

      I've been in a situationship for bout a year. He says he's not ready for a relationship but he still expects the benefits. He says he care for me but his actions r opposite. I never been to his place and he always made excuses and I'm over it. I asked if I'm a placeholder and he says no..but I feel he's lying bout seeing someone else. Advice please?

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 3 місяці тому

      @@ericathomas4362 It's hard to accept when emotions are confusing the truth, but I would say you're in a compartmentalized part of his life. That's it, sadly. Find someone you can share your lives with fully.

    • @destiny04fe
      @destiny04fe Місяць тому

      @@ericathomas4362 do you…let him reach out when you are doing your thing and you will see that doing you is much better than doing him 😁. You are worth to be chased! You are valuable and if he doesn’t see that. BOY BYE !

  • @rhodatuckey7119
    @rhodatuckey7119 Місяць тому

    Mr. Stephan, you are very good at all this wisdom you share...almost prophetic...you are helping many people...thank you...

  • @traceydoneley6195
    @traceydoneley6195 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, this was helpful

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 4 місяці тому +10

    Aww I wanted to hear more.

  • @nursedani5704
    @nursedani5704 Місяць тому

    Wow. He is exactly right about everything he said.

  • @trubrewman
    @trubrewman 3 місяці тому +2

    Better to have the hope and idealisation of Divine Union than to risk losing that.

  • @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK
    @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK 3 місяці тому +15

    ❤❤ most marriage fail. Because spouses have " back up" friends of the opposite sex. Its a big problem in western divorce courts.

    • @encyclopaedia641
      @encyclopaedia641 3 місяці тому +1

      My frustration is I don’t know why they freaking do that. You harbour feelings for someone else and then proceed to marry someone else that’s crazy. Really crazy. Why not sort your feelings for this other person first you haven’t even told them how you feel. They are your best friend so they are always there you see them everyday heck they might even be there on your wedding day and then you have some sort of feelings for them but rather than sort out your feelings for them, try and explore and reach a resolve, you go ahead and marry someone isn’t that stupid?! No wonder there’s so much divorce because it’ll be hard. Why put yourself in such a situation.

    • @flooredjustfloored
      @flooredjustfloored 2 місяці тому +1

      Some form of fear

  • @user-zm3lr5kl7b
    @user-zm3lr5kl7b 10 днів тому

    Wow, thank you friends with a man 18 years. He moved away and im feeling heartbroken. I wish I could tell him how I feel. I think he feels the same way too. This video definitely gave me food for thought.

  • @user-uj2gs9os8i
    @user-uj2gs9os8i 4 місяці тому +6

    STRONG PRESENTATION OF INFORMATION! TRUE SIGNS TO WATCH FOR,WITNESS AND CONFIRM.GOOD TEACHING ON THESE SIGNS!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @user-uj2gs9os8i
      @user-uj2gs9os8i 4 місяці тому +2

      STEPHAN YOU ARE GREAT! A BEAUTIFUL GIFT FROM GOD! LOVE TO HEAR YOU LAUGH OR SEE YOU SMILE! WOMEN AND MEN ARE ALL A WORK IN PROGRESS, BUT WHEN WE REALLY LISTEN, WE CAN ALWAYS FINE A WAY TO BE THE BEST WE CAN BE TO EACH OTHER!

    • @user-uj2gs9os8i
      @user-uj2gs9os8i 3 місяці тому

      YOU ARE WELCOME! APPRECIATE YOUR WISDOM!@@MeetStephanSpeaks

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 3 місяці тому

      ​@@MeetStephanSpeaksI noticed some other people mentioned you only did two signs not the third one 😮😊 so where is the third one please?😂

  • @lanta200420021
    @lanta200420021 4 місяці тому +10

    Stephan that's so true we longer friends at all

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @HalfSweetness
    @HalfSweetness 4 місяці тому +25

    Well said. It's unfortunate people can miss out on a great opportunity with someone when they don't speak what's in their heart and/or on their mind. Great points and have a great weekend Stephan. 💯🤍🤍

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +3

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may you have a great weekend as well 🙏

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 4 місяці тому +3

    Real video Stephan.☀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jessjess2325
    @jessjess2325 3 місяці тому +4

    Indeed real divine love twinflame love is deeper and deeply love and scary for most people. Running and chasing easy-going love or lust is the easy way. And let deeply intens love and passion behind

  • @sarahshaw1990
    @sarahshaw1990 3 місяці тому +5

    My husband definitely treats me differently than others for sure, he's very harsh and demanding and judgmental of me and helps me less than he helps others

    • @encyclopaedia641
      @encyclopaedia641 3 місяці тому +4

      Narc

    • @sarahshaw1990
      @sarahshaw1990 3 місяці тому +1

      @@encyclopaedia641 that's what I've been thinking for a long time

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +1

      🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

    • @sarahshaw1990
      @sarahshaw1990 3 місяці тому +2

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks me too. He values Godliness, and he is that type of man who does come to a realization of his shortcomings and is repentive. So, I am just going to pray and wait for him to turn things around.

  • @barbarajbanks1283
    @barbarajbanks1283 4 місяці тому +13

    So unfair and selfish of Annette to tell that she was in love with friend after he married another person. Annette didn’t know he was getting married? My heart ❤ goes out to the “wife” who married the guy who does not love her. Is this a love triangle,emotional adultery. All them ppl need counseling.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +2

      It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

    • @gck_replayzz1029
      @gck_replayzz1029 4 місяці тому +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaksI’ve been there, personally

  • @Christina_320
    @Christina_320 3 дні тому

    My best guy friend and I have feelings for one another. We both need to just get over our dumb fear and do the thing. I pray God brings courage and clarity for both of us at the right time.

  • @bananarae9207
    @bananarae9207 3 місяці тому +1

    I honestly cannot feel anything but the same thing for him. I know God hasn't given me a spirit of fear but I am awaiting for God to give me the go ahead. And I hope he hears God too, bc the signs ARE there - from God AND him. I pray for him and for myself to remain positive and honest with him... 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @stephaniemelissa35
    @stephaniemelissa35 3 місяці тому +1

    👋... Thank you for this.. ❤

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree with everything you said.❤

  • @rebeccabowman7038
    @rebeccabowman7038 Місяць тому

    Great video this actually happened with my current boyfriend we always liked each other but he had a long term girlfriend and after they broke up I admitted my feelings but he already started dating someone else but then they broke up and he finally came to me and asked me out now we are together and happy

  • @jonjielipata1678
    @jonjielipata1678 3 місяці тому +3

    Sorry. I don’t need your advices anymore. Thank you for everything idol. We parted ways. Hope we both have a better Love life someday.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +1

      Sorry about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏🏼

  • @SunshineAndSnowflakes
    @SunshineAndSnowflakes 4 місяці тому +14

    Aww my ex has been my close friend before and after we dated. He just can't emotionally handle anything relationship related and honestly, it can be hard for me too. We adore each other. I'm kind of an all in or all out type of woman and have done so much healing so to be with someone unhealed might be tough. He keeps trying though. ❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +5

      🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

    • @SunshineAndSnowflakes
      @SunshineAndSnowflakes 4 місяці тому +5

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks same. ❤️ I respect whatever direction he chooses to go in life. Whatever makes him happy and feel at peace.

  • @mznekam5612
    @mznekam5612 4 місяці тому +10

    Thanks for sharing & this is sooo making me think about someone 🤔 oh by the way i didn't hear the 3rd sign. Maybe i missed it 😕

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @jennhawkins5356
      @jennhawkins5356 4 місяці тому +2

      The third one wasn’t there!

  • @ginadenson8828
    @ginadenson8828 3 місяці тому +1

    The jealousy and territorial I have caught and dealt with. I just thought it was some crazy sign like get out of here because he is my buddy THAT’S IT!

  • @bettyjames4192
    @bettyjames4192 3 місяці тому +4

    Live this guy. Finally one nit afraid to mention God

  • @dianethompson6804
    @dianethompson6804 День тому

    🎶If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with🎶

  • @BrookeLyn39
    @BrookeLyn39 3 місяці тому +3

    I'm scared too!
    I thought this guy was my friend.
    We would occasionally talk, and he would tell me about his situations with women.
    I tried to hook him up with someone, saying if nothing else, they would be friends. It never happened. He got mad at me. I didn't see him for a couple of months. When I did, I started to apologize, and he told me he wanted me. I was so shocked! I couldn't think straight.
    I was always attracted to him, and I told him I felt the same. But I have been on a mission that doesn't include a relationship. This has left me feeling so vulnerable. I didn't know he felt this way.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

    • @BrookeLyn39
      @BrookeLyn39 3 місяці тому

      ​@@MeetStephanSpeaksThank you

  • @user-ht2wb1oe8o
    @user-ht2wb1oe8o 3 місяці тому +3

    All people are looking for love. How you go about is the thing, be up front, don't settle for what you don't want, treat the person how you want to be treated. If they don't they sure are not for you. Stand for what you want I believe. Scared everyone is scared be true to yourself.

  • @tanishamcdonala3181
    @tanishamcdonala3181 Місяць тому

    good morning. listening may 2024. bless all us here amen.

  • @lisavice7253
    @lisavice7253 Місяць тому +1

    Stephan, you are so on 🎯💯 % on point. Do you ever read emails that relate to you posted topics? I think I have a great one you might want to hear. Just let me know the word limit and I will stay within those parameters.

  • @kayleigh9911
    @kayleigh9911 Місяць тому +1

    I'm sorry.....
    But, look at that beard shinninnnnn!🌟👏🏼

  • @LL-rk5lv
    @LL-rk5lv 4 місяці тому +11

    I feel in gut that he’s my husband, I hope I don’t sound delusional if only things would’ve been easier, we both single but I have kids with my ex husband who keeps finding excuses to control my decisions using the kids and I am afraid my love is getting tired of it

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +2

      🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 3 місяці тому +1

      I feel that same way about a guy. That he is my husband. And some people might think that's delusional. But I can't help but feel it and believe it.
      Maybe we can have the saying: "BELIEVING IS RECEIVING."😅
      I plan to take some other people's advice on here and pray for what I want,.. and see if God gives him to me.😊

    • @LL-rk5lv
      @LL-rk5lv 3 місяці тому

      @@tamitatangoto5134 it’s weird I even feel when he is going to text me before he does but I am letting him go

    • @kasiejoanna1204
      @kasiejoanna1204 2 місяці тому

      I'm in the exact same spot! 😢😢

  • @kitaevans8686
    @kitaevans8686 3 місяці тому +2

    Great video, but I didn't hear number 3😊🤷‍♀️

  • @bjoneswhite306
    @bjoneswhite306 4 дні тому

    Great points and so true. The problem is people don't want to wait on the Lord specifically my Christian people cause obviously everyone else isn't believers.

  • @NatzTalk
    @NatzTalk 3 місяці тому +4

    This makes me believe men and women truly can't be just friends. Someone always likes the other. Or they had something but Broke up and still get back together years later.

    • @flooredjustfloored
      @flooredjustfloored 2 місяці тому

      Agreed!

    • @TheDemsk
      @TheDemsk 2 місяці тому +1

      That's not true. If the man is not attracted to the woman, you can be friends.

  • @kgao.nchabee
    @kgao.nchabee 22 години тому +1

    If you got deep feelings for me, just straight up say it......I dont have time, energy to read people haibo

  • @victorianorris1916
    @victorianorris1916 4 місяці тому +10

    I’m going through this he’s been hurt several times now just runs!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +1

      🙏 ❤️

    • @angelcharms7297
      @angelcharms7297 3 місяці тому +1

      Im going thru the same.😢

    • @victorianorris1916
      @victorianorris1916 3 місяці тому

      @@angelcharms7297 just need try and communicate, I tolded him that I’m praying for you Sis!!🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @luvurfemininityllc
    @luvurfemininityllc 3 місяці тому

    Sounds very familiar and true

  • @culturalbrief6769
    @culturalbrief6769 11 днів тому

    He’s right, I found this out the hard way. I had to move on😔

  • @amber_chosenone13
    @amber_chosenone13 4 місяці тому +7

    So true

  • @missmaria6423
    @missmaria6423 27 днів тому

    Love,Rosie…that’s my life right now!🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @MajorCockbern
    @MajorCockbern 3 місяці тому +84

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

    • @Sommer-ho7pk
      @Sommer-ho7pk 3 місяці тому +1

      there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @MajorCockbern
      @MajorCockbern 3 місяці тому +1

      its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @ManyWeidman
      @ManyWeidman 3 місяці тому

      this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @ginadenson8828
    @ginadenson8828 3 місяці тому +2

    I think this guy is into me because he's afraid to look at me or he blushes severely when he does look at me & he freaks out and gets scared and shuts down when we do make eye contact. I gave him my number finally on my own because he froze 2 different times when I asked him "How was his day?" I don’t think he realized that he was showing his dreamy meltness afterwards while on the phone with someone. But i caught it and said Awww he seems to really like me. But he has my number now and I can’t get him to talk to me. So I am giving him space. Hopefully he comes around. I need him to talk to find out if he is the one!

  • @britanicanjohnson
    @britanicanjohnson 28 днів тому

    “Most marriages involves two people who have stronger feelings for someone else.”
    Wow wow wow wow!!!
    This statement right here is enough for me. The truth really do hurts. I already have so much trauma from my biological mom and dad, I don’t need it from another person. I’ll stay single. I refuse to be a placeholder!!!

  • @jennhawkins5356
    @jennhawkins5356 4 місяці тому +23

    Stephan, I really appreciate you, but I’ve gotta say, I will watch these videos until halfway through, waiting for your first point to start! When I tell stories and do videos, I’m a “scenic route” person to. I never get to the point…but, you and me both, should work on that! 🤣
    I wanted to know and I watched to the end on this one, but the 3rd point got cut off. There were lots of stories, though!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +6

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

  • @penny1702
    @penny1702 2 місяці тому +1

    I've always felt that for men, it's so much easier to be with someone you love but aren't in love with. 💯

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 місяці тому

      It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏🏼

  • @TemekaEscobar-vm2gr
    @TemekaEscobar-vm2gr 21 день тому

    Thankyou Stephan

  • @diamondgrace30
    @diamondgrace30 9 днів тому +2

    Honestly, if he wanted to he would. So don't even try to over analyze things ladies. Its simple.

  • @somethingbambi875
    @somethingbambi875 2 місяці тому +3

    I know he really likes me still but he can't show it or even admit it to himself. He shown all the signs...

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe 4 місяці тому +3

    Oh I do agree about that jealousy thing but I also look at it if it’s meant to be it will happen. I told the one I want if she wants someone else then go as I only want someone that wants me not an option or flight over her as then I’ll go did she even want me or just settle for me. I have options but once you get emotionally attached and bonded it’s not that easy.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому

      It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • @kotchaphan4863
    @kotchaphan4863 13 днів тому

    Your channel provides many informative stuffs although it’s uncomfortable truth 😂

  • @Dafne776
    @Dafne776 3 місяці тому

    Once I consider a man a friend......that is what he is. To be a friend is IMPORTANT to me. It is not a "just" to me. If you cannot be a genuine friend, you will no longer know me. I understand this may come across as closed minded, but it is more about knowing what things are, and knowing what we want.

  • @loveem3737
    @loveem3737 16 годин тому

    That is so true.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 3 місяці тому +8

    When are U getting married?

  • @ChrisW1019
    @ChrisW1019 4 місяці тому +3

    This reminds me of the song If I Told You That by Whitney Houston and George Michael.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏