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  • @jrock7518
    @jrock7518 4 роки тому +870

    If those aren't the best people ever. His sister is a great communicator. Her husband tried to see things from more than one perspective. Amazing qualities that more people need.

    • @anhenry2998
      @anhenry2998 2 роки тому +20

      Right. The brother is a sack of turds but the plaintiffs are great. Most of us would love to have siblings like that.

    • @s_1408
      @s_1408 2 роки тому +8

      @@anhenry2998 she definitely got all the good genes

    • @elaineperez9319
      @elaineperez9319 2 роки тому +2

      Amen to that

    • @mattbrown6182
      @mattbrown6182 2 роки тому +3

      Amazing amazing sister and brother in law

    • @life.with.too.many.animals9411
      @life.with.too.many.animals9411 2 роки тому +1

      If those aren't the best people ever...what? The sentence didn't make sense so I am a bit confused. I get you're saying they are awesome but that way of saying it mixed me up haha.

  • @angelamitchell6657
    @angelamitchell6657 3 роки тому +720

    Is the sister a therapist?! Her texts are impressive. Her level of empathy and compassion is admirable

    • @katwojo7964
      @katwojo7964 3 роки тому +37

      She could be, definitely impressive! Or she just learned this from having to deal with his addiction for years.

    • @dorothycrowell2867
      @dorothycrowell2867 2 роки тому +4

      I rly agree

    • @sandylane5498
      @sandylane5498 2 роки тому +10

      Totally agree... excellent communicator!

    • @suvariboy
      @suvariboy 2 роки тому +9

      I wish I had a sister like her.

    • @elaineperez9319
      @elaineperez9319 2 роки тому +10

      Totally agree, she was amazing with her communication

  • @teesmith8448
    @teesmith8448 3 роки тому +365

    The brother-in-law was absolutely adorable and I loved the way he supported and protected his wife. He was objective and not bias. He’s a keeper for sure.

  • @saffronlealle6694
    @saffronlealle6694 4 роки тому +573

    I want to say that the hubby is the sweetest. The love he has for his wife and bro n law is genuine and you can clearly see that. ❤️

    • @Amber-ph2fw
      @Amber-ph2fw 4 роки тому +18

      Yes I admire his loving heart

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 4 роки тому +11

      💜 OMGOSH YES, HE'S THE MOST KIND HEARTED PERSON.
      VERY COMPASSIONATE & CARING. HIS WIFE IS TRULY BLESSED, VERY SWEET PEOPLE
      😊💜

    • @elainegittens3344
      @elainegittens3344 4 роки тому +9

      What a kind hearted and genuine. Brother-in-law. They are hard to find

    • @marzdrizzle2208
      @marzdrizzle2208 4 роки тому +1

      Lies under oath isn’t very sweet ole dude a liar

    • @strife3084
      @strife3084 4 роки тому +11

      @@marzdrizzle2208... You are obviously not married... He just panicked and lied to protect his wife.

  • @hijabibeautiful
    @hijabibeautiful 2 роки тому +290

    His sister is a beautiful person with a beautiful soul! I’m so happy she has an equally amazing husband that obviously loves and protects her so much. These are good people that anyone would be grateful to know. Faith in humanity restored!

  • @Lola-cy4xq
    @Lola-cy4xq 2 роки тому +72

    This one made me cry a little. The sister and husband are remarkable people. The empathy between them is incrediable. The brother certainly lucky to have such a sibling. I wish them all well and hope the family can move forward.

  • @Father_of_Death
    @Father_of_Death 4 роки тому +637

    Judge Milian calling herself a mean judge is a lie. She's actually a very nice judge she just has to deal with stupid people on a daily basis.

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 4 роки тому +12

      Exactly

    • @SKOjy113
      @SKOjy113 4 роки тому +44

      Judge Judy is the mean one. Lol

    • @Father_of_Death
      @Father_of_Death 4 роки тому +5

      @Jazzy AndCool GET LOST, LOSER!

    • @strife3084
      @strife3084 4 роки тому +7

      Trafalgar Law... When it comes to people lying under oath, she will come down on the litigant...

    • @moongodd3sssaedy462
      @moongodd3sssaedy462 4 роки тому

      @@NellieKAdaba k

  • @MelissaRae1975
    @MelissaRae1975 4 роки тому +231

    Great case. The hubby was so amazing

    • @alyssag.5758
      @alyssag.5758 4 роки тому +14

      Love how he covered for his wife and said she wasn't there lol

    • @Amber-ph2fw
      @Amber-ph2fw 4 роки тому +9

      He's an awesome man

    • @Amber-ph2fw
      @Amber-ph2fw 4 роки тому +9

      Her husband isnt bad looking either

  • @danieltucker632
    @danieltucker632 4 роки тому +102

    I was very impressed by her texts to her brother , if only he was as reasonable

  • @venuscacaobean7574
    @venuscacaobean7574 4 роки тому +396

    This almost brought me to tears. So sweet n heartfelt but sad at the same time.

    • @mini6340
      @mini6340 4 роки тому +16

      I was in tears..😭😭

    • @cocodiva0213
      @cocodiva0213 4 роки тому +27

      Me too, her husband had her back. Nothing like a man to step in and be like imma take care of this for you. Just so she could maintain a decent relationship with her brother.

    • @popcorn526
      @popcorn526 4 роки тому +11

      cocodiva0213 Yes, her husband is amazing! Many blessings to them!

    • @amayzing28
      @amayzing28 3 роки тому +6

      Girl I’m trying to hold back my tears …. I thought I was the only one

    • @antonettetavares7724
      @antonettetavares7724 3 роки тому +4

      I’m crying right now.

  • @danielk8571
    @danielk8571 4 роки тому +90

    Judge Milian handled this case exceptionally well. Asking the Brother and Sister to hug was a really heartwarming moment.
    There's alot of love remaining in this family, and all is not lost - it's worth sorting this issue out and getting back to being a family.

  • @59thanks61
    @59thanks61 4 роки тому +216

    It seems her brother just didn't make it a priority to pay her back. I'm glad they're still going to get along.

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 4 роки тому +9

      I'm skeptical. I think the tension will persist TBH.

    • @a0kargra
      @a0kargra 4 роки тому +15

      He doesn't respect his sister. It will never be really good between them. He will probably take advantage of her again... Some people just do it, over and over again, And those they take advantage of is too kind. That's why they keep doing it.

    • @59thanks61
      @59thanks61 4 роки тому

      @@johnathanpatrick6118 hmmm 🤔🤔

    • @59thanks61
      @59thanks61 4 роки тому +1

      @@a0kargra I hope not. But, who really know? 🤔🤔

    • @timtriolo
      @timtriolo 4 роки тому +6

      Because he is most likely a narcissist.

  • @HP-rp5nn
    @HP-rp5nn 4 роки тому +232

    What a great brother in law!!!

  • @MyUnfilteredDiary
    @MyUnfilteredDiary 4 роки тому +90

    The husband really loves his wife. I hope one day my husband loves me enough to lie on my behalf. I don't condone lies but that was sweet he try to respect her feelings n privacy

  • @Lenape_Lady
    @Lenape_Lady 4 роки тому +396

    Part of being sober/clean is admitting to your lies and schemes and apologizing to the ppl you’ve hurt in your addiction and MAKING THINGS RIGHT when and where you can.

    • @sbss924
      @sbss924 4 роки тому +22

      "MAKING THINGS RIGHT"- folks tend to over look that part.

    • @sydoz1956
      @sydoz1956 4 роки тому +3

      no that part of AA. not necessarily being sober

    • @Ms_Tania
      @Ms_Tania 4 роки тому +5

      Danielle Waked That's very true,so important and says a lot about where the person is at in their recovery and in their lives as a recovering addict. :)

    • @jennylynx1869
      @jennylynx1869 3 роки тому +13

      Exactly, I’ve been clean 4 years an trying to pay back everything I owed. I want to fix my credit an my name. Not still look like a piece of shit

    • @prairierider7569
      @prairierider7569 3 роки тому +1

      @@jennylynx1869 I shall keep you in my prayers, abuse of every kind went through my family when I was a kid and swore to keep those cycles of abuse, may you be blessed in your new life❤️

  • @celinamckenzie8658
    @celinamckenzie8658 3 роки тому +43

    Wow! That husband is an extremely rare find. I pray that the brother maintains his sobriety and learns to trust and enjoy the amazing support he has those around him!

  • @ditavoncheese1680
    @ditavoncheese1680 4 роки тому +85

    This is one of the sweetest episodes of The People’s Court I’ve ever seen 🥰

  • @inukoko2012
    @inukoko2012 4 роки тому +312

    I hope the brother stays clean and him and his sister gain their relationship back.🙏🏽

    • @KSakamoto
      @KSakamoto 4 роки тому +17

      inukoko2012 I hope so too, but he won’t be able to if he doesn’t learn to be honest and do the right thing. I guarantee you he was told that over and over in whatever rehab he went to.

    • @inukoko2012
      @inukoko2012 4 роки тому +5

      K Sakamoto yea I agree, hopefully the judge got to him enough for him to change.

    • @nunyabuisness7552
      @nunyabuisness7552 4 роки тому +8

      I think the brother is "getting it/understanding the larger issue" slowly. He's immature and impulsive but not stupid. If the sis/brother in law give him an easy way to make things right with their relationship, which I think they will, he will be able to swallow a little pride and make his way back into good graces with them. At least I hope he matures and makes everything right because they are making it about as easy as possible for him to do the right thing and feel good about it at the same time.

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 4 роки тому +3

      💜 I TRULY WISH ALL THE BEST FOR THIS FAMILY! I CRIED WHEN BROTHER & SISTER HUGGED 😥 HE'S DOING GREAT WITH 3 YEARS SOBRIETY! HIS BROTHER~IN~LAW I FEEL WILL BE A GREAT INFLUENCE ON HIM ALONG WITH HIS SIS. GOD BLESS THEM ALL 😊😇🙏💜💜💜

    • @alliegray8128
      @alliegray8128 3 роки тому +11

      So I'm super happy about his sobriety.. but I worry that he is dry..not in recovery.. because he isn't accepting the things he has done.. for those in a 12 step program..he hasn't done anything about his 4th or 9th step.. those are about making a moral inventory and making amends. Maybe he isn't on the cusp of relapse.. but he is still stuck in the addict mindset. Taking advantage, manipulation of people and selfish behavior..

  • @stephanieclark7019
    @stephanieclark7019 3 роки тому +149

    One of the rarest times I've seen Doug show compassion, empathy and genuine concern for both parties. This was Such a refreshing interview he gave to each party. Thanks Doug!! 😊

    • @ashleymw3099
      @ashleymw3099 2 роки тому +13

      Omg I was thinking the exact same thing! I just knew he was going to be nasty to the brother and his girlfriend lol because 98% of the time he’s a complete jerk! Lol “well ya lost, go sign some paperwork”

    • @MissMarlene-yj6vz
      @MissMarlene-yj6vz 2 роки тому +1

      I saw him in OZ... He got himself a heart! lol

    • @crystalshaw8744
      @crystalshaw8744 Рік тому

      I'm pleasantly surprised.

    • @Strandedinthedesert
      @Strandedinthedesert Рік тому +4

      Right 😂 Doug can be a savage.

  • @marionweeks5953
    @marionweeks5953 4 роки тому +153

    It made me sad it’s a shame he didn’t see how much she loved him

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm 3 роки тому +35

    Give the plaintiff a standing ovation and an award for being a GREAT man!!
    You're definitely a champion sir and have shown us what love and leadership is🏆

  • @metallic_cocoa
    @metallic_cocoa 4 роки тому +192

    love how husband is rubbing his wife's back ♥️🥺

    • @thegentlemansmith5411
      @thegentlemansmith5411 3 роки тому +3

      When I do this to random girls they say they don't love it!😆😆

    • @friendlytester6861
      @friendlytester6861 3 роки тому +8

      @@thegentlemansmith5411 you can’t live close to schools, can you?

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 3 роки тому +2

      He's a jerk its inappropriate in a court of law, lying to the judge is perjury, judge judy would wipe the floor with him.

    • @Meech817
      @Meech817 3 роки тому +7

      @@marilynwillett804 🙄 he wasn't doing it to be rude. You can tell with the way he is trying to provide physical comfort to his wife that she has some kind of issue. Maybe anxiety? And that's why she didnt want to be involved. JM even knew that and that's why she asked her to trust her in an extremely comforting voice. She knew the sister didn't want to be involved for whatever reason on TV. And the judge was assuring her it would be ok.

    • @nyghtryder3446
      @nyghtryder3446 3 роки тому

      @@marilynwillett804what you got say to homie comment

  • @angelsinger4574
    @angelsinger4574 4 роки тому +139

    The sister and her husband are such nice, loving people. Shame on that brother for caring more about jewelry and tattoos than her! Don’t get me wrong: I love jewelry and tattoos, too. But not at the expense of people who love me and care for me.

    • @angelsinger4574
      @angelsinger4574 4 роки тому +1

      Also, at 18:31: what is that she has tattooed on her arm? I know there’s a flower, but I’m lost on the rest of it.

    • @biruss
      @biruss 3 роки тому +1

      the truck i see, but make an install plan

    • @saraha.2454
      @saraha.2454 3 роки тому

      I was just thinking ! These are such good people . So lucky to find each other & make a union of compassion kindness & PURE LOVE . I hope one day to find such a match of pure support & love . Hand crafted from god! Shame on anyone taking advantage of this rarity

  • @ditavoncheese1680
    @ditavoncheese1680 4 роки тому +70

    Jen and Tim are amazing people. They are the very definition of family-oriented! 😊

  • @debram9998
    @debram9998 3 роки тому +43

    The husband is an amazing man. Darn, I would love for a man to protect and love me as much as he love his wife. I'm in tears because it couldn't be resolved outside of court. The People Court with Judge Milan is my favorite court show. Judge sees into the souls of her litigates.

  • @sage6269
    @sage6269 2 роки тому +26

    drug addicts are selfish creatures. I know, I was one. Always blaming everyone else for their problems. Always the victim. We can't get better without that insight and start taking responsibility and accountability for our own actions/inactions.

  • @stacystacy9626
    @stacystacy9626 3 роки тому +29

    I love how much the husband loves his wife. So sweet. ❤️

  • @lyricword3326
    @lyricword3326 3 роки тому +37

    This right here is an example that those in recovery need ongoing counseling. Financial and budgeting guidance, conflict resolution counseling, and just therapy in general.

    • @blacopsassassin2771
      @blacopsassassin2771 2 роки тому +2

      You know how many people the judge has on this show with the same type of situation that aren't drug addicts, so no this is not some drug addict type of situation this is a being raised right type of situation, someone loans you money you pay them back But even he admitted he was wrong Most people in her court would be stubborn and still play the victim so I give him lots of props at least he hasn't excuse or had...

  • @yattab4590
    @yattab4590 4 роки тому +30

    Phew! I got all extra emotional during this one for some reason! He’s needs to pay his sister and that’s that. They all seem like good people. ❣️❣️

  • @marlenemondesir338
    @marlenemondesir338 4 роки тому +90

    Brother still has druggy ways. Glad he got clean. He needs to work on not being so self centered.

    • @Amber-ph2fw
      @Amber-ph2fw 4 роки тому +12

      Just bc you get clean doesn't make you all of sudden better, it takes time and relearning how to live completely different, and relearn to put others peoples needs before your own it can literally take a lifetime to become the person you once were before picking up drugs that got you.

    • @gailbridgman2746
      @gailbridgman2746 4 роки тому +9

      I believe he's still a dope fiend. Working on his druggy ways for sure.. How utterly ungrateful.. it's your fault, you deserve to take the bus and not spend $10,000 on a truck and not pay your sister and brother-in-law back, if you can't see that then you obviously lack intellect as well!

    • @death2boredom338
      @death2boredom338 4 роки тому +10

      It unfortunately takes years to get real progress. Him being in a relationship with someone going through the same issues is a whole other complication. If he had someone in his life to talk some sense into him like how his brother-in-law gave some support to his sister by softening his actions a bit so she'd have an easier time dealing with it. Just from this having to go to court makes it look like the woman he's with just isn't the right person to be with while in recovery.

    • @AnneOhn123
      @AnneOhn123 3 роки тому +5

      He's still using, so is his girlfriend...

  • @thebalder9634
    @thebalder9634 3 роки тому +15

    It's not everyday you get the judge to cry from kindness. Wow.

  • @SabrinaLWilliams
    @SabrinaLWilliams 2 роки тому +16

    What a genuine couple! None of this was staged for court, those messages were heartfelt and sincere. Drug users tend to be selfish but lets hope he and his girlfriend stay clean and keep doing well

  • @bossladiee
    @bossladiee 4 роки тому +35

    I can’t help but feel like the GF plays a major role in this. She didn’t seem very encouraging at all.

    • @death2boredom338
      @death2boredom338 4 роки тому +8

      I feel the same. Complete opposite to the brother-in-law. Not the kind of person for someone still in the start of recovery to be with.

    • @rockobill7637
      @rockobill7637 3 роки тому +2

      i think she's got a bun in the oven

  • @anhenry2998
    @anhenry2998 2 роки тому +55

    Spoken like a true addict. Take a situation and always make yourself the victim.

  • @Dragonfly_vbz
    @Dragonfly_vbz 4 роки тому +27

    That kind of love is priceless. I'd do anything to have a family like that.

    • @elaine462
      @elaine462 Рік тому

      I was thinking the same thing. It’s priceless. I have the most hateful, mean family you’d ever meet, and it hurts so deeply, especially around the holidays. I always craved love, but was raised to believe I didn’t deserve it. Thank God I raised my kids differently.

  • @titiwest5891
    @titiwest5891 4 роки тому +86

    First case the sister and her husband are such good people. The druggy brother sucks. He will need them again and I hope they say No

  • @ndwhitley
    @ndwhitley 4 роки тому +21

    This case made me tear up. I could feel the love the sister and brother in law have for the brother. I hope they work things out.

  • @skettistraps1108
    @skettistraps1108 4 роки тому +73

    And this is why I always make a contract when I loan money to people. Even with my family.

    • @joymcguire
      @joymcguire 4 роки тому +4

      If you give money to family, never expect it back.

    • @angelsinger4574
      @angelsinger4574 4 роки тому +10

      I don’t loan. If I can afford to give, I give. If I get it back, great. If they pay it forward, even better.

    • @lindasensabaugh4013
      @lindasensabaugh4013 4 роки тому +1

      Alexis Black agree! Never give money you do not have! I have learned to give money only if I do not expect it back. We loaned son money down on a house, if it comes back great, if not, no big deal. We loaned oldest daughter money to buy her first house, she gave it back but no interest. When I offer money to people down on their luck I believe it is just gone. We did not borrow from any relatives in our lifetime. We always assumed we would sink or swim on our own doing

  • @JonathanESmithOfficial
    @JonathanESmithOfficial 4 роки тому +130

    I honestly feel like the brother probably loves his sister, but he doesn't respect her. He may be jealous of how good her life may seem to him and not paying her back is his way of secretly "getting back" at her for outdoing him in life. All the while, he made the choices that landed him where he is. No need to be jealous when the person is literally trying to help you. DAYUM! Insecurity and envy manifest in the most interesting ways.

    • @dezmitchell5329
      @dezmitchell5329 4 роки тому +19

      Well analyzed! He’ll probably say “if you so good then why do you need my money to pay you back”. I have a sibling like that

    • @PuffinPsychologist
      @PuffinPsychologist 4 роки тому +18

      It could be that. Or it could be that he’s still just a FUNCTIONING ADDICT and even with a job and his appearance of doing better he doesn’t have the money because he’s still entangled with addiction. I myself have been a functioning addict and have seen many. It can come in forms where they keep their addiction completely secret or they act like they’re clean and hold down a job or whatever all the while they’re actually strung out. He physically appears to be under the influence TO ME... so I think maybe he’s still an addict and that money that was loaned has been long gone... and he doesn’t have the money from working because every penny spent goes towards what he needs, including his fix. JUST MY OPINION.

    • @JonathanESmithOfficial
      @JonathanESmithOfficial 4 роки тому +6

      @@PuffinPsychologist I thought this too!!!

    • @karenbeee4568
      @karenbeee4568 4 роки тому +7

      @@PuffinPsychologist Yes me too. Maybe he is avoiding his sister because she knows him so well, she would know right away he is using again. I hope not. That poor child is 7 and I'm sure her aunt has been the only stable thing in her life.

    • @kaeshalae1
      @kaeshalae1 4 роки тому +8

      and the fact that she is so humble and understanding only ignites that jealousy. her response in texts shows how mature calm and loving she is and that also makes people super angry

  • @harperlane3936
    @harperlane3936 2 роки тому +14

    Her level of communication is AMAZING. Cause I would of cursed his ass out and got no where 🤣🤣🤣🤣 she is a saint. He truly is taking her for granted.

  • @soshiangel90
    @soshiangel90 4 роки тому +47

    I hate when people like the brother get caught up in their own selfishness that they need a freaking judge and court case to really fix their wrongs....hope this family heals soon.

  • @skipper523
    @skipper523 4 роки тому +12

    Good people......the brother too, though he was a little misguided with spending money. Bless them all, and congrats on having over 7 yrs sobriety between the 2 defendants. Hope everyone is still doing good, all these yrs later.

  • @alexderavin1
    @alexderavin1 4 роки тому +6

    great episode - the judge handled the case with such gentleness and wisdom

  • @amymitchell1054
    @amymitchell1054 3 роки тому +8

    The sister and the brother in law seem like awesome people. Still giving the brother credit at the end. We need more people like this on this planet!

  • @Nameless_mixes
    @Nameless_mixes 2 роки тому +4

    Oh my gosh! When the husband said “No” and his wife was literally right behind him 😂🙌❤️

  • @sailorminaa
    @sailorminaa 2 роки тому +21

    Really hoping and praying for the best for this whole family. Addiction tears families apart, and though it starts off as a choice to use drugs, it very much turns into a disease that wreaks havoc on the body and mind. The sister and BIL are angels, loving, selfless people, and I pray that the brother fights to maintain stability and sobriety for him and his family's sake.

    • @a.konadu4010
      @a.konadu4010 10 місяців тому +1

      You're equally as much a great communicator as the sister I bet because your response is eloquent and intelligent 💕

  • @gogoscorner1111
    @gogoscorner1111 4 роки тому +40

    This one was emotional 🥺

  • @housekrell8811
    @housekrell8811 4 роки тому +20

    I really, really hope they all somehow find a way to make peace and be a family again. Honestly what a case, I feel for them.

  • @astrology4u
    @astrology4u 3 роки тому +9

    My intuitions is on blast! Before the husband even opened his mouth, I said to my self as he was walking in, I like this guy, its something about him and then walla, it was all revealed to me what I was picking up. He is a really good man and they don't make them like him anymore.

  • @rashidax432
    @rashidax432 3 роки тому +7

    The husband has the BEST attitude I've seen! He knows what is right, but he wants to give credit where it is due. He's encouraging his wife to 'lay off' a little because he recognizes his brother in law is actually trying.

  • @cazziebee999
    @cazziebee999 4 роки тому +7

    What a lovely sister and brother in law. Nice people.

  • @Smil3y7021
    @Smil3y7021 3 роки тому +6

    I wish I could hug my brother right now. It's been around 4 years now and drugs have torn us apart. I don't care about the money, money comes and goes. Love you carnalito

    • @cecynay7369
      @cecynay7369 2 роки тому

      I hope he comes back soon ❤️

  • @koychao9512
    @koychao9512 4 роки тому +13

    I think the brothers feels guilty and shameful. He making some money and just doesn’t know how to be responsible with it. I hope he understands

  • @carolynwhite6568
    @carolynwhite6568 4 роки тому +60

    HE DIDN'T CARE THAT HE USED HIS SISTER, NO RESPECT

    • @angelsinger4574
      @angelsinger4574 4 роки тому +7

      She had to borrow from others to cover the money she gave him, but he still insists they don’t need the money. Cold.

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 4 роки тому +7

      More worried about new tats and jewelry than respecting his sister or his nieces/nephews being cared for. Low life.

  • @Amber-ph2fw
    @Amber-ph2fw 4 роки тому +23

    I absolutely loved this case such great ppl including the brother in law. Hope they forgive and forget. The brother isn't a bad guy but he's a drug addict and that is drug addict behavior doesn't surprise me

  • @priscillafrederick7321
    @priscillafrederick7321 4 роки тому +5

    This was the best court case I have watched ..the sister text were so heartwarming..she cared an cares didn't even wanna go against her brother..wow..he should have paid themmm..

  • @heathernks8
    @heathernks8 3 роки тому +3

    Wow. The sister was really emotionally intelligent and communicated well!!

  • @leeimissyou1979
    @leeimissyou1979 2 роки тому +3

    This brought tears to my eyes! You have an awesome brother in law. I hope they get that relationship back that they had before all of this. This is a reason why it’s so hard to loan your family money.

  • @jasml2265
    @jasml2265 3 роки тому +8

    "I had to take the bus"....oh my God, things were that bad?? LOL! He's a big selfish baby with a strong sense of entitlement.

  • @alejandramendez9163
    @alejandramendez9163 4 роки тому +19

    I honestly think the brother loves his sister and maybe wanted to pay her back but drugs do a lot of damage to oneself...

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 3 роки тому +3

      you know ive never done drugs but these viewers are so intent on judging him, he offered too give them 100 a month but they dint accept his offer,

    • @ptaylor7782
      @ptaylor7782 2 роки тому

      @@marilynwillett804 if he was making $70/hr there is no reason it should take a year to pay them back.

  • @darksoulenvoy932
    @darksoulenvoy932 3 роки тому +6

    The two plaintiffs seem like genuinely great people. Hope it all works out for all of them.

  • @hakkaigojyo10
    @hakkaigojyo10 4 роки тому +20

    This is exactly why you do not loan family or friends money. They tend to feel as though because you are familiar, they get to drag their feet or forget to pay you back. Some may claim it was a gift even after saying that you will get your money back.

  • @guadachadderdon5828
    @guadachadderdon5828 3 роки тому +7

    Judge reading the texts where she's reading what the bro-in-law said made me tear up so much. Man.

  • @guesswhomartin9249
    @guesswhomartin9249 4 роки тому +7

    Bottom line here: Everybody here on both sides have a very beautiful heart. No ill feelings towards anybody. I personally would not have taken it this far. I would not have taken my brother/sister to court. I'd rather take a lost. I don't care what the amount is, I'd rather just take a lost.

  • @l4xd36
    @l4xd36 2 роки тому +2

    This was incredible to witness. I really hope all is better and well for the entire family now. The sister and her husband are the CUTEST couple ever! Ugh! My heart exploded. Loved this.

  • @tinamarie5557
    @tinamarie5557 2 роки тому +3

    Ugh I’m in tears.. I would kill for my family to be this close 😢

  • @fathima5209
    @fathima5209 4 роки тому +8

    My husband and I were properly duped for thousands by my sister's ex husband. Beware of the snakes within your home before you worry about those in the wild!

  • @ElizabethaSara
    @ElizabethaSara 2 роки тому

    This is my favorite episode so far!! Good job judge!!!

  • @lucyjane103
    @lucyjane103 3 роки тому +1

    This is THE BEST EPISODE EVER........ I love every family member here.....I wish all of them the best....I hope things are working out for the whole family....

  • @TheSingingGardener
    @TheSingingGardener 2 роки тому +3

    That was heartbreaking to watch a family separated because of money. I’ve learned a long time ago to never lend somebody you love money that you expect back. I hope they take JM’s words into consideration and work their problems out like a family

  • @motherof1294
    @motherof1294 4 роки тому +11

    The husband and his wife will continue to have blessings.

  • @thebalder9634
    @thebalder9634 3 роки тому +3

    I've watched a lot of people's court. This was perhaps the best case I've ever seen.

  • @badgebunny87
    @badgebunny87 3 роки тому +2

    Gosh those beautiful souls... I love when I see 2 great people together. I wish them all the best!

  • @sandylane5498
    @sandylane5498 2 роки тому +1

    What a phenomenal couple (plaintiff's). She's so smart and excellent at communication. Great people!

  • @elizabethlarose3632
    @elizabethlarose3632 8 місяців тому

    A tear jerker….what a great sister and understanding brother in law.❤

  • @dezmitchell5329
    @dezmitchell5329 4 роки тому +25

    It’s the drugs and jealousy. Dude messed over his sister. He is 1B % wrong!

  • @thebalder9634
    @thebalder9634 3 роки тому +3

    The excuse that it was a gift disappeared real quick.

  • @PhoenixForceTravelAgency
    @PhoenixForceTravelAgency 4 роки тому +9

    Sometimes we take those closest to us for granted. The brother definitely should have made an effort to repay the loan but I don’t think he’s a bad guy. The sister is a good sister and that brother in law is a really good guy.

  • @wildones9339
    @wildones9339 3 роки тому +3

    Dude has some good ones in his corner. Pay them back and don't misuse their kindness. At $70 dollars an hr he could've solved that in one check after he got done paying the courts. Smh.

  • @kagendokaecha9080
    @kagendokaecha9080 Рік тому +1

    One of those rare cases when you see a couple that is actually complementary of each other. The plaintiffs are just beautiful in every way

  • @Meanwhile107salvatore
    @Meanwhile107salvatore 2 роки тому +1

    What an amazing sister, so understanding.

  • @mknecollection7388
    @mknecollection7388 3 роки тому +3

    The husband attitude is amazing

  • @simpleman3009
    @simpleman3009 15 днів тому

    One of the best episodes I've ever seen. This couple is the best especially her husband. He was saying let the guy live a little bit. LOVE IT 🎉😢🎉

  • @barbaraness4507
    @barbaraness4507 2 місяці тому

    The plaintiffs are obviously very good people. So much better than a lot of people we’ve seen watching this show. I wish all of them the best in life!

  • @SabrinaLWilliams
    @SabrinaLWilliams 2 роки тому +1

    That guy is lucky to have them in his life. The level of understanding and empathy on their part was unreal and he threw it back in their face. Hope they're sorted now

  • @amylouwho8991
    @amylouwho8991 4 роки тому +11

    I understand the not living to work. He needed to pay fines to get his license back, fine, he needed/wanted a car, fine, but the jewelry and tattoos should have been the last thing after giving that money to his sister.

  • @summersmith1650
    @summersmith1650 3 роки тому +2

    The plaintiffs are TOO KIND!!! GOD BLESS THEM!!!🥰🥰❤️❤️

  • @shininginshadows
    @shininginshadows 2 роки тому +3

    He might be clean in body but he still sounds like he's struggling with his addiction

  • @danielle1457
    @danielle1457 4 роки тому +2

    Been binge watching this show for 2 days now.
    I hope he makes it right with his sister

  • @NubianP6
    @NubianP6 Рік тому +1

    The plaintiffs are such a great couple. The defendant should feel blessed to have people like that who love him.

  • @maggie3315
    @maggie3315 3 роки тому

    I love the judge she is so sweet and so honest to all the cases.

  • @Kitkatjoy96
    @Kitkatjoy96 3 роки тому +5

    YALL, PLEASE LOOK AT 1:46. THE LADY TO the left when he said "Heroin". Her reaction is HILARIOUS!!

  • @JaNaeSmith-vk7uk
    @JaNaeSmith-vk7uk 9 місяців тому +2

    Everyone knows you pay your bills off first and then repay the people you owe. WTH!

  • @tawandapatterson5845
    @tawandapatterson5845 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! Such beautiful people! I’m glad they were able to move past this and hopefully continue to be a close family!

  • @coffeeaddictexpress5038
    @coffeeaddictexpress5038 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! She could not have worded her texts better. I truly would love these types of family members lol. I mean the sister and her hubby.

  • @engledelaffety4380
    @engledelaffety4380 3 роки тому +3

    A loving, big sister is a blessing from God, look after them!

  • @nikkinicole5435
    @nikkinicole5435 Рік тому +1

    Aww, not only when they hugged did it make Me shed1 but when JM almost tear'd up a bit, it got Me. Plaintiff's are great ppl🖤

  • @mericafreedomland3583
    @mericafreedomland3583 4 роки тому +9

    Wowww that sister is a sweetheart no doubt!!
    That dude is most likely still on opiates, his crackly voice tells me that. I am in recovery myself from the same situation and that crackly voice is a give away. Maybe im wrong idk

    • @phyllysanantonio
      @phyllysanantonio 4 роки тому +2

      I agree. Idk abo voice, but their eyes look dead.

    • @mericafreedomland3583
      @mericafreedomland3583 4 роки тому +1

      Phylly San Antonio yeah his voice more so then hers but if they are together then yeahhh bout that lol
      And if dudes really making that kinda money thats also a death sentence if not on the right path

  • @vivaglam718
    @vivaglam718 3 роки тому +2

    The sister is a great person! She is awesome would love to have her as a friend

  • @JAVONEETHEMOMMY
    @JAVONEETHEMOMMY 3 роки тому +3

    Damn I need her as family cause she is so far from petty. It's crazy how relaxed her brother is to paying her back when he has a good job. She still loves him. Her husband is a lucky man.