How To Be A 1% Man Sexy Girls Find Intimidating (w/ Sadia Khan)
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That's largely dependent on your genetics, so what's the point?
lol pretty sure you can't help me
It mostly depends on what you think is beautiful.@@stians.6912
A lot of Uber drivers are smashing these pin up, trophy wives on the side (just saying).
Forget this lady for smashing uber drivers after talking about starving artists. They make way over an average person even part time.
FINALLY! A woman who acknowledges how difficult a man’s life is.
Well, consider doing it for yourself and not for women. It is very fulfilling and nothing is difficult about it once you get things in a working order, it just becomes your life.
I don’t envy you guys, but thank you for being you ❤
Maybe she is right. But a man’s life is very easy. We just have to work hard, develop ourselves and a make a lot of fun. 🎉
That’s why I kinda trust her.
She is grifting
The trick as she says is don't subordinate yourself to her beauty.
She can always get someone else who worships her beauty 😂
All good and Gelly till middle than drops the BS will “women wants to see men doing their best to fulfill themselves”… wrong by any side, as always there will be another one that seams they’ll do more, better, etc. and his life goes on, yet she’s finding his self fullfilllent spiraling, while she’s only enjoying the benefits of his ups.
Check that lady who feels your potential and wants to be part of its fulfillment while fulfilling her owns while on that ride.
a lesson we all men learn a little too late
I would surely like a man who doesn't subordinate to my beauty. Compliment it, see it. You don't have to subordinate to it.
Her beauty is just a cheap illusion based on her age and makeup (and sometimes surgery
She makes so much sense
Sadia ..., I am always impressed the way u give a true picture by ur point of view n the way u explain
She said it so simply and elegantly- women need men to do their best in fulfilling their potential. Men need to do their absolute best in life.
Experience plays big part in anything
Sadia is a great advisor. Thanks.
Advisor for what She is another princess I’m sure she is looking for a high value man Not average joe .
Instead of preventing the underlying problems and eliminating the cause you are trying to teach men that they are the only problem.
A man who recognizes her beauty and isn't phased by it by definition is a confident, self-assured man.
Define phased?
@@seanmaguire380 he doesn’t start simpin like she is the only beautiful woman he’s ever been around or dated.
The word is fazed not phased
@@achillesahuja5919 thanks for the English lesson on the YooToobs. You must be great at scrabble
Simp
All great advice. Let me summarize and simplify for you:
-Be cool, don't just act cool
-Don't simp for bit@hes
-Don't EVER put up with their bullish!t!
Woman play games they don't even realize they're playing. As she said, 'it's all subconscious'. They'll test you constantly to find where your 'edges' and boundaries are. If you give in or relax your boundaries, they lose respect. If they fall to the ground in a tantrum when you call them on their BS, they're toxic and will never be happy.
great words man, yeah I wish i could have seen this comment a few years back, but moment i learned that just keep yourself busy and work, The other person she just vanished from my thoughts. its that simple , Don't simp
Nah its not all subconcious, dont fall for it. They make it too easy for themselves and they have it "too easy", it always takes two to tango not one.
We definitely dont do it on purpose, but mentally always size men up. Even if we aren't a toxic woman we might exhibit traits early on, but calling out BS isnt necessarily being abusive to us, its more so taking your presence away if we dont fall in line. That makes us start respecting you and your boundaries.
She’s reading this it’s not her words
Amen!
When you treat someone like a rockstar, they will treat you like a fan.
deeper
Felt that man
- Fulfill your potential, do your best
- Don't play games, or you'll attract women that do the same (they can tell)
- Don't be intimidated by beauty, women are just as intimidated by a successful man
0:00 Counterproductive to Long Lasting Relationship
0:55 Communicate your standards
1:13 Standard Example
2:02 What helps a Man attract Women?
3:23 Be a busy Man!
4:26 Be a Strong Man, don't be phased by a beautiful woman
5:33 Result of Lack of experience with Beautiful Woman
7:05 What makes a man intimidating?
8:45 What a High Value Man means to Women?
9:03 Men have to do their absolute best!
10:17 Who has it harder, Men or Women?
11:54 Pressure on a Man
12:53 Necessary Skills for Women
14:42 Your Gender is your Superpower
15:25 Gender Equality
16:41 Romantic connections are the biggest predictor of life
I love that she admits an attractive woman doesn’t have to do anything other than look good whereas an equally ‘attractive’ man has to not only look good but be in great shape and have money and status etc. That is equality for you.
😂
You're allowed to be attracted to busy women. It's up to men what they're attracted to.
Man has to also be a physiologist to handle the mood swings.
@@thestorybehindthat5236 what is a ‘busy’ woman and why would any self respecting man want one???
@@michaeldelgado2107 I guess she's referring to women who work a lot and seize the day? I'm guessing a man who is attracted to motivated women who like to make the most of life would be attracted to a person like that. There's nothing stopping men from pursuing ambitious partners.
Translation: Be high value enough, so you can be yourself.
Money is just a cheat code. You can accomplish many of the same things with confidence and masculinity but it's harder. We're also taught money is so important that when we get a lot of it, it naturally makes us more self confident
@@andrewcarlson2178No, money wins everytime. You will never see a rich woman or a crazy hot woman woth a poor dude. No matter how hot or charming he is. Also, like you said, it's waaaay more work. Money bypasses all of that and puts you on a pedestal that broke dudes will never reach. You don't understand women. Their list of importance is as follows.
Attention
Money
Career
Friends
Her forever ex
Her man
Bingo
Completely and utterly wrong . Translation : genuine value is in your personal drive for self actualization.
Life is about you vs you fellas
@@TheMightyWalk Your comment is true and most important. But my comment is not utterly wrong.
Bollocks that people in their 30s still need to play chase. You like each other, talk.
"Wow, okay... I need to come correct" - this is definitely the reaction I had upon meeting my 1% man. The true work was in how I responded to our connection. I felt motivated to no longer just 'show up as the best version of me', I literally chose to level up so many habits on the back end of my life, so I would truly embody the high value woman I sought to become.
What makes your man a 1%
Totally, this is exactly it.
Beauty has nothing to do with intelligence, talent, etc. It's a way for women to use dumb men
Shouldn't all women "come correct" to whatever man she chooses to date? Isn't this basic human respect and decency? Why is a woman's best behavior only reserved for 1% men? Do you see why most men have given up on dating women? its because women have given up on acting correctly around men. Women only act correctly around 1% of men. The rest of us get women's shitty behavior, and we men shouldn't accept that bullshit. sorry Ladies, i wish it were different than this.
One of the reasons a man "levels up" is to attract a higher value woman. I don't see why the converse would be any different.
Just discovered her on a different video and I'm currently watching a few. This woman spits straight facts
Feminine Beautiful and Wise a great catch.
There's no bullshitting with her trust me. Would recommend her content any day
She is the Peter North of psychology
I do agree with a couple of points she made but she talks about superficial stuff that will sustain a relationship, and it will not. That's the reason the divorce rate is so high, because people are giving all this superficial advice. So if he is a CEO you are already attracted, no you are attracted to his money. And why should men aspire to get those instagram chicks she is talking about, only because they are hot. Yes they might be hot but shallow, most of them. Beauty and success will not sustain a relationship.
Her point regarding the CEO is that women get subconsciously attracted to busy and successful men. Not because of the money (if is genuine), but because she knows that we are respected by our peers and important for some people too.
You go ahead and starve looking at someone you don't like and wind up hating them
Re: the evil money, success and beauty...delusion...use your illusion
Andrew Tates words coming out of the mouth of a woman
Because he's honest
Your Guest, Sadia Khan seems to be a Classy Woman, who makes basic common sense, that So Many Young Women of today lack.
Let's hope all women think like her 🙄🙌 Because women say something else and do something else these days.
@@shamimanohar I'm so glad that not all women think like she does.
8:17: "He doesn't even have to talk: we're already attracted."
Listen to this. When you're attractive to the other party, there's nothing you really need to do. If you're resorting to game and romance to "convince" the other party to be attracted to you, you've already lost.
Do you mean "attracted", instead of "attacked"?
@@LowCostVideoAh, typo. Thanks.
@@aegisreflector2725 I've felt that based on nothing though. To a beautiful woman. It's beyond all of the word salad she is using to describe life, and attraction rules. Sounds like she is just meandering through what attraction means to her, than anything. My new philosophy is put yourself in a position ("out there"), for something (sparks, "magic" etc) to happen. But she is definitely right about working on yourself. She's also wrong about food (cooked food is kind of toxic, high raw is better -- for our vibration and energy, and what other vibration and connection we attract to us).
"When you're attractive to the other party, there's nothing you really need to do." That is among the worst bits of advice that I have ever encountered.
"If you're resorting to game and romance to "convince" the other party to be attracted to you, you've already lost." That is among the best bits of advice that I have ever encountered.
@@jimwing.2178 Advice is largely just word salad. Think Tesla, think "energy".
The "juice aint worth the squeeze" with this one.
It's such a BS advice coming from the manosphere to meet a lot of attractive girls in order to not have the " scarcity mindset " - newsflash attractive girls are scarce for real !!!! You will be going around in a sea of doll average women before you'll see an attractive one. That's why everybody values them more than they should. So that's the key to have de self-discipline of not judging the girl solely based up on her looks.
Ya, it's like talking to a hungry person: don't have a scarcity mindset, don't mind that you haven't seen any food in a week and now here we have a table full of food - you need to control yourself, there is plenty of food out there. Lol. Once you are in that stage of real hunger, it's gonna be extremely tough to escape the scarcity mindset. Not to mention vast majority of attractive girls are already taken, so the actual pool is even smaller.
Wow, she is SPOT ON with her observations. It's nice to see that she can see both sides of the story of men and women, especially men, as opposed to just a natural bias to a woman's POV. What fantastic advice and knowledge she has. Thank you so much for featuring her!
Shave your head. You’re bald.
Ditto
You have to have a bias towards they're pov, they are naive to the real world
Simp
Exactly, have this debate with most women and you will hear nothing but how harder it is for them
Respect to Sadia, seeing a man's struggles. Thank you and God bless
❤
The best lesson i learned in this podcast is that just as men are intimidated by beautiful women, women are also intimidated by a successful high value man
Well, in that case I shan't be intimidating any woman!!!
And these beautiful women have no experience developing "game".
Average women are; they still try it but come off as mentally ill.
The good looking ones just flick their hair all over the place.
@@NP-io4olall a beautiful woman has to do is show up. When a man has higher standards and lets her know he requires more, I'm sure it's terrifying to them
@@andrewcarlson2178Not at all terrifying to us! Those women who are also high value and beautiful also want their equal in a man.
I admire Sadia, she is a true definition of real woman!
She’s just another gold digger.
You're clueless if you admire her for smashing drivers who can make far above average even part time. Forget this lady.
@@filthymouthschoolboymakesi1236 you're missing the point completely
@@Keijzertje Not at all, simp boy.
@@filthymouthschoolboymakesi1236 Simp boy..😂
I wouldn’t say being attracted by beautiful women numbs you to their status. I discovered they are guarded and somewhat complicated and so I’m skeptical of them and I turned away from many of them. You just learn to be really patient and look for the one who also has inner beauty.
Read the Bible people marry god just be yourself
I was doing my best in undergrad and grad school. No women knew or cared!
It's all about looks, money and status. Confidence comes from success, not the other way around.
Not true, universally. May be true for the superficial women that many men are attracted to.
@@jimwing.2178 Dream on!
Just as she reacted to Tate walking in cos he is a millionaire and famous. If he was himself and she didn't know him and ago was coming and he was not a famous millionaire age wouldn't react. She a money chaser
Lol she overestimates how much their instinct can detect and you let her get away with it. That's why they end up in so many relationships and one night stands that they regret because they get fooled into all sorts of stuff. makes some good points but go so far in the other direction
Their "internal radar" needs re-calibration and in fact may be unrepairable following social media's overinflation of the female ego. How can you trust a woman's judgement of a man's value when they file for divorce 80% of the time after having agreed initially to the marriage?
EXACTLY! 😂
She seems cool, but still a bit delusional in this regard. Women swear they mature faster, have high tech internal radars and blah blah blah, but they still get played and have 1,000 stories of dating traumas.
I do believe women have some radar to detect "ain't shit dudes", but they ignore the red flags anyways, so their radar is completely useless, lol. That's like having air defense system, but you still let enemy fighter planes get through 😂
I picked up on that also. It's not like they have some supernatural ability. They are human just like men. There is a large cognitive disconnect in some of what she says, particurally the things said early on.
@@realnumerology It's quite a harmful myth for society in general, because it leads people to think women have god like abilities to detect "good", so if she agrees or validates behavior, it will mean you can do/did no wrong. I think that's why when people get too much positive attention/validation from women, people start to act out. The underlying assumption is that it's not just attraction, but has a deeper meaning/truth, and therefor people tend to forget they can still make important mistakes, even when highly desired/loved.
To clarify, too little positive attention will do a lot of harm as well, but it should be positive attention, with realistic and compassionate views of the full situation. Like good friends giving their perspective gently, not harsh self-righteous judgements. When it's balanced this way, you can truly develop your full potential, constructively.
“It’s the most difficult thing in the world to be this man”
Roofers in Arizona: 😒…
What does that mean 😅
Bet she got da hotz for Akaska crab fishermen
1. Be attractive.
2. Don't be unattractive.
3. See rule number 1
3. Be rich
Be rich and get any woman, even if your average.@@loveforcrickett
Easy formula
😂
I hate people including women that judge you for your money or position, diplomas, what you have done…
I love women who love you for who you are. That’s my kind of woman.
Who you are is determined by what you have made of yourself and your life. And if that is watching and playing computer games and jerking off to porn - well that is who you are !
Except you don't genuinely want those women 😂
@@ak-47intelligence75 I became a monk since I wrote that comment 😂
Who you are, as a grown man, includes all those accomplishments
@@BodyByRich So your saying a woman should like you only for your accomplishments ?
She does bring up some valid points. However, I do feel some women do play a lot of games to test/filter men. I'm not sure all women know the difference if a guy is truly busy or playing games tbh
A good quality woman does know the difference.
@@vanvev6920 Well, you can fake until you get caught. A good quality woman can sense when you're lying too much or not. When you're actually busy and doing things that elevates your reality, you'll project that confidence in front of her.
They’re supposed to
She's obviously talking about classy women not the trash that roll on the ground on London curbs
Con comes from the word confidence. It's the ability to project confidence so that one can deceive and manipulate.
Yes, we women are indeed attracted to "starving artist" and musician guys. It's about their passion to pursue their true creative expression that's inspiring, not whether or not they succeed. Yes, because they are "doing their best". To me the most attractive quality is a man pursuing his goal to bring something good to the world be it art, music, medicine, science, psychology, journalism, political activism, standing up for the weak and defenseless... They are the top 1%.
The biggest turn-off to me are the men who simply exist as a cog in the wheel of the machine of the system without any passion to contribute something of themselves to the betterment of the world. They are the mediocre 99%.
I so agree with you..
Way too complex. How about two people meeting each other that just enjoy each other and can build a life together.
this is not stoneage mate, wake the fuck up
Sorry human emotions are not robotic
You are very naive
Yes, the reality of interaction is where the truth lies, so long as the male knows his role is a male role & not arbitrary role.
Ditto female.
But then again I'm currently a hermit & not sure.
If I meet a nice female I hope i may find of the truth of this statement
Your opinions are the most accurate I have heard, and experienced. You are a top level therapist. One in a thousand.
If all therapists were as insightful as her then I would actually have regard for the profession
To be top of the top man, you need to care less about physical beauty of a woman and focus on the inside, don't flirt, don't waste time in distorted plans, don't keep secrets in your relationship, don't expect 100% loyalty from nobody, focus on career, hobbies, family, be social and have enough of male friends, be vocal and learn conversation, travel and nurture your spirit and never let failures take up too much of your time, be flexible but always grounded in the moment, return the favors, be courageous, fit enough and listen a lot before you talk or decide, you'll be the one whether you're 12 or 100 yrs old
You are awesome. I am sure you learnt this after going through many difficult situations. Thanks for sharing
The woman he dreams of? Lady, we don’t all desire supermodels. Someone presentable and reasonable is infinitely sexy
Can you imagine being the CEO of Pfizer being like damn im so ambitious to be alpha for women, imma force children into heart disease for no fucking reason outside of making a fortune off misfortune....life is dumb
Getting back to someone promptly and expressing sincere interest is sexy. Gushing obsessively before you've invested time in getting to know a woman properly feels off putting and desperate.
I wıll not be busy just because of woman sorry. Women are choosing more attracted guys and they dont want to share that man :D If that guy is attractive you will be an unhappy woman because of other women. Women cant just see that simple fact and still follows attractive men :D With those power those guys wont be loyal to them. Because even Megan fox and Adriana lima is cheated why not you ;) For a healthy relationship woman should follow normal guys.
She seems to suggest that men should just continue in their traditional role of being the "plow horse" to attract a woman. Just plays into the stereotype that a man's value is what they can financially provide to a woman. Sorry but alot of us guys have made our escape from the "plantation" and no longer subscribe to that unproductive mindset.
Then stay single, no women should ever be with a man beneath her financially
You should be busy with your life for yourself. Why aren't you building and conquering? Start creating shit and rising up, instead of whining about women. Women are a BONUS; they aren't even important.
High Value, means only one thing, and it was meaning for 1000s of years, High Money.
Yep. Everything else is utter BS. It’s ALL about money. Every single time.
You are authentic and filled with true empathy ❤️. I admire your frank and helpful information.
Watching at those dating advice videos is just pure waste of time, be the price is the only thing you can work on... Still i enjoy having a simple life, living at my dads place, from where i travel the world occasionally. Like she said; employers dont give a shit about you.
Got my whole life to work ahead of me, im almost 30 and still gonna enjoy as much as possible (inverse retirement) :)
As an older guy, I’m learning to see that beauty is such a façade, in reality, just exaggerated features that announce a woman’s fertility, and any man is very well served to train himself to let go of it, as difficult as it might seem. We seem to think that if we can conquer lots of beautiful women that it will say something positive about us, but is that really how you want to support your own ego? Later in life, this type of accomplishment is extremely hollow. There are far better ways of creating real value in your life and meaningful relationships that are not dependent on such temporary things.
That’s the truth 💯
Wrong
Beauty is a façade, yes. We "pretty" women wash it off our faces every night before going to bed and know that without it, we are just plain Janes. Men need to take our "beauty" (grooming) for what is and learn to look deeper into our souls.
When a man says first off "You're such a gorgeous woman!" I know he doesn't care whatsoever about who I am. But when a man is interested to know who I am, what I'm about on a deeper level and how I perceive the world, then I'm attracted to him.
It's only hollow to pussy gettin and or broke men who ain't getting a lot of sex. If a man is successful, then getting a lot of hot woman is simply just a by product of his success and in return that makes him happy. Thanks for sharing your opinion
I noticed when you look at men on social media, or in your environment men who say nice things about their own mother and her values and personality, creativity or also about the grandmother etc such men used to have very nice relationships with their wife, admiring their thoughts feelings lifestyle and she is admiring his personality sense of humor etc. As professor Sam Vaknin says the most important parent first 3 - 5 years of childhood for both men and women is their mother 90 percent of the time the father is not needed as much for the baby's mental health and development at this age, which seems ok because man provides money to support the wife and kids. Some pediatrician have been watching children's behavior for years and found out how kids need the healthy approach. For some reason, psychology works that way. The father is also very important but in a different way, in a certain age the father provides important advice to the child or plays with the child and listens to the child's ideas etc He supports the family in other ways. Or he is mostly important in a certain age of the kids.
Really enjoyed and learnt a lot from this conversation 👌🏽💯. Awesome
To acknowledge her beauty and not be phased by it really is an experiential lesson rather than a taught or learned one. You'll get it naturally by dating beautiful women and seeing how much of a non-factor their beauty is in satisfying you over the long-term.
I caught it when I dated my ex for a year and a half. First time I saw her, I thought her face was literally perfect. I was totally overwhelmed by how beautiful she was. After the 3 month'ish mark, she was still a total stunner but I adapted to seeing her and sleeping with her. It became normalized. And at that point, her personality, sense of humor, and the way she respected me kept her around because the way she looks couldn't do it.
It doesn't matter how fire the girl is. You WILL get used to it and it WILL stop being so exciting once the novelty wears off. It won't be enough to keep you around bro. She has to have something more.
You come off differently as a man when you know that going into the courting process.
This is facts bro its an experience to learn nothing taught.
100%
Your daddy is rich and your mom is goodlooking...it helps but its ofcourse only a part of the story...i guess to feel relaxed, feeling at home with eachother is a key factor...work and beauty and success in the outside world should not be the most important...just being together, not 'doing' or 'saying' anything, and feeling 'complete' is the key indicator for a steady relationship..
Facts brother
for actual next level ppl in society there is a much larger more nuanced layer to that entire issue. And it involves the ability to recreate the novelty factor within our minds. THis is a major factor only accomplished with maturity and that takes many years for most men and women and other sexes
Marriage was a horrible experience for me. When I express this, the knee jerk response is, “maybe she wasn’t the right one” as if my ex- wife was some kind of low quality freak. Actually, I think she was, generally, a good person. We just didn’t get along over the long term.
Turn them upside-down and they all look like sisters!
@@riverat7558what does your comment mean ?
😂
Well then maybe your not the right one
So true. I think most relationship advice available online is geared toward short-term relationships. That advice cannot be extrapolated to derive advice for life-long relationships. Life-long relationships are a completely different animal, which in most important ways is 180 degrees to what short-term relationships are.
Same the other way around, women accept bad behavior from a handsome man they will put on a pedestal! 🙅🏻♀️
you mean successful or high worth man.
No, handsome man needs other things going for him. He cant be homeless, mental or lazy- video gamer. What ur calling is handsome man, is a total package. Women are not doing a favor for taking bad behaviour from a total package man. He is doing a favor to her by giving her time.
What about those of us who have spent so much time focused on work and success, ie years in conflict zones, and no experience being around women at all for that time?
How do those of us who are successful show it off appropriately? "a lion doesn't need to say it's a lion." I am successful, according to Forbes percentages, via stock market, launched my first company @JoddysCuts, fitness wise scored in top 1% at a Spartan Race, top 12% of competitive males on the Crossfit Open. Friends/teammates who literally die at each other's side. Etc that I'm quite proud of.
How does one demonstrate that to women?
I try to discuss everything I have going on, it tends to over power the conversation, often breaking the 60% of the time she should be talking rule, and when trying to adjust it just goes cold.
That's tough
If women´s brain is focusing 10 times more on problems when under stress, because of the hormone estrogen as John Gray explains.
They are becoming Karens because of the economic stress etc
So it's obvious that if Trans want to become females and they get estrogen...
then their brain will focus 10 times more on other problems when their brain is under stress, caused by estrogen
but it makes no sense because Trans people can not give birth to the child to protect the child,
the estrogen´s purpose is probably to protect.
So there are two options:
They wake up and stop doing nonsense
or they start to do some Yoga or Pilates to calm down the body
so their brain will not be under the stress
and therefore the estrogen will not make their brain focus on negative things 10 times more then the men´s brain
that is much calmer under stress because men have testosterone, because testosterone is suppressing the estrogen in his body as John Gray explains so men feel no emotions to focus better on solutions.
So I guess women who are extremely calm and are not Karens, when they are under stress.
they actually have more testosterone in the body and these women are forced by crazy society to be more masculine.
to show no emotions when under stress.
Basically, when a woman is not under stress she is not emotional but she is happy.
I guess she is wired that way because when she is not under stress she is happy that her newborn baby is happy. :)))
Her stress comes only when she protects the baby but trans people dont have babies to protect.
Women should do some pilates or yoga more often when some stress comes, but I think men shouldn't be forced to be feminine as well.
But men seem also very empathetic when it comes to brotherhood, they show a lot of empathy for other friends or role models that they appreciate. History shows a lot of letters between men who tried to create a peaceful society and give each other wisdom and philosophy. It was the type of success they appreciated for each other.
And even women got inspiration from it, when they noticed the music and poetry philosophy etc.
Start with dressing the best way possible. Be more relaxed. Why? Because you are winning at life. Stop talking so much about work; be in the moment instead, show you have humor and are quick-witted. Be a deep person - engage with philosophical ideas; be a competent and free thinker, be curious, be wise. Don't be this boring capitalistic avatar listing the shit you got, the shit you "reached" and the shit you want - that's boring NPC talk. Let them know you got shit going on for you, but don't DEFINE yourself through this generic areas of life. Or in other words: be an interesting, captivating and charismatic personality, instead of tax cattle with high income.
11:00 So true... Nobody has ever been there to save me. It has made me very conservative with the financial risks that I take and slowed my ability to move up in class. Through a lot of hard work I was finally able to retire at age 44 about four years ago. I'm developing arthritis so I'm very lucky to not have to force myself to work anymore. I was an electrician and it was very painful to do my 40 hrs. If I hadn't of saved myself then I'd still be barely holding my health together.
Congratulations on retiring early! 🎉 You know you don’t have to surrender to arthritis though. I eliminated mine by changing my diet.
@@wildeevolution Nice job... I changed my entire diet 6 months ago and am now down to my old high school weight. Most days I have zero processed sugar but one day a week I do let myself cheat. Antioxidants (fresh berries) do help but not a ton. Being inactive seems to get rid of the inflammation the best but I don't want to sit in a room and waste away forever so it isn't a practical solution. What did you do that worked for you?
I'm glad that I lived the opposite life that you did, and the opposite of how she values men. I spent most of my 20s, 30s, and 40s having a blast doing things that I thought I wouldn't be able to do as an old man. She would've told me that I'm not living to my potential. That is BS. At age 50, I got serious about putting some money in the bank. Ironically, at age 66 and retired, I'm still physically active and healthy, but not wealthy, while my friends have more money than they can spend but are broken down and addicted to prescribed pharmaceuticals. I believe that I fulfilled my potential better than they did. I've known more than my fair share of beautiful women, but none that had to fake up like Sadia Khan.
- Women have a radar to detech if a man is actually busy or not. If he is genuinely busy and does this, it can become attractive, or else it becomes cringe
Most women dont really care about this. Women want a partner. Don't listen to these shallow people trying to trap into fud nonsense so they get your money in some bs course they will sell.
@@mitri5389 Women do care if a man is productive or not. This is common sense
@zaidm1134 nah only if he is a dead beat who has no jobs for months at a time. Other than that it doesn't matter.
@@mitri5389 You are clearly insecure about yourself. But it is very simple, a woman would definitely prefer a man that "Works, gives her time, and in her free time he is productive on a side hustle or gaining knowledge instead of sinply scrolling on social media".
Keep lying to yourself. Act like a man and change yourself instead if lying to yourself
@zaidm1134 uh-huh believe that. One of the reasons for divorce is not spending time with her. So no this channel just spreads fud so you spend money on some service they provide 🙄
Spot on Sadia . What a gem of woman 👩. She’s made her family and a lot of women proud ! 🙏☀️
Most ridiculous title for a video ever. Everyone knows what makes men attracted to women, it’s height, general attractiveness, and money. And all of them are fighting for 5% of men.. ladies, understand one thing, you’re gonna die alone, because your Prince charming doesn’t exist anywhere outside of your Disney created reality
This is some of the best advice given by a woman to men and navigated quite brilliantly by the host I've ever seen in my life. Wow ! Thumbs up from me.
Lol don't follow this fud garbage. This trash is a trap for you to fall in.
She is such a great woman all around. There is a crisis of this kind of women in the west
I had no idea that this is me. I never have time, I feel like I’m so busy but not intentionally. I love women but I’ve never let a woman sway me just because she’s attractive, it just doesn’t work for me. I’ve always been this way, so it’s weird to see a guy that has to be that way. Sadia always has valuable insight, learned so much from her.
Did you come from a solid family background? Generally people who do have better subconscious programming in relationship dynamics
I could totally see her dating an Uber driver who is doing his best.
😂😂
basically ''doing his best'' means.....yes you guested it....MAKE MORE MONEY!!!!! ''double shifts, three shifts''
And of course after that follows the '' you don't give me too much attention
9:23 she literally said she would question her man if he felt he was doing his best as an uber driver, and made the distinction that as long as he is doing his best, such a man would get respect FROM HIS WOMAN , not necessarily the top range women
I get the feeling that, she, along with most others, don't really know how much $ a uber driver can make
@@Jus2Trill07lwts be real just2trill, probably less than 100k still and working a shat load of inhumane hours lol.. sometimes maintaining a beautiful lass or perfect 10 is not worth it especially if she doesn't prioritize you.. she's definitely talking to other dudes too and you can see the signs. Sadia is only worth it if you got the resources and are a bit and established.. and would you prefer Sadia or a Sadia 10, 15, 20 years younger and more cooperative or such? She seems like a descent lass but never know how ppl are behind the scenes
She's right,no one is COMMING to save us guys,especially when you have no immediate or extended family.
•Hard to teach, need to experience” dam i felt those words
yeah dude(
I wonder what kind. Of a cook Sadia is ??
The best couples are the ones that bring their skills to the table. If you’re a good cook, bring it to the table if you’re a good housekeeper, bring it to the table if you’re a good mechanic, bring it to the table if you’re good with money, bring it to the table each person in that relationship has a gift to bring. Nobody has to be exactly equal that’s silly.
What a privileged outlook on life Sadiya presents as an ultimate truth (purposefully indulging men, including the interviewer, who almost bursted with pride and joy when she “confirmed” the men had it much much worse). In my world women had it really really hard, working two jobs to provide for their families, and no one would buy their “damsel in distress” mode, it was simply never an option like for Sadiya or her likes. And men in the same world enjoyed drunk parties and mistresses. So no, be smart enough not to generalise. It’s not about a man or a woman, it’s about life circumstances and position in life. In the world of so-called “high-value” men, when “high-value” woman is the one who compliments his huge ego, men might have it harder. But don’t forget, it’s their personal need and choice to be surrounded by women, who are spoiled and vacant.
I don't understand as to why an uber driver has to be looked down upon. Maybe they like the job. Maybe they like meeting people and going to new places.
It's like this woman states that she looks down upon bin-men, but do you see any woman being a bin-woman?
Yes, it's a dirty job. But someone's got to do it. Otherwise, society will become dirty.
I just think there's massive levels of hypocrisy in women's thinking. They want the jobs. But they don't want the shit jobs. And they look down on anyone who does do a shit job - as if they're better than them.
Why can't a woman step aside and stay at home? That way, a man can get on the job market, and also put themselves in a position where they can be a CEO.
Which therefore begs the question: what value does a "high value" woman bring? Because from what I see here, her sole value is in her looks. And they depreciate over time.
A woman is basically an escort. And a "high value" woman is a high end escort.
Yet, apparently escorts are "bad".
Maybe that uber driver likes being an uber driver. Maybe he realises that he only needs to fend for himself. And maybe he realises that even if he did earn more, the woman most likely wouldn't be inclined to go halves in the relationship, which therefore makes a mockery of feminists' stance on equality.
this is just innate in women bro
Somebody needs to work jobs like Uber, so our society can stay functional. Every job deserves the same form of respect, because their societal functions are interwined.
@@anfieldreds_1892's innate in men to use violence in conflict. Do we smash our heads in on a regular basis? No. Why? Because we transcended our biological dispositions. Women actually need to be civilized; they operate on a pre-cultural level.
@@hellucination9905I disagree, not every job. Essential jobs deserve respect but essential workers get the opposite. Meanwhile empty souless lumps who spend their days bullshitting each other in meetings and their evenings boring people to death about their supposedly important jobs are somehow respected
I'm sorry, Once I'm busy, I aint looking back. I'm not going to waste my time around a few women that are now attracted to me cuz im busy. GOD these women are parasitic, almost like they're attracted to energy and focus. If you have a lot to give them and nothing much going on for yourself, it's a turn off. BUT if you have NOTHING much to give them by way of time or attention cuz you're busy building your life, out from the woodworks they come like moths drawn to the flame. UGggHHHH
She is very smart and swtiched on. I pray all people heal, work on themselves and develop this mindset!
Well, Neil Strauss, Mystery and the Pick-Up artists exactly found out, that you actually can imitate high-value behavior and get away with it quite easily without being spotted. The only thing which women smell or spot is if you don't believe in yourself in the first place. Same is true for Sales.
Dear Sadia, I agree with everything you said, except the part when you declare that men have it harder than women because generally women always have someone who "save them" whether is a brother,a father or a spouse. I wish it was like that, but unfortunately it sn't. Sometimes, you have to put aside your feminine energies and fight against yourself and all the downsides of being a woman (PMS syndrome, menstruation and the physical pain that comes with it, unwanted pregnancy, the fear of being harassed, the pressure to be always pretty ..etc) to survive in a man's world because you don't have any male support. That's where the concept of "strong women" has originated and why some women are more aggressive, they can count only on themselves. I believe neither man nor women have it easier, we both face challenges and have different difficulties, that's why we have to cooperate and understand that is not a competition, we need to be together because we complement each other. 😊
She is SO brilliant. Phenomenal interview. Both of you guys
As a 59 y.o. successful businessman, I say stay focused on your personal goals and always remember a woman's beauty is an aging asset. Woman play way too much in their beauty and will play that against you to hide their insecurities and know their beauty isn't forever. Point#2 is she doesn't have a goal for her life, walk away, she is looking for a sugar daddy.
There is no such thing as a sexy girl. The sooner this is learned, the better life becomes.
Plus they all wear make up. Let's see how 'sexy' she is 1st thing in morning
Be interested in her, but don't give her too much attention early on. Blah blah, blah. Typical nonsense from a woman. If she finds you attractive, its easy to get with her, if not, NOTHING you will do will cause her to like you. To the typical woman today, be a Chad or Tyrone, all others need not apply
As a man. Beauty is more than appearance. Theres women that are naturally beautiful, wear very little makeup, no fake nails, fake eyelashes, all those accessories. Beauty for me is someone adventurous, outgoing, crazy in a daring way, fun, exciting, interesting, but at the same time loving, caring, generous, thoughtful, genuine, a friend, best friend material, obviously there has to be an attraction there appearance wise.
Believe me, many still do exist, don't settle for the first person or couple people that come your way . There are some women who are old school, still have principles and morals
Adventurous, outgoing, crazy are personality traits. Beauty are visible characteristics of something. Beauty is physical but not everything, there must be attractive personality. Someone could be attractive or beautiful but f in the head so not good for relationship.
@@303machine beauty is what I say beauty is, your definition could be different to mine. I know what you're saying. As a whole, if someone blew me away, I'd think and say "you're beautiful"
@@303machine yes there's more than just physical attraction. Women I knew couldn't go to the sea, pool anywhere near water, or heights, or anything fast. I understand people have fears and phobias, but maybe your just not meant to be with eachother if you are an outgoing adventurous person. You could also have beautiful, but toxic
There aren't too many naturally beautiful women anymore. Try to imagine her without makeup and you'll get less intimidated, lol.
@@MostlyPeacefulNinja I know what you mean. But there are still women with no cosmetic procedures and false accessories. And who are cool people, interesting, exciting. It's hard to find, but it still exists
Ok problem solved, become a CEO. Don’t pretend to be confident, just exhausted yourself and be busy all the time,this is so sad.
She’s most definitely over 32 years old. This all raw raw sounds good. But the litmus test is: Is she happily married? Or is she still single?
@@TheGreenbutsadas the proof is in the pudding.
The question is: Why isn't she married?
@@hellucination9905 Exactly LMAO
FACTS! just another influencer who figured her appearance wud make her jump leaps and bounds over someone who has an actually verifiable life based on the advice she gives. Her, Kevin samuels, andrew tate, sneako etc. all these relationship gurus are attractive yet single. ill pass! lol
I think she's correct but usually men that set boundaries and don't put women on a pedestal are not like that because somebody taught them that. They are like that because they genuinely have more options. And they have more options because women tend to like them. And that happens because they are good looking. I mean really good looking because women are far more selective than men in general. The idea that men have ot today far more difficult is completely true.
100% correct. But, when you are at your 40's, hate the way you look, your job, lost the drive to exercise and claim the corporate ladder and don't really have any hobbies as well as all your friends are pretty much gone cause they are married and/or going on with their lives. Then, you are pretty much done. Cause, they only way out is to grind and go the opposite way alone and right now, doubling up and follow the program for years with 0 cheating until you are the man you always wanted and meant to be. But, if you don't care anymore is beyond hard is just impossible. YOU NEED A REASON and that reason seems to be that it is the moral obligation of every man to do so.
At that stage ,just forget women.
She's very clever ,she's got you working your ass off to pay for her.
And she's right.!
Touche. Cheers lovley.
on one coming... nobody saving me.. nicely said. respect to the lady
I've gotten comfortable being a 99% man that women ignore. What's for dinner?
What an interesting conversation between two intelligent people of opposite sex, so rare in the modern crazy world
I'm a man and I don't feel any pressure to perform. I feel pleasure in working and providing for my family no problem. I wouldn't want it any other way.
Ps... and I don't have pictures of women on my wall :)))
What does she know about relationships? Is she in one? How many did she have? She seems to be giving advice based on her client's experiences and not hers.
One thing I see time and time again with her is that she puts all the responsibility on men to be a certain way, which I understand, but she gives NO advice to women on how to be less toxic, have accountability, be more feminine, stop controlling, stop nagging, stop cheating, love, trust and respect themselves. She always, with a smirk on her face, seems to excuse and justify toxic female behavior. She says that a man being needy and fazed by her beauty will lead to disrespect. Why do women HAVE to go to disrespect? It's like she's implying that to be a hot woman or a high-value woman is reason enough to be disrespectful. She actually wants women to be b*tches and even gold diggers. It's very very very odd lol
Its bc real men set the tone of the relationship 9/10 times
@@bAdA37 real men won’t choose disrespectful women, that’s why so many women end up miserable and dying alone. Sure the man sets the tone, but the woman needs to give space for that tone. A man can get hard, but if she doesn’t get wet, there is no sex. If a man knocks on the door, she’s the one that opens or closes it. Many women nowadays don’t get wet with their femininity and attitude and then wonder why men don’t knock on their doors. At the end of the day, it takes 2 to tango. Men get tired of women that don’t do their part. Women like Sadia have to help women improve and how to better do their part. But she doesn’t. She just excuses and justifies toxic behaviour. She says that women “never lie”. That’s such bullshit 😂
@@edgarbenjoseph3879 The best anyone can do is to do their own best. Stop relying on women to not be toxic and be a man that's strong, kind, and generous. She'll get wet automatically if you're the best version of yourself and both of you are meant for each other.
@@bAdA37Irrelevant. If women would stop being testy and difficult there wouldn't be an issue
@brentboost2879 Actually she is very much relevant in what s/he said and I understand what you meant too.
Men who works on themselves and know what they're about, would notice the bullshit from a woman and end it right there. Either by leaving her or setting the standard of the relationship with masculine energy, leadership and moral values. If the woman fails to abide with that, then clearly they're not meant for each other.
Sometimes the scarcity mindset is what's making many men even deal with toxic women.
This is my opinion though.
Typical women thinking we are at the gym and work all the time, when we actually are buzzy with peace ☮️ and sleep.
She's right, at a certain age they just ask you about kids/wife, and when you are 55 like me and never had either and are lonely, you just want to die, believe me. This woman brings out this feeling in me in every video I see her.
This one hit me like a bus
@@blueflame3531 me too, like a bus, exactly
@johnny07652 I'm not capable of finding love and the thought of not having someone or kids is slowly taking its toll on me
Lol 😆 cheer up
Volunteer. "Find yourself" through situations where you are honestly using your talents to make the world a better place. Don't seek love. Let it find you.
Also, learn therapeutic conversation, like what helps parents and kids connect, as in the book, "How to talk so kids will listen" by Faber and Mazlish. This is honest connection, though it feels awkward at first.
And, pray. Prayer changes you, helps you find your wounds and disappointments and brings healing. A good therapist may help, but a shortcut is the book by a therapist called, "Do one thing different."
This lady is a genius. Tripp please keep bringing her to the show !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's the reason why you don't take advice from woman even when she is a therapist.
I’m saying bro . She literally just re packaging female nature in calmer terms 😂
Her beauty (makeup) his success (money).
12:01 STOP worrying about women. SIMPLE
Don't listen to this woman fellas. We all know women say one thing but behave differently. Never take relationship advice from a woman especially a single woman.
A high beauty isn't necessarily a high value woman
Great content & brilliant conversation
She is lying I fake it busy and get the exact results I’m looking for and less investing my energy too
You won't be able to keep up that game in the long run with a wise person 😂 so what you're getting, you don't value yourself.
So spot on with the damsel in distress....this lady was great on so many levels
“Some men allow a woman’s looks to lead to disrespect” 😮💨 Sooo true. Once dated a woman who looked like Kim K (no surgery). I would get mesmerized anytime she came to my house. Until one weekend we went out & she threw a tantrum & embarrassed me in public. I never felt so humiliated in my life. And I knew if I said anything she’d leave & I’d never see her again…. So I never saw her again.
Don't let this woman fool you. All women play games. The trick is to find the one who plays the least amount of games.