I just ordered the book and finished it last weekend. It was a huge blessing and extremely insightful and full of wisdom that you can use right now. My only regret is that I didn’t get the book earlier in my relationship. I could have been more aware of many things. I also ordered love after heartbreak which is where I am right now. You are truly anointed to help all of us in this area and I think God for you.
Right? That’s what I said. He ghosted me for the weekend. From him texting while at work and even calling me all the time to one text a day and I was like wth.. then today man he called and text like nothing… was I wrong for thinking he was with another women?? I told him I felt like he cheated on me but he never answered that or didn’t even reassure me he didn’t.. idk what to do. I mean I do but am I overreacting??
With a real man you never have to question his intention and motive. Because he will tell you and let you know exactly how he feels. You have to believe it and trust. God will work everything out.
A study was was done that said a person looks at their phone on a average of 53 times a day. No excuse for ghosting….. they saw your text or miss call and choose not to respond. A. Not that into you B. Not a priority C. Not serious
It’s true. Most bathroom visits involve being on the phone. Driving we put stuff in the map and pick our songs. The first thing we do when we wake up is look at our phone and for most the last thing we look at is our phone before sleep
This guy shows he thinks about me, does special things, and remembers small things. But i just found out he had a long-distance relationship with someone else. I walked away.
We are older people. When we were about 6 months into spending time together, I didn’t hear from him one day, two days, three days and I thought he wandered away. Then he texted me. “Come over, I have something for you.” He was helping friends move and got me a Grandfather clock in exchange for his help. I was so touched. He concentrated his time and energy on getting that clock for me rather than texting me. If I would have freaked out who knows what would have happened. We are still together 7 months later. He’s quiet, reserved, deeply kind and caring. He often checks up on me.
I'm like, ugh, done learning about men and trying to better myself for a man, but let me click on one more video since it's right in my face, lol. I am a sucker for your videos.
After we had been dating for a few weeks, he casually mentioned that he has the date we started talking saved in his phone as our anniversary. 6 weeks in, he told me he was disappointed we haven't gotten a picture together yet. He doesn't mind if I cry sometimes, and will hold me and stroke my hair as long as I need. When I bring up things that have bothered me, he immediately validates, considers it, and changes his behavior. It's always an extremely short, comparitively boring conversation, with no hint of defensiveness. I've never experienced anything like this before. When men value you, they really treat you different. If you are wondering whether they care, and you can't point to any concrete examples, or you have more negative examples than positive ones, then he doesn't. Don't settle for someone who isn't into you that much.
Sorry Stephan I'm tired and giving up. The last two did it for me.. Im just here because I enjoy looking at you and listening to you. Just tired. No more. People say I'm a workaholic, oh well, I'll take that. No more lies and cheating.
The guy I am friends with but moving towards something more definitely thinks about me. He always asks how I am, if something is on my mind, if I want to talk, he asks me for input consistency. He supports me through everything, I can talk to him about literally everything without judgment. He's a good man. And he is consistent, patient, and kind.
Sounds like my best friend also, he not to long revealed that he loves me. It's the best feeling. The only problem is,I also have feelings for another man.
I have been watching your videos for years,and I've prayed and was patient for a partner .Last years September I met my partner and I all that I've learned from these videos are so visible ,this man is what I prayed to God for ..I don't have to worry about anything with him,We communicated about future plans ..This man has invested his time in getting to know all about me,He is everything and I'm praying everyday that all that I have learned to this point that I apply it and ...We plan to get married in November ..I'm so happy to the deepest level of my being and so is he
For 28 years, my husband very considerately asked me where I wanted to go for dinner. I do not believe that we ever once went to eat what I suggested. At year 25 I figured out that he was getting credit for asking while secretly enjoying depriving me of what I wanted. It took me that long to realize he could be that petty.
As a woman I can understand the importance of valuing your man and putting effort into recognizing that he needs to be uplifted with compliments and recognition but I can’t agree to tell, especially women, to focus on fulfilling their partners need without providing context because in general women will be the over affectionate and adoring that gives too much and gets taken advantage of. Its best to advise women that men have needs similar to us that include validation, self esteem, support in other areas of our life and someone who listens without unsolicited advice or judgement. Just don’t go handing him the world cus sometimes even a good man will unintentional take more than he’s entitled
@@MeetStephanSpeaks do you agree that a man, if he’s into you, will naturally do the things that consistently express that feeling? I’ve never had an experience where that hasn’t been the case. It makes me sad that we have to analyze all these actions. Idk where relationships went wrong and I hate to even ask why.
I always remember to say thank you for that individual who's taken time out of their busy life to chat with me, to thank them for adding value to my life, for making an effort to walk with me, even if we're just friends it's not always about you, it's about y'all as a whole.
I had a certain preference of the man "I" wanted for me...but when I waited for the man GOD had for me, OMG! God really has our best interest at heart, with HIM all things are possible. I have your books which has really been very clear and helpful, thank you, Keep up the great work!
I can honestly say that what you said about asking a guy what they need works….I have never in my life asked a man what they needed or specifically what they needed me to do for them due to past situation-ship hurt. But the one time I put myself out there for this particular man and he just appreciates my desire and willingness to help. All the great feels 🥰🥰
10 BIG SIGNS HE THINKS ABOUT YOU ALOT.......HE ALWAYS UPLOADS NEW VIDEOS FOR US TO LEARN FROM......HAPPY NEW YEAR STEPHAN....I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE WHAT YOU HAVE IN STORE FOR US THIS YEAR......
You betters say it! If a man remember, he's paying attention. I have had two great loves in my life like that. My fondest memory is an old boyfriend surprising me with a watch that my mother never got for me. That was almost 30 years ago, and I still have that watch. Fast forward, we're still friends and he still remembers things that I said to him. He said he wished that he had listened. I was living for the future, and he was living for the now.
I truly believe that God has sent you and has poured into you so that you can pour into His daughters. I have learned so much from your videos and I only listen because I know your a man of God. He finally sent me the man I am supposed to be with, he’s been so transparent and consistent, not pressuring sex, prays with and for me and he loves the Lord. He is definitely showing up and being everything that God has promised me. Ladies, pray and wait for God. It may take years! But I promise you it’s worth it! Focus on you and God and when He does send you the right man, be open and let your walls down. I was on the wrong path until I started watching these videos, learn how to love the way God wants us to love and stay open. Love you brother Stephan!
I have a male friend who does everything Dr. Stephan mentioned in this video. We have been friends for over 20 years. I just assumed he did those things because he values my friendship and he's just a really good man to people. Maybe, I'm ignoring some things I need to pay more attention to?
I learned the reason people say men and women can’t just be friends. I’ve had guys that I genuinely thought I was just friends with and almost every time, when the right opportunity presented itself you can be sure they eventually told me their real feelings. So yeah I wouldn’t be surprised if he had more in mind than friendship.
Ambiguity stuffs many people up. I had a similar situation and didn't see the love until it was too late. Don't let a good thing slip from your fingers.
You're not attracted to him, don't pursue a relationship.he is not the one.he really is a friend.after 20 years He's More like a brother.dont lose your best bud.
Perfect, Agreed! Consistency is one main thing that I look for, that's difficult to fake. It's impossible to be consistent, if I'm not on your mind often.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks what does it mean for me ? We’re Married but he moved with Mom who wants him with her so he doesn’t chase me except through a blocked FB acct
He told the truth ladies!!!! Be yourself!!! And whoever doesn't match with that or "get you", it's ok!! Its biology. As adults we should understand how animals mate. Stay light hearted and move on.
This is a very helpful discussion! Not every man has the same level of comfort when it comes to letting a woman know how he feels early in the process. Hearing these signs definitely helps to decipher what can be unclear at times. Thank you, King Stephan! 👑
My Virgo ♍ is exactly like this..he's very inquisitive, he asks a lot of questions, lol.. He's very very heavy on communication, it kind of scared me in the beginning especially since I've never had that in any of my relationships. He notices everything about me, and remembers everything!! I appreciate that about him, he expresses his emotions to me, he's very vulnerable with me...this is one of my best relationships I've ever been in, he's my best friend and I love him 🥰😘❤
This has helped relieve quite a lot of my relationship anxiety’s and strong associations caused by former partners. It’s a constant effort to remember to step back and separate the past from the much more important AND valuable present reality. My trauma is not my (current) partners responsibility to fix or be subjected to when I really lose touch with the present and unfairly subject them to the distrust, hatred and failure of the former relationship. The simplicity of remaining in the present will create so much self awareness and keep you from self sabotaging, I’m sure some if not all of us can relate to that specific type of a trauma response when someone starts to get close…
Going through this now. Thank you for articulating it so well ! And it took me a few weeks to understand how and why these other emotions and fears were coming in from out of nowhere. God bless you hun!
*While these signs can provide insights into someone's thoughts, it's important to maintain open communication and avoid over-analyzing every action. Every individual and relationship is unique, so it's crucial to have honest conversations and build a foundation of trust to truly understand each other's thoughts and feelings.*
I just need to say how much I appreciate seeing a man provide valuable, honest, informative, and relatable relationship advice for both men and women who are seeking long-term, healthy relationships. Great job!
I had that and he wouldn't commit. Took Stephen advice! The man I wanted to be with told me to stop listening to this advice. Haven't figured him out. Moved on. Super hard!!
Excellent video. Communication, consistency, & time are the key ones that I look for to know if he is thinking about me. If the communication is always flowing and consistent that will let me know if I am in his thoughts. Yes, as you mentioned, time and priority is essential. Time is the one thing you must be willing to give as that shows sacrifice & commitment. When you are thinking about him alot if it is mutual he will be thinking of you too and trying to make a connection. People in love always seem to find a way to stay connected & pour into each other by learning each other's love language & needs. Everything in life is spiritual so if you are thinking of him he may very well feel it in his spirit & vice versa. Deep genuine love has that quality of just knowing. Where we focus our thoughts is what will consume & occupy our time. Be Blessed as always, peace & light to you.
@@indriadrayton1132 That could be true. Yet if I"m thinking of him I just let him know. If it is too much than perhaps he"s not my match. Yet, the mirror effect plays it safe so good strategy for you. ❤
@@a.talithajoseph1808 Two things I would say are character, values, and time. Yes true a man can do everything & still cheat yet if he is a man of integrity & character he is less likely. If he values his time he is also less likely to spread himself thin among many women. The man has to have a relationship mindset and set values. Otherwise he will always chase women and stray.
There is a gentleman I met in a group and thought he might be interested in getting to know me but his sporadic contact led me to believe he was not interested, so I kinda just walked away. I really hoped I'd get to know him better coz he intrigued me and I was drawn to his zeal for the things of God. Now had he checked up on me or asked me out and I found him to be an awesome guy, I am certain I would have fallen for him. Consistency and Communication is key....Perhaps it was just a moment in time...guess we will never know.
Thanks for the video! Truly thought provoking. Often at times we can get so caught up in the "what has he/she done for me lately" that we forget about reciprocity and the importance of being visible and meeting your significant other, friend, spouse, etc where they're at. Definitely a message of substance, thank you for walking in your purpose 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for your videos. I have found a wonderful man who puts forth effort and makes sure I am always taken care of. He always tells me it's my job to ask for what I want and its his job to accommodate it. My hope is that every woman finds a man who makes her a priority in his life
God is definitely using you!!! Keep living out your divine purpose!! You have truly given me a new perspective on relationships and love!! You are definitely making a difference 💛💛🙏🏾 Thank You
I always thought consistency was a big sign. When your dating someone you wanna tell that person about your day or just hear their voice. When I always have to reach out I believe they’re not interested . So I pull back . I like a man who shows there interested . Who likes to talk on the phone and text me even when your busy and you can’t meet up with me. Most woman love that but yes😞 we don’t wanna be the only one always doing it. I remember asking someone one time “If I never called or texted you would you ever reach out ? He said yes but not as much “heartbroken!” So I put in my big girl pants on and moved on. That showed me he wasn’t into me as much as I was to him. You live and you learn. Thanks for sharing
I have 3 jobs and I definitely can make time for someone I like. Rather that’s lunches, dinner after 5 M-Thurs, brunch Saturday or time all day Sunday. When a man tells me he works 40 hours and don’t have time for me I know he’s not interested in me 🤣 cause I’m busy but I got time.
Being confident in certain areas of your life does not overcome shyness when it comes to relationships, this applies to both sexes. Communication whilst being the thing that moves a relationship forward can be a sticking point for some .
I was told once I didn't know how to look after a man. He was right because I was looking after another child. He was not being a man, he behaved like a child and left me to harden up and do everything that needed to be done. Now I'm much older, returning to who I really am, I'm soft and loving, but had to be tougher. I like being softer, like fluffy slippers or cooking someone's favourite meal or hugging someone because my life is better with them in it. Thankyou for the words you speak. It brings clarity to times past and hopefully fulfillment in future times.
YES to ALL of this message‼️ The social media lurking is so true 😂🤣 I did meet a guy who asked me those under the surface questions, however he was taking advantage of my vulnerability and honestly didn't care that much about me. So still be careful with how some guys will use what women like against you 😤 Answer with caution ⚠️
Met someone, whom I REALLY, like…we speak for hrs at nite…and everything ur saying resonates, our conversations feel intimate, fun, we don’t get tired of speaking to one another, I’m glad it’s moving along…I see something real in this person I’ve not encountered before…
I have had a friend for 5 yrs that I absolutely adore. He does all of these things for me. His mom lives in my neighborhood. He always drives by my house to make sure I am fine since my dad died. He's just an amazing friend. I He is my bfs best friend. So it makes me feel awkward when I catch him looking at me. But I am totally dedicated to my bf. I just thought he was looking out for me because he knows I love his best friend. This is interesting because we have mutual friends and they always tell me he's interested in me. But I just ignore it
I actually prefer not to talk to a guy more than 1 time each week. I dated a man who called me way too much and for too long. I guess I don’t need that. The one I’m dating now, seems busy and so am I. I don’t want to rush into ANYTHING and telling too much about myself is too big of an opening and investment. I LOVE your videos, very precise and with good intentions!! ❤
Great video! Thank you for always clarifying your points. Every man is not the same just as every woman is not. I'm in my 60s and a widow. I was engaged to a man 2 yrs ago. What I learned from that relationship is COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE! I didn't always do that and that was one of the contributors to the downfall of the relationship. I learned from being in that relationship. You are always professional and make topics relative to what's really going on.
Everything you've said is true. Being a older woman I can see all these things in my man. We truly have a real relationship. We're both widows an have experienced the same things. We talk everyday. Give each other the respect of different opinions with arguments. He's never asked for a friends with benefits. We believe a relationship is important in more ways than just sex. We have intimacy in other ways. We are getting a second chance to have love in our life. We pray for each other. We freely express ourselves. We hold nothing back. We let each other know they are what's important. An he's a busy business man. We stay connected. He does everything as well as I do to be there for each other. Great advise for the ladies!
When you said sometimes we think about what they’re doing and not doing so much that we overlook our part I felt that. That was a great reminder to keep me on track and think about how I’m perfecting my part rather than how he’s perfecting his.
Couple years back I met a gentleman. We started as friends and it was going good. Then he decided to tell me he was interested in me. I was a little skeptical about it, because he always said remember we're only friends. Was constantly reminding me. So after sometime. I decided to give him an opportunity. It was going good. Until I noticed he was asking a lot of questions,but not wanting to answer mine. Took some time for him to open up to me. Even then I didn't feel he was being honest with me. Stupid me didn't listen to my intuition and it became a living hell. I had to remove myself from this relationship, but I did fall in love with him. Took me a very long time for me to realize he wasn't the one. Especially, because I didn't put God first and ignored all the red flags. I'm happy to say, that I had to take time to reflect on me and learned that. Someone who loves you doesn't put you through pain, suffering, agany, disrespect you or hurt you. Weather, its mentally or physically. It's totally not okay and mentally is just as bad or worse than physically. I appreciate you Mr. Speaks ❤️
I appreciated that you stopped and talked about consistency on both sides. I think this has been a huge problem of mines. My dad made it seem like the man should be doing everything but the way that you described it was a little more realistic. Both people take initiatives. Thanks
My partner suggested to read the book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts. This book has given me a lot of insight into myself and what I need, but also into him and what he needs. Exactly what you just said
People want to be loved for who they are as a person. That includes their character - are they responsible, good work ethic, love for God, empathy, considerate, etc. There are too many people out there looking for what they can get from someone else - money, looks, etc. Too many shallow and superficial people looking for the wrong things. MLK nailed it - it is the CHARACTER of the person! Thank you, Stephan, for your great advice and the awesome work you do in helping us navigate the uncertainties of the dating world!
Have to treat a man the way you want to be treated dont assume things ask him what you want to know and make sure your prepared for the answer you may get and the same goes for the man when he ask the woman the question. Blessings to all. Thank you Stephan blessings to you.
"If you don't have social media it's not for you.." 🙋😂😅👍😆 Yes indeed, not for me. LOL Thanks for sharing your gift to the world.. We truly appreciate you.💙💫
Yes if he wants to talk he will make time. We both work 2 jobs and he calls me everyday in his second job. We currently both healing and are just friends. We live in different states and I think we can become great friends
Wow!!! I'm this way with I man I like but he's clearly not into me. Several months of being me and doing these things because I enjoy it, reaching out to him bc he's on my mind, praying for his well being, feeling like we're soul mates and he's still only showing minimal interest, if that. I get it though. I'm still blessed and one day, I will be someones angel on earth. Continuing to be me until my real soul mate crosses paths. Peace and Blessings
Can I admit no one has done random things for me? ! It's official I've been single in all the scenarios of dating. 😂 You are schooling me and marking my past. I'm listening to better myself. I'll look out next time. I've not experienced this level of investment from a man in a relationship. So clearly I've never been in a relationship.
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Can't say I've had a man like this in my life. Yeah they might have had me on their minds a lot but that was just to hook up. I'm glad I've grown comfortable with being single because this whole dating and relationship business just seems complicated. I barely even give my number out now and continually turn down dates. I've been feeling for years that it's just not for me.
I love you and I can wait till God sends me my Boaz with a sensitivity, a heart and an ear towards me. Thank you for giving me the Tea and cues to have a successful relationship. Smooches!!!
Great Advice Stephan 👍🏽. I know from experience how fear of vulnerability and overthinking can ruin a potential connection. I also feel that circumstances can hinder how a person's signals are received. One thing I look for is catching on to the little things. Not only does it show thoughtfulness, but it is also the catalyst to great intimacy.
Everything you saying is true I had once a friend but he never always texting me he always want me to text him first so what I do he don't text so I do the same and one day he just text and tell me he see my attitude change and he will remove me off his contacts so I tell him do what he want to do and what I do I just block him and get it over with
My boyfriend falls into these categories. He does randomly send me money on cashapp, or buy me something. And he does tell me that he brags about me to his friend's. Like he tells me some of the things they talk about. Like how his friends will say you can't trust women or they don't wanna go home because their women aggravate them. And he will tell them "I don't have that problem". But it's funny that I didn't give him a chance when we was just friends. But I'm glad I did now.
I'm a new subscriber to your channel and watching and practising your teachings have changed my relationship. My fiancee told me I have changed and that he is loving me more daily.
I had a man say that most men don’t like to be asked questions. That sounds like crap to me. How else am I supposed to get to know you? Def sews a seed of doubt.
WOW!!! This was good!! Loved the quote in the opening. Thank you for ALWAYS elaborating on your thoughts, hence, not all will apply to all men. I know I'm supposed to "forget the former things, and not dwell on the past because God is doing a new thing"; however, since I haven't been in a relationship for 6yrs, I find myself reverting to my last one and saying - Uh-hum.☺🤣 I've started my Stephan Speaks notebook and preparing my library for ALL of this "on point" advice so when he does find me, I can secretly refer to my notes as needed.😉 But I don't mind waiting! The scripture I'm standing on is Isaiah 60:22: "When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen."🙏🏾🙏🏾 Keep speaking Stephan...we're listening!!! No pun intended.😁
I'm really glad I joined your manifesting the man God has for you group. I'm finally in what I think is a healthy relationship. It feels good to watch your video and mentally check off all the things that somebody is doing right as opposed to the last video that I resonated with which was how to know your relationship is doomed to fail. That guy had all those qualities the new guy has all these qualities! -NISI 😁🧚🏾♀️
God said don’t manifest, manifestation is witchcraft. So you shouldn’t try to manifest a man or anything. That’s going to end up bad. Lean not unto your own understanding, ask his will be done: stop manifesting !
The things you say in this video that’s literally happening in my life rn, you know how men think it’s crazy. I’m going through a courting phase rn with this one guy. Let’s just say, your gifted
Amen thanks Stephan for the advice cuz my man is a doctor and he is really busy and I understand but he does make time for me , I think we should speak out of our own experience because sometimes people make assumptions unnecessarily when your men don’t call or message you but knowing that he is busy not that he doesn’t care🙏🏽 and surely he’ll tell me he thinks about me a lot more than I can ever imagine, take care blessings
He's definitely in love with you I am a nurse and trust me your patients come first so he's taking the time thinking of you are bless !!!!!!! does he have a brother?😅
I love the time aspect & never take that for granted. My bf works so hard all week & gives me his weekends F-Sun EVERY weekend. He could take that for himself but makes sure we get to share it together. Even though I wish we could have a weekday, it’s just so hard with both our schedules. Time is the most valuable gift. ❤
This advice really opened my eyes and ears. I can see how more communication about each other needs can really help a lot. I need to pick up my Love Languages book again. Thanks, I truly enjoy your videos.
A few days ago, I kept getting Facebook notifications. Come to find out my boyfriend had like a lot of my recent posts. He said that he was missing very much at that time. Now he wants me to meet his children and is in the process of planning an outing for all of us. And he checks on me throughout the day everyday as well as gets me random gifts.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Yes Stephen, after listening to about maybe six of your videos and I'm sure they're great videos, they sound great but by the time I was done listening my head was spinning lol
Also, asking for his input can allow me to see how engaged he is with me. Wanting to help me, feeling somewhat privileged (for lack of a better word) that I even want his input or cherish his input.
Sometimes a man , doesn't check or call don't mean he is necessarily avoiding you or not into you. He most likely taking the time out to reflect on what's going on within himself. Everyone has different timeliness of things. Someone could still be getting over a heartbreak or is non commital. So both parties, female and male has to be mindful of one another. This is where I agree on where communication comes in, even if it's just small questions or big ones. Thank You Stephan, I absolutely love your content. It's gives others comfort and answers. You are A true ancient soul to advise women who needs it from a man's tongue. 🙏😇🫶✨️.
I am older my guy is too. He is a widower of 2.5 yrs so yes I agree he is reflecting and dealing with his own feelings right now. I am sure if that. I also know his eyes tell it all he is deeply in love with me and agreed he likes me more than he wants to admit. So yes it’s about being understanding and not putting him in a box to be checked off.
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He's always on my FB alot response alot
I just ordered the book and finished it last weekend. It was a huge blessing and extremely insightful and full of wisdom that you can use right now. My only regret is that I didn’t get the book earlier in my relationship. I could have been more aware of many things. I also ordered love after heartbreak which is where I am right now. You are truly anointed to help all of us in this area and I think God for you.
I wish I knew if I'm doing that right thing by staying committed and being submissive to a man in prison 😔🤔😕
I want the man to pursue me. I don’t want to chase anyone. Waiting patiently in Christ.
I can’t get on my social media 😫😩😔😞
I'm sorry but no man is that busy not to talk to the love of his life everyday... going ghost on a woman is a huge red flag🤐
@@Aristocrats1234 exactly I agree men will change on you the minute they not interested anymore...smh
You're absolutely right!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks men are finally on my side for once... 💚
Facts!!
Right? That’s what I said. He ghosted me for the weekend. From him texting while at work and even calling me all the time to one text a day and I was like wth.. then today man he called and text like nothing… was I wrong for thinking he was with another women?? I told him I felt like he cheated on me but he never answered that or didn’t even reassure me he didn’t.. idk what to do. I mean I do but am I overreacting??
With a real man you never have to question his intention and motive. Because he will tell you and let you know exactly how he feels. You have to believe it and trust. God will work everything out.
Very True...
…….after he tells you, he will also SHOW…..
That is so very true what you said
Be mindful of scammers too.
EXACTLY
A study was was done that said a person looks at their phone on a average of 53 times a day. No excuse for ghosting….. they saw your text or miss call and choose not to respond.
A. Not that into you
B. Not a priority
C. Not serious
Exactly! On point
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It’s true. Most bathroom visits involve being on the phone. Driving we put stuff in the map and pick our songs. The first thing we do when we wake up is look at our phone and for most the last thing we look at is our phone before sleep
I would prefer if a man tells me straight up what he's thinking and feeling, especially if he's into me. 🌞🙏it feels good to hear it.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks you more than welcome🙏❤️😊
I wish that too, but unfortunately most men don’t.
well.... I'm about to tell straight up to my crush this wed😊
@@FunnyAsian00 love it 👍
This guy shows he thinks about me, does special things, and remembers small things. But i just found out he had a long-distance relationship with someone else. I walked away.
I’m sorry that happened to you
When you want something you find ways, when you don't - you find excuses. - I think this is enough said about man, women and attraction. :)
Beautiful, very helpful, sound sentiment & advice to remember & live by. Thank you for this insight/sharing.
That simple!
Amen!
"It's better to be despised for who you are, then loved for who you are not" - Unknown
Kurt Cobain
Alert! Woman with crush on the premises. Thanks for your interest and concern Stephan.😂❤😂.
That was Kurt Cobain!
God answered my prayers and brought a man into my life who did and continues to do all of these things and more.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
That’s beautiful Amen!!!
" I say read my autobiography, wrote in 2001, " Gangsters Moll". ( UK). Lol .
That’s awesome!!
I want to be like you when I grow up 🤣
We are older people. When we were about 6 months into spending time together, I didn’t hear from him one day, two days, three days and I thought he wandered away. Then he texted me. “Come over, I have something for you.” He was helping friends move and got me a Grandfather clock in exchange for his help. I was so touched. He concentrated his time and energy on getting that clock for me rather than texting me. If I would have freaked out who knows what would have happened. We are still together 7 months later. He’s quiet, reserved, deeply kind and caring.
He often checks up on me.
Das Supersweet.
Bcuz da goal was based on somtn for u.❤❤❤
Really attentive❤
Blessings. Be good to eachother ❤
❤ wonderful😊
Aw🥺🩷
If I have to manipulate circumstances, second guess, and strategize to be with a man, I'm out. People need to grow up and be real.
This is the message ❤
Absolutely 💯
Amen, I'm not into these ridiculous games people play these days
I'm like, ugh, done learning about men and trying to better myself for a man, but let me click on one more video since it's right in my face, lol. I am a sucker for your videos.
...me too!l lol..No better resource to learn about men is from another man. An intelligent man at that... Even better! 💎👑🙏
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@@outsidethebox8406 😍😂😘
@@charlotteclark6061 amen!
Keep working on yourself. He’ll appear when you least expect it! Trust the process 😊
After we had been dating for a few weeks, he casually mentioned that he has the date we started talking saved in his phone as our anniversary.
6 weeks in, he told me he was disappointed we haven't gotten a picture together yet.
He doesn't mind if I cry sometimes, and will hold me and stroke my hair as long as I need.
When I bring up things that have bothered me, he immediately validates, considers it, and changes his behavior. It's always an extremely short, comparitively boring conversation, with no hint of defensiveness.
I've never experienced anything like this before.
When men value you, they really treat you different. If you are wondering whether they care, and you can't point to any concrete examples, or you have more negative examples than positive ones, then he doesn't. Don't settle for someone who isn't into you that much.
Sorry Stephan I'm tired and giving up. The last two did it for me.. Im just here because I enjoy looking at you and listening to you. Just tired. No more. People say I'm a workaholic, oh well, I'll take that. No more lies and cheating.
Do you work Saturday mornings? Visit an SDA Church, I promise you regret going there.
Sending you love❤❤
Sending you love and a cyber hug 🫂 if you accept! I know this feeling all too well….😔❤️🩹
The guy I am friends with but moving towards something more definitely thinks about me. He always asks how I am, if something is on my mind, if I want to talk, he asks me for input consistency. He supports me through everything, I can talk to him about literally everything without judgment. He's a good man. And he is consistent, patient, and kind.
This type of man you will not find again easily. I pray you both get married one day and live happily ever after!
@@rumnas185 right !! I wish her all the best!!
Sounds like my best friend also, he not to long revealed that he loves me. It's the best feeling. The only problem is,I also have feelings for another man.
@@lisawilli1834 🤣🤣🤣 you are funny.
@@Miss-zr1rv 🤣🤣🤣
I love when a man asked me for my opinion it makes me feel valued and validated!!
Stephen, God heard my prayers and brought me the most wonderful man I could ever want .
I have been watching your videos for years,and I've prayed and was patient for a partner .Last years September I met my partner and I all that I've learned from these videos are so visible ,this man is what I prayed to God for ..I don't have to worry about anything with him,We communicated about future plans ..This man has invested his time in getting to know all about me,He is everything and I'm praying everyday that all that I have learned to this point that I apply it and ...We plan to get married in November ..I'm so happy to the deepest level of my being and so is he
Congratulations 🎊
Congratulations 🙏🏽💕
Happy for u all👍🥰
Congratulations 🎊
👏 The best words ever!
He told me he passes my home every day.
He doesn’t have to go that route.
He's scaring me.😮
I finally met a guy who does these things. This is the first time I’m seeing someone where I’m not constantly wondering how he feels about me 🥰
That's the kind of man one wants. I don't know why woman waste their time running after man who are emotionally unavailable.
For 28 years, my husband very considerately asked me where I wanted to go for dinner. I do not believe that we ever once went to eat what I suggested. At year 25 I figured out that he was getting credit for asking while secretly enjoying depriving me of what I wanted. It took me that long to realize he could be that petty.
Did you confront him about it?
omg!😮
🤯 wow…I didn’t see that coming! That’s really sad & upsetting that he would go thru that kind of thing…
As a woman I can understand the importance of valuing your man and putting effort into recognizing that he needs to be uplifted with compliments and recognition but I can’t agree to tell, especially women, to focus on fulfilling their partners need without providing context because in general women will be the over affectionate and adoring that gives too much and gets taken advantage of. Its best to advise women that men have needs similar to us that include validation, self esteem, support in other areas of our life and someone who listens without unsolicited advice or judgement. Just don’t go handing him the world cus sometimes even a good man will unintentional take more than he’s entitled
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks do you agree that a man, if he’s into you, will naturally do the things that consistently express that feeling? I’ve never had an experience where that hasn’t been the case. It makes me sad that we have to analyze all these actions. Idk where relationships went wrong and I hate to even ask why.
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I always remember to say thank you for that individual who's taken time out of their busy life to chat with me, to thank them for adding value to my life, for making an effort to walk with me, even if we're just friends it's not always about you, it's about y'all as a whole.
A male friend of mine would often say “I appreciate you” when I gave him space to talk & I listened. Those 3 words are powerful
I had a certain preference of the man "I" wanted for me...but when I waited for the man GOD had for me, OMG! God really has our best interest at heart, with HIM all things are possible.
I have your books which has really been very clear and helpful, thank you, Keep up the great work!
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I can honestly say that what you said about asking a guy what they need works….I have never in my life asked a man what they needed or specifically what they needed me to do for them due to past situation-ship hurt. But the one time I put myself out there for this particular man and he just appreciates my desire and willingness to help. All the great feels 🥰🥰
Blessings
Jesus is thinking of you!🙌❤️
Amen 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🥰❤️
Yes amen
Awwww, yes he is. Luv you Lord 💟✝️🙏🕊️
Awwwwwwwww❤
I Iove when he starts laughing while giving advice on sensitive matters. Hillarious.
10 BIG SIGNS HE THINKS ABOUT YOU ALOT.......HE ALWAYS UPLOADS NEW VIDEOS FOR US TO LEARN FROM......HAPPY NEW YEAR STEPHAN....I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE WHAT YOU HAVE IN STORE FOR US THIS YEAR......
I've learned a lot thank you for your videos.
You betters say it! If a man remember, he's paying attention. I have had two great loves in my life like that. My fondest memory is an old boyfriend surprising me with a watch that my mother never got for me. That was almost 30 years ago, and I still have that watch. Fast forward, we're still friends and he still remembers things that I said to him. He said he wished that he had listened. I was living for the future, and he was living for the now.
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@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome! Thanks for helping us.
I truly believe that God has sent you and has poured into you so that you can pour into His daughters. I have learned so much from your videos and I only listen because I know your a man of God. He finally sent me the man I am supposed to be with, he’s been so transparent and consistent, not pressuring sex, prays with and for me and he loves the Lord. He is definitely showing up and being everything that God has promised me. Ladies, pray and wait for God. It may take years! But I promise you it’s worth it! Focus on you and God and when He does send you the right man, be open and let your walls down. I was on the wrong path until I started watching these videos, learn how to love the way God wants us to love and stay open. Love you brother Stephan!
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I have a male friend who does everything Dr. Stephan mentioned in this video. We have been friends for over 20 years. I just assumed he did those things because he values my friendship and he's just a really good man to people. Maybe, I'm ignoring some things I need to pay more attention to?
Definitely
I would love to talk to him
I learned the reason people say men and women can’t just be friends. I’ve had guys that I genuinely thought I was just friends with and almost every time, when the right opportunity presented itself you can be sure they eventually told me their real feelings. So yeah I wouldn’t be surprised if he had more in mind than friendship.
Ambiguity stuffs many people up. I had a similar situation and didn't see the love until it was too late. Don't let a good thing slip from your fingers.
You're not attracted to him, don't pursue a relationship.he is not the one.he really is a friend.after 20 years He's More like a brother.dont lose your best bud.
Perfect, Agreed! Consistency is one main thing that I look for, that's difficult to fake. It's impossible to be consistent, if I'm not on your mind often.
You're absolutely right!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks what does it mean for me ? We’re Married but he moved with Mom who wants him with her so he doesn’t chase me except through a blocked FB acct
He told the truth ladies!!!! Be yourself!!! And whoever doesn't match with that or "get you", it's ok!! Its biology. As adults we should understand how animals mate. Stay light hearted and move on.
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I don't hv anyone in my life but I pray to God that one day I will but I always enjoy watching Yr videos
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏
Iam searching and asking God also to send me that God send man@@MeetStephanSpeaks
if men and women can just be authentic and say it is, the world would be a better place
This is a very helpful discussion! Not every man has the same level of comfort when it comes to letting a woman know how he feels early in the process. Hearing these signs definitely helps to decipher what can be unclear at times. Thank you, King Stephan! 👑
My pleasure ❤
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My Virgo ♍ is exactly like this..he's very inquisitive, he asks a lot of questions, lol.. He's very very heavy on communication, it kind of scared me in the beginning especially since I've never had that in any of my relationships. He notices everything about me, and remembers everything!! I appreciate that about him, he expresses his emotions to me, he's very vulnerable with me...this is one of my best relationships I've ever been in, he's my best friend and I love him 🥰😘❤
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We Virgos ♍ are like that. We like perfection and are into details 😊
I’m happy for you 🤗
Aww this was sweet 🥰
Omg my Virgo is the same🤣 I loveee it!
This has helped relieve quite a lot of my relationship anxiety’s and strong associations caused by former partners. It’s a constant effort to remember to step back and separate the past from the much more important AND valuable present reality. My trauma is not my (current) partners responsibility to fix or be subjected to when I really lose touch with the present and unfairly subject them to the distrust, hatred and failure of the former relationship. The simplicity of remaining in the present will create so much self awareness and keep you from self sabotaging, I’m sure some if not all of us can relate to that specific type of a trauma response when someone starts to get close…
Going through this now. Thank you for articulating it so well ! And it took me a few weeks to understand how and why these other emotions and fears were coming in from out of nowhere. God bless you hun!
*While these signs can provide insights into someone's thoughts, it's important to maintain open communication and avoid over-analyzing every action. Every individual and relationship is unique, so it's crucial to have honest conversations and build a foundation of trust to truly understand each other's thoughts and feelings.*
I just need to say how much I appreciate seeing a man provide valuable, honest, informative, and relatable relationship advice for both men and women who are seeking long-term, healthy relationships. Great job!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
When they text you every day and never miss a day.They ask you what you are doing and they tell you what they are doing😊
I had that and he wouldn't commit. Took Stephen advice! The man I wanted to be with told me to stop listening to this advice. Haven't figured him out. Moved on. Super hard!!
Excellent video. Communication, consistency, & time are the key ones that I look for to know if he is thinking about me. If the communication is always flowing and consistent that will let me know if I am in his thoughts. Yes, as you mentioned, time and priority is essential. Time is the one thing you must be willing to give as that shows sacrifice & commitment. When you are thinking about him alot if it is mutual he will be thinking of you too and trying to make a connection. People in love always seem to find a way to stay connected & pour into each other by learning each other's love language & needs. Everything in life is spiritual so if you are thinking of him he may very well feel it in his spirit & vice versa. Deep genuine love has that quality of just knowing. Where we focus our thoughts is what will consume & occupy our time. Be Blessed as always, peace & light to you.
Well said
I mirror. If I get a hint that I may contact him too much, he won't hear from me. Give me a call, and I will respond.
@@indriadrayton1132 That could be true. Yet if I"m thinking of him I just let him know. If it is too much than perhaps he"s not my match. Yet, the mirror effect plays it safe so good strategy for you. ❤
What you said sounds realistic but I have seen men do it all and still have a wife or have 4 or more women they deal with at the same time.
@@a.talithajoseph1808 Two things I would say are character, values, and time. Yes true a man can do everything & still cheat yet if he is a man of integrity & character he is less likely. If he values his time he is also less likely to spread himself thin among many women. The man has to have a relationship mindset and set values. Otherwise he will always chase women and stray.
There is a gentleman I met in a group and thought he might be interested in getting to know me but his sporadic contact led me to believe he was not interested, so I kinda just walked away. I really hoped I'd get to know him better coz he intrigued me and I was drawn to his zeal for the things of God. Now had he checked up on me or asked me out and I found him to be an awesome guy, I am certain I would have fallen for him. Consistency and Communication is key....Perhaps it was just a moment in time...guess we will never know.
It all boils down to communicate. In a peaceful and loving manner.
Communication is definitely key!
Thanks for the video! Truly thought provoking. Often at times we can get so caught up in the "what has he/she done for me lately" that we forget about reciprocity and the importance of being visible and meeting your significant other, friend, spouse, etc where they're at.
Definitely a message of substance, thank you for walking in your purpose 🙏🏽
Glad you enjoyed, I appreciate your feedback ❤
I wish all men a year filled with great energy, strong willpower and pure happiness. 💪
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
What about women?
Thank you so much for your videos. I have found a wonderful man who puts forth effort and makes sure I am always taken care of. He always tells me it's my job to ask for what I want and its his job to accommodate it.
My hope is that every woman finds a man who makes her a priority in his life
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God is definitely using you!!! Keep living out your divine purpose!! You have truly given me a new perspective on relationships and love!! You are definitely making a difference 💛💛🙏🏾 Thank You
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏
Yes
I always thought consistency was a big sign. When your dating someone you wanna tell that person about your day or just hear their voice. When I always have to reach out I believe they’re not interested . So I pull back . I like a man who shows there interested . Who likes to talk on the phone and text me even when your busy and you can’t meet up with me. Most woman love that but yes😞 we don’t wanna be the only one always doing it. I remember asking someone one time “If I never called or texted you would you ever reach out ? He said yes but not as much “heartbroken!” So I put in my big girl pants on and moved on. That showed me he wasn’t into me as much as I was to him. You live and you learn. Thanks for sharing
Great question
Has anyone ever thought about that special person? Then out of the blue you get a text message or call. I do 🥰🥰🥰.
Yep lol 😍
I’ve been trying to manifest getting that txt/call. I’m happy for you 🥰
Yes
Yes
Yep!
I have 3 jobs and I definitely can make time for someone I like. Rather that’s lunches, dinner after 5 M-Thurs, brunch Saturday or time all day Sunday. When a man tells me he works 40 hours and don’t have time for me I know he’s not interested in me 🤣 cause I’m busy but I got time.
Being confident in certain areas of your life does not overcome shyness when it comes to relationships, this applies to both sexes. Communication whilst being the thing that moves a relationship forward can be a sticking point for some .
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Talking is the only form of communication that matters❤️
I love that you make it clear that you can’t just take a sign and run with it use with discretion.
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
I love the way stephan clearly speaks about situations to understand… the best
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I was told once I didn't know how to look after a man. He was right because I was looking after another child. He was not being a man, he behaved like a child and left me to harden up and do everything that needed to be done. Now I'm much older, returning to who I really am, I'm soft and loving, but had to be tougher. I like being softer, like fluffy slippers or cooking someone's favourite meal or hugging someone because my life is better with them in it. Thankyou for the words you speak. It brings clarity to times past and hopefully fulfillment in future times.
YES to ALL of this message‼️ The social media lurking is so true 😂🤣 I did meet a guy who asked me those under the surface questions, however he was taking advantage of my vulnerability and honestly didn't care that much about me. So still be careful with how some guys will use what women like against you 😤 Answer with caution ⚠️
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Met someone, whom I REALLY, like…we speak for hrs at nite…and everything ur saying resonates, our conversations feel intimate, fun, we don’t get tired of speaking to one another, I’m glad it’s moving along…I see something real in this person I’ve not encountered before…
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I have had a friend for 5 yrs that I absolutely adore. He does all of these things for me. His mom lives in my neighborhood. He always drives by my house to make sure I am fine since my dad died. He's just an amazing friend. I He is my bfs best friend. So it makes me feel awkward when I catch him looking at me. But I am totally dedicated to my bf. I just thought he was looking out for me because he knows I love his best friend. This is interesting because we have mutual friends and they always tell me he's interested in me. But I just ignore it
I actually prefer not to talk to a guy more than 1 time each week. I dated a man who called me way too much and for too long. I guess I don’t need that. The one I’m dating now, seems busy and so am I. I don’t want to rush into ANYTHING and telling too much about myself is too big of an opening and investment. I LOVE your videos, very precise and with good intentions!! ❤
Great video! Thank you for always clarifying your points. Every man is not the same just as every woman is not. I'm in my 60s and a widow. I was engaged to a man 2 yrs ago. What I learned from that relationship is COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE! I didn't always do that and that was one of the contributors to the downfall of the relationship. I learned from being in that relationship.
You are always professional and make topics relative to what's really going on.
What if he falls like scammer i have spent money on issues but is like love bomb never met in person but i believe it .. what is true
Everything you've said is true. Being a older woman I can see all these things in my man. We truly have a real relationship. We're both widows an have experienced the same things. We talk everyday. Give each other the respect of different opinions with arguments. He's never asked for a friends with benefits. We believe a relationship is important in more ways than just sex. We have intimacy in other ways. We are getting a second chance to have love in our life. We pray for each other. We freely express ourselves. We hold nothing back. We let each other know they are what's important. An he's a busy business man. We stay connected. He does everything as well as I do to be there for each other. Great advise for the ladies!
When you said sometimes we think about what they’re doing and not doing so much that we overlook our part I felt that. That was a great reminder to keep me on track and think about how I’m perfecting my part rather than how he’s perfecting his.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Yes that was the one that resonated
Yes your right about that. Caring about someones needs and wants, desires are very important in a relationship even a friendship.
Just purchased HES Lying SIS on audible, incredibly helpful and so real. Thank you SL , I truly value you!
I can’t believe how many times I always let the man text me and I do nothing ugh … fail big succeed big I guess happy I found you !
Couple years back I met a gentleman. We started as friends and it was going good. Then he decided to tell me he was interested in me. I was a little skeptical about it, because he always said remember we're only friends. Was constantly reminding me. So after sometime. I decided to give him an opportunity. It was going good. Until I noticed he was asking a lot of questions,but not wanting to answer mine. Took some time for him to open up to me. Even then I didn't feel he was being honest with me. Stupid me didn't listen to my intuition and it became a living hell. I had to remove myself from this relationship, but I did fall in love with him. Took me a very long time for me to realize he wasn't the one. Especially, because I didn't put God first and ignored all the red flags. I'm happy to say, that I had to take time to reflect on me and learned that. Someone who loves you doesn't put you through pain, suffering, agany, disrespect you or hurt you. Weather, its mentally or physically. It's totally not okay and mentally is just as bad or worse than physically. I appreciate you Mr. Speaks ❤️
The lesson is a blessing alone
Right.
I appreciated that you stopped and talked about consistency on both sides. I think this has been a huge problem of mines. My dad made it seem like the man should be doing everything but the way that you described it was a little more realistic. Both people take initiatives. Thanks
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Exactly 💯
You're going to make every woman in the universe fall in love with you you're amazing
lol, 🙂 thank you!
My partner suggested to read the book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts. This book has given me a lot of insight into myself and what I need, but also into him and what he needs. Exactly what you just said
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@@MeetStephanSpeaks you are welcome🙏
I was married to a Narcissist for 21 yrs. I began therapy and my therapist had me read the love languages.
People want to be loved for who they are as a person. That includes their character - are they responsible, good work ethic, love for God, empathy, considerate, etc.
There are too many people out there looking for what they can get from someone else - money, looks, etc. Too many shallow and superficial people looking for the wrong things.
MLK nailed it - it is the CHARACTER of the person!
Thank you, Stephan, for your great advice and the awesome work you do in helping us navigate the uncertainties of the dating world!
Happy to help 🙏
The transparency and knowledge that you speak is so helpful! I am learning SO MUCH! HEALING IS IN MOTION!!
Thank you for sharing, healing is definitely key!
Have to treat a man the way you want to be treated dont assume things ask him what you want to know and make sure your prepared for the answer you may get and the same goes for the man when he ask the woman the question. Blessings to all. Thank you Stephan blessings to you.
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@@MeetStephanSpeaks no problem 😊
Returning to the dating scene after 2 years so these tips were very great!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
As someone who has been married 20 yrs, this is right on.
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"If you don't have social media it's not for you.." 🙋😂😅👍😆 Yes indeed, not for me. LOL
Thanks for sharing your gift to the world.. We truly appreciate you.💙💫
Yes if he wants to talk he will make time. We both work 2 jobs and he calls me everyday in his second job. We currently both healing and are just friends. We live in different states and I think we can become great friends
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I just ordered my book today! The man God has for me. I can’t wait until I get it!
What's the name of the book dear
My new guy texts me several times per day. I really enjoy it because I’m thinking about him too.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Talking involves both of you.
Wow!!! I'm this way with I man I like but he's clearly not into me. Several months of being me and doing these things because I enjoy it, reaching out to him bc he's on my mind, praying for his well being, feeling like we're soul mates and he's still only showing minimal interest, if that. I get it though. I'm still blessed and one day, I will be someones angel on earth. Continuing to be me until my real soul mate crosses paths. Peace and Blessings
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Can I admit no one has done random things for me? ! It's official I've been single in all the scenarios of dating. 😂 You are schooling me and marking my past. I'm listening to better myself. I'll look out next time. I've not experienced this level of investment from a man in a relationship. So clearly I've never been in a relationship.
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Oh ok .. Thanks again bc I’m like they always watching my Stories 😉 so he see me 👑
Can't say I've had a man like this in my life. Yeah they might have had me on their minds a lot but that was just to hook up. I'm glad I've grown comfortable with being single because this whole dating and relationship business just seems complicated. I barely even give my number out now and continually turn down dates. I've been feeling for years that it's just not for me.
Try changing your focus from dating to learning and you will start to see positive feedback 🙏
I love you and I can wait till God sends me my Boaz with a sensitivity, a heart and an ear towards me. Thank you for giving me the Tea and cues to have a successful relationship. Smooches!!!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
Great Advice Stephan 👍🏽. I know from experience how fear of vulnerability and overthinking can ruin a potential connection. I also feel that circumstances can hinder how a person's signals are received. One thing I look for is catching on to the little things. Not only does it show thoughtfulness, but it is also the catalyst to great intimacy.
Everything you saying is true I had once a friend but he never always texting me he always want me to text him first so what I do he don't text so I do the same and one day he just text and tell me he see my attitude change and he will remove me off his contacts so I tell him do what he want to do and what I do I just block him and get it over with
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Are you available for a chat? Can I email?
My crush went on my website, and used something I quoted as his hashtag. He knew I would peep that. He is learning from me.😊
I am inspired by him too.
My boyfriend falls into these categories. He does randomly send me money on cashapp, or buy me something. And he does tell me that he brags about me to his friend's. Like he tells me some of the things they talk about. Like how his friends will say you can't trust women or they don't wanna go home because their women aggravate them. And he will tell them "I don't have that problem". But it's funny that I didn't give him a chance when we was just friends. But I'm glad I did now.
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I'm a new subscriber to your channel and watching and practising your teachings have changed my relationship. My fiancee told me I have changed and that he is loving me more daily.
That so so awesome to hear, thank you for your response ❤
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I'm new to his videos too .he' just gives me peaceful vibes
I had a man say that most men don’t like to be asked questions. That sounds like crap to me. How else am I supposed to get to know you? Def sews a seed of doubt.
Address that in a calm loving positive manner and let him know how you feel about that.
WOW!!! This was good!! Loved the quote in the opening. Thank you for ALWAYS elaborating on your thoughts, hence, not all will apply to all men.
I know I'm supposed to "forget the former things, and not dwell on the past because God is doing a new thing"; however, since I haven't been in a relationship for 6yrs, I find myself reverting to my last one and saying - Uh-hum.☺🤣
I've started my Stephan Speaks notebook and preparing my library for ALL of this "on point" advice so when he does find me, I can secretly refer to my notes as needed.😉 But I don't mind waiting! The scripture I'm standing on is Isaiah 60:22: "When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen."🙏🏾🙏🏾
Keep speaking Stephan...we're listening!!! No pun intended.😁
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Amen! 🙏 🙏 🙏
I'm really glad I joined your manifesting the man God has for you group. I'm finally in what I think is a healthy relationship. It feels good to watch your video and mentally check off all the things that somebody is doing right as opposed to the last video that I resonated with which was how to know your relationship is doomed to fail. That guy had all those qualities the new guy has all these qualities! -NISI 😁🧚🏾♀️
God said don’t manifest, manifestation is witchcraft. So you shouldn’t try to manifest a man or anything. That’s going to end up bad. Lean not unto your own understanding, ask his will be done: stop manifesting !
wow, your comment really resonated with me. i'm glad we're both experiencing healthy relationships, because we both deserve that!!!
@@BriannaLifeCoach what is the address of the scripture please where God says manifestation is witchcraft?
@@BriannaLifeCoach God is MAN. Man said that. Man wrote it!
@@RahYisrael99 🤦🏽♀️
The things you say in this video that’s literally happening in my life rn, you know how men think it’s crazy. I’m going through a courting phase rn with this one guy. Let’s just say, your gifted
Amen thanks Stephan for the advice cuz my man is a doctor and he is really busy and I understand but he does make time for me , I think we should speak out of our own experience because sometimes people make assumptions unnecessarily when your men don’t call or message you but knowing that he is busy not that he doesn’t care🙏🏽 and surely he’ll tell me he thinks about me a lot more than I can ever imagine, take care blessings
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He's definitely in love with you I am a nurse and trust me your patients come first so he's taking the time thinking of you are bless !!!!!!! does he have a brother?😅
I love the time aspect & never take that for granted. My bf works so hard all week & gives me his weekends F-Sun EVERY weekend. He could take that for himself but makes sure we get to share it together. Even though I wish we could have a weekday, it’s just so hard with both our schedules. Time is the most valuable gift. ❤
This advice really opened my eyes and ears. I can see how more communication about each other needs can really help a lot. I need to pick up my Love Languages book again. Thanks, I truly enjoy your videos.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
A few days ago, I kept getting Facebook notifications. Come to find out my boyfriend had like a lot of my recent posts. He said that he was missing very much at that time. Now he wants me to meet his children and is in the process of planning an outing for all of us. And he checks on me throughout the day everyday as well as gets me random gifts.
I don't know if it's just me but I just love your laughters & smiles in between explanations....
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Glad I stay single
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@@MeetStephanSpeaks Yes Stephen, after listening to about maybe six of your videos and I'm sure they're great videos, they sound great but by the time I was done listening my head was spinning lol
Also, asking for his input can allow me to see how engaged he is with me. Wanting to help me, feeling somewhat privileged (for lack of a better word) that I even want his input or cherish his input.
Sometimes a man , doesn't check or call don't mean he is necessarily avoiding you or not into you. He most likely taking the time out to reflect on what's going on within himself. Everyone has different timeliness of things. Someone could still be getting over a heartbreak or is non commital. So both parties, female and male has to be mindful of one another. This is where I agree on where communication comes in, even if it's just small questions or big ones. Thank You Stephan, I absolutely love your content. It's gives others comfort and answers. You are A true ancient soul to advise women who needs it from a man's tongue. 🙏😇🫶✨️.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you. Communication is definitely key ❤
@Stephan Speaks you're very welcome, nowadays ignorance is bliss. Totally wrong.
I am older my guy is too. He is a widower of 2.5 yrs so yes I agree he is reflecting and dealing with his own feelings right now. I am sure if that. I also know his eyes tell it all he is deeply in love with me and agreed he likes me more than he wants to admit. So yes it’s about being understanding and not putting him in a box to be checked off.
I listen to your videos a lot, I draw hope from them; cos left for me; relationships have literally DRAINED me....
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏