These Women Needed A Reality Check So I Gave It
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The only Blog that has ALL its information correct about my life. Many of you ask how I came up and my past. Here it is: celebsuburb.com/chloe-roma-is-she-arrested-who-is-her-husband/
The scammers are among us once again, guys!
Please report them!
Thankkkkkks🤪
Some tried scamming me too but I knew not to trust it
@@seanjitzu Glad to hear it! ❤
Your past is very interesting. I'm actually taking a trip to Romania in a little over a month!!!
Ima jus say this - plp who try to pry into a content creator’s private life in order to discredit what they have to say totally abandon the intellectual pursuit of challenging what they actually have to say & abdicate any honest ability to contest their positions with good faith. By pursuing character assassination instead of posting a reply video to a video - the weakness in their position becomes apparent & the motives become transparent.
When I met my husband he had low self-esteem because of how horribly he was treated in his previous relationships. It really pisses me off because he is a really amazing person. I make sure he knows how amazing and loved he is. If you treat a man well, you are much more likely to get treated well in return. I really appreciate you, Roma. There aren't many women who publicly do anything but crap on and try to shame men.
One more thing you can do for your man to show you appreciate him.
When he comes home. Take his hand. Lead him to the couch or bed, lay his head in your lap stroke his head and just tell him welcome home and everything will be ok.
Even if it was a good day for him just let him hear that.
@@ZeroOmega-vg8nq Ahhh yes, the immediate cuddle and a loaded bowl in the bong, his favorite song playing, and/or his favorite drink. Simple things.
That's awesome of you. Thank you for actually being a decent person in a not so decent time
Yes, since almost NONE of you speak up, we need to do the same since they just keep escalating like celebrating male "ending" thing, so we should do the same, 1000 times more from them so we can celebrate too! Being moral doesn't work, so we will be like them instead. Don't like it? THen speak up and stop this.
❤
As a 61-yr old man, I tip my hat to your videos as they always make me laugh. Those are some really Oscar-level facial expressions and eye rolls. I am so glad I am old these days and avoid all this nonsense.
She’s really funny
OMG Me too. I can't imagine trying to form a lasting relationship today in the age of social media run amok. :o
She is indeed.
I was lucky that I met a sensible woman a couple of years older than me 8 years ago. Our drama is usually the streaming kind. Lol
I too, think she is just fantastic 😍 I just hope she doesn't exhaust herself.
Thank you for talking about male victims of abuse and sexual assault. I was forced into doing things with a friend of mine by a group of girls younger than either of us at the age of 16 and I still can't get the words "If you don't do what we say, we'll tell the cops you r***ed us and since your a high-school boy and we're middle-schoolers, you'll be thrown in jail. They'll never believe you over us."
Me and that friend of mine managed to stay friends on facebook at least all these years but I can't ever think about her, talk to her, or see her posts without thinking about that day and what those 3 girls forced us to do... They never saw any consequences for it either because I was too scared that they were right and never said anything and the friend of mine was never going to say anything either...
I know that there is a lot of injustice that happens against woman, I just wish we could talk about both dynamics in this society. Just because we want to raise awareness that men can be victims too doesn't mean that we're contradicting the woman who've survived violence, it doesn't minimize anyone's struggles. It only minimizes these issues to disregard them in favor of the problems of one gender over another. I wish we as humans could stop othering each other over stupid things like gender, ethnicity, and etc and instead start acknowledging that we are all human and that violence and suffering are not exclusive to any one particular group of humans...
Yeah, it's about the bigger picture.
I'm sorry that happened to you and your friend. I hope humanity grows wiser soon
Sorry you had a horrible, evil experience. Hope everything is better and good in your life
Good point about the violence. My brothers ex girlfriend abused him physically and mentally for years, called him fat, stupid, ugly. Started arguments over literally nothing. She beat him, threw stuff at him, threatened him with a machete to his throat. And she hurt herself alot to make her look like the victim, gave herself bruises and cuts. A real psycho. He went through 3 years of courts when he finally won, and at the same time he won full custody of their child. Then he went on to meet a new woman. She was almost as bad. Not physically hurting him but psychologically, same there everytime he said oh i look so good she replied no you dont, youre ugly. I have never met a woman who could stay loyal and true. Always liars and cheaters. Have gotten my heart broken so many times that i have chosen to stay single, perhaps for the rest of my life. Wich is why im so happy following your channel because you bring to light their faults aswell and not like the mainstream and blames everything on every single man on this planet. Id rather be alone then find someone who dont know the words love and loyalty and be hurt again. It will take time for me to let someone in close to me again, but there are decent women too out there so i have hope. You are right there are both good and bad men and women but its not okay to pull everyone over the same edge because of what 1 man or woman did
When I tell a woman she's beautiful, it's not just their looks, I also mean her personality.
Cool story bro
Exactly and I let them know I judge their person as well as looks, I'll take a 5 looks wise with a 10 inside
Don't, just run!
i married a 10 with a negative one milion personality when i was younger (i married her with my dick. i admit it. very shallow. and i paid the price for 8 years before the divorce. these days, i'm like 'ayyyy gimmie a 5 or a 6 with a +100 personality and i'm gonna think she is the sexiest woman out there. i learned my lessed; don't marry women with your dick, boiz. it ain't gonna go well.
Don't tell them at all
I'd much rather be considered embarrassing over being hateful
Same
@@FPVGhost ???????
@Lord_Vader_1 my pocket had something to say....
not to be that person but lol not her liking this comment when she constantly makes fun of the appearances of the women in this video,,,, what is kind of considered to be hateful. and i get that she is convinced they are hateful but imo that doesn t warrant to bean asshole back.
@@lotts2941gay people are welcome to be here roma says, but please don't shed your new age drivle against us straight men
All I have to say is thank you Chloe. You show me that there are women in the world that honestly have a brain in their head. Thank you for using intelligence and compassion.
I'm a 52-year-old man. A born romantic. I could go on and on about how I view women. It would only sound like some long-winded diatribe. I love your videos. You don't know how much they mean to a guy like me. Who genuinely loves, cares about and admires femininity. Thanks for your posts. I wish you nothing but the best.
These women: "We are embarrassed by men!"
Roma: "Actually, you gals are embarrassed by yourselves!"
"...if he leaves someone like you for a woman who looks like me..."
...then he's a smart man who has taste after all.
You're too hard on yourself Chloe. You're awesome and very attractive both on the inside and out.
She’s much better looking than the first girl she was talking about.
@@hellspyro666420 Right? Roma (Chloe?) melts my heart and is exponentially better looking (and just a better person) than that blonde who is literally half makeup by weight and volume lol.
Agreed 100%, that first chick looked like a blow-up doll. Chloe is beautiful.
Side note- aren't words weird? I was contemplating how she spelled her name, I know some people use a "ë", and the word itself started to sound so bizarre to me...Chloe...it's a pretty cool name. Yeah, I have ADD
@@IrieRogueah. You have your tangent, I'm here for it! Cool lizards btw. I've got a Western Hognose myself. His name is Ashey Slashy (after Ash Williams from the Evil Dead).
@@stevestiles811simp
You are so right about the domestic violence thing. I was with a violent woman for a while and I can vouchsafe that her violence was NOT in self-defence, she used physical violence because her attitude was - and she actually said this - "I can do what I want because I'm a woman and the police will believe me not you". Thank the Lord I got out of that relationship and have spent the last eight plus years with a wonderful woman for whom violence is never an option - indeed we almost never argue, but discuss things if there's an issue, like grown-ups. It's one of the many reasons I love her. It's just a shame my body will always bear the physical scars from my psycho ex.
You are definitely a 10+ cuz it's not all only about looks for us guys... you have an amazing attitude and persona about yourself and its so amazingly awesome!!! and that to us "guys" is usually all that matters most.... but also looks is secondary but definitely not primary!
"Oh, you're embarrassed by me? Oh no, whatever will I do, how will I survive? Hey that place has chicken wings..."
That about killed me 😂
Pretty damn bang on, huh ?
Shiny. Let's eat.
Are you okay? Did you die?
@@vedbergsmagic3217 I got better lol
Embarrassed by us?
Question for the men: How many times has your wife, girlfriend or date made a scene in public? Leaving you standing there embarrassed af and now forced to make a decision whether we get involved in their drama, risk getting arrested, harmed or just walk tf out of the place and avoid all of it.
Yooooo this comment is SOOO underrated...
@@pitufo3832
Thanks, but it needed to be asked. Women automatically assume they can manufacture drama and we must defend them at all costs.
They claim to hate violence but they will stir it up and when it’s on will demand you go fight the entire place for them.
My idea now is to walk away from any situation they started and leave them to handle it. My life is too important for me to go to jail, harmed or killed because they believe all we are just their personal attack dogs.
Once. They get one chance to screw up. I own my house and land they get kicked out if they try this bullshit
Damn... too many.
I had an ex that would get me in a fight near every weekend. I don't look for that type of attention seeker now I'm older.
I’m emotionally available. After almost dying many times from addiction and the lifestyle that surrounds that, I had to learn how to cry and talk about my feelings. It helped me sober up. I’ve bulked up too I’m actually a big muscular guy now. I haven’t encountered a woman who is just gonna straight up call me a “wimp” for those things or a guy (at least to my face) sobriety has restored my faith to humanity to an extent. I’m at 18 months and people are pretty moved by my story strangers at my job even, co workers. I think being open about stuff helps, but the whole “you can’t hit women stuff” like yeah I cry, I talk about my feelings, I don’t encounter evil women all the time in fact it’s rare, but yeah some women do need to straight be beat like a dog. I’ve been beat many many times, by up to 4 or 5 police officers at the same time, growing up a bad kid, the works. Some people could benefit from an absolute beating, busted lip, chipped tooth, black eye, black and blue all over the works. This applies to everyone. Yes, there are some people who think they are untouchable, I’ve done time I know many men who have done time and did it with them, be nice or you may encounter someone who is not afraid to go back to jail, I feel like some people may be worth it sometimes too. I mean there are some women and men I know where I would have to think really hard about how much I have to lose if I make this decision to beat them like I’ve been beat. Be nice, be kind, try to be open and helpful to people, social media is so toxic when it comes to dating culture and just women vs men in general. We’re all human we’re in this together.
"... how will I survive.. Oh, that place has chicken wings !" 😅🤣😂
Best line ever !!!
Your content is awesome, after the last 15 years feeling like im a walking poo stain by my last two relationships, i appreciate you making me feel like a human again.
Move on homie, they gonna hit wall
@@nicktozie6685 i think you replied to the wrong comment
Don’t let anyone validate how you feel about yourself brother.
sorry they made you feel that way
I had an abusive relationship a few years ago , she always said that she has the right to hit me but I'm not allowed to hit back no matter what . This one literally hits home , I don't know how to keep going and I haven't had a relationship since because I don't even know how to behave around them anymore , it's like nothing I ever do is right ,every time I've tried I was never enough . I don't want to find myself in that situation again where I'm constantly told to "get cancer and die" , all this while making fun of my past , my previous suicide attempts and abusing my kindness , gaslighting and having me question my mental health every single minute . I'm doing my best to survive as it is , I don't need toxic things in my life . I don't like living alone but it's far better than living with the wrong person who only makes you feel that you're never enough . If I do talk about my feelings I'm labeled weak and I'm always told to stop complaining and I kinda want to have at least one person in my life to talk to , other than my therapist . At this rate I don't even think I want a relationship anymore , let alone kids and stuff, unless there's some ransom involved .
Hey, I don’t know you, I’m just a stranger but I hope this helps you. I just want you to know that you didn’t do anything wrong, this woman hurt you very very badly and all you did was care about and love her while she abused you. Women and men can both be abusers, women should NEVER get a pass for hurting someone physically or mentally. It’s ok to not want to be in a relationship, you have a lot of trauma from this and I really really hope you have a great support system such as family or a therapist that can help you recover💖 I wish you the best in life❤
You encountered a bad person. The specifics don't matter. She was a vile, malignant human, and I'm sorry you loved someone like that. I have a long list of vile partners myself. Take time to know and love yourself before you open the door to another. Once you find value in self, no one will be able to take it from you, and anyone wishing to will be recognized for what they are immediately. You won't let them get close enough to cause damage again. There are decent women in the world, ones that won't make excuses for how poorly they treat you and how big of a piece of sh*t they are. Feed your spirit, you will find your kindred spirit on your path to salvation.
I've been there brother. My last gf was abusive, both physically and emotionally. When I broke it off with her after having had enough and coming to my senses, she made my life even worse. She stalked, harassed and manipulated me for months after the end of our relationship. Thankfully, I found a good woman shortly after, that's now my wife. She was able to stand up against this wench in a way I couldn't and not even my family and friends had been able to. She got everyone's respect since day 1. Going strong for over 20+ years now. Focus on yourself, get healthy physically and emotionally. You deserve good in your life and it will come. Be patient and stay strong. You got this and we're here to back you up!
@@foncywoolsocksiii923glad to hear it ended good for you! I had an ex who did the exact same things, I made the mistake of reacting to it and now I am the one with a criminal record as he managed to twist everything due to one thing I said in anger 👌. She used to hit me, but because I deflected a punch of hers she had scratches and thus it was said that I abused her 👌 never hit her once but won't stand there and just let her hit me in the face, so I just deflected it
It's been nice and refreshing to listen to your takes on relationship values, men versus women views. As a man that was married for 23 years and eventually lost control of my marriage due to my wife cheating 4 times I appreciate the courage of your honesty, keep up the good work. Love is something that needs to be built on everyday, love is from the heart, not the wallet.
Omg!!! So so so bad! Luckily my wife isn't like this and never was. Of course she is gen x like me. But she does work with a few. One, in particular, has her so pissed off that I'm afraid if she sees her outside of work there will be one less person in town and one new opening at her job. I don't know the whole story but the girl was a sacker/bagger one day we were shopping. It is a grocery store and my wife was off that day. We were checking out and I was bagging groceries because everyone else was busy, and I hate just standing there while stuff piles up. She came over and started bagging telling me how to bag. I looked at her and said "I know how it goes and how you are supposed to bag. I was as have worked retail for 20 years. She looked at me and I swear upon my own grave she said "That has nothing to do with groceries." I was shocked at first, looked at my wife and the cashier and all three of us started cackling! Nothing was said...she looked in the buggie/basket/whatever you call it and began pulling our already bagged stuff out and dumping it. Idk...kinda dumb if you ask me, but started re-sacking it. Not just re sacking but telling me "see, this is the right way." She had placed comet in with meats, bread on the bottom, then chips then detergent in another, and I just simply said "Don't put chemicals in the same bag as food." Everyone knows this.
She looked up at me, walked up and got in my face screaming "I KNOW HOW TO F**KING BAG! DONT TELL ME HOW TO DO MY JOB. IVE BEEN DOING IT FOR SIX MONTHS!" Slammed a bag with eggs into the cart, and in a quitter voice said "you are just a stupid male! Y'all don't know shit!" Ran to her manager and told her I was cussing at her, I physically pushed her out of the way, and tried to punch her! I had two witnesses right there plus the other registers saw what I did as well. Then she runs into the restroom. According to the cashier she had called 911 saying I attacked her. The manager called my wife and told her the cops were there. She gave the manager our address. Cops came, got a statement. She got arrested for filing a false report but didn't lose her job. They put her on an all evenings schedule to keep her from being beaten by my wife, who is not only a touch possessive but also protective. Wife did find out that her boyfriend left her after bailing her out. We don't know much more.
Cranberries woman is DEFINITELY a gatekeeper...
True
Not to mention gatekeeper is trying to rock Dolores O Riordens haircut? Yeah you’re not fooling anyone, you’re not her! Ate her maybe!
She looks like Bobby Hill
@@robertnguyen9493 D@mmit Bobby!
@@robertnguyen9493 "thats my purse, i dont know you!" 😆
Treating men with respect and compassion is so sexy
Right? The woman could be a 5 and if they treat others with respect they turn into a 7 or an 8 in my book.
Agreed
I love the way you can simplify how crazy these people can be. No pulling punches! The only way to have deep, meaningful relationships is both have to be willing to work at it. And they have to do it in a respectful way. I'm glad that I found the woman of my dreams when I did and we have been together for 33 years now through the good times and the bad but we have been there for each other. Thanks for trying to enlighten some people on how relationships should be and to call out the users who care for no one but themselves. Thank you again for the video!
I do really gotta say your videos have been really helpful for me. As a 6’4 quite man I used to feel really bad about myself when I’d be in public say at a bar with friends who’d have women walk right upto them and chat away while I sat quietly watching haveing no clue what I was doing nor having the confidence to even attempt. But watching your videos has really put a lot into perspective and definitely helped me to understand the issue and adapt accordingly. Thank you very much for being one of the best women who advocate for men out there and I hope you achieve all your endeavors. Live long and prosper, and may the force be with you.
You've changed my mind, Roma. When I didn't know much about you, I was concerned you were backing toxic masculinity. But having listened to you, your perspective is actually eye-opening and refreshing. So, thanks for the good work you do. I'm glad I took the time to know what you're about.
Stay strong and well.
There is no such thing as toxic masculinity
Glad you took the time to open the book, if we all followed suit more often than not the world wouldn't be so damn awful. She is a warrior for truth, I'll back that with everything I am. Truth is the pinnacle, and we should seek it aggressively!
So you (almost) believed rumours?
@@zombieninjatedsmith1301first off, do you know the definition of toxic masculinity?
@@elijahhayter3026toxic masculinity is when a woman acts highly masculine. Nothing more toxic than a high testosterone woman.
Stop putting yourself down Roma, you're a definite 10😊
💯
Maybe a 6 stop blowing up her ego
@@jpscreativedesigns how is she not a 10?.
i think for sure a solid 8-8.5 but a gem for sure
@thecannabisconnoisseur360 DUDE SHE'S A FULL 10. Where is she losing this 1.5?
How you make the truth look so good blows my mind! I love all your content and your positive vibes make you a great influence for many if they would just listen and understand without trying to make fake content!!
2:24 "if they don't know who the cranberries are then they're too young for you"
Like, i hadn't heard of them until the end of last year when Zombie came on the playlist. I was 24 at the time
The fact that someone is finally saying that some women find it easier to criticize another woman because they feel it’s a downgrade and not work on themselves 👏🏽.
I learned early on as a man that it’s what’s on the inside that counts. I had what I would say are beautiful girlfriends, and they put me through hell. I have never been treated better than by a girl who most wouldn’t consider beautiful, but let me tell you, she became more beautiful every day and she is now my wife and the most beautiful thing I see daily.
Doesn't work today. Even the most below average ones think they're perfect.
So moral of the story is, attractive women are bad people?
👍
I worked at a Dairy Queen as a young man for a few years with about 95% female staff. It is crazy the amount of time I spent trying to explain the actual depth and complexity of mens feelings (yes we have them) to all these co-workers who spent a lot of time at work contemplating their current issue with their boyfriend or guy they were seeing at the time. Pretty much all the time the woman were surprised but thankful for some in depth insight into a situation from my outside but very thoughtful and considering perspective.
So thank you for the recognition that men do spend a lot of time sorting out there issues inside there head without help and it has indeed made many of us very thoughtful and considerate of not just our own feelings, but those of others too!
This is the first time I've seen one of your videos and I am SO glad it came across my feed. I love seeing people advocate for men's rights. Keep doing what you do💪
You are officially my favorite person right now 😢 I'm 38 I've been in a covert narcissistic relationship for over 24 years and I finally woke up thanks to you and a few others I'm starting all over again this time my eyes are open
Did you separate/divorce them? I'm glad you found Chloe's content and that it's helped you. Stay strong.
That is so horrible! I’ve had similar experiences (with both men and women as the narcissist/not always romantic) so you’re not alone and I really hope you regain a sense of mental autonomy and respect your individuality and ability to overcome complete chaos and destruction! Narcissists are the worst!
I got out of a toxic relationship about a month ago and I have to say she played my like a God dam fiddle I'm glad I'm out of that relationship and your videos helped me get out of that relationship be realizing it was toxic thank you
Woah what a revelation plus plain honesty. Thanks for clearing g the air.👍🏻
Girl you’re too hard on yourself, you’re a straight up 10 💅
Dude! Keep posting this and one day she’ll like you too 😆
@@TheJaredscott83calm down
That first chick looks like she’s using a filter to make herself look better.
My 1st wife at 19 used punch me in the face if she got upset with me for anything. My mom saw this once when I told my ex I was leaving her mom asked why I took that from her I replied with " you told me to never hit a female" My mom then said " Well I never said or meant for for to take a beating from one either. I messed at 22 and told my kids mother what I went through with my 1st marriage a few weeks later she too started way laying on me when my mom came by for a visit seeing this lit in on her to the point I had to pull her off. For years my kids mom would wake me up having S** with me which due to nerve damage I found my sleep more important but I never thought of it as S.A. just more of a nuisance. I only bring this stuff up due to your chart near the last. Keep up your good work with your research on matters that matter.
Love when she says "Thank you" ..,as it sounds like my car, coming to a halt @ low idle, after a rough day ❤
Thanks for sticking up for us guys. I was interfered with by a woman when I was quite young.
100% agree with this, I’ve always thought this way as well
If I see any woman being shitty towards their men I’m throwing hands 🫶🏽 #forthemen
Where do you want me to send my ex wife's address? :)
Thank you.
And all of mine
@@rmr5563 Then start training for it and stop talking about it.
I need you in my life and I especially needed you 4 years ago when with her cheatin way's left me for another man two weeks after coming home from the hospital and little did I know at the time she was already 4 months pregnant by him 😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬
I can tell you that you are spot on with the, substance over looks. It is refreshing to see a person, who can actually put herself in somebody else shoes, and see it from their perspective.
Personnaly i prefer a loving and caring woman, who brings peace and harmony to my life, then the looks dont matter to me. :) A lot of women could learn a lot from you ROMA ARMY :)
I just found this community the other day and I just want to say I appreciate you so much! I hope to find a woman like you someday. Until then I'll will just keep myself happy.
It is so refreshing hearing more women with the same feelings ans thought that i feel towards men. Releiving. I applaud ur efforts in men rights 👏 🙌 💯 ❤
I still wish I could have found a woman like you 20 years ago.
I wish I could find a woman like Roma now!
@@samr.england613 well you haven't given up the search good for you.
I know ONE woman I wouldn't hesitate to be in.a.relationship. she's a widow. Visits her husband's grave everyday for a few minutes.
I could live fine knowing she couldn't love me as much. I love her company
Amen or my wife 20 years ago. GOOD women are hard to find. Sorry everyone took one off the market 2 years ago.
@@josephadams7225 No man, never will, but... Women my age don't care about sex, and it really sux.
This, more than almost any other video of yours that I've seen, really resonated with me. The only thing I have to say that I didn't get was the idea of someone "downgrading" from a solid 8 to someone who looks like you, as if you aren't also a solid 8. Don't underestimate your own attractiveness
I LOVE IT! Ur so much down to earth, u see the ptoblem!
Thank you!
as you are in this video, you Roma look better than the first woman with all that makeup on!
we need to protect this women at all times
Thanks again for being you and doing what you do, the channel and your work is so needed.👌
You are absolutely amazing. I have been following for yrs. Started on Tik Tok. I hope you realize just how much better it makes things, just knowing that someone sees us. Thank you for all you do.
I know this is an older stream, but I was just now able to watch it. I appreciate what you do, Chloe, and I definitely agree with what you're saying in this video. And though I appreciate you saying that you don't want men to swear off dating.. that time has come and passed for me. I'm not a perfect guy by any traditional standards, but I'm easy going, I work hard, I am fairly intelligent, I'm told that I'm very handsome but most importantly, I'm all about kindness, respect and compassion. That's my only standard for women that I want to date.. someone who thinks like an adult and has her priorities in order.. no one is flawless, so I am not waiting on the so-called "perfect woman", but after my ex cheated on me in 2016 while we lived together, I've been unable to find a mature, compassionate and non-judgmental woman anywhere in the 2 states I've lived in. Only dated a few, and I was an object.. I was arm candy because I play music and exercise, and when I wouldn't respond to a text because I was at work (6 days a week) or didn't answer a call at 2 AM because I work at 6 AM.. I would get hateful texts and FB messages, lashing out on my FB profile, accusing me of using for sex.. all followed by a crying apology when I explained I was at work or asleep.. this is all I have encountered for 7 years now.. I've met maybe 2 mature and compassionate women.. and they were both married and have been since they were about 18 or 19.. I think that all, or at least 90%, of the good ones out there who care more about personality rather than money, status and materialistic endeavors.. have all been taken.
You are so humble about yourself when it comes to beauty, you dont cake on makeup to turn yourface into a barbie doll, like you said men dont care about that, at least we know morning noon or night you will still look like you, plus you are funny as hell, speak your mind and carry yourself with confidence, dont need pounds and pounds makeup when you dont need to cover anything up. Keep being an amazing person. Inside and out I'd pick your "2" over the generous seven you gave the other girl at the start lol
She’s humble about herself, but she made fun of the second woman for her size and her haircut. What part of that seems humble to you?
@@TheJaredscott83 being humble about your own looks and calling out something about someone else doesnt mean you arnt humble: having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance; that's the definitions of humble, but please enlighten me of what you think it means.
@@TheJaredscott83wait, so she isn't humble because she makes honest observations? Math ain't mathin'
@@TheJaredscott83it's called giving these women a "dose of reality". Women aren't typically physical creatures by nature, they're psychological. In their cases, someone needs to give them a wake up call. These are observations and things they can fix. Women just tend not to. Whereas if you tell a dude he's fat or has a horrible haircut, they'll take it upon themselves to fix it. Someone lied to these women along the way and it's time for a reality check, which can be hard to swallow.
@@TheJaredscott83 Well lets be honest, she just said that that womans shirt was to small. IT WAS. She wasnt being rude just pointed out a observation.
oh man, i don't even know where to start. As a man i've been thru alot of the topics you speak on, iv'e been gaslighted, ive been in fysically & mentally abusive relationships and i have been pressured to have sex against my will and so on and i still haven't met a single woman who had self-awareness enough to self-examine herself and her behaviors! You have just earned a subscriber
Been watching for 2years and you really help us feel like finally someone gets it. Great channel. Your so upbeat
This video really hit home. You speak the truth, the truth that men who suffer physical assault cannot express because no one cares. You are my (our) champion! Thank you.
You're right. Double standards are not acceptable. Equality means same rules for both sides. Thx for your work.
I've only just started watching your videos and I like hearing what you have to say. I have my problems like we all do, and you are helping me to see things differently. I want to improve myself. Like everyone is saying, you are too hard on yourself. You are more intelligent than alot of us out here.
Hey Roma, as a woman I wanna tell you now you are pretty and you have a beautiful personality. Forget the tattoos. Because I know that you don’t like the one on your neck. If that is what you’re thinking is affecting your looks forget it. You have a pretty face. You have a lovely personality so keep up the good work. Stay beautiful. Xxxx
If I could get a hug from Chloe, I’d probably feel like a million bucks. :D
Then I hope you're able to get a hug from her someday
Real talk, Chloe is beautiful inside and out, and her compassion for men makes her a real treasure
@@GoldenAgeFlash1940 Shes a pick me girl, her thirst trapping content is proof of that.
She hugs us all......... every day
I understand what you're saying. Chloe is beautiful inside and out, compassionate and very intelligent. All things that are difficult to find on women these days.
Thank You!!!!! Someone that actually has their hand on the pulse and eyes wide open about our current culture!
I enjoy all your funny little quips. Thank you for the encouragement and humor.
As a male rape victim to both male and female.. ive only jus told my woman last year..and she barely cares.. haven't told my mom, and only tell UA-cam cause most of yall actually gaf.. but in retrospect to whats she's mentioned on rape victims, its true.. nobody fr fr care.. nobody asks what happened or nothin. And there are alot of mental anguish problems that come with waking up everyday.. so the thought of even telling anyone terrifies me.. shxt like this make me question life, my dream was to make a UA-cam and make enough to vanish into my own private sanctuary, id ofc invite fans, but fr id jus want my kids to have no worries.. and never have to be exposed to anyone I dont trust.. id buy a humble locked down house on property, and go to different islands as much as possible when the weather is good. .. but tbh when my ex broke down my smile abusing tf outta me I lost alot of hope.. everything so funny to people because they haven't been through anything traumatic let alone meaningful.. if people thought more about our species and not our race/gender/income/ or status we'd actually get somewhere.. devolving is a thing.. and I think these younger generations are left to deal with it.. it sucks.
Perfect x
I'm sorry that happened to you. You are not alone and I'm sorry for the emotional anguish it's caused you. I was assaulted by a woman as a child and well it does happen A LOT. Even though I am a woman I know that it's not going to be taken as seriously as if I were abused by a man. Most men don't even realize they are victims like my fiance whose older girl cousin "played around and experimented" on him and his brother. Another thing that is very much overlooked is child on child assault. Statistically more children are abused by other 'children' than by adults but it's not taken seriously like again in my case. I never told my mom or anything, honestly I blocked it out until I had sex for the first time. Society just labels is as 'experimentation or playing around' but if there's is high school sexually active girl whose fully developed having a 5,6,7 (can't remember what age I was) take all their clothes off and lay down to 'play doctor' then that's assault but because she's a woman AND under 18 I know even if I told anyone it wouldn't have been taken seriously. I also previously DID start fights and hit my boyfriends most of the time when I was drinking or using. Even put my fiance in jail for choking me after I flipped on him. I DID admit I started it and eventually all charges were dropped thank God but I've realized how toxic I was and don't drink or cause any fights anymore because it's just not right and I want to be a better person. I don't want to be a toxic person
@@ashleyganton6558 sounds like you're being as strong as you can be, never stop thinking tho.. its what keeps us alive. I jus wonder alot about places I would go if I make it out the pits. Thats hope.
@@ashleyganton6558 listen to the songs find hope and habitual pain by phora. My homie was homeless with him before he got into music, he gave him his demo cd and from that day hearing him I was a fan
@@joeyshields4987 it takes time my friend my fiance and I were both addicts. We have 28 years of addiction between the two of us. Statistically people like Us don't make it out the other side. But both of us always had hoping we knew that we could get past this and live a better life. Even though other people had given up on me I never give up on honestly I got pregnant with my son and I vowed to break the cycle with him and do everything I can to give him a healthy happy childhood that I never had same with my fiance. I was 28 when I had my son and now almost thirty-six it's taken quite a few years to get to wear it on to be on medication and we've been clean for 6 almost 7 years. You just got to keep fighting the good fight my friend. I truthfully think that people who've gone through the worst shit are the best people because we have understanding and we know what pain feels like. We can see Injustice has more clearly than others and it's our job to fight. You're not a victim you're a survivor and you just got to keep going taking it one day at a time. I strongly encourage you if you haven't to seek mental health treatment if you haven't already. there's no shame in it actually it takes a strong person to admit that they are fucked up and need some help it doesn't mean that you're going to be in treatment forever it just means you need it to cope for the time being. I've had many times where I've been on and off medication because I have serious anxiety. I'm in people-pleaser because I feel like if I keep everyone happy I'll be left alone to be at peace. Honestly I don't think the SA affected my mentality as much as other kinds of abuse that I had growing up but I do believe that it's what started me of being sexually active at a young age which just started a downward spiral of a bunch of shit like drinking and then using heroin etc working at strip clubs to support my habit and even prostitution a handful of times towards the end. Basically I've just grown to accept I've had a lot of shitty things happen to me and I've done some pretty shady things but like my daddy was my hero who died when I was twelve always told me 'you will learn from your own mistakes'. That little quote made me feel like he believed that I was smart enough to figure things out and gave me hope. Don't let others hold power over you and your life. Take care of yourself my friend. Be compassionate to yourself and others. What doesn't kill you, doesn't kill you. Add me on FB if you need to talk to anyone my username is my name obviously without the numbers. Pretty much just bored mother on medical leave since I'm gonna have our second son any day now. Everyone needs support ❤️
An excellent video as usual Roma Army,
Thank you for your continued support of men's rights and raising awareness.
It's really sad that it takes a woman to speak up for men because mens rights and don't even get acknowledged whatsoever in mainstream media. Thank you for being our advocate.
Also, I just noticed your Lil Peep tattoo and it made my day. :)
your videos are so refreshing and give me some hope to be treated like a human being instead of a stereotype. As all men and women deserve.
Roma, thank you for going against the grain and telling it like you see it. Its refreshing to see someone in todays day in age being candid instead of just jumping on the next bandwagon. Your videos put so much context into the reality of being a hetero male in the modern age. Im onften confused at everyday interactions and happenstances and your videos put a lot of context into the mindstate of a lot of the populous, and i can then kind of understand why things sometimes happen the way that they do. Thanks again for everything you do.
Well, I will admit if I saw Roma IRL, I'd be intemidated by her looks and would assume that her lifestyle is far too different than my own, and wouldn't approach becuase of it. Though, because of her videos and how she carry's herself, well, I think she's an awesome girl and wish I was lucky enough to find one like her.
😂😂 Chloe is the best,,SPREAD THE WORD
Speak. Preach. Foreal. If you haven’t already, you WILL make a difference. Thank you for doing what you do. I started with your shorts, moved on to your longer videos. Thank you for pushing the truth. Thank you for not being scared to speak your mind, and to break down the false narratives being pushed on society about men today
Hello and thank you Roma for your great content on here and the support that you show to the good men that are out there who do exist and who are trying their best in this world, just like anyone else that is good out there going through the challenges of life and I like others here appreciate you and others who follow you and recognize that there are good men and women that are out there as well such as yourself and others too. And so in closing much respect from me to you Roma and here's wishing the best for you and all of your followers too and your friends and family too and everyone else's as well. And this is said with the upmost respect and gratitude. Alright, thank you for your time. All of the best to you Roma and all of the best to you with everything that you're working to accomplish in life. 💯 respect. 😎👍
I was feeling bitter today. Thank you for another great video supporting us. That first woman needs to realize she is the downgrade. Wtf is on her face!?
Thank you very much for what you do ❤
If there is a court order for visitation for the other parent, if the parent that has Physical Custody, moves to another County, that county, does not have to honor the said order.
I went thought that with my daughter( now 16). This County was Berks County and the order was from Montgomery county. Bottom line, they took my daughter from me and gave me no rights to her. To this day, I hate everything that has to do with Berks County Children and Youth Services.
Someone, please tell me how a group of girls (13-15 yrs old) can just walk out if a Detention center? Worse, how do a few girls (14-17 yrs old) get Pregnant in a d🎉etention center? The fathers are almost always the males that are suppose to be safe guarding them. What the F is wrong with this picture,?
CYS, just keeps it hush, hush. Lairs and destroyers of families, that is what CYS truly is.
Absolutely love and respect your point of view. You keep being you. I'm so impressed with the fact that you actually see life as it is.
Debie #2: I think the idea of an open relationship may have been his way of looking for an escape hatch to get away from you. One question D2, was this individual you claimed to have had a relationship with a visually impaired man or a marine mammal, such as a walrus posing as a male human? asking for a friend.
Hahahah. You said this because you think she was unattractive. Pointing out that people are unattractive is funny. What a cool person you are!
You tell'em Roma. ❤
Every time I get lonely, and come close to offing myself, I watch one of your videos and it reminds me that there's at least one woman out there that sees me. Thanks.
Wow - you’re amazing- such ability to communicate with truth, facts and passion that is genuinely inspiring and putting things in perspective that balances the equation between men and women that needs to be straightened out. I really appreciate that you also infuse what the better thing is ito what men and women are really looking for. Thanks so much!!
You are amazing and thank you for sticking up for us. We appreciate it. You rock keep up the good fight. Fairness and equality across the board without any double standards. You will make someone who appreciates you very happy one day. I am one of the lucky ones who has a great woman by my side and we work together to succeed in life.
I agree, they blame the man, when they Choose a douchebag if he even is one, well thats still the girls fault for dating him, Women Choose, and they know that they do, it's a blame shift that girls do at times, even if the guy was great they can just make up something.
Love your videos!! Very encouraging me and my husband have been watching you for months now and it’s awesome so encouraging and telling it how it should be! Keep up the good work💜
Preach it sister!!! I absolutely love you and your work!!!
I love you lady. Thank you for being you.
There's nothing more that I could say other than thank you for doing what you do. You're amazing, and i hope you know how loved, appreciated, and highly respected you are. Again, thank you so much for instilling hope and happiness and security, and pride in so many broken men in this world (myself included).
Sweetie, I wish I'd had some of this kind of understanding when I was going through my heII, you're a gem and I wish you all the happiness and success in life.
As a man who knows that there are all types of men out there, it is good to hear from a woman that the same goes for women. Thank you for making very clear that this is not a gender issue. It is a "what kind of person you are" type of issue. Cheers!
P.S.: I love your videos.
Mental health check - I'm okay
Good to hear! We're here if you want to talk! In the Roma Army comments
Don't put yourself down , you are way prettier than that "7" . She should drop 5 pounds of makeup .
"I LOVE THESE ONES" I LOVE IT! YOU SO ROCK!!!!!
Common reasons given for the physical aggression by females:
"To show seriousness" 😮💨 "prevent boyfriend from leaving an argument" (which is our only Possible Action outside of handcuffs)
We lose our rights to be employed by the Military, and other opportunities. God love ya Roma. 😇
Eminem' obesed niece😊
You are a 10 in my books. Not just for looks but simple raw intelligence and ability to be able to equalize the gender stigma. I thank you for these videos.
My God I love your videos. You're wisdom is so refreshing
i am so shocked, that you talk your self down so much. you are beautiful!!
Think you for everything you do for us men I’m so glad there are good women like you in this world
The post on Facebook I get fed up with seeing is the one where we're asked to imagine our imaginary daughter is dating a man like us, and told to change if we don't like it. I can only imagine the outcry if a post that asks for women to do the same thing.
Listening to you is like breathing fresh air. I don't know who told you the secrets of men. That most men just want to have a woman who brings them peace. A relationship is work, everyone has to be there for the other.
But the reward for this work is just amazing. the little things that make both happy.
Greetings from Berlin.
Thank you. I've been in two severely abusive relationships and this is refreshing to hear from a woman. I was even told by the police, who I called because she dislocated my shoulder , I had two black eyes, and a sliced up hand, that because I'm the male they had to take me away.
Thank you for laying the verbal smackdown to they whom need it. I know of 2 people whom also need it but not going there. Thank you again for your videos.