How To Be The Type of Man Women Chase (w/ Sadia Kahn)
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Sadia Kahn is a therapist who understands the differences between men and women and what makes each one happy and fulfilled. You'll learn the problems with modern women and how to be the type of man that can keep the kind of woman that every man truly desires to have in his life.
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Guys, just remember: Women aren’t designed to love you, they’re designed to look for the best man, always. So do your best to be that Best Man. Even that won’t guarantee that she’ll stay with you, but will give you more chances. And day after day, keep working hard to be better, cause she’ll always, always have her radar on, in case a better man comes. That’s sad, but unfortunately that the truth about female nature. That’s biology.
It’s true. The best man for a women can change though when there is a connection. If a guy better than you comes a long but doesn’t create a connection with her she won’t leave you. Especially if you pick the right woman. This is also partially human nature. Most men would leave their girl if a much more beautiful woman with the same personality made a connection with them.
@@thegoremachine4258🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
true .. I work on myself for myself .. I have had lots of women .. most of whom have been disappointing in most ways. It's funny how we (as men) are constantly tested by women but they can be utter shite and average .. whilst we jump through serious hoops to gain even the most average dull woman's approval .. sad and exhausting tbh
Yes, you are right. But the problem is biology that is COMPLETELY unchecked. Men "are designed' to f**k anything that walks, but is that an excuse for ALL MARRIED MEN to be unfaithful? No. Because apart from pure naked instinct we also created CULTURAL NORMS. Which today are deemed "oppressive". And this is the problem.
Of course, a man should strive to be the best. But all this is one-sided, if it's just men that have to all the work, and women basically... need not do anything and are absolved of ALL responsibility. This is NOT how a healthy society works.
Yup. 100% facts
It all boils downs to fact that women in your vicinity (community) usually get attracted to Successful men for dating however she will end up marrying to ideal candidate who is more successful in eyes of society. But if you have relationship then to sustain that you need to give time and efforts while as men you are also trying to be successful in eyes of society standards. Men have to handle both women and society as successful person.
QUESTION FOR WOMEN WHO CLAIM TO CARE ABOUT MEN...
Exactly when are you going to start seriously fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
How come none of these relationship experts are happily married with kids?
This woman deserves a real man in her life! We need more women who talk like this! 👌
With high divorce rates lot men don’t want marry
They do, but they want a submissive woman.
True. Men will leave the divorce court wearing a barrel.
They want a ambition man due to an agenda
Your money is her money 😅😊
You can be busy and still communicate. You can shoot a quick text letting them know you’re thinking about them despite your busy work schedule. There’s no excuse. If you want to, you will.
Negative issues sells a lot in the society we find ourselves 🌏🇧🇻
“Recognizes her beauty but isn’t fazed by it” 6:40
Because he is focused on her value as a whole multi-faceted human being, not on her chest and hip ratio. She deliberately left that out, you can't catch flies with vinegar.
5:00 that literally doesn't make any sense, why are women attracted to men, that don't even have the time to invest into the relationship? seems kinda psychopathic if you ask me, because I work 80 hours a week, how stupid are you, that you want to be with me, who'll rarely spend time with you? I really don't understand 😅😅
Remember gentlemen. The first step is to always better ourselves. It's not just the most important step, it's the most moral one.
Great talk. Big fan of Sadia
Are the women going to put effort into a relationship ? Texting, planning dates, and trying to create something ? Nah, they aren't
Then you will accuse of being masculine. The man gives and initiates and woman receives and surrenders. She will give you peace, offer ideas to your vision, and support. Your partner as a women is right hand person.
I just started listening to Sadia today and I agree with a lot of her beliefs and what she says. However I'm one of these men that is successful and has been on his purpose all of my life. You and others say that's very attractive. However I've never met any lady to this day, I also didn't know there were signals that ladies were giving out all of this time, because nobody taught me, I don't even think my older brothers knew women gave out signals. I btw am a high value man.
What she says here is not completely the truth. She is saying what sounds good in order to score male listners and followers. I am a counselor and unfortunately, I deal with a lot of very broken people. Society is sick right now. Relationships are very challenging, because it all starts with the individual and the family of origin, and that has been commonly severed and broken in a variety of ways. When you didn't have the right role models growing up, you don't have a good frame of reference for what value is, what relationship is, what being healthy, sane, emotionally intelligent, and socially skilled is. And you need all those ingredients for things to flow and have longevity. There is no exact formula for meeting the right person, and in fact, many people nowadays are not the right person. It's all very misleading. Divorce rates are through the roof, and why is that, since we have so much information and sexual freedom? Men and women are no longer very compatible, gender roles are all mixed up, people are looking at the wrong attributes, and therefore making the wrong choices, and so on. Women are always giving signals, but of course you have to understand and interpret it correctly, and there is no school curriculum for that. Listening to male relationship coaches does not help, they don't know it themselves, they are not women, it's not cookie cutter, it's not simple. If you are indeed a high value man, you can easily find a great lady, but you have to be very careful with who you select, and why. Men like you are in high demand. So you should be able to have lots of options. But not all options are good. There are also a fair number of high value women, and the same conditions and stipulations apply. But it's not a simple task by any means. So be careful. Your choice of partner will have a huge impact on your life in every level. A woman can either be a blessing to you or a curse. And vice versa. All this is assuming you want to find a high value woman. If you just want fun, that's easy. But those women you can have fun with are not even close to being high value women. I hope this helps.
@@joanofarcxxiyou just elaborated and said exactly what Sadia says , you need to listen to more than one podcast to see what she says, you can only say so much in limited time
@@joanofarcxxi Disagree, mostly.
1. The main problem is the family is broken. Two generations have now been raised by either daycare, single parents or both. So you have millions of who are either insecurely attached, grew up in dysfunctional families or both.
2. These damaged people struggle with relationships and act out their unfinished business in intimate relationships. I had an emotionally abusive mother, and realized at age 38 that I had paired up with a parade of women who were angry, withholding and emotionally unavailable. I had to own the fact that I had an unhealthy attraction to toxic women as a result of trying to “fix” what my mother had done to me.
3. Esther Perel makes two key points: One: modernity has led to a collapse of standards. So while we have greater freedom….EVERYTHING in relationship is now a negotiation because there are no rules.
Two: People have unrealistic standards. They want a level of satisfaction from ONE PERSON, that used to be provided by an entire family and community. We don’t want spouses. We want superheroes…who obviously aren’t real. So we are disappointed that real men and women can’t live up to what we imagine. Our imagination is the problem.
4. Masculinity has been under assault in an effort to destroy that masculine: feminine polarity. As result both sexes are turned off by what’s available. Women are finding overly feminine and U.N. assertive men are unappealing. Likewise men are finding overly masculine, women who are tatted up like a Viking raider, competitive, promiscuous and disagreeable to be unattractive.
Most of these males spaces online are valuable. They replace the male role models that many of these men lacked growing up. The replace the local male spaces that have been destroyed in the name of gender equity…and they tell men that their innate masculinity isn’t bad.
That it just needs to be disciplined and focus… in their own interests, not in the service of women’s interests.
Women are simply shocked by this because they don’t understand men, they don’t understand masculinity…and so they are seeing this for the first time.
TLDR: Progressivism has gone to far and the fabric of society is starting to unravel. So the pendulum is starting to slow and preparing to swing back. Men and women are of equal value. But we are different, and Nature doesn’t care about our politics.
Women need to wake up and look in the mirror and see the disconnect between what they say they want, and what they are actually attracted to.
I think she said that a man has to meet his potential in all aspects. Something to think about is whether you are high value spiritually and socially.
Do you have hobbies where you meet people, do you go to church?
Maybe there is an aspect of yourself that you haven't been working on.
Just something to think about
you are a high value man? you sure?
Good conversation.
She says the Uber driver pool of ladies will be small. However I see homeless men have pretty women. How does that happen?
Because of drugs.
Pretty women who may have serious issues like not valuing themselves enough.
Modern feminism in the West is actually a great cause of concern. We have young women in the Gen Z saying men should die & this is quite sad for my fellow men over there & the world in general because this unfortunately is spreading to other parts of the globe.
The 1st wave of feminism was about equal opportunity & I think we actually need to go back in history & not try to erase it. Going back let’s us learn & know how far we have come & what we can do better as the human race.
Currently we aren’t doing so well & we actually need to talk to each other on an actual human level because we need each other in various ways.
In all this we are forgetting about our kids who are our future generation & we need to do better for them so that we can avoid traumatised young people in the future.
We need to be more understanding to each other & work together to improve our lives. We need to realise that the things that bring us true happiness are actually free.
For instance, if I see kids playing somewhere and just having fun I am way happy & just want watch them for hours.
All the material things we chase & buy can’t give us true happiness. If they did then I don’t understand why so many people including the celebrities so seem to have it are so depressed & cry themselves to sleep.
The power of branding unfortunately has convinced us we need a lot of material things that we work to get for years instead of using that effort to make real connections with friends, family, actually bettering our intellect with books, exercising & learning a new skill that can change our lives.
We need to do better as the human race.
Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪
I like your response. One of the most wholesome things i've read in a while. :)
@@alexanderoldingvidarte5590 Thanks:)
No I believe feminism improve nothing and changed the social dynamics. Since women operates with hypergamy it became harder for women to find men who are wealthier than them especially since the really wealthy men are scarse
This was a great interview, really and eye-opener thank you Sadia , and thanks to that gentleman too! This was a great topic!👍👏👏👏👏
From a woman- Sadia, you are very wise! I think you see clearly. Thank you. ❤
Tripp better make a move! That woman is gorgeous & down to earth.
I think she's married
Shes married gutter brains
And Tripp has a girlfriend or he’s married now.
Sadia is a high value hottie! She’s for the red carpet and not the streets!
While I agree with you therapist on the part of men getting their career and looks sorted, you said the game that he spits in other words his mouth piece don't matter. Sorry, but that's a baseless point. How he communicates is a key part of why a woman wants to get with him in addition to him being somewhat good looking and somewhat wealthy. It also tells her how he communicates to himself. But man should never develop these things to impress a woman but to look after himself first and then others.
Maybe this is the most interesting interview I've seen on UA-cam. Really funny how I had to emphasise this same point in my class last week about the roles of both genders, my professor and some female classmates are feminists and I tried to explain why we should embrace our differences and not expect men to be more feminine and women to be more masculine. Let's embrace the difference, that's what makes it all beautiful, that's what makes the fabric of our society strong.
Most guys don't do hookup with women just the top guys
Settling down and getting married sound good on paper.. but the truth is the game never stops - your wife / girl friend can be your greatest hinderance or your greatest advantage... in this climate of dating.. you must be very, very caution of the route you want to take
Most men want to get marry and have kids but a lot of women get in the way of that
Because of your intentions and experiences, you seem to have studied males as well as yourself. Qualifications are definately value that can be apparent. Congratulations. When seeking intel, nothing like the proper blend of qualified,sincere, and skill forged through experience.
Relationship is about caring for each other whether you're a woman or a man.
Eexcellant discourse as well as the interactive flow. Both male and female intel makes for effective development for up and coming templates.
If you would look into the camera, it would be better. Enjoyed.
these 2 talkers are gonna end together UwU
Fuck I am an Uber driver you make me disappointed
Even scratching a forehead can be a signal
I'm a straight man and mixed race, born in 1965. And I've seen a lot of changes.
Sexist have changed sides. A lot of females have become sexist, hating straight males.
Racism has changed hating white and brown males.
Or hating males that don't agree with the double standards about males, females, lesbians, gay men
They change more than the English weather.
But straight white, brown has a different option, then they labelled with. Bla bla bla & bla
So let's see all these other groups of females,
transgender bla bla groups forced into the infantry army ready to face the front line that alone males do have done for thousands of years
Or are they going bla bla bla that's not true.
With us men…no one is coming to save us
She is the entire package!
I love Sadia's message on SoMe, but there is one point I can not agree on. That everyone is willing to help woman, but not the man. This is way too generalised + she has muslim background where family values are different that in biggest part in europe.
A lot of women of today are worst then the women of the past aka of the 40's 50's and 60's or even in traditional 3rd world counties because a lot of women have lost the traditional ways of the past like cooking as an example because a lot of women think cooking is beneath them now days
A lot of women now days dislike women who are Tradwifes which are modern day housewifes for many diffrent reasons but the big reason is because a lot of women feel like being a traditional woman of the past or in general is below them, a step down or something of the past
A man who is a business person and dont care that much about beautiful women, they do but they know they have money, they can get one then beautiful women.
I love this discussion, you are both great and you do a great service to relashions. Explaining the natural feelings and how to behave for these 2 different species 😁 who don t know anymore to play their roles is much needed in these times.
The answer to your question is feminism came into play to break up the families and divide the people to not get together as marriage mates.
If you do not know who Norah Vincent is look her up because she said back in the mid 2000's that men had it way harder then women do
Guys don't move to London England because it no better then the US city you are in right now when it comes to dating
Double standards are inevitable. Mutual respect and mutual interests can factor functional resolves.
Sadia is very knowledgeable but always paints a sad picture
👏 Sadia
She has some understand but she is still limited in the male experience because she is a woman
CEO have to be cruel, don't be a CEO if you are emotional
Women dictate every facet of dating no matter if she a good or bad person unless you are one of the top guys
I feel like I’m listening to a private date between those two. Tripp, you better play one of your move on her
Why th war?? RADICAL FEMINISM
Thank you Sadia for keeping it real!
She is very beautiful. ❤
Imagine being married and ignored….
Co-dependant VS inter-dependant = ?
This went to left wing nonsense at the end.
33:35 so what is the title of the podcast ?
At 5’2” I don’t think I can be. Because of my height I’m automatically dismissed. I’ve been told I’m a good looking guy, but…no girlfriend. It’s gotta be my height.
If all else fails, consider moving to another country where 5'2 is not considered that bad.
But its not the end of the world. You can still do it. People have done it
5’1” here... Yes height is a huge factor only when it comes to dating apps and shit where filters can be applied... but in real life a lot of other stuff matters. Because of the fact that 90% of the guys have zero idea how to play the game.
Hey Nick,I’m 5’4” and I attract a lot of pretty babies. You need to have a masculine frame, not a defeated frame my boy! Also, be outgoing and confident lad, and you’ll see in real life it ain’t all about height. Also, don’t go for the girls who belong to the streets.
@@VEE727, he ain’t moving nowhere, but will be taking over, son!
Stop worrying about your insecurities. The stats on paper don’t matter
Contract > marriage
She is a goddess
Keep it up
I like how she’s aware to the fact that she is a beautiful women 9:51
1. Be rich. 2. Be rich. 3. Be rich
👍
Thanks for the conversation!☺
Loved her uber analogy even though. A y western women probably want her to stop talking now. She's spilling their beans/ game
The males are groomed for accountabilty based off consequences. The difficulty in the west that I see is developing accountabilty in females. In the midst of double standards, males have concepts like bigger man, real man,man up. The lady was the alternative standard for females. In my estimation, what standard can distinguish the factors of reciprocity that will result in accountability. Just a thought to ponder.
A lot of women want the men that other women want which are usually the top guy because even if you are doing your best in life it may not be the best in the eyes of the majority of women
Feminism has hurt dating for men and women as a whole
Men don't need a woman!
grow up
@@kc270352 staying away from immature women is the best way I grew up.
@@carzorofnuub8869 You haven't grown up yet
@@VEE727 and you have!?!? 😆
There are a lot of low standard women that are very beautiful. But of course you have the possibilities of having different values than a high value man. But a low value man may understand them better. And vice versa.
Tripp's first question should have been "How long have you been a charlatan for?"
She had a strict muslim upbringing by her father. She's not a charlatan.