A Talk On Romantic Relationships-Sadia Khan

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  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology 8 місяців тому +1276

    Thank you for having me ❤

    • @barefoot_ty
      @barefoot_ty 8 місяців тому +52

      sadia always looking amazing 😍

    • @TeamAwesomeDad
      @TeamAwesomeDad 8 місяців тому +43

      The grift that keeps on grifting

    • @baltimoreluke
      @baltimoreluke 8 місяців тому +25

      i don't agree with your view on porn....i don't think porn is neutral...i think it does have negative effects....but to say porn contributes to rape culture is as ridiculous as saying video games contribute to violence...i've had multiple talks with my own therapist about your recent interviews
      [edit] also wondering....do you think it's even possible to have an objective perspective on porn? if you don't consume it, you really don't know what's going on in porn....but if you do consume it, it may affect you.

    • @leslieb1375
      @leslieb1375 8 місяців тому +22

      Intelligent, interesting, confident lady. Thank you for coming on the show again and sharing your perspectives, Sadia!

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 8 місяців тому +17

      Hi Sadia. Looking at the reality of arranged marriages, Pakistani too, it doesn't seem to be something better. 38 to 49 percent of marriages between Pakistanis is between 1st cousins, which is the cause of children being born with very serious mental and physical problems, for example. The divorce rate in 2019 in Pakistan was at an all time high. Over 90 percent of women in Pakistan have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime.

  • @pauldyson8098
    @pauldyson8098 8 місяців тому +662

    I really like the idea of taking full responsibility during a breakup.
    I also like the idea of not calling everyone who hurt you a narcissist.
    I also like that she asks Mark questions.

    • @Rotty_Mom
      @Rotty_Mom 8 місяців тому +7

      Yes. Yep. Ya. Me too!

    • @mball5
      @mball5 8 місяців тому +4

      Mark said it was wrong and unhelpful when he interpreted the divorce as his fault.

    • @ukalypse
      @ukalypse 8 місяців тому +13

      But there really are Narcissists--- some say ten percent of the population. And they do a tremendous amount of harm, often as parents (who are not chosen by victims).

    • @tyrellanderson4722
      @tyrellanderson4722 8 місяців тому +6

      Some people do suck though.

    • @plantstho6599
      @plantstho6599 8 місяців тому

      @@tyrellanderson4722 Most

  • @loveluv
    @loveluv 8 місяців тому +374

    Microphone placement is everything….hard to listen to the excess noise on the microphone in both interviews but SHE IS AN AMAZING WOMAN!!!

    • @10x10a
      @10x10a 7 місяців тому +13

      agreed. mark you should consider displaying audio levels in your setup during your interviews so you can see in real time if quality is poor

    • @clementinecasino3700
      @clementinecasino3700 7 місяців тому +15

      It's not the mic it's just that her hair it's brushing over it

    • @kevintipper9267
      @kevintipper9267 7 місяців тому +9

      Sound is sooo bad & poor quality. Amazing woman though 👏

    • @alanguages
      @alanguages 7 місяців тому

      I was wondering what all the rustling was.@@clementinecasino3700

    • @phantomoftheopera8072
      @phantomoftheopera8072 7 місяців тому +3

      Her voice sounds kinda mumble ly it’s hard to listen clearly

  • @MERIDETH-u8r
    @MERIDETH-u8r 8 місяців тому +144

    This lady is smart and intuitive. I love the fact that she is not afraid to tell the truth and NOT sugarcoat the issue. Sometimes you just have to tell it like it is!

    • @edgarstin4212
      @edgarstin4212 8 місяців тому

      ppppp

    • @edgarstin4212
      @edgarstin4212 8 місяців тому

      😅😅😅

    • @edgarstin4212
      @edgarstin4212 8 місяців тому

      😅

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 7 місяців тому

      Yes she truly is gem and she truly saving people relationships.
      I wish she was around 10 years ago before getting previous relationship.

    • @alejandramarquez6804
      @alejandramarquez6804 5 місяців тому

      ​@@daniellamoreno3616she is no oh saving nothing. The reason why she have data is because many many many people have conflict in relationship. Conflict is the rule in human relationship.

  • @jesuscrust825
    @jesuscrust825 8 місяців тому +294

    I always tell people, “when people show you who they are, believe them!” Great video

    • @tyrellanderson4722
      @tyrellanderson4722 8 місяців тому +12

      That was Maya Angelou.

    • @Sheyshel
      @Sheyshel 8 місяців тому +4

      "believe them the 1st time"

    • @amc3964
      @amc3964 6 місяців тому +3

      Maya Angelou said the same.

    • @natinatij
      @natinatij 3 місяці тому +2

      She ripped that off Maya Angelou

  • @linli3766
    @linli3766 6 місяців тому +21

    Sadia explains perfectly: when a woman finds the right person, a responsible, trustworthy man, when she feels the safety and security, she will be soothing and calm, there will be much less anxiety and much less negativity.

  • @marinajenkins9465
    @marinajenkins9465 8 місяців тому +58

    Sadia’s interaction is absolutely so appreciated. One of that sessions I relook at all the time. She is so knowledgeable, sincere and to the point. Love her honesty. A beautiful intelligent women. Tx for introducing her to us Mark

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      not really dont need her advice to know women use guys for money and that legal marriage only benefits a broke woman.

  • @thatsomoe
    @thatsomoe 8 місяців тому +79

    I really love how she’s asking Mark questions throughout the interview. We never get to hear his pov in detail. Great interview ❤

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      because shes a fraud too

  • @MrPnew1
    @MrPnew1 8 місяців тому +449

    She is good. Less than three minutes in and she is interviewing Mark 😂

    • @yourfriendmelanie
      @yourfriendmelanie 8 місяців тому +23

      i love it 😂 she’s such a good guest

    • @realamericannegro977
      @realamericannegro977 8 місяців тому +3

      How does that make her good?

    • @jamtlandhomesteaders2710
      @jamtlandhomesteaders2710 8 місяців тому +11

      It's a way to keep someone interested- ask them about themselves...

    • @cosmicsea89
      @cosmicsea89 7 місяців тому +9

      She's a psychologist, that's what they do

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому +2

      @@yourfriendmelanie shes hot but boring on both lnterviews as good as she looks for her age l had lt on ln the background not really watchn more focused on computer while lT was on tv

  • @WenchInTheTinfoilHat
    @WenchInTheTinfoilHat 8 місяців тому +48

    This lady is a pleasure to look at, listen to, and learn from. Thank you both for doing this…
    The entire world needs relationship advice in 2024

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      lf u put her looks aside and the fact shes foreign yall would get shes boring and says what men already know that women use them for money lol duh and legal marriage benefits broke women l been knew ths

  • @pipewig74
    @pipewig74 8 місяців тому +71

    Truth! Everyone shows you “who” they really are. It all boils down to, do you want to see it and accept or see it and ignore it, or see it and move on. Every individual is responsible for what they tolerate!

  • @LeaShaw-lf5hv
    @LeaShaw-lf5hv 8 місяців тому +257

    Mark, I like that you were more involved in the “conversation”

    • @leesh2684
      @leesh2684 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes

    • @PetraTherapy
      @PetraTherapy 7 місяців тому

      yes me too

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      l been noticing they overtalk a lot he just listens

    • @SerenityDreaming
      @SerenityDreaming 8 днів тому

      Hmm. Interesting. I thought it was called interrupting the shit out of people because you think what you're saying is more important than what they're saying, or manners in general, even if it's the answer to a question they asked....

    • @SerenityDreaming
      @SerenityDreaming 8 днів тому

      ​@@subtomypageon what planet? He's interrupted her almost 50 times at an hour in.

  • @brinavarro13
    @brinavarro13 8 місяців тому +387

    If we don’t reflect, we repeat

    • @peterallen.
      @peterallen. 8 місяців тому +2

      Gorgeous 😊 actually I recount dat statement your a pig ignorant woman!

    • @peterallen.
      @peterallen. 8 місяців тому +2

      @thematriarchy2075 I'm saying your gorgeous

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 8 місяців тому +6

      @@peterallen. Move on, Peter, move on

    • @peterallen.
      @peterallen. 8 місяців тому +1

      @thematriarchy2075 okay I wont compliment u your not nice 🙂

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 8 місяців тому +1

      @@peterallen. Fine by me. 🙂

  • @migueltichareva904
    @migueltichareva904 8 місяців тому +203

    The interviewer was interviewed and he had no choice but to answer.

    • @realamericannegro977
      @realamericannegro977 8 місяців тому +7

      Sadia was just being a woman all women do is ask questions and the most questions when talking to a man

    • @milliem1969
      @milliem1969 8 місяців тому +13

      It's sad that you don't see the professional side where she as a psychologist is observing and trying to prove maybe some theory and Mark participates very aware of this

    • @cosmicsea89
      @cosmicsea89 7 місяців тому +4

      That's what psychologists do lol

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      shes hot so thats y

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      @@milliem1969 shes a fraud posng

  • @Pkh1187
    @Pkh1187 8 місяців тому +258

    Her hair covering the mic which is messing with the audio is driving me nuts

    • @theresarossouw1637
      @theresarossouw1637 8 місяців тому +4

      She moves her hands too much that's why.

    • @_greta_music_
      @_greta_music_ 8 місяців тому +6

      i feel you, i hate noisy sounds too

    • @carolgosenheimer9415
      @carolgosenheimer9415 8 місяців тому +12

      Terrible sounds quality on this one, had to skip it completely. 🫤

    • @Pkh1187
      @Pkh1187 8 місяців тому +3

      @@carolgosenheimer9415 I skipped it too

    • @pegasusflameheart6479
      @pegasusflameheart6479 8 місяців тому +5

      Yeah someone wasn't wearing headphones when he filmed this time

  • @cardura99
    @cardura99 8 місяців тому +20

    I want to hear more from her. Great point of views offered, and as a bonus get to hear some personal insight into Mark himself. She is a great listener, and her multicultural upbringing has given her a unique advantage. Thank you for bringing us these talks Soft White Underbelly.

  • @baghodler508
    @baghodler508 8 місяців тому +258

    I love that she's asking mark these questions 🤣

    • @oliviastar3812
      @oliviastar3812 8 місяців тому

      and zero social skills .... My first meeting with my niece's psych friend was a disappointing one where she promptly blurted out something tactless like 'Oh YOU'RE Olivia! I've heard a lot about you' ... to which I promptly showed my disdain with silence and a tired smile@@baublesanddolls

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      @@baublesanddollsshes a counselor posng

    • @otrebla8944
      @otrebla8944 7 місяців тому +1

      Same. It would be interesting if they switched places for an interview.

    • @Anthony-zq5uh
      @Anthony-zq5uh 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@baublesanddollstell me you had a bad therapy experience without telling me you had a bad therapy experience

  • @NattyByNature-
    @NattyByNature- 8 місяців тому +45

    She told no lies. And that’s why now I leave from the beginning. Met someone recently and I could tell she’s not a nice person based on how she is brutally honest and says anything with little to no regard for ppl feelings and when corrected she sees it as an attack. I told her have a blessed life, we don’t align and her response confirmed that I made the best decision for me. This video was a confirmation for me. Thanks

    •  8 місяців тому +4

      So you want a woman to lie to you ? Do you have her number handy ?

    • @NattyByNature-
      @NattyByNature- 8 місяців тому +3

      Your response says it’s all 🤦🏽‍♂️. People can be honest with class and tack not brutally honest. Or just speak without thinking. I also listed other things that confirmed it for me. But you only read what you wanted. You don’t even know what the response was so how did you even draw that conclusion? Have a nice day sweetie 🙄

    •  8 місяців тому +3

      @@NattyByNature- didnt realize you were a girl until now so now i understand the ' feelings ' part . But it doesnt change what i said ,i rather the truth over a lie because thats the way i am ,brutally honest . Be more concerned with the truth then getting your feelings hurt because on the day the truth comes out it will hurt way more child . It is what i would tell my daughter ...whose middle name was monique too . I am a Campbell as well .

    • @NattyByNature-
      @NattyByNature- 8 місяців тому +1

      Very interesting the name coincidence. I won’t date anyone that’s brutally anything but to each their own.

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому +3

      lol that start to reply was rude hahha

  • @ow3wells
    @ow3wells 8 місяців тому +182

    She is right about the difference in cultural rejection, people who have the ability to move on after being told no seems more attractive.

    • @justinzrandomvideoz5475
      @justinzrandomvideoz5475 8 місяців тому +11

      Maybe they are more attractive to begin with and that is why it doesn't phase them.

    • @ow3wells
      @ow3wells 8 місяців тому +13

      @@justinzrandomvideoz5475 Maybe not, they just are able carry themselves in that way.

    • @DerekRobertsonSomerville
      @DerekRobertsonSomerville 8 місяців тому +12

      @@Smethells2023so she studied psychology but is not a registered psychologist. I mean anybody can study psychology, the hardest part is trying to become a board certified one. Seems there are so many of these types on social media now 😂😂

    • @radfoo72
      @radfoo72 8 місяців тому +2

      I had a friend from Africa a few years back and he embodied that same exact outgoing positivity!

    • @rachelrae860
      @rachelrae860 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Smethells2023 I agree with you 💯

  • @mehtabfarukhi2135
    @mehtabfarukhi2135 2 місяці тому +5

    Such a great interview, listening to two intelligent and compassionate people. Thank you Sadia and Mark.

  • @surfergirl2943
    @surfergirl2943 8 місяців тому +187

    She is extremely articulate and informative . I really do enjoy her!

    • @peterallen.
      @peterallen. 8 місяців тому +2

      I enjoy u 2 😊😊😊

    • @radfoo72
      @radfoo72 8 місяців тому +1

      @@peterallen.
      You enjoy Every woman in the comments😂

    • @peterallen.
      @peterallen. 8 місяців тому +1

      @radfoo72 respect bro 💯 😄

    • @jjonez787
      @jjonez787 8 місяців тому +2

      sHeS sO aRtIklAte!!! 😂😂😂😂

    • @surfergirl2943
      @surfergirl2943 8 місяців тому

      @@jjonez787 🤣😆…if you only heard my voice to go along with it in real life too - you’d prob wanna punch me or you’d love it . But seriously, do you not think she is articulate? Especially after being subjected to an abundance of Rebecca’s rambling, nonsensical pontifications and diatribes. I mean this is damn near Rhodes Scholar material compared to that shit lol ! 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @lj9524
    @lj9524 8 місяців тому +19

    This woman’s observations and advice are absolutely amazing! This is one if the best conversations/ interviews you have done so far. Thank you so very much!👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      not really put her looks aside and her foreign accent and guess what shes boring

  • @cinnamonappple
    @cinnamonappple 8 місяців тому +98

    She’s very straight to the point. Love this about her. Such an intelligent woman.

    • @Innerlight320
      @Innerlight320 8 місяців тому +2

      Her point not necessarily anyone else’s

    • @menotyou6254
      @menotyou6254 8 місяців тому +1

      Please do not listen to this woman she is misogynistic and manipulative.

  • @sharonblumbergs7596
    @sharonblumbergs7596 8 місяців тому +30

    "courage is a huge part of being a man " truth

  • @gmcanberraaustralia
    @gmcanberraaustralia 8 місяців тому +136

    That was a great talk Mark, nice to see you doing more interviews with deep thinkers, I have been watching you for so many years, I dont know how you have done so many hard depressing street living ones, so I enjoy theses quality people!

    • @AJP-j8c
      @AJP-j8c 8 місяців тому +19

      Well, I understand your sentiment, the labeling of quality people is a bit harsh.

    • @christinacampbell5952
      @christinacampbell5952 8 місяців тому +6

      I know what you mean. I like getting different perspectives. I'm also a bit sexist bc I'd rather get insight about relationships from women than men. One interview with a man who was a psychologist or something started out with his explanation of what women want, and I stopped listening right after I heard his take on that. I also wish Mark would do interviews with high functioning people. So we get to hear what their realities are. I bet we'd be surprised.

    • @radfoo72
      @radfoo72 8 місяців тому +10

      I hands down prefer This deep conversation over an episode of "Rebecca" rambling.

    • @radfoo72
      @radfoo72 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@christinacampbell5952
      I'm curious if you're referring to his episode with Orion Taraban that was posted 2 weeks ago because that guy was on the Whatever podcast and I think he has some bad takes so I don't subscribe to his philosophy.
      I know you said you prefer to listen to women but I was jw if you've ever listened to a male youtuber who was given the moniker "hoe_math"?
      He discusses dating & relationship dynamics of men & women and I'm wondering how you'd score his accuracy and emotional intelligence.

    • @cmack17
      @cmack17 8 місяців тому +2

      "Deep thinker"
      😂

  • @thomaspryor8202
    @thomaspryor8202 8 місяців тому +32

    Thank you for having her back! She is SO insightful.

  • @voice88out
    @voice88out 8 місяців тому +20

    Honestly: What fascinating me is Mark engagement with the whole conversation! Loved it

  • @mosaton
    @mosaton 8 місяців тому +10

    Holy smokes this interview and her analysis parallels my personal experiences, almost word for word in the way I would've described it. I feel much better about myself and the decisions I've made and why I've made them. I feel validated. I'll definitely rewatch this, and I've already subscribed to her channel. I wish she were my therapist!

  • @dennisnewton9384
    @dennisnewton9384 8 місяців тому +6

    I love your conversations with this beautiful woman and I appreciate the insight. I’ve learned so much and grown from this channel. Building up the courage to submit a tape. Keep up the good work

  • @eyeoh2006
    @eyeoh2006 6 місяців тому +2

    You’ve gone from strength to strength to bring quality interviews which translate into such specific insights. These have really been helpful in helping me develop as a person. Can’t thank you enough.

  • @mball5
    @mball5 8 місяців тому +41

    I am confused by Sadia’s and Mark’s support for Andrew Tate. Tate’s actions and words do not align. Most of what Tate does is a scam. I would like them to elaborate on that. Did anyone else think that was weird?

    • @ukalypse
      @ukalypse 8 місяців тому +9

      Tate has popularized misogyny.

    • @mball5
      @mball5 8 місяців тому +3

      @@ukalypseand is a pathological and idiotic liar. Not sure why mark thinks he is intelligent

    • @HitTheBricks89
      @HitTheBricks89 8 місяців тому

      @@ukalypse Misogyny was never unpopular.

    • @Joesire
      @Joesire 7 місяців тому +5

      I've listened to Tate some and he does say somethings I disagree with but he does present an intelligent perspective that you will not get from many sources these days. It's hard to find masculine perspective in popular media today.
      Remember the media will only focus on the negative angle of a person, but he says some e uplifting things for men that are needed.
      Most of the people that dislike him don't really even listen to him. That is how society is, to me it's just weird how people want to erase people they disagree with. I've heard more positive things from him than bad, he has said some bad advice but I use MY mind to make judgement on whether I agree or disagree. I don't listen to him much, but he is popular for a REAL reason.
      Someone tried to tell me he was a bad person once, and she showed me a video someone made about how bad he was. I thought that was weird. In the video he basically was talking about a form of virtual pimping with only fans and how to do it, which is Immoral and I can see why he would be called a misogynist. But that video was old.
      But from the videos that Ive seen... It's none of that. I simply wouldn't be watching that, because that's not what I'm into.
      Most of the videos I've seen are about male empowerment and life lessons and people don't like that.
      Dude has gotten a lot of media hate coverage which is strange to me.

  • @SammyBad1
    @SammyBad1 8 місяців тому +26

    For some reason, her saying that women are inherently manipulative and that they are more likely to cheat than men in her last interview rlly rubbed me the wrong way 😩

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 8 місяців тому +10

      I think the numbers are pretty equal, as far as cheating goes

    • @sgolosio
      @sgolosio 8 місяців тому +7

      Its give and take with internet view ... i dont take her view

    • @ScrapIrma
      @ScrapIrma 7 місяців тому

      She’s brainwashed by patriarchy … she stated she respects Andrew Tate and what he’s done for masculinity, so it’s no surprise her views are misogynistic with her view that women are more manipulative.

    • @OlRubberNuts
      @OlRubberNuts 7 місяців тому +1

      @@thematriarchy2075is that just what you think or is there any research that suggests this

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 7 місяців тому +1

      Well she’s not lieing.

  • @Nobody-Nowhere
    @Nobody-Nowhere 8 місяців тому +21

    Ronald Fairbairn explained this really well; he described the "exiting yet frustrating" object.
    This is well explained in a paper titled "The Allure of the Bad Object", that can be found online. Its the best single paper on this subject.
    "There had been indications that the other was incapable of reciprocating, or loving, or accepting them in the way they desire. They had been pursuing an alluring but rejecting object; an exciting yet frustrating object. The object initially may have offered the conditions of hope but it failed to satisfy. It had awakened an intensity of yearning but it is essentially the elusive object of desire, seemingly there but just out of reach."

    • @radfoo72
      @radfoo72 8 місяців тому +1

      *exciting (?)

    • @Nobody-Nowhere
      @Nobody-Nowhere 8 місяців тому +1

      @@radfoo72 Yes, that's correct. English is not my native language.

    • @jamescheaye927
      @jamescheaye927 8 місяців тому

      Chasing The Dragon 🐉

  • @KatlynMoss
    @KatlynMoss 8 місяців тому +6

    I loved this interview! She speaks so well about interesting things and Im looking forward to seeing the things that she has on her channel . Very thought provoking. I was crying when she said that being in a relationship can calm a nervous system.

  • @cg9279
    @cg9279 8 місяців тому +24

    Sadia - I have learned so much from your insights and appreciate your brutal honesty. You're the real deal - beautiful, super intelligent and yet extremely down to earth and willing to listen. Thank you for what you've shared in both interviews on this channel.

  • @Francesco_M.
    @Francesco_M. 7 місяців тому +2

    You can never get enough of talking relationships in that they are so vital to our lives whether they're good and serve us well or are in the process of demolishing our life.
    Granted there will be a next episode with Sadia I would call for a discussion about human development of children under the care of a couple, both in the case of a positive outcome or very unfavourable one.
    All the best to all of those who are struggling in whatever way that has been taken place.

  • @rachelx230484x
    @rachelx230484x 8 місяців тому +6

    Love that she got out a bit of background on you Mark! As a married woman of 8years the advice on emotional connection and physical is bang on. Im learning alot here about what my husbands needs even if he can't express it. If only they educated us on this subject properly at school! It's fascinating and enlightening ❤

  • @heenagujral244
    @heenagujral244 6 днів тому +1

    Sadia is such a well spoken intelligent woman and u can see she has that glimmer of childlike girly shyness in her eyes. It's actually very endearing. What a beautiful interview between Sadia and Mark.

  • @amiraauthenticallyherself
    @amiraauthenticallyherself 8 місяців тому +15

    That is so true. I am overweight and long for a relationship, but realized I have been running from the truth. I have low self esteem due to my weight and am self conscious of it. Rightfully so, I suppose. Now on a weight loss journey to correct my wrongs. Lost 17 pounds. I was 320 at my heaviest, but am 300.4 now. You'd think that may not be much, and it is not really. However, I didn't realize guys really viewed me, and that is because they did not. Who would? That fact made me feel the heaviest rejection from society. It is verrryyy hard to accept that while looking in the mirror. Once I did, I felt accepting of where I am at now, but ambitious of where I could be. It truly shows because I did not get defensive at all. I just accepted it and putting in the work to change :). Just love this channel.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 8 місяців тому +5

      Your weight should only be a problem because of your health. I understand you would like a relationship, but there definitely is someone for everyone. Don't forget, men are not the saviors of this world! Much succes with your weight loss❤

    • @MK-Hogan
      @MK-Hogan 8 місяців тому +5

      Good for you! And that IS a lot of weight lost. One pound at a time, just keep it going. 🙌🏼 This is why the body positive movement has gotten very dangerous. It convinces women (men don’t fall for it) that they’re perfectly healthy and attractive, and that if men don’t find us attractive they’re just terrible. The reality is just what it is and deluding ourselves doesn’t change it. When you feel good from making your body healthier, it shows via confidence and happiness, which is appealing.

    • @lphillips3584
      @lphillips3584 7 місяців тому

      Good luck in your journey!

  • @silentgaming1575
    @silentgaming1575 7 місяців тому +10

    "please don't take this to mean that i'm a good person in any way shape or form..." humility yet seeting boundries clearly. beautiful

  • @beastinshow2362
    @beastinshow2362 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for an enlightening talk, Sadia K. :)
    Honestly, as an old SWU sub I've thoroughly enjoyed both your and Orion's takes on the social dicotomy situation and transactional emotional & physical exchanges that continouously run through all of our daily social- and especially romantic- relationships.
    These have been true eye('third eye' especially perhaps) opening experiences for me, and I hope you'll both be back many more times in the future :)
    with love and respect from Sweden,

  • @gregmarino5397
    @gregmarino5397 7 місяців тому +11

    i have been researching relationships for 2 years and this is one of the best interviews i have heard. this is what no one wants to hear today. i love her. he's great too

  • @drewmillz1
    @drewmillz1 8 місяців тому +43

    She’s a great therapist. Thanks for bringing her back on mark and for the discussion you shared. It was packed with so much great insight.

  • @yolandaahrens9583
    @yolandaahrens9583 8 місяців тому +6

    So insightful. So much she says hits spot on for me. I really enjoy these type of interviews once in a while.

  • @guycomputer829
    @guycomputer829 8 місяців тому +17

    Man, great talk! One of the more interesting discussions you've had in a while w/somebody. Thank you both.

  • @sazopro
    @sazopro 8 місяців тому +3

    it's unfortunate the mic noises, I just can't focus on what she's saying which I'm sure is pure gold, she always provides amazing insights.

  • @jmatrix002the1
    @jmatrix002the1 8 місяців тому +15

    I normally hear thru my headphones and im like hold up! Voice and accent!!! Who is this angel!!

  • @chimpes
    @chimpes 8 місяців тому +4

    What a great interview very informative and how awesome is that Mark was the counterpart on the conversation.

  • @davidbanner9344
    @davidbanner9344 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much for having Sadia back on. This Woman is a treasure, she's one of very few people on this world, that I agree 💯 with. She is spot on each and every time.

  • @sublime7480
    @sublime7480 8 місяців тому +32

    I couldn't listen longer than 10 due to the microphone rubbing. Mark please remember to keep it clear from obstruction.

    • @OlRubberNuts
      @OlRubberNuts 7 місяців тому +3

      Yes everyone please remember to do everything perfectly all the time or else someone might complain. Lol bunch of bozos

    • @sublime7480
      @sublime7480 7 місяців тому

      @@OlRubberNuts I have sensory issues. Thanks for your understanding.

    • @OlRubberNuts
      @OlRubberNuts 7 місяців тому

      @@sublime7480 that is nobody else's problem thanks for understanding

    • @OlRubberNuts
      @OlRubberNuts 7 місяців тому

      @@sublime7480Your sensory issues aren't anybody else's problem thanks for understanding

    • @fkcoolers2669
      @fkcoolers2669 7 місяців тому +2

      @@OlRubberNuts Or when you have a show whose primary focus is audio, ensure the audio quality is good. This isn't complex stuff, bud. Try to keep up.

  • @christinaandrews6161
    @christinaandrews6161 8 місяців тому +2

    Great video! I love these types of interviews, and love that you mentioned doing more of them. Digging in to relationships at every level is such a critical component of our every day lives and interactions. Would appreciate more interviews with Sadia and others with a unique perspective and/or advice on relationships as a whole.

  • @1StumpBaby
    @1StumpBaby 8 місяців тому +44

    She’s so beautiful 😭😭

  • @roxannedunlop1044
    @roxannedunlop1044 8 місяців тому +26

    People do go through ups and downs physically. We need to love the person.

    • @ukalypse
      @ukalypse 8 місяців тому

      Thank you.

    • @justbreathe8835
      @justbreathe8835 7 місяців тому

      For a woman pregnancy is the number one factor for weight gain in my opinion,which can be healthy and beautiful. Other than that maybe an accident for men or woman could be an issue out of your hands. Bit for the large majority its laziness.

    • @roxannedunlop1044
      @roxannedunlop1044 7 місяців тому

      I think there are many reasons people gain weight. How about depression? That is one. Whatever it is have compassion for the individual.

    • @justbreathe8835
      @justbreathe8835 7 місяців тому +1

      @@roxannedunlop1044 that makes sense and I agree,I think that still applies with what I'm saying. That if all individuals take accountability for their life, that can bring them closer to solutions in their lives over not taking accountability.

  • @threadgrassone
    @threadgrassone 8 місяців тому +5

    REALLY enjoyed this one. Keep the mental health and repairing relationships interviews coming !

    • @threadgrassone
      @threadgrassone 5 місяців тому

      @@karenlubeck3294 she isn’t a therapist? I thought that was the whole premise of this interview.

    • @karenlubeck3294
      @karenlubeck3294 5 місяців тому +1

      @@threadgrassone, There is another Woman of the same name who is named Sadia Khan who is an actress. I mistook her for the psychologist Sadia Khan. Please disregard what I said. I will be deleting my comments.

  • @Midami422
    @Midami422 8 місяців тому +3

    Sadia and Mark, I adore you two to pieces. 1000x thank you!!! This interview has been outstanding and has helped me think about how I am treating my spouse and what I can do better. Lots of great advices. I have shared this video with my peers, family, friends, and my significant other. Also, I did not know men live longer if they are married. That is really good to know. Mark, you are extremely appreciated for all the work you have done and shared with us. You have given us so much. Please do not forget to give back to yourself. You deserve nothing but success, love, respect and happiness. Sadia, please keep sharing these advices. They are extremely valued and appreciated by folks like me.

  • @easy8325
    @easy8325 8 місяців тому +27

    She gives me a new outlook on relationships.

    • @vicki5322
      @vicki5322 8 місяців тому +2

      i'm curious what people other than me think, what's this new outlook on relationships you have?

  • @Mehwhatever349
    @Mehwhatever349 5 місяців тому +2

    I wish I could like a video twice.
    You guys are my relationship gurus.
    Much love.

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist 8 місяців тому +24

    I love that Sadia asks Mark questions.

  • @rachelx230484x
    @rachelx230484x 8 місяців тому +2

    Love Sadia, a fellow Londoner ❤ I can relate and really accept what she says in all her interviews! Relationships and people are so interesting keep her coming back Mark 😊

  • @yuglesstube
    @yuglesstube 8 місяців тому +18

    How thoughtful. Fascinating.

  • @paullittle4040
    @paullittle4040 7 місяців тому +2

    Important for men to hear the perspective of women. Relationships are so complex and the way to break that down is knowledge (of the opposite sex). Another great interview Mark!

  • @tammyschwarz6388
    @tammyschwarz6388 8 місяців тому +10

    The duty of caring….. soooooo true! Well said.

  • @711PARNAERUE
    @711PARNAERUE 8 місяців тому +12

    Mark said he was having his fun now lol I would love to know more about that Mark 😂

  • @technomickdocumentalist2495
    @technomickdocumentalist2495 8 місяців тому +6

    She’s right about so much stuff, and Mark talking about being a late bloomer, I turned 40 last week and the ladies are now making moves on me ! Wtf ? But in my teens when I was partying I had girlfriends here and there but I was always holding back.
    Life is a strange journey.. .
    Nice one Mark, this is a great guest to have on. 💯🙏☮️🙏

  • @shanec8224
    @shanec8224 7 місяців тому +4

    “Access increases, but quality decreases…” So in other words, the odds are good but the goods are odd…

  • @johnnyutah9462
    @johnnyutah9462 8 місяців тому +3

    This girl is by far the most entertaining and informative guest he's had on. I'm glad hes bringing her back. I'm gonna keep an eye out for more of her work.

  • @arlifestyles
    @arlifestyles 8 місяців тому +2

    This interview was very informative and agreeable. I love her transparency, intelligence, and beauty. Hey family did a great job setting a foundation for her to blossom 🌸💯

  • @ciaputter7462
    @ciaputter7462 7 місяців тому +3

    Rewarding the entitlement…. Damn. I immediately cried at that. I have never asked for anything and did so much for my husband. After missing Christmas, my birthday and Valentine’s Day I gave up. I couldn’t even get a ring from him after doing all his immigration work. I never wanted him to feel alone in such a stressful situation. I tried to do everything hoping he’d do everything and rise up as a partner. Never asked for him to pay my bills nor had he ever offered. My son asked me if it’s worth it, my husband left me in October hoping we could just make it long distance while reworking through immigration. Other men have wanted to marry me and take care of me but I feel so much that there is value and respect in marriage. I can’t even get him to tell his parents we are married. I’m a hidden wife and I hate myself for allowing this.

  • @JD-vs3do
    @JD-vs3do 4 місяці тому +1

    Another all time episode by Mark and A Great speaker. Thank you Sadia ! It's priceless for most listeners.

  • @hanaanderson6128
    @hanaanderson6128 8 місяців тому +4

    Always enjoy listening to her interviews! Informative insight ❤

  • @tiffanybazemore3058
    @tiffanybazemore3058 8 місяців тому +4

    She gets it! Everyone in the comments berating her was probably touched by some of her truths. A hit dog will always holler.

  • @lisastarr7998
    @lisastarr7998 8 місяців тому +6

    Imagine having dinner with her and Orion. They’re both so interesting but also frustrating in the same way. They’d probably talk over each other.

  • @kelleyfarm
    @kelleyfarm 8 місяців тому +1

    What a gift both her interviews are

  • @nhlibra
    @nhlibra 8 місяців тому +5

    Another great interview with Sadia. There were a few points that reminded me that I made the right decision (sometimes just luck) and a couple of reminders where I really screwed up. The key is to stay open for learning.
    Thank you for more valued information. Sadia. ♥

    • @subtomypage
      @subtomypage 7 місяців тому

      another boring 1 but since she hot and foreign people act like lnteresting

  • @sarahwolff1299
    @sarahwolff1299 7 місяців тому +1

    I enjoyed this interview more than the rest.
    It also makes me want to refresh my own relationship. Thank you for this boost !

  • @jennymcbain486
    @jennymcbain486 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you Mark for sharing your therapy session.

  • @cmack17
    @cmack17 8 місяців тому +18

    "Your parents will know what is best for you"
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @alejandragarcia9337
      @alejandragarcia9337 7 місяців тому +2

      Healthy parents yes

    • @cmack17
      @cmack17 7 місяців тому +2

      @alejandragarcia9337 Maybe. You seem to think that (healthy) parents have universal knowledge of their children. Or that their children are puppets who are beholden to their parents' needs and desires.
      "Healthy parents" are often in a position to make helpful suggestions. However, the ultimate arbiter of what is "best" for any individual, is that individual.
      Nevermind the fact that the concept of "best for" is ill-defined from the outset.
      Should your parents make all of your decisions for you right now based on the premise that they "know what is best for you"? What happens when you disagree with their position?

  • @AnnaDN76
    @AnnaDN76 8 місяців тому +5

    While I do not necessarily agree with everything she says, I think she has a major point saying that we are letting our childhood traumas and insecurities choosing our partners, and that is how the broken homes and consequently broken people epidemic is going on and worsening. That being said, I do not think arranged marriages are the solution !

  • @TerriWall-x3r
    @TerriWall-x3r 4 місяці тому +2

    THE BEST, most wholesome and grounded advice I’ve EVER heard. What an exceptional therapist…one of a kind…amazing and empowering!

  • @mcnut1
    @mcnut1 8 місяців тому +14

    She is a good talker, but is she really a psychologist? Registered/licensed where? Some people are questioning her credentials.

    • @singas2854
      @singas2854 8 місяців тому

      Interesting google search 🤔

    • @jorden1027
      @jorden1027 7 місяців тому +2

      No, she isn't.

    • @karenlubeck3294
      @karenlubeck3294 5 місяців тому

      I rechecked an there are two sadia Khan's this one is psychologist and the other I'd an actress.

  • @heatherphillips2715
    @heatherphillips2715 8 місяців тому +8

    Thank you for saying the bit about reward the women that” don’t ask for anything “ vs the entitled ones…

    • @SarahTerror.0
      @SarahTerror.0 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes. It breeds the "nice gals finish last" attitudes in women.

    • @user-xs5dp4gw8e
      @user-xs5dp4gw8e 8 місяців тому +1

      yes it really means appreciate your partner ... it works both ways ... no one likes being taken for granted for very long

  • @TeamAwesomeDad
    @TeamAwesomeDad 8 місяців тому +32

    We're witnessing the end of SWU. The grifters have invaded and the voiceless will go back to the shadows. Reality isn't pretty. It's raw and it's ugly. The people on skidrow know more about the real world than this person could ever imagine and that's what made this channel great.

    • @mac-iq9hj
      @mac-iq9hj 8 місяців тому

      Ok

    • @ivyleaguestyles
      @ivyleaguestyles 8 місяців тому +4

      💯 !! I noticed the same

    • @ddz1375
      @ddz1375 8 місяців тому

      Did you not listen when he said he was getting exhausted by the real grifters and scammers hounding him. Mark is not Mother fucking Teresa. Nor should he have to sacrifice his well-being for those who care little for their own.

    • @TeamAwesomeDad
      @TeamAwesomeDad 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@ddz1375
      Tired of the amateur grifters and going for the professional ones?

    • @ddz1375
      @ddz1375 8 місяців тому +1

      @@TeamAwesomeDad he can't win. Poverty porn or elitist content. Maybe he should go back to advertising.

  • @joanna9340
    @joanna9340 8 місяців тому +3

    BAM!! She speaks TRUTH to Mark on porn and OF and sex industry!! He is adamantly protective of sex work, so it was GREAT that she spoke on TRUTH of it. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @HybridTrapMusic
    @HybridTrapMusic 8 місяців тому +3

    felt like a therapy sesh

  • @Jess.E.17
    @Jess.E.17 8 місяців тому +16

    I love Sadia! Thanks for bringing her back. ❤️🙏🏼

  • @antigonek727
    @antigonek727 7 місяців тому +4

    She lost me when she said she "loves Andrew Tate's message". WTF!!! I didnt expect this from her... total disappointment...

  • @pitchwife7573
    @pitchwife7573 8 місяців тому +26

    second time she has been on with awful audio :(

    • @bluejeans1773
      @bluejeans1773 8 місяців тому +4

      Yes it's sounds like she rubbing the mic or maybe her shirt

    • @Gram72534
      @Gram72534 8 місяців тому +4

      I think it's her hair rubbing on the mic.?.?

  • @groovytau
    @groovytau 2 місяці тому

    you're not boring at all miss Sadia, this is what we need, education on relationship.

  • @samalsobrook6196
    @samalsobrook6196 8 місяців тому +25

    watching things like this remind me why i choose to be single

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 8 місяців тому +3

    Fantastic interview 💎
    Thank you Mrs. Khan & SWU

  • @giodecarolis10
    @giodecarolis10 8 місяців тому +16

    Hard to ignore the constant microphone scratching from her hair

    • @johnnyhackleman9643
      @johnnyhackleman9643 8 місяців тому +1

      Hard to ignore the mask you’re wearing in your profile picture 😂

  • @fieryred518
    @fieryred518 2 місяці тому

    She is great! And her advice is spot on. Unfortunately, sometimes, the truth is hard to swallow for some people. I love how she tells the truth that most don't want to hear.....But always remember it may not be fair, but life is not fair!

  • @ichigossbm4636
    @ichigossbm4636 8 місяців тому +13

    "Distance invites the devil."
    Mind so blown. What a very 2024 thing to be said in this technological era.

  • @williamallen4128
    @williamallen4128 8 місяців тому +1

    She is very well educated and well spoken. I learn a lot from her

  • @shelleydeblase6286
    @shelleydeblase6286 8 місяців тому +34

    I'm a little creeped out by this one. I dunno. Talking about Andrew Tate like he's a credible person? All the talk of if a woman gains weight she's unattractive? What about if the man gains weight? No word on that one. This one turned me off a bit. Some good nuggets of truth, but some made me say WTH?

    • @ukalypse
      @ukalypse 8 місяців тому +13

      Yes, both of them agree that it is OK to dump a female partner if she gains weight--but also claim that the reason successful couples stay together into old age is NOT because they remain "hot" but because of their emotional connection. Contradictions anyone????

    • @HitTheBricks89
      @HitTheBricks89 8 місяців тому

      @@ukalypse Yes of course contradictions , not everyone is the same , one rule doesn't fit all and neither of them is saying it is ok to finish with a person or not , they are making observations and speaking about other peoples observations. You really seem to miss the point of wat social psychology actually entails . It's not judging right or wrong rather just observing and understanding why people behave as they do.

    • @BLUNTZnBEATZ97
      @BLUNTZnBEATZ97 7 місяців тому +1

      So what if he gains weight.... You like "Dad bods" right? Enjoy!

    • @inpropagation
      @inpropagation 7 місяців тому

      Women put on weight worse than men, get over it.

    • @scottblack7182
      @scottblack7182 7 місяців тому

      It's called a grift my friend. They pepper their lies with the truth to make it easier to digest. For your own sanity and intelligence I'd unsubscribe. I was on the fence about joining this channel and this video was the deal breaker. It's a conservative channel pushing nonsense.

  • @NattyByNature-
    @NattyByNature- 8 місяців тому +2

    Most of what she said I figured out from a young age, that’s why I’ve never been interested in sleeping around or accepted cheating. No matter how society tried to normalize it. I’ve always wanted relationships with connections and depth.

  • @cassielee3874
    @cassielee3874 8 місяців тому +17

    Being a stripper doesn't mean someone is a bad person girlie

    • @justinb7558
      @justinb7558 8 місяців тому

      A hoes a hoe. Strippers are for the streets. But you can be a hoe and a nice person

    • @SK-fp4ed
      @SK-fp4ed 8 місяців тому +3

      No, it doesn't, but it does show someone's character.

    • @curtismorris8243
      @curtismorris8243 8 місяців тому +1

      Just shows you up front her self worth.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@SK-fp4edWho's? The people who come to the club, right?

    • @SK-fp4ed
      @SK-fp4ed 8 місяців тому

      @thematriarchy2075 Whose? Both! I would never be a stripper and I would never be with a man that would go to those places.

  • @shomgerry
    @shomgerry 7 місяців тому

    Such a delight that she came on twice. An amazing interview, thank you both 👏🏿

  • @InsaneOaf
    @InsaneOaf 8 місяців тому +6

    When Mark was describing how he felt after being rejected as a young man instead of feeling truly sorry for him Sadia had to hold back a smile. Only a disgusting soul would have that kind of reaction. Zero empathy. As a man I knew exactly what Mark was trying to communicate and it's nothing to laugh about.
    And she really thinks that a 30 something year old man can just hook up with a girl on Tinder whenever he wants? Really oblivious to 99% of the male perspective while projecting what it's like for 99% of women.

  • @karenrutherford2844
    @karenrutherford2844 3 місяці тому

    This is so rich and insightful! I never understood the two sexes so well. It’s so hard to find answers as to why I’m the way I am and to not only understand myself but my husband. The men are simple yet completely different. I didn’t understand myself as a woman. The emotions as a woman are so intense that looking at something more logically to understand oneself is rough. I appreciate this knowledge so deeply! I love this!