3 Year Update: My Laparoscopic Tubal Ligation Story: (Tubes Removed)

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  • @wst_bway2378
    @wst_bway2378 9 місяців тому +18

    I got mine removed yesterday, I have a 22 year old daughter and a 11 year old son. I’m 44 and didn’t want to take a chance of getting pregnant ever again. So thanks for making this video

    • @FancFree85
      @FancFree85 4 місяці тому +1

      I’m 44 and seriously considering this. I absolutely do not want to get pregnant and I feel like I may have been too old for the procedure but still get periods. Thank you for this comment.

  • @jessicaZepbound2024
    @jessicaZepbound2024 Рік тому +55

    I got mine removed and my periods are lighter and no cramps so I’m loving that.

    • @tcowan33
      @tcowan33 Рік тому +2

      We’re you on any kind of birth control before your surgery?
      I’m having the opposite effect lol

    • @caseycoleman394
      @caseycoleman394 8 місяців тому +1

      Really? Periods are not TOTALLY gone when people have their tubes removed?

    • @jessicab331
      @jessicab331 4 місяці тому

      @@caseycoleman394no… some people say theirs are heavier.

    • @dianajoi86
      @dianajoi86 4 місяці тому +1

      Mine is scheduled for this September, very excited to be done with birth control and all the problems that have come with it

    • @haute03
      @haute03 11 днів тому

      @@caseycoleman394 No. Your cycle is still intact. An egg is released from the ovary and the lining in your uterus still thickens in preparation to receive the egg. It's just that the egg never makes it to your uterus because the fallopian tubes have been cut. It's reabsorbed instead and your uterine lining still sheds giving you a period.

  • @thecollazos7338
    @thecollazos7338 Рік тому +28

    I got mine done 3 days ago. Feeling great! Happy with my decision. (Momma of 4)

    • @mehndidesigns5814
      @mehndidesigns5814 3 місяці тому

      Hi, I want to get it done too, any long term side effects?

  • @JodiJames
    @JodiJames Рік тому +11

    Thank you for discussing the reason behind why there are so many videos about negative recoveries. I know it logically, but it's good to be reminded. Makes me feel better!

  • @Selina-of2fn
    @Selina-of2fn Рік тому +8

    Getting mine out tomorrow!! So glad you have an update because I seen your first video but now after seeing your second I feel more comfortable about all the questions I’ve been having

    • @mehndidesigns5814
      @mehndidesigns5814 3 місяці тому

      Hey, I am planning to get it out in January. How did it go for you any side effects later and how was the recovery?

  • @Sharadonai
    @Sharadonai 4 місяці тому +3

    So happy I found your videos! I watched the 1st video of you explaining the process and this one and they both have given me a lot of relief.
    I am a mom of 4 with my youngest being 14 months, 3,5&7. I am so READY to get this done because it feels like me and hubby are playing Russian roulette every time we come together & I don’t got time for no oopsy! My surgery is scheduled at the end of this month(July). I go to pre op 2 days before the surgery. This is my 1st experience getting anesthesia, so that’s the only nerve wrecking part I’m going through.

  • @Francine-h90
    @Francine-h90 11 місяців тому +6

    I am getting mine removed in January 2024. I have been researching if there are any negatives, like the negatives from getting your tubes tied. I am 33, and I have 1 daughter. One and done for me. Premenopausal runs early in my family, starting in the early 30s, and I feel like I am already going through it. I have been looking for other women's experiences because I have had someone try to scare me out of it because of what they saw/read for the tube tying. She's scared of everything, though.

  • @ds_marie6121
    @ds_marie6121 3 місяці тому +1

    You’re a BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT, thank you for being YOU! Thank you for this.😍🫂🥰🙏🏾✊🏾💪🏾

  • @laurentippin2408
    @laurentippin2408 11 місяців тому +4

    They asked about vaginal dryness, reduction in libido and early menopause because a lot of women experience that after this surgery. You no longer have the same blood flow to your ovaries once your tubes are cut or removed. This can cause a disrupt in proper hormone production. Glad you haven’t dealt with any of these adverse effects.

  • @holliehilton3224
    @holliehilton3224 Рік тому +6

    Girl, you are lucky! I have Stage IV endometriosis and went in to get fibroids removed via a myomectomy, lost a tube and my life was destroyed. The previous doctor spent so much time “ungluing” my organs that he couldn’t get to the 11 fibroids I had. I picked an undereducated, ignorant doctor for the second surgery who cut my left tube out after doing a procedure I TOLD HER NOT TO DO. I stopped getting a cycle, had hot flashes, aged so fast that family members don’t recognize me (my photo is from before I was botched), gained 35 pounds in three months (went up four breast sizes from the hormone imbalance), severe migraines when I’m supposed to ovulate (I don’t do that anymore either). I never got to have kids, and I have to take a prescription to get a period. Full-out menopause symptoms. I was 36. My migraine doctor said messing with tubes can throw a woman into perimenopause or even menopause. I hate that doctor to this day and will never forgive her. She changed the whole trajectory of my life being scalpel happy. There’s no such thing as malpractice in my state, so all I can do is hope she rots.

    • @kisht7469
      @kisht7469 6 годин тому

      I’m so sorry that happened to you 😔 You deserve justice.I pray for your peace and healing.

  • @edithalexandra_31
    @edithalexandra_31 Рік тому +6

    I just got my tubes removed 2 days ago & after 3 kids it was the best decision I’ve made for myself, I thought it would be painful but no they literally put a oxygen mask on me next thing I know I’m waking up in recovery w/a pain level of 2 I’m walking out of there, the only painful thing was my shoulder pain from the gas they put in me other than that it wasn’t bad🙃

  • @iamvenus8681
    @iamvenus8681 Рік тому +12

    This was the first video I clicked on searching tubal removal and I’m glad I came across it.. Thank you for sharing your experience and some of the questions were pretty good.. Friday coming will make a month since I’ve done mine and I don’t regret it at all.. I had plenty of people trying to talk me out of it but once my mind is made up, that’s it.. I’m 32 and just had my second son.. I could not imagine birthing anymore children especially because my deliveries were a bit traumatic having c sections.. During the second C-section I got my doctor to complete the operation so I didn’t have to go through a separate recovery period.. One of the best long term decisions I’ve made for myself and family..

  • @amberrichardson2813
    @amberrichardson2813 Рік тому +17

    I’m so glad I came across your video. I wish I would’ve seen it sooner. I got my tubes removed today and before hand I was so nervous about doing it. Like I was starting to talk myself out of it. However I have 3 children already and I feel you on the free part lol.

    • @edithalexandra_31
      @edithalexandra_31 Рік тому +1

      I was the same girl, I kept saying what if you want one one it’ll be to late but then I kept saying no I think we’re done I have my 2 boys & finally got blessed w/my baby girl that’s I wanted now I’m complete so I went ahead w/the procedure & it was the best choice I’ve made

    • @mehndidesigns5814
      @mehndidesigns5814 3 місяці тому +1

      @@edithalexandra_31Hi, I am going to have my 3rd soon. And thinking of getting this done. Any side effects for you in longer run and how was the recovery?

    • @edithalexandra_31
      @edithalexandra_31 3 місяці тому

      @@mehndidesigns5814hi yes I say if you really want it do it, recovery was great I was walking as soon as surgery was done & I have no side effects☺️

  • @kiinhassan5841
    @kiinhassan5841 Рік тому +3

    Thank you I needed to hear this positive feedback I am doing mine in three weeks time this is my third kid and I am done.

  • @rantnotover5778
    @rantnotover5778 2 місяці тому

    I was going to get mine done after my second. I was 28 and my doctor said that I may regret it. At the time I was sure I wanted it because of my then 4 year marriage I felt id end up a single mother. I was technically living like one married to that particular man. I left him and some years later met a really good man and he wanted little ones. I told him how I almost had mine clapped. He had no little ones. Well now im pregnant with my 4th and have already signed consent forms to get mine removed. So I went on for research. Before your videos I watched this other lady's video and she had be second guessing out of fear. I know I dont want anymore. Then I found your video talking about the experience and once again I am on board and unafraid. I know everyone's experience is different but I still got comfort from your video. And I wanted to know the after math and once again you came through. Thanks queen this was so helpful

  • @essyisipho7793
    @essyisipho7793 Рік тому +2

    This is so refreshing. Thank you for sharing your experience!

  • @kaylajackson2716
    @kaylajackson2716 Рік тому +7

    I’m ready to get mines removed after my baby. I’m 28 and this is my second pregnancy and I’m suffering from HG horribly. I would love to have more kids but don’t want to get pregnant again. Every time I talk about it everyone is always pushing “make your man get a vasectomy” like no lol. It’s my choice to no longer want to get pregnant, no his.

    • @britneyclausell2551
      @britneyclausell2551 10 місяців тому

      I am 100 percent here for this comment
      I too have HG terribly and have two babies. I’m done and just got my procedure done
      Currently having a little pain

  • @alana2027
    @alana2027 Рік тому +5

    Your video has helped me. I watched both videos. I am getting mines done next month Feb 15th

  • @beautyinpearls2047
    @beautyinpearls2047 2 роки тому +4

    Video definitely eased my mind cause I’m majorly thinking about getting my tubes tied after birth once I have my son in February

  • @summermerrill2796
    @summermerrill2796 11 місяців тому +3

    I just got this done 2 days ago ❤️lil sore. Just figuring out how to shower today lol

  • @ashanteconway-braxton6909
    @ashanteconway-braxton6909 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video. It helped me reach my decision to get my tubes removed. I’m about to have my third csection. I really don’t want to go through that again. My pregnancies have been pretty hard on my body and the csections haven’t made it any easier. I’m 3 and done

  • @ari_181
    @ari_181 Рік тому

    Loved both of your videos, thanks for your honest feedback. Helping a lot of women with this intel. God Bless 🙌🏾

  • @tcowan33
    @tcowan33 Рік тому +5

    Makes me so sad about the lady with 5 kids that was denied! Women need to write letters to their doctors and tell them they will be liable for taking care of that child if they get pregnant after the doctor denies them tubal ligation lol these people are crazy.

    • @edithalexandra_31
      @edithalexandra_31 Рік тому +2

      That’s crazy she should of went to a different hospital because I think a woman has the right to choose whether she’s done having kids or not especially after a certain amount

  • @kendrafletcher2612
    @kendrafletcher2612 Рік тому +3

    I am having mine done 8/18/23. And this video just helped alot. Im going for it. I just had my 9th baby 8/7 and no more😮

    • @msh2244
      @msh2244 Рік тому

      How are you feeling?

    • @amandabee5138
      @amandabee5138 Рік тому

      Getting mine right along with this C-section in November

    • @cesiliaalva8286
      @cesiliaalva8286 Рік тому

      I’m getting mine done in 2 days how are u feeling now

    • @f.maria7835
      @f.maria7835 Рік тому +1

      I got mine a week ago and I'm so happy

    • @channappasc8151
      @channappasc8151 Рік тому

      @@f.maria7835 phone send mam

  • @rh7968
    @rh7968 Рік тому +2

    Very helpful I’m getting mine done today

  • @daniw4681
    @daniw4681 Рік тому +1

    Hello- I am hoping you see this comment I know this video is old. But I’ve had a complete tubal removal and at first everything was awesome, and now that my baby is a year my cycles has CHANGED. I used to be 3 days short and sweet, now it is every 3 weeks I am having a cycle and it is lasting about 4-5 days! Help!! Have you experienced this? Is everything still going good? I’m feeling I need to get EVERYTHING removed lol ..

  • @loveniefelix5793
    @loveniefelix5793 Рік тому +3

    I'm 29 years old I just got my remove on the 2 of March I have 2 girls I didn't plan to anymore children two c-section is more than enough.......

  • @blueribboneffect884
    @blueribboneffect884 Рік тому +2

    All of the negative videos I’ve seen were about PTLS (post tubal ligation syndrome). I’m scheduled for removal but this is a concern for me because it’s not something I was informed about.
    However many women, especially black women, suffer from it. There’s a whole community on FB with thousands. I have a lot of concerns now

    • @angelinanavarro8430
      @angelinanavarro8430 Рік тому +1

      Did you end up going through the procedure?

    • @reflectionsinthebible3579
      @reflectionsinthebible3579 Рік тому

      Hmmmm something to look into. Thanks for this comment.

    • @EbonnieTaylor
      @EbonnieTaylor 9 місяців тому

      I see that come up with a lot of folks that went from BC to that.
      I got mine done and had no issues.

  • @kimmidm89
    @kimmidm89 Рік тому

    I'm so glad I came across your update video. About to go in for mine and I was wonder how it would be a few years down the road.

  • @feleciawells8054
    @feleciawells8054 2 роки тому +4

    These questions are based off research so we want to know from someone experience if it true or how fast does these “sides effects “ occur or ever occur

    • @feleciawells8054
      @feleciawells8054 2 роки тому

      …About the dryness of vagina …and early menopause

  • @genissefranklin796
    @genissefranklin796 7 місяців тому

    I got mine removed last Thursday and the next day i developed a fever and vomiting went to the hospital and found out that i had a infection and pneumonia

  • @caseycoleman394
    @caseycoleman394 8 місяців тому +1

    I saw your first video. Thank you for that and this video as well. I will be 32 this year. I have no kids or no desire to have any(pregnancy wise). I would rather adopt a child who needs a home. I have my first consultation on April 1st. Think of it as: a birthday present to myself(as well) 😂😂😜

  • @MisssVeronicaDior69
    @MisssVeronicaDior69 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for this video I searched this topic because Im that 1% out of 99% After having my tubes tied for 5 years 4 years later I had a ectopic pregnancy and got both tubes removed NOW my periods are heavier, clotting & major migraines like never before, are you worried about scar tissue as time goes by?

  • @chepriebrown9621
    @chepriebrown9621 7 місяців тому +1

    Mines is tomorrow, and I'm sure but nervous about the process

    • @jacquandajackson2068
      @jacquandajackson2068 7 місяців тому

      Hey! Just following up. How's the recovery going? I'm in the process of scheduling.

  • @Nguyening22
    @Nguyening22 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for your videos on this topic! I’m getting mine removed next week.

  • @marieleblanc759
    @marieleblanc759 Рік тому +5

    I got my tubes tied at 25 and I truly REGRET it I have four beautiful children 1 girl & 3 boys !!

    • @soledadtorres497
      @soledadtorres497 Рік тому +1

      Why do you regret? Sorry thinking of getting my tied after brith doing so much research on this !

    • @julielocke4128
      @julielocke4128 Рік тому

      Why do you regret it I'm 26 and with four kids as well I'm going next month to get it done...just trying to talk to someone as well with four babies and around the same age

    • @naimae3973
      @naimae3973 Рік тому

      Why? Did u have side effects?

    • @brandyturner8511
      @brandyturner8511 Рік тому +1

      I got mines tied at at 26 and I’m 28 now and I regret it too I’m looking into tubal Reversal as we speak

    • @hippie1252
      @hippie1252 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@brandyturner8511Do you regret it because you want more kids?

  • @deshaknowles4303
    @deshaknowles4303 4 місяці тому

    I swear I feel like your story is my story I am from the Bahamas and I am 30 years old I have 2 boys one is 6yrs and the other is 7 months I wanted a boy and a girl but I got 2 boys and I’m done either way I just got my tubes removed yesterday I didn’t get it the way you did I got a incision under my belly and I’m only painful when I try to move or get up to use the bathroom my husband doesn’t want anymore kids as well we both agreed on it I couldn’t wait to get it over with I have a follow up appointment on Friday and they gave me 4 weeks off from work every one always talking bout no don’t do it or u should try for your girl but I don’t wanna chance that and I get another boy and on top of that they not gonna be there to help with all the extra kids when they don’t help with the ones we have now our pockets can’t afford more kids and they not gonna dip in there pockets for us nor would we ask them to. But yea I feel like you were telling my story. lol

  • @anandajohnson415
    @anandajohnson415 2 роки тому

    Thanks so much for answering all my concerns ❤

  • @reflectionsinthebible3579
    @reflectionsinthebible3579 Рік тому

    I’m gonna ask my doctor how the eggs move out if they do? Also, she says my mom had cancer cells so she had a hysterectomy. But seriously, I don’t want that. So…gonna have to talk with the doc more about this. My biggest worry is getting pregnant anyway (after tubes removed) knowing my luck (pregnant now six years after tube tie). And not wanting to go through surgury-AGAIN.

  • @luticiasmall817
    @luticiasmall817 3 місяці тому

    I'm 40 years old no kids I got a lot of nieces and nephews n I'm a grandma of two Kingston n reign my boyfriend passed away October 30th last years we was together for ten years his daughter had a lil boy n his stepdaughter had a lil girl so I'm good I'm trying to get a hysterectomy n get this shit out of me

  • @deshaknowles4303
    @deshaknowles4303 4 місяці тому

    I swear I feel like your story is my story I have 2 boys one is 6yrs and the other is 7 months I wanted a boy and a girl but I got 2 boys and I’m done either way I just got my tubes removed yesterday I didn’t get it the way you did I got a incision under my belly and I’m only painful when I try to move or get up to use the bathroom my husband doesn’t want anymore kids as well we bout agreed on it I couldn’t wait to get it over with I have a follow up appointment on Friday and they gave me 4 weeks off from work every one always talking bout no don’t do it or u sud try for your girl but I don’t wanna chance that and I get another boy and on top of that they not gonna be there to help with all the extra kids when they don’t help with the ones we have now our pockets can’t afford more kids and they not gonna dip in there pockets for us nor would we ask them to. But yea I feel like you were telling my story. lol

  • @TheMsFord09
    @TheMsFord09 Рік тому +3

    Hi Taliah. I really want to get a tubal removal but I'm seeing that alot of people are saying they had alot of weight gain after. I still feel like that would be better than having another baby but did you have weight gain as a side effect?

    • @TaliahJenee
      @TaliahJenee  Рік тому +2

      No I didn’t have weight gain😊

    • @TheMsFord09
      @TheMsFord09 Рік тому +1

      @@TaliahJenee Thank youu. I'm so ready to get mine and have that peace of mind lol.

    • @essyisipho7793
      @essyisipho7793 Рік тому +2

      Pregnancy makes you put on weight too 😅.

    • @EbonnieTaylor
      @EbonnieTaylor 9 місяців тому

      I haven’t had that side effect. I also have PCOS

  • @ladymarie1222
    @ladymarie1222 Рік тому +3

    Im gettin mines 2m im 29 and i have an 8 years old and 2 year old twins I AM DONE

  • @tcowan33
    @tcowan33 Рік тому +4

    8:21 I wanted a tubal after my first at 22 and no one would do it because I was too young. Finally got it done a few days ago at 33 still after 1 child. Lol so glad my birth control lasted those 12 years lol
    Day 3 and I’m fine, belly button sore when I move because I actually have a belly lol but they did say I have uterine fibroids, so that makes me even more happy I got it done.

    • @reflectionsinthebible3579
      @reflectionsinthebible3579 Рік тому

      How does it help with uterine fibroids if you still have your uterus?

    • @tcowan33
      @tcowan33 Рік тому +1

      @@reflectionsinthebible3579 it doesn’t, but the doc said that was the only way to know that I had the fibroids. I just like to have information. I’ve probably had them for over 15 years and would have never known. It explained why I probably had such terrible periods when I was younger and that I could have them again since I’m no longer on birth control.

  • @maliavang946
    @maliavang946 Рік тому +1

    Im debating about to getting my done due to having csection, but do you have any symptoms now? I keep hearing that women who get there tubes tied have bad side effects years later and thats whats stopping me.

    • @TaliahJenee
      @TaliahJenee  Рік тому +5

      I’m approaching year 4, and still no symptoms.

  • @jadebrown4919
    @jadebrown4919 Рік тому +3

    It can give you symptoms of early menopause, they told me those side effects after I got mine taken out I just got them done yesterday

    • @kaylajackson2716
      @kaylajackson2716 Рік тому +1

      Interesting I thought only if you got your ovaries removed then you’d go through early menopause. Lol I’m still getting mines done after my baby.

    • @aaaproject
      @aaaproject Рік тому +1

      My doctor said the same thing, this will NOT put a woman into early menopause. That was a deal breaker for me if it did .

  • @tkeylove3148
    @tkeylove3148 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for the video...I am pregnant with my 2nd child and wanted to get my tubes removed but didn't know this was an option...I am so happy..I tried to get my tubes tied at 21 and they didn't let me said I was to young..but I am 29 now so I do not want to hear Icant get it done lol. The lady baby may have passed away reason why she regret it and now she may not have any kids ever

  • @nezukouchia8929
    @nezukouchia8929 Рік тому +5

    I guess some ppl is dry down there after having that removed? Just saying, ppl body is different.

  • @abigailwilson8683
    @abigailwilson8683 Рік тому +2

    I had my remove and i am in pain i did minds 3 days ago

  • @jessicab331
    @jessicab331 4 місяці тому +1

    I wanted to know about the sex drive and dryness too… it’s not tryna be in your business like that it’s really a concern.😩

  • @sreesweety3931
    @sreesweety3931 Рік тому +1

    Hi..do you have scars on

  • @abigailwilson8683
    @abigailwilson8683 Рік тому +2

    I have alot of gas pain did u get that

    • @edithalexandra_31
      @edithalexandra_31 Рік тому +2

      The only gas pain I got was in my shoulder but after a few days & walking it helps a lot girl, don’t worry those side effects only last a few days

    • @britneyclausell2551
      @britneyclausell2551 10 місяців тому

      I just got mine done and I’m having that same gas pain in my shoulders

  • @shawnjeffers7070
    @shawnjeffers7070 Рік тому +1

    Did you have to go under general anesthesia?

  • @nezukouchia8929
    @nezukouchia8929 Рік тому +8

    I'm thinking about it and I DON'T WANT NO MORE KIDS. I DON'T MISS DIAPERS ALL THAT

    • @amberkarim6924
      @amberkarim6924 Рік тому

      Do u recommend c section tube removal or laproscopy

  • @reneerodgers50
    @reneerodgers50 3 місяці тому

    Can you get pregnant with your tubes cut and tired

  • @jacquillacole9366
    @jacquillacole9366 10 місяців тому

    I went to the doctor today all i been through i dont want anymore kids one and done...(. Mother of 1) I want to be free and i dont want kids holding me back with jobs going out etc ... I love my son even tho i wanted a girl first but happy with him....Im not about to have all those kids hell no power to the ones who just let men do them any type of way to their bodies 😂😅😅..... Single mom and will be free again soon 😂.... Life goes on if i want kids ill just go through adoption from a infant

  • @midnight5080
    @midnight5080 Рік тому

    Tied or removed? 2 different things.

    • @TaliahJenee
      @TaliahJenee  Рік тому +1

      Removed

    • @aaaproject
      @aaaproject Рік тому +1

      Tubes actually don't get "tied" in general, it's just an old statement that's stuck around. Eek lol .

  • @reflectionsinthebible3579
    @reflectionsinthebible3579 Рік тому +1

    Laziness??