HOW IM NAVIGATING A BREAK UP... reflections on relationships, turning 23, & new found independence

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  • Опубліковано 4 лис 2024
  • Welcome to 𝘈 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶 podcast by lifestyle, wellness, & self help youtuber - Fernanda Ramirez. in this episode you guys are hearing about some topics i've been avoiding.. listen along to hear some major life updates, my thoughts and reflections on relationships, how i'm navigating this new chapter of my life, turning 23, & how i'm planning on exploring my womanhood in my 20s ;)
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  • @Kumaunels
    @Kumaunels 14 днів тому +158

    This is my first time to leave comments in English!! I'm korean and study English by listening your podcasts♡♡ thanks for making good videos all the time

  • @mayara.design
    @mayara.design 14 днів тому +52

    I'm 30, and all I can say is that 23 was a magical and defining age for me. That’s when I truly stepped into my womanhood and became clear about what I wanted and didn’t want. Since then, not much has changed in terms of my values, beliefs, or vision for the future. Life happens, of course, but I believe 23 was the first time I really felt like an adult. Happy bday!

  • @bibbaaah
    @bibbaaah 14 днів тому +33

    It's really inspiring to see how young you are and how healthy you view your life and emotions. You have a good head on your shoulders. And I think you are handling this situation and you are prepared for other situations. I will tell you I'm 30 years old and I really enjoy watching your UA-cam videos. I actually thought you were older when I watched the first one, I thought you were more my age. But I just like what you have to say. And about 2 months ago my fiance and I were on the verge of breaking up and calling off our wedding which was really terrible and thankfully we worked through it. But a part of the reason I think we were able to work through it is because I knew that if we did end up breaking up I would have a good life despite not being with him. I knew I could handle it. And that is shortly after when I first started watching your channel and I think the reason I had such a healthy perspective on us breaking up Is because I was taking in so much healthy content on UA-cam, especially from your channel. I'm really glad to see you're doing alright. Not every relationship is going to work out and that is totally okay. And like you said, you guys could end up together later on. But yeah, thanks for this video and for putting all these healthy perspectives out there for people. I don't know if you understand how much you inspire and help us. 🩷

  • @ЯрославаКамалова
    @ЯрославаКамалова 14 днів тому +16

    thank you so much that you don`t afraid of sharing your emotions! it`s so appreciated

  • @KittyJahau
    @KittyJahau 14 днів тому +6

    So sorry about your break up
    And happy birthday
    It's always good to hear Ur voice no matter what the topic is.
    But I'm hoping u make more stuff to listen to before sleep
    I like listening podcasts and sleep and your voice is really soothing

  • @CristanFaith
    @CristanFaith 14 днів тому +5

    Love how open and honest you are!!! I just turned 23 on October 5th and I’ve never felt more confused about the future 😅 22 yr old me thought I knew everything and I think this year is gonna be filled with learning! 💖 can’t wait to see what this new chapter will bring for you

  • @etiennelearningenglish
    @etiennelearningenglish 14 днів тому +3

    You are my TOP1 podcast for learning English!

  • @aminar9044
    @aminar9044 13 днів тому +3

    I'm 32 and I'm going through a recent breakup (the second relationship I've had in my life). There's no bad blood between us but I'm still finding it really difficult at times. Listening to this helped so much though so thank you!

  • @charlenegagnonhachey2745
    @charlenegagnonhachey2745 14 днів тому +7

    I finally went no contact with my ex since yesterday. I haven’t watched this yet but I feel like this is such great timing

  • @ikramsdigitaldiary
    @ikramsdigitaldiary 14 днів тому +8

    I love you Fernanda so much ,I am proud of you for everything you’ve achieved ❤❤
    you will get through it ,time heals truly

  • @Lifeaccordingtomie
    @Lifeaccordingtomie 14 днів тому +6

    Just what i needed after ending a narcisista relationship.

  • @normohns
    @normohns 14 днів тому +50

    never clicked so fasttttt

  • @tabbyworrall444
    @tabbyworrall444 13 днів тому +2

    You always have the right topics at the right times

  • @elenamanzo9481
    @elenamanzo9481 14 днів тому +3

    Im going through the same thing ! Living life for myself and pouring love into myself 💖 cheers it’s truly amazing

  • @peytonbritt8476
    @peytonbritt8476 14 днів тому +1

    Your hair has grown so much since I first started watching last year!😍
    thank you for being you and making me want to be better as well!🤍

  • @lesley96
    @lesley96 11 днів тому

    I’m so happy for you that you’re starting this single life journey early in your 20’s. I was in my relationship for almost 8 years and I felt the exact same but now, I’m going through it in my late 20’s. However, I do not regret my choice at all. I always said it too, your 20’s should be your selfish years. I have so many opportunities that came my way once I left my relationship and I’m so grateful! This is only the beginning! 🤩 Best of luck! You deserve it!

  • @Imtorylee124
    @Imtorylee124 14 днів тому +6

    Am 16 and I also just broke up I discovered that I didn't want teenage relationship not yet, but I wanted to focus on my passion and even though I want a relationship he isn't someone I see myself with, he doesn't align with me at all, so I decided to break up with him.

  • @productiveperson488
    @productiveperson488 14 днів тому +1

    AH HH UR EYES ARE SO PRETTY TYSM FOR ALL THE SUPPORT AND COZYINESS IN UR VIDEOSS ILYSM I AM SO SO PREOUD OF YOU!! EVERYONE IS MOTIVATED, INSPIRED ILY BROOOOOO!!!! I FEEL LIKE UA-cam CHANNELS HAVE A CERTAIN COZY VIBE AND HOME IN THEIR VIDEOS ILY AND I AM SORRY ABOUT UR BREAKUP BUT IT HAPPENS TO THE BEST OF US I UNDERSTAND U WANNA KEEP THIS PRIVATE AND THAT'S HOPEFULLY RESPECTED FOR OTHER! I COMPLETLY UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!

  • @clarissefuentes
    @clarissefuentes 13 днів тому

    I got out of a 3& 1/2 year relationship & I ended it days before I turned 26. I turned 27 this year in September, it was such a difficult decision but I felt like I out grew him. A year later I know I made the right decision. It’s weird when your brain finishes developing, you’re doing absolutely amazing!! You’re on the right path, yes it’s sad and difficult but there’s great things to come

  • @ainurbakytkhan3843
    @ainurbakytkhan3843 6 днів тому

    very grateful for this video, i am going through the same situationship, but iit felt like a break up sooo im gonna fully concentrate on myself and selfcare, go girl

  • @phuonglinhtranhoang7477
    @phuonglinhtranhoang7477 9 днів тому

    After watching your video, i get a lot of inspiration, especially the way you think about your old boyfriend. I believe your relationship was pure and romantic that i have ever known. And I can see grateful eyes when you share about him, obviously, each person appearing in our life will bring us a certain significance. Hope great things for you and keep your fire momentum

  • @Gia-fe8fl
    @Gia-fe8fl 14 днів тому +1

    I just want to say that for as much as I love ur videos I value ur happiness and self growth more so if UA-cam isn’t you number 1 priority we really just care about YOU so yeah love u ❤

  • @ValentinaRodriguez-yj1sv
    @ValentinaRodriguez-yj1sv 14 днів тому +4

    Thank you for your advice , i'll take it , i hope that u can reach all the good things that u wanna do🌸

  • @sionaaa_
    @sionaaa_ 7 днів тому

    Fernanda you always come through with the advice I need when I need it! Its like we are experiencing the same life events!!! Also think its so ironic that you are also a Libra like me🫶🏽 keep em coming girly!!! You keep me going some days!

  • @LilaLaBine
    @LilaLaBine 8 днів тому

    I can say with 99% certainty (because I don’t know you) that you will never regret your decision.
    At 22 I was in your same situation, only I chose to stay (and get married) because I thought it was the mature thing to do. After all, he was a wonderful boyfriend.
    Leaving a marriage at 39 is a lot harder with a lot more hurt involved. I did do it, though, and I’m so happy to be where I am now at 43. And we’re still good friends.
    I’m happy for you!

  • @xuanngocho879
    @xuanngocho879 7 днів тому

    I dont think you're young like this, your vibe, your energy seem to be so mature with profound experiences. Wish you have a great new age ahead

  • @ChhayaRabari-no9zq
    @ChhayaRabari-no9zq 14 днів тому +7

    Thank you for always sharing positivity and making me a better version of myself.
    Last year u have many ups and downs.but any ways
    Happy happy birthday 🎂🎉
    I’m really excited for what this new year will bring for you. You deserve all the happiness and new beginnings!

  • @Mahmoud-j4j
    @Mahmoud-j4j 13 днів тому +1

    I'm so proud of you and your interesting content, because I found a podcast with such positivity, and I'm excited to see the best and most wonderful person in you. I am certain that you will get what you want without fear, and I am optimistic that I will see that in you .😊

  • @biancaaskdjxs3934
    @biancaaskdjxs3934 11 днів тому

    spotify fan hereeee, i really appreciate your honestly especially through the internet. love ur content so much, you’ve helped me change my mindset in every way. sending love and everything sweet🩷

  • @ThùyVõMinh-w7j
    @ThùyVõMinh-w7j 13 днів тому +1

    I listen your pordcast every day to improve my listening skill!!!!

  • @haydeebenitez4606
    @haydeebenitez4606 6 днів тому

    You are so inspiring! I could listen to you talk for hours

  • @crystalgtv5223
    @crystalgtv5223 14 днів тому +4

    So glad this video came through! I’m doing my nails and love listening to you ❤❤❤ sending you hugs Fern ! I’m sorry about your breakup 😢 I’m so happy you have friends and family around to help in this time. Happy birthday 🎉too ! Xoxo ps thank you for acknowledging me on snap you made my day !

  • @AutumnKoehler-jn2fu
    @AutumnKoehler-jn2fu 3 дні тому

    Hey Fernanda, can u please make another video about getting started on working out and maintaining a healthy diet I’ve been stuck on trying to start forever now and I feel like you would have the best tips

  • @nicole4214
    @nicole4214 10 днів тому

    Hi ferenda pleaseee pleaseee pleaseee make a video about coping and handling insecurity in life 💗💗

  • @paigeensminger
    @paigeensminger 14 днів тому

    PERIOD BABE!!!!! that whole moment when you said, "23 to me is...." (21:53) I was like "yaaaaas!! she is killing it!!!" I am so happy for you and where you're at in your journey. I'm sure sometimes this gets annoying to hear, but honestly you're still SO young and have all the time in the world! Embrace it and enjoy

  • @castelodamian
    @castelodamian 12 днів тому

    Fer I'm some days late cause I've been busy but omggg your glowing i love you so much and your truly an amazing person my biggest inspiration❤

  • @Starligth1236
    @Starligth1236 14 днів тому +1

    Loved this episode! You are amazing! Go Ferny, Go 🎉🎉🎉

  • @mermer4511
    @mermer4511 14 днів тому +1

    Thanks to your videos I learn to understand English by ear, your speech it’s just so clean and beautiful, thanks a lot ❤❤❤

  • @laravulinovic3635
    @laravulinovic3635 10 днів тому

    What! Time flyes I am following u since u where 19. Happy Birthday 🎉

  • @d1ohllyy
    @d1ohllyy 14 днів тому

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY FERNANDAAAA i love uu soo much

  • @ericabastardo833
    @ericabastardo833 14 днів тому +2

    you inspire me 🥹💖 kiss from Portugal 🇵🇹

  • @MrYD-my9eo
    @MrYD-my9eo 12 днів тому

    sorry for breaking up, just hope you to get it over

  • @josephkustra1644
    @josephkustra1644 14 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤love your videos so much and you are so amazing and i’m so proud of you

  • @authenticallytrish
    @authenticallytrish 14 днів тому +1

    I’m so happy for you Fernanda!! It’s amazing to see your growth this year ❤

  • @EscapeTheMatrix504
    @EscapeTheMatrix504 14 днів тому

    My F-comment... I appreciate this episode, i love the way you explain hard things❤

  • @bobohuns9230
    @bobohuns9230 14 днів тому +2

    You are such an inspiration! I aspire to have your energy and drive to work hard for my own goals

  • @KelishaDasilva
    @KelishaDasilva 14 днів тому +1

    You’re so amazing. Keep doing what you’re doing

  • @baddie_dar
    @baddie_dar 14 днів тому +5

    My husband and I we best friends at the beginning too, but now 4 year later I’m not even sure if it’s a good idea to stay in this marriage

  • @little.devotional
    @little.devotional 13 днів тому

    This is my favorite UA-cam video and podcast bc it’s so real. So happy you posted it here too bc it’s an amazing one! I’d love more unscripted podcasts in the future as well as what you already do! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @pink-i2
    @pink-i2 14 днів тому +1

    Sending love for you ❤️
    You inspire me

  • @susacrick9708
    @susacrick9708 8 годин тому

    I always follow you because I'm learning English by myself, and sometimes, I understand you, very well, although you speak very fast for my level. I still understand you, let's see in this video. The title looks difficult because the phrasaI verb! I must improve my listening skills 😅😅😅 and open my ears very well to understand you. Greetings from Texas Fernanda! By the way! You always look very gorgeous. Eny way so happy birthday 🎈late it's very sure though!

  • @user-teema08
    @user-teema08 10 днів тому

    I'm almost 24 and I was thinking that I'm getting older that's not funny it's boring and u post the vedeo❤

  • @hannahkelley817
    @hannahkelley817 14 днів тому +1

    Love you Fernanda 💕💕

  • @oscarumpierre6344
    @oscarumpierre6344 8 днів тому

    you are the best....Quiero hablar ingles y veo tus videos....maravilloso todo lo que haces😇

  • @user-is3uw4zb5s
    @user-is3uw4zb5s 14 днів тому +1

    happy birthday‼️

  • @fannygarry4685
    @fannygarry4685 14 днів тому +2

    You're very inspiring 🤍sending hugs from France 🇫🇷

  • @Amina-g3u
    @Amina-g3u 14 днів тому +1

    Big love to you from iraq❤ im your big fan , and now i can speek english because of your podcasts keep going baby because you are the most beautiful and lovely girls i have ever seen on youtube ❤

  • @rayshamalikaaa8818
    @rayshamalikaaa8818 14 днів тому +1

    WOW 6 MINUTES AGOOOO, SO GLAD SO GLAD SO GLAD!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 14 днів тому +1

    Wonderful girl.
    Have a nice day ❤❤❤

  • @koyumi_no_kumo
    @koyumi_no_kumo 14 днів тому +2

    i hope you're doing well ❤✨

  • @Melissa.sandgren
    @Melissa.sandgren 14 днів тому +2

    You are my fav ❤

  • @User-Abbyofficial
    @User-Abbyofficial 14 днів тому +2

    i love your videos💖

  • @AsmaaAlkhusaibi
    @AsmaaAlkhusaibi 14 днів тому +1

    Loved the podcast and love u

  • @SOS20311
    @SOS20311 14 днів тому +1

    Fernanda is just a pocket full of sunshine who always brightens my day with her positive energy I just hope you're taking care of yourself and not pushing yourself too much..already excited for the new episode!!..💞✨🫶

  • @angelsarereal111
    @angelsarereal111 14 днів тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @regahajy-ys2du
    @regahajy-ys2du 14 днів тому +1

    Heyyy from kurdistan💙

  • @dmitryp8698
    @dmitryp8698 14 днів тому +2

    Hiii! ❤

  • @missa3832
    @missa3832 14 днів тому +1

    CANT BELIEVE IM THIS EARLYYY ILY FERN!! STAY STRONG ❤

  • @shayzx
    @shayzx 14 днів тому

    Can you talk about reasons to break up?

  • @ur.favv.maryam
    @ur.favv.maryam 14 днів тому +1

    You make me feel so positive about myself 💗✨🫂

  • @cristyynagirl
    @cristyynagirl 14 днів тому +1

    I’m earlyyy! Kinda haha
    Love you Fer ❤

  • @MeroumSasha-x8x
    @MeroumSasha-x8x 12 днів тому

    This is the first video by you l wish can
    I don’t know this is alright or no put we write because why not

  • @ruunmariam1070
    @ruunmariam1070 14 днів тому

    I wanna be friend with you ,love your pure energy girl😢❤🎉

  • @cutelady5867
    @cutelady5867 14 днів тому +3

    Wait isnt this the same video from your vlog channel? No hate no shame just tell me im not going crazy lol

    • @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA
      @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA  14 днів тому +1

      yesss I said in the beginning of the video that im reuplaoding it to my podcast because I want it on both / on Spotify and apple + all those

    • @cutelady5867
      @cutelady5867 14 днів тому

      @@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA oh gotcha! 😅Must’ve missed it! I was cooking as I was listening to this podcast.

  • @OsamaR-we3xl
    @OsamaR-we3xl 14 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @agvamx
    @agvamx 14 днів тому +2

    🥹🥹💋🫠

  • @RahilDahmani
    @RahilDahmani 11 днів тому

    I like yor vidéo

  • @RahilDahmani
    @RahilDahmani 11 днів тому

    Free 🇵🇸

  • @BhaiyyaNaik-nq7wy
    @BhaiyyaNaik-nq7wy 8 днів тому

    as

  • @extremetalent541
    @extremetalent541 8 днів тому

    d

  • @roshanjadhav7556
    @roshanjadhav7556 8 днів тому

    asd

  • @KrystalBenov
    @KrystalBenov 14 днів тому

    I needed this. Thank you. ❤️‍🩹

  • @whoindahellputthemuffinsin3601
    @whoindahellputthemuffinsin3601 14 днів тому +1

    Awe hope you’re doing okay!! 🩷🤍

  • @lelamarie6724
    @lelamarie6724 14 днів тому +1

    When your self development book comes out, make sure you ship to your friends over here in Australia 😜 🫶🏻

  • @maedeh_bookworld
    @maedeh_bookworld 14 днів тому +2

    23is very funny age but it becomes scary when you become 25🥲😂

  • @tecasnecho3696
    @tecasnecho3696 14 днів тому +2

    ❤❤