Military Husband Gets THE BEST Revenge On Cheating Wife
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Yes, Yes I have. It's definitely one of the most introspective, and self-qusetioning things I've ever gone through. I wondered why this happened to me; Why wasn't I good enough; etc. etc
I was completely broken by it and felt absolutely worthless for a time.
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When I was younger my girlfriend went away for a "girls weekend".
a few days after she got home I found a letter saying she slept with 8 guys over that girls weekend.
Well I got mine back on her.
I slept with her two best friends at once.
So she lost me and her 2 closest friends.
yes nearly every girl I have ever dated cheat on me...
Yes everytime, so I'm happily single
As a retired Marine, the 2nd clip is a situation all too familiar to me. I got married a year into my 2nd enlistment, and was married 7 years. I'd be deployed 9 months, so I'd only see my wife 3 months a year tops. We talked on the internet when we could, but for the most part due to the nature of my MOS, I was on the field more times than not...so communicating with her didn't happen often. Fast forward to 2013, when I EAS'd due to injury. Got all the commendations that come with saving the lives of 3 fellow Marines in the process of fuckin' my own shit up. I come home a civilian again...and we're divorced within a year. Being around her 24/7 I came to realize who she really was...was NOT the woman I married. That woman was a fictional character, the real thing was a greedy, narcissistic, self-important Karen with a superiority complex. And I'm almost certain she cheated on me...though I never found proof. Didn't matter in the end, within 3 or so months of being home for good...I wanted out, and by 2014 I was a single man again. Gave her everything...the house, one of the two cars, the dog...I needed to be free of her. I packed all of my shit into my van and drove my ass from Florida back to my hometown of The Bronx and never looked back. To this day, when I come in contact with a new recruit or a young Marine I tell them "If the Corps wanted you to have a wife, they'd issue you one."
Unfortunately I was on my 3rd deployment and got emailed by a good friend with proof she was banging anything that moved lol. I'm with yah brother. I ended up getting hit by her cus I found dick pics in her phone . She tired to say it was mine... like I think I know whT way mine curves
Oh yah and I forgot she was pregnant with a black guy...she wanted to say it was mine but it came out the wrong color
I'm so sorry buddy, that's a long time to invest in a person only to find out she wasn't who she made herself out to be & couldn't be depended on when you needed her..These kinds of people are horrible human beings & I feel for anyone who is fooled into caring for one..I hope your life is fantastic now!
If you didn't have kids, you shouldn't have given her anything more than she was entitled to, which from where I stand is SFA.
Rah
"No wonder your father left you" that's cold. He was just a cash cow to her. She never loved him.
That comment basically makes her out to the heartless bitch that she'd presented herself as
Arguably the most disgusting woman I have ever seen, and I have seen some real 'winners'... What's worse is they genuinely believe they are justified and in the right. That they are some victim of trauma and mistreatment while they fuck other men while their husband is risking his life for her on the field. I know not all women are like this, but I have rarely seen a man be so callous and delusional about cheating on someone.
They love how you make them feel and what you can do for them.
That's a sign she never loved him. I sincerely much rather be alone for life than to be with someone like her.
Then digging up the floor totally paid for and justified.
I retired from military service after 22 years in 2012. I started out 8 years in the U.S. Navy, and 14 years in the U.S. Air Force. The second video is all too familiar to me seeing fellow sailors and airmen getting "Dear John" letters from their girlfriends, or wives, only to be cheated on. I was responsible for people under me, and sometimes had to help with counseling. The average person has no idea that we will be gone on training, and active duty deployments, for whatever period of time. You are right to point out how so many women pursue relations with a military man blindly. I have never married, had children, or a serious relationship. That is because of how busy I was with military duties, as well as getting a college degree. I now have a four year degree, along with a sound military retirement, and a great civilian career with FedEx. The military has also taken me around the world twice, and I could not be happier.
That’s why I like to say folks like us were “married to the service” because there are things that can make it like a marriage to a person. It’s not just your 9-to-5 job. You’re in a relationship with an entity that will influence how you exercise, how you eat, how often you go to the doctor, what kind of hobbies you have, and where you live before we even start talking about things that pull us away like deployments.
It is WAY more than a job, and, like you say, a lot of people honestly have no idea what they’re getting into. They think it will be like marrying someone who works at a local business and it’s not. Things like dual-careers are much harder to handle when one of you can be transferred across the globe.
And then there are also those predatory types who do know what’s going on and are deliberately trying to game the system.
We must protect this woman at all costs.
Paternity tests should be mandatory on birth. Let's see how many good girls are actually good.
omg yaaaaasssss!!!
@undead9999:
I absolutely agree with you on that one
about half probably is my guess.
@@gordonlawrence1448 It would actually be a fun experiment. It is theorized that at least 20 to 25 percent of dads are raising kids who are not their blood. I remember reading a paper on the subject, can't remember in which country the actual study was conducted, it could have been the US but I'm not sure.
That’s a great idea!
I knew so many Army wives who cheated ... That's why when my husband was deployed, I just stayed home, all the time. It was disheartening. But I loved my husband and wanted no part in that drama. He was honorably discharged in 2011. We've been together 20 years. And I'll still be married to the same man until death parts us. Hopefully not for many decades.
I hope my woman is like u. She is very family oriented so that is a good sign
@@isaacmettle I hope you got yourself a good one 💞
Thanks for being decent, you've no idea how rare you are.
Found the🦄
"I knew so many Army wives who cheated ... That's why when my husband was deployed, I just stayed home, all the time. It was disheartening." no need to stay at home unless you are weak. just don't cheat.... easy as that
Thank you so much for being this amazing and working so hard for the men in this world. I've been so scared about raising my son but your videos and advice give me hope. Thank you.
Chloe you are an amazing and necessary balance to this world! 🙌 Thank you for all that you do!
I have a one strike rule, if you cheat your pretty much dead to me.
there is no way in hell to build the trust she broke ,b\c she wanted drama
Then they are all zombies
Good
The guy whose married to that police officer who banged the whole department took her back. He must’ve been raised by like two moms holy cow
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once someone breaks that commitment and proves that they can't be trusted anymore, there's no going back.
Hey Roma!
I'm a young girl, 15 years old to be exact and I've been watching your content for awhile now and I'm so happy that I have done so. You and many others bring awareness to men's issues and call out toxic women on their wrongs and it aspires me to do so too. Not only that but you've brought me a lot of perspective because I'll admit, not too long ago when I was maybe 13-14. I was in my little "men ain't shit" mindset. 😭 Looking back now it was really really embarrassing..I also see way to many videos on modern day women and I thank you for making videos because no way in hell do I want to end up like that..💀💀
Self awareness and inner criticism are the first steps towards personal growth. Good on you, girl.
I'm surprised you are getting that far at 15. Most only manage in their late 20's if ever. I would suggest the womansplaining men to women channel. It explains a lot about men. I also suggest when you do start dating filter out the a'holes and look for the sort of guys most put in the "friend zone" as most of them are far more decent guys. One last point. As a rule of thumb age+10% should be the oldest you date.
@@gordonlawrence1448 Golden advices right here.
Please be careful, we all need to be careful out here. I have been here and there and people are the same everywhere. Some are really good, some are really not. Set your boundaries and if they try to push, get gone!
Be safe, young one.
Avoid that WhatsApp account in the comments, it's a fake.
Honestly love watching your content it's nice to see someone is speaking up for men against toxic women these days
As a current service member with the Marines. This hits home, about 2 years ago. I was stationed overseas in Okinawa, Japan. I thought everything was fine until my girl ghosted me for 3 months. Until I found out she got married and started a family. Found that part out when I came back home on leave. Since then I been solo dolo and focusing on myself.
I feel that brother. Opposite side of the house (I'm Army) but yeah, gone for training, six weeks into my training she stopped texting me. Figured she broke her phone by accident (she'd done it before). It wasn't till the letters stopped I got the feeling something was up. Came home to find out she left the state with another man, and had called my sister to look after the house till I got home. Since my sister had neither my new phone number or my mailing address and didn't want to break it to me while I was training, I didn't find out for sure till the day after I came home. I never did find out why she left, just that she packed all her shut and bounced.
As a war veteran, military men and women can also be cheaters. If you want to serve your country, don't enlist! Go and raise a family. Most of the operational deployments these days are to steal or control another nations assets. This is neither brave, nor honourable. Politicians and their sponsors are getting wealthy beyond belief on our blood, sweat, and tears. They will hand out ribbons with bits of metal, but is that what your life, or limb is worth?
As another woman, I thank you so much for calling out these vile excuses for women. Nobody deserves that treatment. Thank all you guys for your services.
You are a true lady
@@user-xb8zw1tj3g Thank you Robert, and you are a true gentleman.
😂 roma does the same shit she even worse then these females
wait, how was it a proposal when they are already married? and he hands her a divorce papers 🤔
I like watching your videos tho
My mother said similar to my dad many times. I never forgave her. And I won't. My dad worked his ass off. Military, then coast guard and then the airlines. I learned a lot from him and miss him daily (passed Nov 12 2012)
Semper paratus. I salute your dad and your appreciation of him.
sorry for your loss Idk what im gunna do when I loose my parents hopefully I have more support then or become stronger.
As a Dad, he knows your the best part of his life.
I feel your pain, I had my father who sobered up right after marrying my mom. He busted his ass in a factory for 16 years till he got injured but while he was working my mom drank, popped pills, spent tens of thousands of dollars of his(she didn't work) and she stole birthday card money, new years eve money from me and my 2 brothers, lied to the church we were in that HE was spending all the money and got money from them. Then when he finds out she took another morgage on the house(by forging his signature) he tried to prove it but no one would take the case cause they said he would lose. Needless to say he left but my mother would "ground" us when he was going to visit after the divorce. He couldn't do anything legally even with the signature and to top it all off if me or my brothers would call her on out on her lies she would hit us with a broom, call the cops and/or kick us out(got thrown out when I was 16) funny thing was the police, courts and church believed my mom. She still believes what she did wasn't wrong.
@@dcpack thank you so much. He was a king for sure.
Hey kiddo,! I've really enjoyed your videos. I think they can be a helpful to women as maybe more to men. Either/or, matters not. Your sending good advise with a gifted understanding. I'm 63, and have thought many times that we haven''t really heard this enough from women. There is a need out there and your voice should be heard. I believe you will contribute more than you know. I appreciate whatever journey that brought you here.
You are too humble. You are allowed to take some credit for the work you are doing. Proud to have you on our side.
One love!
Off topic but i saw WhiteZombie (w/ Pantera) right before the breakup & dude went weird.
Pantera was awful. i dunno if dude was drunk or not but it was cringe even to 20 year old me..
I think this was 1996/97 but i forget.... Anyways WZ were lit !!
When I was in the 82nd as a young SGT we returned from 7 months in Iraq from the initial push into the country. One of our Soldiers in my platoon came home to an empty house, not like just wife and kids gone but everything except his clothes gone. She was supposed to pick him up but had to have another Soldier drop him off at home. She had also on top of taking all his possessions drained every single one of their bank accounts and maxed out his credit cards. She did the last 2 things while we were traveling home since he could not check on anything. We ended up having to put the dude on murder watch... literally confine him to the barracks under guard to ensure he didn't go off and kill her. At least 2 times he had to be held down to keep him there. And this dude had retard strength even when he wasn't pissed.
Crazy situations like that are why domestic murders happen, if your unit hadn't basically put him under barracks arrest, he would have.
Man you guys saved him from making a huge mistake. Good job. Feel bad for the guy.
When my buddy got back to Bragg from Iraq his girlfriend stood him up so he had to call his wife to come get him, she didn't know he was even coming back, because he hadn't told her. He had planned to stay with his girlfriend for a week or so before letting his wife know he was coming back. I ran into his girlfriend a few years later and she told me her side of the story then we hooked up.
You or one of his other buddies should have taken care of her for him.
@@travismiles5885 wow... way to make this about you.
😂
The worst part about the Military husband getting cheated on is that while he was away on deployment, the thought of his wife waiting for him at home is what drives him to stay alive and do whatever it takes to make it back home! Going through HELL, seeing things he'll never forget, praying he'll be able to make it home to his wife.. And this is his reward.. It takes a special kind of evil to do something like that to someone, especially someone you say you "love"
Thank u for understanding and standing up for what I have had to go through and will prob continue to go through.
I'm a lieutenant (ret) Marine Corps who sadly lost my leg in a IED blast during a patrol in Afghanistan. And when I left Walter Reed to come back home, my house was completely empty except for my uniforms and gear. My girlfriend took everything I owned and said she couldn't be with a gimp, But she could use my belongings. Females can be the coldest creatures on earth when perfection is not part of the picture! Not to say all females are the same, but society has definitely made perfection the standard. Even when you risk your life for total strangers, and people who can't defend themselves. I 100% agree that the 40s and the 50s were the greatest generation. Back when you died being married to the same person for 60 years. And everyone was patriotic. And values, morals, pride, loyalty, friends, family, and marriage were the way of life for "Americans"!!!!
I am a veteran and worked in psychiatry. Many, if not most, of my patients were suffering from depression due to circumstantial infidelity on his wife’s part. I pulled a soldier in from an eight story window where he was trying to end his life. So sad. Many of these men were returning from rough overseas assignments, working hard to put bread on the table and support his dependents, to include an unfaithful wife. Sometimes the only thing that kept these guys going was the hope of reuniting with a devoted and grateful wife. My heart went out to these poor soldiers and I came to despise these horrible women.
You would have despised my ex wife I’m pretty sure. Was the typical entitled narcissist who played without societal rules the rest of us adhere to.
That's American women for ya. Entitled worthless bring nothing to the table but want everything in return.
My ex wife started dating after my son was born while in Iraq. Spent everything then told her friend I had changed and she couldn't do it anymore when I got home
Those women should burn in HELL!!
@@Strickn9ne747 Yup.
A very good friend of mine joined the US Marines right out of high school. His whole life, he wanted to be a Marine. He wanted to serve. I know he had romantic ideas about the military and adventures he would have, but he genuinely wanted to be a Marine. Eventually, he was stationed in Hawaii. He met a girl and they got married. Some time after, I do not know how soon this began, she started harassing him. I don't know what caused it and I am sure there were things each did that angered the other. One evening they got into a fight and John chose to leave rather than allow the situation to progress to something worse than yelling. As he went out the door, he said something to the effect of "Sometimes you make want to strangle you." When he returned, he got arrested by the MPs. His wife had reported him. I'm not sure what the charges were and I do not know what the process was, but John was forced out of the Marine Corps. His entire life was turned upside down, he lost everything and his dream was taken away. He tried to get on with his life. He tried finding another woman. Eventually, he committed suicide. John was a good guy. He was braver than most people I have ever known. That toxic female destroyed him. Young men, beware.
Im so sorry about your friend.
I'm sorry that that happen to your friend. May he RIP.
That's terrible! I'm so sorry for your loss
This reminded me of two different Soldiers I deployed with in 04-05. The first told us a couple of months his that his wife was pregnant with their first child. A little later, he told us the estimated due date, 11 months after we left. The second one re-enlisted and his wife admitted to using his bonus to buy her "friend" a new car.
I wish I found you YEARS AGO. Thank you so much for what you do. Your prospective helps a lot! Salute!
Finding out you were cheated on is honestly a horrible feeling
Yeah the worst. It's happened to me twice. I have no trust in women because of it
not if you expect it to happen
Indeed, my Ex cheated on me then left me because she didnt feel it anymore between us.
Found out later she was cheating, she told the Dude she's pregnant and he dropped her like a hot potato cause his FIANCE WAS ALSO PREGNANT!
It is. And for me, it completely ruins the relationship because you question the sincerity of EVERYTHING that person said or did with and for you. Every hug, every kiss, every 'I love you', every gift given. At least if things end amicably, you can look back on the good times you had together with fondness. Cheating taints those memories irreparably, making the entire relationship a complete and utter waste of the most valuable and finite resource we have: Time. And it just leaves you feeling so empty and lost.
Even if you've fallen out of love, it blows my mind that someone can do that to somebody they once claimed to care about. Cheaters are rotten, selfish, cowardly, and immature people through and through. And they'll probably never change.
Damn right it is. Nobody likes a damn cheating liar.
This is why I am happily single.
I do not need the drama.
I have a friend who was in the Army.
He got married and then found out afterwards the only reason his wife married him is she thought she would get to go to Korea when he got stationed there.
When she found out that wasn't going to be the case she drained is bank accounts, maxed out a bunch of credit cards in his name and then filed for divorce.
She literally bankrupt him, left him penniless and still tried to take half his pay as alimony.
damn thats cruel. I have a friend who is in military went from America to Germany for training and found there a wife from some third world country simple girl most traditional wife material you ever see, she loves to cook to clean and always waits for him to come back. I know a dude from high school he was always that kid who was kinda lost doing drugs but military fixed it all he found purpose and on the top of that a beautiful caring wife. I am happy as fuck for him but your story is totally opposite that fucking sucks when a bitch like that takes over
Please tell me she failed in that last part.
Wooo woooo my ex spent 26k on my credit card. Yeeeehaw
@@benjaminghazi787 buying what? lingerie ?
Before I ever get married I’m transferring all my assets to my mother's name, if she divorces she gets nothing. Lol
Now you know what a malignant narcissist is like. They are all one step away from turning on you and they will go for the jugular, saying the most offending stuff they can think of to hurt you.
They will say the meanest things anyone has ever said to you.
It's disgusting to cheat on a soldier and completely evil if they do it while they are deployed!
Thank u every soldier and their loyal family! You and your family protect our freedoms and that is a major sacrifice for my family and myself and you have no idea who I am. God Bless You All
If a woman is cheating she's definitely raw dogging it. If she becomes pregnant she will pin it on her spouse. In any case make sure to have dna test either before birth or definitely post birth.
DNA and STD
Bruce Willis says one of my favorite lines to a cheating wife in the movie The Last Boy scout. When his wife plays the lonely card, he answers without pause or break in his composure, "Get a dog."
As a 24 year veteran I am so refreshed at your point of view. I used to tell my young soldiers if you hook up with a women in the bar that has or just broke up with her boyfriend you get a drunk that needs your money for their lifestyle. As a young man I only looked around the laundromat or gym. It’s not an easy World so keep it wrapped, no diseases or surprises.
You are amazing! Love the channel
As a veteran, this happened to me - And my ex wife is on her 4th husband, so something tells me us guys are not the problem -
If she has been divorce 4 times then the next guy better not marry her clearly she is not marriage material
You're awesome Chloe! We appreciate you ❤
Thank you for defending the military young lady. You're great to have. We need you to balance the scales of bulshit out there today. Never thought of voice of the men would be a woman but I am proud to have you on our side. You have beautiful teeth and a beautiful smile. Most of all beautiful brain.
Thank you Roma, and thank you all the former vets, current, and future.
It is horrible how often this happens! My hubs was in the Navy for 20 yrs, it was hard, lonely, & very stressful. ( 2 weeks after his first deployment the Gulf War broke out) There were at least 5 guys from his ship that had wives show up preg., and with divorce papers. And, of course, there were some vis versa. The Navy was already a part of his life, so, as you’ve said bf, “I knew what I was getting myself into, kinda”. We went through 3 “cruises”- 6 months or more- training and revamping weapons, for which they went away for. It was extremely hard on our kids..got very close with the family in laws, & we supported each other from across country. All of the things you wished on the cheaters are actually not extreme enough. The PSTD some of them came back with, alone is bad enough, but what these women do just tears them down more. Men, you are worth more & deserve more. Don’t settle. You are a prize! My hubs & I will be celebrating 32 yrs of “ cheat-free” marriage next month. Roma, keep spreading the love! 👻🍍
God bless. Keep shining and gleaming
May God bless you and your marriage.
You probably shouldn't put the words cheat-free in quotation marks, it makes it look sarcastic.
@@bryanergau6682 no, not sarcastic, just facts
She really gets it. God i love this woman. We need more women like her
Luv ur show u are so honest an truthful an so point on thank u
This man was very patient. Hats off to him, and also I thank him for his service to his country.
I was a bartender for almost 10 years and the amount of military men that were cheated on during deployment.... wow and they were shattered broken and lost😢
I will never understand that. You knew they were in the military when you met them and that they'd be away a lot of the time.
What gets me the most is how women LOVE yo have the nice house,high dollar car and yet do NOT wanna deal with what it takes to get there. ITS CALLED WORK
That's my ex.
Wanted it all but didn't want to put in the work to get from point a to point b.
whats gets me is how these women think they are worth all of that when they have a shitty personality, shitty attitude, and has slept with triple digits worth of men. Only thing that is worth nice house, high dollar car, etc are women that are virgins, that respect themselves and are loyal to just one guy. All the others have diminishing values especially once they hit 30 yo and fall out of their prime. Guys like me that wants to have a family dont look at women that are 30 yo we look at 20 - 25 to give us time to vet the woman, date them and still have time to start a family. Once 30 hits its borrowed time for having kids, once 35 hits then its a rapidly closing window as natural pregnancy gets harder at a increasing rate till shops out of business by 45.
You are one of the best youtubers I have ever seen. 😊❤
Keep up the good fight! We love ya!
I'm 51 now, but I was an army kid. My parents had some small issues like that, but all in all, they were married until my dad passed. Having said that, I have seen so many families just be crushed by infidelity, its not even funny. These guys go out on long cold deployments, missing their families, while the families are back home, in relative comfort aside from missing their military family member. Men/women who cheat on their soldier deserve exactly what they get.
This one hits home hard. My ex wife cleared out my bank account on furniture, clothes, and perfume within a few months after we got married. Disappeared on me for 3 weeks out of nowhere, and came back with divorce papers 3 weeks later she wanted us to sign “just in case”. I tried to get her to go to marriage counseling after that. She came back and cleared the house out of everything with a friend and left our engagement ring while I was on duty at the barracks. Eventually had to get NCIS involved. They came back with I was her 3rd husband, they had proof she was definitely cheating on me with 2 other people and maybe 8 others past that. There is a lot more to that story but that’s the cliff notes.
So a typical woman?
@@jvillain9946 That's not typical man. That's straight up just a predatory black widow. Very few women are willing to go to great lengths like that to defraud men, if there's even a minute risk they could get caught.
@@JosephArata doesn't matter if they get caught bc they're unaccountable
@@jvillain9946 sounds like a you problem. You have unresolved problems from letting shitty women step all over you.
I'm so sorry man, please remember that there are good women out there and you definitely deserve one. I almost fried reading this, I want to kill for fuvk sakes. Jk... But don't give up on real love because of her, love will f😢ind you and it can and will be amazing. Thank you for your service.
Thank you for Shedding some light on women who cheat on veteran why they're on deployed. My ex-wife family told me the things she was doing while I was overseas. How she had abortion while when I was on deployment from another guy, thinking I wouldn't find out. Thank God that I got custody of my two kids, and she got got nothing in the divorce. But it happens a lot, more than people realize, when soldiers go on deployment. Thank you again for speaking out.
Just came across your channel. Excellent content! Keep up the great work!
You're awesome.Thank you for sticking up for good men! The world needs more people like you.
My best friend was did the same way, but didn't find out till they moved into the base in California, and come home a day early to surprise her. He's still not the same man he was before that. It broke my soul to see him like that too, he's a HELL of a person who would give you the shirt off his back.
Another great vid thank you.
Hey, Baby Girl! I haven’t seen you in a while!! Awesome content!! So good to hear these words/thoughts from one so young!!
If they were married already, why did she smell a proposal?
My ex-wife tried to get me to agree to an open marriage when she thought I was doped up after root canal. What she didn't know was I was not able to make it to the pharmacy to get the pain meds because I got out of the procedure so late, so I was in pain and fully aware of the question. Her response to my WHAT THE HELL! was, I figured I would ask you before I went behind you back and did it.
Bro what the actual f*ck
Im dumbfounded by the personal stories in the comments like yours. It really is a f*cked up world we live in ain't it?
Hope you are good now my guy
What the priceless part is she's jumping up and down so excited Finley when she found out the look on her face feel sorry asf for the guy but her face is in that much shock that she doesn't even know what to say........... and yeah I think the same all the money and everything she was reversing she be paying all that back...........
I am so glad to keep my bubble clean of such toxic people. I experienced cheating, threats and false accusations in the past. My current gf and I are together for 8 years now and getting married soon. We are very open with each other, we trust each other deeply and neither of us ever - from the first second - has given the other cause for suspicion.
That one loses respect for the other because he reveals intimate details does not happen. On the contrary, it brings us closer together. I know there are many f***** up people out there - which makes me appreciate my relationship so much.
As a vet, I approve of this message.
My ex-wife did the throw every fault I have in my face when I caught her in an adulterous relationship. Then she divorced me and took it all. Back then I was merely a school teacher and it forced me to expand and I got a job as the color science director for a major architectural firm and TRIPLED my income with bonuses on top of it. I got chosen for the Vegas vacation this year and just got back from it.
It's been 15 years and I have never remarried and won't ever do that ever again. I have so much money now and am absolutely happy with my solitude and using women as disposable entertainment.
PLEASE tell me you made sure and email or somehow RUB your now Success in her worthless face?
WHAT A KING YOU ARE 🎉
Damn! You had me all the way to "using woman as disposable entertainment". Not all woman cheat nor are they disposable entertainment. Wonder how those woman must feel? Seems that's a bit of the pot calling the kettle black?? But thats just me. I'm So sorry you got hurt so badly that you now treat woman the way your exes treated you. God bless ya! I hope that works out for ya 😊
@@KarenJohnson-ks7xt I don't care how they "feel". They don't have any ability to feel. They only hope to trap me for stability. Ain't going to happen. I absolutely can't trust any of them.
@@KarenJohnson-ks7xt if you assume they are and then back track , its a better way than the other way
I just started watching your YT vids. I'm disgusted YT hid you from me al this time. You are so spot on with issues from the perspective of men.
I absolutely love your videos! ✌🏼
I'm a volunteer firefighter, and truth be told, finding out that my now ex fiance was cheating on me had messed me up more than seeing two close friends of mine die in an accident. Honestly, I've gotten used to that feeling of not being good enough because the girl I was with before her had done the same thing. And some people see me as a firefighter and tell me to just straighten up and tough it out, but most of them I feel like doesn't know what it feels like to lose everything in just a matter of a few minutes, the feeling of being loved and cared for by someone who isn't your family, someone you want to make a part of your family, then to find out that she is sleeping around with another guy and doesn't care about you. That'll break down any man. Especially if that's the only person that made you feel like anything other than someone that they are just using so they won't be lonely for the next week till the guy they want is available. Just for context me and my ex fiance was together for two years, the other three before her was only with me for a week.
Bruh they all cheat. Its not you. Theyre just trash demons.
From one man to another. Don't say you're used to not being good enough. Those women weren't good enough for you. Hold your head up brother and focus on your accomplishments. Don't let backstabbing women get you down.
@@nasimwehbe8410 Stay focused my brother, we are rocking with you
Takes a brave person to willingly step into a burning building to get people outside as safe as they can. You are good enough for anyone who sees that in you my guy. If you've been with women who make you feel like you aren't good enough, it's because they are manipulating you, berating you, abusing you mentally. You may not even realize it's happening, because that's what those kinds of women want, they dig into your emotions and cling like a mental and financial vampire, till you give up or do something really stupid. Keep being the brave guy who's willing to do the right thing, because it's the right thing to do. Nobody can take that away from you, except yourself.
Your best response to them would be, "Wait until it happens to you. Then you can shut the fuck up about "toughening up". I'm a monster when I toughen up, but you don't want to be anywhere near that."
I may be only 14 but i am glad that I found this youtuber to reveal the possibilities of bad relationships before I fall into one of them.
thank Roma you for spreading the word that men deserve to not be cheated on.
Keep up the amazing work that you are putting into defending men from this bullshit and get well soon.
Just be careful, while there are lots of good men, there are also lots of unfaithful ones.
Stay vigilant lil homie. These bitches are really out here......see past the looks and find out who they really are as a person, and for fucks sake, keep everything in your name only. Do NOT get married, ever. It's a shit contract where you're just betting half your shit that she won't cheat on you and then scream at YOU for it.
Just don't see this as an excuse for cheating on your woman.
#2 was a 🎤 mic drop😂😂😂 great to the point commentary as usual Miss.
I totally agree with the idea of not letting yourself be vulnerable with girlfriends. I've had some listen to my vulnerabilities only to weaponize them during arguments and they never pull their punches. I have to stress the idea of watching out for people who don't pull their punches when they get mad. They have a short fuse and will stop at nothing to win. try to catch those red flags before you are the next victim. I went through this for too long and I'm still trying to escape to this day.
Finally, another woman with similar opinions that I actually feel like I could be friends with, keep doing your thing chloe!
The struggle is real in the military! So many of us were just too young at the time to know any better.
I raised my ex's son who I knew wasn't mine after she cheated. I took care of him from birth till he was 15, we divorced when he was 1. She treated me like the bad guy every single day even though the real dad wanted nothing to do with them. I have shared custody, pay child support and get shit on every single day for trying to do the right thing. It's beyond hard to deal with. To genuinely love a child and treat them as your own and to have his mother shit on you non stop for 15 years till he no longer sees you as Dad anymore is beyond heart breaking. I'll never understand why a woman would want to take love away from her child, it's beyond comprehension for me.
Sorry for the rant this brought all those feelings up and it's been nearly 2 years now of not seeing him. Protect yourself guys, there are some evil ones out there don't learn the hard way!
damn! she did that cause she is hateful & jealous that your stable & raising her kid..
TBH most people would squash that..
Im surprised you didn't file for ur rights since you had custody for X amount of years.
Unless ur in a a state that doesn't offer protections...
He'll be 18 this year so your good man...
And 15 is old enough to comprehend whats going on & have a relationship on the DL..
But i dont if thats possible with every situation M'dude.
I don't know how it's done in the US but here if you raise a child you have a RIGHT to see them until they're 18 years old, then it becomes a matter of the child itself if he wants tto see you. He was 15 when you got separated from each other so he's old enough to understand. As soon as he leaves his mom to live on his own try to find out where he lives and write him a letter and explain everything that happend. Everything! Even the fact that you're not his biological father but you cared, loved and raised him untill he was 15 and that you still care and love him now. It's worth a shot...
I know the woman did you wrong and that’s hell. I just don’t get why you raised someone else’s child knowing it wasn’t yours.
@Earthtime3978 my older brother is doing the same thing right now. Took his girl back after she cheated (with his best friend) and left him for a few months, now he's back with her after I assume she came crawling back and now he's raising his friend's kid... ironically I think it's a lot of traditionally minded guys who end up doing this, or guys without much dating experience. They fall in love with the first girl they Fck and they get stuck on her, or they don't have many other options so they set aside their pride and forgive her so they can go back to having a girlfriend (having a steady source of sex). I'm a guy and I've been cheated on, but I think it's because I'm not desperate that I could never bring myself to forgive a girl afterwards. I won't lie and claim that I've never been heartbroken, but I also have self-respect. If a girl doesn't respect me enough not to fck other guys, then I don't love her enough at that point to stay with her. And I'd be damned if I ever found myself raising another man's kid, not knocking OP here but yeah I'm sorry I do naturally lose a little respect for men in that situation (including my brother)
You are a good man. I hope that he comes around and realizes the type of man that you are and he will appreciate you for being his father. Heartbreaking story dude.
Thank you ❤❤good job
Sorry you feel bad. Your videos are awesome and your voice makes me feel better 🤷♂️ idk. I wish my voice made you feel better I'd sing to you til you felt as great as you are on every other level. Ty again. Feel better 😌
How can they divorce if she thinks he's going to propose. That was definetly staged.🤦♀️
I was wondering if ANYONE else noticed that! People shouldn't be making content like that. It's a massive insult to real military personnel who get cheated on.
@@Gary-And-His-Demons It's quite easy. He prepared a scene, with her blindfolded, so with all the "surprising" proposal videos online, the setup made her think, she's gonna be proposed. But instead of an proposal, she thought is going to happen, he exposed her. It isn't actually that hard to think of creating a false atmosphere or idea. Takes nothing but common sense actually. ;)
@@itswentor everybody understands this, the Question is why did he hand her a "divorce" sheet when she was talking about proposal? it doesn't make sense
As far as that whole thing about paternity fraud goes:
Any man who's been a victim of that should be able to bury the woman who'd victimized him in that way in litigation upon the revalation of his not being the father the child or children in question
Paternity tests should be mandatory, even if he is 99.99% certain that he is the biological father of that baby.
@@Double2KK same would apply to the opposite of this too
Women, and their divorce lawyers fight this so it will never pass, especially in my state.
Due to guys trying to ditch financial responsibility in divorce for adopted kids, paternity means NOTHING once you sign the divorce agreement, you are responsible for any children you signed for.
A guy found out his last kid was NOT his (Pennsylvania) and tried to get out from under. The courts said "No way!" and he lost in Federal Court too.
Not till just 18 too. He signed for four years of college. Courts were "Nope, tough luck". He signed on the dotted line.
You're such a breath of fresh air.
i love watching your videos, you keep it soo real and whoever you marry is very lucky to have you
How can you divorce someone if they are thinking you are purposing to them but that's still a great video awesome stuff thank you and the floor payback was great 😂
Man, this video just made my day. Being a retired military guy, I been there and have seen how some of the women pray on military personnel. Good job man. I had my retribution as well and it felt great to expose a leach. Keep up the great work on issues like this Roma, we kind of need people in our corner. Nice guys might finish last, but being cold-hearted when things need to be done comes with its rewards when wronged.
The Town Bicycle I FN LOVE THAT 🤣🤣🤣
"She's not gonna get much deck..."
Classic!!
I had a friend who was a linguist in the Army and would serve overseas in Korea quit often. He was back in the states and came home one day and found his wife in bed with another guy. He didn't do nothing that day. He came home a couple days later when she wasn't there and took all of her clothes threw them in the front yard and set them on fire. He was arrested by MPs and confined to barracks and got to continue living in housing even though he proved what she did. It was military housing.
You're like a mom to us out here XD I literally have the same respect for you than I do for my mother, it's insane... Thank you for fighting for me and the good men who deserve it. Thank you for taking all the flack we get when we open up about this shit, I know it can't be easy but you deal with it nevertheless even though you don't have to. You are honoured and respected abundantly for it. Seriously... Thank you Chloe. You need to be protected at all costs, not even playing. Have a good week, peace
Whoa, wtf?
@@buckfifty37 You upset this fella opened up to someone he appreciates? You're the wtf mate. Go troll your own life for our sakes.
@@buckfifty37 what??? What he said was very nice and heartfelt….
I watch everyone of ur uploads cause you tell the truth that fake women hate to hear. Love yea! Cause I’m retired military that went thru this shit!!
You are the best human being. I really love watching your channel it's a real piece of mind that we men need ever now and than. Thank you
First of all, to the present and former service men on here, thank you for your service and I'm truly sorry that you had to go through two traumatic experiences. One in the field and the other when you came home.
Most soldiers don't want to be thanked for their service(It upsets them even they don't say and you mean no harm) because they learn things when in and when you watch a friend die because of "freedom" then realize that it was just a guise to make rich oil tycoons richer. Try and talk to them and be understanding that this country government and military are NO way near what they used to stand for.
@@kazuma_koon It's not that we "don't want to be thanked", it's more like most of us feel we haven't done anything worth getting thanked for. We LOVE the support when we get it, but there is always a sort of bitterness to it. @Terry Rose, and everyone else, please don't stop showing support. Say hi or buy us a drink, you might be the 1 positive thing during a bad day and we'll never forget it...
@@brad2401 You served? What MOS? What unit were you in? Because most of the one that went to war AND the ones that don't do much... both don't mind thanks but it does hurt them considering they have to kill for nothing but the soldier next to them.
@@kazuma_koon yeah, still serving and currently overseas. I'm a 1W but I'm not telling you my unit 🤣
@@brad2401 ppffft poser
Thank you for what you do.
you rock lady!!! thank you.
I just came across your channel. Thanks for standing up for our men.
Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to a spouse/significant other. During my time in the military, ive seen it happen both sides. Witnessing married AD members cheating on their spouses on deployment made me sick to my stomach and one case where one person (whom i looked up to) threw their marriage and family away just for some action, only to get caught and demoted. I could never underestand such disgusting behavior.
Man, I would love to see more of you
Thank you for this important video. I served over 21 years. It happened to me.
Saying “your didn't even wanted you is a horrible wicked thing to say.” she's evil
People thought I was weird because when I was a child, I said I'd never get married. I insisted it wouldn't happen, nor did I want it to. I kept getting told "You'll change your mind when you're older".
Now I'm in my 30s, and still have never been married, nor do I want to be. Marriage has turned to a grift, don't trust anybody saying you need to do it.
This is an echo to my childhood. I'm almost 30, never dated anyone before, never interested in getting "married", and everyone else was always like, "You'll change your mind when you get older," and I NEVER DID! Best decision of my life.
As the town bicycle 😂😂 love it! I dig your ink!
"town bicycle" is now my favorite new phrase. Thank you Roma
Im a gay man and dated someone in the military and just thinking of how I’d feel being the one to cheat on that person makes me feel like shit. They are away from family and everyone they know and they trust you enough to be there and support them and welcome them home when they get back and it’s disgusting people feel the need to cheat while their significant other is deployed. Hopefully to all the guys who have been in this situation that you find a woman that is going to love you and not treat you like you are disposable.
Ex-AF myself, and my ex-wife did similar shit. She went as far as stealing some of my official documents, edited them to impersonate having been a military member herself, and tried to prey on other veterans/military members while we were married. When she got kicked to the curb I was painted as some huge heartless POS monster. Claiming I did all sorts of truly heinous shit... Protect yourselves at all times brothers.
The man's a legend
You should have started a bonfire out front with the boards, and been roasting marshmallows on it when she got home. Golden
A similar situation is why I got divorced right before I went to Afghanistan it was a living hell for almost 2 years but I made out the other side with my life and my sanity. Anybody going thru divorce military or civilian I urge you to keep your head up keep pushing and lean on any support that you have you got this you can do it.
My Squad Leader told me to stay Single on that Smash and Dash grind(with protection and being careful) because he said that being with someone in any capacity while Deployed can be a liability.
Near to the end of our 2010-2011 Deployment, he found out his Wife cheated on him(in the two most worse ways).
I glad I listened to him. Lol.
@supernintenjoe8911 like they say she is not yours it's just your turn I learned the hard way but I think I'm a better man for it
can relate... was cheated on while deployed... the guy she cheated on me with didn't even know we were together and when he found the messages between us dating back 2 years before I was deployed out, he came to apologise and we both broke it off with her.. he actually came to visit me in the hospital because when I got back it was because I'd been discharged due to injury sustained from a roadside mine... she never visited me once. I get jealous sometimes of the americans, they get respect as service members. In the UK I get told I deserved it because I pledged my life to murder.. that I'm a baby killer or an attack dog for an imperialist country (the irony being I was an engineer and often did charity work by helping fix up vehicles for local civilians so they could get the fuck out of the warzone).
Well I can say that there may not be as many people appreciating your service but they are definitely out there and are thankful to your sacrifice. I also can say as an Real American (not the idiots) we respect any service member willing to put their lives on the line for a bigger purpose.
So I know this probably won't mean much coming from me but. THANK YOU for your service! You are good person and God will remember the things you have done for your fellow human beings.
Take care buddy.
That man showed true colours by being upfront with you and honestly sounding like a new mate? He probably thinks he'll never be able to make it up to you but honestly sounds like he wanted to visit you because he gives a fuck about you. If it is a friendship, nurture it and look after each other. Us guys get less and less friends the older we get. If you two care about each other as friends I hope it's a wonderful friendship mate. sorry i'm stoned i just love my friends so much
@@calumsanderson6741 unfortunately the two of us never really stayed in contact, our lives just kinda diverged and we never really shared many interests but I have the utmost respect for his bravery and honesty.
Thank you for being real
That first woman spitting vitriol at her boyfriend for ripping up the flooring, after she cheated on him. As a society we have heard so many stories of women who found out their guy cheated on them going to town on their stuff. Throwing their stuff out the window, destroying their belongings (the more important it is or the sentimental value it has, the better), setting their clothes on fire, smashing up their car, selling/rehoming beloved pets, smashing up their car. When that happens, men are just supposed to grin and bear it because we brought it on ourselves, while women in general cheer her on. Look how quickly the reverse happens when the shoe is on the other foot.