“This Keeps 99% Broke & Depressed” - Fix This NOW | Dr. John Delony

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    Timestamps:
    Understanding Anxiety W/ John Delony - 0:44
    Insights From A Crisis Negotiator - 5:12
    Why Anxiety & Depression Are On The Rise - 9:36
    Why John DOESN'T Believe In The DSM - 19:10
    John Explains The New Reward Systems in Children - 26:40
    The “Choose Your Hard” Framework - 36:42
    Spirituality's Influence on Happiness - 43:34
    Impact of Travel Sports on American Families - 50:15
    How To Read Body Language Like A Good Therapist - 51:50
    Environmental vs Genetic Factors in Anxiety - 1:04:02
    Why John’s Daughter Wouldn’t Hug Him… - 1:05:53
    How To Communicate Effectively In Relationships - 1:15:44
    Why Marriage Is Hard - 1:40:44
    Strategies For Tough Conversations W/ Partners - 1:54:44
    When To Make A Decision For Somebody Else - 2:02:45
    Do People Create Their Own Problems? - 2:10:39
    How To Deal W/ Your Child Bully - 2:24:14
    John’s #1 WORRY For The Next Generation - 2:31:56
    Closing Thoughts - 2:34:18
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 276

  • @rrennnerr
    @rrennnerr 23 дні тому +477

    Dr. John Delony is THE best Ramsey personality.

  • @theparodychannel7842
    @theparodychannel7842 23 дні тому +161

    Ramsey for wealth
    Delony for health!

  • @Stewstories
    @Stewstories 22 дні тому +50

    Man this is one of your guys best podcasts hands down. I didn’t know I needed to hear some of the things John said. It really made me think about my life and how I can improve myself.

  • @BorisBidjanSaberi11
    @BorisBidjanSaberi11 23 дні тому +99

    I spend 15 minutes or less on social media a day now as someone who grew up with it. It's great
    Break free

    • @austinchapman2233
      @austinchapman2233 22 дні тому +4

      What is UA-cam tv?

    • @gabrielegagliardi3956
      @gabrielegagliardi3956 21 день тому +2

      I've deleted every social but UA-cam, I don't miss Facebook or ig a bit. Overall my life is much better.

    • @royekorolik4109
      @royekorolik4109 21 день тому +7

      Isn't this video 2h?

    • @BrightsonDavid
      @BrightsonDavid 5 днів тому

      @@royekorolik4109 He must have taken 10 days to watch the whole thing i guess 😂

  • @sherriebreese3524
    @sherriebreese3524 11 днів тому +8

    Could have listened to another two and a half hours. This was solid gold.

  • @marianarico2407
    @marianarico2407 23 дні тому +63

    Excited to watch this episode when I’m not busy because dr John Delony is the best

  • @Joshdaniel00
    @Joshdaniel00 23 дні тому +75

    I love Dr. John. Thank you so much for having him on!

  • @user-fs5cl2od8q
    @user-fs5cl2od8q 23 дні тому +44

    Exceptional guest. We always enjoy Dr John.

  • @sami_thomas
    @sami_thomas 23 дні тому +18

    Great podcast! I appreciate how Graham and Jack have diverse interests, from finance to philosophy, and are genuinely interested in the opinions and thought processes of people who hold a variety of beliefs. Please keep growing and exploring new topics.

  • @dreskie6993
    @dreskie6993 11 днів тому +5

    This is top 4 interview on UA-cam easyyyy

  • @vaughan4254
    @vaughan4254 23 дні тому +29

    this is a really really important vid for many ppl today

  • @rachaelholderman9677
    @rachaelholderman9677 23 дні тому +11

    Love this episode! When people have back and forth like this we come to better understanding of things and think about things that we would have never entered our minds before!

  • @StrangerDanger-ph7vl
    @StrangerDanger-ph7vl 23 дні тому +31

    DELONY 1 MILLION SPECIAL COULDN’T HAVE BEEN A BETTER PICK 🎉🎉🎉

  • @cjtantay
    @cjtantay 20 днів тому +5

    I will always tune in for Dr. John Delony.

  • @dk1828
    @dk1828 23 дні тому +15

    Dr D! Of course I’m here for this! 🙌

  • @lukescapee1234
    @lukescapee1234 23 дні тому +14

    Love Dr. John! Happy 1M subs btw! 🎉

  • @Ryberg2.0
    @Ryberg2.0 23 дні тому +4

    You guys are doing a GREAT job with the podcast! You both interview so well! And you've really had some great guests over the last 6 months!

  • @GraceNcube
    @GraceNcube 23 дні тому +8

    Soooo good and important! Keep it up!

  • @ZevSchtroks
    @ZevSchtroks 23 дні тому +10

    Congrats on the 1 million subs!!

  • @fatimaserrano1904
    @fatimaserrano1904 23 дні тому +1

    I dont know how, but your episodes always help me with thigs that im currently living, thank you so much and congrats for the 1 M!!!

  • @thebigredfish
    @thebigredfish 18 днів тому +1

    Great convo. Thanks guys!

  • @flashthecorgi2053
    @flashthecorgi2053 23 дні тому +10

    AMAZING interview!!! Dr. John Delony is the BEST personality by far!!! ❤

  • @jimalvarez5042
    @jimalvarez5042 19 днів тому +2

    This Dr. Delony video was so good. I feel like these were topics i always had thought about but didn't know how to explain. Delony really explain things in a clear way that's also easy to understand

  • @ErinChisman
    @ErinChisman 17 днів тому +2

    This was truly one of the most interesting shows you guys have done thus far. Touched on so many important topics! I really enjoyed this and learned a lot.

  • @PhotoDaveJax
    @PhotoDaveJax 23 дні тому +5

    EXCELLENT conversation! 👍👍👍👍

  • @chriswienandt736
    @chriswienandt736 23 дні тому +17

    Amazing podcast, great episode watched the whole thing great topics

    • @TheIcedCoffeeHour
      @TheIcedCoffeeHour  23 дні тому +6

      Must’ve watched on 100x speed 🫣

    • @chriswienandt736
      @chriswienandt736 23 дні тому +1

      😂 I look forward to your podcasts every Sunday thanks for everything!

  • @brittneygunter8165
    @brittneygunter8165 21 день тому +4

    Best podcast I have watched all year, maybe all decade. So much wisdom

  • @user-xx6hs2qv3s
    @user-xx6hs2qv3s 23 дні тому +3

    Wow, great show !! Thanks for!!

  • @jsevakis
    @jsevakis 23 дні тому +5

    Two of my favorite YT talk shows combine, Voltron-style

  • @danielwagner2636
    @danielwagner2636 23 дні тому +14

    The Ramsey collaborations are great

  • @Garchomp10501
    @Garchomp10501 23 дні тому +4

    My 2 favorite people in same podcast

  • @grandsea2
    @grandsea2 23 дні тому +8

    Not many channels out there that can talk about the tabot topics of the day in such a thoughtful way that only the most hypersensitive can walk away offended...this channel is among only a handful that I always walk away from listening to it thinking everyone needs more of this in their life. Cheers, happy Sunday everyone, hope you wake up tomorrow knowing it is a new opportunity to achieve what you haven't yet...

  • @gregorygerbrandt6812
    @gregorygerbrandt6812 19 днів тому

    What a GREAT guest, conversation, and episode. I couldn't stop watching! Nice work, fellas!

  • @rachelmcbride5654
    @rachelmcbride5654 21 день тому +1

    Fantastic podcast, as always. Great job! LOVE John Delony, he makes so much sense.

  • @thenerdymillennial
    @thenerdymillennial 21 день тому +1

    I have his two most recent books and they both have changed my life...Dr John is goodest boi and he must be protected at all costs!

  • @jakedominguez2475
    @jakedominguez2475 23 дні тому +1

    Thank you guys!

  • @courtneycamera1
    @courtneycamera1 19 днів тому +1

    Holy smokes! This was SO GOOD! Loved all of the perspectives and how it made John so much more real than how he can appear on his show because he’s just talking about other peoples lives. Great content, great questions. Hope you guys are enjoying all of the fun content that you are branching out and doing!

  • @sarahwarner7213
    @sarahwarner7213 18 днів тому +1

    Great episode!❤

  • @ElsieA_Piano
    @ElsieA_Piano 19 днів тому

    Thank you for inviting Dr. John Delony again for the podcast! This episode was a great one!

  • @Therese_M
    @Therese_M 15 днів тому

    This was such a great conversation

  • @jdstrategic
    @jdstrategic 23 дні тому +4

    Great episode gang

  • @iguanavision1076
    @iguanavision1076 23 дні тому +4

    Just noticed the 1M Subs. Congratulations 👍😁

  • @jacejunk
    @jacejunk 15 днів тому +1

    I really appreciate when John shares the story of the Lytle family. Great folks, and the intentionality in their family makes sense.

  • @Ahmed822100
    @Ahmed822100 23 дні тому +3

    one of the best episodes. ❤

  • @andies2023
    @andies2023 14 днів тому +1

    Great show!

  • @susannaspence4512
    @susannaspence4512 5 днів тому +1

    Favorite guest so far, John is such an amazing person!

  • @kristinbolton5679
    @kristinbolton5679 15 днів тому

    Great interview ❤

  • @eandrgoodwin
    @eandrgoodwin 22 дні тому

    This was a long one, but so worth it! I’m glad I stuck with it!

  • @NextGenEvs
    @NextGenEvs 21 день тому +2

    John is awesome! Love it

  • @meganwhitaker1929
    @meganwhitaker1929 5 днів тому

    John, I've been listen you to since your very first podcast on the Ramsey network. you are a treasure to our time. Loved this podcast!!!

  • @AnthonyGhandour
    @AnthonyGhandour 22 дні тому

    Congrats on 1 million subscribers!

  • @successwithstacee9290
    @successwithstacee9290 22 дні тому

    I’ve been here since the beginning and now you’re at 1 mil. Congratulations

  • @audreybeaudry5991
    @audreybeaudry5991 19 днів тому

    It is great to see John in a mentor role to you guys and it been recorded so we can be informed.

  • @shikhaM1
    @shikhaM1 23 дні тому +26

    Congrats on 1 million 🎉

  • @mazztakastri
    @mazztakastri 20 днів тому

    Man I love this episode. Will for sure watch it a few more times

  • @elanafelberg1733
    @elanafelberg1733 23 дні тому +7

    OMG!! Yes yes yes!! I couldn't click fast enough!

  • @Ana-xq3yr
    @Ana-xq3yr 23 дні тому +6

    I love John Delony! His show reminds me of Ricki Lake without the clout, only sound advice!

  • @BrittanySimon
    @BrittanySimon 22 дні тому +1

    Great crossover ❤

  • @Dancing_Alone_wRentals
    @Dancing_Alone_wRentals 22 дні тому

    He said something vital......but now I can't remember.
    Well....Now I need to start at the beginning. There was a lot to this talk, tHanks for getting together; tHanks for the video

  • @ColombianLNP
    @ColombianLNP 19 днів тому +1

    Wow amazing guest!

  • @PhotoDaveJax
    @PhotoDaveJax 23 дні тому +2

    I like the synchronized sign off. 👍👍

  • @sammyspataro6469
    @sammyspataro6469 20 днів тому

    Great podcast

  • @jeffrounsville4961
    @jeffrounsville4961 22 дні тому +2

    Great video

  • @teresamycelia
    @teresamycelia 19 днів тому

    I like John even more now! Great interview thanks!

  • @jeremy_logan
    @jeremy_logan 23 дні тому +6

    Love Delony!!

  • @user-ts3nk1te3m
    @user-ts3nk1te3m 22 дні тому +1

    A few more adds would be dope! Thanks

  • @jayster426
    @jayster426 11 днів тому +1

    This was a great episode. Entertaining and educational

  • @zachwilliamson13
    @zachwilliamson13 22 дні тому

    This is fantastic

  • @flynneves3152
    @flynneves3152 23 дні тому

    I would say especially for mental health conoditions, the tricky thing is when your body's response is getting in the way of day to day functioning, or stops you frmo being able to do the things that you need to help yourself to get to a better point. Best to get help if you're getting to a point where you're losing hope and suffering extensively

  • @funfionn2045
    @funfionn2045 17 днів тому

    This was a very interesting podcast, I learned a lot from it.

  • @jondurand12
    @jondurand12 23 дні тому +18

    Jack, I would love to see you have a Christian on the podcast to answer your questions. Sounds like you are interested in the faith like many of us are!

  • @EarlsPearls
    @EarlsPearls 20 днів тому

    I sent this to a few people great listen. I have issues on the other side, I have no anxiety or worries even during turbulent times and cant relate to my wife who stresses about every little thing. To me as long as you make choices after thinking things through then the results are the results and you did your best. If had periods of oife I worked 2 full time jobs and it just was what it was. Now Im in a good spot and its part hard work part luck but I dont really think of the oast often.

  • @rickreaves7528
    @rickreaves7528 20 днів тому +1

    I couldn't have loved this podcast more

  • @gavinbarragan2419
    @gavinbarragan2419 22 дні тому

    This podcast always has the best guests

  • @Monica-ho4np
    @Monica-ho4np 20 днів тому

    We want more!!!

  • @DayrusBPB
    @DayrusBPB 23 дні тому +12

    SSRI. The worst thing to give to the depressed.

    • @ianperez5350
      @ianperez5350 20 днів тому +2

      Idk man I started SSRIs and it’s been fantastic. Helped me break out of a bad cycle and bad thoughts.

    • @DayrusBPB
      @DayrusBPB 20 днів тому +1

      @@ianperez5350 Yea depends, but some got off their meds for any reason and became (self) destructive though. Natural habits like sunlight, sleep, exercise, diet, etc would do some good.

  • @Dtyler171
    @Dtyler171 17 днів тому +1

    I listen to every episode of the Delony podcast, man is the GOAT

  • @Cameraqueen14
    @Cameraqueen14 20 днів тому

    It's interesting to hear from someone with 'a very particular set of skills'. I grew up outside of the states and coming to the states was a massive culture shock. Only in the states was I introduced to the concept of gratitude shaming. The states is not the best country in the world. It's the best for some. Just as any other country is the best country for some. I have friends who moved to different parts of the world of their own accord and love where they live now. I know people who moved to the states voluntarily and love it. There's no question that some people's lives would've significantly improved in another country if only they'd had the opportunity to leave. I've never understood why shaming those who are suffering is part of any culture, nor why beliefs must be imposed or forced on anyone who doesn't agree. The difference is choice. People are happy because they were able to leave a situation which didn't suit them, because they were allowed to live where they voluntarily chose- not forcibly transferred and entrapped in a foreign environment to which they're unable to adapt. Most of those who are gratitude shaming haven't spent a great deal of time living in these countries and are basing their entire belief system solely on propaganda. I've dispelled so many rumours about places which simply aren't true at all. I could list a thousand worse incidents off the top of my head, worse than what happens in these 'countries we should be afraid of' ('The Village' comes to mind). Sure they're not for everyone- but then again, neither is the states.

  • @francestaylor9156
    @francestaylor9156 4 дні тому

    1:44:28 - what changes about being married is that you're saying you're going to stick by this person until the end. You announce to your family and friends that this is your ride or die. And you promise to this person that you will be their ride or die. That means going through REALLY hard shit together. And if you actually care about your vows (aka the promises you make to others) that means you'll be with them through times when you might even like them. It means sacrificing your ego at times for the benefit of the marriage. It's different from just being together. Not being married means you have an out. When you get married, you're saying that's it. Through thick and thin. Read the vows and really analyze what they say. As a person who's been married for 17 years and together for 21 years, you realize that marriage means a lot more than just getting together.
    1:46:33 - 100%. Just committing to your vows and saying we WILL stay together. And try and work on yourselves to make the marriage work. You don't just bail when it gets hard. Now if your other partner refuses to do the growth required to maintain the changes that happen in a marriage, then that's really really hard because they are not being serious about their side of the vows.

  • @brucerowe2895
    @brucerowe2895 20 днів тому

    I am glad you brought up Jack's concern about happiness. To be happy means a lot of things, pleasing your parents, and other family members, especially, helping your kids, your wife, I don't think it is a continued experience all the time. Your are happy when you have done a good, job, happy when you have pick a winner stock. But all these things take planning and work. I like the answer John Derlony came up with.

  • @user-fi4gd6ev4s
    @user-fi4gd6ev4s 21 день тому

    Pretty excited that John is going on other podcasts! Now lets get to the next level! Here is a challenge for ya
    Go on these podcasts next
    -Chris Williamson
    -Impact Theory - Tom Bilyeu
    -Andrew Huberman

  • @marcosrivas8651
    @marcosrivas8651 23 дні тому +2

    Dr John is the best ramsey personality because hes the one who lives in reality in that building!

  • @philiplevasseur8549
    @philiplevasseur8549 22 дні тому

    yes recovering addictic of 17 years. Thanks John

  • @tyelrs837
    @tyelrs837 23 дні тому +3

    Look up what penn-testers say and the flipper zero. Electronic door locks are not more secure.

  • @charollatecrowe6475
    @charollatecrowe6475 13 днів тому

    Indeed a list of all these books y’all mention. Sound like some great books to read.

  • @brucerowe2895
    @brucerowe2895 21 день тому

    Happy Birthday Birthday Graham.!

  • @yingyang7448
    @yingyang7448 23 дні тому +3

    How does this not have more views?

  • @natebrome3089
    @natebrome3089 20 днів тому +3

    john is the only ramsey personality besides dave that i like. hes just an incredible guy who is himself. where i feel all the others just try to mimic dave

  • @waitingforthemothership
    @waitingforthemothership 23 дні тому +1

    ODD is intense! One of my first clients when I worked in behavioral health was a woman diagnosed with oppositional defiance order. She was hilariously funny. Had the best comebacks and one liners and we had a lot of fun together. But when she was having behaviors she would literally need to be placed in a padded room. She once ate her own coat.

  • @colinbeckstrand2612
    @colinbeckstrand2612 21 день тому

    Goodfellow Tees are actually great. I got a few colors and I love them.

  • @pumpkin6464
    @pumpkin6464 19 днів тому

    Guys!!!!! I want the whole conversation! Not a chopped up one

  • @scott8934
    @scott8934 23 дні тому +6

    21:21 Graham summed up the observatory conclusion I’ve reached on the LGBT movement.

    • @tabby551
      @tabby551 23 дні тому +2

      I'm curious how you equate mental illness to sexual orientation? Or are you just showing your bias and showing you think having a different sexual orientation than you is a mental illness?

    • @shoutatthesky
      @shoutatthesky 23 дні тому

      @@tabby551 It doesn't take much to make that association! Look at the number of gays and lesbians that were abused. Look at how they live! And trans people - well they are clearly delusional on a purely logical basis! You need to check your bias!

  • @purplerube1038
    @purplerube1038 22 дні тому +1

    It’s ridiculous that rational and reasonable discussions can not be had without censorship.

  • @user-in8el2oq6y
    @user-in8el2oq6y 19 днів тому

    Friendship is hard. It is just that we have changed the definition to include all your people on Facebook, co-workers, or whatever. In reality, you keep up with maybe a handful of people that have your full trust and attention. I also think this is why marriages also fail so much since we have blurred the lines of married and dating so rules and expectations have started to apply to both in similar or same way.

  • @Imzadi
    @Imzadi 17 днів тому +1

    Love Deloney ❤

  • @colegreene2153
    @colegreene2153 22 дні тому

    Heeessss back

  • @stevewhite4231
    @stevewhite4231 20 днів тому +1

    I LOVE IT. "Its a decision.. come hell or high water we stay together". Add kids to the marriage and it really changes. Will people be willing to sacrifice for them?

  • @DeathSpellXVI
    @DeathSpellXVI 19 днів тому

    A good human, honestly I feel like he's someone who really feels for others and wants to genuinely help somehow,, not just in to make money. This world is too fucked though, so he has a tough job.

  • @txterbug
    @txterbug 22 дні тому

    Big difference between anxiety and panic disorder

  • @saulgoodman2018
    @saulgoodman2018 22 дні тому +3

    He is not a Harvard expert. He just have a education management cert from Harvard.

    • @Dendrite20
      @Dendrite20 22 дні тому

      Glad someone else said this