Thank God These Men Had A Camera | Cheaters Caught in 4K
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As someone who has been cheated on while in iraq twice, this really hits home and is why im still single as i have been for the past 12 yrs. Ty for this video and helps me realize that its ok to be human
Military and marriage dont go well.
@@TheAcadianGuy Neither does FIFO work.
Marriage is pretty much a dead institution as you can control where your money and property goes through a Last Will and Testament. The major exception is your Social Security money and why risk it for that little bit of money?
@@TheAcadianGuy Exactly, it rarely does.
Happened to me too while I was in Iraq.
My wife cheated on me. Talk about crushing your soul. We’re not married anymore. I won’t get married again, let alone get in a relationship. I’ve seen too many friends go through the same thing. I’m perfectly content spending time with my children and grandchildren. It does get lonely sometimes, but I’d rather be lonely than crushed again
The answer friend isn't to be alone forever, noone deserves that unless you're a complete douchebag, other than that no matter how broken you might be there's always someone out there who will understand you and help you pick up your pieces. I'm going through hell with my ex as well and we are going through trials for our kid's custody but I still believe there's a woman out there who suits my lifestyle. Don't let yourself go man, you deserve to be happy like any other lucky mothef@cker in this f@cked up world.
The number one cause of misogyny is women.
bros before hoes.
You can still casually date, you don't have to be lonely
I'm in the exact same.e boat as you my friend.
Girl 1: the reason we talk so loudly about false allegations, even when feminists screech about them being rare
Girl 2: that is false imprisonment and if the sexes were reversed you know 100% it would’ve been blasted as domestic abuse
Girl 3: I hope the guy didn’t get in an argument with the other guy, he’s not the one to blame and the 2 men should’ve walked off and had a drink together then gone their separate ways
Bro's before hoe's
Perfect example of a "screaming banshee"! RUN like hell dude!
You are correct about 3 ,they shouldn't have any conflict neither was at fault just the female Cheater.
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
@Joel Bailey • YES!!!! To ALL that!!!!
I remember once hearing this guy scream ( as he was being put in a cop car) " she did it to her self" everyone including me thought he meant well she put herself in a man's position and found out. She wasn't busted and blackened , few red marks and scratches. Flash forward 16 years, me and my wife are in an argument where she tells me to get out, I say no, she says I'll call the cops, I say I don't care my name is on rental agreement. She starts slapping the hell out of herself choking and scratching her neck , looks me dead in my rid eyes and says get out or your going to jail. ( lots of cuss words in between) I bolted and on my miles of walk I regretted not believing that man. Or even considering it a possibility.
Okay so ive self harmed myself by hitting, and when I found I had to convince police that I did it myself, I felt so awful because I didn't think about how it could have affected others. It's hard to fathom how people can do this to try and pin it onto the other person.. Deliberately! And unfortunately used by women more than men because yes men generally are stronger. Horrible thing to fake.
@@saintessa What happened to the original commenter here is way too common. People are a little too comfortable weaponizing a system that was designed to protect them. My mom used to do it to my dad all the time.
I'm thankful that everyone now has a video camera in their pocket to protect themselves with, my dad wasn't so lucky.
@@Tailstraw_xD it's so Sad.
My friend - she does it because she knows you will not take her right then and bury her in the forest like she deserves. In my teens I was in the hood, later on in corporate... in the hood the women cheat left and right but NEVER cheat on the men they know will stay chill in the moment but like a week later, her or her kids or family members will begin to vanish. In corporate its the same, if the guy is the "cross me and the only lawyer we will need is if they find any evidence of what happened to you and charge me" as they will hire help to vanish her and go pee on her grave. Moral of the story: they cheat on the men they know will let them do it without serious harm/death. So if they cheat, do what must be done and after that take care to actually be a man for her, one that protects her but also checks her... both to the death like in the old times.
True I know a group of undercover lesbians that travel the USA sussesfully Target ing rich nice guy types who are easy.. anyway the women marry the man get pregnant then run to divorce for a baby and money....the women know some guys won't go nuclear so this is why the women. Get away with the perfect crime......they been doing this from 1993...and have babies and adult kids in Arizona Mississippi Virginia..a lot of the women live double lives and grimace at men in public..one of he men they destroyed is my brother...these women dig their own graves
She is also incredibly entitled. She's used to getting her way. That's why she's acting the way she does.
She's still immature & acts like a little cry baby, it radiates within her attitude & expressions
Thank you C. Roma for what you do.
@@dutchman7216 it's a scam/spam bot
She is a child.
Please dude... Leave that girl behind and start over...
in one instance, i had recently started dating a female and then her fiancée popped up at the restaurant and asked us both what the hell was going on. she said i was "just a friend" and i immediately backed off and told him the truth, that she'd said she was single. i also said that if he needed a witness for any legal proceedings, i would be there for him. on that day, we parted on good terms and we were even friends for a while afterwards. from what i understand, she wanted to keep the ring and some other things, but when he tossed the idea of a lawsuit AND WITNESSES on the table, she caved in immediately.
Good job keeping your brothers back 🙏
You're a good dude.
@@F.M671 I wouldn't want to get jerked around like that, so I didn't want to do it to him. As soon as she was willing to tell him in front of me that I was "just a friend", I knew the score. She was in the wrong. And the fact that she was trying to do anything she could to stay with him showed me that he treated her well. That told me he must be - at minimum - a decent guy. That was all I needed to know.
Did you consider a polyamorous relationship? It feels like you both robbed her of her possessions.
@@kwadwog8168 don't you think a "poly" relationship should be at the consent of everyone involved? it was pretty clear to me he wasn't on board. nor was i.
do you know what they call a poly relationship without mutual consent? *_cheating!_*
If she's despicable enough to behave like that to start with, she was never going to hold her hand up and take responsibility for her actions. It's always someone else's fault.
You sound like a beta
In my opinion people like her do not deserve to live.
She more than likely didn't begin acting in this fashion until caught. Women like this manipulate until they can't continue the game any longer, then turn into...this.
@@shawnharrison9701 you as a beta ought to know
@@StephenKershaw1 only a beta would insult a man over the internet.
It's shameful how common this is, and how many men spend time in jail because someone else did wrong. I hope that first woman never finds a man willing to touch her. She'll not only wreck your heart, she'll wreck the rest of your life over her uncontrolled emotions.
"Uncontrolled emotions" ? These women are sick and evil.
What amazes me is in the first encounter the man has the strength to never swear once during the false accusations, physical attacks and verbal abuse thrown at him by his now ex. Bravo sir
He chose the wrong woman. Really simple. She was broken and he thought he could fix her. Crazy is crazy. Stay clear
@@rockon8174 yea I learned that the rough way too. Prince Charming syndrome here 😩
@@rockon8174 ah yes, blame him, not the crazy bitch.
Narcissistic and entitled women absolutely hate it when you don’t fight their fire with your fire.
hes probably use to it ive dated girls like this just easier to walk away
You don't know how terrifying this really is until you've been in this situation. The reality of what could happen is insane and washes over you. Truly seeing the mask come off fully and realizing you never knew this person is a disgusting and horrifying experience.
I had an ex punching and kicking me where it got dangerous but I didn't fight back for the obvious reasons
All women are shapeshifters, including the ones in this video
@@Fatelovesirony960 you should have. just record it.
Typically everyone wears a mask for a few days, weeks, months, and some people last a few years.
@@Fatelovesirony960nah record her hitting you can put her in her place with zero repercussions
I love how both the dudes automatically just looked at each other and said "no you're good". Not fighting just focused on the actual perpetrator. Seriously guys don't fight each other, it's not worth it.
Right? Why should he get mad at the other dude for _her_ being a cheater? He didn't know she wasn't single when they hooked up. She's the only one knowingly doing anything wrong here.
And if we do fight, we kick the shit out of eachother and then its all cool.
Here's the thing. If it's like one of my friends doing it behind my back on purpose, I'mma fight your ass. Some stranger? Nah, you're good bro. Even if you knew you're really just doing me a favor.
Shit buy the man a beer for exposing that 304.
In my town, a man killed a younger guy for sleeping with his wife. Now he's in prison for life. That's what happens when men lose their emotional control, meanwhile the woman that cheated gets zero repercussions, probably moved on already to some new victim. Men should have a healthy fear of all women.
Been there, done that with my ex. Years of manipulation and emotional abuse became physical abuse when she started having an affair. When she figured out I wasn't afraid of her hitting me, she turned the tables, threatening to "throw herself into a wall and call 911 to report me as the abuser". That's when I finally left... yes, that also involved her trying to lock me in a room, physically trying to restrain me, threatening me with suicide and when I got out to my car, climbing on the hood and screaming at me through the windshield in the pouring rain...I still remember the looks on neighbors' faces trying to figure that out.
Been 15 years since the ww3 divorce.... not a day goes by when I'm not remembering the terror and being so happy to be out of there.
A friend in same situation, except he didn't leave when his wife started threatening to have him arrested under false, charges of abuse/assault, went through 2 years of legal hell before pleaing it out for 5 years of probation.
The legal system had no interest in his side of the story. ...just prosecuted the big bad man for the defenseless girl.
As a man who has been cheated on multiple times by multiple women, thank you for everything you do. You're awesome af and I'm glad I found your socials
Bruh what are you doing with life ? Like choose wisely next time .
@@Kat-y_L It's much easier said than done. Some women are experts in hiding who they really are until they have you trapped.
@@Kat-y_L they all gonna cheat eventually
Learn to read people bro, seriously it's not safe out there
Be selective and weed out the deceptive.
Charlie Sheen once said, "Men don't pay women for sex. They pay them so that they can walk away."
it's more like "Men pay for the feeling of being liked and been used for the feeling of love, women cannot show true love as men can towards women there is NO chance females has that kind of emotion (except for the children they get and get PAID for)"
They pay them to leave because everything equates to money with female terms and basically they aren't capable of understanding real until it's too late so a hooker basically is sex without the emotional baggage of the middle man (like in a relationship, fb, or one nighter)
My dad told me that when I was a teenager back in the 80's. Nothing new
I pay them to leave afterwards
As a man that has been in 4 committed relationships and one marriage, this struck a chord with me. Every single one of those relationships ended when I caught them cheating. The last two (one of which was my wife) USED the past experiences to cover up their cheating! When I started recognizing the signs, and questioning things, they both told me I was projecting my past relationships. They guilted me into ignoring what I saw. 14 years later, I'm happily single and not the LEAST BIT interested in getting involved with another emotional train wreck.
Thank YOU for being a voice. Thank you for making this known. And most of all.... THANK YOU FOR GIVING A F**K!!!! You're fighting a hell of a war, and I respect the hell out of you for it.
I'm so sorry. I can't believe you've been cheated on and guilt tripped these many times. This experience, if happened to me, surely break me into nothing. You're going strong i guess. God bless.
My fiance now does this...idk what to think..she's always accusing me of cheating and I'm not.
@@seancascanet1420 hold a conversation with her. Communication is the key. Tell her why constantly accusing me of cheating when I'm not cheating on you. Are you just jealous or are you insecure?. Question her. It may cost your relationship but don't let it cost your emotions and feelings in a long term
@Sean Cascanet it's usually projection and its the other way round . If you know you didn't then youve nothing to worry about .. on your part .
@Sean Cascanet That's because she's cheating. Leave her..before she pushes you to kill yourself.
wow, my first wife was like the girl in the first clip, always up in my face trying to start a fight and stop me from leaving to de-escalate the situation. for you ladies reading this, you have no idea how much self control it takes for a man to not knock you the fuck out when you act like this
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Let's not forget how often woman hits you slap you kicks you... And you do nothing about it..
I wish I would have gone to police thsn
Exactly right Sir! 👏👏
Chick here and I approve this message!
As a woman, seeing women like this is very embarrassing and I hope they get what's coming to them. No one deserves to be cheated on. If they didn't want to be faithful, they shouldn't have gotten into a relationship.
Exactly, goes for both genders. Cheating is nasty and vile, I don’t see how you could cheat on someone and say you love them.
@@MAXIMUS-el1os well feelings, love is both but in the end it's the decision. Take care 🤙
"they get what's coming to them"
no they wont, they never will.
just look at the Amber Heard case, no prison time, doesnt have to pay anything in the end.
If Depp wasnt rich he could afford high quality lawyers and even then it was risky at best.
No, women get away with almost everything.
@@dawn_darklight if you love someone truly you’d not cheat, period. No one loves someone else but “screws up” by cheating, anymore than they would accidentally trip, fall, and murder or rape their lover.
@@dawn_darklightI don’t think you understand love to begin with
Thank you for all the work you do as a men's advocate. I'm 64 now, and got divorced in 1991 due to a cheating wife. As the years have passed, I've realized how lucky I've been not to commit marriage again. It's been a great life!
Hahaha "commit marriage" 😂
Love it.
@@beavisbuttgoblin Ok...now THIS shit I get. I just read a post by a 32 year old who said he got cheated on when he was 16 and he's been single since BECAUSE of that!
Not getting married again(or ever) that makes sense to me. A little 15 year old in HS kissing another guy at a party...that's not a good reason to NEVER date again!
Some of these Men are fragile as shit. But I do know a guy around your age...GREAT dude...wouldn't even go out to the Bar when we went out of town(Wrestling coach, traveled for recruiting) because he didn't want to "be put in a situation where there was the APPEARANCE" he was doing something wrong that could cost him his kids.
Turns out, his wife runs up ~100K in debt and cheats on him, when he talks to her about working it out, asks what she needs or whats from him that she's not getting, she says, "more money, she wants to go on more vacations and..." there was other shit, but he made 175K a year. He worked(coach) then ran a side business and it was still growing.
Divorced her, makes about half of that now, but he's a simple man, so he doesn't need much. Zero debt, nice house he renovated on his own and he's happy as hell!
Preach it friend! NEVER got married again , never will.
@@scourge8097 yeah I agree about not giving up on dating so easily, but then again you have to admit young men see all these kinds of things happening to good hard working committed men and they decide they don’t want any part of it since they’ve already had a small dose of the cyanide, and would like to not try it again.
Men are meant to suffer and come out stronger so yeah you should continue to try and find a woman, but no you shouldn’t rush into it.
I for one am looking for a woman that is not from the west, because western feminism has brainwashed so many women, and I value traditional values and gender roles.
@Mclovin That's silly also. You need to get off of social media and go meet NORMAL Women. The fact is, MOST women are good women.
You MAY need to look a bit harder, but I know countless Women who want to stay home, raise their kids...all that shit.
You can't be scared off by the scary stories because MOST of the people in happy marriages aren't coming on here saying, "I'm happy with my decisions."
Just not how it works. They are too content to commiserate online.
Just...think for yourself, judge a women's character on your own without the line about how "Western Feminist Women....," or you sound like a bitter, spoiled Western man!
"These women deserve no dick."
I've grown more and more to appreciate your content. As a person who was cheated on in my first three relationships, I can sympathize very much with what you say about "where all the good men went." I was a good man. Hell, I still am. But I refuse to commit to anything more than a casual relationship these days for just that reason. In my experience, she's eventually going to cheat on me.
Thanks for sticking up for us!
No dique
Cheat on her first. Fuck all her girlfriends. For equality!
I agree women are absolutely insane nowadays. I mean this with utmost respect, but you can't walk around with a mentality like that it's not worth the energy. Every man needs to constantly evaluate himself and improve, not for himself but for society as a whole. Weak men create hard times hard times create strong men, keep on the grind and never sell yourself short.
I tell my mother these stories and all I hear is "Not all women are like that!"
Yeah, and not all chambers in a game of Russian roulette are loaded, does that make playing the game a good idea? And then she starts in on calling me a misogynist and bla bla bla...
@@Tomyironmane that’s a great analogy.
Words cannot describe the beauty of hearing a person try and understand the truth and not just sideline assuming as most do, thank you Roma and followers supporting her. The world has enough chaos an things to fight, nobody needs more to needlessly fight. Thank you!
Learning to stand in somebody else's shoes, to see through their eyes, that's how peace begins. Thank you for trying to be that beginning, bless!
I'm 67 and I've watched this coming for years, and still, when my wife left me, took the children and destroyed my life it took me by complete surprise. I really thought we were partners but I was just holding her back. Women I dated in the 70's wouldn't even recognize the women of today. Soon as my passport is in the mailbox I'm gone to East Asia. I may not ever be with a woman again but at least the culture there has a little more respect for men.
Good luck. 👍
I'm 43 and even going back 15 years the woman had better morals there had some natural beauty and femine charectiristics now woman are more masculine tattoos gym addicts need daily validation on social media lips and face full of botox and lip fillers if things keep going the way they are I can see woman becoming men tbh
Wow, 67. I'm 62 and made enough to take care of myself but not anymore. I saw too many men getting burned by women. Now I'm married and the wife nags me all the time for not having made more money.. I don't tell her why and I don't live by anyone else's values but my own. Happy Life to you!
Gross bro. You’re going to be one of those creepy bastards that live on a steady diet of Asian ‘tutes. Don’t be that guy.
I got married for the first time at age 52 to a woman from Ecuador and it’s the best decision I ever made.
I know the moment I discovered my ex-wifes adultery I fell to my knees and hurt more than any physcial injury could give me. But I will say 4 years later it was a BLESSING in disguise! Guys and gals who've fell victim to adultery just know you don't need that in you're life! You deserve better! Eventually the pain will turn to Strength!
It's refreshing to see a woman who actually calls things as they are. I used to be one of these guys. My girlfriend of 10 years cheated while I was out on the road driving a truck to pay all the bills so she could stay home with our daughter. Once I found out I left and never looked back. Been single by choice ever since.
Is ur daughter with u now or her mom?
@Devin Collins I have full custody. Took a couple years of battle in court, but eventually worked out. My ex wasn't the responsible type and I was eventually able to prove that.
@@michaellee1244 king
@@michaellee1244 good for you 🙌🏻
i dont wanna be rude, but its on my mind.
You dont have to answer it.
Because of your kid, why did she cheat?
I can’t thank you enough for using your platform to, expose the fact that so many men have been put into these sick situations. We’ve all been there and my story is very long but I can say that at my lowest points I’ve found immeasurable solace and peace knowing I am not alone. So again thank you and keep up the amazing work 🤙
There is an epidemic of women acting like children and not taking accountability for their wrong doings. It’s very scary.
I dated a crazy abuser and it always amazed me how they accuse you of the exact kind of abuse they are inflicting upon you
It's projection. If they can "catch" you out doing the same disloyal/vile shit they're up to, in their minds, their abuse/cheating etc is justified and they're absolved of any guilt.
@@MichaelJP yeah, the whole guilty conscious thing is real. My cousin's ex was always accusing him of screwing around, usually while him, me, my brother and our mate were working on our cars and bikes. Turns out she was banging the weird satanic looking neighbor and his crack whore looking girlfriend.
Yup. Projection is a hell of a thing.
Dude, I knew things were bad when I had to start recording phone conversations in order to protect myself from her kind of crazy. In every one I recorded, she would say I was stressing her out, to which you could hear and see me say, “If I’m causing you this much trouble, why don’t we end things?” She’d say, “I won’t let you do that.” Me, “What if blocked you?” Her, “Then I’d report you.” Me, “For what!?” Her, “I don’t know, but I’ll figure something out.” It took me two years to heal from that relationship.
@@justinstevens3743 Smart, and congrats on escaping her clutches. Abusive men generally resort to physical threats/actions but women being the "weaker" sex have often evolved emotional manipulation and blackmail tactics to get their way.
You get locked up for DV, the boys in prison don't play nice!
Glad you escaped with your freedom and self respect....hopefully the rest of her victims are just as smart.
As a male who has been in marriages ( I'm dumb, more than one)
like this. We are soooo glad there are incredible women like you who SPEAK for us.
Thank you
I can relate brother
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
Cuz you've been neutered my guy. Being fooled twice can do that to a guy n usually you reflect on how nice you were while they were complete turds
Thank you, Roma. You’ve just earned another supporter of men. I’ve always thought men got the raw end of the deal. Thank you for pointing out these bimbos and calling them on their bullshit.
Thank you for your work as a UA-camr and advocate for men's rights. Your dedication to speaking up for the well-being of men is inspiring, and your platform has made a significant impact. Your advocacy for gender equality is especially admirable. Thank you for all that you do to make the world a better, more just place.
I totally agree, it's tough in today's society to go against the grain. 👍
Ooh boohoo, women cheat just like men. Maybe pick a better woman in the first place not like there’s isn’t billions in the world.
I really appreciate this young lady.Society is so messed up and sheds light on a huge ailment
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
Thank you for bringing to light this common pattern of abuse that just isn't talked about. Where's the big budget movie about a man who's a victim of domestic abuse?
After year 4 of my marriage my wife cheated on me im an idiot because i chose to stay ive been with her now for 24 years always in the back of my mind i feel i still cant trust her. Its been a rocky relationship since and she is one of the most entitled karens i know of. Really wish id have listened to my brain.
I got married in 2005 to a chick who did this to me 3 years later. Almost exactly. (first video) I ended up getting slapped with a restraining order to keep me away from the house we were renting which is also the house I grew up in that my mother owned at the time. Then she pawned all my stuff with her new boyfriend who was also a close friend of mine before this happened. I was charged assult and battery and a slew of other charges. When I went to court they gave me a plea deal to drop it to domestic disorderly conduct, which meant it wouldn't be a felony but I wouldn't be allowed to own a gun, which makes no sense to me. I said "Nope, I want a jury trial." my public pretender said "this is a good deal, if you don't take it you will probably end up with a felony" my reply was "Nope, I didn't touch her, Jury Trial." and lo and behold. about 2 weeks later all charges were dropped and 30 days after that the RO expired and suddenly she wanted to talk to me, see she had got my tax return check in the mail and since she couldn't do anything with it suddenly she was sweet as can be... We legally divorced about 60 days later.
Did you ask her to consider opening the relationship so you could show her love and he could also love her? 😢
You got tangled up with a malignant narcissist. There's a lot of it around. :(
@@kwadwog8168 Open relationship. Yeah that'll work. Da fuq?
@@kwadwog8168Give women like that ten guys and she's going to cheat all of them with number eleven.
@@kwadwog8168 You don't enable whores, you throw them to the streets where they belong.
This lady needs protecting and supporting at all costs. Roma and her voice are so valuable to what is happening to our men, fathers, brothers, sons, uncles, and young men. Hopefully we will get awareness that this is also happening in the family courts where children lose any meaningful relationship with their fathers who are turned into 2 times per month weekend visitors. No accountability for false allegations in family court, no charge for perjury on the stand, and the 'silver bullet theory is encouraged by attorneys in the winner take all system that is family court. It was created by attorneys, for attorneys, and uses ex-attorneys (Judges ) to extract as much wealth from future generations as possible to enrich themselves. Conflict = money for them and the system supports and encourages narcissists' behavior. Support real 50/50 Maximum Physical Equal Shared Parenting wherever and whenever you can. Tell your stories and BE CAREFUL! Men are disposable in our current society. Be very careful.
Men deserve so much better.. I'm worried for my 2 sons... My girls are fierce, so are my boys.. But they'll always be the bad guy when it comes to situations that involved girls..
@@eeveelynnashes Your perspective is something so important and you're so right to be concerned. There's a good chance if your boys marry and have children that you'll lose your grandkids, or any meaningful time with them. If your boys' marriages happen to go south and go to family court the chances of them becoming visitors (2 weekends per month) to their kids is about 80 percent. Family court judges have no mandate for equal 50/50 shared physical custody in 47 states. Moms take the kids across state lines, hide them- then, when (if) a court date comes judges will rarely hold mothers accountable and they'll say the kids should stay where they are because they don't want to disrupt where they are. This is only one scenario. The 'Silver Bullet theory" family court attorneys use against men/fathers is a false claim of abuse to "win" in family court. No penalties for perjury, no accountability for making false allegations and men fathers are rarely believed. Many fathers are fighting criminal domestic charges and civil divorce family court at the same time. They are broke, tired, lost their children, and it's so easy to do to them. Many grandparents and family have lost access to the children in their family because of how men are viewed in our society. Disposable. It's good to see your comment and understanding. It's a dangerous situation and environment to be a man. Your boys have a 50% chance of being falsely accused of abuse and losing their children if the woman they marry changes her mind for any reason. Really, there's a huge financial incentive do do this to men/fathers.
Three words: Get. A. Prenup.
@@lockwoodthexton here's the thing about prenups that men/fathers are learning. They are invalidated (basically) because they are written by the same people they make money off of divorce. Lawyers. "They were signed under duress" is the most common tactic used to throw them out. Also, a court order is only as good as the judge that enforces it. Judges have no oversight and they throw them out. You can pay $50,000 for an appeal that won't work but the same result. Prenups do not work like you think In this day and age.
We are NOT DISPOSABLE.
Nothing hotter than a self aware woman with ambition and values.
As a man who got cheated on by someone that I did literally EVERYTHING for, thank you. Thank you for putting this out there. It's hard out here. You could literally give the world to someone and they'll make it out to not be enough. As I said in a poem I wrote about it, you chose to lay in a shack of lust in lieu of the house of love I was building us both. Home used to be where the heart is, but you chose to evict us both. Women scare me. Talking to women scares me. Going to the gym scares me. We as men have been demonized, emasculated, and popular dogma has been trained to make it seem that it's okay. As a Black man in my 20s in America, this shit is NUTS.
Damn, you good bro?
It has to end today. We men can't excuse it any longer. We can't tolerate it. We need to make it clear to women the dating legacy left by women like these hurts the credibility of all women. You are the victims no longer.
Bro, don’t be scared of women.
Yeah got cheated on by two different girls in consecutive years so I've said fuck it but now I'm getting back into it shit ain't look that much brighter but it ain't dark no more if you know what I mean
that's a good poem. can I borrow it?
So I had a similar experience in my past. I knew I had to go get my stuff from her house and I knew that she lies a lot, that’s why we broke up. I asked my mate to stand around the corner of the road filming it, knocked on the door and got my stuff peacefully, however later that night I was arrested for violence and as soon as I was arrested my mate came to the police station and shown the footage to them. The faces on the cops were hilarious.
That's why having a mate is so important. You dodged a bullet Sir, thanks for him. Without that video, its her word against yours and you know how that goes. My respect to both of you, and buy him a cold one.
More men need to be warned about this behavior. I've seen men do 10-20 years in prison because they got trapped in an abusive relationship like this and there's no legal help for them.
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
I've been single for over 13 years and shit like this (and listening to mates and colleagues constantly moaning about their male and female partners) just confirms that I've made the right choice! ❤
Yup, I have been single since 2006 so I agree and I also made the right choice.
Preach
Been married for 15 years, if it wasn't for my daughter's I would have divorced her 14 years ago. My soul is destroyed. Don't get married. Ever!
ive been single for ~12years(cheated) in that time i worked on my self on my "career" focused on my passions made my dreams come true and wasted a bit of time... at 38 2years ago due to my passion for cars ive met by completely random event truly amazing girl - love of first sight - the connection understanding warmth kindness joy is unspeakable... in my case it would be very illegal to meet her earlier cuz she was 18 when we met but now i know that 12 years wasnt that great without her (even tho my life was spectacular) we both wish we had more time... she proposed... 2.5years later we r still madly in love and i was never this happy EVER... no amount of horse power in any of my cars gave me so much happiness as she gives... new goals new paths opened for me and her... bro dont do this to your self... its truly amazing to have ur soulmate by ur side! just bcuz u ate few rotten tomatoes dsnt mean all tomatoes are rotten...
compassion kindness logic a bit of trauma sponsored by her parents thats a recipe for a perfect girl if shes hot af extra points but only if she dsnt know she is hot...
all the good ones are on youtube making videos like this holding out so they can get paid
As a man who put his life, love and invested in a 18 year relationship, to one day find out when my better half runs to her sister with the kids, telling me she is there for a visit, I received that bad news. She is not coming back, that my second born child for 5 years since he was born to me, is NOT mine, and she ran off with his real father. 18 years I can't get back went down the drain, lost everything. I've been running from my life since...
if only you could sue for the time. wait no because then she will do that after she leaves you for the other guy.
My ex wife had a way of making me think that I was the abuser in our relationship. It’s weird and kinda hard to explain. But for 12 years (6 married) I would have panic attacks and went through some serious bouts of depression, because I thought I was the monster. Boy how hindsight is 20/20. It wasn’t until after my divorce that I had ever even heard the term gaslighting.
You have my sympathies brother. After being trapped by an accidental pregnancy mere weeks into knowing a woman, I did the right thing and stood by her. After 11yrs (6 married) of myself treading on eggshells, being afraid to challenge anything that was done or said because the victim card would be used, being manipulated, controlled and financially abused I finally walked away from someone who has now shown her true colours to the world and in 2022 I divorced her. 2 years later and she still tries to control every situation but this time uses my kids as leverage. I've been slandered, ostracized by the family I thought I had, and made to look like the utter b@stard in it all. Yet I'm the one who walked away with nothing but the clothes on my back while she got the house, the kids and monthly payments. Luckily I'm now with someone I have known for 20yrs, someone who was not only my best friend but also has my back the same now as she always did. I no longer take medication for the depression I was diagnosed with in 2018 and I've never been happier or felt better. Harsh lesson learnt, and I know what you mean about the realisation of gas lighting. Keep well brother 🤘
i hope you have turned that corner and are enjoying your life brother.
I have encountered women like this before, and its a combination of factors to lead to this. 1. The relationship is not working, but they are way too scared to lose you in case doesn't work out with the other person. 2. You are inferior to them, they have placed themselves on a pedestal in their mind and kicked you off of it. 3. Is more a recent development with inside the feminist mindset, you aren't the perfect person I wanted you to be so you are expendable. Last but not least and this has and will lead to this sort of behavior becoming more common. 4. I am a woman, I am perfect, I never do anything wrong, and anything I did wrong is your fault, and I will go to extreme lengths to not break my mental image of myself being perfect.
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
The fact that these kind of women skulk around and lie as a response is the very reason the relationship didn't work out to start with. It was never true love, just comfort for their sake. You provided them with things and they took it and played along. Which is why you as a man lost yourself on the way. Then when you are lost from not being truly loved they blame you for how it ended up and its somehow your fault that they lied and cheated. No no its their fault from the start, choosing you for being a provider rather then true love.
The only time I called my mom “mommy” other than when I was just a kid, was December 6, 2019 when I was holding her in my arms as I watched her take her last couple of breaths as I’m bawling my eyes out. I believe this situation that I went through is a lot more understandable for a grown woman to refer to your mom as “mommy”.
Regarding this video, I’m guessing this girl is between the ages of 18 and 25, and in this situation, she’s throwing a temper tantrum as an adult calling and crying to her mom and calls her “mommy”. In my opinion, that man stayed so calm and handled the situation quite well. So good on him, and I hope he was able to get away and leave her childish ass very soon after this shit show.💛🕊️
I’m sorry for your loss.
But that depends on the culture.
In my family we call our mothers "mami", mommy In english. We call them mami, no matter what age we are.
My birthday
@@Yazmin_P although that it true, and I do respect cultures; however, that’s not the case for the girl in this video - she just demonstrates childishness. Lol
I've never understood why there are women that cheat, then get mad at the bf or try to keep them or something when they get caught
Maybe it's because they can't be alone or need someone to pay bills, until they can swap you for something "better".
They want the best of both worlds. Cheaters are just digusting people whether man or woman.
its cause the guy they want to fuck cant afford the shit the guy they dont want to lose can and the guy they want to fuck isn't putting a roof over their head at that time so thats another reason either way at this point almost 99% of modern women are a fucking lost cause cause even the ones that supposedly aren't bad alot of the time will defend the bad ones based on their lies
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
As a man over 40 and a Dad who is trying to navigate this new woke clown world...without offending anyone.I would like to thank you for your videos... you are a ray of sunshine and sanity in a rainbow colored nightmare that is todays reality.. Peace n love to you Roma army
Covid fuxked everyone's minds
Don't even bother trying to not offend people. That offends them.
Just be the best you and don't apologize for not holding yourself back for the sake of the feeling of people who hate you.
fuck that. offend them. OFFEND THEM HARD. THESE PEOPLE NEED A STRAIGHTJACKET NOT AFFIRMING AND HAND HOLDING!
I've been 100% the opposite. I speak and act in a way to purposely piss off and offend the left. It's so so so satisfying.
Do what's best for you and your kids. Worrying about everyone else is their job.
I’ve not been in a relationship where a man had NEVER laid his hands on me in anger, but I’ve had neighbors call the cops when they heard us arguing on the patio. The cops will still arrest him and there’s nothing you can do to correct it other than relentlessly call the DA’s office and plead with them that you weren’t hurt. The only option I had left was to not show up to my subpoena and I was going to turn myself in the following Monday. Luckily, they didn’t put a warrant out for my arrest, and his case got dismissed. Because women like this LIE AND PRETEND they’re being abused, so good men can be accused by literally anyone of domestic abuse, and be arrested for it. The first girl’s shrieking really got to me. She’s not physically intimidating, but she’s clearly the type to falsely get a man arrested for abuse that never happened. Witches that falsely accuse men are evil and not only invalidate actual victims, but can destroy the lives of men who never deserved to be labeled as domestic abusers.
Same thing happened to my wife and I. She relapsed on drugs and alcohol and some of her past trauma came out and she beat me a bit. Our neighbors called the cops and the cops used destroyed property as evidence of me being the abuser.
My wife tried several times, over the course of an entire year, to get the restraining order lifted or even modified, but the judge refused every time, saying "you don't have a good enough reason to need to be with your husband." I have no idea what reason they would think was good enough.
She died of an OD while I was locked up.
I went through two bad relationships, with the same woman (didn’t learn my lesson the first time), and it really tainted my approach to the next relationship I had. Luckily the next woman had some empathy, understood where I was coming from and put up with my issues to the point we’re still happily married for the last 13 years. So there are happy endings out there. Don’t let some bad experiences ruin possible good ones. I realise I’ve been lucky here and am grateful for it. Hopefully there are others out there as well.
At 9,12, and 13 my mother would have us wake her for work. Her eyes would be open, she would look at us and tell us we lied and never did what we were told, basically we were the worst sons on Earth. After she got up she would say that she Loved us and would Never say anything like that. After we tape recorded her , I didn't mean it. My older brother deceased walking to school, younger brother went through multiple relationships/marriages. I met, married my wife who showed me what True Love is. I asked my brother, just before mom passed (we had not talked to her for 20 years, would not put up with her abuse) Is it possible that your multiple relationship problems could have been because mom taught us that women are not to be trusted? RIP my Angel.
I literally only have one unbreakable, red line, deal breaker rule in a relationship ... no cheating, two timing or messing around.
If / when this rule is broken ... so is the relationship.
Broken irreparably ... just like the trust, faith, and love we once had... all gone forever.
No second chance.
No working things out.
No shifting the blame to me for bullsh*t reasons.
No excuses.
We're done and this is over.
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If she loved me then she wouldn't have cheated.
I did second chances once.
Once.
Not anymore. Now it's the ground rule set upon entry into the relationship.
I've even adopted a mantra with it. If you lose feelings for me, just bloody say it. Tell me we're through, you found or want to find someone else, we'll split our separate ways.
But don't think for a moment you can play a two timing game where you get two slices of cake and get to eat both of them without repercussion. You get me, or you get them. And if you want them? Go for them, I don't need someone who doesn't want me in my own home.
Second chances end in mayhem..know all about it😉🙏☦️
About the second chance thing….if you walk by the same tree in a forest twice, you are lost. Hope this helps some of yall.
@@tylerwill5250
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I'm using this quote from now on.
It’s amazing how calm and collected all 3 of these gentlemen were considering the circumstances. Tells me they have had time to allow themselves to process how they would react to the situation and were just waiting for the right moment to confront and cut out. Excellent work on their part. Bravo
“Calm” the judge told him he sounded like a early 20/early 30 child abuser when I took him to court
1: I was a minor 2: I never cheated 3: you didn’t see what happened before the video 4; HE IS IN FUCKING PRISON FOR 5 YEARS FOR DOING WHAT HE DID TO ME BEFORE THIS VIDEO WAS TAKEN
a video that was used in court, I never gave permission for you to use, and you’re watching someone who was 15. Maybe make sure you have real context about this video before you want to make fun of how I sound or what happened:)
@@katekennedy4833 how old are you now?
@@katekennedy4833 the only thing you have proved is how crazy broken the justice system is, and unless you are willing to link the video proving there was an altercation beforehand...ain't nobody give a damn about your cheating ass. Being a minor is no excuse for being an absolute trashcan of a human being. Oh and btw if someone can go to prison for 5 years for getting into a fight that leaves no visible marks...well shit might as well start just beating the shit outta the bitches now cuz we gonna get charged for it anyways.
@@katekennedy4833 1:Judges always side with the chick.
2 : WTF are you doing shacking up at 15? Sounds like you have a lot of issues...
@@katekennedy4833 lmao link
Just went through this bs with my ex. Thank you for standing up for Men. Abusers are any gender. Controlling and manipulating is toxic>
I had an ex that wouldn't let me leave whenever we got into a huge argument. She would steal my phone, stand in front of my car, get physical etc. The moment I finally couldn't hold it anymore and did the smallest amount of physical backlash by pushing her, she told her mom and some people at school. Went on to become people looking down on me thinking I'm a bad person. I've been single ever since and will never date a woman like that again. I don't think woman understand the amount of restraint it takes to be in a situation where you are upset, being forced to stay, physically attacked, and not do anything about it.
Accountability = Kryptonite to most women nowadays. There's very few that will hold themselves accountable for their actions
As much as there are problems in my marriage I am so fucking lucky to have my wife. She doesn’t do any stereotypical woman bullshit. Not a single bit. And the problems we have aren’t her fault
It's the other way around bro. Most women do not act like these in the videos..
Yall ain't gonna like this: I blame the parents. " my daughter is a queen"
Been cheated on all through HS up to 18, i took about a 2 year break and ended up with a girl that goes to church regularly and we have been married for 2 years in may with 2 boys. Yet, for some reason, I struggle to think she couldn't be cheating on me. It seems that she was raised right, and she talks like she would never do that. But women change up so quickly that I don't know what to think in all honesty. If this one doesn't work out, I'm just done, I'll be single and pay for my kids until they're 18, and I'll live the life of a Bachelor for the rest of my life. This is the last chance I'm giving women. I'd rather bust my ass to pay child support than bust my ass to keep a woman that can't keep her puss put up.
wish ya the best of luck, but def not holding my breath
@@jvillain9946 I appreciate it, and I'm certainly not either.
We wish you the best brother. Whatever you do, don't accuse someone innocent of something. Talk through it with her.
@@bloocifer You and Divine have good points. Thank you for taking the time. I really appreciate it.
Women are more emotional than loyal. If she starts feeling she deserves better than you then the marriage done. The best we can do is stay on our purpose first and foremost, then love her; this way she’ll most likely not lose respect for you and try to stay in the relationship.
Nothing worse in love than dating or marrying someone who only cares about themselves.
That's a good reason to stay single.
I got assault charges, can't find a place to accept me to move in, or find a job thanks to false allegations and no evidence, lost my car and kids, cops checked her and no marks whatsoever, she went to a hospital and again, no evidence of abuse. And still . . . The courts took her side and ruined my life. Why am I still here?
Imagine getting cheated, then getting falsely accused of assault, gaslight and then gets way aggressive to trigger him. Jeez.. I could only hope I have the patience this man has
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
literally had this happen to me. Got my fiance of 3.5 years cheating and she immediately tried to accuse me of hitting her and preventing me from leaving my own house by standing in front of the door shoving me, saying "what're you gonna do, hit me?" wish more people like this would come to light
if theyre gonna accuse you might as well pop em one
@@MrObasiah BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BRUH….
@@MrObasiah absolutely not... make sure to document that you in fact didn't by using your phone to film the situation and leave while recording everything
This happened to me too
@@patricksomers9893 think a lot of us have tried it...
Several years ago I found emails that wrecked my life. He was in the military and overseas so nothing happened physically. She tried to down play the whole thing.
It happened at what should have been the best time for our young family. Ended up moving to Georgia where my life basically has ended. I stayed for my son, but in hindsight should have ended everything. Been here eighteen years so far and my soul is numb.
I'm glad to see you exposing the type of ladies that should not be in relationships
I was in a similar situation. My ex wife was cyber cheating and I was upset. I got us into counseling, and she got irate about the suggestions of how to fix the relationship. She ended up kidnapping our daughter, taking her back to CA under the pretense that they would be back in 2 weeks. When this was explained to the California custody court, they still gave her custody of our daughter. I have seen my daughter less than 20 times in 16 years because I cannot afford to travel often to see her.
It took me over a decade to finally get it through my head that I WASN'T the monster or abuser that I had been convinced I was. I never realized that I was being emotionally abused.
On top of that, she ended up abandoning our child. Leaving her for her grandparents and a cousin to raise her so she could move to Wisconsin and get into a relationship with a married couple. Sorry for this being so long. I just thought you would be interested in knowing, I have been single, celibate, and crushingly lonely for just shy of 16 years. I am terrified of having my heart destroyed again. Thank you for advocating for men that have been and are being manipulated and abused, all while being made out to be the abuser. Relationships with abusers are very rarely how they appear to other people. ✌️💜
Yep. There truly are terrible men out there, but honestly it's about 50/50 and a good chunk of them are in jail or prison already. But women just talk a lot more, their side of the story gets shared and men just keep to themselves and get demonized.
My brother was put in jail because he told his girlfriend of 8 years they were done. When the lease was up they would part ways and that gave them 3 months to figure their own situations for housing. She called the police, and claimed he hit her. She trashed the house and said it was him who was in a rage. I've been single for 10 years and the shit I see with other peoples modern day relationships is appalling to say the least. Shit aint love, its lust and materials. Its almost like a yearly reminder at this point, I'm glad to be single and avoiding all this mess.
Same here, couldn't agree more. 👍👍
Here's what I find to be particularly sickening about this situation. She has such supreme complete confidence in her accusation of being assaulted, that she doesn't even TRY to NOT LIE while he's literally filming her with the camera right in her face. She KNOWS he's filming her and she's really going to accuse him of assaulting her; as if the simple accusation by itself is all the evidence needed to scare him into being submissive.
This sh*t has been going on since before the iPhone was invented. It's damn good we now have a way to document such a complete delusion in our times for future generations to appreciate and learn from.
She's so sure about herself because she knows if she gets the right judge all the evidence in the world won't stop them from siding with her. She's been spoiled and pampered her whole life, and clearly nobody has ever properly put her behaviour in check when she was young. This is the sort of shit that happens when you raise girls to believe they're all princesses without the loyal title.
I've been grabbed as my shirt ripped while my wife was screaming
"you can't leave me like this!", after she was physically beating me.
She also pulled the "youre hurting me" while 20 feet away stuff, on the phone and for the neighbors.
She died of an OD a couple months after that event. From drugs that a guy she was cheating on me with gave her. I don't have the emotional energy to try another relationship. I'm becoming a Buddhist monk as soon as possible. I have scheduled appointments.
@@ud0ntevenkn0wme become a buddhist monk inside, but no need to lock yourself upninside a monastery.
Watch " happiness unlimited" by "bkshivani" thank me later and i love you brother
I have just found Your channel...Modern society needs more women like You... Logical, resonable, very articulate. Ma'am , I think You are awesome.
Having had a GF use the threat of calling the police and claiming I hit unless I did as I was told before, I have a standing rule that if I ever hear that used as a threat against anyone, I am done. 100% done, no further discussion required or accepted.
A note, as a former soldier: there are only two reasons to crawl. One is to get out of danger, the other is to get into a better fighting position. So if you need to crawl a while to get away, then do it. If she crawls to get back into your life… it’s with bad intent.
"slobs my knob" that's the funniest shit I herd all day! I'm now a new fan! lmao
I love how bro stayed so calm the entire time cause as a man we’ve been taught (and shown examples of) that if we start acting up emotionally like that raising our voice anything we’re automatically at fault
Good on him for keeping his calm
I faced a similar thing, it was 16 years ago. Been single for 16 years. This happens to you once, it will forever change your opinion on women. Because of her, I have a deep-seated mistrust of women. I went MGTOW before mgtow was a thing.
Bro to bro. Don't let a trash a$$ woman change who you are. Find a good woman. Enjoy your life. That's the best revenge my friend. Cheers!!!
Nearly every single woman in my life has tried to screw me over in some way including my own mother.
With that being said I still love women and married a real winner, don't give up hope. Not all women are like this the good ones deserve to be treated as well as they treat you❤
Amen. Leave women to their devices, only interact for recreational use.
I wanted to respond to your comment with something motivational to pick you up but it seems there is already support in this thread so I'm just going to be honest with you instead. You're right, fuck these bitches.
Consider yourself lucky. At least you didn't get "Me too," like I did by a girl I dated.
I don't understand how you can cheat and then beg the person you cheated on not to leave, like do you want them or not because both actions completely contradict each other. Absolutely insane
they are cheating for "fun"...but want to have boyfriend for everything else, but fun
“Having your cake and eating it too”
Because the replacement isn't hooked yet, as soon as it is she's off.
It's called money branching. They swing from one dick to another..
@@andrewgarner2224 exactly, it's called hypergamy, or in layman's terms, "monkey branching" when a monkey climbs, they don't let go of the branch below them till they have three point contact on the next, to these cheaters just wanna hang on to their meal ticket till they can lock down Chad, but Chad doesn't get locked down and they refuse to see that, and the chads? They were once the guy she's begging to stay, and they closed their hearts and became part of the system thanks to these cheaters, that's where "the good men" have gone
25yo here, never been in a relationship and never will unless destiny put a pearl on my doorstep which obviously won't happen but here is the thing, i'm at peace, i do whatever the fuck i want when i want, i don't have to answer to anybody regarding what i do and so on, i don't need to be afraid to be cheated on, of what i say or how i say it, i don't need to play mind game and boy the list goes on.
That shit goes both way, ladies and gentlemens, stop wasting your precious time chasing shit that is not worth it. i find it mindblowing that in 2023 people don't have a red flag list (not those shity fake red flag) with example of toxic behaviors that should be avoided. I do have mine and boy it helped me avoid so many toxic people in my life... as a matter of facts the first one was my dear crazy mother.
You'll always be better off alone than in bad company.
Btw i'm not saying that you should do the same as me and don't even try to date and shit, i'm just saying be prepared for the shitstorm that's it.
1:51 I've been with women like this. Threatening to say I hit her, or this, that, or the other, instead of taking responsibility. What a narcissistic piece of sh*t.
I'm so glad that the woman I married saved herself for the man she would marry. She was a virgin when we married and loved only one man. Me. WE have three young adults for children. I can trust my wife without a worry. We have been married 30 years and counting. I was lucky.
Thank you for pointing out the obvious. I have been used and abused to the point I am staying single. I am 61, own my own home, have never cheated, hit, or abused a woman so I figure some woman is missing out on a good trustworthy man willing to idolize a good woman.
It’s amazing. Women seem to really like no where losers who cheat themselves. Do they not think they won’t cheat on each other. I wasted a good 30 plus years on a worthless woman who lied, cheated, stole, manipulated, etc.
Hard to understand it all, but we didn’t have UA-cam in my youth.
Dont simp though
61 also and after 41 years of marriage I just starting to figure out why things didn't add up so to speak I bring it up to her and she denied it but at first she said " well you went to titty bars." I said I sure did but what did you do? She has been gone for 3 months after me calling, texting chasing, begging and crying just tonight she goes crazy accusing me of all kinds of nonsense so I walked away and don't care if I ever see her again.
@@velt7560 I'm 62. Sorry to hear about your bad experience but think everything will be better for the rest of your Life
I heard of a guy who married a single mother. She divorced him and took the house. Be careful
thanks for bringing this out n your videos
My last girlfriend was heavy into micro cheating. It’s was always “ they’re like brothers to me” always going over when I’m not there, texting when I’m not there or out of the room. They would sleep in her bed and cuddle on the couch. It’s just funny how they think it’s all good, they ain’t cheating. BullSh*t! It’s cheating. I’ve lost faith in there being good women who don’t mess around in some fashion.
Im glad that Roma exists to share with us our daily dose of modern feminity 💯👌👏
Fresh and Fit podcast
I like seeing 4chan cringe as much as the next guy out there, but uh..... Cringe usually tells us that an unstoppable trainwreck happened and shows us the results in one image. This trainwreck is in motion, caught on digital recording and is loud enough to make me afraid somebody could mix it into Dolby Digital surround sound so the sound literally reverberates off the walls and shakes your house with the violence of her words.
This surpasses cringe. This is literal sonic assault. Actual Ear Grape. What's worse, I actually could see this happening to me in High School with the nutjobs they had roaming the halls back then!!
It's really sickening and sad that when women like this caught, they IMMEDIATELY pull their phone out and try to ruin the life of the guy that caught them because of the idea that women should be believed 100% with 0 evidence just to avoid the shame of being a h03. I'm so glad that women with good morals are holding these disgusting people accountable, but I'm worried that the issue is growing quicker than we're able to stop it. Keep it up Roma
Well, they continue creating mental cases in the government schools. On both sides. You have to shut down the factory is you want to stop making stupid.
there was a case in my town where the women beat herself all blue and claimed her ex beat her to a pulp with a bat, the reason? he didn't want her anymore.
he was arrested and later released because evidence showed it was self harm
why do men always have to get into sticky situations with police because of crazy women? do we really need to eat, drink and sleep with a camera on?
Honestly.. the whole "filming people in moments of crisis" is disgusting to me. No matter who is in the right or not. Just think about what that means.. you have an argument and that person pulls out their phone. At that moment they are zero interested in you or in what's going on. They just wanna create content to show other people. They've already checked out of the entire situation and instead chose to use that time to invest in their social media persona. That is the ULTIMATE dehumanization of your partner. When you simply refuse to even acknowledge that there is a situation that needs to be solved between the two of you and instead only care about your own virtual presence.
I also find it kind of an assault to film someone without their permission. It's definately crossing a border. And NOBODY wants to be filmed in a moment where they are at their worst behavior. In this case the phone is more of a weapon than anything else. It says: "I'll show the entire world how horrible you are". But that isn't a fair representation of a human being. And again.. it completely ignores the situation that matters and replaces it with even more (psychological) violence.
@@earlgrey2130 Men have to protect themselves, so respectfully. Disagree.
@@earlgrey2130men have to do it to protect themselves in these types of situations .
Always great videos. Keep on being awesome. Thanks.
My ex cheated on me with one of my groomsmen. I forgave her. Then she cheated on me with her team lead, which was a friend of mine at work. Her excuse was that I worked too much. I did work a lot... Because she didn't work. That whole experience did crush my soul and created trust issues that I have been dealing with for the past 15yrs. Nowadays, I'm afraid to even approach a woman for fear of being deemed some kind of creep or weirdo. I don't even wanna look anymore. It's good to know there's at least 1 sane woman who hasn't gone completely off their rocker.
Sounds like you just picked a worthless wh_re. You should’ve ended things after she cheated on your the first time. Any misery past then is because you foolishly kept the relationship going.
You're right. This happens to good men. I've put everything into a long term relationship, moved away from my hometown where I played football for two decades at the time, left my job etc.
Few months later she cheated on me. She gave me the fault. She even told her mom that I put my hands on her at a confrontation and she mom was so angry that she came to our house and insulted me. I just stood there and my whole world broke apart. No anger, just pure sadness.
That's like 14 years ago. I left her. She is still texting me and wants me back because I took all what crushed my soul and grew as a person and man. It took me years to heal.
Yeah, this is what happens to good men. You're right. F all these women who aren't loyal and are toxic. If you're a guy better keep staying single until you find the right one.
This one hits deep. Last relationship, she would do this stuff, I'd catch her out, she'd get super angry and aggressive, ignore the thing and just start throwing made up accusations at me as if they would make what she did ok...
I'm quietly talking and she's shouting getting in my personal space, throwing things across the room, smashing glasses (not at me luckily) but still, I say i'm gonna leave and we talk when she calmed down, Then the waterworks start, the endless apologising, wrapping arms around me, standing in front of the door to block me.
One of the times I got outside to my car and screaming crying in the street, ripped my T-shirt almost completely off.
Neighbours watching, i'm begging her to just let me leave and even saying I will come back in a couple hours.
Eventually had to physically move her out the way to get in my car.
All i'm thinking is like WTF can you imagine if the gender roles were reversed, people be calling the cops and i'd be going to jail.
Of course the neighbours comforted her and told her SHE should leave ME.. I shouldn't treat her that way and no man good for her would ever leave like that....
Can't win..
Eventually went to pick her up from a night out and caught her leaving with some guy all over each other moving towards his place.
Managed to end it after that one, She moved her "don't worry he's just a work friend" (that she definitely cheated with)
into the flat pretty much a week after I gave the keys back.
And now I see the motivational love posts on fb n sh*t and it's so god damn frustrating.
She's just carrying on like nothing with new fella and i'm all screwed up and depressed not sure what to do with my life now..
Appreciate your videos shedding light on these things, cause people really don't know how often this stuff happens..
Sorry for the super long rant! .. first time i've actually written that down..
If there‘s only one thing you can do….preserve your dignity and move on. It‘s hard, I know, but you have enough evidence that this particular lady gives a shit on you. Time will help you to heal. There‘s for sure some girl with whom you can find a soul mate, don‘t be hopeless. I went through this myself (about 30 years ago) and now I have 2 kids, a wonderful wife and mother and anything is fine. Perceive your current situation as an experience (quite hurtful in the moment but very beneficial for your future).
@@arnemueller2112 Thanks for your reply, much appreciated.
I know it'll be better again eventually, just trying to muddle through the crappy part atm.
I'll get there 😊👍
@@peculiarfish0 you will!! Stay strong 💪
Move on. Buy a dog. “ ultimate loyalty “ and a motorcycle.. live happy ever after.
don't make my mistake and dwell on her move on asap.
Weman have be raised this way for decades. Especially Weman with brothers. I can remember my little sister getting mad at me or one of my brothers. She say "oh yeah, watch this." Run to the house as soon as she got to the door. The wather works turned on. Like a light switch, she'd start crying, screaming dad dad, he hit me. My father would stop what ever he was doing. Come running out, pulling off his belt like it was an old lawnmower that didn't want to crank. Then wip the ever loving s*** out of us, because she's daddys little princess. Then they grow up, when ever the leave or are mad at one man. The next man always reinforces the idea that she is right and he is wrong. "He didn't deserve you, he's an ass hole, you can do so much better, you deserve to be happy " they'll say. JUST TO GIT HER IN THE SACK! if he doesn't he won't get any, so all men have to play that game. Until he gets sick of her shit, or she go's crazy. Lot of men end up in jail/prison because of her lies. And she never learns she is the one in the wrong. Because she can always find a man to validate and back her up. Because she has a p****.
I love the humorous commentary you put on shitty situations, I cringe at the videos and then laugh at your reaction. Thank you for being a voice of reason in a world that needs it the most.
her reactions are what make watching the shitty situations just barely bearable but its also like....holy fuck i've literally been through some of these...this one THANKYOU but no....just similar....
Been there. After my back surgery, my ex wanted my pain pills and I would not give them to her. She called the cops and said I beat her, I got arrested, and she got free access to everything. Mind you, I just had fusion in my lower back, and had spend 1 week in a chemical coma, and 2 months in hospital. I was in a back brace and could not even walk. She, at the time, was doing scrap metal, and could carry a hot water heater up a set of stairs by her self. Got my ass kicked, got arrested, and got robbed. When It came time for court, she stood up and said she wanted a pack of cigarettes for retribution. Friggen joke. Well, 15 years later, I am fine, and she is a junkie. Guess I got the last laugh......
I'm 16. I'm scared of getting in a relationship. This is why.
Good! There are maniacs, both men and women. Date carefully, and do a background check. Part of that check means talking to their parents and grandparents. Spend time to allow problems to happen so you can see how they get solved. Patience, and vigilance.
@@geraldfrost4710 i coulda used that advice two years ago, thanks though!
Gee, a channel that has a man’s back……
Great work. Lot of praise for your work, all the way from Moe town. In Australia.
All the best.
4:49 You nailed it, after living this out twice I am completely done. No woman will ever do this to me again. I don't have enough time left to waste on someone that is a liar.
Thanks, Roma for being you!
Yep this here brings back some memories. I was married to someone who always viewed the grass as greener on the other side of the fence. Kicker is that after 8 years of running down every swinging sausage she could, things didn't go the way she thought they would and actually thought I would take her back after it all. Been single for 7 years and don't plan on looking back because I feel like I cant trust a woman again. Not after all that b.s I went through, just isn't worth it
I really want this channel to continue to grow and grow, so more people are aware
I honestly think she knew exactly where her phone is. I think she was hoping he would try to call her phone for her in hopes it would get him out faster but he would have to turn his camera off to make a call which is exactly what the first girl wanted. Props to him for being smart and I’m so heart broken he had to go through that
THANK YOU for speaking out for us men. I have been cheated on in nearly EVERY relationship I’ve been in.. and it’s VERY hard not to judge all women after that. I KNOW there’s still good women out there but man.. they are HARD to find. Every single one starts out “ oh I’m not like those OTHER “ girls.. only to prove they are EXACTLY like those other girls.😢
Honestly they are all trash stay single
Sorry guy, but it sounds like you have terrible taste as well.
When I got with my woman of 15 years I told her up front the unforgivable crime is screwing around.
If she screwed around we are done with no forgiveness or taking her back.
After 15 years she screwed around.
I immediately left her.
I never took her back.
She told me some time later she never thought I would actually do what I said I would do.
She tried to blame her kids for me leaving because they made her tell me about screwing around.
We stayed friends up until she died.
In fact, we were better friends than we were when we were together.
I am single to this day and will probably die single.
Ya' know what?
I'm OK with that.
I'm too old for the drama a woman causes when they come into your space and life.
Finally a woman who GETS IT. Every single one of my relationships have been a train wreck, and only ended in lies, deceipt, betrayals. Some of them even ended before they freakin' started. Good example: Girl and I were talking, we hadn't made anything official yet, but things were looking good. Girl meets Guy 2. Guy 2 is apparently much better than me, and a stereotypical "Bad boy" type. Girl outright starts ignoring me when I message her. This girl, that I was vulnerable with for months, flat-out disappears from my life. Dodged a bullet there, heard through the grapevine she's gotten into hard drugs and is a heavy user.
Good to see that you still broadcasting
My wife did the same thing. Then I watched her and her new lover in the worst live porno I've ever seen. Needless to say, we are going through a nasty custody battle, where I haven't seen my almost 3-YO son for going on 4 months (it's now April). It's ridiculous how vindictive and hateful some women are.
6 months in, any update? Also, use the corno as evidence that the 3 yo should not be in that household
I have been cheated on by about a dozen women in committed relationships, including one marriage. Now, I'm painfully alone, but I choose to be single. There is something empowering (I hate that word, though) about knowing that I'm living on my terms.
this vid brought up a lot of feelings, esp when you started talking about her being the abuser, cause that took literal therapy to get me to recognize about my relationship that was very similar, she'd emotionally manipulate, berate, and sexually manipulate me and then the moment I finally had enough and pushed back even a bit - not like, mirroring her behavior, but calling it out as bad and deciding to leave - she had a full on emotional breakdown, physically assaulted me until I walked out of our home and went to a buddies house, and then called everyone we both knew trying to tell them that I just beat the shit out of her with no provocation whatsoever, she even hit herself to fake bruises. I was only not hurt more by this (reputationally and legally) cause she was on probation for drug charges so she didn't go to the cops, and her OWN PARENTS even straight up called bullshit and said I would sooner die for her than ever hurt her, which was true at the time. Ofc all our friends had the same conclusion her own parents who raised her did, and she just ended up blocking me on everything and telling her new victim that i was so abusive and evil that she just had to completely break from all her friends and family cause they chose...me lol...
this type of woman has absolutely no accountability and will immediately try whatever she can to hurt you and elevate herself once you're not a useful pet anymore.
You hear how calm that dude is. Good for him, because if it was me she wouldn't of been so fortunate.
"So, maybe I don't have any evidence," she knew she didn't have any marks without even looking in the mirror. 😂
As someone who's been cheated on twice, this really hits home
It's one of the most hurtful things that someone can do to you and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy
I’d rather a woman break up with me, not cheat. It says A LOT about them. Does it hurt still? Yes but not as bad as being lied to thinking everything is ok, and all we got to do is work on the relationship only to find out she’s keeping you around just in case that fling doesn’t work out. I haven’t supported Roma on patreon but I think I will. It feels good to have people in your corner. I’ve been in that position before. It hurt me so bad. I was married for 5 years. I loved and busted my ass to be better financially, during that time being married, only to have my heart ripped away from me. Not only that but it left me feeling emasculated. And that was the worst part of it all. If she didn’t cheat but said I don’t love you anymore and left it would have been much better than what unfolded. It was also my fault for being naive and young. I made the stupid decision to marry her. I had no prior experience with love and relationships. I didn’t know about any red flags like how you’re talked to even though it did bother me. I don’t take being talked with such disrespect anymore. But all of that broke me down. She would get physical with me especially towards the end. Her disrespect only got worse to the point I was bad mouthed loudly and in the middle of Chicago. I wanted to tie her up with her jacket and throw her into the Chicago river. I’ve caught a dick pic in her phone from the guy and broke my hand out of drunken frustration. I wanted to break my hand on her face to be honest but it would have been my ass that went to jail. She did all of the tricks these women in the video when caught. She left, divorced me and then married the guy she left me with. Yes it was definitely a good thing she was gone but I was still destroyed, like a house after the worst kegger needing serious repairs. This happened in 2014/2015. But I was not back into dating until like 2020. I had a lot of healing to do as well as learning to live and be by myself. It was a painful process to say the least. But now I feel stronger. As soon as I see signs of disrespect I’m out.
It’s so nice to see your channel growing. Thanks for all your hard work.
I'd be walking out the front door. He is so calm during this. We all left at this point. No drama is the way to go. Time to cash out guys. Lets go have a beer.
This is exactly why I choose to remain single.
At 47 years old, I couldn't give two shits about dating today.
Great content and video as always ✌.
I've chosen to be single for the past year and a half due to past experiences with toxic and cheating Exs. As much as I crave to connect with a women and show love and be loved, I refuse to put myself in a position where I could get heartbroken and stomped on.
Now I just got a FWB / NSA..
I was cheated on too. I been single for 12 years. Life has been great. I dated once in while and it always turns to drama. They want to marry me and I will not fall for that. Then argue why I don't want them. Don't fall into that trap.