On the topic of meeting someone and being vulnerable, one thing that stuck with me is the idea that ‘our capacity to love is not finite.’ For us hopeless romantics, giving love freely to those around us and in new connections is okay. Being open, vulnerable, and true to yourself doesn’t diminish your ability to build a meaningful relationship. Even if things don’t work out or rejection stings, it’s important not to let that make you bitter. Remember, your capacity to love and connect remains endless-each experience adds to your journey!
people come to our lives, its either they are lesson or a blessing to us. but still i consider them a blessing because they taught us, and bad things happen to us turn us best version of ourself. just find the bright side in every dark moment ^_^ enjoy ur day always Joy..
In my 20's i was humping everything and getting to all kinds of relationships to the point that sex became a turn off. i went celibate for years and didn't get into a relationship for 10 years.
hi joy, i really enjoy the authenticity and those little zoom edits were funny. totally agree that living life with a full heart is key even thru the toughest times and even when it feels impossible. being romantic is rough but i believe there's someone for everyone. down to chat and exchange thoughts if you have the time!
The cracked pot In a small village, nestled among the hills, there lived an elderly water bearer. Everyday he carried two large pots, each hung on the end of a long pole that he balanced across his shoulders. The water bearer would walk down for the river, fill both pots with water, abd then carry them back to the village. One of the pots was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. But the other pot had a crack in it. By the time water bearer returned to the village, half of the water in the cracked pot had leaked out along the way. This went on for years with water bearer delivering only 1,5 pots of water to the village each day. The perfect pot was proud of its accomplishment, but the cracked pot was ashame of its imperfection. It felt like it was failing to do its job properly. One day the cracked pot spoke to the water bearer as they made their wai down to the river. "I am ashamed of myself, the pot said. Everyday i lose water along the path and by the time we reach the village. I am only half full. I'am a failure" The water bearer smiled gently and said: "Have you noticed the flowers tha grow along your side of the path? But, not on the other side. Thats because I have always known about you. So I planted flower seeds along your side of the path. And everyday as we walk back from the river, you've been watering them. For years i have been able to pick this beatifull flowers to decorate the village. Without you being just the way you are there wouldn't be these lovely flowers bringing beauty & JOY to everyone."
Ive been following you for some time. I think you should try another concept or topic or theme for your videos… bcs your videos look really similar at least for me. But just my two cents
On the topic of meeting someone and being vulnerable, one thing that stuck with me is the idea that ‘our capacity to love is not finite.’ For us hopeless romantics, giving love freely to those around us and in new connections is okay. Being open, vulnerable, and true to yourself doesn’t diminish your ability to build a meaningful relationship. Even if things don’t work out or rejection stings, it’s important not to let that make you bitter. Remember, your capacity to love and connect remains endless-each experience adds to your journey!
this is beautiful :") imma pin it
I definitely needed to hear this.
I'm turning 26 and I have never been in a relationship 😢 I would love to become a mom.
I love this video. I felt like I needed to hear this.
awee happy to hear!
people come to our lives, its either they are lesson or a blessing to us. but still i consider them a blessing because they taught us, and bad things happen to us turn us best version of ourself. just find the bright side in every dark moment ^_^ enjoy ur day always Joy..
thats true!
In my 20's i was humping everything and getting to all kinds of relationships to the point that sex became a turn off. i went celibate for years and didn't get into a relationship for 10 years.
I keep looking forward to monday night because thats when your videos get released in India i love hearing your thoughts :)
aww thank youu :)
hi joy, i really enjoy the authenticity and those little zoom edits were funny. totally agree that living life with a full heart is key even thru the toughest times and even when it feels impossible. being romantic is rough but i believe there's someone for everyone. down to chat and exchange thoughts if you have the time!
aww i appreciate this :- ) and ya holding onto that hope!
@@joyfullencounters yw, yeah inject that hope into the hopeless; after all the full is in your name
The cracked pot
In a small village, nestled among the hills, there lived an elderly water bearer. Everyday he carried two large pots, each hung on the end of a long pole that he balanced across his shoulders. The water bearer would walk down for the river, fill both pots with water, abd then carry them back to the village. One of the pots was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. But the other pot had a crack in it. By the time water bearer returned to the village, half of the water in the cracked pot had leaked out along the way. This went on for years with water bearer delivering only 1,5 pots of water to the village each day. The perfect pot was proud of its accomplishment, but the cracked pot was ashame of its imperfection. It felt like it was failing to do its job properly. One day the cracked pot spoke to the water bearer as they made their wai down to the river. "I am ashamed of myself, the pot said. Everyday i lose water along the path and by the time we reach the village. I am only half full. I'am a failure"
The water bearer smiled gently and said: "Have you noticed the flowers tha grow along your side of the path? But, not on the other side. Thats because I have always known about you. So I planted flower seeds along your side of the path. And everyday as we walk back from the river, you've been watering them. For years i have been able to pick this beatifull flowers to decorate the village. Without you being just the way you are there wouldn't be these lovely flowers bringing beauty & JOY to everyone."
Find someone you vibe with, have your standards but work on things together. It takes both people to commit for it to work in the long run
1000%
Ive been following you for some time. I think you should try another concept or topic or theme for your videos… bcs your videos look really similar at least for me. But just my two cents
ooh what would you like to see more of!
Try 10,585 days 😭
500 days of being single. Lol try 34 years.
nah don't want to
Wtf
Then let's go on a date
bruh
did that ever work for you?
@@tessellationarts2971 haha